<human>: UPDATE:

Talked with her about it over coffee today and she said that there's a guy at work who was flirting with her...and I asked if she was flirting back and she said "yes".   And then awkwardly got up and left.  I'm hoping she didn't cheat on me but I don't really know....about an hour later I got angry messages from her about how inadequate I am and how she never should have told me she loves me... So I blocked her number.  I'm off to the pub.  Cheers, Reddit.

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We were playing a game of truth or dare with friends (and alcohol) and she was asked what my worst trait is.  She said I'm clingy.

Background, before I met her I had a few really crappy relationships with women who belittled me.  Nobody has ever called me clingy before though, if anything I was accused of being distant (who would want to be around my exes the way they treated me).

So after this night of drinking I asked my gf if she had meant it.  And she had!  But said it was cute and part of her kind of found it endearing.  Well that's great, but I felt like a creep, so I stopped texting her as much.  She used to text or call me every other day or so, and I'd usually initiate a conversation the other days: there was a back and forth almost every day before, and it was something she had told me she wanted.

Since this incident 2 weeks ago, though, I stopped initiating, and oddly, she hasn't contacted me at all!  She still showed up to a mutual group we hang out with weekly and seemed fine, and she knows I'm really busy with work, so maybe that's why?  But I feel our dynamic has been thrown off and I don't know how to approach it with her.

Honestly, the talking every day thing was wearing me out, but little communication for 2 weeks is absurd.  Am I worried about nothing, or is it worth waiting before talking to her about this?

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: she passively mentioned I was clingy during a game with friends and I decreased contact, think dynamic is damaged and not sure what to do!