<human>: When my wife's mom passed away 5 years ago she decided she wanted to go back to school and become a nurse. My wife took care of her mom before she passed and was extremely depressed. My SO was placed on disability and has been collecting it ever since. 

It was our agreement that after she graduated and found a job I would be given the chance to go back to school. My SO graduated may of 2014 and passed her nclex back in August 2014. Scene she has passed her nclex she has only filled out maybe 10 applications for jobs and even that number might be high. I have done more networking to find her a job than she has just by asking friends and family but she never follows up on the offers even if she applies for the job.

I have tried talking to her about this but we end up arguing about the topic and it goes nowhere. I have suggested we go to counseling either together or separate but she does not want to do that. I feel like she does not care about my dreams & aspirations to better myself and provide for the both of us. She barely wants to take care of the things in our apartment like washing, cleaning and cooking, I feel if she is not working she should be doing this on a regular basis.

 I'm to the point where I resent her almost on a daily basis because all she wants to do is play stupid games on her phone and watch T.V. all day while I work. What can I do or say to her to make her realize that this is fucked up and unfair? Not sure if there is any real advise that will help me but I just need to vent and hear what other people think about this.

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<bot>: I helped my wife get through nursing school and now she does not want to find a job to help get us out of debt.