<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

Last night my GF told me that she wants to run away from it all and travel without me. I thought we were building a life together after 4.5 years together, which has seen us face the sudden and tragic death of her only sibling and more recently a 200 mile move down the UK to further her career.

I am gutted, she's said she is thinking about what to do and that she doesn't want to to hurt me as she loves me but she doesn't want the same things as me. I want a house and a life (but not kids), my business is taking off and I thought we were heading towards that life together.

So here I am, 200 miles from my friends and family, who are all married with kids or trying for kids, churning things over and over in my head about what to do. I love her so much, she is my life, everything i do now is done with us in mind.

Any advice reddit?
<bot>: GF of 4.5 years has suddenly decided she wants to go beyond The Wall whereas I am quite happy here in Winterfell.