<human>: I have a family member who had been very self-centered for the past few years.  She can be pleasant and friendly but she goes through periods of turmoil (often centered around boyfriends and relationships) where she will fuck anyone over to get what she wants.  If you don't help her get what she wants, she'll hate you.  Just in the past year she has been in "I hate you" mode with just about everyone in her life including friends and family.  She can't keep boyfriends and many of her friends have stopped talking to her.  Some of her behavior includes stealing money, borrowing items (often without permission) and returning them in dirty or broken condition (if at all), bitching at people for not giving her money when she's broke, stealing boyfriends from friends, etc.  She firmly believes she doesn't do anything wrong and basically that she's entitled to act this way and everyone is just being mean to her.  If you bring up the fact that she's basically not caring about others, she storms off and you enter the "I hate you" group until she needs something again.  So my question is, have any of you been in a similar situation where you may have been acting inappropriately and something made you realize that maybe it was you, not everyone else?

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<bot>: Family member is being a bitch, thinks everyone else has the problem.  Any advice on how to make her see she's the one with the problem?