<human>: Hi everyone, I could really use some advise.

So me and my bf have been together for year and 1/2. We've known each other for about 7 years (during and after high school) with on/off dating and just recently started to actually be in a relationship. 

After agreeing to fully be with each other, everything was incredible. Moved in together, little to no fights, always got along awesome.

Flash forward to present day, things have changed. After discussing about future plans, what I got out of him is that he doesnt want our own place (we live with HIS friends) and wants things the way it is. No changes, no growth in the relationship whereas I'm the opposite. I want our own place and I want our relationship to progress (realistically of course). 

These days he's just been gaming all day everyday, never wanting to go out and do things, extremely lazy and I feel very neglected. I tried to talk to him about feeling ignored and disappointed about not doing things together and he would snap, saying that I "should find something to do, figure it out". 

I know he's right in that aspect but I feel like our relationship is slowly turning into a relation-shit and I feel more and more depressed as the day goes by. I'm just not sure what to do anymore and I really don't want this to go down the drain.

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<bot>: Relationship started out great but after time I don't feel the same connection as we did before. I feel neglected and unloved and it's making me depressed.