<human>: The title is a little harsh but I needed to keep it short. So, whenever I try to get intimate with my gf or even just compliment her in a flirty way she'll say how unconfident she is, that she doesn't like her body and will generally shy away from may, needless to say this kills the mood. 

She says that she'll be more open and into things when she's happier with the way she looks but the trouble is she isn't really doing much of anything to actually get to that point. She doesn't go to the gym, doesn't go out running, kind of tries to eat ok but then goes on binges. I don't know how to handle the situation, any advice?

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: My gf won't get intimate because she's not in shape but isn't doing anything to get in shape, what do?