<human>: My parents are fairly conservative homeschoolers(I've always been homeschooled, and it's not that bad-social or otherwise)They are both very intelligent(surgeon and nurse) and never had any problems teaching me or my siblings. Recently we've been having large amounts of conflict because of their rules and plans for me.

I'm in my 4th year of homeschooling and they want me to either stay home an extra year to make up for lost credit or go to a Christian pre-university school after this school year. Whenever I try to bring up the topic of either dating(they don't want me dating until I'm two years away from a career) or school, it always degrades to them saying that I believe that I know best and that they're idiots or that they cannot believe how disrespectful I am to them. 

Whenever I bring up that they didn't assign me enough courses and that's why I'm failing they just get really mad that I would blame them for me not almost being done school and not own up to the consequences of laziness. They always bring up the 'fact' that I always win these arguments and that they won't give in anymore, citing the one victory that I had: I'd been doing both piano and classical guitar for three years of my highschool(plus many before that) and they weren't planning on giving me any credits for the two and a half hours they made me practice everyday. They finally gave me credit for it when I threatened to quit playing both. 

I'm also convinced that schooling is major source of conflict for us(it really is), but they always say, "it's not your *school* that's the problem". 

My parents are very loving and supportive and Indont want to hurt them anymore than I already have, but I want out. I can't get out without causin major heartbreak for my parents what can I do?

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<bot>: my parents neither want me to stop being homeschooled nor date because I'm not ready. I want to start my life! Help!