<human>: A recent thread in r/okcupid made me think about what I want in a relationship right now. What came to mind is that I basically want a pretty standard dating relationship for now; something fun and not too serious, but I also want to travel and live overseas by this time next year. 

This brought up some problems I've faced: "The problems I get start when I mention that I want to move to the other side of the country or Japan once I graduate. So if things get serious, I need someone who would actually want to move to those places on their own, as well as us just being able to compliment each other (and have common interests)- Which is friggin' rare in the Deep South." I'm also open to LDRs and I like to take things slow and get to know who I'm dating too. 

In all this rambling, what I'm asking is since I want to travel and live abroad soon, should I even bother dating? Me wanting to do these things has made many women interested in me quickly lose interest, while the women I meet and like who want to travel like I do, aren't interested in dating anyone or are already committed to someone else. My more cynical friends have suggested finding a FWB or being in a polyamorous relationship, but I'm very monogamous and religious, so those are out of the question. 

I want to date someone, but only if I actually like her and feel there's a connection and we have things in common (I don't believe in dating just so you won't be single). I've comfortably lived single through most of college, but I do want to be with someone now. My plans for the future don't mesh up with a lot of women I've met though. What should I do?

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<bot>: I don't want to be single anymore, but plans for my future chase away interested women while the women I like and want to travel, aren't interested in anyone. Should I even bother trying to date anyone right now?