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Hello :)

So, my boyfriend is depressed after quitting his job 3 months ago (or he quit because he was depressed). Since then, he's changed a lot. He is very distant and doesn't speak to me a lot. We will have maybe 1-2 conversations a week. He is confused because he loves me and doesn't want to end things. He just feels really bad about the way he's treating me and thinks he's bringing me down.

For me, yes, he's not being there for me right now but he's going through something and I want to help him. I want to get through this period and see how we come out on the other side.

The problem is, when he doesn't talk to me for so long, I start getting really insecure and sad. I start thinking he doesn't want me anymore. But that's not true. I don't message him first anymore - if he's in a mood where he needs space, he will ignore it. So, I guess I'm asking how to be more secure with his love, even though he can't show it right now?

It would be great to get the perspective of people who have dealt with this before.
<bot>: Boyfriend is depressed and has become distant but still wants me in his life. I also still want him but how do I become less insecure regarding him not talking to me so often?