<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

I am talking about more serious things here than "my mom told my to clean my room but im like no mom ur gay, shes such a bitch uguuuuh!"

Well for me, my mom always talked about us not being able to afford stuff. For example, I was once talking about how my company (lifeguarding) wanted me to come in one day on a friday during finals week and I told them I couldn't. Out of nowhere she goes "why not? You know we need the money". Well, I was working for myself, saving up for a car, so there is no reason why she would even need to say that. At the time my brother didn't have a job and she ways bothering me about one fucking day of a minimum wage job? Other times, she might say out loud "Why is the bill going up? I can't afford it." She would say things like that about when my brother went off to college as well, like "Wow, college is expensive, I am going to have some debt after this, I just can't afford it." There are probably better examples, but I can't think of any now.
<bot>: my mom would just throw the phrase "I can't afford it" around when it wasn't necessary, making me worry my ass off when I was a kid