<human>: My boyfriend will be leaving for basic in 
about a week and it's been hard on the 
both of us. I just want to know where we 
stand and what he wants out of me while 
he's gone. I've tried having this conversation several times with him in the past, and have never gotten a straight response. At this point, I've just been guessing what he wants. I offer to be less clingy, to give him space, ect. Most the time he'll tell me that I'm either fine or just reply 
with "ok" or that he just wants things to be like they normally are. All I want is to make things with us the best that they can be while he's gone. Whether it's him telling me things he doesn't like that I do, or things that he wish I did more of. I can't change anything if he won't be open with me.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Boyfriend will be leaving for basic, I can't get him to open up about what he wants out of our relationship