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I love my wife a lot we have 3 kids together, who i also love a lot and a cat who is a pain in the ass.

we have a good marriage, and we are still very much in love with each other. i don't get a lot of attention though I'm usually on the bottom of her list most of the time.

this year she forgot my birthday, she only realized until a week later and apologized and tried to make up for it. i told her it was okay because i had already celebrated it by myself.

ever since then I realized just how little i probably matter to her, and that she probably doesn't give a shit. everything was ok for awhile and then 3 months ago me and my coworker start talking more.

her desk is next to mine, and we talk and occasionally share jokes with each other. we started spending more time together during our lunch breaks and even started texting.

i told her my marital problems and how my wife doesn't pay attention to me anymore. i told her about how she forgot my birthday and that i don't think she really cares anymore.

so the next day she made me a cake and got me a gift it was a very sweet gesture. it feels nice being around her, she makes me feel like someone actually cares about me.

i feel guilty though, like I'm betraying my family somehow but i don't know what to do. should i tell my wife about this?
<bot>: i have been spending more time with my coworker but feel guilty. not sure if what I'm doing is wrong.