<human>: I'm not really looking for a relationship - if I was, I could just ask her out. I'm dealing with problems in my life right now. I'm not going to confess when I don't know where I'm going; she could do better, and I don't *have* to be in a relationship (I'm sure I won't regret it later)

I know everyone is different and this is all guesswork, but I wanted some advice:

We met at the beginning of this summer and we talked a lot. I like talking about philosophy, and she does too, so great (most of our friends aren't really interested in that stuff). A few months later she tells me about how she told her best friend about me, and some of the philosophy they discussed. I'd never talk about girls with my friends, but I assume I came up because of some related idea we talked about before

Later she mentions that she told her mom about me. Again, the idea is foreign to me; I wouldn't tell my mom about a friend of the opposite gender, but that's just me :P I don't think much of it, assuming it's something about some idea we discussed before

Recently she told me she did great on a school essay, and that she wrote about me. I think it has to do with some idea we've talked about again, but shortly after I wonder if there's more to it, and now I'm here. She said it's embarrassing and not to ask, so I don't (and I'm not going to ask someone else to figure out what it was about)

Is it relatively normal for girls to do this? I know nothing about girls

Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?
<bot>: She talked about me with her childhood friend, mom, and wrote about me in a school essay. How likely is this a hint?