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Ok, so here goes! I'll try to make this succint.

I've been dating my current bf for a year now. We met in college, I immediately fell for him, we were both to shy to do anything about it though, so nothing happened. We went a year with no contact and then ran into each other completely randomly, and have been dating ever since. We began having sex about a month into the relationship. The sex is great and I love him very much. But I do take a long time to finish and, for a while, it was difficult for him to get me off at all. The issue now is that, even though he can get me off, I still take longer. I've been thinking about it a lot and here's my theory:

I LOVE sex with him, getting him off, giving pleasure, ect. I'm always down to give head, have sex, fool around. I pretty much know how to get him off and, even though it's fun to tease him, I have a few moves I know send him over the edge. I think these are all positive things, but maybe when it comes to him getting me off, I'm still stuck in the mentality that it's all about HIM

Do other ladies have this issue? Guys, do you notice this with your girlfriends/ girls you've been with? How can I relax and just let myself ENJOY him trying to get me off, and basically just allow myself to make it 100% about me?

Hope this makes sense! I kind of typed it without thinking, just trying to get it all out. Thanks for any advice !
<bot>: I have trouble relaxing while my bf is trying to get me off/ need advice on how to allow myself to just enjoy the moment!