<human>: My best friend has had her grandparents living with her family since she was 4 and her family came to America. She's now 16 and her family moved here from the Philippines. We have been best friends for the last two years and we are very close. Her locker is right next to mine and we have 4 classes together, plus we hang out almost everyday after school. I knew something was wrong when she didn't come to school today. She never misses school for anything. I checked my phone and she texted me about how she needed to talk. Last night her grandfather died and she is very very depressed. I know I need to do something but I'm not sure what. I haven't really dealt with a lose before that I was old enough to remember(My grandfather died when I was 4, wasn't old enough to understand it really.) I also don't know what is acceptable that she won't take the wrong way since I'm a guy, I can't really take her for like a girl's day. I don't want to offend her and mess up our friendship but I know she needs someone to be there for her.

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<bot>: My best friends grandfather died. We are both 16. I'm a guy, she's a girl. What should i do to comfort her?