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Hi Reddit! Yes, I am gay and I have a boyfriend who I love very very much, and are soon to be married. We have been together for about 5 years now. I work a good job, and make good money (for the most part) but my boyfriend refuses to get a job. We live with my parents, my father is disabled and trying to get disability benefits, so money is sorta tight for them, so we figured all living together would take some financial burden off all of us.

He doesn't cook, he doesn't clean. I buy his cigarettes. I buy his clothes, I do everything for this guy. But I've had enough. He needs to find a job. I told him this, and this is the response I got.

"So basically, you want me to spend 40 hours a week working my ass off just so 90% of my money can be handed over to bill collectors and the landlords? I'm not gonna be a f**king slave, it's so wrong that I have to do this!"

I have tried very hard to explain to him that...uhhh...that's life? That's what a job is for! We need help with bills and rent and groceries and heck, buying his own cigarettes would at least be awesome! He keeps telling me "I'm gonna get a job, stop pestering me!" but he hasn't picked up the phone or applied anywhere ONCE. I tried very hard to get him a job where I work. He worked there for a week, then quit because "his feet hurt" (yes its a physically demanding job) and then spent his entire check on a new laptop, then asks me to buy his cigs.

Reddit, I wouldn't break up with him over this, but how do I give him the kick in the butt he needs to mature? To help me and get a job? Also how do I make him understand that having a job and paying bills is not THAT terrible?
<bot>: My boyfriend refuses to get a job because he feels paying bills is unfair and makes him a slave to the government. What do I do? I need financial help!