<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

My boyfriend has a ton of pet peeves. Some of them are little, but some of them are very frustrating. I know I need to talk to him, but I wanted help I do not want to break up with him, so if that is your advice please don't leave a response. That's not a solution. Little things like he doesn't like how fast I eat... we got wings the other day and we had to get boneless ones and eat them with forks and cut them up. If I had like a wing on my fork and took several bites, although spaced between, he'd get mad at me. I snapped at him and said, 'let me eat it however the fuck I want' but he still didn't budge and continued to tell me how to eat it. We've been dating for over a year now, and it seems like food related things are his biggest pet peeves. I've learned to eat slower, not talk with food in my mouth, and put my fork down between bites. I wasn't a neanderthal before, but apparently I did everything wrong... Can I have some help on how to talk to him about these things without attacking him? I want to talk about it, but I'm worried it'll come out wrong and I don't want to yell at him.
<bot>: I need help talking to my boyfriend who keeps wanting me to change to what his idea of appropriate is, especially pertaining to my table manners.