<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

I didn't have a relationship or even a fling that lasted longer than a few dates till I was 23. At that time I met a girl [22F] and tried dating. She kindoff pushed the relationship aspect and we were together for 9 months total (broke up 3 times during that time period, with the 3rd being the last time). I did the breaking up since there were a lot of issues that arose, like her severe trust issues and insecurities with all of my female friends, as well as going through my phone twice and finding nothing.

After that whole fiasco, I was back to being happy and single. Also to mention, I'm not player, or amazing at picking up women or anything, but I also don't have a problem getting a date or being social at bars. But for me now, it has gone to where if anything goes over 2 dates, the idea of long term dating or a relationship in general is just making me feel uneasy, and it's the last thing that I want to do. Which usually makes me end things and cut contact with the person (respectfully, not just the whole ignoring texts thing). Is this pretty normal for someone my age , or should I figure something out?
<bot>: Didn't have a relationship till late, first one went bad, have no desire to date again. One nigh stand city