<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

Been together 3.5 years.

My g/f is very family oriented, I am not. I've talked about moving to LA for a career, and that's far away from hers and my family; we don't know anyone there.

I want to go to LA to really go for my dream job of being a professionally working actor (don't need fame or fortune); I've just been in school for the past 3 years to hone my skills before the move and I graduate soon.

Moreover, I don't want kids in the next couple years, but she does, understandably due to her age. I'd love kids later, but I don't want them now if I'm going to be living meagerly and working long hours for the next 3-5 years while trying to land steady work.

She's concerned she would be extremely lonely since I'd have to be away from home a lot and on top of that she hates LA; she used to live there. She's also concerned that she would be like a single mom if I'm out of the house so much, if we were to have a kid in the next year or two. On top of that, she wants to be close to her family if she's going to have child #1.

I'm concerned I won't have the opportunities that I could if I have a child and have to stay at home. I'm worried about having enough money to feed and raise the child if I'm trying to get into a difficult career (please don't make comments about acting if you don't actually know what you're talking about - I know the statistics). I'm most worried about these two things: 

1) She would hate living in LA and I feel like she'd turn that hate into a bitterness for me on some level. 

2) If we're going to have kids, we have to in the next couple years, and that would seriously limit my ability to go for my dream career.

So, Reddit, overall it seems our long-term wants are opposite from each other - does that mean we should break up and move on?
<bot>: Our big wants: She wants kids now-ish and to stay living where we are, near family. I want a career far away and kids later. Are we doomed to a bad future if our wants are so different?