<human>: Little background: One of my coworkers and I have been flirting for the past year and a half. Also, It's a basic job that doesn't matter to both of us, and nobody would care if we were together or not.

We had a christmas party at our work and He asked me if I was going to kiss him for christmas, which caught me by surprise since he's never been that bold. So, I ended up kissing him and he asked me out on a date. We ended up making out and he stopped me, saying he wants to take it slow and not make things awkward for us if we didn't work out and still had to work together. So I thought that was sweet but then he said that if I wanted a fling, I could have a fling or if I wanted to be serious, I could be serious, or whatever I wanted to do, because he doesn't mind either way. So I told him we could see where it goes.

We go on a date, then another and another. And I start to wonder, what would we call ourselves. So I asked him if a friend were to come, how would I introduce him and he said whatever I wanted to do. So I said, could I call you my boyfriend? And he said that he didn't care, and to call him whatever.

and that kind of bugged me, because he didn't say he'd do the same about me. 

It bothers me because if he wanted to be with me, then why not just say, lets be together? Why can't he have a say in it? it makes me feel like he'd take me in anyway he could.

I just want to be on the same page as him, but I'm starting to wonder if he's just going through the motions just because it's something to do. That I can be happy calling it whatever I want, but he doesn't really care as long as he's around me making out or something.

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<bot>: Guy I'm dating told me that we could be a fling or a long term relationship because it is all up to me. I don't know how to feel about this and I'm confused about it.