<human>: My fiance and I are getting in married in June and we are so excited; however, his parents are already making comments that make me concerned. Since I've met them they have referred to themselves as "helicopter parents," always hovering around. Despite being a great student they were always on fiance's ass about school and just generally are overprotective. He's an only child, so I can understand. On the other hand, I am one of five and am used to getting only 1/5 of the attention. 

We are moving to another state for his job, and his parents are already "joking" about moving there. Currently living in the same city we see his parents (going out to eat, movies, etc.) several times a week. They really like me and already consider me their daughter, but I don't feel the same connection. What is wrong with me? I like them, but we have little in common. I've had a terrible relationship with both of my parents (divorced, depressed, talking shit on each other) since a young teenager. No abuse or anything, but I spent a lot of time helping to raise my siblings and look out for myself. I'm not used to a traditional parent figure telling me what to do. His parents are certainly well-meaning, but I feel like I already have parents and I'm not looking for more. How are (good) relationships with in-laws supposed to work? It sounds whiny just typing it out. Boo hoo, poor me, my in-laws love me and are good people.

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<bot>: Future in-laws think of me as a daughter but the feelings aren't reciprocated. Their overbearing parenting style is freaking me out. What are healthy boundaries and how do I make this better?