<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

My fwb and I used to date 5 1/2 years ago(I was 18, he was 17). He's the guy I lost my virginity to and vice versa. We broke up twice: first time his mom influenced him to do so and the last time, I broke up with him for the hell of it (Yea, I know, I'm an asshole). He put some nude pictures of myself up online for my entire high school to see and we never spoke again until this past August.

Flash-forward to now, we're really close, and I mean it's like we're dating but without the title (ex. sexy time, cuddling, holding hands,  date, comes and picks me up if I need a ride at 2 am, holds my hair back if i throw up, etc.) He comes over every day (or every other day) and he's brought up our previous relationship, not me. He'll bring up the "Remember when's" and he told me he cares about me. Problem is that I am divorced (almost 2 years) with an almost 4 year old daughter. He has never met her and I told him if we ever date, he and I would have to be super serious (ex. moving in together etc) before he was to meet her.

Last Friday, I got really drunk (I never drink) and he came over for some sexy time. I instead decided to word vomit everything I've been feeling for him these past few months. (I've actually thought about it beforehand, and I realized that I've never fallen out of love with him, again I know I'm horrible) He, again, told me that he cares about me a lot, but if I didn't have my daughter, then "if you didn't have your baggage the odds of us together would be far higher" <--direct quote.

My problem is I over read and over think everything. So can someone please give me an outside view of what is happening/what I should do? I really don't want to stop the fwb thing because I still want him in my life, even if it just is as friends, plus the sex is phenomenal...so yea.
<bot>: In love with fwb/ex-boyfriend. Have a kid with someone else and fwb can't accept that. What should I do to get over him, move on, wait it out etc.? Super confused.