<human>: I recently started renting my first place that is significantly closer to my new job. When I ask my BF if he would like to move in with me he dodges the question. We have talked about living together before, but when it comes down to it he's not ready. The only thing he has said is that I am not thinking about how far he would be from his family and job. It is only an additional 10 minutes for him to commute to both. I just don't understand the problem. We have been together for 5 years, I don't know where to go from here. Is this a bigger issue than I think?

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<bot>: BF of 5 years no longer wants to move in together, once I have already started renting. Is this a bigger issue than it seems?