<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

My husband is in the military but he is getting out in a matter of months. He has been the sole provider for our family and I've been a stay at home mom. I love staying at home and feel extremely fortunate that I've been able to do it for the past 4 years. We have been together for 7 years married for 5.  

My husband is a "man's man".  He has always wanted to be the provider and will do anything to guarantee that I do not work. He is going to be going to school after he is out of the military and I want to share the financial responsibilities with him. I don't feel he has to shoulder it all.  

Whenever I bring up the topic he just gets angry and says that I will not need to work and he will go to school then work evenings. All i want to do is work 3-4 nights a week. That way someone is always home with our kids. 

How do I talk to him about this without making him feel like he is less of a man because I work too? He is completely fine if i get a job because I want one but not because I feel like I need to have one. He knows that that is my reasoning for wanting one when he gets out of the military.
<bot>: How to I get my husband to understand that I want to help with the financial responsibilities without making him feel like he is less of a man?