<human>: We're set up in Feb, there's insane chemistry. We're both 25. He comes over weekly after this. We make out like crazy but he won't have sex, says we should take it slow and not rush things. I knew he didn't have the biggest sexual repitoire (neither do I, I've literally dated 3 people in my life, only slept with 2) and I was fine with that.

I start worrying because he isn't initiating contact, I'm the one that's forced to do that. The friend that sets us up claims it is because he is too nice and shy to be aggressive, but that he knows he's really into me.

I message him asking what's going on between the two of us so that I don't obsess about it. He says he likes me but doesn't "see a relationship developing." Thus says we should slow down and re-evaluate.

I don't need to be told twice, I quit contacting him the first week of April.

Fast forward to the first week of May. He sees me in public and is stuck to me like glue. Sends me a message that night. The next day we're at a party together, and he kisses me. I ask why he did that when he called things off/didn't see a relationship with me.

He says he likes me, but that he needs to get his life together with his job/school and whatnot. He kisses me more but doesn't initiate any sex acts.

He again isn't initiating the contact after those events. I wait a week, even. I finally send him a message asking if he'd like to start coming over and hanging out again, he responds saying he doesn't think that is a good idea.

A little tired of the BS, I tell him that's fine and that I'll still be his friend, but that I don't want him kissing me if he isn't going to be following through on things because I don't "hook up" randomly or without meaning and he's confusing me.

Instead of responding directly, he immediately posts emo (though actually good) songs to FB, with passive aggressive messages about "I could love you like you need, please don't give up on me."

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<bot>: I'm crazy about a guy that's supposedly really into me. He doesn't initiate contact OR sex but still kisses me whenever near me. What, the actual fuck, is going on here?