<human>: We have been married just two years. I make $100k+ and have saved for retirement, and have been saving for a home. In hindsight, we should have discussed finances in some pre-marital counseling or something but we never did.

My wife has been in school for the past several years, and hopefully she will graduate in the next year. It has taken her something like 6 years to get this bachelor's degree. When we got married, I thought she would graduate soon, but it dragged on for another couple years. All this time she was not working at all, and just piling on the student debt. After we got married, I paid for her education, rent, food, etc. 

I feel like I had a rude awakening on this since I recently crunched some numbers and realized my wife is completely in debt and hasn't seemed to have had motivation to even hold down a part-time job while she has been in school. Her schooling must be on a part-time schedule since it will have taken her two extra years to graduate. Her student loan debt is nearly $60,000 from before we got married, and I worry about her overall motivation in life to make money since she never even got a part-time job.

I feel like I have been taking care of her so she doesn't feel the need to push herself. When I try to push her, she gets mad at me so I must not be approaching this the right way.

How would you deal with this situation? I have enough money to actually pay her debt, but then I realize that I worked a decade to save up this kind of money. I want her to pay it off herself...but that could take forever at the rate she is going.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Wife hasn't held a job in 6 years because has been in school all that time. I'm worried about her motivation in getting a career and if I will have to support her my whole life.