<human>: While we were dating, everything was seemingly perfect. Occasional squabbles here and there, but always about insignificant things that didn't matter.  

We didn't live together before we got married.

Now that we live together, every problem is amplified, and their is a lot of friction on the way that  a house should be cared for and how general day to day actions should be prioritized. We are both very laid back and I have no issues with them as a person, but I do feel very anxious all the time, not quite resentful but I could see it turning that way. 

The fact is, I don't know if married life is for me. If my spouse was an asshole, neglectful, entitled, or otherwise just shitty in general, it would be an easy separation. 

However, they are a decent person, family is decent, good moral people that like to have fun, laugh, etc. They care and will help you if needed.

So my question to ya'll here is this... Am I the asshole for having these thoughts? Should I just suck it up, count my blessings, and not harp on the issues that bring tension? 

Or should I do us both a favor and end it while we are still young so we both have a chance to get our lives in order before our 30's?

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: After moving in, there is friction. I feel trapped but my spouse is a good person and I love them. I just don't think I can live with them.