<human>: Hi there,

I feel very guilty about even admitting to how I'm feeling and posting here, but I believe it'll be helpful to just write it out and hear what others have to say.

I recently moved to a new place to start graduate school. My boyfriend [26M] and I [26F] have been together for 3 years, most of which has been long distance. It'll likely be long distance for another 3 years until I finish grad school, unless he gets a job near me, which seems fairly unlikely due to the nature of his field and where I am. We haven't discussed this in much depth, but we've discussed our desire to stay together long-term. He definitely sees me as the one, and I can see a future with him too.

Now that I've started grad school, I've been meeting a lot of new people, none of whom I felt any sort of attraction towards. But then, there is this one guy [23M], whom I find incredibly attractive and helpful. I've been kind of asexual in the past few years, being in a long distance relationship and whatnot, and haven't felt so physically attracted to someone like this in years. 

This guy is a year above me and is one of the class officers, so he's been helping out newcomers get adjusted. He and I share some unique interests, though we aren't really in the same social groups. He'll readily meet up with me or help if I ask, but I feel like he's like that with anyone, given how social and involved he is. So I feel like in order to get to know him more personally, I'll have to be the one making an effort. But I feel like making such an effort would be betraying my boyfriend. If I don't make an effort, then I would only see this guy at official functions and occasionally around school, which would a bummer.

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<bot>: I'm in a long distance relationship, found a guy I'm very attracted to for the first time in years, not sure what to do.