<human>: So today I (21F) went out with a friend (27F), ended up at a party with the two mates (24M) we've been seeing, and once again, the guy I've been seeing turns out to be a massive douchebag. I don't really know what he said, but it ended with him turning around and chatting up the girl behind him with me standing in front of him .

Before this, the last guy (21M) simply cut contact after 14 months, no explanation, just disappeared off the face of the earth.

Before that it was a few guys (20-something M) who just wanted sex but didn't tell me that until after we slept together and dated a few months - "Oh hey, by the way, you're great and all but I just want a FWB right now".

And before that, it was a guy (22M) with a secret girlfriend in a different state that no one, friends and family included, knew about until she moved in with him.

Seriously, do I have an asshole attractor on my forehead? Because I feel like that's a distinct possibility right now.

And yes, I know I'm only young and I don't need a man, and all that jazz, but it woud be nice to know I am capable of sifting through the assholes to find the gold.

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<bot>: Basically I'm fed up with picking assholes, and I just needed to vent seeing as all my friends are out with their boyfriends right now. Cheers for listening.