<human>: We have a pretty good relationship. We hear out each other's sides whenever we have an argument and we help each other out when one needs it. I can say that it's a perfectly healthy relationship. Just not in the romantic kind of way lately.

However, I don't feel the same kind of excitement I've felt before. Before her, I've always been in what I'd call toxic relationships. Those relationships have a lot of ups and downs. The excitement I get from those kinds of relationships even though I know it's bad for me in the long-run seems missing. I miss the spontaneity those kinds of relationships presented.

Whenever I look at her recently, all I see is a plain Jane. I know how much she loves me but I'm starting to feel less attracted to her. She's starting to look boring.

She doesn't have any hobbies of her own. All she does is work, go home watch TV, work again the following day. During weekends, we go out to watch a movie together and eat out. Every once in a while we go out of town. 

Since it feels bad not to do anything about it and simply break up with her, I decided to take some action. I started to teach her a new language, pushed her to do some rock climbing, taught her how to surf, and inspired her to play music. 

After doing all this though, she tends to slide back in to her usual routine of working and watching TV. I try to focus on the good part. That I feel like she's my best friend, someone I can completely trust. Maybe I don't know how a healthy relationship looks like or maybe I'm falling out of love.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Confused on where to go to from here. Is this how a healthy relationship looks like? What am I doing wrong?