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So this has been going for about a month now, I say S/O because with work and everything there is huge pressure from co-workers getting involved in our relationship and turning it into drama (we work in a small staffed bar)

The one thing ive realized is that work relationships fail because (for me at least) when you start to form a connection with someone you want to talk about it.  When something is new and exciting to you, its almost like you are on top of the world, and you want to announce to the masses your newly found/temporary state of emotional bliss.  This cannot happen for us because workers will become involved in our affairs, and the last thing I want to do is create an uncomfortable work environment.  

Also, she is 21.  I know that shouldnt matter but with my experience in life (been in a few long term relationships that lasted over a year, one lasted 4) I feel like I am a very based individual and not afraid to be hurt.  I also act very rationally.  For her past, its a few "assholes" who have treated her like shit/not appreciated what they had going.  I understand that this is from her POV too, and the details are probably a little biased.  

So what im asking is this; if I truly am developing concrete feelings for her after getting to know her (I am) is there any way that a relationship can survive this type of environment?  What have you (redditors) done in the past to make a situation like this work, or did it all just blow up in your face?  I feel like since we are in the food/bev industry this happens A LOT, and im betting a bunch of you are servers/bartenders/cooks/etc.  What did you do? Was it worth it? What complications did you come across and how did you sort it out?
<bot>: Food/Bev workers of reddit, how did you overcome the challenge of dating a co-worker you interact with constantly on a daily basis, or did it all just blow up?