<human>: Okay so this is the situation :
This is the "we used to be friends for a long time and are now a couple " situation.
We decided to take the next step 2 months ago after being good friends for roughly 2 years. During the time of being friends it was always fun meeting with her and it was a good time talking joking etc. What has happened lately is that meeting up with her (usually going to her place because she says she prefers this) has started to feel like a chore sort of thing. Also we started to fight more often, which usually ends in her portraying herself as the victim and sort of blaming very trivial things on me.

The feeling is similar to having some sort of training such as football every Monday and Thursday or whatever, hope that makes sense.

The thing is I really don't want it to be like this, but it is starting to feel like this every time. 

Maybe it is relevant to say that it is my first relationship, whereas she is more "experienced"
Any help is greatly appreciated.

Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?
<bot>: Friend of 2 years is now my girlfriend, but meeting up and doing things with her is starting to feel more like a chore rather than something one would look forward to and enjoy.