<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

My SO and I got engaged on New Years Eve 2012/2013. We have spent the last 6 months waiting on family, telling us they want to help. We came up with ideas, and waited.. and waited.. and waited.... I told myself back in January, that I would give it 6 months. Welp it is 6 months now, and I am sick of waiting on family. It isnt their fault, we are both just sick of waiting. 

So last weekend, I found a venue that pretty much let's you do whatever you want. We can have the ceremony space and the reception in same place. We can decorate it how we want and most importantly foot the bill ourselves. i.e we dont have to wait for anyone or for anything. It is on our dime, and our schedule. We can plan the wedding the way we want. We can have our wedding the way we want. A large event, a nice ceremony and a celebration with all our family and friends. Don't like it, than don't come. Don't think we should, than don't come. We are sending out invites before we plan catering ect.. so we know how many people are attending. Sort of backwards I know, but we have complete 100% control of it, and I love it.
<bot>: We got sick of waiting and people's opinions. After 6 months, we said F it and planned it ourselves. We have complete control of everything and we love every second of it.