<human>: 21/F/CW: 135lbs/61.2kg/5'4''

I've been steadily dropping weight for about the last year just by choosing vegetables and the stairs (SW: 150lbs/68kg). In recent months it has progressed to watching calorie and nutrient intake, and focusing on muscle groups (I'm training to be an aerialist) but there are two things that are holding me back.

1. What is the most calorie effective "bang for your buck" alcoholic drink to drink? I realize all of the implications that question begs, but here's the long and short of it. My work and personal friends often converge on bars/pubs to bond and unwind after gigs. I've managed to stave away from the pub food permanently but can't seem to find a low-guilt option for a drink. I'm a red wine drinker, but understand that the carbs and sugar from that is not the best for dropping weight. In general I've cut my alcohol intake drastically already but I can't help but know how bad drinking my calories is.

2. I have and always have had (really, really really) large breasts my whole life and no amount of weight loss or training has ever changed them. At my lowest weight last summer (~125, with D / DD), I looked like an awkward barbie doll. I dropped /maaaaybe/ a cup size when I was working out, but still looked dangerously top-heavy. Body weight exercises and dramatically healthier diet kept them nearly a cup size lower than what I normally am, but any amount of heavy work outs or food consumption outside of the strictest guidelines and they were back to normal. Any suggestions?

The second is the most vain of my goals. I am already so happy with my overall health increase and being able to wear shirts that show my tummy, but knowing my recreation after hours won't catch up with my fitness would be nice, and looking dainty and perhaps even demure instead of sexy and risqué in just tshirts would send me over the moon.

Sorry this got so long. >.>

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<bot>: 1. I don't want to completely give up getting tipsy with my friends after work after the weekend; 2. My boobs are too big for my body, halp.