<human>: I've been seeing him for two and a half months total and I like him quite a lot. We're compatible and have a lot fun together but I'm worried about bringing up the what-are-we talk.

A month in I (foolishly, I know now) brought up the idea of thinking about what we wanted, specifically stating I wasn't demanding an answer. He got tongue tied and said it takes him a long time to get to having deep feelings for anyone, then changed the radio and we dropped it.  I often hit it and quit it because I cant usually make my feeling cooperate either, but I really do like him.

I've been trying to be patient and take things as they come because we both have some mental health issues (my PTSD and his depression which make feelings difficult)

Should I wait until he brings it up? It's been six weeks since I did and I may be able to muster another two or three but it's difficult no knowing how he feels. 

What if i brought up the fact that i really enjoy his company and would like to see him more often? (I see him once week and its just not cutting it anymore)

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<bot>: I've been seeing this guy for 10ish weeks and want to know where he stands but after a foolish attempt a month in that flopped: I'm scared to try again. Should I keep waiting?