<human>: So, my Gf broke up with me yesterday. We were dating for more than 2 months. I'm fucking sad and miserable, but... well, it's ok I guess. I'll live.

I met with a friend last night and she told me that if we had sex, the bond between us would be much stronger. 

Was she right? I mean, my gf was virgin, I'm a virgin. We had some oral fun couple times but no PIV sex. 

I feel like it was my fault. 2 times we were laying in bed half-naked, making out heavily and I wanted to have sex. I had no condoms, told her about that [ 2 times no condoms... fucking idiot ] and that I can, you know, quickly get them but she was like "NO, it's good you don't have condoms, we're not going to have sex, I want to wait". I didn't continue that topic, didn't want to push.

I feel like I fucked up really hard.

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Is sex THAT imporant in a relationship? If I had sex with her would I still have GF ? I guess "oral" doesn't count as sex. Should I push for it harder next time?