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I don't want my mom's husband (who is NOT my father) in the professional wedding pictures, nor do I want him in the same style and color of tux as my father and my husband-to-be's father. A little background info: my parents divorced when I was 12 (im 23 now) and my mom remarried this guy when I was 16. After the divorce I lived strictly with my dad. I never looked at my mom's second husband as any sort of father figure or any kind of authority figure. I always just thought of him as "that guy who married my mom". (Side note, my mom also cheated on my dad with this guy, that may be an important bit if info). Anyways, the guy is nice enough, I don't hate him, but I don't want him wearing a tux that matches my dad's and my husband-to-be's dad's because 1. He isn't a father of anyone & 2. I feel it's a bit of a slap in the face to my dad. I also don't want him in the professional pictures because we only want blood relatives or members of the bridal party in those pictures. My husband-to-be's dad is engaged and his wife will not be in any if the pictures. So, those are my feelings on it. I haven't talked to my mom about it yet, but she's already assumed that he will be dressed in an identical tux and in the professional pictures. I wanted to run this by a nonbiased group before I spoke to her about it because I want to make sure I'm not being unnecessarily mean or "bridezilla-y". My mom is super irrational and emotional so I know she'll be upset, I just want to hear from others whether I'm justified in my requests. And also just fyi: I don't mind taking separate pictures with him, but I don't want to pay $2500 for pictures I don't really want. (Also my fiance, me, and our dads are paying for 90% of the wedding, the other 10% my mom is paying for, if that's relevant). Thank you in advance for your input & words of wisdom!!
<bot>: I don't want my mom's husband to be in the wedding party or pictures because he's not my father. Am I being a bitch?