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Dear Reddit Relationships,

What are your opinions in modern day dating on what the ratio of communication should be between two people seriously dating? (22M & 22F). My reason for this question is that I feel that I am doing a majority of the communication and "pushing" in my current relationship. Some examples below

A. I will ask about setting up a date or event down the road at somepoint (rarely last minute) and I get a response of "oh, I'll check my calendar and see" and never get a response until I have to ask the day before

B. Almost everytime we spend time together, It's me traveling to her area of town or her house to see her (she lives with her parent's). due to my own personal choices (school and living with my parents), I live an hour away from her. This means I get finished up spending time with her sometimes at 1am and then get home to fall asleep at 2:30 and have to be in class another hour away at 8:30. Suffice to say, this is not enjoyable. The only thing worse is that she's cancelled on several dates because she needs to get up early for work and doesnt want to stay up late (she has to get up at the same time i do for school), basically implying that she doesnt want to lose sleep like I do for her.

C. Overall, our communication (which is 80% text, 19% face to face and 1%phone) can be simplified that I am the one to start conversations, ask the questions and keep the ball rolling per se.
Honestly, I feel that this whole situation is unfair and getting the vibe that I might not be the only fish in the pond. I'm looking for some feedback and overall guidance for conversation and communication in this relationship.
<bot>: I feel that I am the one initiating and putting forward the most in my current relationship, would like some perspective and guidance.