<human>: I'm using a throwaway for an obvious reason. Please forgive me for any mistakes, I'm on mobile.

So, throughout my life, I've had bed wetting problems and still wear adult diapers. My father had these same problems, however he grew out of them when he was around 16.

So, when I began college, I met my wonderful boyfriend. And we've had a pretty serious relationship, and its gotten more serious. I've gone on overnight trips with him and have gone through many lengths and rings of fire, to hide my problem from him. I go to a urologist that's three hours away where some family members live and its helped somewhat. I've been prescribed medication that sometimes works, and keeps me dry at night. I've bluffed going to my appointments to the doctor by telling my boyfriend that I'm just helping out my family members that live where my urologist is located. 

Honestly, I didn't know this relationship would be as serious as it is now. And well, for obvious reasons, didn't want to tell him that I still have bed wetting issues. We're sexually active and every time he comes over to my house to do the deed, I spend thirty minutes hiding every trace that could link me to bed wetting. 

I've spent our whole relationship lying to him. And going out of my way to make sure he would never find out. However, I feel like a piece of shit for doing so. And want to come clean. But I don't know any type of way to. I obviously can't say "Oh hey, by the way, I still wet the bed." 

My boyfriend has done so much for me. And when I say I love him, I mean it. And I don't want to lose him. He loves me too, and has accepted me of every flaw that I have. (At least the ones he knows about.) He's my perfect fit. Everyone we know jokes about us getting married, including our families. 

I'm sorry I've been jumping around everywhere, this is something I've been meaning to ask, but never had the courage to.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: I'm 19 and still wet the bed, and have lied to my boyfriend, also 19, for the duration of our relationship (a year and a half) about it. How can I break the news to him?