<human>: So I'm on the board for a club at my university and we plan a 3 day snowboarding trip for our members every year. I have never gotten the chance to go except for this year. It will be my last year on the board and I would really like to go. 
    The problem is that my boyfriend is not happy. So he moved about an hour away for college and since I didn't get a car until this month and my mom is super strict about me spending the night I haven't been able to go visit him. So its relied on him driving over here on some weekends so we could see each other or him picking me up and driving back over to his apartment. Another problem is that we are on winter break right now and we haven't been able to hang out as much as we wanted to so far because my cousin came from another country to visit. We still have two weeks though to spend time together since she's leaving tommorow.
    

So at first I told my boyfriend that I wasn't going to go so we can have more time together, but after thinking about it I would really like to go since it's my last semester and it's my chance to finally make some friends. So I brought it up today so we can discuss it, and I made it clear that this doesn't mean I'm going. I just wanted to tell him that I would like to go and that I want to talk about it.
  

 My boyfriend got upset because I changed my mind about going. He says it's not fair that I can go to this trip but I'm not allowed to spend the night over there. He also brought up that fact that we don't get to see each other a lot and we only have two weeks left and a 3 day trip will take time away from us spending time together before he leaves. Then he says that I don't put in enough effort in our relationship and don't sacrifice enough to because it's always him that has to come back. Is it selfish of me to want to go?

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<bot>: I want to go on a 3 day snowboarding trip with my uni clib but my boyfriend is not happy because we don't have a lot of time together.