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My husband is 31 and I am really thinking this was a bad idea to get married. We have been together for 6 years and I love him more than words can say. He really acts like nothing has changed in our lives. All the things he said he wouldn't do because we weren't married are still the same. Like he went out with some former coworkers tonight and has been gone drinking for 6 hours and is ignoring my calls, something he has done off and on from time to time for years but swore he would stop doing. He makes more money in 5 months than I do in a year but, I still pay for all our groceries and my own bills. Last week he went to a gaming convention with his friends and is planning their next all night LAN party but I get hell for going out to the movies with a friend while he is out of town. This just seems so unbalanced now, worse than before. He kept saying things were going to even out when we got married but nothing is different. He seems so unbalanced, he makes me feel like I am the bad guy. I don't know what to do. I am just realizing that things aren't going to get better if he isn't going to try. I can talk, ignore, yell, cry, pretend all I want but things are not what I thought they would be.
<bot>: Got married and nothing changed. I knew it wouldn't fix our problems but I thought that it would at least put us on even ground and it didn't. Now I am not sure if I made a huge mistake.