<human>: I graduated from college last spring. Shortly afterward, my health failed and I needed to have surgery and some PT. I've been accepted into graduate school in NYC and am looking for a job to tide me over. I started applying for jobs mid-December once I was cleared to go back to work. I've been looking in the city my partner lives, and New York City. I have a final interview for a job that would require a lot of overtime, but would pay at least $1050 a week, with ten hours over time (the job told me to expect 55+ but they'd try to start me at just 50), I'd plan to work there until school began. I made a mock budget and think that I'd be able to survive it.

My mother doesn't thing I'll be able to survive NYC on that kind of money, and after a huge fight I agreed to cancel the interview. After another fight, I told her that she won, I wasn't going to the interview and she should be happy. She screamed back that she felt horrible that we weren't rich and she wouldn't be able to support me in NYC, and I'm an ungrateful daughter.

She and my dad (who doesn't want me to go NYC, but doesn't react as strongly as she does) helped me with college, despite me saying I'd be willing to take out more loans and thanking them when they did help. I have not asked for a penny toward moving to NYC, but she apparently thinks that I have shit for brains and don't know how to manage money (I worked two jobs in school to pay toward tuition, and paid my own housing and books).

I feel awful that I've canceled the interview for what could have been a great job (there were other factors, they changed the day and I've been having trouble getting transportation), my plan is to move to my boyfriends city by the end of the month (I've been applying for jobs, most in that city would want a one year contract), and then moving to NYC for school.

Was I really in the wrong here? Or is my Mom being a control freak?

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<bot>: my mom assumed I would need her financial support to live in New York City, and guilted me into canceling a job interview. Was she right?