<human>: Backstory, i broke up with her for reasons that dont really matter. I still love the girl very much and would like to get back together. But the thing is now she insists that we are just friends (with benefits) while some would say this is the "dream" position, its just not for me at this point in time.

She always wants to be with me, comes over we cuddle and shit, have sex etc. Its like i am in a relationship but she insists that we are just friends. One example is like this we can be sitting there watching a movie, i turn around, i kiss her and then she suddenly says "I think you are getting a little to close" and like 5 minutes later she comes crawling into my lap and pulls down my head and start to kiss. 

I got hundreds of those stories, and i gotta say my mind is twisting around itself so much i cant really think in a normal way anymore.
Usually im very good at talking and get my point across, but this girl, man she just makes my head go blank.

What i need from reddit is smart comments/conversations that can help my case in order to really get the point across to her. In a way that she would understand. I know reddit is the biggest bowl of some of the smartest/funniest people in the world, so im guessing if you guys/girls cant help me no one can.

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<bot>: ex instits we are friends, we have sex and are together all the time, what can i say to her to make her understand this is dumb we should just be together again.