<human>: I've known her for a little while now, we started out speaking a lot. Then we moved to hanging out. I feel like it's been a train ride, a huge explosion of dopamine and seratonin and I am falling for her REALLY HARD.

She is beautiful, smart, interesting, funny. And I have a stable job, a car and everything which would be good for her.

But I am finding it so hard to trust. 

My first ex girlfriend was flat out abusive and the second was a popular tumblr boob girl who spend the two yeras I was being a father to her son fucking around with other men completely in secrecy. I want to believe this new girl is different, she says she likes me she says she wants me, I told her I was falling in love with her.

The issue is I have no trust, and I don't know how to build it. I haven't had any experience in building trust and right now I am too scared.

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<bot>: Please offer me advice to be able to trust this girl, she told me she wants to be around to see my pet snake grow up, which is like 2 or 3 years I need some advice.