<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

I always have the issue of feeling good during a conversation whether it be through text or face to face. I often will text the person and theres like 2 responses from the girl, then theres like no response after.  I understand im not the center of attention, but these people are free when I text.I dont want to come off as needy, but I just cannot understand how to keep a girls attention or make it so that they want to say hello and hang out. I think im a good person and these are people that I know and there have been some good interest indicators.
<bot>: How do I keep attention or improve so that is better in face to face or gives a better result with hanging out?