<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

My wife (F/33) and I (M/28) have been together for 6 years, married for 3 and are expecting our first child (a boy) November 14th.  She is experiencing typical third trimester suffering.  Her legs and feet are swelling and she can't get comfortable.  She wakes every 45 minutes to pee at night, and is EXTREMELY irritable.  Everything I do or say pisses her off and results in a fight.  She only gained 37lbs - but her stomach is gigantic.  Her feet are constantly in pain.  

She is always telling me that I'm not proactive enough.  I wait for her to ask for something like a foot rub.  Truth is - I never know what she wants.  She mentioned some kind of Boppy-for-Mommy pillow (that I plan on buying today) to make sitting more comfortable.  I try and do as much as I can around the house - but its merely general things, not pregnant-relief-specific things.

Additionally, she accuses me of being selfish.  I spend too much time looking at material things on the internet (computer parts, guitars, Reddit) at work instead of reading about what to do with the baby when he arrives.  **This is 100% accurate.**  Any reading suggestions?  Any suggestions at all?  PLEASE, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD AND ALL THAT IS HOLY!!!
<bot>: 8mo Pregnant wife is very irritable, I don't know what to do to help, need pampering suggestions + reading suggestions about baby stuff.*