<human>: **Background:** 

**AGES:** 23m, 18f

**LENGTH OF RELATIONSHIP:** 2-ish months - however we're very close. He knows more/as much about me than some of my close friends do.

So, after driving myself insane trying to figure out what's been going on, a UK friend of mine sent a message (in the possible event that he hadn't been receiving my messages, since there have been issues before.) he responded to my phone number saying, verbatim "Hi, im really sorry i've been so fucked the last couple days I don't whats going on tbh. Just woken up, will message you when ai can think straight."

I have no idea how to proceed or what to think? We were on good terms, business as usual the day before we hadn't spoken the whole day and he messaged me asking where I'd been since he hasn't heard from me and hoped my day was going well.

I need some male perspective. Could he have been hiding something in regards to the two of us and now he can't deal with it? Could it have been an issue in another area of his life? He's probably the most morally upright guy I've met, so this sort of behavior is very unusual and I don't even know how to process it. I don't think he's cheated. We even talked a few days before to make sure this was still what we wanted to do, and we are on the same page.

Men, what would have to happen for you to act this way? How would you want someone in my position to react?
he also sent this about three/four hours ago, and he's been online since...

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: Long distance BF disappears for a few days, which is very out of the ordinary. I sense something may be wrong and his message worries me more. What do I do next? What does this mean?