<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

I had my first serious relationship end back in Early December after a few months of back and forth, and I just need advice on putting myself back out there. I'm 18 years old and I go to a local community college and I'm having trouble just finding people I connect with.   
  
  
My first relationship was a girl I met online that lasted almost a year and after we broke up I went through a bunch of ups and downs. Now I find it difficult to find anyone I can relate to.  
  
My interests are mostly video games, anime, music, and movies. Which is where most of the hard parts factor in. I just can't really find anyone in sort of my regular social functions that likes the things I like. A lot of the people that go to my college are of just different age groups.  
  
Another reoccurring problem is that despite it being months of ups and downs I still find myself thinking of my first love. We had a weird breakup and I remember why it  ended and I still stand behind it ending, but the relationship sorta left me shattered and I'm having trouble with just not thinking about her. I've done well for the most part, but I still find myself once or twice every other hour just wondering back to her. Just a quick thought now and then. I have her blocked on everything and we're NC, but it's just a little annoying that she pops in now and then. Any advice?
  
How do I sort of get myself back out there and find people that share my interests? Also any advice on moving on after my first love?
<bot>: Having a hard time putting myself back out there after my first serious relationship. My hobbies and interests aren't sort of common and I'm having trouble finding real people to socialize with and date.