<human>: Long story short he was tall, dark, handsome, funny, friendly, had a great job and family. We connected so well and had so much compatibility in terms of how we approached life and the interests we shared. Then he turned around and cheated. I did the whole forgive and forget thing and we tried to work it out but he went and did it again. Things ended, messily, but he wound up with the girl of his dreams. She's gorgeous, well-educated, sociable, rich, everything a guy could want or think of.

I went through years of therapy and have tried everything from just not caring and enjoying myself to finally trying out dating sites. I didn't dwell on him until recently. Lately my self-confidence has been taking a huge hit and after years of keeping myself together I'm finally beginning to wonder, "Am I just not good enough for anyone I like?" I have a great job, I take care of myself, I have awesome hobbies, I have an education, and I'm no model but I'm pretty good looking. Why are my standards too high but he can achieve his? If I had him before, why can't I find anyone as good who shares mutual attraction? Did he just use me when I'm actually total trash?

If the latter is the case, why bother going on? I'm not good enough for anything I want and need, so why bother? I don't want to settle for less than what I've already had. I'll just be unhappy, and I feel like I truly deserve better than a guy who cheated on me. I want to be with someone who is great for me and with me, I'm tired of dating guys with no ambition, no purpose, who I'm not attracted to, and who don't challenge m or make me want to be a better person.

I'm pretty quickly becoming genuinely depressed over the whole thing, I used to love myself and be so strong but... Now I just don't.

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<bot>: I feel like I'll never be good enough for guys I like. I guess my standards are too high, I just want someone I'm as excited about as I was with my ex.