<human>: I met my girlfriend on a dating site in late 2011. She added me as a favourite and I liked her profile so we started chatting.

Everything was fine until probably a month after she moved in to my place. She went out with her friends and I went out with a buddy I hadn't seen since the early 2000s.

That night I came home drunk and she said I needed a lesson and it was for my own good. She pushed me sideways on the bed so I was facing her sideways and then wrapped both my legs up in her legs and pulled my body over the bed, and grabbed my hand and pulled it over my back, so only my one hand was free, but I couldnt move it because I needed to put it on the floor so I didn't fall over the bed.

She took the TV remote and hit me on the butt with it until I was red and crying.

Since then she does it at least once it twice a month if we have a bad argument and I am too scared to disagree with her and she threatens to self harm and say that I raped and beat her.

So I don't know what to do. I just go through m life trying not to upset her and agreeing with almost everything she says.

everyone believes she is sweet except her sisters and parents and some other family members. she treats me well in public or around other people and so on.

I have only told one buddy what is going on and he just made a joke of it.

stats...

She's 5 foot 4 and 115 lbs.

I'm 5 foot 7 and 140 lbs.

She is unusually strong because of horse riding though, I dont know how by her legs have hidden strength and her arms are quite strong as well. I could definitely over power her but I am not violent at all and would be afraid of the consequences anyway.

I have started sneaking to therapy during my work lunch break but have not been able to disclose the full facts due to shame.

I need advice. any appreciated!

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<bot>: Girlfriend is hitting and verball abusing me but she is smaller than I am and threatens to tell police that I am raping and beating her and will self mutilate as evidence if I tell.