<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

So, this is going to be kind of a meandering rant, just trying to get a discussion rolling.
So, I seem to have noticed over the last few years that when a person criticizes or thinks less of me for not acting like Don Draper 24/7, that person is usually a woman.

For example, I was at a six flags with my gf. She had been there before, and as such was the one working the map and recommending the best rides. As we are stopped in the trial with her holding the map and myself looking on, a couple walks by us. The woman loudly snorts at me, and says to her male partner "I can't believe he lets her navigate. Whipped."

There has been more than a few instances of this, and it seems like more than 3/4 times that it is a woman who makes comment on me not reading the map, carrying something for my gf, or following my gf's lead through her home-city.

I'm like, what, should I just charge ahead everywhere even when I don't know where I am because i'm the man damnit? Always walk in front even when I don't know where we're going? Order the food for us like a bau5 at a restaurant I've never tried? That seems terribly inefficient. It seems to me that it is becoming more acceptable for women to take on whatever role or have any interest which suits them, but that the same is not so true for men.

As I thought about, I guess it kind of makes sense. Even though men are popularly accused of "only liking guy things" and being "super competitive with guys, and anti-women," I have to suspect that guys are the way they are in large part because that's what has always attracted women in the past, so maybe women care more about men acting less-manly because it is essentially the opposite of what they expect/like.
So, what have y'all experienced? Do you find that women are more often the one's censuring men who aren't acting particularly manly, or is that not the case?
<bot>: In my experience it is usually women who care most about men acting effeminate or not typically manly. Do you find this to be the case as well? If so, why do you think this is?