<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

My boyfriend/ former fiance (M/27) broke up with my in February because he said I wasn't myself anymore. He said after he was engaged to me that I started acting different. I (F/25) knew I was acting different because I told myself I would not be treated like any other woman and I did get defensive. Come January when we were supposed to move in together he said he had too many doubts. I was stupid and naive and got his family involved. I confided in his sister and some how his parents found out and confronted him. About 2 weeks after he decided to end things with me.

Around the end of February we decided to try again. I went back to him not asking him what he wanted and I feel like this was a mistake. After being together for a month I asked him if he knew what he wanted with me and he said that he didn't know. I told him that I knew what I wanted and that I would still love for him to be a part of my life but that if he can't move forward and get past the things that happened that we can't be together because its not fair for the both of us. I loved this man and still do but I feel weird. I feel like I know the answer to my question but I don't want to let him go. I don't resent him for him breaking up with me but its hard to be with someone who is unsure of their future with me.

I told him I would give him room to breathe and think but the more time I spend away from him the more I begin to feel like we should not be together right now.
<bot>: Why do I feel weird? I am afraid of losing him but I want him to be sure he wants to be with me.