<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

My partner is very caring, I care for her deeply, and we love each other very much.

However, my partner has jealousy, trust and self-esteem issues. She received little or no care from her parents, and her family is shattered. She was, and is, mostly without a family.

Often when she is unhappy, she will mention that she moved here for me (or us), and that things would have been different if she stayed where she moved from. She has even threatened to move back to where she moved from; when she saw that this made me feel miserable, she decided that she would "give staying here another try".

It makes me feel responsible for her unhappiness, which made me feel terrible and guilty. When I reflected more on my emotions, I felt that I was not responsible, and felt angry, as I felt like I was being manipulated.

I never forced her to move; when we spoke of it, I said that she was very welcome to move in, and that I would be very pleased if she did. This made her very happy at the time.

She also says at times that living with me has given her time to reflect on her life, and realize that she wasn't happy where she was, and that she now knows what she wants with her life.

I feel like she is being manipulative, controlling, and blackmailing. I don't think she realizes this. I think she does this because she is afraid of losing me, and needs regular confirmation from me that I love her and am committed to her. I think this is also the reason why she has almost no friends; as soon as someone gets close, she drives them away.

How do I get her to realize that what she is doing is wrong?

Am I doing something wrong / not doing something right?
<bot>: My partner regularly blames me for being unhappy at times after moving in with me. She also threatens to leave me at times. This makes me feel guilt, which I feel is unwarranted, and thus, I feel manipulated.