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I'm incredibly frustrated right now, my partner has been very stressed about the thought of how much money a wedding is going to cost us and other issues about being required to invite family that we don't really care about being there. Anyways, we had settled on having a backyard reception but the past few weeks he's been kind of pushing against that because of the amount of work it would be for us, which is fair but this was my compromise to save money. 

Now we randomly visited a local winery that I had emailed a couple of times for rates. It's beautiful, we both loved the layout of it and the fact that it has limited space (so we can cut some people off our list without being too offensive). However, the lady who does the coordinating has not returned any of my emails. We left our name and information with someone at the winery and she said she'd make sure the wedding planner would get back to us ASAP. This was on Sunday, it's now Thursday and we have not heard anything. I left a message yesterday to have someone call us back. 

I'm very frustrated that we've found a place that we both really love and my partner is actually willing to spend the money because he loves it so much but the lady that works there can't respond to a single email or phone call. I'm just so tired of looking around and trying to find the perfect space that balances my want for beauty and my partners need for it to be low in cost. I really want this place to work out but it feels like if the struggle is this hard at the beginning before we even start planning that I'm going to lose my mind trying to get answers as we plan things. 

My rational brain is saying that I should just move on, that the stress is not worth the location but I've spent the last 5 months going back and forth with my partner trying to find the perfect place and I was more than happy doing the backyard reception, I'm just so tired. So very tired, I don't feel any excitement about looking or planning any more because it's been drained out of me.
<bot>: We found the perfect venue but the wedding coordinator there does not seem to know how to respond to emails or phone calls.