<human>: We grew up in the same house together and never talked even when we were little. They're 24, 25, 31 and I'm 22 (from the title, as you can see lol) My parents made me eat breakfast, lunch, dinner, etc. separate from them since I was female and younger, it was really strange. I was not allowed to hang out with them and their friends either again because of the whole female and younger thing. I don't know their birthdays, they don't know mine.

We all moved out after high school and still none of us have talked, I don't have a facebook so I don't know how any of their lives are going or anything. I was not allowed to have their phone numbers either, but eventually one brother gave me all three of their numbers after he heard I got into a car accident. He told me I should be able to call any of them for help if needed. So I've been wondering since I've gotten their phone numbers, if I should just text and ask why things are so shitty between us all?

My fiance is bestfriends with his siblings and it saddens me to see them all so chill with each other and know I can't really have that. I don't know if I should accept that my family is fucked up and forget about them or if it's worth trying to mend things?

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<bot>: My parents were fucking weird and alienated me from my brothers and we never got to know each other. Should I try to get to know them now that we've all moved out or forget about them all?