<human>: My whole life ive always cared for other people or sought to please their values or put too much trust into them and have been manipulated and mislead and ultimately disillusioned. Ive always been popular though, probably cause im so "unique" so its no problem meeting people but ive suffered some bad anxiety from so many assholes in my life. Most recentely i ended a 2-year long on-off complicated bumfuck with my ex of 5 years (total time together 5 years but 2 years of on-off bullshit) and im almost certain she developed feelings for one of her guy friends whom i know and she told me she isnt in to him. Eitherway, im tired of this mess. 
For those of you who have been here what have you done to get out of this rut? 
Im seriously commited to this, im already investing in my passion which is writing/poetry/rapping, but i still need to stop giving myself away like this.
This is no plea of desperation, just a consultation to the awesome hive-mind of reddit.
Thanks for your answers yall!

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<bot>: Im too nice to people, give trust away easily. Im an outgoing person, but thats my character flaw. How did you handle this?