<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

I recently picked up a second job, which I really love. However, the commute is long, as are the hours and by the time I am done working there I am completely spent. On the days I'm at my other job, I have some free time in the evenings, but really it seems like all I really have time for is (barely) taking care of myself and my dog and maintaining my closest friendships. My new job is only a part time gig until I get more established there, and I've been working my other job for 3 years and I am so painfully bored of it, so quitting one isn't really an option at the moment.  It really doesn't help that I'm rather introverted and cannot function without some alone time every day, especially after working the sort of jobs where I have to be social with people all day. 

I've been single for the better part of two years now, and I am really tired of it. I have been really frustrated with the notion of dating for a long time, and now I feel like I have an even bigger road block in my way. I don't even have time to keep my living space clean enough to be presentable enough to bring a date home, let alone room in my schedule for a date to begin with. 

I am so god damn lonely. I've always been a highly sexual and affectionate person and I feel like not being able to express those things on a regular basis is literally making me a little crazy. I keep finding myself stressing about little things that normally don't get to me and just being a nervous wreck over my new job and taking care of myself and everything I have to do. I feel like I have so much pent up sexual energy at this point that  guys can smell the desperation on me from a mile away and it comes off and clingy-ness. I've tried a few different no-commitment fuck-buddy type situations and it just doesn't work for me. I can't get into it and really enjoy the sex if I know that's all it is. 

How can I deal with this? Busy people of /r/relationships, how do you keep your dating life alive and still take care of yourself?
<bot>: I don't know how to fit dating in with my busy work schedule and I feel like my desperation is palpable and really unattractive. What can I do to fix this?