<human>: All of his friends and sister agree that bailing him out is not the answer. This guy has been through so many struggles since he was a child and just 4 years ago his mom died of ALS or Lou Gehrig's disease and he has yet to change his lifestyle. If he sits out his fine for 10 days he would lose his job that hbas been enabling him all this time and would move in with his uncle who loves him like a son. 

All of the signs point to that this is the right thing to do, but how do I tell him without offending him? Because every other time I bring it up he takes it as me talking down to him and that my life is "perfect". I just want him to love himself more than I love him.

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<bot>: best friend is addicted to pills and in jail. How do I tell him no one is bailing him and he needs to start a new life without driving him further into depression/addiction?