<human>: I've been casually dating this guy and we recently had the "talk" about becoming exclusive. He said that he wanted to be in a relationship but he had been dumped in the past because he is so busy with his music. I told him I was willing to try if he was. The one thing that gets me is that he constantly asks me why I like him or "Why do I like him so much?".. To me that makes me feel like he doesn't like me if he doesn't get why I like him.. But even with his music he lacks confidence and is constantly seeking out appreciation and criticism on his work. His friends and bandmates have talked to me about his lack of confidence. I don't know why this bugs me so much but I feel like when he asks me why i like him and I've given him several reasons even a list of reasons and he still keeps asking me. It makes me feel like he doesn't get it because he doesn't like me enough or the alternative that doesn't involve me but his lack of confidence in himself..

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<bot>: New boyfriend keeps asking me why I like him.. I don't know if it is because he doesn't like me enough or because his lack of confidence overall in himself