<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

Hey! So we've been seeing each other for about a month and a half and have known each other for 5 and a half months.             
           
Everything is great. We go out on dates, he's met my immediate family and I've met his. We have fun together, he treats me like a real princess. Its amazing and no guy has treated me like this before. I have some reservations about trust since my last boyfriend was emotionally abusive but I'm doing my best to get past them for him.         
          
Its just really weird. I saw red flags when I was with my last ex that I should have left in the beginning, and I feel like I'm seeing a huge red flag now with this new guy and I'm concerned that maybe I should just quit before I'm too attached.         
            
We hang out a lot, we work together, he calls me almost every night to tell me good night. We've had 3 hour long phone conversations, we basically fit together really well, we even have parallel family history. The thing is, he doesn't want to be official. Which is fine! Its only a month and a few weeks. I can wait. But like.. He tells me he loves me. And he wants to run away with me. And just all these romantic things. Sometimes he will refer to us as dating, being a couple or he's my boyfriend but when I bring up any "we" talk, he quickly changes his mind and then I'm left like ... What?               
              
I have never had a problem with a guy not wanting to be official with me. Is this all normal? Do you guys think he's just playing with me? I feel like I should just give up, but he makes me feel soooo good. I really like him a lot.
<bot>: new guy I'm seeing won't make it official, its fine with me but he keeps referencing us as a couple but still says he's not sure if he's ready yet.