<human>: So me and my ex were going out for 4 and half years, then one day out of the blue she said she wanted a break.  I went like crazy depressed and ended up probably ruining her idea of me and the possibility of us getting back together.  About 2 weeks later, she texted me and it quickly turned into "we should get back together soon."
 

Like 2 days later, she texted me saying I wasn't ready to be her friend and we shouldn't talk anymore.  It's been over a month now, and I haven't heard a peep from her.  We were together for a long time, so obviously I'm not over her yet.  I keep having this strong feeling I should reach out to her, but so many people are telling me to completely ignore her and if it was meant to be it will happen on its own.  

I have 0 idea how she feels about me and changed her reasoning for breaking up with me like 4 times.  Should I even consider a chance of us rekindling or should I move on ASAP?

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<bot>: I miss my ex a lot and really want to talk to her, but a lot of people are telling me I shouldn't.  I should listen to everyone right?