<human>: Hey y'all. So, I have an issue. My biological aunt's husband has three sisters who I grew up calling aunts. They are wonderful women with wonderful husbands, except one. My favorite one of them has an awful, mean husband and idk how that even happened. She doesn't even like him much and is embarrassed by what an asshole he is, but you know holy matrimony and they have a son so she's staying with him, sadly. He has been mean to my FH intentionally to his face since he was 16 years old. A child. He picked on a socially awkward child, and almost made my FH give up entirely on meeting more of my family. He is still rude to him to me and my aunt and I give him shit for it, but he never listens. So the dilemma is FH refuses to be around him, which I think is 100% fair. I will not make him suffer his company, because that's being disrespectful to him in my mind. He never respected him, me, or our relationship. But I want my aunt there. What do I do?

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<bot>: aunt" has asshole husband, FH and I refuse to have him at the wedding (he'll be snarky and rude to us even at the wedding), but I want her there. What to do?