<human>: So the girl and I have been going out seems pretty faithful. I know for sure. Just my thinking is the problem.

I haven't been treating her like a girlfriend and she kinda has when we go out and I don't ask dating questions with her. But I told her I would like our relationship to be more than friends soon.

I'm in control of the relationship because she asked inderectly (i mean through her friends and family) when i was going to ask her to be my GF. So I know its all set up and I will soon but i dont know why i wait. But anyways.

I get a text from her of her telling me where she is. Its a house of her parents friends that have a son who she was a GF of. Probably High school. maybe middle school or elementary. I have no background on this other than her dad working with the other dad.

She makes sure to tell me theres nothing funny going on. And i lie and tell her i got nothing to worry about. I lie because I thought it was abnormal to. The thing is that im super attached. and have one-itis.

Im a jerk for feeling anger becasue I have my share of ex-gfs but i wouldnt mention them to her until she asks as my GF.

She told me how she avoids coming there but I somehow doubt the effort she speaks of. 

Im a pessimist and think in worst-case scenarios(which i now think its a bad system for me in relationships)

I totally trust her there but dont know the intentions of the ex-BF

I dont know about other males but if I still had my ex-gf visiting I consider that a win and will consider flirting as a tease or disrespect to the current bf.

Im just wondering if im handling this just fine?

 What are the next steps?

 I really want this relationship to happen but this needs to clear up and I dont know if to wait after we're together.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Future-GF apparently visits her ex-bf familys house maybe 4-6 times a year im guessing. How to deal with this for our soon future?