<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Background: Im currently at college 5 hours away, she goes to a community college. we were friends for about 6 months before. We are religious but not freaks you know?

We were talking about whether she she should join a sorority.

She was super excited and said after she gets her associate's degree she is transferring to a 4 year University. I obviously agreed, it's a great idea. Then she brought up that in the spring she wanted to join a sorority. Here's were im a little hesitant. Im supportive of her decisions but I also know how sorority's are ( at least for my school) There are parties occasionally, a lot of extra curricular activities that take up a lot of time. That being said, i told her that it's a lot of work (she is already super busy and suffers from anxiety regularly) and that it could be overwhelming. and im not sure if i would be comfortable with her going to parties, socials, formals, etc. anything with alcohol really (she has a history of easily succumbing to peer pressure).

She gets super defensive and tells me that i haven't said anything positive about it and im not seeing her point. I DO see her point (its good to make friends, life experiences, etc.) It's just that she refuses to see the cons. She says i just dont want her to forget about me (true, but its not the only reason) Also, she says that im not supporting her decisions, and that i dont care. Which is completely NOT true.

I guess my question is; Am i wrong to be the voice of reason? or Should i just let her make her decisions and support no matter what?

It hurts my heart to hear her say that i dont care about her decisions please help!
<bot>: She wants to join a sorority and presents only Pros, I offer some Cons; She says i dont care about her wishes...Am i wrong and overthinking?