<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

note: all of these things we're done months apart, sometimes several months apart. In no way was she being "showered" with gifts or overly dramatic romantic gestures

1. You purchase a pearl necklace for her, she wears it only twice, and never again, because the clasp is too cumbersome to close. 

2. You bring her a set of all natural organic soaps and lotions from a mountain shop in Colorado, after spending an hour picking the right scent. She leaves it in her car for two weeks, and then gives half of it to a friend. 

3. You surprise her with flower delivery while you're out of town, she only texts you "thanks for the flowers" and refuses to really talk to you while you're on vacation because it's "her time"

4. You find a love letter you wrote and mailed to her on the floor of her room stuffed in the crack between her bed and wall
<bot>: My GF never appreciates any of the gifts I give her or even the romantic gestures. It makes me feel awful.