<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

I just started dating this girl, and I'm trying to figure out whether it would be too much/too soon/too intimidating if I were to do something small but romantic for valentines day.  We're both in our mid/late 20s.  We've hung out now maybe 3 or 4 times over the course of 2 or 3 weeks; and we've had easily some of the best sex of my life (just fucking aggressive, animalistic, uninhibited, freaky, passionate, voracious).  More than that, she's smart, confident and self-aware.  We seem exceptionally compatible, and we clearly have an unusually strong mutual attraction.

I want her to be my girlfriend.  I know this because I very rarely have feelings like this for women, and on the two occasions in the past when I have, both times we ended up in multi-year relationships.  However, she has expressed a desire to move slowly because she's a little slow to build trust in somebody thanks to someone betraying her trust in the past.  This leads me to believe that if I do something like plan a romantic evening, flowers, candles, massages, whatever, she might be a little intimidated (too much too soon).  On the other hand, this week we are going to get tested so we can stop using condoms, so at the very least she's okay with the idea of being sexually exclusive.

Idunno.  Ladies?  Any thoughts?
<bot>: Seeing girl for a short amount of time; I really like her, want to do some romantic shit for valentines; don't want her to be intimidated in case she's not as serious about us as I am.