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I've been in 7 relationships of various lengths since I was a senior in high school and the game ender has always been the same - either the girl has an incredibly low sex drive or it's so high that she ends up cheating or trying to cheat on me.

I'm the type that would never cheat on my SO, I'm not abusive, I'm an attractive guy with a good size that performs well, so I don't give these women any reason to cheat on me. They just do. I don't understand. It always starts with them going to bars cause I'm chill and let them do whatever, within reason, and then it just goes from there, and if I try to police it I always get the "controlling" label and they get mad at me.

Sex is really important to me, not just for the physical experience but for the deeper feelings. So when I have the other kind of girl, one that only really wants sex once a week, it kills my own drive and lowers my satisfaction in the relationship because I don't feel that deep emotional/spiritual connection often enough, even if everything else is fine.

I'm close to giving up on relationships and am considering just adopting a kid later in life. Is there a middle ground with women here or is this just how it is? If not, what are steps I can take to stop my girl from cheating on me without being overbearing?
<bot>: i always end up with a prude or a cheater, not sure anymore if there's a middle ground, close to giving up on finding the right woman for me