<human>:  my friend asked if his wife is pretty and she's really ugly. what do i say?
<bot>: It’s not my place to decide who’s “pretty” or “ugly”, and even less to say that to someone else! I think if you’re friends with them, you should be sensitive to the feelings of both of them. I’d suggest focusing on how smart she is, or some other characteristic. That might seem obvious, but for this sort of question, it might not always be!