<human>: We have been dating for a 3 months and I am the first real boyfriend she has had since her ex fiance when she was 22. 
Her previous relationship with her ex fiance ended badly as she had gotten pregnant and lost the child and he blamed her for it and she's been afraid of that failure/letting people down/doesn't value herself.

Now since her and I are older and started discussing the desires for children etc she has gotten all these awful memories and things from before back. The thought of a relationship scares her because the chance something will happen like it did with her ex fiance. She started being less affectionate and playful in general and acting very serious all the time often having a short temper.

So fast forward to last night she tells me she needs time to get herself together because she wants to go into a relationship with me and not have her fears and insecurities causing issues. She said she still wants to talk and hang out just doesn't want the affectionate part of it so she doesn't feel pressured and can sort out her emotions and get her head on straight. 

This sounds to me like she wants to be just friends and i told her if thats what she wants just say it but she insists she just needs time to "stop her fears" of the relationship because it progressed quickly so she can be the best version of herself for me/us. I don't know if I should stick it out for a little while or just jump ship.

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<bot>: girlfriend says she needs time to get over fears of a relationship and insists she wants to be with me but needs time.