<human>: Edit: 25/F x2

So, I've been out of the closet for five months and I don't have any lesbians friends, except for one girl. We have a mutual childhood friend and have been acquainted most of our lives. I've always got along with her really well and since coming out we have gotten a lot closer. She's a great girl and I have an excellent time when I'm out with her, but she's a huge flake. She never returns phone calls, erratically texts back, and frequently breaks plans. I have had serious discussions with her about this, but little has changed. Conflating all this, I have a huge crush on her. (naturally)

Cue New Years Eve, we agree to kiss at midnight. (my first girl kiss) Afterword we confess to liking each other, but also note our concern about not having any other lesbian friends. We agree to just stay friends, friends who sometimes make out. The next week she flakes on me twice, once just straight up doesn't return my afternoon phone call, and stands me up. I am super pissed, I let her know, she gets all desperate, apologizing over and over. We talk and hang out a couple of times but it's kinda weird. (for me anyway)

Earlier tonight I spilled my guts about this to a friend, giving the poor guy every ugly detail. His response was basically that she has no respect for me, that I've made every effort to change things, and that I've become a doormat: time to cut her out.

What do you think? I don't want to loose her friendship, but I guess in some ways, I don't have it now.

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<bot>: I only have one lesbian friend, she is a huge flake, I also have a crush on her. Should I cut her out and move on or stick around for now?