<human>: What should I do if my partner is being abusive?
<bot>: If your partner is being abusive, the first step is to try to talk to them about it. Try to explain how their behavior makes you feel and ask for a change in their behavior. If they are not willing to listen or change, then you may need to consider leaving the relationship. You can also contact local resources such as domestic violence shelters or counseling services for support and advice.