<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

Me, her: F/F, 21/20.

We've been 'together' for around 8 months but have been good friends/sleeping together monogamously for over 2 years. She's doing maths at university, I'm working in an office and trying to launch a creative career. We knew each other during and after high school and our tastes were a lot more aligned, or at least the things we did/talked about were a lot closer. Now we've reached a stage where she's at uni most days, working, doing maths work, being a genius, etc. (there's no resentment, I want her to do what she wants to do!) but I'm, as I've said, working an office job and trying to launch a career that continues to put me in debt but which I find exhilarating. This alone causes tension between us, the unpredictable nature of what I do and when I do it clashes with her absolute necessity to be on time and stick to schedules. I often show up 5-10 minutes late to stuff due to last minute fits of imagination, but we've agreed that's alright. It's not just that though.

She reads textbooks, I play video games. She cooks and enjoys a specific culinary background, as do I another. My favourite movies are her 'whatever' films and vice-versa. I like browsing Reddit when I've got a spare hour, she sees it as a waste of time (that's the point...). As we've been spending more and more time together and suddenly having to grow up together all these things have started to crawl out of the woodwork and become present.

The moments of intimacy, the date nights, the sex, those things are all still wonderful. As a romance, we're wonderful and she completes me, but as human beings I feel like we're both square pegs to each other's round holes.

My question is, is this normal? Do people just put up with the clashes they have with their partners? Where would you draw the line at going out of your way to do things for a partner?
<bot>: A very happy friendship turned into a relationship where we realised our differences are more than we realised. I'm not sure whether it's what I want long term. When is love not enough?