<human>: Basically, I've been in love with J. since University- although I was an undergraduate, he was a graduate student. He is literally, everything I have ever wanted in a man, but at that time, I was already in a serious relationship that I had been afraid to get out of. 

We had this intense chemistry and I always wondered about him from time to time, thinking that somehow, we will meet at a later point in time.

He had gotten married straight from grad school, and I realized that it was never meant to be....until this week when I discovered from mutual friends that he had been unhappy in his marriage and finally started the process of divorce!

What would be a good way to start communicating with him again?

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Man I've been in love with since University just got a divorce. I always thought he was The One and we would meet later in life.