<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

I have been hanging out with this madly cute girl. A year ago, we kissed after dancing a night away but that didn't stick. Now we started hanging out a couple of months ago and it's been great. Nothing happened but I am totally falling in love with her. All of her friends started noticing that too. Today was another lovely day as we went on a walk through the city cemetery. But then she tells me she has started to see someone and she has all these trust issues and doesn't know what to do around him. The casual way she told it cut me really deep. I tried to give her some advice and then we walked some more in the winter sun among the graves. She brought a bouquet and we put a flower on the graves we liked best or pitied the most.
Then we went home and just now she calls me and asks me if she hurt me by telling all about her romance. A friend of ours suggested she might have. I lied my ass off, saying we are cool as friends. Now I hurt even more. I feel like cutting all ties but she is part of a big group of people that I see often and work with (in theatre). There must be another way. Help reddit, what can I do to get back out?
<bot>: I did lady things with a girl and now I am considered a lady friend :( I gotta get my scrotum back ): but how?