<human>: So what I want to say, bein' in that position myself is... Fuck you all. I have seen at least a dozen of these around, nearly one front pager a month. However, what I *haven't* seen is advice, or any attempts at help. Yes, we want attention. Yes, we are hard to be around. Yes, we're depressed and have low confidence, low self-esteem. You know what **really** helps? Being told by society at large that we're assholes and horrible people. You keep telling us we need to be confident. Ok, how? For fuck's sake! You tell us to be more confident in one sentence and then in the next tell us how pathetic we are. Do you not see how that's feeding the cycle? You, society, are confirming our irrational fears. No you don't have to be our care-takers, but it would be nice, for once, to see someone say something helpful instead of just getting mad and telling us how pathetic we are. 

I'm not asking you guys to sugarcoat it, or say that you shouldn't confront people about this behavior; what I **am** saying is don't just stop at telling us we have a problem. Please, for the love of God, give us some advice! Even just simple things to help for the short term until we can work on a long term solution. Not all of us can just up and go to therapy whenever we want, believe it or not. 

I can't speak for everybody... but for me? I'm fucking *miserable* like this! I want to change, I really fucking do, but I have no idea how and *no one* will give any kind of help!

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<bot>: Don't tell us we need to improve, then knock us down. You can complain, but please, if you want the behavior to stop, HELP US GET STARTED IN CHANGING.