<human>: Dating for 3 years.  We would both not approve of the other going to a strip club, and we are both completely satisfied with such limitations.  But now that one of her friends is getting married, I'm supposed to automatically be ok with the wild bachelorette party she will be going to?  How is that fair to me?  I trust her, but in the presence of alcohol and peer pressure, mistakes can be made.  I know she wouldn't like me getting a lapdance.  But again, I'm supposed to be just dandy with her possibly getting one because it's a wedding?  How do I approach this?

I didn't post this to be scolded on my standards of monogamy.  So please don't tell me to lighten up my views.  Like I said, we both have similar expectations of the other.

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<bot>: I don't like that fact that a bachelorette party is taking my relationship out of my comfort zone, and I have to just accept it "because wedding".