<human>: Without asking me first. 

Background: I'm a dude, she's a lady, and we're pushing 30. We live together.

Pretty much any other day of the year, I couldn't care less if she gave a Saturday tour. I know how much she loves her job, and I respect that. She was approached to give a tour where she works one job earlier this spring. It just so happened to be planned the day of our 2 year anniversary. She accepted, and told me about it after the fact. If she would have at least brought it up to me before agreeing, I wouldn't feel so left out and subsequently irritated. We were long distance for the first year of our relationship, so this is the first anniversary we would have spent together on the actual freaking day. Okay, whatever, we can just keep it simple and go to dinner, right?

Well, tonight it was brought up again when she started considering activities for anniversary weekend. Like Travel. Initially I had really wanted to use a couple days to go somewhere and do something, but she's now busy Saturday morning (Saturday is her only day off during the week). 

So we're probably moving it to a different weekend, which she is fine with (and I would be to if she had kept me in the loop instead of just agreeing). But after our conversation tonight I'm fucking irritated again because she doesn't seem to see how inconsiderate I felt her actions were. I guess I just need to vent because I don't want to get angry on the phone later (I'm out of town for a few days for work) and would rather take some time to consider the sage advice of those with more LTR experience: is my concern valid and should I bring it up, or is it beating a dead horse?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: GF scheduled work on the first anniversary we get to spend together without talking to me first and now expects us to be able to travel.