<human>: Been going out with my girlfriend for a year. Everything has been fine and dandy until the last month - beginning of July where I have noticed that she has:

- become annoyed with nearly everything I do or say. 
- been really putting me down lately, when I bring it up she tells me to stop being a baby. 
- communication has gone from every day to every other day or 2-3 

I don't know if she is looking for some space - I'm trying not to be the clingy boyfriend but when you feel it in your gut that something is out of wack - you try to fix it!

What do you guys recommend I do? My goal plan is to try and lay low for a bit and let her come to me - what do ya'll think?

Another issue that I have been thinking of is how to provide more **"challenge"** in a relationship. Now that their is an overabundance of comfort in the relationship I feel that she doesn't necessarily go out of her way for me like she used to. 

She has been working SO much during the summer and we had a little pregnancy scare (late period - prompted her to take a pregnancy test which came back negative) earlier during the summer so it's been a dead bedroom for the last month, so how do I spark the fire back in there?

Thanks for your help!

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<bot>: Girlfriend becoming annoyed with me; I feel the fire is slowly fizzling in our relationship? Do I get it back by letting her come to me or by actively pursuing her as I have been doing?