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We have battled through a lot more than I care to go into. We have been married for 8 years, but have been seprated for awhile now. We are almost on the verge of moving in together again, but I keep not giving her what she says she needs. More support and compassion. I'm a very logical person who sees a problem and will focus on one issue until it's solved. And example being, we are supposed to be moving together in 2 days, but she has had some major health issues that were discovered 5 days ago. This move in date has been pushed back a few times already. So while trying to show support and compassion, I still needed to know if I should rent a truck for the move or if it was getting pushed back again. She was livid that I even brough it up days after she found out about the health issues.
I also said some very careless things after this because she got so heated and I know they were hurtful. But I just saw it as no matter what happened with her health the move in day was going to come and we needed to be prepared.

I do want her in my life but if I can't figure out how to show her that I do care and I'm not a machine and that only  cares about my needs and wants then I'm going to lose her. Does anyone have an books or advice or anything.
<bot>: My wife thinks I'm cold and heartless and I only care about my needs. Need some way to change my behavior.