<human>: Myself (m/22) and my girlfriend (f/22) have been in a relationship for almost 3 months, but we were friends for a couple of years before this.

Recently she has been very distant from me, we used to text and talk all the time, but recently we go days without texting or talking and when we do it just doesn't seem to flow like it used to. A few days ago, she left town for a couple of weeks to go visit her parents, I text her yesterday and got no reply, so I'm thinking I may text her in a bit and say that I'm going to distance myself from her while she is away, I'll say I want to be with her and I'll make it clear I'm not breaking up with her but I just feel like she wants some space.

My question is, is this likely to make things worse or does it seem like a fair way to try and save our relationship. I fear that if we do end up breaking up that I will not only lose my girlfriend but also my friend cause I feel so strongly for her that I'm not sure I could ever be happy as 'just' her friend again

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: 3 months relationship, she got distant, she's away and I'm thinking of telling her I'm going to distance myself from her while she's away, is this fair?