<human>: Last night my long distance boyfriend and I got into a huge fight. I wish I could provide exactly what was said that led to the following argument. I brought up the feelings of fear I had about how he has a huge sex drive and I was only able to visit him every now and then and how was he able to not feel temptation to cheat? I realize this sounds accusatory and I probably could have worded it better but a bit of background: He makes a lot of jokes about wanting anal sex with me even though I've declined many times, he jokes about threesomes with other girls and boasts about his ability to land any girl in bed. Things that make me feel like I can't "provide" what he desires and as if he can just get it from someone else.

His response? "I like variety. Don't you think sex with each other gets boring?" He went on and on about how in his past relationships sex had gotten old. He has had a bit of a wild past which I'm still learning to accept.  I can't help but feel that because he's had sex with over 40 women, of course it might get boring? But that's just an assumption I'm making as a sexually conservative woman.

I was obviously hurt. First, we only have sex like once a month because of our distance. Also, I never thought sex was boring with him and I expressed to him that sex wasn't just a physical act for me. It was very intimate and something special we share together. He saw that I was upset and started trying to correct himself, saying he said he meant "boring" as in we need to try new things in bed but I almost feel as if he was just trying to save himself. I feel so terrible as if he's comparing me to those 40 something women and that they gave him something I can't provide.

Any advice?

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<bot>: Boyfriend says he likes variety and is bored with the sex we have (which is rare to begin with since we only see each other once a month). Turned into a huge fight and I can't help but feel inadequate.