<human>: Hi, I suppose i'm just using this as an outlet because of the many emotions i'm feeling right now and would appreciate advice or assurance from anyone who can offer it.
My boyfriend of a year ended things yesterday, but it was expected, as in early December he told me he no longer wanted a relationship. We didn't argue, I was a great girlfriend (he says) but since he has had relationships for the past 5 years, he says he wants to now focus on himself, not date anyone but just look out for him. I'm not mad at him, and honestly he's been a bit of an ass these last few weeks so i'm not bauling my eyes out here, and hopefully we could be friends.
But it's just so strange, not having someone there everyday to just do anything or nothing with. I have strong friends, in the middle of a degree a job, but of course it just feels so different now. Last time I was newly single, I became the fittest I ever had, studied hard and my social life boomed, so i'm not particularly scared of singledom.
Still, once in a while I keep crying over how we've ended purely because it was the wrong time for him, I feel it's such a shame, and I am just looking for advice on how to get over that i've lost something big and I hopefully will meet someone new at one point

Thanks

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<bot>: boyfriend ended things yesterday, wants to focus on himself after 5 years of relationships, wanting advice on how to fill gap/assurance that good things are coming