<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

So I've been talking to this guy on Tinder for a day or two ans we're meeting up at a bar near his house tonight.

I'm kind of in a weird place where I do really want a relationship but I am also DTF if I don't click with someone on a date personality-wise but I think he's cute.

But i'm conflicted if I should bang this guy or not. He's not the best texter and idk how this date is gonna go. When we text, he doesn't really ask many questions about me and I feel like the conversation is not very balanced. That could be because he's a bad texter but i'm not really feeling any sparks at the moment.

So what should I do? TMI but i'm super horny and masterbating just hasn't been cutting it lately. I want to have sex but I've been humped-and-dumped quite a bit and want to try a new approach by waiting. But I also want sex.

Then again, I dont want to miss out on sex with a hot guy if there isn't any chemistry on the date and he never hits me up after the date.

What do u suggest? See how the date goes and if i dont feel chemistry, fuck him? But then what if it's the kind of relationship where it's not instantaneous? This is all so risky lol
<bot>: Should I hookup on the first date if i'm not feeling any sparks and want to have sex or nah?