<human>: *(This is not my native language, so my excuse for any mistacke!)*
*(Throw Away Account for privacy, [expect for the NSA](

**Some background:**

My (*now*) girlfriend dated some guy for a while and got pregnant by accident. She decided to keep the baby, the biological father didn't. They had some counselling together but couldn't come to an mutual understanding. The outcome was that he (*the biological father*) wouldn't have anything to do with the baby.   

He didn't recognize his child as his own by law. I'm not sure how this is arranged in your country, but by not recognizing the child, the father has no legal rights to see and to make decisions for the child. If my Wikipedia-powers are sufficient today I think it is something like [Filiation] By this he also don't have to pay any [Alimony](

My girlfriend could have go to court to demand that he (*the biological father*) has to pay [Alimony] but she decided not to. She wanted to be totally [independent] of him. 

Now OP (*OP, who is for a change, not gay*) come's in the picture. I was (*still am*) a good friend of my (*now*) girlfriend. We started dating around 4-5 months after the baby was born. And got serious quickly after that. After around 1 year they (*girlfriend and baby*) moved in with me. When the child was around 1,5 I official recognized her by law. I became her dad by law. So I have all the rights a biological father would have. She also carries my surname now. 

The child who I should call [Agnes] (*for privacy*) calls and see's me as her full dad. Agnes knows nothing different from her earliest memory's. She's around 2,5 years old now. Agnes also sees my parents as her grandpa and ma. And my parents take her as her granddaughter (*they cannot get enough of her*).

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Girl pregnant, [biodad] wont recognize the child. OP gets in relationship with Girl and takes the baby as his own child (now 2,5 y). When do we tell her?*