<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

I'm female, he's male, and we're twenty.  We've been good friends for three years and we've become even better friends the past year.

I've been wanting to kiss him for three months.

At first, I thought he liked me too, and I was pretty pleased with the situation.  I'm pretty sure he rejected me, though.

There are times, however, when I'm completely bewildered as to how he feels about me.  When we're alone together, we seem to find ourselves touching each other quite a bit.  Not sexually, necessarily.  It got really extreme the other night when we were wrestling in his dorm room and we ended up breaking a fan, taking apart his bed, and in our underwear.  That might have been construed as sexual, I suppose, but we both sort of act sexual on a daily basis without meaning anything by it.  We're both the type of people who want to wait to sleep with people, have feelings for it and whatnot.

When we're around other people, however, he seems to keep me at a safer distance.  I certainly don't want to reenact the wrestling scene in front of people, but I would like a little more contact.  Sometimes I feel pretty distant from him in a group of people.

I am being much too optimistic in thinking he might like me, and I understand that.  I'm just wondering if he might be really trying to avoid PDA.  His actions just give me mixed messages.
<bot>: We've managed to get half-naked when we're alone together, but he puts himself at a distance around other people.  Could he have feelings?