<human>: To start things off, we've been together 3 years and go to college together.  We moved in together this semester, and have a few other roommates.  

When I met my boyfriend, he was 5'9, 120 pounds.  A beanpole, extremely skinny looking.  Over the next 2.5 years he put on about 30 pounds eating unhealthy dining hall food.  Not the best way to gain weight, but he looked a lot better afterwards, much more healthy looking.  We were the same weight at this point (yes, I'm overweight.  I'm working on it, I'm on a 1200 calorie diet, and I'm trying not to let my fatness cloud judgement here).  

Now that we live off campus, we don't eat at the dining hall anymore.  I do the cooking.  I cook pretty healthy food, mostly vegetarian because of cost/preference.  He loves my food and eats whatever I make.  But he's lost so much weight, it's very visible.  In the last four months he's lost at least 10-15 pounds.  I give him much larger portions than I eat, bring him regular meals and all that stuff, but he just keeps getting skinnier.  

It's not that I'm less attracted to him, I just feel like a bad girlfriend because I can't keep him well-fed.  I show my love through food.  I'm a very demonstrative, touchy person and he is less so, but food is a demonstration I give that never gets turned down.  So I pride myself on being a good cook.  

How do I get over this?  There are some things that still lead to friction between us, like the fact that he doesn't eat breakfast, or that before a big exam or project he won't eat at all because it makes him nervous.  I know I should just let him live his own life, but I really want to pamper and mother him with food and it worries me that he keeps losing weight.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: My boyfriend has lost 10-15 pounds unintentionally over the past few months and I feel like a bad girlfriend for not feeding him enough.