<human>: We've been together for 2 and a half years, 9 months long distance, I love her very much. As far as our values, politics, life goals/direction, personality, sense of humor, spirituality, what we like to read, we are very compatible and I really doubt that I'll find anybody that I work so well with as a partner.  We been through some tough times of her being depressed and wanting to move away so she could not feel dependent on me and gain work experience.  I love her very much, though recently I've been wanting something more.  She is significantly less sexually experienced than me (I couldn't even have sex with her when we were first together as she was so nervous and couldn't open up to let me in) and is out of shape.  She is working to get in shape and our sex is usually really good.    

Though, I don't feel an immediate sexual spark between us as I do with other girls who are obviously way into me.  I've talked to her about it and she said that she is sexually attracted to me though it sometimes feels like she doesn't even notice me.   It would be nice to feel like the person I was with wanted me sexually, it would be nice to be as turned on by her as I am by other people.  

What should I do?  Is sexual spark something that I can help build?  I think it would really help me if she was in shape and more confident with her sexuality.

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<bot>: I'm feeling little sexual attraction between us and I want to help increase it.  Is it possible to do that or should I think about ending the relationship?