<human>: I met her while out with friends and have been seeing her a couple times each month but keep in good contact by text/FB as she rents near her University and I'm still in my Hometown.

We find quiet places talk and make out 
(I know it sound like we're 14 Yo's sneaking out of our parents house but it feels like more than that) We go to friends' party's and clubs as a couple but we're not 'official' as such.

We really like each other but we're at a stage where we mutually feel the other would be offended if we touched a wrong place on the body; we'll touch or rub each other's hair, leg, ass but I guess it's down to whether we are sexually ready. I don't know what to say or ask her without feeling like I'm pressuring.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Early 20's meet for a week or 2 each month for romance but not sex. Are we ready for the next level?