<human>: So we've been dating almost a year now. Yes the age difference is large, and while it was a problem in the beginning,  it's (almost) never an issue now.

I checked out her text messages last week, and saw that she had texted her ex and the father of her children a few times. Now normally I dont have an issue with this, but from what I read of the texts, it seemed different than their normal conversations. Instead of being about the kids, it was about him. I didnt get to read it all, only skimmed the chat. Now a few days ago, I went to go read the messages since I had a bit of alone time with her phone. However, the messages I had seen a week ago had been deleted, and only those. The resr of their conversations were still there.

Now, maybe I'm overreacting, and granted I do feel a bit threatened by him. They were together for 10 years, and had 2 kids togther. What do I do? Also before you tell me not to look through her phone, she's always told me to go look through it if I have any suspicions.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: my older girlfriend deleted texts between her and her ex that, from what i saw, were different rrom their normal conversations.