<human>: I come from a very tight knit Russian-American family that for the past 3 months have been shoving the idea of marriage down my throat. Especially since it's the holidays, they've been especially gossipy about it and I've even heard family members asking if they think I will ever get married. Now, I'm in no way unattractive nor do I have any trouble attracting the opposite sex. I just feel 18 is too young for me to be getting married. In the Russian culture girls tend to get married very young to males who are usually 3-5 years older, and I do have someone in mind that I wouldn't mind dating, but my family doesn't understand that you can't just make feelings be mutual and get engaged overnight. How, how, how do I cope with this and these dumb expectations?! They're making me feel like I'm going to be alone forever just because I want to get my education out of the way & life straightened out first.

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<bot>: Family expects me to marry young, starting to spread rumors, I just want to go to school and get my life straightened out. How do I deal with them??