<human>: Reddit please help me, I dont know who else to talk to and I really need help with my situation. I am a 16 yr old girl, I just finished sophomore year in high school and my boyfriend is 19. We have been dating for almost a year since last July but long distance since August when he left for college. I love him a lot and he loves me but a month ago he told me his roommate gave him a bj. Well of course I was really upset but he told me its ok because they were high.

Well I told him it was ok but I was really upset inside, and three weeks ago I went out with a friend who has been my good friend since sixth grade. We went to a party that his friend was throwing. I didnt really know his friend but I trusted him which I guess was a big mistake. Because he gave me beers which I am not used to and I got drunk for the first time. Then he took me home in his car because I was throwing up, this is where it gets bad and hard to write about.

We ended up fucking which is a really a big deal since I havent even had sex with my boyfriend, only handjobs and he gives me oral. I was waiting until senior prom to have sex and now I just lost it with this guy that's not my boyfriend. Please Reddit do you have any advice on how I can tell him? Im freaking out that he'll leave me and I love him so much and I can't tell anyone in real life for advice. I just need to know how to tell him.

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<bot>: I cheated on my bf who I havent had sex with yet and had sex with another guy who I dont even care about. I have to tell him but I dont know how, I really need advice.