<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

Hey Reddit!

I posted a while ago about a relationship problem I was having, if anyone would like to read my original post the links in my profile, but be warned, its rather long because I was mostly just trying to put my thoughts into perspective. 

But to make a long story short, I fell for this girl a while back and I thought things were going great. She was the girl of my dreams and I ended up getting really close with her. Fast-forward a few months and I get the startling realization that she was just using me. She's ignored me, and its very apparent that she's done with me and has moved on. Now I'm still crazy about her, but knowing that I was just someone she could manipulate and toss aside when she was done with me has made me realize what I was too her and I don't necessarily want to be with her.

 The problem, however is that no matter how hard I try, how much I tell myself she was just using me and that I should move on, I find myself constantly thinking about her 24/7. I'm aware its normal for this sort of thing to mess with someone, but at times it puts me in a really bad and fucked up place. 

I know its dumb, but I've tried everything to get her off my mind, but nothing really seems to work. I'm not looking for a magic fix. because I know such a thing doesn't exist. But I'd love to hear some ideas, tips, tricks or advice from fellow redditors on how they've overcome and dealt with this. 

Thanks in advance!
<bot>: I fell for a girl, she ended up using me and now its over. But I can't get her off my mind.