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We've been together for 4.5 years. He's been with me through some VERY tough times. I love him to death and he's my best friend but I'm starting to think we're not compatible. 

Issue 1: When we first started dating he said he was interested in having kids. It has become clear lately that he does not want kids. I've tried to compromise by saying we can adopt an older kid. He hems and haws on this but it is clear he doesn't want that either. 

Issue 2: Marriage. I asked him to marry me some time ago and he said he would after he bought a house. Bought the house almost 6 months ago. It has now become clear he doesn't plan on marrying me. He is afraid of me taking all his money if we break up.

Issue 3: (Related to issue 2.) He plans his life as if we're going to break up. Lately he's been looking to change his cell phone carrier to my carrier. Today he revealed that he plans on getting his own plan instead of adding a line to mine. It's $40 vs. $125. He says the reason is that if we break up he doesn't want me in control of his phone.

In short, he doesn't trust me or our relationship. Am I wrong to feel hurt? We've been together for 4.5 years. If it weren't for these reasons I wouldn't even think of leaving him. But if he's so sure we're going to break up then maybe we are...
<bot>: My boyfriend said he wanted kids and now doesn't. Said he would marry me but now isn't. Plans his life as if we're going to break up.