<human>: Just for some background, last weekend I got stood up on a date after giving up on dating for a year.  This weekend I was going to the bars with my friend from the title, but when I showed up at her apartment, she wasn't there and didn't pick up the phone.

I waited 20 minutes then just went back home.  I get a phone call an hour later.  I couldn't really hear what she was saying (something about her phone sucking) but it was somehow her sister's fault.

Next day I was going to go to a car show with someone from work.  They didn't show up either.

I was kinda frustrated and did some drinking because frankly I drink when I get that way.  I know that's bad and I should probably seek out some help. 

In any case, the 28f friend calls back up and we reschedule to go out that night.  I fall asleep on the couch.

I sent her a text explaining about the drinking and the couch, but is there any way I can not make it look like I was getting petty revenge by standing her up the way she did me?

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<bot>: Accidentally stood up friend the day after she stood me up.  How can I make sure she doesn't think it was intentional?