<human>: First, a brief note -I'm a fairly introverted person. I never go out with the express goal of meeting girls, and, until recently, had been single for about a year and a half.

Now that that's out of the way, the girl I've been seeing for about a month sounds perfect on paper - she is a genuinely kind person, financially stable (I wish I could say the same,) attractive and smart. It's just that, for some reason, she isn't *doing it* for me. I find it difficult to enjoy our time together, without any real explanation as to why. She's been very understanding, and has gone to great lengths to please me, and the fact that I have a hard time appreciating it just makes me feel awful about myself.

We had sex on our second date and, as I said, it broke a dry spell of over a year for me. The sex was pretty good (At least a solid 7/10,) but since then, this lingering, creeping doubt makes me feel even more guilty every time we get frisky. We haven't done anything serious in about a week, mostly because every time we plan an evening out I just start feeling depressed and guilty and I barely even want to see her, let alone touch her. The guilt is like some part of my mind thinks I'm just stringing her along for sex.

So, if I had to boil this down to a question, I suppose it'd be: Should I continue pursuing a relationship with this girl?

If yes, how can I overcome / let her know about these difficulties.

If no, how can I break up with a girl that has been nothing but kind and understanding to me?

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<bot>: Not sure if attraction to her is because of her as a person, or just because she's the first person in a long time that wants to touch my weiner.