<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

28m dating a 29f, just about to hit our 2 year anniversary.  I feel like the honeymoon period is over and then some, and I don't know if this is normal or not.

We started dating just a few weeks after I moved to the area (match.com) and we share a lot of common interests.  My main reasons for dating her are she's outdoorsy, not high maintenance, and she has a lot of qualities I value like being kind, giving, helpful.  

She has told me a few times that she doesn't feel like I'm excited about spending time with her, and she's right.  She's not a very exciting person, but that's not why I'm dating her.  She compared my excitement level of visiting her family in Holland to going to Oktoberfest in Germany with one of my friends.  Of course Oktoberfest won; how exciting, really, is meeting family?  But is that really a good measure of how much these things mean to me?

Also, her energy level is not as high as mine.  This comes into play when we're doing outdoors activities, but especially impacts nighttime activities.  Going out to bars with friends just doesn't work for her - she's usually ready for bed by 10.  I don't go out very often any more, but sometimes I like to be out past midnight.  Sometimes my friends don't get started until 10 or 11 and there's no chance she'll be up for that.

She recently expressed again how much it hurts her to see me be more excited about hanging out with other people than doing things with her.  I'm trying to figure out what to tell her.  Also trying to figure out if my feelings are normal for this point in a relationship, or if I really should just move on.
<bot>: her being present in an activity takes away some of the excitement for me because she can't keep up.  We have a great time when we do things according to her energy level, but I seek excitement outside of that.