<human>: Okay, so first off I didn't even use a "throwaway" account because I just want some actual solid advice. We met on Tinder, she had just come to the US from France and works as an au pair. I love film and she would come over and watch films with me, she has great taste and is very serious about her love for film. There was a bit of a language barrier so I think that made it hard for me to articulate myself intelligently with her. We would fool around and have sex. I believe she enjoyed the sex we had from her feedback. 

Anyway, her host family ended up being nuts and she had to abruptly move to Chicago (to work for a new family). I booked a flight to visit her and within a month I was in Chicago with her and loving every bit of it (I am from NYC so the big city isn't why I was so happy). We wandered around her new city and took pictures and talked. We also had sex each day I was there.

So when I left I told her that I have strong feelings for her. I never said "the three words" to her but I've never felt this way about anyone... there is something special and amazing that I feel ever time I see her smile. Her response to my revelation was apologetic because she didn't share my feelings. She was deeply concerned and did not want to hurt me. She admits that it might be selfish but she would still like to see me when she can and stay friends, and if we are both single then have sex.

I'm looking for advice from both men and women. She seems like she might have feelings that she doesn't want to expose or admit. The day after I left she posted a song to Facebook (Active Child - Evening Ceremony) that made me think she might feel something for me. What do I do? I'm a romantic, and I have never felt this way about anyone. I'm a decent looking guy so I'm not limited on options I just don't want any of the other options anymore. How do I act towards her? Is there any real chance that I might be able to sway her feelings more for me?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Fell in love with someone I dated briefly, She moved 13 hours away and I visited, we had sex told me her feelings for me were not the same as mine. How do I handle this?