<human>: Hey, so a little backstory here - 

We've been dating for about 6 months, known each other for over a year. We've done some big trips together already and have some more planned this summer. We're steady, communicate well and support each other. We're not perfect, but we do our best.

I spend the night at his place (his place is bigger, nicer) about 5 or 6 nights a week. (And it's been that way for at least 4 months). We are pretty comfortable just hanging out low-key (example: he does computer things at his desk, while I watch TV on the couch) as well as doing things together.

I have no roommates, and rent isn't cheap. I don't believe in moving in with someone to save money, but it definitely seems silly if we're heading this direction not to at least have the conversation!

Some more history:
My last relationship was a 3 year relationship, 2 year marriage. So while I love his companionship I know that a commitment to live together definitely means there's no step back. You can't go back to 3-4 nights a week together. (Not that I want that, just know it's a truth)

His last relationship: an on-and-off relationship for about 9 years where he lived with her. He ended it about 9 months ago.

Okay, so -- I've been thinking a lot about how when my lease is getting close to running out I would kick myself if I didn't at least have the conversation. Is that insane? We would be dating for 9 months at the time of this future conversation. My idea would be that either we're both like "yeah sure, let's!" or "hm, in another 6 months sounds better!" or "oh, wow, uhh that doesn't sound like anything that should happen soon..."

(I think the first two sound better) :)

I don't want him to feel pressured, since I really do want it to be a conversation of our wants/needs/feelings.

Any help or advice on when/how to have the conversation?

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Sleeps over with BF five nights a week for 6 months. Want advice on how/when to talk to BF about possibly moving in together.