<human>: I could never win an argument with my ex EVER. She always knew the right thing to say to shut me up, and I always found myself thinking up responses and comebacks after the fact, instead of actually being assertive and expressing how I felt with her. But it also applies to other women in my life too. I never seem to have this problem with men because I'm not as afraid to get confrontational with them (I'm pretty into martial arts/working out so that helps me feel alot more confident being aggressive with dudes) and generally don't have much of a problem sticking up for myself in social situations. But it just seems like whenever I argue with a woman I always find myself grasping for answers and biting my tongue in a foul mood while they just smirk at me knowing I can't think of anything to say back.

"It's not nice guy VS bad guy, its strong guy VS weak guy. You want a guy who can lay it down verbally, emotionally and sexually. You need to know you can trust him when there's a crisis."

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<bot>: I turn into a passive aggressive pussy around women and can't win verbal arguments. How do I be alpha in situations where I can't rely on muscle?