<human>: For my 35th birthday I decided to get my testosterone levels checked.  One doc conversation has led to another and during the latest convo I realized that I've had discharge from my nipples (Gross, I know).

Anyways, this could mean I have a tumor on my pituitary gland called a Prolactinoma.  When the doc told me I became super stressed and mentioned my wife wasn't going to like hearing this.  He said I should wait until we get the results back from the blood work and MRI.

Keeping this possibility from my wife feels a bit like infidelity.  In debating whether she should join me in this last Dr. visit she said she didn't need to go because "I know you'll tell me everything anyway."  Up until now she has known everything with my journey dealing with my low testosterone.

So when should I tell her? After the blood work comes back? After the MRI? Wait until I get a definitive answer?

Thanks for any advice/perspective.

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<bot>: Due to nipple discharge, I may have a tumor on my pituitary gland.  At what stage of tests/results should I tell my wife?