<human>: We have been married for about 8 years together for 12. We have 2 kids and like the title says above a third on the way. So with my wife's last two pregnancies they were pretty easy on her compared to this one. This one has been rough and has lead to alot of discomfort for her but she always makes a good effort to make sure Im still trying thrown some sexual attention now and then which is great. The problem is though she hasn't been able to give me as many blowjobs this time around due to them making her feel ill. That's fine with me I'm a big boy I an take care or myself, but she really doesn't like me doing that if she can help it.

So last night she puts on some sexy lingerie and makes an effort to seduce me which caught me off guard but I definitely got into and appreciated. The problem is that she really tried to rush things (because she was afraid she would have to pee or would feel ill while we were in the middle of it) which for me doesn't really work. The main issue came when she switched positions and she hurt herself slightly while moving around and it just killed it for me.

I was able to keep hard and I was able to finish her off but after I did that I wanted to stop. Once I tried to just be done she got really upset and emotional and now thinks I don't find her attractive. The thing is my wife really isn't even showing yet and even if she was I'd still find her attractive.

I tried explaining everything to her but it just didn't do any good. I then gave her a back rub and footrub after she calmed down while we watched some tv after. The problem I have now is that she is being really awkward now and I'm afraid this has put her off doing anything sexual and really hurt her self esteem.

So people of Reddit, what should I do? How do I show my wife I still find her attractive even though she is pregnant? I thought about getting flowers but that doesn't seem right.

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<bot>: Wife and I tried to have sex, I wasn't able to finish and now her self esteem is crushed. How do fix this?