<human>: My 23 year old boyfriend of almost six months just broke up with me (I'm 19) when I decided to reveal what happened a month ago. When we first started dating I promised him I wouldn't freak dance with guys at parties, but unfortunately it happened once and I struggled with whether or not to tell him. When I did, I didn't expect his reaction. He said I broke his trust, which I understand and agree with, however he also feels I cheated on him and I don't feel that I did. He had never previously mentioned he viewed freak dancing as cheating, just that it made him uncomfortable. 

The guy I danced with danced with me for a total of like 2 minutes; we were just pretty much swaying side to side because I don't do the bent-over nasty kind of freak dancing. His hands were on my waist only, and I never even saw this guy's face or anything. That's all that happened.

So now it bugs me that my ex is going to remember me as the girl who cheated on him, and worse, he'll be telling people that I did and I doubt the first thought that comes to mind when people hear "cheat" is "he/she danced with another person." I thought cheating entailed more things like kissing, sex, etc, and that's stuff I definitely never did to him and never would have done.

So did I cheat on my boyfriend or not? What exactly constitutes it in your opinion?

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: I barely freak danced with a guy when I had a boyfriend, the boyfriend got upset even though nothing happened, and he now thinks I'm a cheater. Am I?