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My boyfriend and I have a long history, but we've pretty much been friends or more off and on for the past ten years. We've had a solid friendship for the past few years, and recently we've started to be romantic again. Yesterday he told me he wants me to be more assertive, to tell him when I don't want to do something or get bored. He said he feels like he needs that in his life right now. I should say that my ex told me pretty much the same thing, so I know it's an issue with me. The thing is, I really love doing just about anything, and find enjoyment just about anywhere. Occasionally I'll tell him where I'd like to go and we'll go, but oftentimes it just doesn't matter at all to me. I have fun just being with him. I don't need constant entertainment, and I can combat boredom on my own. Reddit, I really need some insight on this. I don't want this issue to be our demise. I need to nip this in the bud before he gets bored and moves on.
<bot>: I need to learn how to be more assertive about where we go or what we do before he gets too bored.