<human>: Hi !

25/m here, asking for help. I don't really know how to tell this and english is not my native tongue so I'll try to make it as clear as possible, and I am sorry if I'm hard to understand.

So, I've been with my SO for the last 10 years and it's been really great and all except for one thing : we definitely don't have the same sexual appetite. I mean, I love her and she's so beautiful that whenever I look at her I want to cuddle (not necesserily sex thought, I just like to have her close when I can). And so far she's exactly the same but when we get to the sex it's a way different thing.

Whenever I feel like it I try to show her by kissing her passionately or making subtle (at least I try) references to what we could do, or something. And most of the times she looks at me (sometimes embarrassed, sometimes not at all) and tells me she's not in the mood.

I'd never want to make her do something she doesn't want to, I respect her and all but the thing is I feel like it always happens when SHE wants and I don't feel like I have something to say about this. When she does that she doesn't even let me try to get her in the mood (and I don't know to deal with this since I don't want to force her so I stop right away) and it kinda hurts.

So, I understand that everyone has a different level of sexual appetite and all but I'm kinda lost in this. The worst is that if I tell her that I'm not in the mood when she comes around she gets sad and asks me tons of questions like "What's wrong ? Is everything ok ? I don't understand, [...]"
I really don't know how to deal with this and it's been eating me for the last days.

Do you recognize yourself in my story ? I'd like to hear from you =/

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<bot>: I have a bigger sexual appetite than my SO and it's eating me since I don't know how to make it work with her.