<human>: Thursday night I was out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we hate it when people say "oh wow, you're so smart" as opposed to just keeping up intelligent conversation. She leaves to go to the bathroom and less than thirty seconds later to the other side of me a guy sits down. I notice he's cute, make a funny jab at him to be nice and I'm ready to forget about him when he notices my cosmos/physics graph tattoo on my arm. With no context or explanation he gets it 90% right, and from there we're talking for 4 hours about gentrification, linguistics, romance, comics, etc. We make out hard at his place and fool around but don't go all the way. Cuddling with him felt so familiar it was uncanny.

The next day we talk about dating successes/failures. I tell him I'm interested but if everything ended with just that night I'd still be happy. He asks for my number and insists on keeping contact. I tell him I'm free Sunday; he texts me Saturday morning and asks me if I have time for him that night. We make plans to meet, but later he moves for Sunday because he's stuck on the other side of town. Sunday afternoon comes, I follow up and he's still out there, so we'll have to meet another time.

I haven't felt this good about a guy in a while. I'm hesitant to have any definitive leanings on whether he's as into me or not; there's nothing to say that he wasn't legitimately stuck and that to offer to meet another time wasn't just him being nice. I don't mind being the leader in this; I'm not one of those girls who sits around expecting to be discovered/persued by a knight. But I'm not one of those girls that likes chasing men down either. How do I proceed? Do I wait a while for him to contact me or do I wait to contact him?

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<bot>: Met a guy and we hit it off really well, he tried to meet with me and it didn't work out and I tried to meet with him and it didn't work out. How do I push without being pushy?