<human>: 2 year old son is pretty awesome, except for his eating and sleeping. He still sleeps in our bed, and somehow managed to ninja out of the crib when we tried CIO. All parties now bear emotional scars, we won't be trying this again. However, I do think that if we buy him a big bed, lay down with him til he falls asleep, then go back to our bed (he can nap in our bed by himself... finally) he may be ok with that. Right? Should we put his bed in our room (where he is used to sleeping) or in his own (might have some shock).

As for eating, he was wised up to the fact that we will continue to feed him after he rejects what's in front of him, and somehow we always come back around to goldfish and grapes. We have tried setting all of his food in front of him, but he just eats a little and whines that he's hungry. He tried to starve himself for a few days, the resilient little punk, so I'm not sure if this is the way to go or not. Thoughts?

The last wrench in our plans here is that his little brother will be born in about a month, so if we go rocking his world now, will he be harboring resentments? Should we wait? How long?

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<bot>: 2 yr old son still sleeps in our bed, doesn't like eating, and is about to have his world rocked when the new baby shows up