<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

I have always felt like an accessory in my boyfriend's life - like he's happy to have me around, but he'd be 100% okay if I walked away.  Part of it is that he really doesn't like to be vulnerable (who does?).  And part of it is definitely my own insecurity and past harmful relationships.  I had a lot of false friendships growing up - people who acted as friends only to turn around and stab me in the back.  I'm aware that this has really impacted my current relationships (romantic and otherwise), and so I am conscious of the effect this history has on my present problem.

We've done the love languages test, and learned that we are almost exact opposites in that regard.  We've worked really hard on making sure the other person's languages are being communicated, but it's still not helping.  I'm at a loss for what to do next.

Logically, I know he wants to be with me - he often says "I'm not going to stay in a relationship that doesn't make me happy, and I'm still here, right?" so there's that.  But I guess maybe it's inaction vs. action in showing affection.  He's relying on his inaction to show that he loves me whereas I would much prefer action.  I don't know, and I need help.  What are some tools that we can try?
<bot>: Feeling like my boyfriend would be just as happy in a relationship with me as not.  Logically I know this isn't true, but I'm still really unhappy.