<human>: Hi, my wife and myself married 1.5 year ago.
She is pursuing her doctorate on the east coast of the US, while I work on the west coast. She told me she would be getting done with here studies by dec 2010. However the studies never get done and after numerous delays her tentative end date is September 2012.
Before we married we planned to live together, have kids and invest in passive income assets by 2012/2013. everything seems to be delayed by 2 years now.
Seondly I am 30 and my wife is 34, I am afraid that we wont be able to have the two kids we planned to have. 

All the delays and lack of time lines being met on the relationship side are make me frustrated in the relationship. 
I am having trouble trusting her time lines and execution as far as beginning our married life goes.

Any advice on handling this situation is appreciated ?

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<bot>: Wife's academic goals and graduation are not matching the married life time line and goals we set 2 years ago. What to do as I am getting frustrated and depressed ?