<human>: So my gal and I got married a week and a half ago, went on our honeymoon, got back and just opened up the cards last night.  We used our invite/address list as a checklist to fill in notes for personal touches on the Thank- You notes and to record gifts. 
When all was said and done, we found that some people didn't give a card.  I can understand if things are late or if times are tough, but a particular group didn't have cards in the pile and some of the people that you'd really think would at least give a card (a 35 yr old gay doctor?!).  Now, i'm not harping on the money, but I really feel like some of these people would def give a card.  If they did give cards and someone took them... i'd think they'd want to know, but we don't really know how to ask w/o sounding like we're trying to collect... has anyone had any experience w/ this?

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<bot>: Didn't get wedding cards from people that we'd totally expect to get cards from.  Don't know how to ask if they actually brought cards.