<human>: I met this guy Brent in 2011. We had mutual friends on Facebook and he added me. We ended up talking regularly as friends but I developed a small crush on him around November of 2012. This is when the way we communicated changed. We Skyped a lot and quickly became apart of each other's lives. He was very sweet to me. He wanted us to be together. He wanted to come meet me and figure things out. He even mentioned me staying there with him to see if I liked the area.

We were both pretty busy and it never panned out. He said he wanted to come a thousand times but always came up with some reason. He was depressed, stressed because of school/work. I believed him and kept waiting.

Last month, he told me he wasn't able to be in a relationship with me because he wanted to focus on himself. I was upset but let him go. He stopped calling and texting. A few days after he had told me this, he emailed me saying he wants to be together and start new at the beginning of the new year but won't talk to me until then. He's going to visit a female friend of his in my area and wants to talk to me then. Gee, thanks. He hasn't responded. Will only answer emails maybe once a week if that.

I don't understand. Why is it that he doesn't want a damn thing to do with me now but will later? And plus, he's not coming just to see me. How do I drop this guy and get out of this? It's like I get weak.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: guy leads me on for over a year. Wants to make things serious next year by visiting me when he will conviently be visiting a friend of his. Get me outta here.