<human>: I will try to set this up as clearly as possible. 

My fiance and I have been together for four years. We've got a fairly healthy and communicative relationship. She and I are nearing the end of both of our undergrad years at the same college. She is looking into a grad school at City A. While I will be working a job after college in City B. They are an hour and a half apart and we agree that neither of us should have to make that kind of a commute.

We have considered multiple places in between, and it seems that any compromise spot will leave one of us with an hour commute and the other with a 45 minute commute. I would be willing to accept this as a compromise. I see us living together as an important goal. She is hesitant to go with any idea. I think she is leaning towards living as close as she can to her school, if not in the same city. 

She has mentioned the idea of just not living together for another few year and while I accept this as a very real possibility, but I had still set my heart on us finally moving her out of her parent's home and having a relationship where I would get to see her more than just one day a week. 

As I have said before, communication is something we certainly have, and there is a very open dialogue about this subject. I was hoping that perhaps others who have been in this situation or just aren't connected to it could give me an outside looking in view on it.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: ! Fiance and I do not know whether or not to live together in about one year, or possibly three or more. I'm getting antsy.