<human>: We have been married for 4 years, I am 24 and she is 26. Yesterday, I had a court date for a traffic violation that I totally forgot about. When I called the courthouse this morning, they told me that I can't just pay the ticket now, there is a warrant out for my arrest, and that I absolutely cannot just pay the fine and whatever pinalty for missing court. I have to wait 10 days then come in and see the judge. So in the meantime, I can be arrested at any point. Haven't told the wife BC she will totally freak and (understandably) lose it. To further complicate things, my in-laws are in town, so obviously I don't want to bring them into this. 

I get that it was irresponsible of me and despite how stupid this situation is, I have to abide by the courts. My question is: Should I tell her now and let her freak out in front of her parents, or try to handle it on my own and pray I don't get pulled over?

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<bot>: I have a warrant for arrest for missing court. Should I tell my wife and let her freak in front of her family, or just handle it?