<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

Background on sex industry job: I informed him of the job when I began it and he was supportive, however, as I continued working it I noticed he was reacting badly and with jealousy. So I quit the job because I could clearly see he wasn't as alright with it as he claimed. 

It has been several years since I quit that job but it seems to be held over my head and brought up during some fights. Especially when recently I found out he had been talking to many women over facebook and texting in a way I wasn't comfortable, including sharing pictures. When I told him I felt it was a betrayal of my trust he keeps bringing up my old job as much worse than what he had done. I don't feel it's comparable due to me informing him of it and not keeping it a secret, and I ended it once I realized he wasn't comfortable with it. 

**Currently:** I have decided to end the relationship due to this issue and many others that I feel mean the relationship is more harmful to both of us than it is a benefit. It's been difficult because we are living together. I approached him about it with the intention of working out the living arrangements (if he wanted to keep living at the apartment while I moved out etc.) he responded very negatively and despite our issues he wants to keep the relationship going. He threatened that if we broke up he would tell my friends and family about my old job, they do not know at the moment because I wish to leave that in my past and a majority are very religious and would not respond very well (I believe). 

So it has been about a week since that conversation and I've been staying with my family for the holidays. I don't know what to do, I don't want my family to know especially because I am planning on moving out of the place I share with him and moving in with a family member.
<bot>: Tried to break-up with live-in boyfriend, he is threatening to tell my family and friends about a sex-industry job I have had in the past, and I don't know where to go from here.