<human>: OK, quickly, i'm a 17 y/o male and my mother and father broke up when I was really young because he pushed her down or something. I got in contact with him again due to curiosity. He said we should meet up again soon. I said i'll think about it seriously, but my gut is saying it's a bad idea.

I talked to him over the phone, he has 3 kids and a wife now. They just wanted to meet me, which seems innocent enough. He lives 75 miles away, he would pick me up somewhere close and he would drive me down there to meet the family and would drive me back the next day.

The reason i'm not driving is I have no money for gas. His daughter is going into the navy on the 1st of Oct so it's necessary to see her before then. (I got an email directly from her. (I'm using air quotations) I know for a fact he has a daughter though.)

Am I rude for being nervous about this whole she-bang? What do you think? Am I asking this in the right place? If you need any more information, i'd be glad to give you it. Thanks.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Meeting dad for the first time since a couple years of age. Am I wrong for being spooked about the situation?