<human>: We have been together about 10 months now, and I don't think there has been a day that I haven't thought about it and it hasn't bugged the shit out of me. I am very self-conscious by nature and have a very low self-esteem for a lot of reasons. From a past relationship I knew this was kind of a problem with me, so from the very beginning I told her specifically I didn't want to know anything, names, numbers... anything.
 
For whatever reason she would slip and I would inadvertently learn little snippets. I know her first serious and longest relationship, how many partners, when her last fling was, and a myriad of other facts that make me feel inferior and self conscious. Biggest problem, I know this is stupid, I shouldn't be dwelling on this, worried that some other guy in her past was bigger, better or that she was more in love with them. She is with me now.

 My mind will just run off some times, and I will flip out on little details she has told me. For instance, her last fling before me was some guy who she "wasn't very serious with" they dated <2 months, she said she broke it off about two weeks before we actually met, and hadn't slept with him until a week or so before that. We recently talked about it and she mentioned some number that didn't quite add up to what she said and I flipped out, I thought she was playing with the numbers just to make me feel better.

 I just really don't know what to do... I guess I am cynical by nature and think everyone isn't trustworthy. I want it to stop. I want to be with my gf, not worry about other guys, and just love her. I am so damned self-conscious I cant help compare myself. Has anyone been in a similar situation, how did you cope/eventually get over it?

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<bot>: Gf+I together for ten months. I am self conscious and obsess about past sexual partners+ boyfriends. Anybody had an issue like this and successfully gotten over it? Please help!