<human>: We used to play World of Warcraft together and "met" through some mutual gaming friends - i.e. we only know each other in game, and have never met in person, as he lived in another state. The first time I quit, we exchanged email addresses and would chat over IM every now and again.

Fast forward 6 years.

He has moved to my city for work, and brought his gf (I have no idea how old she is) along with him. I'm in a serious relationship (5 years, and engaged), which he knows about.

He recently suggested meeting up, which I'd like to do, as I really enjoyed playing together with him.

However, I have heard some stories about how he has hooked up with other girls from WoW, and one of them was an ex-guildmate of mine who told me she slept with him while she was engaged to her now-ex-fiancee. Another player, who I have met in person, told me that he stole another player's girlfriend.

While I'd like to think I'm not so conceited that I think he'll drop his pants at the sight of me, a part of me is worried that he gets off on breaking up relationships, and is only interested in meeting up with me to try and hook up. Which is 100% not going to happen, as he's not my type, and I really love my fiancee. So if that's all he's interested in, I'd like to save both of our time and just make it clear that ti's not going to happen.

How do I agree to meet up and send a clear message that I'm not interested in hooking up?

Before you ask why I consider someone like that a friend, I guess it's because I feel like we've been through a lot in game together. I know it seems silly to compare it to war buddies, but that's the kind of feeling I have.

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<bot>: Online friend wants to meet. He has a history of breaking up relationships. I want to make it clear that I'm happy to meet as friends, but not interested in anything else.