<human>: I am in an interracial relationship with a White woman. I come from Japan and have lived in the US for three years. We've been dating over a year, and live together. She is a graphic designer and I am a financial analyst.

I am constantly approached and flirted with by men. This often happens when my girlfriend and I are out, and we are clearly a couple. Sometimes women will hit on me too, most often Black women and Asian women.

But by far, it is men who flirt with me.

I do not respond positively to the flirting or try to flirt back. I simply say thank you I am flattered but happily taken.

My girlfriend however gets upset with me every time it happens, as if I am doing something to make people flirt with me. I'm just sitting or standing there. I am not signalling to them or trying to get their attention.

I sometimes think maybe it's my hair or the way I dress, so I ask my girlfriend if she wants to change these things. She tells me emphatically no, and that she likes my hair and the way I dress. It's not like I wear makeup or something and am trying to look like a woman.

I am also confused because my girlfriend also does model work on the side and sometimes has people flirt with her. She will reject their advances just as I reject the advances of people at me. I do not get mad at her.

What's the deal.

Don't know what's going on.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Girlfriend blames me for the fact that I get hit on, even though I never flirt with other people and never encourage them when they do so to me.