<human>: Original post: 

So basically the most predictable thing happened. We started going to couple's therapy, his hesitance about marriage escalated to some pretty jarring statements said in the interest of "honesty" in sessions. After having to hear that he thought I was "too ugly to marry" and "would just get even uglier after we got married," I finally let go, realizing I couldn't sit across from the therapist another week watching him try to mask his pity for me. 

One day after we got home, I just calmly spelled out for my bf the reasons I had to break up, and we had a surprisingly sane and straightforward conversation about it. It took me several weeks to move out, during which we lived together and coexisted very peacefully.

It was and still has been a logistical nightmare for me to move out, and I still don't have a stable place in SF to live, jumping from sublease to sublease. But I look back on the fears I expressed in therapy, that I was so scared of having to start all over at 28, that no one would want me the older I got, that maybe he was right and I was too ugly to find someone to love me. And I realize how much those were the irrational thoughts of someone who lived every moment of their relationship like a trapped animal.

I still am pretty much financially fucked by this breakup, but I am free and feel valuable again, and that's priceless. Thanks for all of your comments telling me frankly what I already knew, but desperately needed to hear from someone else to feel confident about it.

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<bot>: BF was hesitant about marriage after 4 years, I broke up with him. When someone shows you who they are, believe them.