<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

I work full-time and go to school 4 classes a semester. She works full-time and has because obsessed with the gym. We see each other for maybe 2 hours a day and this includes weekends. My classes have been killing me and I feel like I haven't seen her for 2 months. During the week I'm at school or studying and during the weekend I'm studying. We're trying to plan a wedding in-between. I finally have time off from school and accomplishing as much wedding stuff as I can.

She goes to the gym for an hour a day and is really involved with it. She stays late and does extra workouts, talks to the gym folk, and watches youtube/facebook vids of these popular crossfitters at home every day. She is extremely anxious about wedding stuff and how much stuff we have to do. I explain that maybe she should take a couple days off at the gym and she won't.

I don't do well when people complain because I am more of a "you have a problem, fix it" type and she can see the way to fix it but isn't willing to do so. Generally we communicate really well and she's aware of all the issues in our relationship. 

Every day she comes home and complains for 2 hours about the wedding, doesn't get anything done and then goes to bed. She gave me a huge list of stuff to tackle and slowly but surely I'm getting it all done. I'm starting to go insane with the constant complaining about wedding stuff but her not willing to take the time to tackle the situation. Last night she broke down crying about it and I don't even feel bad about it. I hate to admit because it makes me look like the creep I am but I was holding back laughter from the ridiculousness of it all. She knows how to fix the problem. 

Sorry for the long rant.
<bot>: How do I get through to someone with a passion that's clouding their judgement? how can I get someone to manage their time a little better?