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Please, no comments about the age difference between my SO and I. We're very happy except for this issue which I need some advice about.

**A brief background:** My SO and I have been together over a year. We lived 2.5 hours away from each other, and his roommate was horrible so we decided to move in together in my city. Unfortunately, his father was in an abusive marriage across the country, and the more the merrier right? Well, no.

**What's been going on:** My SO's father has issues with alcohol. He'll drink for a few days, be passed out for a few days, and during that time he won't take his medicine which sometimes results in a hospital visit because of his blood pressure (I'm a nursing student, btw. It drives me absolutely crazy). Also, he's told me several times that my SO and I don't do anything around the house and that we make all the mess. This is simply untrue. I dedicate one whole day a week to deep cleaning, along with doing little things like vacuuming everyday. He gets in fights with my SO about things like food and (the fight that is currently happening) Mt. Dew. If someone drinks the last Mt. Dew, even if grocery shopping is happening the next day, all hell breaks loose. 

**My dilemma:** Simply, I've lost my patience. I'm almost to resort to screaming back at him, that's how bad it is. I want to continue living with my SO, because as I said before we're very happy in our relationship. Not only does his screaming drive my anxiety through the roof (I once had a panic attack in the shower) but in general it's just exhausting dealing with him, my school work, and my job. We're planning on moving from an apartment to a house where I can have my dog. How do I tell my boyfriend that I think **(A)** we should move without him or **(B)** I'm moving in with my grandparents without offending him? How can we continue to be happy with all the **bullshit** his dad puts us through?
<bot>: Living with SO and his father. His father has horrible behavior. How do I keep my sanity and my relationship? And I like **bold words**