<human>: I (23m) ended a year long relationship with (24f) about three months ago. Background, I had been in one serious relationship before that, 5 years with a high school sweetheart. It ended badly with her cheating on me. It killed my self esteem and brought that into my next relationship. She had been through a lot of guys, four serious boyfriends and she was engaged once and a lot in between. 

It started really slow, felt like I was peeling back layers of wounds and years of damage. She came from an abusive father. She was everything I wanted though, beautiful, incredibly intelligent, and she challenged me. 

She had to move, not too far, three hours away. I wanted to keep the relationship going, she said I had to be the champion of the relationship if I wanted it. The first weekend after moving and starting her new job, she didn't want to call me her boyfriend anymore, she told me that I bored her, that there were ten other guys that could be in her bed with her instead, that it was hard to keep sleeping with the same person over and over, and that she hated me. She was drunk. I left. We talked a week later in person, she said that I was the sweetest person she had ever been with, and she had never been with anyone as long. And that she knew this would eventually happen because of her background. But she never apologized, she blamed her father and her exes. I told her I still loved her, she said thank you, but she did not say it back. She said she felt like she would never be able to keep a guy, they would always eventually leave. I haven't spoken to her since. I'm still in love with her though. Do I go back to her? If you really love someone, should you be patient, and listen to their love language, and wait for their wounds to heal?

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<bot>: broke up with gf of a year after shit went down, but idk if I did the right thing because I still love her