<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

I've been seeing this girl for 6 weeks now, it's my first relationship and I'm nuts about her as she is me. She is a freshman and I am a senior graduating this semester.

I'm in Florida but I have a job in Silicon Valley which I worked very hard to get and that I feel is going to beneficial to my career (software development). But this happened before I met this girl, and now I'm feeling confused about actually broaching the topic with her and what that might mean for us.

On the one hand, I don't expect her to hand down any ultimatum, but on the other hand I don't know how to talk about this without making it seem like I'm choosing the job over her, or something like that. Right now I have a remote job working with a company I'm not thrilled about and won't do much for my career.

The way I see it I can either leave for California or stay in Florida, either sacrificing my job or my relationship (because either we'd break up or try a long distance thing which I've heard horror stories about). I'm curious to see what perspective I could get on this matter
<bot>: Either I go to California for a good job or stay in Florida with my girlfriend, who has 3 years left in college