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Long story short, my FH and I are an international couple in the process of getting our K1 visa. It's been sent to California and we're patiently waiting for our NOA2. 

In the meantime, my mother and I have found a venue that'll suit approximately 50 guests, can work with us on short notice, accommodate our weird allergies and its within our budget. FH and I have come up with some cute ideas for our first dance and we will be preparing a playlist in the upcoming months. 

Now to my FMIL. She's on benefits and refuses to even try to get a job. FFIL works a well enough job and the two are separated but live in the same household. My FSILs either can't afford to come due to lack of enough work hours or they don't want to leave their husband and kid behind which we aren't asking them to do. We both want them there but they have made no attempts to even try to save. I had a discussion about the wedding with his mom and just kept getting one word answers. Considering my FH has less hours than anyone, he's been able to save the money he needs to so he can afford things, it's not impossible for them to do the same. 

If none of them can come (or be bothered to rather) we do plan on face timing or skyping them during the ceremony so they can still be a part of the wedding but I honestly don't know if they'd be interested in that. 

I love his family but I don't think that they realize that this'll be the last time that they'll see him for a long while due to plane prices and other contributing factors. If they do realize it, then they just don't care. I do understand that they may not be able to come to the wedding and in the long run, if they can't, then we will accept it for what it is but we'd at least like to try and sit them all down to talk about it and get a definite yes or no instead of just a maybe but we don't know how to talk to them about it without anyone moaning about it.
<bot>: Want to include FHs family in the wedding and hope that they'll be there but they pussyfoot around everything instead of just coming out with how they really feel.