<human>: I saw a Special K commercial this morning and it had an effect on me emotionally. The commercial stated that January 2nd is the official "weigh-in" day. Their whole thing was not to focus on how much weight you're losing, but rather, what are you gaining (non-weight).

For me, every day I gain a little bit of confidence and overall happiness. I started dieting in September '11 and am down 50 pounds. I've been a fat guy my entire life and within the past year it really started taking an effect on my physical and mental health (more so mental..) so I kicked my ass into gear and started dieting. 

I look to gain a whole lot more in the future. Losing this little bit of my goal weight is enough to show me that not only am I losing weight and getting healthier, but I'm also changing other aspects of my life to better it. 

I want to dress better now, I want to keep my new shoes cleaner, I want to make sure I smell good.. all of the time, keep my hygiene in order and just overall be a better person.

I am "gaining" more then I am "losing".

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: We all are gaining a lot more than what the scale shows that we are losing. Tell me what you are "gaining".