<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

Ok, I (18/M) need your guys' help. I've only dated this girl (16/F) for about 3 months and she's great.

The only problem is I talked to my ex (18/F), whom I will actually say I still love and care for deeply, and talked to my current gf about it as well. When I talked to my ex, she said that she still loved me as well, but that I need time to figure myself out before I get into a relationship again.

 I love my current gf to death, but I'm not IN love with her as I previously thought I was. I've broken up with my last 2 girlfriends and it never gets easier...

I just don't want to hurt her, but I know there's no other way (is there?) I don't want my current gf to think I'm breaking up with her for my ex, because I'm not; I'm doing it for me, which is a problem I've had all my life always putting others before myself, which has always led to me being unhappy. What do I do? What do I say?
<bot>: Need to break up with girlfriend to focus on me-time before jumping into a relationship, but don't want to hurt her.