<human>: We did make an agreement about one month in and said we wouldn't see anyone else, which is why I'm struggling.

The man who asked me out I've had a small crush on for 2 years almost. He's finally single and made a move, but I'm in this... thing. Idk if he's even worth it. We've kissed before. He likes me. He's always liked me. He just never was single or available.

I really like the person I'm seeing. He's kind, tells me the truth, let's me rant, deals with my concerns. He's great other that the fact that he will not refer to me as his girlfriend. We do almost everything a bf/gf would do. I've asked him about it and his response is that he's just not ready yet. Idk if he's not ready for me or in general.

I can't help but wonder if he's just happy with what I'm giving - my time, company, emotions, but can't give them back. There has really only been one time where I asked for his emotional support and he didn't want to help... but two other times he has. I give 100% effort into this "relationship" and while I think he's trying, I can tell he's only giving 80%. Should I be patient? Is four months rushing? Should I give it a go (non-physcial, just go hang out) with the other guy without telling the one I'm dating currently? Should I tell him? Please help.

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<bot>: I'm dating a very nice man, he does everything great but won't call me is girlfriend. I've been asked out by a guy I was crushing on for years. Do I go?