<human>: Heres my family situation: Were a group of 5, my two parents and my older sister and younger brother.My brothers 24, Im 30 and my sisters 36, both parents are in their late 60s and unemployed. They had a very successful company roughly 20 years ago which gave us three our education got us through high school and college. Now both myself and my brothers are still living at home with my parents and we three split every expense equally, rent, gas, car, groceries, electricity, etc.

This has a large economic toll on me as roughly 60% of everything I earn working goes towards house expenses. Another 25% aproximately goes towards my health insurance, car insurance, cell phone and gasoline with the remainder going towards leisure and activities. Sometimes expenses around the house are higher than the 60% allocated for that and I dont have the cash to actually help out as much as I would want to someitmes. This really irritates my parents and makes our relationship influenced on the amount of money im willing to give out every month (note that we are a very loving family and my parents are GREAT its just this money situation really gets the worse of them)

What will happen when I move out? Get married? Have kids? Im really worried about this and dont know what to do, the only solution I would think of is getting a higher paying job which im currently looking for.

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<bot>: question is this: When is it OK to say "No, right now I cant give you any money" and going out my way to provide them with the amount of money theyre asking for?