<human>: Hi guys,

First time posting so ill try my best to make this work.

We have been in a 7.5yr relationship which I [F] blew at my boyfriend last week letting out all my anger, resentment and frustrations. I hold him at the heat of the moment I no longer had the strength to continue with the relationship. In my point of view, I told him he was not showing intimacy, which to me holds the relationship strong. He just told me that he has been resenting me for not changing the small things that annoy him and is angered by it, but he does care for me. Deep down I know I want to make this work and both agree seeking a relationship counsellor, but do you redditors know from experience if this can work for the better?

Thank you if you have read this far.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: our relationship is at a breaking point, however we recognised the destructive patterns but don't know how to get out, can it be saved if we agree to see counselling?