<human>: Hi /r/dating_advice,

Recently I've been dating this girl who is also a colleague to me. My first, more confident than usual impression on her was alright, and we got a date set up after a while, which went alright and afterwards I received a Facebook message saying thanks again it was fun etc.

Second 'date' there were more of us from work, and I found it more difficult most of the night to actually conversate with her because it wasn't just us two. Then, a random guy that none of us knew kept coming over to us and talking specifically to her and I never did anything about it. I think this was perhaps the start right here. I am sure that if I had had some decent things to talk about at the time, or asked her stuff, I'd have managed to keep her interested in me.

I left it for a whole two weeks before asking her out again and yesterday asked her if she wanted to grab a coffee before work, and I got no reply. Right now it'd be a nice thought to think she simply didn't see the message before work or didn't have time to respond. But I know that probably ain't true, and I'm just wondering what did it in the end. 

Was I being too nice guy on that second meeting and did she get pissed off with me not speaking to her all night?

Although I'm no Jesus, I'm gonna try once more to bring this thing back from the dead because I really liked her and wish I had more dating experience right about now :/

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Dated a girl I really like twice, second date I didn't speak to her practically all night. Is this worthy of r/tifu