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I'm 28, never been good with women.  Get blown off, flaked on, etc.  It probably takes me about a little over a month of online dating to even get a first date which likely doesn't result in anything then repeat.  I don't think I creep women out, I just don't attract them and most "relationship" fizzle out.  By any objective metric, I'm bad lol.

I've always been one to try and see "the whole package" and be lenient to physical attractiveness.  My "standards" are on the lower end of the curve (plane Jane types or slightly lower like 4 to 5)  I'm ok with that so long as she's a good girl and cool to be around.

My issue is maybe I'm dating out of my league?  I don't feel as if I can lower my standards anymore without feeling bad.  I guess I can train my mind to find any girl attractive with enough mental gymnastics so long as she's a normal, functioning member of society who isn't a total bore or asshole.  I won't cheat if someone prettier comes along, I'm just not that way.
<bot>: I already give the benefit of the doubt when it comes to physical attractiveness.  Advice from any guys who dated women they were not attracted to.