<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

My husband and I have been together for over ten years, and married for two. We have been having major issues about lifestyle.

Since at least April, he has been spending a lot of time with his friends. We live in central Jersey and his friends all live near our hometown about an hour and a half away. Literally every single weekend (except one) he drives there and gets drunk with his friends. I get to see all the glory details through snapchat.

We had agreed that we were going to try to have a baby and that I wouldn't drink while we were trying, so most of the time it didn't make sense for me to go out with them because I couldn't drink anyway. I figured he would go there one night and then the next day we'd do the stuff that we need to do around the house. He usually says he'll be home early but he never gets home until mid-afternoon and is too tired to do anything.

I'm getting kind of sick of it and have told him how upset it makes me. I even said I wanted to delay having a baby because he can't seem to commit to spending any weekend with me. Even though I get upset he still makes the plans and leaves me almost every Saturday. I feel like I have to take off of work if I want to spend any time with him because he's usually out for the majority of the weekend.

He doesn't seem to get too out of control when I'm not there but any time I do end up going, he gets crazy/black out drunk. He says I put him on edge when I'm there. 

I even usually end up leaving early to go home and take care of our dog and let him stay. He won't even compromise about it when I go saying we'd leave at a reasonable time. 

I just don't know what to do. I think we're just too different at this point to continue with out marriage. It sounds crazy to type out because we've been through so much time together. But I really want to have kids and I can't trust that he's going to settle down.
<bot>: Husband has been drinking and partying a lot while I'm either left at home taking care of our dog or there and causing him to get black out drunk. Think our lifestyles might to be too different to continue our relationship.