<human>: So one of my good friends (let's call her Amy) is going through a lot at the moment. The main thing is that her father has very aggressive cancer, to the point where he is going to die soon. The other thing is a guy (Matt).

Amy "met" Matt in August through tinder. They've never actually met in person, he goes to college in a state that is very far away from us (like 2 hours by plane). Matt is a horrible excuse for a human being in that he convinced Amy he was coming to visit her, let her think he loved her, had her waiting for him at a restaurant and then ghosted her for four months. He got back into contact with her two weeks ago claiming that his friend manipulated him into not showing up and that he loved her. For some reason she bought it and now they are "together" again (still never met in person, FaceTime confirms he is who he claims to be).

She wanted to send him something for Valentine's Day and he wouldn't tell her his address because he "doesn't deserve it". She is hoping he sends her flowers. It's not likely, he's never spent money on her afaik.

She thinks he's changed, he's feeding her a sob story about how his parents are getting divorced and his sister was in an abusive relationship... That sort of thing. I doubt any of it is actually true, but even if it is he is still a dick.

Amy just won't see it, and I'm worried that when he gets bored ditches her again and her father dies she is going to fall apart. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can support her when her world goes to shit?

Thanks guys!

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<bot>: My friend Amy is going to have to deal with the loss of her father and probably the pain of losing the person she considers her boyfriend; how can I be there for her?