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My boyfriend has been friends with his roommate since they were both very young.  I've only been dating him for 8 months but I'm his first real girlfriend and we are very serious. I guess I made a bad impression on his roommate when we first met because he really hates me. I found out how he felt after my boyfriend apparently got into a physical fight with him when he was being mean about me.  My boyfriend ended up with a concussion and his roommate with a broken his nose.  

Since then I've tried being nice and funny to him whenever he was around while I was at my boyfriend's apartment, and I thought he was growing on me but the other night I over heard my boyfriend on the phone with him and he was telling my boyfriend about a party he was at and to "come but don't bring *her* you know I hate *her*" talking about me. 

This makes me extremely uncomfortable.  My boyfriend lives with someone who actively tries to get him to dump me. Not to mention I feel really awkward being at my boyfriend's apartment because it's his roommates apartment too and I don't want to be somewhere i'm not welcome. I don't want to be the kind of girl that makes her boyfriend stop being friends with his friends, but I'm really close to telling him he shouldn't be friends with his roommate if he doesn't support our relationship.  I've talked to him about it before and he knows how upset it makes me, but he tells me not to worry about it and it doesn't make a difference what his roommate thinks. All of his other friends like me and we get along really well. 

What should I do? Should I talk to the roommate? Should I keep trying to get him to like me? Or should I talk to my boyfriend and put an end to the friendship?
<bot>: my boyfriend's roommate doesn't like me and talks shit about me to my boyfriend when I'm not around.  How to I get some control over the situation?