<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Hey guys. Sorry in advance for the wall of text.

 I've been in a 5+ year relationship with my boyfriend and the past couple years especially have been getting kind of rocky. I don't think they seem rocky from his perspective, but it has been difficult on my end. The main point is that he will spend all of his waking hours playing Battlefield 4 (or Day Z, or games in general that involve talking with people online). This isn't really an exaggeration, he gets up in the afternoon usually (I have to wake up early for school but he works at home) and goes straight on it, and then stays up way into the night (so we don't go to bed at the same time) playing. He sometimes misses meals to play also, and he hasn't showered in a few days. That's sort of beside the point but close to what I'm getting at. Our sex life is basically nonexistent even though he claims it's there (it happens maybe once every couple weeks, when I would like to have it every day), and I have to yell and wave my arms to get his attention about anything because his headphones are on his head all day. It's kind of like I'm just living with a roommate and have lost my boyfriend. I try multiple times daily to try to get him to talk with me about it, or just to spend quality time with me in general, but all he says is "come over here", he wants me to stand next to him and watch him play as spending quality time. Am I overreacting? I love to play video games too, but I know when to put it down and hang out with my boyfriend, or spend time being active. I tried to convince him to go to counseling but he just laughed at me. Do you guys have any advice on how I could get through to him (short of playing Battlefield and just giving in to spend time with him that way). Any advice that says 'just talk to him' isn't exactly helpful because I've tried many, many times to get him to talk to me but his eyes are glued to the screen and most of the time he doesn't hear me and I have to keep repeating myself.
<bot>: Boyfriend plays battlefield/other online games 24/7 misses meals doesn't shower won't spend any time with me and is hard to converse with in general lately, any advice on how to best communicate how I feel about this?