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Last week I got back from a business trip during which my wife started sending me paranoid and angry emails about a stag do I'm going on with my best friend at the end of next month. The emails were getting really aggressive and bringing up every thing I've ever done wrong in a string of emails (we've been together since I was 16) over a few days until I called her and calmed her down. The bulk of it was saying I'll be visiting strip clubs and brothels while I'm out there (something I've never done and I've never cheated on her and it's the tamest stag do ever; we're visiting museums and having a go in a glider!!!) and saying it was wrong of me to book it without her permission. I was also getting texts from her mother telling me not to go and that it's cruel of me to go. 

When I got home she  seemed to calm down, but last night I was looking for my passport so I could use it as a piece of identity when opening a new account and it was missing. I confronted her and she admitted she'd stolen it so I couldn't go away again without getting her permission. 

I said that that felt abusive and like she was treating me like an object she owned and that it was totally wrong, and she just said it was my fault and I left her no choice. This went in circles for a while and then petered out, but I couldn't get it out of my head or stop being upset about it. 

This morning, she asked what was wrong and I said that I was upset she couldn't see it was wrong to steal someone's passport, and wrong to blame me for it - and again, she said it was my fault, so I left the house. I've spent the day away working and just come home to sleep on the couch - we haven't exchanged a word since I got in.

So, I need a second opinion. Am I blowing this out of proportion? Should I just let it slide? Or is this as bad as it feels to me?
<bot>: My wife stole my passport and says it's my fault. Won't apologize. We've not spoken today. Would like some thoughts on this.