<human>: Hi guys, I've been dating my girlfriend for about 10 months now. I was planning on attending a medical school in the same city where my girlfriend will be starting medical school. However, this week I was accepted to my state school on the west coast. This school is much cheaper, has a better reputation, and I believe is objectively a better choice. While part of me thinks that I may be happier near her, this is my first serious relationship and I do not know if she is unfairly influencing my decision. 

She has told me on many occasions that if I choose to move back to the west coast for school it will take a long time for her to accept the decision and she will not be happy. She says she will try a long distance relationship but I don't know how long it would last. The medical school on the east coast is decent, but I know my recent acceptance would do much more to further my career and give me better opportunities when it comes to residencies. 

I am worried that if I choose to stay on the east coast it will be because of her and I may resent her for it later on. Is she being fair or unfair in telling me how she feels? Am I being clouded in my decision making by my first true "love"? I'm so confused and I don't know what to make of it all.

I really can see myself with her for the next four years and I'm scared to throw it away. What should I ask myself while deciding?

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<bot>: I'm deciding between a medical school near my SO and across the country. I feel like she is pressuring me to stay and it may be swaying my decision.