<human>: I can't tell if I'm jumping the gun, or my standards are too unrealistic, or if I'm going through some kind of rebound thing or what.

I have commitment issues and except for my last ex-girlfriend (2 years), I've never been able to keep up a relationship for more than a few months and I've always dated people who treat me kind of badly (ignore me or overstep my boundaries), maybe because I was physically abused as a child by my parents.

I met a lovely woman fresh off my breakup two months ago, and she checked all the boxes. Trustworthy, attractive, sweet, supportive, smart, driven, playful--everything I was looking for in a partner, she has. I was attracted to her from the start and we spend hours talking and laughing every time we met up. She's really really into me, and very open about it, no games, but still respectful of my boundaries. I liked her better than anyone else I was seeing at the time and wanted to focus on her, so we got exclusive recently. We've been spending a day out of every weekend together and I took her to botanical gardens at midnight, some romantic dates, etc.

I like her and I think she's gorgeous but I don't really feel anything for her, aside from respect and occasional fondness/attraction. I set up weekly dates and enjoy them but don't particularly feel giddy before or after. What are you supposed to feel at the beginning of a relationship? I was head-over-heels with my ex-girlfriend from the beginning, but my ex also had a quasi-emotional affair while making me feel like dirt she found on her shoe, so I don't know if me being head-over-heels is any kind of indicator of compatibility.

Should I break up with this wonderful woman now so I don't lead her on? Or should I give the relationship more of a chance to blossom? Do feelings grow over time or do you just know right off the bat when it's right and when it's not working? Or do I have a warped sense of what love is from having been abused as a child?

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Met a great woman who is perfect on paper. She's into me. I like her but I'm not head over heels. Should I break up now and move on or give it a while to blossom?