<human>: I started working at my current place of employment 6 months ago. It's a huge place with 3,000 employees and it's easy to be lost in a crowd. On my first day of training I met this guy who works in security and I felt the ground shift from underneath me. I knew he could feel it, too. Saw him a few more times after that during that month, then not a lot in the month following, making me think he didn't work there anymore, until I saw him a lot more around June. Almost every day, and all those feelings returned. I was so mystified and could hardly have a conversation with him.

One day I was feeling bold and impulsive and I scribbled my number on a piece of paper and when I saw him that day I handed it to him. We started talking and I was really surprised when he initiated flirting. About a month and a half after that, he invited me out and we slept together that night. It was really lovely because I have not dated anyone since a bad relationship when I was 18 but that's neither here nor there.

Now it's been about a month since the initial encounter and nothing's changed but I'm definitely worried about having more intense feelings than him, so I try to stay quiet. I'm worried I'm in love, and I do not want to scare him off, but it's on the tip of my tongue. His birthday is in a few weeks and I'm worried I can't get him the present I actually want to get him without blowing it.

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<bot>: Dating a really great guy, I'm pretty sure I'm in love, but worried it's too soon to say that, so I'm looking for better alternatives to say it here.