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My fiancé and I have been together for almost 2 years, engaged for a little over a year. I knew he had absurd amounts of student debt (well into 6 figures) when I got into this. I have an autoimmune disorder, so we used to joke that it evened out.

It's caused problems throughout our relationship. In the beginning, he went through a lot of changes and really modified his behavior entirely so that we don't really spend very much at all anymore, and are no longer living paycheck to paycheck (we are, however, consistently paying off our honeymoon and wedding, so we're not saving much either). We've gotten to a place that is stable and may eventually even be lucrative. But it won't be for many many years.

I keep getting incredibly jealous of my sister, his brother, and our friends (really, anyone that has the luxury to be comfortable). I get upset every time we go see his family, because they like to play the "things would be so much better if you didn't have crippling debt" game (yeah - where were you when you were supposed to be telling him this a decade ago?). I've spoken to them and him about it, but he says it's their way of dealing with their disappointment, and just to ignore them.

I can't stop holding it against him, even though I know he regrets it and is working hard to make life better for us. Is there a different perspective that could help me? I don't intend on leaving him, so other advice would be helpful.
<bot>: My fiancé has a ridiculous amount of student loans, which completely interrupts my silly visions of what life "should be" - and I'm having a hard time with the let-down of my financial future.