<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

Thank you for helping with this in giving me some fresh eyes. I'm in love with someone who has two kids and two different fathers. She's amazing, smart, intelligent and makes me want to live life to the fullest. Her kids are amazing one is 13 and the other is 7.  Now that I've shown my love and support I don't want to skew the candid responses. 

Here is my question to the redditors who have or had step children. I've never been married and do not have children of my own (yet, God willing). Our relationship has been a fairytale but at times I feel overwhelmed with the dads and their influence on their kids. I get they are #1, and they are their fathers and I support that and I'm not vindictive. I'm just curious. Does this ever get easier when mixing my hopeful new family with her and her two previous husbands? I feel that they (dads) dictate my life even with a strict schedule. She steps up and helps and communicates to me but I still feel helpless at some points.  I'm trying to get a perspective on this. I want to make it work, but have I really put myself in a situation where I no longer have freedom for choices for me and my family (including the two step-boys)? I would like positive and not so positive outcomes of at all possible.
<bot>: In love with a girl who has two kids and different fathers. How has your experience, positive and/or negative affected your life with step children.