<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

Been with my girlfriend for 3 years. Prior to than, I've had on and off things with other men. I've tried to suppress that side for me for a long time, but it doesn't go away and seems to get stronger. My girlfriend has confronted me several times about distance and lack of intimacy on my part.

Most recently, she suggested that I should seek counseling for these and other issues. I did that, and it has basically concluded that I am probably gay.

I don't know how to approach this. I care very much about her and don't want to hurt her, but I feel this will destroy her.
<bot>: Girlfriend is upset about my lack of intimacy, counseling has helped me figure out that I am probably gay. What to do next?