<human>: This sunday is my boyfriend's brithday. We were taking summer courses (he took 1 course and I took 2) and now we're taking final exams. He's already taken his and I took one today. The original plan was to stay in the city for his birthday and go home Monday (my family lives in another city). I figured I'd have time to study on Thursday and Friday, get to rest on Saturday and spend all Sunday with him. So Monday and Wednesday, we spent a lot of time together and naturally, I didn't make any progress studying. 

Yesterday, my mother called and told me that my dad's in the hospital and to go back home asap, this meant on Saturday after my exam. Also, she asked me to make arrangements with the family vacations we were supposed to have and of course I said yes. This was around 12 pm.

My bf was really nice to me yesterday to try and make me feel better about things, but I just felt like I needed to deal with more since being with him requires paying attention to him and we couldn't study together cause he had already taken his exam. Today, he's mad because he feels like I should take the morning to study and then be with him the rest of the day. I can't, I really need to study most of the day and he's mad at me for it. He says I've been doing nothing all week and now that it's gonna be his birthday I'm not going to be with him and still don't make time for him. That I brought this on myself and should suck it up and make time for him anyway. I feel it like whining, but I may be too overwhelmed to see it correctly. So, should I not study to be with him?

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: He's mad because I won't be here for his birthday and won't have much time for him today even if I got a lot of unexpected tasks to tackle