<human>: Hey  Reddit,

I have had so far an online relationship with a girl for about two years. She's now 21, I'm 25. We have such an amazing repor, we share a lot of the same politics, views and interests, there are times where we'll just sit there smiling at each other for hours on end. She really is quite something special.

We have both planted our feet firmly in the ground from when it started to bloom on the matter of everything being ONLINE which doesn't always work in real life. We live in separate countries (Both in Europe), getting there and finding a place to stay is not an issue.

This issue isn't in our meeting as we both can't wait to see if it's transferable to a real life situation, the problem is her mother is very protective of her. This is the internet after all and if I were a parent, I would be very cautious too, even at her age.

We definitely want to meet each other, we have both pretty much reasserted we are who we say we are, webcam every day, seen passports, seen driving licenses, seen pictures, there's a great deal of trust between us and we're not naive internet users, we're aware of the dangers.

The problem is how to break it to her mum, she's edging on the idea of lying and going, I dislike this a lot as lying often has far worse rammifications than telling the truth and if this develops it will involve finding new excuses. 

The problem is how to break the news to her mother, how to ask for her acceptance, I'm happy to meet her mother, yet I don't actually speak her language, so apart from being able to see me I don't quite know how to prove I am genuine and not a threat. At the same time, we don't want her mum hanging around the whole weekend, preventing us from actually enjoying one another's company and getting to know each other.

Reddit, please suggest us something to get us out of this pickle?

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<bot>: girl (21) and I (25) online dating, different countries, need to break it to overprotective mother*