<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Before you judge me on the title, he's separated. The (ex) wife knows about me, and we are perfectly fine with one another. it's not about that. 

It's about the fact that I have been hurt A LOT and I don't know how comfortable I am with furthuring this relationship until he has filed for divorce. He says that he has been waiting on her to file, because it would work out better financially for him if she did it. But the problem with that is, she's not going to. They're not involved romantically anymore, but she depends on him for EVERYTHING. She is currently somewhat homeless, and can't drive, and doesn't have a job. So he does literally everything for her. She's not going to file, if he continues to let her depend on him the way she does. He also says that once he gets a new job and can afford everything, he's going to get the process of divorce started. Which is ideal for me.

I don't know.... I have a lot of trust issues and I just don't know how I feel about all of this. Someone please just give me some insight, or advice, or just tell me to suck it up.
<bot>: I'm in a relationship with a guy who is separated and has been waiting on his wife to file for divorce, and I'm confused as to how I'm supposed to take it because I have a lot of trust issues.