<human>: So I started dating a new guy about a month ago. Me, 21F, him 22M. We've hung out quite a bit, with the odd scheduling conflict, but everything was sorted and it's all good.

The problem, is my mother. My ex's treated me like shit, as in made plans and cancelled instead of telling me they didn't want to be with me in the first place. Led to quite a bit of heartbreak and crying on mom's shoulder.

Now, after one complaint of one night where I found myself waiting for an hour after a vague meet up time for a date with the new guy (I was waiting for him to finish showering and whatnot before I went over, and it stretched to an hour), and my being annoyed and having words with him about it and it all being resolved between us, my mother has taken this as a sign that he could care less about keeping plans with me, and is 'not the one'. 

So far she hasn't insisted that I break up with him, but has made it very clear that she doesn't think I should be with him. She told me to 'friendzone' him. I told her I wasn't going to just drop him, that I liked him and wanted to be with him, and want her to accept that. She has so far just acknowledged what I said, and still refuses to have him over for dinner, and openly encourages me to cancel plans with him to hang out with others.

How do I convince her to give him a chance? She won't take my word for it on anything, and it's causing stress between me and him since he feels like a failure for not being able to make a good first impression.

Is there anything I can do to help her impression of him? I've been trying everything including pointing out how well he's treating me with dates, and not canceling any plans.

It doesn't help that I'm back at home and will be for at least a few months, so she's more involved in my life than she has been in a few years.

Help!

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<bot>: mother won't give new bf a chance, and it's causing stress all around. How do I help her see the light?