<human>: Recently I started dating a girl, we have been dating for four months now and I feel like she doesn't care too much for the relationship. Let me build on this.

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We live less than a minute away from each other, so we spend dang near every day together. So much time, that it seems like we have squeezed a lot into a short amount of time. She had just got out of a relationship a month prior to dating me. I have had a crush on her throughout the whole summer, and she was aware of it. A lot of things lined up perfectly for us to date. Many things point to the fact that we should be dating, but something feels wrong.

The problem:

I feel like I have constantly made special gestures to her, to not receive any back. I feel like I put a lot more into the relationship, than she puts into it for me. She seems to get an attitude with me when I disagree with her, as opposed to being optimistic. When we first started dating, she worshipped the ground I walked upon. Now, she seems as if she could care less. But, she always wants to be around me, she sometimes ditches family and friends to hang with me. But then when we hang out with my guy friends, she seems like she is flirting with my guy friends. So, I don't know what she's thinking.

She gives me these hot and cold vibes and it seems like she is happiest when I'm just laying with her.

Am I being used until someone better comes along in her eyes? Do I spend too much time with her? Do I do too many gestures for her? Am I putting too much into the relationship? Or am I just reading too much into things? It honestly eats at me and it drives me crazy.

Please, provide your thoughts.

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<bot>: I spend a lot of time with my girlfriend, it feels like it might be killing the spark that should be treated very delicatly.