<human>: I'm not going to claim that I'm a great person, because it's simply not true! However, I do value honesty very much. Like most people, I occasionally lie, but I hate doing so.

My boyfriend is very kind and has strong relationships with his family. However, sometimes he seems to follow rules for himself that take advantage of others. For instance, he did not return work clothes (a few hundred dollars worth, I believe) to his former employer because they don't keep track of that stuff. This really troubles me; I don't even take pens from the bank.

Would it even be ethical for me to ask he not do things like that? I understand that people sometimes lie and cheat a little, but that just seems like it's going too far. I don't want him to be a clone of me, but I still want to feel like we're on the same page. This is a fulfilling relationship and I consider him to be my friend first and foremost.

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Probably overreacting, but is it possible to get on the same page with a significant other regarding day-to-day (but not insignificant) moral issues?