<human>: Most of my important friends are about ten years older than me, so in their mid-30's. I went through a fairly nasty break-up about 2 months ago - I've had a pretty rough time in terms of relationships for about a year. We've had little to no contact for about two months, and I am starting to see it in perspective of the rest of my life. I've done quite a lot of crying and being sad about it, processing, etc.  and I want to start dating again. I am not sure if I'm ready or not, but it's something I would like to try. 

Since the break-up, I've moved into a new flat and I have a totally new, and very exciting job. So everything for me feels different - which is a blessing after something like that. It feels like lots of things have moved on. I am getting used to the job and putting a lot of effort into it, I think I am getting the hang of it! I am getting on well with housemates and friends and have a very busy social life that I am loving! I will have a couple of evenings a week where I don't see anyone and just hang out with myself (necessary to keep me sane!!). But in general, I am doing everything well at the moment. 

My friends, if ever I mention trying to date now, keep talking about taking time for myself. I don't want to do that! I would like to be with someone! I am young and (relatively) hot and I want to have fun! In my mind, there is no fear or anxiety in staying single - I have definitely been enjoying the benefits - but I would like to see what dating is like now. 

So, I am seeking opinions from you guys - what do you think? Any experiences, etc. in relation to this? Is it indeed an age thing?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: My friends keep telling me to take time between my last relationship and the next, but I don't want to. Is this an age thing? Am I further ahead in the break-up than expected? Is it something else?