<human>: A few things before I really get into it. 1) Sorry if this is a wall of text. I'm on mobile. 2) i did recently post a similar question on this sub, but it didn't get much attention and nothing has really changed, so I'm not tagging this as update. Anyway

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First off, we are not technically bf/gf. We live an hour away (3 hours when at college) so for whatever reason, we aren't official. So the reason I want to end things is for one, I'm just not happy any more. We see each other about once a week and it has just started stressing me out instead of the opposite. She has started dealing with depression and actually gave herself bruises on her legs because she says she hates herself. I'm always extremely supportive but it's just stressful taking care of her all the time. She must call me once a day crying.

Moving on. We have a trip coming up on the 11th. We have been planning this all summer, but as that date closes in, i feel more and more like I'm going to be miserable the whole time and it's just going to make it harder to break up later. I can cancel by the 7th with no fees or repercussions but i still don't know if I should. She has been saying things like, "i don't know what I'd do without you" and "im so excited for this trip. Im just so sick of it here" (we are living with our families until school starts again). It is all just making it very difficult to decide what to do. Do I break things off with her when I see her tomorrow, or wait until we are back at school, after our trip, when we are 3 hours away from eachother?

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<bot>: do I break up with my girlfriend before or after a romantic getaway? (That makes me sound like a dick typing that out...)