<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

We met online (f/US/31) and (m/Aussie/33).

We started talking via email about 9 months ago. He came to stay with me for a few weeks and things went amazingly. It was the best few weeks I'd ever had. We spent hours and hours a day on IM together, in addition to long, detailed emails about our goals and personalities. Things were rocky, partly because he was still seeing someone else and had to figure out if he wanted to be with me or her.

He chose wisely. And he chose me. And asked me to move all the way here, to start a new life with him. So I did. I quit my job. 

He said he understood that it would be hard on me. That he'd be supportive. 

I'm normally VERY independent, calm, and totally in control. Turning my life upside down put me off-kilter for a bit. And women being needy is apparently his third rail, his cryptonite. And there's culture shock as well, and adapting to a very, very different life. It'll take me a while to set me keel even again. 

But it's in the way. I need more, so he's distant. He says he just doesn't feel the spark he needs. 

He's a thousand miles away. 

And he thinks it isn't fixable. Or probably isn't. It just IS. My opinion is that it's worth working on. That he's worth the effort. I already had to make that decision. I suppose he hasn't. 

I've been here about two and half weeks. The first few days didn't even count, I was a mess, jetlagged and had a migraine. He said last night that he wasn't sure how long he could go on this way. 

We're scheduling a session with a counselor. He's spending the weekend away.
<bot>: Moved to the other side of the planet. Shit's fucked up and scary. Boyfriend says he doesn't feel the spark. I think it's been clouded by stress and change. What to do?