<human>: When my SO (F/27) and I (M/27) got together, there were a lot of sexy times (touching/sexting/oral/PIV). Now there is barely any. In the last two years I went from unemployed and not helping out enough/pulling my own weight to having a couple jobs that generates decent income and doing a lot more around the house. I don't take her for granted and I don't pressure her for sexy times. I give her full body massages almost daily (which she "needs", and complains if I don't) and at some point in the last year I said that I crave her sexual attention as much as she needs me to massage her. It feels as if it is my duty to provide that to her. She has said that I "have to massage her" and that it is a prerequisite for a boyfriend. I don't want sex to be her duty to me, but I have gotten frustrated and wrongfully told her that she should accommodate my needs as I do for her when I've worked an 18 hour shift and all she wants is to pass out to me massaging her. Sometimes all I want is a BJ so I can pass out after work (has never happened BTW). I am just really horny and I want to be with her but she never wants it. I try to take care of myself but it's not enough. She has claimed that if she got hers then she'd be more willing to provide for me, but pretty much anything I do doesn't turn her on like it used to. She still turns me on multiple times a day and I don't get a release. We've tried communicating about this together with no luck. What can I do? I don't want to be with anyone else and I don't want to guilt or pressure her into anything. I would be satisfied with masturbating to her putting in little effort to help me orgasm, and even that is too much to ask. I feel like all I can do is continue feeling unfulfilled and unsatisfied. Please help!

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<bot>: GF is super hot and makes me horny constantly but never wants any sexy times, yet she also wants me to put in the time and effort of giving her full body massages multiple times a week. What do?