<human>: But I just want my ex wife back. (Together 9 years,  living together for 5.) He wants to stay friends,  I thought I wanted that to,  but I think I only want that as a way to get back together. 

Or possibly I'd like my girlfriend to marry me and have kids with me. (Together 2 years or 2 months, depending what you count.)

I don't want a new one. 

My girlfriend and my ex actually get on with each other quite well, they're not jealous,  my girlfriend is actually really sad that my wife left in December, i think my girlfreind feels weird now as my only partner.

Btw my ex wife's preferred pronoun is "he", just somewhere along the way it seemed more natural to call him my wife, and it stuck. I more often called him my "partner",  but wife helps distinguish from girlfriend in this context.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: My girlfriend and my ex wife want me to find a new wife,  I just want to marry one of them. Well ideally both, ex wife is against that, girlfriend would like it.