<human>: So every year for the past 6 years since we have been married, we go on vacation with my wife's family for 1 week each summer. The attendees are me & my wife & our kids, both of my wife's sisters and their families, and my wife's parents (up until last year when my wife's dad passed away). The vacation is always planned by my wife's youngest sister who decides where and when we are all going and what everyone is going to do while on vacation. By mid vacation I can't wait to go back home and back to work. The youngest sister is extremely bossy and controlling of what everyone does, but her sisters and mom let is slide because she is "depressed" and by depressed I mean that she can't join the workforce because every time she has tried her co-workers are too stupid, as well as the customers. So basically she doesn't work & to make up for it her husband works 2 jobs. On top of that he does all the shopping. She can't go out in public because she always feel people are talking about her. She won't take medications because the doctors don't know what they are doing. When it comes to family though she has no problem telling us all how to do things and her way is the only way. Her mom and sisters let this slide because of her condition, and I can let it slide too for short periods i.e. over the holidays or at a birthday party, but more than a few days i.e. a week long vacation, I just can't take it, and neither can my wife. Our 2 young kids also don't enjoy the vacation because their aunt is constantly yelling at them. This year we decided we are just not going, but my wife wants to not tell her until the last possible minute with some made up excuse. I say that we just be up front and let her know the reason why and stick to it. What do you think Reddit ? Be honest with why we are not going up front ? or plan a fake excuse at the last minute ? Actually going on the vacation this time is not an option.

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<bot>: My wife's sister is a control freak and we don't want to go on vacation with her anymore ? Do we tell her this or plan a fake excuse at the last minute ?