<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

(i'm male, same age)

I will read every comment, and think about each comment. I'm not a post and run person (although this is my throwaway account)

I'll give the quick summary

- Girl has liked (had a crush) on me for a long time (about 7 years inc high school)
- (When we first met, we had a crush on each other, but we both didn't know how relationships worked, i ended up making her upset by going out with her friend.)
- has seen me get into many relationships, but still is friendly
- reconnected a few months back (after living few years away from town)
- I've told her many many times i don't want a relationship (or anything like fwb),
- i do like doing social things with her....like watching movies etc
- may have hooked up (just a quick kiss) when absolutely off my face last weekend. (not good sending mixed signals i know), i didn't sleep over or anything i left really sorry
- I have no intention of doing that again, or getting in a relationship with her. I think shes a nice person, but i need to sort out my own life.

Just got a message basically saying she has a crush on me, and she knows i'm not keen

>before you freak out and tell me "you don't want to hurt me" or whatever you mean by that on saturday night, i think you're an awesome bloke and i really enjoy spending time with you, and i don't want anything complicated or serious.

Then a bit later.

>I don't know, i just thought that maybe you liked me just a little too...so i took a stab, thought we could go for dinner or a drink or something sometime, no harm in that!
<bot>: girl has had crush on me for a long time, wants to go out with me.... but i want to friendzone her without looking like a douche?