<human>: This is my first relationship and his second. His first relationship with a 19/F ended a year ago and she made it clear they will never get back together, and it really messed him up.

He's the kind of person that over-analyzes, hates to be selfish, and feels really guilty when hurts other people. He can't articulate exactly why he wanted to break up, he just said he needed to "figure his life out".

I think part of his reason is that he's still not over his ex, and another part is that he has no idea what to do career wise.

We don't currently live in the same city (I go to school in his town but come home for the summer), but talk constantly every day, and he's been mentioning getting back together. I REALLY want to get back with him because I love him more than I ever thought possible, but I don't want to stand in the way of him 'figuring his life out'.

Do I be selfish and take him back, or do I refuse to get back with him until he can figure himself out?

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<bot>: My boyfriend wants to get back together after he broke up with me (because he needs to figure his life out), do I get back together with him or refuse until he finds out what to do with his life?