<human>: As in the title, i'm recently single as of a week ago. My relationship was emotionally/verbally abusive and had to end, but I am still missing him and feeling like I won't meet anyone else compatible. I have always felt that my personality is made up of two opposing sides that I don't know how to reconcile. On the one hand, I believe in spiritual energy, that your energetic output dictates what you receive etc. I enjoy yoga and meditation and buddhism, and am pursuing veganism. I believe in the power of crystals. Alternative stuff like that. I am open minded in regards to people's sexuality and life choices, pro polyamory and sex work etc.  
  
*But* I don't like the "hippie scene". I don't like drugs, drinking alcohol, smoking or live music. This is where the contrast comes in. My field of study is actually biological sciences and health. Many people would describe me as intelligent, analytical, unemotional and bluntly honest. I don't bother with pretense and if i'm not interested I won't pretend to be (e.g listening to bands, I find that boring). That doesn't mean i'm not friendly and engaging - I am, just in a very straightforward manner. The problem I find is that the people willing to accommodate my vegan/crystals/spirituality persona are people I have little interest in being around. They all seem to love seeing live music and smoke weed. Not my scene. But people in the sciences field don't believe in the alternative lifestyle interests of mine, which are important to me. I feel like I won't meet anyone who can fit in with me as a whole. My last two boyfriends matched one side only and it just leaves me feeling unbalanced and not like myself. Can anyone give me stories of finding someone who matches you, in those small but important ways? Perhaps you bonded over a shared love of cookies shaped like Betty White and a fascination with serial killers. Any stories of unlikely bonding would be appreciated!

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<bot>: Feel like my personality is too hard to find someone compatible with, and looking for support/stories that others have found difficult matches.