<human>: Hello everyone, today I finally mustered up the courage to ask for advice on this. For a while I didn't want to believe there was a problem but now it's too obvious to me to ignore it. She confesses to me how in love with me she is all the time and as nice as it should feel, it really doesn't-and that kills me inside. She is a wonderful person, my family loves her, and I haven't met anyone who doesn't like her.

  We were long distance for 3 years while she was away in college(we only knew each other for a few months before she moved away) and for that period of time it was nice. I had my space, she had hers. We both longed for the dream of living together, which I felt would make everything better, and for me it really hasn't. I'm nowhere near as happy as I thought I'd be, it really hurts to say this. I love her so much, I'm fighting back tears right now. She's sitting close to me as I'm typing this. 

My feelings on this subject are that I need to come to a decision on this because I feel it's completely unfair to her to drag it on and waste days that she won't ever get back-days that she could be spending in another guy's arms who feels the same way about her as she does for him. I feel selfish for even writing about this. If anyone can help me with what I can do to either save or end this relationship for me I would be eternally grateful.

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<bot>: I'm a idiot who is in a relationship with a wonderful girl and yet I don't feel the same way she feels about me.