<human>: A little background:

When I left high school I lost touch with a good number of my friends and moved out of the area. I moved back to the area a few years ago and made new friends who I later learned were connected to my old group of friends and thanks to Facebook/social media we've since reconnected.

When it comes to romance I was a VERY late bloomer; I was a victim of physical and psychological abuse at the hands of my grandmother and as such this created for me some emotional hurdles that I had to overcome. I didn't date at all until I was 22 and even then wasn't successful for a few more years. I have never been in/can't see myself now becoming involved in a committed relationship and make this very clear. I still have great difficulties understanding when women are interested and will talk myself into believing they are not when in fact I'm confident (and later learn) that they are.

Since I have reconnected with them every single one of my friend's girlfriends have made explicit advances towards me. Every. Single. One. I have the text/Facebook messages. In some cases they've hinted at this in front of their boyfriends (my friends.) It's already cost me two friendships I had no interest in losing because dudes became jealous.

I have not had any kind of sexual activity with any of these women and am not attempting to encourage their affection-I just want to have friends like anyone else does. I have no idea why this is happening-I am not particularly attractive, and while I make a good deal more money than most of my friends (I went out and got a job instead of sitting at home drinking and doing drugs in my 20s) I'm far, far from well-off. Can someone tell me why this might be happening and what I can do to stop it?

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<bot>: Reconnected with friends after not having seen them for years, all of my friends' girlfriends are now making advances towards me.