<human>: We met about 5 months ago and we have been together for 3. When we were getting to know each other i did not notice any of this things, she always seemed happy and healthy enough. But after about a month i noticed she had a lot more problems than i knew about. Just plain depression that kicks in every once in a while and i cant do anything about it. And i love her so it hurts me to see her hurt, just knowing she isn`t okay can make me sick until the point of physical illness. like stomach-aches and such. I dont know what to do most of the time, i try as much as i can but i really dont know how. we dont have sex either because she allways has an excuse, or sometimes she just doesnt want to talk about it. She just seems like she isnt interested in intimacy with me at all, and it confuses me. of course my first reaction is that there is something about her that makes her like that, but im startin to think that im the one there is something wrong with. i really need some advice, about how to help her with her problems, how to get the intimacy into our relatonship because i know that is something a relationship really needs. right now i feel like im just a really good friend of her that makes her laugh a lot. would appreciate any tips on the matter ! 

Thanks in advance.

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<bot>: My girlfirend is depressed a lot and allways sick, and completely uninterested in intimacy. what do i do?