<human>: So we've been friends since December. We're really tight, we hung out a couple times, we talk every day,  and we have a bunch a stuff in common. I was gonna ask her to be my girlfriend in mid January but i felt it was too soon. I was then gonna tell her about 3 weeks ago when she randomly told me about her crush. It's some dude in her speech class. She's liked him for a while now and just started talking to him. I feel crushed. I really thought she could be my first girlfriend(yes I'm 20 and never dated before please you don't have to tease me about it i hear that enough).  I'm so confused as to what to do.  I want to tell her how i feel because it's killing me. I wasn't gonna say anything crazy like "baby i want your kids" lol just something like i really like you. I find you very attractive and then say some stuff i like about her on the inside and then pop the question. But now she has a crush on someone. Do you think that would be selfish if i told her how i felt and she knows that i know she has a crush on someone else? i have two options from what i see
1-just tell her how i feel and see what happens 
2-let this whole crush thing go through and when the relationship ends then tell her how I feel. 
I'm so confused reddit. One day i feel like doing option one then the next i feel option two. I just hate holding it in.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: i like this girl, we're really cool with each other but she has a crush on someone else.  Should i tell her how i feel or just back off wait till it ends?