<human>: Sorry for those 2 post shortly after another. 

Tonight i got a text saying that: "She doesnt want to see me in a club tomorrow. She and her friend "T" planned it a long time ago and I should stay away to not destroy it. Also i got asked by a friend "B" of hers after her "Idea" two weeks ago."

So here is the thing. Friend "B" asked me already 4 weeks ago. Also nearly all of my friends will go there without even knowing she comes. 

I really dont know if i should go but not because of her but me. I am 100% sure i dont want to see her dancing with another guy. But on the other hand because she "gave me the order" not to go i think f*** it and go. 

Funny enough that if I knew she would come i propably would have stayed at home. 
So reddit what to do? I am a bit at a loss and I dont want to give in.

I will not drink more than a few drinks and she left me 1+ Month ago.

Can you provide a brief overview of the text?
<bot>: Ex orders me around which leads me to not want to follow orders. But not sure if good for my healing process.