<human>: Provide a brief overview of the text.

Long story short, due to circumstances out of everyone's control, it is looking as if my SO and I might be getting married sometime this summer.

Yes, we both want this.  No, there is no child involved.  We're 24 and 27 so it's not like we're children.  Both of us have steady jobs and I own a house so financially we're fine and dandy.

We've been together two years, we were planning on getting married anyways, just...not so quickly.  We're fine, we're happy, everything is good.  I'm not asking about that.

My question is this:

Since this wedding would have to take place quickly and neither of us have the time (nor money and inclination) to try to throw a huge wedding together, my thought is just to get married at the courthouse and then later on down the road we could have our ceremony and reception.

I'm fine with it except for one thing.  I was raised in a church and I'm having these weird hangups that feel like a guilty conscience telling me that we wouldn't really be married until we had a 'church' wedding.  Truth be told, I never really wanted a big wedding, any ceremony we have will be for my SO's sake.  But...I can't help but feeling like my marriage wouldn't be...all there.

I know these feelings are absurd and to be honest, part of the reason I'm feeling this way is because I know my parents are going to be *livid* when they find out that I went off and got married.  But I'm past that, I moved out and I pay my own way now so I shouldn't be worried about their anger.
<bot>: What can I do to feel better about a wedding that I DO want and that my brain feels would be fine but my soul says is wrong?