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We have an amazing relationship, as we are both best friends and great lovers. My only qualm with her is that she never talks to me about things that are bothering her.

Often if I do something that upsets or annoys her, she will visibly show signs of it and refuses to talk about it. I ask her directly what I did wrong, and if she wants to talk, but she shrugs it off and often says "now is not the time" or "I don't want to talk about it now". For some time after (10 minutes, an hour, a day) she will be quieter than normal and we won't really talk or have fun. She is a quiet person in general so she doesn't like to talk about the problems or issues she faces, normally she just lets it go.

However, I am the complete opposite. I don't mind going through arguing to solve a problem or to figure out why someone is upset. Instead of being silent, I will verbally communicate with her whats wrong.

Last night she was doing this, I asked her twice why she was upset and she didn't answer. I knew she was visibly upset and I said that we promised to communicate better, but she just refused to talk. This made me upset, and I told her so. In response, she scoffed at me for being upset when she was the one who needed to be upset. This infuriated me and I tried talking to her again, but she just ignored my comments.

This morning, we got ready for work silently. On the train ride she tried to talk about my plans for the weekend but I responded in short quips because I didn't want to talk. I brought up why I was feeling upset the night before and again she said this wasn't the time for it. This, once again, infuriated me, and we parted ways on the train to work.

Am I overreacting? I know we have different styles of dealing with issues but I think for the sake of our relationship, she needs to open up more. I just hate knowing that shes upset and not figuring out why.
<bot>: GF doesn't like to talk about things that bother/upset her, I want her to talk. I get upset that she is upset and won't talk, but she thinks I have no right to be upset.