<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

So my BF and i live together, and have for 3 years. Every other aspect of our relationship is great, except for my thoughtfulness( i think thats the right word?)

This morning we had an argument about the fact that i dont listen to him, care about whats important to him in his life, and i dont respect him. Also, this is not the first conversation hes had with me over this. 

Example of this morning :I told him i would help him look for something in the house 2-3 weeks ago. I never did look. ( not because i didnt want to, but honestly, i forgot/ forget) But he will set up my lunch and such for work the next day when i ask him. 

I truly think at this point alot of this is on my end. Im lazy, im not organized (cant remember to look for something), im selfish. 

I really just dont know what to do. He is important to me, I DO care about what he says. He texted me saying hes not prepared to deal with this anymore. 

What can i do to improve my communication while keeping the relationship intact?
<bot>: boyfriend says hes doesnt want to deal with my non-caring attutude towards him anymore. I dont mean to act or make him feel this way. what can i do?