<human>: So me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years now and up until recently its been great, had our troubles here and there but overall im extremely happy with the relationship. Here is my problem though and sorry this is gonna be long for details sake.

Recently she has been really busy with work and school so she doesn't have much time to talk to me like she normally did, which is fine cause I know she's busy. My biggest probem is even when she does have free time she doesn't seem to wanna talk to me
even when she does have free time. She goes to her friends house a lot and tells me she only goes there so much because it helps her with not missing me as much (we see each other once a week since we're both busy) but this leads to her talking to me even less which doesn't help me at all.

And over the past 2 weeks she has been texting a guy she is friends with at work a good amount ( im talking text walls back and forth) and has brought up to me about wanting to hang out with him (which im fine with) and wanting to platonicaly cuddle with him while they hang out (this is the part that bothers me a bit). Her argument is that she misses cuddling with me during the week and that would help her miss me less (which i've brought up that it feels like she's trying to replace me but she say thats not it at all) and has made it clear that she really wants this.

So I don't know what to do, when I try to talk to her all I get is quick responses with not much effort to hold a conversation yet I see big flowing conversations with this other guy and am admittedly jealous. So any and all advice would be happily accepted because I really want to keep this relationship together but don't know what to do.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Girlfriend of 4 years barely talks to me yet has time to constantly go to her friends house and text a male coworker and I dont know what to do.