<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

So the breakup went fine. More a conversation than anything, just talking about what we wanted and what we were getting out of our relationship. I actually started the conversation thinking it would be another issue for us to work on, but she ended it by agreeing that although she knew how to fix it, she wasn't going to.

So people are asking what happened, who dumped whom, etc. I've come to the conclusion that it was me who was dumped, simply because I was willing to continue working on it whereas she wasn't.

It's also hard because I've always considered her a league above me (for 5 years). I think other people have as well, because everybody i've told pretty much assumes I was dumped (which sucks). 

I've been saying it's a relief more than anything, but I feel like people don't believe me.

It's also been hard when people assumingly bring her up in convos (ie asking how long we've been together or just about her/us in general). Lunch with coworkers doesn't seem like the ideal time to mention my relationship of 5 years just fell apart.

So I guess I'm just looking for advice on how to start telling people we broke up. Any experiences welcome.
<bot>: broke up after 5 years, people assume I was dumped, and I don't know how to casually tell people about it.