<human>: I'm a 22 year old female that lives about 20 minutes outside of town and shares a car with her mother for now, not in school, although I have a job, and see friends maybe once or twice a week so I hardly have a social life at all anymore and feel inadequate to most of my peers. 

However I'm told i'm very attractive/great personality and I do have a FWB I've been seeing since February that I'm starting to fall for, so there's that. About my FWB though, I'm getting mixed messages whether or not he wants more than what we are. I've asked him about it about 3 months ago or so and he didn't seem interested in pursuing a committed relationship, and I still think he feels the same. Deep down I feel like that's what I want, a real relationship, but I'm not exactly "on my own feet" yet being without a car and living at home still. (I still pay rent, so I'm not a bum, I'm still financially independent.)

 So I feel like It's time for me to move on and maybe try to pursue this older guy (6-7 year gap) that seems to like me. Here's the thing though... me, him and his ex all work in the same building. Me and her aren't best buddies or anything, we have alot of mutual friends, we just don't each OTHER that well. So I don't know what it was like when they broke up or if she's a jealous/spiteful person.

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<bot>: Trying to smoothly break off a FWB relationship to pursue a possible real relationship without making anyone jealous or mad, but I feel too insecure about my living/driving situation to ACTUALLY pursue it. :\