<human>: My girlfriend and I met at our job. We fell deeply in love with one another instantly. Fast forward 3 months and we have reason to think the employers know, but we always kept the relationship extremely professional at work. I ended up getting fired for essentially no reason ("not a good fit" / "not what we're looking for" etc) with no explanation—except we can only imagine they didn't want coworkers dating. I'm devastated, I loved my job and never saw this coming. My girlfriend is very upset as well, but she remains at her job. 

Fast forward almost a year and I am still upset about it. I've seen a counselor and have been actively managing the anger and depression that has come from it. One could definitely argue that the event has made me a stronger person, I went on to do more successful things and have achieved a lot more than I would have if I still remained at the job. The flip side is that I'm still very upset and don't like to hear about where my GF still works or anything to do with her job. I've gotten very fed up and so has she. 

We love each other very much, live together, and are discussing marriage, but I'm honestly still upset and don't want this to be a problem going forward. I tell her that ultimately I'd like her to leave to restore balance in our relationship and remove the stimuli of constantly being reminded of the job. She's reluctant to do so for a number of reasons. On the surface I can tell this is selfish, and part of me thinks I need to "man up" and get over this, but it's been very difficult due to do so. I welcome all advise / opinions / "man ups" etc.

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<bot>: GF and I met at work, I got fired, she's stayed there over a year, I'm still salty and it's aggravating our relationship. What should I do?