<human>: Throwaway.

Me (m23) and my gf (f20) haven't been together for long, about 6 weeks. She's the first closest thing I've had to a serious girlfriend ever, and I really like her and don't want to lose her. I also hate seeing her like this. Her dad has been dealing with heavy health issues for the past few years. I'm talking surgeries, a lot of hospitalization, physical pain, etc. I'm not entirely sure what he has.

She was reluctant to date me at first because she didn't wanna drag me into it. I told her I'm okay and I'll be there for her.

And I want to be there for her. I've just never coped with that kind of thing and I honestly have no idea how to comfort her. I hate to say it like this but I think the inevitable with her father will happen soon, and I really want to help her get through it. Obviously I'm hoping for a miracle but I want to plan ahead if it doesn't come. If that were to happen to me I would feel shit but knowing myself I would deal with it internally and it wouldn't take a huge toll on me. Sounds bad but it's the way I am and I'm not sure if that's a bad thing. Either way, she's not the same and I want to be there for her. He went into resuscitation yesterday and I felt terrible and I couldn't find words to help her through it. In fact, I screwed it up more because when she told me (via texting) what's going on I replied things like "fuck" in awe of what's happening... I'm an idiot. I know.

How do I find the words?
How do I be there for her when I don't want that to be the first time her parent meet me? That would be bad for both sides.

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<bot>: gf's dad is in a really bad health situation. I'm afraid she will lose him soon. How do I help her cope?