<human>: ~2 year relationship

I got a high paying job out of college and she didn't.  I moved to a moderately priced area where a 2-bedroom can be had for ~1400 per month.  She graduated and followed me out, and got a very low-paying job.

She sucks with money and has no ambitions or career goals.  I cautiously bring up money topics here and there and while she always agrees with me in principle, I don't see any change.

I want a relationship where we go 50/50 on group activities so the truth is her money does affect our relationship.  Lastly, I feel like a dick because she would be royally screwed if we broke up.  She lives in my apartment, sleeps in my bed, eats my food, etc.  She isn't a leach by any means but is certainly not self-sufficient.

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<bot>: Struggling to make sense of a relationship with awesome but unambitious girlfriend who can't help pay for things.