<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

My (30f) husband (30m) has always been messier than me. I think when we were dating and living together he was on his best behavior, and since we got married (2.5 years ago) it has gotten worse. We also have a 1 year old child who is starting to get into everything and make lots of messes.

I knew going into the marriage I would always end up cleaning more than my fair share but it was a reasonable price of admission to me. But with the baby, now I feel like I am cleaning up after 2 kids constantly and I am getting resentful. If I leave the baby with my husband for an evening, when I come home the house is completely trashed. 

I don't expect him to do any heavy cleaning (eg vacuuming), I just want like the most basic level of straightening up to happen. He leaves drawers open, dirty dishes and bottles everywhere, dirty clothes draped over the furniture...it's awful and it has definitely gotten worse over the years. Maybe taking on his "share" of cleaning has enabled his dirtiness. I'm not sure.

I'm also not a super clean person myself. It's something I constantly try to improve on but it is just not in my nature to be very clean/organized, and it is really hard for me to try to deal with my own disorganization AND my husband's AND the baby's. I feel like I am just treading water keeping our house at the bare minimum level of reasonable cleanliness, and if I stop for even an afternoon, everything is trashed.

We have had a few light conversations about this issue, but they are usually a jokey/teasing tone ("Babe did something happen to our trash can? 'Cause this empty wrapper is just here on the table.") 

I don't want to fall into that stereotype of the naggy wife but the constant daily grind of cleaning up after everyone is starting to take its toll on me.

Has anyone ever successfully fixed a dirty SO? Or is this one of those "a tiger can't change his stripes" situations and I have to just learn to live with it?
<bot>: Messy husband, active baby, getting burned out cleaning up after everyone all the time and I don't know if it's the kind of thing someone can really change.