<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

Hey guys,

Earlier this year I graduated and moved away from the city to take up a job on the other side of the country.  It was a great opportunity for me but at the same time, the difficulties in my then relationship [24F] got worse and we had a really volatile break-up.  Long-story short, she didn't want anything to do with me moving away, she wanted a family and would rather I took a shitty job.  Don't get me wrong, I handled things pretty bad in hindsight but it would have led to it anyway.

In relation to this story, my then girlfriend and my two friends "David" and "Jess" were really quite close and we went on various holidays together.

David and Jess have two kids, one born last April and one born 2 months ago.

I met with David mid-summer and it didn't seem like anything was up, we had a chat and he said that he didn't want to take sides but he thought I may have overreacted when I went NC.  I had my reasons for that, primarily my ex was extremely toxic but they weren't to know what happened behind the scenes over the few months.

When David left he said to keep in touch and that's what I've been doing.  I have messaged David and Jess on several occasions on birthdays, when their 2nd child was born and even to ask if they wanted to meet up and not a single peep.

I can't help but feel this is to do with my ex.  I saw a few of her friends on a night out and the looks I got was like I murdered someone.

Note: I want to get this sorted because I'm moving back to the city.  An opportunity came about for a permanent role on this side of the country with excellent progression and I can't bare the thought of what were my 2 close friends giving me the cold shoulder all the time. How do I approach this? They were really good friends.
<bot>: Moved away for a job, split up with my then girlfriend at the same time after a toxic relationship. We were really close with another couple but now they are giving me a cold shoulder.  What do I do?