<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

In 2012 I left an extremely long relationship 5+ years (she cheated with more than one guy alongside a healthy dose of emotional manipulation to me over a few years). After about 6 months of being single and getting over the past relationship I decided to try to get fit again and try to date and find someone who I could actually form a healthy relationship with. During this 6 month period I gained a fair bit of muscle and reverted back to my body type of doing several sports a week. Keep in mind before this process I was fairly average (I.E I wasn't overweight just not "fit").

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What I didn't expect was to be met with a huge amount of entitlement and hypocrisy. While dating I found that many girls have a prince charming fantasy and don't actually want much more than a guy who is anything other than a stereotype. Of the girls I've met a number of them were initially very interested but eventually ended up with the "bro" type other than myself. 

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Using a few dating sites I determined that very few people look at anything past your pictures. I tested this using two otherwise identical profiles only swapping out a picture of myself from before and after I got fit. The difference was literally 5+ messages a day (fit profile) to nothing (average profile). I experimented further and removed any semblance of information about myself from the fit profile and these numbers increased. This was mirrored in all other forms of dating as the less I told someone about myself and the more sarcastic/witty I acted the longer I would end up dating someone. I'm the kind of guy who loves to talk and have deeper conversations, loves poetry, and even has a soft spot for romance in general. What I've determined is that apparently this is unattractive...  

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As a side note: no, I don't reveal the romantic side of myself in an odd way, most of the people I've gone out with invite me to hang out with them afterwards as a "friend", they just aren't interested any longer.

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<bot>: I'm actually beginning to fear that I won't find someone because my romantic personality and my hope of having something other than just a physical relationship. What should I do r/relationships ?