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Long story short...
She was laid off last February.  After the initial shock of losing her job, she started applying to jobs online and got nothing but scam replies.  She's been on a few interviews - but no offers yet.  Depression has set in - manifesting in spending all day in bed and not leaving the house.
I work a demanding job that has me away from home for 12 - 16 hours per day, 6 days a week (not to mention fielding phone calls at all hours.)  I've asked her to help with housework more because she is home and has time - but she refuses to finish a task.  For example, I asked her to do my laundy.  She takes the clothes to our laundry room, washes and dries them but leaves them in the machine.  She knows this is a pet peeve of mine - but think I'm immature for wanting her to bring the clothes back from the laundry room and fold.
I handle most of the cooking - but if I don't cook for a night, she'll prepare something for herself and not ask if I want anything.  
If I ask her to go to the grocery store, she'll say sure - then won't go for four or five days claiming that she's not on a schedule and will get to it when she's ready.
In short, I feel like I'm not getting the same level of support from her that I'm providing by busting ass on a daily basis.  Wat to do?
<bot>: My wife is unemployed, doesn't help enough with laundry and cooking and household duties - I feel like I can't count on her.