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I just have a question about if how I am feeling is wrong, or not healthy, a little bit of a back story though, is I am very controlling over my girlfriend, but I am working on that, and I believe I am showing improvement and I really do try my hardest not to stop her from doing the things she enjoys, just because I dont 100% like it. Also I want to mention that I am a very jealous person which I think may be the cause of me feeling like this. 

Okay, so my girlfriend (female 19) have been dating for just about 8 months, and she told me for her 20th birthday, she is gonna go to a massage place and do all that and get a massage, and I guess she got scheduled or something, I dont know, but anyway the person massaging her is gonna be a guy. And I am not comfortable with that, I am not comfortable with a guy having his hands all over my girlfriends pretty much naked body. Because I know I am very controlling and I dont want to be controlling over my girlfriend, I have yet to bring this up because I fear she will perceive it as being controlling, but the thought of a guy doing that to to my girlfriend really bothers and I just want to know, if how I am feeling healthy and if I should mention something to my girlfriend about this?
<bot>: Girlfriend (19 Female) of 8 months is getting a massage from a guy, I dont like this, is how I am feeling healthy?