<human>: me and my bf of 9 months have been in a LD exclusive relationship. he is based in one city and i travel for work. i asked him three times if he wanted me to move and what he thought our long term potential was. i told him that i would be happy to try moving. he refused and got very uncomfortable talking about it

him: he was jilted by an ex. they were college loves and she may still be the love of her life. she was supposed to move. but then she didn't. he was really hurt for a long time. and it has been over 2 years since their breakup.

he says: he doesn't want me to move because i don't know anyone there. and because i travel so much it's not like i am there 50% of the week anyway.

he says he loves me but he also brings up "how long can we do this" and "we might be at different stages in life". i have asked him if we should see other people and he is not interested in doing that. he also might move for work. but he also might not.

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<bot>: is my LD boyfriend of 9m (27m) not ready, not into me, or just trolling me? (29f) is he just not that into me?