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Especially if they are really nasty. We are helping them, they require people too. But with things like rules and whatever it feel really stupid. It make it seems like we are the one begging to want to help, which i am like what sense is this making?? If you are good enough to help those in need the last thing that should be the case is playing by their rule and not yours. If i were to receive help the last thing i will do is set conditions and if anything i would thank the person instead. There are some rules i am told my parents are following blindly at work too, and everytime i try to probe they said to just follow without asking.
<bot>: playing by the rule of people who we are helping is nonsensical and I don't think it should be the case. Think of a person helping you when in need and how you would treat/repay him for being grateful.