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I am a 25 year-old white male dating a 24 year-old Indian female who is pushing me to buy a ring and propose before she graduates pharmacy school. Her parents are very on-board for this whole thing, but my parents aren't because they feel like I am being judged too much for my parents being divorced and coming from a poor background.

I am reluctant to propose because:

A year ago I had a major career set-back when I graduated pharmacy school, she gave me little support for it initially and ended up comparing herself to other people that did better than me.

I have actually landed a really good training position for next year, 9 hours away and it was a struggle to get her to let me apply to these positions to further my career. I had to fight with her for about 4 months solid to get the semi-ok to do this.

We started on rough grounds. While we were hanging out over a summer she had a FWB thing going on with 2 guys and one was a friend of mine. Somehow we got over it and started dating, only after I went out and dated a girl back home to make her jealous (ended in 3 months). After that relationship she jumped right in to try and date me.

The whole thing feels rushed.

On my day of graduation and Mother's day my girlfriend wanted me to specifically address how uncomfortable my step-dad makes her because he has tattoos and cusses a little. Also my mom smokes so she wants my mom to stop smoking. Also my whole graduation was about her future graduation, all her and her family talked about were things they were going to plan for when she graduated.

Every decision I want to make from small (watching a movie, going on a run, etc.) to large (see above) I have to fight for. I cannot remember the last time I have done something I want to do. Instead it's frequently listening to club music, watching Indian movies, going out of town on weekend trips when I have work to do, etc.

The good: she makes sure I'm fed, taken care of, and happy. Sort of I guess?
<bot>: I am being pushed to marry my current girlfriend of 1 year and 2 months before I move out of town and she graduates. Unsure what to do...