<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

I live in a small college town, so being 26, most of my friends have left town.  I only have one, whom i had a short FWB stint with.  Never developed feelings for each other, because, well, he was (and still is) my boss (yikes, I know, but it was a short lived mistake).  I have explained this to my current BF and that, although my boss and I were FWB, it was a long time ago, and we have remained friends.  Now, my boyfriend gets mad whenever i talk to my boss, even if its work related.  He wants me to leave my job, which, honestly i have been looking for other employment, but the BF is very insistent on me up and quitting.  

On top of this, he maintains contact with his exs, tells them all sorts of things about our relationship, and openly flirts with girls who have tried to put themselves between the two of us (that he says isnt the case).  It feels like a huge double-standard, and when I talk to him about it he says "its different" with his exs because theyre nice and do favors for him.    

Now this guy (BF) wants me to move in, and potentially move across the country with him.  I have obvious concerns about this because, frankly, my family is here, and I like the state I am in; I dont want to move.  Hes making me feel bad about this decision now.  

I dont know what to do.  I think I should leave, but I suppose i just wan an outside perspective.
<bot>: jealous boyfriend with double-standards wants me to move across country with him; makes me feel bad about not wanting to; would like perspective.