<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Here is goes, I've been married over 6 years to my wife, and all intents and purposes I love her dearly.  I do have an issue and honestly I think it is an issue on my end.  About two years ago I dramatically shifted my life by leaving IT, where I would work erratic hours and was not sure when money was coming in to baking.  For those who know me this was a good switch but I'm afraid of the impending consequences.  When I started out I was working an overnight shift of 10PM - 6AM would see my wife in the morning and evening when she was home, but when I go into "work" mode she doesn't really like to deal with me as she states I become "weird".  Almost 9 months ago I switch jobs and now I work 3am - 2/3pm and I'm lucky to see her once a week.  So in essence I'm working 48-55 hrs a week at the bakery, plus what additional time I spend on side projects and school (which I've managed to whittle down to two clients but school is gonna need that time so those clients need to disappear in a month).  As time goes on I keep becoming more and more concerned about the state of my marriage, finances (I have debt, 3K in loans and more than I care to post on cards), but I make all the payments on time and I cleared my car and bike.  I'm afraid I'm becoming more and more of a recluse as time passes in which I'm slowly shutting everyone out and I'm turning inward on myself, which I think is the cause of my marriage issues (as in I feel I'm not attractive to my wife and she's secretly looking for something somewhere else like her other sisters did (did I mention paranoia)).  Normally I wouldn't post these things publicly but I made a half dozen phone calls all to voice mails.  Here are the series of questions.

1.  Am I just a workaholic and need to stop, if so how?
2.  Is my lack of love life just a by product of my worries?
3.  Am I just paranoid?
4.  Is this just an end game?
<bot>: Baker works 48-55hr/wk + side clients + school, has worries about wife and needs to figure out what the heck is wrong with him.