<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

My girlfriend has blown me over the last over a year we've been together maybe about 10 times, but just as foreplay never to finish.  She never initiates I always have to ask for head, but I perform oral on her without her asking.  Other than the lack of blowjobs we have sex all the time.

I got frustrated one night and talked to her about bjs and she just said "that seems like a once a year thing, like for a birthday or anniversary"..she does have 2 kids and I offered to watch them she did add in "maybe when you watch the kids" and laughed.  Her best friend is married and she has said to me, look how happily married Joe and Amy are and Joe never gets it. 

Last night we were fooling around and she was doing a handjob on the couch and I told her to give me head, she said in the bedroom and then just hopped on me instead. No head :(  

Obviously its pretty important to me and I've been with her this long I feel stupid making a big deal out of blowjobs, but if I'm being honest here this is a dealbreaker because I don't think I can go the rest of my life having to ask for blowjobs and only getting them once or twice a year.

Thanks in advance.
<bot>: Girlfriend never initiates blowjobs and only does them for a couple minutes as foreplay.  Never to completion.  Says it seems like a once a year thing on a birthday or anniversary.