<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

It's tough when you end up meeting someone online who you really click with, only to find out they live thousands of miles away, then things falling apart after a couple months "together". Not too long ago things have fallen out between me and my most recent online girlfriend, which makes me single again.

But that brings up a problem for me. Those online relationships are my only experiences with relationships. Never have I had someone who was local and "real". 

Mind you it has been a while since I tried anything significant in that regard (Many first dates that never got farther than that), as I was involved with the mentioned relationships during that time. Also in that time I've discovered some interesting things about myself. My previous relationships were of the Dom (Me)/Sub (Her) dynamic (among other saucy kinks), and things just felt so right and fulfilling in that role.

But here's my delema. Obviously things like kinks aren't something you talk about with the girl you just met at the bookstore, and finding girls online LOCALLY that share the same kinks isn't easy from my experience. Plus there's the chance of meeting someone really great, only to be disappointed in the kink department, or her being creeped out by them. 

**As a means to help me out, here's my question. To the kinkier folks out there, how did you meet your equally freaky SO?
<bot>: After some unsuccessful online LDRs, I'm looking to meeting local girls that share similar kinks, but I'm fairly inexperienced so some pointers would be helpful.