<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

As I said, we have been married for 7 years and separated for a little over a year. I moved out at that time and there was no attempt at reconciliation on my end this whole time.

A few months ago I started casually and quietly dating several different men, but did not tell him because I felt it was my business and didn't affect our schedule or kids' schedule.

In any case, I left my phone at his house last night by accident, and he looked at my texts/sexts, some of which were pretty explicit and also not at all how I was with him sexually.

He was very upset, saying that he had no idea that I had "moved on" so much, and felt that I should have told him I was dating in fairness to him. I said that I only would have if it turned serious and/or affected our schedules, otherwise I would only be telling him to hurt him. 

I also said that I NEVER would have wanted him find out in this way, and that he had looked at something that was private. He did say he regretted that part, but still. 

Anyway, he is hurt and angry and is full-on wanting to push the divorce through, which is okay by me.

I have so many mixed emotions about this. Did I owe telling him I had started dating? I'm horrified that he saw my texts, but he was the one that chose to do that. Should I be angry that he violated my privacy? Do I even get privacy in this situation? I'm confused.
<bot>: Separated husband read my private texts on my phone, I feel guilty that he saw them, but annoyed that he did that.