<human>: Me (f20) and my bf (m20) have been dating for three years. We started dating the summer before our senior year of high school and it was a typical high school relationship- hanging out everyday, being totally in the 'honeymoon phase', sleeping together every night. Our relationship continued really strong throughout all of senior year and into the summer, with occasional fights, no big deal. 

Then I followed him to college and it was a lot of fun, until this year. We're juniors now and classes are getting harder and we're both really busy with sports and social groups. But through all of this, I always put him first and think about him and the things he wants and needs but he definitely stopped doing that for me.

He won't ever initiate texting, he occasionally responds, he won't ever ask his roommate to give us some time (either I have to make the two of my roommates leave or we don't get to have sex), he doesn't ever come to my room, he doesn't talk to me at parties unless I start the convo and he usually just leaves for beer pong very soon after, if we go on a drive to smoke he just wants to listen to music or audiobooks.
I've asked several times now if he wants to break up because he often acts like he doesn't want to even be in this relationship, but he just says no and says he'll try harder and he loves me. I really hate the idea of breaking up, but maybe we do need a break and some time apart so we can put ourselves first. I've never been in this situation before Reddit :( What do you think would be the best approach?

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<bot>: ! My boyfriend doesn't prioritize our relationship at all after three years of solid love and support, don't know what to do.