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I'm in an international long term relationship with my boyfriend. We've been together for almost three years and things have been recently getting rockier by the month. He's studying internationally and has a sports scholarship at his college, where he resides. His studies and especially sports involvement have him more involved in his own interests and lifestyle than in the relationship. We just had a big fight and I hung up on him and stated we were finished, blinded by sheer frustration and anger. I love him to bits but it just feels like he lets his own interests create distance between us. He admits this too, so it's not some theory I have. 

Has anyone here been in a similar situation or can offer some advice as to what to do next? I'm a romantic at heart and can't see myself with anyone else, but the way the relationship is going now makes me feel physically sick.

I feel he doesn't give me enough time and that it's all just so one-sided. He's not as attentive as he used to be. It makes me feel lonely and unappreciated. I'm in the process of a visa application to visit him for 12 months so I don't know what to do now - I've already paid for half of it. As you can probably tell, it's a terrible situation. I'm losing sleep and I've been taking medication to deal with my anxiety from these recent events.

HE SAYS: His lifestyle choices are everything to him and that he loves me dearly but still feels guilty about placing me second to everything he does, and he's unwilling to compromise. So he's honest about it, but I'm left wondering what to do with that information. Does he WANT me to break up with him? 

Thanks /r/relationships
<bot>: Long distance relationship, somewhat one-sided, feeling less appreciated by the day and we both know it. What to do? :(