<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

I've had my fair share of experiences and heart-to-heart conversations with friends enough to realize a unifying issue with most relationships. Just reading many of the posts in /r/relationships has made me certain that this a prevalent problem. 

So what I mean by taking it day by day is that when you are in the early-middle stages of a relationship, you **should not** make huge promises for the future. E.g. "we're going to married", "what about kids", "we will live together soon". This applies *regardless of age.*

Enjoy every **present moment** with your partner. As long as you are happy with your partner that day, then you keep going. You won't feel pressured by any huge promises that may hang over your head. You and your partner can begin to enjoy each other's company.

It's not healthy to begin a relationship with a long-term view, however much you two might be in love. Take it easy, and there will be less pressure on both of you. 

I wish you all the best.
<bot>: For those that are starting to date, don't even look past that afternoon or night. Take it day by day and maybe it'll lead to something one day.