<human>: My wife had been weird and distant all week, then stayed over with a friend last night before coming home and telling me she wants to split up with me. 

My mind is pretty much completely blown. I have no idea what happens next.

We had a talk and I said that I'm not ready to discuss divorce as this needs to all sink in, and that we both need to work out what's gone wrong, whether or not it can be fixed and whether or not fixing it will save the marriage. I have no idea wtf I'm supposed to do (in general) and am kind of falling apart. Any ideas?

We're also supposed to go on holiday next week too. We don't know whether or not she should still come, the holiday was kind of planned specifically for stuff she's into rather than me.

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<bot>: Wife told me she wants to break up with me. It's still sinking in, but my mind is a mess right now. Wat do?