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I basically don't know what to do. I asked why we never really talk anymore and her "I love you's" always have a too attached as she never says it first. And then she hit me with "I'm not really trying anymore. I'm only trying because I love you." She has 2 kids and I'm not a very good father yet. I'm working on it but I'm quick to displine when it to things like ignoring the mother after she tells them to stop or things like destroying a room. Well her son walked up to the table and started eating boogers. Every at the table to him to stop. His mother (gf) sat there and giggled. Well loving the attention he continued. I got up from the table and move his hand away from his face and told him to stop. His mother didn't like that. She feels that I acted to harshly and hurt his feelings. This comes up often and when I don't discipline them I get yelled at for not disciplining them. She feels as if i'm not ready for children and I'm too quick to anger with them. We got in the discussion after she all but stopped talking to me. That's when she dropped this bomb on me. We are going to meet up later this week to talk about our future together if there is one. I want to keep trying I love her and her kids. I just don't know what to do PR how to save this relationship.
Sorry I'm on my phone and will try to clean this up when I can.
<bot>: Yelled at son, Got yelled at by mother(gf), told she loves me but isn't really trying for our relationship any more. Meeting to talk about future if any.