<human>: I am really into this girl I know. I think of her constantly, I try my damndest to be where she's at at all times, etc. When I see her my heart beats faster, I get excited, etc. It's a prototypical crush.

However what I've noticed with my crushes or the girls I fall hardest for is, I am **really, really** attracted to them, but that doesn't really show itself in a *sexual* urge sort of way. There are girls I see where you can totally see yourself having sex with them in all kinds of ways. With my crushes over the years (I've probably felt this intensely for maybe 3 girls, ever), though, I never really see them that way.

Do not get me wrong. I am not at all saying I find her ugly or unattractive, it's actually the complete opposite. I have those rose-tinted goggles where she's basically perfect. Her face, her freckles, her nose, her skin, her voice, her body - the way she is. I love all of it. Yet I don't get that strong "urge" to just go and have sex with her. I know it sounds all white-knightey or whatever, but I want to talk to her, hold her hand, cuddle, hang out, and just be with her more than anything. 

I don't think this is abnormal, but at the same time I'm curious as to what other people typically feel with their crushes or S/Os where this happens. What do you guys typically feel with your crushes? Do you equally feel the need to have sex with them *and* be with them, or do you find that one outweighs the other?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: I am emotionally and physically head over heels for a girl, but I find that when I have crushes like this my interests lie more in being with and around them, rather than having sex with them despite my intense attraction towards them.