<human>: I have known this girl for a few months now and we had a lot in common so we became really close friends very quickly with quite a bit of flirting over text. 

We have had drunken cuddles in the past, but on Thursday after telling each other that we both had feelings for each other we made out and slept in the same bed (no sex, but hands etc). 
She then says that she can't commit to anything, not even going on a date because she's "still messed up over an ex 2 year relationship" that finished about 4 months ago. 

I really like this girl as a friend and sexually as well, so as much as I want to make the sexual relationship happen I don't want to ruin the friendship if it doesn't work out.

I don't know what to do and I feel that she's got all the power right now.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: I have a crush on my friend who reciprocates feelings but won't commit to anything and I feel that I'm just waiting for her to make a decision.