<human>: I've been dating this woman for 6 months now and I'm starting to question my own perspective and looking for an outside view.

Key issues:

* Questions me if I think a girl is cute if I have to talk to any female during the day
* Gets extremely jealous about my women co-workers.
* We have not met once. It's been 6 months and there is always an excuse. She seems to have issues with me flying there also for some reason. I don't think she is cheating on me because we spend so many hours on the phone with each other that I don't see it being possible.
* Starts crying/panicing at the sheer thought of me leaving her. I've talked about having personal time and not talking on the phone as much and she instantly thinks I'm dumping her or trying to see someone else.
* Her past boyfriend or two have supposedly cheated on her so I've given her the benefit of the doubt that maybe she is just a bit untrusting now.
* If I don't respond to a text message within 5-10mins she thinks I'm busy talking to someone else or doing something without her and gets extremely upset.
* Got very upset with me because I told her not to take a job yet that would be in my state because I thought we should at least meet first. This got into an argument about me not believing in soul mates and stuff.

I've always thought she was pretty nice and maybe I was so hooked because she put up with me (I have a bit of an abrasive personality at times I guess). I've been alone for pretty much all of my adult life and really don't want to go back to that feeling of being alone and I think because of that I'm being naive with my views.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: I need an outside opinion... this is my first real relationship and I don't think I can make a clear opinion.