<human>: I'm 30/f and he's 33/m.  We've been together for total 11.2 yrs and married 1.2.  He is my first love, my first everything, I moved 2 states away to be with him.  We married on our 10yr ani.  I recently discovered he has been having a relationship with his coworker and it kills me.  My evidence is texts, and the way he treats me sometimes.  I have confronted him about another relationship but he denies it.  He instead talks like work is hard and everything is fine.  He says he still loves me and tonight we had a great time hanging out at a local bar, calling me his wife and such.  But did find the texts to Her during.    I guess I just want to hear someone to say bail.  I'm super upset about it and I love him SOOO much.  I feel so alone and scared.  I have no family that lives close so, it would probably mean I'd have to attempt to live on my own or go back home and that would really depress me.  Please tell me guys, is this a lost cause?  He does say he loves me.. And for many years we have loved.  Can someone love 2 people?  Should I fight for our marriage?  Please help.  I'd love any and all advice.

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<bot>: 11yr relationship on the rocks due to coworker. says he loves me and always will. Lady texts still continue. I'm scared and alone with family 800 miles away. Advice?