<human>: Hello everyone, long time lurker/reader here.

So I started seeing my now girlfriend 5-6months ago, she's great, we get on great when together.

We are both pretty quiet/introverted/happy in our own company - which to begin with was a good thing, in past relationships with extroverts I think I (and she) always felt a bit pressured to  be outgoing/social all the time to meet the expectations of my OH.

So this works really well, I like her a lot - it's the relationship I dreamed of, lot's of independence/trust/little pressure - plus she's gorgeous! :)

Unfortunately we both suck at the "feelings"/communication side of things...I got used to sending/receiving regular "miss you/love you" texts, calls, invites, chatting every day etc in past relationships, with my current gf there is very little of that, we regularly don't talk for a couple of days...despite this suiting both of us (plenty of alone time/independence) it does make it difficult to know how she feels/where she stands on "us". 

So am I just being insecure/feeling ignored, should I accept that this lack of "mushy/feelings" chat goes part and parcel with the positive side of the relationship...or is this something that needs talking about? I don't want to make her uncomfortable, I know that "emotional talk" doesn't come naturally to her, Plus things are great when we are together in person so why make a fuss?

From my perspective,I'm used to ME being an emotional black-hole when it comes to communicating but is it a problem when both sides of the relationship are the same - one doesn't prompt the other? Anyone in a similar position?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Get on great when together, but neither of us are good with "feelings" / communication - making it difficult to tell where we stand with one another?.