<human>: I have to preface this by saying I'm absolutely clueless at dating. I've never done this before.

I met a girl via online dating about a month and a half ago. We've gone on 4 dates since then: coffee, a movie, a trip to the dog park with her and my dog, and a casual walk in the park. 

So far the farthest we've gotten is a quick kiss after the movie. This is probably mostly my fault. She seemed receptive to holding hands during the movie and the kiss, but hasn't made any sort of move on her own. We've been texting frequently between dates, but it's been pretty casual.

I've asked her how she felt about the kiss and how things were going in our relationship this far (perhaps a mistake), but she's said that she wants to take things slow, she doesn't know where things are going.

We get along well and she's said she loves hanging out. She shuts down whenever I hint at relationships or try to initiate flirting (via text, as 2 awkward geeks, doing it in meatspace is easier said than done).

I'm at a loss what to do here. I feel like slow in this case is really, *really* slow. It's both of our first times doing the online dating thing, and she's said she's a bit uneasy about all of this because of that. Conversation was initially kind of awkward, but it's getting much better and much more free.

What do I do here? Do I talk openly with her via text about what we should do as far as the romance and intimacy goes? Do I take her on some romantic date and initiate making out? Invite her over here for dinner (I'm kind of nervous about this because we're both still a little bit squeamish, and I don't want her to feel uncomfortable). Keep going as normal on casual dates until she brings it up this time?

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: Two awkward geeks with 4 dates in, not much romance, girl wants to "take it slow", is it too slow? What do?