<human>: 22F here, my boyfriend is 23. We've been "official" for about two months but have been actively seeing each other since last January. He and his ex were together for two years (have been broken up for about a year when me and him met) and the reason why it took us so long to be official is because I'm a jealous person and I did not like the fact she and him are so close (I told him this bothers me and I actually said no the first two times he has asked me to be his girlfriend before and I told him this was one of the reasons why). I finally caved the third time he asked because I do like him and now that we are official I told him that I'm never going to be fully okay with him and her being so close but he's an adult and I'm not going to give him a list of things he can or can't do with her. He needs to gauge what is appropriate but her commenting his facebook all the time and the constant texting is just not cool with me. I can't control how jealous I am/get. So my question to you guys is am I over exaggerating the whole situation or should I be more upfront or patient about it. I told him dozens of times that it bothers me so maybe he is just stringing me along? I really don't know just the fact that they hang out one on one together is not okay with me.

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<bot>: My boyfriend and his ex are still best friends and constantly hangout/text. I'm very jealous, he knows how I feel. What should I do/how should I approach the situation?