<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

It's been about a month since I [20M] came off of a two year relationship [20F], she wanted the life that society says you want: marriage by mid twenties, house and kids by late twenties, etc. I on the other hand was not and am still not convinced in marriage or kids being worthwhile to me.

Since we separated many things have happened. My ex still messages me constantly trying to get back together, I've smoked marijuana almost daily, and I've become part of a "semi-polygamous relationship", (we sleep/cuddle together a lot) with two of my friends [20F] and [22M].

My question to you is, Is my current lifestyle unhealthy and/or is this just part of experiencing life? and if you were in my situation, what would you do?
<bot>: Broke up with gf of two years. Now I get high a lot and hardcore cuddle with my friends. Is this hurting or helping me?