<human>: I need advice right now.  We moved in together a month after dating and all was going well, until he went back to school (I was already in school). 

I am very happy he wants to do well.  He is very driven and spends literally all day at school or doing homework. He is extremely uptight over school and gets straight A's, but I feel like he is slightly obsessive over doing everything perfect.  For example, last week he cried to me and our professor because he got a B and not an A on a small paper and he prays every night (only)to get As in school. 

The problem is that I feel like I am suffocating.  I feel like I am supporting him in his academic endeavors but like this is not conducive to a healthy relationship.  He is rarely at home, spending time with me and when he is at home he complains I don't give him enough alone time. This morning, I wanted to have breakfast together and hang out  and he said he needed to go to school, and left me crying at home. Like, I was crying and he said Bye! enthusiastically and left. 

Am I being selfish?  Should I expect him to spend time with me, or come to terms with the fact that he can put our relationship on the backburner for the next few years?  He said this morning he could turn off our relationship just like this *snaps fingers* and that he did not want to deal with my emotions, because they will distract him from school.  I also want to do well in school and I also achieve As but I am not this uptight about it. 

I have told him I want to spend the rest of my life with him but I feel like I did not know all sides of his personality before expressing this.  I feel if I leave this relationship I won't find another special person like he is to me.

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<bot>: Boyfriend is school-obsessed, thinks I am distracting him/puts me down, don't know what to do/how to move out.