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Hi RA,

I've been seeing a wonderful girl for about 4 months now. We are very much compatible emotionally and socially, having good conversations and plenty of shared interests and hobbies.

We have both been in serious relationships in the past, neither of us are virgins and we both agree that sexual compatibility is an important aspect of a successful relationship.

Here is where my conflict arises. As it stands now, we have done nothing more than kiss each other, sometimes passionately, but not often. I am the one to initiate contact 100% of the time, and attempts to move things forward are met with significant resistance.

I have told her that I am concerned that there is something not right with how things are going, and trying to encourage conversation around the topic usually stalls. She explained that her last serious relationship got complicated when sex was introduced, because they were both in university, so when they saw each other (once a week) it felt like sex was an obligation, and that they lost a lot of the emotional connection that they had made.

This is a fair point, and one I understand; however, we are both adults, spend on average 3 nights a week together and have both shown genuine interest in this relationship being a long term thing.

I am concerned that at this point it is obvious that we are sexually incompatible, as I am at a point where I am ready to move things forward, but I am still seeing a lot of resistance on her end. It makes me wonder if I should end things now, before we do make that physical connection because it would be a terrible thing for me to have sex with someone knowing full well that we are incompatible physically.

Can anyone offer any insight? I want to have another conversation with her on this topic, but am unsure on how to bring it up/what to say.

Much apprecaited!
<bot>: Girlfriend of 4 months is worried sex will ruin relationship. I am worried that we are sexually incompatible as a result.