<human>: We both want to get married and have kids together in the next few years, but at this point in time it is just not possible.  Unfortunately, I had to be taken off my birth control as I am high risk for cervical cancer.  I just had my first LEEP procedure in November and have been doing everything possible to prevent irregular cell growth.  We had been using condoms, but after this incident we will not be having sex during ovulation.  **This decision was not made lightly and we are not reckless people so those with opinions keep them to yourself or PM me- I don't know what password I used for this account anyway.**

Both of his parents recently became very ill (ALS & Diabetes) and he is an only child so he is responsible for taking care of them.  Both of our careers are not even close to stable at the moment.  He took partial ownership of a start-up 3 months ago and I am working to rebuild my design career after derailing it a few years ago.  I don't have insurance and he only receives a stipend for his crappy individual.  We cannot stay in the home we are in now after January and we might be moving out of state for work.  

Both of our families would be supportive in the end, but disappointed and angry for a while.  Even though that would be the least of our worries, the amount of stress we had before the pregnancy, coupled with all of these other factors, would not provide a suitable healthy home for a child or relationship.

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<bot>: Financially, mentally, and physically we are not capable of taking on a child.  We love each other very much and will do everything possible to get each other through this time.  Any advice is much appreciated.