<human>: From a throwaway Facebook account entitled 'Johnny Doe', I received a message telling me that my husband had cheated on me with a coworker. I asked my husband what it was all about over a message on facebook, not fully believing he would ever do such a thing, but he called me crying, and admitted that he had indeed slept with his friend/coworker three months ago. 

At the time it happened, we were having major problems that neither of us was sure we'd survive. We married too fast, moved in together too fast, basically rushed into it all. It has been major work trying to adapt so that we can stay together. And then I found out this happened. 

I know that he loves me, and that he handled all of this poorly, I want to forgive him because I truly think that he is sorry and that it is something I can eventually get past. 

I found out yesterday, and as of late him and I had finally reached a place where we were getting along really well. I am so happy I found out now, after we had learned to get along better, and not three months ago where I know we would have broken up on the spot. 

Question is....how do I get past it? In my mind, I can understand the feelings that would have led him to do this- but at times it feels like it is tearing my heart to pieces. 

I once heard a quote, god knows where, "You don't forgive someone because they deserve it, you forgive them because you love them and want them in your life."

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<bot>: Husband of one year cheated on me once while having marital issues, how do I learn to get past this and trust again?