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I've always had problems with handling relationships. I'm absolutely awful at reading other people, so it's difficult for me to tell if someone is genuinely interested in me or just going through the motions, etc. Pile this on top of my insecurities from past relationships and things don't work out so well for me.

I have this problem where I feel like I'm getting too attached to someone too quickly. For instance, I've been on a date with this girl [19] who just seems fantastic. I absolutely love talking to her, but I don't want to come off as clingy. Plus, I'm unbelievably excited to see her again, to the point where I tend to bring it up too much, and (again) I don't want her to see me as creepy.

To make matters worse, her family has apparently told her something awful she refuses to share with me (understandably), and she's told me she's at home bawling her eyes out over it. I feel powerless. I can't do anything to help her, and I feel like it's dragging me down with her.

Should I just trust her to tell me if I'm being creepy or clingy? She really seems fairly honest but I know how some women can be.
<bot>: attachment issues, insecurities, how do I deal with this? How do I prevent myself from coming off as that really creepy neckbeard type?