<human>: We've been together about nine months and everything was fine until a few months ago. What initially started our dry spell was me switching birth control and having pretty intense spotting for a month straight, so we just didn't do it. After that it was very rare that we did and anytime I'd bring it up he would just defensively refer to the month that I couldn't and change the subject. The only physical intimacy I get is when he lets me cuddle up to him as I'm falling asleep and when he gives me a quick kiss on his way out the door.

Everything else about the relationship is fine, we see each other often, my birthday was a week ago and he had this really great weekend planned for me. So it doesn't seem like he isn't feeling the relationship anymore.  

It wasn't that long ago that we were appalled to hear that a friend of his who had just gotten married hadn't had sex with his new wife in over a year, but they were totally fine with that. Is that us now? I'm not sure if it's my depression and anxiety taking over, but lately I have this intense feeling of dread that I just can't shake.

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<bot>: Everything else is great, but we don't have sex anymore. Is this just some weird phase or is the relationship doomed?