<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

A bit of background, up until the start of July I was tangled up in drama surrounding toxic relationships, with me serving as under-qualified and rather shitty therapist. It ended with both my closest friend and my boyfriend at the time trying to OD a few days apart (not a fun week, I assure you). We're all doing fine now and getting different brands of professional care. Point is though, it put a great deal of responsibilities on the back burner, and I'm only now trying to get back to them. I don't have a job, I don't have my full driver's licence, and I don't have a clue as to where to start. I'm heading off to university in a matter of weeks and there's so much I know I need to settle out. Any advice, guys?
<bot>: I was trying to keep my two closest friends alive and I've put off adulting until now. How do I start?