<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

I (28F) was being abused from Nov 2007 until my escape in April 2011. We have a daughter together, who I was pregnant with when the abuse began. I was hormonal and vulnerable because she is my one and only and I didn't want to be a single mother, so I put up with it. I have scars from both the first time he put his hands on me, and the last time. I can't rehash all the details right now because I am so wrapped up in my own mind I may have a psychotic break.

As of today, I have been away from him for exactly 17 months. I have permanent damage because the last three days I was alone with him, I was locked in the bedroom getting punished for having cheated on him. My left eye has a permanent black floater and occasional flashes of bright white light that has been told to me that is my retina partially detaching; I have clinical impingement in my right shoulder that causes pain from my left shoulder blade, up my neck and down my arm into my fingers; my ribs ache every time I try and get out of a partial sitting position. I still have nightmares nightly, and paranoia that he is outside my door.

Here is my main frustration today, aside from the PTSD, I cannot get his current whereabouts so that I can divorce his sorry ass. He is currently being "treated" to regain competency for trial, and I have been "advised" that it would be a bad idea because it may disturb him too much and remain incompetent. I hate that state.
<bot>: the state is keeping me from getting divorced because he may get too disturbed and continue to claim he is incompetent to stand trial.