<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

Hey All,

We've been together for four years, two of which were spent in undergrad together.  I got a job right out of school in NYC, and she went for an advanced degree further upstate.  We see each other once or twice a month for a few days and talk often.  In my opinion I have a low emotional need, but not to say I don't love her.

I'm reachicg out here for some advise as we enter a transitional time in our relationship.  She's about to finish school and I'd like if we lived together since I have a job here and plan to start graduate studies here.  The place she's applying for in the city isn't getting back to her and she's gotten a good job offer from a firm further upstate.

I try not to pressure one way or the other since my plans are so uncertain.  I guess my question is: am I fooling myself maintaining such a distanced relationship for so long?

There are times when I want to be there for her and can't, and sometimes that makes me feel guilty or selfish.  What any of you all do in my case?

Thanks.
<bot>: Distance relationship for two years with the prospect of maybe more.  How can I/should I compromise if my own future is still uncertain?