<human>: Hey guys I've been having trouble figuring out what to do with this situation. Hope I can get some helpful responses. I'm a 21 year old guy and shes a 19 year old girl. We dated for 2 and a half years before breaking up in October.

I am entering my senior year in college and have been broken up with my ex-girlfriend for about 8 months now. We were fairly serious. She is going into her junior year at the same college as me. To give you guys some background, when she was 16 she moved in with me because she had significant problems at home. Then we dated until she was 19 and I was 21. She broke things off with me because she said she was unsure about other things out there.

We had talked off an on for the last 8 months while we were apart and she always told me how much she cared about me and that she still loves me. We recently met up because we are both home for summer and she told me that she just ended things with a 25 year old guy. They had been having sex since a month after we broke up. Me and this girl had lost our virginity to each other and this was her first sexual partner besides me. She's the only one I've ever been with.

Now we have been seeing each other and sleeping with each other for the past week. She said that she doesn't know what she wants and that she feels awful that she hurt my feelings by being with the other guy. She tells me that she doesn't want to jump back into things because she's afraid she still hasn't gotten over the feeling that there's something else better out there.

I love this girl with everything that I have and I have no idea what to do. She says that there's a chance we get back together but doesn't know when or even if it will happen. I've been having trouble getting over the fact that she was with this other guy so recently after us breaking up and so recently to today.
I'm just lost and feeling helpless. Any advice from anyone with similar experiences would be much appreciated and seriously considered.

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<bot>: In love with my ex-girlfriend but having trouble dealing with having been with another guy and I don't know what she wants with me