<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Breakup advice

I [28M] was in a tumultuous 8 month relationship with a girl [27F] that I considered the love of my life. The up and downs were brutal and often. She would create so much more drama than needed and I ended up breaking it off twice. She is now on an eat/pray/love type trip around the world for the next 4 months (she'd had this planned for about 50% of the time we were dating) and I'm doing my best to get over her.

I'm going on dates, but every girl I date I compare to her. And I miss her - like I said I wanted to marry her. But I realize that though I want her, I want her to be different. I want her not to be so selfish, like a bull in a china shop.

I believe I'll get over it, and find a good girl, but it feels like I've got to come down from Everest and then climb back up it, but I have to find Everest 2.0 first - a daunting prospect.

Sometimes all you need is to have people say things like you are doing the right thing, or you are doing the wrong thing. So that's all I'm looking for here. Tell me I'm right or I'm wrong. Thanks everybody
<bot>: Love of my life is on a long term trip around the world and we are broken up. I'm doing my best to get over it but could use support.