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I [19 M] was in a relationship with my girlfriend [19 F] for close to two years. Our bond we had together incredible. I loved the closeness that we shared. It was probably how close we were to each other which eventually lead to our break up but the connection i had with her is something i want to strive for in a relationship.

Since my previous relationship I have tried to pursue other woman but I find myself too quickly disinterested with small talk. I have only found one girl who in genuinely interesting to talk to and she is 17 so she is completely out of the question. 

I guess my question is How do I get back out there? Is the small talk like "what are you up to" or asking what I had for dinner just a part of getting to know someone? 
I mean seriously who cares what I had for dinner.
I'm not even kidding, a girl asked me what I had for dinner.    

Don't get me wrong, I love getting to know people. I love learning how other people think and any weird things that they might do.  But I find that people often don't like to speak of things that others might find "weird".  Which makes the person seem to bland to me.
<bot>: Had an amazing connection with my previous girlfriend. Now I want to know how to get back out there when I quickly become disinterested in small talk associated with getting to know someone.