<human>: Hello fellow redditors,
My gf and I have been a couple for over 3 1/2 years and we moved in together last year in September.

Like in every relationship there were good and bad times and I've come to a point where I want to quit the relationship because of different reasons. I tried so many times to change and tell her what bugs me about it.
After the "talk" about what should change, the change didn't hold to long. I'm not satisfied with this relationship and I want to move on, and enjoy my single life as long as I'm young.

But... I've no clue how to handle it

I know how to talk to her about that, because I tried it before, but seeing her crying and sobbing made me feel like an asshole and she talked me back into it by promising everything would change, but it eventually didn't.

My gf is inside our circle of friends so that is not making it easier for me to break up.

How did you handle all the stuff like getting my stuff out of our apartment.
Seeing here at parties or anything else...

I'm desperate please help me do this.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: I want to break up with my gf and don't know how to handle the time  afterwards (getting stuff out of the apartment... Etc.)