<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

i would mainly want a womens opinion on this but a guys opinion works to, so i wanna tell my friend i like her because im pretty sure she likes me to but i have tryed to tell her in person but this is hard for me so i wanna send a text before saying something like, i have something to tell you before i tell her because i think i would find it easier to commit to tell her when she know that i wanna say something instead of just sitting there can trying to tell her but nothing happends, is this okey or is this a no no ?
<bot>: i would find it easier to commit if i send a text with something like "i have something to tell you" before i tell her i like her, is this okey or is it a nono?