<human>: We've been together for almost three years. He's always expressed his dislike for children, but recently changed his mind. That's fine, but he didn't tell me. He kept that and a few other things bottled up until a few days ago, when he texted me this long message about how he thinks we're not connecting any more and how we're not on the same page. 

I was stunned. We had just been on vacation together the DAY BEFORE this and everything was fine. The kids conversation was something that happened in passing, or so I thought. He mentioned me wanting to get an IUD next month and almost made it seem like it wasn't fair to him or something.

There's other things too. Earlier this year we were talking about moving in together but that fell apart because he has family obligations. I understand his situation, but it sucks. I love him and want to come home to him. I want a life with him. We live a little over an hour apart, so one of us is always driving kind of far. We had all these plans. And I don't know how to approach this subject delicately.

I don't even know what we are any more. He says he wants to fix things and that everything he said the other night came out wrong. I was so angry with him. He just pulled the rug out from underneath me. It made me feel like everything in the past few months has been a lie. We can't go back to the way we were before.

Is it a waste of time for us to stay together? He backtracked and said he doesn't want kids "right now" but I don't want to be his "right now" girlfriend. I think with him, it's all or nothing. I don't want our relationship to carry an expiration date. He wants to work things out, and so do I, but the kids thing is a big deal. We love each other, but how can we work through this?

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<bot>: BF wants kids and I don't. He abruptly broke up with me, but backtracked and wants to work things out. How do we do the thing?