<human>: Met this guy while out a while ago. We hit it off, had a lot of fun (and great chemistry). I spent the night at his place, and in the morning he asked for my number. He was a gentleman, and just overall really great. He never called.

Few months later he shows up at my work. I had an early flight, and he offered to take me to the airport. I agreed (I really did need a ride!) and we again had a great night together. After I got back from my trip he showed up on my doorstep really drunk at 4 am. Because he was wasted, I wasn't letting him drive home, and he kept babbling to me about how he really, really liked me, but he doesn't want to get married.

I saw him again last night - again he says he isn't interested in a relationship and I'm starting to get frustrated. I have told him that I am not really in a place to be in a relationship myself, and I don't really know why he is thinking so far ahead. We also haven't done much outside of fooling around. He won't have sex with me, but he hasn't really given a reason other than once telling me, "it rushes things."

Right now I could really use someone to have fun with, and we click so well I don't understand why we can't just enjoy things as they are, and let go when the time comes. I'm an incredibly practical and rational person.... but his comings and goings are starting to drive me a little batty.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Guy keeps showing up, says he doesn't want relationship. I think he's thinking too far ahead, and I just want to enjoy the now without any pressure. How to convince him to not think so far ahead?