<human>: I've been with my husband for a total of 8 years and we have an awesome relationship. I love him more than ever and people always say how perfect we are together, but our sex has gotten incredible boring. I still find him attractive, neither of us have gained weight, it's just that my sex drive towards him is a 0. It's not that we don't try either. Role play, lingerie, weed (usually does the trick but it's a bit of a crutch), nothing works. 

Even when we do manage to have sex, it's like my lady parts are just turned off, I have no where close the sensation I once had back in the glory days of being horny all the time. I usually just fake my way through it so he can finish and it can be over. 

What makes everything worse is now I am having extremely graphic sex dreams about guys at work and ex's, which just makes everything harder and makes me feel guilty. I'm afraid I will never know what it's like to have sensational sex again.

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<bot>: We're in love but have been together so long that our sex no longer feels good. Are we doomed to a life of boring sex but marital bliss?