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Me 24F, SO is 28M, relationship of 4 months.

I have been wearing a wig for 2 years because my hair started falling out from a very early age, and I finally got the courage and the means to do so. For 4 years before that I would just wear my natural hair, which was incredibly awful and pitiful. Those four years were very painful and emotionally damaging for this reason, but I got through it by just not thinking about it and ignoring it. I still feel intense shame and embarrassment when thinking about what I looked like.

The wig I wear now is high-quality, and one couldn't tell it's not real unless they knew. I basically ignore the fact that I'm wearing it, and go about my life like normal. To protect my pride, I typically act like it's not at all a big deal. My SO was very understanding and accepting when I first told him about it. 

The problem now is that he **really** wants to see me without my wig. To him, my refusal to show my real hair means that I don't trust him. He is taking this very personally, and getting upset every time he brings it up and I tell him I can't show him. I don't think he understands how painful and difficult this is for me, and it's unfair for him to connect it to the degree to which I trust him. He says that he wants to see me being vulnerable, because that is "pure".

Other than the pure shame that I feel, here is why I can't show him my hair:

1. I find myself completely repulsive without the wig, and I just don't see how I can show it to him and have him still be attracted to me. 

2. He thinks that seeing my real hair would be like showing him my true self. But I feel like the wig **is** my true self. Seeing my natural hair would show him a pathetic damaged side of me, which is just not correct.

How do I convince my SO that not showing him my hair is in no way related to how much I trust him? Is there a different perspective on this issue that I am not considering?
<bot>: My SO is trying to convince me to show him my extremely damaged and repulsive hair without a wig, because he wants to see the "real me"; to him my refusal signifies that I don't trust him.