<human>: Hi first time posting so bear with me plz.

I asked out my new co-worker (we can call her Amy, and we've somewhat talked 4-5 weeks) Amy said I'm not looking for a relationship atm, and my last one ended horribly (found out ended 7 months ago)and i have so many things i still need to get taken care of.And time is always an issue. 

I'm fine with rejection, but her comment of "I'm not looking for a relationship atm"  confused me. I chose to take it as her saying not interested,instead of me hoping for a chance. The next day were texting and Amy says "btw do you wanna hang out sometime, not sure when but sometime lol. I enjoy texting you but i do wish we'd talk more than that handful of times" 

So we find a day were both off (we work 3rd shift). I ask  her what she had in mind. She said idk for sure. Few days later she says how about we go to the mall or hangout and play some games. I said cool. Then next day i bring it up and before i could say anything she says we should go to Jurassic world movie(I was about to ask her that).

Now is she wanting to hangout or is this basically a date? If its a date i want to ask her how about we go the mall (to talk and get to know each other since you really cant do that at movies), then movies, and then we can go back and game. I should also mention I'm somewhat a SAP and this would be my first date ever. So if mall and all that is to much tell me plz. Also if its a date I'd appreciate tips for a 1st timer.

Thanks in advanced.

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<bot>: women says not interested, next day ask if want to go to mall or movies together. Is it a date or not?