<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

So my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months, and I really didn't notice this at first, but I feel like our roles are reverse. I seem to be the overly emotional, I need attention from you, "girlfriend" in the relationship. She seems to be the type where she doesn't seem to care as much, and doesn't seem to care about giving me attention or doing things for me.

I literally do everything for this girl, and I don't ask for much. I know she loves me, I love her too. It's just I hate being this way where I'm always trying hard and I feel like I have to contain my feelings or she just gets mad at me. She feels like I complain too much that she's not overly emotional and that she's not a typical girl. She wants me to take it as a blessing, but I want her to show more emotion and I've explained this, but she says she's always been that way.

I really don't know what to do. Should I try and just not care, like try and not go out of my way to do things for her anymore? I really hate being the "girl" stereotype in this relationship but I love her so much I can't seem to stop doing things even though she never reciprocates. If I stopped being lovey dovey, wouldn't I be doing it out of spite and for the wrong reason? I feel like I'm the only one trying for us, like it seems like she doesn't care. I feel like I have to do all the work and I have to be the one that is always the one coming back and ending arguments and stuff. Sometimes, I almost think she has intimacy anorexia, where I know she loves me but holds back on purpose?

I could really use some insight on this topic, thanks.
<bot>: Roles are switched in our relationship. I seem to be the girl (emotional) and she seems to be the guy (doesn't care, cool).