<human>: We just moved to a new country and I am getting increasingly frustrated. I have asked my husband several times to help me unpack but his excuses include "but you know where stuff will go..." "I'm no good at this you always know how to make it look good" and other backhanded compliments that make me feel good but piss me off at the same time.

I have tried talking to him about helping me and us unpacking one room at a time but it doesn't work. For example this past instance I unpacked all the boxes in our bathroom/bedroom and he said he would work on the living room. .. when I came down stairs and he was playing video games.

I got upset and he said he wasn't as good at making a house a home as I was and didn't know where to put stuff.... I'm still mad and exhausted from unpacking by myself but I'm getting more mad when he gets upset bc I won't have sex with him now...

I cannot explain to him that after working longer hours than him and coming home to unpack boxes and then him expecting me to give him sex is too much... I'm starting to hate him honestly...

And I feel terrible for saying that but honestly I'm at my wits end. Also we've been married for over 5 years...

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<bot>: Moved to a new country and hubby expects me to work a job then unpack boxes by myself and keep him happy in bed. Not happening...