<human>: My boyfriend (28M) and I (25F) have been together for 2 years. I would describe our relationship as a good and healthy one. We have our disagreements and arguments, but they are solved quickly because we communicate with each other. On to my dilemma. 

My boyfriend has a child (4M) from a previous relationship. I've spent a lot of time around him but respected my boundaries as his father's girlfriend (i.e. He calls me by name/I do not make him call me mom/I do not conduct disciplinary action). His child moved away with his mother a little over a year ago and he wants to be closer so my BF has decided to move. Where we are at we cannot simply make a drive to where he stays, we must travel by way of airplane. Before all this happened I knew he (BF) would like to be closer to him and I accepted that, and decided I wanted to move with him. This was over a year ago that I made that decision.  

Here we are today and are about 1 year from moving. I learned more of what it is like to date someone with a kid. What I do not like is that the child's mother and my boyfriend do not have the greatest working relationship with each other (i.e., she doesn't even acknowledge that he is the child's father/he was sent home with clothes she thought were "used" (they were new) and said she didn't need "hand-me-downs), and even went as far as coaching their son to make sure to tell me that (the child) doesn't like me and other hurtful things. My BF doesn't try to cause any drama that I've seen, only to defend himself when she throws her attacks.I love my boyfriend very much and would definitely like to start a life with him, but I don't know if I can handle a crazy mom and the drama she gives my boyfriend. I really believe the only thing keeping me from really wanting to go is him having a kid and his crazy mom. 14 more years is a long time.

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<bot>: Boyfriend wants to move to be closer to his child. Made plans to go with him but now want to back out because his son's mom is crazy. Am I being silly, what should I do?