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hi all, thanks for reading this ahead of time. 

here's my situation. i have been dating my boyfriend for quite some time now. things were fine the first year, but the past two years have been miserable for me. it all started when we went off to college, and he became incredibly busy. we see each other maybe once a month, and we usually schedule seeing each other the last minute because he's so busy. this frustrates me a lot because i'm the one who is always asking "when am i seeing you next time?" and he can never give me a straight answer. i am also the one who makes the effort to see each other in the first place. school breaks are off-limits as well, as he is usually committed to his extra-curricular activities.

to top it off, there's always been this emotional disconnect between us that i don't know how to fix. for example, he doesn't use his phone to call me. ever. another example is he never cares to ask how i'm feeling or really just how my day was. in short, he really doesn't know to carry a conversation. i would attribute this him being a boy or something, but i've have male friends before i could connect to emotionally.

i've addressed problems like i just mentioned more times than i can count. he tells me constantly we're having the "same fight," but i don't know what else i can possibly do for him to understand or listen to me. it's extremely frustrating, and we fight about it every single day-it brings me to tears. he's a nice guy and i love him very much but i feel like he drains me of all my emotional energy. i don't know why he bothers having a girlfriend if he can't handle it all. i don't know what to do. it's just a bad cycle.
<bot>: been having an emotionally and physically unfulfilled long distance relationship with the bf, constant fights and no sign of things getting better. what do i do?