<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

I'm 26, slim and fit, have a steady job with good pay, my own place, my own big car.

I taught me my job myself, I taught myself to play the guitar and photography. I learned surfing and I am going at it for 4 years now (but I don't live anywhere near the ocean). I have casual sex with some girls now and then, joined a dance club... I have all this stuff and no self-fulfilment.

What I don't have is friends. I have lots of people in my facebook and around me, noone classifies as a "friend" for me though. In my definition, a friend is someone who cares about you, enjoys spending time with you and is looking forward to meeting you again, calls you just to talk and so on... I have noone like this. Not even my family calls (they live an hour by car away).

Usualy when I meet new people it's like cool to meet you, we hang around, have a few beers and dance. For some I play the guitar, get a girl in bed and never hear form them again, even if I call and be interested in them. For me it feels like I don't have any charisma at all. When I watch one of my buddies just talk I just wonder, he has this way of being that is attractive to other people, male or female. He doesn't do fuck all for them, he's just himself.
<bot>: I have everything and I'm not lazy. I am emotionally starved, I crave for closeness to other people and I'm unable to establish friendships or relationships. How can I change this?