<human>: I've been with my (22M) gf (23F) for 4 years, we both enjoy sex and have it on a semi regular basis due to us both having a busy schedule. The problem is she's never had an orgasm. Like at all. 

I've done all kinds of research on techniques and methods of assisting and event bought a variety of sex toys to use in both the bedroom and on her own. However she still hasn't had an orgasm. 

Now to make things clear she hasn't had an orgasm EVER not with past bfs and not with me. But I've made ex gf orgasm. It's come to the point I think she may be a little frustrated about it but I don't know what else to do. 

As I've said we both enjoy our sex life and experiment in the bedroom but she's a little reluctant to express any fantasies she may have but is open to mine to an extent. 

She has a lower libido than me and very rarely if ever initiates sex. That is my role apprebtly. But once we are in the throws she is fine and into it but she never finishes. I've tried to help after with my hands or toys but she is then no longer in the mood.

Is she uncomfortable sexually around me or am I the problem here? I love her so much and just want her to be happy and satisfied which at the moment i dont think she is.

When I try and aproach the subject she becomes withdrawn and just says things like it doesn't matter and not to worry. Am I being selfish, egotistical and stupid or is there something we can do together to address this issue Any advice would be very much appreciated.

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<bot>: Girlfriend can't orgasm not sure if I'm to blame. Have tried everything I can think of. I just want her to get everything I do from sex with me. Help