<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

My boyfriend and I have been dating 3 years and are juniors at the same college.  When I met him he was very skinny, but his face was cute and I really liked his personality and the fact that he paid attention to me (i've never received male attention before).  While in college he put on about 20 pounds and it made him look a whole lot better.  He still wasn't overweight by any means, but he just looked not so scrawny and filled out his clothes better.

However, he gained the weight because he ate a ton.  Now he doesn't do that anymore, he'll grab food and not eat it because it either makes him feel sick, or external stress affects his appetite.  I'm the opposite, food is a source of comfort to me (probably why I'm overweight).  He won't eat food if I offer it, or he'll just nibble at it to be polite.  He's lost almost all the weight he gained over this year, and seeing his hipbones and ribcage have me wishing he'd just keep his shirt on during sex.  Before you ask, I had never seen him naked when he was previously skinny, as we weren't sexually active then.  Obviously I've never mentioned anything like this before to his face, I know I'd hate to hear it if I was him.

It's gotten to the point where I guilt him into eating.  I'm not proud of my behavior, but I feel like unless I focus on how sad he's making me feel and how I feel like a whale next to him, he won't finish his plate.  It bothers me that outside stresses (and he has a lot of them) affect his appetite on a daily basis.  I feel like his mom sneaking more calories into his food (if I cook, we mostly eat at the dining hall) sometimes.  

How do I get over my insecurity?  Is my boyfriend as unhealthy as I think or is my fatness clouding my judgment?  Should I just stop eating with him?
<bot>: Boyfriend getting skinnier and skinnier and it's affecting my self-esteem.  I know I'm likely wrong, how do I fix my behavior?