<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

(Sort of an edited crosspost from TwoX.)

I go to a private university. Dating wasn't my first priority in earlier years, so I just recently started foraying into the world of dating/sex. I have not found many (barely any, none available) romantic prospects from classes, clubs, or parties. I don't party much. Very sparse frat connections and the ones I do get to are really lame. So I've tried online/app dating and had moderate success, but no relationships.

I met with 2 matches who actually attended my school (These are just the two dudes I've met -from my school-. I have gone on more casual dates, some which only lasted one date, maybe about 10 guys total.) Both of them met me, kissed me, and then told me it felt "artificial" to be intimate with someone they met on a dating site because the were used to meeting people in classes, etc. and didn't want to continue with me (not referring to a relationship. Just even continuing the date.) Neither was romantically conservative. The second said he has previously hooked up with cute girls he had classes with, and then not wanted a formal relationship with afterward.

I don't really know how to let this go. I'm really not sure if it was something I did - lack of chemistry, not attractive enough - or if I'm being more self conscious than necessary. I feel angry that guys expect intimacy before, but then not after, and I feel like I'm becoming a man-hater trying to figure it out by myself :(
<bot>: I think I'm starting to objectify boys because even the sleazier ones I like won't hook up with me.