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I've been dating a lovely lady for about a month and we both feel a connection with each other that we have never felt before with anyone. She's known nothing but LTRs (>3years each or around there), while I've had mainly short-term flings, usually because my anxiety until recently has made me settle for girls I wasn't wholly attracted to or invested in (or girls with even more anxiety and self-esteem issues than myself). 

But we found each other and it's been fantastic. The big issue is the large transition for me from a life where I've been functionally independent my whole life and never really spent every day with another person before (or stayed over at their place frequently, which also makes me anxious, as I have sleep problems [esp in a new place, let alone my own], running thoughts, etc.) She has been very patient, but worries that I become bored with her, when I've really tried to express that it's more the shift from being used to a life alone to changing to being with another person and the pressure to talk a lot. I try to let her into my stream of thought by sharing things, and am working on better expressing my feelings, but she feels angry sometimes. And tack on the fact that sometimes I feel the only ways I can express my affection are physically (I've been seeing a therapist to work on that, which has helped much). 

So, similar folk, how have you handled the transition from living independently to life in a LTR where you now have this new person you've let into your habits and routine?
<bot>: New gf, new experience having someone around a lot. Curious about the transition process from previously living highly independent and left to my own thoughts/introspection.