<human>: Backstory: friends for two years, both of us have had feelings for each other but at the wrong time for the opposing person. She wanted me to be her bf and I said no, I wanted her to be my gf and she said no. We're very close friends now, and all is well. I am very happy being her friend.  
Lately, however, she has been displaying jealous tendencies and demanding more and more of my time, and also being a cock-block. That's not ok.  
So, how do I tell her to say if she has feelings for me, that there will be no repercussions either way, and remain friends if that's what she says? If she doesn't have romantic feelings for me then I will tell her to stop behaving the way she has been.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: how do I get my female friend to once and for all, truthfully tell me if she is OK being just friends, without ruining our friendship?