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Sometimes it's late. It could be 1am and as I am drifting off to sleep, she texts and asks to call me. I want/need sleep so as politely as I can, while emphasizing my needs and that they no way impact my feelings towards her, I say that I can't because I need to sleep. She gets short with me and when I wish her a good night, instead of her usual, I'll receive the cold shoulder "K" and a palpable tension/attitude the next day.

I have spoken to her about this issue before, saying that although I care for her very much, and miss her (we are long distance, approx. 2 hours away and visit often), I sometimes do not want to talk on the phone on a daily basis, and at the hours that she wants. I have to take care of things on my end and sometimes I simply want my own space to do what I want like watch a movie or play videogames or whatever, instead of sitting on the phone with her for 2 hours.

Has anyone dealt with similar clingyness and found a good solution that doesn't leave one of us disappointed?
<bot>: My SO tries to have phone convos with me every night, sometimes way late. Need advice to help her understand I don't want that as often as she does.