<human>: Hi,  Im going to try and make this short and sweet, I honestly dont have close friends to talk to about this so Im reaching out on here.

(27 female)

i recently moved to miami with my fiance last nov. When I moved down I caught him on fetlife.com and other porn sites reaching out to women, he denied he was really going to hook up. His words were "Im trying to figure out what YOU like so im talking to these other girls"

Thats such a bs excuse but...I forgave him.  (he kinda likes women a lot, colombian heh)  So....every now and then since then ive been worried and I dont know how to handle the situation.

Past:  He used to talk to other girls online with fb and saying "dirty things" to them and would never talk to me like that.  so he has done this type of thing before, and yes...i let it slide, he even made me believe I was making all of it up, when I caught him red handed too, geeze...he actually made me feel like the bad guy for accusing :(

Anyways,

He just posted a craigslist ad 5 days ago I found out looking for a women in miami, again :(  and I just dont know what to do because I dont have a steady job, I cant afford to move out on my own, and I dont know if I can keep loving him or if I should.

thank you for any words of advice, im so lost  - AND yes I know I sound like the stupid girl that keeps going back to her dumb fiance....I just thought relationships all took work, and these were normal obstacles that everyone faced...

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<bot>: fiance has talked to girls behind my back before, sending text and pics. Says he wont do it again, but he did it on craigslist 5 days ago and I dont know how to handle situation.