<human>: I've been seeing this guy for just over 2 months, we see each other twice a week, at the weekend we were talking (slightly tipsy) and he was saying how he's scared of a relationship because I'm not going to be here forever (I'm 5 months into a temporary 2 year visa in his home country), he said he likes how things are going and how we are at the moment. He said this totally off the bat, I wasn't questioning him about 'us'.

His friends tell me it's strange seeing him like this with a girl as it just doesn't happen. I think perhaps he has issues stemming from his ex (broke up a few years ago) it was a long term relationship and she cheated. I too have a few issues of my own to do with a previous long term relationship where my boyfriend told me he'd never loved me (after 2 years of telling me he did), which subsequently led to me having a very dark year - alcohol abuse, self harm and I ended up being sexually assaulted.

I'm now panicking after his comments at the weekend, I can feel myself closing off and wanting to 'run' because this is all going to end up a mess and I'm going to get hurt. I've been so emotionally unavailable for the last 3 years, I've ran from every guy that's made an attempt to get me to open up; but this is the first guy I've felt like I can be myself around in years and now he sounds like he doesn't want a relationship.

I'm trying not to over think things, as I had been perfectly happy with what we were, but now I just don't know if he want's this to progress into a relationship at any point in the future and I'm not entirely sure we're even exclusive, I'm 99% sure he's not getting with anyone else, but that might just be circumstance and there's no one else who takes his fancy. Is it clear he doesn't want anything serious to anyone else, should I cut my loses?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: New boy says he's scared of a relationship but likes what we are/what we have right now, which has thrown me. Because of a previous relationship I'm now scared of falling too deep and getting hurt.