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I've been dating who I think is my dream guy for 4 years. We have a great relationship and all of our friends and family even hint at "oh, when are you guys going to get married?" and comment how great we are together. When I finally sat down with him and asked him what he thought about marriage, he first replied "I don't know". Then he kept making more excuses  saying "maybe when I'm older" (he'll be 30 in a couple years) or "I don't want to deal with planning the wedding." (I've mentioned I don't care about the wedding.) After talking about this again at another time, he said he did want to marry me, just not yet. Ever since, he has been mentioning our future plans such as "I want our house to be like this" or "our kids...". The problem? I can't help  but think, I had to twist his arm into wanting to marry me. I don't want to marry someone who I had to convince to marry me.. I think he should want to marry me on his own. Am I thinking about this too much? Your thoughts and advice is appreciated.
<bot>: I've had a great relationship with my dream guy for 4 years, but I had to convince him on the idea of marrying me. Is it wrong to want to marry a guy who I had to convince?