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lonely: There are times when I feel like getting a girlfriend, but than I remember how nice it is to be by myself. 
human
When I feel an urge to get a girlfriend, I simply remember how nice it is to be independent.
human
It's good to explore your own interests and what makes you grow on your own.
human
Yes, I still think that there are good and bad sides in both of these cases.
human
Hopefully one day you will be willing to explore a relationship in a serious way.