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Hi everyone! I would like to be advised on a needy friend of mine. Basically we work together in one of my jobs (I have 2). We became really good friends shortly after I first started a couple of years ago and we have a lot in common. I have noticed she can be incredibly clingy and jealous though! A few examples are when I sent her a message letting her know I had came down with a horrible case of norovirus and I couldn't hang out that weekend - I woke up to more than 30 text messages from her saying how sad she was I couldn't come out and how much she had looked forward to it. She tried to force me to cancel mine and my husbands 3rd anniversary plans we had another weekend because she wanted me to go out drinking and again, I received a lot of messages begging me to cancel and just do something with him another weekend. She asked me to quit one of my paying jobs in order to spend more time with her and lastly she threw a tantrum because a mutual friend and I went out and had some coffee whilst she was at work - the only reason she knew was because we texted her and invited her to join us when her shift ended. She explained she felt jealous and she wasn't happy about it because she wasn't expecting it and we arranged to see her a few days later. Our mutual friend could not come because she was subjected to domestic abuse and this woman went in a huff again saying that she wasn't happy as she was looking forward to spending time with us - I still went out. I know that cutting her out is the logical option but we do work together and I do genuinely like her when she isn't behaving this way. Talking to her about it would result in the toys being chucked out of the pram. I just don't understand where the needy, jealous behaviour has sprung up from in the past 6 months. Any advice?
<bot>: friend is needy and jealous. Doesn't like me spending time with others. Once asked me to cancel anniversary plans with S/O, quit my job and sent 30+ text messages whilst I was sleeping.