<human>: I haven't been able to see my bf in about 12 weeks now, despite living only 10 minutes away from each other. Here's the list of reason he gave me
- friends from out of town visited x 2
- sick x 2
- too busy with work
- cell phone died
- no response x 4
- grandma's birthday

We've only dated for a year. He's usually too busy so we only hangout once a week when we first started to now 12 weeks and counting. We used to text everyday but nowaday's its once every week. My friends thinks he probably has another girlfriend now (aka the out of town friend). At this point I'm just too fed up with him and whatever reason doesn't matter to me anymore (I mean, 90% of the time that man start treating you badly is because they don't love you anymore, everything else is a sugar coated version of it).

My dilemma is that I want to break up with him in person, but I can't even see him. I asked him on Friday if he's available on Saturday to meet up. He said he would get back to me but never did(basically what happened in the last 12 weeks). We don't ever talk on phone so the best I can do is just text. But I feel that breaking up over text is disrespectful and inappropriate. What should I do?

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<bot>: I want to break up with my boyfriend because he's been avoiding me but I'm reluctant to breakup with him through text.