<human>: My ex was abusive emotionally, manipulative, liar and a lot of things, I want to talk to his parents about this after it is over because I deeply care for him, and I really care about them too, I am however terrified of him... I know he won't hurt me anymore, and if he did kill me, I wouldn't really mind tbh, but I really feel like I should warn them before he does this to someone else... He's refusing to get help, making half promises, half apologies, etc. He's now 'acting' sad after a while of 'acting' "I'm so angry with you I really hate you, but I also love you." (We still live together)

Please help me, ... Do I say something or is it just not my place anymore? I feel guilty abandoning him ... He wants me to stay silent, but I've had to call the police on him choking me to death, and I'm afraid he's only going to escalate as a person ...

He's acting kindly now, so don't worry, but I'm terrified, I really want to say something, but I don't want to be the 'spitefull' ex, because I'm really not, I just *care* ... Thankyou, please help me

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<bot>: emotionally and physically abusive boyfriend, everyone thinks/sees nice caring guy, should I talk to inlaws about what he did? (it's not just a small issue, he punches himself and stuff at times, ...)