<human>: So my gf came from an extremely physically and emotionally abusive family, we met at university and soon after we met she cut off contact with her family.

Our relationship is going great, and we're really supportive of each other. But there are still plenty of times where either I will do something that hurts us without realizing it because I don't understand her past, or she does something that hurts us because of her past and I don't realize it and so I get upset at her.

I was wondering if anyone has any recommendations for resources I could use to better understand her and anything we can do to help improve this aspect of our relationship. Particularly any books on the topic would be really helpful. Any advice that anyone has is also appreciated!

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<bot>: Girlfriend came from an extremely emotionally and physically abusive family. I'm looking for recommendations of books to read to understand her and how to interact with her better.