<human>: The mother of my child was technically married when we conceived. Her husband was abusive and she called the cops and has a report on it. They said she would have to get her soon to be ex husband to sign a form for me to be on his birth certificate.She would never ask him.  Now we are no longer together she wants to go back to her abusive ex husband.  She wants to take my child who she had during an affair back to the guy she cheated on. I want custody of my son just because I do not feel him to be safe over there. How can I get my name on his birth certificate and proceed with getting custody of him?

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<bot>: Mother of my son wants to go back to a past abusive ex husband my name isn't on his birth certificate but I am the father. Help?