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PLS HELP AND GIVE YOUR OPPINIONS

My boyfriend [21] of 1 year goes clubbing every weekend and sometimes more than twice a week. When i [18] ask if i can come too he doesnt say no but always tries to convince me to stay home and says things like: youll get bored, we are staying until 7 in the morning, youre gonna clinge on me etc. thats why i never go with him anymore. i told him several times he goes out too much and i never go out cause i dont see the point in it when i have a boyfriend or dont have fun without him. he makes time for me too and i trust him 100% and hes really nice to me and romantic but goes clubbing so much????A few weeks ago he went out clubbing and afterwards slept over at a female "friend" house, when I was abroad. Yesterday he said he slept at a male friend house because he forgot his keys, but I'm not convinced.

He had a girlfriend before me and they were together 4 years (with pauses inbetween) and he cheated on her with several girls while away on a camp. 

Our relationship is good and he is nice but we also have our downs like every other relationship, we don't say mean things to eachother when we fight. We once had a 2 month break after a fight but then we got back together again. 

We see each other maybe twice a week, he says he needs "space" and he never saw his other girlfriend (ex earlier described) more often than that. This week I slept over on sunday to monday, and then on thursday to friday. We were supposed to go home to me on friday but the plans got changed and he had to stay home. Today he was supposed to sleep over at my place (the clock is half 7 rn) but he wants to play soccer first but doesn't know which time. When is he going to come home to me then? 

It bothers me that he goes out so much though? Am i overreacting or is it a red flag in a relationship
<bot>: My boyfriend goes out clubbing a lot and it bothers me. Is it a red flag or am i overreacting? Shouldn't he settle down when he has a girlfriend?