<human>: Last night after dinner, my boyfriend of 3 years sat me down and told me he thinks that I should lose weight.  He said I've been making some unhealthy choices lately and thinks it would be in my best interest to start limiting what I eat and walking more.  I could tell he's been feeling this way for a while, and he took a lot of time to work out how he wanted to tell me.  I simply said 'okay' and agreed to start a healthier lifestyle with him.

I don't think I'm that overweight.  My BMI is a bit higher than it should be, but I'm far from obese.  The recent weight gain has come from losing my job and my dad being sick.  After our talk (which was more like a lecture, since I didn't say much in response), the hurt started to seep in and I started feeling resentment for him judging me.  Is this warranted?

He's not the picture of health either - enjoys drinking beer, and has a "dad bod" as people these days call it.  He says he'll work on it with me but I still felt a little attacked.  I've noticed his eyes lingering on my gut more lately, or him squeezing the extra fat on my arm when we're snuggling.  Shouldn't your boyfriend make you feel sexy no matter what?  I've always had high body confidence and found myself beautiful.  Never has a guy made me question that until now.  I love him to pieces and could see myself marrying him and starting a family, which makes this situation worse.  It's the one thing he's done that directly hurt me.  He just doesn't know I'm feeling hurt yet.  How do I address this with him?

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<bot>: My boyfriend of 3 years told me I'm getting fat, which really shook my high self esteem.  Should I be upset?