<human>: Okay, so to clarify, it isn't that we don't disagree, it's that we don't fight. 

We've had issues (usually minor/quickly cleared), that one or both of us have forced the other to exposit on and we've then made a decision to at least work on. 

As for myself, if something bothers me, I'll usually wait and think it out before bringing it up so as to be sure it isn't a simple misunderstanding (seems this is often the case even when I decide to bring it up) and/or I'm not letting emotions run too strong. 

I think a lot of this is because I know I can say things I regret when angry (my family has some anger issues I've spent years coming to an understanding of), and do not wish to do that. 

As for her, my wife is of a mind that our not fighting is on and of itself odd, therefore maybe bad. 

I'm mixed, I think we both are similar in that we tend to think before acting on many things and yet as much as I was raised seeing shouting fights in relationships, I've decided I *really* don't want that trait from my parents to continue.

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<bot>: we don't have those loud, dramatic, knock down drag out fights that everyone seems to think are normal. Does this sounds like am issue?