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I've been with my bf for a year. We're in love, we're thinking of a future together, we moved in together 4 months ago...BUT.

I feel that I am doing a lot of effort to make him happy, because I love him and seeing him happy makes me happy. But on the other side he is fine with making me happy as long as it does not require too much effort. 

In the end it seems to me like I do most of the chores and of what I would call "attempts to bond". Pleasuring him, little surprises, ironing his shirts so he doesn't have too, etc.

But more and more I feel like he's just not, you know, into doing much about me. What spouted this post is that a few days ago, we were both starting work after the Christmas holidays and both having a bad day, so when I got home I made him a set of little "sex game" cards, one of which being "I'm your slave for the day". We talked about it today and he had ton of ideas buy when I jokingly mentioned that the day after he uses the card I'd like him to be caring of me (you know, cuddly and loving and maybe since I do pretty much all the chorea all the time, do some himself) he laughed and just said "no".

Anyways I want to have a conversation with him about this. An adult conversation about how I feel and the state of things and see if we can share the chores better and I'm looking for ways to communicate this without seeming like a, well, a needy bitch.

Sorry for any English mistakes, I'm very very french.
<bot>: I feel like I do a lot of efforts to make my bf happy but he's fine with making me happy as long as it does not require effort. How to communicate this best to him?