<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

I've been talking to a girl who I used to know in my high school days. We caught up and talked on the phone for a couple weeks sporadically on long calls.
I've been meaning to get her to come out and see me while I am in her country, but she's been really busy with finals, and she told me she had a lot of work overdue.
She seemed stressed about it and I told her there was no rush. She was very responsive when we spoke a lot but she's completely fallen off the map as of this week.
My guess is she screwed up her semester and feeling down about wasted time and money, and she is also moving to see her family for the summer.
I want to message her asking if she wants to talk about things but I'd feel like she really has no desire to talk, and might insult me and feel confronted.
I don't think shed give me much of an honest answer anyways, but I like her personality and conversation. Should I back out of her life or show I care by kindly asking her to get back to me to talk about what the deal is?
I've rang her and messaged her to no response earlier this week and don't know if I'd be being pushy, I dont wanna be that guy
<bot>: Girl I want to talk to going through things, should I drop contact and back out, or message her to get back to me