<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

So I've been with my SO for 5 months now and it's been the best relationship I've ever had. I've had some tough ones in the past, one of which resulted in counselling and anti-depressants. Because of all of the previous problems, I find it very hard to live in the moment, and if I feel that the relationship is going to end or I'm not getting my feelings reciprocated, I view it as me wasting my time. 

Fast forward to the other night, after a pretty heavy evening we were chatting and she told me that despite loving me and the relationship being the best thing that's ever happened to her, she doesn't think she's in love with me. Not to say that she won't be, but she isn't and hasn't been yet. I appreciate her honesty, but I'm concerned that despite everything being spot on, I'm never gonna be right for her and the whole thing is a waste of time. Am I overthinking it or is this a red flag?
<bot>: My so loves me but isn't in love with me. I'm in love with her so quite hurt. Is this going anywhere?