<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

Back story: Married 16 years. I had suspicions about a month ago. I checked her phone one night. Found explicit texts between her and her male co-worker. I confronted her about it. She confessed. Her plan was to keep the relationship secret until our son graduates high school in two years. I told her the infidelity wasn't a deal breaker and we could work it out. Fast forward to now, she still plans on going through with the divorce. I've been served papers and the sign date is next Friday.

At this point I could go either way. I'm hoping something miraculous happens and our marriage is restored (for our son AND us). However, if it doesn't, I'm ready to move on. Our son will be my first priority. How hard is it to be back in the single world after 16 years? I'll be 40 in February and I'm just wondering what to expect out of single life and dating. What are (stable) women really looking for?
<bot>: I've been married for 16 yrs. About to be divorced. What are level headed women looking for in a man?