<human>: Ok, so I have been seeing this guy for about 2.5 months.  The kicker is we work together in a corporate setting.  We don't work on the same team so we only interact socially at the office.  We see each other outside of work about 2-3times per week, depending on our schedules. 

 To give you an idea: We've met each others friends, do day trips, he holds my hand when were out.  It's not just a "hey you wanna come over tonight" sort if thing.  

Is it reasonable to ask whether we're just hooking up and hanging out, or are we dating?  I am afraid to ask because I am worried he'll spook.  I don't even know how to bring it up.  Help me Reddit, you're my only hope!

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Seeing coworker for a couple months.  Strong social aspect to our "relationship".  Do I ask if we're dating?