<human>: For reasons that I really don't prefer to get into and type out, my significant other and I have decided to take some time away from our relationship, which has been all over the map. We've had great times and some not so great. We really do have love and care for each other, even if sometimes it doesn't really feel like it. I know deep down in my gut I love her, even being away for a significant amount of time is tough. She has things she would like to work on herself, and so would I. We are both in college and summer break is upon us. We live about 3 hours drive from each other so it only seemed natural to designate this spot as a potential break point. She will be headed home to attend some counseling sessions in order to get herself in a better state of mind and figure out her beliefs and morals in a more productive way. I also would like to attend counseling as I do think it would be helpful in promoting self-growth & self-worth, but my insurance won't cover it. 
I'm just asking if anyone out there may have also been through a similar situation through this long break process and if things worked out for you afterwards. I know breaks can be just as healthy as time together, I'm just a bit unsure of how to process and proceed in this difficult time. I started keeping a journal today (we just decided today), writing down any thoughts or feelings I have about the relationship as they arise. It's been helpful so far, but I believe there might be tactics or advice that others have found in their experience that I might be able to find out there.

Thank you for reading.

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<bot>: Gf and I are taking a break with her headed to some therapy sessions, which I can't afford. How do I become a better significant other to her?