<human>: Each year we usually attend her parents holiday dinner first because they have it earlier in the day and then drive an hour plus to my parents house to shove down another dinner because my parents have it later. I'm tired of doing this and one time even opted out of her families completely because i wanted to see my family first and enjoy that meal. The thing is she won't go for my idea of we hang out with my family first during the day one year, eat, then attend your parents later for some pie and good company. She says that she's not going to compromise and 'not attend' her families Thanksgiving because by that time her parents will be asleep and have already had pie (we would get there at like 5-8pm). So I mean we've been together for some years now and she wont do this for me not even one year.

So am I wrong and totally a dick here or what? Lets hear it.

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<bot>: Gf won't switch it up and attend my families Thanksgiving first one year before we head to her parents for the holiday.