<human>: We'd made out before, but last night was the first night she'd come home with me. She's a friend, and so is her boyfriend. They live together, may well end up getting married, and though I don't quite know how their relationship is defined, after the three of us got drunk last night before he went home, she texted him to let him know she was staying at my place. He's also seen her kiss me before and there's no tension.

It's unclear what's in the cards. On the one hand? We talked about sleeping together again soon. On the other? She was worried that things might be weird. And then she texted me to let me know she had fun.

Ideally, this could be a steady and emotionally safe casual thing while I continue to look for an LTR. So at some point, if we hook up a few more times, I'll try to talk to her about ground rules.

In the meantime, what might be some general rules about how soon or how often I'm allowed to ask for it? Would prefer not to solely go with the flow as that pattern means we'll only hook up when we're hammered, and, meh. I'd rather remember as much of it as possible.

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<bot>: Cute young friend slept over last night. Want to make a regular thing of it while not shitfaced, but feels early to talk about it. What do?