<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

My boyfriend(m22) is terrible at planning ahead. Terrible. We started dating when we were 16, we've been relatively happy for the whole time. We've survived college (mostly) and will both be graduating next Spring.

We've never had to dealt with a huge change in our relationship. We go to college in the same city (but we don't go to the same school.) We have our own friends, interests, and jobs. But we hang out a lot and we love each other.

He's terrible at thinking ahead. I am constantly looking ahead. We've only briefly talked about what happens to us after graduation. We've never lived together (in a permanent way) and we kinda beat around the bush that he'd move into my apartment after he graduates because I still have 3 months on my lease and he lives in the dorms.

Tonight, we were talking and basically said he wasn't going to move in with me after all. When I asked him where he was going to move, he said it depended on where he found a job. ...

He makes me feel like I'm being a needy girl, or somehow I'm being impatient when I want to know the future of our relationship. I don't want a ring, I don't want any of that yet, but I do want to know I'm not wasting my time down a dead-end. I want to know what his intentions are, but every time I try to be to the point about it, he changes the subject or beats around the bush. I just want a fucking answer and he makes it seem like that topic is "so far away" and that he doesn't know yet.

What the hell do I do?
<bot>: Boyfriend is terrible at thinking ahead. After 6 years, I want to know what the future holds. How do I possibly ask without sounding needy?