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Hey relationship advice! Throwaway for obvious reasons. 

Bit of backstory. I'm part of the UK scouting organisation, and about a year ago I met the woman of my dreams. Being a scout leader means I have lots of commitments to the young people we support, and as a guide leader she totally understands that, and even respects me for it. We are similar in loads of ways, yet totally different at the same time. Recently, we have decided to take the plunge and move in together. The only hitch is, she lives around 200+ miles away, and I'm moving to her home town with her. 

My friends (who are married) are the closest friends I have. They are both married to eachother, and have an amazing daughter who I adore. Moving away, would suck, but I could make it work. I, or my lady and I, would be back a lot to visit my family and friends. 

Recently. they have decided to tell me if I move away, then I'm not a very good friend to them. As far as they are concerned, I'd be abandoning them for a woman, and abandoning their daughter. Obviously, this hurts. I've done everything I can for them as a family, because to me, they are family. I have ferried them about (as they don't have a car), I have given them money to help them when they need it, and I buy their daughter presents regularly as she's the closest to a niece I'll get for a long while (there is a huge age difference between me and my brother). 

Extra info: Friend B [32/m] wrote a very smutty book which he has started posting on her statuses and things because he knows it annoys me. I really want to get past this with them and have the woman I love, and also the friends I love too. But it's getting too much.
<bot>: My friends say if I move away to be with my girlfriend then I'm abandoning them and I won't be a good friend.