<human>: So a little over a month I have been seeing this guy. We're not friends with benefits as I have met his family (says I am the only the second girl to bring home), but he acts hot and cold towards me. We are sexually active with each other. Recently was his birthday so i decided to make cupcakes for him. I told him I was going to do this as a belated birthday thing. 

He tells me "Well I feel bad." I ask him why he felt bad since I enjoyed making them for him. He responds "Because I'm not ready for cute things. It made me realize the pressure of hooking up. I start to buckle." In all honesty I am not quite sure what he means by that as he didn't answer my phone call or text asking him what he meant. 

Some more info about him: He's been very stressed at school and is overworked with papers and studying. He is also a very solitary type of guy meaning that he could go a week without human interaction. 

I will see him tomorrow and talk to him about it. Will update once I get my answer!

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<bot>: Guy I'm seeing sends me a text saying "Because I'm not ready for cute things. It made me realize the pressure of hooking up. I start to buckle." Not quite sure what this means!