<human>: I've been friends with this girl for two years. We're close friends. The other night she came over and we watched the breakfast club. She spent most of the movie's time in my arms. At the end of it when Bender and Claire got together, I mentioned how that was nice. She looked at me and we kissed for a few minutes. Then she told me that she had just got out of a relationship and didn't she want commitment, but that liked the kiss and being close. She added that she was torn between two people (now with me in the mix, three.) One of those people is a close friend of mine and the other is somebody I don't know. I decided to be a good guy and tell her to date who she truly wanted to be with. She said that if she was going to get into a relationship it would be with the guy I don't know. I said that she should do what she wants to do and not let anybody sway that. Before she headed home we decided we were going to treat it like it never happened. The problem is that neither of us can do that. Every time I stop thinking about whatever it is I'm doing my mind returns to that moment. She said since that she liked it too. Whenever we try to have a regular conversation, it doesn't end well. We can't go back to being friends and we're not going to date, but neither wants to lose our relationship, whatever it is. What can I do? General advice?

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Kissed my friend, we both liked it, we can't date, and regular friendship no longer works. HALP.