<human>: In short, she's the 4th girl I've been with. I had exes that completely filled my sexual fantasies. They were engaged, loving, great in bed at giving and receiving, etc. They just happen to be shitty in other areas so we're no longer together.

My current girlfriend is amazing, smart, beautiful, kind, etcetc. I could marry her.

EXCEPT. Sex sucks. Like, really. She was raised catholic, was a virgin, doesn't allow me to look at porn, etcetc.

I've had countless, COUNTLESS talks about improving our sex life. It comes down to her seeing anything I suggest as her doing a "favor" to me. Like, if I bring up doing something other than missionary, like her blowing me or me going down on her, she'll unenthusiastically do it, then later on bring it up when I talk about improving our sex life. "Well, I did that one thing that one time you wanted me to"

That's not how I want sex to be. She wants sex to be a 5 minute affair where I pound her for a few mins, no foreplay, and she comes (she comes very easily from PIV) and that's that. If I want to go down on her to get her off before, she says it ruins the PIV. If I try to get head, it's like watching someone mow the lawn, a complete chore.

ANYWAY ENOUGH RANTING ON THAT. The point is she's realized how rough our sex life has been lately and instead of improving it, she relies on asking me how it compares to my exes and hoping I'll allay her fears.

Fact is, it's not even a 2/10 compared to what I've had in the past.

How do you relay this tactfully?

Can you provide a brief overview of the text?
<bot>: Vanilla GF, virgin before we met, wants to know how our sex life stacks up to my exes. She's not even close. How do I get out of answering that?