<human>: I know it's early to look at long term effects in our relationship, but I think it's important. I started dating a 19M in college. We're in the "limbo" stage, we're dating and we really like each other but we haven't known each other for very long so we aren't official/exclusive yet.

I was thinking about our relationship and remembered that he said he wanted to live in China. He is fluent in Chinese and said he would rather live there than in the US. I've begun to think about this a lot and don't know how I feel about it.

The answer I'm expecting to get is "It's just college, date whoever you want!" but I'm looking for something a bit more...constructive I suppose.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: 19M wants to live in China long term, I don't know how I feel about us dating because of it.