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Hey Guys. Short story here. 

Been together for almost 4 years now. And last week I said something she took as disrespectful. I told her "you dont listen to me" out of anger and she took it as I was trying to control her and she told me she felt disrespected. This was early last week and since then she has been extremely distant. We went for a walk outside and she would talk to me, but not much. She told me today that she does not feel like cuddling or anything like that. I have told her I would hope she would be honest if she knew if this a deal breaker in the relationship and she said "why wouldnt I?" so I dropped it. 

I also moved across the country from my place of origin to be with her (we live together) and I dont know if she really wants to be in this anymore and may be afraid of what I would have to go through to get my life back together. She has NEVER been like this in the relationship. We have had arguments and we have maybe gone a day without talking, but nothing this long and this extreme. I am not worried about her seeing or talking to anyone else, she is extremely loyal and honest. I do want this relationship to work and will do whatever I have to in order to move past this, but I dont know if she is willing to make the same sacrifice.
<bot>: Disrespected my fiancee, now has been a week of short answers, evasive conversations, and no physical interaction. Unsure of how to proceed