<human>: He (m27) makes me feel insecure. He doesn't see anything wrong with putting his work first, talking to exs, doesn't have a problem with being friendly to other girls. He'll take a girl out to dinner or to a movie as "friends", one on one. I tend to put him first (not by his asking, just my nature).

When I voice these insecurities, he takes them personally. Says I don't trust him, he's a bad guy by "making me unhappy" - which means I don't actually get explanations/reassurance, etc – it ends up being an argument in which I just have to convince him it's not a personal attack on his character. 

Example,  So he takes a girl out, and when I'm unhappy with this, out comes: "If I make you so miserable why don't you just leave?" This makes me unhappy, I tell him, and the cycle continues.

I'm driving him crazy, I know…. but I feel my insecurities are justified. Neither of us back down because of our personalities but I do love him, so much… if I AM overreacting, I need to know – because I can't see past my own opinions and dating "rules" – however I am willing to just leave him alone and deal with my own insecurities without letting him suffer through them.

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<bot>: BFs arguments feel like a trap. Where he can do anything he wants, and voids the consequences by flipping the argument around on me "attacking him".  Should I deal with it, or stand my ground?