<human>: I'm engaged to my SO of 6 years and I have already picked a date about a year and a half away and started looking at venues and dresses and things. My parents have been fighting more than usual lately, and my mother is starting act weird. Keeping-secrets weird. The idea that my parents might get divorced in the next year is a very real worry for me right now. My father seems to think that my mom is going through a bad patch right now, and my mother seems to not trust my father and is acting like she might leave him. I can't really get a straight answer out of either of them. When I talk about my wedding plans my dad makes jokes and my mom seems distracted. They fight about finances all the time and with my sister still in college I feel guilty for accepting their offer to help pay for the wedding.

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<bot>: I still want to get married, but maybe this isn't the best time. Has anyone else eloped and then either renewed their vows or had a fancy ceremony later?