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I [25, f] am a fool for choosing not to force him [28, m] to either get tested or wear a condom before sex. C'est la vie.
What do I do now that he knows that his previous partner has been diagnosed with herpes? Should I continue to trust a man that told me that I was safe when I asked him if it was ok not to wear a condom?
Obvs I am getting tested and will know for sure. Until then I am keeping it copacetic while I try to figure out how I feel toward him. He has a lot of shame around this. I tried to assuage that by letting him know that I wasn't angry as it certainly isn't his fault. I enjoy his company, but I also feel like I can probably do better. I just can't help but ask myself- if I do have herpes, what chance do I have of finding a new loving, trusting relationship that will accept this aspect of my sexual life?????
Thanks for the feedback! If anyone has a similar situation and is currently dealing with STDs and how it affects their romantic relationship(s) I would love to hear about it.
<bot>: After dating for a month, the guy I'm dating says he has the herp. Going to get tested. If I have it, should I kick him to the curb?