<human>: i recently entered a relationship in which my gf[21/f] is bestfriends with her coworker[27/m]. i was informed that when she became single again he came out to her and confessed his love for her. she told him she only saw him as a friend and thats all they would ever be. fast forward a bit and im in a relationship with her. at this point they are still friends even though he shows disdain towards me for her choosing to be with me. this dude always texts her from sun rise to sun set. he's always bugging her to go out and i pay it no mind since she always declines but i found out she agreed to go to Knott's Scary Farm (Halloween themed amusement park with mazes). getting upset never went well in past relationships so i tried not to let it bother me but it kept itching at me so i brought it up. i let her know that it bothered me and she asked if it bugged me because i didnt trust her. i said that wasnt the case but it bothered me that she was going with someone who has an interest in her. she assured me that he knows better than to make any moves on her. i dont believe in controlling who someone can and cant talk to and i tried bringing it up as best i could. am i overreacting? i dont really know how else to go about it, any ideas?

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<bot>: gf has a male best friend who she is going to a halloween theemed amusement park with, got the old you dont have anything to worry about speech. should i get over it?