<human>: I met this girl 7 weeks ago. We started talking, and soon enough we were on our third date. She's very quiet, only had one boyfriend, and has a hard time even talking on the phone with me. We're not officially calling each other bf/gf. But we hold hands and have talked about it becoming a title soon. She lives in a city 3 hours away.

She has shared with me that she clearly wants to move forward, but she shuts down any time I want to talk to her on the phone, skype, or anything like that. We do really well when we have small talk over SMS, or in facebook messages that detail more complex feelings. 

What I'm trying to figure out is how to move forward with this. I really enjoy her, and I want to be a good thing in her life, not a stress. So how do I continue to express my desire to connect with her, and not be a stress on her life? I don't want to grow slowly apart because we don't talk and end up having a flop on the relationship.

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<bot>: Soon to be gf 3 hours away is quiet and shuts down when I ask to talk on the phone. Has expressed she wants to move forward, but I'm not sure how to do it without being a stress on her life.