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I am at work writing this so I have to try to keep it short so just ask if there are details I left out.

Today is my birthday. My husband hasn't acknowledged it in any way so far. He didn't wish me a happy birthday, or get me a card or flowers or a gift. We left the house at the same time, and he didn't even wait for me...he walked ahead while I was locking the door and took the elevator down before I could get to it.

On its own any of these things wouldn't be a big deal, but I feel like it's just symbolic of our relationship as a whole. He just seems completely indifferent to spending any time with me and it never occurs to him to express that he likes me or cares about me in any way.

I've talked to him about it a bunch and he just says, "Oh but I do love you! I think you're great!" And nothing changes.

Or, worse yet, he'll do something that I think is just like....basic adult responsibilities, and act like he did me a favor. Like, look, I cleaned the kitchen for you! Great, I mean, I'm glad I didn't have to clean the kitchen this time? But that's actually not a favor you did me, that's just like part of being a grownup, you have to clean shit sometimes.

We never fight, we have a 2 year old, we have sex regularly (although it's always about him coming, he makes no effort at all to get me off).

We did try counseling once a while ago, it went ok but things didn't really change.

I've been feeling sad about our relationship for a while and I guess the birthday stuff just brought it to the forefront today. This is just who he is, he isn't going to change, do I blow up our whole lives over it? I'm just so sad and don't know what to do.
<bot>: My husband hasn't acknowledged my birthday which is part of a larger pattern of just like not giving a crap about me and I don't know what to do about it.