<human>: Hey reddit, i'm [24 M] in a rather precarious position that is to say, i've been dating this awesome girl [24 F] for about 2 months now, but we have yet to officially become a 'couple'. Now for my own sanity I feel like I need to be either in a relationship or merely FWBs, I no longer feel comfortable in this *sexually exclusive* limbo without some sort of direction, and I really dont want to emotionally invest in someone who is not willing to do the same.  

I'd much rather be in a relationship, but if she is hesitant to do so, I dont want to be exclusive with her. I feel like this makes me a bad guy, but I feel if were not a couple then whats the point of being exclusive.

So my question is, what is the best way to approach this situation without it damaging our relationship? or making her feel uncomfortable? Obviously i dont want say "commit or im gonna sleep with other people"  but this is general gist of the message i want to present.

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<bot>: I want the girl im dating to either commit to relationship or let me sleep with other women, how do I gracefully approach?