<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

Am I being overly jealous?

The guys is a friend of hers of about 10 years I think. He was in a relationship for the good part of that time. I was a little bit suspicious when he made really cringy youtube videos that only get say 20 views and she showed me telling me how great they were. Not that big a deal I know. But then she told me how a girl on facebook made fun of them and then she came to his rescue telling her off and defriending her. Friendship loyalty, yeah I know.

I really started to get suspicious though when all three of us were hanging out together recently and I noticed that she did not take her eyes off of him for a second. I believe she didn't even wish I was there. She made no references to me in any stories that shared had together, she used 'I' and 'mine' lots and never 'we' and 'ours' for things that are common to us, and she didn't try to include me in on conversations. So I started watching her as they spoke, and I noticed that when there were pauses in conversation she'd just maintain eye contact and smile at him real flirtatiously and giggle a bit and never looked at me the whole time even though we were at a table of three.

After this dinner I thought back to the other times and things seemed to click in to place.

IF she does have a crush on him, do you think our relationship could still work? I'd be more understanding if it was a fleeting crush, but they have known each other for 10 years...

How the hell can I know how she feels about him without causing a massive fight?

Am I just making something out of nothing???
<bot>: I think GF has always had a crush on her male friend but I have no way of knowing. I feel if she did then I would have to break it off... But how do I know?