<human>: My friends are great, but I feel like I'm receiving advice/input from them that is similar to the stuff in the movie "He's Just Not That Into You" where they always try to make you feel better rather than being honest with you.

I (21/f) have been seing this guy (25/m) for about 4 months now.  We did not know each other beforehand, which I think is also a setback to our relationship.  We've been sleeping together since a week after we met and haven't had any DTR yet (I know.... It pisses me off too).

We see each other once a week (mainly Friday or Saturday night) because his job doesn't really allow for him to have a social life during the week (he's a morning reporter for a local news station, has to wake up at 2 AM and go to bed at like, 6 or 7PM).

I just want to know if I'm wasting my time on this.  Whenever I text him to see what our plans are for the weekend, he sometimes "already has plans" and asks if we can see each other Sunday during the day or Saturday during the day. I don't feel like I am important to him, which really sucks because I always try to keep Friday nights open so we can see each other.

Other than that, he's really great. We hold hands and act like a couple when we are together, but when we aren't I feel like I don't cross his mind ever.

So, random stranger with an objective opinion, what the fuck is happening? Am I getting too worked up about this? I don't really understand dating...

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<bot>: Is 4 months too soon to ask to make a relationship serious? I feel like I don't cross his mind ever, is it his busy schedule or is he just not interested?