<human>: 2 years ago I had a miscarriage. It was pretty early in the second trimester but devastated me nonetheless. I wasn't married (though we've been dating for a few years) and it was an "accident" but I was connected to this baby immediately and it took a lot for me to get past this. My cousin [25/f] recently met a guy, got engaged less than a month later, and became pregnant right after that. This was in a span of 2 months tops. She's going to deliver soon and I'm having a hard time dealing with her and my family. She always talks to me about it. Every conversation we have is about her baby. They always bring it up too. I feel bad for not wanting to hear about it but I have a huge issue with her. She had 5 abortions prior to this. She told these guys she was on birth control. They had unprotected sex. She got pregnant. He wouldn't stay around. So she aborted. I truly believe she's just keeping this one because he's staying. Every time she calls or messages me, she asks things like "Should I eat this, is this safe for the baby?" and all I can think is "Safe? You didn't care about the other 5". I don't want anyone thinking I'm terrible. And don't get me wrong, I'm prochoice. However, aborting babies just because you change your mind is preposterous to me. Especially after losing my own. It's just my grief. Mine didn't get to live. So, how can I explain this to her and my family without coming off as rude or terrible? I just don't want to hear about it every conversation. I want them to back off me a bit and just take care of things themselves.

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<bot>: My cousin is having a baby after having 5 abortions. I miscarried and don't want to hear every detail. How can I tell my family and her this without sounding like a completely horrid person?