<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

It's really been more like a 4 month relationship. 
And ya'll encouraged me to ask her out in the first place, so thanks for that. I like her a lot, man. 

I never see my girlfriend. During the 2 week winter break, we saw each other for like... 60 seconds. Her excuses for not hanging out are usually half assed.
She still hangs out with friends on a regular-ish basis. I have no problem with her hanging out with her friends. I have a problem with her not hanging out with me. We're both super busy, I think, although her excuses tend to be weird... That's understandable I guess. 

She also seems to be pretty distant when I do see her. She apologized for this a while ago, so I think she realizes it. In her defense, her mom's in and out of hospital with blood clots and other crazy shit. That's pretty stressful for her. I try to be really supportive. When I try to talk to her about it, she says she's fine. She's also been kind of depressed lately. I think the two are related. Her friends confirm this. They say she's been kinda bitchy lately and that she isn't usually like this.

The big picture though...
I feel like I'm doing all the work in this relationship. Communication is kind of one sided. She never makes any kind of effort to see me
<bot>: Girlfriend won't hang out with me, will hang out with friends. She's going through a lot of stress. The relationship feels one sided