<human>: Been seeing this girl let's call her Emily for about 3 weeks. We've done dinner a few times and even went a few towns over for a day at the lake. Seems great right?

Wrong. I cannot for the life of me figure this girl out. She seems really into me when we're out and always agrees to do things, but as soon as i'm not physically present it's like I don't exist. Every time we've ever done anything it's been me initiating and at first I just thought she wasn't a texter. However on one of our dates she briefly looked at her phone for the time and must have had at least 4 pending messages. I've even given her a few outs in case she just felt like it was "rude" to say she didn't want to go out, but she always does. Plus all the signs in person make me feel as though she does know these are dates, but I can't seem to get her to take initiative. I feel like I should ask her what she thinks of...whatever we are, but i'm not sure how to ask.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Gone on a few dates with girl. Is always excited to see me and hang out, but when not actively doing something I never hear from her. Should I ask her what she thinks of our relationship and how should I word it?