<human>: i was i a 9 yr long distance relationship but in highschool up til early adult but i never got to see her in person, not one time. we broke up due to bad things and havent been together for the last 3 or so years. And while I've been alone I've had some time for introspection, objective reason and long nights thinking focused on my self-reflection. i think i am a completely better person from where i was before and it so happens that she started messaging me at this time when i feel this way. if there ever were two people in a room. you'd be able to see the glow coming from both of us and just know we are meant for each other. i could hear it over the phone when she called and she could easily hear it right back. it was a terrible 'high and low' emotional talk (haven't heard her voice in the past 3 years) she told me shes been in and out of relationships since and always ended up bad for a reason i personally cant understand. shes single living on her own doing her own thing and pretty much available. im doing my own thing living on my own now as well with a job and nothing currently holding me down to one thing.it should be simple cut and dry but it isnt cause of how bad i messed up on her before all of this. we are both over this mundane same thing day to day type of life and just plain out tired of the bs, i told her we are both adults now  and not stupid teenagers, if we really wanted something, we would manage to work around or responsibilities  to obtain just that. at the end of it all i told her just to think about it and she said i am..is it different from i will? cause i use to get that before. and if i by some miracle get back with her, im going to marry her and be exactly how a husband ought to be. call me a white picket fence type of guy

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<bot>: was in a 9 yr long dist. relationship that ended up not working out, 3 or so years later she comes back feeling the exact same way as i feel but still hesitant. how can i make this work???