<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

First off, sorry for the ugly formatting, I'm on my phone.

Husband and I have been married for a year and we're very happy together. We're just not really wanting to have the large wedding we'd been considering in October. 

The reasons, in no particular order, are as followed:

1. Husband gets out of the military mid next year, prompting a huge move that we aren't remotely ready for. 

2. Husband and I are also going to be full time students and money is going to be tight. We were paying for the wedding ourselves and we think it's a more financially responsible option to keep the money in a savings account.

3. Husband just got back from deployment in late February and we were gone all March and most of April visiting family. We had neither the time nor inclination to plan a wedding.

4. It's also a destination wedding for is in that we currently live in Kansas but most of our family is in Virginia, which is where the wedding is supposed to be. Anyone ever make a twenty hour drive in one day? I do not recommend.

5. We just... kind of don't want to do it anymore. We're thinking a recommitment ceremony at five years when we're a bit more settled. 

The problem is , we need to tell people in a way that is as least awkward as possible. 

It's also slightly more awkward for me because I was previously engaged and postponed that wedding. We obviously ultimately broke up, but it'll be the second time I call my family and tell them the same thing.

So, my main question is: if anyone else has been in this situation, how did it go and what did you say? 

We're starting the calls tonight as we want people to be able to back out of hotels asap.
<bot>: Husband and I are calling off our big wedding, mostly due to financial and time constraint reasons. How do we do this without calling our stable and happy relationship into play?