<human>: I am surrounded by morbidly obese people.  My dad weighs almost 400 lbs, for reference.  The rest of my family is varying shades of fat, I say that with love I suppose, but also some disgust.  I'm sick and tired of their diets and habits interfering with mine.  I am down to 188 from 246 and trying so hard to lose 40 more lbs, but I just feel like there are haters all around me.  They get mad at me for not eating with them (when there are 4 types of fried foods at one meal I can't sit at the table with them) and they feel like "I am trying too hard" or "trying to be someone I'm not".  I'm "boring" now, I used to be "fun".  Stuff like that.

As if this weren't bad enough, my boyfriend keeps trying to derail me, too.  He's about 202 lbs and 5'9, I'd describe him as "chunky" if pressed.  He loves to eat processed foods, carbs, cheese, all the stuff I can't eat anymore basically.  A few weeks ago he decided to try and lose weight with me, and I was grateful because I'd been feeling pretty lonely on my 1200 cal diet.  It's just that, on weekends, he decides he gets a splurge day and eats like utter shit and tries to get me to join him.  I go 500 cals over at least one day a week at his urging, and regret it every Monday when I weigh in.  This weekend I made him exercise both Saturday and Sunday with me to counteract all the eating, but it wasn't enough and I've gained a pound since Friday.  He has a physically demanding job so he manages to keep his weight down during the week, but I have a harder time burning those extra calories and rely on diet more than anything to reach my goal.

I can't do this anymore Reddit.  I want to go into seclusion til I reach my goal weight, but that's not possible.  I need inspiration and support, which is why I come here.

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<bot>: my fam and bf are sabotaging my efforts, any suggestions or advice?  How do you guys deal with it?