<human>: Our mutual birthday is coming up in March, and I'm not sure how people would normally deal with gifts in this situation. I love to give and receive gifts, so I'm all for us both finding something for the other. But he's really broke and would probably prefer that since it's both our bithdays neither of us buys anything for the other. 

I don't mind that for now, but I'm thinking long term here. We'll be getting married once he has a better job and we can afford a rental together. So when you're married with the same birthday do you just find something your house needs and buy that as a shared gift? Or is it better to forego gifting entirely and stick with celebrating each other without spending? I just really love giving gifts. It makes me happy!

P.S We were in a long distance relationship over our birthday last year so it wasn't an issue. In case you were doing the math and wondering how I didn't run into this last time!

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<bot>: Boyfriend and I have the same birthday. I'm not sure if we should exchange gifts or if the mutual birthdays cancel each other out and we just save our money.