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Okay Reddit, 

The husband and I are in about $30,000 worth of debt ranging from student loans to a car we just purchased (no credit cards, anymore thankfully)

Yes, I know we shouldn't have bought a car till all the debt was paid beforehand - but it's done and it was a necessary decision. 

He is kind of freaking out about the number 30000. 
I, however, have a well thought out budget that has us paying it off in less than two years from now, not counting any lump sums from taxes, etc. that might come our way we could put towards it. 

My question is: Did anyone else feel like as long as they're "in control" of the debt, that it's not so bad? He was freaking about the 30000 - and I just feel "Meh, it's not so bad." We both are well paid, and have been able to follow a budget fairly well since we started focusing on paying off debts. We have both been at our jobs (me and office manager in a vet hospital and waitressing on the side, he's in the military) for over 3 years each, so I feel fairly secure. Am I being naive? I remember what it felt like to see debt spiraling around out of control - and that was only with a few thousand. This is a much larger number, and yet I feel totally in control. Also, how can I help him see it my way and not lose sleep over it just being a large number?
<bot>: Debt = 30000. I don't think its a big deal because of good planning, jobs, etc. Husband is less than calm about it. What do?