<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

So at my school a lot of people are "talking."  I guess that means that two people are good friends that acknowledge they both like each other.  My problem is that I don't know how to get to this stage of talking and would rather just be upfront.  

This girl I know F20 is the best friend of my neighbor, who I'm pretty close with (F20.)  The problem is that she was just dumped and I don't wanna look like I'm only hanging out with her to get with her friend.  

Most people I talk to say they would like to actually be asked out but it seems like the women who say that are just saying that and might wanna do the friendzone thing first in reality.  

Thanks for helping me out!
<bot>: Do people get asked out in college? And the girl is my good friends BFF and don't wanna look like a douche