<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

I met this girl on a dating website. She seemed great on paper and decided to go on a few dates with her.

Initially, I wanted to get to know her -- I decided to meet her a few times. Just hour long dinner each time. Couldn't really get to know her much more. 

After this point, It looked like she was really into me. I was still confused. She was great, but I didn't feel the chemistry. There was no flirting/jokes from her side. It was all pretty much everything I said and it went. I didnt feel challenged. There was no push or pull. 

After our last meeting (4th time). She kind of felt that I am not at the same level as her and brought it up. I told her as well that I am confused and am not at same level as her.

At this point, I am really confused. Do I give her more time, will I grow to like her? Will the chemistry change?  I am also a musician along side my day to day job, who loves giving time to music. She likes her day job, and does pretty much nothing after it. 

What do you guys think?
<bot>: 27M dating 27F, after 4 dates, Chemistry is lacking, she is falling for me after 4th date. I am confused, do I stop talking to her? Give her more time?