<human>: The other day, out of nowhere, my ex-girlfriend sends me a text saying she'll need me to submit to a paternity test. The baby is apparently due next week and she's planning on giving it up for adoption. At first I don't believe her, I thought she's just drunk or high and playing a sick joke. Next day she's still saying the same thing, so now I start to believe her. She says I'm the only guy that fits the timeline. After talking it over with my wife, we agree that as long as she terminates her parental rights and doesn't want to be in contact with the child, we're fine as raising it as our own. At first my ex-gf is all for that, saying she just didn't want to ask us that. As messages go on, she starts saying that she thinks the adoptive couple would be better, as they are "freaking rich" (her words). She also starts saying how she could disappear easily, and she's regretting asking me at all. She's becoming more evasive and being reluctant to discuss the topic at all.

I'm in the military, stationed in Southern California. She lives in Washington, Tacoma area. I've tried contacting a lawyer and they're in the process of checking for conflicts of interest. Haven't heard back from them past this morning. I've read that she can put whatever name she wants on there for the biological father. If so she can put her current boyfriend, then have him sign the rights away. I do not want to lose my son, if it is my son. What options do I have?

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<bot>: Ex-gf having my baby, no notice. I'm in CA, she's in WA. I think she's trying to sneak an adoption before I can react.