<human>: A bit of fast backstory i guess.
We had a thing going on the first 2 weeks after we met with some kissing and lots of flirting, decided to knock it off because we were both having a lot of problems but kept contact. She started acting worse and worse towards me, didnt do much about it untill my parents got divorced and uncle died and i needed her to be there and she couldnt but kept acting badly.

I was then at a party where she accidently (Very bad wording from her part) Said i was nothing more than a one night stand to her (She has said multiple times before that and after that i am very important to her) we decided to have a talk about it in person where she began to cry because she knew she had fuckd it up and not me, told her i would get over it at some point but i just needed space (She told me here she couldnt see us EVER being more than friends, yet she gave signals for a kiss when we said goodbye) then a few days later with almost no communication she writes to me and tells me I apparently have trashtalked her to one of her female friends saying she is a slut etc, Thing is I do not know this person BUT I should be able to guess whom it is. The only reason im thinking about taking contact is because i wanna know if she misses me and feels bad about her behavior, im just a bit afraid she will say no or I will not be able to be as "cold" as i am now.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: unsure if I should contact a Female friend after I told her never to contact me, its been 4 weeks but not knowing if any of the nice things she said was try is frustrating for somereason.