<human>: Just started dating my gf and we seem to find ourselves in a lot of situations where we try to think up some sort of reward for doing something. An example of this would be giving me a back massage if I help her with her finances. 

We have been struggling to come up with new things to use as rewards as we go along and we started making a list that we can both reference as needed and I need some ideas. 

We are trying to take it slow, so no sex, blowjobs, or anything like that. the farthest sexual thing we would do is wearing only underwear and making out. Any ideas would be appreciated.

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<bot>: need favors we can promise each other that don't revolve around sex or sexual acts, but wearing certain clothes is fine.