<human>: Engaged about 5 weeks now, and my FW and I are now getting into the real wedding planning. After talking with our dream venue yesterday, we're awaiting getting a proposal from them of costs and what would be included and what extras could be included, and every fee possible will be listed. This is great!  
  
But when discussing what our budget was with the venue, I kept finding myself not knowing how to differentiate between my overall wedding budget and my wedding budget for the venue (since the venue would be providing the food, beverage, some decorations, etc.).   
  
I realized if I could find a spreadsheet that lists EVERYTHING that might come up when budgeting for a wedding, and then compare that with what the venue cites as included in their fees, then I would be able to identify what else I need to budget for on top of the venue costs.  
  
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<bot>: what is a good source of a spreadsheet or list of all the costs associated with a wedding that someone starting from scratch could use as a reference, to create an initial budget estimate? Thanks!