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Hi R/dating_advice, i need help. Theres a girl [18] who I [18] have completely fallen for, in my eyes we are a perfect couple both athletes with all the same interests, i'm her closest friend/role model etc. about a month ago we hung out and we started to get really close and i got a major signal that maybe she has an interest in me, however when i spoke to her she responded with she doesn't want a relationship just wants to go on dates. 

  My problem is that I feel we are a perfect match and i hate to just let her go i've tried everything like just forgetting about it but i keep thinking and thinking, basically i need help either getting over her or a way of opening her mind to give me a chance.
<bot>: the girl of my dreams has been leading me on and doesn't want to date, and i want to change her mind both of us are 18 yrs old.