<human>: Sorry this is very long winded,

I need some advice, and hopefully some others around here have dealt with the same issues. My Son is quirky, and meets a lot of the signs for autism, but nothing definitive. My Wife and I took him to a child neurologist to be evaluated and the doctor was fairly sure he was not autistic but had a sensory disorder. He is 6 years old and in kindergarten. Anyhow the school is convinced he is autistic and has been very aggressive in wanting to diagnose him. He has been in a few special classes to help with some issues, handwriting and occupational therapy for being having tightened calves from toe walking. 

We met with the school yesterday to what we thought was an update to his progress. They had for some reason a legal representative in the meeting and several teachers. And it was not in regards to just how he has been doing. It was a full press convincing on how they think he is autistic and wants him to be evaluated by the school. My Wife told them the neurologist really felt he was not autistic, and they said "he has educational autism".  What…?  Anyhow he excels in his studies, he is way above his grade level in everything they have taught and even the kids come to him for help. How could he have educational autism, does that even exist?

Now to be very honest my wife and I could care less if he is in fact autistic. We are not becoming defensive because of denial. We actually always knew he was a kind of quirky. We took him to see a doctor to find out on our own. However it seems the school is trying very hard to find some spectrum of autism to push him into. And they have becoming more relentless. Pressured we went ahead and said OK. We figured at worst he would get more help if needed and teachers would be more understanding.

Now we are regretting it, we worry he will be stigmatized and carry it through the rest of his life. We feel almost guilty.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: School is trying very hard to diagnose our son as autistic, even when a neurologist feels he isn't. We are confused on how to handle this, or if it even is that big a deal.