<human>: *[Technically, I'm "female", but I really don't like to call myself that. At all. Feel more comfy saying I'm a dude. Hope that's okay.]*

I'm genderqueer - but only to when I really want it to show, and when I find it comfortable. My partner is bicurious, *I think*. I'd rather not mention how long we've been together. But recently, he has made it to where I've to be the real man of the relationship, whilst he toys around with me and my emotions. I don't and do know how to deal with this.

I'd rather not get into great detail, but he basically wants everything that I want in a relationship. He wants all the attention and affection, and to be treated like a little prince - which I am *perfectly* fine with. But it's one-sided. He just wants it. I'm still a sensitive girl on the inside, *I guess*, and I still like to get all the attention every *once in a while*. But he wants it all for himself. I don't think it's very fair.

I know exactly what he wants - to keep him happy, to keep him himself, to keep him up-beat. But at the same time, I want to break down and have him do something for me for once. But it won't ever happen since he "gives up" too quickly or easily. 

What should I do? Should I give an attempt to put it through his skull that *I* would like to have as much affection as I give to him, to me? Or should I just grow the fuck up and realize that I've to be a motherly figure of affection and let it continue on until *he* grows up?

Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?
<bot>: My partner is the girl in the relationship and wants all of my affection, having it being one-sided, and not letting me have a chance to feel loved too.