<human>: Well, as the title says, he ended relationship in a horrible way. Was incredibly mean to me to leave, said many lies to me (and everyone else apparently, whenever they ask why we broke up). He was emotionally cheating on me with this girl who is still in high school who works at the same place he does. Found out while I was out with some friends that he had changed his relationship status (this is just a few days after he officially called it off).

As a result, I ended up drunkenly calling him that night, telling him I know everything, released all the built up anger (he's never heard me this angry, guaranteed), ended up saying few choice words and mean things myself, hanging up, and going home with someone that night for the widely-known rebound sex....

Now, I KNOW it was just rebound sex, but, I couldn't help but have a couple things really irritated me during it...

1) When will you stop comparing how much different the sex is/feels with others compared to your ex? (Yes, I understand I'm fresh out of this, and yes, I understand "time heals everything"...but how much time? How long will it take?)

2) The little things you would do with your ex-SO that you know they loved/made them feel good, do you still do them with your newer partners? Or is that weird? I was so confused to my urges I had to do (would touch certain/odd areas with ex that drove him crazy, was going to reach out and do same thing with rebound, but stopped myself because I thought it would be weird)

3) What can I do to start helping myself block and/or forget the memories and flashbacks? Because there were plenty between us...very, very few "bad" experiences or memories ever really occured with us...so there isn't much to focus on "negatively" wise besides the horrific way he acted leaving me.

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<bot>: Rebound sex with someone random, fresh out of 1.5 yr relationship. Unsure of how to go about things in the bedroom with new partners now and how to cope with all the flashbacks and good memories ex and I shared together.