<human>: Saturday night my boyfriend's roommate had a huge party. My former best friend showed up. My best friend (23) and I (22) have been best friends for over ten years. She lived with my family and I for free for a few years also. I thought of her as more than a sister. About 3 months ago she disappeared from my radar without an explanation or goodbye. It feels like someone stabbed me in the heart. My parents also left without a word, abandonment is an issue for me. I saw her for the first time last night; she was so drunk and hostile so I decided not to confront her. Also that night, someone tried to start a fight with me and other unfortunate things happened. To say the least it was an emotional night. The next morning I broke down and I started to cry hysterically. I asked my boyfriend (26), we have been together for over a year, for some comfort and he said I can wait until he finishes cleaning the house. He called me selfish for not being patient. In his defense his house and backyard was a HUGE mess. He was also stressed because that night the police came twice. I'm I wrong for wanting his attention here and now. He's still upset with me. I will apologize once I get some perspective from non-bias people and I believe I was wrong.

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<bot>: bad night, broke down and cried in bf's bed, he called me selfish for not waiting until he finished cleaning his house after a big party.