<human>: Throwaway, because I'm ashamed to be posting this.

There's this girl I met this summer, I fell for her, we met while camping, kissed and stuff for that week, I kinda messed up by acting a bit clingy.

We stayed in contact, wrote a shitton, skyped a lot, as in almost every day and now I'm sure I've fallen completely.

Now here's the kicker, her exs include a manipulative asshole, who never complimented her, only insulted her, told her he was cheating on her and said it didn't count because he told her about it while it was happening and generally made her self esteem sink below 0. She's still in contact with him, as far as I can tell she has no more interest in him, but he's starting to give her compliments and trying to get back, even as he apparently has a gf.

Now her other ex I don't see anything wrong with him as he's just overly jealous and can't move on.

Then there are some guys who are in contact with her almost exclusively because of sex.

Now because she is one of the people who mean the most to me atm I want to help her, I want to help her see that she should cut contact with these people who are only pulling her down.

I intend on doing this by asking her a few questions:

    1. What does she talk about with these dudes?

    2. Does she enjoy their company?

    3. If yes, I'll stop here, if no why is she still in contact? wouldn't it be better to cut contact?

So any advice on how to handle this situation better or how to improve my questions/"confrontation" method.

Also the media will be skype, but often with uncomfortable subjects she moves to text chats.

Also I know I'll have to let this calm before I can get anywhere with asking her if she'd like to start a relationship, any advice on that would be appreciated.

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<bot>: My crush is still in contact with creepy, manipulative, cheating ex and some other shady dudes, I think this is bad for her and need advice on handling the situation.