<human>: My friend is going through a rough patch after a long relationship, she's kind of lost and fumbling her way around trying to find out who she is, which I get. But at the same time it just seems like there is always something melodramatic happening. All of the Instagram posts she shares with me are joke posts about being fat, or ugly, or about how all men are dirtbags. And it feels like she is always complaining about not being ready to date, but at the same time she never actually takes the risk to see if she is or not. I want to be there for her, but its hard listening to the same problems over and over again.

This is kind of a rant, but to sum it up I want to get a bunch of my friends together and go clubbing for my birthday and I want her there, but the last time we were out together she got way too drunk and I had to take her home. And while taking her home she got mad at me for some reason and started to make me really uncomfortable by calling her sister and telling her things like "OMG I'm by myself" and "Im just with him" and calling her dad too. So I'm hesitant to go out with her again. Im not sure what to do.

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<bot>: My friend is annoying me. I have no idea if its me or if I actually have something to be annoyed at. Help me be a better friend.