<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

Hi reddit, i'm 20 years old and have a female cousin in middle school who ive been close to. Over the past year or so she's started receiving and showing interest in guys at her school. That's natural. Her parents dont let her date or talk to guys in a more than friends kind of way. She's currently on punishment for having a semi-inappropriate text conversation on her phone. Although it was the guy being suggestive.

My concern is that she'll feel the need to rebel and do things/ put her self in situations she shouldnt because of her situation. I know kids are smart, and can only use my own experience, but i know i was never on punishment without a work around. Either i had a backup phone, or would lie about where im going, ect. I guess I know that she's smart too.

-I'm asking for a way to talk to her and get her to realize that these feelings are natural, but she's too young to be exploring them. That there is plenty of time once you are more knowledgeable and self aware to start dating.
<bot>: My female cousin in middle school is starting to show signs of rebellion when it comes to the opposite sex. Asking for a way to talk to her about waiting, focusing on friends and school, and just not growing up to fast.