<human>: We have been dating for about 1 year and 6 months and we have been living together the majority of that time. He is an amazing man and we get along very well 95% of the time. I am very much in love with him and can (and have) been picturing myself spending the rest of my life with him. We have many plans for our future and are on the same page when it comes to kids, marriage, where to live and are both in the careers we plan to be in for the rest of our lives. 

We have our little spats like any couple does and we are fairly good at resolving our problems without any one getting too upset. The only problem comes in the bedroom.. 

I have a very high libido and he does not. We have talked about it I can't even remember how many times but it seems to be the only problem we can't resolve. I have never had an orgasm while having sex with him and we have had a lot of sex over the time we have been dating. We also don't have sex very much and when we do it doesn't last as long as I'd like. Basically, I want him to try harder and he says that he has been yet I haven't seen any changes in the past 6 months since we first talked about it. Even yesterday I tried to initiate sex and gave him a killer blow job but after the sex was super awkward and neither of us finished. 

So my question basically comes down to sex or love? I feel like I'm going to be the one to have to settle when it comes to the bedroom but I'm worried that in the years to come I will end up regretting choosing love over sex and I will stay unfulfilled sexually. What can I do? I don't want to break up over sex but I really want to explore more sexually and no matter how many times i bring it up with him nothing changes.

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<bot>: Sex or love? I am looking for more from the bedroom and no matter how many times I talk to my SO about it nothing changes.