<human>: So, here's the haps: My boyfriend [28m] and I [23f] have been dating for nearly 2 years now. We met in school and things started off very casually. About 6 months in we decided to make it serious. About a year in I told him I loved him. He said he wasn't sure how he felt. Part of this was related to school ending and the fact that we don't know where we'll be in the future. 

At the time I wanted to give him some time to think about it, I told him I was hurt but that this wouldn't change anything. He has a right to feel how he feels and I figured that other than that the relationship itself was very good. He's generally a very thoughtful, caring guy who's always willing to go out of his way for me. 

Fast forward to today, another 6 months down the road. I've found that I become jealous more easily, that I'm more insecure about myself, how he feels about me etc. I keep thinking that there's nothing to hold him to me if he doesn't love me.  The way we act toward one another hasn't changed. He's still the same thoughtful, caring guy. I try not to let the bad feelings get too much traction. I honestly forget sometimes that he said he doesn't love me. 

At this point, I'm young enough that I think I'm ok being in a relationship just because its nice. I'm not looking to get married right this second. I don't see myself getting married for at least another five years. I don't know precisely where he's at, but it seems to me he's not in any rush either. 

I wonder, however, if I'm deluding myself.  

Any advice, reddit? How do I get over the insecurity? Should I stay or should I go?

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<bot>: I thought I was ok being in semi-one-way relationship, but I'm not sure that I am. What now?