<human>: I'll try to keep this as brief as I possibly can... I'm (male) 24, she's 21. Started dating nearly 2 years ago. I would say things went fine for the first year, no glaring problems. Within the past year, though, we've been arguing more and more regularly. We live 30 minutes apart, and generally see eachother Friday through Sunday. During the week, she'll tell me how she misses me so much, and how it's so hard to be apart, yet when we finally get to be with eachother on the weekends, it seems like someone will do something that makes eachother pissed, inevitably leading to arguments and frustrations. By the end of the weekend, many times I'll be glad to finally be alone, ready to recharge my batteries before the next weekend of potential drama.

I don't know if I need to get into specifics on what the arguments are about, unless anyone would like to do or if it's relevant to the issues at hand. I would say it's about 50/50, whether it's me getting pissed at her for doing something or her getting pissed at me for something. But basically, it's gotten to the point where, even though we feel like we have a very close bond in many ways and feel so used to being with eachother every weekend, it's frustrating to see us go down the same path of arguing, practically every weekend now.

We're both in a pretty depressed state, personally, for many reasons, but I feel like it makes me feel like it would just be easier for us to stick together, despite the flaws, since it could be worse being alone. I don't know if this flawed logic though. I do know that, unfortunately, she would be more devastated if we broke up than I would (reason being I'm her first bf, whereas she's my 3rd gf so I've dealt with breaking up before). I'd like to get some opinions from the reddit community on what we should do here. Is it worthwhile to take some time off? Anyone whose had similar experiences getting out of or fixing relationships with constant arguments are drama? Thanks.

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<bot>: Gf and I, a couple of 2 years, have been arguing a lot lately. Should we take a break or will it get better?