<human>: I'm in college, and whenever I see a really unattractive person around campus I feel bad for them, and I just don't know how they manage to go on looking the way they do.  There's a few guys I see routinely who just got absolutely shit on in the genetic lottery- I'm talking about bald or severely balding, short, overweight, unattractive face, hunched back, etc.  

I have OCD and body-dysmorphic disorder, and I constantly obsess over my appearance.  Fortunately, I'm not ugly, but sometimes I feel pretty guilty about it because I know if I was in one of those really unattractive guy's shoes, I would be severely depressed and I probably would have absolutely no motivation to do anything, I doubt I would even want to leave the house.

I'm wondering how these guys even manage to get through the day.  Do people without body-dysmorphic disorder just not really care about their appearance that much?  Or do you think these guys are really depressed about their appearance, but just don't let anyone know?  They must know that people constantly judge them on their appearance, and that most likely dating is going to be a huge struggle for their entire life, and there's a pretty good chance that no girl will ever really be attracted to their appearance. 

I know that if I started going bald I would just want to drop dead, I can't imagine what it's like to be bald, short, ugly, fat and everything else, and I can't help but feel guilty that life took such a huge shit on some people and not the rest of us.

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<bot>: Does anyone know how really unattractive people cope with looking the way they do?  And how do I stop feeling so bad for them/guilty about not being one of them?