<human>: My ex and I broke up a month ago after being in a relationship for a few years. She quickly joined my group of mutual friends who I would consider my best friends. They all loved her and would always hang out and play video games with her.

Well after the break up, I was going through a really tough and depressing time and they all knew that. 

At first they would listen to me vent and try to see me a bunch. All of a sudden I realize that they are taking her side and kind of giving me the cold shoulder.

 Every time I ask when they want to hang out or something they would say they have to do homework or they are too exhausted at work. 

I was suppose to go to them to this meet up this weekend and now they said I shouldn't go because they are going with my ex instead.

Same goes for this vacation we planned in the summer, apparently I cant go anymore because my ex is going according to them.

I am really introverted and I do college strictly online so it is kinda hard to make friends and let them in especially when they are all my closest friends. Now I feel like they are giving me the cold shoulder and would rather just hang out with her.

I don't know what I am really trying to ask here, but has anyone else been in this situation? How do you deal with it? I don't want to stress them out with the break up and have them choose sides and I find it really hard to be alone through this break up and forced to find new friends which is already hard for me to do. 

I am ok with them to be friends with both of us but I don't like that I am being treated like I am not important to them and having them turn their back on me.

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<bot>: Broke up with ex, same circle of friends. They are choosing to hang out with her and give me the could shoulder.