<human>: Basically, we've been together for three months, we get along great - however she isn't affectionate which is the only main issue I seem to have. Holding hands is okay, but she doesn't like to hug, hold, or kiss. So, needless to say, there hasn't been any "action". This is kind of an issue, as I am affectionate, I like to show my care through those gestures - although I am not demanding or anything, and have accepted it for the past few months to keep her happy.

Then today she dropped this bomb on me, "I'm attracted to you mentally and emotionally, just not physically". This hurt, as I first inferred it as she meant she didn't like me for my looks, and somehow she thought those were more important than having a connection. I was explaining how emotions and mentality are surely important in a relationship (I'm not ugly either, if you're wondering. I'm just average all over. Tall, slim, normal I suppose.). She agreed but was more thinking about my image - she hates the clothes I wear and I've even resorted to wearing a complete change from usual when I'm out with her (I usually wear band t-shirts, or black shirts). Turns out she meant physically as in being close with me as well, she prefers distance - which I give her now, but I don't know how long that can last. Will she come around eventually?

I don't want to lose her, she is really special to me -and it's still so early on in the relationship. Any advice you guys can give to me to follow so I can become better - or what I can say to her.

Thanks for reading this anyway.

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<bot>: Girlfriend attracted mentally and emotionally to me, yet not physically. Advice on what I can do or say to make this last?