<human>: Long story short.

I have been with my gf for three years and things have been great.

In the first year we were together at University and worked at the same place, so we saw each other nearly every day.

The second year I went to University away from home while she stayed at work. She got used to not talking to me all the time (which is crucial to the story) because I was busy.

She has recently been given a promotion at work so has moved up to full time hours. While I've been at work I have been able to manage my schedule and workload so I'm able to speak to her whilst I'm working.

Now since she has gone full time we don't talk as much as we used to during the day.

Somehow I've convinced myself that because she isn't speaking to me as much she doesn't feel the same - which I know isn't the case.

I personally think it's because I've got a lot of free time at work on my hands when it is quiet and have been over-thinking things.

We spoke about it at the weekend and she said that I'm being more needy than I have been and that there's nothing to worry about because she went through exactly the same thing as me whilst I was at Uni.

What can I do to take my mind off things?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Have convinced myself that my gf doesn't feel the same way because we haven't spoken recently. Know in my heart that isn't the case. What can I do to get out of this rut.