<human>: Well I am a female, and I love my boyfriend a lot, I'm pretty sure he loves me back. I'm starting to lose my attraction to him, though. His face is actually quite attractive, but he's overweight. I feel so shallow for starting to dislike it so much. During sex I can't look down and try to avoid certain positions so I don't really have to see it.

In a way I've talked to him about it, I didn't say I found him unattractive I just asked why he didn't want to lose some weight in the nicest way I could. He said if he lost weight he'd become a douchebag and all egotistic. Sometimes he says "No way, my weight is a part of me!" I don't want that, but...I don't understand why losing weight would make you change. I didn't ask for washboard abs.

I'm at a loss, I'm in love with him and I couldn't break up with him, he'd fall to pieces.

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<bot>: Boyfriend is overweight, hence I'm losing my attracation to him, don't want to end it because I'm in love with him and would feel shallow, no idea what to do.