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Im struggling to find things that we can do together as a couple/hang out (we are saving and want to study next year so not alot of money) at the moment when i go over half the time he plays videogames (and i enjoy playing video games) but pretty much never even play together so i end up bored a fair bit as using the internet causes lag...  weve talked about playing together but he usually plays single player or offers at bad times, like when im cooking us dinner or when im half asleep in bed in the middle of the night and then just takes it as i dont want to after all. I feel like im fighting to spend quality time with him and i dont know how to broach this properly because when i do its usually met with incomprehension or "if you want to do something just tell me" but its always on me to thing of what to do. Basically allot of the time it feels like he doesn't particular care if im there or not.
I know he does care but i cant seem to explain this to him in a way he comprehends (and he is in no way stupid...). Im lost on how i should handle this coz nothing ive tried seems to work, so any words of advise would be welcome
<bot>: boyfriend plays ALOT of videogames when im over and it feels like he doesnt care im there and he doesnt seem to understand when i try and explain this to him.