<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

I've been with my boyfriend for more than a year. We live together. I'm unemployed so he supports us. To balance the responsibility, I do all the cooking and cleaning and make our house a home. When we go out, I'm forced to make all decisions on where we go and what we do. Even on date night when he's supposed to plan. If I want us to go see a movie, I have to choose it and he won't give me his opinion. If we go out to dinner I have to choose where, but he won't tell me what he's hungry for, so I'll end up naming a million places. I know this sounds trivial, but after doing this over and over again it gets annoying. What happened to making decisions together? Does anyone else have this problem? I've tried talking to him about it, but for some reason it starts arguments. How do you deal with it?
<bot>: My boyfriend refuses to help make decisions (even if its only trivial things) and gets argumentative. How do I approach that without causing more problems?