<human>: Well to start off I am an M 20, and the person in question is F 19. So, I have been talking back and forth typically via email with this girl over the course of the summer, I met her back in January, and I am confused by some of the things she has said, to see if it indicates whether she is interested in me or not. I am hoping someone could help me out, by giving me their perspective on the matter, as I have pretty much zero experience with these things. (I had 1 girlfriend for 2 months when I was 16)

To start off, within 2 weeks of emailing back and forth, I asked her out, and she gave me the response of "I don't really know right now, I am really busy and focusing on my future right now, as I don't want to mess it up". I took this at first of, chances pretty much 0% now, but I still wanted to be good friends with her, so kept the email conversation going. About 6 weeks into the email conversation, she left to go to Italy for 2 weeks, now normally it is my understanding that you call typically family, whenever you reach a destination to let them know you're safe. Well she also emailed me during the conversation; I thought would be idle for 2 weeks, saying she got there safely, alright then. And now school has started back up, and we are both as busy as ever, enough to the point where we can't even hang out. But we keep our email conversation going, and we both keep telling each other we need to get together at some point and hang out, with things like "I still need to see your room!" (I am a Resident Assistant, and she is a Commuter Student).

So my question is, is she interested in me or does she think of me as a friend? I realize that no one here can tell me with complete certainty, but even a general feel of am I being played or not would be nice. I do genuinely like this girl, but I am just having trouble telling whether she is interested in me or not. Any help/insight is appreciated!

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Girl says she is unsure to give me impression of her not being interested, then acts in ways giving me the opposite impression of she is interested.