<human>: So my bf and I have had a few issues in our relationship. When we met, he was frequently partying, drinking, going out, etc. This was never my scene but I tried to be cool with it as he had never given me a reason not to trust him. In the past year, there have been several incidents that caused me to lose trust for him. Some miscommunication, a couple times where he lied and said he was going to sleep and really went to a club/party, him getting girls numbers at a party although he claims it was platonic, him telling a friend that he "almost got with" a girl at a party (although this was just a month in to our relationship) and him going out to parties with a girl he used to actively flirt with which I felt was inappropriate as I thought they were platonic friends. 

Anyway, enough back story! I discovered these things by looking at his phone a few times, so he gets no credit for honest disclosure and I get no credit for being a trusting gf. Since then, I have felt uncomfortable with him going to parties and going out. I have asked that until I come to a few parties with him/meet some of his friends that he not go out to parties on his own. This has already caused issues as he tried to say a get together of 15 old high school friends was not a party and didnt count. I absolutely want to trust him in the future with this kind of thing but right now I want to work on our communication and build up some trust first. The other night he went out to hang out with some friends and I asked if he could maybe get home by 2am so I didnt have to feel anxious about it all night. He got mad that I was trying to be his mother and give him a curfew, which when you put it that way sounds pretty bad. I really don't want to be the bad guy here and I dont want to control his life. Is there a way to set some restrictions so that I feel more comfortable for now without ruining this relationship altogether?

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<bot>: Bf lost my trust with some little things, now I might be trying to over restrict his life to help alleviate my anxiety, what kind of boundaries are okay to place?