<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

**A little backstory:** I got in my first relationship at 13, and have been in a few different relationships since. Due to the length of the relationships I've only been single for about 4 months in the last 5-6 years.

**Back to my current relationship:** Recently I've been been feeling that we are so different that it will cause issues later in the relationship. We have a lot of similarities too, but I feel that differences are more than your typical "opposites attract" differences and are more differences in values and stuff. I spoke to her about this and she disagreed, and felt that the arguments we have related to them are just minor things, not issues that will come back later in the relationship. I thought about this for a while and I wonder if I am just exaggerating the small issues because I'm looking for a reason to break up.

I do love her, and we do have good times, but I feel like I've not spent enough time single to really know what I want in the future, or if we are compatible. I think that I am looking for a reason to end it because I don't want to hurt her by leaving her for what is essentially me being selfish and wanting to try the single life. I know I may be being an a**hole for wanting to be single, and I still can't decide if my feelings about us being too different have basis, or if I am searching for excuses.
<bot>: I love my girlfriend but want to try the single life. Are the issues in our relationship real or am i searching for issues, and should I even end it?