<human>: I just started dating this guy about a month and a half ago. He's a coworker of mine at my new job. No worries--employee relationships are legal at our company. And he's leaving in the spring regardless. 

Alright. So although we've been dating, nothing has happened. We haven't held hands. No kissing. Nothing. Everyone knows we're dating. He tells his best friend and my sister (we all work together) that he's shy with me. Hence, the lack of touching or escalation or whatever. 

I haven't been in a relationship in years because of college. Actually, the specific reason was that three weeks into my freshman year I was at a party and my best friend locked me in a bathroom and tried to rape me. Took me a long time to get over it. Three years passed and I'm ready for a relationship. 

My date went and drunk texted my sister a few weeks ago while we were watching a movie. She sent him paragraphs explaining what happened with me and my friend three years ago in that bathroom (her messages came up on the screen and he was asleep. If they weren't from my sister I wouldn't have read them otherwise because I know it's an invasion of privacy. But I saw my name and had to look). I feel like that's playing into him not making any moves. I'm also mad at my sister for telling him that when she had no right to. 

I know, it takes two to tango and I have every right to start it just as much as he does. But I'm scared. I haven't had a great rep with guys (ever, it seems). This situation is genuinely frightening to me. Regardless, I'm used to the guy making the first move. I know, how very 1950s of me. 

Ideas? Clarity? Something? 
I'm looking into going into therapy soon to try and fix my mentality of these sort of things.

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<bot>: Been dating this guy for almost two months. Absolutely no physical contact like holding hands, kissing, etc. We're apparently both too nervous to initiate anything.