<human>: Give me a shortened version of the text

I've been close friends with this guy for 5 years. in love with him for 4 years. people have always assumed I was the one friendzoning him. I told him I loved him as soon as I did. he told me he wasn't in a position to date and didn't want to ruin our friendship.  I said okay. every few months I'd bring up dating again and would get a similar response.  I asked him if it was even possible for us to ever date. he said yes. 

now what pisses me off...I've told him that if he is gay to let me know so I can move on. (a few different reasons which led me to suspect he is gay...he once admitted to being bisexual).  I've also told him if he still loves his ex girlfriend and hopes to get back together with her to let me know so I can move on. he very explicitly said that those issues had nothing to do with a potential relationship with me (he has a lot of legal issues). 

now recently I've noticed he keeps his phone close. doesn't let me near it (he is always on mine). I've noticed stories don't match up on where he's been or who he has been with. I snooped this morning when he was passed out drunk. 

he has been fucking many people...men and women...coming from a man that supposedly hates random hookups...
he also has been in contact with his ex girlfriend.  they each said they missed each other. she told him to come down to her place and visit with a winky face. 

I hate myself for snooping.  I hate that I still love this guy. I told him I snooped...but hes been using work as an excuse to avoid discussing situation.
<bot>: I've been in a 1 sided relationship for 4 years...need advice on how to proceed with my emotions as well as my friendship.