<human>: I met this guy on Ok Cupid... our chemistry was phenomenal and it seemed like we had "everything" in common with one another.

About three weeks in to seeing each other regularly, I "freaked out" on him. He blew me off for the third time in one week, and decided to express my feelings. I said that I felt like a booty call, that he really didn't like me, etc. I felt stupid and ashamed that I blew up on him. His response? "We just need to be friends and leave anything physical out of it."

After about a week of silence, he text me yesterday for my birthday and asked if I wanted to hang out. I get there. We chat, sitting as far away from him as I can, trying to hold my guard up. Suddenly, he grabs me and kisses me... and we had sex. I stay for a few hours, and he asks me to leave around 1 AM. Normally, I would have stayed the night... but it was as if he was pushing me out the door.

I want to ask him WTF changed his mind to not wanting to be physical, to suddenly going back on his word... but, I can't quite figure out how to go about it.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Seeing a guy for about a month, can't figure out what we "are" or if I'm just a lay to him. :/