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I have been with my partner for 8.5 years. We met in year 12. I have no doubt in my mind that we will grow old together (hopefully) and spend many wonderful years together.

The problem is, I was raised by a borderline narcissistic mother who instilled ridiculous beliefs in me. To put it bluntly, I moved out and lived independently at 16, 200+ kms from my parents. I worked the entire time I was at College and then I immediately went to University where I graduated a three year course in Bachelor of Nursing in a fast-track two years while still working to support myself and now I am an RN for 5 years, I have a full time job and am financially secure.

My partner, on the other hand, ditched college, got a job as a pizza delivery driver, worked odd jobs, then got a full time position in retail, then management. For a few years we were on the same financial level.

Now, he has gone to Uni to get a degree in computing. He spends every day and night sighing and ranting about his assignments, how he hates Java and programming, how his classmates are losers and how his lecturers aren't helpful at all.

I have become financially responsible for a lot of the "big expenses" (he gets financial aide that covers rent, groceries) like we needed tyres for the car, the power bill came in, etc. We never go anywhere. "we" can't afford it. I can, he can't. He says he will pay me back but he already owes me thousands of dollars. I don't expect to get it back. 

I have no idea if it is realistic that he will graduate and get a decent job. I have been through the "poor Uni student" phase and am now financially a LOT more secure than he is. I am sick of doing nothing every weekend, and living like I'm poor when I'm not any more.
<bot>: I have high standards, lived the poor student life, partner is only just getting into that after 6 years. How can I stop being an entitled ct?