<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

VERY long story short, my young son is being raised by a man who is not his biological father.

*Before you think you know anything,* everyone affected by this is in the know about the situation, including the bio-father. *BUT,* the bio-father is hostile towards it all, admittedly because of his feelings towards *me,* and our past.

Right here I think, "NOT FAIR." A situation like this should not be depending upon emotions/grudges that are over 4 years behind us. Granted, I know they *happened* a long time ago, but that the effects can be very long-lasting - I'm not without empathy.

Continuing, the bio-father is the only member of his family that is aware that another member of their family, actually exists. He's told me he doesn't want to deal with his family knowing because they would have altogether different feelings and intentions regarding my son, than he does.

AGAIN, NOT FAIR

*I LOVE* the bio-father's mother. She is amazing, and we were so close during the relationship. I know that she would love *THE HELL* out of my kid, and that he would equally in turn love the pants off of her. 

The relationship that my son has with his "grandmother" now ("daddy's" mom), is bad. Not abusive bad, but she's well aware that he's not *actually* related to her, and she (admittedly) resents that fact. My son is thankfully unaware of any of this as of yet, but just to know that she feels like that about my son... She doesn't deserve him. She's not a good person anyway, even before my son.

Which brings us, to this:
<bot>: SHOULD I SEND A PICTURE OF MY SON TO HIS BIO-FATHER'S MOTHER, THEREBY LETTING HER KNOW THAT HE EXISTS?*