<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

Throwaway! 

Can a couple prosper when one doesn't like porn and wishes it were not in the relationship and the other won't be without it?  

ALSO, for those of you that maybe at one point disliked porn but grew to enjoy it- how jew do dat? 

The only time I have ever watched porn was in snippets, always just rolling my eyes at how fake it is and unable to really believe that the people were enjoying themselves. I have had a relationship where a past partner was addicted to porn and had a "death grip" which has likely caused me to have negative bias towards it... I have spent the past few years trying a little to understand if my issues with porn are simply that it doesn't do it for me and I am not into it or I have associated it with a large amount of hurt and disappointment.  Moderation is a big thing with me too for porn... but when you start to lay the brick of what moderation is, I feel like that becomes controlling and ultimately moderation lies within trust. 

Also-- totally pro masturbation.  I can rub one out with the best of 'em. 

Either way, my partner loves it and when I tried to bring porn up in the context of our relationship recently his entire body language changed and he barely answered my questions. We had a little break up for like 48 hours last month for issues surrounding this one so he is probably apprehensive about me bringing it up but I do want to work past this.  I feel it is probably an unfair burden to place on him to fill me in on why people love porn so much, so here I am.  

And also... I am not religious but was raised Catholic (INDOCTRINATION! YOUR HANDS ARE HAIRY!), I love sex and am a very sexual person (and honestly don't understand why I don't like it for that reason).  I think if I can get over my issues or aversion to porn we could turn it into something really fun.
<bot>: boyfriend loves porn and will not entertain a life without it. I have never been into porn and don't see its place in a committed relationship.  I need help figuring out how to compromise or change my ways