<human>: Hi,

I've always have had pretty good success dating but also have been someone who is kind of quick to fall for someone. I've had 3 more serious girlfriends in my adult life (post 21) and am currently single. I've been single for a little over a year now but for the first time am not really falling quickly and even when I put in the time, I'm not really 'falling' for anyone at all. Dating has been going 'well' and have been able to have great dates with a lot both interesting and attractive women. There have definitely been a handful that are essentially perfect on paper, and the old me would have fallen for them and tried to lock it down in a heartbeat. But now, even though I know these women are really good for me, for some reason I end up giving up on them quickly (within... 1-3 weeks) and move on to the next.

I guess I'm asking if there is something greater at play with myself I should check out, if I'm just not meeting as quality of people as I think I am, or what's going on? One person in particular I was head over heels for, for about 3 weeks. And then all the sudden I didn't even really want to speak to them anymore and I can't pinpoint one event or reason why. Has anyone else experienced feelings like this before? I feel like I'm ready to date seriously again but there is something that keeps cropping up even when I find awesome people. Or does this indicate I actually shouldn't be trying to date seriously and just... wait it out? It's difficult because I like 'dating' but should I be trying to avoid it? Any insights or any personal experiences with these kinds of feelings would be appreciated!

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Always been comfortable having girlfriends or at least dating for chunk of time, now uninterested in a matter of days or couple weeks.