<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

My ex bf and I are talking about getting back together and going slow. We have decided that we would be in an exclusive relationship but  go slow. He definitely wants to go slower than I do.  I am having a harder time with this because I don't know exactly what that means. Going back to dating, not seeing each other everyday, not staying the night, holding off on sex? Which is basically what we are doing, but I can't help but feel that the pace lies in his hands.

We have tried to set boundaries, and I have addressed my concerns to which he has been understanding. Although, I can't help but feel unwanted and not that important. He says he needs space, and I have given it to him, a lot.  Maybe I'm hurt because I was used to being his world (which was probably one of our main problems) and now he would rather hang out alone than with me on a friday night. 

Is this me being codependent? or not understanding what boundaries we have?  What are some of the more successful boundaries to have when getting back with an ex?
<bot>: My ex and I want to get back together but are taking things slow. What are successful ways you have moved slower when dating?