<human>: I'm an 18 year old recent high school graduate. I have been in several relationships before, but it seems I always struggle mightily to seal the deal. I do not have trouble attracting girls, and never had, but as we get closer and start moving along, once they realize I'm looking for something serious and I'm not going to be the "college party" type boyfriend, they either get scared or lose interest. I've been told by endless girls, "you're going to make the perfect husband one day". That's great and all but it provides me with nothing now. I'd prefer not to wait until girls are ready to settle down to have any success in the dating game. Girls my age just aren't looking to settle down long term, especially going into college in a few months. They want freedom. 

It sucks because while I'm okay being single, there are several girls that I genuinely see a future with, but our situations are just too different for the time being. They don't want a "husband boyfriend", they want someone they can just go out and party with and that's not me and while they recognize my qualities, they aren't looking for those quite yet. I'm just wondering what I should do. I have a lot to offer. I'm attractive, intelligent, athletic, have a couple main hobbies that keep me very busy, and (I'm only putting this because it is an underlying factor) I do have a fairly large amount of wealth and my dad is a big time CEO. You wouldn't know it though outside of what I drive and wear because I am extra careful not to mention it or flaunt it, but it does add to what I offer. 

I just hate knowing that these girls that I know I would go amazingly with just aren't going to really be interested in what I want for several years, and the girls who are ready for a relationship now are not really what I'm looking for and quite frankly they're just desperate. 

Any help?

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<bot>: Want long term, stable relationship. No girl I'm interested in at 18 years old wants that type of commitment. In holding patter for several years. Help?