<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

So there's this guy and we have followed each other's blogs for years but only met in person-- we go to the same college-- on our first date two weeks ago. He never used the word date but we hung out a few times after that and texted a loooot and then kissed for the first time about a week ago. Since last thursday we've spent at least some time together every day. Before this we had hardly ever talked but we clicked really really fast.

We're both kind of shy about showing affection I guess? And we don't talk a lot about serious stuff yet. So I don't really know how much he cares about me or how to talk to him about serious things or even if I should ask him to define the relationship. I mean like literally every day he wants to spend time with me, sometimes multiple times a day, and he's the one who initiated holding hands in public even so I know he cares about me and isn't afraid to hide me or anything. But honestly I have no idea what I'm doing and I don't know how to open up to him and even if I did I don't know how to...I guess get this relationship off the ground? I don't know if he considers me his girlfriend already (he has kind of implied it a little?? and I've hung out with him and his friends??) or what.

I know this is probably all super basic stuff but I've only ever dated one other guy before and that was a massive shitshow. Plus I'm at a school known for being a marriage factory so I want to avoid being that crazy girl who just wants a wedding and jumps through all the relationship hoops as fast as possible.
<bot>: just started dating someone who I really really click with and now I don't know how or when to take the next steps in the relationship.