<human>: I (26M) have been dating my girlfriend (23F) for a little over three months. We've both had very long-term, serious relationships in the past: for me, I had a 6-year relationship break up about two years ago, and she got out of a 5-year relationship one year ago. Both relationships ended because of infidelity on our partners' sides.

I've dated around for the last two years and this is the first girl since my ex I've ever felt that spark with. I'm elated when she's with me, I'm filled with anticipation to see her again when she's away, and the feelings persisted even after I got over the infatuation hump. Plus, after she scored 103/151 on the Pokemon Sporcle quiz, I knew there could be a love connection. 

So last week I up and told her, "FYI, it looks like I'm falling in love with you." I meant it to be nonchalant and non-threatening, but apparently it didn't work out like that. 

Instead, it looks like we're on the road to breaking up. We've talked about how she still has trust issues, she's still not sure whether she can be in a serious relationship again, she doesn't think she can give me what I deserve, etc. We literally went from having a wonderful date one day to end-of-relationship discussions the next.

All throughout this she's told me I'm the best person she's ever dated, she doesn't want to cut off contact with me, and that she hopes we can still do the various activities we had planned to do as a couple, but now just as friends.

So my question is kind of a two-parter: 

**(1) Was I wrong to tell her how I felt?** Or was it too soon? For me, three months seems like long enough to figure things out. 

**(2) How should I react to this "Let's be friends" business?** I'm used to just saying that when people break up as kind of a cushion, but no one actually really wants to just be friends. This woman does. Am I wrong in thinking that's weird?

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<bot>: Told GF of 3 months "I'm falling for you," apparently that's a dealbreaker in relationships these days??