<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

Pretty self explanitory request from everybody. But I will provide some more detail. Im ready to get back into the dating scene and want to go full swing.

In the past I haven't been too good at the online dating thing. Honestly its easier meeting people in person, but my current life just doesnt alow for many opportunites to do so. And I definetly do not want to meet people at bars. 

It seems today that Online dating is go to now. Amost the defulat way to meet people expecialy once you are out of school and an adult. So im hoping you guys can help me out here. 

I'm just wonderig if anybodyy has some fantastic insight on how to make my online dating profile stand out. What kind of messages should I be sending women? What kind of picutures really help? I understand its a numbers game. Women get bombarded with dozens of messages on dating sites, but I need to stand out, right?

I hear OKcupid is site of choice these days and I understnad Match and Eharmony are out there, but again still living by each paycheck here. So if you guys know of great places to get advice, maybe you guys personally have good advice, or you know of a post on reddit someone made that was extremely helpful, send them my way. I could really use the advice!
<bot>: Anybody have good advice or know of good reddit posts that can help me perfect online dating with Ok Cupid or any dating sites you prefer?