<human>: Let me start out by saying I don't want to get married right now, I brought this up to him as a way of seeing where we were headed and to seen if our goals matched up.

I've always joked about having kids with him and mentioned things about our future, even more so that two of his cousins have recently gotten engaged. Today I brought up that we had been dating for longer than one of the couples and he made the comment "if you like it then you put a ring on it", half joking with the Beyoncé song. I jokingly said "oh well what does that mean then?" And he looked at me and said "I have reasons" and then wouldn't tell me them until later on.

About an hour later he told me he wanted to have our own place first and for me to have my own car and then wouldn't talk about it anymore. I went to work and came back and told him we needed to actually talk and not just joke about it and he came back with "we always talk about it, you know my goals but you're always joking about having kids and you're only goal is marriage." I got offended, becaus while I want to get married my goal is for is to be happy together. I got quiet and he finally said "I don't want any of that. I don't want marriage."

Now I don't know what to do. I know it's early in our relationship but that statement is so resolute. I love him with all my heart and I always (and still do) thought he felt the same. Now I don't know. I don't know if I can stay with someone who doesn't want to marry me but I also don't want to give up so soon. What if he is just feeling pressure from his family?

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<bot>: boyfriend state he doesn't want marriage but may just be feeling pressured because of recent engagements in family. I'm not sure what to do.