<human>: hi reddit land on a throw away as it's a bit NSFW 

me and my partner have a wonderful relationship living together very happily except when it comes to sex. 

I have a massive sex drive and he barely has one at all. once a week for him is a stretch and he would most happily be looking at once or twice a month. I'm more of a once or twice a day kinda gal. 

when we have sex it's amazing literally the best I have ever had but there just isn't enough of it for me. he constantly tells me how sexy I am, how much he loves me and wants me but when we yet down to it all I hear is that he isn't in the moos or that we will do it later - which never comes

he works long hours and always says he is tired which I can totally understand but that isn't going to change anytime soon. he says he has never had a massive sex drive with any of his exs even as a teenager. he has had a health check and there is no physical cause for his lack of sex drive

this is pretty much the only thing we argue about but it comes up at least once a fortnight but it's always exactly the same. I feel rejected and come on to him more which puts more pressure onto him so he feels more inadequate. I tried not coming onto him at all for 3 weeks and we didn't have sex for those 3 weeks. 

neither of us are cheating (unless you count my vibrator) he just doesn't have that much of an interest and doesn't see why I think it is so important. 

he is very affectionate and we can cuddle and kiss for hours but he's just not that into sex. 

help reddit how can I lower my sex drive or make this feel okay? I love this man and want to work this out. how can I change to make this easier on him and not so much pressure on him while still getting at least some of what I need

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<bot>: me (female) with a massive sex drive male partner of 1 year basically 0 sex drive. how do I change yo be okay with that?