<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

I think I have a problem.  When I meet people, over time I form an opinion of them, how I see them...which I think is normal...But if they end up messing with that image I created...at all...it drives me absolutely apeshit.  I guess I have a bit of a controlling demeanor, but it stresses me out when people seem to change who they are, or who I thought they were.  Is there anything I can do other than "stop being crazy" to sort of just, let stuff happen as it will?  It stresses me out to the point of panic attacks when people act like people that I didn't think they were.  I even end up saying things that nobody should say to another person, just for say...getting a tattoo and wearing a leather jacket, when I didn't think they were the type to do so.
<bot>: How do I be less judgmental?  If people end up messing with the image I created of them as I got to know them, it drives me insane.  This seems crazy to me, but I can't shake it.