<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

Hi everyone, i just need some advice.

I'm [16/m] and I had a casual hookup/make-out session thing with a [16/f] I'd known since I was 7 and had been talking to nearly everyday for a solid 2 years. After the first few times i thought "yeah this is great not gonna commit, all is good". Wrong. About 3 weeks ago I realized I'd fallen in love with her and consulted it with her, she admitted she'd been there for a while. I then asked her out a week ago, and she said yes, I was over the moon. But something wasn't right. About a week later she said we needed to talk about it, and we did, and she said the moment she accepted my offer, everything just disappeared. We agreed to go back to the casual stuff and see where it led.

Fast forward 2 days and I get another message from her saying she wants it all to stop. At this stage I'm on a school camp and can't even try to sneak out to see her so I panic and try talk her out of it. Since then her ideas have changed about 12 times from "nothing at all" to "phasing it all out" to "go with what we had before". I've asked her to try, but I get the feeling she isn't, and she knows me better than anyone. I'm a really straight-forward person and take stuff really literally, so in my head, she hasn't said anything along the lines of "We're breaking up" which to me means we are still together. We're talking like we always have been, that's not an issue, but I don't think I've cried that much in 10 years over an issue that's never phased me before.

We're still going out to watch movies together etc., just not the intimacy that it was and I just feel there's a huge fucking hole in my heart because there is no way i can just move on whilst we're still talking.

The question I'm asking is, How do I get her back?

Thanks
<bot>: Had a thing with a girl, asked her out, she said yes, but all her feelings lifted, I'm a heartbroken sobbing mess, she's fine