<human>: ive been hooking up with "Sandy" for a while. It was strictly FWB at first but I really, really like her. Because it was just FWB we really didn't get into to much personal stuff and I never went to her place. She was one of those girls who told me that she was closer with guys than girls to which I had no issues. She had mentioned she was even "best girl" at her best friend since grade schools wedding but I really didn't make too much of it.

Last night she finally invited me over to her place as we seem to be progressing into more of an actual boyfriend/girlfriend type thing. On her bedroom wall was a very nice picture of the wedding party she was in and I was fucking shocked to see the groom (Tony) was a guy I hooked up with about six years ago. I don't consider myself gay but I'm not ashamed that I spent an amazing weekend with him. The truth is we had an amazing sexual chemistry that I had never felt before and never expect to again. He and I remained in touch for a year or so and then at some point he deleted his Facebook and I figured that was that.

i didn't say anything last night because I was agast at the coincidence of this. I don't think Sandy would care but then again this type of stuff can bring up weird emotions. My last girlfriend who was a super progressive liberal who marched in a gay marriage parade actually dumped me when I shared the experience with tony with her because the act "disgusted her." So I always feel it's a risk, plus I don't know his newish wife and don't want to ruin anything for him if he's trying to keep this under wraps. But on the other hand I don't want to be seen as withholding information. Since I'm not "gay" I've never had to deal with coming out, much less potentially outing someone else.

Reddit...do I tell her what happened?

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<bot>: Hooked up with a guy six years ago who turns out to be my FWBs best freind. Lots of land mines here I want to avoid.