<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

Reddit, I'm becoming incredibly frustrated. I Just finished my freshman year in college and I'm still a virgin. For some reason, I've always had trouble getting girls - back in HS I never had a girlfriend and didn't have my first kiss until senior year. My frustration led to desperation which scared a great girl away. I worked on myself and really improved my self esteem by pursuing hobbies, spending time with friends (guys and girls), and learning to love myself.

I've got a lot going for me - in a fraternity, 6pack abs, good personality, nice car, 4.0, involved in a TON of extra curriculars to meet new people, but for the life of my I can't get girls.

On paper, I'm perfect and all my friends tell me it, but my lack of success with girls makes me think there's something really wrong with me. What compounds my frustration is the fact that my buddies that I played football with in high school made a killing, but just like in high school I got nothing.

I started using tinder and I got quite a few matches, but I wouldn't message girls for fear of coming off as a creep. Girls would message me, but they were usually just looking for attention. And the couple of girls I did message never responded.

I can't pin it on anything - Is it because I'm only 5'8", have very dark skin, I'm always busy, my school is small? Thing is I know people with way worse circumstances with way more success - what am I doing wrong?
<bot>: Everyone tells me how awesome I am, but I'm struggling to get girls. This is leading me to feeling like there is something wrong with me - why can't I get laid?