<human>: Ok I say loser in the title for lack of a better word. I don't actually think he's a loser. He's a great guy, funny and very cute.

BUT he's not doing anything with his life. Like literally nothing. 

He's 25 years old, lives with his parents, his mom gives him an allowance, has NEVER had a job, went to community college for a year and got kicked out for shit grades. He went back to school for a year but is again failing.
He is now out of school.

I don't know what to do. His parents are no help whatsoever, there huge enablers who also don't speak English at all, so there's no communicating. 
He wastes all his (moms) money on alcohol and video games.

One of my friends manages a pretty successful restaurant and straight up offered him a job. He decline because he "doesn't want to serve people." Then also kinda insulted my friend because she dropped out of college to run that restaurant. 

Personally, i think my friends doing great. She dropped out because they offered her a really good salary.  I also don't think any job is beneath him. 

I'm just at my wits end with him because I feel like I'm growing up. I no longer really feel like I'm a kid playing dress up or like I'm only legally an adult.

I'm actually an adult. With money, savings, car payments snd an apartment and I don't know how to be friends with someone who doesn't ever have money to go out so if I want to hang out, I'm picking up the bill. I just feel like I've outgrown him but that's such a shitty thing to say and I want to help him DO something with his life. 

Any advice appreciated

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: My good friend is lazy with no life ambition. Parents enable him to do nothing all day. How can I help him grow up?