<human>: Bit of background on the relationship: Been seeing Girl for a about 4 months now, we live in different cities so we only see each other once or twice a month but talk everyday. It is her birthday on the 16th of July and she has told me that her birthday is not a big deal for her, however given there is sometimes a cultural gap between us (she is Chinese) I explained that when English girls say that it usually means the opposite lol. She insists that she means what she says but i still want to do something nice for her on her birthday. She will be working on her birthday so I have no idea what i can do. ANY IDEAS or Advice on this will be appreciated greatly!

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<bot>: Asian girl I'm seeing for 4 months says her birthday isnt a big deal to her but i still want to do something nice.