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My husband and I have been married for 16 years and have a 14 year old daughter. She was accepted to a very prestigious (world famous) private school this year for high school. I was always the one pushing for her to go there. I think he kind of assumed she wouldn't get in (it's very selective) so there was no point in having an argument about it and he was just going along with it.

The tuition is extremely costly, as much as private colleges ($30K). In preparation for the expense, I've spent the last 18 months taking on additional projects and responsibilities at work, leading to a big promotion and salary increase that's enough to cover the tuition.

But after the acceptance letter came, my husband sat me down and said he really did not think it was worth the expense. Her current school is very good, and he thought that the private school is better, but not worth $30k/year.

We had many, many discussions and over time he eventually persuaded me that the money would be better spent elsewhere.

So our decision to keep her in public school was a mutual one. But, honestly, if it had been up to me solely, I would have sent her to the private school. I feel sad, angry, and guilty that we could be doing better for her and we're actively choosing not to.

I didn't realize how much I was stuffing my feelings down and ignoring them until I got my credit card bill this month. I have been unconsciously, angrily, resentfully, buying expensive stuff we don't need. New clothes, upgraded furniture for the house, etc. I didn't realize what I was doing at the time, I thought I was just enjoying my big promotion/raise. But really, I think part of me is buying this stuff to rub it in my husband's face, like, "Look what all this money is buying us instead of a better future for our child."

We came to this decision together, and what's done is done, so I need to just accept this. How can I let go of the anger and resentment I feel? I know it's wrong to feel this way but that doesn't make the feelings go away.
<bot>: My husband talked me out of sending our daughter to an expensive private school, and even though I ultimately agreed with him, I feel out of control anger and resentment toward him.