<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

OK, so our wedding is this coming 4th of July weekend. I realize that it's a hard weekend for people, especially with travel.

I got the idea to have my 2 girlfriends help me host a Bridal Tea Party (not a shower, I absolutely do NOT want gifts). So I discussed it with them and about a week ago we decided on June 7th. That gives us a month to plan and a month after for full on wedding prep.

So 3 days ago I created a Facebook Event for it, hoping to get word out while I finished the paper invites. Well, I finished them this morning and sent 80% with my FH to get them mailed. Now usually he'll wait a day or so because he forgets to send them, but not today. About 2 hours after he has dropped them in the mail box, I get a Facebook invite from one of his family members for her daughters 1st birthday. SAME FUCKING DAY! It's been an event (invite only) since April 7th, and I get an invitation now. (They usually invite us to all family events.)

Fuck it. I'm not changing the date. I'm not making new invitations. I planned this party for them (that side of the family lives in the same area, 4 hours away), but now it's going to be for whoever the hell wants to show up.

I'm stressed as hell about my dress (still haven't been called for a fitting), and after deciding to pile more on my plate to try to be nice to his family, it backfires. No. I'm done caring.
<bot>: family has 1st birthday party scheduled for the date I chose for my Bridal Tea. Didn't let me know until after I mailed invitations.