<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

My boyfriend randomly out of literally no where told me today that he wanted to break up and didn't love me. He no longer felt a future or in love and nothing could change that.

OK.

I cried but wasn't hysterical, was actually pretty calm... Assured him I didn't hate him and all of that. Might sound weird, but my parents are divorced, and they've hated each other their entire lives - and it's destroyed their lives.

I did request that he explain what led to this sudden relevation. He basically said I was too clingy.

Asked for specifics - it stresses him out that I like to try to coordinate our two days off a week.sent

I offered to stop this, as I hadn't realised this was such a huge issue.

Immediately he changed his mind, assured me he had always truly loved me, just wanted me to take his concern seriously, etc.

...

I haven't changed my mind.

I feel like there were ~infinite better ways to approach this.

It's worth noting this kind of thing isn't normal for him but this hurts so much, like he broke up with me , he used it as a tool to win an argument, what do I even do with that?
<bot>: bf pretended to break up with me to end argument about something I didn't really appreciate as an issue , I'm not sure what to do