<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

I'm living in Asia at the moment (I'm European) and I got a Indonesian gf. We have been together about 9 months and well, she is mostly quite mature for life stuff. She has been in this country for years, and speaks the language quite well, works in an office, and has a very straight forward way of thinking. I came to learn the language but I'm not doing that well. Anyway, when it come to relationship, I'm quite a role. As the man I should work and be strong and brave and gentleman. I'm not even kidding. She gets like crazy when I suggest to spilt the account. She expects me to pay everything always. She thinks life is about marrying and having kids. That's not obligatory in my philosophy.

Anyway. I'm writing this cause recently I got a job thanks to her. The job is in a famous restaurant and the workflow is overwhelming. People queues for hours to enter. And since I'm working that hard and not even in a language I can handle, I started I'm having a very depressing attitude and thoughts. Like I cannot even sleep properly anymore. I'm scared that tomorrow is another working day, it seems stupid but I'm really scared about it. I would like to leave the job but chances to get a place to "practice" the language are really few, and she had nothing else to get me to work in. 

So I expressed this idea to her. Since I'm feeling so bad inside me, like I wanna cry. I think it was not a good idea. I told her I need her to be supportive with me and a bit tender. But that's not gonna happen. She just said to me "i think you should sleep earlier". So hey, a man that feels like crying. It should be totally against her idea of a man. 
 
We have had some fights cause her expectations about me not becoming true. But this time I said to her I really need her to support me, since inside I feel so bad, and she reacts with nothing.

I would like to know what do you think about her, and also what do you think I should do with my job. 

Sorry for my English...
<bot>: my girlfriend does not show any affection in a bad time of my life due to a really hard job/situation.