<human>: So, a couple of mine and my girlfriend's friends are getting married next summer. I met the guy in the couple through a high school friend [his brother] and we hit it off quite well. Myself, him, my girlfriend and his girlfriend have gone on many double dates and I thought generally we were doing well. 

They recently got engaged and are having the wedding in my hometown. She was asked to be a bridesmaid which is great, I wasn't asked to be in the wedding party which is okay, that happens, but I wasn't even told I was invited.

When I asked about it (explaining this was not my girlfriends hometown, I would have to take her on a trip there so she could be in the wedding) I got a response that pretty much equated to "Well, you'd just be sitting there by yourself"

I'm not sure if I should be offended in this situation. I feel offended but I also know there are so many factors in stress in wedding planning that its hard for me to be too upset either.

Any thoughts?

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<bot>: My girlfriend was asked to be a bridesmaid for my friends wedding in my hometown and I had to ask them if I was even invited to the wedding. It's still not clear.