<human>: So I just got denied a date last minute for having smoked pot before. I'm kinda worried because a couple years ago my ex and I had an abortion and if there are people who are still so morally against having smoked weed or at least not attracted to it, I can't imagine falling in love with a woman only to be dumped because my partner and I had an abortion in the past. I thought people my age were becoming more open minded about these things, and now I'm worried what will happen when I talk about the abortion, because the only person that knows still is my ex.

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<bot>: Have smoked pot and had an abortion and am worried girls might grow older only to despise people who have done these things in their past.