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Hi All,

I'll try to make this as straight to the point that I can, sorry for any typos in advance - posting this quickly before work.

We started seeing each other in November, there really seemed to be a connection - he treated me very well. Taking me out to dinners and even taking me down south for a long weekend at a beach house. It was pretty awesome. Then at the end January it kind of changed to the point that it felt like more like just a casual physical fling. Which I wasn't a fan of, so I gave him an ultimatum either a proper relationship or nothing. He couldn't commit so that was it. Or so I thought. 

Every weekend night for the next two months I'd hear from him drunkenly apologizing for not committing. Didn't respond, but now half way through April I start hearing from him during the day when no alcohol was involved, wanting to just hangout. I'm not sure what his end goal here, but now I'm at a point where I don't want a relationship for a while and I don't know whether I should casually hangout with the boy and see where it goes. 

I'm not a fool, I'm 90% sure he's just after a physical thing. My question for reddit is whether going back to this guy is a smart move, I'm not sure whether it would be a respectable? A little bit lost at the moment.
<bot>: I was seeing a guy since November, I broke it off in February now he's texting me and wants to hangout. I want to but I don't know whether I'm going to lose respect in doing so?