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We have been together for 2 1/2 years, living together for 1 year. I work from home and have a very flexible schedule, so it makes the most sense that I would do most of the cooking and cleaning, but I end up feeling so unappreciated. We've tried having one cook while the other cleans and switch everyday. We've tried having one person do both cooking and cleaning, switching everyday. We've tried me cleaning the house but him being responsible for cleaning up whenever we are done cooking, but he is so often tired from his job that he will leave dishes out for two days, which is really inconsiderate of our roommate, and if I just clean a few things for him, he doesn't appreciate it. He apparently also feels like he is doing most of the work, although for the life of me, I don't know why. It seems pretty obvious that I am. I do all our laundry, clean the house, cook half of the food, clean my own dishes from during the day, and will even clean up after him sometimes. All he has to do is the dishes, yet he still feels like I'm shafting him.

What is the best way to divide up housework so that both of us are doing the same amount?
<bot>: I can't figure out how to organize our chores so that neither of us feels like we are getting the bad end of a deal.