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I know it sounds like a really odd question, but it is a bit of a concern. For context, I'm 5'0 and 190lbs. I hit 200 and realize I was going to keep bloating unless I did something about it now. So I'm cutting back to 1000 calories a day. Well when I did that, we drew up a list that was basically "This isn't a competition. We do this together. Etc."

One of the clauses he put in there when we started was "What you eat, I eat." Problem with that is he is 6'4 and I'm 5'0. He's already where he is supposed to be.

Unless I physically get up and make food for him, he will go all day without eating (when he's not at work). I don't need to eat very often or very much. I have plenty of fat to burn off. He doesn't. I'm getting concerned that it's not healthy for him, and no matter how many times I say "Honey, you know you need to eat more." he will just shrug it off. 

Should I just continue my current method of making food for him when I'm not hungry, or giving him double portions? I'm worried that if I weren't here, he wouldn't remember to eat.
<bot>: My husband needs 1900+ cals and I only need 1000 but he tends to eat just the same size portions as I do. Help me get him to see that's unhealthy?