<human>: I don't really know how exactly to word this or what to even ask... The short background is that my brother (21) and myself (19) both still live with our parents while we are going to college. He has suffered with depression and cutting himself and those sorts of things when he was younger. In more recent years he had to drop out of his freshman year of college and move back home because of how much he was drinking. He now likes to get so drunk that he will: start fights at parties, call me to drive him home and then when i get there ask how i knew to show up (he forgot he called in the 20 minutes it took me to get there), get home and break things because he is so drunk he knocks things off the walls, piss on the carpeted floor because he is so drunk he doesn't realize, argue with my mother who is basically paying for everything he needs like room and board and school and his car/gas etc, etc. He has been arrested multiple times for being drunk in public, starting fights, driving drunk, and possession. 

I guess where i would want advice is that my mom tries to talk to him and he won't admit that it is a problem or that it affects anyone else. She wants me to talk to him about it but i don't know what to say/do. How can i make him realize that getting to this point of drunkenness where he can't think straight is not the only/best option? Also if anyone has any experience being the drunk person in a situation similar to this that would be helpful. And he has tried AA and Counseling but did not like it and started to skip meetings.
Thank you for reading and any advice.

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<bot>: Brother gets extremely drunk and wont listen to logic even when sober. What can i do to try and show him this isn't necessary and is not good for him.