<human>: Note: Before this point neither of us had had something like this (not relationship, not sure what to call it) And had gone on a date and hung out as (essentially) a couple in public.

Starting off, I already know that if a girl says that she's not ready for a relationship, that means that she's not ready for a relationship with *me*. Basically what's happened is that the girl I've liked has told me that she doesn't have the energy to be in a healthy relationship, but she does like me, and if she was going to be in a relationship with anyone, that it would be me, and just not right now. Also, that it would be okay if I didn't like her anymore and that if I moved on because it will "be like this for ages", as well as her being scared of losing me as a friend, because anyone would be lucky to have me as that, or more; but she felt it was a huge distraction. She would rather that then be in a relationship with me, but never see me and fight whenever we do see each other. (Just as a note, when she told me this she felt like she had failed a test and I comforted her [not sexually, talking through and listening] and she said that it was the best [comforting] she had ever had .)

We're both in college right now and it's pretty clear that she isn't coping too well. But the thing is that we never fought (at least not seriously in my opinion, because an aspect of who I am is cynicism and sarcasm and that means taking a few unserious jabs for a laugh), and that we didn't revolve around the same social groups, and I shared no real common interest in her friends so I saw no point (I know, I was stupid) in engaging in her friends, so I didn't see her very often. And I didn't address these issues because we told each other our feelings over text and the next time we saw each other didn't talk about it, like it was still the same. I'm looking for a long-term strategy to try and get her interest for a relationship with me again, help her to cope and to be a better boyfriend overall.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Girl not ready, still likes me, I'm trying to find a fix for the long run to get her interest in a relationship with me, be a better boyfriend to her, help her cope and overall be a rock for her.