<human>: Two years ago I (34M) lost my fiancé in a car accident caused by a drunk driver. I haven't dated since, due to depression and other obvious reasons. In attempt to achieve some semblance of a normal life, I recently asked out a coworker I have been interested in for a few months.

She agreed to the date, and we had a fantastic time together. For the first time in two years, I felt as though perhaps I was ready to move on. A few hours ago, I went to pay my cable bill and realized that my auto-deposit check from my job had not yet gone through. 99% of the time it is available on Thursday, but once in a while, like today, it will not clear my bank until Friday or Monday.

We started off with lunch, followed by a visit to my favorite bakery, then dinner and a movie and finally DeBrands chocolates. I now have five charges on my bank account that will go through tomorrow, each of which will cost me $35 in overdraft fees.

What was to be a $60 day of new beginnings will now cost me about $200. I was already stretching my account with the first date, and now I am truly fucked.

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<bot>: I didn't check my bank account before a first date, and now I won't be able to afford rent this month.