<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

my girlfriend and I are sort of in a long distance relationship and we only get to see each other once a month at most.

so, on her birthday we celebrated it together. I think i should probably mention that we're both kind of still in the closet. our parents definitely won't accept us and she's still in the process of telling her friends but I've already told mine.

right, on her birthday, we had sex. or we were trying to. my sexual drive is very low compared to hers. as in really low but definitely not non-existent. 

but on her birthday, while we were kissing and removing our clothes, she wanted me to start fingering her. but I really didn't feel like it. it's not that I don't think she's attractive it was just that particular time I didn't want to. 

when i refused, she said "I bet john would do it."

John's this guy who's been her friend for so long. it's not a secret that he's in love with her (in fact, she reminds me of that fact often). he's been trying to court her ever since Louise and I have been together (six months). and up to now, she still hasn't rejected him at all. and even when she does, she always says "not now". and I mean, I don't want to pressure her into coming out or anything, but hearing her say that during sex kind of hurt.

I was too shocked to react so I just ignored her statement and pretended it didn't happen. besides, we don't see each other that often and it was also her birthday. I didn't want to cause a scene and ruin it.

is it too late to react now? it happened two days ago.
<bot>: during sex, when I refused to continue, my girlfriend of six months tells me that this other guy would've done it if she'd asked.