<human>: We've been dating for 2,5 years straight now. And before that we've been on and off. In total we've been together for a period of 4 years. We're the best friends one could ever think of, and we have had a great sex life all in all. Only the last six months she has been experiencing a lack of sex drive.

For me, it's not all about sex. But it's definitely a big part of being partners. Without it, we might as well *only* be good friends. I've tried to ignore that fact that it's eating away at me. But it is and has resulted in heated discussions on how we should fix it. But unless our endless efforts on finding a way, she doesn't feel like things are changing.

I'm practically the only one she's ever had (despite her first, which she says wasn't really something worth noting.) and that idea -having never been single/alone- is really oppressive. 

We don't want to lose each other because of this, and despite her saying it's an oppressive feeling we've both decided to give it another try. 

I'd like to say that she is with me as I am writing this. And she's completely honest with me. 

Has anyone of you gone through the same problems with your partner or girl/boyfriend, and if so how did you fix it?

Can you provide a brief overview of the text?
<bot>: Girlfriend experiencing lack of sex drive. Tearing us apart, want to fix it because we love each other too much. Help.