<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

She's really competitive and I'm not really a competitive person. I think everyone should do thier best and my philosophy is that as long as youre better than yourself then youre fine. My SO thinks otherwise. She's a really competitive person and she gets upset when I apparently compete with here without knowing it. She says that I am condescending sometimes when I say stuff about the world and a random fact that were arguing about. I notice that too and I try not to be condescending, by not shouting, which I don't, and accepting other opinions if I'm wrong, which I do. She says that I don't do that and she describes what I do wrong, even though what she's describing is similar to what she does when we argue. It's just really silly that she gets really upset by and cries. I try not to be condescending and I told her my philosophy that success comes from within and no ones has to compete. But she keeps thinking that we compete. I don't know what to do.
<bot>: My SO is very competitive. I am not. She gets upset when we argue about facts because I seem condescending. I don't know what to do?