<human>: first post here..yay!!

anyways,i have a long time crush(1.5 years if i remember correctly).when we first met(we first met as neighbors)later i learnt that we would be going to the same college..

 we were not in the same class initially,but recently(3 months ago),we were put in the same class. we have been getting closer like we speak everyday and i have caught her staring at me across the class on many occasions. we share notes ,books etc..she`s givine me subtle hints that she might be interested too.i plan to ask her out 

but the problem here is,i have IMMENSE respect for her mother who treats me like her own son . if i ask my crush out,and her mother gets to know about it,it might make things awkward.

the college term ends in 2 1/2 months from now and i dont want to wait until then for obvs reasons.

i want some advice(when i am telling her that i like her) on the words which wont hurt her mother if she were to know about it.(i am unable to find any other suitable phrase,pardon me!)

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: want to ask a girl out without her mother (theres mutual respect between her mother and I) getting hurt/offended.