<human>: About a week after officially dating he started canceling on me. He'd offer new dates to go out and be together and almost 85% of the time he would follow through. His excuses have ranged from just not feeling like hanging out to feeling sick.

We started dating when his brother (my good friend) introduced us and I knew from the beginning he had some anxiety. After being with him I'd say a little bipolar as well. I am more patient and relaxed with him because I've grown up with a mother that is bipolar...and I know it's not their fault when the brain works against him.

To add to it I don't think he is cheating. When he's canceled his brother has been there to see he just holds up in his room (no I don't ask him to check he's just told me after I said our plans are canceled). I've also...yes it's bad..checked his phone. He left it over one day and I wanted to see what he said about me. There was nothing but good things telling his mom and friends he likes me.

My question is what should I say or do? I'm fine giving him "me" time, but I've had so many boring nights because our plans fall through and it's too late to make new ones. How would you address it if a.) you've already commented on it and b.) don't want to come across as a bitch?

 Thank you for your time :)

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<bot>: boyfriend has bad and good days. Cancels on bad. How do I not be a bitch when addressing the problem?