<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

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Here's my situation. I dated someone for around a year and we recently called it quits, against both of our wills. We met at a pretty strange time; she was fresh out of a long term relationship and I had just gotten out of one a few months prior. 

The relationship was awesome. She's the most incredible human being I've ever met in my life and I stand by saying I've never loved a human being as much as I've loved her. We quickly became best friends and lovers, an awesome combination that yielded conversations lasting until the wee hours of the morning and an intimacy unlike any other I've experienced. We could talk for hours, kiss for hours, or just do nothing but be around each other and it was all fantastic. 

However, we both have a slew of mental issues and were at different points in life. She was about to graduate and pursue further education while I just wanted to be a vagabond. These differences coupled with the beginnings of a mental breakdown eventually led us to having to call it quits. Neither of us wanted to but we both knew that it was the only thing that could be done for both of our health and happiness.

So, that being said here's where I need advice. We ended the relationship and I think it's safe to say that there are still intense feelings on both sides. We didn't take a "break", we broke up and basically put it to chance/fate to find each other again, as a result we don't talk anymore just to be fair to both sides. What is your advice for someone still carrying the love for an individual in their heart, but knowing that it can't go anywhere at the present moment? Is it selfish for me to even date or hook up with girls knowing that this woman is still on my mind? It's a strange and sticky situation that I would love your advice on...
<bot>: mutual break up with partner, feelings are still there and this butthurtjoe needs advice on what the fuck to do.