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Last year of college, I have my job lined up already (commission in the military), she is getting her engineering degree, and we love each other dearly and have dealt with a lot of experiences that have only made us stronger. Couldnt ask for a better woman to spend the rest of my life with. The only hang up is my parents, who don't respect/like me/relationship/her (slashes meaning "I don't know for sure") and are not trying to get a better hold of what I want. I plan on proposing regardless, but if there is a best way to work with my parents on this, how can I at least try to either get them on board or at least soften their disappointment? They are some of the best people in my life but I don't think they read the situation right, and it's awkward every time I try to bring this stuff up. My two older siblings have already married as well but I think my mom thinks they rushed into marriage too.
<bot>: parents don't like my wanting to marry, either consciously or subconsciously, and I want to make it right if I can.