<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

im a male [20/m] from ohio. 3 years ago i dated a girl [19/f now] online and we broke up within a few months. a bit after that we became very good friends, talked on skype a lot, and communicate regularly over phone etc.

I just learned that she's coming to a place near my town for a 2 week trip. she really wants me to come see her but i just dont want to (she has a real boyfriend now, so it's not like it'll be romantic or anything). the drive is 40 minutes and requires the use of a freeway (which i dont feel safe on; my car can hardly handle it) and honestly i dont want to go through the busy city, figure out parking, etc. just to see her for a few hours (im not really enthusiastic about it anyway). She wants to meet me very bad and i really just dont want to for whatever lazy reason i have. it just sounds like it would be a hassle to see her. how can i tell her i dont want to meet her without ruining our friendship? if i tell her i dont want to see her i know she will get angry and possibly never talk to me again. i may lose the only person close to me.

sorry for random question i wish i could explain better. also i hope this is the right subreddit
<bot>: i [20/m] dont want to meet my online friend [19/F] and i dont know how to tell her without ruining our friendship