<human>: The conversations that I have with older friends about the prospects of dating after college are, at best, depressing. They constantly advise me to get out there and meet girls while I'm still a student. I go out with friends regularly and meet plenty of girls, but I feel like this pressure makes for a rushed, anxious feeling that makes me too eager when getting to know someone either for the first time or in the early stages of dating. Also, I think it makes me consider every girl I meet as a potential partner rather than a potential friend, or just as another person I'm meeting.

 So, any advice on dialing back the anxiety on dating prospects after college? What were your experiences dating during versus post college?

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<bot>: Pressure to date while still in college makes for anxious guy, which, as far as I understand, is generally unattractive.