<human>: I recently broke up with my ex of a decade and just got my divorce finalized. I happened to meet my current man by chance 4 months ago and we had an instant connection. I feel real potential with this guy and see a future wirh him. He seems uncomfortable about my recent divorce and he said he hasn't thought about the future for us yet (marriage) because it's too close to my divorce. I was very hurt by this since he asked me to move across the country to be with him in about 3 months.  We have a very new relationship but we've found a niche that's perfect for us. We're extremely comfortable together and things are great. I love him but we have yet to exchange it verbally. This is where I get anxiety because I felt my ex never fully committed to me and I need my BF to say this to me before I commit to moving. This has caused me to have a meltdown and cry twice in front of him. I would hate to move for a man who may not be totally serious about me. I don't need a ring before I move but it'd be nice to know that I'm more important than "just some girl".  He's adamant that I am but I really need this verbalized. What can I do in this situation? I potentially won't have a job waiting for me in this new place and that is causing a lot of stress for me, although he does not seem to be concerned that I'll remain unemployed. He seems so calm about all this but I'm more and more worried. I believe he loves me but I'm too afraid to say it first on the chance that he doesn't... Im a pretty anxious person so this has been causing me a lot of anxiety recently. Most days I have zero problem moving because he's exactly what I want in a man and life partner. But other days, the anxiety gets the better part of me. What should I do?

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: 3 month relationship, he has to move and asked me to move with him. He hasn't said I love you yet and I'm getting cold feet.