<human>: I've been dating this woman for about seven months, and I'm pretty sure she might be the one. She's amazing, and funny, and intelligent and SO passionate about her work, and I didn't know I could feel like this about a person.

Recently (because I hate my current job) I received a job offer for a company that will afford me *AWESOME* job benefits. Like healthcare on the first day, along with matching up to 6% in my 401k. I'll get 50% off of my phone plan, along with a free work line that upgrades every couple of months. In addition to that, I'll get a $1,000 signing bonus, *and* they will pay for me to return to school. I will get commission, and overtime is frequently available.

But the hours will change significantly. Instead of having a regular 9-5 weekday job, I will have a rolling schedule that changes week to week, and I may not be able to see her as much. In fact, there is a strong likelihood that our schedules will be different enough that we'll barely see each other - and in addition to that, I won't be able to see here on the weekends anymore.

And this is making me hesitate. If I were single, I'd have jumped at the opportunity *yesterday.* But the increased instability and distance will likely put a strain on our relationship, and my friends and family feel like I'm a sucker for even hesitating.

She's expressed her worries, and while she insists that she will support my decision either way, she is clearly uncomfortable with what this job might mean for us.
 
Any advice?

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: I really like this woman, but I have a job offer that will put our schedules at odds, and significantly cut down on the time we can spend together.