<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

I am currently expecting. I'm half way through my first pregnancy. Anyway, this Easter just like every Holiday I visited with family. Most of my older siblings have children. Every year when I go to leave, my siblings make their kids give hugs and kisses before hand. 
A couple years ago I was raped and when I was child, I was molested by a family member (Before anyone brings it up, yes I've gone to counseling, yes I've moved and am a mostly functional human being) and  I am always very uncomfortable for my nieces and nephews when they are forced to give me hugs and such. To me, a simple "Good-bye" works. When I have children I don't want to force them to physically touch anyone that they do not want to. That includes family members and friends, even if that means offending them. But this is so against the cultural norm, (At least where I live) that I want to know more from the parents here on Reddit what they think and feel and if they have any of their own sources.
<bot>: I feel wrong forcing children to hug and kiss people good-bye, if they don't want to. I feel like it's a violation is a way. What do you think?