<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

He just got out of a 3 year relationship when we started talking and I was extremely hesitant because I didn't know if he was ready to date again, but he reassured me time and time again that he has no feelings for her and the breakup was mutual so he's not upset about it anymore.

I'm okay with taking things slow, but I don't know if he's not making things official because he doesn't want to hurt his ex by getting into another relationship so quickly because he still cares for her, or if maybe he's just not ready or it's me. A part of me wants to continue to see him because we've both expressed how much we enjoy and like each other, but it's weird for me because I've never had to wait this long for a guy to say he wants to be my bf. It kind of makes me feel like he doesn't like me enough or something. 

I dunno. Advice?
<bot>: Talking to a guy for 3 months, but he's not my bf even though we're not seeing other people. Should I just go with the flow?