<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

Well, here it goes. This is my first post to anything on reddit, so I hope I don't seriously fuck it up. 

I recently broke up with my last serious fella and moved away from the city we moved to together. We tried to make the move about our individual issues, not the relationship, and tried to make it work. 

After two weeks of hearing no more from him than, "I love you," "I miss you," and "I masturbated to you in the shower, remember that one time on the living room floor?", I told him I couldn't do it anymore. I wanted to feel important and that I was worth maintaining a relationship with, not just spewing a few empty phrases. We kept talking after the official break, but yesterday I made him promise not to talk to me for at least a month.

I feel like I keep leading him on if we talk! The fact of the matter is, I don't want to do this anymore. I want to be single and I want to find someone who will actually talk to me.
<bot>: So, when the month is up, what do I do to make it clear that it's over? Am I already too far into the maybe we'll survive?