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My husband's dental hygiene is putting a damper on our sex life and overall romance in our relationship. He has a very serious phobia of dentists, stemming from traumatic experiences in his younger years, and has not gone to the dentist in over a decade. His mouth smells absolutely rancid, and his teeth are caked with build-up of tarter. His gum line has receded a quite a bit for this lack of attention to his dental health. 

It's been over a year since we have made out with tongue. I'm desperate to kiss someone. I need kissing in my life. I love my husband and I have done everything that I can to support him through such an anxiety-inducing situation. I've researched dentists who specialize with those suffering from severe dental anxiety, I've told him that we could pay to have him sedated. He downright refuses. He insists that he is completely pain-free and doesn't think he needs to go. 

On top of this, he just doesn't seem to have the sex drive or stamina he once had. We have sex maybe once every month... if that. I'm not getting what I need sexually or romantically from our relationship anymore. 

I can't kiss him like this, he refuses to go get the dental cleanings he so desperately needs, but I need some kissing. I'm spending hours fantasizing about kissing people. I love him with every part of me. He's my best friend and I can't imagine my life without him. I would never have sex with another person besides him... but this woman NEEDS some serious kissing in her life. 

What do I do?
<bot>: My husband has a phobia of the dentist. His mouth is smelly and grosses me out. I love him, but I need to kiss someone BAD. Help.