<human>: Yes, I'm sure. She's all but told me. She also says it's a personal problem, not involving me, but she's unhappy and needs time away from me and her close friends. She said she won't be seeing anyone (this makes sense as she can't feel any emotions for the past week or so apparently)

I should mention we dated for 3 months before after which she, of course, left me.

I don't need any lectures on how dumb it was to go back to her, I was and am in love, I know my mistake.

But how do I react? I'm weird in that I spent my entire childhood being raised by an authoritarian father who never showed emotion, and the same was expected of me. So I didn't cry around anyone but my sweet mother. I opened up to this girl and I know I'll cry, I'm not used to it and don't know how to act, like how or if to hide it, etc. we will FaceTime so she can see what I do.

How do I get over her as quickly as possible? Last time was mind numbingly terrible as it took me the entirety of the summer and more to see any marked improvements.

I also fear it's been an abusive relationship.. But I'm the guy and I'm so much bigger and stronger than her and is it even really possible for that to be abusive? I don't mean physically of course but.. I guess that's a separate issue.

But I digress. Help me with how to react during and after the breakup. I want her to think fondly of me when she looks back but I don't want it to be super easy for her to move on.. As terrible as that may sound.
How do I say goodbye on the phone? She doesn't live near me I won't run into her.

And what do I do with the pictures and social media and such?
I'm so new at breakups.

ASAP please as she could call at any moment.

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<bot>: My first long term, serious girlfriend is about to call me and leave me and I need to know how to react and what to do afterwards to help cope.