<human>: I (23m) have been, seeing, having sex with, partying with, chilling with, a 20f since around Feb on a semi regular basis. Sometimes I go over to her apartment and we have sex and thats it, sometimes we stay over at eachothers places, sometimes we go have breakfast in the morning etc etc. I think ive taken her out to dinner twice and ive gone to a party with her about two or 3 times, including a concert. Sometimes we see eachother twice a week, sometimes once, sometimes everyother. Its irregular

So heres the thing, we have never once even come close to talking about what is going on between us. The most close we have come to that is when a friend of her friend whom we just met asked if we were dating, which she said no. we run in completly different social circles (shes still in college, im a postgrad and did not go to her college). There is literally no overlap in our lives. If you are wondering we are from the same hometown and she played soccer with my sister, thats the only connection.

And this is fine with me. I was in a two year, serious reltationship, prior to meeting this girl and im not looking to lock back down just yet. So how long can you go without a conversation? I dont want to hurt her feelings about anything but I honestly dont know where she stands. Im afriad if i bring it up im going to look like the one trying to lock things down, or that "having the conversation" will end this thing we have going. Is it wrong to never have this talk.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: a very casual FWB and I have been doing our thing for around 6 months and we've never discussed where it is going, which im fine with but I also dont want any feelings to get hurt.