<human>: My parents fought all throughout my childhood. The family drama was rife with financial trouble and emotional turmoil. During family get-togethers, they would sometimes take place at my VERY wealthy uncle's mansion. He always kind and gifted us an allowance to me and my brother (gave to my parents anyways to pay for bills). I've always had positive experiences and memories with my uncle.After that's done, we'd go home back to the fighting, back to sleeping in one room/bed, back to the food stamps, etc.

Fast-forward to now, and the storm has calmed. My parents split, and we've all landed back on our feet emotionally and financially. I've turned out fine with no hatred or resentment despite the hardships. But now as an adult, as I visit with my uncle as usual, witnessing the wealth that he possesses; I cannot help but feel this **urge** to resent my uncle for not helping his own sister's family in their time of need. It's not his fault, but from my perspective, family should be important enough to not let your own siblings suffer. My parents were hard-working, loving people that just so happened to hate each other and tried their best to raise us. They just needed a helping hand. They were not the kind of people that demanded handouts. My mom's relationship with my uncle is amicable, but she does feel a little resentment for his inaction. She made sure that I didn't resent my uncle as a child and raised me to be forgiving.

Perhaps someone could offer insight on experiencing something similar to this? I don't want to resent him because I've seen how bitterness can consume a person. I forgive him. But I every time I think back, I just feel frustrated with my uncle. If I was in his position, I would've helped my brother because I was raised to be compassionate and understanding. I haven't expressed any of this to my uncle because I wouldn't gain anything from doing so.

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<bot>: I'm conflicted in resenting my very wealthy uncle who didn't help my family out during times of trouble. Not his fault, but does "blood being thicker than water" mean anything?