<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

So A couple years ago I met this girl, (We will call her Jessie for privacy's sake) and it was literally crush at first sight, I don't really know how to explain it.. It was Just one of those feelings.. You Know? 

But She was with some other guy at the time and I sort of thought it was a fleeting crush that would just go away in a minute anyway so I didn't pursue anything. 

Fast forward a short time later, We have a lot of friends in common so we start talking.. We talk a lot and I discover that she's really Smart, funny, Same sense of humor Etc, and my crush started growing like crazy.. Did I mention she's really attractive?

However, She's recently started dating one of my friends and That's really thrown a wrench in the gears of my plans.. 

You see, I she's a great friend and he's a decent one and I'm worried that asking her out will jeopardize my friendships with both of them
<bot>: Guy has serious crush on girl, Cant ask her out for fear of ruining friendship with girl and friend.. Help me Obi-reddit you are my only hope.