<human>: Every few months my Dad gets on this kick where he tries really, really hard to push his wife and myself together. I think he has this happy mother-daughter bond in his mind. She had three kids before they were married, and he has a great relationship with them. The three kids lived with them when they were growing up (I lived with my mom), and I think that because my dad was always around he became a father-figure to them. However, her and I just don't have that same bond. They have been married since I was 12, and I know for a fact it will never happen.

For one, we are simply incompatible. She enjoys socializing, having a drink, partying, generally being a social butterfly. I am solitary, I don't like drinking, and I don't like being in groups. Two, I have a mom already that I have a great relationship with, and I don't feel that bond with my step-mom like I do with my mom. Three, my Dad has told me in the past about how my step-mom talks badly about me, and that doesn't do this whole "relationship" any favors.

Regardless of all this my Dad gets in these moods where he randomly tells me we need to be closer, that she is my step-mom and we should talk more. I should call his house just to talk to her sometimes. Frankly I understand where he's coming from, I do, but I just can't have that kind of relationship with my step-mom. She is a nice person, and we are polite to each other, but that's about as far as it goes.

How do I have a final conversation with my Dad to tell him this just isn't happening? I am tired of these awkward phone conversations with my step-mom every few months because my Dad gets on her case about "bonding with my daughter", and he guilts me into the same thing. I want to make him happy, but he needs to understand his wife and his daughter are quite alright with what our relationship is now.

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<bot>: Dad consistently tries to push step-mom and I together, wants us to create some sort of mom-daughter bond. It's just not happening, we have almost nothing in common. How do I get him to stop?