<human>: Hey /r/relationships

I'm an 18 year old female who has a decent amount of experience with sex and I have recently started dating an 18 year old guy who has none.
Neither of us has any experience with a proper, adult emotional & sexual relationship.
He's shyer than me and has social anxiety which contributes to that. I've made all the moves so far (asking him out, kissing him) but things are moving extremely slowly because I'm also emotionally shy.

My problem is basically is that I've never been with someone who is this physically inexperienced. I don't know how to go about this relationship in a way that I can show and teach him to become more emotionally and sexually confident.
I don't know how to make someone feel safe about the emotional sides of progressing sexually and being forward without feeling awkward and scared.

I know that I'm going to have to lead us in the beginning, but I don't know how to do it in a way that will allow us to achieve a balance later on: I don't want it to turn into something where I always initiate and he just goes with it. I want him to be open about his desires and worries, but I feel there is this awkwardness between us preventing us talking about it: I feel like we're just not comfortable enough with each other yet for me to be able to confront him about all of this. And even if I did, telling, I feel, will not have its full effect unless I show him too, and I'm just not sure how to go about it. I'm new to this too.

 It might be a different story if he had gone through this with someone else before and that he is just shy, not inexperienced, but that's not the case.
So anyway, can you guys help me out a little or offer some advice?

Thanks for reading!

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<bot>: I'd really rather that you read my post, but how do I progress in this relationship with someone who is completely inexperienced and shy?