<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

My ex and I were fwb and during our time together he refused to use any protection, but I did. I was on the pill, had the back up ( day after pill) and charted. Around the time I got pregnant I had changed pills but we didn't mess around, mostly because I was on my period. We did though the last day of my period.

A month later I find out I'm pregnant and tell him. He declares I stole a child from him and this was all my fault. He disappears to his moms house in a different city. I still have his number, but haven't tried to call him. I understand why he's mad, but I would like to sit and talk to him.

I refuse to get any kind of child support from him due to the fact that my brother and I don't know our respective fathers and got no child support and have been raised just fine. So I'm not looking for him because of that. I'm looking for him, because I have a chance to possibly keep the father in the picture. And for me, growing up with out a father is rough for a kid in younger ages around fathers day when you seem like the only kid without one.

I just want to give my kid a better chance. But how can I start this conversation with him, when he'll barely answer my calls?
<bot>: I don't want anything financial from him, I just want him to meet the kid. How can I go about that conversation?