<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

Hello all.

Long story short, met this girl in college, she fell in love with me pretty early on but unfortunately my love for her didn't come until later in the relationship. By the time I realized I was in love with her, she started losing her love for me. She broke up with me, it was very hard because I was in love with her and she, although was no longer in love with me, still very much cared about me. We dated for a year and a half.

We took some time where we didn't see each other much but we still communicated a bit through text. 

We then started talking again and hanging out. We pretty much consider each other best friends now.

Fast forward to about a year after our breakup and she's started dating this other guy. She didn't tell me at first but I knew something was going on.

She called me one night asking to come over...she comes over crying an
d admits that she has been dating someone else for a few weeks now (she's also broken up with him once already during these few weeks). She told her new bf about me, that I am her ex bf but more importantly I was her best friend. New bf got angry at her and pretty much said "him or me". I was upset because I thought I was about to lose her again (in a different sense than the first time). She tells me she is unsure of what to do. 

It's been a week since we had that conversation and she's said that she has avoided bringing up the subject with her bf...

Thoughts? I obviously don't want to lose someone I very much care about. Should I say something more direct to her? Idk if that's my place to say something along the lines of "hey choose me, I'm your best friend, reason a b c d etc etc."

To be clear, I don't have romantic feelings for her. I very much love her but in the way that best friends do. Also, I'm not saying I should tell her what to do. That's not my place to tell her to choose me.

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<bot>: Ex gf is my best friend, she's started dating someone else, new bf told her "him or me"