system
devastated: I was devestated when my grandmother passed away, I still am not over that
human
I was devestated when my grandmother passed away, I still am not over that
human
Sorry to hear that. I have lost all my grandparents so I know the feeling. 
human
Wow that is even worse, I cannot even fathom that, I am so sorry
human
Yeah, it takes a long time to get over .  And it's never easy.