<human>: Two years ago I moved out because my parents didn't treat me any different since I went to school and I wanted to be treated more like an adult person.
So moved into an not far located apartment. I still talked to my parents about problems and visited every weekend.
Since beginning of 2012 I don't see my parents on the weekends any longer (because I have a serious long distance relationship and visit my boyfriend on the weekend or he visits me,  but I try to visit my parents at least once a week and call some more times) and I started to make decisions and plans on my own, without asking my parents for advice or help.

Since then there are some situations with my mom. My mom suggests something I don't want or oversees some suggestions or ideas I made on purpose because this don't fit in her plans (Or decides stuff for me whithout asking), I feel treated like a child and explode. Which ends in an situation I am obviously the wrong person, since I am actually acting like a child. I'm working on this bad behaviour.

But what should I do, that she recognizes, that I am an adult and not a child she needs to take care of? How could I make her accepting me as an adult person who is hierarchically equal to her?

Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?
<bot>: my Mom has some kind of empty nest syndrome and treats me like a child. How can I make her recognize, I'm not?