<human>: Ok reddit. Let's get one thing straight. I LOVE sex. My ex boyfriend and I used to have loud, dirty, marathons that would've made Jenna Jameson proud. Any position, any time of day...

My new boyfriend is the exact opposite. His idea of sex is kissing, missionary for maybe two minutes... and then done. The first few times we slept together, he came incredibly quick (he's not a virgin, so that's not an excuse). And it hasn't improved since then... all our romps in the hay are less than 5 minutes.

We seem to be incompatible in bed. He owns his own place, so I was glad that I didn't have to keep quiet, but the second I started getting loud he pulled away. Once, I tried to do a position OTHER than missionary, but he didn't really feel up to that idea. And he's downright refused a blowjob once, which seems sacrilegious. So what am I to do with this guy?

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: my boyfriend doesn't last long in bed and doesn't seem to want sex. how can I approach this subject without insulting his manhood?