<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

I have been with my bf for a little over 2 years. (Both mid 40's) We have been living together for about 6 months. Everything has been going pretty well except for a few minor bumps while adjusting to our new living situation, but sometimes I feel unsure about where he is at in this relationship. When he speaks about the future he can be kind of vague and I am not sure where or even if I am in that future. When we first started dating he talked about wanting to get married again someday, but after things became more serious he has never spoke of any thing like that. Recently I decided to speak to him about this. When I asked him if when he thought about the future did he see me in it, he kind of shrugged and said "yeah", not exactly the kind of answer I was hoping for. When I pushed for further clarification he basically told me the he has no intent or plans for a future with me, but also has no intention of ending our relationship. This left me feeling a little crushed. I am not hell bent on getting married or anything like that. In fact until I met him I was fairly certain I would never marry again. However I would like to be in a relationship where I felt like we were making plans for a future together. His answer makes me feel like I am just the woman for right now. Am I being silly and placing too much importance on the idea of planning for a future together?
<bot>: my bf doesn't seem to have plans for a future with me even after being in a relationship for more than 2 years