<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

I will be referring to my GF as Sandra for the remainder of this post. I have been dating Sandra for around 1 month after being single for 4 years. The reason I mention the time frame is because I feel I may be just trying to hold onto Sandra because I've been alone for such a long time. Anyway, everything between her and me is good for the most part: she is a very sweet and caring person. She is an affectionate person, and when her and I are "good," I feel like her and I can last a long time...  

...until it comes to conflict resolution. We've already gotten into one fight, and another one again just recently. I always try to talk things through when my head is cool and I can speak without sounding provocative. But despite the effort to try to argue/discuss maturely, she never seems to take responsibility for any of her actions. Here I am, trying to work things out, trying to understand why Sandra is feeling bad (despite me thinking what I did to her was harmless or just a joke), but she seems to think that **everything** is my fault. I'm willing to look at my behavior and try to see it from her view, but I feel that it is not reciprocated. It has been:  

*"X wouldn't have happened if you hadn't done Y."*  

We were able to get past our first conflict, but hearing this again makes me feel like her and I would have issues in the future with conflict resolution. Don't get me wrong, I'm 100% okay with conflict--I just want the girl that I'm dating to be willing to work things out and be self-critical if need be. Perhaps I'm just taking it too seriously, considering it has only been 1 month. Perhaps my expectations are too high already. My question is: **is Sandra already bad news?** I'm confident her and I can get through this conflict but I'm already worried about our future. **Is it too soon for problems?
<bot>: My GF and I have been dating for ~1 month and have problems with conflict resolution. Is it even worth trying to make things work given the time frame of our relationship?