<human>: I have to ask you, men of Reddit... Because, I am one of those women whom is totally oblivious to being hit on. Why is being nice to a guy or considerate and having a converstation with them (single or not) considered a tease or a trolling? Half the time I dont know that your hitting on me. Unless you are totally obvious in doing it, or if you tell me, or untill you leave and a friend says, "So, how did it go?" Me "How did what go?" Friend "The guy you were talking to. He was totally hitting on you." Me "He was? I just thought we were having a conversation." Give me some suggestions in knowing the difference please. It would be very much appreciated! Also, for those who are in love with your close friends, but are not involved. Tell me what I should be looking for too. Like I said, I am pretty oblivious to these situations.

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<bot>: I am oblivious to when I am getting hit on. Give me some clues to tell the difference men of reddit! Thanks!