<human>: Basics:

- Together for 6 mo
- We live in different countries but she was planning to move to mine for work. 
- Cant give too many specifics because I know she reads this sub too.

This girl was my first relationship following my divorce in 2014. And right from the start I fell for her hard. And I have every reason to believe she felt the same. We saw each other fairly often for being half a world away and talked on Skype daily. We had so much in common and thanks to Reddit and Imgur we had tons of horrible internet inside jokes right from the word "go". 

But like all good things, it ended. There was no cheating, no dramatic moment. It's cliche to say it, but it ended *not with a bang, but a whimper*. We simply wanted different lives. I wanted to be a family man and she didnt want to have kids. And as much as she wanted to be with me, she couldnt bridge that chasm and give up on the life that she wanted to live. I get that; hell, the reason I ended my marriage was because my ex and I wanted different lives. So I recognize that it took tons of guts for her to tell it to me straight like that. 

Here is the weird thing about it... This breakup was more devastating to me than the end of my 10 year marriage. Part of that must be due to that I ended my marriage whereas this relationship was ended by her; but still. Why should a 6 mo relationship hurt more than losing someone I was with for more than 10 years?

Fast forward to today. I'm not over her. Dunno when I will be. I'm not the mopey type of guy but every time I see something that reminds me of her its like a cloud descends on my whole mood and it's affecting my job. So here I am.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Figured I'd be pretty much over it by now. Cant seem to shake the blues. Anyone got a tip for getting over a girl who felt like "the one"?