<human>: So I haven't dated much at all (One 2 month online relationship and single date with a girl i didnt end up being into to), but this valentines day i asked this super cute girl to get coffee with me. We didnt really know each other, but i thought she was adorable so i figured i'd see if we had anything in common.  She ended up txting me later saying she was up for coffee as friends.  We txted here and there up until coffee and she seemed really cool.  Coffee came after we had to reschedule due to what seemed like legitimate excuses to me.  She seemed like she had a good time and i know i did, we talked for 2 hours b4 she said her dad had to pick her up for x reason.  She wasnt noticeably flirty to me (she did twirl her hair a lot and i wasnt flirty either for fear of coming off as creepy on the first date). I did, however mention i thought her the way she does her hair was cute at a relevant time when we were txting. Anyways, throughout the weeks before coffee and the 3 days since coffee she has never been the one to initiate contact other than things to do with scheduling. So i have a few questions regarding my situation.  First, should i back off due to the lack of initiation on her side?  Second, when she tagged on "as friends" when she agreed to coffee was that her just making sure she wasnt making a commitment or her implying she wasnt interested in me thalt way?  I have been worried she might be afraid to tell me she's not interested, and i dont want to bother her.

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<bot>: Girl i ask out out says "she's up for getting coffee 'as friends' and while date was fun i am the only one who initiates txting, what should i make of it?