<human>: I met a girl on Tinder 3 weeks ago. We hit it off really well and I stayed at her place the first night we went out. We didn't get physical.

Since then, we've spent the night at each other's places at least 7 times. I took her out on valentines day. We hadn't been seeing each other long, but it felt right so we had dinner and went to a show. 

One night, she gave me a blowjob in my office at work. Some other nights, I would go down on her. She didn't want to have sex and I respected that. 

I've got a career and working full time, she's about to graduate college and wants to move to South America and do the traveling thing. I knew from the beginning it wasn't going to be a long term thing, but we've been hanging out and getting so close that things have naturally started to progress to get more serious.

Last night we went out and had a great time, she came back to my place and we were laying in bed and started to fool around. She was wet and we were both into it, but halfway through she stops me and tells me she doesn't want to have sex for a while.

Her reasoning was that she doesn't want to get into a long term relationship (that's fine), and doesn't want to have sex with someone she isn't in a relationship with (that's fine too). Unfortunately, that logically means no sex. 

I've been taking her out and spending good money on her, treating her really well (not in a sugar daddy way - in a giving way). But now I feel like she's been using me for company and nice dinners but just wants to be "make out" buddies.  

It's a tough spot, I don't want to sound like a misogynist or that I objectify her, but sex is an important thing to me and the more we hang out the more I want to do it.

I'm confused, can someone just shed some light on the situation?

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<bot>: girl I've been seeing wants to date without putting a label on it or having sex for a longer time than I'm comfortable with.