<human>: So just a little background info, we are both rising seniors in high school and have been dating for about nine months. We have always planned to date after graduation and clearly stated that we would continue dating after graduation.

I plan to commission into the United States Army after college. All of my college choices are military colleges such as West Point, USAFA, the Citadel, VMI and Norwich

I just got back from a week long trip to West Point (America's Army training college). It has been my number one school for a while but while I was there I fell in love with it. Not just the campus which was absolutely beautiful but also the relationships and interactions between the cadets. They were truly family there and loved each other. However, while I was there I heard about how tough the school is, especially plebe (freshman) year. I got input from cadets on dating and social life and decided that I no longer want to date after graduation. I need to focus my freshman year (of any college that I go to, I know that my admittance to West Point is still a big If but I already have a school very similar to West Point that I have been admitted to) and feel that a relationship of any kind, especially long distance would have a negative effect on such an important year.

And just one more thing, whether or not I go into the military is not up for discussion, I have brought this up on reddit before and had people try to argue me out of it.  It is honestly not up for debate.

How would I tell her about how I feel without ruining the relationship that I want to continue until graduation?

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<bot>: I fell in love with my dream school at a camp and need to tell my gf that I no longer want to date after graduation but I still wnat to date until that point.