<human>: My husband and I moved to a new country. Over the last five years, our social circles have barely anyone in common anymore, our hobbies have changed (he's given up a few we used to share for others I don't care for) and so we barely have anything in common anymore, nor anything in common to talk about. Some days we'll just do things on our own after work and only have generic "how was your day" conversations.

All around me I see people with spouses or partners and they seem to have things in common and enjoy doing things together. How common or uncommon is it to have almost completely separate lives and only really meet for dinners out a couple of times a week or do our own things (me gaming, him watching TV) in the same room but barely talking?

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<bot>: How common is it for long term couples to not really have much in common anymore? We still love each other but barely have anything to talk about anymore.