<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

I'm a SM looking for insight- but will likely repost this to /r/stepparents.

My SD is 12, introverted, and addicted to video games. My DH is the same way. We have her 5 out of 7 days a week, sometimes more- but rarely less.

With it being summer and both of us working, she has a lot of time to herself. But it's August and I haven't seen her go play with friends or leave the house without coaxing or force (not giving her an option) yet. I know she doesn't do anything at her BM house either. She will play 5-9 hours a day online when home during the week. I think there really aren't a lot of times she is out in public- especially doing something that should be fun. I personally think this could or would hinder development. Am I wrong?

I'm the odd man out in our house- as I'm more extroverted and have more interest in the world around me vs video games and sitting inside doing whatever. I understand there is a fundamental difference in personalities, but it feels like there is little to no room for compromise many times. I think we all three-or just a daddy daughter date-outside the house is important. She is so accustomed to being squirreled away that there is virtually no interest in anything outside an immediate comfort zone. She never asks to go play with friends. She never asks to do anything that she shows true motivation for. I've tried getting a bit more involved, making suggestions, doing the research and making the calls to get her into more individual or group activities she says she likes...nothing really comes of it.

Toward the end of last school year her grades began to suffer, she was losing sleep, her attitude was more negative. My suggestions to use computer access as a bargaining tool were all but thrown out the window.

What's normal for an introverted family? What's actually healthy? I need some perspective or a way to let it go- but goddamn- the laziness is killing me!
<bot>: SD and DH show little to no motivation to leave the neighborhood/house. Laziness and video game use is making my skin crawl. Tired of being the "bad guy".***