<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

She is 16, I am 18, and we go to the same school.  After introducing herself to me as a lesbian, she eventually began showing interest in me and finally told me she liked me.  After we started dating, she told me she had never been with a guy before.  She showed some apprehension when we started fooling around with eachother, which I attributed to her inexperience, but she only had a problem with me touching her below the waist, and was very open to everything above.  

After working her up quite a bit, she conceded to me fingering her in the heat of the moment, but afterwards said I would never be able to do that again.  Anything above the waist is fair game, but she couldn't have me touch her down there at all.  After a bit of a discussion, I managed to draw the reason out of her: which is that she'd been molested as a child and was obviously still having trouble with it.  Which explained why she had hated and avoided all guys before me, and a few earlier comments about how "I was changing everything" for her.

I care about her a lot, but I am wary of involving myself with such a damaged girl.  She has also promised me next to no possibility of any sort of sexual activity with her, which is something I must consider.  What can I do in this situation?  I don't want to break up with her, and I want to help her, but lack of significant sexual contact is a pretty big deal for me, and I'm afraid I'll end up pressuring her wrongly if I stay.
<bot>: Girlfriend was molested as a child and has intimacy issues, I care about her but lack of sexual contact and fear of hurting her worse is troubling me.