<human>: My GF and I have been together for 8 years now. She's had a history of depression in which I have tried to support her to the best of my abilities. I have not always been perfect, for example I know that I can be blunt from time to time. Especially when someone is being cynical about life, mostly because it is often not true.

Though I have tried to be patient over the years, it gnaws on me. Just now my girlfriend came home and she was knackered. I was going out for groceries for dinner (which I would be cooking later this evening) and she offered to do the dishes, which I happily accepted. When I came home and started putting the groceries away she started sighing about how much work it would be to do the dishes and that it was unfair if I wasn't doing the dishes. At that point I started to get annoyed that she wasn't clear from the start and I told her that I would have been happy to help if she would have asked me. After that I started doing the dishes by myself and she started helping me. While we were busy the argument continued and I admitted that I was feeling a bit weary about tomorrow because we would be going for a walk in the forest. Getting her out of the house has been a metaphorical fight from time to time, which might be linked to her past of depression.

Afther that, she reacted angrily, which I can partially understand. The thing is, that I'm feeling tired. Tired of trying to motivate her to do stuff. Oviously, I don't know how I should solve this.

Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?
<bot>: getting my GF out of the house / do stuff has become very tiring for me. What would be a solution?