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So my fiancee (27/f - Sarah) and I [30/m - Jacob] are having a wedding in a year.  We officially announced it as of three or so months ago right when we announced our engagement.  We quickly found a venue (a barn transformed into a really sweet reception hall), caterer, DJ, and so forth.  We were really excited, so we told everyone.  My brother [26/m - Steve] is the best man in my wedding.

About two months ago, Steve and his girlfriend (33/f - Sally) got engaged.  Awesome.  They had no plans to set a date or anything, they've been together a couple of years, everything is good and happy.

Cut to one month ago, Steve and Sally are pregnant!  Awesome!  Kickass news abound!

Cut to last week.  Suddenly, Steve and Sally are getting married in October.  They quickly chose a venue that is a different, but similar looking barn restored to a wedding venue.  I'm also in their wedding party.

Should we be upset?  We're trying to sort out how to feel.  Sure, we have no ownership over the type of venue they use, but we're going to have some of the same people at the wedding.  Sarah and I have been together for six years, so us finally getting married is a huge deal.  We have a child together.  This is a big deal to us.

Sarah just feels like they stole our thunder, and I am not as upset.  We're working that part out together.

What do you think?
<bot>: Brother seemingly stole my wedding idea and is suddenly having a shotgun wedding a year before mine just months after we announced our wedding plans.