<human>: My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and I feel like we've exhausted the love we had. We still have a good time together, never fight, don't have anything against each other but its just not there anymore. Our lives are headed in pretty different directions that we can't mutually deal with. We have our own insecurities and never want to hurt each other (I know breakups will hurt regardless but we've already shed the tears over it). Its pretty obvious this isn't going to lead to a marriage/family life. I think I'm dealing with that whole love but not in love thing.

There's nothing wrong with our relationship, it's just not... THERE. We've discussed this lots and I'm just here seeking advice on how to ease out of it. The idea of just cutting it off sounds awful, we want to be in each others lives but we know if one moves on to another relationship its going to sting. We're in no rush. Should we stop seeing each other physically and just talk? Are there rules or guidelines for this crap??

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<bot>: Mutually ending what was a great relationship because the love/future plans just aren't there. How can we make this transition smoothly?