<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

**Summary:**I'm in a steady relationship  with this girl I've known for a long time. We've been dating for 2 years and we get along great. For the past 4-5 months I've been feeling bored, dispassionate and for the last month our sex-life has been bad. I find myself checking other girls out and thinking if Its better to be single for a while again. But she is the nicest girl I know and she has been through so much and I cant bring myself to break up with her because I feel very safe and relatively happy.

**Details:** Shes studying her heart out and I'm working hard and yes there are stressful times with out external lives but we've had stressful situations before. We never fight. We've maybe gotten into 3 arguments before and last week I told her I was getting bored with the relationship from the lack of activity she is bringing into the table. I've stressed that I've made %90 of the plans, arrangements, vacations, romantic gestures and that she -albeit thoughtful and reciprocal at times- dsoesnt suprise me with anything or just bring anything to the table.
<bot>: I cant tell if I want a breakup becayse im not in love with her or me being an asshole but I feel extremely bored of doing the same things over and over again unless I suggest something which is aggravating me.