<human>: Her parents hate me for no apparent reason. I have tried my best to talk to them and do everything I can to make this right. But it's not likely to ever happen. They have said terrible things about me. That I'm pathetic, that I'm stupid, that I have nothing to offer, that I'm weak etc. etc. 

I would like to marry my girlfriend, but I'm not sure if it's the right thing to do. We can't invite her parents, they wouldn't approve and will misbehave at our wedding. But what will happen if we don't tell them that we are getting married? Should I invite my own parents to the wedding if hers aren't there? Hell would probably break loose. It would anger her entire family. I'm not sure if things will ever be ok if we decide to marry without them knowing.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: I want to get married to my girlfriend but her parents hate me. Would getting married to her be a bad idea? Should we tell her parents or not?