<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

Boyfriend M18 and I F15 have been together for 10 months now and sex has always been prominent in our relationship. Neither of our parents were told about this. I have visited clinic and I am on the pill, and have been for several months. 

Today my boyfriend told me that his dad basically told him that we were ok to have sex at his house so long as we are safe, and that he wants to sit us both down and talk about safety. 

I am absolutely furious about this, not at my boyfriend but at his father. I am safe and I have been for a while. I know how to take care of myself, and it is a discussion I have had many times with my parents. 

Is it odd that I am this angry? I feel that my safety is my business and my boyfriends parents have no right to start telling me what to do. I feel that by all means, they should discuss it with him, but my personal health and safety is a topic left entirely to me. I have known these people for less than a year and while I trust boyfriend to the grave I do not have that trust with his parents.
<bot>: boyfriends parent want to have the sex talk with me and I'm extremely pissed because I think it's my business.