<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

I was super shy in high school and I really liked this girl for three years, but never talked to her. I worked up the courage to talk to her at the start of my Senior year, and we became good friends. I asked her out, but she wasn't comfortable dating then for whatever reason (I am her first boyfriend) so we remained very close friends and she actually asked me if I was still interested about two months before we parted ways.

So we've been dating for 2 months, friends for a year, and I've liked her for much longer. She's actually going to my dream school (I didn't get in, I'm trying to do well this year and transfer next year), but her school and mine are only thirty minutes apart. We are both very busy, and finding time to see each other is hard for us. We Skype once a week and every other weekend one of us makes the trip and we go out.

I just can't help but feel fearful and/or jealous. I know she's talking to and texting and hanging out with other guys there. It isn't that I don't trust her, it's that I'm sorta afraid that she will meet a guy at her school and start to see the distance as too much of a hassle and break it off with me. I don't want something as stupid as thirty minutes to break our relationship. But like I said, we're busy, and she's extremely independent and is always doing something so it's hard to visit/Skype more often than once a week or so.

I mean just today she told me she'd joined the ballroom dancing club at her school. I don't know why, but I'm immediately very jealous. Some guy is going to get to (fairly frequently) slow-dance with her and share these pretty intimate moments with her - something I'm not there to do. I don't want to tell her this makes me uncomfortable for fear of reinforcing her "If I have a relationship I won't be able to do my things" mentality she had all her life.

Help me, Reddit?
<bot>: Girlfriend and I are going to different schools. How can I avoid feeling jealous that I'm not a huge (or even large) part of her life?