<human>: My wife and I are probably divorcing, after many fights that lasted for days without real resolution. I finally called her out on abusive behaviors that I had put up with since prior to our wedding, and asked for counselling which she denied, because she thinks the problem is me.

Earlier in this particular argument, she threw all of my stuff from our bedroom into our spare bedroom, just scattered around, including furniture. She won't let me sleep on the couch in the spare bedroom (because it belonged to her before we were together), or the bed in our bedroom (same reason), or the couch in our livingroom (because it's a 'shared space'). So my only remaining option is to sleep on the floor in the spare room. Yay for sleeping bags, it's a fun camping adventure.

Why am I putting up with this? I actually have in past arguments, but I refuse to this time. However, she's threatened to destroy my things if I try to sleep on forbidden furniture (I work 9-5 and right now she doesn't every day, so there's a big window where my shit is quite vulnerable). When I tried to sleep on the living room couch, she sat in the dining room watching a show with the volume cranked to max (this is all after 3am, with work the next day for me).

So, I really need a temporary living situation, at least for now. I don't have a lot of close friends nearby, and there's really only one person I would consider asking for the favor. Problem is, his live-in girlfriend is also a long time friend of my wife (not an especially close friend, but they hang out regularly and run in the same broader social circles). As upset and lost as I am right now I don't know if it's fair either to them or to my wife to involve them. Right now they have no idea what's going on with us. I definitely don't want to be manipulative or perceived as alienating her from her friends but I really need somewhere to go.

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<bot>: Living at home has become impossible. Can I turn to mutual friends for support, or is that being selfish, manipulative, or rude?