<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

We dated for about 3 months and it was unclear about what we both wanted from the relationship. We stayed in this dating phase and it was fun, sexy and casual. She would always be the one to text me first which would lead us to arrange a date. Honestly, I believe she liked me more than I liked her. However, after I slept over at her place towards the end of our phase, she began to become distant from me.

Eventually, she stopped initiating texts and rejected me several times when I tried to set-up dates. I started to become really clingy and needy. Then, drunkenly, I sent her a text that revealed that neediness. I knew from then, that I lost myself and started to drown in my feelings. I needed to get out of this hole that I made and re-build myself.

I haven't talked to her since I sent that text, 2 months ago. I've been spending this time to date other women and focus on myself. We share the same group of friends so I see her sometimes, just saying hi and giving her a hug. However, I'm trying to keep contact to a minimum.

During our whole dating phase, I didn't know what I wanted from this. I never knew what we were. **Did I want her to be my girlfriend or did I just want a girlfriend?** I honestly wouldn't know what to say if she ever brought up the topic. Though, she never brought it up nor did I. 

Would it matter to talk to her now about it? We were friends before we dated, but we didn't really get closer til we dated. In the end, I decided that I didn't want to commit to her. How would I bring it up since we haven't really hung out or talked since then?
<bot>: Dated a girl for 3 months. Haven't talked to her for 2 months. Should I talk to her now so that we can stay friends?