<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

We live about an hour away from her parents. She REALLY loves spending time with her family. (My family is pretty chill about not getting together too often, plus my family is a little older with kids of their own).

So far this summer, we have spent almost every weekend and holiday with her family, including a full week in June. The 4th of July we were together. Just... we are ALWAYS together. She now wants to go 3 hours away to be with another relative + her family for the weekend.

We both work full-time. We have also been battling moving in to our new place we got in May. So free time is precious. And we have stuff to do this weekend.

I feel like we need some alone time. I feel like cultivating your own family is extremely important. And a lot of that requires living together without your family every spare moment you get.

**Two Questions:**

1. Am I too anal about how much time we spend with the in-laws?

2. How can I approach this in the best way possible?

P.S. She's SUPER sensitive.
<bot>: We've spent a lot of time with the in-laws. Almost every week this month and a whole week in June. Is that too much?