<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

So I started dating this girl (we are both 24) I've known for 3 months about a month ago and we started having sex pretty quickly and things escalated fast. she just got out of a 3+ year relationship and her ex only moved out 9 weeks ago.

Everything was going nicely I suppose until the inevitable happened. now we never stated exclusively and she said she's happy to be single and focus on her self. a week or two ago she asked me to tell her if I start having sex w other girls and she will do the same.

Last night she was showing me something on her phone and some dudes call comes in and I pass the phone back to her. This guy she literally told me about the night before, said she went on a couple dates with him around the time we started dating. Now I know I shouldn't be bothered by this as I knew from the get-go that she should probably be dating loosely instead of getting into another relationship(with me). it still hurts.

I brought it up to her last night on the drive home and told her that where we are right now, I Don't want her talking to other guys and if that's what, she needs maybe her and I should stop seeing each other(ULTIMATUM!) before more feelings get involved. Later, I called her and told her that I was out of place to say that, as it is wrong for me to pin her down so early out of a serious relationship and it won't do anybody any good in the long run. she thanked me for being so open and honest w her and we got off the phone.

Has anyone been in this type of situation? I'm not looking to date a bunch of girls right now. I am focused on my career. how do I deal?
<bot>: in rebound, dating girl out of serious relationship - she wants to continue dating, i want to be okay with that, i also want her to myself(eventually).