<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

I met my husband 6 years ago. We had a spicy sex life when things started out, but we've cooled off a bit. We got married after living together 3 years. We own a house and two cats together. 

 I still like having sex, I just dont want it as frequently as him. I've tried to step up frequency but he's still not satisfied. We have sex about 3 times a week on average. 

We're totally solid financially, I did a 5 year plan with spreadsheets. He is adamant that he does want kids and he wants me to be the mother, he just doesn't want them until he's satisfied that I can meet all of his sex, physical touch needs. We've always been on the same page about having kids, except I wanted 4 and he wanted 2. 

I am so sad I just cry about this all the time. He won't state a timeline at all. We go to counseling and all we talk about is the sex aspect of our relationship. He says things are getting better and we're in a time of positive growth. 

It's the worst feeling that I'm at fault for me not getting what I want... a baby. It also weighs on me that his dissatisfaction with me is this high. He's always been critical of our sex life and we'd get in a fight if I wasn't in the mood. I never knew it was this serious.
<bot>: My husband doesn't want to have a baby until he's more satisfied with our sex life. I'm pulling away because it makes me sad. What can I do?