<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

My honey and I have been together for roughly 3 years. He is nearing his 40s, I'm nearing my 30s. We live together, share similar interests, have good sex, and are kind to one another. We are both in employment situations that are extremely unfullfilling and we hope to move on to our second careers soon. We talk of buying a home, adopting some kitties, having a garden, having a great entertainment system for the flashy flashy video games, etc.
The problem lies in that he doesn't seem motivated to work towards these goals. We both battle depression, and we both come from very abusive family backgrounds. It seems as though I have a tougher skin, or have managed to cope better than he has. I've tried to give him all the support a good partner can give him but I feel as though I'm losing him to the depression. I'm starting to think that he enjoys being a victim more than getting his shit together. I want to build a life with him, but I'm starting to resent him and his inability to push through the shit. I want to save this relationship, but can it be done? Can I be a better partner? I'm I being calloused?
<bot>: I love my boyfriend, but can the strain of depression and lack of will power kill our chances at making a good life for one another?