<human>: We have been good friends for years and helped each other through our own relationships, been supportive and given advice when it was needed. This time I need help helping her. She was assaulted while drunk last weekend and has blamed herself for letting it happen.

She has always been the outgoing type, is smart, and can draw the attention of most guys she wants. She is in a committed relationship, and she feels terrible about the event. She has so much potential and I don't want to see her lose out on good relationships because of bad people.

How do I bring it up to her in a supportive way while at the same time having the impact stick to initiate change? I don't want to use ultimatums as those never work and having recently went though my own relationship ending I don't want to lose a good friend. What setting should I use? What resources do I have/ does she have? What can I expect when I bring this up?

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<bot>: Friend was sexually assaulted and don't want to lose the friendship while initiating meaningful change. How do I start the conversation?