<human>: So I dated this guy for about three weeks, then he asked me to come along on a trip to California with him. Up until this trip, we'd gotten along great, and he seemed like a sweet, genuine guy (my friends now claim they thought he felt "fake", but didn't tell me that at the time). 

The only little blip in this three week period was that when we were hooking up one time (I was giving him a blow job), he shoved my head down and held it there while he came, which made me choke and freak out. I told him never to do that again, that it freaked me out, I hated it, etc etc. and he said he would never do it again. 

So fast forward about a week, and I go on this trip with him. The first day we're in Cali, we start hooking up. He ends up doing the exact same thing to me again (forcefully holding my head down and coming, making me choke). Once again, I freaked out, was practically crying, said what he'd done was rape-y, was just super angry. 

We had a pretty awful trip after that (including the time he got mad at me and on top of other things, made me apologize for calling what he'd done "rape-y"), and on the plane ride home I told him I didn't want to see him again.

My question is, would you consider what he did sexual assault? I have absolutely zero intentions of trying to press charges or anything, I'm just curious what other people think. This happened almost two weeks ago and it hasn't left my mind.

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<bot>: Guy I was dating shoved himself down my throat after I'd made him promise not to. Don't know if it was sexual assault or he's just an asshole.