<human>: so we started hanging out everyday in the last months of college. We got pretty close to the point where she was comfortable to tell me she loved me. I never told her back because i knew it would make things way harder when I moved to new york city soon after graduation.

we see each other on the weekends if I drive back to boston, but havent seen her in 3 weeks. 

She just told me she got a job in cali and she is leaving in 5 weeks, so I asl her to come explore nyc with me. She says yes so I say how about next weekend. but she says she cant because she is going to a wedding with her sisters-ex because he is a good guy

my dilemma,

we are planning to hangout during a group trip the following week, so should I think no biggie, she is just being nice or, Should I call it quits now because she would rather go to a wedding with a different guy, then hangout with me in the final weeks before we live to far away to see each other on a regular basis.

cant decide if im being to judgemental and she is just being nice? or what?

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<bot>: have 4 weekends left to hangout with a girl before she moves across the country, she is choosing one of them to go to a wedding with her sisters ex, should I end it now or just wait the 4 weeks..