<human>: My boyfriend of one year has a thing about always needing to know where I'm going and for how long. He's never been controlling about the details; no matter who I'm going out to see or at what time or who I'm with his response is always "oh cool have fun see you when you get home". He's never displayed any signs of jealousy and obviously trusts me. In fact he's generally a super laid back guy. But for example: the other day I disappeared for a hour without explanation to sit in my car and talk on the phone and didn't respond to his text asking me where I had gone a half hour in because I was on my phone and not looking at it. When I came in he was kind of annoyed/broody about the fact that I had disappeared. I feel like maybe it's a product of how his family works, but is it reasonable?

My point of view is that I'm not used to having to feel accountable to another person about my whereabouts because I'm an adult and the principal of it bugs me. If it has no immediate impact on our plans (in which case it's just courteous to let him know what's going on) then it's kind of my business, although I have nothing to hide and I'm happy to share the details on my own timetable. On the other hand I recognize that it isn't much trouble to check in so long as he's not acting suspicious of me or telling me where I can go or who I can see.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Which of us is being unreasonable? Totally open to the idea that in this situation it might be me so please be blunt.