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Hi reddit.

A few weeks ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years; we had been long distance for the last 8 months or so and it wasn't a big surprise. Still, it was hard to admit for both of us that the relationship should go.

Anyway, I can't really feel anything about this. I was sad when we broke up, but then I just kind of said "fuck" a few times and got some work done. Haven't really felt any emotion about it since, and I can't tell if this is an effect of the long distance or if I'm lying to myself about how I feel (which isn't typical for me). Has anyone else been in a similar situation? Is it normal not to grieve much for a long-term relationship when its subjected to long distance?

My feelings are also complicated by the fact that I've developed a bit of a crush on a co-worker. It's probably not a good plan to pursue a relationship right now, but I'm curious about your opinions of me trying to do anything of a romantic/sexual nature while I don't really understand my emotional state. I.e., is it responsible for me to pursue someone, albeit casually, while I'm still trying to understand what's going on in my head?
<bot>: I have felt surprisingly little emotion since my breakup; am I doing something wrong or is this normal after long distance? And is it irresponsible to pursue a relationship while your mental state is still mixed up?