<human>: My bf did a few little things that hurt me. Most of the time, because he didn't know it would upset me.

I ignored these little things, because, well, they're not worth fighting for.
But lately I feel like, to reproache him all these things. 

It's probably because I'm very stressed and tired, that I remember everything that hurted me. I know it's not rational and I feel like such a woman, wanting to bring it all up again.

How do I stop myself from reminding all these situations, because they make me really sad. 
And how do I prevent I make a fight over it?

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<bot>: Because I'm stressed, I remember every bad thing my bf did, how do I prevent myself from starting a fight?