<human>: My mother is relatively old fashioned as well as relatively messed up. She's had a hard life, and she's one of those people who's convinced, for whatever reason, that everyone is a phony and people are not to be trusted no matter how close they are to you. She's contantly trying to push this view on me. I'm apparently doing something absolutely terrible by being a cheerful person. (I'm not blindly cheerful or anything. I'm just kind of a jokey, giggly person. I can be serious at work or when it's relevant.) 
  I'm a genuinely positive person. I'm perfectly capable of taking care of myself. I pay my bills, and rent and keep tidy. However, this isn't good enough for her. She rags on me for not keeping a paper checkbook (as I do it online.) Hell, she rags on me for doing buisness/ having relationships online because, and I quote, 'it's not real life." I've tried to explain how things work to her, but she pretty much just puts her fingers in her ears and goes 'LA-LA-LA-LA-LA'.
  I've also got an LDR with my boyfriend of nearly 3 years. My mother, however, is constantly trying to get me to break up with my sweet, awesome boyfriend on the argument that 'he's going to cheat on me, anyway because he's a **MAN**', or 'it's too hard for you'; or my favourite: "He's a nice boy, but he's too far away! You should just give it up."
  She's constantly going off about how I shouldn't trust him, or any of my other male friends because they're men and shouldn't be trusted; or how everything I do is dumb and childish. (With my hobbies, or whatever.) 
  I've tried to get her to talk about feelings and stuff, but she, again, just kinda sticks her fingers in her ears and goes 'LA-LA-LA-LA-LA' if it isn't about her.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Mother thinks I'm a little dumbass because I don't do things her way, plus bonus casual misandry bugs the heck outta me.