<human>: So I've been talking to this girl for a month or so now and gone on 2 dates. When trying to get a 3rd it feels like pulling teeth. I'm gone for work 2 weeks then back for 1. She work for a sports team that has a daily schedule plus has to work nights during game days so she is also busy. When we do have free time we spend it with our friends and haven't got to the point or felt comfortable bringing the other around our friends. This is where I'm stuck. Idk how to interpret what she is thinking/feeling about me. Idk is she really is busy, pretending to be busy to make her hard to get, or just making excuses to get me to stop. When I text her she text me back. We joke around, tease, talk about our days, etc. what can I say or ask her to find out where we stand without making her uncomfortable or sounding overly committed this early.

Side note. My friend knows her from college and said she's very shy but a great girl. I got out of a shitty relationship and says I should do whatever I can to win this girl over because she's a real down to earth girl and I deserve it. I'm a stand up guy and been fucked over by ex gfs who mistake my kindness and openness as weakness.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: talking to a girl but don't know if she is looking for the same thing I am. Over thinking her signs.