<human>: So last night I was kind of drunk and when we were back at the girl-I'm-seeing's place I said something that really pissed her off. I am 21 and she is 20, and we are both in college.  She was widowed about a year ago through a tragic accident, and I'm still trying to get to know about her late husband. I find it's pretty important information to try and establish a real relationship with her. Well, anyhow, I said something about his line of work (he was a mercenary with blackwater) that was really really dumb. Now she's super pissed at me and I'm pretty sure all of her friends want me dead. I desperately need something to redeem this and really take her breath away.

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<bot>: I said something bad about my gf's late husband of about a year ago. I need something to let her know I fucked up but I still care about her, and to make sure her friends don't kill me.