<human>: Here's the thing, my ex knows my reddit account, so frankly I started this throwaway just for this.

I need to know, how do you know when you're over someone?

With my ex, she cheated on me twice (and like an idiot I forgave her twice). 

Blamed me for any issues we had (and I took the blame). 

Accused me of being sexist on multiple occasions and of being an asshole (she called me sexist (in a serious manner) because I never wrote prominent female characters in scripts (I'm an independent filmmaker, I just have trouble writing females) and referred to me as an asshole which was something even her family disagreed with). 

Said I was never romantic in anyway and didn't show my love (an example, I got the singer of her favourite band from SWEDEN to send her a postcard saying happy birthday and a few other things, because I was broke and couldn't afford a gift.)

The list goes on, and since breaking up and trying the friend thing, it got worse when it became clear she didn't even care too much to have me as a friend.

She's changed path's and has essentially thrown away alot of her life, and who she is now I don't like at all.

For this reason I felt like I was over her. But lately I'm not sure, how do you know when you're over someone, and why can't it be easier after all that shit?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Ex treated me like thinly veiled crap, and I have every reason to despise her right now, and cant seem to get over her.