<human>: 22 M here. So there is this friend (21 F) of mine who I hang out with every weekend, and I have known her for 2 months. We are in a tight circle of friends, so never really been anywhere by ourselves. She's funny and interesting and all, but not sure if I want to be in a relationship with her (career and family reasons).

But here's the problem. I get this urge to be intimate with her every time she is around. She is not the typical "hot babe". If I didn't know her, I wouldn't even notice her. Her body type is a rectangle to be honest (still not ugly, I must say). But I swear, when she is around, I feel like I have to put my arm on her shoulder, or around her waist, or cuddle when we are watching movies and what not. And I have no idea how to deal with this.

I don't know if this means if I like her. Or the idea of her. All I know is that it is not just physical attraction, and I don't feel the same about any other girl. Like I said before, her body is not aesthetic and not someone who I would gawk at as they pass by in the middle of the street. But when she's around or sitting beside me, oh god. Don't know how to control this urge. Don't want to be "that guy".

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<bot>: Feel attracted towards a girl, not sure if wanna date, don't wanna be a pushy/touchy jerk. What do?