<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

Alright, so this all started back in november. This girl I'd been friends with for a few months (someone I'd met online and had gamed with and skyped with several times) started to really like me, and I started to really like her. We hadn't been flirty before this really, since I had been in a relationship (also horrible, was ecstatic to get out of it), but that night there were a lot of kind exchanges, which progressed into phone sex. She clearly wanted to be with me, so we tried figuring out a plan a couple days later. Well, she said that if she could, she'd try to transfer colleges to one up north where I live. I was happy with this. But then nothing. I heard from her maybe two or three times a month and for very brief exchanges. So this made me assume she was no longer interested. I wasn't hurt, because I was used to this kind of thing. So I carried on with my life. Well, come January 21st, I got a girlfriend, a really wonderful girl. Later that night, after seeing my changed status, this girl messages me and asks me if it's over between us. Apparently she had already applied to multiple colleges and looked for some apartments in a nearby city. She did all this without telling me anything. I had no idea she even had feelings anymore. She took this really badly and felt crushed. Back in november, I told her to think of her first, not me, so that if things didn't work out, she would still have her old friends. I guess she thought I was more important, so she went to all this trouble. I just feel really bad about hurting her so much because I had no idea that she was actually dedicated. I tried to maintain contact before all this but she wouldn't stick around for conversation. Am I in the right here?
<bot>: develop mutual feelings for a girl who decides she might want to go to college near me, then lose contact, get a girlfriend, then find out she applied to colleges in my area. She was crushed.