<human>: Hey guys.. having a really hard time. 

Im accepting the fact that I may never be with the girl that I absolutely fell in love with. (F21)

I wasn't assertive enough. I'm not her type.

While I still feel like all of this stuff that prevents her from feeling anything more than friends can be changed through the practice of actions, -meaning that she can feel differently when I've mastered how to be assertive and get myself under control/figure out who I am-. 

I know that no amount of talking about it will change how she feels.. and I know that I need to move on. But I dont want to give up on her because I feel like im never going to stop loving her. But I strongly feel like im not the one for her right now.

I am changing the "nice guy" thing. I made another post about that.

My big question is, what is my type and why do I feel like im wrong all the time? Every time I feel I find my "type" im not their "type".

 im heart broken and I have so many open ended questions. Nothing to believe in, and my feelings constantly bother me because I don't want to give up on her but I want to change to better myself and hopefully she'll change her feelings for me..but I can't rely on it.

Its hard to explain. I just want to keep myself open for her if she changes but im not going ti chase so closely.

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<bot>: hard feelings, possibilities are weighing too much, is my type not my type?  And giving up vs moving on for possibilities.