<human>: So my husband and I recently decided that we were ready to have our first child.  It was a huge decision and we are both really excited about it.  The problem is my husband is telling everyone.  When we made this decision we never agreed that we would tell people, to be fair we never said we wouldn't either.  However, I never really liked the idea of sharing this with others. Both of us are the oldest of our siblings, so we already get tons of pressure from both our families about this subject.  I didn't want to add any more pressure by telling everyone that we were trying.  Not to mention I think it kinda lessens the excitement when we tell them we actually are expecting if they're already asking us every five minutes if I'm pregnant yet. 

 I'm really upset that he keeps telling his friends and family without talking to me about it first.  It also doesn't help that he is doing it when I'm not even there, so I don't even get to share in the surprise and excitement of the people he's telling OUR news to.  I know this was a big thing for him and I'm really happy he's excited about it but it really is pissing me off and hurting my feelings.  Am I just being too sensitive about this and overreacting?  Should I just be happy that he's excited and keep my mouth shut?

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<bot>: My husband is telling everyone we're trying to get pregnant when we never agreed to tell people and without me even present and it's pissing me off.