<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

So I have been friends with this guy, lets call him John. Well me and John would always hang out at his house and play video games and smoke. We did this for about 2 years. I had a change of heart about weed and now don't smoke at all while he continues to smoke everyday. 

While in high school he only went to 1 or 2 parties even though I said we should go to one almost every weekend. He doesn't like to drink and neither do I but I suggested we go because of the girls. He always said no and suggested we play video games. Which is nice but not how I want to spend my Friday night's but I have some social anxiety and to know at least he was there would make me feel better.

How do I get him out of his bubble and get him to do stuff that I want to do? He doesn't do much for me. He will never go to my house or go to my family event yet I usually go to his family event and always go to his house. How do I get the relationship to be more even and less one sided? Sorry for the long post. Any advice would be appreciated and I will answer any questions.
<bot>: my friend won't go out or do much for me. How do I get him out of his bubble and he more adventurous?