<human>: Me [21] and my girlfriend [19] of about 3 months went out for dinner last night for my 21st birthday. Everything was going fine, kinda. The entire time I kept feeling like she was a bit off with me. When we got back to her place we watched some TV in her bed and as soon as it ended she simply rolled over and went to sleep. Although this was bad she is suffering from a pretty brutal cold at the moment which she said was putting her in a constant bad mood. Anyway the night was shit, we barely cuddled and she paid no attention to me. In the morning when she was showering, shun me if you may but I checked her facebook messages to her twin sister and saw her saying she was a 'commitaphobe' and 'wants to be single.' However she also said that it's nothing to do with me and that it's entirely her, she also says she hopes she snaps out of feeling like this. We went shopping today and she was in a shit mood all day, we kissed goodbye and she said she'd see me next week probably because she's working a lot this week. I said to myself I wasn't going to get in contact with her and I'd let her get in contact with me. She did today by sending me a facebook message basically saying she's sorry for being a moody bitch recently and that she's feeling much better from the cold. She text me today saying she was coming to the restaurant I work at with her mum and little sister so hopefully I'll get to see her then.

Anyway I don't know what to do, breaking up with her is the last thing I want. How can I make her want to still be in a relationship with me? Part of me does believe what she said to her sister was when she was at the height of feeling miserable as fuck though.

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<bot>: although she's never admitted to me, my girlfriend has mentioned that she wants to be single and that she is scared of commitment.