<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

Here is a little backstory. We met when I was in a bad relationship. My knight in shining armor. Right? Right. I still see it that way. We live together now, and are gettting along okay. He has anger issues, it doesn't bother me. We get along just fine.

He doesn't have his highschool diploma, and that wouldn't bother me much if he didn't keep talking about how he needs to get his GED. And how he is "too dumb to take the test."   We both have been looking for jobs recently, and I found one, he has barely even tried, becuase "he cant hold a job for more than 3 months."  I have been told most of the jobs he has had he quit. He hates it when people get things for him, he hates when I buy things for myself, because he wants to buy things for me. He thinks it is HIS duty to take care of me. 

Another thing is he wants to quit smoking. I am fairly allergic to tobbacco smoke. So he had me lock his cigs in my art box. It worked really well aside from the time where he broke into my box and smoked the whole pack. He now will not let me lock them up. 

I also don't understand how he isn't willing to let me tutor him in math if he wants to get his GED, or why he wont fill out the applications for jobs I bring him.  He keeps telling me it isn't a matter of pride, that he just lives a life of fear.  I want to help him through this, but I'm very close to stopping offering my help.. What do I do? 

He is a good man but I don't know how to motivate him. All he does is play videogames on his
<bot>: Man has issues actually doing anything productive, gets mad if I mention filling out job applications or job hunting. No will to learn new things. Help?