<human>: So this girl i've been chatting with for a while finally seemed like she was giving me an in (had previously been to movies with her and hung out together in public places - never alone) and we were going to meet up and go somewhere for the day. Well she ended up flaking on me and for the past few weeks i've been generally confused about her demeanor around me. Its been on and off - at certiain times she gives off a feeling that she is interested other times it just seems like nothing. The mixed signals have been fucking with my head big time. 

In the past she told me she needed time before she was ready to start dating again, so i held off and stayed in contact with her but didnt try to pursue dating her, so i thought this was finally her giving me a hint. Well after she flaked on todays plans I was a bit fed up. I just came out and asked her directly "are you interested in me or not - if you arent you can jsut say so. If theres not a mutual attraction and its all me just say so" - My rational behind is that I dont want to continue investing emotional time into something that isnt going anywhere and is all one sided (from me). 

I havent gotten a response back from her yet because she flaked on me today i had to do this over the phone - which i was really hoping to avoid. My question is - am i in the wrong here by coming off and asking her to be direct about what shes thinking in regards to the possibility of something between us?

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: girl giving mixed signals about getting together, flakes on plans, ask her to be direct about if she has feelings towards me, am i a dick for asking her to be direct and putting her on blast?