<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

I am in a stable, three year relationship that provides me with many of my needs - financial, emotional, practical, etc. I truly love my BF and could see myself in the future with him. Our only problem is that while he seems committed now (insurance, bills, romantic intent) is that he can't foresee marriage in the near future. Fine, it's overrated. Even though I am university educated, I'm staying in a small town in a bad job so I can be near him (and because of this, I don't really have the finances to move). I'm fairly sure I want to be with him, but I feel so trapped by circumstance. So, resentment that he doesn't deserve.  To top it off, lately the sex has only been OK, and infrequent, and he's not taking great care of himself - bad food, no exercise, etc. This did not bother me a few years ago when we were young, but now we're growing up, and he has no real intentions of changing this.

Here's the thing: there's this guy who comes into my incredibly boring job and totally makes my day. He's older, cute, we hit it off. He seems interested. I want to ask for his phone number so we can hang out. I have NO intentions of having sex with him, I just need . . . something exciting. Is this okay?
<bot>: I'm a highly educated bored "housewife" unhappy with my life but do not want to leave my relationship; thinking of asking someone else out for a platonic date.