<human>: I have always been horrified of new things and college and relationships are the two scariest things to me. Maybe it is the lack of experience/ bad experience with girls that makes me scared to date when I know it should be easier than I am making it out to be, but college is going to be a whole new everything. I am scared that I will change (even for the better) because I want things to stay the same more than I want them to change regardless if the change is good. Any advice for this or am I just way out there one this one?

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<bot>: I am terrified of new things, particularly, relationships and college this fall. If you could respond in two parts regarding each one that'd be awesome! Thank you.