<human>: I've always kind of been a person who didn't care much about my physical appearance. As long as I'm comfortable and whatever I was wearing wasn't too revealing, I didn't mind. And during the summer, I used to help my parents with their farm, which meant I would wear old clothes, sometimes with various wear and tear, sometimes with holes. Sometimes I'd wear tank tops, which would accentuate my boobs because I'm rather chesty. Sometimes my shorts would accentuate my booty because, well, it's summertime, and it was hot out and I wanted shorts not jeans.

My mother has always made a point of taking me aside and telling me my clothes were "embarrassing my father" because he might see bits or pieces of my underthings and "he didn't know where to look". Mind you, these wouldn't be giant gaping holes, and I didn't wear tiny short shorts. Sometimes I'd loose weight and my waistband would slip past the line of my underwear, or sometimes there would be a little hole and you could see my bra (I've always had a fondness for brightly colored underwear). 

She's done it forever. From my preteen year to (quite literally) today. She says she wants me to find clothes that make me feel pretty, but when she says things like that, I just want to crawl into a hole and die. I mean, I was never wearing clothes to tempt anyone to look at me. I've only recently started getting interested in pretty clothes because I wanted to feel good about myself and be pretty. When my mother says things like that, I want to go without bathing for a week, wear nothing but men's sweatshirts and pants, and sports bras. 

How do I not let it get to me? I feel physically nauseous.

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<bot>: My mom makes me feel disgusting for wearing clothes that "embarrass my father", and it makes me not want to be pretty or be noticed. How do I let it not bother me?