<human>: So today while in a conversation with a group, the topic of women came up. long story short, but in the middle of it while debating body types, guy turns to me in complete confidence and goes "YOU'RE chubby, they are fat" (in regards to other women in the area we were sitting)

It hit me really hard. much more than i expected. its rendered me pretty useless all day and ive been depressed. i have a very long history of battling my weight, bullied when i was younger and always called chubby. got diagnosed with PCOS some time back and the initial meds i got put on made me gain back a ton of weight i had struggled to lose for years, and havnt been able to get rid of it since... 
Anyway, i dont know how to get over it/move on. 

As well, the guy had it apparently pointed out to him he might have offended me and messaged me to apologize a bit ago, but i havnt been able to reply back. I usually go "its okay" or "no worries" when someone apologizes - but its not okay. It really got to me. but i dont know if i ***want*** him to know it did, and i dont want to seem petty. what do i do?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: got told im chubby, took it too hard and cant get out of bed. guy apologized but dont know what to say to him. what to do?