<human>: So today is Mothers Day. I really didn't expect anything special today because my husband has to work and my two children are very young. 

My daughter, who is 4, has been learning about holidays and she sings a song from her favorite TV show about "Making something is one way to say I love you". We talked to her about mothers and fathers day and she said "Can I make you a valentines day card?" and we told her that was a great idea. So I guess I thought, maybe my husband would help her make me a card and I'd do the same on fathers day. That didn't happen. 

Normally, I'd just think that maybe he had been busy and it slipped his mind. However, this is how every holiday goes. He doesn't get anything, or plan anything. When he realizes his mistake he'll just say "Oh, what do you want, lets go pick something out." I don't want the items, I want the thought put into them. I always plan a good party or activity, and buy him a thoughtful gift for holidays and he always thanks me and shows appreciation. I don't understand how he doesn't get that others would want that back. 

I have tried talking to him about this before and he said he was sorry but that he isn't he "Flowers kind of guy" because why would anyone want a gift that would just die, but that he would work on other ideas and be more conscious about it. 

My friends and family have been sending me pictures of cards, flowers, and things their kids made them that they got when they woke up this AM. I am jealous that they got that effort put in for them, and I didn't. I'm worried when comes home and asks me what I want for mothers day I am going to act ungrateful due to being upset.

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<bot>: My husband doesn't put in effort for any holidays, I have tried talking to him about it and it's really starting to bother me. Am I overreacting? How should I approach this?