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Not sure this is the right sub for my problem but here goes. I live with my father due to me falling on some hard times. however I'm starting to get my life back together, I have a steady full time job that's letting me pay off my debts and put some savings away. Well I put in for time off to go to my cousins wedding which is far enough away that I would need to take the next two days off. My request was not so much denied as the other employees were unavailable to work the kind of hours that would allow me to actually attend the wedding.

When I brought this up to my dad he goes on a tirade about how they have no right to deny my time off and I should just no call no show and it would be fine because "You can just get a new job when we get back." Even after I suggested I'd visit my cousin when I have the time he still insists that I quit my job without notice. This is out of character for my dad since he's a very responsibility oriented severe personality. 

It's getting to the point where He's getting angry enough to threaten kicking me out. Am I somehow being unreasonable for not quitting my job? what are some ways I could approach the situation that may help keep him calm. 

If I've been unclear at all I'll happily be more specific in replies.
<bot>: Couldn't get time off to go to my cousins wedding dad suggests I quit my job without notice to go, won't listen to reasonable alternative.