<human>: We used to just fool around a few years ago, I should say that at the time we werent in a formal relationship because I was somewhat of a sleaze bag and hurt her plenty. After a while, the inevitable happaned and I had a child with another woman and she dated someone else.

 I always regretted not being a faithful to boyfriend to  her and apparently according to her she never met anyone else who she wanted to be with and missed me as much as I missed her. So we reconnected and have been trying to in a real relationship for the first time but now of course the new complication. That has come up is that she isn't interested in having g sex. 

She has said that she isn't attracted to me but somehow doesnt want to give up on us and wants to be with me because.. I have no idea why. But she insists that's true. I only believe her because she does seem to try very hard to be a girlfriend to me but I can always feel there's something missing. 

I personally am very excited to be with her and find her attractive in EVERY way. But I find it hard to be rejected by her when it comes to sex. It's becoming a real.lroblwm. And I'm not sure what to do. This is the first time I've ever tried being in a normal relationship and I dknt know if this is like a normal stage of a relationship that people regularly go through. Any advice would be great thanks in advance

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<bot>: lonf term on and off girlfriend doesn't seem interested in sex with me. Now that we are trying a real relationship is this normal thing that can't be overcome?