<human>: My BF and I have been fighting over plans to move in together. He says he wants to move, but he can't find a job. Right now he lives with his friends, and sleeps on their couch. He treats me like I always wanted a man to treat me, and I'm very happy with him! He just doesn't have a job or any money.

I love him dearly, and I know he loves me, but I need to make ends meet because I'm a single mother living paycheck to paycheck. To complicate things, my ex recently came back into my life and wants to support me and my 11 year old son.

My ex has a good job and we've been seeing each other as friends for a few months now.

Please help me understand what I should do. I know my BF would make a great step-father, he's very caring and sincere, and we could be happy together, but he's too poor:(

Thank you in advance for all input.

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<bot>: Should I keep seeing my jobless BF, or is it time to stoke the fires with my financially stable ex?