<human>: So, I've been out of school for just over a year now and having been trying since then to find someone but haven't even been able to get past the first date with anyone. Some have been obvious bad matches but some of the girls have had identical interests as me and the date felt like it went really good only to never hear from them again.

I've tried a wide variety of things from online dating to getting introduced by a mutual friend. And I've been meeting on average at least one girl a month so it's not like I'm getting all worried after one or two dates. I just can't figure what I'm doing wrong to make a girl interested enough to go on a date with me but then fail miserably each time.

I'm a pretty average guy as far as I can tell. I've always been a little bit of a loner but not so much as it hinders my ability to carry on a conversation. I have a stable, well paying job related to my degree. Pretty average looking and in half decent shape with a friendly personality. 

As I said before, the only negative is that I'm a bit of a loner and have only had a handful of relationships in the past but I still don't really have a problem talking to girls. I've been starting to think that I've maybe been setting my standards to high but what's the point of being with someone that you have no interest in? The worst part is that it's starting to ruin my self confidence and making me depressed because I can't figure out what I'm doing wrong.

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<bot>: 24 year old guy, can't get past the first date with anyone. Don't know what I'm doing wrong.