<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

Hi there. I'm currently courting a girl long-distance that I met here on Reddit one week ago. It will be strictly an online-only relationship. It will also be DD/lg (Daddy-Dom/Little-Girl), a form of D/s BDSM relationship. I've never been in a DD/lg relationship before (altho I do have some experience with D/s, but that was in-person). I've also never had an online relationship before, always in-person... so that adds to the complexity..

I need some advice, or need to be pointed in the direction of an information resource. Basically, what do I say to her? So far we've been just talking about our days and stuff. I'm not sure what to say to steer the conversation towards being more dom/daddy-like.. I don't want to move too fast and scare her off.

What sort of goals/expectations can/should I set for her? What kinds of rewards and punishments can I use for a long-distance relationship, especially for a LG?

I've been single for a **LOOONNG time** and am new to all of this...

I x-posted to /r/littlespace to get some insight from the Daddies and Little about DD/lg, but posted here as well to get some general dating/courting advice, especially relating to the long-distance aspect. If we were in-person, I'd know what to do easily, but this is new and unfamiliar territory!
<bot>: New to dating online-only, need advice on how to steer conversation with someone over IMs/SMS. Also complicated by DD/lg nature of relationship. Thoughts/advice?!