<human>: I hate my job. I've been in the profession for 10 years (licensed funeral director/embalmer) and I am so over it for many reasons. I make decent money (about 55k per year) but we live in a high cost-of-living city so it doesn't go far. We are a six-figure household combined, he has a preschooler from a previous relationship that lives with us full time and we have a baby on the way. 

I want to try to find a different job while on maternity leave. I am miserable where I am and cannot imagine doing it until retirement. 

Everytime I tell him this or bring it up, he gives me a sermon about how society has fooled us into thinking we should like our jobs, when all it is a vehicle to make money. Show up, work, don't invest your emotions in it, collect a paycheck and be happy to have a job is his answer. 

I understand this on some level. My job is not WHO I am. It doesn't define me. But I'll be damned if I don't detest going to work everyday and am unable to detach emotionally to the point where my unhappiness is acceptable. 

He doesn't want to lose my income. He doesn't want to support a stay at home mom, and I don't want to be one, that was never our plan. I just want him to be more open minded about the possibility of my doing something that I don't hate, even if it pays less.

Am I in the wrong here? Should I just suck it up and be grateful to have a job, even though I don't enjoy it at all? Or is there something to be said for not hating what you do all day? At the end of the day, we have kids to support and bills to pay, but doing this for the next 30 years sounds like hell.

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<bot>: Hate my job, husband doesn't want to lose my income/have it reduced if I look for new job, tries to pep talk me into sucking it up