<human>: My boyfriend really wants to go to a strip club with his buddy on Saturday night. This is my first relationship and I'm pretty conservative while he's liberal. He says he will not go if I do not feel comfortable.

His reasoning: going to a strip club is no touching and basically like porn. According to him it's a guys activity and it's harmless fun.

My reasoning: For me, I'm ok with porn because it's kind of like a illusion on a computer. Not really ok with strip clubs because it is the real thing. Plus, I feel like a guy should be somewhat of a gentleman and in my opinion this would tarnish my boyfriend's "gentlemanness" if he went.

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<bot>: Do you think I'm being unreasonable or should I let him go? Is this a thing that guys actually do for "fun"?