<human>: firstly thankyou for reading. I(26)have been in the happiest relationship for over the last year with a wonder 21 year old(i will call her Jen).

basically jen was the saddest girl i had ever met, this was because of the hard life she has lived and the way she had been treated by others including ex bf's. 

she put on a happy face but i could see through it, through our time together she has opened up and become truely happy.

before i met jen i applied for a job on the otherside of the country, it has been a long process but it looks like i may have won the position, i have told jen she is more important to me than any job and i would stay with her regardless.

last week she called it off saying she needed space, and had to figure out what she wanted to do with her life, her only females friends she has met through me and they have all confirmed this is the reason mixed with depression and low confidence.

I dont want to be that guy, i want her to be happy regardless, but she is my life, in your opionon is there anyway to explain to her that noone has their shit figured out and being happy is the really what everyone wants.

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<bot>: young girl scared i have my life together, when she doesn't- when in reality i dont, she admits she has been the happiest in her life while together