<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

I have always half-joked that my biggest turn on was that the other person was attracted to me. I only realised recently that other people didn't feel the same way. Apparently the average Joe can see someone walking down the street and be attracted to them immediately. If I'm perfectly honest, I still think that's a bit weird.

I don't get celebrity crushes (or normal crushes, except with people I already know), I couldn't tell you my 'type', there is no stranger in the world pretty enough that I'd consider banging them without getting to know them first. There were stretches when I wondered if I was asexual, apparently the label demisexual fits me better.

I don't know how to feel about this. I don't have anyone I can talk to about it, I don't know what to make of it. It's silly, because nothing about me has changed - except now I know I'm in a minority. Personally, I don't much care for the label, as the definition feels a bit too vague for me, but it fits best.

Something about it has been really bothering me, ever since I realised, and I have no idea what. I'm not even going to bother wondering what this means for my potential relationships (I'm a code monkey, so it's not like those are happening any time soon). I just wanted to vent a bit.
<bot>: Think I'm probably demi, realisation was about 5 years too slow, can't stop thinking about it since I clicked.