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My BF (42m) and I (34f) have been dating long distance for 2.5 years and are able to see each other about once every 2 weeks or so. We live far apart enough that seeing each other requires airplanes but we have made it work. We have been discussing moving things along/settling down since August. This weekend he asks me if I am ready to get married on Dec. 26. There was no proposal or prior discussion about this particular date. I tell him that is not a good date, and I would prefer to do it no sooner than January due to the fact that Christmas will be difficult for me this year. My father passed 3 months ago and I'm anticipating holidays will be tough (thanksgiving was). He got very upset and said that I was being unreasonable, was lukewarm on marriage and I was dragging my feet.

 He is the father of a 5 y/o child and he is in the initial phases of renegotiating custody agreement with his ex, and I believe his biggest motivator in doing it this fast will be to aid him in getting more time with the child but he clans this isn't his "main motivator" and it's just time. (I am crazy about the kid and the feeling is mutual.) 

Getting married and moving will require me to resign from my job of 7 years, and I currently have no promising leads where he is located. I told him I felt like this was all very abrupt and he said I wasn't excited, treating it like a business transaction and being a killjoy. He now says he doesn't want to even discuss this again "for a while" but did not say we were finished and we are still talking, albeit a little cooler than it has been. I'm not sure where to go from here because I now worry someone that is this stubborn or uncaring is not the life mate I thought I was getting. We've had a few ups and downs in the past but have always got along really well. I'm just confused.
<bot>: My bf is trying to force a Christmas wedding 3 months after my dad passed away and I think he's being insensitive and making me question our long term viability.