<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

I have been in a relationship with this guy for 2 years and we have been friends for a year before that. He is 30 years old and I am 22 years old if that matters. I found his OkCupid account on his computer and he has been hitting on other girls. He claims he hasn't had sex or cheated on me but he lied about what he was doing on the account. He claims he has urges to have sex with other people but loves me. He claims that this is a need and that it is a deal breaker for us if I don't agree to those terms. I feel uncomfortable with him sleeping with other girls as he is not very good at communicating and he is very selfish at times. I need help making up my mind as I see him tomorrow here are my three options on how things will go. Here is some background information: 
I go to school right now studying computer science and he is a screen printer. He hates his job wants to start a business but is really bad at saving up money. He doesn't know what he wants and feels his youth is fleeting. 

1. we break up but I think I would have to cut him out of my life completely but please note I am very attached to him. 

2. we take a break for a month and get back together and get it out of his system. We remain monogamous. 

3. I agree to his terms but I probably won't be very happy about this arrangement and if we do this in the long term I want to be monogamous later. 

If anyone can think of a middle ground that would be great. I don't want to lose him but I don't want to compromise myself for him.
<bot>: I'm not sure what to do as I am monogamous but I really do love him. I need help figuring out all my options and if there is a middle ground