<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

So, over this log weekend which marked my partner and I's 2 year anniversary we broke down and realized how we weren't really in a relationship anymore and both felt like friends who had a kid.

Now, a little back story, we've known each other for a few years and we're fuck buddies for about a year before we got together and decided to be in a relationship and fell in love very quickly. I fell pregnant early on and suffered a miscarriage, after which we both decided that we both had really wanted the pregnancy and decided to try again.

Fast forward to now, where we both have gotten so caught up in being new parents, keeping the house running, paying bills, seeing family that we have forgotten to see each other. I am heartbroken that we have let things get this far and and determined to get our love life back and my partner says he is all in too. We've been able to identify what our issues are (ie; not focusing on one another, he has problems communicating issues when they are bothering him resulting in a blow up once he's reached a boiling point, me being defensive and not receptive to issues when they are brought to me) and we feel like we're a step ahead of the game as most couples arent able to figure out what the kinks are. I have hope for us. We were such a crazy good couple up until a month or so ago when these issues really started to take hold and I am confident that so long as he starts working on his communication, I can work on being more receptive, but I cant change unless given the opportunity.

This has also resulted in little to no sex, not even as a result of our infant, but feeling more like friends than lovers.
I'm hoping I'm not the only one who has gone, or is going through this and maybe some parents, (maybe some of the men who have been in his shoes) can shed some light on how they helped overcome these issues?
<bot>: had kid. forgot to keep dating/relationship a priority, now we need to get our groove back. HALP.