<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

So, my boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We are both in college, but are trying long distance. I stayed in-state and went to a fairly inexpensive college. He decided to go out of state to a pretty expensive school, and his parents warned him during this past summer that besides paying for college, they were probably not going to support him financially throughout the school year. We both received a generous amount of graduation money, but I got a job to have a bit more spending money for the summer. He, on the other hand, chose not to get a job, even after his parents said that they would reconsider cutting him off if he got a job. There were times that I would put a job application in front of him and then later find it crumpled up in the back of his car. That's not even the worst part. Most of what we did during the summer, I paid for because "all the money [he] has needs to go towards college and [he] can't afford to spend his." I'm worried that this is going to continue to be a trend (he says he's going to try and get a summer internship, but who would hire a guy with no work experience?!) and I joined reddit because i need some advice on a) how to bring this topic up to my boyfriend when I see him over winter break and b) what I should do A little tidbit of information about my boyfriend that may be important to know is that he has aspergers. I'm not exactly sure if that accounts for anything, but I figure I should point that out.
<bot>: my boyfriend refused to get a summer job to help pay for stuff and I am wondering exactly how to address this issue.