<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

So I have been seeing this guy for the past 8 months, and he is unlike any man I have met before. He is a professional bassist, and is in a band that is regularly performing and are reasonably successful(one of his band's music videos has over 500,000 hits on YouTube). He has always been highly eccentric, but that was the main reason I fell in love with him as soon as I first saw him on stage. 

Yesterday though, he came to me with the idea of meeting up with a porn producer he was introduced to by his friend, and was telling me about how "We could make so much money from this" and "It would be amazing and controversial publicity for me". I couldn't really believe what I was hearing and told him I wasn't comfortable at all with it, but he has already booked an interview for us BOTH, without my permission. He told me that the interview wouldn't mean any nudity or anything, we would just go and meet this woman, and get a full understanding of what would be involved, and that would be it. I am unsure how to proceed. He is so excited about it like a kid on Christmas Morning, but I just don't know. I am the total opposite of a prude and we watch porn together all the time, and we both regularly go to stripclubs together, so he just assumed that I would be cool with it. But this is a huge step, you know?

I have thought about it a lot, and the idea sort of excites me to be honest in a weird way, and we could use the money. But I just can't believe he set this up without talking to me first. Major red flag?
<bot>: My bf has organised an interview for both of us with an adult film producer without my agreement, and I am not sure if I feel comfortable with it at all