<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

This has been on my conscious for a while a long time and I need a second opinion. I talked to a friend about this and she told me that my actions are cheating. I will give you all an overview, my husband and I have been married for 3 months now, and we dated for a year and 2 months before we got married. 

A while back I met this guy call him Jack. Jack and I had an amazing sexual connection, nothing like which I have ever experienced before. The thing was, outside of the bedroom we didn't make for a good couple at all. However, I felt hooked on him, I ended up seeing him for three months and I broke things off with him. 

But stupid me, I ended up getting back together with him shortly after. Around that time I started dating my now would be husband. My husband was always standoffish on titles, and I was still in a relationship with Jack, so I didn't push either. 

At the time it would really turn me on leaving my husband after a date to go see Jack. It made the sex we had even better. And shamefully there were times where I would have slept with both of them in the same day. I would usually take a shower in between though. There were times where I would lie to my husband about what I did on the weekend. 

Jack knew about my husband, but my husband had no idea about Jack. Things continued on for a while and things between me and my husband got more serious. After I was spending majority of the nights at my husband's place I broke it off with Jack. My husband never found out about him nor besides a couple of times where I didn't text him really suspect anything. 

Am I a bad wife for this? We never were official. I wasn't in love with Jack, nor did I have any plans to leave my husband. I have been feeling really guilty about this. And I really would like to hear what you guys have to say. I tried to put out as much of the facts as possible. I can't go into too much detail because I don't want my personal life to be leaked.
<bot>: I feel like I cheated on  my husband, even though I technically didn't am I a bad wife for this?