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I've known my girlfriend for a month now and we've been dating for 9 days. Yesterday she got a text from her mom demanding she come home. Apparently her mother had issue with us staying at school late to study and do homework. which I kind of understand but not really. Being worried about getting in a wreck or "other things" is unfounded and childish. 

I haven't had a chance to meet her because they live an hour away and we work on the weekends. I didn't get her mothers "approval" before i asked her to be my girlfriend. Now she's saying this relationship reminds her of my girlfriends old, abusive ex and she said she doesn't want to meet me. My girlfriend said she's "put her foot down" about the issue. She told my girlfriend that we needed to break up. 

First, i am livid that her mother thinks she gets to make that decision for my girlfriend. Whether or not she's living with her mother she should have no say in what she does or who she dates. 

She agrees with her mom but I convinced her not to end it yet. I refuse to give up on this relationship. She makes me so happy and i make her happy as well. She's damaged and fragile and i want to love her and be with her. I HAVE to convince her and/or her mother to give me a chance. 

What can I say/do to fix this? Should I find a way to contact her mom since she's unwilling to talk to her mom for fear of being kicked out or yelled at.
<bot>: I never met her mom and now she never wants to meet me and is trying to force her daughter to break up with me.