<human>: It seems weird how girls would always wanna chat with their bf but this is totally the opposite. We known each other for 3yrs before she confessed to me and started a relationship together but for the whole time she does not think that chatting is a important part of a relationship. Only a yr ago she moved to US to study college (im in asia) where things just got even harder to keep a connection since there times where she does not reply for a most a week. Then times she reply saying she's tired and is going to bed, saying good night and thats it. rarely we get a good hour or more conversation but that feels rare. i never get mad at it cause she's gotta focus on her studies and i have to as well, but to maintain a relationship there's gotta be some limit to how much we need to talk right?

i try to talk about it but the only reason why she does not want/feel like chatting is because she is satisfied with current status and me to the point that she does not feel attachment and does her own thing (hobbies, study) over talking, which is cool but not saying a word for a week seems to be pretty bad. i asked my friends whats their limit and they all give the 1day as their limit. 

I just feel im missing out on life and kinda wanna just break it off some times to date someone else, but at the same time the way we talk and our goals for the future are so similar that i just feel that im possibly going to make a big mistake. im just 50 50 on this going back and forth. 

Friends tell me shes just younger and might change later on, but how can i be sure. It can happen and it might not. Some how i just feel and tell myself im over reacting but its clear that im the only one thats enduring this long relationship. Shes fine, shes happy with me, but i just wanna talk/chat. 

I personally dont know what to think, new to this (relationship reddit thing, wanna see what you guys have to say) (thank you for being nice/kind ahead of time)

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Its hard to feel loved when the one you love does not think chatting is important. I see a future when she comes back but still wanna live/experience the present as well.