<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

Listen Reddit- we've had some disagreement in the past, but I need your help about this... 

So, I have a friend- a man I consider to be heterosexual. Someone who I genuinely thought was not homosexual. Or bi-sexual. 

Over time, he had given me the impression- through direct and indirect communication- that he might be bi or gay. 

Tonight I asked him as honestly, directly, truthfully, and as real as I could be, whether he was bi-sexual or homosexual. 

Now, for some context, my friend is very funny and humorous. Very much like me. But I could not, and still cannot, decide from what he told me whether or not he is truly a man struggling with his identity. He told me some information that is truly life changing, persona-changing, identity and reputation changing, stuff that I accept and do not judge against him. But he always kept the option open that he may be fucking with me. He spoke with me for over 40 minutes about these things. And left as if we had been possibly talking a long and elaborate joke about *his* sexual identity. 

I do. not. know. what to do right now. 

Please help...
<bot>: I think my friend came out to me but I'm sure it was either a joke or real... and I don't know which