<human>: Fake account because she (who I'll call Nora) visits Reddit a lot.

Also, I'm German, so English isn't my first language. 

I've been with Nora for closer to four years, living just about that long as well. She's literally the woman of my dreams. Every day I wake up and she's cuddled up next to me, somehow inhaling all the warmth in our house, and I couldn't be more happy. I plan on proposing sometime soon, which is why this has been bothering lately.

Once a month Nora has dinner at her folk's house about 20 mins away. Her siblings go too, and it usually lasts pretty late. I never wanted to impose on it, even when I would be the one dropping her off or picking her up. I've made plenty of little jokes about her keeping me hidden from them, but her siblings have met me plenty of times. Nora doesn't celebrate holidays or birthdays, or anything with her parents. It's only on these dinners that she sees them or talks about them (which she's not had much to say about when she DOES talk about them). 

I've just chalked this up to her family working different than mine, maybe next year Ill meet them. But like I said, almost four years and I don't even know what they look like. I don't think she's hiding me from them, I'm older, but I'm easy on the eyes, pretty shy and polite socially, and I  have a great-paying job, if Nora quit her job today we'd still be living very healthy lives. 

Ill also add that I have asked to accompany her a couple of times recently, all times her acting a bit suspicious and let's-change-the-subject coming into play. 

Nora is a wonderful person. She puts other's needs in front of her own and she's more sweet to me than anyone has ever been. I love this woman and I'm hurt that meeting her parents has dragged out this long. What on earth is going on?

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<bot>: I've been vary patient with meeting her patents, but its been almost four years and I'm getting paranoid. Or maybe they just really hate Germans.