<human>: Been in a somewhat long distance (1hr commute) relationship for 8 months now with a girl I love to death. Relationship strength is great even though we argue sometimes. She is a lot different from other girls I have dated in the past, she is a lot more social...something I tend to enjoy when I am with her because being an introvert, I could use the help sometimes

We only see each other on weekends due to distance and work schedules. Every once in a while we agree to not see each other for a weekend, leaving a 1.5 week break between seeing each other.

During these breaks she likes to go out with her girlfriends. Usually out to bars or clubs. When this happens, and I am at home while she is out, I can't help but feel anxious. It's not that I do not trust her or her friends because I do, it's that I don't trust what other people will try and do....especially at a nightclub

She always lets me know how much I mean to her and how much she loves me, and her friends tell me that she says the same to them about me, but for whatever reason my mind plays tricks on me and makes me have to continuously convince myself that nothing bad will happen

I don't know why I feel insecure about these things. I have a decent job, I take working out seriously and I am in better shape than most, I am no Brad Pitt but I do not think I am ugly, yet I still have these issues.

I sometimes just want to tell her I'm feeling this way, but the absolute LAST thing I want to do is make me seem clingy, insecure and controlling.

It's my first time dealing with emotions like this. I have always dated girls that were sort of loners and only wanted to be around me all the time, which made me feel suffocated (sort of the way I feel like I could come across to my SO now)

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<bot>: 25M, feeling insecure/jealous when girlfriend goes out to social settings without me. Fear is all in my head because I know relationship and feelings for each other are very strong. First time experiencing these emotions, need advice.