<human>: So I got out of a 7.5  year relationship about 7 months ago.  She's moved on and found someone already while I seem to have trouble even meeting anybody.

Part of it is because I moved back to SoCal so I have to rebuild my social network as I don't really know anyone here.  Another part of it is my job has me working from 1pm - 10pm M-Th so I don't have much of a life outside of that at the moment.

Now I have tried r4r and dating sites and I do end up talking to people, but it usually just dissolves and people stop replying.  On two occasions girls end up saying we should meet up and suggest a date.  Then when that date/time comes nothing comes of it.  

Now I'm not exactly sure what it is I'm looking for with all that being said... but I guess I just feel like I'm doing something wrong.  Doesn't help that I haven't been single for so long I just don't know what I'm doing.  As much as I really do want someone in my life to share a connection with, its just beginning to feel a little hopeless and its beginning to weigh on me.

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<bot>: Out of a 7.5 year relationship and learning to be single again, but I'm pretty sure I'm doing it wrong.