<human>: Fh and I have been together over 3 years, engaged since February and are planning a long engagement to be married in spring 2016.  We haven't done that much planning yet because we have been distracted by my graduation (next week), my finding a job (two job offers yay), finding a place for us to live near my new job, and fh transferring his job to the city we will be living in. He is very excited and has many crazy ideas, I'm not super into wedding stuff but I really like organizing and crafts so I'm sure it will come together. 

The problem I am having is not really a huge problem but just kind of annoying I guess.  When we announced our engagement to my parents (we took them out to brunch to tell them) they basically said "ok" and then changed the subject.  I understand not everyone's big on weddings (myself included) and I wasn't expecting a huge reaction but I did expect something.  Since then my mom has only made a related comment like one time(about the ring fh had designed for me) and my dad has literally not mentioned a single thing related to it at all. My parents have been separated for many years and are amicable so I don't know that it's necessarily about that.  Perhaps it's just that it's so far out and we have literally nothing concrete planned yet, but it seems like lots of people have family that are really happy for them. I don't think my family dislike fh they just seem indifferent to the engagement.  Granted my sister is always very sweet about everything. 
On the other hand when we told fh's parents they were super excited and immediately started asking us lots of questions (to which we didn't know the answers) so I know I'm not just imagining that this is a thing. 

On the upside friends have been very excited and interested and fh is ahead of himself with crazy plans.

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<bot>: Just wondering if anyone has family that is less than excited about their engagement and what (if anything) there is to do about it.