<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

Lately I've felt very annoyed by my boyfriends mother. In my mind, she's very overbearing and controlling. Some examples of this are: she controls his schedule, she still wants him to go out one on one with her (like to the movies) and gets annoyed when he has other plans, she gets annoyed when he asks for rides to friends or my house, she sometimes jokes around and gets him to tell strangers when they're out that she's either his sister or girlfriend, he is worried about spending his own money in case she finds out. She is also almost always late when he asks for a ride to my house and tells her ahead of time, yet she is on time for every other aspect of her life. Not to mention she's very rude to me when I'm over by doing stuff like not talking to me or just generally giving me the cold shoulder. 

Now on the other hand, I'm used to being able to control my own finances, set up my own schedule and making sure it works with my moms. Also, my mom treats me more like an adult and in my opinion, his mother still treats him like a child. So is she overbearing/controlling or am I just used to having extra freedom than usual for my age?
<bot>: boyfriends mother seems to be controlling and overbearing. Is it just in my head or is this normal for a 16 guys mother to behave?