<human>: Resubmitting because the last time I tried the bot caught it and this got buried. Also, throw away, because I don't feel like attaching my other username to it and putting our laundry out there.

To make things clear I broke up with her before I left, but I made it clear that once I was gone we were done. And she knew for months that I was leaving, but she still fell hard and told me she loved me. I care deeply for the girl but did not reciprocate because I knew I was leaving. She took it decently well, and we spent our last bit of time together having fun and enjoying each others company. She did however keep dropping hints about moving where I did because she "always wanted to live there" but not specifically for me and I would be a bonus for moving. She began looking for jobs and making plans to move. Even before I completed my cross country drive she called to tell me she had booked a flight out to visit. This was without me inviting her. But I thought what the hell, maybe I can attempt once again to lay some boundaries down face to face when she is here.

We kept up talking and she got mad on a couple of occasions for not talking to her everyday. I made it clear that our relationship wasn't the same and that keeping that up wasn't the healthiest of things. Prior to me leaving and after as well she kept dropping hints that I wasn't allowed to date anyone else, I laughed it off.

However, I did meet someone. She's my age, I'm interested in her as she is interested in me and I want to be totally honest with her. I did tell her that I left a relationship because of my relocation. I did not tell the new girl that my ex was planning on coming out for a visit. How can I tell the new girl that this visit wasn't my idea but I am kind of stuck, the trip is booked. I don't want anything to happen when the ex comes because I am over her. How do I also let the ex know that coming out is putting me in a bad spot with this new relationship?

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<bot>: Broke up with EX because of move. Ex plans surprise visit. In the meantime, met new girl. How do I be honest with both without ruining a friendship and possible emerging relationship?