<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

My husband and I have been married almost a year. 

He has changed. He seems more reserved and depressed now. I told him that I was worried about him, and asked what I could do to make him happier. He said nothing was wrong. 

He hasn't been wanting to have sex/foreplay/anything. I told him that I missed it, and I tried changing it up to get him more interested. Little to no improvement. 

I finally told him yesterday that I was lonely, I missed him, and that I have needs that he is not fufiling. 

I am a high school teacher. I have really hot 18 year olds try to get with me regularly. I am not a complete idiot, so I know to shoot them down nicely, but I did tell my husband that it sickens me that I love the attention. I should be getting enough attention at home so that I dont crave other men's attention. 

Speaking of which, this has been going on for about two months. I met a guy yesterday that I had been talking to online. I know, terrible. I just wanted to be touched again. I wanted someone to flirt with me, to talk to me. Well, we met up, made out, mutual masturbation, but no penetration. Is it cheating? I know I am emotionally... but physically? 

Anyway. I don't want to throw away my marriage. I just want him to want me. I want sex, flirting, dating, fun. All with him would be great. I have tried to take us out, make date nights, even do things he enjoys but I hate (with a buyable smile, mind you), but he still pouts too damn much. 

Any advice?
<bot>: I miss my husband wanting me, what can I do to make him want me again? Is kissing/mm cheating?