<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

This is kind of an update and kind of not. If you want some back-story, my first post is [here] It wasn't really all that popular, but there was nothing juicy so I didn't expect it to be. I would like to thank the handful of people that responded though, as it was helpful.

Since my first post, Donna and I have been on three dates which have all turned out really well. I know three doesn't sound like a lot, but we've both had very busy summer schedules (vacations, going away parties, family gatherings, etc) and lately she's been pulling a lot of overtime at work for a project due by month's end. I actually find the pace refreshing, as my recent relationship history has largely consisted of things starting (and often ending) fairly quickly. This feels like a much healthier pace, and we converse often enough on the subway to make up for it.

So, now I find myself thinking about her a bunch and wanting to spend more time with her (barring scheduling conflicts, obviously). I just.. don't know what my next move should be here. Most of my previous relationships that went at a quicker pace had been started online, and often times things would quickly progress once they went offline (like spending an entire weekend with someone and making plans shortly thereafter to see them again) and/or the woman would just lead the way. Dating in a big city, without the online crutch, has thrown me into a situation in which I have no experience.

So, I just need advice on one thing, wonderful /r/relationships people: What the heck is my next move here? Do I just tell her that I really enjoy spending time and talking with her and would like to spend more time with her? How do I tell her that? Or should I just keep asking her on dates and hoping it progresses to us spending time together without "official" dates? Please, help me not embarrass myself completely!
<bot>: I am an inexperienced dater, looking for advice on how to convey to the woman I've been going on dates with that I'd like to spend more time with her. Please help.