<human>: As the title says, I [22f] can't get my mom [44f] to stop opening my mail. Duration of relationship is ~22years... I do not live with her anymore, I live about an hour away and I'm still in school. I often use her address for my more important information since it is more likely to stay the same and I don't want my mail floating around to strangers at my old addresses.

She checked the mail yesterday and I had something from a credit agency in California. She asked me about it and I told her it was probably a credit report I had ordered, I'd check next time I saw her. Well a couple minutes later she texted me telling me the contents of the mail. I replied about the contents and asked her (for the third separate time) to please stop opening my mail. She texted back 'no, what if it's important? I want to make sure you don't get yourself in a bad place.'

So I called her today and told her essentially what I'm about to say here. I think it's really disrespectful to open my mail regardless of the fact that you know I have asked you not to. You show that you 0 trust in me to be a competent adult and make good decisions and to keep my head above water. And even if I weren't making the proper decisions, it really is not any of your business. If I were making terrible financial choices, then it's my fault. And not something you need to bail me out of, otherwise I will never learn to function properly as an adult.

For the record, I am doing fine financially and have 0 negative ratings on my credit report. I know she means well, but I am getting very frustrated when my wishes are just being ignored. Am I being disrespectful to her? She did raise me and is just trying to look after me, but it still just irks me. Should I just get a P.O. Box?

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<bot>: My mom won't stop opening my mail regardless of what I've asked, I got upset. Am I being disrespectful? Should I get a P.O. Box?