<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

*She is a divorced single mom with a toddler who's ex husband recently got remarried.

I live in Southern California and a year ago I made a trip to Indianapolis and stayed for 5 days for the Indy 500. While on Tinder, I swiped and ended connecting with someone. My 1st impression was that this would be short term since we live very far but we ended up talking every day when I got back to SoCal. July came and our connection grew better as we talk more everyday. I was able to convince her to fly out in August 2015 for her bday and celebrate it here in SoCal as I've been willing to tour her around. A few days before her flight here, her mom tragically passed away from an accident. To the point that I didn't even know if she was still going to come here. But she did. 

It was very weird when it started cause here's a girl who flew 1900 miles away to sleep beside me in bed. My issue is, from the very start, i've sort of had a slight attraction issue. But that didn't stop me from pursuing her cause I know relationships are more than that and we connect in so much more things than that. We enjoy travelling and have a very non-toxic relationship IMO. We know how to fix other issues but our elephant in the room has always be intimacy. We tried rebooting and doing other things but it never really worked. I committed dating a single mother but I didn't realize the effect it has to see your lover in "mom mode".

After almost a year with our anniversary coming up. I really don't know how to proceed as this woman has grown to be my best friend. A part of me wants to end it and not be selfish that she deserves someone who can connect with her intimately. 

It's just hard to break a chain that isn't necessarily toxic but more so only works if we live in the moment and not think of the future. as I we both plan to be married one day.
<bot>: Long distance relationship to an awesome girl I met on tinder, lack of intimacy after one year is making me question moving forward.