<human>: Hey reddit. Obligatory this is a throwaway account because my boyfriend knows my actual account.

So last week Thursday was my 22nd birthday. Unfortunately, my grandfather had a stroke the weekend before so I spent the actual day of my birthday traveling to go be with family, so my boyfriend and I celebrated my birthday on Wednesday night. We went out to dinner(he paid) and then we went home and did some NSFW stuff and fell asleep. I was kind of waiting for my present, but last year he waited until the day after my birthday to give me my present so I thought that might be the case this year. But Thursday came and I had to leave and still no present. And I came back on Saturday.. and still no present. And I feel pretty hurt by this.

Every year we have given each other birthday presents and taken the other person out for their birthday. Every year for almost 5 years. And I usually get him pretty nice gifts like a peacoat, a nice pair of work out shoes, and a nintendo 3DS. His presents aren't usually that big but it's nice to see him put effort into finding me something he thinks I would like. 

I'm not trying to be a brat and say I deserve to get some big, extravagant gifts but he didn't even put in the effort to buy or even just make me a card. It hurts even more because I've been going through this hard time with my grandfathers stroke. 

And it's made me so upset I've been rebuffing his attempts at intimacy because I feel like he didn't care enough to get me anything for my birthday.

Should I confront him about the lack of present? Or should I get over it and move on?

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: My boyfriend of 4 1/2 years has given me a present every other year for my birthday, but got me nothing, not even a card for my birthday this year. Should I confront him about it?