<human>: Towards the end of last year, I met a wonderful man and we've really hit it off. I haven't ever been a part of a relationship where I've fallen so hard so quickly. We spend tons of time together and laugh constantly. We also have wonderful chemistry and he was very patient with me when we first were dating and I wanted to wait before becoming physically intimate. 

The only problem is that he's technically married. The story is that he was born and went to school in in Aberdeen, Scotland. About 3 years ago his company decided to move him here and he wanted his girlfriend at the time to come with him. The company wouldn't move her as well unless they were married so they went and had a quickie courthouse wedding without even having any family there. Then about a year ago they split up, she moved out of the house and they both started seeing other people. He told me about it all on our first date and it made sense to me at the time. He told me that even though they're living completely separate lives, they won't ever get divorced because his company sponsored his green card but she doesn't have one. So if they got divorced she would have to move back to Scotland where there aren't many available jobs or she could stay here but not be able to work. At first I didn't see the point in worrying about this because I barely knew the guy and had no idea where things would go but the more invested I get in him and our relationship the more it does bother me. Am I wasting my time with a man when I know that I may not ever be able to be his wife? Is there another solution to this situation that doesn't hurt anyone that I'm not seeing? I think that he should tell her she needs to apply for her own green card but would I sound jealous and controlling if I suggest that? I'm a bit conservative and don't believe in co-habitation before marriage so without this issue resolved I'm not sure how our relationship could progress. Any advice is appreciated.

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<bot>: New boyfriend is in a green card marriage that he doesn't want to end. I'm not sure what this means for my relationship with him.