<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

So I'm gonna be 30 in May and my asian parents still treat like I am still in high school.  They make me call them everyday and if I don't they will either throw a fit or guilt trip me.  I would understand their behavior if I was a huge fuck up and can't take care of myself but I went to a top 10 undergrad, a top 10 med school, and I am currently a resident in a competitive program.  Whenever I miss my dad's calls or don't respond to his email within a day he will call me nonstop until I answer.  I am pretty busy lately (~80-100 hrs a week for the next 4 yrs) so I think its pretty reasonable that I miss some calls, but this is totally unacceptable and unreasonable to my parents.  Everytime i call them back, they always ask me what I was doing, and usually its because I was at the hospital working, and then they ask me why I didnt take their call, and it just completely frustrates me.  Also, they seem to dissaprove of everything I do, from my hobbies to my wife.  For example, I like to exercise and work out and my dad tells to stop because he says it will make me look like I have lower "social status."  He doesn't like my wife because he think she's too short (she's 5'2'').  I can go on for days with this.  But I think they also want to move in with me sometime in the future and I don't think I can handle that.    Also it's not like I have no siblings either, but I feel like they only treat me like this because I am the oldest.  So Reddit, how do you guys think I should handle this move in thing with my parents without completely destroying our relationship.  Thanks.
<bot>: my overbearing asian parents want to move in with me in the future,  I don't know how to handle it.