<human>: My partner and I have a long distance relationship. She currently is staying with her family in Korea and I am going to visit in less than a week. According to her, it is quite scandalous in Korea to live with someone before you marry, even if you are just traveling together. 

The problem is: while I am there, her parents want her to keep staying with them, even though we already booked hotels for our stay. We haven't seen each other for months and we obviously would like to share a bed. Her parents are trying to control her and her whole family knows about it now.

What, if anything, can we do to assuage her family? We are set on staying alone together, we would just like to mitigate the damage.

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<bot>: my partner's family is very conservative and is trying to control her, what can we do to appease them without giving in?