<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

Two months ago, he decided to break up after 1 year because he wasn't feeling the "spark". He also mentioned that I appeared clingy/needy. I have not spoken to him in about a month, and don't have any immediate plans to initiate contact. However there is a party coming up around late-October, where I will see him.

I have gone down the route of improving myself (for me, not for him). When we were together, I was a depressed heap with little motivation. It hasn't been long, but I'm already noticing a change in myself. I don't see why I won't continue improving and I don't see myself ever going back to the needy, depressed, old me.

I envision the future me being emotionally strong and confident.

I don't have any thoughts that I "can't live without him" or anything like that. I really like him and want a second chance.

Now the big questions;

1. How can I approach him without seeming invasive or desperate?
2. Would it be ok to suggest a meet up (coffee or movie)?
3. Would it be ok to suggest trying again? Or should I wait and see how he reacts to me initially?
<bot>: He dumped me. It's been a few months. I have strong hopes I can get a second chance. How do I not mess up?