<human>: I've made some posts before under a different username about my deteriorating relationship. We've been together for 9 years now and have 2 daughters (5 & 9) together. We've been distant from each other ever since she got pregnant with our youngest daughter. I'm fairly confident that she only ever wanted to be with me so she could have the kids she always wanted.

So things have been pretty shitty for a long time now. I've been banished to sleep in our basement guest bed for the last 4 years. Any sort of physical contact between us ended about a year or so ago. We can barely stand to be around each other any more.

We've finally decided to officially end things since this is hardly a good environment to raise our 2 daughters in.

Here is where the problem comes in. She has been in college since before we met. She finally got her associates degree last year. As of this fall, she started a bachelors program at a college about 1.5 hours away. She expects to be done with that in about another 1.5-2 years.

Until then, the only income she has is from her SSDI disability payments due to her extreme bi-polar and anxiety. No where near enough to afford an apartment on her own. She is on a few waiting lists for state housing, but that will probably be years before she makes it to the top of the list. Plus, those aren't really the greatest locations to raise a family.

So, I'm stuck with trying to find a way to pay for an apartment for myself and continuing to pay for my house for her and the girls to live in. Unfortunately, we live way out in the country and there aren't many jobs available. So, I'm looking at moving pretty far away so that I can get a higher paying job to afford both. I'm really hating the idea of only getting to see my kids a couple of times a year though. I'm so torn on all of this that I can barely make any decisions.

I could really use someone to talk to, to try and work through some of these decisions.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: My gf is financially dependent on me and I don't know how to break things off without ruining her and my daughters lives