<human>: I came out to my mum a few months ago and it was terrible. She bawled her eyes out and said all the typical things a conservative Christian says. 

I've been strong in making sure she knows I'm still going to spend time with my girlfriend despite what she thinks of it, and she reluctantly lets me go visit her but doesn't let me stay late. 

I told my mum today that I wanted to travel to America with a few friends and she eventually said yes. Then she asked me if E (my gf) was going and I told her she might be. After that she adamantly said no and I can't convince her otherwise. 

I'll be devastated if I can't go, we've been planning this for a while. I considered lying to my mum and telling her E can no longer go, but I figure she will find out somehow through pictures, or me slipping up while telling a story or something. 

I don't know how else to get out of this pickle. My family isn't the type of family that you can just say 'I'm paying for it I'll do what I want'. My cray cray parents are super conservative.

I need to find a way around this within the next 48 hours because we need to boo flights before our deal runs out.

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<bot>: my Ma is a cray cray homophobe and won't let me travel with my gf. I need to find a way around this quick fizzles with the help of you lovely peeps