<human>: My ex broke up with me a few days ago we were dating for 10 months (Im 19 female), apparently it doesn't hurt him, only because I heard from a trusted friend (although she does annoy me at times) that he said after I left this party, that the reason it didn't break off any sooner was that he didn't put any effort into a breakup.

The breakup itself basically was mutual, or so to my understanding. My, and my ex's friend (A) basically got a lot of my texts basically saying I was depressed and all this other shit. I thought friend A was being supportive, my mistake. Well along comes friend B, who friend A knows I hate, and who is also a douche, who decides to get involved in everything, and mentally abuses me, from the start of this relationship.

Anywho friend B told me that my ex said he broke up with me and it was not mutual. I cannot trust this guy, to begin with because he mentally fucks with me. He also wanted us to break up.

At this point I got really depressed, and I never want to see him again. Also after my friend told me what my ex had said I kinda felt like a waste.

My ex is having open heart surgery, and although we wanted to be friends, I dont know if I can be. Also to show that I'm not an asshole I've asked one of my other friends to give my ex a get well card when she visits him in the hospital. 

If he wants to be friends I hope he will accept the card, and realize a few things. I still want to show that I do care if my ex wants to be friends. I know the surgery will be hard for him which is why I will not go in person, hopefully my ex realizes friend A, and B are douche bags, because with them around I will not be able to see him.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Ex and I broke up, his friends are assholes. I would like to be friends, and give him a get well card for his open heart surgery recovery.