<human>: My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We've been through many ups and downs, but have overcome a lot together. We are committed to each other and he always expresses to me that I am the one he is going to spend the rest of his life with.

But yesterday this issue came up. It wasn't an argument, but it really hurt my feelings. I've tried to brush it off and forget about it, but I have severe insecurity and jealousy issues.

What happened was I half-jokingly accused him of talking about other girls with his friends. He admitted he used to (back when he would hangout with them a lot, so maybe 7-8 months ago). He doesn't really hangout with anyone except me nowadays (his choice, not mine), but I already had my assumptions that he would talk about attractive gils with his friends when they would hangout. You know, the usual, 'oh that girl is cute' etc.

Should I be as hurt as I am about this? I feel like I'm overthinking this and shouldn't let it get to me so much. I know he has never cheated on me, the worst thing he does is watch porn.... So should I just let it go and be happy?

He really is the person I see myself with. He's caring, honest, and committed to this relationship. His actions speak volumes to me. I guess it just hurts me because I want to believe I'm the only girl he wants, and imagining him talking about other girls really crushes me.

Any advice?

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<bot>: My boyfriend (used to?) talk about other girls with his friends and finding that out really hurt my feelings. He's never cheated and this might just be 'guy talk.' Should I be this hurt? Or let it go?