<human>: My girlfriend has graduated university and gone straight into teaching in a high school around a hour drive from were I live, she has been teaching there for a week and is very stressed. I am in a 9-5 internship and will go back to university (where we both used go, and which is about 5 hours away from her new job) in around a month.

She is very stressed and I'm not sure how to best support her. She thinks she is too busy for me to go and see her (even just for an evening). I'm not great over the phone anyway.

How do I support her when she's only had time for a 2 min phone convo in a day? What more can I do than listen to her and tell her that it'll get better. How do I know if my attempts to phone and text her are welcome or clingy and annoying?

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<bot>: How best to work a long term relationship where she (albeit just for the first week) has very little time to engage with me and is very stressed.