<human>: We met last year when I was visiting friends in Tokyo. He's Japanese, I'm British. He's older than me, and while I was initially a little worried about the age-gap, we started dating. We've been taking it in turns to visit each others country. When I am with him, it feels absolutely perfect and right, when we are apart, it feels pretty wrong.

He proposed to me in September at the top of Tokyo Tower, I said yes. It has always been my intention to move to Japan eventually- it's why I went to University, it's why I have been studying for my TEFL, but now that it's getting closer, I'm starting to panic. I'm going to miss my family, my niece and nephew, my parents, my friends. But if I don't go, I know I will regret it, and just become the miserable spinster Aunt who will become bitter that she never followed her heart.

Is this feeling normal? It's a big move, I know, and I'm taking a risk. But do I go for it, or do I listen to my inner fears and play it safe?

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<bot>: fiancé lives in Tokyo, I am in the UK, about to move there to be with him but feeling a bit overwhelmed and scared at the prospect right now.