<human>: I'm not quite sure if it's just shyness or if she's *testing* my skills as a partner. I've had this problem with women before, some I can read,  while some are just boggling to me. 

My GF and I have been dating for around 3 weeks now, everything is smooth. Whenever I try to get close to her, it's as if she's purposely thinking of a reason to move away. *Example* - I'll give her a hug, and she'll A. Stay near me or B. Notice one of her friends and run over to them, somewhat ditching me, and giving that *awkward* vibe. I'll blow it off and just walk over to her and stand with her and her friends. I should also mention that I'm a better listener than I am a speaker. When it comes to things to talk about, I'm the silent type. How could I speak to a girl to avoid that?

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<bot>: I don't know if my GF is shy of me, or if she's purposely coming up with reason to avoid my "silence."