<human>: I'm currently in a full time, intense college nursing program whilst working 19 hours a week, and I'm not gonna lie, with college work on top of that, it's hectic. My bf of 3 yrs works part time too, usually less hours than me, so has a lot of free time. 

We've had some arguments lately relating to things that need to be done around the house and how time is spent, and it's really starting to grate on me. 

He has been very passive aggressive with me recently to remind me to do things. We both take on an equal amount of housework, but if I haven't done something reasonably minor due to being busy, I'll be sure to get a remark about it. 

I've spoken to him about how busy and overwhelmed I am and that I'm aware I'm missing things, usually just little things like not putting something back where it came from. He has said that it makes him feel guilty that I'm jealous of his free time but that it's my fault because I chose to do this course and that I should accept that and that I can't complain. My job can also be stressful, but he looks down on it because it's not manual work like his; it can't be as stressful. 

If I bring up at all that I'm feeling a busy or stressed, he ends up throwing more things at me that I'm doing wrong. I've started lying to him about everything being fine because him getting mad at me for being stressed makes me more stressed in the end. He likes to bring them up when I have to leave the house or go to sleep too, so I almost feel like he wants me to get more overwhelmed. 

I don't know. I just wanted some advice. Thanks for the rant guys x

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<bot>: bf doesn't understand how busy and stressed I am and gets annoyed when I don't get round to doing minor house things. Advice?