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Me and a co-worker have worked together for 2 years and we both have recently admitted to having feeling for each other. She said she really likes me but doesn't want to have a relationship because she "pretty much wrecks almost every relationship and we get along too well for me to mess something up". I would rather have a relationship and have it fail then just sit around knowing we both have feelings for each other and doing nothing about it.

I've tried to convince her we only really see each other at work if one of us wants to (we don't work on similar projects or even on the same side of the building) and if it does fail it would only be awkward or a little while and at least we will know it won't work. I don't know what else to do to get her to give it a try so I'm just looking or some help.
<bot>: Co worker and I both have feelings for each other but she doesn't want a relationship because she's scared it will fail. Anything I can do to convince her otherwise?