<human>: So I am an extremely late bloomer and I never really dated or kissed anyone before yesterday.  A friend I'd known about 6 months (and had a fairly flirtatious friendship with) asked me out and I agreed, and walking me to my car, he kissed me.  I was expecting it to just be a simple warm kiss or something, but it ended up being about 5 min or so of frenching, kissing ears and rubbing noses, etc. by his lead.  What anyone would generally consider a very intimate and tender kiss, and yet emotionally, I felt absolutely nothing.  I was completely cold to it, no zing, no spark, no nothing.  However, when I've revisited in my mind later, I get goosebumps and butterflies.

I'm wondering if anyone can relate to this experience.  My immediate reaction was that maybe I don't like him except as a friend.  I'm definitely not head-over-heels for him.  On the other hand, I wondered if maybe the nervousness of first time-ness might have numbed me to those feelings.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: First kiss ever and no zing.  Is this something that happens or do I need to break up with this guy?