<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

My gf[22f] and I [24m] have been together for about 2 and a half years, with an ongoing problem. I'm her hobby. We don't live together, but we usually spend the majority of the week together... a lot of the time doing nothing but lying in bed and cuddling/talking. As much as I love her, I have hobbies and things I want to spend my free time on... I hate coming home from work and spending the entire night in bed talking about my feelings.

Don't get me wrong, its not that I don't like being intimate with her, but 5-8 hours straight of not really doing anything just drives me insane, especially multiple days in a row. 

Its been talked about before, we even almost split up over it at one point. I've explained to her that I want her around, but if there isn't much to do (neither of us watch TV) then I thought it would be a good idea if she brings a book or something else to do so I can get stuff done as well.
<bot>: is my gf not wanting to do anything other than cuddle with me in bed weird? Or am I an ass for wanting my own free time.