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So I was out of the dating game for like a year since my last relationship, needless to say, spending time alone you grow and what not.

Met this girl and we hung out for like a month before we decided to get closer. Its been 3 more months now, but I feel like either something is wrong with me or i'm just not into her.

The thing is that she is a very nice person, has her life together no real issues here, but I feel like something is missing, a deeper connection. I'm not one to just walk away without trying, but it has been like this for me for a while, and I just wanted to other perspectives.

However, she seems to be way way further ahead or much more into it then I am, which is in a way scary, because I feel so uncertain. I'm still on the fence if its that I'm not into her, or that, I've grown and I don't feel so dependent on someone for my happiness anymore.

Reading things like, if you don't think of her all the time then she's not the one, or, you should stick it out and see what happens. My questions I guess is, How long is long enough to know if you should stay or go?
<bot>: Dating girl 3 months now, i'm not all into it, but maybe it hasn't been long enough. Usually, how much time do you let pass deciding to stay or break up?