<human>: Hi reddit, I'm a 23/M dating a 23/F. We are both down to earth and intelligent and there is caution from both parties, in a healthy way. 

About two months ago I met a girl online, and because I wanted to start dating again, went in search of a girl that wasn't basic. She is definitely not basic, and I'm into her and what she finds interesting. 

The dates went well. First date when much better than expected, for both of us. Communication is effortless, and things are moving at a cautious but we'll adjusted speed. Second date was better than the first, we mostly dug into more personal matters and progressed. 

Now she wants to cook for me (she is an actual chef for Wolfgang puck) and I'm flattered. 

**My Question**
How do I indicate that I think things are going somewhere between us and that I want to invest time and effort into the pursuit of perhaps getting into a relationship with her? 

My only idea is a rose and a nice bottle of wine. 

Small note: I am an INTJ and relationships aren't my strong suit.

Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?
<bot>: Third date with a girl is next. Things are going well for both parties. How do I indicate I want to go further with the relationship?