<human>: I work in a classroom full of special needs children. The child in question is very high on the autism scale and has a lot of tough to manage behaviors, such as yelling at high volumes and slapping their own face.. This adult is a behaviorist who comes in for maybe a few hours a month, walks around the class and when they observe a behavior they don't like, they step in over the staff and try to manage it themselves or escalate the child's behavior in order to see what the upper limit of the "bad" behavior is. I've watched this adult do this several times now and it leaves me with with a bad taste. I've been assured that this person is a professional and knows what they are doing and has a lot of training and wouldn't do anything wrong. I'm just not sure.

The second thing is, when the adult was working with this child today, when the adult couldn't manage the behavior they had produced they then began discussing very loudly the possibility that the child had been abused because they yelled and cried when told to be quiet or that they were being too loud.

 I've worked with enough kids that are both neurotypical and on the autism spectrum to know that no child likes to be told that they should be quiet and I found it ridiculous that she would suggest that. It seemed like they were suggesting it because now they  couldn't control the kid. 

Reddit I'd like advice on if this is normal or if its unprofessional. the whole situation leaves me uncomfortable but I want to make sure I'm not over reacting.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Watched adult escalate a child's behavior, and when they couldn't control them, said the kid had been abused. Felt that this was wrong.