<human>: Hello fellow parents, I need some advice or even just a pep talk at this point.

We have a 22 month old daughter and I just gave birth to our second daughter on May 10. Our toddler has always been a little clingy toward Dad but ever since we brought home the baby, she wants nothing to do with me. She pulls at dad when he holds baby and clutches at his legs when he walks. She is fine to me if Dad is not around, but if he is, she will literally say no if I try to play with her or even shove me away. This on its own is a lot but add postpartum hormones and sleep deprivation on top of it and I have been crying every day. I feel like my relationship with my toddler is ruined. The weather has been bad and I am still sore and in pain from my delivery, so it hasn't been the easiest for me to spend one on one time with her out of the house. I am starting to fear my relationship with her is screwed and she will never come back around to me. I feel like I have to "win over" my own kid. Part of it may be I do most of the domestic stuff like taking care of basic needs and keeping the household running. My husband does his fair share but he is more of the fun, Get down on the floor and play type.

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<bot>: don't know how to make my toddler be less cold to me after the birth of our second child. She has went from a mellow child to cold toward me and being extra whiny and rambunctious.