<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

I love to travel. I never had much money growing up so I hardly ever got to do it, even through college. I have a good job now and have been squirreling away money so that I can use it for trips. My bf feels the same way about traveling and would love to do the same, but he's in school at the moment so his funds are low. He really doesn't have the money to spend right now.

My friend's getting married at the end of the year. It's a destination wedding and I would LOVE to go and stay for a week or two afterwards. But I know he can just barely afford to attend the ceremony. In addition, a bunch of our friends are planning a Europe trip this summer, which sounds amazing, but I know for sure he couldn't swing it.

I would love to do all these things with him, of course, but since I know he can't, would I be a total asshole to even mention the possibility of me going without him? I feel like it would be a shitty move and he would feel left out and bummed that he can't afford it (I don't blame him), but selfishly, I still want to go...

I guess I just need someone on the outside to tell me that it would be really fucked up of me to go without him. (Or maybe not. I don't know?)
<bot>: I want to travel, but my bf can't afford it. Is it shitty of me to ask if I could go on my own?