<human>: This is my first post, and I'm sorry if this doesn't belong here, but it seemed more suited than r/datingadvice. So I've been seeing this girl for a little over a year now. She's 29 and I'm a 25 year old male. We met at a gay bar. I was there with my best friend trying to help him bounce back from a recent breakup and she was there with two people dressed like Lady Gaga. I fell in love with her immediately, but I'm cautious of approaching women in gay bars. Not for fear of them being tranny's or anything, they often are there because they don't want to get hit on. Anyways, her whole group leaves and I start moping, 15 minutes later I go out for a smoke. Smoking a cigarette and kicking pavement, she comes up behind me and asks for a cigarette. We spent the rest of the night outside the bar talking until 4am. First date was Valentine's day, we went to some hole in the wall and it was really nice. She got a little weird for a bit and ignored me. A few days later she texted me telling me she's sorry but she has a boyfriend. This happened on a few other dates. We both admitted to trying to push each other away and it not working. So here's what I'm asking; We went out last week and had a blast, tonight we are suppose to go to a jazz club but I haven't heard from her since Sunday when we made the plans. I want to tell her to stop this fuckery. I want to tell myself I'm an idiot for still doing this. I don't know.

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<bot>: Met a girl at a gay bar -Went out on Valentine's day -Said she has a boyfriend -Been going on dates for over a year now -Halp.