<human>: 2011 was made up of me not knowing if I was going to graduate, then surprising myself by graduating, then enrolling for University at the last minute, then going to University. I've made lots of new friends, and met the most amazing girl I've ever had the grace of knowing. We've become very close friends in the last three months to the point where we talk everyday. 

However, there's competition for this girl. She's having very conflicted feelings towards a guy she met when she was at a family friends house and her best friend back home. She keeps telling me, who is very very deep in the friendzone at this point, that she feels like she's not going to end up with either of them. She's under quite a bit of stress because of these guys, and for me, instead of trying to make her like me, I'm just trying to be the best friend I can be to her. 

However as a big fan of both her and the office, I wish to become a champion of the friendzone, much like Jim. I know the way to do this is to become more attractive to her while I keep being the best friend I can possibly be to her.

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<bot>: So, Reddit, what are some tips you can give me on becoming a more determined, goal-setting type of person?