<human>: Me and my girlfriend fight nearly every single time we hang out, this all stems from little tiny things that do not matter whatsoever and lead to huge fights. We have been together for 11 months and this has been going on for the last 2. We get over it the next day but lately its getting so serious that I fear for the life of our relationship. It is a completely solvable problem and its worth trying for. Today it all started when she hit me and it was playful and not that hard but I overreacted (she was already in the process of leaving) I sort of said I was tired of her hitting me and to stop doing that. She knew immediately that she accidentally hit me too hard and was sorry but I blew it out of proportion. She fell silent while putting on her shoes to leave, and I asked what is wrong and she says its extremely awkward and she wants to leave. This is my biggest problem is not letting her leave, If anyone has advice how to help let her leave I would appreciate that.  I stopped her from leaving, and we fought, about an hour and a half later I finally let her leave.  She always brings up how we fight every time and how it never gets any better and I make up excuses why this fight shouldn't count and to not lose hope. I really hope this is understandable to at least someone out there that can offer advice.

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<bot>: We fight every time we hang out and I am looking for advice on how to let her leave(to diffuse the fight), and how to avoid these fights that seem inevitable