<human>: One year ago, I met a girl, and I'm so confused on where we stand, I seriously don't know what to do. We spend almost every day exercising, watching movies or just hanging out. We have very similar interests in general and we either text or talk on the phone every day. Although I have not made any advances to be more then friends, I have always kept it flirty. I make fun of her and keep her laughing all the time, and she is very physical with me in general.

I have treated her like a princess, and been there whenever she needed something. She in return has changed my whole life around (for the better), and is constantly helping me improve myself in every way possible. I was never fat, but slightly out of shape and depressed for a while. She put me on a diet, and exercised with me 2-4 hours each day for approximately 8 months now. She has transformed me from a couch-potato to a guy with rock hard abs. She is very proud this, and is constantly showing me off to her friends and other people. I'm not in control of what I wear to parties, what I eat, how I walk, nor how I cut my hair anymore. I have never felt or looked better.

In a way I keep hoping she is transforming me into a guy she could eventually date. Am I retarded for thinking this way? Or should I be happy for all her help, and try to meet other girls? My fear is that if I do meet another girl she would be hurt. I mean there must be a reason she is putting in all this effort.

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<bot>: I have been transformed and whipped hard by a girl I'm not in a relationship with. Could she be doing this with a purpose?