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We started dating at the end of our junior year of university, and we were distance for that summer. Reunited, we had a great year together senior year, and he moved in with me at the start of the summer. We recently moved to a new city and got our first place together.

And now the magic has worn off. I know relationships are supposed to be work, but I'm not entirely sure how to put that work in. Call me stupid, but where is the to-do list of how to help maintain your relationship? Obviously there isn't one, but I don't quite understand how to put in the work on us. We eat dinner together, go to bed at the same time, have sex occasionally, etc... But it's boring! I think about our future, and I'm sure we could make a marriage work, but it certainly isn't exciting sounding. Is that just how it is with a long term relationship? As you've probably guessed, this is my first serious, long term one.
<bot>: I'm bored with my relationship with a fantastic guy. Are long term relationships just inherently boring? If not, how do you put in the work to maintain your relationship's excitement?