<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

I've been friends with this guy a couple years. We would hook up once in a while (not sex) and I liked him but he always acted like he didn't have the same feelings  and told me he didn't want a relationship. It's a lot more complicated than that but I'll keep it short. So a few weeks ago I was at his house and him and some of my other friends decided to use my fingerprint (iphone5s) to get into my phone and went through all of my personal texts, mostly with my best friend. 

Me and this guy would hang out all the time and we would get in fights and I didn't have the best stuff to say about him... Id get pissed and say pretty fucked up things venting to my friend. I had also started dating someone else  a little and he found out about that through my phone (a week before he made it very clear he specifically didn't want to go out with me). I didn't hear anything about this until yesterday but it happened like 3 weeks ago. 

After he read these, after a few days he confessed he fucked up and wanted to work on  a relationship. I cut off contact with the other guy right away. Basically he got worried I was dating someone else and freaked out. 

I know I fucked up texting all this stuff about him and it's weird he barely got mad about this all last night. Things had been going great and progressing and all of  a sudden he throws this is my face and has known it all along. I don't really know what I want from you guys I'm just mad that I look like the bad guy when we were in no way together and my friends decided to invade my privacy as some form of entertainment. Im so mad I don't even know what to tell them. Just your opinion would be good.
<bot>: friends and guy I'm dating went through my phone, read all my texts with my best friend, and saw me talking a lot of shit about the guy I am now dating but was not at the time