<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

I've recently moved in with my girlfriend of one year, she's always been a little jealous and demanding of all my time, and I've always been open and honest with her that it bothers me that she needs to read all my messages to my friends and that I would like to see my friends when they're free without her always needing to come along. 

Every time we talk about it, and we do talk about it, she sees me wanting any sort of privacy as a sign I might be cheating on her and it always turns into her crying and demanding to get her way. I give in almost all the time and let her read the messages, cancel plans with friends and attempt to do nice things for her and when I do she stays happy for a week or so but then the cycle repeats. 

I've been dealing with it for a while but I don't feel happy with all these restrictions on me. I don't like having to ask her permission to do things and not being able to see certain people because she doesn't like them etc. 

Whenever she reads the messages she sees there is nothing to worry about because I wouldn't dream of cheating on her, but she tells me it's completely unreasonable and ridiculous that I want that freedom. Now that we live together she wants access to my online banking account so that she can manage my money because she doesn't trust me to do that either. 

Am I wrong by thinking I should be allowed these freedoms or is this just what relationships are?
<bot>: My girlfriend controls my texts, facebook messages, time with my friends and now wants to control my bank account. Am I wrong in thinking this isn't okay?