<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

We truly dated for the first two years; he was unfaithful but we both wanted to try to work it out afterwards.  However, 3 years later, we talk and text everyday from first thing in the morning to usually last thing at night.  What bugs me (and we've discussed this) is that he still calls me his "friend," is unavailable for long periods of time when he's hanging out with his other (always women) friends and won't commit to working on any future plans with me (example:  planning a vacation or committing to going to my brother's wedding as my date).  

Everything seems like it's always last minute and based on how he feels at the moment (don't know if it's because he's controlling or just looking for a better option).  

Every time I try to cut it off, I am not able to keep him at a distance for very long (I'm usually the one who calls him) and I think this is unhealthy for both of us as we both deserve to be in committed relationships (at least that's what I want).  

Anyone have any similar experiences and recommendations for what I should do? If cutting off contact is the right thing to do, how do I do it?
<bot>: 5 year relationship, he refuses to date me monogamously and calls me his friend (not girlfriend), should I cut off all contact?