<human>: First, a little background:

So, although I love her so much, we have never really had a normal relationship. We met in another country and traveled around for half a year, fell in love, took our relationship back to the States.

Now, we have been long distance here for a few months, which has been admittedly and obviously difficult. I have graduated college and am moving to a new city quite soon, but she still has another year of college before she can move. I don't want to move where she is because I really don't want to live with a bunch of college girls after just graduating college. Doesn't feel right to me, doesn't seem like what her last year of college should be.

Anyway, she is talking about applying to graduate school and wanting to go where I am, which would be phenomenal. The thing is, I don't want me to be the only reason she attends a certain graduate school. We haven't ever had just a normal, "let's go out on a date" relationship in the States yet, and while I hope for the best, there are some things you just can't quite know until living in that situation. 

Along the same lines, I worry about living with her right away for the same reason. We've never even had a normal relationship, so it seems a little scary to me to jump right into living together. I guess I'm just looking for some general thoughts and advice anyone might have.

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<bot>: Need advice on how to proceed with a relationship that has pretty much always been long distance, but is about to become short distance.