<human>: My boyfriend(m/21) and I(f/18) have been fighting a lot recently. We've been dating for a year and a half, and have known each other for 4.

I keep getting upset because I feel neglected. We've talked about it, and he understands and is going to try to make me feel less neglected. I shouldn't feel this way, but I have some abandonment issues and don't have many people who love me in my life. I therefore put a lot of pressure on him to be there for me and help me get through things. I understand a boyfriend is supposed to do this, but I feel like I do it too much. 

I have multiple questions for anyone willing to help. How do I stop putting so much pressure on him, without emotionally hurting myself by keeping it in? What can the both of us do to make me feel less neglected(we're not very good at solutions, and yes we've talked about it)? And lastly, what are some cheap date ideas?

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: I put too much emotional pressure on my boyfriend, and I shouldn't. I also constantly feel neglected, but I am not. How do I fix these?