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UPDATE: She called last night and said she isn't going to go through with it. If there's one thing I've learned it's that you should wrap your soldier in cement anytime you have sex.

A girl I've known for a year or so and I slept together three weeks ago. I'd slept with her before and she'd told me she was on the pill then so I didn't wear a condom this time (stupidly) assuming she was still on it as she didn't lead me to think otherwise. 

She just got in touch to let me know she's pregnant. I called her and explained outright that, for me, I think having a child would be a terrible idea and it would ruin my life. She told me that she'd stopped taking the pill two months earlier as her mother had just died of cancer and the doctors had told her the pill might increase her risk to it. I haven't made an issue of the fact she knew there was a high chance of pregnancy, or the fact that she didn't warn me she wasn't on the pill. If I'd known I'd have done things differently.

She's saying that she "believes everything happens for a reason" and that doctors had told her that she had already had a decreased chance of fertility so she's not sure whether she can abort it because she may regret it further down the line. 

Basically, I have no idea what to do. There is no foundation for it at all and I don't want there to be. 

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
<bot>: Got a girl pregnant three weeks ago accidentally, she is considering going through with the whole thing, I'm not. Help.