<human>: My SO is muslim and he has given me all the happiness in the world. I wouldn't be able to finish college without him and his support. He genuinely saved my life.

My family ADORES him. He is such a good influence in my life and has changed my whole world. All but my cousin and his wife.

My cousin is extremely bigoted. He constantly sends me these facebook pictures about how Islam is two faced, violent, etc. He has voiced his concern that he doesn't want me to live my life being my SO's "bitch", and that men from his country just want to control and oppress women. (Hm, I wonder why my SO helps pay for my college and encourages me unconditionally) It annoys me that he believes all this AND has never done a single damn thing for me. It irritates me that he is like this towards my SO who has put SO MUCH effort into making me happy and my cousin has never been involved in my life. I don't want to invite him because it would make me sad to have someone at my wedding who I care about who so deeply disapproves of my marriage despite what my SO has done for me. 

My immediate family supports me and they don't think he needs to be there, but some are pretty irritated. I'm pretty sure my uncle won't even come to the wedding either now. 

I'm really ready to just say fuck it and only invite my immediate supportive family and friends who have given a damn about me at any point in my life and are happy to celebrate my union with this wonderful person. But some are telling me "he's your FAMILY!!" 

What should I do, and how do I handle it in the most graceful way possible?

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<bot>: My cousin is very bigoted and racist against my SO and I don't want to invite him to the wedding because of it. Some people in my family are upset by this.