<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

I have been seeing a girl for 5 or 6 months now. We have been getting along great and both agreed we feel something different about eachother than past relationships.

The thing is, she has had multiple other boyfriends. She has been my first girlfriend and actually the first girl I have had sex with. I have been with other girls sexually, but have actually not have had sex with them due to personal reasons.

She maintains friendships with her ex's to what I am finding an uncomfortable level with me. One of her ex's had an ugly breakup with her where he ended up raping her the same day they broke up. Somehow she forgave him and she even visited him across the country earlier this year with another friend, while we were starting to date, which really bothered me. I trust she didn't sleep with him, but I am still uncomfortable with her even associating with him. She has another ex that she has had on and off relationships with for the past few years, and she stays in contact with him. One night he was drunk texting her saying he was about to drive home drunk and she was in tears and just focussed on him and his safety rather than enjoying her time with me.

Whenever I bring up how these things bother me, she says she wishes I could understand but that she thinks I cant because I havent had past relationships. She says she prefers to forgive people and maintain friendships because it is healthier to put a positive spin on things.

We had an argument about it the other day, which is the only time we have ever had an argument. Ultimately it boiled down to me disapproving of her friendship with the rapist ex boyfriend and her saying that I will never understand and she wishes I would.
<bot>: Girlfriend is still friends with rapist ex and worries about the wellbeing of other ex when she is with me. Time to dump?