<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

Alright Reddit... You guys helped me out before, I'm trusting you again. Things are not getting better in the bedroom, after using your advice before. (For those curious and don't want to read the last post I had...it deals with my bf being pretty selfish and the fact he hasn't given me an orgasm in the 10 months we've been together.)  Aside from that, there are other issues. But the bottom line : My parents, friends and I don't think he is "the one" for me. 

So I need some advice on how not to break his heart.  I feel like this may or may not come out of left field for him.  He has tried to be a better bf (everywhere else except the bedroom...which might be a shallow issue...but a girl has needs...)

He is a nice guy, and has been good to me. Just not a perfect match.  I dont want to have him go behind my back and say I'm a bitch for breaking up with him...or that I was crazy.  I want to let him down easy, and maybe continue to be friends, I want to ease the sting of a break up for him. (Im going to be fine...I'm a very independent person and I've accepted that this was going to happen recently)
<bot>: Need advice to break up with bf softly - I dont want to be "that bitch" and completely break his heart.