<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

24 f 26 m, been together on and off for 5 years (mostly on). 

We started dating in college and have lived together for 4 years in a few different apartments sometimes with roommates, sometimes just us.

I broke up with him for the first time around year 3.5. I had been working at a new job and things had just changed over time. The spark had died and I was just unhappy with the dying relationship.

Fast forward a few months later, we got back together, took a break, then now back together again.

I've been feeling really down the last few months and he hasn't done one thing to make me feel better. Is it too much to ask for him to ask me how things are going at work? For him to take me out to a nice dinner every now and then? For him to get off the couch and say hi to me when I come home? For him to tell me I look pretty? For him to take me to a concert for one of the bands I like?

He tells me that I am asking for the impossible and that I only notice the bad things he does while ignoring the good.

The thing is, we are not even married yet and this is already our relationship. Is this just as good as it gets? Am I stuck with someone who doesn't even know me well enough to comfort me when I'm sad after 5 years? Maybe I have watched too many movies and am seeking the perfect, nonexistent relationship.
<bot>: I want my boyfriend to do more little things for me to make me feel like I am important to him and special. Am I being unreasonable?