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I dated a guy for 7.5 years. Yeah, figure out that math. We were really young and in a long distance relationship but made it work. We both ended up doing some really stupid things near the end of our relationship. We didn't trust each other. He developed feelings for someone else. And then something terrible happened. I was raped and became pregnant. I cut him off and pretty much ignored him. I didn't tell him. I lied and said I was busy with school. Pretty much hid under a rock. I told him after I had miscarried as I couldn't keep lying. The reason I lied in the first place was that he started having an emotional affair with someone else. And he stopped trusting me. I thought he wouldn't believe me as our relationship was rocky, but since I waited so long to tell him, he didn't believe me anyway. That was really hurtful. I was a virgin prior to this happening. He was my first kiss, boyfriend, everything else. I only kept this from him because I was scared. I only told one person. A guy whose sister went through the same thing. And he was mad at me for it when I came clean. He thought I was dating this guy which wasn't true at all. Long story short, he completely cut off contact with me. Haven't heard from him in 1.5 years. I know he's in a relationship now as a mutual friend told me they're serious. I was in one. But randomly I'll have dreams about us and it just puts me back into this place. How can I cope with the breakup like he is? Never in a million years could I have cut off contact with him. I didn't mean to be malicious or hurtful. I was scared. I know he doesn't care about me one bit anymore. And for a long time I hated him for not letting me explain my motives. I've matured and changed for the better. Now I don't hate him. I'm just sad. I know we'll never talk or see each other again. So how can I forget him like he's forgotten me?
<bot>: My ex boyfriend cut off contact after I hid from him I was raped and he didn't believe me. He thought I just cheated. He's over me. How can I completely get over him?