<human>: I recently came back from a long trip with various colleagues from across the world (whom I had never met). The day I introduced myself to him..it was like time stood still. I've never had that feeling meeting someone before, and it threw me off. I texted him first, and we talked about all types of things (reddit included!), but when I went home that weekend for a quick trip, I found myself missing him incredibly, and couldn't wait to get back to see him. 

Over the next six weeks, we grew close..sleeping together, spending nights watching stupid things on Netflix, he even took me to the hospital and waited till 2:30am with me one night when I was really sick. We talked about his wife, and he said that she was unsupportive of his work, she had no friends, and that she wasn't the same person when they met. I didn't judge or provide biased advice at all, I let him vent when he needed to. It was pretty clear one day that I knew how I felt, and I told him...he felt the same way. We dreaded the day we had to say goodbye. We talked nightly about how we could let each other walk away knowing how we felt. Lots of tears were shed.

Saying goodbye to him was easily the hardest thing I've had to do, and I can't believe how empty I feel back home knowing he's so far away from me, and he says he feels that way back too. He says he wants to try to fix things at home, but that even since being back..he doesn't feel the same way about her as he once did.

Reddit, what do I do? Im torn between just letting him be and letting him figure things out on his own (with the potential of him saying he chooses her), and just buying him a plane ticket and being forward about how serious I am about being with him. Any advice is welcome. Im really hurting right now.

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<bot>: Met the man of my dreams, find out he's married, fall in love with him and find out he feels the same way, and now left in limbo unsure of what to do or how to feel.