<human>: Quick backstory.  My wife and I met a few years ago and became friends.  Friendship led to a friends with benefits deal, which eventually led to a relationship, blah blah.  Here is my issue.  When we first got together, we had great sex all the time.  Like, all the time.  She was very sexual, very giving, I could tell she had an extreme physical attraction to me.  It was great.  We would have sex multiple times a day, in public, in the car, she'd blow me and even swallow.  Now that we've been together for a while, it's basically a 100% one-sided effect.  Before, she would randomly walk up to me and yank my pants down, now it's like pulling teeth to even kiss her.  She HATES when I try to go down on her (used to love it) and blowjobs are basically non-existent in our home..  My biggest problem.. she was a bit promiscuous before we got together, and because we were just friends with benefits at first, we swapped a lot of stories.  She would tell me how she enjoyed going down on guys and would swallow all the time, all of these crazy kinky stories.  Now that she hardly touches me and resists my advances, that shit really bothers me.  She had been with a few people I know before we met, and it fucking drives me nuts.  I just can't help but wonder why she was able to do these things with these other guys, but not me.

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<bot>: My wife was promiscuous, used to be fun, now she's boring and won't touch me.  Help!