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I met my boyfriend at work last April (he used to manage me before we got together) in a company my father partially owns. My dad told me when he first found out that we were together (in December) that if I didn't break up with my boyfriend I would get fired and when my mom found out I was seeing him she didn't talk to me for two weeks. (Mind you I worked in our corporare office at this point and he worked in one of our stores, so we didnt even work together). I broke up with him for the company's sake but continued to see him behind my family's back.  

My boyfriend then quit the company we both worked for, and works for a company owned by our head boss (not my dad) but I have no affiliation with. 

Tonight, my brother let it slip I'm playing a quiz game with my (not really) ex boyfriend while I was sitting with my parents. They didn't say anything, but I'm 99% sure they know I am seeing him again.

I just don't know what to do. Am I wrong in wanting to date him? Can they really decide who I can and cannot date? I want to tell them they can't dictate who I date, but they are pretty controlling (I am not allowed to go anywhere without their permission, I have a 10 pm curfew, and am not allowed to drink soda and eat some foods), I dont want to upset them though, because they pay my health/ car insurance for me while I go to college and don't charge me rent

I just need advice. I'm so lost and so sad. What do I do?
<bot>: my parents/ company told me I couldn't date a guy. I continued seeing him behind their backs, and my brother let it slip tonight that I still talk to him. What do I do?