<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

It's one of those co-worker relationships again. So there's this girl I work with that we get along reaaal well together. Almost too well. So naturally I would say the relationship has escalated a bit, at least for me.

Problem is, she has a boyfriend serving in the army right now. Good guy, good for her. They both write each other everyday. 

I also don't think it's a good idea to start a serious relationship with her right now, she's going through a lot and frankly we just don't have the same values to make it work long term I think.

So there are a lot of reasons why I should just be "just friends" with her, but every time we talk...I dunno, I swear we both are flirting with each other almost unconciously.

But I don't want to hurt her or her boyfriend, it's just better that I stay out of things, but my instincts won't leave me alone. Is there a way to just "let go" and "move on?"
<bot>: I'm liking this girl with another boyfriend whether I like it or not. Best to stay out of things, how do I get her out of my head?