<human>: I do not know if it is because I lack the looks, the charisma or just have no idea how to go about it.  I have never been with a woman who would be willing to just have NSA even once.  

It always goes the same, whenever I do get to meet a girl who is willing to date I have to always work in the relationship to get there.  Then only after they have developed feelings for me have I ever been able to do the deed (so to speak).  I don't have any problems with them being emotionally attached as each of the three told me they loved me first and I am the one who ended each of the 3 relationships.

But bluntly speaking it really bothers me that I can't walk into a bar or something and walk out with someone for the night like my friends can.  Its not that I haven't tried.  I've been flat out rejected a couple of times but most of the time they give me their number and want me to date them.  I mean its not like I'm opposed to dating, God knows I've been in a relationship for the majority of my adult life.  But just for once I would like to see how the other half lives.

My number count is so absurdly low that its embarrassing.  My friend bring home more women in a single week than I have been with in my entire life.

No, I'm not trying to compete with him or anything but for the love of God I would just like to be able to get laid without having to go through the painstakingly long process of someone getting to love me first.

I'm not tall but I'm not what you would call short either.  I'm 5'11" tall (granted its on the shorter side) I weigh 145 and I work out 3 days a week.  I try and dress fashionably when I go out.

Tips for any pros out there would be most warmly welcome.

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<bot>: Have been in LTR's my entire adult life, really want NSA and have no idea what I am doing wrong as I get people wanting to be in relationships with me but nobody willing to well you know...