<human>: My boyfriend and I met in college and have been dating for 2.5 years. We have discussed marriage and are basically planning for it but recently we have been having significant arguments about finances, our roles in the relationship, and our expectations of the relationship.

To clarify, I am currently the "breadwinner". I have a full time job in the job market I went to school for (multimedia/3D modeling). He is struggling to work in the graphic design field with random freelance jobs and favors for friends. He is determined to make it work, however he does not have a drivers license and sees no reason to actually get one. We live in the Pittsburgh area which means graphic design jobs are few and far between, much less ones that he can get to easily. I blew up at him a couple of weeks ago and demanded that unless he has an actual lead for an actual job by October, he needs to get a part time job to help with the bills. I make enough to get us by but we don't have any means of saving money or going out and having fun. Which has caused more arguments because he can't get out of the house without me and I'm usually tired after work and want to relax at home.He has agreed to start applying in other states, and I will gladly quit my job to go with him. 

The problem I'm having is I suffer from pretty regular depression and anxiety. I overreact at little things he says, pick fights, and start crying anytime we have a disagreement. Recently, he has said that it bothers him that I'm allowed to have panic attacks and anxiety but if he has problems I don't listen to him and it's all about my feelings. I didn't realize that I have a habit of taking over conversations by interrupting and putting words in his mouth. I don't want to do this but I have a hard time paying attention without feeling like I am contributing to the conversation. I want to help him and I want him to know he can talk to me about what bothers him, but I'm afraid that I'll just suffocate him. I want this relationship to work, but things are tough.

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<bot>: BF and I live together, he doesn't feel I actually listen to him enough when I can talk about my problems and feelings for days. Is my depression causing me to sabotage the relationship?