<human>: My boyfriend of ten months is upset that I won't introduce him to my friends. There are a couple reasons for this.

First, I don't have a defined "friend group". Most of my friends live in different states or countries. The closest ones are an hour away, and they're very busy - med school, weekend shifts, etc. My point is that seeing my friends is precious one-on-one time. The only group events I attend are my ex's friends' reunions. They invite me, but they're not my friends. So, in general, my SOs don't meet my friends.

Because meeting them is super important to my boyfriend, I've realized I *am* kind of embarrassed by him. I thought he was cute and fun when I met him, but over the last 10 months he got comfortable and gained ~50 pounds. It's not a medical condition, it's a bad diet of no exercise and constant fast food. He gets too tired to even have missionary sex. He went shopping recently for a rave, and now wears his rave clothes constantly because they're the only things that actually fit him. These are things like black shorts with neon stripes. A friend of his laughed when she saw him and snap chatted him "looking like a gangster". He also picked up smoking behind my back, and grew from a social smoker to several a day. He smells and I hate it.

Overall, if I met him now I would never consider dating him. But I'm in love with him, I just don't want to introduce him until he's back to his early-relationship self. Am I being awful? On his side, he has a very defined friend group that all live in the same city and throw group events constantly. It's been easy for him to include me, and we hang out with them often.

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<bot>: I haven't introduced my boyfriend to my friends, partly because I rarely see them and partly because he's become really unattractive.