<human>: I have been hooking up with a guy intermittently for about 9 months, and it started to move into relationship territory in the last two months or so. I have spent quite a bit of time at his house get along very very well with his siblings and parents. Being with this guy has been making me the happiest I've been in a long time-- I love spending time with him, crazy awesome sex, etc.

We're still in the bubbly new phase of the relationship (haven't said I love you, but lots of mutual affection), but a question has been gnawing at me: we have different religious upbringings. I was raised non-religious (I guess my extended family are Protestants of various types), and his family are fairly observant Jews, not orthodox or anything though. It seems to be a fairly important part of his life, at least culturally.

I want to ask him if he wants to marry/ultimately be with a Jewish girl. As much fun as I'm having with him, if there's a sort of built in ending to the relationship, I kind of want to know earlier rather than later, so I don't get as invested. Don't get me wrong-- if I end up getting married it would be down the road 5 or 6 years. But I still want to know.

But I'm afraid if I ask him this I'll come off as overly serious/planning for our wedding two months into the relationship/creepy etc.  Is it unreasonable for me to be wondering this so early on? Will he think I am being overly pushy and inappropriate based on how new the relationship is? Any perspective would be greatly appreciated!

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: boyfriend of a couple months is Jewish. I'm not. Is it too early to ask him if this is a long term deal-breaker for him?