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We have been together for 7 years and married for 3 years, at first it was great. Then I had health problems and didn't have a sex drive, it got really hard, he said we were in a failing marriage. I got help, we got better, for a bit. 

For the past year he has been the one with no sex drive. We will have it once a month maybe. We have done counseling and everything and we do communicate better, except on the sex issue. He always says he will try but nothing ever happens. He refuses to go to the doctor or even talk about it. 

I am now feeling so much resentment because when I was the one not wanting sex it was a failing marriage, but since it's him this time, I'm suppose to just deal with it. He doesn't really kiss me or hug me anymore unless I ask for it. I know he isn't cheating, sadly I have already snooped. He doesn't even watch porn anymore. 

I feel increasingly lonely every day. I have cried myself to sleep at night, I stress about this constantly. It's hard to love someone that doesn't show that they love you back. I'm hurt, angry, and confused. Is this normal? Is marriage suppose to suck this bad? I mean, I knew it was work, but aren't the good times suppose to outweigh the bad? 

When I have tried to talk to him about it, he always says he's trying. He also likes to throw in that we said for better or for worse and that if we were to ever not work out he would never speak to me again, I just don't know how to take anything anymore.
<bot>: Hubby doesn't want to have sex or any physical contact really, is this normal for marriages? How long am I suppose to deal with this?