<human>: She's Australian. I'm American. We met in the US last year. Instant connection. 

We saw each other a few more times in the States before she went home. We kept talking. I visited Aus. She visited the states. I applied to grad school in her city. I got in! But then. . . I didn't go. 

I decided that a program in the city I am currently in would be much better for my career, effectively short-circuiting this relationship. We had talked/ Skyped every day for a year in between the visits.

I'm at a loss. We are not 'exclusive' but recognize that this is something unique and we're in love. We've also both been around the block and recognize this doesn't come around that often. 

She would move to the States if I asked her to. She has a transferable job and her family would support it. I'm just not sure I can handle that type of responsibility. If things go wrong I'd feel so guilty.

Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?
<bot>: Should I ask her to move across the world for me? Would love to hear from people who have moved or asked their SO to move for them.