<human>: My girlfriend gets in these funks where she gets angry often, small issues become big issues quickly, and she stops talking to people. Almost every time she gets into a groove like this she tells me that I am not being romantic enough and that she needs me to show her that I love her.

I am totally willing to try and give her what she needs but she is unwilling to tell me what she needs. Our discussion often leads to me asking her what she needs from me to feel like I love her/what can I do for you to be more romantic.

The conversation always ends with "If I tell you what I want, then that defeats the purpose..." "If you loved me you would know what I need/you would know how to be more romantic."

We are getting to a point that I feel like it is becoming a bigger and bigger issue. I honestly don't know what she wants.

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<bot>: My question is: has anyone else been here and what did you do? Has anyone said this to their SOs and how did it turn out for you/why would you not tell your partnerj what you need?