<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

I'll try and keep this short for everyone.
  Me and my girlfriend have been together for 14 months tomorrow but have continued to fight over me talking to other girls. And when I say other girls I mean girls that I've been friends with before we have been dating and hardly rarely talk to. For example, earlier this week one of my friends snapchated me "hey!" and I snapped back "whats up?" and that was it. Nothing inappropriate and incredibly brief. I also haven't talked or had communication with my friend for the last 4 months. 

So fast forward to tonight, my girlfriend kept grilling me all night if there was something I wanted to talk about and such.. you know how it goes. And then she brought up the friend that snapchated me (I asked how she found out amd she said she just knows, obviously she went through my phone..) and started tearing up and saying how I needed to tell her everytime I talked to a girl because our relationship needs to be open and honest. And I told her I shouldn't really have to tell you every girl that tries to communicate with me (I tell her everytime an ex texts me I totally agree with ex part.) I was just kinda offended when she said that. She said she trusts me but she doesnt act like it all.

Am I wrong for thinking that telling her every girl that texts me or snapchats me is kinda crazy? Or is this how healthy relationship should be and I've just been doing it wrong the past couple years.
<bot>: Girlfriend wants me to tell her everytime I talk via text or social media with someone of the opposite gender. I think its kinda controlling.