<human>: This actually happened today, technically. Past 00:00

I am casually having a late night chat with a friend. She is talking about what videos to watch for laughs. I recommend stand-up. Really offensive kind of stand-up. She watches a few and then says how do I find racist jokes or dead baby jokes or rape jokes funny. I said they're rather funny. One can't take these things too seriously, right?

She says but what if these jokes actually hurt someone's feeling. I say then don't watch it. But I do sound defensive. I love me some offensive jokes! We go back and forth on that a while where she says offensive jokes aren't always okay and I say we can't quantify how much offense is acceptable. Once you go down that road, you go all the way. I even end up sending her reddit's choicest offensive archives. Eventually, I get a bit irritated. So we talk about music instead.

While I'm almost preparing to go to sleep, she drops this on me - She got offended because she was sexually assaulted repeatedly as a child. I don't know what to say except "Fuck.. I am so sorry." She says it is okay, I didn't know etc. But I feel like such an asshole. Apparently, all her friends know and it was just me who didn't.

Can you provide a brief overview of the text?
<bot>: I defended rape jokes to a rape victim friend. Almost an hour. Sent her rape jokes. I am the only one who didn't know.