<human>: My wife and I have been together for 12 years (married for 4), and now she is saying she is seriously considering divorce because I don't support her in her life and career goals. She hypothesizes that I don't support her because I don't have any real dream or unifying goal for my life. 

The things I do have goals for have to do with fitness (I go to the gym 5 days a week), financial (I am debt free for the first time in 8 years), educational (I'm teaching myself spanish), but she says that none of those things are a dream, just small goals or hobbies. 

I wish I had an answer to the question "what dream do you have for your life?", however, there are a lot of people I know who I respect a lot that don't have a unifying goal for their existence, and I still consider them successful. Maybe not Richard Branson successful, but I feel like they lead happy lives. 

I know I don't have a ton of context here, but the guts of it is that if I don't develop a dream or goal for my existence, I'm pretty sure my wife will end our marriage. How does one even go about doing that? She keeps asking me questions like "how do you not just know this already?". I don't know how to fix this, or even if I should, because I feel like she's asking me to be someone I'm not, in a way that won't make me happy. On the other hand, wouldn't having a goal for my life make me happier? I am usually pretty content with myself and my life, but would it get better?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: My wife says I need to have a dream or goal for my life so I am motivated by something other than the fear of losing what I have. She wants to leave.