<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

There may be a few posts from me, we got problems, but we want to fix everything back to normal!

She just started university almost 3 weeks ago now and I do see her everyday, but we just don't spend proper quality time together any more I feel. I see her and we just sit around in her room, argue about things (far too many disagreements at the moment, but that's a story for another time), make up and argue again. Neither of us want this.

I want to go out with her but she keeps bailing on me for her friends. I feel like I'm just not very important to her at the moment. I understand she wants to make new friends with these people. That's not the issue. I go out with them, and let her go out with them but I'm just asking her maybe once a week to come out with me and have a nice night with me.

She's now bailed on me 3 nights in a row and is trying to do it again tonight to go out with her friends because she "likes going out with them." Fair enough but I would hope she likes going out with me too! She makes promises that we will and they just fall through.

I'm not really asking too much am I? I don't want to force her to come out with me but I feel like I am. What am I supposed to do to get her to realise that she needs to balance her time better and make time for everyone. i.e. don't make plans with me if she's not gonna stick to them. I don't wanna argue with her about, that's happening too much and we're fed up. How do I approach her though?

Thanks guys, you're all I've got to turn to to be honest!
<bot>: University brings new friends, but I feel like they've replaced me and she doesn't want to spend her time with me anymore, just them.