<human>: Hello all, my wife and I got married in the fall of last year and due to poor planning and for some reason a need to not pull out she is now pregnant as of 02/14/2013. The embryo is now about 3 or 4 weeks old and I know we are not in a place to have a child. We are both in our late 20s and not in careers or even the location we want to be. I think the best option for us is to not have the child but dont know how to bring it up. Any suggestions or advice would be extremely helpful. Any medical procedures that can be done (i.e. chemical abortions). She is not super anti abortion just does not want to have an abortion for herself due to the guilt she may feel,

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<bot>: Having a kid but want an abortion even though we are married, but wife doesn't want abortion due to guilt.