<human>: Hi,

I'm 23 and I've been with the same guy (25 yo) for a little more than 4 years now. There has been a lot of ups and downs, but overall I think we've helped each other more than hurt each other. We're both pretty different.  He's an extrovert who enjoys socializing and I'm an introvert who wants to be home to watch tv shows and hang out with my dog. He's a huge procrastinator and half asses everything, while I'm proactive and want to try my hardest at everything. He has ADD (forgets things, really unorganized and unfocused) and I have OCD (I need to have a plan, try to remember every detail, and am super organized). There's a lot more but I don't want this to be too long lol.

The biggest problem we have is communication. We never get past the "but you said this" and always end up *arguing over nothing*. We've been arguing a lot more recently and I'm just wondering ... **how do you know when it's over?** I've really been thinking about how my life would be without him a lot more recently. We pretty much spend almost all our time together so everything would change drastically. I feel more irritated than normal and I feel like its affecting my other relationships. I care about him deeply and I love him. I'm just not sure of our future together and if we are right for each other if we continue arguing over EVERY LITTLE THING.

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<bot>: Me and my SO are really different and I'm really wondering if it is starting to take a toll on our relationship. Are we too different to be together? Or are these types of arguments normal?