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hello! so i have been in a kind of relationship type thing (kinda like exclusive friends with benefit) since like last fall and I really liked it, the guy I am with is nice and fun to spend time with and stuff, but we haven't seen each other in like 4 months at this point. 

we used to hang out a lot, but for some reason we just haven't recently. sometimes we plan stuff but he has ended up not being able to make it when the time comes, which is totally cool and I understand, but after it has happened like 10 times in a row over the past few months I'm afraid he might be trying to give a hint or want to cut things off but I am terrible at confrontation. and also, he even made plans sometimes, too, which confuses me. 

he's usually pretty busy and we are a bit far so it could all be chance, but i don't know. i try not to let it affect me, but im down to like 2 or 3 friends that i can actually talk to and things aren't great and eventually I just feel really alone, most people in my life don't even like me. I try not to seem clingy or weird with the relationships I have but its hard sometimes

I'm also going off to college soon so i probably want to break up (on good terms) anyways just because distance will make it impossible.

How do I break things off without seeming cold or mean?
<bot>: haven't seen partner in months, think he might be losing interest but unsure, and leaving for college. how and when should I break up?