<human>: I have always struggled with jealousy in past relationships. That's generally about their exes, and never regarding current events ("you were flirting with her!" etc). However, I realize that the past doesn't just disappear just because you're seeing someone new, and some may wish to keep some stuff or memories from past relationships. Myself, I have a letter from an ex hidden underneath my bed. I never really read it, but I like having it there because I want to save the content of it.

Now, my new bf of 4 months got out of a long term relationship more than a year ago, but he still keeps a few things which bother me:

- Her headshots are on his laptop

- Some of her belongings are buried in piles of other stuff in his fairly messy house (so that they keep popping up every now and then, which angers him as he doesn't like having those things around, but hasn't gotten rid of any of those things either)

- A very cheesy declaration of his undying love for her, publicly, as a tagged picture on Facebook; this is actually one of the most recently tagged pictures he has even though that was more than a year ago

I'm working on myself a lot because I recognize that jealousy is really about me, not about the other person. I know that it's just fear in another form. However, where do I draw the line - what kind of memories from a previous relationship are acceptable to keep/not get rid of when entering a new relationship? The Facebook picture is making me cringe just thinking about it because it's extremely over the top of him writing "we're soulmates" and so forth, but would it be reasonable for me to ask him to remove it?

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<bot>: Bf keeps a few things reminding me of his ex-gf, I find some of them more invasive/offensive than others. Can I ask him to remove those things, or am I being overly jealous?