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Were in the NYC area, she wants to move to Boston. Not because she has a job offer or anything, but because she loves change and loves the area over there for the next big change:

I too love New England. But my career is going very well here in NYC and my entire family is here. I'm very close with them. She comes from a dysfunctional family with whom she's emotionally distant, and has no emotional qualms about moving anywhere.

Ive spent a lot of time rationalizing great reasons to relocate, and indeed there are a few. But the idea of not having my family around is depressing. I've explained this idea to them before, but today my mom admitted to me that she would be very upset because she always hoped that I'd be around. This totally broke my heart, because I feel the same way.

My wife is on a different page, and Something deep inside me has been upset and afraid of relocating. I'm afraid of what it would do to our relationship. I'm afraid that the pain I feel about my family will turn into resentment and change the way I look at my wife.

She and I have had fights about this before. The idea of relocating had started to grow on me, but what my mom told me basically reset me to square one. 

I have no idea what to do, and I feel trapped, as though there's no happy way for this predicament to end.
<bot>: my wife likes change and wants us to relocate; I don't, my family is here, and I'm afraid I'll resent her for it.