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I've been having sex with this girl since January. It's been quite awesome actually. We've become really good friends in the process. Sometime in the last month though it seems to have changed. We have grown to like each other even more. Now this doesn't seem like a problem except that both of us have very different goals in life. I want to get married someday for example and she hates marriage, I want to raise a family in the future, she hates kids.

This is were the problem comes in. If we did just start dating nothing would really change just there would be an inevitable break up at some point as we are not looking for the same or similar things in life down the road. Say 5 years from now.

We have talked about it and the concusses was to keep having fun but don't make it more because she doesn't want to go through the break up at some point. I am totally cool with this but I wouldn't mind an outside perspective. Maybe there isn't a problem at all and I'm overthinking it. Any thoughts would be nice.
<bot>: Me and my friends with benefits like each other a lot but want different things in life. Any outside thoughts of what we are doing?