<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

So, I might get yelled at quite a bit but I've been wondering this for a long time and never had the guts to ask. I see all these posts about atheists encountering all these problems and stuff, which normally I never read because it just seems like a lot of pointless complaining. I do believe there is some sort of afterlife, and I have prayed and done all that business, but I don't really care enough to sit and make myself pick whether I believe or don't or all that nonsense. I do not go to church, and I do not believe in organized religion.  

I just want to know, if you are an atheist, how do people actually know it? Like, are you walking around with a sign saying "THERE IS NO GOD" just to get into fights and debates with people? I never in my entire life have ever encountered a situation where religion is even a slight issue or problem. If someone decides they want to talk about it, I listen to what they have to say and think it is actually quite interesting because I love hearing other peoples views on life. If they ask me my opinion or what i believe it usually goes "ehh, I don't know, but what you said totally seems like you are passionate about it and that's awesome" I feel like if you have to sit and try and convince them what you believe is true, aren't you just as bad as the people that you are arguing with? I don't know, it just seems very bizarre to me and that if you didn't want to be involved in arguments about religion then you wouldn't. If you don't believe in something, you just shouldn't.

 I don't really get the idea of being proud (not sure if right word) of NOT believing something. Or putting other people down for believe differently than you even if you think they are morons. Isn't that the bigotry that I see all these atheists complaining about in the first place?
<bot>: How do religious people even know you are atheist if you aren't running around broadcasting it? I just would like to hear some situations or examples to get a better understanding of all the hatred i seem to see.