<human>: Im on mobile so sorry for formatting Im just looking for advice.

Long story short we dated for a year but brokeup or almost brokeup like three or four times sometimes i initiated, sometimes he did but we would get back together after a few days each time. fyi our issue was communication but over time i felt like it was just clashing personalities. I finally decided it was too much for me and i called it off last week but.... im feeling bad about how i did it. I did it over the phone.

 Ive heard thats a big no no but i didnt realize that until way after the talk. Hes been begging to meet up with him in person to talk and part of me feels like i should, like i owe it to him to see me in person one last time? i definitly dont want to date him anymore but idk. I think maybe i subconsciously picked a phone breakup because i was afraid of being easy to manipulate back together in person i can kind of be easy to persuads into things even if i dont feel 100% about w/e it is which has been a problem for me before.

 i just feel bad for him and maybe letting him vent will make it easier for him to move on? please tell me what you think reddit.

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<bot>: brokeup with on again off again bf of a year over the phone, now I feel bad for how i did it and dont know if i should meet him in person to officially break it off.