<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

Ages: 18F and 24M
Length: 3 or 4 Months by the time the planned visit will take place, known each other about 6 months

My boyfriend and I began dating this summer before we took a break due 1. My studies (college freshman) and 2. some personal issues he had to deal with and recently got back together (as in today). 

One of the things of contention with people who hear about our relationship, and occasionally us, other than the obvious age difference, is that when we made plans to see each other, it was me going to see him. I live two hours away and it's a two and a half hour bus ride to see him.
 
I have been told that I need to have him come see me, not the other way around. However he works from 0430 to 1530, Monday through Saturday, and it's just easier for me to see him, since I also have family in the city where he lives.

I personally don't mind, because it gets me out of the tiny town where my college is, for free since he pays for the fare there and back, but I've been told I'm downgrading/devaluing myself.

I don't know what to door think. I'm obviously young, and he's obviously older than me. Am I being used/taken advantage of?

Note: I've of course heard the arguments that "He's just using you for sex", etc. Since my (strict) father approves/doesn't mind, I've decided to NGAF, and told them that since I've been told since I was 12 that all any guy wants is sex, so I might as well go with one I relate to more and will at have the class and cash to treat and fuck me properly.
<bot>: Older long distance boyfriend will pay for me to came see him when I have time, but people are telling me that I am devaluing myself. Am I?