<human>: I am in 1 year relationship with my gf [27F] who is not at all romantic or sweet. She openly admits it and did from the beginning of us dating. I, on the other hand, am passionate and romantic. In the beginning, I was fine with her aloofness and we even joked about it, but recently we had to spend 2 months apart and her lack affection became very difficult for me to handle. I became defensive, hyper-critical, and started picking fights, because I am resentful that she does nothing to make me or our relationship feel special. 

She says and texts "I love you" but that's as far as it goes. There are no letters, or notes, or anniversary cards. No rose petals or sexy underwear, even our sex is very matter-of-fact, "get 'er done" kind. I've bought flowers, made dinner and other things over the course of us being together and I love doing those things for her, but I'm getting resentful that she does not reciprocate and I'm afraid it's ruining our relationship. 

We've talked about this, although not thoroughly (frankly because I'm scared to sound needy when she values confidence and strength above all), and she says that she'll try but then her actions do not change. Both of us have long-term intentions and involved with each other's families, but I'm becoming very unhappy. Also, a part of me is wondering if she's just not that into it, even though she denies that that's the case.

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<bot>: My gf is not affectionate and I'm a sap and I'm afraid  it's going to cause us to end otherwise good relationship.