<human>: Been with this girl for about 6 months. Things moved pretty quickly, living together. She is very feisty and doesn't comprise much (Leo) and I am a little more emotional and looking for a little security (Cancer). 

I try not to hold her on a leash and when she wants to go do her thing I think it's fine, I get a little jealous of other guys but nothing more than a few minutes of quiet and I rationalize it in my head. Long story short,  I had a concern with deleted texts,  constantly changing phone password and I've been lied to before by her.  I let her know that I would like if she included me in any of her pictures and if I help her with a project or anything,  the credit is all hers...I never get mentioned at all.  She fails to mention to any of her guy friends that she is in a relationship and gets invited out all the time.  

Am I just overly sensitive? This morning she asked if I looked at her phone and I told her straight out that I did.  I saw some things that bothered me and confronted her. She's currently moving her stuff out now,  stating that if she wanted to cheat she'd be a little smarter and that she doesn't have time for "this shit". 

I fucked up,  violated privacy. I admitted, but I can't ask her about my concerns without her getting mad at me or saying something like "I'm not talking about this right now."

Make me feel better Reddit, I tried so hard,  compromised and compromised but when it came down to something I asked for...she can't be bothered with it.  

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<bot>: Girlfriend doesn't understand that I like to feel wanted and would like her to make our relationship more known. Blows up when I request it.