<human>: The title pretty much explains everything except the fact that I have two kids from a previous relationship. We've been together for a year and a half now and he is pretty much their dad as they don't see their bio father. My bfs family is moving down to Oregon because they have property there and it will be cheaper and easier to move the grandparents in with them. My bf has pretty much no friends here so his family is everything to him. I, on the other hand, only have my parents, but have a ton of friends here as I've never moved more than 20 minutes away from my hometown. My parents are in horrible health and I'm worried if something happens to them. My daughter just started school today at the same elementary school I went to. I have been a member of my church for years and know almost everyone by name. I feel like my boyfriend is having me choose my entire life or him. I am so frustrated. Am I overreacting? Is he expecting too much of me?
I should put that if it came down to it, I'm sure he would choose his family over us and I completely understand why. That's what made him so attractive to me is how family oriented he was. But now I'm starting to see more codependency.

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<bot>: I feel like my boyfriend who is pretty much the stepdad to my kids is making me choose between my entire life or him all because his family is moving to Oregon and he wants to follow them.