<human>: My husband had abysmal credit when we met, and I'm the polar opposite. I hold all the credit cards, home mortgage, etc. because of this. I do the household budget and pay all the bills. We have children and both work full time. I am very, VERY financially prudent. He, on the other hand, spends money like it's unlimited (eating out 3 times/day, hobbies, etc.) and honestly doesn't think he's doing anything wrong because he's still earning a paycheck. He'll buy something and lie about how much or hide it from me because 'I'll get mad anyways'.

He cannot be trusted with a credit card (ADD), but he travels with work so he NEEDS a credit card. Despite lots of 'talks, it has now dawned on me that he has been exceeding his travel budget for the past 2 years by hundreds per month, all the while claiming that it will be reimbursed....well, it's now clear that it's not going to be, and he's simply been overspending. On my personal credit card that I trusted him with. The damage is in the thousands.

At this point, I'm debating going to counseling myself to learn how not to resent him for this and take his negligence personally. If I cut off the credit card, it causes him issues professionally. But I'm getting frustrated that despite my well-paying job, I am forced to live frugally because he won't. I know this isn't the worst complaint to have, because he's great in so many other ways, but it still eats away at me.

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<bot>: Husband can't control his spending and I suffer because of it. Other than that, I love him to death. Help!