<human>: I posted earlier this year (check my post history if you'd like to see the details, it got a bit messy)  while I was going through the adoption process with my now daughter, Anna. Basically when I took her into my care I was engaged but the added stress of becoming overnight parents was too much for him. I ended up single again. Which over the last four years has been fine. I've been too busy being a mum to worry about men.

 However, now I've met someone (he's actually been in my life for quite some time) I have no idea how to go about this with my daughter. I want her to be the most important thing. I don't want to introduce her too soon but we see him all the time, he has a child of the same age. 

I'm really looking for advice as to what to do about telling her etc. In all honesty it's been 4 years since I've as much as kissed anyone. I'm very out of practise. I'm not going to rush into anything. The man in question I have known since I've had Anna in my life (4years). Anna loves this guy as he has been my friend some time. Our kids get on and we have been flirting with the idea of dating for a while and he wants to give it a try. We have been pretty much having a relationship without any of the physical aspects. We talk constantly and have time with our kids all the time. I think we should have some dates together without the kids knowing and tell them if it goes well.  

I've been feeling quite guilty about wanting to date but I think if I'm happier surely she will notice. I just want what's best for both of us.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: want to start dating. How should I tell my daughter/ when? Should I wait until she's a bit older until I start dating?