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Hey Reddit,

Back story:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about one year, prior to our relationship, we had been friends for about two years. He had feelings for me during that time, and I did not reciprocate them at the time. I was going through and incredibly rough time in my life, dealing with clinical depression and a variety of other things. He was my main pillar of support, a truly dedicated and wonderful friend.
But the fact that he was interested in dating and I wasn't obviously caused a lot of problems, and we decided to end our friendship because of the unreciprocated feelings involved, deciding it would be best for both of us. 
About four months later, I missed him terribly, and I realized I had feelings for him, and he still had feelings for me, and that was when we started dating. 

The first eight months of our relationship was amazing. No fighting, sex life was great, better than any relationship I'd had previously.
 But then our relationship changed. I still found him attractive, but sex started to feel like a chore, and became less and less frequent, not to mention we both currently live at home with our parents, which made his advances awkward and stressful for me when other people were home. He has much higher sexual needs than I do, and I know he watches a lot of porn, which doesn't bother me in the least, besides sometimes it makes me feel guilty, like I can't satisfy him. 

Then came the doubts about our relationship. Our lives are so closely entangled, his parents like me, my family adores him, and we have many mutual friends. I feel like I can't see our relationship objectively enough to know whether or not I want to be in the relationship long term, or I'm more worried about how my life would change. We almost broke up on our anniversary. I know I love him, but I also loved him when he was my friend. 

I'm so confused, I don't really have anyone I can talk to who isn't close to both of us. 
Sorry if this post seems erratic or poorly composed
Any advice or opinions would be so appreciated.
<bot>: My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and the sex has dropped down to maybe once or twice monthly. Is there something wrong emotionally with our relationship?