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About a month ago I asked a girl out from my college class.  She said yes, we both had a good time, and went on second and third dates.  After dinner on the third date we went back to her house and watched a movie.

During the movie we were lying on her bed and she snuggled right up on my shoulder, rubbing my chest and holding me tight.  When I leaned in for a kiss, she kissed me back but later said it was too early and she usually didn't kiss guys until they had been together for a month.

Fast forward to this weekend when she told me about her ex.  She was with him for five years before he broke up with her in January.  She seemed very angry about the breakup.  Apparently he was going to propose to her this summer but ended up breaking up with her and dating a new girl one week later.  She says she's over him and moved on but I cant help but think she's hesitant to get with me because she's still hurt.

I told her today I understand she is going through a hard time and I would try to take it slow and not kiss or anything.  I don't want to be dragged along or a rebound, but I also want to give her time if she really needs it.  Should I even be "dating" her while this is going on?  How long should I give her?
<bot>: Girl starts to date me, then gets hesitant. Later find out she's getting over a 5 year relationship that ended 2 months ago. What to do?