<human>: I think I may be on one of those revenge websites,but I can't remember the name of it.

Background: When I was 22 I met this guy, who was 23. We messed around for maybe 2 months before I realized he was clinically ill (delusional, pathological liar) and had to get the police involved to get him away from me. 

I remember when we were hanging out he showed me this website that him and his friends would go on to check all the girls they met. It was basically submissions from exes saying "watch out ... blah blah..." or spreading secrets about what they were into. I did see posts about some of the girls I met through him. 

Towards the end when I was trying to get him to leave me alone he threatened that would put me on this website, knowing how worried I get about how others perceive me and my sex life being private. I checked a few times and never saw anything. 

Flash forward 3 years to this weekend: My new partner if you will, a coworker who I have known for years, makes a comment about me regarding something he should not have known during sex. It's something I've only told 3 people, one being the lunatic. I'd rather not elaborate on what it was exactly. 

Considering the fact that there is zero chance my exes have interacted with the new guy, the only thing I can think of is that I'm actually on that website. 

Does anyone know the website I'm talking about? You search locally and by name. I know this is a stretch. but I don't know what else to do. I cannot remember the name of the website for the life of me. 

I do intend on questioning new guy about why he brought that up once I get the balls, I'm just panicking that my past is coming back to haunt me.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: I think a crazy ex put me on a local revenge website, I can't remember the name of the website so I can check for myself. Please help.