<human>: update: had my roommate read over this, he thought I was a bit too easy on myself. I **bolded** certain details he wanted me to add to give a fuller picture.

A female roommate moved in with me into my apartment about a month ago, I think might have had a thing for me at one point. We share the same room with a couple, so it's 4 of us. At first she was really cheerful and seemed cool. **A few days in, I had weed for the first time and accidentally overdid it, I was way too stoned and and my roommates all claim they were worried at how stoned I was because I was zoning out.** She had invited me to cook with her and I agreed, but the next day I wasn't feeling well from the weed, told her I wasn't going to do it.

We ended up having an argument about my flaking, and she used the "you promised" line on me. Now, I take promises very seriously, in fact I never promise anything unless it's already been fulfilled and the other person doesn't know yet. I called her out on it and told her that I never promised her anything, that she was lying. Big mistake. Immediately after this, she put up the biggest emotional wall I've ever seen.

It's been 2 weeks and she skulks around all day, is as un-responsive as possible about anything, deadpan voice, one-word answers, no eye contact, turns away, frequent sighing. She hangs out with friends and has gone out with at least 1 other guy that I know of, I took a 10 day trip which I thought would give her some time to cool off, but after I returned she's the same. **She's also nice to the other roommates, so it's definitely just me.**

There seems to be so much negative energy that I constantly feel like just leaving the house to not be around her. Not sure whether to "have a talk" or to give her more time and test the waters again later.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Flaked on plans with roommate, had argument, roommate has shut down and acts depressive around me. I want her to act normal again, but giving her some space seems to be doing nothing. Should I take a different strategy?