<human>: So right now I live with my husband at his grandparents house. His mother lives there but she is in a wheelchair. His mother was never a mother figure and his father is long gone. His grandparents are who raised him. Unfortunately right now leaving is not an option and I do not care to explain. His grandparents grew up back in the day where you eat to survive and happiness or fun are not required. I am having great troubles with his grandmother. My husband says that that is how she always has been (she has mild dementia now so it is worse) and offers no way of dealing with her other than ignoring her or doing what she wants. The big issue is that her cooking is terrible. She knows this, every time she gives us food she tells us it's terrible. Her argument has been that, it's edible. 

Now I know I may seem picky but she buys low budget things, keeps them too long and her cooking has actually made me sick. Now I am an adult, I think I should be able to cook for myself but she insists on making us food nightly and then complaining that we don't eat it. I sometimes eat at work or something so I am just not hungry. She yells that we think we are too good for her cooking and then she cooks for us again. Now she is not a nice lady, she is very verbally abusive to everyone and used to be physically abusive to my husband and his mother. (I think it's the only motherly love they know) I need a way to tell her I do not want her cooking for me and I will not be eating it. She is prone to temper tantrums...but I can't keep throwing her food away in the trash. They eat around 230 pm and even when I get home from work way after that she saves me a plate. I do not know what to do, I just want her to stop. She told us before she won't cook for us, throws a fit....and then cooks for us the next day. There are many other issues with her but this is just the most prominent one. (trust me I am getting out of here asap).

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<bot>: Grandmother in law will not stop cooking for me daily, her food is inedible and has made me sick a few times. How do I get her to stop?