<human>: My Gf wants me to sneak into her room so we can fool around, I've told her that I don't want to risk getting caught (her father already dislikes me). she keeps pushing, asking things like "why don't you love me enough to sneak in?" and threatening to withhold sex. 

**Some Background on her**: she was abused by her biological father. was a ward of the state for just over a year and was adopted at age 9, her adoptive parents (the ones she is currently living with) opted to change her name at that point. Her father (adoptive) is very strict with her (possibly slightly verbally abusive) but is a pretty okay guy. her mom works a lot and is hardly home.

I love her and don't want this to come between her and I. I know that she has some attachment issues due to he F-ed up childhood. this whole sneaking in thing is super important to her but I don't feel right about it. does anyone have some advice to help me with this problem?

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<bot>: Gf wants me to sneak in, it means a lot to her. I don't want to risk getting caught as her father already doesn't like me.