<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

My ex boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago after an ugly fight. We had been together for one year and a half an we both considered our relationship serious enough for marriage. 

 I was living with him at the moment, and I moved out of his place after I broke up with him, since my name was not on the lease and he was paying full rent. 

 I've still got some feeling left for him, so I've been kept in touch with him on and off. I'd suggest him to get back together soon, but he'd back off and say he's not ready for it yet. 

 So I insisted we should cut off all the contacts since he's not ready for it yet. But he'd say that 'It's hurtful and mean to say things like that' and it's unfair and extreme of me that I'm 'perceiving this situation in black and white - either getting back together or cutting off all contacts'. And he said it's such a sick mind game that I'm playing.

But in my defense, it's hard for me to keep talking to him while he is not really sure about getting back together with me and wants to date other girls a bit for a while. It's making harder for me to get over him when I'm keep talking to him, knowing that he might move on while I have not. 

 But I'm also worried if I shut him off completely for a while, I might lose all the possibilities to get back together with him.

 I'm really not sure how to communicate with him at this moment to get back together with him. What kind of actions/attitude should I have in this situation to get him back?
<bot>: My exboyfriend doesn't want to jump back into a relationship with me right now but he still wants to keep in touch with me, and I'm not sure how to react.