<human>: We have been together for 1,5 years and have a wonderful relationship. We've had our bumps in the past but since November last year our love and commitment grown even stronger and we've also moved in together. I think we both feel that this could last a long time. We love each other so much.

Both of us wants to study in another city, especially my partner. She wants to start new, get to know new people and focus on her studies. She doesn't have that much of commitment in our current city, like work or free time activities. Me on the other hand, I am involved with studies right know and work within an organisation, and I am supposed to work there until March 2014. 

**I feel torn apart about the thought of living so far away from each other. I love living together and my partner means the world to me. Earlier this year she moved away for a couple of weeks and I survived, managed to do really good and liked the life I lived by my own. But now I am also afraid that she will find new people in her life, change her life style, fall in love with someone else or just realise she doesn't want to be with me anymore.**

What feels worst is that I'm really upset about the fact that she is moving in four months from now. I feel like my anxiety is causing problems in our relationship and that is heartbreaking, I want to have a muture discussion and not feeling wounded (yet). The knowledge of her moving away, probably without me is hurting so much and I can't really focus on all the wonderful things that we share.

It would'nt be impossible for me to commute between cities, though they are sex hours apart. I also find some courses that I'd like to study, but I just feel like the timing is really bad. We planned to get another apartment here, in this city and study here until next year and then we'd probably move to the other city. 
So Reddit, how do I handle this?

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<bot>: My partner of 1,5 years is probably moving 6 hours away in four months, with me staying here. The knowledge of her moving tears my apart and causing troubles in our relationship..