<human>: We've been dating since the beginning of the year, so this is the first year we've celebrated birthdays together.  He knew when my birthday was and even mentioned it a few weeks before when he asked what I planned on doing.  It's not even that I wanted or expected some large, expensive gift, but even a card would have been nice.  We spent the day together, which was great.

It would be one thing if he just normally didn't exchange gifts for birthdays.  But, his birthday was about a month ago, and he kept saying he wanted something specific for his birthday.  A few days before his actual birthday we were at the store and saw that item, and he asked if I could get it for him as his present.  It wasn't cheap, but I wanted to do something nice for him and it was his birthday, so I bought it.  

To then get nothing on mine just makes me a bit sad.  Then I start thinking I'm being petty over a silly gift and expecting too much.  And, I think that I should have just told him I'd like a gift (though wording that seems weird to me) if I knew it would upset me like this.  I guess I figured that considering we did gifts on his birthday that it would be a given on mine.  Honestly, just a card would have been perfect and I'd have been happy.

Am I just being ridiculous being sad about this and feeling hurt? How can I even bring this up without it sounding like I'm materialistic or being spoiled?  Or, am I being those things?

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<bot>: Boyfriend got me nothing for my birthday though he asked for an expensive gift for his, which I bought.  Not sure if I'm being silly being hurt.