<human>: Basically my fiancee and I are getting married soon. She thinks I have an unusual amount of interest in planning the wedding. I like to see everything and have my opinion on basically everything except the dress. I think she was expecting to be the one making most of the decisions. Anyways the one thing I wouldn't compromise on was getting married in the UK so she relented on that one (She is from NY). Now we are at a complete impasse finding a band. 

I really want a rock band for the wedding and she really wants a swing big-band with lots of brass. Neither of us is willing to give on this, she feels that with me having so much input already and getting married in the UK, she should get the edge on this one. I think that is ridiculous. Reddit what do you think?

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<bot>: Fiancee and I can't decide on the band type for the wedding and hoping reddit will help us figure out how