<human>: This monumental fuck up has been building up over the past few months and finally culminated today. 

Some Back-story: in January I started my first semester of college, I started talking to this girl that I will refer to as "Jen". We both are 19 and live with our families, Jen however can't move out since her mother is a piece of shit that doesn't feel like raising all of Jen's siblings, so the responsibility falls on Jen.

We started hooking up, now normally that would be okay but not in her case. Her mother controls her whole life so, we had to sneak around before she had to go home. Having to do this lead us to start skipping class so we could hang out. We hit a rough patch when we both realized her mother would find out about us being together and called it off. I admittedly fell for Jen. Out of sadness, I began drinking Jack Daniels and smoking pot like I used to in High School. My family found out about this and were very upset because they thought I had quit that stuff. They threatened to throw me out.

The two of us stayed friends because our friends wanted us too. Jen told me she had never smoked pot before and wanted to try it, so I obligated and smoked with her for her first time. after that she disappeared for this past week and no one could find her.

Today: I get a message from Jen saying she wasn't coming back to campus because her mother took her phone and went through ALL of our messages and found out about us hooking up and me smoking with her.

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<bot>: I failed myself and a good friend out of college, got her barred from ever seeing me again or coming back to campus, and almost got myself thrown out. Moral of the story is stay in school and drugs actually are bad.