<human>: My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. Everything about our personal relationship is fantastic. She's a wonderful partner and without a doubt my best friend. The only issue I have is that she has an incredibly low libido. 

I started doing nofap at the beginning of the year which has been an awesome experience. I'm more focused and driven in school and much more confident and outgoing in social situations. Since I no longer handle my own business I look forward to intimate time with my gf much more. 

We probably have sex once every 10 days or so which is no where near often enough for me. We've had countless calm conversations over the past 2 years about what I would like and she always just apologizes and promises to try harder. It's never gotten better. I don't like to initiate anything anymore because she had a habit of making me feel like some sort of deviant whenever I tried to get frisky over the past 2 years so I just wait for some half-assed and (what feels like) forced romantic time. Obviously I do most of the work whenever this happens and the SECOND it's over it's time to clean up and move on. 

I've tried speaking with her openly and that hasn't given me any results. She's on birth control which I know lowers libido but she's happy with having a more regulated period so she doesn't want to get off of them. Any advice of other ways to get our sexual schedules more in line?

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<bot>: GF of 3 years isn't making an effort to help meet me half way with being more sexual after COUNTLESS adult conversations about our respective sexual needs.