<human>: I posted this in /r/relationships but didn't get much advice:

This gang has about a dozen people, all of whom only started hanging out together in the last few months. Before that, it was three different posses that only hung out sparsely.

Anyway, for the last month, I've developed sort of a soft spot for one of the girls, 'Dunya.' In the old days, I never really noticed her, but lately I've kinda been fancying her. She never really stood out among her friends, but from small interactions that I've observed, she seems like she could be a really cool person when you get to know her.

I haven't the faintest idea of whether she'd be interested, though. She became super friendly to me when she was drunk (demanded my phone number, locked her arm around mine when we were walking, usual drunk stuff) but she seems closed off at other times. Other than that, I might find her looking at me every now (when we're all hanging out) and then and we'll make brief eye contact, but that's about it.

So the issue is that I don't know how to gauge her feelings since it's hard to get her alone. I definitely don't want to ask her out right now because it would be Awkward City if she turned me down (I would still want to be friends with her and hang out if she's not interested in romance.)

Also, one of the other guys (Ted) seems to like her too, but I'm not sure if they have more of a brother/sister dynamic. When he gets drunk he always tells her how alike they are, they clearly have a very close relationship, and there's a running joke the other guys have about Ted and Dunya being a couple and how cute they are together; I don't know if that's supposed to be ironic or not haha. The joke is based on a picture of them that makes them look like a couple.

Happy to provide more details if needed in addition to this novella.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Interested in a girl in my circle of friends, not sure about her feelings, and I don't know how to get closer to her. Advice?