<human>: Hey people of reddit,  I need help. I just found out my wife (she's 23) (newly married) almost cheated on me (26) with one of her friends (29). We've been together for just over 8 years now. She was getting cold feet before the wedding and panicked after we got back from the honeymoon and was starting to say she considered us separated for a month or so. during that time she stayed the night at the friends house and very nearly had sex with him (she realized what she was doing and stopped him just before penetration) we've talked about it, she answered any questions I had (this is 4 months later) but I don't know how to carry on from here, I love her and want to spend our lives together, but I need help getting past this. I'm hoping some of you who have gone through this and made it work can give me some advice. Please no responses bashing her, or things like that.

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<bot>: my wife almost cheated, just after getting married, I found out 4 months later, need help moving on with our lives together.