<human>: I am single for the last four years with occasional short relationships. I'd like to start dating someone but only someone I like. I don't mind and even enjoy living on my own as long as it takes to find a guy whom I enjoy being next to.

I was talking with a friend [29M] and he told me I am not feminine enough. I disagree, because I think I am quite pretty, sexy, smart and am an interesting girl. But it's difficult to judge without seeing myself the way others see me.

It's also difficult not to think that something is wrong with you when, for example, a guy you like, does not like you in return.

Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?
<bot>: How do I identify, whether or not I need to become more feminine? And if I do need to, then how to become more feminine?