<human>: So I ran into a friend of a friend at a recent street festival. I had a crush on this friend of a friend last summer but she had a boyfriend. When we ran into each other at this festival, I found out that she was single at the moment. We never really hung out individually but after bumping into each other, we decided to hang out one on one. (So far, so good...)

After the first time we hung out, we had sex. But it wasn't that awesome. We've since hung out 4 or so times since then over the course of the last month. Usually 1-2 times a week, not that much compared to other girls I've started hanging out with.

The problem I'm having is that I'm just not into her like I thought I was (or hoped I would be). She's really cool and I want to like her, but something is missing. I don't want to hurt her, be an asshole, or anything like that. But I really think it would be better if we were just friends. How do I do this without coming across as a jerk?

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<bot>: Got a date with a girl I thought I was into. After hanging otu a few times, it just seems something is missing. I want to like her but don't. How do I end it without being a jerk?