<human>: I've (24/m) been hanging out with this girl(21/f) off an on since about halfway through the first semester, after meeting her at a pub night. At the beginning it was the general back and forth getting to know each other then we decided to meet at pub again the next week, and had a good time. Later that week we went for coffee and things seemed really good.

Then we both got busy and things sort of fizzled out, she went home for Christmas break and we talked a few times, but nothing major.

When she came back, we agreed to go out for a drink, and hit it off again right away, since the first beer since she was back we've hung out a bunch of times, and the feelings that I had for her are coming back strong. 

Now here's where it gets tricky. She doesn't like being the center of attention at all, so much so that she doesn't even tell anyone when her birthday is because she, like I said doesn't like the attention. So my main question, is how do I ask this girl on a date, when clearly being on a date would make her the center of attention. Am I over thinking the whole thing? I mean we seem to be getting along, and have a fun flirty relationship. So I'm jut kind of confused as to how to tell her how I feel, not to mention, I've never really been good at telling people my feelings, and am absolutely horrified of rejection, which stems from issues that are a story all of their own, please help me reddit!

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: Fell for a girl who hates being the center of attention, how do I go about asking her on a real date?