<human>: I'm a 29m. To make a long story short, we were in a serious relationship for 4+yrs, not including the long-distance relationship. All hell broke loose, and I moved back home. The break-up dragged on, but I didn't know it was happening at the time. I haven't seen her in two years and I haven't spoken to her in over a year.

She sent me an e-mail yesterday. I was very hesitant to check my e-mail because I couldn't believe that she e-mailed me, as I woke up and was somewhat disoriented when I checked my e-mail.

The message was pretty much only one sentence; she asked if I had been text messaging her recently. The answer is no. The break-up and relationship took a huge toll on me, but I'd like to say that I've moved on, even though I'm haunted by the history of it all, which is just another long story.

Here's my conclusion:

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Haven't talked to ex-gf for over a year, she e-mails me asking if I've been texting her. How should I respond?