<human>: Hey Reddit. I'll do my best to keep this short.

I sort of hooked up with this girl recently, and we both obviously had feelings for each other. When she left, she started acting screwy, but through a mutual friend I found out she liked me, but didn't want a relationship. Fine.

So we kept it cool, chatted, whatever. I find out officially she is moving many states away for school, and will be staying there for good. We set up plans to hang out, but she's backing out of staying the night (keeping it to just dinner, movie, and me spending more money).

She's not my best friend. Just a hookup that was a lot of fun. Do I blow off the dinner since I know it won't go anywhere? I'd like to consider myself a genuine guy, but this just seems idiotic to waste gas, money, and time (I could be using towards school) to hang out with a girl I fooled around with once. What are your thoughts? Would it make me a bad person?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Past hookup backs out of wanting to stay the night and do just dinner instead (my driving, money, etc). Do I blow it off?