<human>: So, I'm getting a little depressed with my dating life right now. I come from a background of avoiding relationships for most of my life, never really wanting anything from a relationship until recently.

Background: I moved out of my parent's house earlier this month, have had a career job for a year, graduated with a CS degree, cleared out all my debts and been on OKC for the past 4 months. (Same username if you want to find me and critic.)

I've had a few first dates, met with 7 different people, had a great time recently with a girl last weekend (she even said to me after the date she wanted to see me again 2 hrs of constant conversation, bowling + dinner), but I'm still not feeling like I'm getting the most out of it. The date I had last weekend hasn't picked up because she has been busy with her midterms and she hasn't really responded to my texts, so I'm being patient with her.

What I am finding is that I'm don't feel like I'm getting anywhere, and I'm afraid I might mix the feelings of truly finding someone I want to be with, with my desire to just have a girlfriend.

I've completely changed my life over the past year, lost a bunch of weight, completely changed my bad habits of playing video games into productive time for myself (working out, playing volleyball)

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: I want to progress in my dating life, but I have no experience beyond a 2nd date. I've had one, "One Night Stand" but I blacked out and don't even remember the experience :(