<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

Hey reddit.

I'm in a relationship for almost a year. Our relationship is pretty good, smooth. We love each other. When we have little problems we talk about it and make it work. No big deal so far.

However, I'm feeling unconfortable as fuck nowadays. I'm always the one who's planning something to do, you know? I'm the one who has to make plans, search for a place to go.
I'm the one who make "different things". Such as sending a rose mid-week to her place with a note saying "have a good day". This kind of stuff.
She has a lack of proactivity.
When I think "fuck it, I won't ask her to go out anymore, neither send flowers/write letter" and really don't, it takes 3~5 days and she says: "Hey, I REALLY miss you. Let's get together today!". Then we spend all day together and since I love spending time with her I don't care about these little things anymore.
Nonetheless, therein lies a problem. I'm almost always pissed when she's not around.
I think that I like her more than she likes me. She's a (really) busy girl (so am I). Sometimes she can't answer me cause she's doing something else. However, even when I CAN'T answer her, Ill check my phone just to see if she sent me an email or something. I can't use my phone at work, for sample, however I'll check it every 30 minutes, just in case. 

I really like her. This are two things that I dislike in her. I could say twelve things in her that I like.
I don't wanna be a whining baby who wants more attention but this is making me unconfortable. Since I don't see myself telling her "Your lack of proactivity is making our relationship bad", I'm here at reddit, asking for help.
What would you guys do?
<bot>: Girlfriend and I love each other but I'm the one who needs to be proactive almost all the time. I'm unconfortable with that/don't know that to do.