<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

Essentially, I'm not happy in the relationship, I don't feel like I receive the emotional support I need, and have lost all physical attraction to my husband. I still care about him, but I don't really love him anymore. He's increasingly grumpy because I don't put out as much, which makes me even less interested in sex. Whenever the disconnect in our relationship is discussed, it culminates into him talking about what a failure he would be if we divorced, what would we do to the house, blahblahblah, and I feel guilted into working harder on the relationship. My efforts to have a conversation are stonewalled. I moved out for a couple weeks at one point, and ended up coming home on the terms that he would seek out counseling for his dependency issues. This has not happened. I'm frustrated and at a loss.
<bot>: My husband and I are not meeting each others needs, yet he doesn't want to break up. Don't know what to do.