<human>: I (M23) currently have something going with a cute girl (21). Being the rockstar that I am not, I am very inexperienced and haven't been in a relationship before.

So, while I expect in the future to play all these things based on "what feels right", that is usually based on relying on your previous experience. Thus, with my lack of experience, I came to draw on yours.

I have some dates coming up with the girl in the near future. As far as I know, we're not in an exclusive relationship, but I also assume neither of us are jumping on every other person we see. Thus I want to know, reddit, how do you know when is the right time to move ahead in this direction and (more importantly) how do you exactly do so?

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<bot>: No experience, currently "seeing" someone, when and HOW do I move things to a relationship, if so desired?