<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

My wife told me she has been resenting me for the past 2 years because I haven't made her a priority in my life against my kids, hobbies etc. She has a point and I have screwed up. We had one counseling session and I've been told I'm codependent. 

That aside, I found her cell phone bill (under my name) was high. Went to check the calls and found long distance calls for long durations. Turns out she's been calling this guy that she was friends with a long time ago and she met with him for coffee last week. 

I still love her tremendously and will continue counseling for both our marriage and my codependency problems, but how can I trust her again?
<bot>: Married for 8 years, wife has resented me for last 2 and she's in an emotional affair with another guy (that is luckily not close to where we live)