<human>: basically this is my situation:

when i first started dating my gf 3 years ago she was about 80lbs lighter that she currently is. She was beautiful, and i loved going out in public and showing her off, but alas, that is not so now. 

What happened was she went away to college and we survived for 2 years on a long distant relationship (fairly well might i add), but she didnt take very good care of herself while she was there. Now that she is back she has super low self esteem, and cant doesnt put any effort to get back into shape and lose weight. I am at my wits end reddit... I love this girl, what we have goes beyond a physical connection, but the problem is, me as a person needs that physical connection. I love my GF but im not attracted to her anymore, and im not sure what to do. I would love to get her to work out more and whatnot but im not sure how to do it

any advice?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: GF went away to college, came back 80lbs heavier, with little to no self-esteem, and no desire to lose weight, although i love her emotionally im not attracted to her physically anymore