<human>: I (M23) have been dating my girl friend (F24) for 6 months now, and I'm starting to notice I don't see a future with her. 

Our life goals are different. Although hers ideas are more realistic, I don't want to have a cookie cut lifestyle. She wants a cookie cut house and I want to be free of that and want to rent or live in a tent. I try to be minimalist. She thinks im scared of having a successful future. 

On top of that, she always has a passive judgment like, "our hair is getting long," or "I always wanted a bf with a beard." (I can grow a mean beard btw) I got new bed sheets for no reason!! I have big family and social group, and I cant hang out as much as I want because she will get upset(i can understand that she wants more alone time) Things like that that irritate me. I am bored with our sexlife. And I have become lazy because she doesnt have the same sense of adventure or spirituality.

 I dont want to discredit her. She is a great person. She is good to me. My friends and family love her (they have noticed me not being around though), but I dont know if I can bear being suppressed. 

Is this me being selfish? She cares about me a lot, so I fear hurting her if I leave her. id feel bad if I did leave if I didnt give her a chance. Need advice please.

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<bot>: Thinking of leaving gf. Don't see a future. Different ideas of happiness. Feel a bit controlled and suppressed. Need advice.