<human>: I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. We've had ups and downs and fights and all but we always seem to work it out. In the last year he has brought up marriage and constantly says we would make cute babies together.

When we first started dating I wasn't sure whether I wanted children or not but as our relationship progressed and as I became older, I started to like the idea of maybe in a few years having a baby. And I was under the impression that we were on the same page.

Well, yesterday, in a super casual way he told me that he didn't want to marry me or have kids any time soon, he even specified and said that he's not sure he will want to even 3 years from now. I asked him why he would bring it up if it's not what he wants and he said he was being sarcastic and that it's fun to joke about but he doesn't really mean it. He even asked me last month, where I would want him to propose to then turn around and say it was a joke? This is making me question everything he's said to me.

I was flabbergasted by this because he had never said otherwise. He always brought it up first and it seemed sincere. I know he said any time soon but my belief is that if you wanted to marry someone theres no time stamp on that, you do it when you want to. But him saying he doesn't want to any time soon it makes me feel like it's not gonna happen at all. Am I overreacting? I just turned 30 and I don't have time to waste on indecisiveness over things that are important to me and involve my future and happiness. I don't want to put it in his hands. 

 It's really hard too because most of my female friends are already married and some are on baby number two even! And sure I'm in a relationship but if it's not headed where I want it to, should I break up with him? Am I wrong for this? Does anyone else understand or relate? I feel like I'm running out of time.

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<bot>: My boyfriend says he doesn't want to get married or have kids any time soon but I'm 30 and the clock is ticking, is this a deal breaker or am I overreacting?