<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

It's a constant issue that comes up on a regular basis but nothing ever seems to change. I need help on how to change things or how to learn to live with this. I feel like I have to pull all of the weight when it comes to us spending time together, both as a couple and as a family. 

If I'm not the one making suggestions on things to do, and getting us out the door, nothing ever happens and an entire day is spent at home on tablets/front of the TV. I'm a homebody myself and on weekdays, and even lots of the weekends, that's perfectly fine. But I feel it would literally be ALL the time if I wasn't the one pulling us out the door. He's a teacher and I'm a stay at home parent, so we have a lot of free time, especially now when it is summer, but it gets wasted away on nothing unless I'm the one putting in the work!

Anyway, he disagrees. He seems to think it's equal and simply not true but honestly I can not remember a single outing he arranged. Well, except maybe way back before we lived together and we were still in the dating phase. But now? No. He might make a rare suggestion like; "hey, this place looks like it would be fun to take kiddo" but I can't think of a single time he followed up on anything and actually made concrete plans to get us there. 

Even when we do have concrete plans (that I arranged, obvs) it drives me nuts how I either just suck it up and do everthing myself and he literally just tags along, or I have to guide him and keep asking him to do things every step of the way so we can get going. "Walk the dog while I put sunscreen on kiddo", "Check if diaper bag needs to be restocked while I change the diaper" etc. etc. etc. 

Argh!
<bot>: I don't know how to change this annoying pattern of him approaching family and couple time, out of the home, so passively and me feeling exhausted and completely  taken for granted.