<human>: I've been with him 3 months, 1 month after we started dating he went away travelling on a trip he had planned long before we started dating. We decided that we weren't going to sleep with anyone else and keep what we had going, and when he got back we'd pick up where we left off.

Before he went away everything moved so fast, but I was falling for him so hard and we both knew he was leaving soon, so I just went with it and I'm happy that I did. But now he's back soon and I really want to ask him if we can take things slow now that we have time, especially with sex. I'm a really sensitive and emotional person and I find it impossible to have sex without feelings, I've explained this to him before. We did have a lot of sex before he left, but like I said he was leaving and we knew we were going to miss each other a lot. It was far too intense for me and I never move that quickly.

However I'm afraid that he's coming back expecting immediate and constant sex like we had before he left, and that he'll get really frustrated and angry with me when I explain how I feel. I know him pretty well because we were friends before we started dating, and I really care for him. I just want time to get comfortable with him again and spend quality time in his company before we build our way back up to sex again. He's been away for twice as long as we've been dating, and even though we have been constantly talking, I really deeply feel that I shouldn't have sex with him again until we've been dating longer. I need to know that he's with me for more than just sex and that we genuinely like each other. I don't want to get my feelings hurt. Am I being irrational or silly? I'm scared he'll get angry or frustrated when I bring it up!

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<bot>: dating for 1 month, guy went on vacation for 3 months, we decided to stay dating, I want to spend quality time with him before we have sex again. Scared he'll be frustrated/angry with me.