<human>: Hi all,

While we were dating over a period of several months, my ex made me afraid to say no to sex. He was generally pretty emotionally abusive-- name calling, manipulating, gaslighting, etc. But if I denied him for sex, he would get extremely aggressive extremely suddenly.... He'd go zero to one hundred screaming, breaking things, punching things, etc. He did not ever hit me, but he was so out of control that it was clearly within the realm of possibility if I resisted at the wrong time. (And he made a few threats that made it sound like it was certainly on the table.) I don't think that behavior is normal, and I think that anyone in my position would have been afraid.

Anyway, I had sex with him a few times when I really, really did not want to because I believed with 100% certainty that he would beat the shit out of me or hold me down and rape me if I did not. I think he knew I did not want to because it was usually accompanied by crying, dead-fishing, etc. and he would be mad at me afterwards and say the way I acted "made him feel like he was doing something wrong." I understand that this is probably not something that would make it to court, and I'm not asking because I want to press charges. I just want to know for my own information.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: I guess I am wondering if someone makes you afraid to say no to sex (but not as explicitly as holding a knife to your throat) is that sexual assault?