<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

Throwaway because my boyfriend knows my reddit account. My boyfriend [18M] and I [18F] are planning on getting married in about a year. We have been together for around a year and a half, so both of us definitely know we want to be with each other. My concern is that he is wanting us to move in with his father [60sM] after our wedding.

While I really do like his father, I do not want to live with him. I was really looking forward to getting our own apartment, and just spending alone time together as newlyweds. I would love for his dad to frequently come over, or even to live very close, but I really would like our own space. I do not speak the same language as his father, so I am a little afraid I would feel like an outcast.

His reasoning is that his father would get lonely, and have nothing to do all day. He says that his father has taken care of him for so long, so now he wants to take care of his father. This is understandable, and I would be okay with it if his father really needed the care, but he is independent and in great health. He says that this will help us out financially, but I feel that we do not need the money enough to make it worthwhile for all of us to live together.

He says it is selfish of me to make his father live alone as he ages, but I don't see why his dad can't just get a hobby or make some friends. Am I really selfish for wanting us to start a new life together?
<bot>: Boyfriend wants dad to live with us, I want to just have our own place. Does this make me selfish?