<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

My mother has some mental issues, such as depression and is extremely childish.

My father knows about her social/mental difficulties and the problem is that he doesn't do anything to help her grow up: he just do everything she wants. In other words, she became a "spoiled" mother.

My bigger problem with her is that she is constantly spying on me when I go talk with my dad.
It's insane: when she is watching TV and I am on the kitchen with my dad, I start to talk to him and she immediately turns the sound of the TV off just to hear our conversation.
As long as our conversation ends, she turns on the TV sound again.
This confuses me a lot, and when I try to speak with her about it, she never admits it and gets very angry about me questioning her behavior.

My father knows that she doesn't like when we are alone talking or just on the same room without her.
The result is that he is always distant and we NEVER got a normal father-daughter relationship.
He is always cold and distant, because he knows this is the best for their marriage.
Unnecessary to say that this hurts me a lot.

This is just one of the many, many situations I am constantly passing with my mother spying on us.

I just want to clarify that as my mother, I love and respect her very much, but I am very sad about all this situation.
I wish I could help her out, but ANYTHING I say to her, she takes as criticism and get very angry and upset (thanks to her childish and proud behavior).

This is starting to really freak me out, and I would like to have some help from you, please.
<bot>: Mother is always spying on daughter and father conversations due to her insanely jealous, and never admits it. When daughter tries to help her out, she became furious and always ends up in a fight.