<human>: So we talked about going to Disney for my graduation trip (I'm graduating from University in May) a few months back. I told her then that my friends (who are also graduating) might be down since none of us have ever been to Disney. So I ask them a week later when we were discussing trips and they were not down for the most part. They'd rather go on a 6day cruise to the Bahamas. I told my girlfriend the same day and she said she was okay to go which I was glad for because her family is already going on a cruise to Mexico in November.

Today, things changed. I guess she was going to use my trip in May also as a way to celebrate her birthday which is a little earlier in May. Now she just came out saying she had her heart set on Disney and that is how she wants to spend her birthday. She's really upset and is saying that i either come or don't come, but I know her, she's really angry and wants me to ditch my friends to go with her. She even snidely said how she hopes her trip doesn't cause her to miss my graduation.

I haven't given her a response because I'm confused. It's not that I don't like Disney, I wouldn't mind doing either but the goal of this was for me to spend time with my college mates one last time on a big trip. I love my girlfriend but she will always have a birthday. I only graduate from college once.

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<bot>: talked to gf about Disney trip with college friends for graduation gift. Plans changed and mates want to go on a cruise. Am I wrong for not wanting to miss a trip with my friends and skip out on my girlfriends birthday trip?