<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

**Background** story:

My girlfriend is a 2nd generation immigrant, with both her parents from north africa. Both her parents are muslim and deny the possibility that she is atheist, and does not want to adhere to a muslim way of life, but a one of her own choosing.
Her parents are separated, and my gf lives with her mother.

**Tonight**:

Tonight we both spent the evening at a friends house, and at roughly 00:00 her mother called, calling her home. I asked if she really must, and on our way home she explained that she had no choice in the matter. I probed further by asking why, and she said that if she lived her life the way she wanted, her mother would disown her as her daughter.
After trying to understand why she was willing to accept the fact that she could not live her life the way she wants to. Do note that her mother is well aware of her relationship with me, and likes me but does say that she wishes I was muslim (for marrige, but I am atheist).

Ultimately my gf shared that her plan is to finish her bachelors degree (in 1 year) and then move abroad to simply avoid the problem, and in doing so will be leaving me behind as I have just recently finished my first of three years for a bachelors, and will maybe stay on at the same uni for my masters degree.

It did not seem to register to her that her parents wants and influences will only be at a distance, not solving the problem of them accepting her living her life as she wants. And she did not seem to express any understanding that this was essentially planned abandonment of our relationship.

This is a long term relationship as we have been seeing each other for three years, but I do not wish to be a planned towel to be tossed aside.
<bot>: Girlfriend plans to move abroad to avoid family troubles. But I am tied up in studies and cannot move. Seems like planned abandonment of both family and me.