<human>: So, this TIFU happened a little over a week ago.  My wife and I share calendars so that she knows when I am traveling or have major appointments for work or to just generally share important dates around family happenings. I recently found out that I could be traveling for work out of the country and put it on my calendar as "tentative travel" this is there the FU happens. The trip is a couple days after her b-day around valentine's day and over a weekend. I put "Possible Trip" on the calendar with no other explanations. I didn't label it work related or anything. I just put it on my calendar as soon as my meeting finished before I could tell her. She calls my desk (we work at the same company) all excited, "what is this trip on the calendar?". I immediately crush her hopes and dreams because I tell her it's for work. She thought it was a surprise trip for us to go somewhere for her birthday and valentine's day. I had to apologize and now feel I should come up with something big for her this year.

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<bot>: My wife and I share a calendar. I posted a trip wit no explanation. Crushed her hopes and dreams when I told her it was for business. a