<human>: I met a guy about 2 months ago at my college. He's been absolutely fantastic and totally respectful to me, and we've been "officially" together for a couple of weeks. It's still very new, but we spend a LOT of time together. 

When I met him, I was starting the process of reporting to my college that I had been sexually assaulted (a year ago) by another student here. It has been extremely tough to get through, and I had my hearing recently. I have not found out the results yet. Other than the school and select friends of mine, no one knows. Not my family, and not my boyfriend. 

I wasn't planning to tell him for a while, but I recently found out that he has slept with a LOT of women. I am still a virgin, and after the assault, any sexual contact makes me extremely nervous. I'm not anywhere ready to become more intimate. I feel like, at some point in the somewhat near future, he will expect us to become sexually active. Because that's normal. And it's not that I'm not interested in him. It's that I just am not ready and I'm still healing, and I think it's important he knows that. The whole "it's not you, it's me" really applies here.

At what point do I tell him? I'm afraid of telling him too soon and scaring him off, or telling him too late so that he'll feel like I couldn't trust him with what was occurring in my life. And then how do I even tell him? I can't talk about it without crying. I don't want to have to relive all the details. Doing that in the hearing was difficult enough. 

Any advice would be extremely appreciated.

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<bot>: I was sexually assaulted last year, have a new boyfriend. I am not going to be ready for sex for a very very long time. How/when do I tell him about the assault)