<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

His history is nothing disturbing. I'm probably overreacting but the issue is that I live in the Midwest. He's white and I'm Asian. He has only had two serious girlfriends in the past and he's still friends with his first one--the first love.

On facebook, he was looking through my profile pictures and so I did the same. That first love is Asian.

I don't know if it is because I don't feel unique? Or I have this weird feeling that I'm being fetishsized. The second option bothers me. We live in the Midwest and it's not like there are a LOT of Asians available to date. 85% of the single women in our area are white; did he target me?

He has stated he wants to be exclusive with me, I have declined for now because I enjoy dating other guys. I was leaning towards saying Yes just because he's awesome and has a great relationship with his family. But now I am dreading our planned excursion for this weekend because I feel weird.

So how do I ask him about the first love? He said he likes my "nerdiness" and is always commenting on my looks so DO I ask him if he picked me because I am Asian? This reeks of poor self esteem but I assure you, I'm normal as far as self esteem goes. I just want to make sure he's a good person before saying, "Yes I will date you exclusively."
<bot>: White suitor has limited romantic history and last love was Asian. Am I just a fetish to him and do I ask him about this?