<human>: The wife and I have been going for counseling for a few months now and it has gone nowhere. We are 32 (me) and 34 and have been married for 10 years.

I am out of town for a few days and I just got an email with the following points:

* I'm not happy with you
* I don't want to try in counseling
* The kids will be happier if I am single

Therefore, she wants a divorce.

And here's the best part: I just lost both of my jobs. I worked two jobs so she could stay at home and be mommy. I lost them both within a month of each other. I greatly suspect that I lost my jobs because my marital difficulties showed up in my work and relations to other people at work.

I'd really appreciate hearing how you guys have gotten past similar situations.

I've already facebooked the gym a few months back. I guess I gotta lawyer up :-(

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<bot>: After many years and two kids, wife wants a divorce while I'm out of town and jobless, even though we're in counseling.