<human>: I am a 26 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend. Still a virgin, not even a first kiss. I'm relatively normal, in good shape, a little short, but not unattractive.

I have a great job, and I love it. I have hobbies I enjoy, but they are not social things. Not many friends, but I try to get out when I can, usually alone. Coffee shops, bookstores, parks. But when I get home at the end of the day, its just this crushing loneliness.

I've tried OKCupid and Match.com for months, with no results. I try going out to local events, but I just can't talk to women. With no success in relationships in my entire life, my confidence is nil. I can fake it for a bit, but lately its just such a big thing lately that its starting to become harder and harder to act confident. Now I'm just struggling to act normal.

I know I'm supposed to live life happy alone, and that a relationship should enhance my life, not define it. And I know that all of it is about positive thoughts, which I am lacking. But I can't force them anymore. I'm just lonely, and I constantly feel like I'm inadequate and something is wrong with me, and those just build upon each other and actually just keep me from finding someone.

I do not know what to do.

Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?
<bot>: Can't get into a relationship because I'm not confident.  Past the point that I can even fake confidence anymore, just so lonely.