<human>: Hey r/relationships,
I've recently started dating this girl. Let's call her Ellie. Things have been going great, and we haven't hit a single bump. We are now a couple of months in, but something has been bothering me recently. She always aims to please me. An example of this would be something like whenever I asked what she wanted to do on date night, she'd always say whatever I wanted. Now I don't want to come off as over dramatic, but recently I've realized that she straight up won't tell me her person feelings on stuff at all. A couple weeks ago, she got a little too drunk, and threw up on me and herself. I took care of her, got her cleaned up, carried her home and in bed, and eventually found my way home on my own. Let me make it clear that I'm totally okay with what happened, and It doesn't bother me at all. I literally haven't even thought about it much since then, but ever since it seams that she tries too hard to please me. We had sex recently, and I can't really tell how she feels about it at all, she didn't want me to give her oral or anything. I'll admit I get horny, but I don't want her to think she has to do anything for me that she doesn't want to do. Now I'm really uncomfortable flirting with her, because I really can't tell how she feels about anything. Every time I ask her about stuff like this, she won't really tell me how she feels, and every time I suggest something to do, she gives me the same compliant answer regardless of what it is. What should I do? All I want is for her to be happy.

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<bot>: Gf won't tell me how she feels, it makes me uncomfortable because I don't want her to only care about my needs.