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Hi,

I don't know where to go for advice (I will explain why in the post) and am really hoping my fellow redditors might be able to help.

I'll start with the backstory. I met my gf in college and we both just graduated (we're both 22). We have been dating for 3 years and have had a mostly happy relationship. We have had some rough patches, mostly involving my family. My family really doesn't like her and for awhile was trying to get me to break up with her (which is why I can't ask them for advice). 

All throughout college I wanted to pursue a graduate degree. I was accepted into a prestigious graduate program across the country and recently moved there. My gf has no idea what she wants to do with her life. My stipend at the program is pretty modest and I can't afford to support both of us so I told her she couldn't move with me. She had really wanted to come with me, but I told her I felt the best plan would be for her to stay at home and try to figure out what she wants to do. I hoped that we would be able to live together eventually once our lives were more stable.

While I have only been away for a few weeks now, we have been fighting almost every day. I come home from work and we fight for a few hours. The fights have been about how she feels that I have abandoned her and how she thinks I am choosing my career over her. I've told her that I want to make this work and that this is only temporary, but we never seem to get anywhere in the argument. I don't know what to do, I am hoping this is just jitters and that things will calm down with time. I am just worried they wont, I really can't have this fight over and over again. 

Sorry this post has been a little all over the place, I'm a little emotional over all this and also didn't want to make the post super long. I guess what I am asking is what would you do or what advice could you give me?
<bot>: Moved across the country for school, gf is at home doesn't know what to do. She thinks I am choosing my career over her, don't know what to do.