<human>: Me and my girlfriend have been in a solid LTR for two years. We're both still in education, live together (with our parents at the moment) but have discussed moving out when we can support ourselves. We have most of the same views on the big things and I'm pretty sure she isn't a bitch. It's still early days to be planning a wedding but we can see ourselves getting married if everything continues to go smooth. Basically everything is great at the moment and it seems solid. We are in agreement about most things...

**BUT**

I really want kids. I would be okay with just one kid if I'm honest. And she hates them. Well she says she hates them. But every now and again she will say she'd have a kid with me in the future (she wants it to be mid thirties, I'm thinking more late twenties) But then she decides against having one because a kid has pissed her off or she just doesn't feel like saying like she would that day. And then she's like "meh, if you want one... Okay."

We've already established that IF this was to happen I would conceive and birth, etc. So we've talked about how it would go down but she keeps giving me mixed signals. As for her apathy sometimes when she 'agrees' I wouldn't want to bring a child into a relationship like that. Both parents would need to be in it 100%. Especially since we're gay and these things can't be unexpected so I cannot actively plan to give my future child a half arsed parent.

Now I'm well aware we are both young but I am serious about this relationship. How early is too early to be worried about this? Is there still leeway for her to change her mind and "come around"? When do I call it quits if there isn't a definite decision made by her? I can't *not* have a kid in my life, that's what I want to do and it's important to me.

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<bot>: I want a kid(s). Girlfriend doesn't. And then she does sometimes. And then she doesn't... Relationship is still quite new but when does this become a problem?