<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

So to put it simply, we get along really well as people - we have similar world views, have similar hobbies, and overall gel well together. Generally speaking, I'm overall happy/content with our relationship, but here's where things get tricky - he has a lot of student loan debt, which he wasn't honest about at first. With how high it is, I have doubts that we'll ever be able to have things that I want - a nice wedding, a house, vacations, etc. for many many years. Additionally, in terms of activities, it gets even trickier. He doesn't like going out to see music, outdoor activities, and he hates the beach - all things that I love. I'm really torn, because I know these are superficial things to care about, and perhaps too much of the Disney narrative has brainwashed me. Are these things to worry about, or am I being a shallow jerk?
<bot>: BF has lots of student loan debt that will prevent us from making an average life together, and doesn't like doing the things that I do. Is it wrong to care?