<human>: My girlfriend and I are going to be moving in together, but each of us live in different cities. I live in Indianapolis, She lives in Cincinnati. We need to decide which city we will end up in. 

We both have great jobs, making very decent money, though she makes a little more. I cannot do my job at another company, as it is proprietary software. Though she could do her job at other companies, she is worried the pay will not be as good and or the atmosphere will not be as good. 

There is a chance I would be able to work from home, though I have not pursued this option yet as I am due for another promotion soon (one that will increase my pay significantly) and I don't believe it is a job I could do from home. Working from home would put a stop to my career and I would be stuck doing the same job without any chance of promotion.

We have put each other first and jobs second, but knowing that we will be together takes care of what's first and has made this a very rough debate. 

More background:

We are both from the same city, which is between Cincinnati and Indianapolis. This is not an option because it is an hour and a half from each city. Finding a city in the middle off of 74 has been discussed, but it would mean a little over an hour one way for each of us. We would like to avoid commuting that far. 

Unfortunately, all this is put on a wonderful timeline of apartment leases being up, so the decision needs to be made soon. 

Has anyone else done this before? How did you decide? Any constructive advice, opinions, or facts about the cities that may help would be appreciated.

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<bot>: Girlfriend lives in Cinci, I live in Indy and we want to move in together. How do we chose?