<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Boyfriend loves hip hop. It's a very deep part of his culture and I don't quite understand it. He's constantly offended that I don't go out of my way to immerse myself in hip hop culture. And when I do so, I do superficially. I try, I do. It's not a reflexive habit of mine, but I do put effort into listening to the media that he likes. This time around he said that his ex girlfriend would go out of her way to save playlists of the songs they had listened to together, and that she constantly showed her love better than I have. Perhaps he's right. But is it okay for him to constantly bring up his ex? Is this something that people should put up with? Personally, I've compared him to my previous ex's once, only to prove the point that he's done so much more frequently than I.
<bot>: Boyfriend compared me to ex saying that she was better at being a girlfriend. Maybe he's right. But does it make it okay for him to bring her up?