<human>: To explain my problem, I should start at the beginning. At the start of our relationship my gf and I were pretty happy, but there were problems that came to the surface over time. Such as she liked being pampered and never reciprocating the favors I have done for her. Which we have talked about before and fixed, but she keeps going back to selfish and needy. The things I do for her about everyday are rub her hands, feet, and back, make food, and pretty much do anything she asks me too. I know I am somewhat enabling her, but I can't help it... I love her a lot.

Another problem is our sex life has become drastically slowed down and she has become very unromantic. In the beginning we were romantic and had sex almost everyday, but now, I am lucky to get it once a month. That is if I am begging for it too and being a pain in the ass lol. She will just not be in the mood. Which for me is a bit of a problem because I like to be romantic and I have a high sex drive.

Lastly, considering all of these issues. I am living five hours away for the summer and I have become really paranoid that she would do things with her guy friend she has know for years that she hangs out with. I know it is one of her only friends and she says that nothing would ever happen between them, but I can't help but wondering if the reason she doesn't do stuff for me is because she is doing it for him.

Overall, these are the problems I am having problems fixing, because I am far away right now, a lot of the problems stem from her, and I feel like I don't do enough to change or fix these problems. I love her tremendously and would do anything to keep our relationship enjoyable. So any relationship advice would be most helpful. Thanks :)

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<bot>: How do I get my girlfriend to be less selfish and to be more romantic like she used to be in the beginning of our relationship?