<human>: new women in my life has a 9 month old with an ex husband, only about a month in, my thoughts on this when she asked how I felt we're 'lets give it a shot' , roll with it right? I don't hate children, I wasn't planning on having my own anytime soon but, try something new, so she's awesome, so far so good between us, finally got to see the little one, calm kid, good natured no real problems there.

But, my initial instinct, before deciding 'wtf lets try it out' was that this was a bad idea , i'm 27/m , we're both students, with jobs but, even after meeting the little one and getting along real well I still just don't feel it. What 'it' is I can't really say.

I'm trying to give this a fair hearing but, this isn't just a womens heart I might break, what If it goes well for another 3 years and then I end up resenting the child and projecting that to her? what if we fall apart but its 4 years down the road and i've been playing dad during those crucial early years?

I could man up if it was my own genetics on the line but this is definitely a new situation for me, I'm trying to not act selfishly. 

Do I cut it off before things get more emotionally involved between us?

should i weigh up the good with the bad? 

Should i listen to that voice saying 'get out' or just compromise?

 Or should i give myself the chance to meet my ideal girlfriend? 

does questioning wether or not i'm ready for this basically mean i'm not? 

anyone with relevant experience , any help appreciated...

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<bot>: new women has kid from ex, our relationships great, went in with reservations about this, met the little one who is awesome, still have a bad feeling about it.