<human>: This is my first post, and I need some advice. My bf, possibly ex bf, and I have been dating for 2 years. We met at work, and I fell in love with him after only months of dating. Lately, we've been fighting often. I've been stressed with work and school, and looking back, I see I have taken that stress out on him with mood swings and negativity. 

I think I may have built up some resentment towards him as well because he likes to be in control of everything. He doesn't like my family and he doesn't like me hanging out with my friends or doing things without him. He says the man makes the decisions in a relationship, and I should follow him. I haven't been in many relationships, so I don't have much experience.  

We had a fight and he left in the morning with some of his things and now he won't respond to my texts or my calls. He won't even look at me at work. I don't know if we're broken up, and I'm devastated about the whole situation because I really love and care about him. I don't know what to do.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Bf left and not taking my calls or texts, not sure if we're broken up, devastated and not sure what to do