<human>: Hey all - here's the situation.  I really dislike cats.  My wife really likes them.  Married 5+ years now.  My wife has put me through quite a bit of crap in these years, to include flying the coop and leaving me to raise our son alone for 6 months.  Despite this, I decided to try to give her another chance provided she stay on her medication.  I was sort of hoping maybe she would be less selfish now.... Since she has come back, I've doing very well financially (new job, big raise yay), so I purchased a very nice new home and I like to keep it that way.  She decides she wants a cat, I tell her over and over I do not want a cat.  What does she do?  She gets one anyway.  I did my best to tolerate it, but I can't stand it.  It has awful smelling crap that manages to permeate a large area of the house (She's tried many expensive brands of food), it tracks litter everywhere (which she rarely notices to vacuum), it sits on our kitchen table (where we eat!) gets fur all over the couch.  I work a demanding work schedule, on top of being enrolled in full time courses.  When I come home I want to relax.  I've had enough of this thing, but now I'm the bad guy for making her get rid of it when I never wanted it in the first place.  I do feel somewhat bad, but should I?  Logically I feel like I'm in the right here.  She hates frogs, her getting a cat is akin to me going out and buying an aquarium of frogs.  I think I've given more than enough in this relationship to have my wishes honored.  My line of thinking is had she listened to me in the first place and never got it, she wouldn't have to go through getting rid of it (Which she hasn't done yet btw)

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<bot>: I said not cat, she got a cat, I still do not like cats and want it gone. Am I being that unreasonable?