<human>: My bf [32M] and I [29F] (almost three years together) recently moved away from home, but we were planning to travel back home for a friend's party over NYE. Lamely, I unexpectedly have to work the day before and can't go. I totally told him to go ahead without me as it will be a fun trip for him. I really believe he would have stayed home, but I really do want him to go! 

I don't know anyone here yet, but I'm planning a fun night home alone with take out and movies, so it isn't like I'm planning on sulking or anything (maybe a little). 

So I mention casually yesterday that I would still like to talk at midnight even if we can't kiss, and he said he may not be able to since he'll be at the party, and it might be noisy, etc. For some reason, this really hurt me. Sure, it's not a huge deal in the great scheme of things, but I feel like he could easily step into a bedroom or something to chat with me for a few minutes knowing that I'll be alone and a little sad. 

And tbh there's a pattern of him not...blowing me out of the water with romance in the relationship, which just sounds ridiculous and princessy of me, I know, because he's a solid guy. 

Should I be upset or even care? Am I acting like a spoiled brat?

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<bot>: I'll be apart from my bf on NYE and want a phone call that he can't promise. Should I be upset?