<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

Okay heres the story,

Ive been dating this girl for a couple months. We've both had a not so great relationship in the past. Mine wasnt that interesting, went out for several months and she dumped me, my fault for not being in it for real...sort of just floating about. His boyfriend dumped her for another girl and she felt really, really crap for it for a period of time.

Now the thing with us is that she feels like we're moving too fast, only being together for a couple of months. She doesnt want us to go public, because she doesnt want to be 'let down again', as she says. I understand that she could feel this way, but its still not so great for me to keep hiding the fact that Im dating this gorgeous girl just because she is cautious. And the 'be let down again' doenst actually make me feel that great either, like shes waiting for me to dump her like her ex did. I really like her alot (and Ive let her know that), and Id like to get going with the relationship ie. making it public. And she is very much against that.

Is it weird for a couple dating in secret for a month or two before making it public, or am I just being too eager?
<bot>: Been going out with a girl for a couple months, and she doesnt want us to go public. Opinions?