<human>: I work in a restaurant kitchen, and there was an ongoing conversation between co-workers about one guy's gf not giving him enough oral sex.

A few of the guy's I work with offered graphic and colorful solutions to the problem. I offered the following:

"women don't want to be asked, they want to be told."

I realize how this sounds. I didn't mean it in a misogynistic way, I meant it in more of a 'women love confidence' way...

My gf and I have had the same conversation.

I continued by trying to diagnose the problem. I asked how long he'd been with her. Just a few months. I then offered the following:

"women will sometimes stop doing it after a while. except for nineteen year olds, they just love to do it all day."

Again, I can see what could be taken from this.

So my gf, who had been listening in, sends me a text message calling me a gross, immature, entitled little boy. She said that that's how i think of women, as sexual objects to do with as i please.

She then told me to go marry a nineteen year old who will blow me.

We had discussed marriage, and were a month or 2 away from moving in together.

I suppose my question is this:

Can it really turn around that quickly? Or does it sound more like she's scared about the seriousness of the relationship and she's using this as an out?

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<bot>: My GF heard a conversation between myself and my coworkers in a restaurant kitchen, and broke up with me via text message.