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So my gf and I have been together for 5.5 years. She did weigh less when we started dating but i used to be a varsity wrestler in high school and could eat anything and stay at 7% body fat. Those days are over for me and now i was about 60 lbs over weight bit I've been working on it and cut it to 40. 

She gained some weight too though and it's probably because of my bad eating habits. She does blame me for her weight gain. Anyways I still think she's beautiful the way she is. She has big hips that I love  but she hates her sides and stomach.

Now we are trying to eat healthier but it seems to only be working for me. What can I do to help her? And what can a say to help her see how beautiful I think she is already?
<bot>: gf thinks she's fat. How can I help her lose the weight she wants to lose and what can I day so she sees herself the way I do?