<human>: We've been dating for two and a half years. Lived together for two. Around the year mark the honeymoon phase dwindled out and sex slowed to once or twice a week. Not my decision. I would try to initiate and he would shrug me off most of the time. He never initiates and it's taken a toll on my self-esteem.

He says that he isn't as sexually driven as I am and he doesn't feel comfortable initiating, but I have a hard time believing it when he masterbates at least once a week, maybe more for all I know. Lately it's gotten to the point that we only have sex once maybe every two weeks. It's still great sex when we do have it. Tonight I went to use the bathroom after he had "pooped" only to find a pair of the underwear he uses to masterbate in with a fresh jizz stain. I'm on my period, but he is fully aware that I enjoy giving oral.    

Other than this part of our relationship, everything is great. We're close and have pretty open communication, well except this evidently. We've been through a lot as a couple and have handled a lot of issues as a team so it really isn't easy for me to just "break up and move on." I'm upset and I don't really know what to do about this issue anymore. I've told him how I feel and nothing has changed. I guess I could use some advice, r/relationships. What would you do?

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<bot>: Boyfriend masterbates more than we have sex. Just found his cumrag in the bathroom while I've been home the whole time.