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I have been seeing this man (I shall refer to him as John, for vagueness) for two months now. We see each other at least three times a week, and I have had several overnight stays and even a week alone with him. 

He is a fantastic person. A balanced temperament, hardworking, tidy, generous, a sharp wit, not to mention quite handsome in my eyes. We've grown very close over the last couple of months, and have settled into an unspoken relationship. I say unspoken because neither of us have brought up properly dating each other. It just happened.

But as cozy and gooey as we are, I keep noticing little things that make me unsure of the seriousness of our relationship. I have occasionally brought up possible social things involving my friends, like going to the pub or seeing a band, yet John skirts around the issue, with "Someday soon," or, "When the time comes,". 

My parents are eager to meet him. I have a bit of a history of LDRs and this is the first person I have dated who lives in the same county, and as such, as my mum said, he doesn't have an excuse not to visit. But he shys away from that too. I have met his mother, oddly enough. She's a lovely woman.

I am yet to meet any of his friends, but he often mentions that they're clamouring to be introduced to me, this "mystery woman that has returned the smile to their friend's face". Again, John says that the time has to be right.

Maybe I'm being impatient. I don't want to put pressure on him, but I don't want to keep my friends and family in the dark about it all. Sometimes I wonder if they think he doesn't even exist, what with his lack of presence. I feel as though I'm his little secret sometimes, yet he's openly affectionate in public and private. 

How should I approach this? Should I let John reach his level of comfort in making "the big reveal", or should I start making the moves myself? I have tried to discuss it but he changes the subject.
<bot>: Been dating for two months now, should I put more pressure on openness about our relationship, or wait for him to make the next move?