<human>: I'v been married for nearly 2 years. My wife never had sex till our honeymoon, which was very rough on us (especially her) since she learned she suffers from dyspareunia (painful intercourse). Took us about a good 6 months for her to finish therapy and then another 6 months to get over that hump to where we can have intercourse somewhat regularly. But if she is even the least bit stressed it makes it impossible to have sex.  Even with all this her sex drive is basically none existent since she is still working on her masters degree. 

I'm completely against cheating (I was once cheated on in the past) but lately I have been having so many fantasies/dreams over some other women in my life. The dreams are the worst since I wake up to these thoughts that linger through-out the whole day. I feel like a total asshole even thinking these thoughts.  Once I laid in bed with my phone out to chat one of my ex's after having a dream over her. Took me 10m of back-and-forth thinking to finally put it away and not even go down that road. 

It might seem extremely dumb/selfish, but the 2 women I dated in the past were very noisy during intercourse. Which is a 'huge' turn on for me. My wife just doesn't do this and has trouble getting off by intercourse alone because from the stress and issue she deals with. It's difficult for me to initiate sex when it is usually a 'not today' answer 90% of the time, or becomes sort of a failed attempt, or I just feel awkward during/afterwards. I've often thought of oral sex (I loved doing on past women) but she just isn't wanting to try it. 

Besides all this, things have been going well besides typical stresses with work/life. My career is taking off and so is hers. I sometimes just have weeks I am unsure if I can get through them without doing something really stupid. Divorce is completely out of the question. I love her to death. Just sometimes feel I have no answers or solutions for this but just keep pushing forward. Sometimes the road seems bumpy and long.

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<bot>: Wife has some issues with intercourse and is very busy with her career. I'm pretty sexually stressed over it. Trying not do anything stupid. But sometimes urges are so unbearable.