<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

We've been together for 2.5 years and it's been great - she's great. But she procrastinates to the point of ridiculousness. To give you an example, she didn't file her taxes for 3 years *that I know of.* It's probably been longer, in actuality.

About two months ago, we had a big talk and I told her I needed some more romance in our relationship and more sex with some spontaneity (once a week right before bed every single time isn't going to cut it anymore.) She asked if the romance is really important to me and I said yes. I love sitting on the couch and watching Netflix but I need something more than that. 

I also asked her to find another job. I'm a service provider in a spa so I get paid by service. When I started my job in the fall, we were super busy all the time and I was making really good money. She was/is working a part time retail job, which I was fine with. But now, business has slowed with the summer season and we're struggling. I'm making a little more than half of what I was previously. I asked her to please find another job months ago. 

And I guess you can see where this is going. None of my requests were honored. I've brought up the job thing several times and she says she knows she needs to....but she hasn't. I know she has social anxiety, but like seriously I'm so sick of hot pockets and rice. We need to eat! 

It hurts me a lot that she puts my needs off. God, at least try! I'm going to talk to her about this soon, probably tonight or tomorrow. I need advice on how to get through to her and make her see that this is fucking important to me. I love her, but I don't know that I can spend the rest of my life wanting something that she can't give me. It makes me really sad to think about. 

Help me, reddit.
<bot>: My partner of 2.5 years knows what I need, but doesn't deliver and is putting off getting a better job. I want to talk to her, but I need to optimize the convo. Help.