<human>: My bf and I have been together for nearly 5 years now and lived together for majority of that time. I relocated 8 states away from our home state with him about 1 1/2 years ago and we recently bought a home. We have good solid jobs and financial stability. The idea of marriage has been circulating as we are kind of at that point in our relationship but he is so worried that one day if we divorce, I will take all of his money, the house, kids (if we have any) and completely destroy his life. I have never given him any reason to think thats in my personality but due to past relationships/experiences he believes majority of woman are naturally spiteful beings. He is also a frequenter of /r/MensRights  so he regularly reads the horror stories of men losing it all to a spiteful ex wife. We are not even engaged yet and I am finding myself having to convince him I would never do this.
When asked if he truly trusts me, he said he trusts me "as much as he could ever trust a woman". I am not sure what that exactly means or how I should take it...
I am at the point where I am not sure if I even want to get married anymore...

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<bot>: Bf convinced I will take all of his money and ruin his life if we marry then divorce one day; not sure what to do.