<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

I could use a little advice.

I met an amazing girl about a month ago. We've been seeing each other pretty frequently and I got a message from her today that we needed to talk. She told me that she had taken a pregnancy test and that it was positive. Both of us are shocked. Neither of us are sure of what to do.

She had to go back to work, but she's coming over later and we're going to talk about it.

Personally, I'm against abortion, but totally for a woman's right to do whatever she chooses. She said that she's 50-50.

Above all else, my biggest concern is for the quality of life that would be ahead for the three of us. I don't want to put her or my kid in a bad situation, but I'm also not sure if I'm just thinking this way because of the life-altering nature of having a baby.

If anyone has ever been through a similar situation, I would really appreciate anything you could tell me. I'm not really looking for a yes or no on whether to have the baby, just maybe some things that ensued (either after an abortion or after the decision to go through with the pregnancy) that may not have occurred to me yet as I'm still sort of in shock.
<bot>: Got my girlfriend pregnant. Both of us are 50-50 on what to do. Looking for the experience of others.