<human>: My friend and I work on a special online project together. She was confused about someone's response to harassment. The person had said that "if you would feel upset or annoyed if you tried to talkj to someone and they ignored you, you're harassing them." 

She said: 

> I mean yes, when I speak I want them to notice me, because otherwise we aren't communicating, I would say that if you speak to someone and would not be bothered if they ignored you, you have no interest in what they have to say and are speaking to listen to your own voice.

> I would agree I wouldn't necessarily be *angry* if someone flat out ignored me when I spoke to them but I fail to see his point.

She was asking for my take, which I provided-mostly agreeing with her, with the additional caveat that the respondent in question discussed 'making your piece' in front of someone...which is a bit OTT for just trying to approach someone for a chat. 
  
It's passed now, but when this occurred I started feeling quite needy and, well, abandoned (lol.) I felt used for some reason-just asked a question but then not granted a response even. I hate bringing up stuff like this IRL because I don't want to look over-sensitive or victim-complexed (anxiety issues), so I just spew it out online instead 

I'm not sure what I said wrong, and it's *very* possible I said something untoward I'm just not picking up on, but she hasn't responded since. I got no answer or confirmation. A couple of hours later I saw her (briefly) talking to some other people (possibly clients for our project.)

Can you provide a brief overview of the text?
<bot>: I hate being that guy but when we have *literally* just had a conversation about whether it's reasonable to feel upset when ignored, and both concluded that yes, yes it is-why would she proceed to ignore me?