<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Hi, /r/relationships, first time posting here so apologizing for that in advance. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for two years for now, and things have been alright until the past few months. Basically, me and my girlfriend both are constantly committing microaggressions against each other. We're constantly at each other's throats over little things(one time she yelled at me for forgetting to close her door, I get angry when she won't stop complaining about things neither of us have control over). We communicate very well, and we've talked about all of our problems but they never seem to get better. Basically, I'm not sure if it's a healthy relationship or not and I want to make things better, or end things if it's for the best.

I've honestly been feeling kind of shitty about myself lately, partially over the fact that I get so frustrated with her, and largely over the way she treats me. I'm honestly left feeling like a glorified personal assistant to her a lot of the time. She has me run errands or do things like pack for her whenever she's short on time(almost all of the time). She puts her schoolwork ahead of me, which I understand to an extent, but the only time I see her during the semester really is when I'm doing things for her.

In the end, I'm left feeling broken, lonely, and useless. I don't want to break up with her because almost all of our friends are mutual friends that I met through her that I know I would lose if I broke up with her. I'm not great at meeting new people, so I'd be feeling even lonelier. We also hold extremely high ranking positions in one of the largest student organizations on our campus(100+ members) which would make things even messier.
<bot>: What should be a healthy relationship is starting to seem unhealthy. Breaking up would be extremely messy, and I'm not sure what to do.