<human>: So here's the problem:

About a year ago I made a breakthrough in masturbation techniques and figured out how to give myself mind-blowing orgasms.  I realized that I wasn't even having them before, but now I'm having them and I'm LOVING them. Good, right? Great!  But the problem is...nobody else can give them to me.

I've tried to teach men how to do it but nobody has managed, and sex in general has become very dissastisfying for me.  I still enjoy getting him off but I don't get off.  The only way I can is if I do it myself, and I have performance issues so they're minor orgasms at best if a man is present. 

It seems like I've just raised my standards much too high.  How do I lower them? Should I stop fapping?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Men can't give me orgasms because I know exactly what I want and only I can do it.  How do I lower my standards so I enjoy sex more?