<human>: Back in my hometown, from middle school all the way through to the community college I went to for two and a half years, my experiences with the opposite sex had been almost entirely negative. I'm still a virgin because at some point with every girl I ever liked, something went wrong.

Now I'm finally in a new environment, and I almost immediately hit it off with an attractive girl who seemed just as interested in me as I was in her. The problem? She was busy. Three times we scheduled a date she said she'd be free for. Three times she ended up not being able to go last minute. I've given up on her.

As I look around me, I see everyone else randomly hooking up in lieu of actual relationships. To put it lightly: that's not for me. But It seems like people are that way because they don't have time. I'm seeing two types of girls: those who are putting off everything with men until after college, and those who just want hookups.

There are guys I know who have girlfriends, but I have no idea how they got them. I feel like I'm facing an insurmountable wall. How do I have an actual relationship with a college girl?

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<bot>: I'm in college and I want an actual relationship. Not a hookup. Prospects are dim. What do I do?