<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

*Me (28F) and my boyfriend** 

Okay kids long time lurker, virgin poster, so here goes. I'm going to make this short because it isn't a very complicated situation with a lot of detail, but nonetheless need some advice as I'm too embarrassed to talk about it with my friends. 

Me and Bill (it's a cool name but not his) love each other a lot. We have a great relationship in that we are both extremely respectful of each other, support each other during hard times, encourage each other during good times, don't ever fight, and at this point don't ever have sex either. Our relationship is starting to feel like a friendship because nothing exciting ever happens, sex or non-sex related; it feels like all the passion has gone away and it's not like we've even been together for 20+ years. 

That being said, I do find Bill physically attractive and always have, but somewhere along the line we sort of just stopped doing it. It's obvious to me at this point that he has a pretty low sex drive, as do I (along with other inconvenient insecurities), but it bothers me for a few reasons. One, it makes me feel like he isn't attracted to me even if he compliments me. Two, I'm afraid it's going to be the demise of our otherwise awesomely functioning relationship. Three, I'm also afraid it won't be fixable as I know I have my own issues with feeling sexy and doing sexy things, and feel it may be more deeply rooted than I suspect and thus more difficult to "fix". 

So I guess my question is, if anyone else has had experiences like this, what did you do? We've talked about it a million times and it feels like nothing ever changes, we just go back to hanging out like bros who love each other (eehhh??)
<bot>: My boyfriend and I have a great relationship but we never have sex...like ever, and I'm afraid it's going to ruin us. What do I/we do?