<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

I have been in an LDR with my GF for 3 years. We met at College, and I travelled  to live in her country twice, and met her in another country once. She hasn't come to see me (workaholic). Total we've been together 16 months.

Things have been tough. I feel like a fool. 

I asked her to come for a little holiday with me, and we hadn't seen each other in 4 months and had no solid plan to see each other again until this one. Since asking her about this plan, she has asked if 3 different people (1 female friend, 2 couples) at different times if I wanted them to join. I am only going on this trip to see HER and spend time with her. Now that I have called her out on this, and said it is hurtful that she wouldn't want to just spend time with me alone, she said she is sorry, I am right, and that now that she thinks about it, she'd rather spend time with me alone. 

NOW, I feel like the trip is ruined. I also don't know what to feel about myself.. like if I am being an ass. Logic tells me I am being taken advantage of on a monumental scale. My mind and heart know what to do but I believe my EGO is hurt and wants revenge.
<bot>: girlfriend may be taking advantage of the trip (includes free accommodation I am securing) and doesn't really feel comfortable being alone with me.