<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

For some background, I love my friend so much and we talk about everything. We met in college and have been friends for about 7 years. We live in different cities now so we have to play a lot of phone tag and talk online a lot. She's recently started seeing a guy friend of mine, and they are super into each other. The only problem is all she wants to do is talk about him. I'm so happy they got together and I don't mind talking about him a little, but she will call, text, or message me several times a day to just talk at me about this guy. I'm the only mutual friend of hers and his that she trusts, so I get that she thinks she can only talk to me about him. But I'm so bored with the conversation and have lost all patience with talking about him. It's gotten to the point where I dread her contacting me and have been avoiding her messages, since I know she just wants to talk about this guy. On top of that I'm unemployed and dealing with a lot of my own issues/depression in my own life, and she's lately been using 'checking' up on me as a way to sneak in more conversation about him. I can't even describe how hard it is to stomach these conversations when I'm dealing with deep emotional pain and she is acting fake concerned so she can talk about a guy I've heard about a million times. How do I tell her to she needs to give me a break, but like in a polite way? Or do I just need to be direct about this? I've kind of backed off on answering her message or calls right away, but I'm worried she's going to think I'm pulling back from the friendship, not the conversation topic.
<bot>: good friend tries to contact me several times a day to talk about a boy she's dating and it's driving me crazy