<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

My boyfriend and I I have been dating for just over two years and have been living together for pretty much all that time, which I know is strange and dangerous but we work together really well and have had no issues.

Recently, he's been offered a job, more or less, in Seattle and we had semi-solid plans to move up there after we graduate. Last night as we were going out to dinner he dropped the bomb on me, that when we move up to Seattle he would like to get an apartment of his own and live by himself for 6 months to a year. His reasoning was that he had never lived alone without me or roommates before and he felt that this was a time in his life where it was acceptable for him to live alone. That being said, he said he still wanted me to move up to Seattle with him but to live in a separate apartment.

I told him I was really hurt by this and that I didn't think it was a good idea to just stop living together after living together for so long. I also told him that it didn't make any sense that he wouldn't want to share a big milestone with me and that he would rather live by himself in a new city. After a bit of talking, he relented and said that it was more or less of a fantasy that wasn't really thought out and that as much as he would like to do it, it wouldn't be a good idea.

However, my feelings are still pretty hurt that he would want to live without me in Seattle and I think that it's selfish of him to still want me to be up there but not *with* him. Am I being unreasonable, or is he?
<bot>: boyfriend wants to move to Seattle and live separately for a year or so because he feels like he's missing out on a part of life / bachelorhood. My feelings are hurt, am I being unreasonable?