<human>: I'm afraid that my anxiety issues might be messing up a relationship with a [21F] I have been talking to for a long time. I really like this girl. I'm almost 24 years old and I have never had feelings for someone like this in my entire life. I've never been in a relationship before and I'm still a virgin. She has brought a lot of happiness to my life and has ultimately changed it. I've known her for about 5 months now.

The thing is I don't know her intentions anymore. She has gone back and fourth several times with "I don't think we should see each other", to "I want to keep seeing you" and from "I don't want to date you and take your virginity" to a week later with "I don't want to lose you I want to keep dating you.

This is all because she is afraid of getting hurt in a relationship, as she has had poor break ups in the past. I understand this, but I don't know how to ease her fears and I don't want her to have to worry.

But because of this it has been driving me insane. I do have anxiety issues and I do worry excessively, so all of this back and forth stuff has been frustrating. Frustrating to the point where we are making things difficult for one another. I want this to work but I feel like I am afraid too now, because I don't know where this is going to go.

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<bot>: My anxiety and worrying might ruin a potential relationship because of a girl who has gone back and forth with wanting to be with me because she is afraid of getting hurt again like past relationships.