<human>: I've been having a really tough time due to stress & giving my son up for adoption and have turned to food to comfort me. I have gained about 60+ lbs and just don't know what to do. I have tried strict dieting, 10 minute trainers at least twice a day & i never lose any weight. I just get even more depressed. Is this something that you guys recommend? I was never this big, I have always been an athlete. But with depression and having PCOS, I find it really hard to lose weight & keep it off. I am not being lazy, I am active and am always outside with the dog or working on my car. I just don't know what else to do. Any input is really helpful!

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<bot>: Has anyone on reddit had the lap-band system, & what are the pros and/or cons of the operation?