<human>: I don't know if this is the right subreddit or the right flair. If not, please tell me.

Been with her for only 9 months and she's my first romantic relationship ever. She learned at 3 months and a half that she was pregnant and she told me a few days later because she planned on doing an abortion and THEN telling me. But she hesitated and finally changed her mind. We're both still at school, still live at our parent's house and have no jobs and I think it's pretty obvious that this is not the right time at all for a baby. After our studies would be perfect, but definitely not right now. What if we don't stay together? 9 months is relatively really short.

How can I convince her to abort? I think it would be a very bad way to start both of our lives (and create a third one).

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Gf doesn't want to "kill" a 4 month fetus but it's really not an ideal time for a baby since we're still students without a home