<human>: Hi reddit. 

Met a lovely woman of which I have been with for a couple of months now after dating for a long while, and I have to say I'm smitten. Problem between us is, I don't like smokers (was one for 17 years, gave up 2+ years ago) and it's only starting to become an issue for me as I'm seeing more and more of her as time goes on. 

We are both similar in our lifestyles (exercise, eating healthy) but she has a history of diabetes and medical problems associated with and most likely be triggered from smoking and being overweight (which she is, doesn't bother me) within her family history which concerns me. 

I'm no angel either, i did smoke for a large part of my life, but i feel like i don't want to nag and guilt her in to doing something she doesn't want to do... nor do i want her to sneak around and smoke only to taste it when i kiss her and smell it in her clothes.

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<bot>: I feel like i'm falling for this woman, but i can see her smoking causing issues down the road. Any advice or anecdotes on similar experiences welcome.