<human>: We have been dating for 2.5 years, and this is my first serious relationship. I would say I am not sexually outgoing. I always wait for him to make the first move, as that's how I've always been with guys. I'm terrible at initiating and he is just beginning to let me know how much of an issue it is. I always thought the way we did things was good; he'd make the moves and that's the way I was comfortable. 

He is asking me to initiate more, do things without him asking more, he says I'm not sexy or seductive. Honestly, it kind of hurts to hear, even if it is true. I keep trying but I just can't bring myself to make the moves first. I'll be screaming at myself in my head to do it, but I can't break through my discomfort with initiating. 

It sometimes gets to the point where we just don't do anything sexual at all, because he will refuse unless I am making the moves. I don't like to be dominating at all. Is there any way I can change this? Any advice from someone who went through something similar? Anyway to help make him understand I'm not choosing to not initiate, it is just unnatural to me? ANYTHING? I'm on the brink of total emotional breakdown as this has not been handled delicately by my boyfriend and it has set off a panic in me.

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<bot>: sexual retard when it comes to initiating, do I fix this? Can I fix this? I hate making the moves :(