<human>: Hi there. My wife of eight years and I are experiencing a lot of issues right now. I'm depressed and have been for most of my life. I'm trying to seek therapy, but can't afford much. My last session was three weeks ago this coming saturday.

The meat and taters is this: My illness is affecting everything I do and/or say. It casts a palpable pall over our family. We have two young children. My wife is through with living life as if she's just waiting for the next blow-up. We have arguments over the stupidest things. Last night, I think it finally reached a head, and I suggested that she get a lawyer and get this over with, so she can move on with her life the way she wants it. For myself, I'm sick and tired of being told how I should be, how I should act, and *who* I should be. I love her, but I'm not so sure I'm *in* love with her anymore.

Should I just keep on keeping on, while she gets a divorce or should I move first?

Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?
<bot>: Depressed hubby is tired of being forced to change to keep family. Wife is done waiting. Divorce may ensue. Good idea/bad idea?