<human>: 4th of July yesterday: Went to hang with family.  Some of the kids were throwing those pop bomb things at the tree near him and he got up and walked off.  He spent most of the time on his phone rather than helping with our toddler.  After a while, he went and sat in my car because "it was quiet".

When we're home, he would rather hang out in his man cave than help with things.  I do 99% of the cooking (unless I am working late, when he will cook eggs or feed our toddler cereal).  I have to Facebook message him many nights to come up to eat.

We haven't been out on a date, with the exception of once last month, in years.  I understand that kids change your life, but this isn't right.  She's old enough to be left with a babysitter.  Our time together is usually spent with our kid awake, and then when she goes to bed he goes and hides in his man cave.

I am pregnant again and of course everything bothers me even more.  Last night, as we came home and fireworks were going off, waking up our kid, he said "it's been a rough night; I'm sleeping downstairs".  I cried.  Did he just say that spending time with our family was rough for him?  What the hell?

A little background on my husband:  He's an only child.  His mom is a hoarder.  He never got to have friends over at his house because of the hoarding.  His dad never showers because of the hoarding/lack of shower at the home and he's a large man.  Husband has a neurological issue.  He has been on Lexapro in the past, but it made him limp, so he stopped taking it.

I have mentioned counseling in the past, but he says we cannot afford it.  I am at a loss.  I really don't even want to come home tonight to deal with him.

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<bot>: Husband would rather spend time in his man cave, ignoring me, than spending time hanging out with me or our family.