<human>: I recently broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago. I tried to do so in person when he was going back to college, but when he talks to me I just crumble and say yes to everything he says. So this time I sent a letter and blocked him on everything. I made arrangements to send his things to him, and let myself relax for the first time in a long time. 

Then mutual friends start sending me messages from him, asking me to talk to him so "he can finally understand something for once". He said that if I talked to him he would make arrangements to pick his things up, but I don't want to see him in person, and I definitely don't want to talk to him. I said I would think about it, do I stand my ground and say no to talking, or does he have the right to make arrangements for his things? 

If he starts to talk to me, I know he's not over us and I'm sure he'd try to convince me to get back with him. I feel stronger than I was when I first broke up with him, but I'm unsure if I can hear what he has to say and not change my mind. He likes to go on about how he'd die without me and try to manipulate me into feeling guilty for leaving.

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<bot>: ex boyfriend doesn't understand the meaning of no contact, and is trying to talk to me to arrange him coming back for his things. Do I talk to him, or stand by my no contact policy?