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As I said, we've been dating for a year and I sometimes feel he doesn't put much into our relationship and it's starting to get frustrating. He never asks if I want to go out to dinner or to a movie (typical date kind of things) so I'm always the one to ask him. When it came to celebrating our one year he had basically nothing to do with the planning. I asked him what he wanted to do and all he could come up with was "I dunno". So as usual I ended up planning everything.

Now, in my past long term relationship I got very accustomed to being surprised on occasions like this with romantic and well planned dates so this new arrangement is frustrating. Also, I am used to getting/giving gifts on occasions such as a 6-month or 1-year and. I got him a really nice watch for our 6-month (probably spent too much money), and he didn't get me anything. He said he felt really bad but when our one-year rolled around, nothing. I know I shouldn't really expect something but I got my hopes up and then was disappointed. 

I really love him and truthfully I don't mind planning our dates, but I do also like being surprised and spoiled. How can I talk to him about this without it coming off rude?
<bot>: Boyfriend doesn't put much effort into relationship (planning dates, surprises, etc.) and I'm starting to get frustrated. How do I handle this?