<human>: I met my boyfriend J at the beginning of Sept, and we made it official not long after. We just clicked, and have a lot in common. We've met each others friends, and all hang out occasionally. My mom and I do not exactly have the closest relationship, so I recently told her about him, and that I'm sure they'll meet soon. He called me on his lunch break last week and told me his mom was looking forward to meeting me. I said, no problem here, I wouldn't mind cooking dinner for everyone and having a short but sweet meeting. I was over his house the past few days, and when her name came up in conversation, I asked "oh, so when was I supposed to meet her again?" and he told me, probably not for awhile because of what his stepdad told him. 

I'm ad libbing, but his step dad told him to be careful, because the meeting of families and shared holidays ordeal may be too soon, and to remember how attached they all got to L (his ex fiance, who cheated on him, thus making them break up) and that was so fun--sarcasm. 

I understand the cautiousness, but it made me think about it, too much. I do that when I can't sleep-think too much of something. 
Am I being dumb, or should I keep note of the possible comparison to an ex, or the aprehensiveness?

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<bot>: My bf and I were discussing meeting parents recently, then he went back on what he said because of what a family member 'warned' him. Am I overthinking it?