<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

So we've been having this problem since the beginning of our relationship (2 years+). She feels that I don't contact her often enough, and that she always has to be the one to contact me. Especially, when we are away from each other. Currently she is travelling, and for the first few days it was fine and then suddenly out of no where she drops the question "Why is it that I have to poke you to keep in touch whenever we are away? How come you don't have the willingness yourself?.......it's hard for me to believe that you can't text me once in two days. Low communication makes me feel ignored and I want to know why I need to tell you to keep in touch?"

Now that's her side, I am aware I'm not the best with keeping in touch. Heck my parents complain to me for not calling them often enough (which reminds me I should call them). So I am aware, but with her I especially try to be in touch. But there are these 2-3 days where I just ignore technology and like to be with my self. Maybe my phone battery runs out and I forget to change it, maybe  I don't remember to switch the wifi on. I'm not that stuck to my phone. So my point is, that we have arguments over this topic a million times. And I have promised to her at the end of those arguments that I will change, and honestly I am trying to. I understand her pain for when she needs me I am not there. But how do I answer those questions she asked me?
<bot>: gf thinks she begins every conversation when we are away, asked me why is it so. I have no answer except that's who I am, and I'm trying to change.