<human>: The history with me and her starts with both of us working together.  We got along great as friends and ended up moving in together to a small apartment on the east coast.  During the course of this I ended up meeting her family, she met mine, we met each others friends, etc.  Everything was great until I started feeling more for her then just friend feelings.  I started to really care about her but the problem was that she was in a relationship.  

A few months back I was offered a promotion in my job but I would have to move to the west coast.  I decided that I cared about her enough that I would decline it if she had any feelings towards me, so I told her how I felt even though I felt like an ass for doing it while she was still in a relationship with somebody else.  She said she didn't feel the same way, so I took the job.

She still texts me almost everyday.  I feel like an ass for not responding and my friends back home tell me that shes upset that I've stopped talking to her.  The problem is that I still have strong feelings for her, but it hurts to talk to her knowing that she doesn't feel the same way towards me.

So Reddit, should I talk to her?  I miss her and I want to talk to her but I have the feeling that I wouldn't be able to deal with her still being in a relationship with another guy.

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<bot>: I like my female roommate, she doesn't like me back, I moved away, but she still wants to talk to me.