<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

we have been dating for 3 years and I found out two years ago she has 100k in debt. she has been putting off paying her school loans since she graduated and also has some credit card debt.
I usually pay for everything though she does pay 1/3 of the mortgage. she does get mad when we split the grocies for the house. Her parents still pay for her car though they don't make enough to stay above water.
she told me that I would have to pay for the wedding since she is in so much debt she cant take out a loan. Also wants a 6k dollar engagement ring. I said I will try my hardest and has gotten upset that I said the engagement ring might not be 6k.
I also pay for all of our Vacations to beach resorts every April. I don't like when she spends money on me but still buys shoes n clothes.
 She is always yelling at me because i do not pay enough attention to her but im tired from work. i have also gained 40 pounds from the stress of working towards paying for our better life. Am i making the right choice?
<bot>: would you marry a girl 100k in school loan debt that hasn't paid towards it since she graduated who is 28 and who doesn't really appreciate how hard you work to make a better life for our potential family?