<human>: Hello lads,

I am somewhat of an anxious guy deep inside, but never try to show it outside. I have known a girl for a while, and after months of being too scared to make a move, I eventually dared myself to kiss her. We talked, and she said I was the first guy she actually liked, and eventually, we got together.

Now I tend to not be overly needy with her, overly pushy, or invasive. I value some sense of personal freedom, and will talk with her when we both are on comfort level. We have talked about so many things, and I feel as if I know her extremely well on so many different front, truth be told, I sometimes find it hard to think of things to talk about. This does not really make matters bad, but... I am not sure whether it could damage the romance.

I have had no experience whatsoever with females before, so I don't know how to be 'flirty' or anything. We joke, we laugh, and once in a while, I give her an honest-to-god meaningful compliment. I overthink every detail, because I like her so much, and because I don't want her to stop liking me back. But I feel like it could all become old soon enough, and that eventually it will end in a caring but unromantic relationship between the two of us; this is not something I want. We go on interesting dates, but there are only so many ideas I can think of before it boils down to just hanging, and she really seems to enjoy spending her time with me on these dates.

My question is, how did you guys get over this paranoia of letting the relationship become stale? Should I take it easy, and stop worrying so much about it, or is this supposed to be part of the relationship? I see her as 'out of my league', and therefor believe the situation to end in a way that she might find someone more 'exciting'.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: I feel like the fun and nice relationship we have at the moment could lose its romantic edge, for no apparent reason but losing conversation topics to talk about.