<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

Like the title says, my boyfriend of 1.5 years has a bit of an attention problem where he can't maintain focus very well, leading him to often skimming over or not listening intently to the things I have to say.  It seems like when we have serious matters to talk about, they are always focusing on him and what he needs. I realize that is an issue on it's own, and I've been trying to bring it to his attention in effective ways. 

Aside from that, however, I know he has lots of female friends who he ALWAYS seems to be helping out with their problems. It's always through text or online, they mostly all live in a distant city. It's unnerving that he's able to talk to them about their issues so well (especially compared to how he listens to my problems), but I'm also curious as to why its always girls, why he's so keen to listen to them, and how those situations arise. 

Does anyone have any advice on how to ask these questions to him without sounding hugely accusatory, or any insight on why he might be doing this?
<bot>: My boyfriend loves listening to other girls' issues but can't seem to stand listening to me, even though he reassures me he only wants to be with me. How do I bring it up gently?