<human>: My husband loves Christmas. I didn't so much until we had kids. 

He is pretty materialistic. He loves his things and is always wanting something new. He had a huge list of things he wanted for Christmas, however we don't have a ton of extra income. For that reason, I asked that for christmas I get an uninterrupted nap and a nice date day out with him. We have 2 small daughters and I'm a SAHM. Time to myself and time alone with him are the biggest things I want. I'm a very practical simple gal and like gifts that are useful or things that I can use to get out of the house. 

I got him one of the things he really wanted (A nice jacket he had picked out) I had shopped around and found one at a good price. I got a discount for joining an emailing list and had a coupon code as well. However, I ordered the wrong size and needed to exchange it but it's currently unavailable anywhere. He was trying to help me find it and asked how much I spent (about $60 after the discounts. originally about $100) He got me phone accessories for Christmas and told me he spent $100+ on them. He said he got me that because he didn't know what I liked and I didn't tell him what I wanted and seemed very disappointed that I didn't spend as much as he did.

I'm thankful for the gift and expressed my gratitude, and I don't want to sound selfish, but I did tell him what I wanted. He just doesn't get that I'm not the same as him. Maybe it's just me, but I don't think price matters when giving a gift. When I saw his reaction to what I paid, I felt very cheap. Living on such a budget I didn't see a reason to pay $100 when I could get the same thing for $60.

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<bot>: I didn't spend as much on a gift as my husband did and he seemed disappointed. Am I a cheapo?