<human>: In 2010, my then-fiance and I moved across the country to help out his mom. Getting work was tough, and what work he did get ended with his getting laid off in 2012. I found work in retail, finished my master's degree, and am still stuck in retail while looking for a career job. He hasn't even interviewed for a job since getting laid off.

At first it was a wrist injury and lack of insurance (now added several other supposed injuries). Then it was not wanting to do certain jobs (some of which I understand, some of which I don't). Then it was the idea that I would get a career job and we would be moving anyway. Not really happening it seems.

We got married, I figured that would jumpstart the wanting to get back to work. He talked about it for five minutes... never seemed to look for a job and dismissed all the ones I found for him. It's been almost a year and still nothing. He has such an high standard for jobs he is willing to do that he has placed himself out of all jobs he can realistically get, and I am getting tired of it. From what I can tell, he wants to be an editor, and anything that isn't that, he won't look at (note he has no degree in editing or professional experience, but he is amazingly good at it). I am at my wits end and tired of doing all the work. What can I do to get him to realize that he needs to swallow his pride? I can't just threaten to leave, he will call that bluff and I am not really ready to actually do it.

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<bot>: Husband seemingly refuses to consider jobs he can actually get. How do I get him to swallow his pride and get a damn job without threatening divorce?