<human>: We've been together for 9 months. I told him I loved him about 4 months in. I knew I meant it when I said it but he never reciprocated and I was ok with it. This was never a problem for me since I know people reach that point at different times. Moving forward to yesterday. We were in bed talking and he was upset (jokingly) that he wasn't my best friend but I was his. And he said "How can you love me and I'm not your best friend?" I replied "How can I be your best friend and you not love me? They aren't mutually exclusive" Then he told me that on average he has told his past 4 girlfriends that he loved them at 6 months. I was really hurt and I asked him why he told all his past girlfriends that he loved them at 6 months but it's been 9 months for us and he still didn't feel anything. He went on to say that he hypothesized and said he doesn't think it has anything to do with me as a person and he has changed. He then later said he doesn't actually know why. He kept saying "Aren't we having fun together? Isn't it enough that I treat you good"

I feel like I'm at a crossroads but I don't know if I'm overreacting for being this upset about it. He really does treat me good but I'm not looking to stay in a relationship that may forever stay loveless. What are your thoughts?

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<bot>: Boyf told me he has told all his past girlfriends that he loved them at 6 months. We have been together 9 months and he is still unable to say he loves me and can't explain why. I need an outsider view.