<human>: Recently (within the last two months) [F25] connected with someone I knew in college [M24] that I had rarely spent time with. Now we talk a LOT. Like we're been best friends which is great. We also flirt a bit. 

He is in a long term, long distance relationship that is essentially non existent, and he is incredibly, respectfully, loyal to her. Like to the point where we've been alone in a room, very very drunk and no moves have been made. Which I'm thankful for because I could never forgive myself if I led a friend to cheating. But I feel like if I'm drunk and he makes a move I won't be able to stop myself. 

So here's the asking for advice part. I don't want to cross any boundaries, but I do like him. But neither of us would be in a good position to be in a relationship if he became single. And I reallyyyyy wish I could find a way to get him to open up about his relationship so I don't put too much into the friendship just to lose it all if/when their relationship gets back on track.

Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell
<bot>: I don't want to get involved in cheating, but I don't want to lose a friendship or start a relationship.