<human>: My boyfriend and I decided in May that we wanted to move in together... and we spent all of June, July looking for a place. He just moved into our apartment Aug 1; I'm not moving in 100% until Nov 1 as I have a lease with close friends until that time (he can afford the place by himself for now, and we're going to be moving things over slow and steady). I have been and plan to continue spending most nights a week at his (our!) place. (I guess it's still hard to think of it as "ours" when he pays the rent til Nov)

Most of our disagreements up until this point have been centered around the fact that I feel pulled between two households... I am SO looking forward to that being over. He rarely stays with me because I have two roommates and all kinds of avoidable situations arise compared to if we just stayed at his place alone. 

Just from the past week, unpacking his stuff and figuring out all the spaces in the apartment (leaving room for furniture that I'm bringing) has resulted in a very "your space" vs "my space" situation.... and I'm totally at fault. I hear myself saying it over and over again. "Your food goes here, mine goes here." I've lived with roommates for 8 years now, and before that I grew up with 3 brothers. Its like my brain just naturally divides space, "yours, mine, yours, mine, yours." -- I need to start using WE and OURS more.

Any other tips on moving in together? I'm just looking for general advice, when it comes to cleaning / cooking / errands / etc. Thanks!

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<bot>: I'm moving in with my boyfriend Nov 1. I'm scared! But excited. But scared! What is the best advice you've heard about cohabitation?