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So I love my girlfriend let's call her Stacy. Stacy and I have been together for about 4 months. When we first got together we were super happy and joking with each other all the time. I was living with a friend. She would come over and hang out with me all the time after she got off of work and stayed with me for days at a time. I didn't have a vehicle and she was helping me out by getting me to and from work and sometimes let me borrow her car. 

The friend I was living with turned out to be a shitty friend and only wanted me around because I was paying him rent. Treating me like a tenant instead of a friend. I was stressed out by it all. Eventually Stacy's mom offered for me to move in with them and help out and help me put myself together. 

Stacy hates being home with her mom and grandmother thus why she was hanging out with me all of the time. She's at a point in her life to where she needs help putting herself together as well which is why she's living with them. 

Recently Stacy's car shut down so I sprung into action and got a vehicle. Now all the roles are reversed. She's used to being independent and doing things on her own which she likes to do. Now she's feeling like she's giving up control of her life to me. We've been both stressed out and barely talk to each other most days and it's bumming me out because I miss how things used to be. I feel like I've been added to the chaos of her life and I brought up getting an apartment to her yesterday so she'd have a place to go when she's stressed. 

We argued for a few hours about how she felt like I was giving up on us. I only brought it up because she doesn't like being home. I ended the argument by saying that I'll stay and we'll figure out how to help her cope with these new changes and go from there. I just miss how we used to be when we had fun together.
<bot>: left my friends house because of stress, moved in with gf, and now things are more stressful on us. I want the way we used to be back.