<human>: A date or any sort of mutual attraction with a woman has not come up in the past ten years and I haven't got a clue why.

Throughout University I had multiple dates, loads of partners sexually but when I returned home for the life of a steady 9-5 job the opportunity to meet a partner or at least date or dare I say get laid has literally never come up.

I'm a normal, attractive guy in a standard job. I work with women, yet it's all very formal and has never been flirty with them at all, and my weekends I spend with friends- the girls we have met have usually either been taken or it just has always been a friendly vibe.
I have used dating sites for extended periods on a few occasions but it proved to be a massive waste of time.

My question is reddit, or to those of you who are dating/ have a relationship. How the fuck did it come about?!

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<bot>: The opportunity to find a date has never come about in 10+ years. How did you meet your date/ SO?