<human>: My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and have struggled to reach an agreement about how and when to get married. She's in a well-situated position with her job which is transferable elsewhere (although no sure thing) but has wanted to consider being a full time mom in the no-too-distant future. I finished grad school a year-and-a-half ago and have wanted to wait until I find a job in my niche field. She's very close to her family and won't even consider being farther than a 20 minute drive. While she's aware I interviewed for positions farther away than that, I was offered a job about 500 miles away. She understands where I come from and says "see what happens" but gives no chance of wanting to relocate. It's been a big struggle for us and the primary divider in not becoming engaged yet. 

I love her to death and have no problem staying in our current location but would regret not fulfilling my career ambitions. I'm not sure if finally having something tangible would make her change her mind. 

I have to have an answer relatively soon and the fact that this is during Christmas makes it the worst possible time.

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<bot>: We've been together 4 years and she won't consider leaving for a job out-of-the-area, be it 50 miles or 500 miles. Got an offer for a job 2 states away.