<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

I got dumped twice in this past year, one of them dumped me for his ex and the other because of the distance. They would both go hours or even days without talking to me or replying to texts (I'm not the clingy type either) so I was always waiting for their contact in anticipation and pretty much had anxiety attacks. This new guy I've been seeing for a month is the opposite! He texts everyday telling me what he's up to, and calls me at least once a day. He's the most handsome guy I've ever been with, has the same music taste as me (the other guys liked completely different things, and I'd always force myself to to like it), does the cheesy things I always saw in rom coms and dreamed of etc. 

The problem is, my heart doesn't rush when I see his name on my phone, or just him in person. The only thing I know I hate about him is how he always says he's tired/sick. I don't know if I'm pulling myself back because I'm scared of someone actually liking me, or if I'm not attracted to him because he doesn't challenge me. With the old bfs, things always went from physical to dating and there was a lot of lust, but I believe the new guy doesn't sleep with someone before being exclusive, and we haven't even kissed yet. Should I initiate it and see if my feelings become stronger?

After being a wreck following my last breakup, I really wanted to be the player on Tinder instead of dating the first guy I meet, and there are still people I really want to meet in person. However, this guy is taking things very fast and I think he introduced me to his friend as his gf. I don't want to lose him before I can figure out if I'm just being a coward, but I feel like I'll regret it if I settle down right now. I would appreciate any advice, thanks!
<bot>: Met dream guy on Tinder but he doesn't give me butterflies. Should I stick with him/try to make things more physical or cut things off and meet other guys?