<human>: Husband and I have a great marriage, two kids and for the most part we get along really well. Our big continuing issue is his communication skills. He's a terrible communicator, he knows it, I know it, his family knows it...

Things that most people consider common courtesy like a text to say "I'll be at work past midnight tonight--don't worry about me" or "hey decided to go to happy hour, be home late" never occur to him. We have talked to counsellors, I have cried my eyes out telling him how much this  bothers  me, but at this point I know the energy is wasted because he's not going to change. I worry sick about him when he's out late. This isn't a cheating thing. I have massive ptsd from my brother being involved in a gang shooting when I was 10 and we had no idea where he was or that he had passed for five days. The not knowing almost killed me and my family. I feel this when I don't hear from my husband.

So we got new iPhones and discovered findmyfriends. To me it was a godsend. If husband was late, turn on the app...yup still at work...nothing to worry about. I could even set it up so it would tell me when he would leave and like clockwork he would walk through the door 27 minutes later. I loved it and it really but me at ease.

Just yesterday he turned it off. When I asked him why he said it feels like a "stalker app." I told him that I'm not stalking him but with his admitted issues with communication and consideration, the app is a very non-invasive compromise. He thinks his company is going to use it to track his whereabouts which seems really lame excuse to me...and frankly he's a dedicated employee who works much harder and much longer hours than his peers. He has nothing to worry about as far as I'm concerned.

Do I need to let this go or really press the issue?

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<bot>: Husband is a terrible communicator and I liked findmyfriends as a nice compromise. He's turned it off and it really bothers me and we are at an impass.