<human>: so my dad died of cancer 2 weeks ago.

i've been going out with my gf for 2 years now, she is in uni and i'm working.

the funeral was last monday

my gf said she couldn't come because she had pratical work at uni during the whole morning (like laboratory stuff, experiment etc, she is studying biology)

I didn't think much of it because I had tons of things to think about

I found out a few days ago that my mom is mad as fuck about her, saying she made a very big offense to me, and that she could obviously have skipped classes to go to the funeral

How do you guys feel about this? I don't even know what I should tell my gf about this, and if I should be mad or not.

I remember telling her beforehands "if you can't go, you can't go and that's it" but I don't exactly know how these lab sessions can be skipped or not and how much she'd get in trouble for not going to one. I may have been dishonest in the sense that I said that and I kinda expected her to make the effort and go anyway

I'd like to know what'd you advise to have this settled asap and not have this thing stuck in the back of my mind for years down the road

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<bot>: should I be mad at my gf of 2 years for not coming to my dad's funeral even though she said she couldn't ?