<human>: The two of us have decided to get some advice as we both love each other very much, but are currently going through some problems that we can't solve on our own. 

It essentially comes down to two issues; things in the bedroom haven't been what they used to be and we both have that niggling feeling that we may be missing out on "life experiences" as this is the first real relationship either of us have been in.

A bit of background information; like I said before, this is the first time either of us have been in a relationship, and we were both rather introvert, myself not having much sexual experience and me being her first.

So regarding the problems in the bedroom, we've been a bit unlucky, I've just started getting over a problem with premature edjaculation which left both of us frustrated,  and now she has been having problems getting aroused. 
I worry that she no longer finds me physically attractive even though I know she loves me, but also think it could be our lack of confidence around pleasing each other.

Lastly, this may end up just being a grass is always greener thing, but we've both spoken about this a fair amount, and neither of us is anywhere near ready to settle down with a house and kids. However we both worry that in the future we might regret having not experimented more, dated different people, etc. Equally if we do break up we dont want to take the chance of loosing each other.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Spark seems to have gone, have been considering seeing other people, but still love and don't want to lose each other.