<human>: I (f22) have a close friend (m24) of 4 years, named 'John'. We sometimes fight. It's usually something really silly but gets intense. We always are fine after. Anyway, we had a big fight last time and he ended up yelling "I love you" at me. It totally shut me up and I just dropped everything and didn't say a word. Next day we met and talked and it was normal, I think?! I honestly wrote it off in the context of the fight, where I had said I'm convinced he HATES me and he was just saying that isn't true. Now he's slightly cold and I'm not sure - but then again we did fight. He ISN'T completely ignoring me though, and when we talk he seems pretty normal...I have no idea how to take this. I thought if he meant "love" it would somehow have been a bit different. He almost seems mad at me? Do guys just say I love you ever, like girls? We are close, so it could be friendly?

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<bot>: Guy friend yelled I love you at me, but I don't understand why it didn't seem like a big deal after?