<human>: My SO, Steve, (40M) told me (35F) he'd take care of NYE. There was some potential plans floating around, and he promised to solidify them. Together 2 years.

I was a little skeptical because he's not a planner, lives life by the seat of his pants. I was working a ton, and figured it'd be pretty easy to set up the skiing trip we had talked about. He has had a bunch of time off for the holidays and has leveled up a ton in StarCraft, so I thought making some reservations wouldn't be out of line. 

Come to yesterday, I realized that we hadn't talked about any concrete plans. My heart hoped that he had a romantic, special night planned, my head said "no way, he never makes special plans, he probably hasn't thought about it". Guess which one was right? 

So we talked about it today, and yep, no plans yet. 

I'm pissed and disappointed r/relationships. My partner rarely takes time to make me feel special or wanted, he procrastinates on everything and I'm just so sad and upset. This pattern of promising to do something, not following through and me having hopes dashed is so frustrating and disappointing.  

I just want a romantic night where I don't have to push and push and make sure things are planned and reservations are made. We talked about it a bit, he doesn't think its a big deal, and I just have this pit in my stomach. 

We took the love languages quiz, we both had words of affection as our top. He thought the quiz was dumb and I had to ask and ask and ask for him to take it, and he wouldn't talk about the results with me. The only reason he did it was it was my bday. Its not about the event, its about the thought.

Reddit, what do I do? How do I deal with this? I've told him numerous times that I want to feel more valued and appreciated in our relationship and it never sticks. Where do I go from here?

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<bot>: SO is not a planner, flubbed NYE plans. This is a pattern, I feel unappreciated and taken for granted. My heart hurts. How to resolve?