<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

i have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years.
the dea,l is that we always planned to be together because i used to be student in uk, and she's about to finish her studies. but right now we facing a big problem because she always had problems with her family. basically her family gave up on her 3 times in this life, but recently recently her mother called apologising for everything she have done, and she invited her to go back home for a short holidays cause she's studying in uk still.
however, when she was there  everything was alright, and then she told her mother and brother that she intend to move to africa where i came from, and the reaction wasn't good at all.
first of all they start to say we already lost your father, cause he's dead and now we gonna lose you going to africa, and they start to blame on her that they gave everything to her, and is the way that she's paying to them.but 
at first point they found compromise saying that we could move to one country to stay over there, cause it would be close for them to see her, but in the next day they change dramatically.
all family came together they start to say we don't accept black people, plus is from africa, and they force her to break up with me.

well she spoke with me, she lied to her family that we broke up, but now we don't know at all what to do.
because she doesn't want to lose her family again and she doesn't want to lose me because she still  loves me.
<bot>: shes so confused that she told me before that best solution it to break up, but we agree to meet to speak and see if we can find a solution, cause we love each other and we want to be together