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I've made a throwaway account because I know my husband would feel so hurt if I talked to anyone about this, but I am getting so frustrated and desperate about my situation! 

My husband has a lower libido than me. It gets even lower when he's stressed about work and school, which is often. This really gets me down because I can't help but take it personally when he rejects me sexually, and I also feel unattractive and undesired when I'm the only one initiating sex. When we do have sex, it sometimes feels like this is a chore for him and he is doing this as a favor to me. We are newlyweds and I really didn't think this would be an issue for us so early in our marrige! I appreciate whatever effort he does put in to our sex life, but it's still not enough for me to feel fulfilled on all levels. 

We've talked about it, I've cried myself to sleep many nights, and now I'm at the point where I think I just need to accept it and be grateful for the amazing relationship we have outside of the bedroom. I just don't know if it's possible to put the hurt feelings and resentment behind me. Has anyone else had a similar experience and been able to work through it with their SO?
<bot>: Newly married wife (27), husband (28) has low libido. Needs to know how to accept this as a part of him, and not feel depressed and rejected..