<human>: Me and My friend have been close for 3 years and during that time we've helped each other for bad relationships (on both parts) as well as family issues. I would consider her a sister as well as a friend. 

The only problem I'm having is how to broach the topic of how she goes about finding a relationship. I'm not trying to control her life at all and if all she wanted was hookups i would support her 100%. The problem is she wants a relationship but acts like she's just a hookup with the guys she goes out with. 

She'll meet a guy, they'll have a nice conversation over text, skype and the phone and then go on a date. But when she goes on the date they have sex right away. Then these guys don't want to talk to her again unless it's for another hookup and it crushes her. 

I don't know the most respectful and tactful way to tell her A) she's picking guys that only want a hookup in an effort to change their mind. and B) That the way she acts on their date, makes these guys think that a hookup is what she wants also and so they don't pursue a relationship with her.

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<bot>: My friend goes about getting into a relationship in the wrong way and keeps getting crushed, how do I tell her that what she does on the dates plays a part without hurting her too much?