<human>: Hey, everyone. I'm a 21M in college. I consider myself to be a hopeless romantic, all I really want is a partner - that's when I'm most happy. Due to depression and a number of other things I broke up with an ex that I still obsess over. I ended the relationship over a year ago now. This info is important because my therapist believes that I simply need to find a new girlfriend to get past my ex, and I desperately want to move on, I'm constantly exhausted with how much energy I spend thinking about her. 

However, I am having a lot of trouble finding a person I feel compatible with. I really just want to be able to relax and let things just happen - but I can't break the near constant nagging/longing for a partner. (it's to the point where I'm almost always distracted)....

I understand logically that I have plenty of time to find someone, but this is just something that won't go away. I spent a lot of time working on myself, working out, joined a frat, and have tried to get better at asking women out (i have pretty bad anxiety in that department)

Does anyone have any success in getting past a similar situation? Thank you.

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<bot>: I obsess over Dating/love and getting past an ex. I don't know what to do to just relax and enjoy my life.