<human>: We dated for 8 months. Yes it was good and then it got bad. We ended up breaking up. Not my first breakup and it probably wont be my last (but who knows).

Anyways, this is less of question about me and more of a question in general. Why does it hurt so bad even though I, and she, knows it was for the best? I miss her like crazy... but I shouldnt. Its not just wanting someone else. There are other girls out there. I want her specifically. 

In my first breakup, ill admit I messed up and had a reason to be filled with regret. This breakup wasnt really anybodies fault though. Once the dust settled after few months of dating, we realized we had nothing to talk about and no common interests. This led to us becoming insanely bored with each other until we sat down and talked about it. Then me and her came to the conclusion that we just are not working out. I was even the one who suggested breaking up and I dont regret it.

But still, I miss her so badly but dont have a reason to. Is it just human nature to want to cuddle with someone youre comfortable with? If I can understand why I feel this way, I feel like it will help me get over it a little quicker.

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<bot>: I miss my newly ex girlfriend so much. But I shouldnt because I know we had to break up because we realized our relationship was going nowhere. Why do I feel this way?