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I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (23M) for 4 years. I have two older brothers. William (29M) with two kids (4M, 8F) and Evan (26M) with three kids (9F, 5F, 3M). My parents are proud grandparents. They have always teased that I will give them their sixth grandchild, as Evan and William have expressed they don't want more children, but I have never wanted children. I am repulsed by the idea of getting pregnant.

At age 20, with support from my boyfriend, I got my tubes tied by my doctor. I had little to no side effects and haven't looked back since I have gotten it done. My boyfriend and I are very happy together and have begun discussing getting engaged. I told my brothers of my tubal ligation. They couldn't believe I actually went through with it, but they did not judge me.

However, last week, William borrowed my car and crashed it and began refusing to pay for it. I was livid, we argued, and all that crap. And then today, my mother called me crying asking why I got my tubes tied and didn't tell her. She told me I was selfish and never thought of anybody but myself. I asked her who told her and she said that William told her. I called William and asked him why he told our mom that and he said he was just angry and that he regret it.

My mom keeps calling me and crying and telling me to tell her I was still fertile and she mourned the death of mine and bfs future children. She's a conservative Christian and so she asked me to come to church with her this Wednesday, but when I declined, she began calling me selfish again. My bf is speechless. He could not believe my brother bailed on me like that. It's been horrible.

How do I handle this?
<bot>: brother got angry at me and told my mom I had a tubal ligation, mother is upset and calling me selfish and I'm not sure what to do