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I have been with my boyfriend (lets call him Ryan) for almost 2 years. We have both been through a lot, separately and together. He has been married and divorced, I have been in emotionally abusive relationships. 

When we first got together I found out I was pregnant from my ex who had threatened to kill me and burn down my house. I was going to have an abortion, a difficult decision but in my mind, necessary. Ryan completely supported me even though he was against the idea of abortions. After several traumatic trips to planned parenthood and finding that an abortion wasn't needed because I had a Partial Molar Pregnancy (a cell growth instead of a fetus, which I'm still confused about because there was a heartbeat in the first ultrasound but then not in the second), so technically it wasn't an abortion because it wasn't a viable pregnancy to begin with.

 Fast forward a few months when I've started to heal from this whole ordeal, and then one of my best friends does. He drowned because he had a heartattack while swimming. I was overwhelmed with grief, and still Ryan supported me. He was my emotional rock and got me through all of these hard times... was so sweet and supportive.. 

Fast forward to now. We have lived together for over a year, so that's not new. But he doesn't act like he loves me anymore. He plays video games 24/7 , when I get home he doesn't even acknowledge that I'm there. He used to be so excited to see me, but that's just gone. And our house is a disgusting mess, he refuses to help me clean it, I'm always working so it's hard for me to keep up on everything alone. I can't get him to do anything without nagging for DAYS. Like taking the garbage out, simple stuff...

 I used to be dating a man, and now I feel like a mother to a child... what gives? I don't want to end my relationship. I can't keep it if nothing changes though.
<bot>: my bf and I used to be really close and happy, now he acts like he doesn't like me at all. What do I do?