<human>: There are a few separate but related issues here.

**1. I haven't met his family yet.** It's been a source of huge fights between us. His reasons: at first it was because he wasn't ready, since his ex and his family did not get along and that's one of the reasons they broke up. Now he says it's because he and his family are too busy to make plans, although he says he is trying. His family is a HUGE part of his life and are very important to him (so why haven't I met them?).

**2. He has met my immediate family, but not my extended family.** He was supposed to come to my Easter family gathering this weekend to meet them. I told him repeatedly about it and how important it is to me that he is there.

**3. This trip was a surprise from his parents, but they were aware of my family's gathering.** They took him and his sister on a spontaneous trip and (supposedly) didn't make any effort to help my boyfriend honour his previous commitments. I get the feeling he didn't exactly try very hard either. However, in his defense, he apologized *profusely* when he found out where they were going and told me.

**4. I'm Christian and he is Jewish.** This shouldn't be an issue, and maybe it isn't. He says his family doesn't care (they are Reform, and very liberal) but I am worried they don't want to meet me and subtly want to interfere with our chances of getting married by doing things like this.

**5. Is this as big a deal as I feel it is?** I am happy for him being able to go away to one of his favourite places, but I am worried he doesn't care about what is important to me. This coupled with the ongoing tension of me not having met his family makes me wonder if I should leave him. But I love him so much and I can't cope with the idea of my life without him. He is an incredible boyfriend in almost all other respects. This just seems like a rather large red flag though.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: I haven't met my boyfriend's family yet. I am worried they already don't like the idea of me and are undermining our relationship. How big of a deal is this, objectively?