<human>: I have come to a real standstill with my relationship. We have been through a lot together, I have depression, and am quite co-dependent. He has anger issues and problems respecting me. But we're getting through that.

Where I am at a loss is with this:
He likes to play games. All day, every day. I usually accompany him, I Reddit and watch and talk while he's playing and we both enjoy, how we consider, spending time together. The problem comes when he wants to play online with his friends, usually 2-3 nights a week.
On these nights, he expects to be on all night, from when he gets home from work to 11pm+, no questions asked.
When I ask him for a time he'll be off he says a time, but *never* honors it. I just want him to say a time a reasonable time and stick to it. I don't think it's unreasonable but he wont hear a word of it and gets so incredibly defensive when I voice this opinion and it *always* starts an argument.

He feels very passionately about this and thinks he is entitled to as long as he wants because "if it were up to him, he'd be on every night". He's very stubborn and I'm worried he'll never see my side.

On the other hand, I understand I may be too clingy and be expecting him to devote too much time to me. For which I need to seek help.

Am I overreacting? Is this just my co-dependency? Do I need to be more understanding?
Is he wrong? Is counselling a good idea as I can't seem to have a calm discussion with him?

Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell
<bot>: Boyfriend doesn't think it's reasonable to limit his online gaming time and I'm feeling neglected. Am I in the wrong?