<human>: Okay, fuck. I've been reading through these posts and keep seeing stuff about BPD. When I was younger, I was diagnosed with manic depressive disorder, but chocked it up to being a stupid fourteen year old with my head up my ass. I haven't been depressed in more than five years, and my on again, off again counselor agrees that it is a misdiagnoses. However, a few that comes up with me and my boyfriend, overlap with BPD symptoms:

- Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment
- A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships 
- Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights)

It apparently occurs mostly in young women. I always thought my anger, and inability to handle it, was from my genetics. I'm Korean and my father has a shit temper and struggles to stay cool, too. In regards to the fear of being abandoned, I thought it had to do with my attachment style. My parents divorced when I was two; my mother got re-married when I was around 5, and they divorced a few years later. Along with the two divorces, I was also molested as a child.

I thought I had my anger/abandonment issues all figured out, and I felt like I was finally learning to handle myself, but I feel like it's all falling apart since I've discovered that I could have BPD. I told myself growing up, that I knew I wasn't bi-polar, but now I'm scared to death because BPD sounds very like me. If that's the case, I don't want to drag my boyfriend (or any future lovers) down this path.

How can I really know if I have BPD, and if so, should I continue dating my boyfriend? He's gotten SO good at helping me with my fits of anger and insecurities and we've grown to be stronger from it.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: I think I have BPD and I think I should break-up with my boyfriend, for his sake, if I do.