<human>: Long story short, she went away for college and we had some issues keeping a long distance relationship together. We spilt for the past couple weeks and now we're talking again and might try to get things back together because the differences we had have simmered down.

However, I had always had this creeping suspicion that a lot of why she had trouble in the relationship was because she was interested in other people. She asked me whether I thought sex was just a physical thing or a more emotional thing, and I told her I thought it was emotional. Anyway, I pressured her into telling me that she slept with another guy while we were apart.

At first thought I figured she did it to spite me, and I told her that and she said it had nothing to do with me just that "she was lonely and he was there". As far as I know it was just some guy she barely knew, essentially a one night stand. I would guess she was drunk and partying and it just happened. I don't know the details right now.

I'm not sure whether I should be upset about this or not, or what I should say about it altogether. She was upset when I pressured her about talking about it before, and I don't want to make her mad again. For me, sex is more of a connection on an emotional level, but she's made it abundantly clear it's just a physical thing for her.

So technically she didn't cheat on me while we were together, she waited until right after we split up to get with another guy.

Anyway, I plan to basically say that:
A) I feel like what she did was relatively disrespectful to me.
B) I feel like what she did was unsavory.
C) I'm overall pretty upset that she made the decision to do that.

But despite those things I think I need to just acknowledge that it happened and let it go (for the most part).

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<bot>: How should I feel about my gf sleeping with someone else while we were apart, provided that we may be getting back together? Does it depend on circumstance?