<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

I know a lot of people here say to join clubs, get hobbies, and otherwise be " interesting" I have to disagree.

All of my friends seem to meet their girl either online, through friends, or were already "established" in college.  No one from my work seems to do anything "special".  I'm convinced that the average American works, hangs out with friends, does local things (concerts, happy hour, etc) and that's it.  They have too much shit to worry about to join a photography club for example.

None of my friends or their gf in any circle seem to know anyone (it's not really their responsibility).  Online doesn't seem to work for me.  I don't get it.  How does the average, everyday, regular, non special American do it?   just want to be "average", nothing more nor less.
<bot>: Most people are average and don't seem to have something special going on yet most people manage to find a relationship.  How?