<human>: My situation is that I have one kid (8) and would very much like another. I have a boyfriend (of 3 years) who steadfastly refuses to have a child until he get's a job, but isn't really trying to get a job . On top of this, he says he would need to be certain that he could be responsible before having a kid.

My boyfriend is the loveliest bloke I have ever met . He is incredibly supportive of everything I do, and is quite honestly the best friend I could ever have . But, having more kids is important to me.

I totally agree  with his reasoning, but not with his lack of effort, if that makes sense. I've been thinking, and thinking, and THINKING about this, and it really is incredibly important to me . But, I do not want him to feel bad about it , since I do understand that he is young and not really ready for real life.

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<bot>: How do I break up with someone that doesn't   want kids when I do, and still keep him as a friend?