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hej! this is my first time posting and im happy to answer any additional questions.

here's the situation: We are a happy relationship that was growing slowly, but in a constant pase. first we were seeing each other long distance and a year ago we moved to the same country (seperately), started being more serious and a couple of months ago we moved in together. it feels like it's something special and from what he says he really loves me and thinks we have something special too.

Ever since i met him he had this dream job opportunity in yet another country and now that he lost his job here he made his decision to pursue this dream and move there really soon leaving me behind. i am trying to be supportive, i told him that's a good decision and that I'm happy that he's taking actions to make his life better. But it turns out he never was considering me nowhere near that dream of his!. he says he wants to stay a couple, keep seeing each other once a month or so. says hes not ready for a break up and that he loves me. but he wants to pursue his dream on his own. no solid plan for our future! He doesn't want me to move there with him. when i asked why wont he ask me to join him he said he is not ready for a commitment this big. this feels humiliating. he gives me no reassurance about his feelings but on the other hand he's being caring and giving in everyday life. I wish he either asked me to move there with him or promised to come back for me.
<bot>: what do i do? do i give him his space and wait for him to realize that he wants a life together? am i pushing him away with my questions? should i just move on and leave him?