<human>: Girl messaged me on POF, we hit it off. Lots in common and conversation flows well. light physical contact on the 2nd-3rd dates and everything looks great.

She recently went through a break up 1 month ago, and is moving out of their shared apartment slowly. She got a new place immediately but is moving things over at a snails pace.

She was quick to respond in depth to email on POF, after meeting she does not often answer phone calls after her work hours. I get some response from txts. When we make plans she is always there and excited to see me.

I call every 2-4 days. She picks up maybe once a week. She does not have free txt messages so I don't text very often, I don't want to cost her money.

I'm trying to set up a nice 4th date at the beach across the state on lake michigan this weekend. I don't want to be a bother but it's annoying not getting calls back or having plans roughed out a few days in advance.

I'm also not sure what her relationship with her x is like either. I don't know if they sleep in different beds or if they're still having sexual relations. She is not sleeping at her new apartment as far as I know.

I have two options in my mind. I either call her tomorrow and ask we rough out plans for the weekend then carefully  bring up my concerns on the date. 

or

Write her an email on POF gently telling her she is making things difficult by not contacting me back. She seems like she really likes me in person but the lack of contact shows otherwise.

After three dates I figure you know if you like someone or not. Is she playing hard to get or is it something else?

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<bot>: Really nice girl who went through a recent breakup contacted me on POF. 3 dates later physical contact is good but communication is severely lacking on her part.