<human>: My husband got a recent promotion. It's a significant raise but not enough to provide for everyone in his entire family. Immediately after he shared the news, his mom is asking for handouts and his sister demanded to know how much he's making and how soon he'll see the money. Husband's dad has already asked for us to pay off his sister's credit card debts (yes she does have a decent job). I'm really worried this is going to make things weird, or at least we'll get badgered at holidays. His family already expects us to pick up the bill everytime we go out to eat. 

We both moved for work and for the past 5years we never got calls or visits. Ever since he came into some money, they've been calling weekly and doing visits every other month. 

My main questions are: how do you deal with this/say no tactfully? I'm afraid of being called cheap or stingy and do I have a right to say anything? We're married so we're in on this together, but I haven't worked for his* money.

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<bot>: In-laws indirectly asking for money because husband got a raise. Not sure how to keep things from ruining our marriage/relationship with the in-laws.