<human>: Throw away cause the fella in question is a redditor as well...

I've been dating this amazing guy for three months and everything is awesome except that he refuses to call me his girlfriend or admit that we are in a real relationship. 

Backstory: I've known this guy for about 2 years but we have been really good friends for that time. Recently, we both found ourselves out of very long term and very serious relationships and we struck up a romance. It's been fantastic in every way except he says he "doesn't want to put a label on anything." I know he took his breakup really hard and when things first started heating up between us, I suggested we put a little distance between us and slow down so he could have some time to figure out his situation, which he refused. Now a few months in, I'm really falling for this guy and it's starting to irk me that we act like we are in a relationship (dates, weekends away together, meeting friends/family) but he refuses to be in one. We are both in our mid/late 20s  and I feel like I'm getting too old to live in relationship purgatory.

Am I just being a crazy lady or should I kick him to the curb and find someone who wants to be in an actual relationship with me?

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<bot>: Started dating a friend 3 months ago and he refuses to be in a proper relationship because he is still getting over an ex.