<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

Hey Reddit. I've been dating this girl for about 9 months. We both travel for work and only get to see each other max every weekend but sometimes less often. We haven't spent more than a week together since Christmas.

It's hard. Like really hard for me. She wants a certain level of commitment and certainty of the future that I don't feel I can provide right now. She told me she doesn't want to be wasting her time when she could be building something with another person she has a clear future with.

But when we started dating, I told her I wanted to be able to move internationally having lived three years abroad recently. She kind of addressed it and said "let's just try" but I feel like her plan is to convince me to love her enough to stay.

I just feel really torn between limiting future possibilities and making a commitment to this that girl I haven't gotten a chance to have the kind of relationship I want with yet.

Help?
<bot>: gf and I have been long distance for our entire 9 month relationship, she wants commitment, but I'm not ready because we haven't had the kind of relationship I want to commit to. What should I do?