<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

My ex and I, together for a little over a year, broke up (mutually and amicably) nearly 4 months ago. Our relationship was by no means perfect. Our communication skills were shitty at best (nonexistent at worst) and neither of us ever really truly loved the other. That said, I did care about him deeply and wanted what was best for him. I still do. We still rejoice in each other's successes, even though we are now thousands of miles apart and broken up.

At first, I wasn't too broken up about the relationship ending. Like I said, it wasn't anywhere near perfect. Unfortunately, that is starting to change (probably the result of a flirtatious conversation and him admitting that he missed me) and I find myself missing him more and more and thinking about him more and more. Seriousky, I thought it was the other way around. 

I have two part time jobs, but nothing that is mentally stimulating. I am desperately searching for a way to get him off my mind, but it's not working. He was the one who reached out to me first, but now he's pulling away. I certainly don't need a relationship right now. Yet here I am, thinking about him and wondering about him constantly. Frankly, it's bumlshit and I hate it. It makes me feel weak and pathetic.

Reddit, what should I do? I don't want to go NC or anything. I just want to have a healthy perspective that most relationships end, and it's almost always for a good reason (as in this case). How can I get over him, and force myself to realize that this is for the best.
<bot>: Amicable break-up with ex 4 months ago. Didn't miss him much at first, but I'm finding myself missing him more and more. How do I distract myself?