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Two days before I left for college I started dating my first boyfriend. He eventually pressured me in a non-pressure-y way to come out and change my relationship status for him on Facebook. I'm pretty popular among my friends especially on Facebook so many people commented and liked the changed status and everyone I knew, knew.

 We had a nice relationship and had only 3 major fights that I remember, one that stemmed from, I think, his own insecurities (I was always the "life of the party" he was more of a "wallflower") of me outshining him, another about him not wanting to hang out with my friends because he didn't feel super included, and another about weed (he was worried that I would turn into his lazy, dropout ex if we started smoking together). 

We broke up on our one year anniversary because he cheated. He couldn't tell me at the time but I could tell that his reasons weren't genuine. After pressing him for a few days he told me his real reasons and that he'd cheated. 

So it's 3 years later and recently I've been thinking about him and the situation a lot and realized I wasn't a perfect, easy boyfriend and I made some of my own mistakes that could have led us to that end. My own ideals about cheating itself have broadened and while I don't think we'll date again I've grown a lot as a person and I think that I could handle a mature friendship. I've always been the type never to speak to my exes after we break up because I've never seen a positive outcome to relationships like that. However, this guy was such a huge part of my life now. I kind of feel like he should be a part of it.
<bot>: Dated a guy, we broke up, we haven't spoken in two or three years, want to add him on Facebook and start talking again should I or am I just setting myself up for drama?