<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

I was thinking of giving my immediate family a copy of the book "What I Love About Being Queer" because it best describes me and posting on Instagram and sharing the post on Facebook with something like " what i love about being a queer person is that it provides someone like me (a non traditionalist) the freedom to live, love, and simply be with no limitations in a world that is so vast, unique, and ever changing." 

That way, I can just clear the elephant in the room situation.  I should also mention that I'm seeing the extended family in a few months.  Is it better to come out in person or through these means?  If you say in person, then how do I choose 'who' to come out to when it comes to my extended family?
<bot>: Is it better to come out in person or through social media?  If you say in person, then how do I choose 'who' to come out to when it comes to my extended family?