<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

Last weekend, I went on a first date with a guy I met online. He's not my type physically, plus he lives across state lines (which I didn't realize when I agreed to go out with him), but we had great conversation and I agreed to go out again this weekend because I wanted to get to know him better.

During this week, he has been texting me *constantly*. Stupid stuff, like pictures of his cats, randomly asking what I'm doing. At least 15-20 times a day. At first I didn't mind, and was flattered that he was so interested, but finally I had to explain I was at work and couldn't be on my phone all the time. He didn't take the hint and kept sending texts over Thanksgiving, and I just didn't respond, or responded with one-word answers.

We are supposed to go out for dinner tomorrow night and I have no interest in going. It's obvious he is way more invested in this than I am, and I can't imagine dating someone who spends this much time on their phone. So how do I cancel? I'd rather not make something up but I don't want to upset him. He also knows where I live and I don't want him to start stalking me (he doesn't seem crazy, but after all these texts I'm not so sure).
<bot>: Between first and second date, guy texts me so much that I want to cancel the second date. How do I do it?