<human>: So, elephant in the room, there is an age gap. It's something that I've processed and accepted. I realize that he'd be an old man when I'm still relatively young, I'd have to help take care of him, etc. It's something I had to consider early on and I accepted this gladly because I think he's perfect. 

When we met, it was literally like a fairly tale and we both fell in love deeply and fast. He's incredibly handsome (he looks like Marc Jacobs...seriously), extremely intelligent, kind, considerate, good at communicating, and we fit flawlessly; however, there is one problem. He has been unemployed and looking for work for months. He was a Partner at a law firm in Puerto Rico and has had trouble finding a job as a lawyer in Chicago. As a result, he may have to move to New Jersey since he has friends there that can help him. 

Long story short, he's likely going to have to move to New Jersey. He could stay with me if it weren't for the fact that he has three dogs and I can't support both of us. I can't move to the New Jersey area. 

That being said, how do I process the heartbreak? I don't get the sense of closure that our relationship ran its course. It's been prevented from its full potential, which both of us believe would end in marriage and profound happiness. I'm having such a hard time accepting this and it's hard for me to reconcile. I don't know how I'm going to heal afterwards. If he had a job, everything would be perfect, but jobs aren't exactly the easiest things to come by.

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<bot>: Love of my life has to move to New Jersey. I have to stay in Chicago. How do I cope with the heartbreak since our relationship didn't get to naturally run its course?