<human>: I've been with my bf for 4 months. He has a full-time job while I'm graduating next May. I'll very likely move across the country for a dream job in a big city. My bf has been living in the suburb his whole life so he's not sure about living in a big city. He also doesn't like his current job and is applying but he's having trouble getting interviews (while I'm not). His 3 priorities in life are family, gf and work - which makes me think that he won't be moving across the country with me and living so far away from his family (~3000 miles). 

Also he said he'll get married around 30. Since I'm an international student I'd like to get married a bit earlier because a green card would help me get jobs easier (many companies don't hire intl student) and I can help sponsor my family. I'm not sure if this is important though, cause I'd like to get a green card on my own, but this is just to show how different we're. Other than that, we are super compatible and he's a wonderful bf. 

What should I do? Talk to him? I don't wanna scare him away. Or break up cause things probably won't change? Or just go with the flow?

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<bot>: I'm graduating next year and will move across the country for a dream job. Bf doesn't like big city and wants to live near his family. What now?