<human>: Hello! I've [20 F] been with my SO [21 M] for 3 months now. We met through a mutual friend (via her job) and have had a loving and stable relationship since. He plays piano, is thriving in his academics, has a beautiful physique, and is the most romantic person I've ever been with. However, I've noticed a pattern of behavior regarding how he interacts with and speaks about gay males. He criticizes and cracks jokes about the gay lifestyle (again, mostly male) and often makes snide comments if we stumble across someone who is obviously gay in public.

For the first few months of our relationship I figured he felt uncomfortable because he's very macho and thought he potentially used jokes as a way to lighten the mood and relax. But as time has gone on, he has continued mentioning gay sex on a daily basis in a joking fashion and not only is it beginning to offend me, but I'm starting to wonder whether he's the one who is sexually curious or if he's simply homophobic. I would ask him directly but I'm positive it would offend him given his disposition.

I realize I may be paranoid considering I previously dated someone who came out of the closet a year into our relationship. It came out of left field and devastated me for months on end. I want to ensure the same scenario isn't played out here. Any help is appreciated!

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<bot>: SO of 3 months obsessively mentions homosexuality and I'm beginning to wonder if it's a result of his own curiosity.