<human>: We were together for 2 years, first year was great, then I had some issues in life and seemed like I was a bit too clingy to her and judgmental.  She was never good at talking about things and would let them bottle up and get way worse. Now after the breakup she has a hard time thinking about me without getting mad because all she can remember are the times I said something that made her mad. There were many more good times than bad and I never ment them in a negative way it's just the way it came out and I was in a semi depressive state of my life so I would judge a lot and I guess try to make myself feel better, not just with her but others.   

Can she ever get past the bad memory's? People make mistakes, and learn and never do that again.  Past few months have been a huge life lesson and thought me a lot about myself, still learning but I am luckily not the guy I used to be, I was not happy with myself then.   Is there anything I can do to help her? I don't want to try to tell her what to do, that I don't think would be a good idea. I would love her back but if that does not work at least just friends. I am still friends with all of my exs and they all thought she was great for me(me and all my exs are pretty good friends now, but nothing more than pure friends)

Not sure what to do, it hurts a ton to lose her as a g/f but if I lose such an amazing person from my life completely it will really suck.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Was in a bad spot in life, messed up and was not who I wanted to be, it showed and I was negatively judgmental twords her a friends, can she get over that?