<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

I'm about to move across the country for a potentially amazing job opportunity, and we've both planned to get out of our state for a few months now. The opportunities are presenting themselves for me, and I feel as if I must make a jump. She is finishing grad school, so she will have to wait 3-4 months to follow me. She's been nothing but supportive of this, and is totally onboard to re-locate, but she is fearful of us living together. We'd realistically save a lot getting a place together, and lately we've been sleeping at eachothers apartments 4-5 sometimes 6 times a week. It's like we're living together already! She doesn't want to ruin the relationship, and I understand that completely. I'm very easy going and love her with everything I have. Any advice on sorting this out with her?
<bot>: I'm moving across the country, my girlfriend plans to follow in a few months but is afraid of us living together and getting an apartment. She doesn't want to ruin the relationship.