<human>: Hey all, I could really use some advice.  I let my sister recently move in with my wife, son and I after she has been spinning her wheels since graduation. It was my hope that I could kind of inspire her by example as I am a fairly well off and successful person and only a few (8 years) older than her.  She has had issues since she was a kid.  I really think she didn't get enough attention and affection, our parents kind of suck, but it seems to have hit her harder than my other sister and I. For starters she has bulimia. She has been binging all of our food and throwing it up. What is worst is I believe she does it for attention, she is always quick to tell people she hardly knows she has an eating disorder. She left barf in her trash can and made the entire downstairs smell (not an easy feat, house is 3500 sq ft). She has not paid for any of the food she has been wasting. Second, she has not taken her finances serious.  She has less than 100 dollars, bills to pay and has been wasting her money (I'll come back to this). She hasn't taken finding a job serious, I've applied to many jobs for her because I knew she has bills coming due and I refuse to bail her out.  lastly, she met a guy online who lives 100 miles away and has been going there EVERY day for a few days now (remember how I said she had little money?)  This is her pattern, guy shows attention, "falls in love", disaster. One guy cheated frequently, one beat her, one stalked her... Every time I warned her and she never listens.  How do I get through to her?  I told her she has 1 month if she continues to mooch, and 2 if she at least helps around the house.  Chip in for groceries, clean up after herself, do her own laundry.  My thought is she needs to fail to learn, but at what cost?  Advice is sincerely appreciated!

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<bot>: Sister has bulimia, is a mooch, has no ambition, and terrible with relationships.  How do I reach these keeeeds?