<human>: My wife has confronted me and explained that she feels empty with our relationship. Some background - we have 3 children 5, 4 and 11m. I work fulltime while she has been at home with the kids / studying.    

 

She has been down with depression which I think she has had longer than she has lead on, she had issues with body image and had since been mad into fitness. I feel I went wrong where I would annoy her with trying to get affection and continually be turned away with varied excuses and I had decided to give her space and time she would ask for attention when she was in the right frame of mind.

 

This act created distance and I filled my time with computer and Skype with friends - my second mistake is I was too involved to see she had become comfortable with herself and her image again from her hard work exercising and eating well but I missed all the queues and created yet more distance and a dislike of my hobby come addiction.

 

She had become untrusting of my time and who I would talk to and would check over my personal things facebook, phone etc as she become fearful I was not being faithful.

 

The change- I love to see my wife happy and have always been supportive of her choices. I now know where I need to change to try and repair us. Clearly cut down computer time, try to talk more and have more 1 on 1 time with her away from the kids. I want this to work for myself and my children.

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<bot>: my wife refused attention from low selfesteem, I found a new outlet for my attention which I gave too much time to inturn ignoring her reaching out to me once she was in a better place.