<human>: My fiancee, let's call her Babs (watching Family Guy atm), have been together a little over 2 years. It has been amazing and I love her very much. We've had our fights like anyone, but have always made up. As of late we have disagreed on most everything and some of these things are major issues. I have no problem with sharing different views. That is what makes us individuals. It is how stubborn she is with our debates. Bab's views are the only views and anyone who looks at it differently is a monster. 

On top of this she is financially retarded. Every paycheck is shopping day and I pay for EVERYTHING. I'm a gentleman so I don't mind paying for most things but I need help and Babs doesn't seem to have any drive or want-to to help me. 
Anyway Reddit, I would like some advice. I've talked to her but never gave her an ultimatum of help or leave and as far as her views on things, that was a lost cause long ago. I know this seems kinda all over the place but I don't want to lose her. I truly do love her, its just been so hard lately.

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<bot>: Fiancee doesn't listen to me and expects me to share views. Also seems to be a bad choice of partner that may help me in life.