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Hi everyone,

Throwaway for various personal reasons. So, I've been seeing this guy, who I'm going to call, Patrick, for about a year now. When Patrick and I first met, he told me he was 30 years old and going through law school. He told me he took the bar exam last weekend and is now waiting for results. 

We (and a couple of friends) went on a trip to celebrate over this weekend. One issue came up where we needed an additional driver but Patrick happened to forget his ID. This caused some issues where we weren't able to get into bars and such. Everyone thought nothing of it, however. 

Last night, a friend sent me a various pages (including a state bar identification page) showing his exact name, bar exam number, undergrad schools, and address, AND that he passed the bar in 2010... 5 years ago! We also found out his "college buddy" is actually 37. After snooping around a little more, we found out that he's 37 himself, not 30.

Now I'm connecting the dots.  I've grown to be fond of him but I've never actually stepped foot inside his house or met any of his family or friends. I don't even know what he's been doing during all those times he was "studying". 

I confronted him last night asking for some proof like ID or school ID. He would not send it over no matter what. I don't really know what I want at this point. Guys, what do you do in this situation?
<bot>: lawyer student boyfriend of 1 year turns out to be 7 years older than he said he was and actually passed his bar exam 5 years ago. I confronted him and he would not give me any evidence to prove he isn't lying.