<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

We have a great life together otherwise. We own a house together- He loves my son and my son loves him. Most of all- He's very sweet and takes great care of me.

About a year ago I got two hits on my internet account for downloading porn. He had been downloading it and forgot that they keep track of that stuff. Three strikes- you're out forever. I freaked out bc we hadn't been having sex and now I knew why... And my internet was about to be shut off.

We're both attractive. Both fit. Both funny. I am very attracted to him and come onto him all the time.

He said he would stop watching porn. He did and nothing changed. It's been a year and we're in counseling. Still no change. What do I do?

He still masturbates. But, so do I. I'm worried that's becoming an issue? We've only had sex four times this past month. Should I be content with this? I mean- manage my expectations a bit more?

I love him. Not leaving. Looking for ACTUAL advice.
<bot>: My SO and I are having difficulty making the magic happen. In the bedroom. No porn. I'm not leaving and I need ACTUAL advice.