<human>: So, I always describe myself as socially awkward and a very private person. I don't pick up on cues very well and prefer directness. I also prefer having outings planned out. An example: I say no to "Work's over, let's go get drinks" and yes to "Let's get drinks after work tomorrow". 

Right now, I have a potential love interest [32/M] that doesn't seem to understand. He keeps asking me if I want to go to dinner, but refuses to pick the place. I live close to where he works and he decided to text that he was right outside and wanted to see me. I was drooling on my pillow, sleeping for my night shift tonight, so I didn't answer the door, but I probably wouldn't have answered anyway. I sat down with him a few days ago and said I do better if he makes more choices as I have no clue what I'm doing. His response was "I want to do the things you enjoy, that make you happy" and didn't believe me when I said I was happier if he chooses. Now, I get the feeling he is trying to fix me by loosening me up.

I don't know if things will continue with this guy, but it brings somethings about myself into the open. Am I expecting too much with wanting a guy to take more of the desicions? Am I rude for wanting people to plan things out in advance? I like structure and plans, and will change them, if given enough warning.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Is it okay that I prefer to have the majority of my social interactions planned out in advance, or am I too rigid?