<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Hey folks. Girlfriend and I of 8 months have been going slowly but steadily and recently (after barely using facebook, and stating how she does not like it much) has been using constantly. I will send her text messages (sometimes of important questions or something else) and see shes obviously on her phone, on facebook (through facebooks messanger)... She of course eventually responds, but often times with short handed responses... She recently started talking to a ton of people I know becuase shes starting at a new college, but the fact that these people often seem to take importance over me is becoming quite annoying. She will even start talking to them sometimes when we are alone together doing things, which is quite rude/annoying.

She has personally told me a few times in the past that she even thinks this kind of behaviour is rude, so I'm pretty confused. Overall this, and with me starting a new job too, has made her feel a lot more distant. We don't live together either, so my time to see and spend with her is becoming much much less too, and shes leaving quite soon for school as well.

What do I do? I want to talk to her about it but also don't want to fight or hurt her feelings.
<bot>: can clearly see girlfriend is ignoring me on facebook at times, she feels more distant now then ever before, how to handle?