<human>: So, we made plans to move in with our friend and her boyfriend at the beginning of the next school year, and now it's about time to start touring places and deciding which one we're going to put a down-payment on. The problem is, we've come to realize that her boyfriend drives us NUTS and we can't live with him. 

We want to tell her that we would still like to live with her but not her boyfriend. He is the type of guy who seems to be a good person but makes sexist rude comments and awkwardly pushes sexual situations regarding all the women in our group. Add to this he likes to push buttons and doesn't like doing housework.  

We want to tell her that all those things would create too much tension to live with, but we're afraid that the conversation is going to wreck the friendship because they both see the possible living situation as a guarantee.

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: We're going to move in with our friend and her boyfriend but he's an immature jerk and we don't want to live with him. Help?