<human>: How do you break up with someone you're in love with?  

We've been together for about a year. I've been thinking about this for quite a while, and it's finally time to pull the trigger. I need to end it *this week*.

The short version of reasons to end it:

*He has anger issues

*He abhors any new activity / or new food

*He doesn't like to socialize with his friends or my friends

*He contributes almost nothing in terms of effort or money

*We have little compatibility

*He is afraid of learning new skills or any kind of life improvement (can't drive, cook, fix anything, is afraid of paperwork of any kind)

I have spoken with him several times about these issues.  His usual response is to argue about the facts, deny that he needs to change and say "why does that even matter to you?  Those things aren't important".  I can't get through to him, or at least, he doesn't have the power or the will to change.  *I can elaborate on any of the reasons for the break up upon request.*

I'm in love with him. I'm afraid I'll just start crying if I try to make the words come out. I think this will shock him as well.

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<bot>: How do you end it with someone where you're both in love but know the relationship is going nowhere in the long run and you really need to go out to be happy?