<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

My wife and I have been married for 4 years, and have been together for 7. We have one child together [2M] and she has a child from a previous relationship [8F] (I consider her to be my own). This is my second marriage, and her first.

For the last few months it seems as if our marriage has slowly become nonexistent. We've been intimate maybe 3 times since April, and for the last few nights have spent our time at opposite ends of the house -- not even sleeping in the same bed. During the day we don't say enough to one another to fill up a page in a notebook, and there's nothing glaringly wrong... this has all just "happened" if that makes any sense.

Financially, we're wrecked. We've had a few unforeseen disasters over the last year (i.e., flooded basement, I got fired from a job, our son got sick and it required us to collectively miss two weeks of work, etc.).

As far as infidelity goes, I don't have a reason to think she's cheating on me. She is, however, absolutely miserable at work, and my suggestions of finding a new job go nowhere. Our troubles aside, she's a wonderful mother to our children, and I do my best to be the father I never had.

I don't really know what I'm asking for on here, except that from the outside looking in I'm hoping that someone can help me pick apart our situation.
<bot>: My wife and I are more like roommates, our financial situation is bleak, and I'm not sure what to do, or where to go from here.