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Separated for 9 months, 3.5 year old daughter, husband, married 7 years. 

In November of 2010 I found out my wife was having an affair with her co-worker.  After many different tactics to try and repair our marriage, most of them by me, she finally moved out in March of 2011. In June we lived together again but in separate beds... and in July she moved in with the other man.  

I was so hurt and emotionally raped of everything that I was as a man, that I obviously did many things to which I am not proud of, Many of the things I did were in an attempt to fill the gaping hole that was the spot in my heart where my wife used to be.  

She has made it abundantly clear that she does not want to reconcile.  

I have been on and off depression and anxiety medications, and I have since gotten a new place to live, new vehicle, and a new job even.  By  all measures I should be ecstatic... But I'm not, I can distract myself during the day, but when I'm by myself or laying in bed at night i overwhelmed with sadness and loneliness... 

I want these emotions to go away, I don't want to miss her anymore.  

Other than time, what are healthy things I can do to get over this crap?? 

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<bot>: 7 year, 1 child, Marriage is ending... i'm extremely depressed... looking for healthy things to get over the depression...