<human>: A while back, I read a thread here on /r/Relationships that had very useful advice about communication between partners that was more amazing than any advice I've ever read on the net. I don't know if it was a counselor or a therapist who was giving advice, or if it was people sharing the advice they've learned in therapy- but I really liked the thread and I need your help finding it. 

Anybody know which thread I'm talking about? My girlfriend and I both have terrible communication, and we could sure use some advice on how to talk and communicate with each other the right way.

Any help or links or even advice would be greatly appreciated.

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<bot>: My gf and I have communication problems and I need help finding a reddit thread about communication advice that I never saved.