<human>: This is not just about sex, but about general life events and things like that at the same time. Now to be clear I know that she has a pretty demanding and energy sapping job (she used to PTFO when she gets home some days), but honestly I have been with her for 6 months now and I cannot think of more than 2 or three times she has initiated either sex or doing something fun on the weekend...combined! 

To put this in context, we have done MANY things together (taken trips to DC, Miami, State College for a football game, NYC a couple times, resuarants and bars in Philly where we live, and of course coitus in the comfort of our shared apartment) over the months we have been dating and its all been awesome. We fell in love with eachother during and because of what we have done together and the fun we had while doing it all. 

Now she is a beautiful woman. Smart, sexy, and with an astonishingly similar sense of humar as me...pretty much exactly everything that I am looking for. But this leads to the problem...this attractiveness and the high levels of attention she got as a child and in college has made her get used to not so much sitting back and expecting things to be done to and with her, but has made her used to not having to get things initated by herself in any context (she genuinely looks confused and acts awkward when she forces herself to try). As someone who really loves her and wants to make this relationship last a billion times longer than it already has, it is frustrating for an important part of our relationship to be one sided (not to say the love is one sided, because that is definitely not the case here). And, full disclosure, she has conceeded that this is the root and cause of the problem and she wants to fix this just as much as I do. 

How do I help her help us make this relationship stronger and strong enough for the long haul?

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<bot>: My GF cant seem to initiate sex or fun things to do beause she has never really had to initiate thigns like that before. How do we fix this?!