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Hi Reddit, I broke up with my ex, Mike, 3 years ago due to emotional cheating on his part and subsequent gas lighting throughout the course of our 2 yr relationship. I had absolutely no desire to stay in touch with him afterwards and had blocked him on multiple accounts. 

He publicly wished me a happy birthday on a new social media account last year, and has occasionally sent me brief texts asking how I am since then - I never responded to any of those messages, and deleted them. I blocked him after he sent a lengthy-ish private message that basically said he regretted not pursuing me harder after the breakup and that we should meet up if I was in town.

The problem is that his current gf, Emily (one of the girls he was pursuing during our relationship, actually) sent me a particularly nasty message a few weeks ago accusing me of not moving on and trying to mess with their relationship. This made me realize I was just being coy with Mike and that I did secretly have unresolved feelings for him. 

Just kidding - I blocked her too - but recently found out through a mutual friend that she has been posting snippets of my text messages with Mike from the end of our relationship, and making fun of me for being 'mentally unstable'. I was mortified by this, as I was not in a good place at that point and see it as a huge invasion of privacy for her to post it publicly. I have no idea why she would do this, perhaps she discovered Mike's messages to me and he's been feeding her some bullshit to cover up his ass.

How do I ask Emily to take what she posted down? I really don't want to engage with either of them and would like to avoid that at all costs, but I absolutely do not want my private, 3yr old chats to be potentially seen by mutual acquaintances, or by anyone really. What should I do? Should I explain to her that she's got everything backwards, or just try to solicit her sense of common decency and ask her to remove those posts?
<bot>: exbf's current gf posting our old chats online, trying to paint me as crazy. Redaction action needed.