<human>: Hi,

Essentially I have been single for a year now. Mainly through my own choice. Lately with my career being good and getting back in the gym I feel a lot more confident and I'm learning alot about myself and life. But one thing that is bugging me is that fact that I can't seem to connect to someone/I don't want to open up to a relationship with someone. 

I'm not an emotionally needy person, I'd say I have a healty range of emtional stability, I have great friends and a great supportive family and I am rather happy and confident in myself and I do enjoy life.

But, I just cant open myself up to wanting a relationship or even sex for that matter. I don't need the companionship or the sex in my life. I'm happy being single but its just strange that i'm not bothered about finding someone?

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<bot>: Am I going through a phase of not wanting a relationship due to being content with myself and busy with other areas of my life to want a relationship?