<human>: My gf has told me that she wants to leave Shanghai and go to NYC to travel for 6 months and then keep traveling for another 1.5 years. She has also said that she would never teach me how to dress (this is a problem of mine that I have never really addressed) because she would not want the next girl I encounter to have an improved me. Now, she is starting to teach me how to dress, we went to the tailor together and just today she bought me a sweater too. But, when I say its a bit self-contradicting that she will be leaving me in a few months but she is investing in me she comes up with reasons why she needs to go to new york herself. And I say that I can go to NYC with her and she comes up with different reasons why I don't need to go.

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<bot>: My girlfriend is investing time and money in me while saying she wants to leave me and travel alone in April 2015 for two years.