<human>: I was arrested and have an arraignment for possession of marijuana and operating a motor vehicle while in possession in the state of New Jersey. I plan on attending and paying my legal fees, and would prefer if my parents were not involved. As it would happen lawyers have sent mail to my home address(also on drivers licenses) rather then the address I gave them. I have a variety of reasons to keep this away from them, the two important on is a recent discovery of dementia and I want to handle this myself. Can the court give them information pretaining to my case? As of now they believe it to be a mistake but my father will be contacting them tomorrow. I have sent an email specifying I do not want them involved and I will be calling once office hours open tomorrow.

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<bot>: If anyone has an idea as to the procedure of releasing case information and if they can inquire about the case before I am actually charged.