<human>: The rules were always clear... he could webcam or exchange nudes/talk dirty to girls on the internet but with nobody local and absolutely no meeting. He broke this rule a couple of month ago by talking to some girl he went to high school with and was asking her to hang out (supposedly he didn't). I found out 2 days ago that he broke that rule again with 2 girls in which he had sex with one of them. The sickest part is that he claims he "cut things off" because he didn't fuck her again after that (even though he continues to sext her and asking her to hang out). He doesn't think that is cheating because I have been so lax about other girls. I thought giving him outlets would keep him from cheating because he is Into some kinks that I am not willing to partake in. I feel as though I pushed him toward being unfaithful. I already have jealousy issues and I'm scared this entire thing will only ruin my future relationships.

Also I posted here last month about how he hired an intern that he would have over to watch movies and I wasn't allowed to join (he said it was unprofessional). And one of you made me feel bad for being jealous about him having a work friend. But I was so stinking right. There was nothing platonic about their relationship in the end.

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<bot>: I let my boyfriend sext other girls as long as they weren't local, did that ultimately lead to him cheating on me?