<human>: So I've (29f) only had 3 long term relationships in my life (5 yrs, 6 yrs, 2 yrs), never really done "dating" but been trying okc/pof/etc recently which hasn't yielded anything serious. I seem to find dealbreaker flaws with all the men I meet. For example: last four men - guy 1, immature irresponsible man child; guy 2, uptight and obnoxious; guy 3, no ambition and too into his family; guy 4, gave off creeper vibes. However, I wonder if I'm even giving them a chance - I'm making these determinations in a couple of dates or less.

Which brings me to current guy (32m). I wanted to call things off after the first date, he dresses horribly, has no social graces, and took a fucking phone call in the middle of the date from his mother. Urgh. But he was very nice and we had a lot in common so I figured I'd give it a shot. We've been seeing each other for about two months. Only once a week though, because our schedules don't always line up. But even when they do, he's full of excuses - he isn't prepared, he needs to recharge, maybe next time, etc. He is an introvert, and clearly a severe one. He seems very set in his routine and ways. Spontaneity and leaving the house are not his deal at all. Whereas I'm a spur of the moment social butterfly who goes stir crazy staying in. His social graces have only declined - he actually answered his phone, a call from his sister, while we were fooling around!!!!!! Add to that, he is still active on okc even though we had a talk about only seeing each other.

I don't know whether to just say fuck it, or accept that at our ages, people are going to have some issues. Single for a reason and all that.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: If you can't change people, at what point do you give up and start working with what you've got? Or hold out for that magical fucking unicorn??