<human>: As the title says, we've been dating for nearly a year now and one of the milestones I mentioned in a relationship is moving in together. I feel like that's an important part of a relationship, it allows both people to live together and see how they feel about being with each other 24/7. She flat out told me that can't happen. It's largely due to her family and religion and she's said that in the past when family members moved in with each other prior to marriage it's "disgraced the family." 

I'm honestly not sure how to react. Part of me is distraught because, to me, no length of dating can make up for actually living together. Another part of me is angry, her brother is planning to move in with his girlfriend and there is nowhere near the level of outrage over that. I also feel like maybe I'm over-reacting. I wasn't thinking of approaching the subject for another year or two to be honest. So who knows how things could change or if her family warms up to me (though she is firmly convinced that no matter how much they like me, though would not support it.)

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<bot>: I think that living together prior to engagement/marriage is very important. My girlfriend says that due to custom, family, and religion, it's not possible.