<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Honestly, this guy confused the fuck out of me. The three of us were drinking with a few of our other friends. We were past tipsy. This guy, let's call him Jake, seemed pretty into me. My bf of 2 years and I have been discussing having a third in bed for quite a while. It's something we've agreed that we want (even if I want it a bit more). 

The biggest obstacle is that I don't know Jake's true sexuality. This boy was either the most open straight guy I have ever met, or bicurious. Maybe he's straight but just loves any sort of sexual attention being paid to him. Jake said that if he got drunk enough, he'd be down. Was that a joke? I didn't think so. We both ended up shirtless (my circle of friends often goes without clothes when we drink), and he's looking at my body. I end up on his lap, and while he's telling stories, he's feeling my torso up and down. We have a lot of physical contact throughout the night, and when we were going to bed he stared at my package for a while when he saw me without pants. 

One time when Jake was out of the room, my boyfriend agreed to have a 3way with this guy. I was getting really excited. Jake suggested that the three of us cuddle together for the night. We do, and we talk for a little bit, then he goes to sleep. Motherfucker.

I was almost sure I was going to get laid. Maybe he was too shy. Maybe I needed to act first. Maybe I should have explicitly stated my intentions instead of hoping that he'd just ease into it. The next day, it was like absolutely nothing had happened.

I guess I just didn't know how to embrace this situation and ask him without being too direct, forward, or disrespectful, so I hoped that it would just happen. It didn't. What did I do wrong?
<bot>: Wish I had a threeway with another guy, but it wasn't in the cards. How should I go about this next time? Should I even go through with it, or find a different guy?