<human>: My wife got mad a few nights ago and said she feels like all she ever does is clean. She never said I wasn't doing enough (in fact, she didn't say anything about me), just that she's doing too much and she's left with no time for herself to do the things she enjoys (she wants to take a dance class, work on learning programming, sew, and/or spend time reading).

She said, as a couple, we have three options:
1) hire a housekeeper ($300/mo)
2) she reduces her contribution to the household finances by $250/mo (so she doesn't have to work as many hours and has free time for herself)
3) I take on part of what she's doing so she doesn't feel so burdened

I told her to quit attacking me, and that she doesn't appreciate what I do around the house. She told me this has nothing to do with my contributions, this is about her and her feelings of being overwhelmed. She asked that I stop making it all about me for once. The above are the only solutions she sees to this problem and she wants to discuss which would best work for our family. She said she was angry and apologized for yelling, and reiterated that she wasn't yelling at me and wasn't angry with me, but was angry at the situation. She stressed she wasn't attacking me, she was just upset that I'm not taking her needs for alone time seriously by avoiding this conversation. She ended by saying that if I'm unwilling or unable to take on some of what she does, I would need to be responsible for hiring a housekeeper and paying for her from shared funds.

Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?
<bot>: Wife doesn't think I do enough around the house. How can I get her to appreciate how much I'm already doing?