<human>: I guess I need to start off by saying that I live in Wisconsin where weed is very much illegal. My boyfriend and I have a baby girl due in January and for his job security he has given up smoking and has been clean since around March of this year.

Here is the issue: My boyfriend seems to resent me because I don't want to risk it by having weed back in our lives. I understand it is difficult to give up something that you enjoy. I have made many sacrifices being pregnant. He constantly brings up how much he misses it and wishes he could smoke again. 

Meanwhile, he is trying to find a better job and pretty much any good place around here will drug test. Also, where we live has a strict "no drugs" policy. So, if he were to get caught, he would lose his job, we would be evicted and he would have the charges on his record. 

As a first time mother I definitely feel that the negatives outweigh the positives in this situation. He doesn't seem to understand and he says that I am "not letting him be himself". If weed were legal, I wouldn't be as uptight about it. But the reality of the situation is that weed is NOT legal in our state and too much is on the line. Every time we try to talk about it, he just gets mad at me and shuts down... I don't know what else to do. Does anyone have any constructive advice for me?

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<bot>: My boyfriend resents me for not wanting weed in our lives with a new baby in the picture. Too much is on the line with it not being legalized in our state.