<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

Hey guys, so I turned 20 a month ago and I'm kinda feeling upset because I've never had a boyfriend. I'm wondering why, is it me? 

   
I go to a big college in a huge city, so I see guys everyday. Maybe could someone give me advice on flirting with guys? I'm pretty shy and don't like making the first move. I try to be outgoing, but I'm an introvert and with classes I get tired easily and don't really want to socialize. 

It kind of depresses me to be honest. I want to feel desired and special so badly, and when no one feels that way about me it hurts.
Btw there has been no guy who wanted to be in a relationship with me. So it's not like I've chosen not to have a boyfriend, no one has wanted to be my boyfriend. Sometimes I feel attractive, but a lot of the time I don't. I am insecure, sadly. 

I'm not desperate though. I'm not going to get into a relationship with just anyone. I have high standards, but I feel like they are very reasonable though. I think I bring a lot to the table too, I'm attractive (well sometimes haha), smart, in college, fun, extremely funny, super nice, and down to earth. But I guess I doubt myself because there's no way a girl with those characteristics would be single by choice.
 

I don't know what's wrong with me. I hardly ever get hit on too. And like I said before, I go to a big college in a big city, so there are a ton of single guys. Even at parties I don't get on very often. Is this normal?

I'm asking for advice and maybe some reassurance that this is normal. Winter is coming up which means Christmas, New Years, V-day, and of course cuddling days. I guess I get more sad about this during the winter. 

Thank you :))
<bot>: I'm a 20 year old female who is upset that I've never been in a relationship. Wondering what's wrong with me and what steps I can take to maybe get one.