<human>: When my wife and I got married three years ago neither of us wanted children, so we never discussed any details of child rearing.  Now we both want kids, but we have a problem.

My wife is pro-choice, but would choose not to abort if prenatal testing determined severe mental or physical defects.  I am not okay with that.

We both have a history with disabled individuals, but she has made a career of it and has very strong feelings on the subject.

She's not pregnant (and I don't think we are ready for kids *just* yet), but I haven't started the dialogue on this issue.  I only know her opinion from her (strong) reaction to the pilot episode of American Horror Story.

How do I approach her about this?  I'm feeling nervous about what this will mean for our life together.

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<bot>: my wife would be okay with giving birth knowing the baby would be severely disabled.  I would not.  What should I do?