<human>: The Aunt in question is my Moms sister. My immediate family is me (F21) sister (F18) mom and dad (50ish). The extended side of the family is huge-there are 2 sisters and 5 brothers and all have minimum 4 kids (most are grown with kids of their own, also invited to this Christmas event). Aunt volunteered to host Christmas this year and invited all the Uncles, wives, kids, and even dogs, but she has stated she will not be inviting my mom, dad, me, or my little sister, whom she is godmother to.

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My Mom and my Aunt got in a small argument a few months ago, nothing major, but Aunt over reacted and chose to stop speaking to mom. Grandma intervened and told Aunt and Mom to stop the fight, Mom apologized but Aunt decided to stop speaking to Gma too! Inviting Gma to Christmas was the first time they spoke in 6 months. My mom has a great relationship with her other siblings, one of her brothers is even temporarily staying at our house right now. They all want to see each other. My family is 15 shades of dysfunctional but no one else would ever dream of breaking up Christmas like this.

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I want to be with my extended family for Christmas. I love em. What can I do (or influence my Mother and Grandmother to do) that will get me to see my extended family for Christmas? Apologies from Mom to Aunt did nothing. I'm not sure if the Uncles all know about this. Would having a whole 2nd Christmas gathering be rude and undermine Aunt? Should we just crash Aunt's party? Please give me some insight on how to fix this fiasco of a holiday.

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<bot>: Aunt is holding a grudge and won't invite my family to Christmas. How can I mediate a solution that will allow me to see my family?