<human>: We've dated on an off for almost decade. We've had good times and bad times. I would say most of the bad times are his fault because of his emotional immaturity and selfishness. I always blame it on us "being young" before and yadda yadda.

So anyway, after over a year we started hanging out again a little bit. We had a few fun times and then we slept together. We both agreed that neither of us wanted a relationship together, but then he started talking to someone else. I called him out as a liar which sparked a whole discussion where he basically said the following:

He likes me. He always though of us as friends. He wants to be friends and see where it goes far off into the future, yet I'm not a back up plan. We should not be sexual together because it confuses things and we have been too sexual in the past.  He mentioned a bunch of compliments and stuff and used that one phrase, oh "I don't deserve you." He said that if we got into a relationship right now, it would be too serious for our lifestyles at the moment. Somethings he said sounded genuine, but I also felt like he was spitting out a bunch of generic crap.

Anyway, the whole situation doesn't make any sense to me. I mean, he's either confused as hell or he's jerking me around. I can't figure it out.

I don't even want a relationship right now because I really can't handle it between my two part time jobs and full time schooling, but he really has a way of getting in my head. He's pushing me away and trying to draw me in closer all at the same time.

I want to clarify that he wasn't actually seeing the girl, but he was talking to her in a very enthusiastic manner. Apparently they are not talking anymore though, because he was not available enough.

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<bot>: I can't tell if he is trying to be friends, string me along, or get me to leave him alone.