<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

We've been dating for about a year now. 

My girlfriend has this really good friend, Julian, who she has known for I guess 4-5 years now? Anyway, he's definitely her best friend. She has a lot of other friends, but they are closest and she values his opinion on things a lot.

Anyway, my problem is that I feel like they're too close. She tells him anything and everything before telling me. She's going home for a weekend to visit her parents? Julian knows before I do. Her childhood dog passed away? She's already cried on his shoulder before even telling me. Upset about being passed over for a promotion? She stops by at Julian's to talk it out before coming over to my place. 

For a long time I thought she was really unemotional. Turns out she just lets all that stuff out to him first before coming to me. Every single problem she has is totally worked out before she even talks to me. I feel like I'm just being told as a formality because that's what you are supposed to do; tell your boyfriends things. 

And I don't want that. I want to be the person she goes to for her problems. I want to be someone she can talk to about anything. I've told her she can tell me anything, and she says she knows, but then she goes to Julian anyway.

Am I being too needy? Am I out of line for thinking I should be the one she tells things to, not her "bff"?
<bot>: Girlfriend tells her friend everything before even mentioning it to me. I want to be the one she goes to but don't know how to make that happen.