<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

I've been seeing this guy for a few months. In the beginning, we agreed to keep it casual but didn't talk about it much. Anyway, as time has gone on, I've started wanting to talk about our situation more, but I don't want to be the one to bring it up. I hate "the talk." I had an exclusivity conversation with the last couple of guys I dated about a month or so in, and they ended things about a week later. Current guy ended things with last girl because they'd gotten too serious. We're both in our 20s. I don't really want something serious, but just want to know where he stands. How do I bring it up without scaring him off? Or get him to bring it up?
<bot>: Don't know how to bring up the dreaded "talk" with guy I've been seeing without scaring him away.