<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

I have been dating my boyfriend for four months and two months into the relationship he told me that he loved me. My boyfriend is borderline obsessed with his job, it's by far the most important thing in his life. When he told me he loved me I told him that he didn't. I told him to compare me to his job and think about which one he would pick if he had to choose between us, and not to tell me that he loves me until the answer is me. I'm far more experienced then him in the dating world and I knew I didn't love him then and he agreed that he didn't love me either. Now I'm really falling for him though and when I see him I have to fight to not tell him that I love him. I don't know if I should tell him first because I already shot him down or wait for him to tell me because I will know how much it means if he tells me unprompted. I gave him that standard because I'm afraid I'll always come second to his job and I'm afraid if I tell him I love him now he'll just say it back to me without meaning it in the way I want him to.
<bot>: Should I tell my boyfriend I love him after I told him he doesn't love me because his job is more important to him than me?