<human>: So brief backstory: A few months ago I met this girl at a local bar where I go to get a quick bite to eat and a beer after work once or twice a week.  I moved here not too long ago after my fiancé broke off our engagement and I don't really know anyone in the area or have any friends close by.

We were friendly and would say hi and chat when we were both there at the same time.  Nothing too deep just friendly.  Maybe a little over a month ago she was very drunk when I saw her one night.  She came on real strong, which works on me, and we started hanging out and then sleeping together on a semi regular basis.

Turns out she has been through some serious shit.  Abuse--and not like being treated bad-- like broken bones.  She lost a child at one point (unrelated to the physical abuse).  And I suspect she might have had a problem with opiates at some point.  She drinks more than I realized (and more than I am really comfortable with) but I get why she is doing it.  Most of the things she has told me about have been when she's drunk and I am not 100% sure she even remembers telling me all of them.

I want to get to know her better but I don't know how to approach her about:

A. Her past
B. Her drinking

Any thoughts or related stories are welcome.  I'm not really used to being in a situation like this.  I suppose we all have our problems but I can't say I have much experience with anyone who has been through as much shit as this girl.

The last thing I would want to do is hurt her but I don't know if I really want to continue seeing her if she is going to be as self destructive as she seems to be.  I also don't feel like I have any right to tell her how to live her life after hanging out for a month or so.

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<bot>: Met a girl, started hanging out, turns out she has a fucked up past and drinks way more than i realized, not sure how to proceed.