<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

So, I have a friend's with benefits.  We haven't gone all the way because he is a virgin and I am not,  and I respect that and don't want to push him to lose it if he doesn't. We cuddle, kiss, make out, and have fooled around. In fact, he was the one to initiate all of it.

 I am the first girl he's been able to do these things to, and although there was a time when we thought we'd be an item, it never happened upon mutual agreement.  

He loves to cuddle and innocently sleep with me. Nothing wrong with that, however lately he's been rejecting a lot of the fooling around. Even things such as kissing my neck or touching my breast. We do belong to a religion that looks down on premarital sex etc., so I'm sure that's a factor, but it hurts because he isn't consistent.  Some days he'll be okay with it,  and other days he's holding back, leaving me hanging, and honestly hurt and insecure. I feel as if I'm not good enough or I'm unattractive (which I know I'm not).

He jokingly calls me a temptress, and a few days ago I asked if he honestly wanted to stop all of the fooling around because he didn't want to do anything more than cuddle. All he said was, "maybe..." and I told him that's not a straight answer.  His response was he didn't know. 

I'm just so confused by his actions, and honestly I'm also hurt. It makes me feel so insecure and I really don't know what to do anymore.
<bot>: my fwb and I used to fool around. Lately he's been rejecting that and only wanting to cuddle, leaving me confused and insecure.