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Hi Guys,

I am worried I may have made a mistake by breaking up with my now ex girlfriend.  My ex girlfriend and I were in an hour and half long distance relationship.  We always had a great time together, I felt like I could say anything to her, she's smart, funny, and beautiful. I miss spending time with her, and I'm not sure if I ended the relationship too soon as I still have strong feelings for her.  

I ended the relationship with her because I didn't feel right in the relationship.  She has self esteem issues that causes herself to be unhealthy.  She will eat too much and is overweight.  The catch 22 is that she feels bad about herself because she does eat and she has told me this after the breakup.  My reason for breaking up with her is not because she's overweight but because she doesn't seem to love herself and is not working on herself to be a healthier person.  She is always putting others first myself including.  

I want to be there for her but I also don't want to come across as controlling and tell her how to eat.  I am a person that is always about self improving.  I know I'm not perfect but I also believe it's important to be in shape and eat healthy. I am open to her telling me what I can improve on especially if we can both motivate each other in achieving our goals.  

I care too much to completely end the relationship without giving her a chance.  I want her to be happy with herself and if I can be the one to motivate herself into being the best person she can be I will continue to love her and admire her for it.  As of right now if she isn't loving herself than how can I love her back especially if her current lifestyle is so unhealthy. 

I am seeing my ex girlfriend this week and I was wondering how I can bring this up to her without hurting her feelings. From what she told me this week it sounds like she's willing to change her lifestyle.  Not for me but for herself which gives me some hope that we can continue our relationship.

Thanks for reading.
<bot>: I recently broke up with my Ex Girlfriend because she isn't loving herself.  I want to try to make things work.  How should I approach the issue on her unhealthy eating habits and lifestyle?