<human>: Hello r/relationships. So my girlfriend and I have been together for around 3 years. Everything is going well between us now after my last post. We don't live near each other because of college. Tonight, my girlfriend went out to a concert with friends that I know. I told her before to be careful and safe.

Since dancing at concerts is normal to do, I told her she can dance with other people but for it not to be sexual or mean anything. She agreed and said she would tell me if she did. She didn't end up dancing with any guy sexually but she did kiss another girl.

Now, I believe that doing anything with another person is considered cheating no matter the gender. She has said multiple times that she does agree with me. Tonight at her concert she kissed one of the girls and claims for it to mean nothing and say to forget it because it's not cheating.

I am very upset and also high so my emotions are running. I told her politely to talk tomorrow because of my current state but ended up having to block her because she kept texting.

I have really strong feelings for this girl and want to be with her but I don't know what to do about this situation. I want to forgive and move on but I also know what she did was bad. I just want some help here.

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<bot>: ! Girlfriend of 3 years went to a concert while in a distance relationship and kissed another girl. Claims it doesn't mean anything and isn't cheating. Don't know what to do.