<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

I feel like my privacy has been violated. I have never cheated or done anything like that. She and I switched from a very close relationship last year to a quasi long distance this year (2 hours apart.) We've been dating for a little over a year. The past 3 months have been long distance and we've been fighting a lot. She has become more emotionally dependent since the move apart, and I've been busy settling into grad school.

I really like her and care about her. I didn't tell her that I was getting drinks with my high school girlfriend because we had been fighting a lot that week and I didn't want to add onto it for something stupid. My old girlfriend and I are strictly plutonic friends now and there's absolutely nothing there. Further, I don't feel that I should have to tell my girlfriend what I'm doing with whom at all times. I have never cheated I her, or done anything like that. Am I wrong?

How should I respond to her going through my messages. I'm so pissed right now.
<bot>: girlfriend is insecure after switching to a long distance relationship. She went through my text messages and I feel that my privacy has been invaded