<human>: How do I find out if my spouse is having an affair?
<bot>: The first step to take in finding out if your spouse is having an affair is to be observant. Look for any changes in behavior, such as spending more time away from home or acting secretive or evasive when questioned about their whereabouts. Additionally, try asking questions that may provide clues, like “Who did you spend the night with last night?” or “Have you been seeing someone else?” If these questions seem uncomfortable, it could be a good sign that something is amiss. You can also look into online resources and counseling services to get help uncovering any potential infidelity.