<human>: Hi. I'm new to reddit and have extreme anxiety over posting in the right subreddit (omg, is this the right place for this post??) but anyway my mom bought me really nice pair of Jeffery Campbell heels and they make me pretty tall. I'm only barely 5'4" and the shoes probably have around a five inch heel.

My boyfriend (21) is only a bit taller than me (20) to begin with, I'd say he's maybe 5'6" so my shoes make me feel colossal and really embarrassingly tall for both of us when we are together! I think he's too proud to say anything, but I'm pretty sure me being taller than him makes him really uncomfortable, and I like hardly even want to wear them around him. Boys -- would this make you uncomfortable?? How can I approach him about it that he won't get defensive? Should I just not wear them around him? We've been together for a few months but we've got a rich history. I know him well enough to know that he'd pretend it doesn't bother him even if it really, really does.

We are going to a dinner party tonight and like, I really want to show these shoes off but I don't want to embarrass him by like emasculating him at a party and being three or four inches taller than him.  

LOL UGH MY FIRST REDDIT POST I'M SO DUMB SORRY!!!!

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: I got new heels and now I'm like four inches taller than my boyfriend and I don't know how to approach him about it!??