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Due to some bad advice of a friend, I ended up breaking NC to find out what I did wrong. I was told I was too controlling and didn't trust her.

So assuming I was, was this behavior too controlling. After I start noticing the two talk more and more, I started to lose trust as it was my first one. She rather spent time with him rather than me near the end of the month (Still during "break"). She was telling/ texting him feelings, past, emotions that she doesn't want me to worry about.

Feeling threatened, after they hang out, one time I wanted to ask what they did, where she got defensive. I noticing this stopped and said if you feel threatened you don't have to tell me. She proceeded to hide when they hang out. I guess I felt threatened again and wanted to know when they do hang out as a heads up. So I told her to tell me when they hang out.

I guess my jealousy of him and due to the fact I haven't been able to hang out with her at all for a month, made me insecure. I want to target my actions and learn from it before I might make more toxic moves in the future and hurt who I love. Any advice?

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<bot>: I think I was too controlling, advice on how to fix if I was. Don't want to hurt future SO.