<human>: This is my second serious relationship, and the first one was your typical long high school relationship where you feel like you're crazy about the other person but anyone sensible knows that you're not going to end up being with the person you were with in high school. Anyway, that relationship was fairly passionate but very distrustful and was built on a poor foundation (she left her current boyfriend for me but there was a week of overlap sort of, on top of flirting with other guys). It lasted for over 2 years and I never really learned to trust her; we both were very suspicious of the other, and it was not a healthy relationship.

Fast forward to now and I've met this amazing girl who I'm really into, for the first time since I broke up with my high school girlfriend. Like any relationship it takes a bit of work; I met her while doing an exchange program in Hong Kong but now we're both back at school in California about 2 hours away from each other. I only see her on the weekends and we both miss each other a ton and talk every night. I've told her about my trust problems and she's assured me multiple times that she would never cheat on me but I still feel uneasy and anxious every time she goes out with her friends to parties or clubs. I *know* she would never do anything but it doesn't make me feel any better. To use my favorite analogy, it's like after you watch a really scary movie and you're in bed thinking about it and scaring yourself shitless - you know the movie is fake and that whatever thing is not going to get you, but that doesn't help much because the fear isn't rational.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: I have an irrational an unfounded fear my girlfriend will hurt me based on a past relationship and I don't know how to move past it other than being patient