<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

Ok, so, i want to retain some anonymity here, but... my wife and i recently went through rough times (started with a miscarriage and only got worse before it got to the point we're at now) and while we're slowly moving out of the rough patch I keep relapsing due to trust issues, because she has a bunch of male friends that she talks to everyday and i've seen the conversation turn quite personal and sometimes they attempt to flirt.

My wife says I would probably chill out if i had some people talk to, probably female friends, and even said she would understand some flirting just to boost my confidence a bit. I'm not sure how to go about finding anyone new to talk to, nor do i know if this could be a good idea (it's a trap?). What would be the best way to go about actually getting someone to talk with, what's the best way to approach this without being a creep or weirdo?
<bot>: Wife wants me to make female friends to stop jealousy issues, but i'm not sure how and know if it's a good idea...