<human>: While she was in grad school, she had a 30 min commute. She decided it was to long and needed an apartment closer to campus. I was trying to be supportive and let her do it. 

After graduation she spent the summer playing with friends and family while I worked at a co-op (I'm finishing my undergrad in electrical engineering). Then she took a job 2 and a half hours away despite my objections.

Once again I tried to be supportive and helped her move and generally tried to not make her feel guilty. When my co-op ended I told them I probably wouldn't be returning because she moved and I wanted to be with her. I began my search for new job near her. 

I found a great a job and was asked for an interview. I told her as soon as I found out and she wasn't happy. The interview was set for a Friday of a "girls weekend" (read not invited).  She changed plans to accommodate me for the the night. 

I went to the interview and it was a job offer. It was mine if I wanted it. When I told my wife she spent the next 2 hours trying to convince me that I shouldn't take it. That she "wasn't even going to be in town for the summer". It went on and on with different excuses. 

Is it just me or does this seem weird. She has since explained that she was angry because we never discussed getting a job/moving there. Her actions and her explanations don't make sense to me. I know it's one sided but I just don't get how she could think I'm not trying to improve our relationship when she keeps moving away.

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<bot>: wife moves away, freaks out when I try to follow, blames me for not trying. Am I the only one confused by this?