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We tend to argue often over the smallest things. For a while we would make up afterwards, but now I feel like I just don't want to deal with it anymore. Don't get me wrong, I love her more than anything, but with so much going on in my life right now I feel like I don't need the drama. I don't want to be selfish about it. I feel completely terrible about wanting to break up with her. It would surely devastate me, but I know for a fact that it would hit her harder. We've become best friends over the past 16 months and losing each other would be extremely difficult. Are there any other options for us?? In my opinion, we could stay together and have us both unhappy because she would be unsure of how I feel about her and I would be unsure of how happy I am in the relationship. On the other hand we could breakup and both of us would still be unhappy in several ways. It seems like a lose lose situation to me. Please help..
<bot>: I'm completely torn in what to do in this situation. I don't want to crush my girlfriend's feelings, but I feel like that is unavoidable.