<human>:  I don't really want to visit my grandmother, but my mom says I have to.
<bot>: I think I understand it is sometimes difficult to spend time with family members, especially if there are tough or painful feelings in the relationship. It can be helpful to communicate openly and honestly about these feelings. It might be possible to discuss outreach options with your family to find a way that would work for everyone. It is also important to honor your own feelings and preferences, and to set limits on what you are comfortable with.