<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

I am way over thinking things as I usually do.
She just came back from a week trip/vacation and over the weekend her grandfather passed away.
I spent the night at her place the day she came back (family member passed away the day after)
I haven't seen her since and her texts are short responses.
The texts that I've sent are very few just asking her how she was doing. 
She replies that she is sorry she has been distant, she hasn't slept much or eaten much, and yesterday she ate a lot of food and downed a whole bottle of wine by herself because she is depressed.
My response was that "I felt sorry that her family member passed away and that I was there for her if she needed me. I told her she didn't have to apologize because I understood. I offered to com over to her place to comfort her, but she declined and said she wanted to be alone."
I want to help her with the grieving process, but without coming off as clingy or selfish. I texted her today to see how she was doing but no response. I would happily give her space, and that's what thinking of doing.
I don't want to lose contact with her because she is really great and I like her a lot. I am slightly worried about the drinking, I don't know her very well and I rarely drink alcohol so I don't feel comfortable about her drinking while she is sad.
Any suggestions are welcome. I don't want to overload her with messages or say something idiotic. I'm usually calm and down to earth, but for this it seems that I am very anxious and very stressed. I understand it's not about me.
Being able to quiet my mind might help me help her.
This is my first time posting to this subreddit.
<bot>: I need help with consoling a Death of a family member to a girl I started seeing with out ruining things between us.