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I know this sounds like a silly issue, but it hits on deeper issues in our relationship, so please read further:

When I showed my wife this game, which I'm very excited for, she responded with strong distaste at the content (strong violence, nudity, etc) and doesn't want me to play the game.

**Her thoughts:** The game is pointlessly violent, and encourages a culture of violence against and objectification of women in the world. She started borderline shaming me that by playing this game, I would essentially be playing a role in perpetuating that against women.

To her, it would be against her values and morals to support me playing games like this.

**My thoughts:** It's a game and a story. But more importantly... Our relationship dynamic has for many years been one where I've suppressed and sacrificed my own needs, wants, and self to accommodate her in various ways. Up to just a year or two ago, I was whittled to a shell of who I once was. 

After going to counseling for a year, I've been working to put myself first more often and to be myself more authentically. So, while I can see where she feels she doesn't want me to play this game, it puts me in a very difficult spot.

Do I not play this game I bought to make her feel better (for the sake of the relationship?)? This would mean also giving up some of the freedom I desire to have in enjoying a life-long hobby, which I only have time for a few hours a week these days.

Or, do be myself, continue to pursue putting my own needs and wants first for once, and play this game? Would that make me an asshole to her, or to society (like what she says if I play this game)....

I want to be strong. But I also want to be loving and a good partner. If anyone can share some thoughts or perspective, I'd appreciate it a lot.

Thank you!
<bot>: Bough the Witcher 3, and my wife doesn't approve at all of the content saying it's pointlessly violent and perpetuates a culture of violence against women. She really doesn't want me to play it.