<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

Hello reddit. Longtime lurker, first time poster. Apologies if any of the formatting is off.

I am a recent college graduate who has been seeing an old high school crush for about a month. He is truly sublime, and I have never felt this sort of magnetic pull towards another human being. We are not yet considering ourselves in a relationship, as we are taking things slowly and getting to know each other.

However, I am afraid that there are a few big obstacles that may prevent us from being in a relationship or sabotage it entirely:

* We both have work to do on ourselves. We each have our own issues that we are actively working on with the help of (separate) therapists, and we both have a lot of room for growth.
* I am seeking a 9 to 5 job, while he is serving at a bar. Landing a 9 to 5 will be a stressful transition, and it will also affect how often we get to see each other.
* We both live at home with our parents. I will not be getting my own place until a year from now. This obviously hampers the development of physical intimacy, but emotional intimacy as well. Having a cozy night in with a movie and a bottle of wine isn't an option at either of our houses. 

I can't help but think that six months from now, or a year from now, a relationship would have a much better chance at survival, when I have my own place, an established job, and boatload of therapy under my belt. 

I am afraid that if I try a relationship with him now, it would fail miserably because the timing isn't right.

I am also afraid of him becoming "the one who got away" if I don't give it a shot while I have my chance.

What do you think, Reddit? Is it better to give it a shot now or wait until the timing is better? I'll have a chance to discuss this with my therapist this week, but in the meantime, I'm interested in your opinions.
<bot>: I'm crazy about this guy and want a relationship to work, but there are obstacles. I don't know if I should try a relationship now or wait until the circumstances change.