<human>: Okay so i'm a fairly social guy and get along pretty well with most ladies. Don't ask me how or why but women always seem to fall for me. We go on a few dates, might sleep together, might not and then boom I get the "what are we or where do you see us heading." Slight exaggeration as its usually more subtle hints about the future or a relationship but you get the point.

I'm genuinely not looking just to sleep with these girls but actually get to know them and find out if I want a relationship with them. The problem is i generally don't and by the time i've made up my mind they have already fallen for me. Dating time can very anywhere from a couple of dates to a couple of months. 

A few of the ways i've used in the past to break things off have included:

Telling them I like them as a friend.

Being a dick to them so they start to hate me.

Being honest and saying that i don't want a relationship with them.

None have been all that success, being honest has meant that the girls keep trying for something more and then eventually get all angry and resent me. Better as friends works slightly better in the long run and i can have a friendly convo if i run into them in the streets. However I cop a lot of hate short term. And being a dick, well you can probably guess the outcome. 

So my question is should i take up a one date rule and unless there is crazy amazing fireworks call it quits? Continue breaking hearts and stop caring about how hurt they get? To not sleep with them unless i know i want something more? Or any other suggestions?

Alternatively any sure fire ways to make them stop liking me? 

**also not in trying to brag about my "lady pulling abilities", all i do is be myself. My only advice to people who have the opposite problem is just be yourself, if you have to pretend you might get laid but in the long term your not going to get anywhere. Also make them laugh, don't take things to seriously.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Women fall for me, i don't fall for them. Unsure of best way to break it off or to stop them falling for me so fast.