<human>: I have been with my partner for 2 years, and 6 months ago he moved in with me. He has had infrequent work during this period and rarely contributes to household bills, though he does pay for some of the food. He says he is having a rough patch in his life and needs to get sorted out, which initially I understood but now 6 months in I am wondering if I am being taken for a ride.

Reading that back, it would seem obvious that I am, but this man is the sweetest most kind man I have ever met, and to suggest he is purposefully out to take advantage of me doesn't fit with his character in general. That said, I work full time, pay most of the bills and do most of the chores. I have tried to discuss it with him, and he says he is doing his best to get back into proper work, and I have even tried to help him apply for jobs. But still, there are days when he pretty much does nothing except watch TV. 

Are there ways to help him be more ambitious or motivated? Or is this a losing battle, where he is never going to grow up and take responsibility for himself? Would love to hear from others who have been in same situation (and those that haven't!)

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<bot>: Is my partner lazy/unmotivated and I am being taken advantage of? Or, as he claims, do some people really not know how to organise their own lives?