<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

I have been dating my boyfriend for quite some time, (around a year) but he lives around 4 hours away, so we decided a few months ago that once his lease was up in June, we would move into our own place. Great! I was head over heels with this guy. My family though, being of Arab descent, disagreed immensely about moving in with a guy. They made sure my life would be a living hell until I left. It has been ridiculously hard and up until last week I was SO excited to just get out and be with him.

Prior to this relationship, I had dated somebody for 3 years who had dumped me. I was devastated for a year until I met the current boyfriend. Except for months now my ex has been trying to reach out to me to fix things, but I have either not responded to him or told him to go away. Finally, since I was moving anyway, he kept asking to meet for coffee just to talk. I agreed we could see each other for 20 minutes, and even informed my boyfriend. Seeing him made my heart drop, and seeing how apologetic he's been and was broke my heart. I couldn't stop crying. 

When I told my current boyfriend that my family was being insane about me moving, he sort of ignored it and stressed that he couldn't afford the apartment alone. I found that sort of selfish, but I understood where he was coming from. It was expensive, and he was freaking out because my name wasn't on the lease and I could just leave. I don't know what to do. I'm afraid if I go, my family will be even more mad, and I will be making a mistake not going back to my ex.
<bot>: moving in with my boyfriend tomorrow, second thoughts, miss the ex, but he isn't giving me much of a choice.