<human>: Hello Relationships,
As the title states I've been dating a girl for >2 months.  Relationship has been great (had an amazing date and sexy times a week ago), then 2 days after the date she [26F] left for a wedding out of town.  The wedding was pretty demanding on her, for helping out and all the events.  During the trip her texts frequency has essentially stopped.  She still responds to mine and talked to me on the phone, but it just isn't what it was before the wedding.  I understand she may be recuperating from the event, but I have my suspicions she may have slept with someone due to a weird text.

I feel that I really enjoy being with her and want to remain exclusive (not ready for the gf plunge until I get to know her better though), but if she isn't I would definitely like to know.  Tomorrow I'm going out of town to visit some friends where knowing if she doesn't want to be exclusive anymore might change some things on this out of town visit.  

Question, is there a way to bring up "are we still exclusive"  without sounding desperate, and not being an inconsiderate a-hole knowing about a potential hookup for me while I'm out of town?  Is it the completely wrong time to ask her this question while having a cup of coffee right before she drops me off at the airport too?

Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell
<bot>: What's a good way to ask if 26F I'm 28M dating if we're still exclusive without being desperate or an asshole!