<human>: I'm currently a 23 year old female who's training for a particular job didn't work out, and now I'm stuck in shitty retail with a shitty pay. Because of that, I can't afford much of anything. I drive my parent's car, and live rent free in their house. I'm trying to find a better job with more money so I can work both, get a car, go to school, and move out. And I seriously am trying hard.

Until then, I'm trying to be respectful of my parents and live by their rules, they're very religious. And I'm living there for free. I pay for my phone bill, and my portion of the insurance, and I pay for the upkeep of the car since I drive it. And I'm really just trying to get my appreciation and show that I am grateful.

I had made plans with a friend, but due to things happening that my parents weren't very pleased with they told me to not go out for awhile or to make plans. I told them I had plans and they basically told me to cancel said plans. I called and explained it, and he told me to only talk to him again when I realized I am an adult.

I usually attempt to not cross my parents cause I appreciate being able to live with them and not have to pay rent so I can save up and get things together, even though they're suffocating me.

Does this decision make me less of an adult? Does my situation make me less of an adult? Or am I doing what's right? If it is okay, how do I explain it so people aren't aggravated about it?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: I'm an adult living with my parents because of financial issues, and usually do what they ask because I appreciate their kindness, but some people think I'm not being enough of an adult.