<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

Friends for 4 years, dating for 2 years. We both work in tech and my bf lives in San Francisco while I live in Palo Alto. Everything in our relationship is going well. He's my best friend, best sex partner I've ever had, all that. As we're planning our hypothetical futures, he wants to live in SF forever. While I (if I have kids) would want to settle down eventually in the bay area so these hypothetical kids could have a backyard and so that I could have a big kitchen. He grew up in what he describes as "bum f**k no where in Washington" and wants to be surrounded by culture, diversity, and city life. I grew up in the bay area and think that culture and diversity is still present in the bay. I know this is something to be concerned about as we start to get more serious. But what is a way to resolve this?
<bot>: BF and I have different ideas on where to settle down. He wants to live forever in the city, while I want to one day settle down in the suburbs.