<human>: My SO(30/m) and I(24\f) have been together for about a year and a half now and I don't have any complaints about our connection or sex in any way. I am, however, having issues with our life goals not lining up and him being what I see as controlling. I want to get a good job and a house and provide for my child, while he wants to continue his unemployment(he doesn't get paid for his "job") status in his chair. He does make money in various ways and pay the bills, I just feel that I do more for our household than he does (by working, cooking and cleaning exclusively) and he takes advantage of that. 

I have also unintentionally alienated two of my friends now as a result of him. He has has to be with me constantly and gets very angry when I want to do things without him. His non-paying job is at the same place as my paying job and he even comes to work with me on his days off. 

I love him and would love to have a life with him but I don't know if it's really worth the effort of trying to change him. Whenever I try to talk to him about it, he turns it into a yelling match about how he pays bills and I should be grateful for that. I don't expect him to change but I want him to. Is that wrong? What should I do?

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<bot>: My SO doesn't she are life goals and doesn't want me out of his site. Talks don't work and I love him but am at a loss for what to do.