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Hi guys, I've been in a long distance relationship with a guy for the past two years. We didn't do anything 'special' for Valentine's Day yesterday, because he was busy on an orchestra tour. So we thought today, we would Skype video call and maybe watch a movie. 
 Well today rolled around, and he told me to pick a movie. I told him I'd rather him pick, since last time he sent me the link and I don't have a Netflix or know anything about finding movies online to watch on my iPod. He says it doesn't have to be free, he'll pay or I can use his Netflix. I said that's ok, I'd rather just cam and talk anyway. He just responded with an ok and we let it go. 
 Then he starts asking " Why can't you  just pick?" I said that it really wasn't a big deal, I didn't care to watch a movie anymore. He hit me with the o-so-horrible "K." So I asked what was wrong.  
He's 'irritated' out of nowhere because I won't let him do things for me, or buy me things. I insist that it's not a big deal for me, it's just another day of the year and I love him the same I do all of the other days, I know that he loves me too and there's no need to get me gifts to show me that. He says that he's just trying to be there and do things for me because he physically can't, that those things would be an extension of him. 
 I kept up my end of the argument that that spending money on gifts doesn't mean much to me, and he got angry and said to just forget it because I don't understand, and I don't care because if I do then I would let him do those things.. 
  So what should I say? Or do?
<bot>: long distance boyfriend says I don't care or understand because I won't let him buy me gifts for Valentine's.