<human>: I'm a straight 22yr old male and I'm sick of being single.

Without sounding boastful I believe I'm confident socially, good socially, average looking, relatively funny, nice, smart and just well rounded but I have no idea how to get into a relationship.

I'm not shy with girls in any way but in the club scene I wouldnt be too confident (im better at talking than dancing and not too confident when it comes to people I cant get to chat to a bit, music too loud). I have plenty of female friends and of course I'm attracted to a couple of them.

I've had a handful of 1 night stands but I'm sick of that and want something more meaningful and emotional, 1 night stands have never really been my thing. There are a handful of reasons to why they didnt turn into a relationship but its a combination of I'm not really that into them and distance between us.

Currently I'm just hoping I will eventually get into a situation where I'm with any one of the girls who I am attracted to and we end up getting into a situation where we want to start seeing each other. I'm just floating along with no real plan hoping something pops up, which hasnt worked for me so far.

I'm sure many other people are/have been in my situation.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: How do I get into a relationship with a girl? does it just happen or can I be more proactive about it?