<human>: Throwaway because in these subs people tend to downvote every single submission in others histories.

I'm currently separating with my wife. We have a daughter who is older than a year and a half. I won't elaborate too much on the relationship with my wife, but it's toxic, she's physically and emotionally abusive, control freak, tries to ruin my life, took my dog to the animal shelter when I left her, etc.

I wish this part was a joke, but my girlfriend asked last night if we could have sex IN FRONT OF MY WIFE. We've discussed some exhibitionism fantasies, sharing fantasies, etc, but she is upset with me because I logically declined. She said that I'm trying to adhere to my wife's feelings, when really I'm just declining a ridiculous offer. I told her that it had nothing to do with that, but everything to do with my wife going ballistic and destroying my stuff and causing her family to hate me... because such an act is disrespectful, distasteful and TOO animalistic?

My girlfriend isn't a secret but she wants to establish dominance of some sort, and wants to do it out in the open. She doesn't understand how ridiculous this is and fails to see how this could possibly backfire. She has some pretty bad insecurity issues but this is just over-the-top and I can't handle it. I know this sounds ridiculous, because it is. I honestly cannot handle how absurd this is. I know the responses I'm going to get are "leave her", "don't put your dick in crazy" and so on, but I just need to vent and touch grounds with some sanity and at least know that I'm not the only one that thinks this is the absolute craziest request.

Wife is seeing other people, I'm seeing my girlfriend. It's an open thing, so please don't flood my inbox simply because you cannot or do not understand it.

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<bot>: Girlfriend is mad because I don't want to have sex with her unexpectedly in front of my wife, whom I'm leaving?