<human>: My immediate reaction was, admittedly, not good. I started trying to look for ways I may not have been at fault as well as trying to downplay how serious she was taking it. I had no clue I had it, and previous tests I've had done made no indication that I might.

She is now, understandably, upset with me and I'm not sure how to approach this. 
I've been trying to talk with her, but she's being very closed off and distant. We're coming up on 1 year in the next few months, but it doesn't help that I'm almost 10 hours away right now and won't see her in person again until the end of the month.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Girlfriend now has HPV, says it was me, and isn't being very receptive to trying to talk about it.