<human>: My (20/f) boyfriend (23/m) and I have been together for a bit under a year. I'm going to keep this short.

We have a great relationship. We're very close friends, have good sex, spend a ton of time together and overall are just really happy and in love.

A few weeks ago, I caught him texting inappropriately with his ex girlfriend. Since then he's blocked communication with her entirely. About a week ago, I found out he was texting another girl really frequently. Not anything inappropriate, but texting long messages throughout the day to one another. He deleted her from his phone and no longer talks to her.

I've forgiven him for these things and want to move past them. He swears he's going to do better and I truly believe these types of things are out of character for him and we can be happy. However, I feel myself getting suspicious of him using his phone or talking to girls. Just yesterday he texted a mutual female friend and i felt a pang of jealousy and suspicion even though I KNOW there's nothing going on there.

I do not want to be the type of girlfriend who asks to see her boyfriends phone or text messages or needs his facebook passwords. That whole idea just seems repugnant to me. We both want to move past this, but we don't know what techniques to use to rebuild trust between us and get rid of this suspicion without those drastic measures that I really do not want to explore.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: My (20/f) boyfriend (23/m) has been flirty with other girls including his ex. now I'm paranoid and suspicious and want to get over it without having to see his phone or facebook all the time.