<human>: [prev. post deleted due to no DLTR]

I'm [F34], we've been together for over 1 year.

We were very serious since day 1, and lately I found out he tried to meet several girls to have sex with when during the firsts couple of months of our relationship, some he also had naked video chats with (a friend spilled some data cause he thought we weren't together then). He even went as far as hiding our photos on facebook from said girls. All these things are not acceptable in the boundaries of our relationship- from both sides. He expected 100% fidelity from me, which he got.

When I try to talk to him about it he gets defensive and reflective, claims it didn't happen, or just cries that he loves me.

I'm not sure how to get past this. I keep wondering what else he's hiding there, and how long this actually went on, etc. He's cheated on a girl in the past but I honestly think he hasn't *properly* cheated on me.
Any advice?

ETA: he's still keeping all of those girls on FB, by the way.

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: bf tried to fuck other girls during the first months of our very serious relationship. Wondering if it's a trait