<human>: Ever since I started high school, I've been in very long term relationships and they all started very quickly. I've never really been single for this long before. The dating scene for my age group is not my thing. I'm not into having FWB or partying or anything like that. I've tried it and I don't like it.

I met this guy in one of my classes who is 30. I really like him. He's mature, but still acts kind of young. We talked a little throughout the semester, but we started getting more flirty and hanging out about a month ago and it's been amazing! The only problem is that he's also talking to someone else who is slightly older than me. I get pretty jealous of this other girl because they can go out to bars and go drinking and I can't do that stuff yet. He tells me that he likes us both the same and this situation is really hard for him, but he complains about her to me sometimes. They are just little things that bug him about her. It makes me confused about why he still like us both the same. Maybe he complains about me to her too sometimes? 

But anyways, I just wonder if this is a normal situation. I'm used to getting in relationships kind of fast and only talking to one person at a time. Does this situation just sound like he doesn't like me and is just playing me? Or could he actually like me and is just having a hard time picking between us two?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: guy I like is talking to me and someone else for about a month. I'm scared that I'm just getting played.