<human>: Just recently a girl told me how she had feelings for me after I told her months before. We agreed to meet up, she got sick and we couldn't. When I tried to organize a second she told me how her feelings were her forcing them upon herself to make me happy. This is probably the third time this has happened to me and I'm beginning to feel I'm not going to find a long term partner which is very depressing. 

In short my question is, people in similar situations as me did you get out of your downward spiral? If so please tell us about it, if not tell us and I'm sure the lovely community of reddit will give you some kind words.

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<bot>: long build up, girl told me she liked me, backed down, has happened before,feeling really depressed right now