<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

So me and my SO [18m] have been together for 4 years. We both live with our parents and have a great relationship together. The only issue is job/money/responsibility wise.

Basically I have no job, the only job I ever had lasted a month, I don't get any allowances from my parents so I'm pretty much broke and my bf usually pays for lunch etc. When I don't have money and occassionally reminds me that he always has to pay for me. I don't complain because I appreciate that he pays for me. I definitely don't mind paying for him if I had money but I wouldn't constantly remind him that it is ME whos pays.

 It's not like I am not looking for a job, as I have been searching for one for the past year. 

We have been together for so long we've kind of lost that honeymoon phase at the beginning of our relationship. I used to go to his every morning every day even though it takes almost an hour to get there. But now, I only go there about once or twice every two weeks. It's just been exhausting now taking transport there and having to wake up earlier than usual. (Ps. I am not allowed to stay over at his). 

Overall I'm a pretty lazy person and don't do many cute little things to impress or surprise my boyfriend anymore. 

Does anyone have any tips to get me motivated to surprise my boyfriend without costing me much? (I'm unemployed and broke as mentioned previously).
<bot>: I am a lazy girlfriend who doesn't make an effort to please my boyfriend of 4 years. Need tips or advice on what to do to make our relationship spark again (without costing too much).