<human>: I moved to Germany about 2 years back and the first bar tenderess i met was gorgeous. It started off as just admiring her but in recent months (we mostly interact in the bar only when she's on duty once/twice a week), I'm seriously thinking of dating her.

Problem is, she doesn't usually respond to my text. But in person, she's super sweet to me. I don't know if she's just viewing me as "just another customer" and i just have to make my intention known to break this "identity". We've met once or twice outside of this said bar, but i get a little nervous to tell her :/

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<bot>: Admired a bar tenderess > crush on her after a year or so > not sure how to tell my feelings outside of " work " context.