<human>: Me 23F Him 25 - Just starting dating, been official for a little over a month. My last relationship was about a year ago, lasted for 2 years, so I've been used to being single and having that freedom. His last was about 6 months ago I'd say but not too serious. Its moved pretty fast. We have a really strong connection and amazing chemistry. Pretty much we are crazy about each other and everything is going great. 

The only thing that seems to be an issue is he's insecure from past relationships because he was cheated on and screwed over royally. I live with two gay guys, all the way gay (like freaked out by vaginas) and he still has an issue with it because they are still "guys". I go out to gay clubs a lot with them and he gets jealous but there's absolutely no threat. I am bi, and he has said that it worries him that I have more "options" for cheating? 

He just worries so much about me, even though I reassure him that I'm nuts about him, he still gets jealous. I'm just scared that this will turn into a big thing and eventually push me away from him because I don't want to be controlled. I was honest in the beginning about wanting to still hang out with my friends and not vanish because I got a boyfriend. He also dislikes when guys comment on my fb statuses or pics, but my relationship status shows I'm dating him. 

We talked about it a little last night and he just kept saying "I will learn to deal with it", but I don't feel like I'm doing anything wrong by still wanting to have a social life. I also don't want him to have to "deal" with anything, I want him to be comfortable and trusting. 

How can I gain his trust? I don't want him to worry and I understand he's been burned before. What is the best route to go with this?

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: My new boyfriend gets jealous of me going out with my gay roommates to gay clubs. He's been cheated on before, how can I convince him that he has nothing to worry about?