<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

So I have been with my gf for around 7 months now. She is recently separated and still going through the legal battle and also has two kids with the ex. Kids are 4 and 1.

Lately in our relationship I feel my gf has been cold. She doesn't show much affection towards me and seems to be distant all the time. Being that she has two young kids i know that they are her priority and will always come first however, it seems like I always come last even when the ex has the kids. It's like everything else is more important than me. I know this may seem selfish but I feel that if you want someone to love you you have to respect them and their feelings. 

I feel like i put myself in a situation to step up to he plate for her and her kids and it's still not enough. In this position I already feel like a bystander and with the distance and lack of affection i feel I need to move on. 

What do you guys think. Am i being to selfish or does she need to realize it's not a one way street in this relationship.
<bot>: my gf is being cold, distant, and is not very affectionate towards me. She has two kids and is currently going through a divorce.