<human>: So in summary, my boyfriend has been pretty neglectful, not meeting my expectations which I make clear to him, not spending much time with me etc. He isn't a mean guy, he doesn't intentionally do these things - he is just not putting in the effort I feel like I deserve.

I've met a new bloke who I adore, and is putting a lot of time into me, and is genuinely trying. I want to work on things with this new bloke, so I want to break up with my current boyfriend. (Been feeling like breaking up with him for a long time, but we've been trying to fix the relationship together). 

Anyway. During this breakup, I don't know if I should tell him that I've met someone new. Or if I should just tell him that I am done trying to fix this relationship as it's not getting any better after a few months of us trying. Or both.

I don't want to hurt him more than I need to. I want him to be okay with me, and possibly stay friends.

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<bot>: I want to break up with my boyfriend, should I tell him I've met someone new or just tell him that the relationship has gone stale?