<human>: I contacted a company of my own ambition (as in, they didn't have 'Now Hiring' ads), spoke with the vice president and hiring director, and was given the go-ahead to send in my resume. They arranged a phone interview, which I thought went quite well, and then contacted me again saying they were pleased and wanted me to come in and shadow through a 'day in the life on the job' behind the scenes. This was, of course, very exciting for me.

However, I haven't heard from them since. I was told I should call after two weeks if I hadn't heard back, which I did, leaving a professional message. Yet, still, no contact.

As can be imagined, I was disappointed and berated myself, constantly wondering what could have gone wrong come the in-person interview. My only conclusion is that they may have been expecting someone of a different gender. After about a month of business in other areas of my life, I've just turned in my final exams and projects for my college classes, and am now again dwelling on the job I desired quite badly and considered myself qualified for.

What I want to ask is why I was apparently not fit for employment, as it's really getting to me and I'd want to fix it, but aside from that not being the most professional thing to do, I realized they might not even remember me.

Is there any win in this scenario? Should I forget about it? If I don't send followup contact, are all chances of applying again to the same company, say a year from now, shot?

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Everything seemed to be going great until the in-person interview, afterwhich they ceased contact and have not returned my calls (that they requested.) Does this mean "fuck off" or "keep trying"?