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I feel like my gf has a lot of trust and insecurity issues but she doesn't seem to think so. For example, she has always told me that being a little insecure shows you care - this is something I never agreed or understood because I am not insecure at all and I fully trust her. However, I don't really know how to convince her of otherwise so we usually just drop the topic.

Unfortunately, I feel like this train of thought has transferred to a lot of actions that are starting to wear on me and annoy me. For example, she has expressed early on in the relationship that she does not want me to smoke weed which I was fine with and I promised her I would not. I have told her I was curious about smoking weed and that I didn't see anything wrong with it, but I did end up making the promise anyways. However, she knows that my friends do smoke weed and as a result, every time we have a large gathering, she would ask me if I was smoking weed.

This kind of questioning bothers me a lot because it feels like she does not trust me and constantly feels like I will break my promise. I've asked her nicely to stop questioning me but instead she became quite upset because she can't understand why I can't just answer such a simple question. She also said that she doesnt understand why she can't just ask for reassurance and why I'm forcing her to stop asking questions and that she will be a lot more upset if she's not even allowed to ask questions.

I have tried explaining to her that all this questioning makes me feel like she doesn't trust me but she just replies that it's not about trust, she just doesn't think its a crime to ask questions. This is just one example of a topic she asks me about. She also frequently expresses her worry about me cheating on her or getting tempted by other girls when I have never done anything to make her suspicious that I would cheat on her.

I frankly don't know what else to say to explain my position any better. Does any one have experience dealing with situations like this?
<bot>: gf of 1 year constantly asks me if I will do things I promised not to (e.g. smoke weed). I asked her to stop but she doesn't see anything wrong with asking questions/asking for reassurance.