<human>: We've been together for a year, but things have been getting progressively rocky. He lost his job about 9 months ago, and I've been trying to help him get back on his feet. I pay for everything when we're out together: meals, movies, etc. 
He seems to have no motivation to get a job, it's like he's comfortable being taken care of by me. His room is a fucking mess. I've cleaned it a few times (took 3 garbage bags) and he somehow manages to get it messy within a week. He and his mother don't talk, even though they live in the same house. They communicate via post-it notes. His mom took his car away from him, so now I have to play chauffeur as well. 

I work about 40 hours a week, so I try to see him on my days off. But he's been acting really distant and doesn't seem to acknowledge all the time, money, and resources I've put into this relationship. All he seems to be interested in is smoking pot and playing Minecraft. 

I love him and I'm going to have a little chat with him on Friday. I need advice about everything! I don't want to lose him, but I don't want him dragging me down. What should I tell him?

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<bot>: I've been taking care of my boyfriend to get him back on his feet, but that's getting me nowhere. Help!