<human>: Hi everyone.
So. I have a problem. A girl gains my attention. I pursue. I gain her attention. Soon enough I look for problems and lose all interest.... until months later and I think "damn. Why didn't I go for her?" It is almost as though I only want the chase. But I actually do want to be in a relationship. Almost as though I take it way too seriously and think "better stop now before this gets too serious".

I am self-aware enough to know that I do this, that it is a problem and that I need to grow up... but damned if I know how to change. (And believe me, I want to change this).

A little background information. You can decide how relevant or irrelevant it is.
I grew up an overweight kid. I was overweight until my early twenties, when I dropped down a considerable amount. At present I am in quite good shape, but still have hang ups about my physique. Any feelings of inadequacy would end there (ie. I am confident in other aspects of my life).
I am surrounded by divorce, and for some time believed I was doomed because of this. Now I strongly believe that everyone makes their own choices in life and takes responsibility for those choices. (So I don't think this is relevant to my current predicament, but you may disagree).

I haven't been in any 'serious' relationships. Kind of because of this. The closest to in recent years I feel I sabotaged... and I still regret it. But then, if I was by some miracle able to get a second chance, I really don't know if it would be any different! (Just to be clear though, I don't think I could get that second chance...)

Can you provide a brief overview of the text?
<bot>: I like a girl until she likes me, then I start to turn off her. Don't like this, and perhaps if I better understood why then I could change it.