<human>: Hi, so this is the first time I've posted here. I started seeing this guy a couple months ago and I really like him.  He is not in the best shape (he has a beer gut b/c he drinks a lot of beer) and does not really work out, but he is a nice guy.  We've started to hang out a lot and so I've started to notice some things about his health that are concerning. To keep it short, I am pretty certain that he is a diabetic.  My mom is a diabetic and had uncontrolled diabetes for awhile so I am familiar with the symptoms.

He: (1) gets "cotton mouth" after eating/drinking a lot of carbs and then drinks tons of water, (2) frequently urinates + there is foam in his pee (which I noticed because it leaves residue after he flushes - a sign of kidney failure), (3) he literally soaks the sheets with his sweat at night, a sign of kidney failure.  

I have tried to address the topic with him nicely by asking if has been to the doctor for a physical and he said that he doesn't need to go to the doctor because he never gets sick and that he is fine.  I am really concerned.  I truthfully like him, but don't want to date someone who will not take care of themselves and their health.  We are so early in the relationship that I don't want to ruin it by pushim him. Any suggestions?

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<bot>: I am pretty certain my BF is a diabetic and he won't admit it to himself or see help.  What should I do?