<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

My closest friend from childhood is sort of a lone wolf... and that's actually really neat in a way. I've come to really respect it as I can be a bit of a pushover at times.

She's in a bad place right now, I know she needs her friends. She's so stubborn though and won't reach out! She also needs some tough love from me about some of her decisions, but that's so hard for me to give because when I try she stonewalls me, OR makes it a problem about me (some flaw in who I am). I've sort of learned to give her rose-tinted viewpoints of mine, but I think they're doing more harm than good.

So... has anyone had a friend like this before? What was your tactic in getting them to let their walls down and TALK, person to person, on equal levels?
<bot>: Friend stonewalls criticism. She's in a bad place, needs friends, need tough love. How do I talk to her?