<human>: I'm still kind of new to this "married man" title. So when my friend decided that a bunch of guys were going to another country for a bachelor's party I decided to toss a condom in my suitcase. My wife took them out of my bag, and I put them back before I left. Bachelor party for several days...i think take condoms, someone is going to need them. 

So I return and as she unpacks my bags finds the condom and freaks out "why take a condom on vacation with you?"
I knew she was going to see them I didn't attempt to hide them but wasn't prepared for the reaction I got.

Q1:  I need to know if this is as bad she took it.
We started out as lovers, and she knew about my other relationships because I don't believe in hiding anything. So there is still some validation and trust lacking since she sees me as a man who wants more than one, (True) but I believe in commitment. 
We have a great relationship and I apologized immediately that I took them with me. If i understand correctly she was hurt that I put them there behind her back, and that taking them was some indication I intended to cheat. She altogether questions that I only took one. 
We had great make up sex and I should probably just drop it but I want to know if I really fucked up.

Q2: if you happen to agree with me that its not such a malicious act in that context..great. I don't really see what's wrong here. How do I explain to her my better safe than sorry approach to things and not enforce the ideas that I might cheat?

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: I was thinking better safe than sorry when I took a condom with me to bachelor party wife thinks I wanted to cheat. Did I fuck up?