<human>: Hi Reddit, tried posting this in /r/relationships but got told to try here too.

My girlfriend of over 3 years recently broke it off with me and I'm completely devastated.
I'm doing my best not to come across as desperate and give her space which I know is important.
When I have talked to her though, she says she still loves me etc.
One of her reasons for not wanting to get back together though is that she doesn't want to be one of those "pathetic couples" that break up and get back together over and over. 
I've tried saying lets just try it one more time, but again I think that sounds a bit needy. I've also tried the whole "we aren't like them, we aren't pathetic..."
I just don't know how to articulate that I too don't want to be like that, but I know we can work it out.
Just looking for some advice, I don't know where else to turn. Thanks.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Doesn't want to be a couple that breaks up and gets together repeatedly. Need to convince her we won't be.