<human>: We broke up a couple of weeks ago due to a series of phone arguments (we were in a LDR). None of the arguments themselves were enough to end a relationship, but LDR was causing my feelings to fade. Anyways, I am considering getting back together with him. 

But first would need him to promise some things would be different-things I have never discussed with him ever. First off, he would have to completely change the way he interacts with my family (be less loud/obnoxious)--how do you tell someone this? I do not know. 

Second--he would need to take better care of himself...ie. shower and wash hair every day, wear CLEAN clothes every day....sometimes he smelled like sour laundry. And this was my mom's first impression of him.....

I was getting so turned off by his laziness when it came to appearances because I take the time to get ready every morning and i expect a 24 yr old guy to do the same. I don't want to force someone to clean themselves and put on clean clothes and wash their bedding every 2 weeks or so. But I feel its not too much to ask. How do i break this all to him?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: how do i tell my recent ex i will give him another shot if he gets his act together and improves his hygeine..?