<human>: Over the summer I had a fling with a guy whom I met through some friends. And both of us like our privacy so we decided not to tell anyone. 
So none of my friends who know either of us know anything about it. They may have suspicions but none of them know anything for sure. 
It was a fun summer and cause I left for uni we broke it off but here's the kicker: I lost my virginity to him 

Now, I am still really close with my friends (I see them almost every other day) so in order to stop them from finding out about our relationship I didn't tell them I had lost my virginity. I have essentially been lying to them all this time. I dont know how to tell them. I feel so guilty for not telling them but I am scared they will either be hurt I didn't tell them or judge me! (they don't particularly like the guy)

So RA should I tell them? If so HOW?

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: I have been lying to my friends about being a virgin cause I didn't tell them about the guy in the first place.