<human>: BF (22) and I (19) have been in a serious relationship for around 1 year. He graduated in the spring and moved back with his parents in his hometown, so we've been in a long distance relationship for around 4 months. 

My birthday was yesterday, it's the first birthday I've had while in this relationship. I wasn't expecting anything fancy or expensive from him, but I kinda expected *something*, maybe at least a nice card in the mail. All I got was a text saying "happy birthday."  And I know he's not a busy guy; he lives with his parents who give him all he needs, and he just goes the the gym and reads books because he doesn't have a job.

I'm not sure if this could have been a miscommunication, because for his birthday I got him a new wallet, a handmade card, and I took him out to a nice restaurant. I just can't stop thinking that if he really cared about me he would've done something more than just text me happy birthday. I do believe it's the thought that counts, but I just feel like he didn't really put much thought into it at all. I don't want it to sound like I'm being a spoiled brat, because honestly I would be really happy with just a thoughtful card. I know that birthdays technically don't really matter since we're growing old every day, but it's supposed to be your special day celebrating your existence and relationships with others. I just don't know why he didn't do anything special for my special day, and just thinking about it is really bothering me.

Should I bring this up to him because it's bothering me so much?  And if I should, how should I bring it up to him without hurting his feelings?

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<bot>: Bf didn't do anything for my birthday, I feel sad because maybe it means he doesn't care about me. How should I talk to him about it?