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My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and a half, and during that time, my family has come to like him less and less. From the first time they met him I could tell they didn't like him much, but I thought they would warm up to him as time went on. Unfortunately, things have only gotten worse and my mom has started making snide comments about him, which obviously hurts me. They stopped inviting him to family events and I have to be proactive about bringing him with me. His family, on the other hand, has been nothing but exceptionally kind and welcoming to me, which makes me feel terrible about the way my family has acted. 

Part of the reason is that my boyfriend suffers from anxiety and talks a lot when he is nervous, which sometimes makes it look self-centered. I have tried to talk to him about this but he says it is a defense mechanism when he gets nervous around people and I know his anxiety is not his fault so I haven't pushed it. My parents, on the other hand, are upset that he's not perfectly well-behaved, quiet, and respectful at all times (an unrealistic expectation in my opinion). 

I love my boyfriend to death, and I don't see us breaking up anytime soon. We have talked about moving in together after college graduation in a couple of years and getting engaged sometime after that, and I just can't see my family going along with it and supporting my decision. I love my family and we are all very close but this has created a rift between us. 

Is there anything I can do to remedy this situation? Should I keep forcing my boyfriend and my family to have a relationship by bringing him to family events or should I just give up and let them live in denial that I'm dating him? Yes, I am an adult but my parents are still paying for my education so I am not completely independent yet.
<bot>: My parent's don't like my boyfriend, I basically force them to get along, is it better to keep forcing the relationship between them or keep the two parts of my life separate?