<human>: I've been in a long distance relationship with my SO for 13 months. We met in a videogame (I'm not kidding) and had gotten closer and closer until we decided to start dating. I go to see her every other month and we talk in Skype literally everyday whenever we have free time.

The relationship never really gets boring because of the fact that we both love videogames so whenever we are in Skype we are enjoying  games together online and whenever we get to see each other we are both always excited since we onlg see eachother every other month.

I should point out that we have both been battling depression since i was 14 and since she was 15 and while it has gotten better for both of us, especially since we met each other actually, it still is worse for her. That's not to say it is bad, just worse for her between the 2 of us

A little bit of background info for both of us, she and i had similar childhoods where our parents didn't care for us very much and all of our classmates hated us, up until highschool where it got a bit better for both of us

We both have Social Anxiety

We both dislike people around us

We both are very pessimistic but realistic at the same time about things

We both hate having to spend time away from each other 

We both view things in many similar ways.

Anyway, I've noticed that since I started talking to her all those months ago, she never tells me what's wrong. Whether it be in person or on Skype. She begins to get quiet, look a bit down, and cry a bit.

If we are in person, she holds as much of it back and begins to say "I'm sorry" over and over

If we are on Skype, she will usually turn the cam off and mute her mic when she can't hold it back anymore.

She has told me what was wrong a few times but a majority of the time she doesn't say.

I don't think this is a trust issue also, just to get that out of the way.

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<bot>: how can I make my SO who is long distance tell me what's wrong without being upfront about how she won't ever tell me what's wrong?