<human>: We have been going out for 9 months (we are both 19). She used to love being fingered and would beg for me to do it. Now, she seems like she doesn't want me to. She doesn't want me to go down on her either anymore. Lately, she hasn't been as intimate. We started having sex not too long ago, and she loved that at first too. Now everything just declined. We have sex maybe once or twice a month. Anything else is less than that. What can I do? I really need your help. I feel like if I lose her like this, she's just going to not feel as close with me in general. I don't want to lose her, and she is the best thing to happen to me so far..

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<bot>: Girlfriend is less intimate, and I don't know what to do and I feel like I'm going to lose her in general.