<human>: We broke up about 3 weeks ago and decided that we could be friends in the future since we didn't not split up angry at each other.
About 3 days passed of me feeling like complete shit and so i called her to get some closure that i didn't quite get when we broke up. In that call she told me she had no interest in ever getting back together so i decided to get over her. First weeks it was all great, i started to get better and also to forget but still appreciate what we had together. During this time (without looking to find anything) I also met a nice girl and we went on a couple of dates and every thing seemed fine for me until last saturday. Bad part is that my ex shares close friends with this new girl.

Last saturday my ex told me she wanted to talk and i agreed since i also wanted to talk to her but just as friends. One thing led to another and she started telling me how I should get over her because she wouldn't want to see me getting hurt by her eventually (three or more months according to her) dating someone and how i should not have feeling for her anymore so i told her i was dating someone. ALL HELL BROKE LOSE. She told me that i didnt care for our relationship and that she didnt want to see me ever again and all that comes along. Also i think (87% sure) that she knew i was dating someone because her bff saw me.

So i am way too confused since she had told me she didnt want anything from me and now she's jealous. the next day she said she was sorry for how she reacted but then she got mad again and once again said it was all ok. 

I told her that we should not talk until my birthday, which is coming up in 9 days, and then we should get coffee to talk.

What should I do? I really care for her but i dont know if she can be honest with her feelings and i feel like she is always wanting to fight or get mad.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: My ex started talking to me when she found out i was getting over her and i am now not sure of what to do.