<human>: I've been talking with this girl on and off for three and a half years. Recently I moved back to her neck of the woods (not the same town, or even the same state, but still within driving distance), amd having been dumped a few weeks earlier, I figured it would be the right time to strike up some more conversation. We got comfortable with each other again, and we agreed that I would drive to her place to hang out for a day. Unfortunately, she had to cancel because her grandmother was in the hospital. Then, last weekend, she was going to come visit, but then she got cold feet. She said she was afraid of any sort of romantic involvement, not because of anything I said or did, but because all her past boyfriends were abusive. I was really upset, but after some more talking, she apologized for bailing and said we would hang out this weekend. However, we've encountered another snag - she came down with mono. Today was probably the worst of it - she's been in bed all day, and now our meeting this weekend appears to be in peril. Sickness aside, she has a problem with not always calling or messaging me when she says she will (although she's  gotten better in the past few days). I have very little patience, and I feel like I'm showing an incredible amount of restraint to not say "Fuck it" and give up on her. I'm hanging on because she's showing an interest in some of my interests (gaming and conventions), which none of my previous girlfriends really have. Any tips on how to approach this? Waiting out her sickness, not getting antsy when waiting for her to call or text, or just general thoughts on the situation.

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<bot>: Trying to meet up with this girl I've been talking to for three years, meeting keeps getting pushed back, need help staying patient.