<human>: I'm(26m) having issues getting my fiancee(22f) to admit she needs counselling. I love her with all my heart, and I support her, and constantly tell her how amazing she is, and how lucky i am, and she's usually fine, but there are times when she breaks down, and beats the shit out of herself emotionally. It kills me. Her father told her several times as a kid "your best will never be good enough," and he's an alcoholic who on multiple occasions has said he couldn't pick her up from work because he had just finished a shift and would rather have a beer.

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<bot>: she was emotionally abused as a child, and it kills me when she relapses into self-deprecation. Need help on how to deal with this, i.e. approaching her about counselling,