<human>: Hi Reddit! I would love it if you could share your wisdom with us.

My boyfriend and I are both Aerospace Engineering transfer students who are right in the thick of classes. In addition to both of us not having an easy major, we're extra buried with me being involved in outside activities and him processing information slower than most due to reaping the benefits of having been to Iraq with the Marines and getting to meet some of the not-so-friendly locals.

We're both barely holding on in school, but sometimes the relationship is hurtful to our studies, which we both agreed were our priorities before getting into the relationship. While it would be easy to say just break it off, we're both very happy with each other and are very willing to do what we can to stay together but still do well in school. We agree we need to work more like a team, but just don't know how. If anyone has been through something similar we'd love any advice on how to form a better team dynamic between the two of us so we can get the best of both worlds. I seriously believe that it is possible to have both, and would love and appreciate any helpful advice you can share!

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: bf and I are buried with schoolwork and it's causing a great deal of stress on a perfectly healthy and happy relationship. How do we better work as a team to help each other and not cause each other extra unnecessary stress?