<human>: Okay, so i dated a girl a few weeks back and it kinda went a bit sour. (it was her fault - she had feelings for her ex)

Anyway we broke up and I saw her out a few weeks later and got pretty drunk and said some, not nasty, but silly things.

We haven't spoken since then and i'm over her but I was thinking of sending her a text along the lines of:

'Hi, i'm sorry we didn't end on the best terms, but I think you're an awesome person and I'd hate for any tensions to get between us if I see you out again. hope everything is going really well and hope you're enjoying life'

I would only send this text, not to get back with her, but to just alleviate tensions - because we have a lot of mutual friends.

Is this a grown up thing to do? Or shall I not text her?

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: shall I text my ex with a nice text, not to get back with her but alleviate tension or should I leave it?