<human>: Hi guys, I need some advice. I've  recently hooked up with a poz guy this last week (low-risk acts) and he's an amazing person, but I can't be with him romantically because there will always be that anxiety in the back of my mind. I've given this a lot of thought and I've discovered that my anxiety/frustration will always trump any feelings I have for him, and he deserves someone who can deal with his status. 

This is what I can on telling him. Anyone have any advice they can relate? How can I soften the blow? Will we stay friends? Thanks

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: He's a great guy but he's poz and I can't deal with it but I still want to be friends without breaking his heart*