<human>: I was in her dorm and we were watching Netflix on her laptop. She left to go get us something to eat and I noticed that she got a Skype message. I know that she talks to her family and old friends through it and I know shouldn't have, but I looked at it. It was from this dude from Columbia and in Spanish. Then I looked at more messages between her and this dude, and they're all in Spanish. I can tell that she's been talking to this dude a lot and for a long time because it was just like infinite scrolling up. 

. She took me home to meet her family during Christmas break, and they're all... well, white people. They speak in English and, frankly, they sound a little racist. There was discussion at Christmas dinner about how they don't necessarily want Trump to be president, but they think all the illegals should be shipped back to their country so they would stop ruining ours. And She agreed when it was brought up? She pronounces "tortilla" and "quesadilla" with the L instead of the Y sound. I never knew that she spoke Spanish, and we live in the middle of the Midwest, so it's not exactly common. And I feel like I've been lied to. I copy and paste some of the phrases I see most to Google translate, and I think she's cheating on me. Why else would she be so secretive about something unless she had something to hide?  Sometimes, she would tell him "you're my best friend" and other times "I want you" before saying goodbye to him. I didn't see any specific incriminating evidence, but this whole situation screams red flags. I want to look at them again so I can find something.  I was honestly shocked, and I didn't know what to say. She's been talking to him for a long long time. I only glanced back to a few months or so, but I felt like it was just going to go on forever. I'm hurt and upset that our whole relationship was a lie, but it was too much to do something about so I closed it out, cleared my searches, and returned to Netflix to make it look like I didn't do anything, and when she came back, we continued our night.

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<bot>: I think gf is cheating on me with a dude from another country, but I don't speak Spanish, so IDK* how to prove it so I can dump her.