<human>: So for reference I guess, here's a little bit of back story. I was with my prior ex for 3 years. In the last year or so of our relationship things started going downhill (both in the relationship, and in terms of sexual performance.) Toward the end of that relationship I kind of thought the performance issues were probably bc I didn't have really feelings for her anymore...Almost like sex became a chore. We broke things off for various reasons, I never really thought about it again.

In the year since I broke that  off, I've hooked up with a couple girls. One  went smoothly, one did not,  but it didn't really matter. Now though, I'm getting involved with someone and everything's been amazing with us, we're definitely going  places. Last night though, we hooked up for the first time, and I absolutely failed. It was horrible. One of the worst experiences of my life. Basically could barely get it up to begin with, got it up finally which lasted...I don't know, 3 minutes probably, then couldn't get it up again enough to get a condom on.

I'm calling my doc today to go talk to him...I can't have this keep happening. I guess what  I'm wondering is, has anyone on Reddit experienced this? Particularly at a younger age? I'm feeling like an absolute weirdo here. Also, if so, what were your outcomes?

ANY thoughts or related stories might at  least make me feel a little better, so thanks in advance Reddit.

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<bot>: I'm 24 and  having, what I consider, serious sexual performance issues.  Looking for advice and related stories. Feeling like crap about it.