<human>: My girlfriend (now fiancee for almost 3 years) just told me yesterday that she hasn't been physically attracted to me for the past 5-6 years but still loves. This was devastating to me because I've always been attracted to her and she has never indicated she felt this way. The only thing that hinted at her feeling this way would be that she wasn't interested in having sex that much. This has always been off-putting but I figured she just never really felt like "doing it" that often because every girl is different, right? She's a very honest person and pretty shy but I know she never cheats on me, so I know she isn't having sex with someone else. She's usually either with me or at work. I should note we aren't living together and never have. We still live in each other's parents house but I'm working on getting a well-paying job with my college degree so we could start our life together.

The only thing that's really changed about my appearance is that I weigh less than I did 7 years ago. This, combined with other personal issues outside the relationship, are putting a lot of stress on myself and it's really hard to think clearly right now. I shouldn't change my appearance just for the sake of making her love me physically again, should I? What other options are there? Are we doomed for not even a mutual physical attraction towards each other? I have needs in that department that haven't been fulfilled because this issues been around for 5-6 years and I just found out about it.

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<bot>: Just learned my girlfriend of 7 years hasn't been physically attracted to me for 5-6 years and I have no idea where to go from here.