<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

using a throwaway since she uses my phone and i use reddit on it also ive been drinking and suck and spelling so sorry in advanced 

so my SO of 8 months is pregnant shes known for 3 days I was the last one to know and even at that she didn't want to tell me and only told me because she was guilted into tell me by her friends and my best friends SO which was kinda a shitty feeling but thats not what this post is about.

she was on birth control and we use rubbers but shit happens then you die right? she doesnt want to have a kid since our relationship is so new and i already have 2 children from another relationship and things got ugly ended up winning custody and dont want to have antoher one because our relationship is still very new and arent in a position to be having children right now she has miscarried in her past relationship becuase she was abused and even though she doesn't want the kid she feels she has to have it since her brother can't have kids and she feels like it would be spitting in his face if she aborts im all for the abortion willing to pay for it the whole nine yards but she is worried for the backlash she will get from her friends and family.

I do love this woman but i dont think i can be with her if she decides to keep this child i told her I wouldn't be able to love this child and that i would just pay child support but not be involved but that just upset her and said she doesnt want a good relationship to end up like that.

anyone know how i can tell her that abortions don't make you a bad person or that she should consider what this is gonna do to her schooling and how it will impact her life and she should worry about what others think? she doesn't even want this kid so i dont know why she thinks just because its the right thing to do she should keep it.
<bot>: girlfriend is pregnant and only wants to keep the child becuase of how she will be seen after she has an abortion.