<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

I've been dating a guy for about three months, though it seems like longer because we've been friends for a couple years. We've been spending a lot of time together and I like it. Usually we'll meet up Friday night and be together until Monday morning. And I might even meet up with him one night during the week too (but usually I won't spend the night during the week).

The only problem is that he is really hesitant to schedule any of this time in advance. I know he likes spending time with me. So why can't he just say, yeah, let's meet up Wednesday after your game? Instead, he will text me at the last second, with something like, "hey I made dinner do you want to stop by after volleyball and eat?"

I admit that I am anal about making plans, but I feel like I have to be! I'm on two teams, and I have a bunch of different friend groups. Also, I don't have a car, so I usually like to pack everything up for the day and take it with me to work, like my gym clothes, laptop, etc. I lug all this stuff around to whatever I'm doing after work because it's just easier than going home first. 

It would be so much easier if I could know for sure if he wanted to see me that night, because I could bring a change of clothes, or not bother packing my heavy laptop, etc. Balancing my life without a car can be complicated, but I can manage it pretty well as long as I plan in advance!

Anyway, I don't want to be a nag about this. I want him to hang out with me because he wants to see me, not because he feels obligated. And as I said, I'm really happy with the amount of time we are spending together. I haven't had a boyfriend who liked hanging out with me so much in a long time, and I love it.

Should I just let it go? Should I use the no car explanation to make it seem less naggy? Should I wait until we are further along in the relationship to bring this up? I tried playing the conversation out in my head and I feel like I sound really anal and annoying.
<bot>: My boyfriend is great and likes spending a lot of time with me but I wish I could get him to reserve time with me in advance