<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

My husband and I met when we were 18, married at 24, and he passed away in an accident when we were 28.  I was in a very dark place for about a year, but friends and family helped me through.  I spent the next few years rebuilding myself.  I changed careers, started new hobbies, started living for myself, etc.  I know he'd be proud of me.

About 2 years ago I thought I'd start dating again.  I first asked if my friends knew any men, but I just didn't click with them.  Then I tried meeting men through hobbies and such, but many men around my age are already married or separated (I'm not keen on dating men still legally married).  I did meet some nice divorced men, but I just didn't feel much for them.

Then I tried online dating, and it's just been disappointing.  No tinder or anything like that, but other sites.  A lot of the men are better looking than my husband was, sure, but no one has treated me as well as he did on the first few dates.  He picked me up, took me ice skating (neither of us knew how to skate actually), held my hand, and called the next day.  He was an absolute gentleman and I just...haven't met a whole lot of gentlemen, I guess.  I know no one's going to be exactly like he was, but it is disappointing when a guy suggests his apartment as a first date location or I receive a dick pic (Seriously?  I'm a grown woman, what is this?).  Paid sites have been slightly more promising, but I guess I'm just too old fashioned for a lot of those guys.  

Don't get me wrong, there have been a few I've liked, but I don't think I've felt mutual attraction at all, it's always unreciprocated on one end.  I'm not a bad looking woman, no beauty queen or anything.  I have no children (husband and I were planning to try for them when he passed away).  Is it possible my expectations are way too high?  How do I approach dating in a more constructive manner?
<bot>: Widowed 6 years ago, got back into dating game 2 years ago.  No mutual attraction, and miss how gentlemanly my husband was.