<human>: First: I'm tired of the people of this subreddit thinking every situation is the exact same for everyone. Sure, what he did wasn't ok. I understand that. I just wanted a response other than break up with him and I never got it, so I figured it out myself. But why are people so sure that he will definitely do it again? He is a perfect gentleman besides this one time incident, but no one will believe it. All of our friends who know us in real life say we are the perfect couple.

Secondly: About 3 months ago at a party he choked me. I was being a brat and we were both drunk. We talked it out, took a break, and then decided to stay together. I posted the update here about it and got mostly negative comments. Am I really so completely foolish in this situation? I honestly believe he will never do it again. We have been living together for one year and he's never been emotionally or physically abusive to me besides this one incident.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: You should really read it. Boyfriend choked me once, I don't think he ever will again, and I need some confirmation.