<human>: We have known each other for 8 years ( dated 5 years and married for almost 3 ). I knew prior the marriage that my husband isn't the most expressive guy but I somehow thought I wouldn't be bothered by it.

He is in grad school and I am working long hours + commuting 4hrs in a day so that we can live together. Lately I have become increasingly annoyed with him because I do not feel appreciated at all. I have brought this up to him multiple times but every time he will just listen and say "sorry you feel that way". And when I do explain in detail why/ how I feel, he makes me feel like I am slightly too emotional, so its normal that I feel this way.

For the longest time I felt like the problem was me but lately I have realized the problem isn't only me. I love the guy (don't get me wrong) but hate the fact that I don't feel appreciated and am pulling a lot of weight on this marriage. I am tired of cooking and cleaning the house constantly - he will help but only after I  ask him multiple times before he does so. I am sick and tired of telling him that I don't get turned on by him just trying to get physical - for me that comes naturally after some foreplay ( and honestly the sexiest foreplay for me is to help me out around the house by doing chores). 

We got married because we wanted to be happy together and somehow after 3 years of marriage, I am the least happy I have been my life, despite all my professional growth. What do I do?

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: My 2 years of marriage turning in a happiness sucker and my husband doesn't take things seriously when i do talk to him about how I feel.