<human>: I have been dating Joe (not real name) for 3 months. Brand new relationship, however I have fallen deeply in love with him and things are generally great. We are very physically attracted to each other. I have one tattoo that I got when I was 18 and I haven't gotten one since. My father passed away some time ago and I have finally worked up the courage to get a memorative tattoo, which I have been thinking of ever since he died. My boyfriend, however, doesn't like tattoos and has made that very clear when I made the appointment one afternoon without discussing it with him first.

I love this guy, very much. He is good to me in all other aspects of our relationship. The day of my appointment is creeping up and he has been relentlessly trying to change my mind about it, and I have gotten to the point where I am just so exasperated of him trying to guilt trip me out of it, that I just want to not get my tattoo now because I am so tired of arguing about it and trying to get him to support me and respect my decisions about my own body.

My internal battle is that, I consider myself a very independent lady and I dislike being controlled or told what to do. The fact that he is doing this is killing me! I just don't know where the line is between respecting our relationship and being able to do what I want. I'll also throw in that this will not be my last tattoo, as I have long dreamed of having half-sleeves.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Boyfriend hates tattoos and has been relentlessly trying to guilt trip me out of it. I don't know what to do because it is something I want very much but yet I love him and want to respect our relationship.