<human>: I dated a girl for a month or so.  Everything seemed good.  We had sex once.

Yesterday I called her and she told me she thinks we should end it.  She said she thinks I'm great but we need to end it because she doesn't have her shit together.  I emailed asking for an explanation:

>"Its totally all me, you did nothing to contribute to this.  I am coming out of a bad situation with my ex, and I thought I was ready to date again, but my gut is telling me otherwise.  I have completely enjoyed your company; you are quite a catch.  I just am not ready to be involved with someone right now, and I don't want to waste your time."

I feel like a douchebag suggesting this, but I'm kind of thinking I have nothing to lose.  I'm thinking of sending her an email such as the following.  What does reddit think?  Any changes or suggestions? Should I wait or make the suggestion right away?

>This may be completely inappropriate...I felt really good with you and find you very attractive. With the understanding that we won't have a relationship...If you aren't seeing anyone else and would like some physical affection, you can call me.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: just stopped dating a girl. what do you think about the second quoted paragraph above as a booty call offer (we had sex once).