<human>: A little bit of background first. I've known this person since university and we have been very close friends for most of this time. He recently came out to my wife and me that he is heavily into the local BDSM scene. He has 2 slaves, one of whom lives with him. He is into what's called Total Power Exchange, where he controls every aspect of the slave's life 24/7 (what she wears, how she looks, how she speaks, what she does, etc.) What's more is that he's into something called Bimboification, where a girl undergoes plastic surgery to basically look like a blond bimbo (collagen injections, liposuction, breast enhancement, etc).

This makes me feel sick anytime I think about it. To make matters worse, I feel like a total hypocrite as my wife and I have been in the swinging lifestyle for the last 3 years. We are only out to 2 people one of whom is this friend. This is the reason he told us as he felt that we would at least be open minded about his lifestyle. Unfortunately we are far less open minded than we thought as we are both pretty put off by this whole thing.

It's also made me question how open minded people would be towards us if we came out to them. Would they have the same reaction as we are now? I have no idea and feel very conflicted about it.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Very close friend is into hardcore BDSM kink, comes out to my wife and me. Feel revolted and torn.