<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

So my girlfriend was away for the week for work.  She normally does most of the cleaning (I deal with non-delicates laundry, litter box, dishes, Roomba care, and general pickup.  She does surface cleaning in bathrooms and kitchen, additional vacuuming, dusting, mopping.).  But the weird thing I noticed this week while she was gone was that there wasn't a lot that needed done.  There wasn't a whole lot of laundry (she has work clothes, and casual clothes, and pajamas every day), fewer dishes (I ate like a bachelor and produced nothing that couldn't go into the dishwasher), the Roomba did a decent job with the floor (because it wasn't eating all the socks she leaves everywhere), and I didn't have to pick up all the things she leaves around the house.

I hate that she spends so much time cleaning all the time, plus I don't like all the cleaners she uses.  I also feel awkward when she's cleaning when I just want to relax, but I realize it's her standard that she's keeping up with and she generally doesn't bother me about it.

The real problem is that she gets stressed out if things are messy (for her standards, so all the sheets on all the beds need to be washed, floors mopped, everything dusted, nice things set out, all the towels and napkins washed, etc.), especially if we're having guests and will marathon for 8 hours and stay up until very late until everything is done.  Any advice on getting her to reduce the production end of the equation instead of increasing the cleaning side of the equation?  Or how to get her to calm down about worrying about being judged by guests?
<bot>: Girlfriend cleans a lot and doesn't mind it but seems to be the source of all the mess.  Any way to encourage her to make less of a mess and spend less time cleaning?