<human>: We've been married 10 years and have no kids. We normally have a great relationship. In the past few months, we've been unable to agree on how to spend time together. It's to the point where we just sit on the couch every single weekend.

A few weeks ago, he asked me if I wanted to take a weekend vacation for Labor Day. I said sure, but then he started saying things like "oh, we should save our money for a bigger vacation next year," etc. It made me hesitant, so we never finalized plans. I got the impression he really did not want to go.

Fast-foward to this week. I told him I wanted to go hiking this weekend. Plans were made. However, the next day he said "well, why don't we just go for one night?" I didn't want to disappoint him, so I said "yea, maybe." 

This morning we ended up in a huge argument because all we're doing today is sitting on the couch. We are both very active people, and neither of us want to be at home when we have time off work. 

How can we solve this communication issue? One problem is that neither of us want to disappoint the other, which leads to "whatever you want to do, no whatever YOU want to do..." As a result, we end up doing nothing. I should add that I am very spontaneous, he likes to plan out everything.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Husband and I have a communication issue regarding making plans. We don't want to disappoint the other, which results in no plans at all. Help!