<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

Just some info to catch you guys up.. I dated her in highschool, things were good but we were both immature and honestly the commitment freaked me out so I ended it. Since then she has been one of my closest friends, we never really got proper closure. That was when we were 16-17. The relationship didn't progress much past kissing. I haven't really had any serious relationships.

Fast forward to now, entering 4th year university. Got really drunk while we were hanging out and we hooked up, decided after to give things another try. However I very quickly encountered one of the things that used to drive me nuts. She is an obligatory kisser. What I mean by this is that she (rather unnaturally so imo) practically drags me into a kiss on every hello and good bye. 

It bothers me now because we've been good friends for so long and I'm not sure why the fact we are dating again instantly means such a dramatic change in the relationship dynamic.. we greeted each other just fine before without an awkwardly forced kiss. 

This brings me to the way I felt about this previously. If I want to kiss her, I feel like it should be for a reason. This feels meaningless, and almost tedious. I hate it. Physically its uncomfortable for me but emotionally it feels insincere. I could understand a kiss on the cheek but this is more like a "welp here we go again". Its like the fact that we are dating again comes with work load, but I really just want to spend more time alone with her? Its not the pace, its the direction. I don't want our relationship to be defined by labels just because "that's how couples act". I feel like I am barely able to explain this to you all, but how can I explain to her my feelings on this without saying "Things are moving to fast"?
<bot>: Girlfriend steals a kiss on every hello and goodbye, I feel like it diminishes the sincerity and makes the act a chore. Please help me find the words to explain without hurting our relationship.