<human>: Give me a shortened version of the text

Ok Reddit, so I've been dating this girl for about a month.  We're starting to get a little bit serious--no L-Word, but definitely some pretty strong mutual feelings.  The M. Night Shyamalan twist is that when I was 18 I had a baby with my then-gf, which was given up for adoption.  It's an semi-open-adoption and I see the child about once a year.  I've obviously told this to girls I've dated since then, but I never know when is the right time to let them know, so I thought I'd get some input this time.  I don't want to tell her too early and risk her freaking out, but if I wait to long then I would imagine her reaction will be "wtf why didn't you tell me sooner?"

So should I:
1) Tell her now and get it over with
2) Wait awhile longer til it's more of a solid relationship
3) Stop worrying so much, it's not that big of a deal
4) ???
5) Profit

What do you think?
<bot>: I had a child in high school who was given up for adoption; when should this new girl who I've been dating for a month?