<human>: So I met this girl recently off a dating app and we hit it off super well. After a short "lets make sure neither of us is being catfished" date I quickly set up a second date to which she agreed to immediately.

 2nd date got really hot towards the end of the night. We made out and did a lot of foreplay but did not have sex- mostly due to me forgetting my condoms.

3rd date is her coming over to my place for dinner and Netflix & chill session. (Yes I used those exact words and she hilariously agreed.) 

Now I really like this girl, and from what I've seen so far wouldn't mind dating her. However I'm kind of paranoid about STD's after one of my best friends got herpes about a year ago. She hasn't given me any signs that she's anymore promiscuous than your average 20 something or anything like that, but I just remember all the high school bio lectures drilling the safe sex triage questions into my head.

I'm not cancelling our date and still am very attracted to her. I'm just wondering how do you ask someone about sexual past and if/when they've been tested without ruining the mood.

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<bot>: How do you ask if they've been tested w/o ruing the mood on a date that you know will lead to sex?