<human>: Hi folks,

I'm not sure if this is the right place to ask this question, but I'm looking for some dating advice for a soon-to-be widow.  I'm hoping to get answers from people who have been around the dating block a bit.  Ok, here I go.

So, I probably won't be around for very long.  That's a whole other story that I don't want to get into right now.  I'm taking all of the necessary steps to set up my wife after I'm gone: financial transfers, life insurance claims, etc...  However, there is one part that I'm really worried about: finding emotional support for my wife and, related to that, finding a new guy in her life.  

The reason why I'm so worried about this is because my wife and I are very much in love with each other, and we are each others best friends.  She has little to no emotional support besides her parents, and hardly any friends nearby in which she can lean on.  In fact, she hardly has any friends she still keeps in touch with.  Most of them dropped contact after she moved far away from her small town.  And, we've both learned over the past several years that making new friends is really hard, and mostly, the only true friends you have are your significant others, and family.  She cries so hard at times that I worry after I die, she will also die from a broken heart.  It really breaks my heart seeing her like that.  I think that the best way for her to overcome the depression, grief, and inevitable loneliness is to find a new guy and start a whole new chapter in her life.  But, there's the rub: how does she find the "right" guy.  The one?  I'm sure there is no formula, but I think there must be some good advice to weed out the weirdos, flakes, assholes, and players.  I mean, we've lived in California for over several years, and we've met so much weird, flaky people that I get worried about her staying and dating here.  Any advice?

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<bot>: I'm about to die; wife will be really lonely, depressed, and fragile; need advice for her to find another GOOD man in her life that will make her heart fly again.