<human>: Hi Reddit. 
We've been growing distant. She and I have grown together since our late teenage years, we've both developed in different ways but feel like we are each other's only source of true openness. 

Right now, we are both stressed. She's completing her second BA and I'm trying to find work and get into Med School. She treats me like dead weight when I'm working day and night trying to be the polar opposite of such. She treats me like a chore or responsibility, although obviously she cares deeply for me. 

She is experiencing personal growth, trying to do what is best for her and expects the same from me while I'm trying to do what is best for us. 

She has found new friends - all men who have displayed interest in her - one even buying her flowers on Valentine's day and gifts for Christmas. She feels this is all friendly and meant by them as such. She feels more comfortable doing certain social activities with them as a group than she does with me (we are both introverts attempting not to be).

Lately, all I can think about are the problems I feel are creating a rift between us, and all she wants from me is a relaxing week together where I don't bring up our problems. But every time I try to give her the relaxing problem free week she wants, she does something that I feel is a major contribution to our problems.

Like last weekend, she told me I'm boring. This weekend I've tried to get us to go out and do things but she said she wanted to stay in and relax. Then her new group of friends ask her out to a bar and she says ok. I'm invited but the lady thing I want to do is watch a group of four drunk guys flirt with her. She isn't an attention seeker, she just feels it isn't flirting. Then when I've had my fill I just leave to go elsewhere and now she says I've ruined her relaxing weekend.

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<bot>: I feel like I have a problem because I can't talk to my girlfriend, and she feels like talking to me about us is a problem.