<human>: Hey, I'm using a throw away cause she frequents reddit. So anyway tonight I lost my first real girlfriend. I honestly didn't see it come and now looking back feel stupid I didn't noticed the signs. 

I asked her when she stopped loving me and she said about 4 months ago. I then asked if she was still attracted to me and again she said no. I feel absolutely devestated and lost. I graduate soon and was planning on buying a ring and proposing to her. 

I don't know what to do with myself. I still love her but I know she will never love me the same way. So reddit I ask what do I do to get over her and move on with life?

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<bot>: my girlfriend of 3.5 years stopped loving me and broke up with me. I feel like shit and don't know what to do to move on.