<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

I've been dating this girl for about 6 months now and we've been officially together for about 2 months.  I've been trying to take things extra slow with her (hence 4 months of dating) because she just seems uncomfortable with any sort of closeness. 

The only way I know that I'm special to her are my short talks with her roommates.  She's never brought anyone around in the two years they've known her and she talks about me to all her friends and her parents.  She just won't tell me any of this directly.  

The start of this aversion to closeness seems to be that she was date raped when she was 18.  I haven't really probed into the story too deep so I don't have many details on this, just that it happened.

My question is, what should I be doing to keep moving forward? I'm very patient and am in no way trying to break her shell immediately, but I'm wondering if I should be pushing the issue more than just ignoring it and let her open naturally (what I'm doing currently).  Should I ask more about her rape?  Should I be trying to get closer myself? 

Another point to make is that we haven't had sex yet.  I've been very patient in trying to make sure she trusts me before any of that happens so we can have the best possible experience.  Should I be pushing this more as well?  Every once in a while when we get hot and heavy I ask if she's ready to move to the bedroom and she says "Yes, but No".  I say OK and we keep mackin'.  Is this too much or should I just keep this up too?  How many questions are allowed in these posts?
<bot>: Girlfriend was raped 6 years ago and doesn't trust to get close in a relationship. / How do I keep us moving forward?