<human>: So long story short, my girlfriend is still in college, and I have graduated and found a job in New York. I'm moving on Sunday, and a few weeks ago, after some serious talking, we agreed to long distance.  

Everything has been going great, I've been visiting her all the time at school, and we've had maybe one fight that wasn't too serious. However, over the last few days, she's been kind of distant. It seems like it's coming out of nowhere because she had been acting fine before. She told me yesterday that she's been annoyed with everything I do, even though I'm not doing anything wrong.An example of this is she said she got asked to a dated, and I told her she could go and she said she feels "trapped" by being with me. However, whenever we have taken breaks or have been distant, she claims that she always wants to be with me because she loves me, even though she says she hates relationships. 

Now she is saying that she wants to wait for me to move and see if she's comfortable with it, and we can be committed. Now, I think this is completely dumb, but she says I can't change her mind. Should I go ahead and give that option a shot, or should I just end it? I love her and I'm fully committed to her, but I feel like she's essentially breaking up with me without actually breaking up with me. She's even said that she's been short on her texts to create distance so when I leave it will be easier for her. She also has said that she wants to be my "best friend and keep talking to me, but doesn't want to commit yet if it's all going to be for nothing." I'm sort of taking this as a she wants to do what she wants without feeling guilty about doing it. I'm going to see her tomorrow, and she's offered for me to stay the night, what should I do or say to her?

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<bot>: got a job out of state, girlfriend agreed to long distance, now changing her mind and wants to see how she feels when I move to actually commit. What should I do?