<human>: For the past two and a half years I've worked with probably the greatest person I've ever had the chance to meet in my life, the only problem is she's happily married. I would never get in between a person and their marriage because I know it's absolutely wrong, even if she was unhappy, but she's not.

We started out talking over simple subjects and our friendship grew over time and she came into my life at just about the perfect moment. She is the definition of the word "perfect," because she's beautiful, kind, caring, empathetic, and when I talk to her and look in her beautiful eyes everything around me just completely melts away and I forget where I'm at. 

I know it's not right for me to feel that way about someone who's taken and will never be mine, but I can't help how I feel about her. I've recently been trying to avoid her and stay away from her, because I'm trying to get over her. But when I do that it only makes her think she did something to make me mad and even when I don't speak to her I still pine for her when I see her.

My question is "What am I supposed to do to get over her?" Should I still try to avoid her and when she finally approaches me tell her how I feel? Or keep talking to her, because at least then I'll still have her friendship, but I worry I won't be able to move on. It hurts me, because I know she and I could make each other happy. But I know I can never be with her. Thank you for listening.

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<bot>: I'm deeply love with an older married woman whom I know I can never be with, but I need some advice on what to do and whether or not I should ever tell her how I feel.