<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

Hi,

So This is a throw away account before anyone asks. So my gf and I have been living together for about 4 months now. Before we moved in together we lived about 10 minutes apart walking distance (university town) and had sex 4-5 times a week. When we moved in together our number quickly went down. We have sex now 3-4 times a month. I know I may seem like I'm complaining but I'm a 23 year old student in a stressful graduate program and I feel on edge without the sex, especially since she's so close to me. Whenever I try to initiate she awkwardly says, what are you doing? Killing the mood, and then just asks for a massage and says she's tired. I feel like a dick after if I get too pushy with it. We've had talks before about this. After our talks, things were smooth again for about a week until we stopped having sex again. I've lost a lot of confidence and self esteem. (I am very confident, some would even say too confident ;) )

The worst part is the lack of desire. I feel as if I am not desired in her eyes anymore, as if I am not attractive. I am locked in a 1 year lease so I am giving myself a year to try to flip this problem around (this is really the only issue we have). I know people rarely change and some people would say, suck it up, move on, move out, take the hit etc, but I am willing to put in the work to try to make this relationship thrive. Any advice from people who have experienced this?
<bot>: As soon as my gf and I moved in together the amount of sex we have dropped dramatically. I don't feel desired anymore, what do I do.