<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

I moved in two weeks ago with my boyfriend (28m) of five months. I quit my job (and accepted one making way less money) and moved six hours away. Since arriving, it's been nearly constant conflict. Before moving in together, we were amazing compatible and had a lot of fun, though there were some red flags I ignored. 

He gets mad at small things and will stay mad for a day or two at a time. He says he's made the same amount of sacrifices that I've made (I moved into his apartment in his city where his family and friends all live and he kept his job), so I can't use the challenges of starting over to explain difficult behavior. I've been trying to smooth things over with little success. I'm not perfect by a long shot, but I also have no idea what a normal amount of arguing is in a relationship (not much history of healthy relationships) or if there are growing pains upon moving in together.

We are both in AA and practice a program of recovery, so it makes it extra shocking that the person I moved in with seems so different than how he was ahead of time.

Are we wasting our time trying to fix this? Do people change? Should I just get out now, or should I continue to try to make this work?
<bot>: I moved in with a boyfriend 400 miles from home after dating only 4 months. It's a huge struggle and I don't know how much conflict is normal.