<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

My GF wants me to stop/slow down playing Video Games,

Im a 35 year old male, and yes i do realise that gaming is childish in some peoples eyes. I almost think that myself.

I have a full time job, and we share 3 kids in all (10 years old and under). I help out in all chores around the house, feeding of animals, groceries, bath time.. supper etc...

I spend all my time with her and the kids, and i never play games through out the day or when they are awake for that matter. I've never cancelled a trip, a date night, a tv show or movie.. dinner out.. ive never play when my GF is awake tbh.

My GF and I always spend quality time together, ive never said to her "you know what, im gonna go downstairs and play some games, you can watch it without me"...

She goes to bed early, ive always been more of a night owl. 

After she falls asleep i play games. maybe for a hour or two at best. i used to play in the bedroom, but she would wake up to me playing (i always use wireless headphones) the tv screen was usually the culprit. So to combat that, i moved the xbox downstairs where i won't bother anyone.

I play on average 3-4 times a week (week nights) i keep weekends to us..

somehow she doesn't like the fact that i play, she feels like shes in second place, even though i give her all my time.

Is it selfish of me that i enjoy stimulating my mind with some fun games? 

I don't feel that this should be an issue, but apparently it is to her. she thinks i have a problem. but considering i never play on our time... ever... im lost 

:(
<bot>: i don't play games on "our" time together, but she wants me to quit playing or slow down to prob once a week