<human>: My wife asked me for a divorce about 3 years ago. We handled our separation very amicably and have remained friends. In a couple of weeks, I will be visiting her as she wants to talk before signing the divorce papers (I signed a few months ago already). I know she regrets ending our relationship but I have moved on.

My concern is that she has a history of depression. I am a very happy person and have completely moved on yet I found the signing of the papers to be really upsetting so I can't even imagine what it must be like for her. I plan on telling her that it's just a piece of paper and we will still care for each other after everything is signed.

Only recently did we have an argument over everything. My point was that this was what she wanted and she probably only regrets it because things didn't turn out the way she hoped. She said that it was the depression that made her ask for a divorce in the first place and that I'm unreasonable because I can't forgive one mistake. Of course, I do not want to go down that path again.

I guess what I would like is some advice on how to make her feel at peace with everything. I want her to know that I still care for her yet know that it is over for sure. Despite being married for years, I've never really known how to handle her depression so I would always remain silent and wait for it to pass. In this case though, there is no avoiding it.

Thanks in advance

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<bot>: Ex is getting ready to sign divorce papers (I already have) and she has a history of depression which I have always been clueless on how to navigate. I want to minimize the amount of depression that may occur.