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I am 26 years old, he is 29 years old. Been in a relationship for 4 years.

Alright, so I have been in a relationship for 4 years with this guy who I love like crazy. Now, over all things are great. However, there have been a few times he has hidden things from me or lied. Nothing big at all, but even so it makes me distrust him a little.

Example 1: One time he was supposed to be quitting smoking and had been going outside to "finish up old cigg butts". Well I was noticing he was outside awhile. So I checked one time and found a full cigg. So I knew he had bought a pack. To he honest, I didn't care he was smoking normally. My whole family smokes and it was his idea to quit, not mine. No clue why he lied to me about that because he knows I don't care that he smokes. I confronted him and he apologized and I laughed it off letting him know he was just being silly.

Example 2: Another time we had an argument and he said he had to go to work early to do paperwork. Well I knew something was up and checked the iPhone where is my phone app. (he doesn't have a problem with this, we have each others passwords to everything he even said if something was up he would check) He didn't go straight to work, he drove past it and stopped on a street I didn't recognize then shut his phone off. I confronted him later and he said he just went for a ride to think. Claimed he didn't go to anyone's house. He only has one friend not in that city so I dunno.

Also he jerks off when I'm home and claims he doesn't. I don't have a problem with this as I know men have to do it and sometimes its just quicker to get it done by themselves but the fact that he hides it bothers me.

I don't think he is cheating but I feel like he is up to something or he just doesn't respect me enough to tell me the truth. I hate not trusting him because I love him and I know he loves me.
<bot>: I just want to know am I overreacting to my boyfriend lying about usually small stuff? Is this something to worry about or is this just what men do? (my ex was tons worse with this stuff)