<human>: My husband and I have been together for six years. I have a lower libido than my husband, but I try to compromise to make him happy. On average, I'd say we have sex (or I please him) at least twice a week if not more. My problem is that sometimes when I'm not in the mood, he gets upset with me. It turns into an argument, and I don't know if I'm wrong for not being in the mood or if he's wrong for getting so upset with me. 

So my question is: what is the appropriate reaction when a man is "rejected" any sexual activity from his wife? I just want to understand a man's point of view in this situation. 

I feel like in his mind, he has an urge and I should satisfy it to show him that I love him. He thinks just cause I'm not in the mood doesn't mean I can't give him a BJ or HJ. But in my mind, if I'm really not in the mood then he shouldn't get so upset with me. He says it always turns in an argument whenever I say "no", but I feel like I say yes so many other times that it shouldn't become such a big issue. Two days ago we had sex in the morning and I gave him a handy that same night, and today he gets upset with me because I am too tired to do anything. Has anyone had this issue before??

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<bot>: Husband and I have sex regularly, but when I'm not in the mood he gets upset. Am I not understanding his point of view in this situation??