<human>: My boyfriend and I are long distance right now. About 3 hours away. I am getting ready to graduate with my master's degree in the spring. He just graduated from college a few months ago - didnt get into medical school like we thought. He decides he wants to be a physician assistant - cool. He isn't able to apply to schools until this fall and wouldn't be starting until 2016, so he says he wants to use his degree (biochemistry) as a job until then, working in a lab or something. 

He ends up never finishing his resume and works under-the-table at his cousin's sub shop. This is probably bitchy on my part, but I am kind of disappointed. It really bothers me when he says he will do something and doesn't do it - and constantly complains that he doesn't make enough money. We were planning on saving (I go to school and work full-time in mental health) for an apartment and a future wedding. Now he claims he cannot save anything because of his job and all of our rent money/etc. will have to come from ME. But, he still has money to go to the bar and out with his friends every week.

I think we are at different stages in life, maybe? I am ready after 4 years of dating to settle down, graduate, and start my life with someone. He seems like he is not ready for this. He is just enjoying being out with his friends and spending his money while I work my ass off on rotating shifts to try to save up for our future. I don't know if this relationship has anywhere else to go, and if I should just break it off and find someone at the same 'place' as me.

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<bot>: Boyfriend is working shitty job, spends money with friends and at bars but says I have to be the sole provider for our future rent/apartment. I think we're at two different stages in life. Are we?