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Here's my original post for some context on my emotional state earlier this week: 

Quick brief on that situation: BPD ex, I was made into a villain, we haven't spoken in 20 days and probably never will again.  Very painful breakup and my first long-term relationship.

I've been coping in all the ways you would recommend.  I've been working out, spending lots of time in social situations and with friends, practicing positivity, going full NC (not even checking online), doing things I love and re-learning how to enjoy being alone.  An unexpected result of my self-dating was that I met someone new through a mutual friend.  We talked for a little bit and I asked her out to coffee and we're going later today.

It's kind of funny, because I forgot how insane my first date anxiety is because I've been in a relationship for 7 months and it's been 8 months since I got out there and played the game.  Maybe it's good that I'm replacing my anxiety about my ex with anxiety about the new person, but I'd prefer to just be comfortable.  I've had my moments where I feel totally good and ready for this, but I'm quite a bit nervous right now.

How did you establish comfort dating after a breakup?  This girl seems cool and I'd love to make a solid first impression without being awkward.  I'm a reasonably good-looking guy, and I have plenty of confidence, but I come off as awkward (which is usually interpreted as me being "real"), mostly because I want to be my date's friend and feel uncomfortable making advances or outright flirting.

Any last-minute advice would be clutch.
<bot>: Still dealing with recent-ish breakup, going on date with new girl today, I'm confident and know there's nothing to worry about but I don't feel comfortable flirting.