<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for the better part of a year. When we were first getting together he had a lot of trouble deciding if he wanted a relationship or not. We broke up once before because of this. He ended up coming back to me because he had missed me a lot and missed our connection and comfort with each other. After that we basically ended up living together at his apartment for another 3 months. 

Recently he has been partying and going to a lot of concerts, which is fine with me. But I do always seem to be that voice that's warning him "you know, you have to work in four hours". 

Along with the partying he has just been becoming meaner by the day. He won't meet me halfway with any affection, which is very important to me. This has been causing a lot of issues. 

So now he wants to break up again. He says he doesn't feel any emotions towards me like he's completely neutral about us. He told me he wants to just "live his life", he says that he's selfish, that he's a bad boyfriend, that he doesn't want to be a goof boyfriend.

I don't know where this all came from but the way I feel for this man is making me attempt everything I can to make him realize we're worth it. He says that I'm a perfect girlfriend and that everything's just wrong on his side, that it's just not what he wants. But he did want it before, especially when we got back together after a month break. 

I know this looks like a lost cause, but he came back before. If there is anything I could possibly do, I want to know.
<bot>: Boyfriend doesn't care to work on relationship and just wants to drop it, while I really want to fix it.