<human>: I've been dating her for about 2.5 months now, and it's my first attempt at a relationship for various reasons. At first we focused a lot on each other, spending entire weekends together and talking every day through phone or text. To be honest it was almost too much, but we learned a lot about each other and were very open. We'd have sex every time we saw each other too, and it was great.

Now, we see each other once a week or less. We talk less too, and our conversations are more shallow, talking about our day instead of thoughts and opinions. She seems less interested in sex too.

I honestly thought she had lost interest, and brought it up with her. I figured there are was no point in forcing this if it wasn't interesting after only 2 months. However, she assured me she was still into me, and wanted to keep things going, and that being really into a guy then backing off was just how she acted with guys she dates, and it was because of her ADD. I'm wondering if her hands-off mode is permanent, as it's not really enough for me.

I'm asking other people with ADD or those who have dated them, what are your experiences like?

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<bot>: Dating someone with ADD for 3 months and she was all-in then hands-off. Reasonable to expect or is this a bad sign?