<human>: Here's a break from the normal romantic relationship issues:

I am a relatively new attorney.  I have been practicing for a while, and while I am absolutely in love with my job, I hate networking.  I have no problems about talking with other attorneys.  I've met some fantastic mentors over a beer at conferences and other events.  But I find it very hard to relate to others who are not attorneys.

Specifically, I got a call from an acquaintance who is a financial planner, asking if we could meet up for lunch some time.  My bullshit detector went off -- I have not spoken to him for several months, aside from passing along a name of a friend who opened her own law practice and does a lot of trusts/wills work.

I have had only four interactions with this guy over the last 4 years.  The last one was when he invited me to his office while I was in the area for coffee, and to catch up.  After being ushered into a conference room, he showed up with another co-worker of his and the first words out of his mouth were, "So how can we help you today?"

In my mind, I was pissed.  I felt invited under false pretenses.  I don't like being hoodwinked like that -- being invited for a friendly chat and that chat being abruptly changed to an attempted sell

I don't really want to go to lunch with him.  I know that if I do, he's going to try to pitch me his financial services, which I do not need, and do not want.  My fiance and I are planning to move across the country when she finishes law school, so even then, his services really wouldn't be needed.  

What is the best way to cordially nip this in the bud?  I have already said I would meet with him next week for lunch under pressure but I really don't want to, and honestly can't afford to take the time away from work.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Financial services guy I've met 4 times wants to sell me services, I don't want them.  Need a kind, diplomatic way to either turn down lunch (ideally) or decline his services.