<human>: I've been dating my current bf for the past 3 months. When I started off the relationship, I told myself I was going to take it slow. I am still dealing with the emotional wake from my breakup with my ex of 4.5 years. I explained the situation to my current bf when we started dating, and he was very supportive, telling me to take as much time as I needed.

I'm now dealing with some very conflicting emotions. On one hand, I'm still trying to figure out how to move past my ex. I still think about him from time to time (not nearly as much as before the relationship), and when I do think of him, I am still angry, hurt, and ready to cry.

But on the other hand, my current bf makes me feel happy, makes me laugh, and makes me feel truly good about myself. Last week, when he dropped me off at my home, I almost instinctively said "I love you" as I kissed him goodbye. It really feels like I've fallen for him, and sometimes, I really want to say it.

What I'm scared of is the basis of these feelings. I don't know if these are real feelings for my new bf, or if this is me rushing into a new relationship to try and get over my ex. I want to tell my bf that I love him, but I want it to be true. Any advice you have on the situation would be much appreciated.

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<bot>: Not sure if these feelings for my bf are genuine, or if they are fueled by lingering issues with my ex.