<human>: Background: I (25F) have lived at home more or less my whole life (minus 1 year in the dorms in college) with my mom, dad, and younger brother. I've been gainfully employed for 3 years and diligently saving money with the goal of moving out. My family isn't bad, I just would like more independence, sense of ownership, and better commute (my drive from my parents' house to my job is about 45 - 60 minutes each way).

I began home searching 5 months ago and communicated with my family throughout the process. Last week, my offer on a house was accepted. Up to this point, my mother was encouraging this endeavor as the "smart" thing to do.

However, last night, she blew up at me for wanting to leave the house. I was trying to assure her I'd researched an element of the property disclosure and she said, "If you don't want my help, then fine, to hell with you, I won't help." Shouting, crying, and screaming about how I'm an ungrateful daughter, don't understand what I'm committing to, and am too young to own a property.

How do I respectfully acknowledge her emotions and not hurt her? Nod silently? Walk away? Ask her what's wrong? I guess I feel like no matter what I try, she won't be stable or happy.

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<bot>: Mother's clinical anxiety clouding my decision on whether or not to buy a house. How do I show I love her while making the decision for myself?