<human>: Before I start, thanks for taking the time to read this. Also I'm trying to convey my feelings best I can but my thoughts are all jumbled right now so bare with me.

My guy and I have been seeing each other for 6 months now. We aren't in an "official" relationship but we may as well be. Things are fine, he is a good guy but there are a few issues:

A) He has fallen for me quickly and hard. Which is fine, except those feelings of love that he has for me I do not reciprocate. As I said, I am not really interested in a serious relationship right now and this is what this is turning into.

B) There are a few things we do not fully connect on. Though we get along on most things I am into spiritual stuff and into questioning bigger ideas and he doesn't have much interest in that. Which kind of bothers me because I miss being able to have creative discussions.

C) There are a few life changes he needs to make before I think he is ready for a relationship.

D) I have inspired and helped him in many ways, but he hasn't really done anything to inspire or help me grow. This is bumming to me, because I want someone who challenges me and someone I can learn from.

E) On top of everything, the sex ain't good.

I want to talk with him and tell him how I am feeling, but I don't want to break his heart. I just want us to be friends. I feel like he is a friend to me and I care for him as a friend, plus down the road perhaps we can date. But right now I'm just not feeling it. He is so "in love" with me though I am afraid he will get super upset and hold a grudge towards me and not want to speak with me again. I feel so bad for breaking his heart but I just can not keep up this charade anymore. How should I approach this issue?

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<bot>: Been seeing a guy for awhile, there are a few issues and I see him as just a friend. How can I address this with him?