<human>: This was a pretty recent decision on my part. I've grown up with a military family and this has always been something I want to do. She doesn't agree with it and says she won't know what to do with herself while I'm gone which I completely understand. 
Our relationship has been rocky as a result of my decision. We were talking about it earlier tonight and she just burst into tears, which honestly I'm not THAT good with. This has led to more arguments and fights than anything else. We have had a good 2.5 years but If I do decide to go active should I just break it off?

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: my 2.5 year relationship is compromised from what I think is a good decision for my future, which is joining the military. Where do I go from here?