<human>: Today I found out my brother got arrested for beating his wife (he was drinking, he does that a lot), and he apparently tried to escape after being arrested (this was last night). His wife, who was probably one of the nicest people I've ever met, was bleeding from the head when they called the ambulance and the police. My brother tried to escape after being detained in a police car - they found him this morning a few blocks down, passed out. He's going to lose his job, car, money, and probably life from this incident. No girl is going to want to date him, no employer is going to want to hire him, and he's basically screwed. I always used to look up to him. I remember wanting to be just like him when I was younger. But now he's an alcoholic, and apparently a violent person who beats his wife... I never thought I'd ever hear those words in my entire god damn life. Have you ever lost respect for someone in one moment?

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<bot>: My brother got drunk, hit his wife, his life is ruined, I used to want to be him when I was a kid, now I've lost respect for him, has the same thing happened to you?