<human>: Here's the bare bones: I'm an 18 year old girl, he's a 21 year old guy. I'm a first year in college, he's a third year transfer student. We've been seeing each other for maybe six or seven weeks.

Here's what's up with me: I just got out of a year and a half long relationship. I'm definitely over it, but at the same time, I'm not super eager to go jumping into a new relationship.

I'm also terrified of commitment. And I'm really enjoying being single in college. I like dancing, I like making out with random guys, I like flirting and fooling around. Maybe it sounds a little slutty, but I'm not ashamed of enjoying it. 

But at the same time, I really like this guy I'm seeing. We get along in a ton of ways. I'm so happy to be spending time with him. I think he's awesome.

So far, we haven't really pushed the issue of actually dating. We've been spending a lot of time together, and we're having sex, but we've left everything undefined.

But we just talked about it yesterday and he wants to actually be in an official relationship, I think. He's not pushing anything but that's how he's hoping things turn out down the line. I'd kind of like that as well. But the thought of losing my freedom makes me feel really uncomfortable. And the thought of losing him hurts as well. I don't know how to feel about everything else, but I just want him in my life.

I've talked to him about this. He's ridiculously understanding (I think he's been in the same boat, so he knows how I feel). But he does wish I wasn't as commitment phobic. I don't know if I can be what he wants me to be.

I really like him. How do I feel comfortable in a relationship if I'm scared of losing my freedom? How do I know if I'm ready to be in a relationship? 

(I'm open to open relationships if that changes anything ...)

Give me a shortened version of the text
<bot>: I'm scared of commitment and I like the sexual freedom that comes with being single. But I'm really into this guy I've been seeing as well, and I'm not sure how to reconcile the two things.