<human>: My girlfriend (32F) wants me (24M) to be more dominant in sex but she has a past of being molested by a stepfather as a child and sexually assaulted at least two times.

In addition, she used to have a husband but he passed away. She lived in Japan with her husband for many years. She was born in the US and was always going back and forth from the US and Japan. She is a Latin and Japanese woman. Speaks perfect English.

We have been together for 8 months now. 

She seems to be comfortable with me being dominant in bed but I don't want to push it too far and hurt her feelings or mistake me as trying to rape her.

She does not like profanity during dirty talk. 

Any advice out there from women?

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<bot>: Girlfriend that is older than me has a past of being child molested and raped as a child and adult. She is a widow. Girlfriend wants me to be more dominant but I am unsure what my limitations are.