<human>: Typical "I always wind up falling for guys who treat me like shit" story. I can't stay interested in a guy if he is too nice, or too available, or too interested in me. But I **hate** that about myself and I want to change it. I'm getting to a point in life where I need to deal with a guy who is on a similar level as me (mentally, emotionally, educationally, financially, etc.). 

So now there's a guy (me 27f him 30m, both single parents, college degree, good jobs, etc.) who I have a few mutual friends with who sent me a friend request on FB after we commented on our friend's picture (it was football related and we were both ragging on our friend for being a Packer hater). I had heard good things about him from our mutual friends (though we've never met) so I accepted his request. The next day I was signed into chat and he sent me a quick hello message. I responded and somehow we wound up chatting for the rest of the night, into the wee hours of the morning. We did this again the next 2 nights (and a little during the day while at work). We chatted almost nonstop for 3 days. We learned a lot about each other and we both like so many things about each other. We are supposed to meet for lunch tomorrow (our first time meeting in person). 

But now I think I'm losing interest because he's showing so much interest in me. The thing is, I like a lot of things about him, we have a lot in common, and I think we'd be great together if we progressed into a relationship. How do I keep myself from losing interest? How do I change the part of me that keeps wanting to date "bad boys?"

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<bot>: I hate that I like "bad boys," found a good guy, but now I'm losing interest because he's too nice. How do I stop it?