<human>: This might just be my young naiveness talking but it seems like all of my relationships involved just sex/intimacy. 

We had nothing in common and we never clicked on a personal/friend bond. I have friends who are girls that I click really well with. Honestly, that's what I'm looking for in a real relationship. Stuff like having inside jokes and just to goof off together. I want to be able to come off from work sit down and play a video game or board game and just get really into it. Come up with schemes together like we were Bond villains. 

These friends I have currently I cant/wont date. For a multitude of reasons that are beyond my control, and I am not talking about "ruiningn the friendship. 

My passed relationships we mostly stayed in bedrooms together and wen we did leave to hangout with our friend groups together we both(passed 3 relationships) were extremely introverted. I assume I was, but I'm not sure. 

My last relationship I can't even remember anything personal we had. Some people look back at stuff they did together after a break up but all I can remember are mediocre dates.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: Why is it when I date I can't find someone who I can connect with on the same level as a friend?