<human>: 20 year old female in a relationship of over half a year with a 21 year old male. It was going great until I fucked up and managed to bring out a ton of resentment from my bf. The root of the problem is that I have not done enough that is solely to make him happy- loving him should be motivation enough to do that, right? I have no solid explanation for why, even after multiple arguments over this, I did not follow through with love notes, cards, etc. until things got really bad. This issue is causing so much tension in our relationship.

The more that we argue about this, the more I question my feelings for my boyfriend. I know that I do love him, but I'm growing resentful towards him as well. I spend many weekends away from my college (he's in school a 2-hour bus ride away) and feel like I am losing touch with my friends here because of it. Not only that, but I now feel guilty if I continue to do things for myself, like spend money (given to me by family for an event, mind you) on clothes that I will enjoy. The more resentful I feel, the more often we fight (often with me picking them after avoiding him), and the less I want to do special things for him. 

He has continued to stress that I need to make up for what I have not been doing and that if I do not he will break up with me. I don't want to lose him, as he is one of the only people who has ever truly loved me, but I am unsure that I can really fix this while I feel so awful. Would it be wrong of me to suggest that we take a break? I am afraid that doing so might just destroy our relationship faster than I already am on my own, but I don't think that I can fight for this relationship much longer.

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<bot>: 20F fighting constantly with 21M bf over main issue of showing love as well as smaller things. Cycle of fighting causes resentment- wondering if a break would help or hurt.