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My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years. We've discussed and known from the beginning that if we ever had an unwanted pregnancy, we would both absolutely be in favor of an abortion. When it actually happened 4 months ago it was only a question of where to make the appointment and figuring out exactly what procedure I wanted. He was completely supportive through it all.

We agreed that we were both a bit traumatized by it and that neither of us would be emotionally ready to have sex again for awhile. In the 3 1/2 months since the surgery we had one really passionate make out that I think was mutually wanted. I've told him that with the proper birth control I'm ready to have sex again but I'm perfectly happy refraining from sex but still doing other things. I've been really emotionally needy since the surgery so I do need a lot to feel loved and wanted, but that doesn't have to require our genitals. Yet, with time he's become less and less willing to even kiss me. He says he just needs me to be patient and that my being needy is the big turnoff. He says we'll be fine and get through it, though I know that a huge number of relationships end after an abortion and not having sex is the biggest indicator.

So, reddit, I'm turning to you. Do I just need to stop worrying and it'll happen when he's ready? Or is he actually just not attracted to me anymore? Or what? I'm driving myself a little nuts about it all.
<bot>: 7 year long relationship. Mutually agreed to get an abortion. He's too traumatized to have sex with me or anything else sexual with me. Is it probably over?