<human>: Basically it's just like the title says. My husband of ten years gets extremely upset when I swear at him during arguments. Then when we are having sex he encourages it. 

I don't know what to do because swearing is how I express strong emotion. And I have expressed that to him various times using those exact words. 

He knows that I swear during sex because I'm feeling strong emotions. He even asks for me to (talk dirty). So why would it be unacceptable for me to swear while we are in an argument?

He will even walk out of the house and tell me when I can respect him he will be back. If we are on the phone he hangs up! I feel those behaviors are worse than swearing at him!! 

To clarify, I try really hard not to call him names. I say things like what the fuck or fuck off also why the hell are you doing this ect.

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<bot>: my husband of ten years takes EXTREME offense when I swear during arguments, but wants me to "talk dirty" during sex.