<human>: To be completely honest, things have moved very fast for us and there have already been hick-ups along the way. That being said, I do love her very much and I already spend every night at her house and it's almost as if I live there already. However, I have some things that I need to clear the air on.  

The big one for me (and I know I will get blasted here for this) is that I am still married and she thinks that I am divorced. I didn't even mean for that to happen because several weeks before I met her (after like a years separation) we had made our final agreements through mediation and the paperwork part (writing up the final settlement and filing with the courts) should have been done within a few weeks (so at that point-any day) but it has taken month's of our lawyers dragging their feet over the tiniest of details and taking two to three weeks for their communications between each other even! It is getting so old and was not supposed to drag on.  

I want to get that out in the open and let the consequences be what they are.  

As far as her, I know that there has been stuff that she has trickle truthed me about, such as when she really broke off trying to work things out again with her ex husband. She had told me they tried a little bit last year, which has turned into trying up until March of this year but I found out that he was freaking out when she was on a date with me the first week or so that we hung out and that her daughter lied to him about where she was. There is more too.  

My main point is that we both have complicated situations and before we make this huge leap, I want everything to be 100% open. No little secrets anymore. just honesty and understanding.

How would you go about starting that conversation?

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: About to move in together. Need to get some of both of our hidden truths out. How to go about doing so?