<human>: I'm just going to give today as a typical example of what happens probably weekly in some form or another.  I wake up, my live in girlfriend says she wants to sleep another hour.

I go downstairs for about an hour and a half and decide to let her sleep longer while I go to the store to get ingredients for a meal she mentioned wanting when she saw I was defrosting chicken the night before.  I go upstairs to get dressed and she is awake laying in bed on her phone looking at facebook or instagram (a routine she does for about 30 minutes after waking up daily, which annoys me). 

I say i'm going to the store (didn't mention specifics about the meal) and head out.  On the way I stop at the car wash because my car had bugs all over it from a work trip I just took.  I sent her a snapchat of my car at the carwash.

I get home and she is gone.  I send her a text asking where she went.  I wait around for awhile preparing dinner in the crockpot and then go to the gym and come back.  2 hours after sending the original text she replies that she went to her gym to cancel her membership (we both joined a new gym close to our new place).  She takes her phone into the gym with her, and I've seen her reply to texts while working out. 

Two hours after that I am still sitting at home alone (around dinner time).  I finally call her and she answers and says she is at her friend's house (which I believe) like it is no big deal.  We've been over this before and she eventually calls me controlling and thinks I don't trust her while I just think it is common courtesy to let your SO know where you are going and what time to expect them back, especially when you say you are doing one thing and end up doing something else afterwards.

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<bot>: I think it is normal to update your live in SO when you aren't going to be home when expected or leaving unexpectedly and she thinks I am being controlling by asking questions.