<human>: So I met a girl on tinder this summer, and we fell in love, right before I was to move out of town. We only dated a few months before I left, but she's from the new city and has a career path that would lead her there, which she was actively searching was/is searching for; but we both decided to break it off because we're rational enough to know that while things were good, we didn't date long enough for either one of us to make life changes for each other.

We still talk all the time, and it's understood that we're both moving on under the assumption that if she can make the new city work, we'll rekindle, but right now we're seeing other people.

She talks to me about her new dates/hookups all the time, and asks me about mine, which I don't answer (don't worry there have been many)...

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<bot>: Why would an ex that still wants to date you talk about her new relationships with other guys and ask me about mine?