<human>: Long story short, we were together for 8 months (yes I know it's not a huge amount of time), but I am still in love with my ex. We broke up because she didn't believe I was in love with. I don't blame her - I was going through a tough time, I messed her all over the place with my confused feelings and I've come to accept that my mistakes caused us to breakup and I have been working at therapy to make sure I don't make the same mistakes in any future relationships.

It makes it particularly difficult because we share mutual friends - I'm not completely over it, but I've decided I'm going to be an adult about it and I want to continue being a good friend to her (classic, I know). I have accepted she has moved on and I know she's seeing someone else now, but I'm almost certain she doesn't want me to know because it would hurt me. Recently we started talking again and as a pre-warning she told me she wouldn't be going to a friends' party (essentially so that I didn't have to worry about seeing her). I told her I appreciated her telling me but she didn't need to worry about me acting weird or anything like that because I was going to be mature about the situation. I think (hope) it was a good thing to say because she seemed to respond positively, but I can never tell with these things (was it a good thing to say?)

Now my question is, should I just tell her I know she's seeing someone else to take the weight off her back in having to tell me or shall I just wait until she tells me? I just hate this 'elephant in the room' type mentality that is always there whenever the topic comes up, and frankly I just want to move on with being her friend and for her to be happy.

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<bot>: Should I tell me ex I know she's seeing someone else so that it just clears the air? I hate people pussyfooting around acting like it would destroy me if I found out.