<human>: When we met she had just gotten out of a bad break up (her ex was an abusive psycho). We started dating and about a month in I broached the topic of sex. She told me that she still feel hurts from her ex and how he used her and wasn't ready to be intimate. I was totally cool and understanding with it. I was there for her whenever she cried and made sure to treat her as best as possible through this tough time.

For the first few months her ex kept harassing her. She wanted to meet with him to resolve things but I advised her against it (he had been physically abusive). Eventually they did meet a few times, and he is no longer an issue.

Its been 6 months since we started dating and we've only had sex twice. I'm absolutely understanding that its HER body and HER choice when and where to have sex. My issue is that instead of just saying she doesn't want to she will say things like "I'm really busy right now" and then spend hours doing nothing on her phone.

I don't mean to come off as pushy or rapey, or to accuse her of lying (maybe she's just not in the mood and doesn't know how to express it). What's the best way to handle this? And let me make it clear that I DO NOT feel entitled to HER body in any way and understand its 100℅ her choice.

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<bot>: 6 month relationship, only had sex twice, how to approach topic with gf without coming off as a rapey idiot?