<human>: It took about 3 months into the relationship that I noticed she never showed signs of intimacy first (kissing, cuddling, initiating sex, etc) and that I always had to do something first or else nothing would happen. She claims she doesn't do it because she's scared of rejection - it took a straight 10 minutes of talking and awkwardly staring at me and laughing to get her to kiss m first (even just a peck on the lips).

She claims its just that she's scared of rejection but it seems like a stupid reason to me and it's really getting me down and insecure recently that she's just not interested. This fear of rejection also comes in with wanting to meet her, I need to organise when I next see her everytime. It's all the signs of her lacking interest.

This combined with other factors of a lack of interest (always on her phone when she's with me) just paints a picture of her not caring about me. I confronted her about her always being on her phone bothering me but she just said that's what she'd normally do as a reflex and that she was sorry. My post about her insecurities to /r/sex [here] may also be relevant.

Is she just immature for a relationship or is there another underlying factor I'm unaware of? I've been annoyed at her constantly for the past few days, am I in the right to be or should I stop being so paranoid?

Thanks

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<bot>: Girlfriend never shows signs of intimacy first (kissing, cuddling, initiating sex, etc) and it bothers me. Claims she fears rejection.