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Background:
Two years ago after a family crisis, my husband and I decided I would leave my job of ten years and stay home with our girls. We had financial issues at that time, but due to the crisis, I would have been working only to pay daycare. After crunching numbers, we decided that me becoming a stay at home mom was best for our family.  

Fast forward to present day, we now have three girls and have been struggling with money. I have been selling items to make up for the difference and to put food on our table, but I have ran out of things to sell. While we struggle, my husband has his 401k set to 20% and has almost $400 put away for his retirement monthly. I have explained how this decision hurts our family. I have begged him to lower it. He refuses. In fact, he insists on picking up a third job on the weekends to make our financial situation less stressful for me. He even told me that when I go back to work he is increasing his 401k to 100%. By him doing that, even with me working, we will still be working poor. To add to the financial burden, his mom just got her residency from Honduras to come here and live with us. He told her to not worry about a thing and he will cover all of her expenses. 
I do not handle money issues very well, it stresses me out to the max and I do not know what to do. Every approach I have taken ends in him accusing me of being envious of his money. All I want is to raise our girls and be able to provide them with what they need.
<bot>: My husband of 10 years is saving for his future (20% into 401k) while our family of five is struggling with paying the bills and putting food on the table.