<human>: Hi all.
I suffer from mild anxiety which makes me worry about a bunch of things. Lately one of the things I'e worried about is my girlfriend becoming a person I wouldnt have been interested in the first place.  We are each other's first relationships and have been together for 9 months. I also worry(but to a lesser extent) that my gf is hiding certain qualities that about her that would not be appealing to what I want in a relationship.

Some ways this worry manifests itself is that I worry my gf will become this person who just parties all the time and has no other interests. For example, in March(3 weeks before we got together) she went to a rave for the first time. At the time I thought nothing of it(about 3 months ago my anxiety/worry about everything increased drastically). But now I am worried she will start taking drugs-which I personally do not partake in- because that's what a lot of people at raves too.

In a similar vein, I worry about her starting to smoke weed. If I remember correctly, she once said she doesn't think she would ever do it(she does not even drink). But one of her close friends smokes. One day when us 3 were hanging out my girlfriend's friend said that weed makes her sleepy.My gf made the comment, in a bit of a joking manner, "Hey d372 would you still love me if I started smoking weed so I can sleep?" Something along those lines. I said yes but inside I honestly don't know how I would handle that.

Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell
<bot>: Worry that my gf will change her values that do not match up with my own and become a different person I would have not connected with in the first place.