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My wife is pregnant and we have a small child already. After a variety of discussions, she recognizes there is a problem (which does make me feel better now, as for some time I worried that she was just not attracted to me anymore, or that I wasn't doing things well enough), and said we'll work on it, but not until at least a few months after the new baby is born. I bought a fleshlight and masturbate regularly, but it's just so hard to handle living without any kind of sexual intimacy. 

I know it's not easy for her either with all of her pressures in life and with the new baby coming, but if anyone could suggest strategies, books, articles, anything.
<bot>: Wife is pregnant, young child already, 0 sexual intimacy, and while we'll work on it, I need to figure out how to cope for now. Please help.