<human>: Met a girl at work (I know) and we hit it off.  She moves in with me a few weeks after we get together.  Relax Reddit, I know it was a bad setup from the start!

I've been with the company since soon after a friend of mine started it (about 8 years) and he has told me he plans to give me a percentage of the company when it sells (probably within 1-2 years).  I enjoy what I do, although it's sometimes stressful, and I'm happy there.

The girl HATES the company and my friend, the owner.  She despises everything he stands for and basically wants me to leave to distance myself from him and the company.  Mostly because she is privy to some conversations my friend has had and feels he is untrustworthy and unethical.

I've known the guy for 20+ years and she will be miserable if I stay there, even if she quits.  I am happy there, but I don't want to see her so miserable.  I want to make it work with her, but I feel this is an unfair spot for me to be in.  She equates my staying with not loving/caring about her.

What do??

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Been at my job for 8 years.  Dating a girl for 6 months.  I have to choose between job and girl.