<human>: We met 2 years ago, and I took a liking to her.  She is a great person and I care for her and want her to be happy.  However, I can say that I have never felt in love with her at any point.  I feel affection, and concern for her, but I really do not strongly love her, and have no desire to marry or have kids with her.  We have been through many fights and breakups at this point, and I feel that I am now with her for selfish reasons: I am currently unemployed and feel like being in a relationship will help me feel less alone or like a loser, and also I feel that I may not meet another woman who is as good a person as she is.  On her end, she has stated that she loves me, but I also feel like she is still with me because I am basically an emotional sponge for her, every time we talk it is about her venting problems about her work, or other issues in her life.  Would it be best if we just broke it off already?  If so, how should I go about doing it?

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<bot>: Not in love with my SO of 2 years, feel like we are both only in the relationship for emotional support rather than love.