<human>: My boyfriend (23M) and I (23F) just had a serious talk 4 days ago. I told him that he either moves to NYC or SF as discussed, or we break up. He said that he needed more time to think about this. I planned the conversation because I'm not sure if our relationship could be long term regarding the different personalities and the distance between us.

Different personality--I'm an outgoing, outdoor and positive person; he enjoys spending time with his own, staying in alone, reading or visiting museums, doesn't like outdoor sports, over-worries about career and life and cant help being upset most of the times

We both agreed that he would try his best to settle a full time in SF, if not, I would apply to a job in NYC. But now, he told me NYC or SF is not the life he wants, and he wants to stay around Minnesota.

He is special to me in a way that he's only person I like who is not a player. I have lots of player friends and dated two players myself, which challenged my values. But this guy makes me believe in real love again.

Redditor, what do you think I should do?

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<bot>: Brink of breakup:My boyfriend and I just had a serious talk. I told him that he either moves to NYC or SF as discussed, or we break up. He said he needs more time to decides