<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

My bf [M30] and I [F28] have been dating for 10 months. We moved in together recently, and so far it is the healthiest, most wonderful relationship I've ever had. My mother has met him a few times now, but she doesn't know him too well yet. The rest of my family [M35, F42, M47] and their spouses have not met him. 

My oldest brother and his wife are the biggest issue. They are uncomfortable with me bringing my SO to dinner on Thursday. Of course, in true dysfunctional style, they didn't actually talk to me about this, instead they made our mother communicate for them. The reason they gave for the discomfort is that they don't know him, and they don't want a stranger judging how they parent. Now, they are shitty parents. Not abusive or neglectful, just shitty. They are agoraphobic, hypochondriac, paranoid, and delusional. They are people who should not have been allowed to adopt children. The rest of the family, even my extremely forgiving and kind-hearted brother think they are off their rockers. 

My family only gets all together for holidays and kid's birthdays. I don't feel that a kid's birthday party is the best time to introduce my SO to my family, so I've been planning on bringing him to Thanksgiving for a while. 

I'm bringing my SO on Thursday, that is not a question. He is my love, he is my other half, he is *my* family. I was married for 6 years to a man that my family liked, even my asshole oldest brother and his batshit insane wife. Of course they didn't know that my marriage was unhealthy, we were unhappy a lot of the time. Now I have a man that loves me so thoroughly, a man that is patient with my flaws, a man that inspires me to do better for myself, but that apparently doesn't matter to them. I'm not spending this holiday without him, but I'm also unwilling to miss spending it with the rest of my family. So my question is not "should i bring him".
<bot>: Crazy/judgemental/lying Brother and his Wife don't want me to bring SO to Turkey Day Dinner. I'm sick of their illogical and hurtful behaviors, so I'm bringing him.