<human>: so my boyfriend jay of 2+ years lives in another state and lives with his family (mother stepdad and siblings) but the problem is that the step dad is really mentally abusive. let me give you an example.

jay called me today and he was really upset because his Stepdad told him he was removing him from his health insurance this is because he found steam downloaded on his laptop and saw that jay was using Facebook.

a few months ago i was having a hard time getting in contact with jay and it turned out his step dad had taken his cellphone (given to jays by his incredibly sweet g-ma as a gift) because he found out that jay was playing Pokemon go. 

so basically he goes through other people things and yells at everyone, wants to control everything and makes people feel like they are useless pieces of trash. jays mom is i think depressed from what jay has told me and is having a hard time dealing with her husband. she cant leave him because hes the only income they have. jays siblings all hate jay because their step dad makes their lives miserable. he's making jays life miserable.

when i met jay he was living in my state, living with his G-ma, and going to school in the city but that had to stop because his g-ma's daughters thought that jay was taking advantage of her old age (which he wasn't) because he wasn't cleaning his room. so he cant live with his G-ma because of that. so living with his G-ma is out of the picture.

and he cant live with me because my mom would never allow my BF to live in the same house as me.

i don't know what to do and i want to help jay as best as i can. if anyone has ever been in a similar situation please help. also, i am asking instead of jay because he doesn't really have access to the internet thanks to his Stepdad

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<bot>: my BF's step dad is really mentally abusive and cant move out. i want to help but don't know how so i am asking foradvice.