<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

I'm not proud of my self-harming moments. I got help, and don't have the urge anymore. I just don't want to be judged by them when I eventually have sex with this girl. The lacerations on my upper thigh are noticeable, and it's obvious what they are. They're faded, and don't look fresh. But they don't look that old, either. I just worry that she'll think I'm not mentally stable enough to date. A point, that's understandable, but disheartening.

Here's my question: Should I tell her about them before we have sex, or not say anything at all, and have her bring it up if she even does?
<bot>: I'm dating a girl, and I'm worried that I might be judged for my self-harm scars. Should I bring it up before we have sex or let it be?