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I met a girl in AA last summer.  I was in my first year of sobriety and she was in her 4th year.  Her pretty face and vicarious personality attracted me to her.  It took a month to start dating.  I ignored all the things I wasn't attracted to: her selfishness, discontentment, and irritability.  We didn't last but maybe 2 months.  For her, she was at the bitter end of a relationship where she liked someone who hadn't felt the same way back.  I relapsed.  We went back to being friends. The chance came up to be her roommate, and I offered myself to move in with her.  My motives were just to be around her more.  She waited. And waited. Eventually she declined.  I felt twice rejected.  

Despite my feelings of rejection, we held on to being friends.  But everything feels different now.  I'm back in the program for 3 months.  She is dating someone now.  And I'm avoid hanging out with mutual friends if she is around.  She is motivated to be friends and I'm not.  She asks why I don't hang out with mutual friends when she is around.  My motivation for not hanging out, is because it brings up my resentments when I'm around her.

Maybe it's resentment that I feel for being twice rejected.  Maybe it's jealousy I feel over the new guy she is dating now. Or anger over her irritability and she isn't the person I want her to be.  

My therapist tells me to work though the hard times, that it'll make stronger relationships.  If I work through this resentment, will I have a good friendship on the other end?  How do I deal with this resentment? I don't know if it's worth it to continue with her or not.
<bot>: A girl I use to date, and wasn't too into me wants to be friends now; and I don't know if it's worth it.