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I've been talking to this girl online for more than 4 years casually even though we've never met in real life. Basically we live 5 hours apart so we didn't really have the chance. 
I know a lot about her life, her relationships etc because I always saw her as a friend and wasn't interested in her. She went through a rough breakup before summer and wasn't really herself after that. Recently she started a new relationship with a guy but it wasn't going too well. Then something inside of me just clicked and I saw her differently, I really liked her and wanted to be together. So I just told her. Afterwards we would talk till 5am or something, she wouldn't meet with her boyfriend etc. Then we talked on the phone almost every single day for like 3 hours or something and she told me how much she would like to be here with me etc.
She then told me that what we're doing isnt right because she's currently in a relationship with her boyfriend and that she must make a choice. To sum things up they split up (i dont think I played any major role since the guy was a jerk). She has lots of guys hitting on her. Once we were talking on the phone and I heard her incoming facebook messages arrive, damn they were a lot. Now she's been sick for almost a week and isn't feeling too well. She's been behaving a bit strangely. Basically, as she has admitted she doesnt know what she wants and is confused, and that if we were closer things would be so much simpler.
I've told her many times that I could visit her but she doesnt want me to and she says that she needs some time. At the beginning I was really into her but as time has passed and she has me on standby mode i've started having seconds thoughts. Plus she keeps on telling me about guys hitting on her.
I dont know what I should do. Any advice? thanks
<bot>: ive been talking to a girl for more than 4 years online, recently something changed inside of me and i became attracted to her. she was in a relationship, got out, now needs time.