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I'm currently trying to start a small business with my father and my closest friend. We acquired some acreage and are slowly developing the land to suit our needs, but it's a time consuming process. To put it into perspective, we've been spending a good portion of our weekends working on the land for the last three years and just this last year we were able to completely install all utilities and move into a cabin we all built.

 

I'm also in a long distance relationship with a woman whom I love dearly, and just celebrated my two year with. In an attempt to facilitate our staying close I've maintained a job in my former college town where my SO lives, which is almost two hours away from my future farm. I work there four days a week and the rest of my week is spent at the property. The commute is hell, 4 hoursX4 days a week, but it lets me see her more frequently than most LDRs.

 

Recently my father's income has been more than quartered due to falling energy prices, with him resting on the brink of unemployment. This has slowed development down immensely, and I have now stepped in deeper to pick up some of the slack with my anemic earnings. I'm now in a situation where my father and friend are putting pressure on me to spend the majority of my fleeting spare time working on our business, whilst my girlfriend pressures me to spend more of that time with her.

 

Lately when I try and spend more time on the business she feels like I'm neglecting her, and sometimes even when we're together she says my mind is elsewhere (which is sometimes true, though I've had many obligations and responsibilities from day one). On weekends when she joins me at the farm I find that either my friend and father are disappointed in the amount of work I can assist them with, or my gf finds me distracted and is unsatisfied with the quality or intimacy of our time spent together.

 

Reddit, do you have any advice for how I can try and find the balance I used to have amongst my commitments? Or how I can simplify my life so I can better maintain these relationships?
<bot>: I'm disappointing/distancing myself from my gf and my business partners by trying to progress in both areas, despite successfully balancing these responsibilities for years until now.