<human>: My (27M) girlfriend (25F) and I have been talking about getting married for awhile now and both agreed that since an engagement ring is such a large purchase and that she would be the one wearing it, it made sense for us to go shopping together to get her input.

We went this past weekend and everything went really well. I've got a good idea of the style that she wants, and she took a few pictures of different rings to look at later

We went out with some friends to dinner after we went shopping, and later on in the night she decided to show her best friend some of the pictures. Today she said she showed a few other of her friends the pictures and asked for their opinions. They are all in our friend group, with many of them dating some of my male friends and I can't imagine they will be able to keep this information to themselves. 

I guess I'm just kind of disappointed that everyone will now know that we're getting engaged soon, and kind of waiting for it to happen instead of it being big news like we want it to be. I also feel bad that many of my girlfriend's friends will have already seen the type of ring that she's getting, possibly even the exact ring. I know it sounds narcissistic of me and that the engagement is about us, not other people, but am I allowed to be disappointed that others know that we'll be getting engaged soon?

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<bot>: Went ring shopping with girlfriend, now she's showing all of her friends the rings we looked at. I'm concerned it will make our engagement less exciting as now everyone knows it's coming