<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

Long story short we broke up I did the begging crap for a few weeks then that transitioned into no contact for a little over a month. In the month we both changed a lot but now we've been talking for a few weeks and the connection between us is obviously still there. We both still have feelings for each other and it's pretty apparent in how we talk to one another. The only thing in the way is she obviously seems very conflicted about giving me a second chance. So my dilemma is do I try to be the man that I am and show it to her and invite her out with my friends and do the nice things that I can do, or do I just sit back and wait. I feel like I may be strung along if I don't chase a little but I don't know exactly what direction to go. I do LOVE her, and it's not some bs where I miss the relationship.
<bot>: can't figure out if I should actively pursue my conflicted ex and show her the man I am, or just wait for her to possibly make a decision.