<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

Background -

So basically we were together for about 14 months, but she always (even before we got together) expressed a dislike for relationships and feeling tied down. She was the one that suggested the relationship in the end, naturally I didn't because of what she'd said about not liking them in the past. 

anyway we were really good, she lost her virginity to me and said she loved me, I loved her too. Our relationship was strong, especially after one break we had in December that lasted 5 days. 

however in the middle of august she broke up with me because she didn't want to feel tied down. she's going to college in 2015 and she's always been a big flirt (doesn't bother me, gives me competition) and always feels bad flirting but wants to, its part of her personality.

Main bit - 

anyway, we broke up but wanted to remain good friends, so we continued hanging out. Now it's reached the point where we have sex, go for meals, go to the cinema, cuddle and go for walks etc and she even agrees, it's very much like a relationship, but not at the same time. 

I feel like she doesn't want it to be over but maybe she needs something to make her realise that. Don't get me wrong though, maybe there's nothing to be done and I should just let her find her way to either cutting all remotely romantic ties off with me, or realising she does want a relationship. I know I should probably walk away but I still have strong feelings for her. 

I guess my options are either continue like this, casually, or say I only want a relationship, or cut off all ties completely.

But does anyone have any advice? I'm not the type to just give up.
<bot>: gf broke up, doesn't want relationship. still really close, have sex etc, not sure how to go on.