<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

I don't know if this is just me but I've dated 3 guys for whom I have been their first girlfriend.  I've spent the past 1.5 years in this scenario (we're early 20s) and have noticed that he lacks sense of how to handle girls, and that this seems to be a common trend in first-ever relationships. He can be incredibly nice but seems constantly confused about what he wants out of our realtionship.

I'm a really laid back person with a good sense of humor who can take criticism and isn't afraid to tell it like it is, but I'm finding that he still manages to be really rude to me at times. I feel like we're in an "give an inch, take a mile" situation, which is probably my fault for being very passive. Sometimes I feel almost parental as well and it doesn't seem like a healthy dynamic.

I'm dreading coming to terms with what is most likely denial about the whole thing, but I'm wondering if because of his inexperience this might be a common thing and I'm not taking the right approach.  I honestly want to tell him to go date someone else so he can see how much he doesn't like them and will appreciate me more (immature, I know, but it's my gut reaction).  I feel like I almost need to cut him off from my somewhat doting nature so he can realize what he'd be missing out on.
<bot>: Early 20s, lacking a lot of confidence in current relationship with bf who has never dated before, wondering if issues are the result of him being inexperienced or us just not being compatible.