<human>: ok, so my ex and I have already been apart for a couple of months. We had this notion of being friends but that went down the drain. I have been getting over her slowly, I still do carry strong feelings for her but i do feel like i am getting over her. But she has been on facebook a lot recently and i have been seeing her updates frequently which kinda sets me back a few steps since her life actually seems a lot more glamourous than mine has been at the moment. 

SO first of i unsubscribed from her updates since i thought un-friending her would not be the best thing to do. 
Yet after our group of friends graduated from high school, my best friend made a facebook group of all of us so that we would have a place to go to and easily reach out to each other. This has worked fine and all, but she is also a part of this group because we became part of each other's friend groups which then merged in to one whole group. 

And lately i have been wanting to just remove her from my friends list so that i can finally stop seeing her and reach that stage of being completely over her and then maybe after that become her friend. But I do not want to cause any drama between this friends group here, and it may be egotistical to think, but this group was created from both of our hands and severing hers from mine might make me look like the bad guy. How do i avoid this situation?

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Want to take Ex-Girlfriend of my friends list, yet might cause turmoil in out group of friends making me the bad guy. How do I avoid that?