<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

We have been together off and on for over 10 years, and married with a soon to be two year old little girl.

We have not been able to save much on a monthly basis as we have a large mortgage and other expenses, however recently our second car (an 11 year old clunker which we used on days when we both needed a car) stopped working, instead of repair we talked about looking to replace it with somthing newer... I was hoping over the next week or two to go out and have a look at differnet cars together and sort out whats best for the family.

Last night I got home from work to find a new car in the driveway, it cost ~$30,000 and is on god knows what kind of financing, but this is going to kill any savings we have with ~5-7k more per year in expenses.

Anyway I was livid and had a huge fight with my wife, what makes me most upset is she continues to justify doing it because it's her money and she bought it for herself, she also thinks I am in the wrong for getting extremely upset and yelling like I did.

I can't return the car, we are stuck with it now, I just can't see how this made any sense for the family in our current financial situation. Every penny I make goes to the Morgage, existing car payments, groceries and misc, I make a decent living but spend virtually nothing on myself.

So stressed and wanted to vent.
<bot>: Wife bought an expensive car without involving myself, we are already living the edge financially and have a toddler and mortgage. Had a huge fight over it, she refuses to see myside and feels I am in the wrong.