<human>: My friends and family all think I should take this as an honor and stop whining, and I certainly do appreciate the gesture my wife is making and consider it an honor, but I absolutely HATE this idea. Most of it has to do with my belief that our son deserves his own name, but I'm also struggling to get used to the idea of sharing a name with my son. I don't think there's anything necessarily wrong with namesakes, for the record, but it's not a tradition in either of our families, which makes me think it shouldn't become one. 

It really has taken me by surprise that my wife even wants this. Before we got pregnant, none of her baby names for boys included my name. It seems like this is just something that she came up with out of the blue, and I really have no idea why. 

She is aware that I don't like the idea of naming our son after me, and we have discussed alternatives at length, but she has this at the top of her list and has really pushed hard for this. I tried to recommend that our son take my first name as his middle name, which seemed like a good compromise, but that wasn't enough. I also suggested some other variations that would give our son part of my name, but she wasn't too keen on those either, so we're stuck.

I'm out of ideas at this point. I can't think of anything else to suggest, and even if I could, I'm not even sure if she would change her mind. She seems really set on this name. I know a lot of people named after parents or grandparents ultimately have some nickname, so I guess it isn't the biggest deal in the world, but that still wouldn't make me any happier.

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<bot>: Wife wants to give our son my name. I hate this idea, but she refuses to budge. This is her first choice for a boy name.