<human>: I live in the west and he lives in the East. We lived together for a little over a year and when our lease was up, he moved back home to his parents to finish college, and I decided to finish college and live with my parents for in state tuition and free rent. 

The move was hard, but we have been doing long distance for the second year of our relationship. The original plan was to move back in with each other once we both finished school. I am one semester away from completing my degree and already have a job that is most likely to lead to a career in field that I want to end up in. He is unemployed and not going to school.

 We have been talking about him moving here  for most of the time apart and I'm beginning to feel like he is just making up excuses to not move in with me. I understand that moving across the country for someone is a huge thing to do and a big step in a relationship. He has told me he doesn't want to move because he'll miss his family, he doesn't like where I live, he won't have any friends, it'll be completely new for him, we might fight and break up . All of those are some what valid things, and I am trying to understand it from his point of view, but am having a hard time. I am not a fan of doing long distance, and don not want to be in one forever. 

I am at a loss as to what I should do. Am I being unreasonable for asking him to move out here or is this something worth breaking up over?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Long distance boyfriend of 2.5 years  doesn't want to move to where I live, not sure if I should wait for him to decide to move, or give ultimatum.