<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

First things first: we have a decent friendship which is really only confined to texting and the occasional phone call. We've hung out in person twice before (I met him through work but don't work with him). We share similar interests (especially football team which is rare where we live), and he runs a team club that has meetups every game day at a local bar to watch the game. He always, always invites me to these. I've only been to one and that led to some poor decision making on my part.

So, I don't go out of my way to see him, because I know I'll make bad decisions again. 

Recently, he invited me to his kid's bday party, which, I'm not going to but I haven't told him because I *know* he'll get upset. It's been to the point before where he gets PISSED if I don't come to a game day meet up. Pissed like "oh I knew you were fake" and name calling, etc. His reasoning, "you build up all this excitement and then don't come." And I've explained before I have zero interest in meeting up or going to a game day because I know I will put myself in a bad position. And I am married. So I can't morally do this to myself, to my husband, or anyone else.

Why does this friend get SO MAD if I decline an invite, but why doesn he *continue* to invite me despite me declining literally every invitation for over a year...??
<bot>: (Single) friend invites me (married woman) to countless events on a weekly basis, I decline, he gets pissed, but continues to invite me.