<human>: Hey I'm new to Reddit and would like to ask the community for some advice.

I've been dating my boyfriend for six months and we've been friends for two years, we are very close and passionate for each other. 

He's a software engineer and incredibly smart, he takes care of me, he's loyal and sweet, he cooks for me and buys me things all the time.

The only problem is that he closely monitors my search history, IMs, Facebook, phone logs etc. and whenever he sees something strange we have an argument about it. Sometimes he'd see a number on my phone record that he doesn't recognise and I would get in trouble for it, then I'd have to explain that it's just my boss, or a family member. e lets time pass by after he sees something he doesn't like, then the whole thing just explodes into an argument.

I don't have anything to hide but I do occasionally watch porn and he gets incredibly mad about it and considers it as cheating. I've tried explaining to him that it doesn't substitute him it's just something I do to relieve stress.. weird but it works for me.

On Facebook I've deleted my exs' profiles and I rarely use it any more, but recently for some reason I clicked on my ex's profile because he was tagged in a post of a friend, and when my bf saw that I went on this profile he flipped out. I don't feel anything for my ex, honestly I'm not sure why I clicked his profile, I think it was just simple curiosity, but it doesn't mean anything.

A few months ago my bf tried installing a keylogger on my PC and I confronted him about it and told him its an invasion of privacy. I also used to share memes or YouTube links on Facebook and would get likes from my male friends - it would also upset him.

I'm really not sure what to do about this situation any more, I love him very much and I just want him to stop making a big deal out of everything, I wish he'd trust me but I don't know what I can do to convince him I'm trustworthy.

I'd really appreciate your opinions on this :)

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<bot>: BF (30M) frequently monitors my (24F) search history - gets upset if he finds porn links or that I've visited an ex's profile. Don't know how to confront him.