<human>: Hi, thanks for reading.

Quick relevant bio: my parents divorced out of the blue when I was 19 and I might have commitment issues. My last relationships were all dead ends from the start (age difference, with a known cheater, long distance) but were extremely intense in term of attraction and drama.

I met this new girl 4 month ago, and she is great in so many ways (sweet, pretty, intelligent, very well learned, excellent musical taste), she treats me very well and we function well (same idea of fun, I can totally act as myself around her, not feeling on thin ice all the time). All in all I have never be in such healthy a relationship and have not met such a well rounded nice girl.

The problem is that I am not as attracted to her as I was in my previous tumultuous relationships. I will let myself be upset by not finding her as pretty from certain angles (but she **is** pretty), her not being as sexual as I am (sex is still good and very frequent), her body type not being exactly to my liking, etc..

So I am not developing strong romantic feelings for her. The thought of me being dishonest by staying and being a good boyfriend to her is starting to make me feel a great deal of guilt. I want to stay but I can't help but thinking of how to break up with her. **I must add that I have felt this way at some point in every relationships I ever had, but usually I feel like I have more tangible reasons to feel that way. And yes, I am in therapy**

I am afraid to hurt her, either by staying when I am not as head over heel as I suspect she is, or by breaking up with no real reasons. We're planning a trip soon, I really want to go but I feel very torn about it at the same time...

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: shoud I leave a perfectly good relationship with a great girl because I don't feel the same attraction than in my previous tumultuous relationships?