<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

I'm not even sure how to explain this. Everything I do is analyzed and commented on, usually in a negative way. One of the biggest issues is that I am naturally quiet and not a social butterfly and he is the exact opposite. He really dislikes the fact that I am that way so I try to constantly hang out and be the party girl he wants but then, of course, I always end up feeling like I'm not a good girlfriend because I hate partying so much and so often and its obvious he loves it. 

Another issue is that my little day to day habits and activities have a constant commentary. Example: I LOVE gum. Period. And for the past few weeks that has been his thing to pick on me about. "Why do you chew so much gum?" "You need to stop that". I've also been criticized about watching TV and he's even gone so far as to deactivate the remote we had and making his phone the only remote to control the TV so that I have to ask him to watch TV.  It's just little things like that that I need to "stop" or "do" that are just making me feel like I'm an annoyance or have major personality flaws. 

His sentences that address me are always starting with "You always", "You never", "You should", or "Why don't you". I guess I simply feel bullied and picked on. The worst is that I'm not sure if maybe I'm being sensitive and maybe I deserve his harsh criticisms and maybe he's saying these things with my best interests at heart. I'd just love a sweet word every now and again as well to make sure I'm doing okay. 

I try to talk to him about the way I feel, however, it either ends with him getting upset and saying he doesn't do that or he simply doesn't want to talk about it.
<bot>: Boyfriend of 5 years is constantly nit picking my every move and making me feel like I have major personality flaws. I feel like I am constantly analyzed and criticized.