<human>: Hi r/relationships, here's some background on us. We've been together for 4 years, living together for 3, married for 2. Both work at steady jobs. Good financial situation. Communicate well. Rarely fight.

Recently, we had a conversation about our future. Many things came out in that conversation.

*Sometimes, she feels sad about our future, that we won't be able to become as successful as we would like, because I spend too much time on non-productive activities (video games).

I really don't think I spend too much time gaming. In our free time, we work on side projects quite a bit. Meaning, potential ways to make money. Sometimes, especially after a long day at work, I do get on Steam and play something. I think it's a case of confirmation bias, but she disagrees.

*I am not her "ideal" partner, the one she always imagined she would end up with. I am too introverted and "not aggressive enough".

She knew my personality before we got married. Why is it suddenly an issue?

*She's never been "madly in love" with me. She wishes she could be. But, she says that I'm the only person she's ever loved, the only person she could see spending the rest of her life with, and she's very comfortable with me.

This one really hurt. I am completely in love with her. I would give up everything for her if I had to. I thought she felt the same way, but she doesn't.

I feel lost. I feel like our marriage has been based on a lie. When I look at her, I feel only sadness. I don't know what to do. She thinks we can work through this together and we'll come our stronger. I can't even bring myself to touch her.

Am I wrong in feeling this way? Would therapy help? Is it over? I don't know what to do.

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<bot>: Wife wishes she was "madly in love" with me, I think our marriage is a lie and can't recover.