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It's been killing me lately. In the relationship, she was always giving me ultimatums and give me "chances" and I never felt like she was supportive or a teammate, it was basically me trying to please her. She would never bother to work on things together, just tell me what I had to do or what I was doing wrong. Nothing was her fault.

Now that we're broken up, I've been getting in shape, stopped drinking and doing better but when she says stuff like "Youre doing better than you ever were with me!" "Keep going!" "It gets easier, Ive been through this before and you don't need me right now, you need you." "You can get through this and you are going to be a better than youve ever been before"

Now all of this is definitely true, but for some fucking reason I get so fucking mad if and when she tells me stuff like this. I think I figured out why... Now she can be supportive? Where the FUCK was this person during the relationship? I almost want to show her Im not doing better just in spite. I cant explain it. Telling me that Im going to be better than Ive ever been gets me so fucking angry. It's definitely true but for fucks sake, I could have been happy WITH her. Now she is all friend like and supportive? WTF?

I need to understand why I feel this way. Someone have any idea? I feel like her being right, or the I told you you'd get better! shit is not what I want to hear from her. Especially when a part of me wants to be with her, even though she broke my heart.
<bot>: Ex girlfriend never was supportive, now all of a sudden she's telling me I'll be so much happier. Why does this anger me?