<human>: I'm pretty. I'm not going to sit here and say I'm the prettiest person ever but I know I'm decent looking and more than that I make an effort to take care of myself and always look nice, so I don't think thats the problem.

I'm smart. I work with computers, since I graduated college and have a pretty decent job and I'm financially dependent. I don't expect guys to pay for things and actually feel awkward when they do because I don't want them to think I expect that.

My last real relationship was 2 years ago and that lasted 3 years.

Anyways, I've noticed the same pattern with the guys I date. They show a lot of interest in me. So much so they are the ones pursuing me and they say things like how much the like me, how they can see themselves with me, how I'm so cool, etc. Which i actually feel kinda uncomfortable with, because I feel like if someone REALLY likes me they would take some time to realize this. Anyways, probably 1 month or a month in a half in they just fall off the face of the earth, they stop texting or when they talk to me its like one word answers, they just lose interest.

I'm not clingy, I know this. Usually they will initiate conversation but I do too. If for some reason they don't answer I leave it at that. 

I have my own life, I work full time, go to the gym, hangout with my own friends, have hobbies. I really don't depend on these guys. 

One thing to mention. I don't sleep with them. Not because of some stupid rule, its just because I just don't feel comfortable having sex with someone until a deeper emotional connection is made.

I just want to understand what I could be doing at this month mark that triggers all guys to abandon me!

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<bot>: Guys always stop talking to me after a month. Don't have sex. They usually start heavily pursuing me, but once I show interest, they are gone.