<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

About a month ago I broke up with my first boyfriend, I'll call him Sam, who I had dated for 2 years. He had developed an alcohol problem that was beginning to affect the rest of his life. He failed some classes in college and wasn't motivated to do anything. 

He's still the sweetest guy despite his flaws and I still love him. We've talked about getting back together but not until he gets things under control. 

In the meantime I've been getting attention from other boys. It was nice as I've been off the dating scene so long. 

Last Wednesday I asked a guy friend, Eli, to hang out this weekend. He has no interest in a girlfriend and I'm not ready to date either so I thought I'd be fun. We planned on meeting up yesterday (Friday) but he canceled. 

In the mean time another guy friend, Harry, asked me on a date. I said yes since I was now free. But, I found out on the date that this guy really likes me and has for a long time. Dates are fun and I don't regret it, but again, I'm not ready for a boyfriend. But I'm afraid by saying yes I gave him the wrong idea. 

Now Eli, who originally cancelled, is free tonight. I still want to hang out with him but I don't know if it's ok. He has suddenly started talking about tonight like it was a date which I never intended. 

All this time I still have feelings for Sam.

Is it ok to go out with Eli tonight? How do I let the Harry know I'm not interested in dating him?
<bot>: I want to go on dates but I don't want a relationship. Now I have 2 dates in one weekend with 2 boys who I don't think understand that.