<human>: My wife and I had a fight that lead to us not talking to each other for a month. We still talked, but it was all business like - family stuff, kids but no intimacy. 

Little by little towards the one month mark we started being a bit closer. Hugs here and there, some kisses but every time I wanted to kiss her on the lips she would turn away. Fine. I waited.

One night when we were watching a movie, intimacy increased. A lot. We were making out for a good15  minutes, kissing on the lips, tongue, something we don't do as often I would like. It was like we were 18 year olds who just discovered what intimacy is. Sex was great. Then nothing.

The next day it was back to old routine, I would try to kiss her, she turns away. I brought up my concerns about what happened the other night. She told me that she has her needs and needed them fulfilled. To my asking what I should do when I need my needs to be fulfilled she tells me to do what I was doing for the past month. I told her that this is not right and this behavior should not be the norm.

Not sure how to proceed. Right now I am following her behavior and cut out all affection, no hugs or kissing or any hints on intimacy. But is this good approach? Should I take the higher ground and just move towards getting things back on track?

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Had fight with wife, didn't have any affection for a month, then had passionate sex, but I am concerned about what she said.