<human>: We've been together for over a year and from the very beginning, I've noticed a very Jekyll-Hyde transformation when he's really drunk. He turns from a sweet, loving person into a mean and maybe abusive one. He's called me names, been cruel to me, been physically rough with me (never hit me though) and won't understand the word no in terms of sex when he's that drunk. 

I've tried to talk to him so many times and I'm worried that I'm going to have to give him an ultimatum. It's not even close to every time he drinks, but these situations have happened enough that it bothers me and makes me beg for a change. I know you're all going to try to tell me to leave him, but I don't want to. I love him and I want to work through this.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: Boyfriend displays cruel and somewhat abusive tendencies when blackout drunk, refuses to recognize that it's a problem. I don't want out, I want a solution.