<human>: Here is the original post: 

So after a series of emails, texts I finally got her to agree to talk to me face to face. Well it was a disaster, but I found out why this is all happening.

Basically she said that I require too much attention, and I try to be involved too much in her life for her liking to deal with this. She said it is her situation and not mine. I guess I should have just left her alone when I was trying to be supportive.

She asked me if I was still going to give her money for the Disney trip since she paid for it out of her savings before we had a joint account, and I was going to front the spending money from money I got by selling one of my cars.. I am not sure about all of that. She said I need to put my big boy pants on and get over my emotions and go for her kids.

She says she needs to do this for herself because she doesn't know what she is going through. I do not think this is about her ex like everyone thought. She is literally so far trapped in her own mind about the pain of her sons death she can't focus on anything else.

She said when we first met she was just ignoring the grief, and pushing it back, but now that her counselor is making her go through the process it is making things difficult.

I can't help but feel I could have started counseling to sort through my issues sooner, and maybe I could have avoided this. On the other hand, I really don't think I am that bad to be with and I feel I am loving and accommodating.

I appreciate everyone's words, it truly did help. I asked her tonight if we are still a couple, and she said she does not know what we are anymore. She understands that I love her, but she has to do this for herself because she is going insane and needs to be alone.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Wife leaving me because she can't handle a relationship with me and the grief of her dead child and I found out some more  information.