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Check my profile for a more comprehensive description of our situation. For these purposes we had no house or kids, we were married for three years and together for five and a half. We were happy together but in the last year and a half things have gone downhill. Lately some major problems developed, our counselor encouraged us to live separately for a time, and quickly after we began that she decided she was done with the relationship. We began living separately two months ago, with the relationship ending (and all contact beyond logistical) six weeks ago. 

In that time I've come to realize A LOT about myself, where my life is headed, and what I want. I have invested in my friends, managed to not become an alcoholic, found a new career path, acknowledged and dealt with a lot of lingering emotional hurt, and have generally made my life 1000x better than it was than when I was with her. But the kicker (which is probably to be expected) is that I still very much love her, and in our last conversation she said the same. I have given her the space she wanted when we decided to live separately, split our possessions generously on her end, and been as accommodating to her needs as I could be. If a clean split exists then this would be it.

Except in all of this she hasn't taken any practical steps to a legal divorce. Should this be significant to me? Does it take this amount of time for someone to start going through the process? She plans to move to another state to be with a close friend in about two weeks, and it seems like she will still leave with us legally married. The reason I don't straight up ask her about it is because I fluctuate a lot right now between hope for our marriage and anger at the things she did that hurt me. My counselor advised me to not contact her until I have had a full month of peace about everything in myself. That certainly hasn't happened yet, but it seems like the clock is ticking and I am having difficulty interpreting her lack of action in ending things with me. 

What should I think?
<bot>: difficult marriage problems, she decides to end things while still having respect and love for me, I agree to it, two months go by and she hasn't communicated anything regarding legal divorce. What should i think?