<human>: My wife is from another country (we met while I was working there), and she just arrived in my country after a hellish visa process. We were apart for over a year, and naturally, masturbation happened on both our sides. She's much less experienced sexually than I am, but we're very open and comfortable with each other sexually. We had Skype sex often and we frequently discuss new things we'd like to try in bed. I've told her I watch porn sometimes, she's told me the same, and we've even discussed watching porn together.

The other day, she was downloading something on my computer and found a few porn pics I didn't realize I had in my downloads folder. They were very vanilla pics, only one nude woman even, but she completely lost it. I understand feeling a little hurt or jealous, even though we had discussed those things and she said she had no problem with it. Being confronted with the reality of it is different than just knowing I look at porn sometimes, so I get if she has some reaction. But she's threatening to leave me, she says I'm sick in the head, and she's says that she can't accept it. She's been in bed weeping for the last 24 hours, only stopping to scream at me.

I've apologized, I've mentioned how we talked about porn and it wasn't an issue, I've told her that I rarely looked at porn anyway and I haven't since she got here a few months ago (which is true because of no alone time), but nothing seems to change her mind.

Am I wrong to think this is an overreaction? Am I wrong to not feel guilty at all about this? Any advice on how to approach a conversation with her would help, because nothing seems to be working.

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<bot>: My wife found some vanilla porn on my computer and is threatening to leave me even though she had no problem with it before.