<human>: I currently live in an old Victorian house that has been divided into 3 1-bedroom apartments. I live upstairs, and the neighbor who I speak of lives right below me on the main floor. I have lived in this apartment for about 1.5 years. The apartments are renovated, however the hardwood floors are original, thus they creak a lot and sound can travel easily.

When I first moved into the apartment I honestly had no idea how easily the sound traveled. I had some work friends over after the bar one night and we made a lot of noise/played music and the girl who lives below me got upset and made a noise complaint (just came up to talk to me, did not call police). I felt extremely bad and apologized, got her a Giftcard to the local coffee shop and gave her my phone number for her to message me if "things got too loud again".

Well... fast forward to now and things have gotten out of hand. As a disclaimer, I am not a party girl. I work your typical 9-5, go to bed around 11pm-12am, I rarely have people over on the weekends. But I now receive at least 2-3 passive aggressive texts per month from the girl downstairs about "noise". Some of these include:

-When I moved my luggage from under my bed

-When my boyfriend slept over and he was snoring

-When I dropped a glass bowl on the floor and it shattered, and I had to use the vacuum at 1030pm.

These are just minor examples. The thing is, I understand the noise travels but I'm getting tired on these texts for "one off" noises that I think are not a big deal. It's getting to the point where I'm nervous to do anything or have my boyfriend sleep over because I don't want to wake up to one of her texts. When we see each other in passing she is always very kind and pleasant, so I don't know how to talk to her without coming off as bitchy or rude. Any suggestions???

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<bot>: How do I tell my neighbor her passive aggressive texts have become too much? Am I the one who is actually being annoying?