<human>: Well, i got to know my girlfriend about 7 months ago. This part of the story isn't very relevant so I'll keep it short. She looks 20, so i had no idea that she was older the first time we spoke. We had a really, really fun evening, and at the end i ask if she'd like to get together sometime she explains that I might not be aware how old she is. I really didn't mind because it was so much fun, but she didn't want to give it a shot.

We continue to stay in contact and really enjoy each other. She decides that if I am so interested in her that maybe she really should let it happen. She gives me a shot and we've been over the moon since. 

She then explains that I am mature, and that's why this can work. She wants to be sure that I am ready for marriage. Not in the way that i need to marry her in the near future, but she needs to be sure we re on the same page, and that I'm not in it for the short run. 

This is where you guys come in. I am ready for such a commitment since I had been engaged before, so I am not a short-term-relationship  kinda guy. But it is realistic to think that a relationship with a older woman and younger guy can work? its almost exactly 10 years. My worry is I'm too in love to think this through, and i don't want to suddenly have some realization that i can't foresee. Is this relationship realistic? Or is it a puppy thinking he is a special snow flake?

Further info: The relationship is great, better than anything either of us have ever had. We are on the same page on every aspect, except for the future part, where I am still unsure if i am being realistic. Please help. (also this is not the near future, we are talking about the possibility of marriage even if it were in 30 years..)

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<bot>: 24 year old guy and 34 year old woman, is marriage realistic? Please be honest. Also I know if our genders were swapped it would be easier or more accepted.