<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

Well Reddit, after a big argument, I need someone to talk to.

I was out with the GF just now and the topic of lap dances at Batchelor parties came up.
She asked if I would get one and i replied that would be up to my Best Man, even if I don't want it (tell him not to, protest heavily, etc).
It boiled down to that I would accept it eventually since the best man and friends would have paid for it and went to the trouble (plus ONLY at the Batchelor would I accept. Any other time is no go for me) 
GF gets upset and says she considers that cheating, which kinda threw me back a bit. I never really considered that cheating myself. I'm not the one paying for and initiating,and am only accepting as a courtesy only on that day (in my eyes)

Do you guys/gals consider this situation cheating? I never go to strip clubs or get lap dances any other time. This isn't even happening anyways. It was a hypothetical and in the end I finally agreed to turn even that down IF it happened (and of course I would tell the man not to do it)

At this point I feel to ticked off to continue, but the argument basically started here. I just need to know if I'm crazy to consider showing a little respect to my friends hypothetical efforts.

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<bot>: </b> Is a lapdance, initiated by best man at my batchelor party and begrudgingly accepted , considered cheatinh?