<human>: My cousin [M36] has been married to a girl [F25] for about 4 years. As of the past year things have gone horribly wrong. The girl he once knew (fun, bubbly, not a care in the world) suddenly started to change. She's now very big into makeup, wants to party constantly, and has been caught frequently cheating on him as of last week. We knew that his relationship with her would be rough cause of the age difference, but now it's starting to become apparent. When he approached her about this change and cheating, she said he can "either deal with it or leave" (exact words). He was "dragging her down" in life and she wanted to "live a little". It's obvious that she's done with this marriage; she still wants to be with him, however, for financial support and she has admitted that. 

He claims that his life would be over if he divorced her since he has no friends and all he has is us (since my uncle and aunt aren't the best parents...) and her. We told him that he needs to get away from her and that his life isn't over but he won't listen. He has resorted to drinking heavily; the past couple of weeks he has been calling us upset and we give him advice; he'll begin to drink, pass out, she gets furious with him, kicks him out, etc. We beg of him to leave but he says he "doesn't want to hurt her". 

At this point, he keeps calling us, we tell him the same thing over and over again, he says no I need to deal with it, and drinks his life away. Is there anything we can do to help him, or is this something that he needs to fix on his own? I'm not sure what we COULD do... we've already suggested for him to move out and get away, come stay with us, go to counseling, etc. but nothing works so far. No friends or other family we can contact either. What else could we do?

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<bot>: Cousin has become an alcoholic after wife cheats on him and says deal with it or get out. Won't take advice or help. What else can we do?