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Sorry beforehand for any grammar mistakes, I'm just seeking some advice. This is currently just some background information. I'm currently 19 and my gf is 18. She is currently in college while I am not. Me and her have been dating for over a year, and we have had talks about moving in with one another. We live in different states, and I'd prefer to move up with her. Right now she lives with her mom, and I live in my dads house while he is over in Europe.

 Her mom and my dad are extremely controlling people. They have been a constant stress in our lives, constantly degrading us and making us feel like horrible people. I personally want to separate myself from my father, but cannot access the money I have saved up from working as it's in his account. My other bank account is under my grandpas name on the paternal side. I have $4k saved up currently, while I'm unsure how much my gf has, but her father helps her out and sends her some money once in a while.

 I want to be more independent, I want to simply escape from my father. The state I want to move up to is Oregon, at a place about an hour drive from the coast. What we fear is me struggling to find a job, and I would want to at least work two to make sure I make a decent income for living expenses, food, water, electricity, etc... If I were to move up there I would have nothing, but some clothes, and money my mother might send to help me get away from him.

I'm just looking for financial advice, anything I might be missing. Advice from those especially who at a young age essentially ran away from their parents, that would be wonderful. I can always give some more information if you ask. Thank you for taking the time to read this.

Also I know we are both pretty young, but she is the one that mentions all the time about wanting to live with each other.  Also she asks me questions such as "do you see us together still if we were 30?"
<bot>: Wanting to move in with gf, and we both want to get away from controlling parents.  I'd move up to her state, but worried about finances too.