<human>: Me and my SO have been together for 4 years now, we have lived together for about a year and that's kind of when the problems started. We constantly bicker about the smallest things. Recently I've gotten to the point where she will yell and i don't even say anything back, not trying to be weak but just do she can get it out and stop talking.

My biggest problem is she only ever wants to talk about bills, girls that she doesn't like at her job and how much she hates het job. I can't take it anymore, I need intellectual conversation about anything and everything other than the previously mentioned topics. I hate coming home sometimes because I already know what is going to happen. When I try to stike up a conversation she usually has no clue what I'm talking about.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: we have been arguing so much lately, I'm bored with no good conversation. Am I just dating an idiot or am I over reacting and being judgemental?