<human>: How do I get over my ex's sexual past or even potential future mates?  I just feel uneasy, because I still from time to time think of her, and then the thought of her having sex with her new bf pops up.  It makes me furious and hurt all at the same time.  I just cannot see myself ever seeing her as the same person.  My feelings for her are a thing of the past, and it hurts to realize that about someone who you were close with on almost all levels.

I'm not that bad with people I just met, and I realize that people have sex. But there will probably come a day when I judge myself against a prior ex of a future gf, and I want to know how to get over this.

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<bot>: How do I get over my ex having sex with other people, and how do I get over this idea with potential future SO's.