<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

So I commission into the army on May 10 2014 as a field artillery officer, and I am so proud of what I have accomplished. I am from a senior military college and fell in love with a girl in my major unit. After a year of dating she said our paths are about to separate and broke my heart saying she can not trust me with all of the rumors going around the battalion, even after I said I would go wherever she would go through the national guard. It has been four months since then and we are dating again after finding out I will not go to my first unit in a year, the biggest question I have is should I continue to see her? She is not in the military and I feel like after she has been dumped by a fiance and her father died (who she never knew) that she will never love me the way I love her. I feel like she truly does want to be with me but she is scared of commitment and afraid of a military life. What should I do?
<bot>: I am a cadet who is stuck in active reserve with a women who did not expect me to stay here for a year and now is confused about our relationship and I feel like she is leading me on