<human>: I am not going to lie. I suck at 'dating'. I have been in relationships, but I fell into them without a 'date'. This was the first proper date I have had...ever. Now, it started a bit blandly. I live in Sweden, but I am British. Meeting girls is hard for me. We had spoken for about 2 weeks on the phone. It just took a while for my arse to get into gear and talk.

Now, I asked her, perhaps stupidly, if she was still attracted to me after meeting. She said 'yes'. She, however, did not want to kiss me (she said she is not 100% sure yet. maybe in the future). This bothered me a touch because on the phone she had been talking about all the random hookups she has had (one night things). I did not go there for sex, so that is fine. Just...I don't know why she had to decide on kissing me or not. We didn't kiss, but hugged goodbye (she called me back)

Throughout the day, she gave off 'signals' that she may have liked me. Her knees pointed towards mine, touching my knees etc. This may not have meant anything though.

She did ask if I wanted to hang out soon. i said 'yes'.

But, now she seems to be talking not so much. I get she may be tired, but she told me she was sleeping today but she was still online on Facebook (maybe too tired to talk?) and that we could talk tomorrow.

I really like her. She knows I am after something longterm, maybe to get a girlfriend at the end. So y'know.

How can I tell if she likes me? Why would she not want to kiss me if she was attracted to me?

Gah.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: I suck at reading girls and finding out if they are attracted to me. Man alive. Due to shit that has happened in the past, I don't know when people are lying and saying they like me and stuff.