<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Alright, so i want to clear this up first, she moved 2 hours away. Not super far, but just far enough that we can't visit eachother very often. she was gone for 10 days, i visited her this past weekend. My initial fear was she'd leave and meet someone she'd llike more than me. well, i doubt that will happen, and she's not exactly having the time of her life.

there's the backstory, and here's what my problem with it is and maybe it's me, maybe i'm in the wrong. So, first idea everyone thinks, just move down there, well that city is terrible, my grandma has maybe a few years left to live(not being cold, it's a reality i, aswell as everyone else has accepted) and I love my grandma more than this girl, that i love VERY much. Now, we live in a town with a great college, like it's a college that people everywhere know(not going to say any names, don't want to give away who i am) but she went to this other one, why, because they have a better program for her major. so she wont transfer back here, and i'm not moving down there. She is basically going to live there after this year, like getting an apartment, etc... 

if anyone asked me advice on this, i'd say you're wasting your time. and that's how i feel about this. I fell in love with this girl, and we've been together two years. She's like family to me, and i don't know what to do without her, but i don't think that i can do the distance (read: neither of us have time to drive two hours, let alone the money for gas, and in my case, new tires to make the trip frequently). 

So reddit, what do you think? 
we love one another, in a way i can't explain in words, but i can't deal with not having her around.
<bot>: love of my life moved away, miss her, can't move to her and she wont move back. breakup or wait 4 years.