<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

My boyfriend and I are completely happy, in love, and openly discuss future plans of marraige and starting a family. We live together as well. We recently moved nearer to his family to save money for a new house and agreed it would be temporary. I have always told him from the beginning that I was looking for marraige, a partner, and a family and he has always agreed that's what he's looking for as well.

Here's the rub - The whole of my family and friends live in Minnesota and I've always planned on moving back there after I finished school. If I start a family and get married I want the support of my family.
Recently my boyfriend and I were talking about having kids in the future and he told me that "moving to Minnesota is not something he's going to do". He's always known this is my goal and that I refuse to have my first child without being near my family. 
To me, this is a deal breaker. How do I go about talking to him about this without flat out giving him an ultinatum? Is it worth it to end the relationship when a move isn't something I want to do until years in the future? What should I do? Help me please!
<bot>: I want to eventually move across the country to Minnesota when I eventually start a family. Boyfriend doesn't want to move. How do I tell him it's a deal breaker and start a conversation democratically?