<human>: When I ask him he says he feels like things are okay. I don't think they are. When I met him he took care of himself and the place he stayed. We used to talk all the time, he is one of few people I've really opened up to. We never spent more than 24 hours apart since we started dating, except for one time we broke up a year or so ago. I left him because I felt like I came last on his priority list behind his hobbies, and I was supporting us, and our kids, going to school 40 hours a week and still taking care of our home while he was a stay at home dad. I feel unappreciated and I think that has made me lose sexual interest. Sometimes I feel like I'm more his mother/friend than his fiance. He doesn't pick up after himself or take responsibility for things that he should. He knows this puts a strain on our relationship. I know I can't change him, I just want him to treat me (and himself) like he used to. I still take care of most things and I spoil him and our kids. I miss our long talks and when he would really try to be romantic. It's literally breaking my heart and I don't know what to do. I'm not sure if counseling will work because our schedules are very conflicting now that he works. Is there any hope for us?

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<bot>: I know I can't make my fiance change for me. I've always tried my hardest to make him happy. What can I do to make things better, if not the way they were? Thanks for reading.***