<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

I've been dating this girl for about a year now and everything, for the most part, is great. We are both graduating soon with great futures lined up. However, she has been depressed for quite some time, before I met her. She hasn't had any hardships in life, nor breakups. She relates it to her perfectionist attitude: She wants everything in her life to be wonderful and perfect, and when something small happens, she makes a big fuss over it.

Sometimes I've been able to coax her out of that attitude and just tell her that life isn't perfect, stuff happens.....etc.... But more and more recently, every time I try to make her feel better, she just pushes me away. She'll text me and say she had a rough day because she was depressed all day, and then when I try to talk about it, she doesn't want to talk anymore.

Other times she will want me to visit her after class, and then cancel at the last moment because she isn't feeling up to it anymore. 

I've told her she needs to seek help and that everything can be better if she lets someone help her with her depression. At first, she gave it some thought, but quickly took back the idea of seeing a counselor, and whenever I bring it up, she just dismisses it.

I love her like no tomorrow, but I don't feel the love back anymore when she doesn't take my feelings into account. I'm at my rope's end with her, and if she won't take or listen to my advice, then I don't know what else to do. I do fear that if I break up with her that it will only break her and make her 10x worse, which she doesn't need right now.
<bot>: Girlfriend has depression and won't seek help; she's pushing me away and only making me feel worse. But I love her.