<human>: My boyfriend [24M] and I [25F] just had our one year anniversary. We are going through a rough patch since a while because he needs so much space and is barely showing affection. I feel unloved lonely and unsure about us. 

Now New Year's is coming closer and we haven't made any plans. We celebrate Christmas with our families and I thought we would meet up for New Year's. 

Last year, when he barely knew me, he asked me if I would want to spend New Year's with him and I did. We went to Vienna together for a couple of days. It was really romantic.

But this year I am tied in my Bachelor thesis during the holidays so I can't go on trips. He rather wants to spend New Year's with some friends who have a party than with me. He said I could come knowing that I actually can't. 
It hurts me more than I would like to admit that he doesn't care and to see how different he is about us compared to last year.

There is the chance that I will sit at home at New Year's all by myself. When this happens I don't know if it's worth it to stay in this relationship any longer. 
What's your opinion? Do you think New Year's is a holiday you spend with your SO?

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<bot>: boyfriend [24M] doesn't care if we spend New Year's together. I [25F] am tied in Uni duties over the holidays and can't travel. Do you think this is insensitive/reckless?