<human>: Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 years now and have had our share of ups and downs, with many more ups than downs. I recently got a job and she is in grad school for the year, but found a job in my area. We had plans to move in together and eventually (hopefully sooner rather than later) get married. Lately she has been feeling down a number of times and has doubts and fears about our future. 

She recently told me that she would like to break contact for a month so that she can get her head together because she is not feeling OK. And that I should take that month to life my life and not make it so much about her. She gave me a date on which she promises to contact me and give me her decision about what she would like to do. I still love her with all my heart and she says that she is positive that she loves me as well. In our last conversation, we did not break up - she also said that she did not want to break up. We are still dating yet not talking for a month.

But what happens in a month? Does everything just start up again? I'm devastated and need to get this out. Thank you.

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<bot>: GF of 3 years and I are taking month off to change her thinking. But we haven't broken up and I'm so lost.