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Hi everyone -  So a few months ago I ended a really bad relationship.  Then about a month ago I started seeing someone new.  We're both in school so we haven't has much time to connect, but we've hung out a few times. Sushi twice (first my treat, second hers), and then we volunteered together at a recent Santa parade. Apart from that, we text every few days or so. It's really, really light. 

What I'd really like help with is language to use to figure out what her intentions are, without scaring her off. She's quite shy and even she admits that she's rather passive, so naturally I'd rather not freak her out. Is is too soon to ask what her last relationship was like? Or is that off the table?  Like I've 

We haven't had a talk about anything more official nor has anything physical happened, but I do get the feeling like she's at least interested. Like I said, she's really shy so I think that accounts for her aloofness. 

I'm cooking dinner tonight for the two of us, so I'd like to have some conversation with her about it then.
<bot>: What are good words and questions to use to figure out where someone sees something going, without really grabbing the bull the proverbial horns.