<human>: This is a bit cliché, but the biggest issue I have in my marriage is the equal division of housework. I know this probably seems very minor compared to a lot of other relationship issues, however it is basically the source of all of our arguments and I am ridiculously tired of feeling like a maid/mother and not a partner. We both work full-time, we have two dogs, a large(ish) house, and both have social lives. I have tried discussing this with my partner in every way I can possibly imagine; I have made "chore charts," both with and without his input on who does what, (he does not use them); I have both ignored the chores that are his responsibility, and just done them myself; I have explained how it makes me feel when he slacks off- but I am inevitably still stuck with either completing all of the things he does not bother to do myself, or living in squalor. When I ask him if/when he is going to do a specific chore, I am met with anger, annoyance, and made to feel like I am a "nag." If he does complete a chore (which he does sometimes) he acts like it is a favor to me- like it is not his responsibility at all. He refuses to set a day to complete his housework or commit to doing it at any specific time and if something better comes up when he has free time (which, let's face it, anything is better than housework)he chooses the fun thing and ignores his responsibilities. He was raised with a stay-at-home mom who pretty much cleaned up after all of his messes and took care of all housework. (This is nothing against stay-at-home moms, just thought some background would be useful.) I know that I can be a bit anal about things sometimes, but I don't think that cleaning our house together once a week is too much to ask- especially since we have two dogs who leave hair everywhere. Am I being ridiculous or asking too much? Any advice with how to approach this?

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<bot>: Partner does not seem to feel any responsibility for housework, I am left with it all. Feeling like a maid/mother and not a partner.