<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

I have pretty much been in a relationship non-stop since i was 17 (now 28M) and now i am getting a divorce from the woman I have been with for 9 years. 

So now I am faced with the prospect of entering the dating world, having never dated as an adult before. I went our for drinks with my only single friend last night, and the gaping chasm I felt between me and everyone else at the bars was intense. I wasn't trying to meet girls, I was just hanging out and catching up with a friend, but looking around at all the people in the bars, I felt like an alien, like i have nothing in common with this demographic.  

I don't think I'm ready to start dating yet, for one I'm still married and probably will be for months as my messy divorce slowly lumbers on. For two i think i need to learn how to be a complete single person. 

I don't where I'm going with this.
<bot>: I am single for the first time in my adult life, I don't know when I should start trying to date, the idea of dating is terrifying.