<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

(I'm not very good in english so mistakes are expected + Let's just call her " Sarah ")

So Sarah and I are friends from when we were 6, we had really good friendship (nothing romantic), especially last year because I started studying with her, She is good person in general but if there is something I hate about her, that would be her " hypocrisy ".

She doesn't have lot of friends, Se has one dear friend (17F) whom she didn't speak with for over a year (personal girl drama etc), but I really respect her friend and every time I saw them laugh and speak I feel really bad because I know that sarah doesn't love nor respect her and just use her to spend time since she doesn't have lot of friends.

So today while speaking, Sarah and I were speaking and we had an argument and I got angry and words came from my mouth and I just called her " You are just a big fat hypocrite "

She started crying, her friend came and started yelling at me. hours later, she sent her friend to me and told me " why you did that? how dare you say this to me? I'll never speak with you again." All to this I was like " WUT! " She knew that she is wrong but she claimed that she is not, and her naive friend is in her side.

I just can't believe that people can't take the truth about themeselves, my male friends are really open when it comes to this, I would call one of them an asshole or something and he wouldn't do drama for it but he'll fix the probleme.

I just can't take this girly bullshit , not anymore

any tips how to handle with this ? I really don't want to lose Sarah but she's making strong stand.
<bot>: my friend is hypocrite, when I face her with it she exploid in my face and make it all my fault, how would I deal with this?