<human>: I have a knack for making things appear like problems to myself in relationships/dating, when they may not be.

I've only dated someone for about a month. We have a lot in common yadda yadda all the great stuff.

I may have a bad refrence point in the past, but she just doesn't act as someone whos interested in me. For example, We were both at a convention, she came with her friend. That's fine that she wants to chill with her friend, but I would have atleast hoped for a moment where I could talk to her. And when we were in a group all together, talking, she made no effort to really include me, which I would have done, if the situation was reversed.

That was a week ago. We've talked since then through facebook messaging, but thats it. And that stopped around last tuesday.

From my writing, I may come off as upset, but I am not really. Just a little confused. I know some of you will remind me that she doesnt owe me anything, but I would atleast like reassurance that we're both not awkwardly wasting our time.

I suppose it all boils down to me wanting to ask her if we're still good.

On our second date we kissed, on our third date, we kissed again, but she was hesitant and afterwards said that she's just a very awkward person and would like to take things slow. I have no problem with that. I suppose I have just never come across a person who was like that before. My previous relationship didnt have such problems, and Im beginning to think its because my ex liked me more.

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<bot>: of it is, I would like to tell her something along the lines of "You've been a little distant lately. Do you still want to keep going at this relationship?" Nicer of course, but that's the gist.