<human>: About 3-4 months ago my girlfriend of 3+ years and I broke up. My life has been an emotional mess since then. Including me calling her crying and even more recently, she started calling me and begging for me back. I try really hard to cut off contact with her and it hasn't been easy. But I know I won't ever fully get over the relationship unless we are both out of each others lives. 

I constantly feel lonely and try to talk to my good friends (all guys) about it but they just laugh and act like I'm being a huge pussy. I have another good friend who is a girl and a couple years younger than me. I want to talk to her about the breakup so badly just so I have someone more compassionate to confide in.

I'm not worried about her getting annoyed hearing about my problems cause I have listened to hers many of times. My main concern is that since I am still emotionally unstable from the breakup, it might not be a good idea to have to depend on another female to help me through this(Even though I am not looking for a relationship). On the other hand, I have a feeling that if I open up to another girl about my problems it might make me feel more secure about myself and allow me to move on. 

I always felt like girls had it easier in breakups because they have friends that will listen to their venting while guys simply don't give a shit. If anyone one has been in a similar situation or has any advice, please let me know.

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<bot>: I'm still a mess after a breakup. Can I talk to female friends about my problems without using them to fill my emotional void?