<human>: Hi - about a month and a half ago my dangerously psychotic ex-wife left me - we were married for about 5 months. She flew out and is currently in the UK. I was meeting up with friends these days in the local metal bar and I met a gorgeous and seemingly really cool lady who's 29, and we hit it off immediately, although I think that things might be moving way too quickly, and I told her that I need to take it easy, that I'm still hurt, although I feel nothing for my ex. She seems to be really nice and has her big problems of her own. I don't see a hint of crazy in her, but she's hurt herself - I can tell, and well she takes the escapism route (partying) just like I do. However, she seems to be very warmhearted and easygoing, and is real eye candy. 

I feel weird because she offered to clean my apartment during the day (the floor's a mess) and I said that it's better if we clean it together. I met her 2 days ago and simply cannot trust so quickly, although many people know her and my friends gave me the green light that she's a good person, and that there's nothing to worry about. I told her that I still have trust issues after what happened with my ex-wife. Did I do something wrong there?

If anybody would like to read what happened with my ex-wife, here's the link:

If anybody is willing to give advice, I would be very grateful.

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<bot>: I started seeing a hottie a month and a half after my ex-wife left me and I'm extremely insecure about how to handle a new relationship.