<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

Ok, aren't really partners yet, but we like each other openly (too long to put all that in the title) and have known each other for about a year. She has very low self esteem because she has dated total douchebags who treated her in ways that no girl should ever be treated. She feels like she has a lot of baggage, and that she's "too fucked up" for me- a nice guy. She doesn't know what she wants.

I've tried talking about it, but I feel like my compliments and affirmations of her positive traits are going nowhere. Since we established that we liked each other, she's been reluctant to talk in general and I think this might by why.
<bot>: what can I do to help a girl who returns the feelings I have for her, but is afraid of commitment and mistrusting of guys who claim to love her?