<human>: Hi reddit,

Throwaway as I know people who lurk r/relationships.

A bit of back story.  I met my girlfriend, Liz (not real name) while I was in senior school.  We didn't start dating until I got into college, at the beginning of this year.  Before we made the relationship official, we spent a bit of time together.  Liz is currently in her final year of school.  She is an amazing person and when we spend time together, it is great. We get along super well and I really like having her in my life.

However, over the past month or two a few problems have come up and I am struggling with how I can deal with them.

Firstly, Liz it quite shy and doesn't initiate sex.  This doesn't bother me.  However, what bothers me is the fact that we stay at each other's places and we don't have sex often because she either doesn't feel comfortable or isn't in the mood. When we do have sex it isn't anything special because she never seems into it or like she wants to be intimate with me.  I have tried talking to her, but I'm not sure how to change this situation.  I want to make her feel comfortable with me and I want to make sure she is enjoying herself. 

Secondly, due to her being in her final school year, she doesn't have a lot of time to spend with me.  I try to make plans in advance so she has time to finish off school work.  When I ask if she wants to hang out she generally says 'Probably not,' or 'I will try.'  This is starting to bug me.  I would feel bad to drag her away from her studies, but at the same time, is it really too much to ask for one day a week to see her?

I guess I am not sure if she is excited to be dating me? And where I should go with this relationship?  I really like her. She is a super cool chick and I have a lot of fun when I am with her.  How can I fix these problems?

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Relationship with gf isn't as good anymore.  Sex life is pretty much non-existent, we don't see each other often. How do I overcome these problems or is it not worth it?