<human>: Hey weddit!  So, I'm getting married in 11.5 weeks (not that I'm counting), and everything I have read says that's too early to send invitations. The general consensus seems to be that you send invites out 8-6 weeks before at the absolute earliest.  The thing is that half of our 200+ guests are from out of town, and I've already had a lot of calls and texts about people wanting to buy plane tickets and needing information.  I sent out save-the-dates to family a couple months ago, and we have a facebook event for the friends, both of which have links to the wedding website and travel/accommodations information, so it's not like they *need* invitations to be able to make those plans.  But doesn't it seem weird that people are having to spend money and make plans to travel to our wedding before they've been officially invited?

Anyway,  I already have almost all the invitations finished and addressed, and I kinda want to send them out today.  I want to get RSVP's and have people look at my registry! I think it'll be exciting!  Am I being silly and overly eager?

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<bot>: Is 2.5 months beforehand too early to send out invitations, even if 1/2 of the guests are from out of town?