<human>: I don't know what to do here… A bit of backstory about me and my dating experience.  I dated one woman for about 2 years and looking back is was not healthy at all so my ideas of dating are gone to shit.  I am ad addict and I attend AA and I think that is interfering with my dating life in the aspect of if I like something I want it every second. (over 5 years sober btw)

To the story…

I told myself I would not do online dating as I hate explaining myself to people through text and telling them everything about me before we meet.  I feel like it takes the fun out of it.  So I was single for about 8-9 months and had not even been with a woman.  I told myself I'm waiting for the right woman to come into my life.  She did, we met at work (she does not work with me but in the same building).  She is perfect and I really enjoy spending time with her.

Here is where I need help on what to do.

I want to spend time with her outside of work, we see each other every day but we only see each other like 1-2 times a week outside the office. I know this is going to sound stupid but I am usually a busy person and I am a huge hockey fan, but it is off season for sports right now for me so I have way to much time on my hands and don't want to look so eager.  She is an Controller for a big accounting company and works about 70 hours a week.  Then she has a really close family who she sees all the time and I feel like I'm around for when she has nothing to do, like a side toy.
In her defense she told me all this beforehand and I was ok with it.  She is great and I love being around her and talking with her.  I do think she is worth the wait.

just want to let you guys know I'm ADD and Dyslexic so take it easy on me.

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: How do I manage my own expectations going forward and not feel let down when she cancels plans or has other valid plans that come first?