<human>: I just booked my wedding venue for next August, on the only weekend that was available. My best friend and maid of honor graciously told me earlier when we were discussing dates that I could use her birthday weekend if necessary (her birthday is on a Thursday). Turns out, that was the only weekend my venue had available in a 3 month range, so I went with it. 

I am totally not someone who thinks my wedding has to be all about me--in fact, I asked my boyfriend if we could get her a cake and sing happy birthday to her at the wedding, and he thought I was being ridiculous. 

What can I do to make sure her birthday is still special two days before my wedding? The wedding is a couple hours away from where I live, and we will be there for the whole weekend, so we will be departing for the venue the morning after her birthday. Obviously I will have a lot of friends and family in town and she has met many of them but most are not actual mutual friends (she and I have never lived in the same city!). We have been best friends for 12 years and I have not had the opportunity to spend her birthday with her in about 7 years. I am actually really excited that I will be able to next year, but I realize I will probably be super busy and crazed with pre-wedding stuff. How do I strike a good balance between honoring her special day and not going insane before mine??

Note: she is the kind of person who LOVES her birthday, just because she loves fun things, and usually does something creative like going ice skating or having a picnic to celebrate. She is totally not self-centered about it at all, just likes getting people together to do fun stuff! I'm sure she doesn't expect much but I'd like to go above and beyond her expectations because I love her!

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<bot>: Best friend/maid of honor's birthday is two days before my wedding. How do I give her an awesome celebration??