<human>: **The Good**

- We agree on all the heavy hitting topics (finances, child-rearing, religion, lifestyle, etc.)
- We adore each others' parents
- We communicate very well and are comfortable expressing when we're upset
- We both contribute roughly equally to the relationship (both financially and emotionally)

**The Bad**

- I don't *feel* the relationship as much as I used to.
- I often (several times per week) find myself wondering what relationships with other women would be like.

**Background**

I've battled chronic depression since I was a teenager. I've also bounced around from job to job (all in the same field, but different companies or departments within the same company), relationship to relationship for most of my adult life. I've always been the one to end either a job or relationship, and it's almost always because I've felt like it was just "time for a change". In some cases, I've had concrete reasons, but they're often pretty abstract, like "I just don't feel it anymore".

I've now hit that point with my current relationship. The point where I'm ready to blow it all up and start over. But is that a product of my depression, in which case I'd be throwing away a strong, healthy relationship, or am I simply missing something (yet again) in a relationship that I need?

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<bot>: I don't feel my (otherwise wonderful) relationship anymore. Is it caused by my depression, or do I need a fresh start?