<human>: I am having some issues with my mil one being I was very sick and my mil wanted us to come to a community event for dinner. I skipped my family dinner my dads birthday for this event as she backed me into a corner an basically said  your married now so you have to miss your dads birthday. When I arrived she said oh how is my baby ( to her son) and basically ignored me didn't even ask how are u feeling. I was feeling so sick, yet se ask her son who isn't even sick how are u are u sick? After the party his mom invited us over my husband said no she is sick and his mom was like " what do you mean she is sick?" Acting all confused . She clearly knew I was sick I did not get one thanks for coming or how are u? 

Also she has been so fake around my parents, she will hug me and say she loves me but when my parents are not around she will basically ignore me. 

This actually hurts my feelings because I started to notice a difference in her behaviour toward me and i felt so stupid for thinking maybe she actually loved me. I could see that day I was sick she does not care about me. 
I noticed a decline in her treatment toward me in the last few weeks since our honeymoon. 

I'm so worried because we are moving in with my in laws while we wait to buy a house and I'm so worried and anxious about living with them. I'm a sensitive person and her not caring about my and only her son really hurts. 

I can't explain how I feel. Please advise how can I be strong. 

When I talked to my husband he said " welcome I my childhood, where my mom never cares about me and was selfish"

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<bot>: mother In law deliberately ignores me acts fake and makes me feel unimportant, how do I deal when I'm going to be moving in with her