<human>: Using a throwaway cause I don't want to be linked back to my actual Reddit account and have the girl find out.

**Back Story**

So myself[M20] and this girl[21](girl A) attends university in Canada. During frosh week 3 years ago, we meet since we were in the same group and same program. Obviously, we hit it off well with each other and chatted really well.

When school started, we would often study together and such. At that time, I felt myself growing more & more to liking her but I couldn't find the courage to ask her out (I blame my 17 year old self too). Instead, I took a low route and started asking a mutual friend (Girl B who is also in our program) to reach out indirectly and ask her if Girl A had feelings for me. Girl B replied back to me that she couldn't find out. Because of how our program works, we get assigned teams. As luck would have it, I was paired with Girl B for a major group project and we ended up spending a lot of time together (Girl A probably noticed that too). However, I still try to keep in touch with Girl A, and after walking her home from a study session, I confused (poorly). She replied(paraphrase) "I don't like you now, but who knows about the future".

**Fast-forward**
Fast forward a couple of years and I realized my feelings for Girl A never died. Instead, during that time period I entered what I believe people describe as the "friend zone". We would exchange FB msg with each other(100K lines - significantly more than I had with other ppl). In the mean time, i tried to take her out for coffee and/or dinner and she would usually defer or accept(we chill for non school reasons ~ once a month). 

Going forward, I am not sure how to handle this situation - I don't think its healthy for me to continue thinking like this but I really still think we were meant to be.

Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?
<bot>: liked a girl in first year and confessed->she said maybe later->been "friend zoned" for the past 3 years but still have feelings-> what to do about the feelings