<human>: I'm 29 (male), she's 25. We've been seeing each other for a little over 2 months. We've has sex 3 times. We waited for about 2 - 3 weeks before the first time.

We see each other 2 - 4 times a week. We've taken a few weekend excursions together (2 - 3 days together at a time).

The problem is she always *seems* to have an excuse for not having sex. Also, she doesn't like giving blowjobs (I really enjoy going down on her). The few times we've had sex it was very good and she definitely seems to enjoy it.

Another issue around sex is that whenever I make a sex joke or innuendo (about her/me/us) she usually just roles her eyes and/or ignores it.

So, I'm not sure what to think. I definitely wish we'd have sex more. I don't need it every day, but it's been almost a month now since we've had sex yet I'm staying over at her place all the time. She seems perfectly fine with this and has even stated that sex will never be that important to her in a relationship. I don't think it's the end all to be all but feel it *is* important.

How do you guy feel about sex in a relationship and what advice do you have for us? In the end, I don't want to feel like I'm too pushy or that all I want from her is sex.

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<bot>: We have different sex drives. I think she's making excuses for not having sex as often as I'd like. I don't want to be a pushy douche about it. Advice?