<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

Like the title says, she takes everything I say as questioning her abilities and accomplishments.

I'm not one to heap praise on people, but I've told her straight out that I think her abilities and accomplishments are high.  Anything I say that isn't formulaic praise seems to get taken as a criticism.

The problem crept up gradually.  She started taking things I said the wrong way, and it got more and more common.  Now she takes things in ways that don't even seem possible.

If I ask her to do something, she thinks I'm accusing her of laziness (even if I make it clear I need help).  If she asks me to do something and I have a normal question like, "How many do you want?" she thinks I'm trying to make her feel stupid.  I've pissed her off by asking her opinion of the weather.  I've made her cry by asking what she dislikes about her job.  (Her job doesn't sound fun, but as far as I know it isn't bad enough to explain that reaction.)

Her reactions seem honest but not connected to what I've said.  I've tried avoiding specific things that seem to get the worst reactions (any sort of opinion or question).  We see each other often for other reasons, and when I upset her she actually seems more upset the longer it's been since the last time it happened.

Recently, she's been talking to me in a formal way and saying the sorts of things you might tell a kid to say a to bully -- for example, "I am asking you to" instead of "can you" or "please."  She's also said I make her miserable and stressed and she doesn't want to deal with me.  Since then we've been very distant, but we can't totally avoid each other.
<bot>: My friend (ex-friend?) hates me because she thinks I'm always putting her down, even when I talk about the weather.  WTF is going on?