<human>: I [22] have been with my boyfriend [21] for 3 years now and we've been living together almost as long. For the last 6 months or so I'm noticing that I'm taking him for granted. Most of the time I don't make an extra effort to really listen to what he has to say; I find it more important to prove my point when arguing than ever before; I need most things to be the way I want them and get upset if they don't; I focus more and more on making other - new - people like me, creating new relationships, rather than working on our existing one; I think I already know all about him, and that makes me assume how he will react, what he will say or do; I rarely do something good for him for no reason; I put my individual problems before him etc. etc. I could go on for days.

But I really do love him and he is so lovely to me. I want to snap out of this state more than anything else right now. I don't want our love to just disappear because I can't seem to devote enough time and effort for it to grow. I have these times of clarity, where I understand how bad I'm treating him and us, but I wake up the next day and I've already forgotten all about it and keep on going like I usually would.

What can I do to make every day feel new, to stop thinking I know all about him, to make myself feel interested in getting to know him again?

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<bot>: In a relationship with great boyfriend for 3 years; taking him for granted; don't know how to snap out of it.