<human>: My Mother is exactly the opposite of me. She is bubbly, talks extremely loud, tries to be friends with everyone and is pushy to the point of being "creepy" when it comes to social matters. I am nothing like this, and my Mother is exceedingly unhappy with this. She insists I entirely alter the very foundations of my personality to be more like her and her side of the family. My Father (by the way, I am a guy), on the other hand, is *just* like me. I want to become a Software Engineer, and she thinks this is a bad idea because I will be using a computer too much, and she thinks I will become a failure because I am an engineer (she holds a huge amount of dislike/contempt for/against all engineers because they are generally not social). So, reddit, how do I tell my mother, **politely**, to fuck the fuck off when she starts the "you should change to be more like me" rant?

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<bot>: My mother is a ridiculous person with ridiculous ideals and thinks I should change the very fabric of my personality to be like her.