<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

We've been going out since October. Everything is great, and we're really kinky and sexually active (not intercourse, but everything else). We are very open and try hard to be direct and honest with our feelings. We're both intelligent overachievers, and we have a lot of other stuff on our places. Except I have a lot more than she does, and my parents put a lot of pressure on me (a lot of which I condone).

Basically I have a hard time finding or making the time to hang out with her. We really only hang out a few times a month (we see eachother in school, of course), and we like 5 minutes away.

She's always asking if I can come over, and I want to, but I've just got so much other stuff and i just can't afford to spend 5 hours with her unless it's really on my terms. Obviously she feels this is unfair, and it hurts her a lot. She's quite sensitive and emotional about relationship stuff.

I don't know what to do. Whenever we try to work something out, I can't commit, and often have to cancel or something. It's making her feel like shit and it makes me feel bad (not as bad as her, to be 100% honest).

What should I do?
<bot>: I don't have time or can't justify hanging out with my gf as much as she wants. This really bothers her, and I don't know what to do.