<human>: Hi r/relationship_advice! I have been in a relationship with a girl online for 3 months now. I am head over heels in love with her. I fell in love with her personality and the ability she gives me to be comfortable around her. We talk all day unless I'm at work or shes in class and even though shes 800 miles away I have never felt closer to somebody. I plan on spending the rest of my life with her. 

We've sent TONS of pictures to each-other and have video chatted numerous times. The thing is, I've seen pictures of her that were taken by others on her mom's Facebook and she is significantly heavier than she leads me to believe. She looks like a different person when she is not in control of her pictures. At this point in our relationship I don't care, but she's extremely sensitive and hates confrontation. I've known since a month into our relationship and I don't know whether I should tell her or wait until she's ready to tell me herself. She actively wants me to believe that she is smaller (making negative comments towards overweight people, talking about being skinny), which is what worries me the most. What else could she be hiding? 

I'm extremely scared to confront her about it because I feel like she would assume I think she's less attractive or think that all of my compliments the last few months were unwarranted. We have plans to meet this summer and I don't want her to back out because of fear that I may not find her attractive. I don't know what to do, any help is appreciated!

Also, I HATE the term "online girlfriend" but saying long-distance would imply we've already met, which we have not. I've never been in a relationship like this before, so I am lost at how to deal with everything.

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<bot>: Online girlfriend is overweight but is selective with pictures. She doesn't know I've seen anything else. Don't know whether to confront her or let her tell me herself.