<human>: I have been with my girlfriend for about a year already. We're doing great and everything, there just seems to be a little problem. Sometimes I feel like there's some things she does that I don't really like and whenever I try to tell her she breaks down crying and feeling sorry for herself which then makes me feel bad about even bringing up the subject. For example the other day I was feeling extremely sad and needed someone to talk to, I called her up and texted her a few times but never got a response. I told her the next day about how I really needed her but she wasn't there for me and that caused her to break down crying which made me feel bad. So how do I get my feeling across without her feeling bad and causing the attention to shift to me taking care of her? I hate to see her cry and feel bad but I also need to be able to get my feeling out. Sorry for the wall of text

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<bot>: I hate to see my GF feel bad/ cry so how do I tell my girlfriend about what I see wrong without her feeling sorry for herself or start crying?