<human>: My lovely boyfriend and I have been dating for a short time (maybe a month?  Maybe less?  Please don't judge, I'm crazy about him).  We haven't had sex yet, but we have indulged in mutual masturbation on several occasions. 

I've given him oral sex twice, but each time he says he feels really guilty about it. I'm completely fine with it (actually I happen to love it, which is a first!), but he feels as though I'm only pleasuring him for his sake.  Or at least that's what he says, but I'm afraid I might be going too fast for him, and he doesn't want to say that outright. I've told him that consent is important, but from him as well, not just from me. However, I feel that he might be letting me fellate him just so I stay happy.  

Before I met him I was interested in his best friend, and that friend was interested in me, so I think that he may be worried that I'll leave him for his friend--which would never happen.  My boyfriend often says self-deprecating things (eg. "I'm obviously the reacher in this relationship"), but I don't feel that way.  In fact, I feel like the lucky one.  

So.  What do you all suggest?  I just want him to be comfortable with me, but I'm afraid I might be pressuring him into receiving oral sex. Should I continue to offer?  He says he likes it when I fellate him, but that it makes him feel guilty. Please let me know how to help my boyfriend feel comfortable with his wiener in my mouth!

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<bot>: I love to fellate my boyfriend, but he feels like he's violating me, how to reassure him that this is not the case?