<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

I've been with my boyfriend (let's call him J) for about 5 months, not very long. We get along great and have had hardly any issues, when we were in school there was a mutual friend of ours (closer to me) who we'll call H (m18). H started to develop feelings for me a couple months ago and J told me. H never told me directly but I got hints because he would flirt a lot and I let him know that J and I were not comfortable with this and I just wanted to remain friends. H got mad at J because he was jealous and they havent really been friends since. H is still my friend so I wanted to hang with him like I do my other friends but I always got the feeling that J wouldnt feel comfortable with this. I told J today that I wanted to hang with H because we were still friends and that I understood if he wasnt comfortable with me doing this and that if he wasnt I wouldnt go. He responded in text saying to go ahead and when I asked if he was sure he just replied "ya". So what im asking you all is if me hanging with H sounds like its unreasonable considering the past even though I dont return his feelings and if this would be and issue if you were in J's place.
<bot>: I want to hang with a friend who used to have feelings for me but I dont know if this would be an issue with my boyfriend even though I asked permission. I dont want to unitentionally have him upset with me.