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I [20F] just started dating a new guy [20M]. We had known each other in high school but haven't talked for probably three years. We ran into each other and he asked for my number, and we went on a date two days later. We've been out twice so far, and it's gone pretty well. There has been a lot of kissing as well as touching but nothing sexual. On our second date we were making out in his car, and he mentioned he was trying not to "jump the gun and was trying to remember it was just a second date". I was really into it, but I appreciated him not trying anything because I knew he wanted to.

I'm really attracted to him and even when we're kissing he turns me on. The problem is, I prefer not to have sex until I'm "exclusive" with someone. It's not about pushing or bribing someone into a relationship. It's a rule I have just because I like to feel secure before sleeping with someone- sex is somewhat of a big deal to me. I haven't slept with many guys and I enjoy it more when I don't have to worry about developing stronger feelings for someone.

I'm open to everything besides sex, and I'll do oral before monogamy as long as I feel comfortable enough...I don't want this guy to think I'm a prude, because I love sex and really want him. How do I make this clear while also explaining that I want to build a connection first?
<bot>: I'm dating a new guy, I'm really attracted to him and I can tell we really want each other, but I don't like to have sex before monogamy. What should I do?