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My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly a year and a half.  Her mother recently was told by an unknown person that we have been having sex.  Her mother was not very upset, and helped her go through the process of getting birth control.  Her mother did not want to tell her father, because there was essentially no reason for him to know and it was unlikely he would react well.  Her father found out from her young siblings that she had gotten a prescription, connected the dots, and asked her mother directly.  Her mother told him the truth, insisting that she couldn't lie to him (despite the fact that she already was).  I came over the next day, not knowing that he had been told, and he essentially forced my girlfriend to make me leave the house.  Later that day my girlfriend informed me that I wasn't allowed to see her anymore until I sat down and had a "man to man" talk with her dad.  I refused and have continued to refuse because I think it is unfair of him to connect a punishment to the conversation and then try to act like it is on even ground.  I also do not want to concede to her parents in any way and show them that I can be forced to do what they want if they simply hurt our relationship.

I have no respect for her father.  He refuses to work to support his family, lives off the good grace of his wealthy parents, and always chooses himself over my girlfriend (for instance he made her come back from her vacation 3 days early so she could babysit).  I work, go to school full time, and support myself completely.  While I understand a father wanting to have a candid conversation in this circumstance I fear that it is simply a power play.  I won't feign respect for the man.  My girlfriend has turned on me at this point (2 weeks after the punishment began) and I no longer know what to do.  Any advice would be really aprreciated.
<bot>: Girlfriends father found out were having sex.  Doesn't allow me to see her until I talk to him.