<human>: I can't articulate the latest fight we've had (still processing it in my head) but I can explain this bit that I've observed with the both of us.

I understand the importance of alone time and I've learned to give it to her (and me) whenever we get into a fight. If we do ever get into a fight, I back off and give her some alone time (1-3 days) and she does the same for me. In that time, I try to understand everything that had happened and I guess she's doing that as well.

However, I've noticed that after the period of alone time, I am always the one to strike up conversation first. I ask her sometimes when she would've talked to me had I not started it. Her answer: I don't know :(. Maybe the alone time I gave isn't enough? Or is there something else here...

I fear that if I never strike up conversation, our relationship will just wither.

Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?
<bot>: Whenever we get into a fight and afterwards give each other alone time, I'm always the person to start up conversation. Is there a problem with that?