<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

BACKGROUND

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, I'm 22, he's 26. We have always had an excellent relationship -- best friends, able to talk about anything, rarely fought, and felt very much in love. We were even talking about marriage. A few months ago, I got a job across the country and so we both packed up everything and moved to a new city where we didn't know anyone.

THE ISSUE

Up until that point, I generally managed stuff like paying bills, finding places for us to live, planning fun things to do, staying in touch with friends, etc. because he was busy with work and I had a lot of free time. When we moved, I got REALLY busy with my new job and he had loads of free time so I asked him to start helping me out with those things.

That's when everything got fucked. He tried to find a place for us to live; picked the WORST neighborhood in the city and we were robbed within a week of moving in. Tried to handle paying the bills; late on everything, every month. Tried to meet my new friends from work; ended up making them feel super awkward, and they haven't invited us out again.

All of this is wearing away my trust and respect for him. I can't trust his judgement anymore, and I can't feel good about being with him. Also, I don't want to always do everything just because he can't handle being a mature adult and doing normal life-things.

FAILURE TO COMMUNICATE

I've never had trouble talking to him before, but I cant talk to him about this issue. I tried once, but I couldn't figure out how to say all this without hurting him deeply, so I ended up being kind of incoherent, and I didn't get anywhere.

CAN I FIX THIS?

So what now? How can I talk to him about this? How can we even fix it? I need an outside perspective!
<bot>: Moving to a different city brought out some traits in my boyfriend that are changing my feelings for him, not sure how to fix it and save our relationship.