<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

OK I known this girl since a year and a half, me and her get along great and eventually we started dating. its now been 4 months since we been dating and sadly there is a problem, she is Punjabi and i am Mexican. now i know some of the basic idea that most Indians have to marry or date the same race. my girlfriend told me i cant be seen by her family because they wouldn't accept me since i'm Mexican. 

Even though on her side of the family has no idea she is dating me, my family does and they are really cool about me going out with her, and if i choose to, i could marry her, but that's still a touchy subject. Now the problem....she told me that her dad or aunt is looking for a husband for her, but she doesn't want to get married by some guy they choose for her, she rather stays with me, but she doesn't want to disrespect her family either, she really loves them, but she has no choice. soo she is leaving next year to India to talk to the husband, and its upsetting but i obviously understand, but it really makes me wonder if, i could go talk to her family and maybe just maybe, get to understand that i want to be with her.

My question is, do Indians or Punjabi hate if an outsider dated there daughters and wants to marry them? now to be honest she just thinks that her family wont like me or accept me, but i always tell her, "you don't know until you ask." so anyways please help me out. thank you.
<bot>: im dating a punjabi girl and i want to know if her family or a punjabi family accepts an outsider.