<human>: Hello r/relationships! I'm pretty sad right now and need some advice. My bf and I have been together for 4 years. Everything works out great between us except whenever the 'money' topic comes up, we will argue. 

Last night, we were talking about his student loans and a huge argument came up. He has about $60k of student loans with ~7% interest. He has a job now and I think that his priority should be paying off his loans. He said he wanted to use some money to play stocks. I'm pretty against it because I don't think he can make a profit of 7% by putting money into Index Funds. Please note that I would be fine with him playing with stocks or whatever if he was debt free. He thinks I'm being too controlling over his money and we stopped talking. 

From my perspective, it's irresponsible of him to not try to pay off his loan asap. I had $20k student loan and I paid it off as soon as I got a job. He knows that I would not marry him if he still had debts. And his view on finances scares me because I don't like having any debts at all if we are married. 

What do you think? Am I being too controlling?

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<bot>: I think boyfriend should pay off his student loan ($60k) but he wants to play stocks. He thinks I'm trying to control how he spends his money.