<human>: I'm not the type of girl to be "hating on" a boyfriend's ex...as long as she is not in the picture anymore, why should I waste my energy on that?  I also don't compare myself to a BF's ex...they are broken up and not together anymore no matter how good she was at something obviously he's not with her for other reasons.

I had a falling out for a while with my BF and during that time, a friend of mine suggested I should message one of his ex-LTR to see if he was like this all the time.

I responded, "Why the heck would I want to message a girl that used to sleep with and date my boyfriend?  I don't even want to be in the same room as a previous fling much less start beef with her."

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Has anyone ever messaged an old fling of your bf/gf to see if they acted like that with everyone they ever dated?