<human>: Hey everyone. I'm 20 years old and have been in a steady relationship with my girlfriend, who is 21, for four years. Things are really good and I feel really happy with her. However, we always do the same stuff, eat at the same places, and spend a lot of time just sitting at home and watching Netflix. We don't have much time to spend together because we both work and go to school, but the time we do spend together I want to spend it on newer things to keep the relationship good.

I guess the problem stems from me being a very anxious and shy person, I can be outgoing when I need to be, but new things make me very nervous. However, every time we do something new I always feel like it's a good experience and helps me break out of my shell. My girlfriend, who is a very outgoing person, loves doing new things but cares about me and understands that sometimes I may not be comfortable doing something outside of my normal routine. I love her for that, but don't want her to restrict herself because of me. So what should I do? I don't want her to feel bored at all in the relationship, but sometimes I'll get bad bouts with anxiety and puts me in a shitty mood all night. I hate being like this! Luckily I have a very understanding girlfriend who cares and tries to help me, but I know it'll only be so long before she can't take it anymore.

I guess the question is, how should I get through my anxiety to keep the relationship healthy and new?

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<bot>: Girlfriend and I have been together for four years, I have anxiety, want to keep relationship fresh by doing new things