<human>: It's a throwaway (duh).  

While this isn't my first serious relationship, it is the first time I've lived with someone.  It's taken me a really long time to get used to living with him...by that I mean he's super picky about things but doesn't seem to want to have to do any actual work around the house (claims I do a shitty job vacuuming/with dishes/whatever, but never does those chores himself).  He works maybe 50 hours a week, and I probably work around 30...I'm actually okay with doing the bulk of the housework, I don't mind doing it and I work quite a bit less than he does.  I just kinda wish he'd stop complaining about it all the time.

But he complains about other stuff, too.  Stuff I think is just, well, stupid.  He seems to flip out about the littlest shit.  Not necessarily stuff that I'm doing, either, but it's like if one little thing goes wrong he falls to (very angry) pieces.  He has to yell and scream and be a total dick about stuff like having to be placed on hold when calling some company to pay a bill or something, or somebody driving stupidly in front of him, or when one little thing doesn't go according to plan.  It's really weird.  I've never been around anybody like this before.  It's pretty hard to imagine a future with somebody who can't handle the tiniest bits of adversity.

I've recommended therapy/anger management, but he's absolutely refused.  Is this normal?  I mean, just because I've never seen it before doesn't mean it isn't.  Do other guys do this?

Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?
<bot>: SO explodes when the littlest things go wrong, is sometimes upset for days about stuff.  Not really sure if this is a common thing or not?