<human>: My girlfriend asked me if and how often I masterbate. I was honest and told her every four days or so, but she considers this cheating she said. She then asked if I think about other women, which I responded to with no either her or nothing. She seems to think that I should have sex with her whenever I have the urge, but she often gets sore easily so I don't bring it up with her, masterbating instead.

She often brings up that all I seem to care about is sex, which isn't true and so that's another reason I don't go to her all the time.

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<bot>: she considers masterbating cheating and has trust issues, so suggestions on my obvious over honest answer on how often I masterbate and whether we should instead have sex more often even though it puts her in pain.