<human>: I've always spent my time working to make others happy, and Ive always been well liked and no one has hated me. but I've been in a relationship now for 4 years and since we started dating he has always told me I shouldn't allow people to walk all over me, and I don't want to fight with people so I only stuck up for myself when it comes to him, now he thinks I'm just a bitch to him, and so I started sticking up for myself with more people and now I feel like shit, I don't know how to argue my points so I always look like the bad guy my boyfriend and my friends think I'm a bitch. But when ever I try to be the way I was and just make every one happy, all my friends and boyfriend treat me like a coward, and tell me I need to stick up for myself and I don't know what to do. I'm getting in trouble for doing what they say and not doing what they say its horrible and I don't know what to do with myself. I want to make everyone happy, how do I tell them that until they started getting upset about it I didn't care I was getting stepped on.

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<bot>: I get stepped on, then called a coward for allowing it, but then everyone hates me when I stand up for myself.