<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

I got a job as a bartender at a local bar. Absolutely loved it and want to continue bartending, only...elsewhere. Things were going great until she started literally abusing me mentally/verbally, made me cry, etc...

I'm afraid that if I put her down on job applications, they'll call her and she will tell them how terrible of a worker I am ((she likes to say things like that about me, saying I got drunk at work because I had one shot from a customer, or calling me a bitch because I simply quit))...or if I refuse to put her down as a reference they will think I'm making this up or just talking smack because I was unsatisfied with my job, or that I did something terrible and am trying to cover it up.

It seems like a no-win situation. What should I do?
<bot>: is it unprofessional to tell my future potential employer that my boss was a narcissistic asshole to me? Or do I skip out on telling them I have experience and potentially not get hired because of them not wanting to train?