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There are unreasonable expactations when it comes to how men and women should be and look like. 

I'm not a Twilight fantasy, i'm no 50 Shades of grey, I don't have a highly succesfull job, I'm in school, no car, just an appartment, I have a little belly (not overweight), I don't look like an Armani model. 

I feel inadequate and insecure. I feel lousy in bed because i'm just your normal guy. I stopped enjoying sex and told my girlfriend that i'm not in the mood. I don't want to tell her that I feel bad about myself, because that will make me even less attractive. 

I don't know what to do? I feel like I have to keep up with everything and that i'll never be a womans fantasy.

My girlfriend of 5 months [22] is into this band called One Direction. I'm no where like them. I don't have the straight white flashing smiles, nor do I have the energy they have, the tight bodies and screaming girls that want them.
<bot>: How do I compete with womens fantasy portrayed in movies/novels/moviestars/singers?