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**some background information on me**: I am a very sexual person, I know most guys are always horny and want to have sex, but I mean I love to try new things (normal sex to crazy kinky things), sex as many times a day as possible and just cuddle with my gf naked when we cant go anymore because I am still horny after we do anything. 

**some background information on my relationship:** Me and my gf have been going out for about 1.5 years and we love each other a lot, and I know I have always seen a future with her. We are always honest and very open with eachother. Our sex life started off pretty good when we were first dating (I am sure a lot of that is because of the fact that it was a new exciting relationship) but recently it has become awful. we have talked about this issue but nothing has changed and its getting to the point where its killing our relationship for me because it makes me really unhappy because like I said earlier I am a really sexual person.

**I feel like its probably easiest for me to just list my issue, so here it goes:**

She never initiates sex, she shoots down sex unless its the perfect time of day, We only have sex once a week because she finally just gives in to me asking or we go out and I buy her dinner, bj's maybe once every 2 months because i literally beg or its my birthday, she doesnt wear any kind of sexy clothing (thongs or even yoga pants) to turn me on, she only lets me do 2 sometimes 3 positions (her on top, me on top, sometimes spooning) and can only finish in the same way every time, and when we are having sex we NEED lube and she never seems in to it constantly making jokes during sex. 

**What I need to know:** Am I being unreasonable? this is driving me to think I cant make this relationship work.
<bot>: Am I an asshole bf for being so upset about my sex life with my gf to the point where idk if I can make this relationship work?