<human>: I'm typing this on my phone, so sorry for any errors. I also don't know if this is the right subreddit.

I really love my boyfriend. He has made me a stronger person, and inspires me to grow. My love for him is deep. Our sex is great. Yet, even when we're having sex, I'm not sexually attracted to him. I don't feel that desire or energy. I just feel connected. Intimate, but not attracted. I don't know if that makes sense.

In high school, I started to wonder if I was asexual since I wasn't physically attracted to anybody. I can count on one hand the people I've actually been sexually attracted to. And unfortunately, my boyfriend wasn't one of them from the onset. After we developed a good bond, though, did I start wanting to pleasure him.

Is there any way to plop him into the category he deserves? I want to feel that for him. I want to just look at him and feel that pull. Also, should I tell him he didn't blip on my sexually attractive radar?

Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell
<bot>: I've only been sexually attracted to less than a handful of people in my life. Boyfriend is not one of them. What can I do?