<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Hello all,

Please excuse me as English is not my first language.

I would like an outside perspective please on the relationship between me and my wife.

I have been married to my wife for around 9 months after dating for approximately 2 years. We met through friends and I truly see her as an intelligent, beautiful and caring person.

A bit of an issue that has been on my mind is the way she and her father talk to me.  Earlier in our marriage when we had our disagreements we would sit down and talk about it peacefully until a resolution was reached.  Now if we have any disagreement it quickly resorts to her ignoring my suggestions and name calling under her breath.  This seems to have gotten worse ever since we moved to be near her family.

Me and her father do not have the best relationship.  In his own words he believes his daughter should be married to someone more assertive and someone that does not shy away from social events. 
I do admit, I try and avoid big social events as I truthfully find them quite exhausting.  I don't hold any anger towards him and he has a right to his opinion.  However I found out through my brother and sister in law that whenever my name is mentioned he refers to me as 'the nincompoop', I brought this up with my wife but she seemed to brush aside the issue.

I am starting to think that the way my father in law is talking about me is actually starting to affect the way my wife treats me.  I am considering talking to my father in law one on one but I really doubt I can do anything to change his opinion of me.

My wife and I both work so I don't think it has anything to do with finances.

Could someone offer any advice as I can really see this getting worse, thanks.
<bot>: Father in Law has no respect for me, believes his daughter should have married someone else and is starting to affect how his daughter (my wife) treats me.