<human>: i have been dating a girl since i was 16 and we broke up briefly for each of us going to college (she is one year younger) and in that time neither of us did anything sexual with another person. Anyway she is transferring and the topic of if we stay are to stay together came up. She asked me if i would be her friend and i told her honestly i cant be just her friend. so to this she said then we will stay together and that it felt like were were only friends now. (we are hours away now and only see each other ever few weeks.) additionally she is moving no further then before what should i do am i panicking for no reason is it just because she was my first serious girlfriend any advice is good advise

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<bot>: girlfriend referred to us as already being pretty much just friends and changed her decided she defiantly doesn't want to break up when i said it would most likely be the end of our friendship