<human>: I'd say we are intimate about 4-5 days a week, we don't live together so we spend time at each others places. Last night he expressed to me that I am not giving it up as much as he wants and said "it'd just be nice if when I'm ready to go, you at least follow through" implying that because he is ready to go, then I should be too. I explained to him that women and men are different in that women need a little finessing in getting aroused.

I woke up this morning still sort of steamed about that comment. It made me feel awful, like I'm being used. I understand sex is an important part of a relationship, but I'm not willing to fake it and do something I don't want to do because he's ready to go. In my opinion, that's not fair to either of us.

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<bot>: SO claims that because he's ready to go sexually, I should drop what I'm doing and satisfy him. Am I wrong for feeling used?