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My boyfriend has had traumatic experiences with cussing and drinking. When he was in middle school, he played football. His coaches would yell cuss words at him along with other insults about his weight. This has caused him to resent cussing. As for alcohol, he and his family were hit by a drunk driver when he was a child. He also watched his brother become an alcoholic and throw his life away. Tattoos are just a matter of his personal preference. 

I am not allowed to do any of these.

I grew up in a home in which cussing was just a part of everyday language. I used it around my parents because it was accepted. Ive suggested I simply not cuss when im around him so he doesnt have to hear it but he wont even let me do that.
Because I have never had a traumatic experience with alcohol, I see no reason that a single drink at dinner would be wrong. 
All the women in my immediate family (3 not including me) have at least one tattoo of the birthday of my littler sister who died in 2009. This is something I want and believe is important. 
But I can't do any of it because it's not what he finds attractive. 
I understand love requires sacrifice but can we not compromise? Or  should I just be happy to give up 3 things I want the freedom to do?
<bot>: My boyfriend won't let me cuss, drink, or get a tattoo even though I want all of these things. Should I demand we compromise somewhere or be happy I can make the sacrifice?