<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

Hi, everyone! I'm turning to Reddit because none of my friends have any real dating experience and have been useless when asked for help.

Anyway, I met a dude on OKC a week or two ago, and we've been on a few dates since. He's cool and all, but I'm not particularly attracted to him and since we've gone out a few times already, I feel like I should make a decision. We get along fine, but I don't feel any spark... Kisses aren't particularly exciting and it doesn't really feel like I *want* do fool around with him, either.

I mostly just need to bounce my thoughts off of someone. Is only three dates too soon to decide he isn't for me? How do I know it isn't really working?
<bot>: Went on a few dates. He's great on paper, but I'm not feeling any spark. Is it too soon to call it off?