<human>: Throwaway because she knows my real reddit account. I caught my fiancee smoking cigarettes near our house and she tried to hide it from me. She rarely smokes, only when she's very stressed. I am very sensitive to smell and cannot for the life of me stand the smell of cigarette smoke.

My fiancee is very smart (graduated from a top 10 college) and has always been big on fitness so I don't know why she's doing this when she HERSELF has talked about how she thinks all smokers should quit. I know she's stressed out about work, but she herself has said cigarettes are not the answer.

We got in a big fight tonight because I didn't want to kiss her. She says I'm punishing her for smoking cigs. The truth is reddit I know I am but I can't bring myself to "fake it". I'm repulsed by anything that has to remotely do with cigarettes or the smell they have and to be honest, I kind of want to emotionally distance myself from my fiancee for a little while and have some space to myself. Am I wrong for feeling this way? She doesn't understand this and got very upset when I didn't want to cuddle. She thinks I'm angry and disgusted with her and she feels like sh*t, but I can't make myself not disgusted or not want to be emotionally distant. It's like I'm shutting her down and she can sense this.

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<bot>: caught fiancee smoking and don't want to kiss or cuddle with her. she thinks i'm punishing her and is very hurt.