<human>: I am not entirely sure this is the best subreddit for this but thought I would give it a shot.

now I should start this out by clarifying that I do realise that we a both very young and that young love is just a fling or whatever it is the older generation normally would say in these sorts of situations.
The worst part is I normally agree, I think so many people my age get caught up in lust and let it get to them. I have been in a multitude of relationships, and while I was 'in love' I also knew that it wouldn't last, that it was just a fling.

This is different, she is different. we haven't know each other for all that long, but we have always gotten along well. For the longest time I have known her she was in a relationship, her boyfriend broke up with her four months or so back. since their break up we have gotten much closer, to close frankly.

I fear the I have become obsessed with her, these days I find it hard to focus on my lessons and work, simply because she haunts my mind.

I don't know if she feels the same way, I tried consulting the internet wizards, find out what clues she might leave, but it all in all it might as well be a 50-50.
It doesn't really matter either way, because it don't seek to court her. I have no desire to be in a relationship, despite the fact that I think she is the greatest thing ever (perhaps that is why). Regardless of whether or not she feels the same, regardless of whether or not it is true love. I don't want to love her. I want to not think about her.

I can't really distance myself from her, seeing we go the same gymnasium and have many classes in common. I have limited our contact outside of school (meaning I don't write to her, I still respond if she writes to me, I'm not an arse), but so far that has done nothing to help.

so the question is rather simple, how do I un-love her?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: I have fallen in love with a friend, but I don't want to be in love. How can I un-love her?