<human>: Met a guy on OKC - was not immediately smitten (super bad breath, weird teeth). But over email and more dates, I started to really like him. 

After a month, we made it "official" and also slept together. We were seeing each other 1-2 times a week. 

We are both serious introverts, but him more than me. 

Two weekends ago we took a day trip and during it he said, "I'm really close to the l-word". I thought it was soon, but sweet. 

Saturday we did dinner and a movie and I slept over. We chatted back and forth on email and made dinner plans for tonight. 

This morning he sent me two "normal" mails at 9am. And at 11am, a mail saying he's not ready for a relationship, he values his "alone" time too much, and it's too hard to be "on" when he's around me. 

I was surprised - how do you do that quick of an about face? 

I'm not usually prone to becoming attached to people, and I feel stupid for letting myself get attached to him enough that I'm really upset by this. 

I guess I just wanted to vent and maybe get feedback.

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<bot>: 2 months dating, 2 weeks ago he wanted to say "the-l word", dumped me over email this morning.