<human>: Reddit, this is a throwaway because I feel pretty lame for asking this and sharing the circumstances. I'm 23, female. There's an extremely hot boy who I've hooked up with maybe 4 or 5 times since June. We don't really know each other, just have kept bumping into each other at bars and clubs, ended up at his place for awesome sexy one night stands. 

Anyway, I think it's pretty much assumed from both sides that we're both very promiscuous/non-relationship people. Usually, it's been I'll spot him, pop up, say hi/flirt and then ask if he'll take me home. If he's with someone, I just wander off, if he's alone, we go have a good time. 

** he has not shown any interest in me --he still hasn't asked for my phone number yet, has never asked me to go home with him, I'm the one always hitting on him**

-we are facebook friends though. Yes, I added him back in the summer, I'm lame. 

but, he's lots of fun and great in bed. It's a nice treat once in a while. Thing is, he took me home for NYE, and in the morning new year's asked me to stay and hang out. I was shocked that he was wanting my sober company, so we stayed in bed all day till 7pm watching hockey/talking about art. Again, no asking my phone number, but he was extremely nice and ignored all calls he got on his cell. 

Anyway, so my question is, I want to sleep with him/spend more time with him ASAP (I've just gotten back from a vacation). Can I/should I message him on facebook to see if we can hook up this weekend rather than me hoping to meet him by chance? Or is that completely desperate and pathetic seeing as he's made it pretty obvious that he's not interested in me? I want to make it clear that it'd be NSA sex since I'm moving to a different country next month.

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<bot>: is it lame (can I) if I ask to hook up with the hot guy I've had a few sporadic one night stands with, even if I know he's not particularly interested in me?