<human>: I just cannot get used to sleeping in the same bed with my gf. I have read posts about this before, and most people tend to say that you'll get used to it. Well, it is has been 2-1/2 years and I cannot get used to it. In fact, I simply despise it. I cannot get comfortable and I toss and turn all night. I can get to sleep at the beginning, but I am up within 3 hours.  

We have a sort of long distance relationship, and we spend about every other weekend together. I know that part of the problem is that I get back into my normal pattern when she is gone, but it really is just so much more comfortable and relaxing to sleep alone. 

The issue is that sleeping in the same bed is one of the most important things for her, and I love her and want to make her happy, but I have lived alone and slept alone my whole life and I just can't seem to make the adjustment. I have tried alcohol, melatonin, meditation, exercise, depriving myself of sleep the night before she arrives...nothing works. When we do move in together, I'll buy a king-size bed, but I am not sure if that will help. 

Any advice from restless sleepers in loving relationships would be most appreciated!

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<bot>: Cannot sleep in the same bed as my gf. Love her, but hate sharing my bed with her. Have tried lots of things, nothing works.