<human>: I'm still a bit shocked that it's over....I've just laid in bed a cried. we have been together for 3 years.  He was my rock and my best friend. As all couple we have our shares of ups and downs but I believed we could work through anything.  He says that I would end up settling with him and I won't be happy in the long run and that he's doing it for my own good. He says he loves me and he thinks of me all the time yet it kills me that he is making a choice that I clearly do not want. I can't make him be with me but I'm torn. What do I do now?  any tips to move forward?

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<bot>: my boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me because he believes I deserve better and I've made it clear I don't want this. Where do I go from here? How do I move on?