<human>: I should preface this by saying that I'm avoid confrontation to a fault. Both my parents and past relationships have sort of instilled this fear of speaking up when something bothers me. It's always turned into something bigger than I initially intended, so now I just kinda bottle things up instead. I'm aware this isn't healthy, particularly in romantic relationships. 

My boyfriend is an absolutely incredible guy. I thought I had been in love before but he has shown me what it is supposed to feel like. We haven't exchanged those words yet because it's still so new, but I just know we have something extremely special and I downright adore him. The feeling is most definitely mutual too. 

After a couple of months a few things have come up that bother me but I have avoided talking about. We've never had an issues or conversations about things each other does that we find bothersome. So I'm really unsure of how to broach the topic. 

First, he is really big into social media. I'm not at all. I have a Facebook and that's it. He is constantly on his phone on Twitter, Instagram, and snapchat, and I find it pretty annoying at times. It's one thing to answer a text when we are at dinner, it's another to just casually browse social media. Furthermore, he follows lots of Instagram models and makes no attempts to hide himself looking at them when I am right next to him. I'm not overly jealous or insecure, but a little discretion would be appreciated for my own sake. To be fair, he will point out good looking guys on tv and stuff too. So he's kinda equal opportunity about it. Still bothers me though. I know it may seem small but it kinda makes me take a step back sometimes when we are hitting it off and I glance at his phone to see him checking out some half naked girl shamelessly. 

How do I address these feelings without coming off as needy or controlling? I know he really doesn't like those qualities so I don't want to go there. But it hurts my feelings sometimes.

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<bot>: new boyfriend is addicted to his phone and social media. Unsure of how to broach the topic without coming off as controlling. Also the Instagram models make me feel somewhat inadequate and it bums me out when he are hanging out.