<human>: I have a friend who is having trouble with her boyfriend. What should I do?
<bot>: If you want to help your friend, it’s important to first assess the situation and understand what’s going on. Ask open-ended questions like “What kind of problems are you having?” or “How can I best support you in this situation?” Listen closely to your friend's answers, and be sure to validate their feelings and experiences. Then, offer advice that is tailored to their specific situation, such as suggesting they talk to someone else about their relationship. Finally, if appropriate, suggest resources for them to explore, such as books or websites that may provide further insight into the issue.