<human>: I have never been in a relationship. I have had chances, I have dated but they have never felt right or that we would be good together. This one did. 

Four months ago when I started dating first boyfriend, it was the first time I felt a real connection with someone, someone who didn't just want to fuck around but actually get to know me.

We go on very interesting dates, we have a lot in common, close down bars frequently with how long we talk. He is kind, attentive, has his life together, is passionate about what he wants to do in life, and is just a person that you instantly feel friends with. (the sex is damn incredible).

I have always been very independent, I have had to be since I was little, I love alone time, I need it. I love company but I need to be alone sometimes to recharge. I like to see movies on my own, travel on my own and just observe life to calm down. 

Lately when we hang out it will be long stretches of time, like he will stay the whole day and night, and again want to hang out all day the next day. On week nights (I wake up really early for work and value sleep) if he comes over he stays super late and won't leave unless I ask him to despite obvious signs of wanting to just go to sleep. 

I don't want to ruin anything, I'm not good at letting people in and I can't tell if this is an issue with me not liking him as much as I thought, or if I just am not used to a person taking so much interest in me or wanting to see me so often. (I know thats normal I know I am weird but frankly I like my bed all to myself more room to roll around, and more blankets for me :P) 

So what should I do? I don't know how to tell someone that "yes I like you but uh I don't want to be around you right now". What do other introverts do when they want a relationship but don't know how to handle being around someone so much?

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<bot>: I have a great guy I am dating and I feel trapped and I don't know if I like him or if I just don't know what I want.