<human>: Long story short, my gf broke up with me about two or three months ago. It was out of the blue, I didn't want it, and although I can see her perspective on things (although she never gave me any reasons) I still feel very hurt. It wasn't a long relationship, about nine months, but it felt very significant to me as I was starting to feel that this could be the gal for me. 

I've dated a lot since then, probably 15-20 coffee dates and maybe 3-5 women I felt like I connected with, but nothing has panned out. At this point, honestly I'm feeling so burned out on my dating life and bitter towards my ex that I just don't want to think about it anymore. Not necessarily give up on finding loving but right now I'm just tired of the grind and would rather not deal romantically with anyone. 

So this is my issue; while I really want to meet someone and do enjoy just meeting new people, I just feel like I need a break. At the same time I don't want to close myself off to possibilities and miss out on something great because I didn't put myself out there.

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<bot>: feeling bitter towards my ex and my dating life, don't want to get burned out but don't necessarily want to stop dating altogether, what should I do?