<human>: Basically I want to know if I'm being cold or not. 

After every time we have sex my husband grabs me into this bear hug and falls asleep. If I try to move he pulls me back and holds me tighter. He says it helps him feel relaxed. But he wants tp stay like that for 1 hour plus. Often in the middle of the day.

Whenever it happens I just lay there and start thinking about a thousand things that I wanna do. Drink water, smoke, do the dishes, laundry, feed the animals, shower, knit, play a game, you name it. It feels so claustrophobic.

I wouldn't mind cuddling for 10 mins or so but hours of doing nothing every other day is just really boring.

But he's so sweet and usually stressed out so I feel bad.

Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?
<bot>: = husband wants to cuddle for hours after sex and I get bored/restless. Am I just mean/cold?