<human>: I've known this girl (let's call her Allie) for 4 years, as we went to the same college. We had gone out on dates previously, but it didn't lead to anything. We started talking again a few months ago, and are both extremely into each other.

Her mom, though, has terminal cancer and is dying. Allie has been living in Seattle with her parents and taking care of her mom. I went and visited her last weekend, and we had a blast. She took me to meet her parents, then her aunt and uncle, and they all loved me. I asked her if she thinks this is going somewhere serious, and she said that she would love to date me, but she's going through so much she doesn't want to start anything right now. Which I'm okay with, God knows what I would do if I was in that situation. She doesn't want to talk to anyone now. I hate seeing her so sad. She said she just wants to disappear. I want to be there for her, what can I do?

When I was with her in Seattle she said she has really bad dreams and likes dreamcatchers. So I'm sending her one with a handwritten note about me being there for her. I don't want to lose this girl, she's the love of my life. I just want some advice about how to handle this.

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<bot>: girl I love, who wants to be in a relationship with me, is losing her mom to cancer and I don't know what to do.