<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

I have found that the key to getting a job is to concentrate on getting the job and the people who motivate you to get a job.  

I cut off trying to date someone and other nonsense at the moment and what do you know good things started happening once I was just into my my work.  Of course if a person is married looking for a job, hopefully you'll have a supportive spouse.

Nothing was official with anyone I was dating to clog up my mind with other things instead of job searching.  Sometimes I got bored just job searching all day and so I ended up trying to date someone/hang out with someone and when that wasn't working out, it was frustrating me so I finally said, finding a job right now is more important than anything.
<bot>: I can finally relax after a long time job hunting.  I've noticed once I cut off the unnecessary stress good things started to happen.  Did you ever change ways of doing something and it produced results?