<human>: I'm in a year long, long distance relationship. Living across have created it's own problems. Nothing major just what you would expect in a 2,500 long distance relationship. We've seen each other 8 times in 12 months ,which is awesome. Now, we've planned for her to move to my city. First within 8 months, then a year, now in 4 months (16 months total). She works in the same field as me, in marketing, but makes less money and less work. I make good money, but have much more bills. Higher rent, more home bills, I have a child...so our spending money is nearly the same. Which she refuses to believe. Also the cost of us seeing each other have been covered mostly by me. Which becomes costly, and a bit counter - productive, since we are/were suppose to be saving money to move in n together.

Now it's been a year, and she has no savings at all. And is behind on her bills. Which I have helped with in the past. But I'm at the point where, I feel I'm being used. I have my own bills, and need to be the one saving for us to move in.

A little back story. She was abused mentally and sexually when she was a child. Was kicked out her house. And stripped from the age of 17-21. Which I'm okay with. She did what she had to do to survive. I'm actually impressed that she made it out that life, and hs become such a great all-around woman.

But, now when times are hard. She wants to go back to that life. Which to me is a deal breaker. I refuse to date a currently stripper, and deal with all the emotional/mental rollercoaster it brings. I thought she left that life in the past. What happens in a year if money is tight?

How should I approach this? How do I figure this out? Am I wrong? I really want to be with her. But I just can't take part in that lifestyle.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: Girlfriend of a year, in a long distance relationship, having financial trouble. Was suppose to move to my city, but now wants to strip.