<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

I know plenty of girls that I could probably try my hand at, take them out to dinner, to party, whatever. I just don't feel like it. I remember when I was younger I loved taking girls out and being stupid and having fun. Now that I'm older I just don't feel like it. I'd rather just sit in and study. 

The only time I ever actively chase after girls and act like a normal male is when I'm drunk. If I'm sober and meet a girl but I just don't put in any effort. If I'm drunk I can get digits but the next day I'm just incredibly apathetic and don't do anything or they don't text back. Maybe it's just a phase in my life, but I don't know any other college students that feel this way. I keep telling myself that when I graduate in a few months and start my job and actually make good money and have nice things it'll be a lot better but I'm not so sure. 

I was in a long term relationship for a year and a half and we broke up about a year ago. It never really bothered me until I looked at her facebook and saw how happy they were and how much of a cool guy he seems. It brought up all kinds of memories and bad feelings. I feel like I just really need to get out there and meet a woman who will make me feel like a kid and make me nervous again, but I just don't and not a woman I've met has made me feel this way. I don't think this pressure is making this easier. I'm pretty good looking (IMHO), but I just don't have much confidence. I've started dressing better and I feel like that's made a difference, but I have a shit car and most people at my school are loaded and that kills my self esteem. I just feel like a loser in general. 

Is this normal? Is this just a phase? There has to be someone else like this that has dealt with this situation. I'll take any advice.
<bot>: No desire to chase women except when drunk, feel like shit cause ex is having an awesome time with new boyfriend, self esteem kinda blows, can't shake this down and out feeling I have.