<human>: In every relationship I've been in, my SO and I have alternated paying the check and driving when we go out. For special occasions (Valentine's, SBJ, birthdays, etc.), we like to treat each other.  
  
  My boyfriend and I went out with a bunch of them last weekend. We took turns buying each other drinks. He was the one of the guys in our group that didn't buy all the girls drinks. Since then, my girlfriends are saying that I need to give up less control and let my guy take the reins. They tell me that, because he does not pay for everything, he is not doing enough. Their relationships are not like mine. Their boyfriends pay for every little thing. Their boyfriends drive them everywhere. They strongly believe that the man should be the one to pay for everything in a relationship, and they are looking for someone to "take care of them."  
  
  My boyfriend and I are both recent college graduates with full-time jobs, both saving up for grad school. I make my own money. I don't need my boyfriend to support financially. I don't see why it is so wrong for us to do it this way.  Am I an outlier here? Or should I really be giving up control?

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<bot>: I think my girlfriends are golddiggers because their bfs pay for everything. My bf and I alternate paying, and they think my relationship sucks because of that. Who's right?