<human>: I am in my 50s and have been married for 8 years. I came from another country and moved to the US, so my english is not the best but I manage, my husband only speaks english.

My son is in college right now and I am paying everything for him. I work full time and do another job on the side trying to start up a company with virtually no funds and no emotional support. My husband, makes around 140k a year, doesnt work(retired) and "emotionally" abuses my me, he also did it with my son.

He is the type of guy to put me down and say why do I even try to do that, and that the start up is a crappy idea and wont work, also he complains at every thing regarding money, even though he spends all his stuff on himself. I dont pay the electricity or food  but I pay for my sons college and my things like clothes, wants that arent needs, my own insurance, my sons insurance with virtually no income almost.

Also I did not know he was not gonna pay for sons school as he said in America its free, but 3 years in the marriage he said he would never pay and that it wasnt free, if I  would have known in advance I would have started saving money for my son since then.

I can go on for much longer but im wondering what can I do? I am stressed 24/7 and always working, is a divorce something I could consider? Any questions regarding this let me know as this is too long to really get in depth

Can you provide a brief overview of the text?
<bot>: I pay for almost all my sons things and college and many things for myself and get abused emotionally with no support, making almost minimum wage. Husband makes 6 figures.