<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

ok i know it seams like the classic douche-bag move, and that all i want from this person is sex BUT hear me out

sex isnt the only thing i want in a relationship, hell is not even the biggest thing, things like trust, companion, romance, compatability etc. all rank much higher on the list

but i think if my gf tells me that she doesnt want to have sex with me till marriage, i think i would leave her. This is because if stay with her, (and this goes for anybody whos stuck in a relationship where one person wants to wait till marriage and the other doesnt) one of two things will happen: 

1) the person willing to have sex will resent the person who isnt for it. and in the end will lead to a painful relationship and an eminent break up 

or

2) the person who wants to have sex will find another person willing...

for me i think #1 would happen. we have only been dating for 4 months and things have never gotten even remotely sexual or intimate so i dont know how it will go

yeterday i told her through text that it be nice to NAP with her and she kinda freaked out and told me i should know things arent gonna move that fast

im her first bf and shes my second gf (my ex and i had sex) and i would be willing to wait for her within reason.
<bot>: but am i wrong for thinking this? what should i do about having to wait? or worse if she does wanna wait till marriage?