<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

First off, it'd be nice to mention that me and this girl dated for 5 years, from we were 16 to 21; through most of high school and college. Like any relationship, we had highs and lows brought on by both of us which always became passive aggressive.

After one mistaken night, she felt I had taken advantage of her(however, I hadn't), broke up with me, and then proceeded to call me every name in the book to our social circle(abuser, manipulator, cheater, rapist, etc; all things which never happened). So we break up and neither of us take it well and we keep a thin line of communication which eventually breaks down. I start seeing somebody new and I presume she does too but I couldn't say for sure.

Around this time, I find out she's been stalking me through a web service to monitor traffic for a personal blog that I host. It's obsessive, she checked it multiple times a day, even hundreds of times a month. At some point, she finally slows down on it months later, noticeably when she finds out me and a fling stopped seeing one another.

The kicker ends up being that I've still thought about this girl I dated for 5 years everyday since we've broken up. I want to reach out to her but we had such a toxic thing in the past but I know I've grown as person a long time since but I don't know what good it'd do breaking this near 2 years of silence. I don't have an endgame really; more than anything, I just want to hear from her and see how she's been particularly since she appears to be doing well, however I don't want to adversely affect her and cause more drama and emotional strife.
<bot>: Me and longtime girlfriend break up on bad grounds, we have time apart and silence for 2 years, I want to break it and reconnect.