<human>: Hey guys- first post, 22 year-old-male. I'm usually pretty lucky with ladies (no problem dating or what-not) but went through a move and a lifestyle change (new job, very much moving up in the world) and have had trouble meeting people, as is natural I suppose.

I'm a folk musician, and this adorable girl has showed up to every gig of mine, brought her brother/friends, chatted me up, and so on. She got very drunk and gave me a BUNCH of hugs after one, and last time we had some decent (smiling, but not exactly flirting) conversation wherein she revealed she didn't remember feeling up on me. So, my memory of her is fonder (perhaps) than hers is of me. 

I got drunk after I played last night (bar-gig, free booze and door money) and she went home. I called her and asked her out, told her she was awesome and adorable (she is) and she said yes. Huzzah, and all.

But now I think I may have jumped the gun. This is a girl with deep roots, lots of friends in town, lots of family here, and (no doubt) a good number of opportunities to meet fellas who want her bones. I think I should've played it cool and waited till we met again, like we keep doing, and tried to get to know her better, you know, all casual and shit. Instead, now, there's pressure on a "date" (wooo, scary) where if it goes poorly I might lock myself out of a really good opportunity to just know this person as a friend. I'm a stranger in a strange land. 

So here goes- I'm out of my element, and really like this gal. What would you do if you had little money, no car, no friends, and no knowledge of a place, to romance a girl who has all of those things in abundance? What's a good 'low pressure' yet 'romantic' date where I wont betray that 1) I'm lonely as fuck 2) oh my god I want your butt and 3) if you're not interested please lets be awesome friends?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Poor, lonely folkie seeks low pressure date for wealthy, family oriented gal who must get asked out all the damn time.