<human>: If you saw my post the other day, you'd see that my 11 month relationship just ended because my boyfriend couldn't commit to me on a deeper level. He couldn't say "I love you" because he didn't want to involve another person in his life decisions. 

I wanted a deeper commitment and to allow the relationship to naturally progress into something "more" that would involve love, commitment, and an eventual future where we maybe move in together and allow that to progress. He didn't want any of that. 

Is this unrealistic? I'm only 19, in my first semester of sophomore year of college. Should I even be looking for that at this point in my life? Should I be more on his page? I guess I just feel like I kind of got all the partying and hooking up out of my system in high school and before I met him. I've had two other long term relationships before this but they were high school relationships and weren't healthy. This was my first "real" one and now I'm even questioning if it was real in the first place.

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<bot>: Was I wrong in wanting a serious relationship at 19? Should I expect my boyfriend to say "I love you" and want to include me in his decisions? Am I trying to rush my life?