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We think he was abused in some way, because if we move around he scampers away. When I was living at her house the cat literally didn't leave his hiding place until he was sure that everyone in the house was asleep. After being forced into a car for 18 hours sitting within arms reach of me he seems less scared. But still flees if I walk into the room, often leading to my girlfriend getting clawed. I just want him to know he is safe and i am not going to hurt him. I know he can be cuddly because when I leave my girlfriend sends pictures of him laying on her and flopping on her for attention. But he will never be cuddly when im around. It has been a month and there is 0 improvement. Now im moving into our own place im afraid he will find a hiding spot and disappear forever. (He currently doesnt have a hiding spot in the room he is in. However he does have a safe spot that is "his" we did this because he starts laying on the beds and actually coming out and staying near us when he doesnt have a hiding spot.. but if he does he will stay there 24/7.
<bot>: cat seems like he was abused, hides 24/7 when allowed. But is cuddly only when I am gone. How can I make him love me?