<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

So basically the title says it, I found my wife is talking to one of her guy friends about her feelings in our marriage, things that she isn't telling me, they have been friends for over 10 years but haven't seen each other in at least 5.

They usually text here and there and I knew about it and never had any problems with it until I started seeing him text her about how she is pretty, loves her and how it is too bad she is already married now and he might just need to a backup plan in his 30's or 40's. 

One of the things that really get me about the whole thing was a comment where she mentions that "I love my my husband with all my heart but sometimes I wish I married a hispanic man" ... (She is hispanic, I'm not, her friend is) ... 

I didn't tell her to stop talking to this guy but I told her not to talk to him about our personal matters or how she feels about me to him, especially when it is things that she isn't telling me.

When I confronted her about the things he was saying she didn't mention anything of it and just said if a guy tried something I would just say no.

I feel the guy is being flirty and trying to set himself up, that she knows he is doing it and just going along without really investing herself into it by just saying they are friends, and I'm feeling a bit hurt by the whole situation, think what she did was wrong and feel like I am due some type of apology or something ...

We have already talked about this issue, she says what she was doing is wrong and wouldn't want me doing the same thing, the problem is this is still stirring in my head and I'm looking for outside opinions for this for what I should really think, do or say about this ... Mostly because I honestly feel this kind of behavior is the gateway to cheating or not so innocent behavior.
<bot>: Wife talking to a guy friend about her feelings in our marriage, I feel his intentions are wrong and feel hurt from what she has done because of the things that were said.