<human>: My fiancé and I got engaged last year after a short dating period, we have known each other for quite a while. So essentially, once we got engaged and we were/are happy even though we had 2 pregnancies that ended in miscarriages this past year. 

We went to visit a new location earlier this year and he expressed how much he would love to live there. I agreed it was a nice place, but I've lived in my hometown my whole life and require specific doctors - a move for me would be absolutely terrifying. 

Two months later he asked me if I would be ok with him asking his boss for a transfer to the aforementioned location. I was a bit hurt that he wanted to still move (I'd just gotten a new job with some old friends with a great company) but felt he should do something he loved. So I said he should of course get what he wants. The transfer was approved. 

Now he's confused as to why I don't want to go and says we are breaking up if I don't move. All of this while we are have (potentially) our third miscarriage. I just feel like my life is here, my doctors are here (I don't want to have to fly to see them if I'm ill and I have a specific team that has worked with me from the start) and if he loved me he would understand. He says if I loved him I would go. 

What would you do? I love this man to death, he's my best friend. But leaving my whole support system is too much for me. And I don't want to be completely dependent on my SO. It takes away my independence which I link my self worth to.

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<bot>: fiancé has decided he's moving and says I agreed to go. I feel like my world is being ripped out from under me.