<human>: Give me a shortened version of the text

I started talking to this guy about three weeks ago. We agreed to be friends with benefits, maybe a relationship later. (We haven't gotten around to doing anything yet.) I'm a virgin, and he was going to basically teach me everything I want to know. We have both really been excited about it and anticipating the time we actually get around to doing stuff, which was going to be this week. 

I knew that he's been having a lot of family issues and such and has always struggled with depression. All of a sudden, today, he told me that he needs to cut of our plans. He needs to focus on fixing his life and he's trying to turn it all around. At first I was okay with this. I've been having some second thoughts about sex, so I thought maybe this was a sign. He said he wants to be friends. He's not much for opening up about his emotions, but I told him that I'm always here for him if he needs anyone to talk to. I really do care about him a lot, and it breaks my heart to see him going through whatever it is. 

The more I think about it, though, I realize that it's not sex that I really want anyway. I just want someone to care about me. I want someone to hug. I do want a relationship with him, not necessarily boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, but I want something. I wish I could just hold him in my arms and make everything better.

So right now, I'm at a loss for what to do. I want to be an emotional support for him, but I don't want to poke and prod since he's not super open about all of that. And I don't know what to do about wanting some type of relationship with him. I want him to be able to focus on fixing his issues, but maybe I'm being selfish worrying about myself. He is a self-proclaimed sex addict, so I don't want to be too much of a "distraction" I suppose. At this point, I really don't know what to do.
<bot>: Potential FWB/bf backed out because he needs to fix his life. I want to be an emotional support, but I also want a relationship.