<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

So me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now. We have had our ups and downs.  But for the past year he has only traveled to see me 4 times (3hr drive). In the beginning it was twice a month on my part, now since our one year anniversary its been more frequent ( almost every weekend). My point is that does he really care for me or have i spoiled him since it is more convient for me to drive down. Reasons 1. His car is an older/breaks down on major trips 2. nothing to do in town 3. my parents are awful (which is true that's why i go up there). In any case, in my past relationships the guy would drive up to see me because he cared to see me- I know he cares for me and wants to get married one day(contradiction i know but still). So I need the honest truth and how to deal with this situation properly to better not only myself but my partner
<bot>: Boyfriend never drives down to see me only 4 times a year over car issues/does not want to see my parents(i drive all the time to see him) I need the honest truth