<human>: My husband and I are newlyweds. Since we started dating, we planned to move to Europe to teach English and travel. It has always been a dream of mine, and one of the reasons we fell in love was we had a shared vision of traveling and living abroad.

We are 4 months away from the big move. We have been planning it for a year and a half as we have a dog and needed to make extra arrangements to transport him. Our excitment is growing and I definitely cannot wait to actually feel like a married couple living away from our hometown and without constant parental visits.

A few weeks ago my MIL started mentioning applying to jobs abroad. She just applied to a job in Italy and is now talking about applying to places in Germany. My FIL originally seemed to think it was crazy but his resolve seems to be fading - he just talked about not wanting to juggle 3 houses (they have a new beach house) so maybe they could sell their current home or rent it out. My gut feeling is she is simply wanting to be nearer to us and her only adopted son rather than go on to a new job and experience. I can't see why else she would want this as she is close to retirement and they just bought a beach house on the East Coast that they absolutely adore and try to make us go to all the time. She also loves to be near her family and sisters who are all in the US and do not have the resources to travel and see her as frequently as she would see them now.

Our dream was to be together in this adventure, as a couple. We want to begin our life as adults. I fear if she actually goes through with it (she's crazy), she will expect us to see her once a month or every other month to entertain her. Is there a way from preventing this fantasy of hers from going further? I feel like she's invading our aspirations.

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<bot>: Long time plans to move to Europe in 4 months from US, MIL is discussing moving abroad and I feel she is hijacking our dreams as newlyweds.