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I'm also 24 and we've been dating for almost 2 years. Everytime we plan a trip they make this guilt game. She's always so sad and afraid of telling them our plans.

Last year we went to NYC, her father didn't spoke to her for almost 2 months after we came back home. In 17 days we will go to Germany and she still didn't spoke to him, being afraid of his reaction! Her family likes me, her mother likes me, her dad likes me, it's just this thought of traveling together is too much for them, like we should do that only when we get married.

Being honest with her feelings doesn't work as expected, her mother is just like "That's the way it is".
<bot>: It's the title, they hate it for no good reason and I would like tips on how to deal with it.