<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

The backstory: They were together close to 10 years, he was on-and-off physically abusive for 6 of them. They recently separated, her and I started casually seeing each other and it is beginning to develop into something with potential.

I am finding myself slightly concerned with the fact that she is maintaining contact with him, despite there being a strict no-contact order in place. While I will admit enjoying being with her, this concern is more for her well being than it is for mine. I have known her for several years and genuinely wish the best for her and having more than my fair share of experience in abusive relationships, I worry that she is on the road to being back with an abuser.

Now, were I not regularly impressed with her strength and resolve I would have gotten out as soon as she broke the no-contact, but so far I have put my trust in her judgement.

But lately she has said some concerning things. Talking about how his alcoholism and mental health problems were responsible for his behavior, and about the complete difference in mental-states. 

His physical abuse manifested in him going into a rage and beating or choking her while blacked out, then feeling awful about it the next day. However I have made note of a variety of tell-tale signs of classical psychological manipulation (asking her to lie on the stand, taking every conversational opportunity to say 'I love you' or 'I miss you' in an attempt to psychologically ground her to him.

I have let on slightly that I have a fair amount of understanding of abuse. What I have not stated is that I myself am a former, now reformed for many years, abuser. This is the position of experience I am speaking from. His behavior is exactly manipulative in a very familiar way, and the excuses she makes for him sound exactly like things people I have loved have said.

It is breaking my heart, but I also recognize that I don't have the full story and could very well be projecting onto the situation. I'm not sure whether to confront her about the full extent of my concerns, simply walk away to avoid heartbreak, or stick it out and hope she can withstand his manipulation.
<bot>: She seems to be at risk of falling back into an abusive relationship, I know because I have been in one, what do I do?