<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

I am 29F. We have a 1 year old daughter who is a terrible sleeper. (Please do not recommend sleep strategies, we have read all the books and tried everything and none of it works for her.) The only way I can get any sleep at night is to keep her in bed with us. She usually wakes up every 2-3 hours and screams until I nurse her. She also rolls and kicks a lot.

Over the last year+ I have just adapted to this as the new normal but my husband can't stand it, so we have been sleeping separately. (We still spend time together in our bedroom when our daughter is asleep, but when I go to bed for the night I sleep in a spare bed in the nursery. This hasn't affected our intimacy, just our sleep.)

We are out of town for the holiday and last night my husband again refused to sleep in bed with me and the baby, instead of the guest room he slept on the couch. For some reason this time the unfairness of it all made me so angry, I guess because this time I asked him to please sleep in bed with me and he said no because he wouldn't get a good night's sleep. It seems unfair that he gets to have a good night's sleep EVERY NIGHT and I have not had one in over a year. 

His argument is that the easiest way to get her back to sleep is to nurse her, and he can't do that, so if I have to have bad sleep anyway, it's mean to force him to have bad sleep too.

Who is right in this situation? Should we continue sleeping separately? Should I demand that he start taking some overnights, even if it means we are all going to have to deal with hours of screaming that could be easily avoided (by nursing back to sleep)? Again, please do not recommend sleep training, we have tried EVERYTHING and nothing has worked.
<bot>: It's easier for me to put our impossible 1yo back to bed because I can nurse her so I have taken every overnight shift since she was born and my husband refused to sleep in bed with us because he needs his precious sleep.