<human>: Hello,

I've posted on Dead Bedrooms a couple of times lately, but that's a symptom of the problem, I think.

I think the real problem, overall is that my GF and I are not wanting to live life at the same pace. She has a completely different attitude towards things than I do. 

The situation: For the past 4 (FOUR!) years of our 6-1/2 year relationship, I've waited for her to finish school, I've watched as she did a piss-poor job of finding a job (her fault - I think I explained in the first post), but mostly I've just sat around kinda waiting, "Oh, things'll be fun eventually".

Recently, I've helped her with some of her problems, finally got her into therapy and some SSRIs for Anxiety and even still, 2+ months later, while she's showing signs of improving in a lot of areas, she's still not up to my pace (not saying my pace is good or her pace is bad - my pace is my pace. Hers is hers. That's that).

The decision: In a decision that's melded in my mind over the past few days, I've simply decided that I'm - **after 4 YEARS of her pace - I'm now going to simply live life at my pace** and if she doesn't want to keep up, then I guess we're through. 

I'm not going to be malicious about this, I'm not going to be harsh - just very honest. I'm not going to mope on the couch with her at night, because she wants to mope on the couch. I'm still going to do what I want to do. If this breaks us up, fine - if not, woohoo. 

My question: Is this a healthy or an unhealthy decision? It feels callous, but after 4/6 years at her speed, what the fuck else can I do?

Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?
<bot>: Been "waiting" for roughly 4 years of a 6-7 year relationship for things to get exciting. They haven't. I'm fed up. Does my question above make me a bastard?