<human>: Hey reddit,

My cousins recently lost their father, my uncle, and we attended to the memorial service this past weekend. I realized that I really like my cousins and I'm planning on spending more time with them. They live pretty far away for me to drive (about 3hours 1 way so I plan on taking the train). I can stay at one cousin's house.

Any ideas what to do to help pass the time in a fun way? I know everyone likes board games, so I can bring some with me. However, I'm a bit of a loss as to what to do with my adult cousins and to create a relationship at our age?

I'm a bit socially awkward and so are they, but everyone likes each other. I would like to take them out to dinner and some other fun stuff, but I'm just at a bit of a loss as to what to do for an entire 3-4days.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: How do I have fun with my cousins and what are normal activities to do after a sudden, severe loss? I need some good bonding ideas.