<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

First time, so apologies if I didn't format this right.

Anyway, three days before Christmas I accidentally stumbled upon text exchanges between my fiance and one of her male friends. (I had to use Hot mail, she was still logged in and apparently these text exchanges were important enough for her to email to herself.) In them, i found out about what they had been doing with each other when she would visit our hometown on weekends without me. The emotional connection they had in those messages hurt far worse though. I took a lot of responsibility for her actions too because, in retrospect, I had been kind of neglectful of her for a bit. I considered leaving, but based on the premise she cut him, her best guy friend, out I stayed and we worked past it and continued to plan our wedding.

She just left on a mission trip this week and so left her phone at home. When she arrived safely, she emailed and asked me to call her mother to let her know. When I turned on her phone, one of the many "have fun" messages was from this guy saying "Enjoy your trip. I love you." She obviously hadn't gained back as much of my trust as I thought because I accessed the history of that contact in her phone and it turns out she's still talking to him (nothing nearly as sexual/emotional this time) even though she told me she'd stopped months ago.

She's out of the country for another 2 weeks with limited email access, and I'm not sure if I want to bring it up while she's away and can't discuss this face to face. Part of me wants to hear her out (I mean, I kind of understand that its difficult just dropping one of your best friends of 7 years) and part of me just wants to pack up and be out of our apartment before she gets home.

Anyone else have a similar experience/advice?
<bot>: My fiancé is still talking to the guy she cheated on me with, even though one of the conditions of our reconciliation is that she break all contact with him.