<human>: I started dating this girl about 3 months ago and everything is going great relationship wise. The problem is she didn't have a job, so she literally had no money at all, and she just found a job but she has some expenses in order to get the job. She had to buy the uniform which I lent her the money for and I'm also lending her the money for transportation since she does not have a car and her family won't help her with picking her up and dropping her off.

Also, her family is going through really hard financial times and I've helped her parents here and there with anything they need as well. She feels like I've done too much for her and she's starting to feel bad. 

In this new jobs they asked her for a background check, or else she can't go back to work, but she doesn't have the money for it. I told her I'll lend her the money but she won't accept it because I've done too much for her already and she's embarrassed.

I told her if she really wants the job she should let me help her because maybe I'm doing good now but one day I might need her help and I need to know I can count on her without feeling embarrassed.

She hasn't replied to that last message, but I don't know if I am doing the right thing here. Should I pull back and let her handle it on her own? Or is there something I can say to make her feel more comfortable?

She's an amazing girl and I want to do anything I can to help her get on her 2 feet.

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<bot>: Been helping out girlfriend and her family a lot, she needs one last bit of help before getting this new job but she is refusing to accept my help. Should I persist in offering help or let her figure it out herself?