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My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 years, I have known him for a total of five years. We get into arguments, usually, over insensitive, and immature comments he makes towards myself, or other people. In general, whatever he thinks, he says, without much filter. I have realized that he usually does this to get a reaction out of me, and usually just ignore it. However, yesterday he said something that I couldn't ignore. We were in the car listening to the radio when a news story ran that talked about a child abuse case that happened in a local school district. I apologize for any details that may be gross, but briefly, the story was that a teacher, among other disgusting acts, blindfolded young students, and fed them his semen, and took pictures. I was of course disgusted, and said how horrible that was, and expressed my sympathy for the kids that went through the abuse. My boyfriends response, was less sympathetic, to say the least. He basically said that those kids were stupid to allow that to happen to them, and questioned why they didn't know what they were being "fed" and why didn't they just say no. 

Of course I was absolutely appalled. I told him they were just children, and that it is never ok to blame the victim. he responded that if it were him in the same situation, he would have known what was going on and not allowed it to happen. I know this is absurd, and that these children were abused. It doesn't matter whether they knew what was going on or not, they had something horrible happen to them. 

I don't know what to make of this, and I fear that he would use this same logic with me should I ever have something happen to me that he deems to be preventable. I hope that I am not making a big deal over nothing, but this certainly left me with an unsettled feeling.
<bot>: boyfriend victim blamed children in a sexual abuse case, I don't feel right about what he said and worry he may use the same logic with me.