<human>: My boyfriend and I have been together for many years, and although we have definitely had our issues in the past, everything has been pretty great for the past few months at least.

We are in a long distance relationship and try and see each other every few weeks, taking turns visiting one another.

He struggles with some severe depression and I worry about him a lot.

This weekend I am going away with friends on a trip that I have had planned for many, many months. I have really been looking forward to a weekend for myself.

Out of nowhere, my boyfriend is begging me to come visit him and saying he has something to tell me and he has to tell me in person. He says if I don't go up there he will die of misery. Of course, coming from someone with depression, that is really concerning to me. 

If it were any other weekend I would be up there in a second, but I cannot back out of this now and also I feel like I shouldn't give up my plans just because he is bored and lonely.

I am intending to visit him the next weekend and I saw him last weekend. I spoke to him on the phone and he kept saying that I don't love him and that if I loved him I would go visit him. Obviously I love him an insane amount, but that doesn't mean I can drop everything to see him just because he wants me too...

I kept telling him that I do love him and it is very upsetting when he says that and he refuses to stop saying it and now won't say he loves me back because, "I don't love him" so why should he say it back. I want to have a good weekend and I don't want this to ruin it for me because I am worried and upset. I so rarely get a weekend like this.

This is really hurtful, upsetting and worrisome to me.

He is a redditor and could see this, if he does, I LOVE YOU.

Any thoughts? Help?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: LDR bf wants me to visit him but I can't this weekend, so he says I don't love him. I do love him.