<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

My husband of 11 years and I get along amicably. He's a really mellow, man of few words kind of guy and I'm a fiery, outgoing woman. We don't have any interesting conversations or share our lives outside of family and children (6 and 8). It's hard to get him to share his thoughts and opinions on important and unimportant things. He has no drive to better himself (career, health, mind, home). I've tried to discuss these things with him for years but it hasn't gotten better at all.  I don't find him desirable or attractive. I'm very sexual so we don't have a dead bedroom but it's not him that gets me going. Is it possible to be in a forever relationship if you don't respect your partner or find them desirable?
<bot>: Uninteresting husband that I don't want sexually. I've tried everything so do I have to accept this kind of marriage for the rest of my life?