<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

My dating life has just started this year, and this is the second girl I've been taking out so my experience with these kinds of gray area relationships is limited.

There is this girl from work who I could tell was really into me from the first week she was working there. She was giving me all kinds of hints. I told a coworker I was going to ask her out, and that coworker told her at a party and she apparently got so excited she drunk called me. Luckily it was 3 am and I was asleep so I didn't hear it.

Anyways, we've been dating for about a month. The first date she tells me she doesn't want a relationship, which is fine, I figured she wants a fling. But the thing is, there hasn't been any sex. When I go to her apartment, she wants to cuddle and watch movies. What is confusing to me is that she doesn't want a relationship, but she wants to act like we are in one. We go one dates, her friends take pictures of us together sometimes. We built a gingerbread house together and she has it in her apartment living room for her roommates to see. When I get her gifts I write her notes, and she always keeps the notes (even if I write it on a napkin).

I don't know what is going on here. I know she has had several cheating boyfriends in the past, so I understand if she is in a bad place. But why was she flirting with me so much at work, always asking me to hang out before I finally asked her on a date? Why does she want to act like it is a relationship when she doesn't want one? It seems like if she wasn't ready, she shouldn't have been flirting with me.

I don't follow her on twitter, but I read it, and just the other day she tweeted about how she seriously doesn't want a relationship. So I don't think she changed her mind, but why can't she act like it? 

Aren't causal relationships typically meant as being a sexual one?
<bot>: Girl doesn't want a relationship but acts like we are in one and we haven't had any sex yet so I don't know what she wants from our casual dating.