<human>: Don't really know what to do. My older brother broke up with his girlfriend of one year about 8 months ago. It was his first girlfriend. He sunk into a depression, and is only getting worse with each passing day. He is the poster-boy for clinical depression, which runs in our family. This is his first experience with it however.  He still lives at home. He has had difficulty finding a meaningful or well-paying job after abandoning a dead-end career in a very competitive industry (sports). Now with the break up, he has terrible self-esteem, and proclaims to "hate everything." 

It's really worrying my whole family, and it's been difficult for us to help him because he refuses to seek treatment. He is stubbornly opposed to anti-depressants, regardless of all our attempts to convince him that there's no stigma or long-term effects of just trying them out. He won't see a therapist because he saw one after his break up for 6 sessions and thought it was stupid. Surely, he just didn't click with the therapist, but now he refuses to see a different one. 

He works full time in a temporary job that he hates. He works out constantly. He has a ton of friends and sees them almost every night, but that seems to make no difference. He applies to jobs but can't get one - now he feels the job search is pointless. He avoids everyone in our immediate family and only responds in one-word answers to us. I have tried hanging out with him and inviting him to do things -- it never goes well. The last few times he's barely said a word when we hung out and looks to be on the verge of tears. 

I don't know what to do. We've seriously tried everything, and it's really concerning. If anyone has any experience with this kind of thing, or advice, I'd really appreciate it. Thanks.

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<bot>: My older brother (27M) is clinically depressed and refuses professional treatment. We've tried everything, and don't know how to help him.