<human>: Girlfriend and I have been going out for almost three years now. Recently we have fought a small amount (she yells and cries and I stay mostly silent). I know I may get shouted down for this, but I never truely felt much of a connection, though I did eventuLly learn to love her. 

I have been her first everything, first real boyfriend, kiss, the whole shebang, and has recently started talking about the future. Not in a large scale marriage type thing, but more of a moving out together, own pets, that sort of thing. This is just somewhere that I don't see myself being with her. She also implies that she wants to live somewhere perminantly, whereas I am apprehensive as I have yet to really do anything with my life other than go to university. Since these things have started to be discussed, I have found myself pulling back, because again, I don't feel like we really connect. Though I don't want to let her know that, because I do have feelings for her, just not the necessary ones. 

With this in mind, I need some advice on how to finally end this relashtionship. She is by no means fragile but this will be her first ever break up, and I am unsure of how to approach the situation and in what matter I should present myself.

She is currently a four hour drive away, so I am thinking that I may ask her before hand if it's alright that I come down to see her so we can get lunch and talk. 

I think she suspects that I am pulling away, as she has started to contact me far more than normal, and trying to sell herself sexually to me (I.e. Telling me about dreams she's had , etc), which for the most part I have been ignoring and trying to play down as much as possible. Should I be trying to stop contact as much as possible or should I continue as normal? 

Thank you for any help.

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<bot>: Girlfriend is talking about a future that I don't see myself in, not sure how I should act when breaking up with her.