<human>: If something was broken, you'd do your best to fix it, right? For as long as I can remember, I've always felt as though my personality has not gotten me to where I want to be, or the kind of person I want to be. While most people may be happy with themselves, I've always tried to change who I am, specifically modeling myself after others that I thought were successful and were where I wanted to be in life. It's gotten to the point where I will sit there and think about guys (celebs, people I know in real life) who are where I want to be in life and start figuring out how they are and start mimicking it. 

I'm in college now and it's getting even harder. I see all these gorgeous girls surrounding these guys and I wander.. what is it they do, and whatever it is, I want to do that. I'm no virgin or anything, but my love life is definitely not what I want it to be. I know guys who can just talk a girl up for a few minutes and bring her back and/or take her out a couple of days afterwards. I've been working physically on myself, but I fear that may not be enough.

Most people say "just be yourself!" but it's hard to be yourself when you aren't too sure on who you are, and when who you are has not left you the results you want.

I like to think that the ideal version of me is some mysterious, muscled up bad boy that gets all the girls, but I am not sure how realistic that is. My mind then gets into stereotypes "But wait, if I want to be some mysterious bad boy I cant do x,y,z, which are things I like doing because a bad boy would not do those things" and then I go into "but if I do x,y,z I come off as x, which in my head is not the kind of 'alpha male' I want to be"

So... where do I go from here? Any and all advice will be greatly appreciated.

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<bot>: Having issues with my personality in that my current personality has not made me the kind of guy I want to be. Want to change it, don't know how/if I should. Need help.