<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

My best friend is in need of money and I have enough money to lend her some. She's quit her job many months ago just because she doesn't like it, even though it pays well and she's refusing to go and find another one. She simply wants to chill at home and maybe come up with some lame and business ideas which would never work unless she puts her heart into it. She's living with her boyfriend and he's taking care all the expenses and she feels bad for him. They smoke up everyday and yeah, a good amount of money goes towards that. She feels she's leeching money off of him and wants to help him by loaning out some money from me. I feel bad for her because she's in a tough financial situation but I also want her to realize she cannot keep doing this forever. Every time she asks me to send her some money I come up with a reason saying I can't because I don't have enough or there's some problem with my bank account and stuff. She's takes money from other people and never returns it back to them and that's simply because she doesn't have any source of income whatsoever! She's really smart and she can find a job really quick if she wants to and I keep pushing her to do something, she could even tutor some kids and make money. I have also found some online stuff where she can make easy money, but she says she's lazy and she doesn't want to do it.  

It's not that I don't want to lend her money. I would love to help her but she needs to stop depending and get out and find a job. Hell! even I slog my ass off working a shitty job to make this money. But I feel I am a bad person for not helping her because she's my best friend and she's always there for me when I need her even though she's been very busy living her life with her boyfriend. I am really confused and I feel like shit!
<bot>: my best friend is in need of money and I don't want to lend her because she's too lazy to work.