<human>: So a few months back, I made a most on r4r and got a few hits back. One of them being this girl (my now girlfriend) who lives 4 hours away. We have a ton in common and got along really well playing video games in Skype and caught ourselves constantly texting (somewhere over 10k texts in 3 months). 

She was on r4r that night due to her then boyfriend being away a month at a time for work and barely doing anything with her when he was home or had time while working. I didn't expect to end up liking or dating her but things happen and I'm not upset it happened. 

So we've been dating over a month. I drove down and met her in person and stayed 3 days with her and had a blast. We hit it off and everything felt right. I had no questions from meeting her that dating was bad. That being said there are things that pointed towards how I feel now. The way we met was kind of messed up. She was in a relationship and it ended 4 days before we met in person. We both have anxiety and depression. Hers being way worse then mine. She has no job and her anxiety keeps her from getting one or doing a lot of normal activities. I assumed I could help and my opinion on things would help but they haven't. She posted on r4r again the other day and since I love so far away I felt like maybe the same thing would happen to me that happened to her ex. Also she gets really depressed at times when I'm asleep and I wake up to texts saying how I'm way out of her league and how I should leave her like the rest of the guys and then things like I think we shouldn't date. I know she's depressed but going through a potential break up 3-4 times a week is getting to me. 

After all of that came to my eyes and added up I'm really worried and don't know what to do

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<bot>: just started dating a girl four hours away that has red flags I was ok with at first that are now stressing me out and I don't know what to do