<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

I have been pretty unhappy lately with my SO (I guess ex?) of two years. I've always been the one to put a more effort in when it came to making it work. We loved each other equally, but after a while, I felt like he was the person and I was the girlfriend. We just didn't feel like partners. 

Despite this, we had a pretty wonderful relationship. We were both supportive and thoughtful and we just had so much fucking fun. All the time. Being around him felt like being with my best friend. Even after two years, sleeping in the same bed felt like the best sleepover I've ever been to. 

We've been doing long distance for two months because or work, but I visited him last weekend and really noticed the issues with inequality in our relationship. I felt like I had been the only one putting effort in the past few months and that he had been coasting through. I wasn't getting what I needed anymore. So yesterday I called him and wanted to talk it out. I expressed my thoughts, asked him if he could make some changes. 

All of a sudden, he's having a life crisis. He needs to figure himself out. This is all him, all his fault. He loves me so much and thanks me for everything. And before I know it, I'm listening to a dial tone and I've been broken up with. Just like that. 

Where do I even go from here? Three days ago, I had a partner who I wanted to move through life with. I feel so suddenly and violently misplaced and I don't know if this is worth trying to fix. It just hurts to think that it took him twenty minutes to decide to throw all of our plans away.
<bot>: Asked boyfriend to put effort in and invest in my feelings, he flipped it into a personal crisis and broke up with me.