<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

My friend's father is dying of cancer and expected to only live a few more weeks. My friend (let's call him George) won't take help from his support system of friends, instead he's bottling his feelings as he historically has done (Example: one night he broke down crying, letting a lot of pent-up feelings out after an argument he had with a mutual friend). I know he could use help of his friends/support system.

George's sister has special needs and George's younger brother is a dead beat - both live with the dying father. He is bearing a ton of burden right now while trying to tie up loose ends with no help from his family. 

What can I do to help George, without overstepping the boundaries he has formed? 

Since he won't let friends help around his father's house, my mind goes to gifts that will simplify life and alleviate stress. Gift cards for local restaurants so he can order out, gas cards, frozen meals, etc.? I'm sure reddit has other great suggestions. What are they?
<bot>: Friend won't let us help him as his father dies and he takes on the burden of his family. What can we do to help?