<human>: Me and my girlfriend broke up because we felt we drifted apart in our last year of college. Its been almost a year and a half and much has happened in both our lives. I finished school, lost a massive amount of weight, joined the military as an officer. She finished school and honestly I don't know what else. I know emotionally she moved on because she is getting engaged. I on the other hand have done everything to move on. I have dated around. Even went to training in other states. Nothing I do seems to help. I haven't contacted her since we split up and even then I still think about her sometimes. I have a great girlfriend (22f) currently who is very supportive of me and my career but still every couple days my ex dashes through my mind for no reason. I need help because its destroying me inside. I really want to call her and tell her I want her back. But I know it won't ever happen. I feel like I will never get over this relationship.

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<bot>: I (22m) can't get over my ex (22f) of five years after our breakup about 1.5 years ago. Is this normal?