<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

Alright, both FH and I are very private people. I have a small, very close-knit family, his is large-ish but not very close. There are 11 people total in both sides of my immediate family, and I always thought I wanted a destination wedding. Now that the wedding is actually a reality, what I would really prefer is to just elope but FH is definitely against it. At first he was also against a destination wedding, because all of his family members wouldn't be able to make it. He's since changed his mind, and thinks it would be okay as long as he can at least invite all of his family members. Sounds great right, except in the time that he was totally against a destination wedding we starting thinking a lot about what we would do instead. Basically just talked about size and made a guest list. Now we're having a hard time deciding just to do the destination wedding because of all the people who wouldn't be there. I'm really torn and he just wants me to be happy so is letting me make the decision. Any words of wisdom from those who made the decision either way?
<bot>: trying to decide between destination wedding and local small wedding, but having a hard time knowing some people we want to be there wouldn't be able to