<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

I have been working abroad for the past two years, and met my boyfriend a year and a half ago. We began exclusively dating around four months after that.

My boyfriend and I have had a tumultuous relationship to say the least, mostly due to issues on his side. We had a break in March, and although we resolved the problem, I haven't updated my family and they are unaware we are back together. Our relationship is heading into the long-term, we are planning our futures around each other, and we believe we have worked through everything that was holding us back in the beginning. 

My boyfriend had to return home (we are from the same country) for surgery and a friend's wedding, and we are going to be long distance for 2 months. We're 2 weeks in and its going well so far. 

We had a casual discussion about spending a few days together on a mini holiday within the country before I see my family. We haven't made any plans but he didn't think I should tell them. 

My family have no idea when or even that I am returning, but I don't know if they would expect me to make them a priority. The last thing I want to do is upset my family, however I have always been very independent and in fact, haven't really felt homesick since being away.

I am not a very good liar, I think it is very likely the truth will slip out through facts not matching up or I make reference to a place they all know I haven't (as far as they know) visited before. I also can't decide if this would be a white lie (or omission), or deceit. 

Am I being a bad daughter? I know I am free to do as I please but I don't want to upset them. I also think I'm a bit young to have a realistic perspective on this..
<bot>: I want to visit my boyfriend (long distance 2 months, together 1 year total) before I see my family. Is that very bad?