<human>: This is a throwaway for obvious reason.

I will preface my confession with some important facts about myself and my relationship with my wife. I have been married a little over a year now to my wife who I still love, and we have a toddler together(he was born before our marriage). I've never had sex with any other woman other than my wife and we've been together since I was 19. She is an amazing person and my best friend.

I've been conflicted for the last couple weeks and I don't know what to do because I feel like I could just destroy everything in my life. There is a woman I work with who is just amazing in every way, funny, clever, dorky, and pretty. I have slowly been becoming more and more attracted to her over the last several months and now almost all I think about is her. I'm not positive if she really feels the same way but we jokingly flirt all the time and she compliments me constantly which she doesn't really do to others I've noticed. Lately I've noticed I make tons of excuses to go and visit her and I think it's becoming obvious but I don't know how she feels about it. She knows I'm married and have a kid, she's single and about 4 years younger than me.

I don't think my feelings are going to go away and I am getting closer and closer to making a move on this new woman. I don't want to hurt my wife but I really want this new woman. I wish I could just stop my feelings but I can't and what's worse is I feel like this new woman is a better match for me then my wife.

I don't want to lose my family but I feel like I may be missing an opportunity to be a happier person.

Any advice is appreciated.

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<bot>: I don't want to lose my family but I feel like I may be missing an opportunity to be a happier person.