<human>: I submitted an anonymous post on a college confessions webpage that I wanted to date this girl and thought she was really beautiful and funny. She posted back saying whoever wrote the message should PM her, which I did about a week after writing the post. In response she asked me if I wanted to get coffee with her sometime. 

Since then, we have gotten lunch twice together (not full-on dates though) and she seems interested in me. However, I can't tell if she is interested in me as just a friend or as someone to date. Though part of me feels like if she wasn't interested, she wouldn't be leading me on by getting lunch. 

I suppose I should just ask her what her intentions are, but since this is my first time pursuing a woman I think I just feel like I am putting myself out on the line and am afraid of what she might say. We have not exchanged numbers yet, but I occasionally facebook message her (to which she is very slow/doesn't respond). I don't want to come on too strong, but I think if I knew her intentions I would feel more comfortable on how to proceed.

Any advice for me guys? Anything would be appreciated!

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<bot>: Interested in dating another woman for the first time, don't know if she is into me or not - any advice?