<human>: I'll go first. 

It's (private school) college. I'm a freshman in 2008. Very much a Socially Awkward Penguin (and/or) Good Guy Greg. So I befriend as many people as I can in the dorms. One is a seemingly nice blonde girl in my dorm. Let's call her Blondie. 

*In the dorm, chilling, watching a movie with her and roommates*

JesusRollerBlading: So, Blondie, how are you enjoying your first few weeks here at college?

Blondie: I love it. It's great bonding with all my niggahs here. 

*I am taken aback, because she is a white girl, not one ounce of black in her heritage*

Jesus: Why did you just say that word?

Blondie: Which word?

J: "Niggah." The word carries a very negative connotation to many. It's offensive.

B: Oh, that's okay. I use it all the time. **Because I have black friends.**

No longer wishing to enter into a bad situation, I politely excuse myself from the situation to save face. 

*One Week Later*

The Dean of Students calls me in for what I think is a checkup. (I was very nervous about college, considered leaving in the first week.) She says to me that I violated a Civil Discourse rule by using an offensive word towards African-Americans. 

This, again, results in me being taken aback. I immediately said that I was only saying that word to get a clearer picture as to why my "friend" said it. I did not, nor will I ever, use that word. Ever. In any manner.

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<bot>: White girl used the "N word" in an offensive manner and I pointed it out. Said nothing to anyone about it thereafter. I ended up getting in trouble for it because she said I used that word.