<human>: So, I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year. I should mention this is a Iong distance relationship (NY to VA, I met her at a camp a year and a half ago). I love her to death, but I'm not in love with her. She's amazing and kind and caring, she's going to school to be a vet, but I'm not feeling it. I almost don't want to be in a serious relationship at all right now, but I know most of all I don't want to lead her on. That's not a right thing to do.

At the same time, I don't want to hurt her. I would do anything to keep her from pain of any kind. That's the main thing keeping me from just breaking it off. At the same time, I would like to remain her friend, or at least be friends again some time in the future. I know I probably can't have it both ways, but I'd like to. 

What do I do?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: I love my girlfriend, but I'm not in love with her. I want more than anything to not hurt her, but I don't really want to be in a relationship right now.