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so this guy and I have been dating for a couple of months. He ended it with me the day after my birthday (last week) because I always hang out with my ex. I do not have feelings for my ex anymore, he is just a best friend to me now. and I've known him for like 7 years. so this guy I was dating was upset that I hung out with my ex all the time, and invited him to my birthday. Guy im dating never came to my birthdday because my ex was there and that it would be really weird.

He breaks up with me the next day because apparently Im always putting my ex first. 

also it doesnt help with the fact that I would not commit to this guy from the two months we've been dating. he's asked me to be his girlfriend several times. I said not now, im not ready.

I wasnt sure about him. I wasnt sure whether I wanted to keep him as a friend only, or my boyfriend. but he wasn't patient enough, and needed an answer. I could not answer.

so he had to end it. he said he needed to see progress in this relationship. and he does not want to get hurt.

also he's said the L word like a dozen times, but I never once said it back.

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it has been a week now since i've seen him, and Im thinking about going to visit him at his workplace

(which is by the way how we met, we both worked in the same area, he was my customer for years, and I know all of his co-workers)

I wasnt sure whether I wanted to be with him or not, but now that he's gone, I really miss him.. and would maybe want to give it a shot. if he lets it.

would this come across as creepy, or sweet.. or desperate?
<bot>: was not sure about whether i liked this guy or not. he breaks up with me. now I miss him. thinking of visiting him at his work (where we met)