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My boyfriend and I have been together 3 months. Other than this issue, our relationship is great. I'm 31, he is 40. I am female, he is male. My boyfriend is always disagreeing with me. Sometimes it's one thing right after the other. It hurts sometimes because I will offer something that will benefit us both, like I offered to buy a new washer/dryer set to save money on our electric bill, set would really save some money. He just tells me a million reasons why it's a bad idea and acts like I'm stupid for even thinking about it. He said this right after I was bawling my eyes out about something bad that had happened to me...
I would have, especially in that moment, have at least appreciated some gratitude for the kind gesture, but instead I felt out down. All he needed to say was thanks, but no thanks. I've never had this type of feeling come up with anyone.
I'm 31. I've mentioned this to him and he said if I keep harping on it he feels like he will need to be fake. I don't need him to agree with everything, but sometimes I feel like he disagrees just to disagree. I would like him to at least acknowledge some of the many kind gestures I make, and kinda lessen the disagreeing when it's not necessary, because on some days it happens constantly.
bold I just want him to value my opinion a bit, or at least show it some more.
<bot>: I wish he could just show me that he value my opinion some more.  I feel belittled with his urge to disagree all the time..