<human>: So some back story, 
I am 24m and I usually just dont date, I have had a few relationships but nothing really serious. My relationships have usually fallen to the way side because they usually became negative. I've never had a relationship that didn't start with sex. 

I've known my current gf for 3 years, we worked together briefly and became close friends right off the bat. She was married at the time, she did and still does have 2 girls (6 & 8), her and her ex husband separated a little over a year ago, they were together for the kids for 6 of the 9 years they were married, he emotionally cheated on her and she tried everything to make it work but knew she didn't love him anymore. After the separation she went to women, we always talked but never explored anything between us knowing our friendship was too important. We always talked and shared many passions together. Around the same time we both realized we had deeper feelings for each other and were always happy when together.

She was always the kind of person I dreamed of being with because she shares the same outlook on life that I do and many other reasons.

We talk and communicate about everything, past relationships current feelings and how we see our lives currently.

She has a family, the two girls witch I adore, they really like me and have known who I am for 3 or so years, their dad is still in the picture and always will be, he is their rightful father and that's how I want it to be. She always puts the kids first and to be honest I find it really attractive. 

My fears are that I will move to quickly and mess things up by expressing my love faster than she is comfortable with. I don't know how to keep cool and let things unfold naturally, I know I won't love anyone as much as I lover her but I don't want to scare her or push her away. 

Any insight will be greatly appreciated. I have no doubt in my rational mind but my irrational state of mind is what I worry about, it causes a large amount of anxiety because I'm afraid as soon as I am comfortable with what I have it will be gone.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: I love my gf and am afraid of going to fast and pushing her away, she is the love of my life