<human>: Am I giving up too easily? I've been with my partner 6 and a half years. For the past year or so, things have been good. However, for a long time early in the relationship, he was abusive. Never hit me, but did various things I find to get past. He shattered a glass next to my face. He slut shamed me for my behavior before our relationship, even though he had slept with way more people but said it was different because he was a guy. He drank a lot and would yell at me until I was a crying heap on the floor. When I didn't want to do certain things in bed because I had previously been assaulted, he told me that he didn't see why he should suffer because some other guy was an asshole. I look back now and cannot BELIEVE I stayed. It was an insanely unhealthy situation and I feel like the person I was then that put up with that is a completely different person. 

But what scares me is that maybe its not. Everything is so much better now. Nothing like that has happened in over two years. But some things said can never be unsaid. I feel so unfair turning to someone who has changed and done everything I asked of them to improve themselves and their life and our relationship and say "Sorry, but turns out it was damaged beyond repair 4 years ago, I just didn't realize it until now". I just cannot imagine standing at an alter and pledging to spend my life with someone who once treated me that way, even if he doesn't do so now. Am I being unreasonable?

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<bot>: Boyfriend was incredibly emotionally abusive. MILES better now, but not sure I can ever trust the relationship or forgive him.