<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

**This is definitely more of a personal issue than relationships, but leads to how I form relationships with others and interact.  I love this community, but understand if you Mods think this should be moved to another subreddit.**

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I have had two long-term relationships (about 3 years each) from ages 18-22, the second of which broke my heart and I maintained distance from men for a very long time afterward.

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Since then I have casually hooked up three times, all what amounted to be one-night stands when I was looking for a more long-term FWB thing.

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The thing is, I've only had PIV sex during two of those one-night stands (both men I was previously dating are devout Catholics and apparently PIV was their breaking point).

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I feel like I'm finally ready to start dating around a bit more and for something casual - it's been 2 years since my last one-night-stand, but I feel like my inexperience is a turn-off for most people and in turn, I myself get turned off.  In fact, it is now so bad and so deep-seeded that I have a hard time even being attracted to people.  I mean, I obviously find many people (men and women alike) quite sexy and good to look at.  I go on dates through means of online dating (and have never found someone I'm attracted to beyond their body).

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I suppose what I'm looking for here is the following:

- An answer to, "Is it really a big deal or not that I'm 27 and not very sexually experienced?"
- How can I stop being so turned-off by others?  Is it something in my head, or is it just the people I meet through online dating aren't very interesting?  I should add to this, I met a man over the summer (he had a gf unfortunately) who I was quite attracted to mentally and physically.... so I don't think I'm incapable of feeling that way entirely.

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Thanks so much for any input you can provide.
<bot>: I'm embarrassed by how non-often I've had PIV sex and think it's the root of my attraction problems to others and am now too scared to have sex.... but want to.