<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

I'm getting frustrated lately making the first move on the guy I have been with for a really long time, I feel sexually exhausted trying to get myself off the way he's comfortable with. We never go outside of the box of what's considered normal even though I've done my best to make it clear I'm sexually experimental. I enjoy things he may be scared to dabble with me in but in a result of conforming to what's natural for him I am not meeting the requirements of arousal and a substantial partnership for myself. I have been exclusive with him for almost a year now and I find it severely discouraging that he never spontaneously touches me or anything of the exciting nature. I am always the one that initiates it and it is draining me sexually when it is all very slow paced. It all begins with kissing and is ever so slow and boring until climax. 

What is it that is keeping him from making the first move?
<bot>: I am getting frustrated sexually because I am really emotionally invested in someone younger than me that is not exciting me in the bedroom. Why is this and how can I talk to him about spicing things up?