<human>: I met my current boyfriend James about a year ago and we became best friends incredibly quickly, but he was in a relationship and so nothing happened. I've been good friends with Ryan for about 18 months, and had a crush on him for a long time, and we became fuckbuddies about 6 months ago (I wanted more, but "settled" for fuckbuddies). 

Anyway, James broke up with his girlfriend a few months ago and we decided that we wanted to be together, so I stopped fucking Ryan. However, we still remain good friends and see each other a couple of times a week for lunch or just to chill on his bed and watch TV. My boyfriend is bothered by this and gave me an ultimatum; either stop seeing Ryan or he'll end things with me. Obviously, I don't want to either of those things.

We're sort of semi-long distance (he lives an hour's drive away, so we only tend to see each other on the weekend) and I think that's what drives his jealousy, because Ryan lives very close. James is a brilliant boyfriend and person in every other way, and I've never been happier, so how can I convince my boyfriend that he's just being jealous for no reason?

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<bot>: My [F23] boyfriend [M22] of 3 months gave me an ultimatum to stop seeing my good friend [M25] or he'll dump me.