<human>: She's been this way since I can remember, it's just as I'm getting older its starting to drive me up the wall more and more.

Everything has to be a secret with her. Example, I bought a new truck last year, not a penny of her money involved in it but I was told to hide it from relatives, namely my aunt and grandmother. Something came up where someone asked me to get a new couch for them, so I did and my mother about freaked out saying how she doesn't wanna hear them talk about me having it.

Another example, any family travel or anything was always to be kept under complete wraps. Never showing off vacation pictures or anything.  The idea of a weekend trip came up and she said "oh good I don't wanna have to take a personal day, my boss would probably think he's paying me too much if I can go travel."

Another semi related quirk, she bought herself a new car and hid it for as long as possible like she wanted me to until eventually it was impossible, as that obviously happens. Well now, she won't even drive it more than on a 20 mile trip. She seriously rents a car to drive 2 hours away with the excuse of "oh I just don't want the window to get chipped or get ot scratched or anything" which is reasonabe, but not to this extent. I told her she shouldve just kept her old car for around town.

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<bot>: Mom has these strange quirks that have always been around, now driving me up the wall. Not narcissist but what?