<human>: Throwaway. Both redditors. 

So I went through a very bad breakup last year with "guy A". Not a long relationship but significant (first both for sex and relationship) Feel entirely responsible for how the relationship ended, although to be fair I had issues I had to deal with and feeling that I wasn't dragging him down has lead me to recognise and sort them out. Still at a precarious situation (psychologically) but I admit to still having very strong feelings about the ex. 

Forward to now. Ex is with another girl (although we had sexual relations on off until he got with her). I decide I need to get out more, just be a happy young person and experience life. 
So girl (me) meet "guy B", go for drinks, (winter vacation inbetween) second time we meet up, I invite him up, we have sex. Post sex drowsy satisfaction and guy B comes up with... :

"Yeah... Just so you know... I was a virgin." (Me thinking: FUCK fuck fuckitty fuck)

Forward to now, one week later. He has assumed we are going out. I don't dislike him, I quite appreciate him. But... I want a friends with benefits, not a full blown emotional blahblah. But I took his virginity. AND he has made it relatively clear he's pretty satisfied with staying with me semi permanently. 

I want the sexytimes. Dont want the emotional involvement and commitment of a relationship. 

Reddit; WHAT DO? And I understand you guys will say: talk to him ! yes yes sure but to say what? But, context: I have difficulty becoming attach, and although very social, don't find it easy to let people in (although nobody does I know) I'm scared I do want a relationship, I'm scared to fall into this relationship like the last time with guy A... Oh man. I tried to make it simple but I fail. :(

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Girl wants sex hooks up with boy, he's a virgin, he wants serious commitment, she wants sex, she loves ex