<human>: I've been with my SO for 2.5 years when we first met she was in decent shape and put a decent amount of effort in how she looked which is one of the things that attracted me to her since I was raised that appearance is important since that's one of the first thing people judge you on.

through the course of our relationship she started to gain weight, not a whole bunch but enough to where she had to get some bigger sized clothing since everything started fitting her small, and started to grow very visible facial hair which is what my main issue is since she can lose the weight pretty fast since it's something shes done before but every time i bring up the facial hair she gets really defensive and angry usually yells about it for a bit then ignores me the thing is I find myself embarrassed about the facial hair because its really noticeable I offered to pay for threading, waxing, and laser hair removal but every time I get yelled and hit and pinched( this doesn't really bother me as i got over a foot of height on her and am in decent shape since i work construction so she usually ends up hurting herself while attacking me) how do I get her to hear me out?

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<bot>: SO of 2.5 years let herself go and cant talk to her about it without her making me feel like shit or blowing up