<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

I've invested in two long distance relationships only for them to fail and I put my all into both of them.  So when a guy tries to "holler" at me from afar it's like why even?

I had a pen pal friend who I met on a community forum and he became extremely aggressive toward me for no reason at all.  I never plan to travel to his neck of the words for job searches or anything but he still tried to very adamantly pursue me.

And it doesn't seem like he plans to travel where I am, either so it was like why all that fuss for no reason?

I guess some guys get kicks out of being non-committed to a girl far away.
<bot>: There's enough to worry about in a close distance relationship and I'm not going to fret over how often or little I'm going to see a far away guy and/or if he is committed to the long distance or not.