<human>: Well as the title says I am thinking of breaking up with my fiance. Last year we had  a son. For the past few months he has been living with a friend (24M)  Instead of living with me. (Long story)

Now I have been the sole care provider for our son for the past 6 months. He comes over to stay the night a few times a month, but its not enough. I am beyond stressed out, I'm exhausted and run down. I have told him this many times, I have asked him to please come over and watch our son for a while so I can be alone, or sleep in. So far he has not. Instead he gets upset, accuses me of calling him a bad dad and it starts a fight. He is actually a good dad. When he's actually around... I have not had a single day when I got to spend time off since he left. He says its because I breastfeed and he can't get our son the be calm. I do breastfeed, but he has taken bottles and sippy cups fine.

Because of his unwillingness to acknowledge my feelings and spend time with me or give me time off I feel like I can not take it anymore. I'd rather be alone than have him become an emotional burden or end up resenting him. I do love him very much and he is a great guy. He just doesn't understand how serious I am. I have no idea how to confront him, I have no idea what to do.

So I guess what I'm asking is how should I confront him? I don't want my son to be without his father, but I just can't keep pretending nothing is wrong. I need to stand up for myself.

I'm sorry if this is confusing. I'm on mobile, and my thoughts are a mess.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: my fiance is living with a friend, doesn't help with our son. I want to fix things, or end things. What should I do?