<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

My bf and I have been together 6 years, live together, we have had our ups and downs but it's mostly been good. Lately my bf has become a lot more independent and confident, which is great (and something I really need to work on for myself) but he seems so blase towards the relationship as a result. He mentioned in a talk we were having that our relationship is about 10% of his life currently. I know at his age he should be focusing a lot on himself, and he has so many hobbies (many that we share) but that hurt a bit. He says that doesn't mean that I am not important to him, it's just that working on our relationship isn't a huge priority for him. He will always invite me places, but lately, most of the time it doesn't seem to truly matter if I'm there with him. Neither of us are really interested in other people romantically.

When I think logically about this it makes sense to me. I feel like I should be following suit, trying new things, meeting new people, but I have anxiety that holds me back. I want to be able to grow and find myself but I keep wondering if this is weird and wrong for a relationship. I know I want to be with him but I feel odd looking at other relationships that are so focused on growth and moving on to the next stages. On the other hand, even if I weren't with him, I wouldn't want to get into a relationship with the same issues of dependency and anxiety that I have now. Is this weird? Should I really just be trying to take advantage of new opportunities for growth and independence like him?
<bot>: BF has grown more independent and a bit blase towards relationship, I still want to be with him, wondering how I can stop thinking about it so much and become more independent as well.