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Happy to be back, dear community, after only 8 months since I was so hurt about my last relationship. I am desperately asking for your input on this new guy. I'm 28 he's 34, we've been aquiantances for years, and over the last 3 months we've developed this amazingly deep connection. He got out of a short but painful relationship 1.5 months ago. I stuck it out and was there for him since he had been there for me with a lot of troubles, too. We went on vacation twice (he lives in a different city) and he came to visit, he abstained from sex but we were very intimate and close. I am struggling not to push him, I know we both have strong feelings (mine obviously stronger), we think so highly of each other and I do want to be with him and feel like I'm falling hard, he's just an amazing guy. However (!) he says he wants to take things slow, doesn't want this to be a rebound and constantly mentions he is restless, has a lot of professional objectives to pursue (2 businesses he runs) and recently confessed he still needs to be by himself and rediscover what he likes and who he is. At the same time, he keeps in very close contact, won't let me go and supports my own plans of personal growth (I have a lot of professional goals I am struggling with right now, one of which is that I am actively trying to leave the country but would stay for him if he wants me, haven't told him but I feel like he knows). Bottom line, shouldn't he have decided he wants to be with me by now? Is this thing growing into a healthy relationship or a major heartbreak? How long would you stick around? I set myself a deadline for the end of next month and I give him space and time.
<bot>: Talking for 3 months, dating for 1.5, falling hard, says he doesn't want a relationship yet. Should I wait, change the game or let go?