<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

My new wife and I are having serious troubles. We got married after 6 months of dating. I know this was fast, but everything seemed great. There were a few things I messed up on at first. We went to a bar and I, being a socialite, got drunk and started talking to everyone. She saw me getting chatty with women, so I stopped going out and getting drunk. I had some old naked pictures of an ex on my PC, and she found those. So that caused problems. But we worked past all of that. She always told me that we shouldn't make new friends of the opposite sex, which I somewhat agreed to.

I don't have any desire to make close personal female friends. She also said not to go out and have lunch and stuff with people of the opposite sex. Easy enough. So we get married. Fast forward to some new work training I had to do. I ended up having dinner with a group of people and sitting between two girls. She sees the picture and freaks out. Says that I should have moved. She also got mad because everyone in my work group added each other to Facebook, and says that its not appropriate to add people of the opposite sex. I should add that I work in a field dominated by women.

Now she says that trust is something you have to earn every day. But I think that trust is something that you need to give your spouse freely unless they break it.

She says she is going to leave me after three months of marriage because I don't agree that these things are wrong. I just feel like you should be able to maintain somewhat of a social life while married. I don't want to talk to women on the side or anything, but feel like I deserve the trust to at least add people on Facebook. And go to a social or work lunch of I deem it necessary. Any thoughts? Similar situations? Should I just try to delete my Facebook and never place myself in social situations with women? Halp
<bot>: wife doesn't trust me to eat lunch with women or add women to Facebook. She says trust needs to be earned. Wut do?