<human>: I don't know what it is about relationships but as long as I'm in one I feel fine. Even if dissatisfying, unfulfilling, boring, or in other words a relationship I crave to get out of, I can't help but feel this hole start to well up within me and can't shake how my new personal identifier as "single" tends to drag my spirit down. It seems while I'm a poor relationship I can't wait to get out and be single again, but once I'm single again I can't wait to get back into a relationship.

Can anyone relate to this? Any advice? I'd really like to just enjoy being single but there's always this nagging feeling in the back of my head that *maybe, just maybe* I'm single for a reason, whether it be a lack of attractiveness, or the fact that every relationship prior that I've invested time and energy into has failed and why should the next one be any different?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Being alone affects how I view myself in a negative way. How can I combat this and be comfortable with being single?