<human>: Quick back story. Been married a little over a year. The marriage is practically in the shitter. My wife says she is not "in love with me" but still loves me (the first part that confuses me). We have been through a really hard year and 3 weeks ago she told me she had to think about if she wanted to continue our marriage. 

She decided she wanted to stay and says she is committed to working on us and getting better.

The problems: We are miles apart emotionally, fight regularly, never have sex (more difficult for a dude than a woman), and I honestly don't trust her (in that I feel she will leave any time it gets too hard).

I'm not willing to give up, and the reason I am on here is I am trying everything. Redditors, have any of you been in the same boat, and if so how did you rekindle your marriage? How did you bring passion back?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Marriage is on the rocks, seeking advice on steps to take to bring it back, tips, things that have worked for you.