<human>: This is my second wife.  I was in an abusive relationship and she helped me through so many of my problems with my first.  We have three kids (14f, 8m, 4m) from my first marriage.  Before Christmas she went on a trip to Bermuda and met someone there that she really connected with.  
She ended up kissing him and told me as soon as she came home.  This morning she told me that she had continued talking with him via text/skype and had broken contact with him last night.

I feel so betrayed and I don't know what to do.  My exwife isn't in the picture and my current wife is like a mother to my kids.  The main thing that I valued in our relationship is the trust that we had for each other is trust and I don't feel like we have that anymore.

I can't go through another divorce.  The kids can't go through another divorce.  I can't tell my friends and family because I'm embarrassed and I don't want to embarrass her.  I don't know what to do.  I'm currently at a bar getting day drunk while she's out with the kids shopping.

What do I do?

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<bot>: my second wife kissed someone else and carried on a text relationship for a few weeks.  Kids are involved.  What to do?