<human>: We're expecting our first baby in mid-April. My husband just started a new and fairly demanding job and he'll only be able to take two weeks of paternity leave. Though our immediate and extended family is very important to us, we want to make the most of our limited time and bond with our new baby. Our family ( my mother-in-law in particular) can be extremely intrusive and overbearing. I want to set clear boundaries with everyone from the outset. 

Our plan is this: we are going to take two days, after we arrive home from the hospital to completely bar the doors from family, friends, neighbors etc to have some bonding time. After that, we'll be setting visiting hours ( from 9am to 1pm and then 6pm-8pm, for example) when folks can come by, hold the new baby, help with the laundry, cook a meal etc. Of course, they'll have to call before they plan to come by.

Is this rude to my family? Selfish of me to want some time alone with my new family unit? What did you do after you had your first baby? Is there anything in re: your extended family dynamic that you wish you did differently?

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<bot>: My family can be intrusive- wondering if it is crappy/rude to establish visiting hours in my own home after the new baby arrives