<human>: So, I dated my ex for a year.  She's *very* emotionally unstable, quick to anger.  I will emotionally detatch if things get intense, so there's that.  Despite that, we have a similar life perspectives and tastes, which is hard for me to find. 

She's broken up with me a couple of times.  Each time, she sleeps with someone the next day, and the day after begs me back.  Not cool (but I did say she's unstable, right?).  Basically, I'm sick of being treated like shit at random times, but we've tried to resolve it to no avail.  

So, I'd like to find another relationship, but it's really hard.  Weirdly, I have no problem finding hookups, but I really struggle to find girls who are interested in something with long-term potential.  I'm really sick of how shallow and judgmental people in the dating pool are.  I'm very comfortable being myself, for the most part, but I'm also pretty smart, and weird (not in a creepy way, just unusual and sometimes hard to understand).  It's frustrating though, when being yourself doesn't seem to get anywhere.  I guess being single is better than being in a relationship wherein I'm forced to be someone I'm not.  

Can anyone offer advice?  

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<bot>: Ex is emotionally abusive and keeps begging me back, but I struggle to find long-term relationships because, although I'm happy to take things slow, I don't like playing games or being fake.