<human>: I have a plight, redditors. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years, and we have a great relationship. However, I feel more and more like his mother every day. He never helps clean, never offers to cook, never does anything spontaneous like he used to. I have been sick for a week or so, and in that time I had to beg him to clean the kitchen, and even then he didn't really do a good job. The house always ends up destroyed when I get preoccupied with school, work, or anything else that gets in the way. It's really starting to make me bitter, and my attempts to tell him about all of this ends with the typical 'yeah yeah okay I'll help out more'. I know all of this may seem like a minor issue, but I'm starting to think that this could drive our relationship into the ground.

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<bot>: my otherwise great boyfriend is a lazy sack of crap that treats me like his housewife, how do I get him to stop?