<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Me (20f) and my boyfriend (21M) have been together for the past 6 months, and went on dates for about a month prior to that. Our relationship is super fantastic, and there's little to no problems, except one. The one problem that seems to keep coming up, is his family. He is Pakistani, and I'm white, and you would think it doesn't really matter. To our friends and my family, it doesn't at all. But to his mom, it seems like she likes me as a person, but she doesn't like me being with him at all, and it's really starting to get to my head.

We sleep at each others houses every night, and one night, while I was staying at his house, we decided to go downstairs and make some brownies for ourselves. Somehow, it woke his mom up, and she started to lecture me on how it's a different culture, and pretty much told me I don't understand how things work with her and her family. Which is not true at all. I'm extremely understanding with all of my boyfriends cultural beliefs and way of living, which are not too far off from my own. His mother on the other hand, I feel, thinks he needs to be with a brown girl to be happy. She was in an arranged marriage, and has asked my boyfriend if he wanted one as well. 

I get extremely stressed out when I sleep over there, because I'm so afraid she's going to wake up and find out I'm there, and call the police, or I'm not even sure. I'm even too afraid to see her in the day time, when my boyfriend assures me it's okay. I've been avoiding contact with her so long, I honestly forgot how she looks, and it really bothers me, because me and my boyfriend are extremely close, and I've never had a connection with anyone like him before, and knowing his mother thinks that this is just a passing thing, hurts, pretty bad. 

My question to you reddit: Should I continue to avoid her, and just wait until she sees that we're not just a passing thing? Or should I come around his house more in the day, and have her see me and my boyfriend sitting around watching tv or being active outside.
<bot>: My boyfriend is brown, and I'm white. I feel like his mom doesn't want me to be with him for that sole reason, and it's really starting to mess with my head.