<human>: So im writing up a reply about never getting over this girl. We had been dating for 7 years and she broke up with me about a month ago and is already with someone else. And I cant get over her at all, and Im relapsing hard since I heard the news that shes dating someone else a few days ago. 

I realize that I cant get over her because I've taken care of her for the last 7 years. She had a shitty father, and a mother that was dealing with her own issues and emotionally unavailable. I took her from the brink and was there for her 24/7 never wavering a beat. I know this sounds weird but I took on the responsibilities of her parents, her best friend. Someone that would never betray her or stop loving her. I was her stability. 

How do you get over this kind of love? The kind you dont have a choice because its ingrained into your every fiber. I hated her and resented her for breaking our relationship.  But now im... kinda at peace... Im not angry anymore.. and im not resentful.. im not jealous. I feel so relieved im crying...

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<bot>: I hated this girl for what she did to me, but now im suddenly at peace after an epiphany. Whats do I do next to move on? How do I move on?