<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

Hello, so my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years. We are in our early twenties. I love him and care about him but the last two years or so have been very "blah". He is a nice guy and we have a good relationship, its just gotten to be very boring. Its not like we just sit around all the time either...we do a lot of the time, but we also go out and do things together. We don't ever argue. I just feel like our relationship has lost its spark and I have felt like this for awhile. Our sex life isn't very good either, although I've tried. I think he is handsome and I have a good sex drive, but I have to really put effort into getting horny with him. Is this normal? We have sex less than weekly.

At first I just assumed this is because the relationship was past the honeymoon phase and had developed into something different. But now that this feeling hasn't passed after a year or two, I'm wondering if I'm just staying with him out of comfort? Part of me doesn't want to break up with him because he is good to me and its a fairly solid relationship. I don't want to end a good thing just because I am feeling restless, I don't want to break up with him and regret it- but I don't want to drag on a relationship that I don't think (or don't know) is going anywhere. I mean what if this is normal for a long term relationship? I have no idea as this is my first one.

Thanks for any advice.
<bot>: Is it normal to be bored in a long term relationship? Or can you still have a passionate relationship, years down the road?