<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

We have always had a lot of arguments because of my family. I grew up in a very close nit family and she grew up in a more complicated family situation. I have stopped a lot of family events, etc because of her. At first only a few but now I rarely see my parents (maybe once per 2 months, they live 10min away). She hates it when I call them or chat with them, so I don't.

Lately we have started arguing about it more aggressively. I feel that my parents are in a very bad spot as they are afraid to talk with me since I always reject them. It kills me inside because I have to put on this act yet I do want to see them. 

Now we are at a breaking point, I told her that I want to decide how I talk with them and that I am allowed to see them when I want to (and I'm talking maybe 2 times a month, I think that it's not that much?). She feels that I prefer them over her. What do I do? My family doesn't force me to break up with her yet she forces me to stop talking to them. I love her very dearly and it hurts me so much. She has also said that she understands that this is unfair for me but she cannot do anything about how she feels.
<bot>: GF stops me from communicating with family. Family doesn't understand why I don't want to see them, even though I really do.