<human>: Before we got married, my mom totally overwhelmed and bombarded my wife during the wedding process. My wife didn't want anything big but my family insisted(forced) on a jewish wedding with at least 100 people. They steamrolled us at every turn. Now, we are in debt because of the time we couldn't work before the wedding. My wife is deathly afraid of debt because her student loans are crazy (over 150k), and her parents are horrrrrible with money. Now we are four months into our marriage and she is depressed. Last night, I woke up in the middle of the night to her sobbing uncontrollably. I don't know what to do, my marriage is shit even before it began. We've been together for 6 years total by the way.

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<bot>: Wedding process and afterward destroyed my wife's ego and emotional health and now 4 months into my marriage I practically don't have a marriage. Basically, help.