<human>: Posting from phone. Throwaway but I might show this to my wife.

I'm a super insecure person. I feel like I'm a burden to everyone around me, and I'm constantly feeling like people are just trying to get away from me or are talking bad about me.

I compensate for my insecurity by being controlling. I tend to get really jealous of people who take attention away from me, and try to steer conversations away from them. And I can be super nosy and in peoples business (where I dont belong) to make myself feel important, or to reassure myself that people arent badmouthing me. If I get limited information, I tend to obsess over it until I get the full picture (if someone says "I heard someone talking about tou..." I constantly push the conversation back to that to find out everything they know). 

I'll spare the details because it doesnt matter. Point is...

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: I recognize I can be controlling because of my insecurity, and I need to know how I can get better about it.