<human>: I seem to have this issue with all my girlfriends, which leads me to believe that it may be an issue on my end but I wanted to reach out to hopefully find a solution.

My girlfriend of 3 months and I text each other during the day while I'm at work and shes at home (I text message professionally, dispatcher for a service company). The issue that *I* keep coming across is I get very frustrated when texting her over things that shouldn't be an issue.

Today she texted me to say "hey I'm at my friend's house" and I said "ok babe, no problem, would you mind texting me when you're heading over instead of when you're there?" in which she replied "I just got here, goodness" which prompted me into have to explain why I wanted her to do this. I had an issue with my ex girlfriend not being home one day when I got sent home from work early, obviously I was in a bad mood because of it and she hadn't told me she wasn't going to be home all day (she wasn't very trustworthy to begin with) she couldn't be reached by phone and this turned into a huge ordeal with us. I just don't ever want to have to go through THAT kind of headache again. 

Tried to explain this to her and she kinda got me upset by saying "omggg you're ridiculous". I just wanted a confirmation that she understood my concerns and would or wouldn't do this minor thing for me. Then things got heated because I started explaining to her that we keep getting into these stupid tiffs because she cant just say OK to these kinds of things (which I could've worded differently, looking back I feel bad now because I was kind of a dick about it) and she took that as "you say jump I should just say how high right?" obviously not the point I was trying to make but that's how she took it.

We keep having stupid arguments like this and I'm to the point where I don't want to text her at all during work because I don't want to get annoyed with having to over-explain simple things. Am I being an asshole? How do I stop getting so frustrated?

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<bot>: I get annoyed when texting my girlfriend because she can't communicate that she understands my queries and I have to explain things, how do I stop getting so frustrated? I want to be nice to her :[