<human>: I'll give a short timeline to try and explain this.

July: We broke up mutually while she was away for drum corps. She planned on giving me my things back when she returned for school.

August: Didn't answer my texts and got mad at me for attempting to call her and going to her apartment to see if her roommates would allow me to retrieve my things where I had a gun drawn on me by one of the roommates boyfriend.

September: She has been back at school for a few weeks and hasn't made any effort to contact me. When I found out she was back, I asked if she would be free this week to trade the things we have of each others.

She has a tv, a drawing tablet, some clothes, and a few other small items which belong to me.

Of hers I only have a t-shirt and a stuffed animal.

She obviously has the upper hand in terms of valuable items. I'm just unsure what my course of action should be. It has been almost 3 months since we have been apart and I just want my things back to move on from her.

I live in eastern North Carolina. What can I do?

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<bot>: Ex-girlfriend wont respond to texts or phone calls and is refusing to give me my things back. Whats the next step?