<human>: Hey, throwaway here...

I like to write cute things on sticky notes, date them, and hide them around the house for my boyfriend to randomly find. 

Well, tonight, I was looking for a place to hide it in one of his dresser drawers and I came across a digital camera. Thinking it might have the pictures of his kitten he was looking for months ago,  I turn it on and look.first thing I saw was his cat...young, but not a kitten. So I look through to see if there are older ones and instead I find old pictures of his ex in her underwear and a picture of an ass with a handprint on it. I stopped at that because I didn't want to see more.

I don't know what to do. I want to be straight up with him...not be angry with him, but just tell him what happened and ask what's up with that. Maybe he forgot those pictures were even there. 

But I know in won't be able to say something without looking upset and/or crying. (I'm really bad at confrontation and it makes me shake and cry) 

I don't want this to turn into a fight. I just want a calm conversation so I know if it was an honest mistake. But im afraid he'll just be mad and say I was snooping...and that wasn't my intention at all...

Onto another issue that somewhat ties in...

I feel like he doesn't really enjoy sex with me as much as he should. As in, I don't do things he wants. or do them well. I don't know exactly what he wants because he won't tell me...but those pictures gave me an idea...and I just don't have the confidence for that. That's the problem to begin with...I'm so self conscious that it really messes with my...performance. 

So now I'm extra worried about that.

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<bot>: found pictures of bf's ex, don't know what to do. It also made me even more self conscious about my performance in the bedroom.