<human>: Me and gf met a year and a bit ago and were close friends for a month before we got into a relationship a month later and things were great, we're LDR but we work it out and talk a lot, but suddenly she's been doing less work and just procrastinating on things until she and I can talk and I feel like it's unhealthy for her.

She's been very clingy and it seems to be having a negative impact on her, one day I went to travel and when I arrived I got a lot of messages on how she said she was feeling lonely and really, really sad we couldn't talk before she went to bed. And I had to travel a few more times and she did the same thing, one time she stayed up till 3 am and I called her when I arrived and she went to bed late and it screwed her sleeping schedule. There's also other things that happen and usually she's been sad in general because apparently I'm a bit more 'distant' which is kind of true since I don't want to have a negative impact on her but getting farther from her is messing her up to..like a downward spiral. What should I do, she's fantastic otherwise and amazing and all that and that's another reason I don't want her to be obsessive, because she's amazing and should strengthen herself and all that good stuff instead of dragging herself down over myself. She admitted she doesn't want to be clingy but at the same time she doesn't want to let go.

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<bot>: me and gf have a great relationship, but she's being too clingy and that's messing up her life in general and I want to stop so it helps her.