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I was raped several years ago and found out months after the attack that I had type II herpes. I was devastated at first but after a lot of research, I learned it's really not that big of a deal. It is what it is and I will have this for the rest of my life - I'm ok with that now.

But I haven't dated anyone or slept with anyone in all that time and I'm starting to want to get out and meet new people and date but I'm really nervous of this being a huge deal-breaker for anyone to love me.

How do I tell him, whoever he may be, what happened to me and that I have genital herpes? And how soon should I tell him? I'm not really comfortable with telling on the first date. 

I just need some advice on how to deal with this.
<bot>: I was raped and contracted genital herpes from my attacker several years ago. I'm ready to start dating but I don't know how or when to tell someone.