<human>: I was in a long-term relationship (8 years with 26/M) that ended in February (although things started cooling off in November 2013). Okay, shitty, but that's life sometimes. I moved out on my own into a great apartment, took the dog with me, adopted a cat. Cool.  

People have been telling me I shouldn't jump into another relationship quickly, and to some extent I agree- but the reality of it is, I'm so fucking bored I can't stand being single.  

And it's not like I just sit around moping either. I have a full-time job, read a lot, play video games, walk the dog, ride my bike, go to the library, go running every day, keep a journal, keep my apartment clean, have a decent amount of friends, watch football games with a group of people every week, occasionally go to the bars, etc. But I want someone to *share that shit with*.  

For the first time in my life I have a decent paying job and enough spare time to go out and do the things I want to do. I'm not looking for my future husband or anything serious right now (I recognize it's still too soon post-breakup for that), but I'd like *some* kind of connection with a guy.   

I had a FWB for about two months, but then one day he freaked out and told me that things were getting too intimate and he didn't want a relationship (but also that he couldn't just do no-consequence sex and it made him feel shitty... wat) and completely stopped talking to me. So, that didn't work out for me either and it made me feel terrible, to boot.  

I just feel lost. Because it feels like I have a full life, but at night when I'm winding down for the day, I just feel so fucking bummed out and alone. One of my older coworkers said you need to feel at peace by yourself being single, but I don't know what else to do to get to that point.

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<bot>: I have hobbies, I have friends, I have my shit pretty much together. So why am I so unhappy by myself?