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The basic info is this: I'm 24/f, he's 22/m. We met via a local group of kinky (see: BDSM) people. We've seen each other at least three to six times a week for the past month and he's avoiding having sex with me.

He's admitted that he's 'not as experienced as I am', that he's had sex with 'more people, but fewer times' (I've been with ~15 guys; I haven't asked his number), and that he's worried about 'ruining the relationship' and not doing a good enough job in the sack. 

I basically told him that he is, indeed, ruining the relationship by being so afraid. And it's only been a month.

My kink level also seems to play into this, I guess. For what it's worth, I'm a pretty experienced bottom/masochist who is used to **receiving** a lot of pain and control on a regular basis (e.g., spanking, choking, hair pulling, slapping). He's never slept with or dated anyone who identified as kinky before. He's a curious newbie, essentially. He's been generally very willing to try these things with me and has done a bang-up job, even with the scarier things. But the actual sex is intimidating to him... 

What do?
<bot>: — He's too scared to have sex with me. What do I do? How can I help this along? Should I bolt or give it more time?