<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

When I was in high school I lost a lot of friends senior year because of my relationship with my boyfriend. They said I spent too much time with him and not enough with them, and that I was "too wrapped up with him". As a result, now I hardly mention my boyfriend around my friends, and rarely introduce him to them because I want to keep my friends and boyfriend pretty much separate so that neither one feels like I'm choosing them over the other. It's not really an issue around girlfriends, but I'm not really sure what to do about guys. I feel like guys want to be my friend until they know I have a boyfriend. I'm NOT interested in cheating or being deceptive (I've been with my bf for over 3 years now), but it is nice to have guy friends, not just girlfriends all the time. 

Tomorrow I'll be hanging out with a guy friend I haven't seen in many years, and I'm not sure if he contacted me because he genuinely wants to be friends, or because it seems like I don't have a boyfriend. How should I approach this? I don't want to keep my boyfriend a secret, but at the same time I still want to hang out and be friends with guys.
<bot>: I want to be friends with a guy without making it seem like I'm interested in more than that. Before anyone comments about me leading my guy friend on, that's exactly what I'm trying NOT to do.