<human>: Hello all.  Thanks for taking a look here.

My husband and I are both 30, we'll be 31 this year.  My main goal in life is to have children and a family.  My husband knows this and we discussed it at length before getting married.

I want to start having children now, while we're both young enough to run around after them and enjoy caring for little ones.  He thinks we are not ready.  (Financially, I know no one is really ever ready to add that burden.  However, we just moved so I could get a better job, and we're comfortably off with just my income.  Maturity... well I mean of course we're both immature in some ways, but not in the way that would be detrimental to a child.  Support wise, he is home alone right now and we would have no need for child care.)

I know that the chances of having a healthy child decrease with age, and I know that I won't be spry enough to care for little ones when I'm nearing 40.  

I'm not saying I want to force him into having kids... (Maybe I am... hmm), but I want to talk seriously about it and he just seems to blow it off.

Honestly, we have VERY few problems in our relationship.  We work great together and don't fight.  There's nothing to fight about.  Even this, which is a huge deal to me, I don't want to fight about.  I just want to make him see my perspective and try to get him to commit to a time frame where we can start having children.

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<bot>: I want kids badly and my husband thinks we're not ready, despite sound finances, health care and child care potential.  How do I start this discussion and make him take it seriously.