<human>: My [F29] fiancé was KIA in Afghanistan (2011/National Guard). It has taken a long time for me to even be okay with being in another relationship but now I have been in a loving relationship for 8 months. No matter how much time has passed, I will never forget about my fiancé. My BF knows about my relationship history and I've been more than considerate towards my BF's feelings and don't create situations where my fiancé is brought up. There are still important dates to me such as my fiancé's birthday, KIA date etc that I still feel the need to recognize even in a small way (i.e. visiting his grave, staying in touch with some of his family). Is it wrong of me to still want to recognize these dates ? I don't want to hurt my BF but I don't want to forget my fiancé. I don't want to hide anything from him but feel bad if I tell him. Advice ?

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<bot>: Fiancé KIA 2011. Don't want to hurt BF's (8 months) feelings but don't want to forget fiancé. Advice ?