<human>: Hi guys, thanks for your help in advance.

I've been dating my boyfriend P for 3 years. I love him, unlike I've ever loved anyone before. I don't think there's anyone else in the world like him.

We own a business together, have a band together, work on various other projects together and live together. We own a car together. We just moved 2000 miles away from our hometown together. We've started talking about buying a house and getting engaged in the next few years.

Yet every time we argue or bicker, whether big or small -- I think about leaving him. I think about my exit strategy - navigating my way out of all the commitments we have together and where I would stay/live.
By the next day, I've dropped these notions. But as soon as we argue again they come back. Is this something I should take seriously as a sign that I'm ready to leave, or is it possible that I'm especially nervous because we've started to talk about getting married?

I'm also concerned about how often we fight. I know its completely pointless to compare your relationship to other peoples', but it seems like we fight more than most. We argue about twice a month. Usually over dumb things that represent much larger ideas/issues in our relationship. It definitely gets emotional, but there's never name calling or anything physical. We've yelled at each other in the past but that's not common.

What do you think? Any advice is greatly appreciated.

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<bot>: I think about leaving a man I truly love every time we fight, and then let it go the next day. Should I pay attention to this?