<human>: Provide a brief overview of the text.

I've been seeing this woman for a few months and everything has been great, but suddenly in the last week or so, she's been communicating way less, not really saying anything nice, and generally acting disinterested. Nothing crazy, I know. Not like the other posts we see here in this sub.

The thing is, throughout this relationship, there have been many times where I was absolutely convinced this girl wasn't into me. Each time I found myself incorrect, and we even talked about it once: on several of our first dates, we *both* left the date thinking the other person would never call again. I'm not normally an insecure person, but being with a woman who is "out of my league" definitely makes me wonder sometimes when she's finally going to come to her senses, so to speak.

So I guess you could say I'm asking you in the broader sense, how do I handle this in the best way? I feel like I'm in a precarious point, balancing my insecurities and the sneaking suspicion that my gut is trying to tell me something I don't want to hear. If this relationship is to work, I can't be constantly feeling like this so I don't know what to do. I *do* want to broach the subject with her. I have the nagging feeling something is up and I don't know how to ask her.

I hope this is an easy one for you guys. I've been with a lot of women but this is the first time I really really cared. I want this one to work.
<bot>: Feeling insecure but also suspecting there's a problem in the relationship and I don't know how to handle it internally and externally in the relationship.