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quick background: I'm normally fine dealing with members of the sex I'm interested in (I'm a straight male). I have confidence, average/above average looks, good dresser. I've taken tango lessons (I'm fairly decent at that) and am an okay solo dancer.

My Conundrum: From time to time friends drag me to clubs. At said clubs girls dance with me and I dance with them, but never for a time period of longer than a minute. Is this because I'm just a bad club dancer? What are your reasons for ditching a person that was dancing with you? I don't think its because I'm being too inappropriate.   I look to the other couples on the floor, if they weren't clothed they would be having sex. I keep my hands on the hips/stomach region avoiding all the potential harassment zones.

I've asked my various exes and they all claim I'm a perfectly fine dancer, but I'm not sure if they were just sparing my feelings.
<bot>: So reddit, is dancing ability important and if so what can I do to get better outside of going to lots of clubs?