<human>: Hey guys. My boyfriend "Jake" and I had not been dating for very long, and he was going on a trip for four months, so he decided it would be easier if we just broke up. I was completely crushed and really angry. There was another guy, lets called him Ben, who I knew had a crush on me, and I asked if he would go for coffee with me when he got back into town. Ben took quite a while to respond to me, because his internet was really sketchy in the country he was visiting, and by the time he replied and said he'd love to go for coffee with me I was already back together with Jake.

I know I was allowed to ask someone else out, as Jake had dumped me, but not many people knew Jake and I broke up for a while, so I think it looks really bad that I'm hitting on another guy when it would appear that I'm in a relationship.

My boyfriend and I are long distance when I go away to school, and Jake actually now goes to my school. I think Jake thinks I was in a relationship when I asked him for coffee, even though I wasn't, and I want to clarify that with him, but would that be wrong to do?

I'm just feeling so shitty about all of this lately, can you guys set me straight.

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<bot>: I asked another guy to go for coffee with me when my boyfriend and I broke up. We didn't end up going for coffee but I still just feel so guilty.