<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

Me and my SO have been having some issue lately that having been stemming from some life situations that we are both experiencing. Most of the issue is coming from what she is experiencing though. She has had some maintenance due on her car for a while and has been putting it off. Well the inspection came up so now everything that needs to be done has to be done in 18 days. This has been causing some slight issue but nothing major. 

On top of this, she has been going to teaching school. Part of the requirements for teaching school are doing teaching hours. The school requires you get them done from Jan - April of you first semester. I was asking her about how the teaching hours are going today and she informs me that she has only done the 5 I basically pushed her into doing. Now she only has 5 weeks to complete 25 hours, she can for sure get it done but it will be way more difficult. 

From my point of view  her issue is that she keeps putting things off. I have mentioned that while this worked often in her college days this will no longer cut it in adult life. However I don't think thats really going over to well. We are not constantly fighting or anything. I just want to know the best ways I can help her out. I am not sure what is and is not helping. When we are having talks she often say she feels like I am lecturing her and doesn't like this. Also worth noting is that it is upsetting me that she refuse to take more responsibility even though it is clearly upsetting me.
<bot>: Having issue with my girlfriend procrastinating really important things and I want to know how to best help her while keeping our relationship in tact.