<human>: Give me a shortened version of the text

So, I was dating my ex for about 7 months. I was 24 when I met her first at a bar where she was tending. Through mutual friends we end up hooking up. I've never really had a real relationship. Call it as you see it, but in my past either I make a point to avoid a girl or she makes a point of avoiding me. This time was different though, I will have to admit the idea of love never in honest never pulled at my heart strings but I toyed with it as a future possibility. From the beginning I was straight forward and tried to communicate how a relationship is not my end goal, that I am essentially afraid of / or avoid commitment. That I am more career driven. History has proven I have much better success with the later. To make a long story short I had assumed for quite a while that she was way more into me, then I to her. But do to family and life things I had put off the break up by at least a couple months. After, I tried to maintain comfortable communication and not completely run away (figuratively and literally) like I was accustomed to. But we ended up having sex again ( big whoops a doodle). So I tried to give a little more space. Fast forward to today out of the blue she is telling me how she pretty much hates me and all men cause all they want it sex. And how I used her and lead her on. And everything that reminds her of us is ruined. I replied to her texts somewhat patronizingly saying stuff like you are young, you will find someone better, enjoy yourself etc. But it was the only thing I could think of instead of getting defensive. How do I fix this into a friendship? Is it possible? Or is it healthier for her just to hate me for a while?
<bot>: 7 month relationship. Broke it off due to different points of view. Now she hates me. I want to maintain friendship. I don't know how to reason with her. Am I to blame?