<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

I've been seeing two girls for about a year.  Each relationship is getting to a point of seriousness where I need to make a commitment to each of the girls.  The problem is, i love them both, and I'm not sure how to pick which one....when I sit down and try to feel it out, go with my gut, I don't feel differently about either.  When I try to logically list things out, each is great.  Part of the problem, is I know both of them are in LOVE with me, not  infatuation, not well it was fun while it lasted, ending things would crush either girl....but I have to.

31/F - She is laid back and chill, she's very independent, has a large group of friends and a good job.  We mesh well, she's easy to be with we are both nerdy she understand me.  The sex is amazing, the best i've ever had.  She can be sensitive, she can take things personally.  She's never mean, but it's easy to tell when she's annoyed with you.

34/f - Also laid back and chill.  She does not have a large group of friends, and she left her job in December to pursue other things but has not found employment yet.  She also owns her own home.  The sex is good.  I can talk with her about anything, we can be open in a way I've never experienced and she's very adventurous which I value highly.  She can be clingy, and neurotic, and she can be depressed. 

I'm happy to answer questions, take advice, anything...I'm not even sure how to go about choosing let alone making the choice and breaking someones heart.

And no before anyone suggests it Polyamory is not an option.
<bot>: I have two women I could see myself with the rest of my life, and I need help figuring out which one...or even how to go about picking which one should be it!!