<human>: My boyfriend and I recently were discussing things we found the most attractive about each other and he brought up the fact that he wishes I were more confident. I asked him what he meant, and he said he is tired of always being the one to take charge when I am stressed. I do admit, I worry a little too much and do get stressed, but whenever I talk to him I am not looking for my problems to be solved. I am only wanting to vent. I even told him this. Still he insisted it was unattractive that I have very little confidence in myself and am not the type to take charge. He also has mentioned how he wished I was more spontaneous and took more risks.

I don't even know what to say to this. I am on the shy side. I know I need to be more confident. It is something I was told throughout my childhood by my parents. As for the spontaneous thing, I didn't even realize this was a problem. However, apparently he has felt this way for awhile. I just feel like I am not the risk taker who throws caution to the wind. Whenever we have  conversations like this, I get all tongue tied and don't know what to say. I know communication is key, but I don't know what to say reddit.

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<bot>: Boyfriend wishes I was more confident and spontaneous. I don't know what to say to this or what to do.