<human>: My boyfriend and I (both mid 20s) have been together for about a year and a half. Through our relationship, we've probably only spent about a week's worth of nights apart from each other - the nights together all at his apartment.

At this point, I'm getting frustrated with walking back and forth while he makes no effort. We live relatively close to each other and I love spending time with him however, it's still getting old. There are times when I forget things there or leave things there out of convenience (since I'm there every evening/morning) and it's driving me crazy to keep track of everything. I feel like I half live in two different places and neither feel like home.

I've discussed this with him, asking him to make more of an effort to come hang out with me but his response is generally that my house isn't as much fun (I rent a room in someone else's house) and my room is cramped so there's not much space for people to hang out (he has a point.)

At this point, I feel that the best option for me is to spend the night at my own house every night so I at least feel like I live there and can try to have all of my stuff in one place. However, I can't think of any way to tell him this without it sounding like I'm trying to spend less time with him. Any ideas of how to explain this to him without it sounding bad?

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<bot>: Trying to figure out how to tell my bf I don't want to spend every night with him without sounding rude.