<human>: Provide a brief overview of the text.

After about six months of dating, my boyfriend and I started to use the idea of a threesome or a foursome as fodder for dirty talk while we were intimate. He really latched onto the idea and began investigating the swingers clubs and sites within our city. 

At first, it was breathtakingly thrilling to deal with the tangible details of arranging a three/foursome, but after a few experiences, I am losing steam. He, on the other hand, is still adding new couples to our list of potential suitors every day. 

Throughout the process, he has been communicating with  me fully and asking me for emotional updates at every step of the way. I have tried my best to be open, but at the end of the day I feel as if our motivation for finding these experiences is completely mismatched. 

I think what it comes down to is that I wish my boyfriend had the instincts I do about this (that sometimes it's icky and that it feels more unhealthy than thrilling). Wondering if that's a bigger issue in our compatibility than I think.
<bot>: I am trying to figure out the source of my discomfort with being in a monogamous, serious relationship with a partner who is highly motivated towards finding couples and single women for us to sleep with.