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My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. I have an average 9-5 job. She works 12-9pm. A few months ago she picked up a second job and now works 7 days a week. She is extremely stressed out. Lately, she has been telling me I'm not romantic or spontaneous enough. She told me she thought we didn't get along anymore and how unhappy she is. 

There is a problem. Her schedule requires her to work until 9pm on weekdays and until ~12am on weekends. She does not go in to work until 3pm on Saturday and Sunday and *refuses* to get out of bed to do anything before work. She smokes weed quite frequently and claims it has no impact on her life or state of mind. I've tried planning trips or outings to see a movie or eat somewhere that's open after 9pm or earlier than 3pm on the weekends and its ridiculously hard because shes too tired. 

Please help me! I love this girl and really would like to make it work. I asked her if she ever thought about breaking up with me because she was unhappy because I wanted what is best for her. She claims she never has, but is still unhappy. Am I missing something? Ideas? Suggestions? 

Thank you.
<bot>: Girlfriend thinks our relationship isn't spontanous enough but we have no time to plan things because she works every single day of the week and smokes way too much weed.