<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

23M/24F. After 3 rather awesome years, we've been having some trust crisis and decided to call an indefinite break.

She was devastated and sought out some friends, but in the end when she's especially lonely, she'd give me a call. Not a clingy or demanding one, just stay-with-me-for-a-while-if-you're-free kind of call, where we'd console each other and say nice things.

However, because we've broken up and gotten back together quite a few times in recent months, I've made it clear that she should move on, since some issues don't seem resolvable, despite the fact that we both have great feelings for each other.

I'd like to do anything to make it less traumatic for her, but based on what I've read here, conventional wisdom says it would only prolong the pain. What's the right thing to do here? Has anyone lived through the same thing?

As for me, I'm far from over her, but the logical side of me knows that we both need to pause and reflect if we are to ever get back at some point.
<bot>: Recently broke up with gf of 3 years, but we're still in constant contact because I want to help her cope with the trauma. Is this a Very Bad Idea?