<human>: It's unfortunate, but my parents are being parentzillas. My fiance and I don't really want a huge blowout thing. We honestly started out with the idea of a backyard bbq.

I'm so frustrated. Our list is up to 175 people from the 100 we wanted originally. (and that was pushing it)

Last night I was talking to my mom and she was talking about the shower they're throwing and said "hope the food doesn't outdo your sliders for the wedding haha!" What the heck? These are (semi) rational people.

I want to go elope at this point, but my grandma means the world to me, and I couldn't do that to her, and his family is amazing.

I don't know what to do, or how to take back our wedding without sounding like a bridezilla. They gave us (some) money for our wedding, but we honestly wouldn't have needed it if they hadn't taken over. :(

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: My parents are taking over the wedding, and I don't know how to take it back without sounding like a bridezilla.