<human>: The last time I didn't buy tickets to see my all time favorite band play (because "it was a school night"), they ended up going on hiatus within the next nine months. I've forever regret not going anyway, as my parents were on vacation at the time. 

Over four years since that missed show, I see the band is back together and are doing a show in my area. I immediately buy tickets, because of no conflicts with school, and am bursting of joy, tears in my eyes. Finally. 

Tonight, over a month later, I went to add the show to my calendar. I have a lacrosse match for my university that night, EXACT same time. My team is low on players, and I feel absolutely sick about the whole situation.

Do I dare even talk to my teammates about it? I feel like crumbling up and slinking away. This is on our first game, too, and I really respect our coach and team. 

But I've been dying to go to my band's concert for over five years, and even more so after the hiatus. 

Please, anyone, I need feedback from other people before I accidentally shoot myself in the foot.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Have to choose between lacrosse match and first time concert of my favorite band that just got off of hiatus (tix already purchased). Do I dare even ask my teammates?