<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

My grandparents recently adopted me, which is awesome! I'll be getting SSI (I think that's the word for it), and it'll be a good amount. My grandparents are struggling pretty badly, and I already feel bad because they have to support me. 

My grandma said they're going to take just what they need, and give the rest to me. I want them to take a set amount: like, 75% or more. I don't need money at the moment, but they do.

Problem: my grandpa is insanely proud. He would refuse it on principle. My grandma will refuse it because, as she considers it, it's 'my/your' money.

So, Reddit, how should I approach giving this to them? I really don't want to just go with it, I really want them to take it.
<bot>: My grandparents adopted me, and I'll be getting SSI. I want my grandparents to take the majority of it, but I know they'll say no. How do I get them to say yes?