<human>: My boyfriend is generally a great guy. Extremely generous, supports me financially quite a bit, always there to help etc, etc.

We had Easter plans to have his aunt over, bought a turkey, blah  blah blah. One week ago his brother is over and they are talking about their upcoming trip? Whaa? He finally tells me he is going for around 10 days to visit family out of town. I was initially fine with it, he does it about 3-4 times a year, I can't go because I have finals.

He likes to turn his phone off, and I won't hear from him until he gets back. It's becomes extremely frustrating. He doesn't have cell reception where he's staying, which is fine, but I still don't get a call telling me that he is driving back. Last time he got lost in the backcountry... at night for ten hours, with no-one around for miles and miles... and I won't know any of this until he gets back home. I don't care if he can't call - send an email (they have wifi) or a message.

This time really irked me because the day I was leaving, I get home from a stressful day and he tells me I have to clean the house... because he's leaving. He said "you should wash the windows and vacuum, that way it will be clean when I get back." First, of course the house will be fine, secondly, why would I clean when I have no idea when he is coming home? He is sending our dog back down with his brother at some point, but I'm just supposed to sit around and expect them? It really bothered me that his brother started half his laundry, expecting me to finish it, while they are on vacation...

How can I NOT feel pissed off for the next 10 days?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: BF left for a 10 day vacation, no-contact vacation. Expects a clean house. I'm pissed off.