<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

My girlfriend and I have been together only for a few months, but have dated off and on for a few years.  We just recently got very serious, and things have and are going very well.  We're on an I love you basis, but live 100 miles apart.

Recently she changed her birth control pills, and today I was told that she had a positive result on her pregnancy test (though it was a faint second line).

We're both very scared mostly because our relationship is so new, our families are slightly conservative and we're afraid of their reaction to having a  baby out of wedlock.

I am 25, currently a full time software engineer, and graduated from college.  She is 23, and currently in grad school.

I'd love for her to get the big A since it isn't the ideal time for either of us to have a child.  I'm afraid if we have a child now, both her family and mine will be overly judgmental, and that she'll resent me in the future for delaying her graduate degree and career.

How do I best talk to her about getting an abortion, without sounding like i'm trying to escape responsibility?  If she absolutely wants to keep the baby I will man up and do everything I can to be a good father, but it isn't ideal.  Reddit, what do?
<bot>: Short term gf is pregnant, but doesn't want an abortion.  I want one.  How do I talk to her about this without sounding like a jerk?