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I am a senior in college, recently split from my long term boyfriend, and just found out I am pregnant. My ex-boyfriend and I had a pregnancy scare last year and he pushed very hard for an abortion. Then he basically told me that I had to either put it up for adoption or abort it. He didn't want his life to be ruined this early with a child. 

He is very immature and is more concerned with partying and trying to hook up with my friends. That is why we ended the relationship. He wants nothing to do with a child and will most certainly try and push for an abortion or adoption again.

He has expressed many times that he does not want to end up like his father who had a child right after college. He doesn't want to be tied down, financially or emotionally. 

I do not want to have an abortion, or give it up. I want to know if he can terminate his parental rights before the baby is born. If he doesn't want anything to do with the child, than I don't want him in our lives. I obviously would make sure that he had a choice in the matter and wouldn't just take away his rights. We are also from two different states and both states have slightly different laws. Which state would take precedence in the matter?
<bot>: Boyfriend and I broke up. Found out I'm pregnant. He wants nothing to do with children, will try and force me into an abortion or adoption. Can he terminate his parental rights so we both can get what we want?