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We both just finished school, where we dated for almost 3 years. However, I can't see a future of us together and am moving across the country in a month, so I felt like a breakup was inevitable. I didn't want to pointlessly drag it out, figuring this would be easier than letting it "fizzle out" over a longer time.

I did it over the phone, since we live about 2 hours away from one another right now. She took it very badly and said that she deserves a face to face meeting tomorrow, so I said we could meet somewhere halfway between our homes for lunch. 

I told her this would only make it harder for both of us though, and that I wasn't going to change my mind about the breakup. I care about her enough that I want to make it as painless as possible for her, but I don't know if meeting face to face will make it better or worse. 

I should add that we haven't seen each other in about a month since I've been away, and have only talked a little during that time.

Any advice on whether or not to go see her face to face? This is my first real breakup and I have no idea how to make it easier to handle, or whether I did the right thing at all. Any help would be really appreciated.
<bot>: Broke up with gf of 3 years over the phone, care about her and want to make it easier for her, but not sure if meeting for lunch tomorrow is the best thing to do right now.