<human>: My SO likes massages. However, I am not very good at giving them. My attempt to give them inevitably leads into a fight at least 80% of them time. This makes me even less enthusiastic about giving them.

The fact that is has been 2 years and I haven't gotten better at giving massages has led him to tell me recently that I don't care at all about something that is very important to him.

I constantly suggest that he go to a professional. I even bought him a gift certificate to a massage salon for his birthday last year. (He used it, but didn't seem very enthusiastic). 

Last night, I also suggested that his bring it up with the doctor to build up a case for our health insurance to do something about it (especially the trouble muscle is mostly the same spot on his back) and this led to a fight. His main argument was that he wants ME to do it and that I NEED to learn how since he doesn't want to go to some stranger to touch him.

He doesn't even give me helpful feedback when I am trying. 

Last night, I tried to suggest that maybe he could communicate to me constantly when something is good or bad until I can build up the muscle memory in my hands, but he didn't even want to do that. He showed me a random YouTube video and said "just do that". Watching something once on YouTube is just not my learning style, so I watched it begrudgingly, and he could see my frustration. However, he interpreted my frustration it as not wanting to even try to help him, so he got even more upset.

After watching the shitty video, I attempt the massage which went semi-okay on his neck, but then he yelled at me for not being able to consistently find his trouble back muscle and rub it out.

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<bot>: SO wants massages that I can't effectively give and refuses to seek professional (masseuse) help. Am I wrong for not trying harder or is he just being demanding?