<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

Hey Reddit,

Sometimes I can be a really nervous person, especially when meeting new people.  Currently going to a summer job that involves me acting as a Residence Assistant at my college for a few weeks, and I'm really nervous about meeting new people and whether they'll like me or not.

When I'm around my friends, at a job interview, or giving a speech in front of an auditorium, I'm a firecracker.  I'm a top scholar, a hard worker, and a lot of people like me when I'm just being me and I don't care what they think.  When I do care, it affects my body language, the way I talk, and people don't like me as much.

What do I do to stop caring so much, and being anxious?  How do I get into action to not care and be the cool me that I love, others love, and that takes a long time to get comfortable in social scenarios?
<bot>: Get anxious all the time, ruins my confidence.  People like me when I'm normal weird old me, how do I channel that and just be chill?