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So here is the back story my SO 24 yr old m and I 23 yr old f have been separated for 8 months (after a 7.5 year relationship) at first I wasn't ready to move on, but I have met a guy who I  starting to develop feelings for (much sooner than I expected) the only problem is he doesn't want to move forward until I am divorced. I am afraid that I will lose him if I'm not divorced within the next month. The kicker? My husband and I will not be filing for another 3-4 months because of the state we live in. I want to tell the other guy that my paperwork has been put in, but I'm not really sure what I should do. Again I don't want to lose the new guy. Any advice is appreciated.
<bot>: husband and I are separated. Am talking to a new guy but doesn't want to move forward until divorce is final. I don't want to lose new guy.