<human>: My bf and I have only been together a little over a year, so it's not like I was expecting him to propose anytime soon, but I absolutely thought that's where this relationship was going.  We've been living together for almost a year now and as far as I could tell haven't had any issues.  We've been friends for about 10 years now and haven't even really even gotten into a serious fight.  

The other night we got into a disagreement about my cat and the next day I wanted to talk to him about it and he laid this all on me.  He said he doesn't see us getting married and he doesn't think I'm the one for him or vice versa.  But he said he loves me and doesn't want to break up but he feels like he's wasting my time.  

I just really don't know what to do with this information.  I don't want to break up right now either, but the last couple days I just... don't know how to act.

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Bf doesn't want to marry me, but doesn't want to break up and I don't know how to act normal again.