<human>: Hey Guys, fairly new to reddit so please go easy, sorry if this is the wrong spot for this or something!

So I've known this girl for almost 2 years. Back when we met we hit it off straight away; she's loud, gorgeous and a bit nerdy. I'm quiet and it worked perfectly for us, she'd talk while I'd listen and respond sometimes. During this time I saw her a few times a week, would have been more but we both study and work heaps.
Anyway, we obviously started dating pretty quickly, and for the first week or so everything was great. Then she started saying she couldn't see me as much because she needed to study. Then eventually she stopped seeing me altogether, we broke up after about 4 months, rarely having actually seen her.

A while after this, we talked again (we work together, we had to I guess) and we became normal friends again after a few months of talking. This includes seeing each other a few times a week again, texting constantly. This time the friendship became cuddling heaps and holding hands as well (we saw lots of movies together) and we were happy doing that. After a while we decided together that we sort of wanted to be together, but we didn't want to date again, so we settled for that. We eventually decided to be exclusive with a sort of label, seeing her a few times a week leading up to this. Once again she started bailing after we became even slightly committed, we drifted quickly and lost contact except for dull work conversations.

Recently it's all happened again, we're good friends again, talk normally and we're very comfortable together. During this time she also told me about all the guys she's had great relationships with since we went out, blah blah blah. I love being friends with her and don't want to lose her, but I'd also like to be more than that, but don't want a repeat. What should I do? Im so damn confused

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<bot>: Girl with mutual feelings, who I see plenty, suddenly can't see me after we get a 'label'. Happened 3 times now over 2 years.