<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

I broke up with my first boyfriend after nearly a year of being together, and have been single for a little over a month. At this point I'm certain I don't want to go back to him or that relationship, and am at a place now where I want to start dating again.

I'm not particularly great at flirting, and I'm kind of tired with online dating (although I'm still at it, but sparingly). I'm also afraid that I'm going to be biased when it comes to guys in thinking about my ex, and not giving them a decent chance because of it.

How should I approach dating now? Share experiences about your dating post breakup?
<bot>: single and ready to mingle after breakup a little over a month ago, and need advice on how to warm up to dating pool.