<human>: Let me start by saying this question is more about prevention than an issue that's currently affecting us in a big way.

So, my boyfriend and I have been together since the end of October (2012). He makes me deliriously happy. :3 The only issue is this: We're in the same fraternity, where he's the president and I hold a chair. A LOT of brothers don't like that we're dating. It's beginning to make for some complicated politics. Now, we haven't broken any rules (although technically we don't even have rules about dating internally); he doesn't vote on things I'm involved in, and vise versa, unless they're major things that need everyone's vote. I'll also note that I was not appointed to my chair while we were together, it was beforehand, and no one ran against me anyway. People just seem to like causing drama over this. I get that people will do that, people are people, but I hate it. This fraternity is everything to us, and we're supposed to be able to count on our brothers without judgement.

So that's a bit jumbled, but I guess my question is, how do we handle this situation without letting it drive a wedge between us? We're doing well so far, but my best friend (also in the fraternity) is starting to make a power grab for his position and it's starting to ruin my relationship with her, which I'm worried will have repercussions on my relationship with him. I have learned a lot about who she truly is and have little respect for her anymore - she is in the wrong in this situation, and I blame him for nothing. Do you see what I'm getting at, though? The politics and stress are wearing on us individually, and I don't want that to cause a disconnect between us. Can you give me some help, Reddit?

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<bot>: My boyfriend and I hold positions in the same fraternity and I need advice on how not to let the politics create resentment down the line.