<human>: So me and this girl dated in grade 12 for 6 months, and then when the whole University thing came around, I broke up with her because we were in different cities. Now, nearing graduation we've been going out on dates and hanging out. This has been for about 8 months. For the most part, it wasn't romantic until last week when it rekindled. We have always been very open and honest with each other and she says she trusts me and says I've done everything right and that there's nothing I was doing wrong, but even though she has feelings for me and likes me, she says she doesn't know if there's enough there, and she just wants to be friends for a bit longer to figure things out.

Do I at this point no longer try to kiss her when we hang out, do I avoid heavy flirting? I'm just so lost with this. She says she sees me as a friend, but that she doesn't mean it can't be more eventually. In most cases with almost all girls, I would chalk this up to her teasing me and trying to make me that safety net that's always there, but I've known her far too long and she isn't that kind of person.

I don't want to lose her again. I messed up once, but this time I know what I want, and it's her. She also hates texting, so we only ever talk by phone or in person, but I don't know if I should start calling her more often or what... She went from literally last week saying that she wanted me to come over and bring wine and she would cook us dinner to me just meeting her at a skating rink and going skating. I have no idea what could have happened in less than a week when the last time we went out she said she wanted to really start things and now shes says she wants to slow things down. I'm so lost.

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<bot>: Girl likes me, wants to date, but is now saying she wants to hold off and wait longer, but without giving a real reason as to why