<human>: My gf (age 23) and I (age 25) have been together for about 6 months.  However, she just got frustrated that she feels like we are losing our chemistry and things aren't exciting anymore.  She says she loves me more than anyone she's ever been with, but is afraid that maybe we just aren't meant for each other.  I'm the first serious relationship she has had, so I think it may be she isn't used to getting past the exciting, flashy beginning part of a relationship.  She recently had a connection with another guy, and was tempted to cheat on me, but didn't and told me about it immediately, and felt absolutely terrible.  I feel like that connection is still in her psyche and has driven her to missing the excitement of a new relationship.  She's smart enough to realize that those connections aren't a real basis for a relationship, and she knows I am much more than that.  But how do I help her cope with missing that excitement?  I can't keep it enthralling all the time, and we are long distance, so it makes that especially hard.  She says she's very torn because I am not her usual "type" which she is trying to get away with because her usual "type" is not good for her.  So she's struggling to go back to the one night stands and getting affirmation from instant connections with random guys.  It's pretty damaging to my self esteem, too, and has made me think that maybe she is right and we aren't right for each other.  I don't know what to do.

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<bot>: My gf doesn't feel like we have a connection anymore and I don't know if it's because she's not used to serious relationships, and I don't know how to deal with it.