<human>: Hey there fellow redditors,

I got a question for you and its - how to deal with this one friend of mine. This friend of mine who seems to always leaves me alone. We make plans to meet up and she does not show up. 

Worse part is she doesnt even answer her phone most of the time so I start to drive to her home to check on her and she is not there - next thing you know is sitting on your own bed worrying about what could have happend to her. Next day you find out she has just been with another random guy she knows for a few days and sleept at his place... 

This is just one of many examples and not the first time something like this happened - just last week i was left standing 1 hour in the rain waiting for her infront of a bar.. 

We've been really good friends for 6 years now but I feel like I m the only one who is interested in the friendship. She didnt always leave me alone at dates it all went downhill after that one situation in a bar. 

She tried to kiss me once 2 years ago but I didnt go for it because it didnt feel right at the time - you know we were both drinking cocktails and I wouldnt want a first kiss to be a drunk one. I really dont know what to do honestly so I m asking you.

----

Anyone of you with kind of the same problem? How did you deal with it? How would you deal with my situation?

Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?
<bot>: Friendship with a girl for a few years - nearly kissed - went downhill after - kinda awkward situation still 2 years after - sets up dates with me doesnt come to them