<human>: We've been together for two years. I moved in with him (20m) and his mother (oops) and I'm moving out back to my dad's house next week, because I'm a bright fuck and thought that living with the boyfriends mother was going to be harmless.

I don't know whether it's the constant piggy in the middle situation he's been put in right now but we're just not on the same page. I love him so much, but we're arguing more, I feel like I'm always dragging him to do anything date-like (which is more about him not wanting to go out and leave the comfort of his room) and I feel more like his buddy than a girlfriend, which can be nice but I don't feel like this is how it should be. I've talked to him and I suggested taking a breather for a couple of weeks or so a while ago, we both ended up in a blubbering mess and it ended in 

We go through incredible periods but it just gets stale and I feel like I'm too young to be feeling this lonely. But the idea of not being with him breaks heart.

Is this just what a long term relationship is? I know it's hard to give advice like this because you don't have the full picture but if anyone's been in a similar situation or has any advice I'd really appreciate it.

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<bot>: Relationship of two years going stale, not sure it's worth fighting for anymore. He seems to not be into me anymore but maybe this is what a long term relationship is like?