<human>: My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. I feel like every time he kisses me it's forced, there's never any foreplay before sex (just me sucking his dick and him licking his fingers and fingering me for about a minute, I'm never naturally wet anymore) and recently he's been eating me out because I asked him to, he never used to do it on his own.

I feel like literally everything is forced. Every kiss, every time he touches me. I feel like he never actually wants to. I have no self confidence and he knows this. He can't even stay hard anymore during sex, but he can when he jacks off or watches porn. He just can't stay hard around me usually unless I'm sucking his dick, which I used to do literally everyday for 7 months, but now I have a busy work schedule and I don't see him as much.

I don't know what to do. Our sex life is destroyed. Any tips or advice on how to get it back would be great.

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<bot>: my boyfriend and I used to have sexual chemistry, now we have none, and we can't figure out how to get it back.