<human>: Me M 33 her F 30.  She broke up with me six months ago. She said that "I never loved you", she cheated on me, she used me, she emotionally extorted me by making unrealistic "deal-breakers".  I have done my best to avoid my ex-girlfriend.  I have followed the reddit breakup advice as best as possible, "cut all contact, delete from facebook & hit the gym".  I do not speak to her, I do not visit her apartment, I avoid all communication.  She is a runner and I have been known to cross the street to avoid the possibility of communication.  She has waved at me and I have declined a warm response, but acknowledged her presence.  Now she wrote an email to me saying that I avoid her, as if she has "leprosy".  Writes a backhanded insult saying "I'm sorry for breaking your heart; however it happens to everyone."  Tells me that "it is part of growing up.", implying that I'm childish.  Finally saying that I shouldn't be worried if we cross paths in our small town and that it is "all a part of life".  Why am I made to look the villain here?  She treated me terribly in that relationship, she vowed that "we could never be friends if we broke up" and now is admonishing me to be friendly?  Dear reddit, what would you do in my circumstance?

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<bot>: Ex-girlfriend, current next door neighbor said "I never loved you", used me, cheated on me and emotionally extorted me, now wants me to be more friendly.