<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

So some context: I have this friend. A few years ago her and I used to like each other. Nothing happened, we moved on, she got a boyfriend. Year later, I like her again. Year after that, I don't like her. We're all 18. They've been dating two and a half years.

Her boyfriend hates me because I liked her and he thinks I still do. So for the last six months he's been harassing me, acting like an asshole, yaddayadda.

This week I texted my friend and in reply she said to stop talking to her. This was odd, so I texted back and she replied that she didn't like me. Again, odd, but I couldn't call. She sent one more text after that calling me a loser and saying I had no friends and to never text her again.

Turns out it was her boyfriend. He had taken her phone without her knowing and texted me this stuff pretending to be her. She said he didn't mean it and that it was annoying but I did have feelings for her so his behavior isn't that out of line.

...yeah, so, I feel a little creeped out and worried by this. Last month he made a Facebook account just to go through her photos and wall to see what I had commented on, and apparently he has me on his buddy list so he knows when I'm online even though we never talk to each other. And the way my friend is just hand waving this stuff away as no big deal worries me a little more.

Would I be overreacting to expect more respect from the both of them? Or should I just take it because I did, in fact, have feelings for her?
<bot>: friend's boyfriend pretended to be friend, said not to talk to "her." Creeped out, call him on it? Buy a giraffe?