<human>: I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 3 years now, and we have been good friends for years before that. A couple months ago, I caught him snooping through my texts while I was in the shower looking through messages I had with a guy friend. I was pretty upset about him breaking my trust and privacy like that, because I've never given him any reason to think I would cheat on him. I would NEVER. Yet he lied straight to my face about it and eventually fessed up.

About a month after that, I caught him again and yet again, he lied. He has a problem owning up to doing me wrong at first, and will lie about when I beg him to tell me the truth because I am not stupid and he knows that I know when he is lying. I told him he needed to gain my trust back because snooping is not cool at all, but lying about it after getting caught almost hurts more. Earlier this week, I saw that he was looking at my messages with a guy friend AGAIN, because he thinks that every guy is out to get me. But I know that I'm allowed to have guy friends and like always, there was nothing to hide in the messages. I am still hurt, though.

My main issue here, is what to do about him breaking my trust by looking through my messages. I never wanted to be "that couple" where I would not let him know any of my passwords and seem like I'm hiding something, because there is nothing to hide. I do feel, however, that I've reached my breaking point. I told him that he needed to show me that he could gain back my trust again, yet he keeps snooping, and keeps lying about it when I know I'll get the truth later on.

I'm at a loss, and I don't know what to do. I've tried talking through everything before, and clearly it is not working. It does not make me feel like I need to break up with him, but I will not stand for this anymore. Thanks for your help.

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<bot>: Caught my bf snooping through my texts multiple times, he's lied to my face at first about it every time, and talking to him about how I feel is obviously not doing a damn thing.