<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

So let's start from the beginning. I just moved across the country all alone. (21,F). (Louisiana to Portland, OR). I love it here! 
I started a job at a restaurant and since I've begun there I was immediately attracted to the line cook in the back kitchen. He's not like any one I've ever met and he truly intrigues me. Hes handsome and cool and artsy and.. Well you know. The thing is at first I thought he liked my co worker- friend but actually now I don't think he does. She's been working there for a few months longer than me and he and I have already gotten closer than he and her have in only a few weeks. 
He is always inviting me to go somewhere with him during our work break when we work together and we usually go to sit by the waterside and smoke cigs and listen to music and talk. (Our breaks are about 3 hrs long). We will sit there and talk for the entire time and the last time we did he commented "wow time goes by so fast here when you come with me". Maybe I'm just being over zealous, but does that mean something? 
However, when I ask him to come out with me after work for drinks or something he says he wants to but he's always too tired. He also has another job so I do try to be understanding about this. 
He remembers EVERYTHING I tell him, about my life, about my music preferences, my car, my style, my thoughts and feelings. He's very thoughtful to me. He defends me when someone says something about me bad at work. (I know it's true because my friend told me she overheard him.) he doesn't text me though, unless I text him first and idk if he's someone who usually takes things at a slow pace or not? Maybe I'm just being crazy.
<bot>: so In short summary I need to know if I'm wasting my time trying to win over this guy or if I actually might have a chance with him?