<human>: It's not that I don't appreciate that he pays for our food and whatever else me might do on a date because I totally do, it's just he's the first guy that's ever done it and it's a little weird for me to not to go dutch. 

It's gotten to the point that I know he's going to do it, but before I can figure out how I even want to broach the subject without hurting his feelings he just whips out his card and it's done with. There never really seems like a good time to bring it up after the fact and I've just been feeling guilty about it since our last date.

I'm especially wary over this because I'm a very blunt person and I've hurt people in the past with what I say. I really like this guy and I just want to say the right thing.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: I really like this guy but I don't want him to feel like he has to pay for everything. What do I say to him without hurting his feelings?