<human>: I'm trying to keep this vague because I don't want to be identified. Here's my situation.

Ended a longterm relationship (five years together, married for two) last year and have recently started talking to a woman. We worked together a couple years ago, but never even talked to each other at work, let alone hang out outside of that situation. Now we both live in different states. Well, come to find out she was interested in me back then (which wouldn't have worked out anyway due to me being in a relationship) and she reached out to me last month. We've been talking every day for a couple weeks now and I've really enjoyed getting to know her. She's also clearly interested enough to send me some... friendly photos.
I'm not in the market to jump back into a serious relationship right now, but it's frustrating talking to her and seeing her on skype every day without being able to hang out in person. If we lived in the same town we definitely would have hung out by this point.

When we first started talking she mentioned that she's looking for a job where I am. I could wait for her to get a job interview and fly out here (who knows when). Or I could use some of my frequent flyer miles (enough to spare) to fly her out here next month. Of course that's quite a commitment. Besides using my miles she'd also be staying at my apt for the long weekend. We get along well on skype but face to face who knows? I don't have the luxury of going out with her on dates right now -- we'd be stuck together all day every day for that time.

I'm not in rebound mode, but I'm not willing to commit to a new relationship. If I don't fly her out, then what? We just keep talking and get more frustrated, possibly resulting in false feelings of attachment? Or we just stop talking because it's not going anywhere anyway? Help!

Can you provide a brief overview of the text?
<bot>: getting to know a woman in another state, should i use frequent flyer miles to fly her out here to hang out in person?