<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

So as the title states my husbands dad was unexpectedly confirmed to have brain cancer and has months to live. This has happened rapidly in a few weeks time.

I understand why my husband is angry and sad, rightly so. What I don't get is why he is treating me like the enemy. I've been trying my hardest to be a support and sensitive to his needs (he wants space, and someone to yell at basically).

For example, today he told me if I can't support him in the way he needs 'to step aside for someone else', told me what a horrible wife I am for asking 'what are you doin and not how are you doin', ignores me for days at a time even, leaving me to take care of our daughter who is 14 months. 

I stated my concerns and he told me I'm making it about me. But really I just don't want our marriage to go to shit. I suggested grief counseling and he balked and told me he would rather be alone. All of his outbursts have been really hurtful and I've cried constantly. Am I right to feel this way? Am I being too sensitive as he says? 

It's hard to love and support someone who doesn't want it.
<bot>: Has anyone dealt with a spouse losing a parent? How can I support the 'right way'?, Am I out of line to feel hurt by his actions?