<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

I've been with my bf now for 2 years. I'm out he's not.  We've always hung out together as best freinds as well as boyfriends now he's only interested in bf bit of our relationship when no one else is around.  

He sleeps over at mine 3-4 nights a week and we have great sex but after he never wants to cuddle it's wham bam the sleep. I do enjoy it but want more.

When we are out he keeps me at arms length and I'm just a friend. We always used to be very close but recently he's putting distance between us except when he wants sex. 

I know his parents suspect he's gay and have said to us both that they'll love there children no master what. They know I'm gay and we sleep in the same bed. 

I do t no what to do.
<bot>: Bf only wants to be close when we are in bed.  How can I get him to be more loving at other times?