<human>: I'd like to hear more motivational speeches about learning to be kind, I want to see more Tumblr wallpapers motivating us to enjoy life in the present moment, and I'd love to see people post here more about how they're trying to give more to charity or trying to spend more time understanding the struggles of other people. 

I kind of wonder what it takes to get people to make a real change to their personal morality and outlook. So much of the energy in motivational speeches or books is targeted at the most shallow things like getting rich, getting laid, or getting in shape. I'm not saying these things are bad, because for some people getting rich means getting out of crippling debt, getting laid means having the first meaningful relationship of their life, and getting in shape means not dying at 30. But for many of us (especially those living in the Western world) these things just aren't that important. We're healthier than humans have ever been in the history, we have more chances at relationships than ever before, and were fucking loaded. (If you're anything but destitute and you live in the U.S. you are richer than not only most of the world, but than any historical figure you can think of.)

I get the sense that often what people are seeking in getting rich or in shape is deeper than any of these things can bring. While there's nothing inherently wrong with seeking these things, they are not a honey pot of happiness or well-being. There are a myriad ways of finding meaning and purpose and countless others of transcending selfishness and ego. Changing oneself psychologically, from within, is so much harder than spending time at the gym or saving for a house. How can we motivate people to be more philosophical, more moral?

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<bot>: Changing oneself psychologically, from within, is so much harder than spending time at the gym or saving for a house. How can we motivate people to be more philosophical, more moral?