<human>: My boyfriend and I recently graduated from college. He has a solid software engineering job lined up in Seattle, and I have an offer for a 1 year long government position in San Francisco. I'm currently debating whether I should turn down this job offer and move to Seattle with him, or do long distance for at least a year (after which I hope to go to medical school).

There are several reasons why I would want to take the job offer and try to do long-distance. First, Seattle and SF aren't that far apart (only a 2 hour flight and same time zone), so it's not too long-distance. Second, the salary is decent ($50k + health benefits), and job security is always nice. Third, my family is from SF, so I would be living at home rent-free. Fourth, a lot of my friends from high school/college will be living in the SF Bay Area, whereas Seattle would mean establishing a new social network.

There are also several reasons why I would want to move. First, I have a bachelor's in public health, but this position (basic HR/office-type role) is not related to my field of study. Second, I'm not sure I could make long-distance work. I care deeply for my boyfriend, and I can't bear to be apart from him. Third, Seattle would present the opportunity to start anew; I've lived in the same part of the country my whole life, and this could be a learning experience. Fourth, I dislike living at home, and if I moved to Seattle, my mom would kick out my freeloading SIL from the SF house and rent out the house (negates point 3 above).

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<bot>: I'm not sure if I want to move with my boyfriend to a new city and forego job security or stay at home and try to make long-distance work.