<human>: Ive been a long-term lurker and have finally decided you all seem so helpful for everyone else that maybe you can help me. I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and we're pretty serious. He is in the Marines (he wasn't when we first started dating) so a lot has changed. He is currently stationed on the opposite coast from my school, my hometown, and his hometown. He wants me to move over there when I graduate college this spring and we've talked about marriage and definitely see it in our future.

I'm having doubts about moving there and don't know how to tell him. Mostly I'm afraid as soon as I move there he'll get deployed and I will be alone and very far away from all my family and friends. Also, finding a job relevant to my hopeful career path is much more difficult over there than near my hometown, which is close to D.C. and has way more opportunities.  Third, I would be giving up my hobby, which is pretty much all I do outside of school, to move there. And that, for me, is a huge sacrifice (I know it sounds selfish, but I have responsibilities in my hobby too that are difficult to leave behind).

So basically I'm lost and confused and don't know how to bring it up without making it sound like I don't want to be with him! I would gladly give up my hobby to be there, but the job thing (I've busted my ass in honors programs and other things in school for it and a good career is important to me) as well as the fear of deployment is really scaring me! 

Am I just being ridiculous and worried about nothing? (I tend to worry a lot.....)

Sorry this was so long! Thanks so much to any help!

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<bot>: graduating college, scared to move across country for military boyfriend because of job opportunities, fear of being alone if he's deployed