<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

About 2 weeks ago a coworker of mine  told me she was had feelings for me after a recent breakup with her boyfriend. Her and I have always been great friends and I've for a while now, been that "one guy that comforted her" in every situation. I began actually liking her at a recent hike up a mountain and that's when she fell for me also. Thing is, I'm a virgin and due to religious/cultural standpoints, I'm at a crossroads. Yes, I do want to lose my virginity at this point but she doesn't want to take it from me because it means too much. Last night she told me she wants an open relationship with me and also tells me that she's sleeping with someone else but she doesn't really have feeling for him. At this point i felt like complete shit. I try to clarify the situation and ask her if I'm an "emotional fluffer" to her and that's all. She tells me that I'm there for her emotionally and she like me. a lot. but she wants sex and she's getting it from some other guy.

I feel absolutely useless and not at all like a man. I cant satisfy her at all because of who i am at the moment. I can't change that because she doesn't want to take my virginity. She's open to talking about ending it with her and just remain friends. I just don't know what to do.
<bot>: We like each other (no relationship) but I'm a 22 year old virgin and she wouldn't want to take it from me. Has sex with another man she doesn't like but lusts. has me emotionally.