<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

Long story short I've met this awesome guy from my university on Tinder and we're going on a second date tonight. We have infinitely many things in common (same music, major, hobbies etc), and not to mention he's cute.

However, I feel this pressure to escalate things physically, but I am really uncomfortable with the thought, considering all I've read about kiss by the second date, doing it by the third or fourth. This is the first guy I've dated actually, and I like to get to know someone before I open up to any sort of intimacy.

I know, I know, only do what I'm ready for, but I don't want to ruin a seemingly good thing by being apprehensive or nervous if he made a move. I opened myself up to one guy previously, but it turns out all he wanted was a quick hook-up and bolted immediately after. It honestly ruined me, and I feel so nervous about the date now that I want to cancel.
<bot>: Afraid of intimacy, but want to keep dating a guy. How do I gracefully decline "moves" if I don't feel ready?