<human>: EDIT: Sorry for the wall of text, hopefully its readable

Background story: Been in the same school as this girl for 2 years, never really noticed her before (she had a boyfriend during the first year) but now BOOM suddenly at the start of this semester I see her with completely different eyes and get a huge crush on her.

We end up making out at a party (me definitely initiating that but she goes along fine) and go on 2 dates after that, us ending up kissing on the second date. This was ~3 weeks ago and now this friday we were going to the same club again.

So this last Wednesday we were at my house watching a movie, cuddling & kissing a bit and all seemed fine. **However**, on Friday we kissed but also ended up talking a lot (both of us really drunk, probably not the best idea) but I get the feeling I want to be with her a lot more than she wants to be with me.

She hinted towards being "a little interested" but also said she tends to "like people back who like her"(!). She also said something along the lines of "this is moving forward way too fast".

 So my feelings now are that I don't want to go into a relationship where I'm the one wanting it and shes just 'going along'.

Might be worth mentioning I've been in a more "popular" group of people in school and that might result in her having problems turning me down(?) Fuck I'm really overthinking this, please help me out fellow redditors!

Problem is I'm thinking about her **24/7** and can't look at this objectively - she'll be going on a 2 week trip abroad in 5 days and I'll ask her out to coffee before then and here's where my real question comes in.

Should I ask her if **she really wants this** or simply tell her that I want this? The latter giving her more room to answer while the first option would surely give me a straight yes or no.

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<bot>: Hooking up with girl I want to be in a relationship with, not sure if she wants it as much or if at all - shes leaving for 2 weeks in a few days, how to proceed?