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My boyfriend and I met in high school and have been dating for 4 years now. Three of these years I've been away at a college three hours away from him. In the past we usually took turns visiting each other every month and also skyping and texting often. But in the last year he has started a new job that is M-F 9-5 and also has classes M-T 7-9pm. So he hasn't been visiting me. At all this school year.

We keep getting into the same argument every other week about how he won't visit me. It upsets me because I'm driving 3 hours every month to see him but he isn't willing to do the same. I feel like I am putting more time and effort into the relationship than he is.

I don't know if I'm overreacting or not. Everything else about the relationship is great and when we are together its all sunshine and butterflies. But there is a small, selfish part of me that wants to say you need to visit or else this relationship isn't going to work...
<bot>: My boyfriend of four years never visits me up at college even though I visit him often and I feel hurt that I put more into the relationship than he does.