<human>: Me and my close friend both really like this small musician and when i found out that he was playing near us i asked her to come with me. She was really hesitant and only committed on like the day of the gig. She mentioned it to a couple of our friends that she might not go but they mustve convinced her to come.

We grabbed dinner first and ran into a friend of ours and she made it very clear that it wasnt a date, and mentioned how "everyone around us probably thinks we're together but we're not" 

I guess i found it a bit awkward because i never thought it was a date, and strange how clearly she was pointing out it wasnt. I was really trying to not make her uncomfortable when i found out close and intimate the gig was, thought it wouldve been a bit more lively. 

We've been friends for about 9months and we're really close friends. I guess i should point out that i did initially have feelings for her and we kissed, but she decided to be with another guy. This was 6 months ago they broke up 2 months ago and I have not intentionallly done anything to give her the impression that i like her ( i dont really, i realise that she would be to hard to get to commit to anything serious, she really indecisive.) i even asked her best friend (whom im also close with) if she thinks that she knows ive moved on. People keep thinking i still like her which is also annoying, because right now i'd just like to be friends.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Why would she feel like she needed to make it so clear it wasnt a date? How can i get people to stop thinking theres something between us because i think shes made it quite clear shes not interested?