<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

Me and my ex-girlfriend broke up on Thursday and we are both really emotional and really upset about the whole situation, she said it was for the best and was due to us growing apart. last night we had an argument about it because she felt like I didn't care, when quite frankly I felt like I cared more than she did and felt more worse off from the break-up! 

I had previously taken advice from the people around me but that ended up causing more tension between us and that wasn't truly me talking to her. I thought if i'd say the things people suggested then it would mean there was more of a chance of us getting back together. 

I really don't want to lose her, and she is my first love and we even planned to get married and share other future life events. All help is appreciated - Thank You
<bot>: GF broke up with me, didn't want to. Want to get things back because we both seem upset but have the feeling she doesn't.