<human>: I've (29m) been doing some online dating and have yet to find that girl that I really click with.

Regardless of who decided it wasn't going to work, a number of them want to stay friends after we've had this talk about it not working out. (And continue doing activities and basically dates without labeling it as such)

How can I tactfully decline a suggestion like this? This feels kind of weird to say, but I honestly am not looking for more "friends", lol. I meet plenty of people just through my hobbies/social circles and I'd like to focus my free time (I work between 42-45 hours / week, so I value it) on meeting new people and going on dates to hopefully meet that special someone instead of continuing with relationships that won't result in anything long term.

Is there a way to tactfully "move on" from a situation where you were dating for a short term (less than 1-2 months) but it didn't work out and the other party either wanted to continue or suggested staying friends? I have learned from my previous romantic long term relationships that being friends works out poorly in my cases and I really don't want to put myself in a similar situation with someone I hardly know or am interested in. 

(Sorry if I came across as a super ass with this post... I'm just trying to be efficient with my dating time as I'm approaching 30 and starting to have that panic set in, but I also don't want to sound like or act like an ass to these women that I've gone out with briefly)

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<bot>: not really interested in "friend" relationships with recently met dates after one party or the other decides it's not going to work - how to convey that without being a dick