<human>: So last night was my birthday dinner. My girlfriend (who I've been seeing for 6 months) took me to this amazing steakhouse and I was a bit overwhelmed by how expensive it was, but I digress. 

Anyway, we get to drinking wine and she said something about wanting to be pregnant within a year. This kind of caught me off guard, and I've got a lot of debt to pay off, so I told her that wasn't a possibility, and besides, it may seem ridiculous to think this way, but it'd kill my mother if I wasn't married. So later on, she took a couple of pictures of me eating and wanted to text them to my mom. At first I didn't give her the number (I guess b/c I'm an idiot) and then I finally relented. She had already pulled into herself and I kept trying to get her to talk but she wouldn't. I felt bad for having upset her, so when the check came, I paid and she got up and left.

 Later on we got into a huge fight revolving around me being an asshole and making her feel bad and embarrassed for making all those nice plans. I feel like I completely ruined it for no reason. She said that if we can't make it through a bday dinner, then it obviously isn't working, and we'll always remember this debacle as the first bday in the relationship, and it was ruined. 

I called her this morning and we seem to have patched things up, but I don't know if that will last as the day progresses. I'm miserable and unable to focus, so I just wanted to vent and see what the Internet thinks of the situation. I love this girl, she gives me direction and a reason not to be a shithead (even though I still am sometimes). 

Anyway, thanks for reading and any thoughts on how to proceed would be nice. Thanks again.

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<bot>: went out for my birthday, got in a fight over the speed of the relationship and not sharing my mother's phone number and the dinner ended, maybe the relationship too