<human>: Number 1 advice given on here is communication -- what do when he won't communicate back??? 

Basically, I am bored af in our 4 year relationship. We dont have sex, we don't talk, we don't really have any affection anymore. Neither of us tries. Bleak, right?

He knows this, we've talked about it. The weird thing is, neither of us wants to break up because when things ARE good, they are really good! But he doesnt want to talk about any of it! Communication is NOT one of his strong points.  He has absolutely no suggestion as to what I can do or that he will try to do to work through things! All he says is, sorry. Rather than trying to talk through it or problem solve, he sits there looking mopey and sad for himself. How am I supposed to inspire any will in him?? Has he given up? I can't do it all myself, takes two to tango etc etc.  

Anyone else experienced this ? Do you guys think this is a lost cause or can I inspire him to be more communicative?

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<bot>: our relationship is dwindling, my bf wants to stay together but won't communicate or make an effort to keep us together.