<human>: My husband and I have been married for 3 years, we have a 2 year old daughter together.

Recently our daughter got a minor injury due to something negligent my husband did and I got extremly panicky and upset about it. 

My husband promised that he would be more careful in the future but in exchange he wants me to promise not to get as upset because he thinks it upsets our daughter to see me upset.

I think he is just trying to blame me because he feels guilty that she got hurt. I don't think I should have to promise not to be upset when something upsetting happens.

We haven't been able to let this argument go because I have not been able to say that I will be calmer when bad things happen in the future.

Should I try to say that I'll do that or am I right that you can't ask someone not to have the feelings they have?

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: Husband thinks I overreacted to a situation and that me getting upset caused our daughter to be upset, and he wants me to promise not to get that upset in the future. I don't think I can promise that.