<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

Hey, I hope this is the right subreddit for this question.  I've been judged for my situation before, so I hope that won't be the case here.

I'm a 25M, and I got married about 1.5 years ago because of a pregnancy.  In a nutshell, we get along great as roommates, parents, and co-homeowners... but have a dead bedroom.  I've been feeling the need to make connections with another woman to fill the void, so I've been posting in the "strictly platonic" section of my local Craigslist.  I say things in my ads like "looking for a connection," "friends and more if the chemistry is right," "possible friends with benefits," etc. to indicate that I'm looking for more than just an ear to vent to.

So that's the background.  Now, I've met this girl and we've gone out for coffee two times.  She's super awesome (29F), a mom of three and in a relationship with her babies' dad for many years.  Its great because she's in a similar DB situation, so we have that in common.  We've talked about work, her tattoos, family, significant others (and their unexplainable disinterest in bedroom activities), and we've complimented each other's looks.  She keeps emailing me, which is awesome because to me that sounds like interest.  I'll be hanging out with her again next week.

My question is, how do I show her that I'm interested in more than friends without making it seem like I'm thinking with the wrong head?  I would absolutely still be her friend without anything else, but of course more would be very nice.  I think I've waited an appropriate time before going further, but I don't want to be "friend zoned."  I pride myself on being a good listener, and I know that sometimes that's all a girl is looking for.
<bot>: in a dead bedroom situation, met this new girl over two coffee dates; when do I make a move for more than just friends?