<human>: I'm staying home for college and he may be leaving. That's not the problem though. 

He has literally nothing planned out. He doesn't know what he plans on majoring in, which is okay because I've heard it's okay to change in the beginning. And he still has no idea what college or career he wants. At all. 

He's also never had a job and doesn't know how to do basic things like cook or barely clean. He just plays video games all day and puts off everything. He's also very smart and good at bsing his way through thing which I keep telling might not work in college. 

My point is that how can I tell him he should try to straighten things out with out being rude or nagging? I've told him before but he just thinks it's whatever. I want him to be prepared for his future. I feel like I struggle putting up with him because I feel like he's lazy and doesn't have real effort for much.

I'm not sure what to do. Advice?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: My boyfriend can't atleast slightly plan out his life and does almost nothing with it and it bothers me. I wanna help him. How do you think I can get the point across?