<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

So last year I met a friend of a friend (actually all 3 of us were in A & E but that's besides the point, and couldn't help noticing how perfectly lovely and charming she was.
I developed that sort of low key crush you get sometimes.

At the XMAS College party this year, we ended up making out and she came back to my place and slept over. 
   At some point in the night I told her how I'd been low key crushing on her for a while and that recently this had turned into a full blown desire to date her.

This is where it gets tricky:
    About 18 months ago, she had a really shitty sexual experience (you can guess what) with her boyfriend of the time, and it really affected her and still does to this day.
She hasn't had a boyfriend since, didn't have any sex for a long time after as well, and hadn't for a while until me. 

I saw her again last night, and we spent the night at a Private View, and then back at hers where she told me the story of the event mentioned above, and how much this has affected her.

My questions are: 
-   how can I be sensitive to her apprehension of getting into a relationship properly? 
-   should I even be trying to date her at all?
-   has anyone been in/know of similar situations and has any advice?

any other advice or suggestions on what the hell to do here, I'm a bit lost.

Clarification: I have Aspergers' Syndrome, which I guess could be pertinent to mention here.
<bot>: Girl I really like with a lot of baggage is wary of relationships in general, but I really want to date her because she makes me feel serene and joyful - what do?