<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

I know of this couple, who's identities will be changed for the sake of anonymity. They've been together for about four or give months. The woman in this couple is a very close friend of mine. Both people have been divorced previously, and his ex wife is still causing some major problems for him. It's caused him to be very cold, and very unwilling to provide basic romantic needs. Just getting a hug from him is a battle, just getting him to say that he cares is near impossible. 

She struggles with confidence issues, and perhaps even depression. She's always felt like she was unlovable, and not worth the effort. And when she complains about needing these things and him not providing, he tells her that she's being childish. But she's so scared of being alone that she doesn't want to lose him. 

They want to go to counseling and try a few different things, but don't have the money to do so, and she feels like she would just be giving up without trying everything to make it work of she left him now.

Me, as an unrelated third party... I know there's not really much I can do, since it's not supposed to be any of my business, but... It hurts seeing her in this state almost constantly. I do what I can to be supportive, but I'm really worried about her mental state. I don't know what to do anymore. Any ideas?
<bot>: he refuses to do anything that couples are supposed to do, she struggles with depression. I'm a concerned third party. What can I do?