<human>: My wonderful father died six years ago leaving behind my mother, me and my younger sister. We grew up in a different city than the majority of his extended family. I wouldn't say we were extremely close but we still saw them a few times a year and at Christmas, weddings and funerals etc. This has continued post my fathers death. 

A few months ago my paternal grandfather passed on. I hadn't really thought about the estate until today when we were told it is being divided evenly between my father's three brothers. I am unpleasantly surprised at how upset I am by this. 

In my head it's a) my grandfathers money to dispose of however he likes and no one should ever feel entitled to an inheritance  b) completely normal that he favor his children rather than the granddaughters that he only saw a few times a year and c) completely normal that my uncles aren't going to put their hands up to decrease their given share.

Less rationally though I'm hurt. It feels like it's saying that now Dads dead he never really counted and that we're really not part of their family.  Part of me wants to go "well fine then if you don't want us I don't want you". No big scenes but just stop making effort to maintain the relationships. I think for the most part I keep in contact with them from a general "family is important" feeling, because I enjoy hearing stories about Dad growing up and because I've felt like maintaining contact with his family is what he would have wanted. When I think about cutting back on contact though what I circle back around to is that it feels so petty and greedy to essentially stop seeing family because they didn't give me money
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I would very grateful to have some outside perspective on this. I have a feeling that if it's just me, my mother and my sister all upset talking to each other we will just turn it into a bigger issue. I actually think I'd feel better if people would just tell me it's completely normal for money to only go to living children not the descendants of dead ones, that would at least take the sting out of it.

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<bot>: Father died six years ago. Grandfather died recently and left all his estate to his living sons. Am I unreasonable and greedy for being upset.