<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

My ex of 5 years and I broke up back in March of 2013. We were LDR and were not right for each other. He took a LONG time to get over the relationship, and now it seems he only contacts me when he wants money or to insinuate his finances are not great. I've never sent him money. The last time he asked me to get back together was sometime early this year via a video he emailed me... Always felt like he doesn't understand boundaries since then.

Now my mom tells me he was asking her about visiting over Christmas and bringing his new girlfriend. When I said I thought it was weird and it made me uncomfortable she was upset with me because she "considers him part of the family." When I confronted him he said she misses him and he misses my family. And then said we had time to figure it out??

Am I wrong to be upset here? I'm dating a new partner who I love and want to be part of the family... Not an ex from almost two years ago.
<bot>: my mom and ex boyfriend think it's normal to have him visit during the holidays and I just don't want to take part in it.