<human>: My daughter - Stacy, and my wife - Rose,  (not her mother) don't get along. 
Rose isn't to blame for my divorce with Stacy's mother, she came into my life later and after a few other women.

Stacy in general isn't problematic, she's a good student and usually behaves well.

However she doesn't accept my wife. She's  polite and cordial but cold and distanced. I think it's ok while she treats Rose with respect. And she does.

And Rose is good to her, we have a great marriage and she tries to be OK with Stacy.

But the problem is, Rose doesn't agree  with Stacy's curfew. When she goes out for walks/coffee/etc. I expect her to be back before midnight and if it's to a club, she can stay as long as her friends can which is usually about 3-4 AM.
Now I know this may sound shocking, but in our town it's normal and it really does work that way. (We're from Southern Europe)

Rose thinks I shouldn't care how long other kids stay and should make Stacy come by 10PM on regular days and by 1-2 AM when she's in a club. And that she shouldn't be allowed to go out all the time.
Here's the thing.. While I respect my wife's opinion, I don't agree at all and don't want to change it.

Rose thinks this is huge disrespect of her by me and Stacy, but I don't.
Stacy doesn't cause problems while out or wake Rose up when she comes home, so why even complain about it?

I'm not sure how to handle this. I don't want to set rules for my child based on my wife's opinion that I don't agree with, nor do I want this to wreck my marriage.

What do you think?

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<bot>: My wife thinks my daughter is allowed to stay out too long, should she have a say considering it doesn't affect her?