<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

I had dated this girl from end of 11th grade (2006) untill the end of last year. We had a long distance relationship for a good part of the time due to universities being in different countries. I wont go into many details but we made it work for that term generally well.

 Unfortunatly after I graduated I was unable to find a job where she lived (London) as I had not studied there nor owned a EU citizenship. Anyways her father lost a battle with cancer (brain tumor) and passed away. She had put a lot of her effort and attention towards him at the end of our relationship (obviously I had nothing against it). However the loss of a father made her basically incharge of her family, handling the finances regarding tax, home payments, etc... and thus our relationship ended because she needed to focus on family and I couldnt find a way to live in the same city as her.

I was on good terms with her mom, sister, and father (he even recognised me when i came to visit him in the hospital). My question is should I write an email of some sort since it has been 1 year since he died? 

The last time I spoke with her was in the spring and she clearly told me she didnt really give a damn about me. As a result I maintained no contact with her. My gut instinct says dont bother with it, its better to not bring up past problems. Does anyone have any experience with this?
<bot>: Broke up with gf(both 23 atm) of about 5 years less then a year ago , her father's death anniversary is tomarrow, should i say anything?