<human>: I'm a 29yr old guy that's been married for 7 and been together for 8. 
My wife is 33, and we have 2 young children, 4 and 1. We moved in together after only 3 or 4 months, and we also got married early after only being together for 1 1/2 years. 

At the time, I didn't know anything. I didn't know what love was or what life is. I just knew what was "expected" out of you. Fast forward to now. I have a decent entry level career in IT. She has a great career. Our kids are great. We have a house. We have the "American Dream". Yet, I find no happiness from it. We've tried therapy on several occasions, both as a couple and individually.

What makes it worse, is that I serendipitously met someone who is great. I've never known what happiness is until I've met this person. True happiness, nothing sexual. Just the feeling of enjoying this person wholely. I've NEVER had this from my wife ever. Not even when we first were together. I'm about to turn 30. I've heard so many stories from people who say that they wake up when they are 50 and realize that they squandered their whole life. I do not want to do that, but having kids and an expensive house together makes things difficult. I love my wife as a person. She is a great mother. I just can't see myself being truly happy with her for the rest of my life, regardless of new person. At a minimum, the new person opened my eyes. Any advice is much appreciated. I'm going to see my therapist later because I haven't eaten in two days, and this is killing me inside.

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<bot>: got married too early. have wife and kids. marriage is nothing more than a business. tried therapy. recently realized i need happiness or i'm going to go crazy.