<human>: My wife and I have been married for the past 15 years and we have a 10 year old son.  After years of living like roommates and counseling doing nothing, I told her I didn't love her, but that for the sake of our son I didn't want to fight or to do anything that might hurt him.  

We both agreed that between finances and our son that we'd live together for three more years, and at first she seemed fine with the idea.  We agreed to stay friendly with each other for our son's sake and although I would gain a little more personal freedom she didn't want to know if there was anyone else.  

A couple days after Valentine's day she found a receipt in my pocket for two cards (her Valentine's Day card and her birthday card) and decided that I had to be cheating on her. After a week of arguing and me explaining the situation to her, she's now decided that there was no way that I could leave this relationship without someone else.  The next weekend she took our son and refused to tell me where she went, she just said she needed space. 

Now she and our son are back at home, but she told me that if I didn't commit to keeping the family together that she was leaving that instant with my child. I said that I would, but now she's constantly suspicious of everything I do, won't let my use my laptop during the evening and reads all of my text messages and emails.  

I don't want to lose my son or for him to be scarred by a messy divorce, but I want my personal freedom back.

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<bot>: I told my wife I didn't love her, and she told me that I either had to commit to keeping the family together or she was leaving with our son.