<human>: I've known this girl, mostly through AIM contact for 12 years.  Back about 8 years ago we fooled around a little bit, but nothing serious.  Then she gets married and I don't really talk to her until like 9 months ago.  

After this long hiatus, I began talking to her again and found out she is unhappily married.  At first, we 'sexted' a lot before we ever actually met face-to-face or spoke on the phone, which I still feel guilty about.  Once I spoke to her on the phone and met her in person, I stopped all of the sexual text because it felt too real instead of words/imagination.  I still hang out with her (basically just walk at the park with her every weekend) and never touch her or talk out of sorts (mostly).  She is currently having an extramarital affair with another guy, and I have told her before that I wouldn't get involved with a married girl.

She has told me that her relationship with her husband is almost non-existent, that they barely talk, and barely hang out.  Even though I'm not doing anything adulterous, I still feel like he should know about her male friend that she hangs out with, because it still feels deceptive.  She says 'oh don't worry about it, he wouldn't care' but I've never pressed the issue enough to give her an ultimatum that she needs to tell him before we can hang out.

Thoughts?

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<bot>: Walk on the weekends with married woman that I don't fool around with sexually, but I think her husband should know about my existence b/c it still feels deceptive if he doesn't