<human>: Me and my boyfriend broke up after 4 months of dating due to him telling me he has no desire for a relationship anymore and sees me more as a friend. 

We tried staying friends and for the most part it worked great. We became each other's goto person for almost everything. Even hung out more than we used to as a couple. Worked together, laughed together, played video games together, spent everyday talking at least for an hour. And neither of us dated in this time frame. 

Fastforward a year and we've started getting romantically involved again. It's been going on for 3 months now. The thing is, he comes to me with almost every problem he has. He needs to go to a meeting? We are going to shop for an outfit and I'll make the decision. He needs to take a proficiency exam? I'll tutor him for days. He has finals coming up? I will help him study. He has a family drama? I am the one to give advice and he'll actually do what I suggest. I even decided the graduate school he has applied for. 

Given, I am usually good with problem solving, I am knowledgeable about academic stuff and I have a good taste in general I am glad to help him out here and there. I am still not %100 comfortable with our relationship. Don't get me wrong. He has helped me when I needed most of the time but lately I just get the feeling he is becoming lazier and lazier because has this sense that I will always make the best choices for him. It's like, he won't even begin studying for an exam unless I bug him about it. He will always leave the decisions about what we will do when we hangout to me. Where in the beginning he as the experienced one, was decision maker of the relationship. Sometimes I feel like I am in this relationship where I decide everything and he is just tagging along. Is this normal? Please take into consideration that he is my first 'relationship' so I am not really experienced.

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<bot>: Boyfriend comes to me with every big/small decision he needs to make and I am questioning whether it is normal.