<human>: Hi!

About a month and a half ago, I moved in to university 2 hours away from my girlfriend (of 11 months). It is relatively easy for me to get home whenever I want and can see her on weekends as much as I'd like. Although we love seeing each other (we did so every day before I moved out) and going on dates and doing things couples do, 

She, though, has had concerns and mentioned that I shouldn't do so every weekend, as I have a college life of my own and that I shouldn't always miss out on the parties and fun college things every weekend. But, I personally have no issue with continuing what I'm doing.

At the same time though, I still go to the parties on the occasional weekend I stay at college, and in general, I feel content with the way I divide time between there and here. I would continue doing so, although my girlfriend has been expressing concern for me maintaining my ¨college life¨.

This is just the case where it's just a medium distance relationship. It is close enough where weekly visits are actually realistic, but it's much more difficult to be part of their every day life, which still hurts some.

From anyone's advice or experience, however, would it be more beneficial to the relationship to maybe make visits every other week - perhaps if ¨absence makes the heart grow fonder¨? Or would seeing each other 80% of weekends be beneficial since, after all, we did see each other almost every day earlier?

Of course we're both not even two months into it, so the situation is bound to find some sort of equilibrium. I definitely get the concern of still having a college life, and I'll take that into consideration myself. Beyond that, if anyone has any unrelated LDR (or MDR) advice, it's always appreciated!

Thanks a million.

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<bot>: in a medium distance (2 hours away) relationship with girlfriend since I moved to college. what's the best way to manage how often I come up to see her when there are concerns raised by her about still having a college life?