<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

We have been together for along time, we got engaged a year and a half ago and are very much in love and each others best friend ect... everything is amazing and iwonderful except that my soon to be wife really wants to have kid/s in the near future and i do not.

i have always said i didn't want kids and she was well informed right from the start but since we have been engaged she has been applying more pressure on me to have kids. i love her more then anything in the world and the problem i am faced with is if i give in and we have kids is 

1. What if i was right and cant handle life with kids, i cant just run away that goes against who i am. 

2. What happens if she dies young like her mother.(from illness the day before my FW's 13th birthday) and her dad was a useless, emotionally dead role model in her life and i am scared i could not raise a kid alone.

3. I really like being able to do what ever we like when ever we like and being financially stable with 2 incomes and minimal overheads.

4. What if i just suck at being a dad ( i think all men worry about this)

5. i will be 60 plus by the time it leaves home. (this seems a bit late in life to have kids to me)

there are lots of reason i enjoy a kid free life but as i said before i love this girl and i would do anything for her so i am considering giving her a kid after the wedding, I dont feel like it is the right thing to do for me, so please tell me your thoughts. Thank you in advance.
<bot>: Been together for along time, getting married soon and the future wife wants kids but i do not. i am considering giving her a kid but it feels wrong to me. what should i do?