<human>: My girlfriend and I had been dating for 3 years. We have had sort of a rough patch since she graduated college and has had a hard time finding a job in her field anywhere. She is a full time bartender at nights and I work typical 9-5 days so our schedules are opposite. She has volleyball leagues twice a week so our time together is very limited. 

I could tell she has been depressed and having self esteem issues and I've tried to help her along the way and compliment her as much as I could. I thought we were finally starting to make some headway when Wednesday I came home to her crying and she said it wasn't working. She had gone grocery shopping that day and said she was going to make us a meal. It never happened. The fridge is full.

She then told me that she's been depressed and suffering some the lowest self esteem she's ever had. She told me that she feels like she is incapable of taking care of herself.

I ask her if there is anything wrong with the relationship and she brings up a few things about not doing things together which I explain is mostly because of the opposite schedules. But other than that she said there is nothing wrong with the relationship that is causing her to feel the way she does. The bottom line is that she needs to be alone because she's completely lost sight of her goals and feels like she can't get control of her life if she is in a relationship. But does think we could end up back together again after she gets things in order. She also said she doesn't want me to be with her if she's going to not treat me well while she is figuring shit out. (Distant, depressed, etc)

It's been a couple days and I haven't contacted her, I've given her time and space as she left for her mothers after our discussion Wednesday night. She hid her relationship status on facebook but did not end the relationship with me.

What should I expect or do if anything? More just getting it out than anything. Feel free to ask for any other details.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: g/f of 3 years depressed with low self esteem and no post college ambition broke up with me because she wants to find herself and doesn't want me to half to put up with her treating me bad