<human>: I have been with this wonderful women for 7 years. 6 months ago we got married. About 2 months in, I realized I had made a major mistake as I am just not someone who should be married. I've finally decided it's time to end things so that she can find someone she deserves.  I've been unfaithful multiple times, have been completely selfish most of the time (putting my career and needs first) and have allowed myself to completely grow apart from her. I can't even bring myself to hug her or say "I love you" anymore because they are both things I don't want to do. I think I (selfishly) checked out months ago and just don't have any feelings left for her. Still, she keeps loving me. It's time to let her find someone who can give her the love she deserves.  

The catch is that she just got a new job and is extremely stressed out over the transition. Should I wait a month until things settle down for her or rip the band-aid off now? I know there is never an ideal time to hear you are being left, but I want to minimize the pain and stress I cause. We don't have kids or pets, so thankfully we only have ourselves to handle. We both make decent money so finances are not a concern.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: I'm leaving my wife, but she just changed jobs and is very stressed out so I'm trying to determine when to tell her.