<human>: Recently moved across the state with my bf for his school. I transferred jobs, but currently not working many hours. He's taking grad classes and working part time on the weekends and gets some pay from school. He's making more than me and paying all the bills except my gas and food. 

I'm home more than him and usually end up spending my days cleaning, doing laundry, cooking, then going into work for a couple hours. My hours are slowly picking up some, but I'm still doing all the chores at home. I've tried making it easier on me by cooking more meals in bulk and eating left overs on my longer days. He has offered to help clean up the kitchen but any time he does, it turns into him getting mad or coming to me and saying he doesn't know where to put things or what to do with left overs. Its just less of a deal if I do it all because then he won't get into a grumpy mood and be pissy the rest of the night. I can't even get him to put his dirty clothes in the hamper or clean his cat's litter box. But I continually feel obligated that I have to do all this because he's paying the bills. I haven't really sat down to talk to him about how I'm feeling. I worry that I'm being too pushy and this is how things are going to be balanced out.

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<bot>: Bf not doing any chores around the house but I feel obligated to do them all because of his paying all the bills.