<human>: Over the weekend, my boyfriend and I got in a HUGE fight. We discussed a lot of things and we didn't manage to resolve much. We parted on OK terms I guess, but some of the things he said were things he had never expressed to me in the past and caught me totally off guard. For example, he said he doesn't like driving as much to see me or hang out with me because it puts 'to much wear and tear on his car' (I drive to his house a lot, but my car is a lot older and less reliable for long-distance trips). Or I take too much time away from seeing his family (he lives at home still and we only see each other on the weekends). Just things that really hurt, because it made me feel like I'm just not important. That even when he sometimes gives me the bare minimum that's STILL too much for him to want to do. 

Now I'm just kind of stuck second-guessing *everything* because if that's what he thinks then does he really want to be together? He says he does but I don't know. I don't really know how to move forward and mend this relationship. I don't want to break up, we've been through a lot but he really is a great guy. I know he isn't the most experienced with girlfriends as I'm his first real relationship, so maybe that's contributing to our problems. 

I guess I'm looking for advice on how to move past this. Even if he says he wants to make me dinner, or hang out, I just end up having a hard time believing him. Also I guess part of me wonders how he could forget about our fight and act like it didn't happen when it's pretty much all I can think about. I don't feel important or loved or cared for. How can we repair this and move forward?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: After my boyfriend said some mean and hurtful things, I'm having a hard time moving forward even though he is doing nice things.