<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

I've never been raped or sexually assaulted, but I'm absolutely terrified of physical contact with guys and I really don't want to be. I've been perpetually single my entire life, partially due to choice and partially because I haven't viewed myself as a desirable person until recently (although, even now it's debatable). Within the past year, I've gotten a lot more male attention than I'm used to, and they all expect me to grind on them or make out with them, and I'm just not comfortable with that at all. I explain it to them, and they respect my desires, but I just feel badly for leading them on. I guess clubs aren't the best venue to meet a dude who's okay with this, but even my best guy friends I don't enjoy hugging or being physically near/touching. 

Should I get therapy for this? Is this normal?
<bot>: straight girl terrified of being physically close to any guy. Not sure if I should get therapy or if I just need to meet someone who can patiently ease me into this.