<human>: Our 6 year anniversary is coming up in February, and he still hasn't told his family, or any friends from our hometown that he's gay.

I've told him over the years how much it hurts me, and he says I'm insensitive for not waiting until when he's ready. The thing is, I was totally fine waiting for him to be ready (as it took me some time with mine), but his family (mom/dad/sisters) visit a couple times throughout the years we've lived together in a city away from our hometown and stay with us in our two bedroom apartment (approx 4 years). Each time they visit, they stay with us, and I have to pretend I'm not his boyfriend, sleep in another room, etc etc.

The thing is his family HAS to know, as they take me out to dinner with them, as well as grocery shopping/outings. I'm just not sure what to do. His Grandma and Grandpa have recently passed over the last 6 weeks (and they lived near the city), so his family has been visiting a lot over that time period. I'm just so frustrated that I'm being reminded that he's technically in the closet when it comes to his family. Every time I voice this, he brushes it off, or avoids the conversation...What do I do? I also don't want to be an asshole because his Gparents have died and the whole "who's really being selfish" thing comes to mind...

Another note, he always talks about how he wants to marry me someday and such, and I truly believe him, until his parents come around and I think "how could we ever get married if he wont even tell his parents after 6 years?"

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Boyfriend of 6 years and I are in relationship, he keeps it from hometown friends and family. Family visits a lot, I pretend I'm not BF.