<human>: My boyfriend and I have been together (officially) for ~8 months. My bf does suffer from depression and I have tried to be supportive of him. Last week he went home (we're in college) because he "needed to figure his life out" but told me it wasn't about me and he was happy in our relationship. However, I hardly heard anything from him – I was always the one initiating communication and he rarely responded to my messages. I didn't want to pressure him if he was having a bad time but I did start to get annoyed that he wasn't responding to me. So I sent him a message if everything was okay between us and this was his reply:

*I need to tell you something. I felt so trapped in our relationship before Christmas and have no happy memories of then. It's ok now though.*

I told him that was a really hurtful thing to hear when I had spent all the time with him and he just responded that he "needed to say it" and it doesn't matter because everything's okay now. I feel really upset about this and told him this but he thinks we can move forward from it and he does love – though he doesn't seem to understand how hurtful it is. His depression probably has affected all this and I know he was having a hard time at school and so would feel bad if this broke us up when he was just trying to be honest and open with me. I do love him too but he is making me a feel bit stupid for being so upset over it – he is constantly repeating that everything is fine now. 

Is this reasonable thing to get upset over? I feel like I could get over it if he apologized and accepted why it was fucking hurtful to hear but he can't seem to do that. I'm also worried about his depression and what would happen if I did break up with him. Just really needed to get this off my chest but I am not really sure what to think or do and so any advice would be appreciated.

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<bot>: My boyfriend told me he had no happy memories of our relationship before Christmas but that everything is okay now and he want to stay together but doesn't seem to understand how hurtful it was for me to hear.