<human>: Longtime lurker, please be kind,

r/relationships I need your help! 

My wife is overweight, simple as that. I love her and care about her enough that I want to help her get healthy. I am a man who frequents the gym regularly and am in to being fit with sports and running etc. It feels like we are opposites at times because of this.

I have tried over the course of our relationship to get her to eat healthy, come to the gym with me without being rude and without trying to make her feel bad. I have done everything I feel I can, but it's like she doesn't get it. We want to have kids in the next 4-6 years, but with her health I feel it might not be worth it.

She is a very stubborn woman when it comes to most things and doesn't like being told to do anything. I am at a last chance, desperate measures type of mindset now and am starting to think of divorce. Once again I love her very much and what's outside isn't the most important thing in the world, but her health is. If someone has any ideas on how to get her to comply and feel motivated, I would be so grateful.

Maybe I need someone more like me? Either way I feel I owe it to her to give her all the support and every chance to get her healthy.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: My wife is over-weight, I exercise frequently. How to get the stubborn woman I love to be healthy?? Otherwise possible divorce.