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I'm kind of a neurotic person. I have anxiety and tend to micromanage a lot to try and control it. Its something I'm conscious of and constantly working on fixing in myself. Just making a note of this.

Anyways, I'm currently deployed. 7 months down, 2 months left (hopefully). My wife, Clara, is back home, and, after a series of events (not cheating, but lying I'm not happy about), my trust in her has been devastated. Our relationship is rocky because of it, and the distance doesn't help at all. We've agreed that we won't give up on the marriage because we both love each other very much, we've both made mistakes and are both still growing, and we shouldn't give up until we've at least given it a final shot when I'm home (and tried couples counseling),

But, that doesn't do anything about my fractured trust in the mean time. Clara recently turned 21, so she's started going out and drinking/bar hopping/etc with her friends. It makes me very uncomfortable, especially because when I was back home she never liked going out or anything like that (granted in her defense, she was underage). She has a history of abusing alcohol and making bad choices when drinking before she was 21, and last night she got drunk off her ass and spent an hour sitting in front of a toilet throwing up. 

This, compounded with my lack of trust, puts me in a bad position. I want to tell her that I don't want her going clubbing/out to bars again until I get home. I don't care if she hangs out with her friends in different environments, but I don't appreciate her behavior.

My question is; is telling her not to do these things being too controlling? I'm really self conscious about it and can't tell if I'm being reasonable or not.
<bot>: Deployed husband isn't happy with his wife's behavior, and doesn't want her barhopping or going out drinking, but is worried he's being controlling by making this demand