<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

So this morning I logged into my internet banking to check on the status of my accounts.  I have a rarely used account from a state where I used to live.  Over the last month and a half someone has used the debit card attached to this account to rack up $1500 dollars worth of purchases.  

I called the bank to contest the charges, cancel the card, and file a fraud report.  I also got the phone numbers to the online retailers where the card had been used.

While speaking to Amazon's customer service, the gentleman helping me asked if I knew "insert friend's name here", which came as a shock.  

He was one of my best friends for 15 years.  I've bent over backwards to try to help him through some tough times and get him back on his feet.  He has no family to speak of and very few close friends.  Lives pay check to pay check and constantly complains online about how bad his life is.  

I contacted my "friend" to give him a chance to fess up and tell me what happened.  He however, said "My email got hacked and the hacker must've gotten your information from my email and then had stuff sent to my house."  He took zero responsibility for this situation.  Now I haven't given him my debit card information and I'm not sure where he obtained it.  He asked for some time to try to investigate what happened.  I obliged knowing that he is what happened.  

Later today he wrote me and told me that he wants to make the "hacker" mistake right.  Wants to pay me back, but it'll take a few paychecks before he has it all.  He says he knows I could report it and make his life "10x worse."  I know deep down I'll never see a dime from him.  I guess the advice I need is, Should I report this to the police?  The money isn't what matters to me.  I'm very hurt by this betrayal and feel like if I report this it will ruin his life.  But if I don't report this he will not learn a lesson.
<bot>: Longtime "Friend" had "Hackers" steal my debit card information and used it to send stuff to him.  Should I report to police, knowing that doing so might ruin his life?