<human>: So this is a fairly new relationship: we only became "official" about 2 months ago but we had been pretty much boyfriend/girlfriend for about 2 months prior to that.

Both of us have one major, long-term relationship in our pasts (we both dated people for about 2 years and both broke up with them over a year ago) Both of us are still friends with the exes. 

Right now it doesn't seem to be a problem--we've hung out in groups that include our exes and it hasn't been weird. We've talked openly about it with each other and have agreed that we're both fine with it. We hang out with the exes as friends in groups but we avoid talking about them unnecessarily. 

I always hear that it's a bad sign for someone to be close with their ex--but I feel like it's the opposite. If someone's still friends with their ex, that means that there wasn't some huge falling out that led to the breakup, it was probably a mature, adult breakup.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: My BF and I agreed that it's ok that we're both friends with our exes and it seems fine, but I always hear that this is a bad idea. What are your thoughts?