<human>: So, I said I love you last night. he said "really? no one has ever said that to me before" and he kissed me. that's about it. 

but we are talking about moving in together, and we are both seriously searching for jobs and a flat in the same space. He made a joke about marrying me. We talked about what we will call the cat we will doubtlessly adopt. 

I'm heart broken he didn't say it back. But I feel like I cant talk to him about it with out making him feel pressured in to saying it. And im confused in the discrepancy between the pace of our relationship and his reluctance to verbalize it. 

 Is this just a guy thing I don't get, or....what?!?

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<bot>: I said  those three words, he didn't say them back. But at the same time we are organizing moving in together. I don't understand.