<human>: I [32M] am trapped in a loveless marriage with my wife [35F]  because of income and a daughter we have together. To make everything more complicated, I'm in love with an employee of mine. She is perfect for me in every way. She finds me funny, we have alot of the same interests. We even both prefer cold weather. I feel like she is a great potential partner, unfortunately she is in a relationship with someone and has been for a little over a year. 

I almost want to tell her how I feel, but that's not a rejection I can handle right now if she doesn't feel the same. VN, I love you and I wish I could tell you while looking into your gorgeous eyes.

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<bot>: I'm in love with my employee, afraid of what will happen if I tell her and trapped in a loveless marriage.