<human>: I just lost my girlfriend due to emotional connection issues. However, even two months before that, i made a new friend who is shy about showing emotions. Being someone that also hides my emotions, i can tell when i look at her that she is really depressed and is trying to hide it. I have even gotten her to admit that something is wrong but i can not get her to tell me what.

Also, she has been flirting with me for quite some time now and making it very obvious. (Always wanting to sit close to me, staring at me, smiling at me, etc.) I'm not entirely physically attracted to her but i can honestly say i have never been so emotional attracted to anyone in my life.

I also have been going through tough times (especially with my recent break up) and i really want to open up to someone but shes the only one i trust to do so right now. I just don't know how i can convince her to open up without coming on too strong. Please help :)

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<bot>: I'm really emotionally attracted to a new friend and i want her to tell me whats on her mind in order to get closer to her.