<human>: I understand that this isn't the most important or pressing problem in the grand scheme of things but it is something that has been bothering me very much the last few weeks and I was hoping for help.

Background : I (F 21) have been with my current boyfriend (M 21) for 5 months. From the very start it was very intense, fell in love very quickly (he said it first). He was my first sexual experience. 
Because of his college accommodation being quite far away from mine, we pretty much started living together straight away. He still has his college dorms but always stays at mine so much so that all his things are here and I always do his washing and everything.

My issue is that lately I feel that I care about him a lot more than he cares for me. I am always there when he has a problem but whenever I open up (which isn't often as I am not that kind of person, I only open up when he makes me) he doesn't really help and ends up changing the topic or talking about himself. And I end up getting really upset that he isn't there for me, or that he doesn't really text very much when we're away anymore, and that there are never any nice gestures from his part. I hate this feeling of helpfulness and sorrow that I get from it. 

I was hoping for some advice on how to condition myself to care a little less (if possible) because I've never been on this end before (in my past relationships it has always been the other person who cares a lot more, he is my first love) and I am finding it very hurtful and it is adding to my already high level of stress and depression because of final year exams and looking for jobs stress. 
I love him very much, but just want to be less affected by these kinds of things as I get very sad because of them.

Also I feel really  clingy, like I always want to text or call (I don't actually do it though). I don't give in to the feelings of clinginess, as in I don't act on it but I would rather just not want to always text and call rather than having to resist...

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<bot>: I care about BF more than he cares about me, I'm not used to this and absolutely hate it so want to learn how to care less if possible.