<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

Gf was supposed to go to with me to my family reunion/mother's birthday. We were also celebrating the 4th of July because she had to work. So my family moved the date up earlier so she could be there. 

The day before we leave I wake up to a really long text message. She says that she can't leave because her cat is sick. And she can't afford the vet bill and needs to work. 

I told her I needed her to go, everyone is expecting her and everything was rescheduled for her. I offered to help pay the vet bill and she refused and told me she already picked up the shifts. 

I got mad and insulted her job as a bartender. She's been getting stiffed on tips and only making about $10 a night. I said "how much money do you expect to make?" It was a rude thing to say and I later apologized for it. 

She says "fuck you leave me alone." When she gets angry she wants to be left alone until she contacts me again so I let her cool off for a few days. 

The fight happened on Thursday. On Saturday she blocked me and my sisterfrom Snapchat. I didn't send her anything I was just taking video of the family to my stories. 

I messaged her Sunday evening to tell her I'm sorry and that I loved her and was getting on the road to come home. And that was it. 

She responded saying I pissed her off and  that her cat is like her child and my solutions only help me and not her and shes done and doesn't want to talk to me and she's blocking my number. Then she blocked me on Facebook,instagram, Pinterest and my phone number. 

I'm so heartbroken right now I was saving up for an engagement ring. We have worse arguments before but she never did anything  like this. And the worst is she has a key to my apartment. I don't know how I get that back without everyone thinking I'm a stalker. I've never had this happen
<bot>: girl I loved is treating me like a stalker. I'm not a stalker. She still has a key to my apartment