<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

I [f44 F] am new to reddit. (Please forgive (and help me correct) any user errors. My husband and I separated 5 ½ months ago after 16 years of marriage, and are almost officially divorced. Things are going ok. Since I took my rings off a few months ago, everybody has an opinion about when I should start dating. I wanted to ask other divorced folks: how long did you wait? Did you just start seeing people to get your footing again? Does it feel wrong to do that, unfair to the person you go out with? A part of me is interested in meeting people. A part of me feels it's not the right thing to do yet. A part of me reminds the rest of me: you were only 28 last time you were out there, and it was a different world…and that's frightening. Any advice appreciated, thanks.
<bot>: After divorce following 16 years of marriage, should I just start dating to get back out there, even if I'm not sure I'm ready?