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So after to giving it a lot of thought, I've realized that my girlfriend wants to party and stay at her waitress job. She doesn't have the motivation that I do. I fell in love with who I thought she was, a woman who talked about getting married and having kids, while also keeping me stable through medical school. I do not love who she is now.

If she decides she's done being a teenager, she can contact me. We can start talking again, on my terms. If need be, I could be where she is the very next day. (We live about 900 miles apart).

I need to find work here or somewhere in my home state, start dating other, more mature girls that have the same priorities that I do and who I can depend on.

I still want her back, who knows how long I will, but she needs to come crawling back to me. Maybe she'll realize that after a while, when she sees her opportunities with me disappearing or shifting to a new girl.

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<bot>: Was going to move to be with LDR permanently for first time ever. We were in love. But she needs to come to me so I'm not moving anymore until I know she's all mine again.