<human>: Hey all

I've been with my girlfriend for a little over a year.  I love her and just about everything except what I'll be going into is great.

-sex problems.  This is the biggest issue.  We had an std scare which seriously traumatized her.  Ever since she has been unable to become aroused (her words).  I'm confused by the wording because she has been able to orgasm when we do have sex.  But it hurts her, it hasn't been satisfying, she doesn't get wet etc.  the last month we didn't have sex.  She is willing to help me out in other ways and has recently agreed to try to get therapy for the issue.  But I'm not sure if it will help, how long it will take etc.  she also has different attitude towards sex, is not very sexual, does not enjoy receiving oral..

-yelling.. She doesn't have a stress response to yelling (it seems) like I do.  I've asked her so many times not to yell during fights.  Still happens very often.  Better than before though.

-tiredness and irritability when tired.. It seems like she never gets enough sleep whether we have 9 hours or 5.  And when she is tired she is irritable and honestly pretty unbearable.

-she doesn't love herself.. Family emotional abuse, ocd and a really shitty childhood combine into this.

She acknowledges the first two (and fourth) problems and wants to improve them, recently offering to see a therapist (if she can get one.. She is very poor and not knowledgeable of any free/cheap programs and neither am I).  The third problem I've never really brought up.

Te hardest part is I just moved across the country for a job.. The sort of plan was for her to stay with her family and save money / see them and then come out to me after a few months.  If these problems were solved I would be really happy about this.  As it is I don't know what to think or do.  But I don't want to throw away what we have either.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: my girlfriend has problems with sex, yelling, sleeping and loving herself.  She wants to change these.  Not sure if I can keep going while its unsure what will end up actually changing.