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My boyfriend's idea of respecting boundaries and trusting me can sometimes result in being passive aggressive. 

For example,  a recent argument we had was after I (f/early twenties) had a night drinking with three of my guy friends as it was a friend's bday(this group of friends originally consists of ten people but the four of us were the only ones who could make it that night). The next day, when my boyfriend found out all three friends were guys he was hurt. 

His argument is that he trusts me and that he doesn't want to have to ask nosy questions. I should tell him even though he doesn't ask. 

My argument is that he doesn't ask ANY kind of question. 
I would be more understanding if he'd asked who I'm drinking with and I answered ambiguously. But he didn't. I told him I'm drinking with friends and he said okay, end of conversation. 

I get drinking with the opposite sex is a touchy subject and I admit I'm in the wrong in this argument. But It's really the attitude of 'you should have told me' that's bothering me. We had this exact same argument concerning past relationships. He found out I dated three guys when he thought it was only one and he was hurt, giving me the why didn't you tell me? It hadn't occured to me that I was supposed to list all my past boyfriends just because we were talking about one. Again, if he'd just asked me to tell him I would have. But he doesn't ask anything, assuming I would tell him everything anyways. And later, when he hears something new, it's MY fault for not telling him something he didn't ask about. I should have known to tell him. 

I personally think that if its so damn important to you that it'll bother you, then YOU should be asking the damn questions. 

So
<bot>: What do you think is the appropriate amount of information to give  somebody who doesn't specifically ask for details but wants them anyways?