<human>: I've been seeing a guy for three months. We're not like "official", but I really fucking like him. He is so kind, being around him is intoxicating, the sex is magnificent, I adore him. However, he's still getting over an ex. 

I am usually not the type of girl to hate guys' exes. But this girl (whom I've had no communication with) is driving me crazy, or driving him crazy, or one of those. I have no doubt that she's pretty or competent or talented or whatever, but whenever he thinks about or talks to this girl, he goes into some self-hatred spiral, disappears, doesn't talk to me, etc.. I feel like the narrator in Jolene. 

I would be okay with them getting back together if she didn't seem to make him feel terrible. She's the type to post like Marilyn Monroe "if you can't handle me at my worst" quotes on her Facebook (btw girl it's because you're apparently the worst ALL THE TIME). I don't want to offer an ultimatum and be like "it's her or me", but at the same time, AAARRRRRGH, I kind of want to.

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<bot>: I want to offer support to the guy I'm dating, but if he keeps talking to his ex, I'm going to turn into an axe murderer.