<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

Hello all, thanks for clicking! 

I'm really just looking for a sense of community, since my google searches haven't yielded much. 

Basically, both I (f/21) and my partner (m/22) have a mental illness, but not the same one. I have depression and am on my way out of a bout; he has ADHD-C, and has been on medication successfully for a long time. We have been together for 2.5 years, and are going strong. 

I'm wondering if any of you out there are in similar situations (though not necessarily the same illnesses), and if so, if you have any tips about how you made your relationships work, or any funny stories. In my case, I only just realized that this particular bout of depression may have quietly crept in about 3 years ago (so, a bit before my relationship started), though the effects have only just begun to fully manifest. I'm in therapy and getting better, but something I've encountered that never occurred to me (though according to my therapist it apparently happens a lot?) is that it's taking a toll on the relationship. We are both dedicated to each other and our life together and determined to grow from this, so that's a happy note. But it hasn't been, and likely won't be easy.
<bot>: anyone in a happy relationship in which both partners have a different mental illness, any tricks of the trade or anecdotes to share?