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Our relationship has taken a turn for the worst in many ways.In the first year of our relationship we had a very active sex life and we were very happy with one another but since the sex died out, bit by bit, we have been arguing a lot more, we don't feel as connected anymore, but I still love her a great deal.  

She says it's not me at all, that it is just her body doesn't feel the need to have sex. We maybe have sex once every few weeks at most but it is always amazing for both of us, so it's not a lack of compatibility. I feel like I'm putting her under pressure to have sex with me every time I try to start something and every time I get rejected it does hurt. I'm not sure what to do, she tried changing her contraceptive pill, because she read it could have an effect, but that didn't do anything. I'm stuck for ideas and don't know what to do!
<bot>: Our relationship has taken a turn for the worst as our sex life has died down, she says it's not me. I don't know what to do