<human>: We've been together 4 years and we're now living together. We argue, not too much, however since we've been living with each other I've been expectantly unhappy. I work full time and when I'm not at work I'm exhaustingly trying working on my freelance (which is what I went to school for). He's still an undergrad, basically has no money, his parents pay his portion of the rent. His program is tough, I get that, I was a student too... all the stress and sleepless night I had as a student are probably just exacerbated now. I essentially work two jobs, try to maintain the apartment, and devote my finances to both of us. 

When I ask him to help me with anything I'm told he has "priorities." School is his priority. When I ask him for a mere 10 minutes a day to help me with anything around the apartment I get, "I can't do that. I have priorities." Thus, I am reassured I am not one of those priorities and this just breaks down into a fight (where we could have just washed the damn dishes in that time!). 

What frustrates me the most is that his way of resolving a fight is to literally ignore me and the situation until he feels fine. However, nothing has actually been resolved, I'm left apologizing (for what I can never figure out) and still inexplicably hurt and frustrated. He has apologized once over the course of the relationship. He feels that he should never apologize unless he has actually done something wrong... but that's a little bias when he's judge and jury.

Ultimately I feel like I've gotten myself here, I've never been able to figure out how to make him understand that he needs to show me some compromise or how much seemingly insignificant things can make such a difference. I feel like crap, my confidence is shot. I've been with guys that loved to show me how special I was to them. Now I feel like a total fool and masochist. Is it really going to take me walking out the door and never coming back to get his stubborn brain to see? How can I get my point across without sounding like a total raving lunatic?

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<bot>: ! Boyfriend of four years is essentially selfish with his needs and priorities. Doesn't seem to want to meet me half way even though I have goals I'm trying to reach while helping to support him.