<human>: I met this guy on Tumblr a few months ago and were messaging back and forth non stop for a few weeks after we added each other on Facebook as well as Skyping a few times. We have *a lot* in common and even though it all happened quite fast I did develop a really big crush on him, and he indicated that he felt the same way. 

He was even going to come to visit me because he's moving to a nearby state for work pretty soon, but he ended up deciding that it wasn't feasible at the time. I was disappointed but I totally understood and we discussed the possibility of me coming to see him instead. 

Then all of a sudden he just stopped messaging me back. I was pretty upset but since we'd only ever spoken online I just tried to let it go. I was completely over it by now, so of course that was his cue to message me today being like "Hey, how are you, what's new?" kind of message... :/ Like the two month gap hadn't even happened... 

I haven't replied yet and I'm kind of torn about whether I should... On the one hand we did get on insanely well and I was really excited to find someone who seems so compatible with me, and now he's not even that far away (though it will cost a lot to visit him.) On the other hand, even if he has been really busy preparing to move, its weird that he hasn't even messaged me to explain that or just keep in touch even a little. 

What does Reddit think about this one?

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<bot>: met a guy online, discussed visiting each other but then he seemed to drop off the face of the earth for a few months only to reappear today and act like nothing happened. Thoughts?