<human>: I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. When we first began dating I was not on birth control because I was not looking to be in a relationship or hook up with anyone. I started birth control pills and after about 4 months my sex drive was gone and I felt horrible all the time. My boyfriend felt he wasn't doing well in bed and blamed things on himself when I told him that it was not his fault. I told him maybe we should try more foreplay but he has lost interest in that since the beginning of our relationship. Soon I got even more depressed and felt horrible about myself because my boyfriend wasn't even trying to have sex with me anymore because he wouldn't be able to finish since sex hurt too much. I told him I no longer wanted to take birth control and I wanted him to wear condoms but he is completely against wearing them. He would rather not have sex than have to wear one. Because of this we got into really bad arguments and at one point we almost took a break. 

I've been on my new birth control for about 5 months and my doctor told me that this one was supposed to be better but the same exact thing is happening. I have been looking into getting a copper IUD since those don't have hormones but it seems too invasive. I don't know if I should try *another* birth control because my doctor said either way I am going to notice a difference in my sex drive.

At this point I don't even know what to do anymore. I feel like my boyfriend isn't being a team player since he's not willing to wear condoms or have more foreplay. I really don't want a copper wire shoved up inside of me and everyone I've talked to who has had an IUD has had a bad experience. I'm beginning to get more and more depressed and I hope someone somewhere can give me some helpful advice.

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<bot>: I have tried different birth controls and my sex drive is suffering. Boyfriend and I argue about sex life and relationship is slowing going downhill and I don't know what to do.