<human>: My fiance (M 24) and I (F 23) have been together for 11 months (today)

So, here lately my fiance just gets mad over the smallest and DUMBEST things. Just today, he got mad that I didn't want to go with him to pick up his paycheck. Despite me having worked from 4:00 this morning (meaning I had to get up at 3:30 AND after going to bed at 1:30 because  "I didn't want to spend time with him" by wanting to go to sleep.) 

Half of the time I feel like he just wants to argue. Then always defaults to the "YOU ALWAYS..." and "I NEVER...". and/or calling me a bitch, telling me "fuck you", or just being hateful. I love this man, and this is NOT normal behavior for him, but it's gotten really bad here lately. I know this is such a small issue and I should be thankful that this is our only issue now, but I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't want  to get mad also because that wouldn't help anything and even after telling him I'm sorry and complying to what it is he wants me to do, he gets mad that I'm doing it, but I don't WANT to. 

So, how to approach this? I just don't know what to do anymore.. It's driving me crazy and I feel like it's going to cause bigger problems. Help me :(

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<bot>: Fiance gets mad over the smallest things (such as what I don't do) and when I finally comply and do them, he gets mad because I don't WANT to (but do anyways to make him happy).