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Hi everyone
I recently got engaged to a great guy. We have been together for 4 years and have never even considered breaking up. We have a very strong relationship and care about each other deeply.

We are planning a wedding for July 2014. His family lives on the other side of the country, and I moved to USA when I was 20 so most of my family lives outside the USA. Given this, it has been a stressful process in planning the wedding, mostly getting everyone together, figuring out who can and can't come, and setting up dates. it is very expensive for my family to come here so everything has to be carefully considered.

As a result, my fiance and I have been arguing a lot over the smallest things! Rings, maids of honour, family, friends, guest numbers, food, venue... You name it, we've argued over it. The arguments haven't been very serious, but I feel like it's affecting our relationship. I know these arguments mostly stem from us needing to face facts that we won't have all of our family here. In fact, 90% of them won't turn up - not even my brother.

I guess I'm just looking for advice on how to handle wedding stress from people who have been through it.
<bot>: planning a wedding with fiance, families live in other countries, most of them will not attend, this is stressing us out and causing lots of small arguments over wedding arrangements.