<human>: We've been together 4 years and married for 1. 

When we first got together, I wanted kids 'someday' and my wife didn't want kids at all. After a couple years, as we got closer to marriage, she did some soul searching and decided she also wanted kids 'someday.' So we got married while on the same 'kids someday' page. 

In the past two months, my wife has gone from wanting kids 'someday' to wanting kids 'right the fuck now.' I am still in the 'someday' column. 

This is causing major problems. Now, every time she sees a baby or a pregnant woman, she has a meltdown and we have a huge fight. We are seriously having 3-4 major fights a week, and they're the same fight. She gets mad cause I don't want a kid yet. I get mad because she's pressuring me. We both get even madder. It might blow over the next day, but then she sees a baby again.

I understand there are age-related considerations, and I definitely do want kids. I just don't want them right now. I want to travel more. We just bought a house that needs fixing up (i.e. time and money). My job situation is a little precarious at the moment. I'm not asking her to wait 5 years or anything, but another year doesn't seem unreasonable when we were both riding the 'someday' bus in February.

The fighting is so bad that if I were to agree to have a kid now, it would just be to stop the fighting. I'm not sure that would be a good idea. Plus its making me doubt the relationship itself. 

I don't really know what my specific question is. Maybe: Am I an asshole? Any advice would be appreciated.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: Both got married and wanted kids someday. Someday has come for my wife, but not for me. How can we resolve this?