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Just wanted to make a quick update. Everything ended okay. He did show up here and he was pretty upset. I thought I was going to have to call the police when my cousins and roommate told him I didn't want to see him and he needed to leave. He was screaming about how he wasn't going to be rejected by a fat chick and how lucky I was he was willing to be with me despite everything. Mostly the same sort of shit he was bombarding me with by text the other day. My roommate talked him down somehow. I don't know what was said, I stayed in the house as I was worried about agitating him further. And I'm a wuss.

I did talk to him a little while before he left and after he calmed down. Outside the house, with my friends nearby. I wanted to apologize face to face, it felt important. He asked if we could remain friends and continue talking. I said no. I felt bad saying no but theres just too much baggage there. Too many fucked up things we've both done. We had an uncomfortable hug and he left.

And I just want to add this because I've gotten a lot of hope you learned your lesson replies from these posts. This experience the past few days isn't what taught me my lesson. What taught me my lesson was years ago when I had to tell him I'd been lying to him. I badly hurt him, and it was done out of selfishness. It didn't feel good. I never wanted to be the sort of person who would hurt others for any reason, let alone a selfish one. And I hated knowing I'd hurt someone I'd come to care about so much. Thats what taught me my lesson and got me into therapy and motivated to change my life. Not the last week of stress.
<bot>: He showed up. We talked. He left. I blocked him on all the social media I use and with any luck we won't run into each other again.