<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

I have been going out with my new girlfriend for about 3 weeks and she has been hinting at having sex quite a lot. I have never had sex before but I have fooled around a little with a couple of other girls previously a 4 years ago in High School.

I am absolutely petrified of getting her pregnant. She has told me she would never have an abortion. I am currently in college and feel getting her pregnant would have a devastating impact on both hers and my future. I feel my parents would be so disappointed in me as they have always hammered safe sex and not getting a girl pregnant into me when I was growing up. Not to mention a child would be raised in not an ideal environment and I would hate that guilt. 

She is on the pill and combined with a condom and pull out I understand the chances are pretty low of her getting pregnant. I sitll do not like the idea of taking any risk. I am not sure what her view on emergency contraception would be.

I would still like to do some sexual acts with her (such as blow jobs, hand jobs, toys) but I have no idea how to bring this up. She discussed with me her sexual history and she seems pretty intent on having sex. What is the best way to discuss this topic with her (and getting tested before we go any further)?

 Can you also give me any advice on how to safely perform some of these acts ?
<bot>: New girlfriend is forward about wanting sex. I'm petrified of getting her pregnant. Don't know how to bring up performing other acts.