<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

I'm currently locked out of the home right now, and not sure what to do but post this. We've been together for twelve years and had only ever had one unrelated argument **ever** (coincidentally, I was also locked out of the house for that one.)

I'm going nuts. I don't have any time to myself at all. During the week I have people in my face all day at work, get home and activities are dominated by her. Then I sleep and repeat. Weekends are honey-do lists and more activities she comes up with.

By her preference my wife stays at home and takes care of things. I work 40-44 hours or so a week. Neither of us have any friends outside of people on the internet. I've tried to make some friends with 'couples' so my wife wouldn't feel left out but she never is interested in repeat visits. She has zero interest in working, social activities, or friends herself. At all.

So obviously the best thing to do is talk to my spouse right? Well I've been bringing it up from time to time that I just need a moment, even an hour to myself to pursue a hobby and she wont have any of it. Finally after some time of this going on I had a chat with her online that got too intense. When I got home I was locked out and she told me to go have time by myself or 'probably with that hussy!' 

So pleading through the door did nothing. I told her I would book a counselor if we couldn't talk this through and she said it was my problem and I was being stupid. Also your guess is as good as mine as to who said hussy is because I can't even handle one woman let alone multiple. I go to work, then I come home.
<bot>: Wife thinks I loathe her because I would like some time to myself, she thinks seeing a counselor for one thing is 'stupid.' What to do?