<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

Now before I start, my parents have been divorced for a loooong time, and also my dad doesn't even live in the country where I live. I also have some medical problems with my right foot, but that's a whole another story.

Anyway, each time my grandmother comes to visit me (she lives in a different city so It's usually maybe 4 times a year) she ALWAYS asks me about my foot, and is there gonna be something done to it like a surgery or something which really makes me uncomfortable, and while people might just say "they care for you" etc. I've even told my grandma that PLEASE don't talk about this topic when we meet, or for example go to my mom to ask if there are any plans in the future, just don't talk about it with me. I'd tell you if there were any news. ._.

About my dad: Well, I know for a fact that he owes my mom a lot of money, why don't you give it back to her, so she can find a doctor or something that can help me? Y'know nothing is free these days! (pretty much) As I've also mentioned before, he lives in a different country so he's always like "Come to my country and we'll get you a doctor etc.!" and once again, it might just be that they care for me, and, they do. But PLEASE leave my problems to myself. Please. :( 

This whole thing might just be answered with "Oh don't worry, they just care for you, you know" (and I know they do!) but I hate having to be asked(questioned?) of my problems each time I talk to my dad or my grandma. And even then i remember that when I was little doctors said that It'd be better for me to be about 16 to do a surgery. (I'm a bit younger than that)

P.S. English isn't my native language so sorry for any (minor) mistakes!
<bot>: I hate my Dad and his family basically just cause when I talk to them they always ask me about my problems and make me uncomfortable.