<human>: I moved to the city a couple years ago and made a friend who introduced me to her friends. One of them and I hit it off right away with and we began to hang out quite a bit. Never during this time was I ever flirty, intimate, or suggestive in any way, he even told me he never got the impression I ever wanted anything more (his words). But, he fell for me and is now kind of freaking out about it.

I am not a "relationship person". I don't like being touched, making out, cuddling, or even sex. I'm about as platonic as a person could be. I know he wants the whole relationship shebang (no pun intended). This is not something I am capable of at this time in my life and I don't feel for him any more than a friend. He is also not what I am looking for in a partner on top of me not wanting to be in a relationship with anyone. I've explained this to him, that I don't want to be intimate with anyone and that it's not personal but it seems to go in one ear and out the other. I've never fallen for anyone before and don't know what it's like to be around someone who I feel differently about than they do, so it's hard for me to relate to where he's coming from or understand his perspective. 

The problem is this. My friend and I have built a really tight knit group of friends of which both me and him are a part of. I'm worried his inability to deal with this is going to destroy that friend group. It is currently the only group of friends I have and they are extremely important to me. I do not want to lose them. I know things will probably change between me and this guy but I don't want to lose everyone I care about in the process.

We're going to grab drinks in a couple days and talk it through. I could really use some perspective or insight on what I should do or how I should handle this.

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<bot>: A friend fell for me. I want to explain to him that I'm not interested in being in a relationship without it ruining the friendship or breaking up our extended group of friends.