<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

I'm getting REALLY bored with my boyfriend of almost a year. He's messy, lazy, and all he does all day is play video games. When he's not playing video games, he's on his phone updating the statistics and general foundations FOR his video games. 

When we first started dating, he was so sweet. All he paid attention to was me. Obviously, that's how every relationship starts out. We just moved way too quickly. We were only dating for about a month and a half before I started staying over ALL the time. I basically lived with him. He had no problem with it, though, and we enjoyed each others' company so much that we just let it fall to wayside that hmm.. we probably shouldn't be doing this so early. We had sex very frequently, we went out on dates, we giggled, laughed, smiled, we were completely infatuated, as per every "honeymoon phase."

I love him, with every single atom in my body. He's the one for me, and I know that for a fact. **I need advice about how to spice up our relationship.** I want to be with this amazing man for the rest of my life. He's the only one I want, but it's just so boring hanging out with him ALL THE TIME. I've been realizing that his little things bother me, and my anxiety gets in the way of being able to just let them go. We've also been fighting a lot more than couples should. It's all about the stupidest little shit, too, like laundry, whether or not to turn the heat up, if the windows should be open and the music we listen to... I need help finding out how to NOT fight with him, because I know some of it comes from me. (A lot more comes from his side, and we've talked about this multiple times, we suspect it's because he's hardheaded and stubborn and doesn't like to reconcile differences, but rather hash them out.)
<bot>: My boyfriend and I fight a lot because we're stuck up each other's asses all the time, I want to know how to stop this. Also, how to spice up our relationship of only a year after it's gotten boring.