<human>: Hey Reddit, here are the circumstances: We're both 25. She's in Portland, I'm in St. Louis. Neither of us have much cash. $300 round trip. We met doing relief work in Haiti, spent 3 days together in St. Louis while she was visiting some college friends. Best connection I've had with a girl in years. I want to go see her, but 300 bucks is steep, and I feel there would be some mutual security in both of us throwing down for the ticket, in case it doesn't end up so well. She's definitely interested in seeing me again and we've mentioned traveling to do so. 
I'm just not sure if it's a total sign of being cheap, or if it could be taken as a slight that I propose we split the price of the ticket. Note, I don't care if she comes here or I go there.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: So the question is, is it a dick move to propose splitting airfare to visit a girl I've spent 3 really close days with?