<human>: My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for three years. We're comfortable with each other, but we've always squabbled over what should and shouldn't be private.

You guys are probably going to think this is radical, but I'm a very open person. There is nothing in my life right now that I feel needs to be kept from my boyfriend. I tell him when I'm going to poo. The thing I'm most concerned with is things like Facebook and text messages. Let's get this straight first: I wouldn't expect him to share anything with me that I wouldn't want to share with him. But there's nothing I wouldn't share with him. If he wanted my password, I'd give it to him! He needed to borrow my phone for a few days? Great, here's the charger! I'd hand it to him without going through and deleting a thing. I just know he doesn't feel the same way. I mean, I don't know/think he's hiding anything. But I know he really loves his privacy. Why? I can't be sure.

It's not that I want to spy on him all the time. In fact, it's more for convenience. Things like "Did he get my message yet, or should I go to bed and reply tomorrow?" or "Oh, what time is that concert he's going to with Kyle on Thursday?" I mean, it would be nice to know that he's trustworthy enough to be alright with me seeing his messages. But most of it is just wanting to not have any boundaries. I feel so close to him, I just wish he could understand that we could be a lot closer.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: I want my boyfriend to be more open and willing to share with me. I see no problems with being a part of each other's lives without the mystery of "Who is he talking to?"