<human>: I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years. We've been the best of friends and I really love her and care for her.

Recently a few weeks ago I met another woman that has a unique charm to her, she totally captured my attention and infatuated me a lot. She said she's never said this to a guy and that she loves me, she said she can imagine her whole life with me.

She does not know about my girlfriend obviously. I told her I'm not ready for a relationship yet, which upset her a lot, we stopped talking for a few days when she messaged me again saying she loves me and needs me, misses me etc.

She is a really good woman, however when I spend some time with her, I quickly realize she is not the woman for me when I compare her to my girlfriend who fits me like the right puzzle piece.

With that said why can't I stop talking to this other woman, why do I sometimes imagine a weird future with her, even though I know when I am with her I don't mesh with her as well as I do with my girlfriend.

What can I do? Any advice please?

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<bot>: Have a girlfriend I love a lot, but infatuated by a woman that I don't necessarily get along in person with but can't stop talking to her. What can I do? Any advice?