<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

Basically this is my first actual relationship and it's been going on for about 4 months now, and I'm starting to feel really stressed out all the time. It all first started on halloween last year. We kinda didnt know each other too well but i really enjoyed being around him, he was really kind and sweet but now it's just not really the same. 

Whenever we went out i always had a really good time and everything was enjoyable but we really don't do that anymore. he keeps wanting to buy things for me, pay for things for me, honestly do anything. he wants to change his entire lifestyle for me and i'm not really liking the idea of that. before i met him i was planning to move out of town with some friends and he brought on the idea that he wants to move out with me and again... not really cool with that idea. 

Im just scared at this point because i feel like if i leave his life is going to get wrecked... he's not really financially stable and not very smart with his money and he moved out of his parents already. he doesnt have a vehicle and not a really reliable place to stay. ive tried being available to him and tried to help him as best i can but i just don't think its working. this relationship is causing me a lot of stress, and i don't know what to do and i don't know who i can talk to about it. 

like right now, i'm quite a few states away from him visiting my very sick grandfather who doesnt have much time left. he texts me as i'm on my way to the airport and that hes going to see a counselor. about what? i dont know. just as i get off the plane he tells me he flung his phone, shattering the screen and ended up breaking a pair of really nice sunglasses i got him. adding to the stress of probably losing my grandfather soon.

I feel like everytime I go somewhere without him he just makes pretty poor decisions and I worry about him a lot but i just don't think i can do this any more.
<bot>: don't really feel the same about my boyfriend, really stressing me out, wants to change himself to adjust to me and i dont really want that, scared to leave him due to his financial/mental situation.