<human>: We've been together a long time, most of all of it has been a great time. She's a great wife, takes care of me, house, dogs, and works full time. I work full time and have a side job, but we find time to be together. 

My wife's sister is getting married in the fall (Sister A) younger sister (sister B) is organizing the bachelorette party and has come up with a trip to a male strip club being part of the activities. I found out by my wife telling me about B being the one organizing activities, I jokingly said "Wonder if there's going to be a strip club involved", my wife said, well yeah, she wants to go to one. I said, "I don't think that I'd be comfortable with you going to one of those places." She then said, "Well, then I"m going to be put in a hard place as I'll have to tell sister B why I am not going" Wife asked me to not put her in that place. So I said, well, I don't want it to be an issue, if you want to go, then go, I didn't want to sound insecure. Or limit her freedom. I love her, I don't think she'd cheat on me with some random dude, but she's a married woman and I don't feel that it is appropriate for her to be in such an establishment. I wouldn't go to a female strip club. I went to one when I was 18 and it was just not my cup of tea. 

She has since told me that she said to her sisters that she might just sit out the strip club. Also, I will be in town with her on those nights, she'll be staying with me, she even said that I could pick her up from the club if she decided to go with them. So far I've said that I guess I'm okay with it, basically doormated, and i'm not trying to think about it. I guess my main question is, is this just insecurity?

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: wife's sister getting married, male strip club has been arranged, wife asked me but I was only allowed to give one answer