<human>: Basically my boyfriend is not a nurturing person and it kind of confuses and irks me. Two recent incidents happened this week...

First, I just got on the Pill and had very heavy side effects. For three nights I was retching and feeling horribly nauseated. I went to him the first night, nearly crying in pain... he patted me on the head once he understood I was sick because of the Pill... hugged me and went back to sleep. 

That was fine with me, but in the next mornig and afternoon I was confused by how he acted like everything was normal (didn't offer to get medication for me or do ANYTHING for me) and generally responded with ":(" whenever I texted him that I was throwing up again. 

In the evening, I was trying to figure out if I should go home or another place, and he said nonchalantly "You'll feel like shit wherever you go anyway." I was very hurt - he hadn't tried to take care of me at all and I doubt he would ever go through that much pain if he took a male contraceptive...

A few days later to now and I'm sick with the flu. Again, he's sweet (hugging) but doesn't offer to do anything for me, and I'm confused and a little resentful why it doesn't occur to him to help me with anything...

For comparison, I am very considerate (but not overbearing) when he is going through a hard time, or if he's sick. This has been the pattern of our relationship, actually... he has admitted himself that I am muh more caring than he is...

Can you provide a brief overview of the text?
<bot>: boyfriend doesn't seem to care that much when I'm sick from the Pill, or whenever - can't tell if I'm too whiny or dependent