<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

Let me give you a background. My wife and I have been married for five years. We were married just over a year after we met. I was a virgin and she was not. She was my only girlfriend before as well. I love her very much; she is my best friend. However, things have slowly changed and I'm not entirely sure why. 

I've been having a problem with attraction to other women. This isn't the normal testosterone-induced head-turn that goes no further. I will notice a woman now and again and have a desire to pursue her, and not just sexually. 

There are qualities that I feel are lacking in my marriage I hadn't realized I desired before, and my wife cannot fulfill them. I also wonder about all the adventures I missed, exploring and meeting different people,  including women. I don't feel happy anymore. I'm always depressed, angry, and resentful. Sometimes I resent the boundaries placed on me - I wish I was able to figure things out without hurting anyone. 

Here are just a few things that seem to be problem areas:

~ Sex is horrible; my attraction has waned greatly as she's gained weight and refuses to attempt being pretty for me.
~ She doesn't respect me
~ She's become withdrawn socially and culturally. I feel stuck, lacking adventure.
~ She doesn't like sharing dreams, romance.

Please give serious, nonjudgmental, constructive responses. Thank you!
<bot>: I'm attracted to other women because my wife isn't meeting some of my ideals, probably which have developed since marriage, or become realized since then.