<human>: I'll keep this one as short as possible but here goes.  Met this girl through work several months back, immediately hit it off, hung out somewhat often.  Got close at one point, cuddling, sexting? (sort of), kissing, etc.  Eventually we hooked up, and it was great.  She's an awesome person and I love being around her.

The feeling isn't often reciprocated, often times I will keep my evenings open (I don't have many friends asking to hang out anyways so it's not like I'm going out of my way to be available)
and ask her if she would like to get together some point during the week, and 90% of the time my answer is "yeah i'd like to, or maybe" and when the time comes around we usually do not hang out.  

We do not live super close, nor do we live too far either.  It's about a 30 minute drive.  When we do meet up, we both usually meet half way and just grab drinks or dinner.  When we are together one on one I can tell she's into me, subtle hints, eye contact, playing with her hair are all common.

The part of this that bothers me is the lack of dedication to making time to see me, I get the excuse "your place is so far", or "I'm too tired to do anything."  

At one point I even took another girl out for a date, and when she heard about it, she told me verbatim "I don't want to miss my chance to date you" (she had just gotten out of a LTR several months back)  And she will text me/snap me every day.

Am I looking too far into this?  Or should I actually be somewhat concerned by the seemingly lack of effort on her part?

Thanks!

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: Ex coworker and I became more than friends, and she says she would like to date me, but I am the only one who is seemingly affectionate.