<human>: I have been dating Wesley on and off for the past two years. The thing is, I'm kind of Wesley's side-girl, the one he goes to when he breaks up with his on-and-off girlfriend. We were never too serious about each other anyway and both agreed to consider this FWB relationship. 

For the last six months, Wesley and the girl he'd been dating broke up 'for real'. He said that he doesn't want to be with her anymore, but finding it hard to move on. I think because his attachment with the girl is diminished, he started to really woe me. I started to fall for him, but we're not exclusive yet. I know that he has a lot of baggage from his previous relationship.

Lately, he'd been telling me that he and his ex needed to talk about their breakup. There's a possibility of closure OR getting back together. I find myself reeling over this. I know that we're not exclusive yet and she's his first everything, and they had been dating for over five years. I don't know if I should wait until he's done, or prevent him to get closure and/or contact with her because it's over already. I don't want to seem demanding, but I can't keep my emotions in check either. 

What should I do?

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<bot>: New 'boyfriend' wants to have closure/long talks with his ex. I'm reeling. I feel like I should give him space, but then I don't want to lose him either. What should I do?