<human>: follow up to post: 

Both 18 going to college, I asked her out at the end of classes on the second last day before mid-sem break (which is on now) and there was a cool little event on at the museum so I just said "wanna go somewhere tonight" sorta thing. Didn't explicitly say 'date' or 'go out'. Anyway, she said yes, and we ended up getting dinner, going to the place, getting dessert and popping by a bar for a drink. I ended up back at her college and went upstairs since I'd had a drink and wanted to wait a bit before driving. Ended up crashing in her bed, though nothing happened, not particularly good with the whole touching/escalating thing and thought since it was a 'first date' she might not be comfortable... though we do basically hang out every day in a bunch of friends.

Asked her in the morning when we were still lying in bed just hugging, and she said she had fun the other night and I asked if she'd want to do something 'proper' during the break (she lives far away from college), and she said yes again, suggesting that I come up to where she lives.

Now being the innocent inexperienced guy, I'm not sure if she would've considered the night a 'date' or if it was just a friendly hang-out, or whether the next 'date' is in fact a date. Since there wasn't any making out or hand holding or that stuff, would she be friend-zoning me or just thinking of hanging out as friends? Should I be escalating even if I don't know if she thinks its a date? It'd be a bit weird if I escalated and she considered us just friends... Should I be more direct or somehow be more obvious?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: went on a first 'date' with a good friend, not sure if she thought of it as a date or if she thinks the next date is a 'date'. Should I be more overt or do something to show something?