<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

A year ago I was deployed and looked at my phone bill. I noticed that one number came up A LOT. A lot of texts, some calls. Eventually, I found that it was a male friend of my wife. I was suspicious but the texting stopped. When I returned home I looked at my wife's phone and noticed she'd installed Kik and had one friend.... you guessed it. So that's why the texting stopped; they had begun to use Kik. I looked at her work email and found 100's of emails between them... some inappropiate, but most not.

I called her on it. She swore it would stop and that they only used Kik (with fake names) to avoid questions about their "friendship." 

I occasionally checked her work email and eventually found that she was still in contact with him by work phone and email, but had been deleting the messages. I called her on it again and she said that she only deleted them to avoid hurting me... that it was all work related but she knew how I felt. I explicitly told her to cut off ALL communication with this guy. I wanted no uncertainty.

She's out of town today for the first time in about a year. I have installed a keylogger and she's asked the guy to lunch when she arrives in town. He said no, that it's not a good idea. She insisted and said, she'll give him some time to "reconsider."

I'm at a loss. She really has nothing to gain by this guy. I've made it clear that her chances are over. But now what?
<bot>: Wife won't cut off communication with object of inappropriate correspondence. Wants to meet with him for lunch while traveling for work.