<human>: So I (18/m) had been hanging out with a girl for a while before the winter break. We got lunch a couple times, yadda yadda. Every time we've done something, it was really simple, like friends, without the chance to make it more intimate. Cue winter break, I leave town, we don't really talk that much anymore. I texted her a couple times, around Christmas and New years with the whole holiday shebang, but besides responding with a fairly standard holiday reply, there's been next to no conversation. Just how fucked am I, and if I still have a chance, how do I take it to the next level?

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<bot>: lots of not talking over winter break, did I lose my chance, and if I didn't, how do I go from casual friends to romantically interested?