<human>: My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years, married for 2.5. His brother is a narcissist. He is toxic, irrational, abusive. My husband worked for him because it was easy, I was never comfortable but didn't fight it because his income has never been steady, and anything is better than nothing.

On our anniversary in sept, his brother decided to tell him that he hates me (for no reason), and that I am not welcome anywhere in his life, or in my father-in-law's. My husband responded by telling him "well, people are like cilantro, I can't make you like her, but I ask that you be civil"... I was so hurt and insulted that he did not stand up for me. I cried every time I thought about it, and begged him to look for a new job...he worked there 5 days/week for another 7 months, and never looked for a new job. The only reason he left is his brother destroyed/lost the business last week.

He has apologized and said that he made a mistake, and claims that he wants nothing to do with his brother until he apologizes to both of us, and yet he speaks nicely to him when he calls, and even sends him job postings to help him find work. 

I have suggested counselling, and he refuses. I am full of anger and resentment...not sure what to do.

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<bot>: brother-in-law forced my husband to choose between us, my husband betrayed my trust and humiliated me for 7 months.