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After the initial *are you fucking serious* feelings, I started trying to justify it (27/M/My Mom) as we have a lot of family that we are inviting from out of town. Essentially giving aunts, uncles, etc. a two-for. 

The idea of having a second wedding in the family a day after is not sitting well with my SO. She's doing a ton of work and is worried a)it will snowball and she'll be planning/working for two weddings at once and b) she's dreamed of this day since childhood and such. 

There are a ton of factors we are trying to consider, but with the wedding this summer, we don't have a lot of time to put up an argument and or justify it to each other.
<bot>: Been engaged for 5 years. Finally booked a venue. Mom got engaged, is setting her own wedding for day after. Wife to be vs. Mom.