<human>: I have a HUGE crush on my co-worker who happens to be married. I'm 21 (f) and he's 26 (I believe). He ha 2 little boys and I have a little girl. Him and his girl have been fighting ALOT and he's been pretty upset. We've known each other for 6 months after he saw me trying to not scratch my newest tat. BUT him and I have been flirting for 2 months now and nothing has really changed except for the way he hugs me. It went from little quick hugs to press our full bodies together, his hands on my waist, my face in his neck, I really wanna kiss that person kinda hugs. I really like this guy ALOT. He makes me blush, my heart race, blood pound, chest tighten. Now here comes the real problem that I need help with. Everyone at work tells me not to feel special because he flirts with everyone and is just a big flirt, but one of his friends told me that he wouldn't flirt with me unless he liked me. Ok so he flirts with me, that means he likes me right? Ok, well I don't know if he honestly likes me or of everyone is right and I'm basically just another pawn in his little game. But if that's the case, then what's going on with his hugs??? Does every guy hug like that? I wouldn't know, I've been single for 2 1/2 years since the birth of my daughter so maybe I'm just a little rusty. 2 of our mutual friends tell me to go for it. But I'm so scared. Reddit, give me advice, please! Should I talk to him and try to figure out what's going on or am I reading way too much into it and am just gonna make myself look like a huge idiot?

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<bot>: Im crushing on married coworker. We flirt big time, need to know if I should go for it and see where we stand or back off. Advice SERIOUSLY needed!