<human>: A week ago, I asked for advice on a [problem] I was having with a friend of mine. 

I rescheduled Thanksgiving to Saturday in anticipation that she'd apologize. We have discussed before that, if she upsets me, to tell her, she'd apologize, and move on. A bit odd, but it works. I generally err on the side of apologizing for anything, but the policy is mutual.

I have told her repeatedly that I understand why she needs to make the trip and that all I'm upset about is the fact that she "informed" me that she was walking out on plans that she knew meant the world to me. All I wanted was "I know it's important to you, but I need to do this for me". It would have been met with an immediate date switch and well-wishes. Instead, I got a "you know I'm not going to be there, right?" followed by a week of bitching about how I responded, including accusing me of being anything other than sad about the guinea pig's death and suggesting that I'm making the situation all about me. I just don't understand why wanting a little recognition of the fact that she really upset me and hurt my feelings by not even considering me is so wrong. I have been immensely supportive of her throughout our entire friendship... but now I'm left upset and apparently friendless.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: Friend hurt my feelings, won't acknowledge it or apologize, and is now throwing accusations against me when all I want is an apology and to move on so I can continue supporting her through a tough time.