<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

Hello redditors,

I need help very quick, because I am leaving for Christmas with my inlaws in a few hours; still have jobs to do and my friend just called me that her mother passed away.

We cried a bit on the phone, and I think she still has a lot to work on with her therapist about the abuse of her NMOM, but she is also relieved.

She just sent her husband and her son away to the Christmas market, so she can cuddle up in bed and be alone.

We live quite close (about 15mins), but I don't want to invade her "space".

**Question:**

Shall I go see her before my husband and I hit the road tomorrow morning? I would quickly grab some chocolate, sweets and the kind and some flowers and drop it off at their place?
   
Or

Since she doesn't want anyone around, wait until the funeral is over (they were supposed to head home to their parents on the 28th) and meet her when she has grieved a bit?
<bot>: My friend was emotionally abused all her life by her NMOM, she hasn't seen her mother in a year. NMOM passed away, my friend is sad AND relieved. What can I do to make her feel better?