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Some things happened recently that made me question things. Not about our relationship but just who she is as a person.

She's away on vacation and the drinking age is 18 where she's at so naturally she's going to go to bars while on vacation. We discussed this before she left and I wasn't too happy about it but I thought he brother and sister being there would help the situation if she got too drunk.

Well the first night of going to a bar she ended up on the bar, dancing at the pole which led to her having guys take body shots off her. Upon her telling me this (truth that I appreciate) I instinctively got upset. As I tried to explain to her how it made me upset that she would put herself in that situation; she said that what she did was fine as long as she didn't hook up with the guys. As I think about it, nothing bad did happen; I just believe that there are situations that people in relationships shouldn't put themselves in.

Am I right in thinking that there is some red flag with these actions and the thought process that those actions are okay. Or is her honesty and the fact that nothing progressed from any of it shows that I don't have anything to worry about?
<bot>: girlfriend gets drunk dances on stripper pole which led to guys taking body shots off her. As long as she doesn't do anything like make out with a guy she did nothing wrong. Is this a red flag?