<human>: It seems like every time I meet a girl, and we hit it off well with mutual attraction, the first thing they want to do is have sex. Not only that, but I get the impression that they lose interest if they don't get sex within a certain amount of time after we meet.

I've had several meaningful relationships in the past, but they've all fallen apart, I feel, because I tend to follow the pattern of: meet girl, have sex, and if we're still having sex after a couple of months we get to know each other. I want to change this pattern, but I honestly don't know how else to go about it.

I'd rather meet a girl, get to know her and enjoy her interests, know that she cares about my interests, then develop a relationship that involves all the sex we can handle after that. But how do I keep a girl's interest in me without supplying her with an immediate supply of orgasms?

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<bot>: According to stereotypes, I think I'm living in Bizarro world: Girls only want sex, I want a more real connection.