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I'm pretty sure there are already plenty of threads with a similar problem, and I would appreciate relationship advice from both the men and women of Reddit.

So throughout my relationship with my girlfriend of almost 9 months, we've gotten into several arguments over the fact that I have more female friends than I do male friends. Yesterday we had the same argument over the fact that I have a lot of female friends and how I'm always texting them. Which I don't believe is entirely true. She sometimes looks through my phone and looks through the call and text history, and knows that she is pretty much the only girl i talk to now. In past arguments I've cut off contact with friends i've known for years just to make her happy. She says the way I talk to them seems like i'm flirting with them, and doesn't trust them. However, that's just the way I've always talked to them throughout our years of friendship, and they really are just close friends to me. I don't know what to do, she tells me she doesn't like it when I talk to them, but at the same time she doesn't want to take me away from my friends, but that is exactly what it feels like, and I don't want to stop talking to my close female friends I grew up with. So I am stumped over what to do, there is no compromise to make us both happy.

For the other way around, I don't really mind her male friends because I have complete trust in her that she wouldn't do anything. She just says she doesn't like girls...

I completely understand how she feels, but at the same time don't know how to make both of us happy (and the article only comes from a female's point of view). I've always put her ahead of myself throughout our relationship, but this problem is a reacquiring nuisance that keeps being brought up. I'm in a dilemma over what is the best way to handle this.
<bot>: I have more female friends than male friends, and my girlfriend doesn't like it, and don't know what to do to make both of us happy.