<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

Straight to the point: I grew up with very old fashioned grand parents. Both grandpa's did all the yardwork, house renovations, etc. My grandmother's woke up early, took care of the kids, cleaned house, laundry, dishes, etc. 

My parents were similar, I never saw my dad do house chores, but he added entire rooms to the house, landscaped the yard, built himself a shed, pressure washed the driveway, etc while my mom did all the house chores. 

When me and my SO got together, she was very cheerful about doing house chores saying she didn't mind at all and she did all of them for years. As soon as we get married, she has made it a huge deal that I have to do my share and its insulting for me to ask her to do something herself. The kicker is we live in an apartment currently so I don't have yardwork to do or a lawn to maintain or big hardware projects. 

It sounds so childish but it gets her so worked up. I've attempted folding laundry but I told I'm doing it wrong, what gets folded versus what doesn't, and its just ridiculous. 

There has to be some underlying point to this, and while I play a lot of music and do a lot of outdoor activities, she's a homebody who just wants her Hulu and Netflix. 

Before making the educated guess maybe she wants me to stay home with her, we have 2-3 date nights a week where its just me and her going eat, going to the beach, going play arcade games, movie, etc. 

Sorry for long lost, thanks for any help.
<bot>: girlfriend/fiancee never opposed house chores until marriage, now is over the top about 50/50 splitting chores even though she knew I never really did them.