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Matt and I have had a pretty typical boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. We met at a school function, started hanging out, which turned into dating/relationship, etc. We fight occasionally, like any couple, but have a generally healthy relationship. On one hand, I do attribute some of the ease with which Matt and I handle topics like boundaries, family, and arguments to Matt reading and learning from other's issues on this forum. 
On the other hand, I sometimes feel like I'm interacting with a relationship robot. I think he's gotten a lot of dating confidence from what he reads here about other's experience, but to me it's just that. *Other's* experience. I read this sub as well. I think it's a fun read and people really give great advice. However, sometimes I feel like he takes a hard stance on conflicts because he will read something here (and I get that impression because he will express sentiments or even use phrases I've read here on certain threads). I can understanding using this sub as a way to develop your ideals on relationships BUT... many of the questions here are specific and give many details about the submitter's particular history/relationship that don't apply to us. I feel like he's reading the advice here and applying big blanket statements without considering OUR history and circumstance. At best I don't feel heard, at worst I sometimes feel like he is ready to throw the relationship away because he's read some commenter's harsh criticism about a situation that may partially apply to us. 
I have brought up that I feel like he takes the advice here more seriously than how he may actually be *feeling* about a situation. He acknowledges that it has an influence but insists his stand is his own opinion/conclusion. Ultimately, I'm tired of being up against a world of criticisms about our relationship that don't even typically apply to us. 
I guess I'm looking for some advice on how to talk to him about this. Or if this is a red flag that is worth ending things over (maybe he's not really ready for a relationship).
<bot>: Boyfriend reads a lot of this sub and enforces a lot of boundries/rules/expectations as a result that we may not need.