<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

I apologize in advance for the rocky wording, I have been trying to figure out how to get this thought out for a while and it's a little choppy...

I am a 25/F and live with my 26/M SO (been together for almost 2 years). I find myself panic ridden thinking about what others expect of me because if I don't make time for my girl friends, they make it very clear to me that they think I have "changed," or I am becoming too "complacent". It seems as though everyone else has this SO/friends balance thing figured out except for me. 

I love living with my SO, he is my best friend and we are able to do everything together. I am so content coming home to him every night, going to the gym together, cooking dinner together, etc... (Obviously there are nights where we do our own thing, but in general, we both love doing these things together). 

Now, I have a close knit circle of girlfriends who don't have a similar relationship with their SO as I do (except for 1, who is married now and we don't see her as often unfortunately). Half of them are single, and the other half are in relationships, however those in relationships don't live together and maybe see each other every 3 weeks, if that. Sometimes we hang out all together with SO's but because we are a close group of girls, it's normally just girls nights/hangouts.

I feel like they expect me to have a better balance between them and my SO. I see them at the very minimum, once a month, some I see every week or two. I think that's pretty fair? 

Anyway! My real question is how do YOU balance friends and SO?
<bot>: I feel like my friends expect me to have a better balance between them and my SO. Looking for advice on how you balance friends and SO.