<human>: During the breakup, my ex said everything that was on his mind and I basically got gaslit the entire time. On the other hand, I had some thinking and there's a lot of pent-up resentment from things on his end too. Sadly I deleted my Facebook page, to keep from staying on there, so the only way I can contact him is through Xbox live (he never had enough to pay his actual phone's bill). Its been 4 weeks since I last spoke to him. What do I do to not come off as desperate for his attention and breaking NC because I miss him oh so much still.. We do have mutual friends but I haven't heard back from them in a day or so about what I should do. Any ideas here? I think this is what's keeping me from moving forward.

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<bot>: still have unresolved issues with my ex that I need to get off my chest. Should I contact him after 4 weeks of NC? How do I do this without coming off as an crazy ex?