<human>: We dated for only a few months after a very strong and instant connection. After that wore off we mutually decided to move on. After a couple months I felt more and more like i didnt take such a strong connection seriously enough. She was, as far as im concerned, in love with me for a brief period and vice versa and I think I got too comfortable too quickly, the more i thought about it the more i wished i gave the relationship more serious effort. 

After talking a bit we hooked up again last saturday night, I wanted to reform our relationship and take it farther. I spent the night and then spent the entire next day with her. We were having a great time and i couldnt have been happier. We spent 5 out of 7 nights together this past week at her place on her request. Some more lively than others but in general all going well. Last night in bed I was spooning her, kissing her back, and every time i kissed her back she kissed the air back to me saying she was giving me kisses back. I thought for sure we were closer to the same page.

Today I asked her how she felt, saying that I have strong feelings for her, and that im scared feeling super vulnerable.

She said she thought she saw the same limitations in our connection we ran into the first time and didnt feel the same way, she was as kind as one can be and very emotional, but she stood by it. She said shes never had a relationship that she was so connected with but also not seeing it as what was right for her. I wish i saw the 'ceiling' in our relationship that she sees. 

 I hate that I let myself get excited and emotionally invested. I cant help but think if i just played it out differently she would have come around, that if she can love me once she can love me again, if i had taken it a little slower, or just let it play out longer before trying to force the conversation.

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<bot>: Thought i was reconnecting with ex i feel in love with, she wasnt feeling the same way. Part of me wants to reach out for more clarification.