<human>: This girl likes me.  We've been on a few dates.  On paper she's really everything I'm looking for.  The only problem is I don't feel the same about her.  I've naturally developed crushes on girls and it feels wrong to try to make a relationship out of something where I don't feel anything in the beginning.  However, it's not exactly like I'm getting jumped left and right by supermodels so I don't want this to be a lost opportunity.  

But part of me feels like if I keep trying to make myself like her, I'll have a mental block against actually liking her.  I've met girls before whom i didn't have a crush on and developed one over time, but I don't know if that will happen when the possible relationship is blaring in my face right from the beginning.  I'm not sure how to move forward.  

Have you ever ended up with someone who you didn't really 'fall for' at the beginning?

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<bot>: do I try to force myself to like this girl who likes me and is a good fit on paper or if i don't feel it naturally, it's not gonna happen?