<human>: We've known each other for a year now and have been dating since October. He has been living with the roommate for a little over a year and a half. Roommate is currently in a on-again off-again relationship with one of their classmates.

He swears he has only called me her name 3 times (he doesn't always realize when it has happened, it's more in the 5-7 range) but also states he sometimes calls her my name.  Admittedly I am sensitive about the issue as I have been cheated on in every relationship I have been in. Compounding the insecurity is that he has expressed his interest in high heels, hoop earrings, edgy makeup, and feminine clothing.  I'm a more outdoorsy girl who has a tendency to create my own unconventional makeup techniques and am unable to wear tall high heels after I broke my ankle in a climbing accident. My nails are always a mess and my hair is unruly. And I'm short. On the other hand his roommate always has impeccable nails, flawless makeup, fashionable accessories, tall, and is dressed in current fashions. Not to mention her hair. Oh, what I would do for her hair.

I can't even begin to count the number of times my boyfriend has made a comment on my nails ("We should really paint your nails" so. sick. of it.), asked me to wear heels, or stated that he really wants to me go back to my natural hair color and original length.  At the same time though he always states I'm super sexy and that I could wear anything/have any hair style and he'd still find me super sexy. Seriously, whenever we spend time together he tells me I'm beautiful at a minimum 4 times. Talk about confusing signals.

He states that he has no feelings for his roommate and says that she is not attractive to him for a multitude of reasons, but only ended up stating her weight (she is overweight but in my opinion she carries it well). Whenever he calls me her name though it is like a dagger to the heart. So am I being overly sensitive or is there an underlying emotional attachment going on?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Boyfriend repeatedly calls me his female roommates name. I feel she embodies what he finds attractive, more so than me. Need outside opinion so I don't get duped in another relationship.