<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

* Been together 7 years
* Wife joined the marines this past Feb
* Got married this past June(on 10 day leave)
* Had a great relationship till the past months, never fought, always had fun.

Communication is our issue here.  We have talked about it, and every time she says "Yeah, I'm a dirt bag at communicating with you".  Keep asking her to change it, says she will, and it lasts about 1 or 2 days and then she goes back to her old ways.  She was never like this before joining.  I get blown off multiple times on the week ends, she says she will call, then says she is hanging out with her friends/getting drunk/a lot of other things, but the drinking and friends are the big one.

She says I don't want her to have fun or friends, which is not true at all, but when she never talks to me during the week because she is too tired to do anything after her school days, and the only free time she has is on the weekends, but she blows me off after we made plans to talk, how can I not be angry at the situation?

We got into over an email where she said I need to "Man the F up" and stop being butt hurt she has friends... then I try and explain it's because I'm being blown off by her and she said I need to learn how to be a lone wolf...  It's been like this for months and I finally got tired of it last night and asked her to just email like once a week and let me know what she has been up to, and I won't pester her about communication again.  Response back was OK, didn't know we were in a battle, I'll email once a week.

Seriously have no clue what to do, she was never like this before and it was a healthy, happy relationship.  Life's hard man, makes me feel like a piece of shit that my own wife does not even want to talk to me, and the very little we do talk she won't tell me about her stuff because "You have not been through what my brother and sisters in the force have been through, you would not understand"
<bot>: Wife in marines contently blows me off on communication to drink/do other things, tells me I need to be a lone wolf...