<human>: Me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship, and I only travel once every 2 or 3 weeks for a few days at a time.

Sex is not really regular due to this, but we used to have sex multiple times per visit. It's slowly decreasing in number each visit.

For quite a few months now (approximately 4), we've only been doing missionary. The last time I was with her she *told* me to get on top. It wasn't a question. She didn't force me, but if I refused I knew there would be no sex that night.

I've tried to take control and bring in new things, but every time I want to try something new she'll get turned off and want to stop. Even foreplay is kept to a minimum. A short couple minutes of foreplay and she just wants to have straight up sex. It's like she's trying to win a race.

It seems like it's either her way or nothing. I'm beginning to feel as though she wants to get it over with as quick as possible. I don't feel so connected as we used to each time it happens, and sometimes I even feel a bit disappointed (but I haven't told her that).

I've lost hope with trying to bring in new things, or trying to take control, because it hasn't worked. I just feel lost with this whole situation.

I feel as though my sex life is slowly diminishing, and I don't know if she's noticed it too. She seems perfectly happy just the way we are.

I feel as though I can't open up to her either, as she's quite prudish and I think she doesn't like talking about sex (She hasn't admitted that, but I feel by now as if she hates the topic).

What does it all mean? I don't know, guys. I just don't know.

Thanks everyone.

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<bot>: Long distance GF having less sex, only doing missionary, she doesn't want to experiment, feels like she wants to rush sex, and I think she hates talking about it. What does it all mean?