<human>: When I first started looking for my dress I was fairly sure I wanted an illusion neckline, a belt, and lace with beading. I also wanted my hair pulled back low on my head, [like this](

I've found my dress, which was exactly as elegant as I wanted, but now I think I've changed my mind about the hair. I feel as though the dress looks a *bit* mature and I feel if I have my hair down [like this] it will keep me from looking older than I am. Here's [another view] and goddamn Dianna Argon is beauteous.

When I went to officially order my dress I also got a veil. Honestly, I was indifferent to the idea of a veil, but I ended up getting one. I was going to stick the comb underneath the curls of the first hair do and pin it there. But if I go with the second hairstyle, then I feel like it will be difficult to put a veil in around the clips on the side of the head. I don't really like the look of having the veil near the top of my head [like this](

[This] is me in my dress, for reference. I won't be heartbroken at all with not wearing a veil, but one has already been purchased. I know dresses are pretty much impossible to return, but what about veils? I haven't picked up either the dress or veil from the store, they haven't arrived yet as far as I know.

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<bot>: Does anyone have any suggestions for how to put a veil in and have it stay if I have my hair styled [like this] OR are veils sometimes returnable?