<human>: I have a pretty good relationship with my mother in law. Or have had, for that matter. The thing is about a month ago my husband totaled our car. We're super tight on money so my in laws offered to loan us about the amount of our income tax returns so we could purchase a nice new car. My father is completely absent and my mother is virtually homeless with mental illness- so it wasn't like I could turn to them for help here. We could have purchased a pretty cruddy car with what we had but thought the deal seemed innocent enough to accept. My in laws are well off and travel the world every winter. They usually buy us great gifts for Christmas but I don't by any means completely expect them to. Since my husbands car was totaled, my MIL has been really weird about talking to me. We recently found out that she's techicully a narcissist so that might be part of what her dysfunction is. So we head over to their place today with presents for everyone. Everyone gets a turn opening and it finally comes to me. My gift says "for photoshell and her husband" I open it up and it's a frying pan. A cheap ugly frying pan. My husband got his own gift- as did everyone else. My husband even got one with his name. It was weird but I shrugged it off. Shortly there after we drove to my sisters house. I jokingly mentioned what had happened and everyones jaw dropped slightly. It dawned on me what a crappy gift I was given. I honestly just want to donate the damned frying pan because it upsets me just looking at it. We did not need a frying pan or any type of kitchen gear. It was completely random. Sorry this post isn't entirely juicy with drauma - I just want to know if I'm being unreasonable by feeling offeneded.

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<bot>: I have no idea why I was given a frying pan for Christmas. It seems a little bit fucked up and I'm not sure if I'm acting stupid for feeling upset.