<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

So, as I understand it, actual communication is almost entirely non-verbal. When a man is interested in a woman, he is (usually subconsciously) utilizing different postures, tones of voice, and various other means of transmission for "attracted/attractive" body language, and the woman can easily understand his intentions.

Would you agree that in today's egalitarian society, where the gender norms of the culturally conservative '50's and before are gone, women are seeking, "the ability to know if the man can control his state of mind/paradigm/construction of reality but to allow the woman in question to share input and help construct that view of reality."

In other words, in order for you to be in a successful relationship, you must constantly be in "sync" with each other, that is to say, you are each, "building the foundation for a shared reality, by communicating emotions non-verbally, but also shaping this view with logical substrate where the man takes the substance point blank/objectively, and accepts it based on the principles of rationality."

In other words, he is simultaneously accepting her emotions as irrational and believing them non-critically (I hesitate using the term irrational because it has a negative connotation, I'm merely trying to use the actual definition of the word) while also accepting her information but he is allowed to be critical of that falsifiable information.

Thoughts?
<bot>: Does a man have to allow a woman to shape his conception of reality in order to be in a successful, long-term relationship?