<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

I[31/m] just lost, big time! In a custody trial to my Ex wife [43/f]. I'm angry, I'm male, and custody is female dominated (I can only figure this is the reason I lost so badly). Anyway, moving on I am broke now I can't begin to afford to appeal. But the situation is that my Ex wife is in full control of visitation but I'm on the hook financially My lawyer says he has seen nothing like it. I posted to legal advice when my Ex started hitting me with bullshit. She called the cops on my many times and accused me of everything she could think of. I came out on top of every accusation but when it came to custody trial I got hammered with all her lies and the judge would not allow any evidence from the dismissed (bullshit) charges she brought against me. I got fucked, my lawyer agrees, and it is clear. But I'm told that is the way of things so I should just give in.
The situation is that my Ex is dangerous. I've been the only one to take care of the kids. She doesn't mean for them to get hurt but she can't stand being with them. So any boyfriend or neighbor that is willing to 'babysit' is a godsend in her mind. Her current boyfriend is molesting my daughter, when I called Child Protective Services I got in trouble instead. I can't make complaints against them without looking like I'm retaliating. I don't know what to do, I've talked to 3 lawyers and the cops and everyone says that because I was recently fucked by the court, anything I do to try to protect them is going to get me charged with harassment. I am looking for resources that will help my children first then help me be a part of their lives.
<bot>: My Ex Wife won at court so now that the kids are being abused it looks like I'm retaliating when I report it. I don't know what to do.