<human>: Neither I nor my fiance are big into dancing. We both find it fun, but ultimately don't enjoy doing it in front of people. To this end, we plan on having a playlist and a friend in charge of change overs, and card games at the tables, with food that is easy to eat while playing, in the hopes this will be more enjoyable all around.
We don't want to spend money on a dj when the majority of our families don't dance much to begin with, and we don't want the party to be boring to the people that don't want to dance. My step dad, however, is trying to insist. I'm putting my foot down either way, but have any of you tried the game or no dj route? How'd it go? Would or wouldn't youdo it that way again?

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<bot>: don't want to have a dj, want to have games at most tables. Advice/ anecdotes would be greatly appreciated.