<human>: Some context:  I'm a 27F and my parter is a 27M- we've been together for 8 years, no kids.  I love him very much, and I know he loves me.  We both work, but he makes much more money than I do.

We both enjoy playing video games, but he plays CONSTANTLY, literally, from the moment he gets home from work to the time he goes to bed.  This leaves me to do all the cleaning, cooking, shopping, laundry, etc.  I get home from work after he does, and I have lately been getting the impression that he has been lying about walking the dog after work (although I can't prove it, but when I let the dog out later he acts like it's been a long time).  

This has been interfering with our sex life, as I'm less and less attracted to him watching him spend his life on the couch.  When we go to bed he tries to get frisky, and then angry when I try to find a reason not to get busy with him.  

The issue is, it is very difficult to bring this up with him.  He gets extremely defensive whenever he feels even remotely threatened, so when I bring up my concerns he goes on the attack, sometime to the point of calling me names.

What makes this problem worse is that he makes most of the money, so I don't mind doing most of the housework, but it irks me how it's fallen on me to do everything.

Again, I love my partner and would like to stay in my relationship, but lately I've been feeling like I don't want to be his maid and watch him play video games for the rest of my life.  My question is: how do I bring up my concerns without him getting angry?  As he does pay for most of our things, should I care less about being the only one to cook and clean?  Or, is it time to cut my losses and leave?  Share your wisdom, Reddit!

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<bot>: Boyfriend brings home the bacon but plays video games and does nothing else at home. I'm getting tired of watching him spend his life on the couch while I cook and clean.