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Hi Reddit, 

Long time lurker here but first time poster. Writing this on my phone so apologies for any errors or funky formatting. 

Ill keep it short. Dating for 3 years, living together for 2. Both work full time. I do the overwhelming majority if housework and its starting to wear on my nerves. I cook 5 out of the 7 days a week (breakfast and dinner), we usually grab takeout on weekends. I do all the cleaning and laundry, grocery shopping, take the trash out, etc.  Ive asked for help but i usually have to ask multiple times otherwise he forgets and it doesnt get done. Most week nights he plays videos games while i make dinner and then sometimes he'll stop and we'll eat together or he'll just keep playing. He never offers to help cook or clean up after, although he will sometimes take the dishes from the bedroom to the kitchen.
 

I knew he was this way before we moved in together so maybe im guilty of wanting him to change but its really becoming an issue for me. I assumed it would be natural for both of us to help around the house but im finding that thats not true. We've talked about kids and i cant imagine the stress ill feel if im doing all the same things AND we have a baby.

Ive talked to him about my concerns several times and he usually apologizes and says he just doesnt know how to help.  But i get the feeling he doesnt think its a big deal. 

What should i do? Is this a big deal or am i just blowing things out of proportion?
<bot>: Boyfriend doesnt help with housework and its stressing me out and making me re-evaluate our relationship. Is it a big deal or am i over reacting?