<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

Quick back story:
My mother physically, mentally, and emotionally abused me growing up. Offering me money to lose weight, calling me names, my chiropractor is certain that my back was broken when I was little. Moved out as a teenager and lived with my dad. 

Fast forward a bit: dated this guy when I was 18 who wasn't physically abusive but would build me up and then scream at me because I wouldn't have sex with him. We were together for three weeks and I was waiting for the right guy. He told me no one would love me like him, I wasn't good enough, and the likes. 

I've been able to move on from this shit, it was over ten years ago, I don't talk to my mom, my friends had great parents who helped me deal with shit growing up. I don't focus on the past, I focus on my kids and raising them right. 

Yesterday my friend posted a status, she had been in an abusive relationship and we were commenting about the things people had said to us. 

It was a public post, so anyone one my friends list could see it, a acquaintance whom I hadn't know for more then a couple years ripped into us for victim shaming (we weren't), someone else who is a domestic abuse counselor informed her we had all been abused and she thought it was awesome we could talk about it. Said Acquaintance stated that most of the group probably was but implied that I wasn't.
<bot>: I don't tell people my life story, able to move on from abuse, accused of victim shaming....myself?