<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

We are of similar economic backgrounds and his earnings are actually higher than mine. But after the turmoil of my last marriage (it was very bitter and demeaning- I just finished paying alimony a year ago), I feel the need for a prenup.

He was extremely offended. He handled my divorce and knows how devastating I was. He even told me I was an idiot for not getting one during the divorce. 

But he says that he is nothing like my exhusband and resents the implication. He also thinks it's pointless, since he makes more and we are worth roughly the same amount. He then asked why I was already thinking of an end plan.

How can I make him see that this doesn't have anything to do with that... this is just a precaution like wearing a seat belt.
<bot>: I(26f) am recently engaged. My first marriage ended in bitter court battles, but when I discussed prenups with my fiance(30m) he was very offended. How should I approach this?