<human>: 3 months ago i confessed my feelings towards my flatemate and she told me that she didnt feel the same way. Over the weeks that followed we became progressively closer to the point now where we spend most of our free time together, sleep together and have sex. The problem is that when we talk about what we are she is very hesitant to commit to anything and has told me that she is uncertain if she wants to be with me, leaving our "relationship" in limbo. She says there are times when she feels more towards me but never really a constant state.
It's worth mentioning that she has spent most of her life in an all girl's school and never dated anyone before, which obviously isnt helping her decide.

What should I do reddit? Force her to make a choice now, fearing i may lose her, or wait it out and hope for the best?

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<bot>: I have feelings towards my flatemate which she sometimes reciprocates but cant yet choose if she wants a relationship with me or not.