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She and I were together for 15 months, I loved her very much, and things were going very well... except for the fact that I'm an alcoholic, and I'm gay.

These things slowly arose over the course of our relationship, and I tried to bring them up with her. Every time, she'd say "That makes me uncomfortable, so let's not talk about it." For example, when I came out as gay (three separate times), she would say, "The idea of you being attracted to other people makes me uncomfortable, so I'd prefer we don't talk about it." Needless to say, things didn't work out in the end, mostly because we couldn't communicate. 

Now, it's been three months since we broke up, I've moved on (I'm now with a wonderful new boyfriend), and she's still very hung up on the ideas that I'm 1) deceptive/manipulative, and 2) a flat-out liar at every turn.

She's been saying awful things about me to people who were once our mutual friends, and as I hear about these instances, I feel more and more angry. I feel disrespected. I feel like, while I did admittedly mess up sometimes, I was definitely not a deliberate liar all the time.

I'm wondering how I can most easily move past this. Somewhere in my heart I still care about her and about how she's doing in life, even though she's said she hates me. This isn't healthy for me. I want to move past caring what she thinks of me. I don't want to feel offended by the untrue things she says anymore, and I don't know where to start.
<bot>: Ex-girlfriend is saying aggressive, untrue things about me to mutual friends. How can I healthily relax and move past it?