<human>: hello reddit
So as the titel claims my girlfriend and i have been together for 9 months now, and she has now gone to Australia for 6 months to be an aupair (we live in Denmark), she has now been there for 2 weeks and today she called to tell me that the trip to Australia we had planned for 4 months had a change of plans, she told me that some people have told me she should go alene to get more out of the trip. This of course saddened me alot and made me ask her if its because she doesnt love me anymore, but she Said that wasnt it. I May have been a little angry talking to her since i thought it was a really weird plan and it came of of nothing. Now she Wong return my calls and doesnt wanna answer my messages even though she Saw them.
Her brother and best friend have told me she just needs some more time to adapt to talking Care of 3 children 24/7 and therefore is really stressed and that she will become "herself" again.
But i just really need some advice from outside people about what i should do. And its probably Worth mentioning that she has had problems with depression a couple of years ago and i suspect that she is starting to feel that Way again.

Give me a shortened version of the text
<bot>: girlfriend through 9 months wanna cancel the part where i travel with her for 2 months and i feel like she doesnt love me, some say its because of stress but i just need advice.