<human>: I have been in a GREAT relationship with my boyfriend for over a year. In this time a lot has changed in my life (went from student to full time 'adult' job, moved countries, got a hormonal IUD, etc.). I was head over heels in love with him and had the best sex of my life simply because it was so emotional - it was just...there was just so much love. I LOVED being that connected emotionally and physically to a person.

However, about 5 months ago we had a conversation about the future of our relationship. I am from Canada and he from Sweden, and while I have been living in Sweden for the past few years I would really like to move back home in the next year when my job contract expires. When I expressed that to my boyfriend he agreed that it would be good for me to go back home (i desperately miss family, friends, and a society where I can comfortably speak to everyone from a linguistic perspective), however he doesn't have a big desire. He could try living in Canada for a few years but he knows that he wants to settle down, raise kids, and retire in Sweden. It was a very emotional conversation, with lots of crying, and him ending it by saying 'I think you're going to have to break up with me in a year, it will be too hard for me to do it.'

Herein lies the problem: we are in a great relationship, that will likely last for another year (we currently live together), however since that conversation I no longer feel emotionally connected and the sex has deteriorated. I am going to a therapist, reading self-help books, exercising regularly, eating right, essentially doing everything to get my mind and body as clear as possible, but I feel like I closed off my heart and now I can't re-open it. How do I cope with this? Can I re-open my mind/heart again?

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<bot>: Was having great emotionally bonding sex until my partner told me he wouldn't move to my home country, now I'm emotionless in bed.