<human>: My husband and I have been together over 5 years.  We were talking last night about something and I mentioned how I'll never forget how the day after he asked me out, he came to see me at work all dressed up, new hair style, contacts in... and how it meant a lot to me that he wanted to impress me.   Then he said he doesn't even remember that :(  Turns out he doesn't remember anything about any of the big or little things from when we were dating, like our first time or when he said he loved me or when I said I loved him.  He says he has a bad memory but it just seems like an excuse since he has so many anecdotes about his friends and family members...

It just hurts because all those moments meant so much to me, and I will never forget them.  And I just feel they must not have meant the same to him because he doesn't remember them at all.  It really hurts my feelings.  Am I over-reacting being upset?  I don't expect him to remember all the little details of every second, but not even knowing when I told him I loved him for the first time?  It kills me that it could be so forgettable to him.

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<bot>: My husband doesn't remember special moments in our relationship.  Is that normal?  Am I over-reacting?