<human>: Originally posted on AskReddit, I was redirected here. Here's the story: We've only been married less than a few months. It had been several days to a week since the last "release" for a couple of reasons (our relationship has always been strong, it's not because of that). I was starting to feel like blue balls were around the bend, so excused my self "to poop" and took care of business. For me if it gets bad, it puts me in a bad mood and I didn't want that to happen. I haven't had to look at anything in a long time.

Later when I unlocked my phone in front of her, the last thing I looked at was up on the screen. She got really upset, and I immediately lied saying I just look at stuff like that sometimes. Later I told her the truth about "clearing the pipes" and she got even more angry. I said I was just trying to take care of it quickly and not make you feel pressured or bad about it.

She feels betrayed, hurt and considers looking at porn in a marriage cheating. I've tried talking to her about it and she still doesn't agree. I'm not sure what to do at this point, she won't talk to me at all.

What should I do? I've tried apologizing and telling her even though I don't agree, if it bothers her I'll stop, and that she's way more important than any picture could ever be. Of course it ruined the holiday and I feel absolutely horrible about it.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: went to "poop", last picture on my phone was porn, unlocked phone, wife saw, now pissed and silent. Help plz.