<human>: Tyler and I are both 19 and have been together a little less than a year now and he just recently (as in within the last couple days) has decided to make major and life changing choices. However, these changes don't really allow time and mobility in our relationship to be together. 
 I am just now hearing about this for the first time and it is happening now. As in he is already busy, and invisible to me. He has proposed the idea of me and him living together, however I don't think that's even possible right now for me. I'm about to begin going back to school full time and just lost my job. 
I am proud of him for making big strives to reach his own personal goals and I am so happy to hear he is making changes for the better. I want him to be the best and successful "him" he can be, and if I felt that I was honestly holding him back from that I would step away now. However I feel a little hurt and cast away. I don't think that our relationship will ever be the same right now. This entire "thing" he has just OUT OF THE BLUE decided to begin may have just caused an end for us.

Maybe I'm just upset and need to look at it in the morning but I just realized that I am not gonna see him for a very long time and when I do it will not be for a very long time.
Why can't I just live with him? We're not ready.

are we?

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: boyfriend just made life changing decisions and without warning just may have ruined our relationship but is proposing we move in together to try make it work.