<human>: I did something really really bad to hurt her a few months ago (flirted with a few girls). Since then we have been No Contact. I'm not even sure where she is or if she has a new SO too or how she feels about me. 

I haven't tried contacting her in over a month, but I am flying back to college next week and I had a red duffel bag full of clothes in her basement.

I don't want to make things awkward, I don't even know how to go about asking for my stuff back, because I know she still resents me and doesn't want to see me. 

I would do anything to see her again and ask how she's doing and have a chat because I miss her, but I'm afraid she doesn't want that so that is out of the question. I also don't want to be rude and say "Hey just contacting you because I need to get my stuff, when can I stop by?" and then just say goodbye.

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Long term lover broke up with me a few months ago, I am flying back to our town next week and I would like to get my clothes back but don't know how to go about asking for my stuff without being rude.