<human>: So I've found myself in a situation I have never wanted to find myself in.  While I do love my husband - he admitted to cheating on me in the beginning of the relationship.  He had a one night stand while he lived out of town that turned into a multiple time thing.  It's been hard trying to deal with this.  He basically told me they had been together a ton of times then turned around and told me he could barely keep it up with this woman and basically barely talked to her more than three times (?)  I don't know what to believe from him anymore.  We had been together for years, got married, and had our first child before he told me.  I had read 'She's Come Undone' and had become focused on cheating.  I finally asked him about the break we had taken at the beginning of the relationship and he finally admitted that he had cheated on me and taken a break to figure it all out.  

I looked into things and we really talked about a lot of things - but like I said he lied to me multiple times about what actually happened so I'm not sure what to believe.  I took a year trying to see where I stand with it.  It took a lot of talking and work, but as soon as I started to settle down and feel like I could live with it I met someone.  He is a friend of my husband and the attraction on my side was instantaneous.  I want to say that it was on his side too - but I can't be sure because neither of us are the type to try to do anything about our feelings - I respect my marriage and he respect/likes my husband.  But it's there and it's annoyingly strong.  I have never felt a pull like this toward anyone in my life.  l feel like I'm not sure if I can trust these feelings, or if maybe my mind is putting them there to distract me away from the recent issues with my husband.  I know these types of stories are a dime a piece, I'm really just wondering if anyone has any advice on the matter - I think I'd just really like to talk to someone about it.

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<bot>: My husband admitted to an affair he had a long time ago (5 years) and as soon as I started to feel like I had gotten over it I had a 'love at first sight' type encounter.