<human>: OK serious case of caught feelings here. This is really putting me back and I cannot seem to move on and is seriously harming my love/sex life.

This is about a girl I met through mutual friends at uni  I was close  to. I did sleep with her and spent a bit of time around her but nothing ever progressed further than a few shares of a bed. As much as I wanted it to I never even asked to take things further - at the time I'm pretty certain things could have.

Anyway I still have crazy bad feelings for this girl. I've finished uni, got myself a job, but she still has a couple of years left at uni. I now work away from home and a fair distance away from what was my uni (still in the same country). However could so be relocating nearer to home at my old uni. I also do travel so would be willing to go see her.

Me having these feelings for this girl is stopping me from finding someone else to share my life with. I've tried Tinder and going out to meet others but I keep 'forcing' myself to hold out for this girl, hoping something may happen.

I keep thinking about a message I could send her just to get it off my chest. If she comes back and say she has no feelings towards me and there is no chance of anything happening then I'm fairly certain I can move on. I'm a bit curious about this as she could then think of me as some kind of weirdo? Girls, what would you do if this happened to you? Would she mock me with her friends.

I'm not talking to her over FB or Whatsapp every day, in fact the last messaged her was well over a month ago, however she does still acknowledge my existence and likes a couple of my tweets, FB posts and we have exchanged general chit chat over Twitter mentions.

Like I've already said, this is holding me back massively - I don't want it to start effecting my working life as I've worked hard to be where I am.

Advice on this would be massively appreciative. Thank you in advance

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<bot>: Girl I met I uni I caught feelings for. Can't let go of those feelings and is holding me back.