<human>: I feel as though I've consistently had anxiety issues when I enter into romantic relationships.  I think that as a more analytically inclined person, it stresses me out that I can sometimes have trouble perceiving or quantifying the idea of being in love with another person.  This seems to inevitably result in self-doubt and can cause me to question whether or not I am actually in love with the person whom I am in a relationship with.

At this point, I've generally learned to just ignore these feelings, let them slide, and gain confidence in myself and my partnerships over time.  However, I have just entered into an incredibly serious relationship with a girl who is considering making some significant changes to her life plan to be with me.  To be clear, **I love the shit out of this girl**.  However, the changes she is considering making for me leave me terrified of hurting her/falling out of love with her, and I feel like this fear is seriously harming my ability to connect with her and understand/convey my feelings.

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<bot>: I'm so afraid of falling out of love and hurting the love of my life that I have trouble actually feeling love.