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My boyfriend and I aren't passionate together. I've been okay with that, because we're great together. I could go on for so long about everything I love about him. He's kind, patient, understanding... I'm so comfortable, I feel like I could spend my entire life with him and be happy.

Happy, but not entirely satisfied. It's like there's this inexplicable hole that he's not filling - or *I'm* not filling. Everybody talks about this being a more "mature" kind of love, but I seriously feel like I'm missing something from my life.

We have sex maybe twice a year. Maybe less. He has more of a sex drive than I do, but he never complains about it. He has never once tried to push me farther than I want to go. We cuddle every day and night, but it hasn't led to sex in over 6 months because *I* haven't felt the desire. I find him attractive, objectively, but I don't *feel* that attraction.

I feel like this is more of a personal issue because I don't feel that attraction to anyone. I want it to be with him. But I don't know how, and I'm terrified of talking to him about my feelings on this. I don't want him to be sad, or think he's not enough, or think I want to leave him. I think this is more of an internal struggle. I think I might be addicted to the drama of past relationships, and confusing that all for passion. My anger fueled my sex drive in the past. And I'm never really angry at him. There's nothing to be angry about. He's genuinely a great person.

Is it unfair of me to hold onto him so tightly when I'm secretly feeling this way? I think I might be being selfish, because I can't imagine not being with him, but wouldn't he be better off with somebody who felt crazy about him, who satisfied all his sexual desires?

So, do I talk to him about this? Or how do I deal with this on my own?
<bot>: My boyfriend and I aren't passionate together, but we have no other relationship problems and this is more of an internal struggle. Do I bring this up / how do I deal with it on my own?