<human>: This girl and I have hooked up a few times. We had a thing at one point but she ended because she didn't like people knowing about it. So there was a break. 

We recently started hooking up again but have been secretive about it. None of our friends know. 

The most recent time we were lying in bed and she said she still wanted to grab donuts with me, the closest DD is a good hour away. When we had a thing we mentioned going to DD but never did. 

She mentioned going on our most recent hook up, this weekend, but I wasn't sure if it was an in the moment thing. I haven't seen her this week but I've tried texting her, she made no effort to hold a conversation so I haven't talked to her in about two days.

The weekends coming up and I'm not sure whether to see what this weekend will hold or to make a move and ask her to go grab donuts. I figure we can set some things straight, I get so many mixed signals from her. The only time we talk now is when we're cuddling and it's usually about bullshit. I guess part of me is afraid of making a move and having the whole thing end.

I can't ask or talk to my friends about it since this whole thing is between her and I and that's how we agreed to keep it. I'm feeling pretty desperate and confused. I would greatly appreciate any advice.

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<bot>: Used to have a thing with this girl, she ended it, we started hooking up again, she mentions grabbing donuts but wants a secret relationship, should I ask her out on a date?