<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

So we wern't perfect we had little things wrong with our relationship but i didnt realise it was as bad as it was for her.

she came over saturday after a night out saying we need to take a break,i got quite upset so i just told her to leave and get out of my house, it then followed up with a long winded text about how we need to change, i said that i felt like she was only listing problems that were to do with me, and she said she also has to change for me. 

no contact for the rest of saturday, i was quite distraught by sunday so sunday night i sent the text "if your going to break up with me just do it i have enough anxiety and things to worry about this week i don't want to worry about this for a while week" she said she does not want to and that was it.

monday afternoon comes around and i get a text "can we talk" so once i finished uni i invited her over. then what i can only describe as the most heart wrenching break up happens. she tells me she dosent want us to hate each other so its best if we don't talk for a while to get over us. she asks for a hug and a kiss and leaves. i was pretty distraught and didn't get any sleep that night so i send her a text "can we meet please and talk" followed by "i dont want to pour my heart out by text please all i'm asking for is 5 minutes of your time"

she finally agreed, and when i went to plea my case asking for one more chance just a bit longer, she was so cold with me told me she didn't want to feel like she was in limbo any more.

Its been 4 days now since the break up, and iv'e done a lot of self reflecting and realised that I was the problem, I don't expect her to take me back at all/or any time soon but, she was still my best friend and i miss that.
<bot>: GF of 5 years breaks up with me because i'm an idiot who thought i didnt need to change and now i'm kicking myself because i lost my girlfriend who was also my best friend