<human>: We have not been together very long and this is our first fight, but I have known him awhile and really enjoy being with him. I saw a different side of him when we were both drunk and although we both agree we want to move on, I don't know how to make things normal again. I can't stop thinking about some hurtful things he said out of anger amidst our fight (and I know they were meaningless because they truly didn't even make sense... it sounded like he just wanted to hurt me because he drunkenly convinced himself I was against him). Others who have been in this situation: how have you recovered your affectionate relationships after a fight? how long did it take? how can I play my part in being accepting and forgiving? I know that I want to be, but I just don't feel excited to see him or even feel close to him any more. for reference, our fight was only 2 days ago. I am only questioning things because we have not been together very long and I don't know if I should even invest emotional effort into something like this so early on. The rational part of me tells me to walk away but I've walked away from similar situations before and with this partner it felt different. I hated him but I also just wanted to be consoled by him at the same time :/. I hate that I feel so ambivalent.

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<bot>: how have you moved past a fight after hearing hurtful words? did it weaken your relationship? was it ever the same?