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So me and my girlfriend of one and a half years met at college, but we live three hours away from each other in the summers. We typically try to see each other every two weeks during the summer; currently, I'm working a job that requires me to work Monday through Friday, and she has an online class she's taking. However, on the next weekend I'm supposed to go see her, I have a fraternity convention that spans 5 days for which I'm going to have to miss 3 days of work. She was going to come see me for my birthday which was the next Monday, but that would mean she would have to see me twice in a row. I told her I could see about coming to her house the weekend before my birthday(weekend after conference), but she wants me to miss at least one more day of work to come see her; rather than coming Friday after work, she wants me to come Thursday after work and take off Friday. If I do that, I'll be missing 4 days in one pay period, which I feel looks bad on me as an employee, and also means I'll get paid less. If I don't come see her that weekend, she said she'd feel like "she has to step up and do everything in the relationship because I won't". I've tried explaining to her that I try to work so we can actually have money to do stuff, but she's like "it's not like I'm asking you to take off two weeks of work to see me". I just feel bad about missing work and I feel like she won't listen to reason. What do y'all think?
<bot>: My girlfriend wants me to take off work to come see her, even though I'm taking off a lot of work during one pay period to do something I've been planning to do.