<human>: Throwaway for obvious reasons.        
I have been with my girlfriend since her sophomore year, my junior year. She is so sweet and kind, but she also is very sensitive and it's very easy for her feelings to get hurt. She can also get pretty jealous.         
Prior to dating her, a close male friend and I jerked off together. I don't like guys, at all, it was just kind of a curiosity thing and we didn't touch each other, just ourselves. I tell my girlfriend everything but I never told her that because it never came up and I didn't want her to think that I was gay and using her.              
So one day she comes home after work and _hugs me_ and asked if I wanted to talk about it. I didn't know what she was talking about until she informed me that a mutual friend of ours told her about it. She wasn't even mad. I could see the hurt in her eyes but she kept telling me she wants me to love who I want to love and she also asked if I had ever been violated or forced to do something I didn't want to do.          
Guys, I'm honestly confused. She often gets jealous and I would have expected her to be really hurt and frustrated, but she is hugging me and when I explained to her that I'm not gay, she _understood_. Is this normal? Or is this some woman trap? Guys im worried I'm going to lose her. Is she actually mad?

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<bot>: girlfriend found out about me jerking off with guy friend, is hugging me and talking to me about it and I'm not sure why