<human>: So I got engaged to the love of my life about 6 months ago, and since then things have been great.  I recently chose my best man who will probably be my BIL.  Let's call him "Jon" for simplicity sakes.  Now unlike me, Jon is huge into parties.  Any excuse he has, he'll go gambling, or to a strip club, night club, etc.  Personally I don't like any of that, I was never into that stuff growing up, and I'm not into it now.  

When he found out he was going to be the bestman he went ballistic in trying to plan this huge bash.  I've told him several times, no I don't want strippers, or a strip club but he refuses to listen, he keeps going back to it.  Idk how to make it any more clear to him that I am not okay with this.  I'm just about to take him out of the wedding entirely, but I worry that it will cause some serious issues with my sister who I am close with.  What can I do to make it clear to him?  Should I just tell him that he will be at the bachelor party but have no part in planning it?

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<bot>: Best man is a party boy, and wants to throw a huge bachelor party knowing full well I hate that.  What do I do?