<human>: 23m (me), 20f 

I love her and i'm pretty certain she loves me but i'm just tired of doing everything in our relationship. I am always the one initiating...well pretty much anything. I can't recall one time in all of our time together where she has gone out of her way to try and see me, it has always been me who asks her to come over or go out, and most of the time i have to fucking fight with her to do these things...it's not that she doesn't want to (i hope), but that i'm a lesser priority than the other crap going on in her life. It's probably not true but it feels like it wouldn't matter to her if she didn't see me at all. 

I hate feeling like this so much and i need it to stop but i don't know how to get through to her, if i try to bring up crud like this she gets extremely defensive and blames it on her other obligations which honestly aren't many. I feel like i can't rely on her, if i make plans there's a good chance they will fall through because something else could come up that are more important than me. Besides all this crap our relationship is pretty much perfect. When we are actually together and not having to battle over when i get to see her, everything is great but it shouldn't be an issue at all.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: flakey gf making me feel irrelevant at times, want her to put more effort into me/relationship.