<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

Just really need some advice on how to deal with my ex.

We were together for 5 years, lived together for 4 months, I ended up moving back in with my mom and after 3 months broke things off. 

It's a really long story, that I pretty sure y'all could care less about but in the end he just pretty much neglected me and my feelings.

Now my issue here is that, I've been able to move on. But I know he hasn't, I've seen him twice since we broke up. I wish that we can still be some kind of friends because I really do care about him and love him obviously, but I feel like giving him my attention just makes him think there's still a chance for him to get me back. 

Couple weeks after I broke it off he would text me all these things to try and get me back, and from what I hear he took our break up pretty bad. For a whole week straight he stayed drunk and high, which I really didn't enjoy hearing. 

My problem is how do I approach him, and let him know he will always have me as a friend with out him thinking that I'm still interested. I've come to realize if anything he was holding me back from having a good life, and I'm happy with where I am at. I am dating and having fun with friends and actually got a promotion at my job. 

He on the other hand, lost pretty much everything and is living with a friend and really has no plans to better his life. 

Is there anything I could do to fell less guilt about being able to move on and be happier without him? What about him, any advice for him?
<bot>: can't help but feel guilty about being happy and being able to move on after a bad break up, while he has nothing and has no direction in life. Any advice for both parties?