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My husband of 10 years recently asked me to consider having an open relationship. He would a) like to see me with another man / men, and b) like me to see him with another woman / women. It was not a *total* surprise as he has been asking me to talk dirty to him about having sex with another man to him while we have sex, but I did not realize that he wanted to turn his fantasy into a reality until he told me.

My husband and I have an excellent relationship and are very much in love, but he wants to introduce some new excitement into our sex life. I'm not a prude by any means, but I am satisfied by our sex life and particularly enjoy our level of closeness and comfort with each other. Until he brought it up, the idea of undressing in front of or being intimate with another man would not have occurred to me.

Since opening his own business earlier this year, my husband's sex drive has gone through the roof. When you work 100 or so hours a week, you're in a constant state of excitement and I've certainly taken note of the increased frequency of our love-making. He's a good looking man, fit, and constantly in the public eye, so I know he's getting plenty of attention from the ladies which highlights his desire.

He agreed to not initiate anything until I fully agreed to his idea and he has always been faithful. He made it clear that he is wholly devoted to me, which I do not doubt, but that he wants us to share some private fun while we're both still young and vibrant. I'm not totally opposed, but I'm also not convinced that this would be beneficial. It could be fun and it could strengthen our bond together by sharing the experience(s), but it could end badly too and I wouldn't want to risk our marriage.

Looking for others with similar experiences to share their thoughts, please. TYIA
<bot>: Husband of 10 years wants me to consider swinging. I'm not totally opposed, but cautious and unsure if it will be good for us in the long run.