<human>: just want a check from others to see if I'm over-reacting or being sensitive. Got some bad news from my mom this morning. Told my wife over phone and told her I was on my way to her office and would talk then. Got to her office and she walks me inside where she is doing busy work with other co-workers around. So, I sit there for 5 minutes expecting her to finish and us step outside so we can discuss the news I stopped by to talk about in private. After several minutes pass it is time for me to get back to work so I say "all right, I have to go back to work now" and get up to leave. She goes with me and says she notices I'm upset. I tell her - yeah, I am... I stopped by to talk to you about this family issue and you take me inside an office with your co-workers. She says all I had to do was ask her to step outside for a minute. WTF? 

So, should I totally own this and say "yeah, I was the one that wanted to stop by and talk and I wanted it to be in private so I should have said - hey wife, step outside with me for a second..." or am I right in being upset that she didn't take the lead on this?

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<bot>: stopped by to talk to wife in private. She took me to room with her co-workers and expected me to ask her to go back outside for privacy.