<human>: I've been dating Sam for 7 months now. I adore him, I'm wildly attracted to him, and having him in my life makes me really happy. 

When we first met we discussed how unhealthy our past relationships were and agreed to take things slow. We've both fallen head over heels for partners and ended up miserable. He has referred to himself several times as a "hopeless romantic," or at least he used to be, but seems a little wary of the idea of love these days after being hurt by his exes. 

We get along fabulously, and things are warm, caring, and calm. I don't need a relationship that's fireworks and obsessive limerence, and I'm quite happy with what we have. From our few discussions on this though it sounds like what he felt for all of his exes has been exceptional and profound. One of the best things about us is how we respect each other's independence and space, which he's lacked in all of his previous relationships. But I think there's probably a girl out there who can reignite his inner hopeless romantic AND allow him to lead his own life, and I don't want to keep him from her. 

Am I being ridiculous, or is this the right thing to do for someone who you care about and want to see happy? If we broke up I'd be sad but get over it after a while and I think we could be close friends. I know he cares about me and by no means do I intend to peace out of his life completely. I just worry that I'm occupying a role that another girl could better.

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<bot>: Worried that formerly passionate SO has settled for a nice and calm relationship with me. Should I break up with him if I think he can find that passion in a healthy way with someone else?