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Hi, so truthfully i have no idea what i'm doing and or how to do it. If what i say makes no sense or is just really silly, please call me out on it!

So this is how i see it;

Currently, i have no friends. I recently got a new job and would like to try to make "friends" outside of work. The issue i suppose i have is that i would like to keep friends as my friends, and sort of a group of people i can go to for support or comfort  if i have issues with my gf. 

I feel like i need my own friends , not necessarily "OUR" friends, if you get what i mean?

I'd like to go out and socialise with them on my own, (not all the time obviously, i'm not going to just ditch my gf just because...)I'm just afraid that my girlfriend will take this as a bad thing and (maybe rightfully so) how do i word it/approach this kind of situation to her. 

She doesn't really socialise outside of work, so she'll probably want to come along with me or be annoyed that i want to spend time with people other than her (both males and females), but that's just not what I want right now. Am i being crazy?

Please offer any advice you can! I can't really go to anybody else with this!
<bot>: I want friends that are my friends and not "OUR" friends. I also don't want to hurt my gf.