<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

"Real love is accepting other people the way they are without trying to change them...[Be] with someone who is exactly the way you want him or her to be. Find someone whom you don't have to change at all."- Don Miguel Ruiz in The Four Agreements.

How realistic is that? Is it possible to find someone who is EXACTLY the way you want your partner to be? We always hear that compromise is a huge part of making a relationship work. What things do you compromise on? At what point do you draw the line between compromising and moving on because that person is not exactly who you want them to be?

My boyfriend is not everything I want my partner to be. There are some differences between us but I am not sure they are "valid" enough to end the relationship. I will not go into detail about these yet as I just want your opinion on the above quote and questions. Thank you for your help.
<bot>: It is advised to be with someone who is exactly the way you would want a partner to be. Boyfriend is not "perfect". Do I move on to find someone who "is" or accept his flaws?