<human>: I relocated to a new city with my boyfriend and we live together. Recently, he has told me I complain too much and he doesn't care about the relationship or if we stay together. He also has told me he doesn't want to spend time with me and that he doesn't like my personality. Quite frankly, he is making me feel very bad about myself. I feel like I really needed emotional support moving somewhere new with him. Instead of developing a life together, he is just cutting me out of his slowly. 

The reason I complain, I feel is valid. I know I  "nag",  but he pays rent late, he doesn't really plan many dates, he lives pay check to pay check, he doesn't engage with me at all when we are together, when he is upset and doesn't want to discuss something and he will just ignore me like I am not there. Recently, he is making plans so he does not have to spend any time with me.  He often says things to me that are really mean, like, he doesn't care, he doesn't know why he is with me, and that he doesn't care if I move. 

Recently, I left town to visit my family and he informed me that he didn't miss me at all. One week he tells me he will be with me for a long time, and the next week he tells me that he doesn't care about a future. It's confusing and instable and it is hurting my overall well being and I know I need to leave him. 

Clearly, the relationship is over and I need to move on.  I am just having a difficult time doing so and letting go. I don't have that many friends here, and he has his entire family and all his friends. I have been committed to someone in one way or another for 6 years, the majority of my 20s and, being single and alone scares me, as much as that is difficult to admit. I hate it, but I know that part of me is scared. 

Being with him is hurting me, and I can't do it anymore.

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<bot>: How do I deal and cope with breaking up and moving on? How do I break up with someone I live with?