<human>: I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about a year and a half. During this time she always claimed to have a lower libido than me and would generally reject advances I would make towards her. She came up with a number of different reasons why she usually didn't want to have sex, but as I fixed each problem she would quickly come up with another one. Her requests seemed fairly reasonable at the time (examples: my hair was too long, we weren't sleeping in the same bed, I wasn't kissing her well enough, etc.). 

But late one night, she broke down and admitted that although she finds me attractive and she is in love with me, she thinks I have essentially no skill in seducing her. She says I don't act with confidence (which, at least with regards to sex, is true, though her rejecting me for sex so often certainly doesn't help), that I don't really understand how to escalate over the course of a day (completely true), and so on.

She's right. I have no clue how to seduce her. She isn't really interested in teaching me, which I understand, because if she just told me how to act seductive, that probably wouldn't do it for her.

I've looked around online, but all help seems to be scummy PUA stuff or stuff geared at seducing women that you are just meeting. So I figured I'd turn it to Reddit. How can I learn? How does seduction work? 

I have to admit, the entire conversation with her left me reeling. Call me naive, but I had always believed that if a woman loved you then she would also find you sexually attractive. I guess I couldn't have been further from the truth. This is painful and I feel that I can't really share with her: it seems like talking about how bad it makes me feel that she doesn't want to have sex with me would come off as sexually desperate, which is the polar opposite of seduction.

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<bot>: My girlfriend loves me but sexually finds me very uninteresting. She wants me to seduce her, but I have no clue how. Help!