<human>: My girlfriend and I broke up on new years day because she wanted to deal with her anxiety and panic attacks without me. She told me she wants to be independent and learns to deal with these things herself and not rely on anyone else. 

We were really happy together, she really did love me and our relationship could never have been better. For the 5 days leading up to the New Year, she said things like she loves me and is so happy she has me. We spent New Years Eve together with our friends, we had a lot of fun and there were no signs of us breaking up at all. 

Suddenly, the morning of new years day she gave me a call telling me about her New Year's resolution, which is to become more independent and learn to fix her problems on her own without my help.

I tried to convince her that our relationship is in such a good point in time and that I don't care about her problems and I will support her to the end.

But she was really adamant on her decision and she said that I shouldn't wait because things will change and she can't promise me anything. 

I'm confused at what to do. She is the love of my life and we had no problems at all and everyone around us was surprised when we broke up. 

I'm not sure what to do reddit… some people say I should keep trying to change her mind, but I think that I should respect her decision and learn to move on, even if it came really suddenly and we still like each other. 

I would like to know what your opinions and insights are

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<bot>: Girlfriend wants to be independent and learn to deal with her anxiety and panic attacks by herself and she doesn't think she can do that if we are together due to me always being there for her.