<human>: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half now. Things had been going great for the longest time, but then back in May of this year he pretty much pulled a vanishing act for close to two weeks, only finally showing back up after I texted his cell. He said his mother had died and he'd had to head out of state to deal with her funeral and everything since his father had died some years before and he was an only child. He went on to say he was a wreck because of everything that had happened and he'd need some time, and finally after a long talk he claimed to feel better, but he was never quite the same.

Now just a month back I googled his name and found a profile for someone with his name and that had previously lived in the same cities where he'd lived while doing his grad and undergrad. It also listed this person's parents, and after following up this person's listed mother I found she happened to have exactly the same job as my boyfriend's mother had had. Just to be sure I tried contacting the woman, asking her if she happened to be the mother of a man with my boyfriend's name who'd gone to exactly the same universities, and she said she was. But when I mentioned this to my boyfriend, he said it was just some bizarre coincidence.

But even after all this I just don't know what the hell to think. I want to believe my boyfriend, but at the same time this is one hell of a fucking stretch, and I don't know how to get to the bottom of all this short of hiring a PI.

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<bot>: I think my BF is lying about his life and our relationship, and I'm trying to figure out what's really going on.