<human>: We have been dating for one year. We were very good friends before we ever started dating for a few years so I know all about his past relationships. He still speaks to one if his ex that he dated for four years relatively frequently (about once a week, sometimes more and sometimes less). He claims that its just a friendship and it doesnt mean anything since they broke up 5 years ago. He has another more recent ex that he doesn't speak to.

He also keeps scrapbooks from her of her basically telling him how much she loves him in his desk.

I told him that him speaking to her makes me uncomfortable and, while I would prefer he not speak to her at all, I asked that he just make an effort to speak to her less out of respect for me. He got defensive and said he doesn't like being told what to do. I got upset with him for that answer and he agreed to speak to her less and keep me in the loop when he does speak to her. 

I am still jealous and uncomfortable. Are these feelings justified? If they are not, how can I get past them? Should I be worried that he still speaks to her and that he keeps notes and scrapbooks from her? I hate feeling like this.

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<bot>: Boyfriend of one year still speaks to his ex and keeps memorabilia from their relationship. Should I be upset? How do I get past jealous feelings?