<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Hello there ladies, I'm in a little bit of trouble with a close friend of mine and I need advive... for starters I'm an aussie :) now let's say this girls name is sarah... Sarah and I have know each other for many years but at the moment we have been thrown into very difficult situations in our life which she has tried to help me with mine but never told me hers, I know can't be fixed and she knows that and I'm dealing with mine the best I am, she on the other hand is due to love... apparently she loved this guy who moved to Queensland due to his family and her family hated his guts, she then visited him in Queensland (she's from Adelaide, I'm from Sydney) and he proposed to her and she said yes... but there was a catch... she had a very close female friend in Queensland that knew both parties and Sarah agreed that her new "fiancé" can date her close friend due to loneliness... (I know right... fucking nuts)... I told her it would back fire and I was right, it did and now she's been blocked by both of them on every social media site and have no contact with them... she won't talk about it, I've tried to get her to talk about it which she's only told that it backfired and she won't budge anymore than that and she's getting extremely pissed off for trying to help... and apparently she's friendzoned me... which I find adorable (yes sarah and I have had a sexual... companionship... friendship... I don't know what to call it) ...now I've noticed that I've been cold shouldering people to get my way with them (it actually works) I don't want to do that with Sarah... what do I do now? How do I fix this and how can I help her/should I help her?
<bot>: Close friend lost her fiancé and now she's mad at me for pushing to help and get her to talk about it, how do I fix this without being a dick?