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I have been in a relationship with my GF for about a year now. Throughout our relationship I've always tried to be that "perfect" boyfriend. I always treat her nice, I buy her things, I choose her over my friends 95% of the time, I basically treat her like a queen. The problem is that she doesn't reciprocate. She rarely does what I want to do, she never comes to my house to visit (I always have to go to her house), I never get a text/call from her (I'm always the first to do so and if I don't, she won't do it), during our intimate time I'm the one doing all the work. These are just some of the stuff I can think of as an example. What I'm trying to say is that I just feel like I'm putting an incredible amount of effort and I feel like she's just sitting back and enjoying it and not giving back. Should I stop trying as hard? Should I hold back more? How do I comfront her about it without being to harsh? Any advice is welcome.
<bot>: I feel like I'm putting more effort into our relationship and my GF is just sitting back enjoying what I do for her without her returning the effort.