<human>: So my boyfriend is 18 and I'm 17 (we're from the UK) so he can go clubbing and I won't be able to until I turn 18 which will be in a few months. He's never been clubbing before mind you and we've been dating for a little over 9 months. 

His friend has a birthday that he wants to celebrate so naturally my bf got invited and I'm cool with that. I even got invited however the fact that I can't go clubbing makes there no point for me to go to a restaurant and leave straight after whilst everyone heads on. My boyfriend WILL be getting drunk (which the friend mentioned several times that they'll get 'pissed drunk') and since its his first time clubbing I'm a little iffy on this. I've heard many things about clubbing from movies, relationship articles etc so I'm not going to get into that but I will add I DO trust him. I mean it would be strange after 9 months if I didn't trust him but I guess its kinda like a natural reaction to not wanting him to go to a place like that, if that makes sense? 

So how do I leave the situation so I won't spend my whole evening worrying about him going clubbing for the first time and dancing up all drunk around the place basically? I talked to my boyfriend about this and he knows I'm iffy on this matter, heck he's even told me I'm not allowed to go clubbing even if it was for a friends birthday cause he, 'knows what guys intentions are' like whaaaaat hypocrite much? (he's even admitted its unfair haha) 

I just would rather not be worrying about him getting all drunk or mistaking another girl for me in his hazy state or anything like that.. augh haha:')

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<bot>: Boyfriend is going clubbing first time without me, how do I get over this and what can I spend my night doing instead of focusing on the situation? (: