<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

My boyfriend and I are both studying C.S. in the Midwest. This summer, by really great chance, I got an internship in San Francisco. My boyfriend struggled with applications and didn't end up at a large company far away but at a small company in Detroit.

He was very upset because he is a year ahead of me and hasn't gotten nearly as nice of an offer. He blames me and my previous mental problems as having dragged him down and prevented him from getting a good job. That is at least partly true.

The entire summer I was away he was begging me to cut short my internship. I didn't see it as an option because I already had several thousand dollars in debt, and wouldn't have had any job experience if I quit.

  I cancelled plans I had made because he didn't want me seeing things without him.

He resents me for not going home early. He blames me for leaving him alone in Detroit and doing things in California without him.

He wants me to not benefit from this. He made me promise to not talk about it to anyone and to not put it on my resume.

He gets upset whenever he hears California or the name of the company I worked at.

He says that I have to understand what I did to him and that I have to stay in Michigan next year while he works in California.

He's refusing to see campus psychological services even though he told me he was feeling depressed the whole summer and is still extremely upset by just simple mentions of words

I don't know how to recover from this. I want to be simply together with him and I want to get him help.
<bot>: boyfriend upset about my internship, wants me to pretend it didn't happen, wants me to not get another job next year. How can I recover this?