<human>: Additional Information: We are college students and have been dating for over a year and we have been generally argument free up to this point aside from a few minor quibbles. I recently just bought plane tickets for us to vacation together in a few months that cost upwards of $300. These tickets have our names and birthdays on them so I cannot bring someone else if something were to arise (not that I plan for anything to, in fact just the opposite.) My goal here is to hopefully put her in my shoes for a bit and realize how it feels to feel not loved enough. I understand that people require varying degrees of affection and that my needs may be greater than hers. My issue with this argument however, is that she will often get very close to other friends (mostly guys) when she's sees them but when she is with me often times she'll just sit on another couch or across the room and even occasionally pushes me away when I try to get close. Her excuse is that she sees me all the time and gets excited for people she isn't around much. Its not like I'm trolling her all the time about it I just like to be close now and then but I'm not asking for this all day from her. Am I jealous or is something really not adding up here? Otherwise our relationship seems to be going swimmingly.

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<bot>: My gf isn't physically close with me but is close to other guy friends and sometimes pushes me away. I'm showing her less affection in return. Bad idea?