<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Hello!

I've been with my SO for about three years now and we've been living together for about two and a half years.

When we've met, we were both in college and broke. Shortly afterwards (about one month), I was lucky enough to find a full time job that allowed me some flexibility with my timetable, so I was able to both work and go to courses. It wasn't very pleasant (12+ hours of work+uni per day + some weekends), so I did not expect her to do the same. After a few months I got a raise and we could afford to move in together. I was happy with how things were going.

After I finished my BSc I chose not to follow a master's degree, while she did. Again, this was my choice, and I was okay with it.

About a year ago she got her master's degree and got a part time job (4hrs/day).

My dissatisfaction lies in the fact that, throughout our staying together, the house was always a mess. I was okay with this while she was studying, but it's starting to get really annoying lately.

My logic is that, as long as I've been working at least twice the hours she was (including now; I'm pulling 10/day while she's doing 4/day) and I've **never** asked her to chip in for the rent/utilities (since she isn't paid much), I would like her to take care of cleaning up the house and doing the laundry. That's it, not cooking or anything else, just keeping an apartment clean.

We've talked about this lately, and she always gets upset when I mention the issue. She keeps suggesting that she'd like us both to do things around the house in an equal proportion. I find that grossly unfair, given the situation.

It seems like we can't reach a conclusion. Things started to get a *little* better since I started the talks (i.e. she does a bit more laundry), but the place still looks like a shithole.

Am I in the wrong to ask this of her? How should I approach this situation to get better results?
<bot>: Living with my SO. Working more than double the hours and paying all the bills. She expects us both to do the same amount of housework.