<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

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I've asked my wife the next few nights if she had any time to think about it and curious as to her position.  Just once a day.  She said it isn't an easy decision.  
  
She asked my thoughts on it.  I told her I had a strong opinion that the other guy is emotionally cheating.  I told her I had a strong opinion that she wasn't .. her intentions were good.  But I don't have a strong opinion beyond.  We left it there.  That was last night.  
  
I've come to realize today that I have developed a strong opinion.  I want her to end it.  I think I may have come to this conclusion last night but held back with it .. I wanted to think it through before speaking.  
  
I have a few questions here:  
* am I being unreasonable?  I don't think so  
* am I letting enough time go by?   too much?
* I'd prefer she reach her own conclusion.  And, of course, that it matches me.  Do I come out and tell her my new thoughts on it or ask he again if she's come to any conclusions?
<bot>: I don't want to force anything. I feel if I tell her my opinion and that it's pretty strong, I'll be doing just that.  Do I wait for her to decide or tell her?