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I preface this by saying, I'm sorry if this seems like a rant, but is is a honest request for advice.  

It's that time of year where I'd imagine every man involved in Fantasy baseball goes ape shit and it's really harming my self worth.  My boyfriend and I live together, work from home together, see each other a lot, so when baseball season starts I get seriously neglected, as well as his hygiene and manners.  He is normally so sweet and considerate, but everything changes when it's time for a "draft" or to conspire with his team co-captain or whatever.  If I have the slightest question, concern or need he either ignores me or takes this tone in his voice that makes me sick to my stomach.  I tell him this, and he blatantly doesn't care.  He thinks I'm being selfish because I have my own activities he's not involved in, but jeez I don't spend 8+ hours ignoring the world doing my hobbies.  And when I do I take it out of the house.  I make a point of getting out of the house for more than just meals.  He's a curmudgeony hermit at 31.

His coldness really brings out the anxiety in me and I've taken to popping xanax behind his back....again.  Sometimes it's the only way I can cope with life's regular stresses piled on top of his cold distant behavior.  He also has very little interest in sex and it's like pulling teeth to get him in bed. 

I don't know what to do.  I'd be more understanding if the season wasn't so long, and if he used a gentler tone when he tells me to "fuck off", but neither of those things are gonna change, so what can I do, reddit?  

Even our cat is at her wit's end:
<bot>: My SO spends pretty much all his waking hours working and doing fantasy baseball.  I feel neglected and have been coping with benzos.