<human>: Last night my girlfriend came home late and needed to use my laptop for some homework so I let her. I woke up this morning with a note and her not at home saying how she read through all of my messages (which go back to January). The note said that she felt disrespected, hurt and betrayed by me texting a good friend of mine [19F] the day before about how I wanted to try and spend some more time with my friends and how to tell my girlfriend that. I had no ill intentions by texting my friend about this, I just wanted her opinion on what to do/what to say as I have a hard time expressing myself.

I talked with her for two hours about it today, she said how she felt like she didn't even know me and that she wasn't sure that she wanted to be in a relationship with someone who kept secrets from her. I didn't say anything about how she read through all of my messages but now as the day goes on, it's beginning to bug me more and more because I feel like my privacy was invaded. 

I understand her not liking my friends very much but she would get upset or jealous when I wanted to spend some time with my friends instead of her. I wasn't talking down about her, I wasn't talking about breaking up with her, I just wanted to get advice on how to tell her that I wanted to spend some more time with my friends. 

Am I wrong to feel like she invaded my privacy and what should I do about it?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Girlfriend read through all of my text messages, saw texts that made her upset and is now saying that she feels betrayed and hurt by what I said. What do I do?