<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

While it sounds like a cliche situation, it's a bit different than you think. I'm [24m] certainly not neglecting her [20f] for games and I put more time/effort into the relationship than her because she's so busy with schoolwork--for example, I help her with schoolwork, cook, and clean. 

Her issue with me gaming is that she thinks I game too much and she feels the limit should be 20 hours per week and I on average play about 30 hours per week (I have heavy weeks when a new games comes out and light weeks when I get bored of everything). She feels that I could use that time more productively by taking a new hobby and going out and meeting new people except that's just not how I'm comfortable with meeting people. Instead, I much prefer meeting people through existing friends. Consequently, she says she looks down on me and other gamers because by playing games, we're more socially inept (I don't think I'm socially inept in any way) and that we'd go out more if we'd stop gaming (I don't ever turn down invitations to go out). 

This is a huge point of contention and we got into a fight about this yesterday. I thought I'd calm down by now, but I don't feel any calmer and still quite upset just because I feel that she has no right in dictating what I do with my free time as long as it doesn't impact her and that I feel that regardless of how much games I play, she's always going to look at me condescendingly for playing. So I guess I'm looking for arguments for either side on how I should work through this?
<bot>: GF wants me to cut down on my gaming not because she's being neglected but she feels that it's making me socially inept and I should instead use the time to go out and meet people.