<human>: So basically I've had a crush on this university mate of mine and she's had a crush on me as well. I confessed to her 2 weeks ago and it was a really great time and feeling because it was obvious that she had those same feelings and she reciprocated. 

So since then we've talked once about where we go from there on, and we both agreed to go slow, put the labels off for now and "go with the flow". Mind you, I'm totally fine with all 3 of these, if I didn't think that we weren't going anywhere at all. It feels stagnant, and it feels as though there is nothing moving things forward. 

Things to keep in mind is that this girl has never been in a relationship ever before. Whether serious or otherwise. No flings, no things, nothing. I'm literally, according to her and her other friends, the first person that has ever come out and told her how I feel, and that she's actually reciprocated. She's never been in a relationship before because of bad timing and the guys not really being her type. There are problems with this obviously, things like basic communication between 2 people that like each other is something she isn't accustomed to like checking in from time to time, or at all really. Needless to say she's a crappy texter. 

When I see her in real life, it's all well and good. We laugh, we enjoy each others' presence and we always have things to talk about and it's amazing cause it's just naturally that way. I don't know how to bring up the topic of communication, and getting to know her relationship side and how she operates and such without the fear of coming off as pushy? I'm afraid to push her away. Then again, I understand that I would not know what it is that pushes her away if I don't talk to her about it. 

So how do I keep this going? How do I keep things alive? When do I bring up the talk about communication and about where we really are and what we are to each other? How do I do it without seeming pushy?

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<bot>: I'm currently sorta dating a relationship virgin but I feel like we aren't getting anywhere. How do I keep the ball rolling? We aren't official, but I'd like us to be.