<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

**BACKGROUND:**

I just started dating my SO a month ago. We met at a party through a mutual friend and hit it off, hung out a bunch for a month or two afterwards, then put a label on it. 

**THE PROBLEM:**

Everything so far has been great, except I think we have different communication styles. When we are together (like hanging out in the same place), we have no issues. We've been fantastic at speaking up when something bothers us or we want something in particular, etc. When we're NOT together though, the communication lines are dead. 

Typically I am a texter. It's an easy way to check in with my SO, ask how his day is going, show him I'm thinking of him, etc. **My SO is not.** Every time we text, I feel like it's forced, and any conversation we do have is a formal conversation worthy of email. So essentially, when we're not together, we don't talk. We do see each other 5/7 days a week though.

**MY QUESTION:**

Should I bring this up to him? 

If I do, my fear is that I'll come off as a needy, overly attached girlfriend that's insecure and thirsty for attention. Additionally, if he's not a texter, he's not a texter. He can't force himself to like it. 

If I don't, I need to figure out a way to shake off this feeling that he only enjoys my company when we're together. I feel unimportant at this point and I hate it. My previous SOs constantly talked to me and made me aware they were thinking of me/wanted to spend time with me, so this relationship has been a difficult adjustment.
<bot>: My SO hardly talks to me unless we're together in-person. Should I bring this up or shake off my insecurities?