<human>: I've been involved with this girl on and off for a while now, we've become real close, it's like we're friends that date and make-out with each other. Because of distance and schedules we don't get to see each other as much as we'd like. When we finally see each other things heat up big time, but then she'll send txts saying "i was pretty drunk" or something to try and take back things she said or did. *Then* she send a follow up saying to ignore her last txt. It seems like there have been a number of inconsistencies with what she wants. 

We went out about a month back, and at the end of the night talked about where we were at, basically she wanted us to chill out and back up. The next day we went on a double date where we were just friends. I treated like that and was just trying to have fun. Throughout the date she pulled me away and we'd make out. By the end of the night she laid me in bed, ripped my clothes off, and more kissing...then I passed out, I had been pretty drunk.

We talk more and it's like the "chill out" conversation never happened. The longer we don't spend time together, the more she goes back to the "let's be good friends".

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: Girl goes back and forth between us being friends, and us being more than that. She has told me she doesn't know what she wants, and I care deeply for her.