<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

X-posted this from relationships.

-We've been together in a long distance relationship.

-I'm in Toronto, and shes on the New York side. 

We have been visiting each other several times a year for a week/2 week long visits. While I genuinely care about her and the chemistry is good sometimes, it hasn't been smooth all the time and there has been a growing sense that we might break up. The long distance doesn't help. Some issues:

-she complains I don't communicate enough when we're not together (in different countries)

-shes upset I cant tell her I love her

-While I care about her and enjoy spending time with her, I'm not super lovely dovey infatuated (which she is or was). Ive had my heart broken in the past and I haven't really fallen hard for anyone like that since.

Recently she messaged me telling me she wanted to be honest and that another guy shes met told her that he loved her.. and that she has feelings for this guy now. They haven't done anything yet.

I'm upset about the situation and I think its not going to end where my feelings are not hurt. She will try to tell me the break-up is about the relationship and some of its weak points, but she's already told me about this other guy.. I wont be able to get over the fact that shes just dumped me because she's found another relationship that suits her better.

For me, the best way to do this would be to break-up respectful of the relationship and why its not working and just be single for awhile. I cant get over the fact that this other guy is in the flip and is affecting her decision. Being dumped sucks, being dumped for someone else though? (even though she hasn't said this, the writing is on the wall). Tell me this isn't the right way to do things.
<bot>: Long-distance girlfriend of 1-year has feelings for another guy and has told me. Don't know how to proceed without feelings getting hurt