<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

My boyfriend and I have been in an LDR for over 6 years. We've visited each other back and forth multiple times. This time, I'd be staying for a month. I'm flying in to see him soon, and I was telling him about a date that looked really good to me. Instead of being excited, he said something to the effect of: "Oh, well... I'll miss Dungeons and Dragons then... Is there a way to schedule it around that date?"

Before you form your opinion: 

It would be a 3 hour drive to the airport for him. There was actually a more convenient date for him to drive that I could have chosen, but I avoided it because he has a family event that day, and I'd feel like a jerk for being physically in the state but not participating in it (I don't want to go to the event because it would stress me out to be around so many people so soon, and it would equally stress me out to be there but not go and feel guilty because people would know I've chosen to not go). So I wanted to choose a date *after* the family event so that I would have a really valid excuse for not going to it: not being in the state! If that makes sense....

Hoping I've put this down right. Can an outside voice weigh in on this?
<bot>: Boyfriend doesn't want me to come on a day that he has DnD. I don't want to come on a date that he has a family event that I'm welcome to join.