<human>: My ex asked for time to 'figure her shit out' two months ago. I asked to meet up for a drink recently and she said "she still wasn't ready for that yet". I think her refusal to meet makes me think she is telling the truth that she just needs some time. If she really was already totally over it, she probably wouldn't be that fazed about meeting me for a drink. 

However, how long before I concretely assume its all over? Although I have completely treated this as a breakup from my end I have had a small glimmer of hope in the back of my mind that it will work out (which has re-surfaced recently). I have maintained NC except this recent text and thought I was progressing in terms of moving on but had a recent small relapse of missing her. 

Thoughts?

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<bot>: Ex needed time to 'figure her shit out'. Recently reached out, said she wasn't ready to meet up. At what point do I stop believing her and accept that it is completely over?