<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

Background: Things were pretty normal until about 5 years ago, when one of her parents died.  Long, drawn out *died*, which resulted in crippling depression for her. 

A few years of antidepressants (with their concomitant lowered libido)  and suddenly we're not having sex anymore.

OK, that's a lie.  Once a year.  We had sex once a year.  Seems silly to count, but when it only happens once a year, it's memorable.

Next, off to a therapist for a year for her and then...today...she tells me that she's gay.

What now?  No kids, FWIW, and we own the house and we were on track to a reasonable retirement.  Divorce or separation will wipe that out.

I suspected something was up, but still.  Could I live with her still?  Am I so shallow that our relationship hinges on sex?  I'd say no--on the one hand--It's been a basically sexless marriage since the anti-depressents.  

On the other hand, as shallow as it is, being found sexually attractive and desirable *is* important...Isn't it?

Help!
<bot>: My (51M) wife (50) of 25 years got me an anniversary present three weeks early!  She's gay!