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Hey guys/girls, sorry if this is in the wrong section. I'm sure you have heard this from other people before, but I'm a 21 year old guy who has never kissed, had sex, or dated before. Now, my situation is different, I'm not bothered by the fact that I haven't done these things when most other guys my age have already. I'm concerned as to why. I never tried to date anybody. It's not because I'm shy, and it's not because I'm insecure. This will sound weird, but I haven't done any of these things because I don't have the desire to do them. I find women physically attractive, but at the same time I don't want to have a relationship or have sex with a woman. I feel like I'm missing something that men are born with, the desire to do these things. I still have friends, so I'm not a complete loner, but I don't have the desire to go any further with anybody.

I felt the same way when I was in high school, but I didn't think much of it because I thought eventually I would grow out of it and I would want to be involved with somebody romantically or sexually, but I don't. Now, I'm truly afraid. I WANT to have that desire to be with a woman, but I CAN'T force myself to have that desire. It's like a homosexual man/woman trying to become "straight", it's not gonna work because you can't change your sexuality  This is the one thing I hate about myself. I'm really confused by this. Does this sound like some kind of mental condition, or are some people just born this way and I just have to deal with it? There's no way this can be normal. If anybody can give their thoughts on this, I would really appreciate it, thanks.
<bot>: I'm a 21 year old guy who finds women physically attractive, but has no desire to be with one romantically or sexually, and I'm scared.