<human>: Met my best friend almost two years ago, we were roommates- both transfers and knew nobody. Got along amazingly, bonded quickly and became each other's trusted confidants. Last summer I flew out to visit and stayed at his apartment. During this time he admitted to being bi-curious and asked if I was open to experimenting. I declined but it happened anyway (now 4 months ago). 

Afterwards he said it helped strengthen his identity but I didnt push the matter to know what that meant exactly. Since then we are still as close as ever but back to everyday bros. He has hooked up with a girl in that time as well.

Problem is, I cant stop thinking about him and the night we hooked up. I want to discuss it with him even though it could make things weird for awhile. I want to explain how I feel but I will respect him, his choices, his space etc and dispel any notion of us being more than friends. I wrote out a letter with my sincerest thoughts and ordered it just the way I imagine the conversation going. If i talk to him about it I will most likely become flustered and forget some things or start talking in circles.

But, if you were going to get a bomb like this dropped on you, would you rather get a note with everything laid out and some time to think? Or an honest face-to-face conversation that you could contribute to in the moment?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Experimented with best friend, now I think I have feelings for him. Would you rather a note explaining the situation and some time to think, or an honest conversation you could contribute to in real time?