<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

Here's the story, Reddit.

Two years ago I started talking to this guy I met online. We were casual friends for awhile and often had philosophical and intellectual discussions, or just shared our experiences and tales of our past. We gradually got to know each other better and one day it came to light that he liked me. We decided to explore this a little more, and to that end I suggested I come visit him in his state (I'm from Canada) after a month or so of talking every day.

I'm here, now, and things aren't going as well as I hoped. Though we can talk for hours online it feels like we don't have much to say to each other in person, or perhaps we haven't reached the level that we're used to connecting on yet. He is very different from me and he lives in basically the middle of nowhere, so there's not a lot to do here and perhaps not a lot to connect over. His family is also very different.

I have 3 days left in my visit and I'd really like to be able to connect with him but I'm not sure how. It's not exclusive to online as I've met lots of random people in person that I have no trouble talking to for hours at a stretch. 

Can anyone help?
<bot>: Met guy online, talked to guy online for 2 years, visited with said guy, not going as well as I hoped.