<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Me, 22f. Bf, 24m. Male friend, 22. Me and bf have been dating for 11 months. Me and male friend have been good friend for about 2 years now.

Me and male friend didn't contact each other very much about a year ago and began reconnecting about a month ago. We have tons in common and have a lot of fun conversating. It never really gets flirty, there are some smiley faces but I wouldn't say flirting.

I love my boyfriend but he is extremely jealous and controlling, and can be emotionally abusive. He does not want me talking to any other males so I haven't told him I still talk to male friend.

So I thought me and male friend were just friends, very good friends, but still only friends. Then today he texted me "hey cutie :)" which is the first time since I have been dating bf anythinf like that has been said between us.

So now I'm wondering, have I been apart of an emotional affair?
<bot>: been talking with ex-crush, he called me cute, haven't told my bf, cheating or no?