<human>: My husband and I are both of Afghan descent and we have been married for around three weeks now.  Our marriage was arranged, as is typical of Afghans for family reasons and such, with no real input from us.  We both have lived in Lahore, Pakistan for some years now and we come from a typical conservative background.

Our marriage isn't very good, to say the least.  We don't talk to each other much, we sometimes spend entire days doing things apart, to say we don't communicate well is an understatement.  We get into fights quite often, and then afterwards just spend more time apart.  

We haven't really made any serious effort to improve it either. It seems like anytime we approach each other, it's just a recipe for disaster.  None of the other aspects of marriage are doing so well for us either.  It is not the absolute most miserable situation ever, but it is not one that inspires much confidence and hope.

My husband is not a horrible person, not at all, he is a good man, but I don't know what the problem is, I guess it is just me?

Most people I talk to from around where I live tell me variants of "stick together" or "it will work out eventually".  Others from outside my country typically tell me the opposite.  I don't know who is right and who to believe, I'm honestly totally confused.

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<bot>: in an arranged marriage for a couple of weeks that has been cold and distant, we don't get along well, and divorce is not an option.  Totally confused on what to do, asking for help.