<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

I'm a 23 year old male who recently has tried (and failed) many times to meet someone who could potentially become a girlfriend.  With each of these failures, I think more and more that it must be my approach or something that I'm doing, rather than terrible luck (although, I haven't completely counted that out yet either haha).  I feel am pretty limited in how I can meet people at the moment (I have graduated college and work full time) so I am on a dating site and Tinder.  The select few who I do manage to strike up a conversation with on these seem to lose interest quickly.  I try to have legitimately meaningful conversations with people, ask them about the things they like/talk about in their profile, joke around, etc etc.  I am possibly coming off as overinterested, but the alternative is being dull, and in the competitive world of online dating, I feel I need to separate myself from the dozens of other guys that likely contact them daily.  I have also tried meeting people in real life (aka bars) with the same luck.  I personally don't like this method anyway because the environment and state of mind people are typically in doesn't foster a good initial connection.  But at least here, people can see the "real" me and my personality.

Anyway, that's about it.  I think I covered it all, but I can provide more information as requested.  I really appreciate any thoughts or advice you have.  :)
<bot>: Single guy who has either really bad luck or is scaring girls away needs help on how to attract one for a serious relationship.