<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

I've been dating/seeing this girl for about 2 months now, and see her ~1-2 times a week. I work full-time and PT grad school, she's a FT student at the same University. She's *very* independent, so she likes to just do her own thing, I'm not used to that, but not against it.  With my career kind of set and living in the city on my own, I feel like I'm putting a damper on her life because I just don't feel wanted, or like she's excited to see me.

She doesn't really respond well with cute "Hey, can't wait to see you later" texts, nor does she take compliments well. 

She smokes light stuff (weed, hookah) but I don't smoke at all and bluntly (no pun intended) find it a turnoff in women. I don't care that people do it, I just prefer not to date a girl like that. I figured I could get over it because I'm so interested in her.
<bot>: Girl has a young heart and is more focused on herself (good thing) but I feel like I'm just kind of "there' with her.  Am I overthinking?