<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

Ok so this is pretty long, I apologize in advance but I really need A LOT of advice. My boyfriend and I have been getting into  A LOT of fights/ breaking up recently we've been together for almost 2 years (17 months). Most of the problems spawn from him not wanting me to do things or being wayyyyy to involved in my life. The problem is that I honestly think that the things he wants for me aren't bad for instance I want a tattoo and (I already have one similar to something he has) he thinks it would be a bad, he's really involved with my schooling (I failed everything my first semester), and he's really concerned about my lying (I lie to make everyone happy instead of dealing with consequences… it usually blows up in my face), and also he's like really concerned about my weight he says I still look good but that it would be beneficial for my health to lose some weight ( I gained 25lbs  in a year I am 5'1" and went from 95lbs to 120lbs which my doctor says is healthy). ANYWAYS over NYE I had a super drunk panic attack and told him I didn't love him and ended things, he tried to keep me from leaving with my friends (A parent came to pick us up) and I got physical with him was screaming loudly. The next day we got back together and since then he's been trying really had to keep everything "perfect" as he puts it, but it really just seems really forced for both of us like he'll send me sweet messages while I'm sleeping and then when I say good morning he'll ask if I'll ever leave him….. I feel like we might have just grown apart and most of my friends don't think we should be together my family also pretty much hates him for everything he says he's not exactly nice about how he talks to me. I don't know if I gave you enough information, but I want to know that I'm feeling like I'm falling out of love with him because of my family or because of us just growing apart. I could really use some help.
<bot>: bf and I have been fighting/ breaking up family and friends don't like how he treats me... feel like I may be falling out of love. Is it me or are my friends and family effecting me?