<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

I've been with my girlfriend for almost 5 years now and she's been "underemployed" the entire time.  She was a nanny part time for a while and now she's training dogs but she hasn't really been able to get a full time job.

It's hurting because she's only able to contribute a few hundred dollars a month to rent and I'm basically paying for everything else (food, rent, entertainment, etc)

She has a masters degree in fiction and she's smart but I just don't know what else to do to help her.  I've tried pushing her to expand her search, volunteer, intern, work with a job coach and it always just leads to a fight and we both feel worse.

So I'm wondering do I keep trying to push her or do I back off and leave her alone?  Or is it time to admit that we might just not be helping each other and maybe it's time to end this and get on with our lives?  Is my supporting her just making her too comfortable and she's not really motivated to figure out what to do?
<bot>: I've been supporting my underemployed girlfriend for almost 5 years.  Is it time to give up, backoff or move on?