<human>: We have been seeing each other for a couple weeks, but she acts weird when it comes to anything intimate or sexual, including just watching the common things you see on on TV.  How should I approach this...It doesn't look like she's too excited to talk about it.

Neither of us have had an SO for five years.  I went to hold her hand on the couch yesterday and she just froze up and the look on her face was of utter surprise.  I have self esteem issues myself, so I guess I took that as she doesn't think I'm attractive.

Any advice on how to process this and move forward?  I'm willing to answer any questions.  Thanks.

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<bot>: I am insecure because my new girlfriend doesn't want to cuddle...I really like her otherwise.  What do I do?