<human>: I met the guy, it was one of those situations when we both "clicked" and got along really well with each other. I was a bit taken aback at first because I thought I was getting mixed signals, he told me were just friends, that he wasn't expecting anything but then would put his arms around me and put his head on my lap etc. I confronted him about this and he said that he realized what he was doing, didn't mean to lead me on, wasn't ready for a girlfriend, and that if I didn't want to be physical he would respect that.

Well I kind of liked touching him so I said it was alright, and over the next couple of months we progressed from touching to being naked and considering sex. At this point I wanted to reevaluate and I told him that I don't want to be a FWB and I didn't want to lose my virginity outside of a relationship, and that everything we've done up to that point has been rationalized in my head by the fact that I love him and I really feel like he acts and treats me the way I would want a boyfriend/partner to treat me, and I feel like he loves me even though he doesn't say it. He said that he accepted my feelings but can't reciprocate and that I'm "one of the best friends he's ever had" and doesn't want to lose me by placing a label.

Well I want the label and I feel like without it I'm some sort of secret that he's keeping. Everything else is fantastic; he's caring, sweet, great in bed, understanding, he's met my parents who consider us to be together, we have lots of common interests. He calls me every day/every other day when we don't see each other. It's just that label.

Now we're approaching the one year mark and it's getting a bit more frustrating for me. I feel that I've gone through this long enough and I want us to be "official" but I also can't imagine not being intimate anymore. I'm not sure what I should do about this?

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<bot>: I feel like my boyfriend is my boyfriend but he doesn't see it that way although he acts like he's my boyfriend.