<human>: I'm a 24 year old college freshman, I've been in a few relationships over the years though sadly all the "healthy" ones were long distance. When it comes to local relationships I've had 2 both when I was a little younger (18, and 21-ish) and both I got used pretty hard. 

Where I am now, I like the idea of romance, and love, and being in a relationship. Though that might just be because of my program viewing habits. (I love the hell out of sappy romance anime and movies) 

I tend to find myself very adamantly disinterested in relationships, the concept of having all these obligations, and requirements to make another person happy while I want to graduate and follow my dreams, drives me nuts. Then other times I will meet someone really nice, or interesting and find myself interested in them somewhere between "Lets be best friends" and "I just want to hold your hand and talk about stuff we have in common." It rarely happens but when it does I feel like I get to that point so fast it's not good for me.

Any suggestions on how to deal with this, or how to approach relationships in the future.

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<bot>: I don't wanna date cause being obligated to act a way for someone else is weird to me, but sometimes I wanna hold someone's hand.