<human>: It seems to me that other people just go through life and relationships just happen. I go through life and nothing happens.

Am I crazy? People tell me that at this point I need to go on a dating site and several people have even suggested that I should pay for sex. 

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Why does it seem so easy for everyone? My two siblings met significant others at school and work and never went on a dating site. Others do the same thing. They just meet someone somewhere and it just happens. I meet people in life, but none of them wanted to be my lover, as much as I wished so much for some of them to be. Why am I not good enough for anyone I want?

Why does it seem like it just happens for everyone but me? I don't want to go on dating sites. Why can't it just happen as I go through life?

Am I wrong? Is it hard for other people? Most people aren't 30 and unkissed like I am, so I assume it's easier for them.

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<bot>: It seems to me that for others, relationships just happen automatically as they go through life. No relationship happened as I went through life and I'm wondering if I'm crazy.