<human>: My husband went out with friends for an overnight trip and an old flame of mine asked to stop over note this I took this guys virginity we were great pals I was very drunk and I ended up having sex with him. I love my husband very much and I feel awful keeping this inside but I feel he deserves to know but I know it will end my marriage we always said we'd never stand for cheating that would be the last straw. He's been with me through so many mistakes and he didn't deserve what I did. I feel he needs to know but my life would be over. We also have  3 year old daughter I don't want to lose my family but its always on my brain that I am a horrible person.

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<bot>: I cheated on my first and long time husband and father of my childi feel guilty want him to know but my life will be over