<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

I'll try to make this as easy as possible to understand. I had an affair with a coworker that for about 5 months before we were caught. We were both married at the time both weren't getting what we needed at home. I know, no excuse. Anyway. Jan decided to stay and work on her marriage while I decided to end mine. Jan was required to leave her job and cease all contact with me which makes sense. Blocking me on all social media blah blah. I've been divorced sinces since the end of 2013.  

I was on Facebook the other day and she shows up on my suggested friends list for the first time since the affair was uncovered and I'm no longer blocked. I haven't really had a relationship since I divorced my now ex wife. Turns out, she's now officially separated over 2.5 years later.
<bot>: Should I initiate contact?  Or should I just leave her in peace to figure her next steps out in life. I still love this woman dearly.