<human>: long time lurker.

i want to start off by saying i love my wife i really truly do and we do have a great marriage. we don't have any kids but wanted to start trying at the beginning of next year.

about 4 months i met a nice woman at a coffee shop (she knows I'm married) and we started talking. we exchanged numbers and started texting, i usually only text her at work not when I'm home.

a month ago i had to stay late me and her started texting and asked if i was hungry. i was so she asked if i wanted to get dinner and i said yes, we ate and talked a little.

she brings me lunch sometimes and we'll talk about how each other's day is going. i tell her her everything even when I'm having marriage problems irs nice to have a listening ear.

i haven't told my wife because she gets uncomfortable with me having female friends. i would hate to have to stop talking to her because she's a really nice person and very sweet.

but i don't know what to do in a situation like this?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: i met a nice woman we exchanged number and have been talking but i haven't told my wife because she is uncomfortable with me having female friends.