<human>: We worked together for about 8 months until a couple weeks ago I found out through restaurant gossip that she had a thing for me and after a stolen phone and a text that I didn't send we had a coffee date(i had a crush on them for a while as well I was just way too nervous to text them). And so far we have been on 2 other dates one being to go see a movie which we held hands through most and going out for lunch. We are planning on seeing each other In a couple days and I am so nervous . I can't stop thinking about them and it seems to be adding to my problems.  I have never kissed a girl before and I have no clue what, how, or when to kiss her or if she even wants kiss. I am clueless, nervous and all around terrified of screwing something up.

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<bot>: I am a nervous wreck in a first time relationship and don't know how to proceed with the first kiss or any of the relationship for that matter