<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

I've only had one relationship in the past four years (that lasted just three months) and I've been trying to stay positive and just focus on me but I feel like either I'm doing something really wrong or I'm just broken or something. I mean for god's sake I was in college and all that and nothing happened. I tried definitely but nothing ever worked out, I'm 25 now and I feel like these and the next few years I should have been dating around and partying and instead the most action I get is from my right hand.

I also just moved to a brand new town that's two states away from where I lived, so now I'm even more alone. There are a lot of cute girls at my work but every single one I talk to is taken. They'll give me their number but then tell me they have a boyfriend or casually "bring it up" later in the conversation. And don't get me wrong, I had one friend here that led me to having more friends, so I have a handful of new friends that I like, but they are all guys. They go to bars and stuff sometimes but I'm a teetotaler and I don't drink, plus I have terrible anxiety to begin with (working on finding a medication that will work with my shrink, so far nothing). I have the worst social anxiety of all time, I constantly feel watched and nervous, yet despite that I still make moves and go after girls but like I said above it just doesn't help.

I'm trying to focus on me still but I'm breaking down, I want sex, I want a relationship, I want to go out on dates... this girl at my work (that I'm not interested in) gave me a hand massage the other day and I almost wanted to start crying... that was the most human interaction I've felt in a long, long time, how pitiful am I?
<bot>: Had one tiny relationship in the past four years, I feel like these should be the best years of my life and now I'm getting old and don't know what I'm doing wrong.