<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

My boyfriend and I have known each other for 1 year and so far, the relationship is fine. 

Except he's the type of guy that wants his space and values his freedom very much.

Keep in mind that we live 45 minutes across from one another, in the same city and we meet up maximum 2 or 3 times a week. 

We had some discussions in the past about how he's not communicating enough, when he has a problem, he doesn't speak to me, he just shuts in himself, and in the last few weeks, when I go see him at his apartment, he would do literally anything else besides stay with me 1 or 2 minutes to just talk, making me feel very lonely. When confronted, he said that it's just a phase, and nothing personal so I let it go.

Anyway, fast forward to today, I was alone in his apartment and I looked in his facebook messages (I know, I am horrible for doing that, I did it out of curiosity, not because I suspect him of cheating, but because I wanted to know how he talks about me in conversations with his friends, because he rarely talks to me) and found numerous links to articles about tinder, "the fappening", sex, relationships and such. 

He was talking with his friends about how when you're in a "serious" relationship, you lose your social skills, and the sharpness of your mind. He said that it must feel good for a friend of his to visit other countries by himself, to be free. The general idea was that he feels he is losing something.

I feel greatly saddened about his thinking this way, moreso because he goes out with his friends whenever he wants to, even saturday nights. The last thing I want to do is not offer him his freedom. 

What I know for sure is that I will not go through his personal stuff again, I feel guilty about this and I have a heavy conscience.
<bot>: My boyfriend acts like he wants more freedom from this relationship, even though I let him do pretty much whatever he wants to.