<human>: We've been together for 3 years, married for 1.  
  
For the first 1.5 years of our relationship she was kind and respectful. She acknowledged me as the man of the relationship and I was treated as such. I personally require this responsibility of leadership of the relationship in order to be happy in life.   
  
After a bad business venture lasting about a year, during which she was away from her family, we were working every day, not getting much income, and other stresses, she transformed. She transformed into a pseudo-dominant bitch. At this point in life when she gets mad (which is literally at everything I do or say, because LOGICAL thinking and RESPONSIBILITY seem to both piss her off.) she will not hesitate to tell me to fuck off right to my face or to shut up.  
  
I cannot tolerate this much longer. Most of the time we get along fine, we laugh and joke. But she's never more than 3 seconds from a bipolar bitchfit.  
  
99% of our fights come from her wanting to spend money on something (like eating out for the 10th time this week) and me expressing my opinion that we don't have the money and shouldn't. We don't have much money and we really haven't all our relationship but unfortunately her upbringing has her living in a dream world where money grows on trees. I am a very logical thinker, I do not make decisions based on emotion. This made me a fine leader of the relationship. Now with her new self, we butt heads about everything in this "power struggle" about decision making.   
  
  
Is there any recovery from this?   
  
I don't understand how two socially dominant people (which she absolutely is not, it's an act. Akin to a toddler at the wheel of a car) can function in a relationship.   
  
Is there any hope of regaining my manhood and respect in this relationship? if so, how?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: wife has transformed into insta-bitch. I have lost masculinity and respect in relationship and don't know how to recover the reins.