<human>: I met this guy online and we been on a few dates. The last date we went on went really well. We are both looking for a relationship but the only problem is I went home for the summer and I can not see him over the summer. He seemed like he was opened to the idea of waiting and finding ways for us to see each other over the summer. He seemed very intent on continuing to pursue me. But I think he is losing interest. I know he is still active on the website we were talking on. But before I left he wasn't on there since we started talking.
The last time we hung out I made it clear I wanted to take things slow, he repeatedly told me he was okay with that. Now, when we text he always tells me how hard it is for him to take things slow. I asked if he was still okay with that and he said "he is going to try to be". I don't want to waste my time pinning over someone for a whole summer who does not have any interest in waiting. I want to know his intentions but I do not want to come off as clingy or obsessive, I just want to know whether or not it is worth it.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: I want to know how to ask a guy if he is going to wait for me without coming off as clingy.