<human>: I won't bore you with the details, basically I had a shitty time in highschool, came out of my shell a bit in university, don't have great self esteem, and have never had a serious relationship.  I'm relatively attractive, in good shape, and not totally asocial (though I do need to get out more), but I feel like there are some parts of me that need some serious work before I'm fit for public consumption.  

Basically, I have three problems that I think I need to sort out before I can pursue a relationship:

* I don't really understand dating etiquette.   

* I don't actually know how to go about meeting people that I would be interested in romantically.  

* I need to learn how to deal with my own shit better so it doesn't become someone else's problem.

Summarize the given text in a few sentences.
<bot>: I need to sort through some personal issues before I feel ready to pursue a relationship.  Any and all advice is appreciated.   Thanks for reading!.