<human>: The relationship is healthy and amazing, but I know that we are moving in opposite life directions. I want to move back to where I'm from, she wants to stay settled here. I'm going to be going to grad school within the next two years, which will probably be out of state from where we're living, while she will still be in undergrad. It's so difficult facing the reality of the situation, because I really love her and don't want to end things, but looking into the future I know that I'm just dragging this on until the inevitable happens. I'm not sure how to go about this.

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<bot>: In a great relationship, but our futures are conflicting, not sure what to do/how to end things as painlessly as possible.