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My husband and I are in a bit of a rough patch. We moved across the country last year, and then I developed a medical condition that not only causes me to be in pain most of the time, but makes sex exceptionally painful. I'm having surgery later this month to hopefully correct it, but it's taken a year to get to that point. Pl 
It's safe to say our sex life has not been satisfactory for either of us lately. I feel guilty for rejecting his advances 9 times out of 10 and very rarely initiating intimacy, and even though he knows what the problem is, he's expressed that it makes him feel badly, and I totally get it. It's a shitty situation, and one that I like to think we're making the best of. 

Lately (as of, like, last month)  he's been getting irritated when I try to talk to him. If I ask him about his day, instead of a story about some funbything an idiot coworker did, I get a single-word answer: "Fine." I asked him what he wanted for dinner once a couple of weeks ago and he told me he didn't care, he was working on something, and wanted to be left alone. 

I feel like I'm losing my husband, and I don't know what to do. I feel like I can't do anything right, and like whatever is going on, it's my fault. How do I fix it?
<bot>: Illness killed our physical intimacy, and I've noticed our emotional intimacy is almost gone, too. I want to fix it.