<human>: SAHD of 14 week old here. I'm loving every second of it, and it's even better than I imagined. However, my wife is having a real hard time with the adjustment. There's a couple issues at work:

1) She doesn't see the baby nearly as much as she would like to. She leaves for work at about 7, and gets home at about 4, so she sees the baby only about 4 hours a day during the week. And he's usually asleep for an hour or 2 of that time. 

2) She's jealous of me, and the things I get to do with him. (She's told me as much)

3) She feels like she "isn't taking care of us (or the house)." When she comes homes, I make sure everything is done, so she doesn't have to worry about it and can spend time with our son. So when she walks in the door, the laundry's done, house is clean, dinner's in the works, etc. We're pretty progressive and not into gender roles, but this is one of her idiosyncrasies, she feels better when she cooks for me or does the laundry. I'm not sure what to do here, as I don't want to leave stuff for her I could easily do, especially when she gets so little time with him. 

The decision for me to stay home was mutually agreed upon, but also partly circumstance. We both made about the same amount of money (she made a couple thousand more). However, she loves her job, and I hated mine (I was already looking for a new one before I decided to stay home). Most importantly, she carries the benefits. She's a member of a union, so family HC is like $100 a month, where it was $1000/month through my job, with less coverage. After our son was born, we couldn't find a day care we really liked, and really looked at the cost of day care, and decided if i could bring in some PT money, we would be in the same spot. So I left my job, work PT a few hours a week, and it was settled. Or so I thought. 

Things at home have been really tense and emotional lately.

Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?
<bot>: How can I help my wife be ok with our decision for me to stay home? What can I do to help her with this transition?