<human>: We met online: honestly, he came out of nowhere! Wasn't expecting to fall in love,or to be in a relationship with such a perfect (to me anyway) guy. He's super smart,extremely intelligent,and fine as hell.

We get on so well, and have a lot of similar values and views -both passionate about music&art, our friends and families and learning. Only thing is, I feel as though I'm making the most effort in our relationship...

We started dating(officially) in January, when I told him I wanted more(after 3 months of dating/hooking up). He's amazing- he takes me out into the world & we experience things together, but when were alone it's a few things that my intuition just can't shake:

When I talk about my day, or am telling a story I feel like he doesn't Lister, or is completely uninterested.I know I talk a lot, and it can be annoying,but I try control myself not to talk too much...but when I do,hes on his phone or doing something else,and it makes me feel unimpo and boring.
I almost always initiate our general plans: I'll come over for dinner, I'll cook or we should do something fun...he hardly ever initiates mundane things ,but trips and holidays are initiated by him.
He says he loves me, but his uninteresting in my life or my feelings makes me think otherwise - I am totally & unequivocally  in love with him & I literally would do just about anything he asks...
Is it me? Am I being stupid? I obviously don't know him that well,but I want to make this work.Same time, i wanna feel special.How do I do both?

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<bot>: I initiate day two-day activities &conversations, BF looks at phone every time I talk,feel unimportant.H ow to bring up without screwing up?