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We have been dating almost a year and a half now and the stress of the relationship for the past 4 months have been unreal and causing me anxiety. 

Long story short, we meet the first week of our freshman at college. Immediately hit it off, but were fuck buddies for the first semester. Afterwards, we developed into a relationship.

Fast foward to this past december, him and I traveled to Korea together, since he has to do his mandatory 2-year service there. Had a great 3 weeks and he stayed in Korea and came back to the US.

Within the past 4 months, everything has turned to complete shit. 

*He was supposed to go into the service in March, but broke a ligament in his shoulder causing him to go in June instead.

* He called me drunk one night threatening to kill himself because he had been so stressed out

*Had a 3 week depression because all he can do is stay home because of his shoulder

*Healed enough to earn extra cash at theme park, but realized he was working 16hrs for shit pay

*Called me drunk again, threatening to break up and said that he cheated on me while we were being fuck buddies (Still wasn't cool about it, but forgave him)

This is all on top of him basically being a shitty communicator (we text and call each other), him liking pictures of the girl he cheated on me with, and him not keeping most of his promises.

I swear he was never like this within the past year but for some reason he has completely changed. I deserve better and want to end things, but whenever i talk to him, I have to urge to forgive everything and beat around the bush. I was supposed to today, but I backed out and told him about all the stress he's given me, and all he told me was that he didn't want to talk and told me he will call later this week. (which is normal for us)

How can I break up with him without confrontation and being direct at what I want to do? I never have broken up with anyone before.
<bot>: Can't not figure out a way to break up with long distance boyfriend without backing out and old memories flooding my mind when I talk to him.