<human>: I've been casually dating a girl for a couple of months now. Feelings have grown fast (unusual for me) and I'm absolutely crazy about her. However, she has this patronizing side to her that comes out when I do something that isn't "healthy" or good for me. 

Couple examples: today I had a job interview that was scheduled to last 30 minutes but dragged on for 2 hours causing me to miss lunch.  I also stay up pretty late and generally speaking don't get as much sleep as I should. 
Now I am aware that these choices are not healthy- skipping a meal, and skimping on sleep. But she really harps on it, and actually said, "This is one reservation I have about being exclusive with you. I feel like I'd have to take care of you since you don't take good care of yourself."

I know she cares, I know she worries, I know she means well. So why does it bother me so much that she micromanages and criticizes? I'm trying to figure out why it bothers be so much so I can be articulate when addressing the issue. Any thoughts? Suggestions?
Because I WILL be addressing this..

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<bot>: Girl I'm dating tries to 'take care of me' by micromanaging. Need to address this with her.