<human>: Okay, I've posted on this account the general story of the breakup already. In short, she ended it because she realised she needed to be single for a long time (after our first argument). I was accepting of it, what proceeded was 2 months of cold shoulder and verbal abuse/aggression from her. Then she gradually became more comfortable with me over the next month or two (close to what we used to be like). To my knowledge she isn't dating anyone. 

I guess my overall question, and this will also be a general question. Is it possible for the dumper to go through this aggressive phase, then a touching/testing water phase (as I shall name it) and then hold these feelings and want to get back together. Or is it more often that she has moved on and does not have this interest anymore

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: As the dumper, does that person ever go through the aggressive phase then calm down and still want to get back together? (Anyone with actual experience in this situation, could you provide your story?)