<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

Hello redditors. I am in a sticky situation. I (F18) am in a relationship for a little more then 3 years with (19M). It has been great so far. We had about 3 times we went on breaks, to rethink ourselves, but we always ended up talking things through and working it out. College is the next obstacle, and we are conquering it. Yet, the thing that is breaking us down is the fact that he is bipolar and had ADD. He cannot get professional help until he stabilizes health care so he is alone on this issue. Like I said, we have been together for 3 years and he helped me with depression and self harming. Now, he states that he dosent know who he is, and he has no masculinity, no friends and hates his life. He wants space from the relationship which I am willing to give, but the next day he wont want to leave me. (Bipolar mood swings) I try to do what is best for him everyday, but he sends me mixed signals every day. One day he is talking about our future together, and the next he is saying that we will never work out. At this point I dont know what I should do. Today he said he is on the verge of breaking up with me, while yesterday he wanted to cuddle the whole day. This has been happening for the past couple of weeks. I need advice on how to deal with this. Should I break up with him, take a break, or stay next to him. He also has a hard time taking control and finishing things. I'm worried that if I let him go, he might not get back up time to pass his college finals. Am I worrying too much? Advice?
<bot>: Boyfriend has bad mood swings, one day he is sad and wants to break up and other days he is over his head in love. Help?