<human>: To be clear, they ARE getting a divorce, but he's sendin her texts every day, begging for her to change her mind, telling her how much he loves her, and guilt tripping her. He's a terrible person. He's cheated on her multiple times, constantly tries to manipulate her, and abuses her both mentally and physically. She desperately wants out, but he's stressing her out and won't leave her alone. She's far too kind of a person to just not care about his threats.

What happened with us, just sort of happened. Her mind had already been made long before we began dating(roughly 2 months). He was deployed to afghan and was going to be gone a year, but had a mental breakdown, and has returned to where they used to live, while she's back in her home town(5 hours away).

She's terrified because she has to go with him to file for divorce at JAG(?). And there's no telling what he could do when she does. She's explained to him many, many times that they're done and it's not going to work, but he still tries. If she doesn't reply, he sends loads of texts. Threatens to kill himself, begs for her to take him back, and tells her how much he loves her. Every single day, and multiple times. I don't know what we should do, and I'd like advice.

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<bot>: Girlfriend's husband had a breakdown; threatens to kill himself if she doesn't take him back. Not stable enough to safely get a divorce and it's stressing both of us out. What should we do?