<human>: My boyfriend works in a very small company with another man who is engaged to be married. They are close work colleagues and do hang out on occasion outside of work. I've met his fiancee a few times and I like her--she's a good person!

She's getting married in August at a very small venue. I understand they are on a budget, so it's family + close friends only. I guess we didn't make the cut, but that's understandable.

For the last year, we've been invited to their engagement party, her bridal shower, and their bachelor/bachelorette parties. Each time, their Macy's registry has been at the forefront of every event. We are **not**, however, invited to the wedding due to "space."

I can't help but feel a little offended by it, but I'm not sure if I should be. I really do understand budget weddings are tough, but I also feel like it's offensive to invite us to all these other events when we aren't even celebrating their day with them. I'm a bit more offended because all of these events are very gift-heavy/money-heavy ($500 bachelor party, anyone?)...

Am I in the wrong?

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Boyfriend and I are invited to all the pre-wedding events where gifts are expected, but not to the wedding itself.