<human>: I'm gonna keep this pretty short and sweet as I'm not exactly sure how helpful detail can be, but I'll add as much as I think is necessary.

Basically, I have this problem where I seem to obsess over every love interest I have. When I meet a girl and I think I like her, I cannot get her out of my mind. It's my goal to meet her, learn about her, get to know her. I'll sit in my room, and if it's been long enough, I'll whip up theoretical scenarios where I ask this girl out or maybe even sexual fantasies (sexual fantasies are much less so now as I've actually stopped watching porn/masturbating).

Then I'll talk it up to my friends that there's this potential girl I like but I don't wanna reveal to anyone that I like this girl because I'm afraid she may not like me back or this or that. Yet I'll continually chat it up to people that I like this girl!

This is a cycle I've been going through since middle school, really. I guess my life has been mostly chasing girls since I've hit puberty. My question is, is this normal? Should I be attempting to divert my attention to other things? Is this obsessive behavior okay? Should I be worried?

If you need any more details, I'm willing to explain further, but I thought this might suffice for the purpose of my questions.

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<bot>: I obsess over girls, and they're always in my mind and always in my conversations. I'm not a sleazebag, I just usually pick a girl and pursue it until I move on to the next girl.