<human>: My boyfriend (26) and I (24) have been together 9 months this time around. I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't know how else to explain why we haven't really been sexual in any way for the past few weeks. I think he might wonder if I'm cheating but I'm not.

I'm just not sexually attracted to him. I didn't really find him attractive when we first met but I fell for his personality and charm and over the years he's kind of become my best friend. We've been through some rough stuff and broke up for over a year but we got back together and now things are great. I couldn't ask for more, besides the fact that I'm not sexually attracted to him.

When we first dated (for 2 yrs before the break up) we would have sex ALL the time. He was my first real boyfriend and as someone with a lot of emotional baggage, I was so happy that he accepted me for me and I fell in love with him. I honestly never, never thought about looks. I just wanted a guy who could be a good partner and friend but now that he sometimes mentions the "M" word, I'm freaking out. Could I spend the rest of my life with someone I love and who loves me, but I have to have sex with him even though I'm not turned on by his physical looks at all? Is this worth breaking up over?

I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't know what to do and he wants to talk tonight...

*Feel free to ask questions*

This is a throwaway because my boyfriend knows my username.

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<bot>: Boyfriend wants to know why we haven't had sex in weeks. Not sure if I should tell him that I don't find him attractive.