<human>: I was in the perfect loving relationship for 5 months.  We had amazing dates, spent holidays together and went on vacation.  We were in the process of house shopping and had all these wonderful future plans.  

Then suddenly out of the blue, she dumped me :(

She said I did nothing wrong and i was a great boyfriend.  But she needs to be alone to "work on herself". She has self esteem issues and has been in therapy sessions throughout her life trying to get self help advice/life guidance. And basically she dumped me because (she claims) she doesnt have time to work on her self issues whilst dealing with a relationship.

I disagree that the relationship is/must be imposing on her self help quest.  We only see eachother on weekends.  And in response to her dumping me, I told her instead we could a) chat less, b) take a break from the relationship, c) slow down the relationship, d) just be friends....basically any alternative to losing her from my life. She didnt agree to any of those.

What do I say to convince her NOT to dump me and throw away a wonderful relationship for no reason?

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<bot>: GF Dumped me because she says shes insecure, nothing I did wrong.  How do i convince her that breakup is unnecessary?