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I've never been one to make more than few really close friends. I don't know why, probably a combination of being shy and always having school or work or something.  Anyway, as a result there are only two girls who I would feel comfortable asking to be a bridesmaid at my wedding. My FH worked with one of those girls and doesn't really care for her, and there is no way I would ask someone he doesn't like to be at our wedding let alone in it.  So I decided just to have a MOH, my best friend since high school, and I was/am fine with that. 

My FH is going to have one of his brothers be his bestman. We tossed around the idea of me asking his sister to be a bridesmaid so he could have his other brother be a groomsmen, but decided against it because a) I didn't want to deal with people asking why all of his siblings were in the wedding and none of mine were and b) she just announced her and her FH are having a baby a few weeks ago. They couldn't agree on how far a long she was (she said 6 weeks, he said 8) so she would either have just had her baby or would be about ready to pop.  Either way it would not be convenient or comfortable for her, so we nixed the idea of asking her and went back to just a MOH and bestman. 

Here's my problem (?). Basically,  I'm fine with just having a MOH, FH is fine with it too. However, whenever we tell anyone (I.e. photographer, minister, etc.) they look at us like we're insane. Is it really going to look that awful? We will only have 30-40 guests (40 if everyone comes, 30 realistically), so I thought it would be okay. Also, I think my MOH knows but I haven't specifically said anything yet. Should I? It wouldn't make her change her mind, I do know that. 

Anyway I guess I'm just asking for y'alls thoughts. Have you seen weddings with just a MOH and BM? Do you think it's weird?
<bot>: We're only having a MOH and BM. People have been acting like they think it's really odd. I'm just looking for any opinions or stories y'all may have.