<human>: Backstory: So I've had a really good friend in this guy who I will call J and have been since the beginning of high school (about 9 years now). He's nice, blah blah blah, but occasionally he will cross over into territory that I would reserve for relationships (i.e., actually biting me when I say figurative statements like "bite me"). In addition, he wouldn't really apologize and later get mad or defensive when I ask for an apology for overstepping my boundaries. 

Lately, he's taken this a step further by making really rude statements and misogynistic rants. Plus, I tried figuring out what he thinks about certain things only to be rebuffed. At this point, while I really appreciate his friendship and enjoy his company, I am too nervous to go anywhere alone with him. How / should I even communicate this to him?

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: friend is creeping me out and I don't know whether I should just stop meeting him all together or communicate this somehow. Help!