<human>: I am a 19 year old female and I ahve been friends with my current boyfriend (19m) for over 4 years. We started dating about 5 months ago, and things were great. Usually.

The main issue he seemed to have (I say seemed, because nothing has been brought up recently to my attention) was trusting me. I am in college, and he isn't. But I don't think I'm attractive enough to garnish any attention from many guys. But he still used to type statuses like "When does being suspicious become okay?" and the like. It all stemmed from a mishap where he got on my latop (he didn't have one at the time) and accidentally logged into my facebook. He then proceeded to read a message that was sent to me from an ex of mine (I do not speak to him anymore) where he called me a "titty monster", this message was sent AFTER I started dating him, yes, but I never responded. He reads the messages before that (took place before I started dating him) and gets pissed. So pissed he can't be around me for about a week. I understood this, and let him have his time.

Now to the current issue, he is CONSTANTLY going off to play games with his friends. I wouldn't ordinarily mind, but he says "Oh yeah, I'll be home after we're done," and then he doesn't come back. Even after I have had a very bad emotional upheaval (last night). So I am currently typing this, really annoyed at him and sort of pissed.

I don't want to break up with him, but I just can't see how I am supposed to put up with this the rest of our lives (we have talked extensively about marriage, children, and that type of thing). I don't think I should *have* to put up with this kind of thing for the rest of my, either. However, I don't want to break up with him because he just completes me. All of this current hooplah is causing me to question how serious he is about all of his promises.

Am I justified in feeling this way? How do I talk to him about this without coming off like a total bizznatch?

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: My boyfriend promises me all of these wonderful things (marriage, children) and then raw waffles to making me question how serious he is about them and I don't know I am justified in being irrtated