<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

I've (28M) been seeing this girl (24F) I met on okcupid and want to pursue a serious relationship with her. The chemistry we have in person is remarkable.

I'm starting to notice things and I'm not sure if they're considered red flags. My attraction to her might be clouding my judgment.

A year ago, she got out of a 6 year relationship with her high school sweetheart; she was making six figures and was supporting her ex who refused to get a job or finish school. While she didn't open up completely about the dynamics of their relationship, I can only assume he was abusive. She mentioned running away from home, leaving her life behind, and getting therapy for 7 months until she decided she was ready to start dating again.

She is now making significantly less and paying off his loans that he had opened up in her name. I want to take her out multiple times a week, but she turns me down because she doesn't have enough to go out. I enjoy spending time with her and I have no problems paying for everything (in fact, I want to), but she still insists on paying for herself or covering the entire tab.

I get hurt when she rejects to spend time with me when the problem could easily be resolved. I have never met anyone who was so against me paying for our dates.
<bot>: I make more money than the girl I'm dating, and she doesn't want me spending it on her. What do I do?