<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

Sounds like a silly concern, doesn't it? I'm *worried* that I don't like spending time with my partner? Well do I or don't I!? Well, the thing is, I do and I don't.

I like spending time with my partner because I love her very much as a person. She's incredibly kind, very forgiving, immensely patient with me, cares about me like no one else, and above all, absolutely deserves my love and attention regardless of my silly concerns.

I don't like spending time with my partner because I feel the conversation and quality of time is, well, of bad quality. I want to talk about science, philosophy, spirituality, psychology; I want to learn, expand and evolve as people, *with her*. But she doesn't seem to want that. She just seems to want vapid material and activities.

It's not necessarily that she's not into the activities that I'm into and visa versa, it's that we're fundamentally two completely different meat-bags of likes and dislikes, opinions, and outlooks on life, which I think has developed this way because we didn't have a chance to discover ourselves individually first! We were just two horny teenagers who saw the opposite sex's genitals, initially. This is a fundamental problem...how can I maintain this relationship-building if the foundation is crumbling away?
<bot>: I'm probably a selfish douchebag who's whining that my partner doesn't want to do the same things as me. Please tell me if you think that's the case.