<human>: So basically we have been dating for almost 7 months now. She's my first relationship and its been pretty amazing. I love her with all my heart and when were together I think she feels the same way. When were apart however, shell get depressed and call me and say were having problems. Lately she's been telling me I'm too intense for her. That she wants me to change and act differently. I come from a loud and opinionated family. When someone gets in our face we get defensive and while we may not realize it at the time, we start yelliing.  Were emotional. She tells me she feels like she cant talk to me wothout me getting.emotional and shes tired of it. And for the most part i do ok. But sometimes the things she tells me really hurt. Like she is unattracted to me and she doesnt love me anymore becauese of my personality. and while she doesn't want to break up she feels like it wont work. We also both live with our parents. Hers are very conservative and authoritarian and I think a lot of her depression stems from them. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to lose her and she saw she doesn't want to lose me. She also has a history of mental illness. (Bi-polar and depression)

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<bot>: girlfriend says I need to change my personality. am I wrong on thinking that she should accept me for who I am if she loves me?