<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

I love my boyfriend. We moved 2,000 miles for him to finish his PhD. It has been really stressful for him and he is not a person that handles stress well. We get along well, rarely fight, see the world mostly the same way, have similar goals, have fun together, and have a very positive sex life. 

We have consistently had the same issues in our relationship. He does not show a lot of affection or emotion. He really only says "I love you" when he is leaving on a trip. Basically, I just don't feel like he is in love with me the way that I believe a relationship should be founded on. I have never been organized enough for him, I know that he is frustrated by me not always completing things on time and that I enjoy leisure time way more than he does. 

Recently, he has been going on job interviews back in our home state and has been pushing to discuss our future house, etc. We had a big talk about it and I told him that I just didn't feel loved enough, he said "well I definitely see you as part of my future." And it just hit me, I realized that I want someone who wants me more than that. I felt deflated. 

The rest of the situation is that we have two dogs and two rabbits. We have been living together for almost three years and all of our belongings are mixed. He is going to be defending his dissertation this spring and I feel like breaking up now is also abandoning him. I don't want to leave him with all of the responsibilities, like dogs, selling the house (he does own the house we live in, to be fair) but I also don't want to string him along and be unfair to him. 

All of this is really weighing on me. I do have a large amount of savings and a friend who will let me stay with her for as long as I need.
<bot>: I feel like breaking up with my boyfriend is abandoning him but I also think that I just need more from the person I am going to be with for the rest of my life. Anybody been through something like this and have advice?