<human>: Ok i will make this as short as possible! I met a guy at work about 3 weeks ago and we have just been texting lately, obviously we both liked each other so we decided to meet up. On the second date I ended up spending the night at his house, i let him know that i wont be having sex for a long time and to please not expect anything from it, and he seemed ok with it. there were some things that happened through-out the night that just assured me he wasn't just trying to sleep with me which made me feel pretty great about the whole thing. 

 well fast forward to last the night before yesterday, we went out to eat with his friend, he got drunk and he decided we should go Christmas shopping for his family. Right when we were checking out he asks me to date him. I said yes but quickly changed my mind to no, and told him i really feel like we need to get to know each other a lot better. 

then i brought up school and mentioned i might be moving out of state, but my second option was a in state school, about a year from now. he was obviously upset and we talked about it, he told me he liked me, and i said i liked him too, and that was it. I had to leave for work, he called me as soon as i got in the car, and i didn't think it would have bothered him all that much BUT hes texting me every like 5 hours and its a small text, last text i got from him was last night at around 7 and it was just a picture of us that i took at the restaurant and i haven't heard from him since. Should i text him today and ask him what the fuck is up? i know hes at work, or do i just leave him alone and forget about it since it was such a short lived fling? did i scare him off? im so sad right now.

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<bot>: guy as been short with me ever since i turned him down, did i say the wrong thing or did he just lose interest?