<human>: Ok, I've posted on here before a couple of months ago but for some reason, I cannot recall my username nor find the reddit email. Anyway, I broke up with my ex a little over 5 months ago for another guy (40/M) and life is awesome with new guy so far!!!

However, I feel like I cannot really "move" on nor can I bring my new guy around because the goddanged ex is still around my family ALL.THE.TIME. Stupid me trying to be nice telling him he could stay at my dad's trailer for a while. After he moved in the trailer out of my house, he proceeds to tell me that he's never moving back to his hometown since there is nothing left for him there, he's happier here with his dart league and bowling league as well as hanging out with my brother.

Now my brother is another story, he's basically best buds with my ex, going as far as to tell me /that's his brother... Uhh, ok???? You were and are my brother first before him but whatever. He enables my ex being around all the damn time.

We have family get-togethers often at my dad's "clubhouse" (which is a 2 minute walk from my ex's trailer) and my ex is always there and frankly, it bothers me even though we are on good terms now (I had to resort to threatening him with getting kicked out of his trailer if he didn't stop with the dirty looks and rude texts.)

My family thinks I'm overreacting about the ex always being around and it kind of bothers my new guy which I totally understand. Because of that, I rarely am around the clubhouse yet my family gets upset about me not being around.

Now I'm just rambling and not sure exactly what I'm trying to say or ask for... I guess I'm wondering what I should do or say when the time comes to bring my new guy around when it comes to my ex always being around?

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<bot>: broke up with ex, with a new guy now but ex always around my family and family not bothered by it except me. Not sure what to do when time comes to bring new guy around regularly???