<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

Okay. I'm trying to be open minded.

My husband and I have been married for four years. We've been together since I was in high school. I've never dated anybody else.

We haven't always had a perfect marriage but things have never been bad either. We get along okay and we are good financially. Sex is good but not as often as I'd like. He's slowed down on that.

I was talking to him about expectations and he just dropped it out of nowhere. At least it was out of nowhere to me. He tells me he'd like me to give him a makeover. His voice was shaking like he was terrified to ask me. 

I must have laughed or made a face because he immediately closed up. He looked ashamed. I never see him look the way he did. So I asked him what was going on and he got very upset and told me that sometimes he wears ladies clothes when he knows I'm going to be out late. 

Apparently he has some hidden clothes somewhere. He tells me that he's always loved wearing women's clothes and tells me he wants me to be involved with it. 

I have no idea how to feel about this. He said he doesn't want to be a girl. Like he's not transgender. But he also says it's not a sex thing. He just likes to dress up? 

I don't want to break his heart by saying no. I feel like he really put himself out there and this must have been weighing so heavy on him. We've been together in total for 12 years. And to just now bring it up? 

But what if I don't like it. I know I don't like the idea of it. I don't want to see my husband with smoky eyes and tights and flats on. 

What do I do?
<bot>: After being together for 12 years and married 4 my husband asks me to help him cross dress. How to I move forward protecting his feelings from a possible let down?