<human>: This is not a troll post or a joke, even though it sounds pretty amusing reading it for the first time. I should have seen this from the beginning, but I was in love. Previously, my mother in law did everything for my wife before we were married. My mother in law would fix my wife some cereal for breakfast and after my wife would eat, she would leave the bowl on the table for her mother to pick up and wash. This was at the age of 20. She was very spoiled growing up. I, on the other hand, learned at a very young age to take care of myself.

Getting on with the story, my wife(28f) and I(33m) have been together for 8 years, married for 5. We have two kids which makes it a bit difficult to manage a clean house. We both work M-F, 8-5. She does feed the children and change them, but so do I. I can't remember the last time she washed dishes or did laundry. She did mention that she was going to do dishes the other day, so I waited and around 8pm, they werent done yet so I just went ahead and did them. 

Regarding our sex life, or lack thereof, it's pretty much dull and rarely happens. Once a month, maybe. I don't want to go into too much detail, but i will say this, we've had the talk, I listen to her when she speaks, we do things as a family I do nice things for her, I never raise my voice at her and yes, I work out.

I don't do dishes or laundry because I "want" some. I do it because if I don't, I won't have any underwear to wear to work and we won't have a clean bowl to eat in.

Since, I'm not doing something I enjoy(having sex with my wife), should I stop doing things that she apparently doesn't enjoy doing(laundry/dishes)? I know it won't get the point across.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: My wife doesn't do laundry or dishes, and doesn't want to have sex with me. Help me fix this...