<human>: I have been with my girlfriend now for about 3 years. 1.5 of those was spent living together and a year LDR while I had to relocate for a new contract.

She comes from an extremely poor third world family and has worked to break free of it. He mom and sisters not so much. Their house is essentially a wooden shack on stilts.

The whole neighborhood has a communal shower that they were using and frequently getting rashes from. So I said I would pay for a new free standing bathroom just for her family. 675usd for materials and had a friend's company build it for free.

To preface everything I kind of spoil the people close to me. I won't go into specifics but so far I have spent about 3000usd on gifts, not including that I like to shop and eat well. So her life style changed a but suddenly.

Down to the real issue. For some reason she cannot get over brands/price tags. Tonight she starts telling me about a travel luggage that she wants called "Rimowa". For a basic bag it's about a 1000usd. I flat out told her that I would never buy this and I'd rather do anything else with that money than buy something you will use a dozen times a year. She says never mind that she will buy it herself.

I don't care about the money but I care about the idea that you would spend 1000$ or even think of one when your family lives so poorly.

I met her when I was doing OK financially and I now many about 8x what she makes a day, every hour. So we have really gone from a 50:50 to more of an 80:20.

I want to marry this woman and some greed won't stop me but I just want to understand it and possibly try to limit or redirect it.

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<bot>: Girlfriend comes from an extremely poor background yet seems to only crave what isn't isn't realistic. I support and help her a lot, but misplaced priorities or greed is effecting us.