<human>: A few things straight off the bat: we work together, she has a three-year old child, and this is my first relationship with a girl.

I was perfectly content with being single for 20-some years. I lived life, hung out with friends, and generally enjoyed just being here. My top goal was to get married, but I wasn't dating or anything because I'm extremely shy, especially with women. Anyway, as much as I enjoyed the single life, I hate living it when I'm not single. 

These past few weeks I've been making plans to spend some time with her, go on dates, take her out somewhere nice for our two-month anniversary, etc., but she bails on me every single time.

Before this, we did have sex one time, and then she had some personal issues such a family member dying, and she got sick later on. Since that time we had sex, we've only spent one evening together, and she ended up falling asleep on the couch almost immediately.

I've been trying to get her to spend time together again, but every time we make plans, she sleeps through it, and I end up spending the day home alone with nothing to do (since I blew off my friends to be with her). 

Now I understand that her child should be her number one priority, but it seems like I'm not in her priorities at all. I feel like I'm just a friend that she has at work that she can talk to on breaks. I hate feeling single when I'm not! 

Is this just how it is when you're dating a woman with a young child? I mean, I love spending time with her and her child, but I don't even get to sleep with her because she always falls asleep before I get to her place, and nothing on God's green earth can wake her up.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: My girlfriend of two months, who has a child, always sleeps through our plans. Is this how it is dating a mother?