<human>: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 9 months, going on 10 months. I feel as if the 'honeymoon' phase has recently ended for us, about 5-6 months in. We are both in university in heavily academic loaded programs, so we've both been extremely busy the last 4 months. 

But I don't think that's an excuse to care less. I feel as if I still make an effort and ask to sleepover/hang out, but he doesn't as much. He takes hours to reply to texts most of the time. I know he's busy/with his roommates but it annoys me. I also feel as if he puts his roommates before me sometimes; he's always with them. He's ditched me for his roommates/friends two times these past 3 months. He still does nice things for me sometimes, but not as much as before, which is reasonable. 

I feel like I just keep comparing things to how they were before. He would always ask me when I was free to hang out, but now it just seems like he doesn't care as much. 

I've told him this, and he said he thinks that we've gone past the honeymoon phase and that even though it might seem like he cares less, he doesn't at all. I don't even think I'm past the honeymoon stage yet. I'm a lot more comfortable with him, but I still want to see him all the time and get happy to see him. 

What do I do? I don't know if I'm being unreasonable or not, but it makes me upset sometimes. Should I talk to him again?

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<bot>: boyfriend used to ask to be with me a lot more, and it just seemed like he cared a lot more before. after the honeymoon phase, it seems like I'm putting more effort into the relationship.