<human>: I am terrified of relationships. I am terrified of emotional and physical intimacy.

 I have lots of unfinished business with past sexual and emotional trauma and I am on the tail end of recovering from an eating disorder. 

So, lots of personal problems.

I've been seeing this girl for a while now. We have gotten physical only insofar as making out, but we agreed to just keep doing what we're doing and communicate comfort levels as well as keeping the option open to develop our relationship further. 

This girl is amazing. She is talented, pretty, we trust one another. There is literally NOTHING WRONG with this relationship, and yet I shy away from it.

 I find myself being passive aggressively avoidant and I get anxious.
It's my own fucking problems keeping me from just going on with this, and I don't want her to get the brunt of it. I am just not sure what to do.

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<bot>: my personal issues are hampering a relationship progressing; can't decide if i should proceed with dating or work on myself first.