<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

First of all, there are two groomsmen, one groomslady, and only one bridesmaid, so it will look pretty unbalanced to begin with. We're having a fairly low-key brunch wedding at an old hotel. I didn't have a clear vision, and we don't have strong wedding colours (the ballroom is pretty colourful, so we're just doing whites and hint of green here and there), so I figured the groomslady could wear a dress in the same grey as the groomsmen, and my bridesmaid could wear whatever she liked. Now that I see everything together, I feel like I should give a bit of direction, or it will just look messy. We're paying for both dresses, so I'm not worried about my bridesmaid having to get a new dress.

- [**This**] is my dress for now - long story, but this might easily be changing.

- [**This**] is what the groom and groomsmen will be wearing. Their pick.

- [**This**] is the dress the groomslady likes.

- [**This**] is my bridesmaid's prom dress that she would like to wear. It is a gorgeous dress, but I'm also concerned about it looking fancier than mine. Even if I change my dress, I will still be looking for something quite simple, with a vintage feel.

My FH thinks it all looks fine, and has no suggestions. I really have no idea about these things, so I'm hoping for suggestions. Should the groomslady and the bridesmaid be in similar styles or even the same style, just different colours? Would it be okay if the groomslady is in a simpler grey dress, and the bridesmaid wears whatever she likes?
<bot>: [**This**] is what my bridal party looks like so far. Suggestions for the ladies to make it more cohesive? (2 groomsmen, 1 groomslady, 1 bridesmaid)