<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

I'm FTM, meaning I was born female and transitioned to male. This happened around five years ago.

When I first started transitioning, I didn't know any other trans guys. Had no support whatsoever. I picked Aydian, having no idea that there already was a very prominent trans man named Aydian. He is a fitness model. I'm also into fitness. I feel very self-conscious that it appears I'm copying him.

So I went on the hunt for a new name. I have always, since I was a small child, wanted to name myself "Wolfe." It's been a dream of mine since I can remember. I just never had the guts to go through with it. Well, I'm not getting any younger, so why not? Wolves aren't just my favorite animal; they're a passion. I'm opening a wolf sanctuary and studied them in the wild for several years. I know it's corny, but I don't care. I've experimented with it for the past month and absolutely love it. 

That said, I'm getting almost nothing but heat over it. Everyone thinks it's stupid/childish/wrong/etc. There's more backfire over my name choice than over my coming out! I'm getting daily messages and texts from family members begging me to "not do this to them" - messages I never even received when I was coming out. Friends are clearly displeased. 

I'm extremely frustrated and hurt right now. Everyone seems to be turning on me over this. Even my wife doesn't like it much, and her opinion matters more than everyone else's, but she's trying to be supportive and trying to get used to it. Funny thing is, everyone else wants me to go with Wolfgang (with "Wolfe" for short) and my wife hates, hates, hates Wolfgang. Ugh.

Should I cave and choose a different name? How should I handle this?
<bot>: Changing my name (again) and no one likes it. Other than my wife, I feel like it's none of their business.