<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

Okay, so we have been dating for 4 years. The first year was crazy, we had sex at least 2 times a day every day for the first year (approximately). We went through a time after that where sex wasn't as frequent, it decreased to once a day, then once every other day, and then like 2-3 times a month. Then, about 6 months ago, we were laying in opposite directions on the bed (in sort of a 69 position) and I was just touching him and he was touching me and it was awesome. Since then, we've exclusively been touching each other or giving oral, no vaginal sex. And our "sex" sessions are back up to 1-2 times every day!

I actually prefer this to vaginal sex since I come every time without fail, and during vaginal sex I would come maybe once every 5 sessions or so. And I think he prefers it too? He hasn't tried to initiate sex, and when we are together I am always touching him and letting him know I'm open to vaginal sex but he doesn't escalate things.

So, is this weird??? Is this bad?? Should we as a couple keep having vaginal sex to have a healthy relationship??? I'm not sure WHY this change happened from vaginal sex to just touching and oral.
<bot>: My boyfriend and I have switched from vaginal sex to almost exclusively touching/oral. Not sure what this means or why this happened.