<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

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Bf & I have been dating for 2 years. We just moved in together and while he was a relaxed, somewhat vulgar person (who I love) before, suddenly I'm finding my evenings spent with him sitting next to me on the couch, hands on balls, extremely vulgar swears, belching, farting, and trying to kiss me with a mouth full of food (that I've cooked). I get that he does that and am ok with it, but then he complains when I don't want to have sex right after he's done all these gross things! I've told him jokingly that they aren't turn ons, yet he's still doing them and then after a few hours of that complains about not having sex. He must not want sex that much! I'm feeling disappointed: he's told me about a year ago that he always wants to be "courting" and wants a date night once a week (hasn't happened) and now this is what I get instead. He used to be incredibly caring and thoughtful, now he does nothing. 

False advertising!!!

I am pretty sure he is doing all this partly to see how far he can push me (and partly because it's how he lives when he's alone), he's even joked that this is true. I don't want to be that nagging girlfriend telling him not to do what makes him comfortable, but I also want to be turned on by my boyfriend! I'd like maybe 50% of the time for hands on balls, 50% of the time for loving boyfriend. I can tell he is getting annoyed with me asking him to pick up his trash and clothes so I don't have to.

How can I get him to do this without being a nagger? He's finally taking me on a date tonight and I'm going to try and use positive reinforcement by having lots of sex afterward... I'm starting to understand what women mean when they say their husbands are also their children.
<bot>: Bf & I moved in, suddenly he's way more of a slob than ever before, may be doing it to test me. How do I train him??