<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

I am sure this might end up as a controversy but I am genuinely curious.  I do not want to come off in the wrong way.  I am 32 years old and my company is becoming very successful.  I am a generally a humble person but I am looking to buy a nice home (I live in LA so prices are high compared to most US markets).  I am wondering if a woman I am dating would be upset if I hid aspects of my wealth.  I know the woman that is right for me will be humble as well but how can I know if from the beginning she sees some extravagant things?  Should I buy an investment property too and "live" in it for awhile until it seems like my partner is ready to see the rest?  I feel like this is living a lie and then creates future obstacles/walls that might not come down.
<bot>: Successful company... want to buy a nice home... humble... should I live in a humble abode instead of buying a nice one?