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My fiancee pummeled and kicked me yesterday. i think she was using max force but honestly, it did not hurt physically. This is the first time she has done it in 8 years we've been together. She pretty much unleashed her frustrations due to me being somewhat socially retarded and quiet as fuck. I probably have aspergers or my personality is in-line with someone who has aspergers. I think she also has a borderline personality. 

I know she feels sad for getting violent, and obviously a lot of anger and resentment. She is 99% done and I am 95% done. I just want to be at least amicable and am trying to figure out how/when to communicate with her. Like what is going on through her head? I think we are both good people, who werent right for each other and now have a lot of resentment towards each other.  We have a son, a house, and a car so it won't be a clean break. I should have said that earlier but typing on phone. i am just afraid if what I say or don't say will incite her and she will use our son to spite me.
<bot>: probably breaking up after violent incident. How to communicate and make smooth as possible transition with house and child in the mix?