<human>: Here's the background:

1) We both have full time, professional jobs in the IT field. 

2) In addition to working, I do all of the house chores, take care of the pets and cook 5 days a week

3) He's always home late (between 8-10pm)

4) He works overtime and weekends whenever he's asked without any resistance even if we had plans 

5) He frequently travels for business and rarely calls to check in without me nagging him to do so. These trips can last up to 7 days. When we do speak on the phone he's very short and says things like "I have a job to do, I don't have time to chat with you."

6) He never does things to make me feel better about his lack of presence in the household like sending sweet texts or letting me know he cares in other ways.

To be honest I feel like I take care of the entire house myself. I feel like he's gone way too much and it's completely unreasonable. What place does work take in your relationships Reddit? Am I just being a controlling nag (as he asserts) by wanting him to be home more? 

Whenever I let him know how upsetting this is to me he just brushes it off with a remark along the lines of "I have a job to do" or "You need to get used to it and be more understanding/flexible." This is taking a huge emotional tole on me. I feel single sometimes. I didn't get married to eat dinner by myself 5 days of the week. 

Is there anything I can even do about this without asking him to sacrifice his job stability? He really likes this job and I don't want to be controlling or stunt his professional development in any way.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: My husband is never home and I'm totally sick of it. I feel like his job is more important than our marriage.