<human>: A couple months ago my wife found out that I cheated on her. She found out about an affair I had a couple years ago. Around the same time I admitted several more brief affairs. We separated and started to move towards divorce before she decided to take me back and give me one final chance. I was a prolific cheater but I'm putting that in my rear-view. I haven't cheated on her since we got back together and I have no desire to cheat on my wife ever again. 

We had been recovering well until recently. For the last ten days (or so) my wife has been in absolute tears over anything and everything. We had gone almost a month with normalcy until this. She is an absolute mess. She is questioning me about everything and doubts that I love her. 

My question is what can I do to help her with her insecurity? How can I help *us* recover? 

Ages/Gender: 34/f - Wife , 35/m - Me

Length of Relationship: Married 9/Together 10

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<bot>: I had multiple affairs on my wife. We are trying to reconcile our marriage and things were going well until recently. Want advice on helping her.