<human>: This is an international relationship we are having. I have been with her for over five years. Over the course of the relationship a few times she would stop talking to me for --months-- then reappear pretending nothing happened.

 I guess also she is too busy since she will only talk to me one every two weeks. Doesn't help she refuses to do anything sexual. I made it very clear to her that I am not going to move to her country. She said she would "visit" honestly though I don't see that happening.

 Lately she talks about this older woman going after her being in love. Apparently hurt herself to prove her love for her. I told her stop being friends with her. She didn't listen, and is still "friends" with her. Even kissed some girl she was was drunk.

 We had one break up but got back together. I admit, I have a hard time finding a local relationship. I have autism so I don't get social cues very good. I think I gotten very bad habits from her. She puts me down a lot as well.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: I have a girlfriend that leaves and comes back months later/ puts me down, and gets into weird relationships with other girls.