<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

(M20) I'm in college and only get to come back to my hometown every few months or so, my best friend(F20), who I've known for a long time have started getting closer and closer. I have feelings for her and there is a chance, plus she acknowledges my feelings, but just wants to take it slowly. The thing is, my mother always gets in the way of any type of relationship I try for, I've never had a girlfriend because she intervenes and screws something up for me.

I'm getting sick and tired of it, the most recent incident was when I came back after summer classes and I promised my best friend we'd get ice cream together when I got back. Of course, I had dinner first with my parents and told them I was going to meet up with her, my dad is neutral about it and doesn't really care. My mom suddenly decides that after dinner, we should visit my cousins...I go and she purposely makes me wait for several hours.

At this point, I try and get to my best friend's house as quickly as possible, but when I get there, she is upset and now won't talk to me, even when I try and explain things to her. I'm furious at my mother and tell her I'm not listening to her again because this isn't the first time she's screwed things up.

I've tried talking to her about this, but she guilt trips me,saying how I will replace her in the future and care more about my significant other or blames me for being just a terrible person. My father doesn't want to take sides. Now I'm just fed up with it, what can I do now in this situation?
<bot>: Have a chance with a girl, mom keeps screwing things up for me and preventing me from ever having a successful relationship. Don't know what to do because she guilt trips me.