<human>: Slowly over the course of about six months I became very close with, and then began dating, a female friend of mine who attends the same university that I do. We've been dating for a little over two months now, and on the surface things are fine. We haven't had any big fights and nothing could really be considered wrong from an outsider's perspective, but I can't shake this nagging feeling of anxiety about the whole thing. I ultimately feel like I'd be better off without being tied to her, and I feel like she's a drain on my happiness and stability, but I'm unsure whether or not I'm justified in feeling this way. I can't tell if I'm just being immature, insecure, and need to grow up or if I have valid concerns.

To explain my feelings, I guess it all ultimately comes back to feeling like I care about her way more than she cares about me. She is, in general, a pretty guarded person and being intimate and open with someone is new to her, which she's admitted and which I understand. Even with that in mind, I still have this feeling that she takes me for granted. If you asked me to point towards things I wish she were doing that she isn't, I wouldn't be able to. It's more of a series of small things which build up. She isn't good about provoking our spending time together, she isn't consistent in expressing that she cares about me, she hasn't made it clear to me in what manner she expresses that she cares, etc.

I know that it's impossible to give 100% accurate advice to me since I'm an Internet stranger who you haven't met. I guess I just want to know this

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<bot>: is it normal to be having feelings that you'd be happier if you weren't in the relationship you're currently part of?