<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

There's a girl from my youth group at church I really like, and I plan on asking her out soon.

We both do volunteer stuff at the church, and one of her closest friends works with me very often. 

I'm not sure whether I should talk to her friend/ my partner first, to at least let her know what's going on. A friend of the last girl I dated told that girl, and now I have trouble trusting girls with this kind of thing (dumb, I know). Her friend is really great, and I don't want her to get lissed if I should have said something.

Should I talk to the pastor too? I don't want to screw up the volunteer dynamic, but I also don't really feel like talking to a 50 year old guy about my relationship stuff.
<bot>: me and the girl I plan on asking out both volunteer at our church, her friend works with me often. I worry that failing to talk to this friend and the pastor in charge could disturb the volunteer dynamic.