<human>: Give me a shortened version of the text

Okay so my friend has been having a few issues lately and he's always confiding in my other friend but when he refuses to share anything with me, it's not as if I'm a bad friend I'd always be there for them but the constant shutting out is making me feel as if I've done something wrong.

This has happened a few times and every time I ask my friend who was confided in he shrugs it off as not important, it tears me up because it makes me feel like crap and as if I'm not "worthy" enough.

A little bit of background though, the friend who doesn't confide in me we've always had this little sort of...schism between us, nothing major just over the "alpha" position of the group (like the leader) as a natural leader and ability to take command I've held this "title" not long after we met two years ago.

Recently we were merged with another class and we got to quickly making friends with them and after confiding in him and the other friend that I fancied one of the girls of the other group he immediately got to "unknowingly" hitting on her straight after I opened up the packed bottle which is my emotions.

I look to the media and see these great leaders like Captain Kirk, Malcolm Reynolds and Commander Shepard and I know I'm a leader, when we get thrown into a group session I take the lead naturally and when it a friend doesn't seem to trust me it hurts

He is a people person and he gets along with people well but sometimes in my opinion it does come across as overbearing, especially when he just buts in his own opinion even if he wasn't apart of the conversation but that's just how he is

So what are your guys opinions, I hope I didn't come across as jealous in the writing I'm really not, just a concerned friend who wants to be there for the guy.
<bot>: friends leaving me out of personal talks and it's making me feel like I've done something wrong and/or a bad friend