<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

I [21f] have been seeing this guy [22] for almost a month now, and I really like him, but I suspect he may be a virgin. The reason i think this is because whenever things start to get heated, he never escalates things and becomes very shy. This, compounded with the fact that he has "performance issues" once we get into things makes me think that it's possible that he has not had sex before. If he is a virgin I have absolutely no issue with it, but I feel like I should know because I don't want to come on too strongly and would have to be conscious about moving at a pace that's comfortable for him. 

How can I approach this situation so that he doesn't feel attacked or insulted? I want to consider his feelings in this situation, whatever the outcome may be. I really like him, but I think that's something I would want to know before things escalate.
<bot>: I think the guy I've been seeing may be a virgin. How to I approach the situation without making him uncomfortable?