<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

Let me start by saying that were in a long distance relationship for a year because he is too unstable for me to be there. He suffers from severe depression. 

He's lied to me a few times. Also turned to drugs. But since (as far as I know) stopped both of those things. However, some things he does/says makes me believe there's no way it's just severe depression. Maybe I'm wrong. But would like outside input.

- He seems pretty selfish. I'd have to move there for us to work. Attempts to break up a few times over it.
- He gets sad that were not together but won't just come visit like a normal reaction would be. Pressures me and makes me feel bad for not being there.
- Sometimes he will say how lonely he is and he wants me there for a few reasons: to make things easier for him, so someone can hold him, to be taken care of, and to feel loved. Doesn't say he misses me or wants me. I asked him if he just wanted someone. He said no.
- Tends to get "stressed" and "needs time". Literally stops talking to me for a day or two. Comes back to try to salvage things. 
- Sometimes when he says he's done and its over, he will say that it's not over forever. We can try later.
- Says his depression doesn't allow him to feel anything or care about anything. It makes him unable to think of other people. But he goes out with his friends weekly. His problems don't extend into anything else but our relationship. His school work is fine. His job is fine.

Any ideas?
<bot>: Bf is going through things but it seems to be more than depression. And only affects our relationship, not other things in his life.