<human>: My wife and I have been married a year and a half, known each other for 3 and a half.

We live in our own home and both work full time jobs - me 7-4 and her 7-3, Monday - Friday.

Recently her student loan bills have started coming in (just graduated) and we are barely making our monthly bills. I do some freelance writing on the side and can make a decent amount of money working just 1-2 hours a day extra.

The problem is that she always wants me to spend time with her. As an example, this past weekend we went camping on Friday right after work. We stayed and hung out with her friends until Saturday at 2pm. We went home until 8, and hung out until 11 at a bar.

Today, Sunday, I'm trying to do some work and she is hassling me because "I don't ever spend time with her". Her stepfather used to always ignore her while working on the computer, and I think she has a very negative view of what I'm doing because of it.

Basically, I feel a great conflict and don't know what to do. On one hand, we really need the money and she realizes this (she's actually the one that likes to spend money and wants to go out, make improvements to the house). On the other hand, she doesn't want me working extra to achieve this.

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<bot>: Wife and I work full time. Need extra cash, but she doesn't like me working extra hours. She likes to have nice things but wants me to spend time with her instead of working. What do?