<human>: All was fine up until 4 days before he broke up with me (Sunday 21st). We saw each other a lot less because of his new job and it's a really good job too. He's set for life. We were best friends and had plans to buy a condo and a dog.

Suddenly, he wasn't answering my calls and being cold through text. He then said "We need to have a chat, but I don't know when I have time" so I told him if he was going to break up with me to tell me. 

He broke up with me over text. Said his feelings changed. 

Found out he has been seeing a girl for a few weeks while we were dating, probably even longer. Sending pictures to each others and probably more, who knows. 

Any hopeful stories of ex's crawling back after impulsively breaking up with you? 

Any suggestions of how I can get back into the swing of meeting people casually? 

I just need some tips and discussion. I'm shocked, devastated, heartbroken, depressed and angry.

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<bot>: I have been super comfortable for 5 years ready to settle down. I need success stories, tips and how to get back into the swing of meeting people .