<human>: We have been in a relationship for about 2yrs now. I wanted to explain the whole story, but the more I think about it the more variables there are and it just gets more and more complicated. So forget that- I'll keep this as brief as I can- I think I am the problem. I think I am (unintentionally) very controlling and I feel like I have SERIOUS trust issues, I've been cheated on by almost every person I've dated in my life. My SO now is one in a few that has not, yet I still have a hard time trusting him. I am the most serious and longest relationship he has been in, so he does not understand what I have been through.

I really love him, he loves me, He'd do anything for me. We recently sat down and had a deep talk about what we want to do and where we want to go in life. We are on the same page for just about everything except 1 thing: He wants to work out of town, 2-3 provinces away. He says it will only be for a yr or 2 just so he can get enough money for a house and other necessities and when he is done he wants to come back in the City and live with me.
I understand this and I support it, I truly do. But then that little "red flag" goes up in my head and it seems as though I just genuinenly cannot be okay with it. I think it might be due to my trust issues but I'm unsure, maybe it's my selfishness? I am looking for any tips on how I can overcome my insecurities and prepare myself for what is going to happen (Him working out of town) Thanks again..

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<bot>: my SO wants to work out of town but my insecurities won't let me be okay with it... Help?