<human>: There is a very long story about what happened to us, but for this I will just post my opinion and questions for the wives and girlfriends of reddit (men, your opinions are more than welcome)

She left me, we are currently separated.  Her main hang up seems to be that I view roles in marriage as more traditional than her.  I believe the Man is the head of the household.  He should look to his wife for input, guidance, support and opinion, but the direction of the household is decided by the husband ultimately.  She insists in a 50/50 split of everything, chores, money decisions, vacation decisions, etc...  I am in no way supporting the 1950's, Don and Betty Draper image, but i disagree.  Is my viewpoint outdated?

She also insists that we (the couple) are to be put on the back burner and replaced by we (the parent/family unit).  I love my son unconditionally, and agree that a lot of time should be dedicated to us (the family), but she seems to have no interest in us (the couple). Again, wives and girlfriends, what do you think?

She cant look at me, recoils at the slightest touch, and assumes the worst out of everything i say recently.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: Wife disagrees with me on my view of what marriage is and how much time should be devoted to us as parents vs us as a couple.