<human>: My boyfriend and I got in a small stupid fight. I felt disrespected by the way he talked to me so I got upset. 

He said he was irritated by me asking the same question and he didn't realize he was disrespectful. He said "I'm sorry your feelings got hurt". I got over it but was still upset and all I needed was a hug.

I was crying and he was just standing there. I told him I need a hug to feel better and he said "I won't hug you or help you feel better because I'm still irritated and I have a right to feelings too. You feeling better is not my priority". That got me even more upset. I told him that all I needed is for him to show me that he cares about how I feel and he said he can't do that because he is irritated. 

To clarify, I understood why he got irritated with me, told him that I understand now why it happened, apologized for making him irritated and told him that it won't happen next time because I know now that what we argued about makes him irritated because of his anxiety. 

I guess what I'm asking for is advice on how to approach him? I just need him to hold me, hug me, something so I can feel better, but instead I'm sitting on the balcony crying my eyes out while he is in the other room watching his poker videos like nothing ever happened.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: bf and I got into small fight. Need a hug/have him show that he cares and he won't do it. Don't know what to do about it