<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

Despite the common stereotypes of the internets, I come to you reddit for some help with women(considered 4chan, slapped the fuck out of myself right after). Met a chick around October/novemberish at a restaurant through another friend and we sorta hit it off but didn't talk much after, talked to the friend we met through more. Throwing a party soon, told both they were welcome to come and both said definitely. I wanna get to know the girl better, actually talk alot at the party, hook up if it gets there but definitely don't wanna get friend zoned. She is pretty attractive, I'd say I'm alright but she's extremely friendly, i am most of the time just not much of a ladies man. There won't be too many people at said party, hopefully will help me some but any advice for a fellow redditor(been here for a while, just made a new account, might be throw away, might not because who the fuck doesn't like Optimus Prime?) any advice for at the party/in the long run? (party will have alcohol of some sorts). Sorry about any errors, bear with me here I'm on my phone.
<bot>: met a chick a while ago, haven't talked since, invited to party and hoping to get closer. Any advice?