<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

Long post, sorry

So I'm 16 years old and I have a lot on my mind. I was suicidally depressed for most of middle school, and I ended up dating some girl near the end of my depression, and I was enjoying it. Until she started getting controlling, but not abusively. More teenage girl having no idea how a relationship would operate. She'd get angry if I didn't respond to her messages within 5 minutes, and I actually decided I wanted to end it a good month before I did, and I didn't since she had said to me multiple times that She'd kill herself if I didn't. Well, I broke up with her and made sure her friends would support her, and she made it through. So you know, shitty high school drama. Now here's where it gets interesting. I, was completely put off dating in general by this, and also women. Again, I'm a teenager, and stupid and decided that this meant I was gay.  So, I told people that unwashed gay etc etc. I think I might be bi, but I know I am attracted to women, and I'm confused on how to tell. My friends are nice no matter what, it's just gonna be awkward when I tell them that I'm not 100% gay. Anyone else ever go through a struggle with sexual interest? I'm confused, and would rather be sure of my own sexuality before talking to my friends.
<bot>: I had a shitty high school relationship, told people I was gay, not sure if I am straight or not, confused how to figure it out.