<human>: Hi ladies. I am a queer woman. I have never, and will never know the amazing beauty that is carrying a child and being a mother. I will also never know what it is like to have to chose to terminate a pregnancy.

Today my sister, a mother of three (all under three), had to terminate her pregnancy. She gave birth less than a year ago to her youngest, and it was a shock when she got pregnant so soon after. She and her (amazing & supportive) husband waffled for a few weeks and finally, up against the deadline, she made the heartbreaking decision to abort because they just didn't have the income or the ability to take on one more child.

I can't begin to imagine how she is feeling. I am a rarely empathetic person but my heart is so heavy. After hearing the news I pulled over in traffic to cry. I feel this crushing sadness for her and want to be the amazing supportive sister I know I can be and she expects me to be. I am terrified she is going to spiral into a deep depression or hate herself forever because of this though I really believe she made the right decision.

What can I do? What should I do to help her ease her pain? Can I even do anything? Any help would be appreciated.

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<bot>: My sister, a mother of 3 under 3, had an elective abortion today and I don't know how to comfort her.