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My mother's parents raised me after she died shortly after childbirth (me). I am very close to my surviving grandmother, who is 94 years old and in good health.

I met my father when he moved back to my state: I was about 7 years old. He had been working abroad, but had sent money to help care for me. I still lived with my grandparents but saw my father often - we had become best friends. But somehow, things had turned sexual. He groomed me for years while I wrestled with my conscience. In the end, I kept quiet because I didn't know how my grandmother and I would survive without his financial support. And I also knew that he felt guilty over the sexual abuse, so he was obliged to make a large investment in my elite undergraduate education. He tried to rape me, again, the night before I left home for 4 years in New England. And again the following summer when I came home to visit. I still carry a lot of guilt.

In college, I was eager to define my own sexuality. I was interested in boys. And I felt the need to somehow break the hold my father had on me. I made up my mind, lost my virginity, then quickly became involved with the man who is now my husband (26/m). I've confided in only him about my past and he is supportive.

For career-related reasons, my husband and I moved (back) to my hometown after college. To cut a long story short, my father is now my landlord, my grandmother occupies the spare bedroom, and I am increasingly anxious about all the things that go unsaid between all of us. Oh, and what do I do about my father's legitimate children (2 older boys, whom I met for the first time when I moved back with my husband)?
<bot>: should i confront my sexually abusive father and expose the dirty secret, which could have consequences not just for me but my husband, my beloved yet oblivious grandmother, and my half-brothers' families?