<human>: I dated a wonderful girl for 4 years. We lived in the same neighborhoods but went to colleges in different states so we did the long distance relationship thing. We had our ups and downs but overall very happy together besides the distance. 

We discussed marriage post graduation, she was ready for a proposal and although I knew I eventually wanted to, I wasn't quite ready. We both became parts of each other's families and friends.

However, in our fourth year, our last year of forced separation, I got distracted with the other aspects of my life. Hanging out with friends at the bar and a summer internship took my focus away from her and admittedly, she became a lower priority. She got upset with me and brought it to my attention 3 times in fights. I always said I was just making friends and that she was mad at me for having a life outside of her.

The next fall she took a job in another state while I finished up one more semester of school. She wanted me to move to this state when I graduated and said no, it wasn't the safest option for me post-graduation.

And so she broke up with me, saying she couldn't do another period of time with me ignoring her.

Flash forward to now, roughly 4 months later. I miss her terribly. She's in a different state, roughly 10 hours away. I don't know what to do. She misses me too but won't do the distance again. If I follow her to a different state I leave one of the best areas for people in my intended career. 

I've tried dating other people but they aren't the same. I know four months isn't a lot of time but it still sucks.

What do I do reddit? Be crazy and follow or be smart and stay?

Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?
<bot>: I ignore my long distance gf, she breaks up and moves further away. I regret and want to rekindle. Help!