<human>: I'll try to outline some key things.  let me first say I feel that I am completely responsible for how my relationship with my gf of 3 years has turned out so far.  I was a drug addict when she met me.  got laid off from my high paying job. started doing harder drugs. I stole, lied and cheated on her. she stays with me while I go to rehab 2 times.  for this I am grateful.  im finally clean for a year now, working full time and going to school with a 3.8 gpa.  Things have changed.  things about her:  we met she had a good job was in sic shape and seemed like she was in control of her life.  she moves in with me.  is completely co-dependent.  I get her coffee, breakfast, lunch, and dinner.  she has anxiety.  is on a lot of medicine.  can barely go anywhere by herself.  is always angry and yelling.  works maybe 20 hours a week at a job she hates. sleeps all day. has no goals or ambition. she is also sick with lupus and severe migraines.

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<bot>: I cause my gf to get severe anxiety and now I just don't think we are right for each other.  how long should I wait till she gets somewhat better and figure her life out?