<human>: I'm 23 too btw. So after I graduated college I was having a hard time finding a job. I finally found one, but it was in another state. So I moved and she did not come because she is still in school. Things had been rocky because I don't think either of us knew what we really wanted. So eventually we broke up on good terms because we figured we'd make better friends than we did bf/gf. And we've always gotten along great and been best friends.

Anyway, so a few months go by and then she tells me she has a new boyfriend. I was really sad about this because she had already moved on and I hadn't. I live alone in this new state and have no friends yet. I just can't tell if I wanted her back because I'm lonely or because she really is the one I'm meant to be with.

So I eventually get over the new boyfriend, but I still always look back on our relationship and really want it back. Anyway they break up. I am secretly happy about that. But then she tells me that this other guy got herpes and he didn't find out till he broke out and by that time had already given it to my ex. So now she has herpes.

Does anyone else have any similar situations? Or live with someone with herpes. Because I can't decide if this is a deal breaker or not. We are great together but sexually, I don't know how this is supposed to work.... or if it even has potential to work because that shit is for life.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: ex-girlfriend and I still love each other. We broke up for a bit and now she has herpes. what do.