<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

Basically my boyfriend and I have had some compatibility issues since the beginning. I feel as if that is normal because no two humans are exactly perfect for eachother in literally every way. However, it has now started causing major issues in our relationship. We both talked and defined the fact that our relationship is almost all sex. Both of us are unhappy with this conclusion. It is degrading on both of us because we will have sex which causes a temporary illusion of happiness for the both of us. Therefore dry spells like my period or vacations tear us to pieces. We're both willing to change but we don't know how to agree using deeper, wholistic levels. We don't want to break up. I love him dearly but I know it's not as much as I could love someone else who fit me better from a personality standpoint. I want to know if it's possible to overcome this and then better the other aspects of our relationship outside the bedroom. Hope this was enough detail!
<bot>: My boyfriend and I realized our relationship is almost all sex and this bothers us. We would both like to change and make other parts of our relationship better. How can we move our love outside the bedroom?