<human>: I am expecting 2x4s since I have made mistakes. I'm not going to deny that at all. I've been with my wife for 7 years and we have been married for 3 years. We have one daughter who is 5. I'm 39 and she is 33. Our relationship is very typical and some ups and some downs. We both have tremendous love for one another and we have been through so much together and we are great parents to our daughter. 

January 2011 I started to work in Washington D.C. and we went long distance. I had a great job opportunity and there were a lot of reasons to take the position and it was good for our family. When we were apart I made some poor decisions. I would rather not go into detail but I cheated more than once with more than one woman. There was one woman in particular who I was involved with more seriously and she gave birth to a baby this August that was recently confirmed to be mine. I haven't told my wife yet about the baby. 

I want to make major changes to our life. I don't want to continue the lying and deceit and the long distance. I want to confess to my wife, enter into counseling and have her and our daughter move here and us to start over. I don't know if that is a fairy tale for me to believe. If I confess to my wife and change is there any chance that our marriage survives or is it too much?

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<bot>: I cheated on my wife while we were long distance and I had a child with another woman. I want to change and be a better husband now but I am not sure if there is any hope for us.