<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Okay so he (32 M) and I (30 F) were fooling around, happily, I believe. We were trying a touch of roll play. Nothing out of the ordinary, just more of an angry sex situation. So after a few romps I feel like we are getting down towards the climax. And then he starts talking about things that are Not Sex play talk! He says things that are personal. Not name calling or slut shaming me, but personal attacks, about my lifestyle choices! I am not saying that he is not allowed to have these opinions. I feel that now I am very aware of how he feels about me and what I do.Or don't do.
Most, if not all, my friends are asleep or not interested in my dramatic issues.
How do I handle this? Weve been together for years and we are getting married soon. I feel defeated.
<bot>: My partner and I got into it because he said some ugly things about what I do or don't do during sex, climax even! I feel hurt and attacked.