<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

My boyfriend and I met early last summer. I moved to go to college in the fall, about four hours away from where he would be, so he decided to move up with me. Since he has moved up, he has had trouble finding a job, he sleeps on a futon with people he doesn't really like, and I can tell that he doesn't like it here and that he's unhappy.

I have recently developed really bad anxiety, to the point where I get panic attacks weekly. Any time something goes wrong for my boyfriend, it triggers these panic attacks because I feel as if I am the cause of his unhappiness. Fortunately I am seeing someone about my anxiety but in the meantime, I'm curious to see what others have to say about being able to separate your mental state from your partner's. 

Some background: my boyfriend had a very rough childhood and I think that he had struggled with depression and anger issues before we met. When he is upset, he lashes out and sometimes I am the nearest thing for him to take his anger out on. This makes me especially uneasy. I talked to him about seeing someone to to help him express his feelings, but he just got angry with me. I would appreciate any advice I can get on talking to him and maybe convincing him to see someone about his troubles.
<bot>: Boyfriend moved up to be with me, has some unresolved depression/anger issues, makes me feel like I am the cause of his unhappiness. Need help talking to him?