<human>: My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years.  I consider him my best friend, and I'm his.  We spend a lot of time together, more so than most college couples I would say.  We're both introverted, he honestly more so because he has a speech impediment and anxiety.  

Early in college I used to stress a lot about making friends.  I joined all sorts of clubs and things to try and surround myself with people.  Midway through college I realized that all these futile attempts were making me miserable.  I did a lot of soul searching and realized that friends and hobbies weren't really what I wanted.  I just wanted personal fulfillment.

Now, a few months later, I no longer attend any club meetings.  I don't socialize.  I read books and study in my spare time.  I work part-time (just for the money, the job is just food service) and don't talk to anyone unless spoken to.  I love it this way.  I'm honestly so much better off without other people in my life.  

My boyfriend, while introverted, has friends.  I don't smother him when he's playing video games or attending hackathons with them.  That's his prerogative.   However, he's really upset about my lack of friends and hobbies.  He's used to me being the try-hard social type, constantly sad about not having someone to go to the mall with.  How do I convince him that I've finally found happiness and solace living a simple, hobby-free, friend-free life?

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<bot>: Boyfriend keeps nagging me to be more social.  I tried it and no longer wish to be.  I'm happy as a loner but don't know how to convince him.  Help?