<human>: I grew up in a boarding home for eight years until I graduated high school, now I moved back home with my mother for college since its close to school, so I value independence a lot. My mom micromanages all my action because I messed up going to college once, but now I picked myself up and am doing great in school but my mom treats me like Im a toddler, ready to mess up anytime. 

Personally, I'm a tolerating person so I usually never get angry but once I reach the breaking point I'll get really mad for a short while. Whenever I voice my discomfort to my mom casually she just brushes my feelings aside and now I'm reaching my breaking point and seriously stressed ( I didn't realize until I was getting agitated by everything and becoming a different person).I know if i get angry and lash out, it'll feel great but it'll be damaging to the relationship and I love my mom. How do make her respect my independence,privacy and responsibility for school work without lashing out.

Also I work part time, have an internship and go to school, besides shelter and tuition, I have not taken a cent from parents since I got a job at 18

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<bot>: How do I get micromanaging mom to respect my independence and privacy in a respectable way, stress is building up in me