<human>: I want to make this quick because she's in the other room crying right now. This'll be our third kid, and we're drowning in two. Just starting to get the hang of the second six months in (first was easy!) and along rolls what I would call a happy accident. This whole month my wife has been worried about this though, and it turns out rightfully so. She's very upset.

I have a decent job (40k annual), which is enough to keep us housed and fed and car, but will be finishing school with an engineering degree in April 2016 so after that we're planning on moving and making a lot more money. This will throw a wrench into that a bit; I should still be able to graduate on time but after that obviously moving to a different city with a 1 month old is going to be rough.

Anyways, I need to know what I can do to comfort her. She knows I even sort of want this, so she's not worried about my feelings. How can I be there for her during this zero hour?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: wife is upset about having an unexpected third kid when we aren't ready for it, I want to know how to comfort her