<human>: So we've been together for 11 months, we are both quite down to earth and haven't felt the urge to pleasure our primordial urges. I have however, been curious about the female body. So being the respectful gentleman I am we talked about fingering and she seemed to be OK with it. So after a couple of times of trying it out I get nowhere near the response I got from leg-pressing against her and to top it off she told me much later it was "meh" and it hurt a little. Anoter bit was that her pants were not completely off thus making it very hard to maneuver my hand. Are there any non-penetrative (Keep it soft-core) ways out there? Could I be doing something wrong?

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<bot>: Girlfriend is displeased with fingering. Words used "meh" &  "hurt a little". Beginners mistake? or does pressure (Over penetration) arouse some women better?