<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

My husband [40M] of 9 years told me [39F] a few days ago that he doesn't love me anymore.  He doesn't want to be with me and wants to be able to see other women.  He is carrying on several affairs right now.  He stated many times that he is not happy-I got fat, I don't want sex enough, I'm always cranky, I don't do enough at home, etc.

But he also said he isn't ready for a divorce either, mainly because of financial reasons i.e. we can't even live paycheck to paycheck, have some debt, always have looming repairs and bills that need to take place and have two kids, ages 7 and 3.  I think he is also scared because he owns his own side business that he started after we were married and doesn't want me to have any part of it.  But I think he also doesn't want the stigma of a divorce being that he is a well-known local business owner.

I can't afford to file for divorce.  I make less than $300 a month helping at my son's preschool.  I wish we could work things out but he doesn't want that.  He wants nothing to do with me but wants to continue to live in the same house living separate lives. Me staying at home with the kids as I always do and him coming and going and doing what and who he wants.

How do I change this?  How do I fix this?  How do I escape this?
<bot>: Husband wants his cake and eat it too. Doesn't love me, wants to see other women, doesn't want a divorce.