<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

I'm a 24 year old female and I'm having financial disagreements with my boyfriend (31) who I live with. We were friends with benefits for most of last year, our "official" relationship started last December and we moved in together January of this year. I couldn't find a job, despite applying everywhere, so he paid for rent and utilities. My parents paid for my cell phone, hygiene items and gave me money to have fun with. My groceries were paid for by food stamps. (What I'm getting at here, is that he never paid for dates, or for me to do anything fun, which I never had an issue with.) 

So, I finally got a job and I start on Monday. He makes around 1.5 to twice as much as I will be making; his pay varies since he is an independent contractor. I said I would pay for half of joint bills, which is going to be about 30% of my income. I told him I was going to try to set a budget of 20% of my income to go towards my socializing and fun stuff, and I want the rest (50%) to go into a savings account, not to be touched unless there is a decent reason such as if I want to take a class, medical emergencies, if one of us loses employment etc. He is saying that I should buy him clothes, shoes, flat screen tv, furniture and whatever fun stuff he wants since he paid the rent while I was unemployed, that I owe it to him. 

I appreciate him allowing me to live with him although I was not contributing, but I don't feel like I owe him anything. I'm starting to feel guilty and don't know if I should give in, or if I should stick with my financial plan. Opinions, please?
<bot>: Lived with bf while I was unemployed, now I have a job and he thinks I should spoil him with presents.