<human>: We've been together 2.5 years and are each other's first relationships. He lives with his parents and has only worked temp jobs since we've been together. All he seems to take initiative for is video games, guns, and browsing the internet. He says he wants a career in IT, but he only does the minimum for school. He's applied to jobs and gotten a few interviews but got discouraged when they didn't hire him. He says there are too many qualifications for even entry level positions, which is true, but he doesn't take the time to learn things on his own either.

He was extremely depressed growing up and, I think, his parents didn't really push him to be more independent.

He's incredibly supportive and thoughtful. Always thinking of me, surprises me with gifts. We have fun together. I love him, but I feel increasingly alone. I also have depression, and ever since I've been feeling like there's no future for us, I've become a meaner, more cynical person in general. I feel like I've been using him as an emotional dumping ground, like I'm corrupting him, and I'm not strong enough to stop. It's hurting him and making me weaker.

I don't want to be with someone who isn't self-motivated. I'm also not ready to give up yet. Besides getting my act together, what are some things I can do to help him? Should I point him to some online tutorials? IT job listings? Give him half-doses of my wellbutrin? (And I'm only half-kidding, he's still trying to get insurance)

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<bot>: Boyfriend says one thing but acts like life is just fun and games. Should we split up or is there still hope?