<human>: I have been struggling to lose these last 10 pounds or so for at least a year, and although my weight will dip down to about 162 if I work out 4 times each week and eat about 1400 calories a day, I just cannot get back to my goal weight of 155. I weighed 155 from the years of 18-24, but started gaining about 4-5 pounds each year after that. I finally went up to about 175, and my husband expressed that he was getting worried about my weight, and I was getting frustrated with buying clothes all the time and not really feeling attractive. 

Anyway, I currently exercise 2-4 times each week for 30 minutes, incorporate HIT and weight lifting, eat about 1400 calories daily from predominantly whole foods, and do indulge in about 1 alcoholic drink (usually vodka with diet tonic water, or a glass of wine) every night. 

I am tempted to cut calories further, increase gym time, or just completely give up alcohol and most carbs, but I don't feel like that is sustainable for me long term, and I'd like to stay at about 155 long term (assuming I ever reach this goal). 

 My husband is naturally very thin, so he eats a ton and has a drink every night, so it makes it more difficult to be super clean at my house, as I still cook for him and then make my own (modified) meals on the side. He needs about 3500 calories a day to sustain his weight (6'5 and 185 pounds), when he doesn't work out, and about 4000-4500 calories on days he does exercise.

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<bot>: Any suggestions on how to lose the last 10 or so pounds, especially when I live and cook for my husband, who needs almost three times as many calories as I do to maintain his weight?