<human>: I have very conflicted thoughts these days with my girlfriend [m/30 dating f/35]. 

She is stuck in a long processing divorce, was a stay at home mom (now student) and has not worked in 15+ years. Prior to that she could not hold a job longer than a year. 

I may not sound like it, but I do love her, I am also a full time student with no income so supporting her and her ways is completely out of the questions for at least 4 more years. 

Issues I have.

1. Has a druggie son, says fuck you to her face, she supports him - he would not not exists (under my roof) in my world * 

2. Druggie slut daughter, 2 kids, not fixed - my gf is constantly getting her soon to be ex husband sending her money to bail her out of her bad decisions. (would not exists if i was with her). 

3. Her life is complete shambles, always crying, always drama, always on the brink of financial disaster. She used spare money to get some shit injected in her lips rather than make a car payment. (would not happen under my dollar). 

4. she is taking classes to achieve an unrealistic goal (as I currently do ALL of her homework) this tells me she is not going to make goal and end up flat on her ass. (which I want a working partner so I dont have to support).

What I am trying to get to.. is that I do care for her, I love her as a person.... but I always thought if you "love some one you support them unconditionally (be there no matter what, even if have to suffer as well). 

But the selfish part of me says its not my problem. 

If I love her - do I look past this and try to bring her life to a better place?
Is love not about dragging your partner though the mud, due to your messed up life?

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: I love her, but she is a complete wreak, if I loved her do I look past? or is that not what is love about?