<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

Hi. So my girlfriend and I were together and happy, and then we went long distance because of life. We were intending on making it work and spending the rest of our lives together, even though it'd be a very long time before seeing each other. It worked for a little bit but now we've been having a lot of problems.

I've tried avoiding it, but it has been dragged it out too long. I've came to the realization that this won't be able to work between us and we're beginning to hate each other. There's no way we will be able to handle the upcoming years together.. I've tried everything and nothing will fix this. I love her more than anything and care about her but this isn't working between us, we can't handle it. There's been too many red flags..

I was going to break up with her today but then I read my texts and she told me she's losing her friend because she has cancer. Okay, how am I supposed to respond to that? Like seriously, fuck. I feel wrong breaking up with her when she just found out her friend has cancer, especially when I don't want to break up with her to begin with.
<bot>: I love my girlfriend, our LDR clearly won't work though, was gonna break up with her but then she told me her friend has cancer. What do I do?