<human>: In July, I will be graduating with a degree in law. I have a placement as a trainee lawyer in a firm in London upon graduation. Now, I know London is a crazy expensive place to live and work, but I'm prepared. I have my own savings from summer jobs and internships, not to mention the salary that I will be getting.

My family is rather wealthy and we own several properties in the London area. My parents have prepared a place for me. It is a large flat in central London that they want me to share with my [30M] brother. I don't mind living with my brother--he's super cool. The flat is in an amazing location, is large and spacious, is close to commuter links and major attractions, etc. It is also close (but not too close) to my childhood home and where they are living.

The problem is, I want to be independent. I've tried explaining to my parents how I want to find my own place and pay my own rent, but they won't hear of it. My father told me that he didn't want me to rent in some sketchy, unsafe area. They both think I'm crazy to even consider refusing their offer. My friends think so too. They tell me how lucky I am that my parents are willing to give me a free place to live after graduation. NOBODY wants to hear my side of things and it's really frustrating.

Even my grandparents think I'm being unreasonable. They make it sound like I'm some ungrateful brat who doesn't want to associate with his family when he's older. But that couldn't be further from the truth.

How do I explain to them my need for independence? How do I let them listen and understand how I feel? I don't want to be rude and just flat-out ignore them and go my own way, because they're still my family and I love them.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: Parents (and basically entire family) want me to live with my brother in a place they have prepared for me. People think that I'm being ungrateful and rude for refusing it. How do I convey my feelings effectively?