<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

We were the perfect couple with the happiest relationship ever. It only ended when his father tragically passed away, and the boyfriend pretty much lost all hope for life in general. He broke up with me, did some drugs, drank too much to go to work, etc.

We decided to still talk and get together from time to time and discussed a possibility of getting back together in the future when he is ready for a relationship again.

The last time we got together, we ended up having sex. That is NOT ideal for the current stage of our relationship. 

We have planned on a day next weekend, but I haven't the faintest idea WHERE we should go. Our apartments should really be out of the question because we'll just end up sleeping together. 

Is a bar sort of our only option? He doesn't really like to venture out of walking distance from his apartment, so I sort of think that if we are drinking, we might end up at his place. 

Obviously I DO want to be with him, but I know in my head that it's a very bad idea.
<bot>: The ex and I are getting together, but we will have sex if we hang out at his place or mine. Where should we go instead?