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We got engaged just before thanksgiving.  We spent thanksgiving with my family and he was asked a lot of questions about himself and his family by my family members.   I felt like a horrible person because they liked him and were trying to get to know him.  But it made me feel like I talk too much and have never bothered to listen to him talk about himself or his past.

He answered all the questions asked by my family and I learned so much about him.  He's so easy to love.  My family loves him.  I could tell he was a little reluctant to talk about his parents, always has been.  But he speaks nicely about them.  Here's the part that shocked me.

His dad somehow got my number and called me.  He asked me to convince my fiance to reach out to his dying mother.  I was just shocked that she's dying and even more shocked to learn that my fiance won't take her calls.  His dad asked me to not tell my fiance that he reached out to me.  So I decided to do a little research.  I called my fiance's bff who I'll call Brian.  Brian told me to drop it.  I asked him why, and he said something like, "look when she's gone and buried, I'll sleep better."  He also said his loyalty is to my fiance and that mine should be as well.  But he didn't elaborate.  He just refused to talk about it.

I'm about to marry this man I love with all my heart.  Suddenly I feel like I don't know him.  I'm not sure how to ask or what to ask him.  He always spoke nicely about his parents but they live on the east coast and we live 3000 miles away so i've never met them.  Why does he speak nicely of them but refuses to talk to his dying mother.

Brian said "the only reason I'm not spending life in prison without parole is because (your fiance) won't let me do what I want to do."
<bot>: My fiance doesn't seem to care his mother is dying.  He has never said anything bad about her.  He best friend won't say anything other than his loyalty is to my fiance.  I am beyond confused.