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So I'm a junior in college and I haven't dated anyone since I've gotten onto campus. It's not that I haven't been trying, but because I've been getting turned down, 'friend-zoned', or they are already dating other people. Towards the end of my freshmen year, I was talking to this one girl a lot. We both liked each other but lived about four hundred miles apart from each other. With the end of the semester coming, we decided to hold off dating until we came back. We didn't really talk over the summer and we were didn't see each other most of sophomore year.

Toward the end of sophomore year, we started talking again and began smoking together (we're both 420 friendly). We hung out, but it wasn't like the connection we had the previous year. This year, we have been hanging out and talking right away, even though she has been really busy with seminar work and whatnot. Last night, she opened up to me for the first time since freshmen year and did this by telling me her sexual fantasy... dominatrix.

Now I haven't dated anyone in a long time, but I haven't had a lot of sex either. In the past six years, I've had sex once... so when it comes to new things in sex, I'm a little inexperienced. She kept asking me if I would slap a girl in the face if it turned her on. I said I might but would partially feel guilty because the thought of that seems a little harmful. But she's into that, but it is still strange for me because I'm not a violent person. So basically the girl of my dreams is heavily a dominatrix and I'm having worries that because I am not a 'violent' person could make her unsatisfied during sex. Is there any way of making this work?
<bot>: Girl I have connected with for a while told me she's a dominatrix and I'm nonviolent and feel guilty hurting her even though she's turned on by pain. How can this work?