<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

My boyfriend and I have been fighting about this. 

My boyfriend and I just got home from visiting my father. The moment we got into the house, Eric started yelling at me. He told me the idea of being in a relationship with me and my weird family was causing him a head ache. 

He was upset because I insisted on getting to the airport 3 hours early. 

I don't see why its any different waiting at home vs. the airport. At least waiting at the airport, I will know exactly when my flight will be and can account for any mess ups. 

He told me I leave too early, that my punctuality is the joke of all our friends, and I never let anything go wrong. So pretty much that I am weird and controlling, even though I don't try to control him. He said it was abusive and while he respected how fucking organized I can be, he hated it. 

Eric seems to think it is and wants me to "go with the flow more." However, I feel like his way is just lazy a lot of the time and does not work for me. I want to spend less time on meal prep and more on living. All my easy tasks allow me more time to go for walks, less time in the office, less money spent on things I am not passionate about and more towards travel and books. 

I just wonder if this relationship isn't working or if I have some sort of problem I just don't see?
<bot>: boyfriend mad because I like to be early, make my meals ahead of time, and thinks I have mental control problems because of it.