<human>: Hey-oh,

First off, my wife and I have a great relationship. Best friends and roommates for 5yrs, dated for 2, been married for 1. Good stuff, zero complaints.

However, I feel very guilty about a small facet. We go on a *lot* of mini vacations and roadtrips, visiting breweries or cheese factories or national parks or flower festivals etc. Anything and everything. Unfortunately (in my opinion) my wife is the one who always sets these up. I offer little to no input on these things as she's always so good about looking for stuff to do. I've talked to her about it and she doesn't have much of an answer, she "just finds" them somehow. She also doesn't seem to mind being responsible for it as it's fun for her, but I know it can cause her stress sometimes as it's just another thing put on her plate.

So, my question to you lot is this; what sites or services or mental exercises can I use to be better at doing my part to organise stuff for us to do? She's not bitter or mad or anything, but I know for a fact that it would ease her burden if she wasn't *always* the one setting stuff up for us to do. She tells me she appreciates me for always being willing to do whatever she wants (I'm a very agreeable person) so that's me "doing my part" in her book, but I'd like to do more. I just don't know how. I'm a fairly lazy person at heart and need a little direction in how to be more proactive in finding things for us to do so she doesn't have to *all* the time.

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: what methods do you guys use to come up with trips/excursions for couples to go on? Sites, services, mental exercises; all advice is welcome. Thanks.