<human>: I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 8 months. I haven't been feeling great lately due to lack of sleep and we have been fighting and arguing more. I feel that whenever I say that I do not want to do something because I don't feel good, he takes it as me being lazy or uninterested. We were fighting yesterday and he brought several topics that hurt my feelings. He said that I would feel better if I lost weight, I'm 5'7" and 160 pounds. And I would, but now i'm feeling very judged about everything that I eat in front of him. He also told me that he's not attracted to me sexually because I don't completely shave/wax down there. And to top if off, my clothes make me look homely. Should I suck id up and lose weight, shave, and dress better or tell him to fuck off?

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<bot>: Boyfriend wants me to lose weight, shave/wax. Should I suck it up and do it, or tell him to fuck off?