<human>: Hi Everyone!

I've been feeling like over the past month or two that my SO has been really distant. We breezed through the honeymoon part of our relationship and it was amazing. Good talks, better sex; great times were had and everything was sailing smoothly. 

Then she had some medical issues about halfway through our relationship. Nothing MONUMENTOUS, but enough to throw a bit of a bump in the road for everything.

I can't place it, but before all that happened there was a lot more of give and take, back and forth, and participation by both of us in the relationship. We both would plan dates, talk about whatever was bugging us, and just were more connected. 

But now she's really distant (I pretty much initiate everything). It also feels like she's 100x less affectionate. Whenever I bring up a date idea, or ask her if anything is wrong, it's an excuse about why she can't make time, or the simple answer that nothing is wrong (I'm not going to push it from there. She'll tell me when she's ready if anything is). 

We've also lost ground in the bedroom. If the emotion isn't there then it's just not fun. "Did you finish yet?" is a common question, and it's probably in the top 10 of things that instantly kill any kind of mood.

I don't want to play games and just stop talking on my end, but it feels like I'm barely treading water when it comes to maintaining any connection.

Reddit, do you have any advice or anecdotes from your personal experinces?

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<bot>: Don't know how to deal with distant behavior; Stonewalled at communicating; Does anyone have advice about these things?