<human>: Ok so some background:  we've been together for 8 months, practically live together.  Everything is great, we love each other and she's the best thing that's ever happened to me.   

Except...I want sex way more and often feel rejected when she says she doesn't feel like it, or rejects my advances.  It can really hurt sometimes.  She assures me it is not me and she simply doesn't want sex as often.  

When we do have sex, it's always great and she always seems to really enjoy it and be in to it.  When we first met, it was sex all the time, which I suppose is understandable because of the newness.  The irony being I was more overweight then than now, I was 225 now 203 (6').  For my part, I am continuing to work out, run, lift weights, and diet.  For her part, she does make an effort a couple times a week to make time for intimacy. I just wish it wasn't an effort on her part, and I still want her more often, and I hate that she has to always initiate.  

Also, we decided maybe switching her birth control would help...shes now been on ortho tri cyclen for a month with little change, but it could take a while.  

Contributing factor may be she feels she is overweight (shes not overweight, she is very tall and blonde. and if she lost 5-15? Lbs she'd look like a super model) and she is often upset about her acne (she picks at her face a lot and it leaves red blemishes.  I have no problem with her looks at all, I am very attracted to her and she is very beautiful, And I tell her all the time.   

We are moving into a house together soon, she wants to marry me, and I want to marry her, I'm just concerned about the situation.  Thoughts?

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<bot>: I want sex more than her, we both want to get married, factors may be my being slightly overweight, her being very slightly overweight, her birth control, her sex drive, my sex drive, and her acne.