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I am American, been living in China for almost 4 years. Met my girlfriend here, she is French, we've been together 3.5 years and are both ready to leave China. We've already told our jobs that we're leaving 3 months from now. 

She is definitely moving to Paris to study chocolate/pastry making, and I was considering moving with her, but didn't know what I was going to do as a job in Paris (I'm an artist/designer) and only speak Rosetta Stone level 1 French. I had told her I probably wasn't going to move to Paris with her, my friends all live in NY and have cool jobs on movie sets and can help me get a cool job. We vaguely talked about trying to do long distance until we could find a way to be together again, but we didn't make any decisions. 

Then her dad died of a sudden heart attack. She's in France now at the funeral, we've been in close virtual contact and I feel strongly the need to comfort/take care of her and be with her. She's coming back to China in a few days, and then I have 3 more months to make a decision whether to move to Paris with her and put my dreams on the back burner, or abandon her to deal with her grief on her own (well, with her friends and family), and move to New York.
<bot>: Should I move to Paris to be with my girlfriend as she grieves the death of her father, or move to New York where I have a community of friends who will help me get a job of my dreams.