<human>: I've been having this problem a lot. Typically, what happens is I'll meet a guy. They will be attracted to me physically and want to get to know me, but when things slow down, we'll transition into friends. Then the guy will confide in me so much and feel like such a close friend that he'll even tell me about other women and how he feels about them. 

When I ask them why they won't date me despite feeling comfortable around me and being sexually attracted to me, they'll give me a bs excuse, usually something like "I never really thought of it that way" or something along those lines, when clearly they *have* been attracted to me and do feel at ease around me. Also, they tend to have similar interests as me and we often talk about those interests.

A bit about me: I'm close with my family but don't have a lot of friends. I am in law school and run a creative business on the side. I travel a lot to work on my creative projects but still make time for my few friends, who I am very loyal to.

I'm really frustrated because I would love to date someone who is a friend, but because of how my record is, I am starting to feel like I'm missing something other girls have that I lack. I'm made to feel that any girl can just swoop in and get their attention, but I, the friend, am never quite "enough" in whatever magical way.

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<bot>: Despite men confiding in me and being sexually attracted to me, I am in the friendzone. What can I do about this?