<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

Hey Reddit, thanks for clicking. As the title states, my girlfriend refuses to compromise on anything in fear of regretting choices in the future. Admittedly, a lot of this is due to my personal issues with things she does. I feel compromise is likely the most important thing in a relationship, people are different and compromising is how those different views will work together. 

This mostly correlates to her Love for raves and parties while I absolutely hate them and get uncomfortable with the fact that she goes to them. I've gone to a few and the general atmosphere every time is a bunch of people getting fucked up via drugs or alcohol and/or looking to find someone to fuck. My girlfriend disagrees as she meets people there and it allows her to step out of her comfort zone. What makes it even worse is she's in contact with one guy she met at a 3 day festival and is obviously flirting with her while she denies it.

It's becoming a major issue in our relationship as she keeps wanting to go to more and more and having recently turned 21 wants to start clubbing and the like. I don't know how to deal with this and she won't compromise on anything. In fact, she thinks it's unfair that I even ask, which I've never done.

I need some help with this.
<bot>: my girlfriend refuses to compromise because she's her own person and doesn't want a boyfriend to dictate what she does. I use raves/festivals as an example.