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I spoke to my boyfriend about my concerns regarding this issue about an hour ago and it sort of just opened up a whole torrent of issues. Towards the end of our "how did our relationship turn into this", I got up enough self-respect to ask that we start using condoms. I'm not on any sort of birth control and while he NEVER ejaculates (he physically can't do it), there are some traces of "precum". I've read that this can contain sperm and I've been growing a little wary of the whole thing.

I asked him if we could use condoms and his response was "oh my god, really? why? ugh, fiiiine." And then he got quiet and later said, "why don't we just go to the sex shop down the street and buy you a chastity belt so you can be in complete control?"

I then told him how that made me feel and his exact response was: "Are you in control of how you feel at all?"

Now I feel like I'm trying to get this to work out even though I secretly don't want to. I can't help it. He's making pancakes for dinner and I'm just sitting here with my wine trying to figure out wtf I'm doing. To make matters worse, he brought me a bouquet of flowers today for the first time.
<bot>: Boyfriend isn't respectful of my decision to use birth control. I feel like I'm comforting him because if I don't, he would just completely ignore the issue and me.