<human>: Give me a shortened version of the text

My friend ran into an ex at a bar and they ended up spending the night together. 12 months later, she contacted him to let him know that he was the father of her 3 month old. Around the next December the DNA came back positive. 

Since then the mother has not allowed him to see the child even once (unless he agrees to be her boyfriend), but has expected him to pay $515 a month for child support. My friend has no problem giving her money, but the child turns 2 yrs old shortly and he hasn't so much as seen a picture of him.  On top of that, the court froze his accounts, took out $2,000 for racked up child support (including the three months that he was unaware of), has been giving the mother all the information within his account so she can track what he spends his money on, and are completely aware of the fact that the mother refuses to let him have a relationship with the child and is living with a "serious" boyfriend. I guess I should point out that my friend is recently laid off, lost his car insurance after the accounts froze, and the courts told him to get rid of his car if he can't afford the payments because a car is not a necessity. She also sends him texts saying that he is a "dead beat dad" and that she "had fun spending all his money". 

My friend has called organizations that fight for parental rights of fathers, but have claimed that they don't deal with those types of situations. 

This really upsets me because the courts are not taking into consideration that the father does want to be apart of the child's life, but the mother won't let him. Ever since then I've been trying to think of something he could do to gain his rights as a father. Do you have any ideas? Or has anyone else had a situation similar?
<bot>: Friend finds out he is a father 3 months after the baby is born. Pays a ridiculous amount of child support, but the mother hasn't allowed him to see him once and the court's don't care to listen.