<human>: I'm 20, female, and single. 

On a typical day, I'm wearing little to no makeup, a t-shirt and jeans. I blend in for the most part and I'm comfortable in that zone. But when I'm getting ready to go out with friends, either at a party or to a club or bar, I go all-out - do my hair, put a lot of effort into my makeup, bust out the push-up bra and wear something that shows off my body. 

I'm not saying I'm gorgeous and I don't want to come off as cocky, but I notice when I put effort into my appearance and go out, it seems like all eyes are on me - guys seem to be eying me up, and girls seem to be judging me - and I'm not used to being [seemingly] an object of attention.

How can I handle this smoothly without it changing the way I act or behave? I notice when I get all dolled up, I find it hard to act like myself. How do I tap into the confidence, friendliness and wit that I have when I'm just being myself in a t-shirt and no makeup when I'm dressed and made up? I feel like I'm a huge bitch when I look nice and I want to change that, it's not who I am and it's uncomfortable!

I guess what I'm trying to say is I feel self-conscious of how different and attractive I look and it affects my ability to really be myself. 

How do I get over this?

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<bot>: I feel self-conscious and out of my element when I put effort into my appearance and I want to be as comfortable and genuine in heels and a skirt as I do with my hair in a ponytail and my glasses on.