<human>: (Posted under a throwaway for obvious reasons)

Over the past few weeks I've gotten to know a girl, and we were effectively in a relationship - not "technically" due to holding off getting into anything too serious right away for various personal reasons, but close enough. Everything was going perfectly fine, until a few days ago she started freaking out on me over the phone and I wasn't sure why, and she told me to never talk to her again - basically, I got the "you know what you did!" treatment. At that point, I figured I'd give her a day to calm down enough to the point where she'd talk to me about it.

As it would turn out, she's under the false impression I cheated on her, even though I *haven't*. It was over a day before I learned what was going on via a mutual friend; she still won't talk to me, and she's blocked off virtually every form of direct communication I have with her.

To complicate things further, it sounds like the source of this is one of my roommates. My friends and I basically had to hunt him down just to talk to him (he was avoiding everyone), and I confronted him asking what the heck was going on. According to him, he was venting to one of her friends about other stuff (there's been a lot of drama going on with relationships lately), and he said he's not sure what exactly happened, but he *swears* he didn't say I cheated on this girl. I asked him to try and clear up this misunderstanding, but it's been a day and nothing's happened...

I've been absolutely miserable the past few days. At this point, I've given up on her ever even talking to me again, but at the least I'd like to get my name cleared. Any suggestions? Anyone have a similar story? Any recommendations with how to cope with this situation (i.e. avoid even more drama)?

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<bot>: Girl thinks I cheated on her even though I didn't, it looks like it's some huge misunderstanding caused by one of my roommates, what should I do?