<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

So basically me and friend like the same girl. My friend asked her out but she turned him down. Me and her both like each other and have gone on a few dates, but he a very close friend to both me and her. We like each other, but we also don't want to hurt him. We both told him that we like each other and we asked him if he was okay with it. He said he was okay but hes been hinting at her that hes not okay. 
Reddit, What should we do? (we aren't officially dating yet, and none of our other friends know about anything. Me and her both knew that we liked each other 2 months ago)
<bot>: friend likes same girl as me, she likes me back, but we dont wanna hurt him, what should we do?