<human>: Prior to the trip, things were going extremely well. She would constantly ask to do things with me and would frequently initiate sex with me; almost every time we would see each other we would end up having sex one way or another. Before leaving, we had both recently graduated started to talk about moving in together in another city.

We agreed to go on a break before she went overseas because neither of us wanted to deal with the stress of long distance. I still had very strong feelings for her though and didn't want to pursue anyone while she was away even though I was comfortable for her to sleep with someone else. (Neither of us are the jealous type)

Since having come back we're trying to pick back up where we left off but she says she feels less attracted to me and is in general less proactive in wanting to spend time with me & our sex life has dropped off dramatically. Being told she doesn't find me as attractive and the fact that our relationship has been rocky has caused me at times to feel anxiety over the relationship which is putting pressure on her and further strain on the relationship. 

She doesn't want to break up and she still says she loves me but things are struggling to improve, at times it feels like we're are getting back on track but overall it feels like she is starting to drift away from me.

I really love this girl and can see myself having a future with her but I'm at a loss here and could really use some guidance.

Other notes:

* She told me she slept with someone while she was on her trip (which is fine by me) but she didn't tell me until about after about a month of having been back because she was worried about how I might react.
-	She says she wants to decide to move out with me or go work abroad by April which kind of puts a time limit on things getting better.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: 3 months apart has damaged our relationship, she now finds me less attractive and I think I'm losing her. How can I deal with this?