<human>: * So this guy and I started out as going on dates and hanging out in January, but three months into it I needed to know what was going on. I asked him, and he said he was having fun and stuff, but 'didn't see us dating.' Everything has carried on as usual, hanging out a couple/few times a week and one of us always sleeps over with the other when we hang out. 

* We've got a house booked this Fall for a weekend music fest out of town, so I assume he's planning on me being around that long, but I'm starting to get anxious about the whole situation.

* He has a girl best friend, who he dated a while back, and they did stuff  every day this past weekend. He wanted to hang out with me today. I knew his family was having a cookout today, and thought he might invite me to that, but he only asked me to hang out after (and he didn't know when it would be). I told him I'd rather just work today and hang out some other time, rather than wait around for him, so we're hanging out tomorrow. I'm sad and feeling like I'm just some sort of object that he wants to hang out with when his best friend is busy or he's bored, but he does make plans with me in advance, most of the time it isn't last minute. I didn't used to feel this way. I guess it's just becoming clearer that I have no real chance of becoming anything other than a placeholder? 

* Occasionally he's touchy and stuff, and when I was gone for a week a few weeks ago, he kept asking me to come back sooner, and when he was gone for a week a couple weeks ago, he wanted to hang out with me as soon as he got home (and was touchy and stuff then). He makes plans ahead of time, and we text every day so I guess I'm not completely a last resort booty call?

What do I do?

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<bot>: This guy and I started out as dating in January, but around 3mos into it he told me he 'didn't see us as dating.' Things have continued as usual: hanging out a couple times a week and always sleeping over.