<human>: We are both 20, I male, her female.  She lives about an hour away from me, but in the fall we will be going back to college where we will be living 2 minutes from each other.  We met this summer, not at school.

We have been talking, mostly through texts and fb for the past few months and things are great, we definitely click.  We've only hung out a few times but have already slept together and we were definitely compatible at that level too.

The thing is that she doesn't want a relationship because she just ended a 2 year one with a guy that cheated on her in april.  She already did her single thing and hooked up with 2 people since him and before me.  She tells me how much she likes me and what not, then turns around and tells me she doesn't want to lead me on because she doesn't want a boyfriend for at least til january.

I rarely am the first to text or engage her, but she continues to talk to me everyday, which I don't mind at all but it makes it feel like we are in a relationship.  Last time I hung out with her I didn't even make any sexual moves, I let her do it all.

What do I do in this situation? She is a girl, and girls change their minds more often than they change their clothes.  I'm thinking if I just continue what I am doing, and just have this carefree fling, it will eventually turn into a relationship.  Or am I being stupid?  What can I do in order to turn this into a relationship?

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: talking to girl that doesn't want a relationship for a while, but likes me very much.  Do I stick around and maybe she'll change her mind or cut my losses?