<human>: As with many TIFU's this did not actually happen today it was a few weeks ago. it all started when my boyfriend decided to trust me with the password to his phone, I decided to play with it a bit while he was asleep and wanted to see some of the pictures he had taken of us together. I opened his gallery to find pictures and videos of him with other women, now I knew he had had a decent amount of ex girlfriends and hadn't deleted anything on his phone recently but being a stereotypical woman I overreacted and decided to go through his messages to see who those women were and what they meant to him only to find that during the first 3 months of our relationship he had been avidly flirting with multiple women and even going so far as to ask one of them for pictures of her breasts. I felt bad about going through his personal messages but confronted him about it, it nearly lead to us breaking up...it still might become the reason of our eventual breakup. I had decided in the end to forgive him for it under the condition that he delete all the photos, videos, text messages and even some of the contacts. ONE WEEK LATER: going through his phone again because at this point I think I have every right to be skeptical I find that he still hasn't deleted the content I asked him to so I wake him up and force him to delete it all while I'm watching him to ensure he does. Today I found a photo of his ex girlfriend in his wallet. I'm trying to make the relationship work despite my lack of trust because I love him but it seems like it may not work if I keep finding things our relationship is going through quite a bit of tension but I still love him to pieces.

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<bot>: found photos of my boyfriend with other women on his phone, got skeptical and went through his messages only to find that during the first 3 months of our relationship he had been flirting with multiple women