<human>: I'm 22M, she's 20F, together for a little more than 2 years. We've always had discussions in the past on how we differ in handling things. She can be extremely worried/stressed about what I perceive to be little things (everything needs to be perfect for her - for example, she can absolutely RAGE about her eggs not being cooked right), and on the other hand I'm pretty much indifferent about ANYTHING - this often times interpreted by her as either laziness or lack of caring.

Recently we were having a fairly heated argument on the phone about how I should take more responsibility for things that I'd rather not like to do but should be done (as is life). This didn't sit with me well because I'm the one that has been working full-time for the past 2 years, and she currently is not in school and not employed (past 6 months or so). She accused me of being selfish, for not taking time after work to do so and so, etc. And while I do acknowledge that I don't do too much after work (when I'm exhausted) - I don't feel it is fair for her to say. For me, going to work IS taking responsibility.

This (phone) conversation led to coming to a mutual understanding that we should take a week away from each other to wind down and think.  I'm sorry if all of this is just a big mess and strung together words. I am fairly drunk right now.

Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?
<bot>: Is being indifferent (non-emotional) to most things part of who I am - or is it a lack of taking on life's responsibilities? How do you guys find the energy to do things after work?