<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

I'm naturally cynical and paranoid about absolutely everything in my life so I am hoping for some perspective I simply can't get elsewhere before I talk to Jane, which I know will be incredibly difficult.

I'm feeling lately that besides sharing the same bed and Netflix account, there's not much going on in our relationship. I suppose the most annoying thing recently is that there has been pretty much no intimacy, no support for my career progression (my latest includes moving yet again) and in five years my partner still has not gotten her license.

The license thing has always been a problem (Jane's shifts and mine are very different, yet I am often expected to drive Jane to work) and I felt kind of hurt she did not seem to appreciate the effort I put in driving her to see her family this holiday (~1700km of driving). Most infuriatingly it is being used as an argument against moving to a new town for a great job because "There's no public transport there, I would not be able to get around" (we lived there previously, we managed just fine).

To be fair to Jane, she does cook and clean (although begrudgingly) which I feel makes up for me having to drive her around some, and me making more and working more hours. I just wish she would be considerate of my career goals and be more encouraging - especially considering she expects so much (for me to have more money, for us to have a house, etc) when she contributes little financially.

Am I a shitty person for expecting her to follow me around when I am pursuing a better job (would involve her being out of work, and us struggling on my income while she job hunted)?

Am I a shitty person for demand she either skills up for better work, or at least adopts a better attitude for household things?

Added context:

* We met online (Reddit, hence the throwaway)
* Jane moved twice for me (once to be with me, then to a city)
* We are both introverted people, with no real non-work friends
* I am pursuing a professional career, Jane works part time
* We both have issues with anxiety and depression
<bot>: Annoyed at girlfriend's lack of ambition or any drive to be more independent, whilst not supporting my career goals despite having none of her own.