<human>: My husband and I (Married for 2.5 years) have been separated for the last couple of weeks. We've spoken on the phone multiple times, but haven't seen each other face-to-face. I do love him and I am not upset with him, but our relationship has run its course for me. He dealt with addiction issues for a good portion of his relationship and although he has gotten sober, things haven't gotten better for us relationship-wise. We make great friends, but not great partners. I am very unhappy and would like to move on. I know he does not share this viewpoint and he very much wants to work things out. 

Should I wait until after the holidays to tell him my decision? He is anxiously awaiting a "talk" about our feelings, but it seems very wrong to do it so close to Christmas. He agreed to the separation, but isn't taking to it very well. I don't want to lead him on, but I also don't want to make things worse than they need to be. Should I tell him to come home and we can discuss things after the Holidays?

I feel very lost and unsure about how to deal with this. I haven't told my friends or family of my decision either as they have not been the support net through these difficult few months.

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<bot>: My husband and I have been separated for 2 weeks. I want a divorce, but I have not discussed this with him. Struggling with how I should navigate the holidays.