<human>: So me and my GF had a relationship for more than 3 years.
It was good but sadly we kinda grew apart.
Just 2 months ago after an (again) heated argument we decided to end it in a friendly way. We wanted to be friends in the end.
But we both knew that a little radio silence (no talking and texting) would be good.

In those 2 months I partied and drank more than I did in my first year at college. I was a mess, skipping the gym and practice (what I love) also classes (cause when you're home at 06.30 class at 08.30 is impossible). But hey I was having fun.

Now, two months later, I'm studying for finals (and no more parties).
But I can't get her out of my head.
I already tried to contact her and gently tried to meet but she's busy with finals she says (maybe she doesn't want to).
I don't know maybe I want some closure.

I know that breaking up with her was good (for her and me).
But man, it seems to get harder for me day by day.
I can't focus on studying. It's like I was running away from my feelings during those two months.

Do you guys have any tips on getting over her?
Or just coping with it? 
I still love her and want the best for her.
It's like I'm missing her more everyday.

Talked about it with my friends a lot but nothing seems to stop this empty feeling/ the feeling of missing her.

Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?
<bot>: Broke up with GF of 3y, mess ever since, can't get her out of my head, can't focus on studying for finals