<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

I've been with my girlfriend for 7 months, and the topic of sex with her is extremely frustrating. To make one thing clear: The fact that we aren't having sex does not frustrate me, that's completely okay. Especially since we're both still virgins, and only been together for 7 months. Rather than the lack of sex, it's the lack of any sort of progress at all. She doesn't like to talk about it, doesn't like to think about it, anything sexual she does to/for me is because she feels obligated to. That's something I definitely don't want, I want her to do these things because she loves me and she's aroused.

I think I'm a good boyfriend, if you'll allow me to toot my own horn for a moment, I'm very loving, I'm a romantic, I try to be as spontaneous as possible, and I baby/spoil her like crazy. I'm not trying to say that I think I've earned the right to have sex with her, but I DO think that I've earned at least an actual attempt from her, but I don't get that. I've tried to talk to her about it, but without fail she tries to blow it off, and without meaning to, makes me feel guilty for even trying.

Which brings me to my question: What's your opinion? Am I justified in what I'm trying to do, or am I being a fucknut who needs to back off?
<bot>: Am I justified in trying to convince my girlfriend to at least try being sexual with me, or do I need to back off?