<human>: Me (F) 20, Him 20, together 3 years, LDR for 1.5

  My SO has problems with getting himself to class, studying, doing his homework, and all around being a good student. He recently failed two classes and just had to drop one because he was already failing (4 weeks into the term). I am incredibly disappointed in him to the point where I find him slightly less attractive as a partner.

  The reason this is such an issue is because he is ridiculously intelligent. He knows he is, I know he is, we all do. He is capable of getting straight A's in every class and learning all of his material with ease, he just chooses not to.

  We have had plenty of conversations about how he can get his shit together as he doesnt enjoy failing or doing poorly either. The problem is that he comes up with these miraculous plans to make things better but he can never follow through, this problem bleeds into other areas of his life as well.

  I though he was doing better. I ask him frequently how things are going, how was class, how are you feeling? and it has seemed like everything was fine. I understand that he may have kept me out of the know because I know what he is capable of and try to stay active in his plans to better himself.

  My issue now is what can I do with these feelings of disappointment? Do I stifle them and stay supportive? Get on his ass about his work? Cut my loses and end things? Is this even something I should care about?

  Even if I may be handling myself in the wrong way, I mean well. I really just want to see him at his best, how he wants himself to be.

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<bot>: SO can't get his shit together academically, I am disappointed in him and not sure how to carry on from here.