<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

Hey /r/relationships. Here's a quick backstory about Emily and I. We've had a two year relationship where most of it was long distance.  We lived in the same college town for the first six months of our relationship.  Anyways, we had a plan, that in February, we were supposed to both move to New York where I have many job opportunities where I would make a decent middle class living and she has been searching for a job in her field with no luck so far.

Just as a related side note, she has massive debt - credit cards, student, and bank loans.  They're being paid off slowly, but surely with the job she currently has in her hometown, and she's getting by on a decent wage - it's retail, not her field, but it's a decent paying retail job.  She lives with her parents who charge her a bit of rent, but nothing compared to what we would pay in New York.

The main reason she gave for breaking up with me and not wanting to move is that she doesn't want to be financially dependent on me to pay for her rent / food / going out, etc. (which I would do in a heartbeat if it meant she would be with me) while she finds herself a job, which may take some time.  At the same time, she doesn't want to keep going in a relationship where we will always be long distance.

I love her to pieces. I've planned a future around this girl. I've tried for the past month or so to try to get her to move, or to consider moving after a while, but she says that I don't understand. At the same time, she says she still loves me and she's struggling with not dropping everything and just coming with me, but she says she can't live like that.

Basically what I'm asking you, /r/relationships, is what can I do?  I want to save this relationship, but I can't live in her hometown, there are no jobs there, and she won't come with me to New York.
<bot>: Girlfriend dumps me because she doesn't want to be financially dependent on me, should I give up and move on or keep pushing?