<human>: I am the primary earner for our house, the job I have is probably not going to last until the end of the year (company is positioning my division for an asset sale).  If we stay in the city we are in I will take a fairly substantial pay cut and most certainly end my career in my field (a field in which I very much enjoy working).  If we move elsewhere, my career will grow and I can probably make nearly twice as much as I am making here.

We have one kid already 3F and one on the way (due in about a month).  Obviously, it really isn't a good time to think about moving, but the harsh reality is that I could be losing my job so we need to be prepared.

My partner is absolutely refusing to consider moving because her family and friends are here, I have nothing here anymore except her and the kids.  I just can't imagine packing up and leaving my kids behind.  

I really don't know what to do at this point, and I am starting to get very frustrated.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: Staying will destroy my career and probably ruin us financially, she doesn't want to move because friends and family.  What would you do?