<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

So, I just accidentally saw a gchat on my girlfriend's mac. She was telling her friend that when she was at this work related thing at a bar on Friday, she kept making "awkward eye contact" with this guy, who I'll call Jerbus.

A while back (4 months ago?) she mentioned that the one guy that she still has any lingering feelings for is Jerbus. They never dated or had any physical contact. He is one of her "ones that got away". 

In said gchat, she tells her friend that she "really doesn't know how to feel about it" and that whenever she sees this guy it "messes her up for a few days." I'm kinda ok with it happening, but not the followup stuff about her not knowing how to feel about it, and it messing her up for a few days. Maybe she was just being dramatic. This happened Friday, and things were a little weird between us this weekend. I thought it was just me, but maybe this Jerbus had something to do with it.

I feel that you have control over where/who you look at. It takes two to make eyes at each other. And its not even a big deal, but "not know how to feel about it". Ugh. I wish I could just ask her, but she'll think I don't respect her privacy.

She also had a crush on this other guy a few months ago. She used the exact same phrase, "awkward eye contact". I know this because she told me, after I asked a few questions. Maybe this just means she felt like she was being ogled and it got into her head and in that situation you can't help but check to see if you're still being ogled. 

Credit to her friend for saying that it was probably just Jerbus being awkward Jerbus. And also for saying, at the end of this relatively brief gchat "thats annoying". 

Things have been going great with us, and then this seems to come out of nowhere. I want to ask this woman to marry me this year, but this seems like a red flag to me. Or is it?
<bot>: Not sure how I should feel about this thing I accidentally saw in GF's gchat. Also, I hope this is coherent because I've had a little to drink.