<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

Hey, Me and my boyfriend have been together nearly 3 years. Most of this time we were long distance after meeting online. But since January we moved in together.

Now when we were Long Distance everything was ok. I guess cos most of the time we met for long weekends, so we weren't having sex as much as we are now obviously.  So it's only really since moving in I've noticed there are certain things he doesn't do, ever.  
I understand I am rather "kinky" and we have spoken about that and some of my kinks, he isn't really into and thats fine.  But what is bothering me is his lack of ability to even do basic things that could add a bit of passion to our sex life.
For example: 

He kisses me a lot throughout play, but only ever on the lips, and just pecks really.  Nothing passionate. Never kisses my neck or body.

I have large boobs (DD). He rarely plays with them. I love getting them played with! I've told him too but he still rarely does this.

Never gives oral.

 It's starting to bother me. Sex with him is great, and he does get me off. But I am bored of the same routine of touching, fingering, sex.  Last night I had to stop him, because although it felt good, I couldn't shake the feeling of boredom like "Oh this AGAIN", which makes me feel bad.

My question is how to I bring this up with him? I am only the 3rd person he has had sex with, and his other relationships didn't last very long.  So I genuinely think its just an experience problem.  Im just not sure how to tactfully mention it without offending him, or making him feel inadequate in bed!
<bot>: BF always does the same things in bed. It's getting kinda boring and I'd like him to mix things up a little with just a few basic things like oral.  Dunno how to bring this up tactfully.