<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

Two days ago my boyfriend and I were in a car accident. He was driving and we got rear ended by somebody going 60+ km/h, both of us are in a lot of pain and he is frustrated/stressed about his car and what is going to happen with that. 

Tonight, we were driving together (I was the passenger again) and we were talking about how we were both pretty nervous about being back in a car and how every time we stopped at a red light or a stop sign we both felt nervous someone was going to slam into us again. At one point I asked him if he could leave a bit more room between us and the car ahead of us and he got really mad at me. He said I was being dramatic and I told him that him saying that hurts my feelings. I didn't criticize his driving nor did I ask him with attitude or anger. I thought it was a reasonable thing to ask/say and he made me feel really shitty for having said anything. I tried talking to him about it when we got home but he only got more mad. Now he's sleeping on the couch and I'm upset because he says pretty hurtful things and calls names when he's angry. 

I don't know what to do and I asked him how I could go about things next time if I feel nervous driving and if how I said things was inappropriate or wrong, but he didn't have an answer for me. Please help or give any advice because I don't want to fight with him but I can't change how I feel.

I have never been in an accident before so it was really scary for me but he has been in a couple other ones, none a nearly as bad as this one though.
<bot>: Boyfriend is mad I asked him to adjust how he was driving after the two of us were in a car accident. Now I don't know how to talk to him or where to go from here.