<human>: I am with my boyfriend of 3 years. I love him so much that despite my best judgement, I decided to move in with him with the intention to get married. However, it just hit me today that maybe he's with me out of convenience. I do all the cleaning, I painted and spent my money to decorate the house. He pays the mortgage and I pay all the other bills, including grocery bills. We have sex maybe 1 or 2 times a month. I usually have to ask for it, but I try to be understandable because he has a low libido. Whenever I try to talk about my issues, I try my best to logical and express specific concerns with suggestions on how to fix it. But not matter what, my bringing up concerns upsets him and he doesn't talk to me for a whole night. He says it's because he feels bad. But when I feel bad, I try to make it up to the other person. Even after we've had a productive conversation on how we can change, he does nothing to try and make things better. If we have a discussion about how he doesn't help me clean up after the cats, I'm still the one that has to clean up after them or their litter box is full. 

 I don't want to make him out to be a bad guy, because he isn't. We lived together before we got the house. He took care of me when I had to get out of my house (overbearing mom). We have so many similar interests and tastes. Our families love each other. So I think that he does love me, but I'm not sure. The 'special' things that he maybe does for me is buy me hard cider or cook dinner, but that is not often. He'll give me kisses, but he's playing around. There's no intimacy and it's making me wonder if I'm just their to do chores and be there if he gets into the mood. Am I thinking too much? Is there anything that I could say that doesn't result in him shutting me out for a night?

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<bot>: I am doing a lot of the chores and there is no intimacy in my relationship. Is my boyfriend with me just for convenience?