<human>: My wife has very bad post-partum depression (we have one daughter, 1 yrs old), she has anxiety, and she is a hoarder.  The depression was always there, but was always manageable.

I can't stand to be around her anymore.  Her hoarding went from 0 to 60 since the baby was born, and her depression makes her not want to do anything.  She will not get any professional help to treat her symptoms.  I know I said through sickness and health, but I'm concerned that her symptoms are affecting our daughter's health.  The baby does not get enough stimulation, because she doesn't have anywhere to crawl.

We got another apartment, thinking that would make things better... but she will not do anything to pack and move into the new place.  We're now paying rent on two places for three months.  I can't pack this stuff up, because I don't even know where to begin.

She has become such a nasty person a lot of the times.  If I try and talk with her, she says that I'm blaming everything on her.  I'm so used to apologizing for shit that I don't even need to apologize for.

Here's the kicker... I'm a social worker.  I know that this is an unhealthy relationship, that she is acting out her symptoms, that she needs professional help, etc.

I still love her, and could never leave her... but lately I've found myself fantasizing about divorcing her and moving with my daughter.  I could never do that, but I'm afraid that these fantasies are going to become reality one day.  I can't even talk to someone in person, because I know I -- as a clinician -- would be concerned for the baby's wellbeing.  She is safe, and developing fine.... I bring her out more than she is home, so she gets plenty of time to learn and grow... but I can't risk someone thinking otherwise.  This hoarding has me in constant fear that someone may have to enter the apartment.

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<bot>: My wife's mental illness is ruining our lives, and I'm not sure what it is I'm asking for help with.