<human>: I am a 24 year old female who has lost my father and my grandparents when I was younger. My father died from a heart attack, and my grandparents both died of cancer. My mom is the last living immediate family member, and we are usually close. The first time I heard about healthcare directives and living wills was with my grandma who passed three years ago. 

My mother has always told me that if anything were to happen to me she would " take care of it as she sees fit". However, her views on end of life care and my views on end of life care (pertaining to myself) are very different. I believe that if there is no chance of me bouncing back or living with dignity I should be let go. When i bring this topic up, she repeats AGAIN that "she would take care of it", but I feel that my wishes would not be heard. 

My questions is: is it wrong for me to want to get a living will behind her back? I know that if I were to bring it up to her, she would immediately shut the conversation down. I don't need legal advice because I know where to go to get the paperwork done and the steps. I'm just wondering if it is wrong for me to do this and think of this.

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<bot>: If I were to need life extending care, I would want to refuse. My mom thinks differently. Want to get living will in place without her knowledge. Is this wrong?