<human>: So I'm 27F and I've been with my husband almost 8 years. Things haven't really been right for a few years now, and I feel that I'm no longer in love with him. However, I have reconnected with a friend from my teenage years and surprisingly everything does feel right with him and I feel like he provides me with the love and feelings I've always wanted, but never felt I deserved.

I've been honest with my husband and we've talked about divorce, what would happen, that I'd be with this guy, and that I deserve my chance in being happy. I've started to work on separating, as it's not fair to either of them to stay where I am when I obviously now where my heart is at.

I tried to change my cell number to a new plan, but it turns out my husband isn't approving it with the company (I'm on his plan right now), though I've had this number for 13+ years so I feel it's mine. Also, he is constantly looking at the phone bill and getting upset or mad at me for talking to the new guy when I've made things pretty clear.

On top of that, we have a 1 1/2 year old son together, so we've discussed what would happen when we split. I'm willing to keep him involved in my sons life, since that it his father, and so is the man I am in love with. However, my husband told me he intends to take my son away from me and has been arguing alot.
I'd love advice or thoughts on this situation as far as what I should do. I've "tried again" with my husband multiple times and it just isn't right, but I feel like I'm hurting him. He's cried to my parents, my sister, and friends and I feel like a terrible person.

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<bot>: i want to be with this other person I've known for years and I'm in love with. My husband has me under constant surveillance and threatened to take my son away from me, what should I do?