<human>: Ive been dating her for 6 months, she is newly separated from her ex-husband. they were married for 12 years and had two kids together. There relationship was loveless but had lustful sex. 

we love each other so much we feel we are truly happy and compatible for each other but when it comes to sex she feels a desire for a "lustful experience". In the past this has only led her to shutting down and going to dark places.

sometimes she feels disconnected from me when she gets these feelings. 

when we started dating it wasn't based on infatuation it was a slow build to our current love for each other.

how do we move on from this and just love each other in all situations? 

how do we both stop thinking during sex and let go and just enjoy our time together?

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<bot>: WE LOVE EACH OTHER ALOT BUT STRUGGLE SEXUALLY DUE TO HER PAST EXPERIENCE WITH RELATIONSHIPS. ANY HELP WOULD BE APPRECIATED