<human>: Up until recently in life I would just coast around doing whatever made me money and paid the bills while still allowing me to have spending money. Now, I am getting married (Legally no ceremony yet) and we have a 2 month old daughter.

I am working in the IT field and am about to start school for Software Engineering. My wife has a grand vision for what she wants us to do with our lives together and how we can work our way into getting paid very well in a secure way. I am caught at this point as I know the way that she wants to do things will work out well, but it is not what I want to do in life. I understand that no matter what option I choose, there will always be a chance of failure, but my wife is fully invested into making her way our future.

I need advice on how to handle this situation as I want to support her on what she wants to do, but I don't think that she will accept that I want to do something else. Every way that I can think of handling this either ends with me doing something that I don't want to, or by me ruining the image that my wife has for our families future.

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<bot>: My wife has a secure business plan that has been proven to be able to get our family into a very well off state, but it isn't what I want to do with life.