<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

So my friends who consist of 20 people are heading to Bali next year and I have told them I cannot make it due to funds. I just got my tax back and now I could afford it no worries. 

I asked her a few weeks back if she would go and she couldn't even bare the thought of spending two weeks with those people. I on the other hand would have a blast!

But, about two weeks before I was asked to go to Bali, I was asked by her and her family if I wanted to go to a wedding a month after the Bali trip, now this trip would be twice and much as Bali so I declined straight away. Which they understood completely.

The question is now, do I tell her I want to go with my friends or not even bother with both and stay at home and do nothing at all?
<bot>: Would I be an arse if I went on holiday with out my girlfriend, when I said I can't go away with her a month later?