<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

General question; I put *not* in parentheses because I might find it more helpful to know when *not* to, rather than when I should.

I guess this could also lead to the question: "How do I know that I'm in love with someone?", but I won't ask that since it's supposedly different for everyone.

While the question is general, I suppose it wouldn't hurt to provide context as to why I'm asking this question:

#Context

About a year ago I met this girl at uni camp. Initially I was indifferent (I think), but after hanging out for a while in the first month, I found myself thinking about her **ALOT**. Also found myself denying that I love her, but, maybe I really do?

Anyway, we haven't really done much together, if at all. From what I remember, there's the excursion with other friends to some fun place (BOUNCEinc), and a dinner *"date"* (what makes something a date anyway?), but that's it. I do/did try to converse with her through IM, but it's never satisfying because she *always* stops responding without warning (I presume she's just busy whenever that happens, but maybe I'm fooling myself? I mean, the notifications are *right there*, wth?)

Fast forward a year later, to now, still wondering if I should tell her, and when. The doubt is mostly because we haven't interacted much and I feel it might make the situation.....awkward, but also because I suspect she's already in a relationship (not certain).

Right now, I'm thinking of calling her up and offering my time to chat over some coffee or something; see how that goes.

So, what should I do? Confess? Don't speak of it? Talk her into some night(s) out? Am I even playing the dating game (right)?

##context
<bot>: Aside from a "date" and an outing, didn't do much with "her"; want to confess but not sure if I should, thinking she's probably already in a relo.