<human>: My lovely wife and I have been together throughout high school and all of college (7-ish years). We got married ~6 months ago after graduating, right before moving away to start new jobs. A couple months after getting married, my wife lost all desire to have sex with me.

She has told me that she finds it to be a hassle. She has also told me that it is gross among other things. This had never been brought up or been an issue until now. Every attempt at conversation seems to end in an argument because she clearly doesn't see it to be an issue. She just always shakes it off as "I don't know what to do about it. I guess I just don't like having sex." It's so strange because we've always had a great sex life.

We never have sex unless I initiate it. Even when she does agree to have sex with me, she does it begrudgingly and is very obviously not interested. Although, I always bring her to orgasm before myself (something that has always happened). 

I keep trying to pinpoint what happened. She got a pap smear a 2 months after marriage and complained she felt violated and sex hurt. She then got a job and started working not soon after. We both work full time.

I just feel so alone. I desperately want her to desire me the way she used to. Not feeling sexually desired by the woman you love is a terrible feeling. I tried to deal with it and play the waiting game, but nothing is getting better. I know I can't live the rest of my life like this.

My plea here is for advice. I know I'm not the first person that this has happened to. 

* What are our options? 
* What could be causing this?
* Could this be a hormone thing she should have checked?
* Should we see a marriage/sex therapist?

Thanks to everyone for the help.

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<bot>: My wife, who I've been romantically involved with for 7 years, completely lost her sex drive after a few months of marriage. I'm seeking guidance, advice, and potential solutions.