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I'm a 22 yr old female. We've been together for almost two years. I was sexually assaulted back in college and he has never really been sympathetic about it. I brought it up and asked why. He said "Because rapists will rape and what he did was wrong, but you should protect yourself. You thought it was a good idea to get blackout drunk. I mean, you learned a lesson. I'm not saying it happened for you to learn one, but yeah." I begin to sob, he then flatly says "I didn't think you were emotionally capable of hearing that." He's made similar comments about sexual assault victims playing a role in their victimization. He said that feels women are "underhandedly deceitful". When I got upset, he backed off, claimed I wasn't listening to him, and said that being manipulative is a "woman trait" but that not all women are. He can be very sweet and caring but other times very mean and insensitive. I don't know what to do. Any advice would be appreciated.
<bot>: bf may be a misogynist, is very insensitive to me at times, but can very sweet at other times. What do I do? Thoughts appreciated.