<human>: I've been hanging out more and more with a girl who's in a relationship. Nothing scandalous has happened, but I do have a crush on her. I honestly think she feels the same way. I'd never try and convince her to cheat, but I would like to ask her to date me instead. 

Is it wrong for a man to ask out a woman who's in a relationship not to cheat but to get her to leave her current guy? There's no kids involved, there's no ring on her finger, they aren't living together. It seems like the knee-jerk reaction would be to say that yes, it's bad because you're hurting someone else's feelings. But isn't it a carnal thing? Sure, I'm taking her away from another man. But isn't that just sort of how things are? As long as nobody is getting cheated on, or lied to, what's the problem?

Even single women seem to have tons of guys just hanging around who are incredibly emotionally involved. If I waited around and tried not to step on anyone's toes, I feel as though I'd never get a chance. Why am I obligated to respect her boyfriends desires? I want the exact same thing he does. I'm not trying to fool anybody. I feel like I'm just standing up for what I want.

Of course, I could be wrong, which is why I want you guys to give me your opinion. Different perspectives would be very helpful.

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<bot>: Is it fundamentally wrong to try and persuade a girl you're friends with to break up with her boyfriend and be with you instead?