<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

There is that saying "You don't marry the person you can live with. You marry the person you can't live without"

If I had to answer that I'd say "I can live with you but I believe I could also live without you" (might be more my head speaking than my heart).

I wondering how you guys feel about that saying. Before you got married did you think you can't live without her/him? Are there people in a happy marriage that don't feel like that?

I'd say our relationship is pretty good. We are living together since a long time. We moved together to a different country which was quite stressful at many times and in many ways. There a quite a few things that we enjoy doing together and others that we do on our own. There are some issues but nothing major.
<bot>: I'd say we are a good match and can live with her. But we are not soulmates and I could also live without her. Is that enough to marry?