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I met him right before he graduated high school and here we are a little bit over a year later and I love him to death. Our relationship is great and I could really see myself spending the rest of my life with him. He has expressed that he wants the same.  

Here's the problem- Now he is about to drop out of community college and he won't get a job because his Mom says he shouldn't (She doesn't know he is failing). He is doing great in the classes that he goes to, he just only goes to half of them... which is two. So here is a grown man, unemployed, living with his parents and staying in his room most of the day playing on his Xbox. 

The fact that he doesn't have a job makes me feel guilty when he takes me out. I constantly catch myself trying to see if he has enough money to go to the restaurant I want. But much worse than that, I am beginning to wonder if I still want to marry him because if we have a baby I would like to quit work and stay at home. If he doesn't work hard and get a good job I couldn't do that.

If he had a job and was doing well in school I wouldn't mind so much about the gaming, and I have told him that. But he dismisses it as me being dramatic and uses the excuse that we're too young to be worrying about the future. How do I get him to listen, or should I even say anything about this? 
He is so smart and could do so much better in life, but he is wasting it and it breaks my heart.

OH- by the way, he left me alone for Thanksgiving to spend the week 500 miles away gaming with his buddy. That is the main reason I'm writing this because this time he really hurt me.
<bot>: SO won't get a job because his Mommy said so, is going to drop out of college, and spends an unhealthy amount of time gaming. How can I let him know that I am sincerely concerned about his lifestyle?