<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Hello, /r/relationships!

4 months ago i met girl that looked like my previous crush, though she has a lot more interesting lifestyle, than previous one. I thought that i like her because of associations of that girl, but now i convinced that it is only visual appearence similarity, internally they're rather different, and i want to get to know her. 

As i said, she is introvert, at moment when we met we was at underground artists exhibition. I didn't knew that she had bf at that moment, we exchanged a lot of looks, i guess, i even thought that she likes me. Her relationships with bf was excellent, i was told. 

Few weeks ago they broke up, because her bf didn't treat her right. And i know she is in that period, where's she won't dating etc, because they had damn long-time relationships. And now her ex writing to her everyday asking "how can i change?". I trying to write her, but she didn't see my messages. I wrote last one 13 days ago, still not '*seen*'. I can't go out with her either, we're not so close to do that. So i waiting our common friend, so we can go out.

My question: what should i do when we met? I really want to help her, because she in deep depression, and i don't want to stay just shoulder for her, but a whole man who can treat her right.

Ask me details, please.
Also, i'm psychologist myself, so you can speak with me using psychological terms
<bot>: introvert girl in depression because of broke up with her bf, and i want to help her and become a bf possibly