<human>: What is the best way to get my ex girlfriend to talk to me?
<bot>: The first step is to make sure you are not making things worse by being overly aggressive or confrontational. Try to be respectful and open-minded, and try to listen without judgment. Ask her if she has any feelings about why you broke up, and express your own feelings honestly. If possible, try to have a conversation in person rather than over text or social media. Make sure that you're both willing to put in effort to repair the relationship.