<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

Ive been with her for almost 3 years. The problem started when we started to fight over the phone and she would begin to scream on the phone where they could hear her, i get pretty mad when she does that actually. I don't get why she can't step out for a second to talk. 
Anyway, I guess over time it accumulated and her mom doesn't care too much for me and I'm sure her dad doesn't like me. Her dad is really stern, doesn't speak much English. I don't like being around her house when he comes from work. As I expect he'd want to be with his family after a long day at work. If he's off and I'm there, which is rare, i can't be in her room, door open or not. 
Her mom is sweet, strict, and kinda difficult to talk to sometimes. Her English is a little rough too. 
Most closest moment we had is when she would be at the gym we're both members of and i train her a little. That happened like twice. 
So I'm just not sure if I ever impose during family time or if I'm in the clear. Overall I'm just confused.
<bot>: my gfs parents don't care for me cause of loud fights over the phone, how can I change their opinion of me?