<human>: Exactly one week ago my gf of 2 years broke things off because I'm living abroad. We made it through three months, then I came home for one month, and now I'm back for four more. She told me that she couldn't do it any longer and wanted out, but that she wouldn't rule something out in the future because this trip is temporary. She says she still loves me and all that, it's just torture right now.

I never saw this coming and made it very clear I'm still willing to wait, but that I understand why she felt she had to break it off. I graduated and am working an easy job in a sunny country, while she is miserable in 10 degree (F) weather with a triple major and can't seem to shake the depression. Hearing about my wonderful time here isn't helping (I try not to bring it up but there's no way around it). She said she didn't want to break up but couldn't be happy otherwise and I believe her.

I was going to wait a week before texting (my only option other than email) her so as to let her think but she texted me first to wish me a Happy Valentine's Day (she had even sent me a Valentine's Day care package that hadn't arrived before she broke it off, and said she's excited for me to enjoy it). This seems to show that she was on the fence about it all and since I'll be home before long, it could just be a bit of soul searching.

My question now is how long should I wait to ask how she's doing/contact her again without making myself seem pathetic (too soon) or too cold (never/too late)? I don't want to push her away, and intend to get her back in June, but am terrified she'll think I'm just fine with letting her go. I also write her postcards at least weekly, should I cut that out?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: She broke up with me but seemed unsure. I was reasonable/understanding, but don't know how to tell her I still love her without pushing her away.