<human>: Me and my partner (Harry) met online through a mutual friend and instantly clicked, met up after a month and have been dating since then. 

We both live at home with parents due to my education/both our lack of money and are about 2 hours away from each other via public transport. This would be bearable but neither of our sets of parents approve of our relationship and so visiting is limited. His parents dislike me as they want him to marry and settle down and they can't see me doing that. My parents are concerned about the age difference. 

When we do get to meet up (about once every 2 months) it is always me visiting him as he claims to have a family event/no funds etc. stopping him from coming down. Again, this would be okay if he didn't then go out clubbing with his friends/spend £200 on NERF guns/travel round the country on a whim.

He is unemployed and doesn't seem to want to change that as he works for free for a friends' film company he thinks will take off and make him rich, and therefore "does not have the time" for a "boring, normal job."  

I have talked to him about potentially moving in together in the next year or so but he remains quite distant about the subject, although he is keen on the idea I move to the area on my own. 

I love him to pieces and I don't want to end the relationship at all but I am getting tired of not being able to see him and his seeming lack of goals for the future. Does anyone here have any insight/advice on how to help make this work and what to do next?

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<bot>: Getting a bit tired of long distance boyfriends childishness over some things, would appreciate some help of what to do now.