<human>: My year long relationship with my Ex [24F] has just ended because I could not get over some jealousy issues (I don't know if the real issue was me or her).  Her Ex continued to contact and reach out to her during our relationship; calling and texting at random hours of the night.  At first it didn't bother me but once it got to the point where it was becoming a regular occurrence, it started to eat away at me.  Not to mention the fact that she stayed in regular contact with his family (which also after months and months, bothered me).  I expressed how uncomfortable I was and she assured me that I had nothing to worry about, and  that it would stop.  It did not, which in the end put a strain on our relationship causing us (more so me) to become distant and eventually break it off.

It has been 3 months since we broke up we are still in constant contact.  Well, her and I... and her and other people.  Now that she is single, there have been other suitors that have reached out to her and it seems that she is some what of an "attention-lover". She tells me wants to get back together with me and I would love to get back together as well.... but I can't seem to overcome the past and the current constant texting every time we hang out.  It just seems to me that, if she really wanted to get back together and make it work for real, then why is she constantly seeking attention from others?  She says one thing and shows another.

Any thoughts or advice for a lost soul?

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<bot>: My ex and I broke up because she kept in contact with her previous ex.  I'm confused because she wants to work it out but cant cut attention from others.