<human>: Hey guys, this may be long, but I hope it's interesting enough.

Backstory: I have a cousin who I've been good friends with for over 10 years. She would describe herself as a strong advocate for feminism and she believes every guy is after sex. We would always provide advice for each other with whatever was going on in life and have had a deep friendship, but now I have to come to /r/Advice regarding her.

Over time, I realized the effort I put in the relationship wasn't equal to the amount of effort she put in. She would decline every invitation I gave, the only time we'd hang out would be on days where we would do the things she wanted to do, and I would have to drive over to her. I wanted her to put more effort into the relationship.

About 6 months ago I talked to her about this, and she became extremely defensive, bringing up instances over 3 years ago where she put a lot of effort. From there, the ball rolled downhill and she started implying that I was needy for asking. The argument reached it's ultimatum when she compared my request to that of a boyfriend's or someone that was sexually attracted to her. It angered me that my request was dismissed as a sexual advance, but I told her that she did not shine in that light and we agreed to drop the argument.

Since that argument happened, I could tell the dynamics of our friendship has changed and she is no longer comfortable around me. We only hang out when another family member is present such as my sister, she no longer asks me for advice, and instead asks my sister while trying to keep it secret from me. In addition, whenever we hang out, I have noticed now she constantly looks down and tries to cover up her chest (even though the wall is more endowed).

This has made me feel extremely upset because it makes me feel like a rapist or something every time we hang out. She completely misunderstood my intentions and has it in her mind that I'm trying to advance on her.

Is this friendship recoverable or should I just stop talking to her? Thanks for all advice, but please keep it civil.

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<bot>: Asked my feminist cousin to put more effort into our friendship, she took it as a sexual advance, it's uncomfortable to talk to each other now.