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Hello everyone,

Our child is due in december and I've been thinking about what language we should speak to the child.

I'm 25, my gf is 31.
I moved away from Poland when I was 10 and lived in USA for next 10 years. I don't visit my parents and almost never speak to them. I don't have any Polish friends and rarely speak the language anymore. We speak English at home, and Danish otherwise. My Danish is quite far from adequate at the moment and will probably stay this way for a year or two more.

My gf moved away from Belgium to Denmark long time ago. She doesn't keep contact with her parents and has Flemish-speaking friends visit about once a year. She's fluent in Flemish (Dutch), Danish and English and is planning on speaking Flemish to the child.

I would also like to speak only Polish to her as I'm from Poland and it's very much part of my identity and would like to pass part of it on to my children. I grew up reading Polish literature and think old polish culture is beautiful and prose and poetry worth reading. But are these sufficient reasons?

Our child will grow up around Danish kids mostly and will rarely get a chance to speak both Flemish and Polish to anyone but us.
How realistic is it that she will learn both Flemish and Polish and Danish and English at the same time? It seems to me overly confusing.

I've met a couple is USA (Spanish/Polish) with a 7 year old that spoke all three very well but started speaking very late (around 4 if i remember correctly) and for a long time has been mixing everything up.

Perhaps someone could provide thoughts on the matter.

Thanks a lot
<bot>: We'll have a child in December. I'm Polish. GF is Flemish. We speak English together. Live in Denmark. Wonder if it's realistic for her to learn all 4.