<human>: Mostly I feel violated. Reddit is an anonymous forum that I think a lot of people use as a sort of diary. There were a few posts from before we were dating even where I called him clingy and immature. But that was 10 months ago! 

I also posted a month or so ago about an incident that had happened with him when he was blacked out. The post was intentionally vague, and after commenters started to assume the truth and chew him alive, I toned down what had happened to get some less extreme advice. He read this and decided that I had lied/exaggerated when I told him what had happened the first time and that the Reddit story was the real version. Which would mean I had lied to him to just, idk, make him feel horrible. Which was most definitely not the case, I didn't even tell him the full story because it would have killed him. But it was my decision to forgive him and I did, that is not the purpose of this post. 

I've made a new account (obviously) but I'm irrationally grieving my old account :( Has anyone had something similar happen? He seems to think it's no big deal that he went through so much effort to find my account, but I think it's such an invasion. What do you guys think?

I also do feel bad though, I have a tendency to delete good posts about him when I'm mad, I guess I didn't think to delete the bad ones when I was happy (there were only 3 negative posts total) and I feel like his view is so skewed. There were also a ton of posts about past trauma, sexual abuse, rape, eating disorders, etc. that I've never talked to him in such detail or at all about that he never even mentioned. It's like he was searching for something that wasn't even really there and I feel attacked.

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<bot>: Bf (now ex, for other reasons) managed to find my Reddit account, feel violated and angry that he now can take so many private words out of context.