<human>: So I've been dating this girl for over a a year and a half. She really likes me, she's always telling me how good I look, how smart I am, *ect*. In addition, we have a lot in common which is awesome. However, I'm having trouble with the fact that unless the occasion calls for it (birthday, anniversary, *etc*) she never goes out of her way to plan anything for me, unless she finds it convenient for her. I've gone out of my way to plan movie nights, make dinner for her, breakfast in bed, if she's had a bad day I go out and do something special for her, but I've never gotten anything like that from her. I've told her that it bothers me, but still nothing.  

Another example would be that sometimes I've had a really shitty day and I'd like to say in and have a nice relaxing night with her because being with her makes me happy, but if my shitty day happens to be on some night that she had plans with her friends (whom she sees all of the time) to go dancing or some friend that is in for the whole weekend comes into town, she won't stay in that with me. However, when that has happened to her, I've dropped all of my plans without a second thought to stay in and cheer her up. 

Then to add to that, she'll say that she's going to plan some sexy night for us or plan some sort of day out for us, but she has never ever pulled through on it. I'm trying really hard in this relationship and it's getting me depressed. I don't know if I'm asking too much or what I should do since I've already told her before how this bothers me. I'm starting to just detach and am thinking about breaking up with her and move on. Am I really asking for too much?

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<bot>: I'm feeling like I'm the only one putting effort into my relationship and don't know if I'm asking for too much. What should I do?