<human>: Hey, reddit, so is it normal not to tell your spouse that you are not going to be at home when you expect them to be there? My husband is of the opinion that it is irrelevant, so he never tells me when he leaves. So when I get home and am expecting him to be there, I either pass him on the road or come home to an empty house. And when I call him and ask him where he is/where he's going, he gets angry at me. I have asked him why he gets so upset and he tells me he doesn't like being interrogated. The reasons are usually so mundane, though- like helping unload a freezer, or he had to go in to work. 

Am I being irrational and unreasonable to want to know?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: husband leaves frequently without telling me he is going to be gone and gets angry when I want to know where he is/going.