<human>: I feel a bit embarrassed because I posted about this before and I'm still having the same problems.

I've been dating a girl for a few months (since ~late July/early August). The problem stems around the fact that I just don't think I see this being a long-term thing, but she seems to be very serious about the relationship, to the point where it feels needy/annoying to me. She wants to spend as much time together as possible, sometimes 4-5 nights a week. This feels like *way* too much for me. I enjoy seeing her when I'm in a good mood, but I need time for myself and to recover from work, relax, and connect with friends. As an example, I went to a party with a friend I hadn't seen in months and she kept texting me throughout trying to guilt me into leaving the party early to come see her.

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<bot>: Our expectations for the relationship are very different: I prefer to keep things light and fun, and she seems to want to move toward a serious marriage-like arrangement where we see each other every day. What do I do about this?