<human>: Background: We started dating in October of last year.  By December overnight visits had pretty much turned into my girlfriend & 2 yr old her daughter (from a previous relationship) living with me.  We decided to introduce each other to our families for the holidays. All went well, my family accepted them with open arms.  I met her parents & got along well with her father.

When we first started seeing each other my girlfriend mentioned that her mother was rather unreasonable & that they did not get along well.  Her mother is very rude, cynical, unkempt, does not work, & is rather critical of my girlfriends parenting skills.
My girlfriends mother seems to think I am not good enough for her.  I make the same amount of money per year as my girlfriends father & am half his age.

Regardless, I have to tried to show her mother that I am serious about being with her daughter & helping take care of her granddaughter.  At first I was met with what seemed disinterest. Then typical parent responses like: "you better not do anything to hurt my baby".  It seemed like I was making some progress  until yesterday.

Her parents watched the baby for a few hours while we went to lunch. When we got back to pick her up my girlfriend went inside a fewminutes before I did.  Her mother say "what is going on at that house," "who all lives there?" "The baby is not acting like herself".  However, her mother did not confront me when I came inside.  

None of her mothers accusations are true.  We both make good money & take very good care of the child.  At this point, should I try to "win" her mothers favor or should I start avoiding her?

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<bot>: My girlfriends mother is insinuating that I have some how abused or neglected her 2 yr old granddaughter.  Should I continue to try to win favor with her mother, or cut all contact with her mother?