<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

We have been dating for 5 years. When we started dating we both were pretty messed up. We both did hardcore drugs, and didn't have jobs.

Sense we started dating we both stopped the hardcore drugs. I have had a great career, she finished school, and we had a son. 

She has always been very religious (christian) but didn't follow any rules of that religion. Now she seems pretty cultish (sins cause illness). She is watching TV evangelists all the time. She believes every single problems can be solved with prayer and church. She also believes that mental disorders are not real, and you can just eat healthy and pray to get rid of them.

I recently found out that she has Borderline personality disorder (undiagnosed). She is bored with life and has no motivation to either be a stay-at-home mom or find a job. She is often upset at me (daily). She is verbally and sometimes physically abusive. She has self-destructive behaviors, usually going out all night and smoking pot and drinking with one guy or another. She is jealous and untrusting, and very controlling.

Despite having a good job, we have no money (usually spent on all organic food, restaurants, or clothes). We have one vehicle that is jointly owned.

She got me a domestic violence charge. Though it was in self defense. (she got one too, but got lawyer to get hers dismissed).

THE ISSUE. She wont see a psychologist to get diagnosed and treated for the BPD. If we break up she will try and get full custody of our son, and that would NOT be good for him. I do not have the money to just leave or get a lawyer. I am constantly living in fear of the next blowup.
<bot>: Girlfriend with BPD who wont get help. She is abusive and we have a young child. No money, little evidence and no ideas.