<human>: I've posted before about my boyfriend. In the end I just could take anymore. I couldn't take not hearing from him for days at a time after I'd told him it hurt me, and I couldn't deal with him not answering my texts when I tried to reach out, and I couldn't deal with not seeing him all week because he was "too busy" even though he found time to go out with his friends *numerous times*. I couldn't deal with being hidden on Facebook, and not meeting his family when they visited, and told what not to talk about at bars because he didn't want me engaging in certain conversations. 

I broke up with him on Labor Day. I had seen him Thursday after not hearing from him for two days, I told him it hurt my feelings. Then I didn't hear from him again Friday or Saturday or Sunday even though he had off the entire weekend. I think I got maybe one text from him that I answered and he didn't respond again. I was done.

I didn't want to see him in person because I know I'd either cry, or scream, or he would turn everything I said back onto me. Which he's done before (side note he would also talk about friends that gas lighted their GFs but I honestly think he was doing it to me now that I look back). So I did what I thought was a mature move. I went and got all my shit at his house while he was at work, left a note that said his key was under the door, and I left. 

I told my mom and my best friend this and they were both like damn shipissuez that was really cold. I didn't have this opinion at all. However, I also haven't heard a peep from him since I left the note? So strange to me! Maybe I really upset him, or maybe he just didn't care? He also hasn't deleted me off Facebook. 

Do you guys think I was too harsh? I thought I was being mature by avoiding messy shit.

Provide a brief overview of the text.
<bot>: I broke up with my boyfriend by getting my shit while he was at work and leaving his key. Was I too harsh?