<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Throwaway for various reasons.

I have been talking to this girl, lets call her J. J is a really pretty, sweet, and very religious girl. There is nothing wrong being very religious, do what makes you happy. I just am not as religious as she is. Anyway, we start talking at the beginning of July. We go on a date, and I really like this girl. We started going out roughly a month ago. At first, I really enjoyed it - but now it just seems... off. 

When we hang out, it is mostly just us sitting there and not doing too much. Maybe watch a movie or talk, but that's about it. She never really gets excited to see me. I sometimes get excited to see her. 

This may be due to the fact that a lot of people tried to tell her and I about why we should date. I don't mind a little input from people, but holy moly - literally everybody had a comment or tried to make it happen. It really bothered me and I honestly feel like we got rushed into it. I have been trying to get over my ex, who broke up with me in May, and there is still a lot of stuff that bothers me. 

I have been thinking about breaking up with her for a few days now, just because I don't feel like I am ready for this kind of commitment yet. I don't know how I would tell her without her being just completely crushed. Any ideas Reddit?
<bot>: Started talking to, and eventually dating a girl. She is really nice and pretty, but I don't think I need to be in a relationship yet. What should I do?