<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

My SO and I have been together for 5 years now and, during all of that time, I have never put a lot of effort into my looks. I have never worn make-up or spent any substantial amount of time on my looks unless it was a special occasions like a party, dinner with one of our families, etc. The other night he told me that he's very upset that I don't do these things. That he sees other girls going to class in with make-up on and in a nice outfit and it makes him depressed that I don't. (we have no classes together) When I told him that I didn't really want to do that he insisted this was only because I dislike preppy girls and didn't want to be seen as one. It's not. I like make-up, I just consider daily usage of it a waste of time when I look perfectly fine without it. 

He also says that I don't put any effort into us while he puts in a lot. The thing is, I don't see that. I'm in an aggressive major, taking 22 credits, and working 10 hours a week, but I still take the time to visit him at his apartment at least once a week, often more than that. During these visits I rarely have the energy to do much. We normally watch a TV show or play card games or adult activities. It upsets him that I'm not more social/energetic during these visits. I guess I should add that he is taking 14 credits and doesn't have a job.

The things he said hurt me a lot and I don't know what to do. I tried to explain that I just don't have the time to work on my looks constantly and didn't understand why this suddenly bothered him. The comments about my not putting in effort really offend me because I can't think of one thing he does that I'd consider "effort" on his part other than make me tea when I ask him to....
<bot>: My boyfriend wants me to wear makeup and put in more effort, but I really don't have the time/energy to do it.