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Ok some preface. Been seeing this girl for a bit and she is a virgin. I REALLY like this girl, like super into her and I'm pretty much her first boyfriend.

The last thing I want to do with her is to fuck it up by moving too fast, but I do want to get more intimate with her. I just don't know how to approach it, do I simply ask her if she's ready or is that too much pressure on her? Also, how do I make sure that she is comfortable and not in any pain during the act.
Sorry if this all seems a little jumbled, I myself have not slept with many women and all were pretty much way more experienced than me.
<bot>: I Want to know whether it is ok to ask a girl if I can take her virginity. Sorry if this sounds bad.