<human>: I newly single **(22m)** just recently ending a 1.3 year relationship with **(22f)** Without much warning or signs. The reason being is the **FUTURE**.  I quite frankly could not ever had asked for a better woman, amazing beautiful funny. 

However for the life of me I could not get her to work for herself! To be MOTIVATED to reach for the next step the opportunity that awaited. What do you see 5 years from now... None of that. She finding all her happiness through me. 

 I being a very proactive person love sports,  going out and having fun.  But I'm always striving for the next best thing. Trying to make a better future for myself. All I wanted is for her to live for herself to be more independent in a sense. In the bigger picture it made sense the only way for this to work in the long run was to end things before it hurt even more. 

**This woman means the world to me and the last thing I want is for her so see me as the bad guy.** For her to see there was nothing for me to gain from hurting her. Taking emotion out of the equation it all seems so logical. The only way for her to learn this concept would be to do what I have just recently done.(leave her)  I do not want her out of my life.  She refuses to just be friends in any way or to see each other simply because all she wants is to be my gf. What I am hoping she finds is happiness that she creates herself not relaying on me to provide it all.  As well as wanting to succeed and become someone.

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<bot>: Ended the relationship for her to better herself,  now she no longer wants to talk to me.  Did I make the right choice?