<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

My boyfriend of almost a year work as a canadian reservist and he works in the office as well as doing training exercises. Before we dated I got to know him better because I wanted to join up as well because I was really interested in it but decided against it once we started dating. Every day he comes home and I ask him how work was and he replies with "fine" and if I ask for specifics and he dosen't elaborate. I would love for him to tell me more about his job and stuff because its so interesting but he doesn't seem to want to talk about it much. Also as far as prospective work stuff he doesn't tell me when he applies for different jobs that would require going across the country for a year. Granted there is a little chance of him actually going i would like to be better in the loop on what his career will do for him because I really could see myself far in the future marrying this man. Also just little things like finding out through friends that hes leaving for 3 weeks in a month and we live together in a shared house so I assumed i would be told of all this jazz.
<bot>: So what can I do to get him to open up more about work & future plans?  I would love to be told things when he finds out so I can mentally prepare for things and learn more about what he does.