<human>: My girlfriend has this best friend (Male) that lives out of state who will be visiting in a few weeks. He was originally going to stay at her place, but is now staying at his family's. 

She has been married the last 9 years, almost finished with the divorce. She showed me a text from BFF last week that said something along the lines of "hope you'll make time for me while I'm in!! I can't wait to hang out ;-)"

Since then, I told her I don't feel comfortable with him staying at her place, and she has since said she told him it would be better if he stayed at his family's. However, with his date of arrival growing near, she is talking to me about going out with him and catching up as it's been a while. 

So, earlier today, I expressed concern again that I don't feel this is a good idea, he is under the impression the divorce is finalized and she is a free woman. Then I blew up, said she better tell him she has a boyfriend. She did, and still plans on hanging out with him, and says she doesn't see an issue with this and he respects her boundaries.

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<bot>: Relatively new GF doesn't see a problem risking the relationship by going out with an old friend who has/had clear intentions of hooking up.