<human>: I've been with my partner for 5 years, and we've lived together for 4 1/2. We're both making compromises and I think I want out but whenever I'm with him at home he's so cute and funny and I want him all to myself. He's very friendly, very social and unintentionally ditches me at parties to talk to all his friends. 

Some background:

I was a big stoner when we met, and so was he. We smoked a whole lot for 5 years and now I've quit but he still smokes in the house. 

I black out when I drink, and should not be drinking. Period. Partner is a heavy drinker (likes to party) and I'm tempted every night. When I do drink, I will finish a whole bottle of wine. Easy. 

My biggest issue is that we rarely have sex, and I've been bringing this up since the beginning of our relationship. (Once every three weeks to once every three months). Sex is also boring.

He's told me his biggest regret is going to community college and taking out student loans. I value education and want to go to grad school.

and... He doesn't read.

Some pros: 

* Lust at first sight (very attractive dude)

* Loves me

* Does the dishes (sometimes)

* Such a wonderful daddy to his dog (who we had to put down a little over a month ago)

* Handyman 

* Humor 

He's a wonderful, nice guy but we don't share common interests. I know I'm being a snotty little brat, but I want some more attention and to be shown off to society.  

Please advise!

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<bot>: Little sex, no stimulating conversation with boyfriend of 5 years. I'm emotional, he's practical. What to do?