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So we have been together for three years and have been living together for two years.

I currently support the both of us financially since she is in school. I ask her to help out around the apartment as far as cleaning goes. Nothing ridiculous, I don't ask her to be my personal maid. But I usually end up doing all the cooking and cleaning anyway.

I've been trying to persuade her to help out more around the house and maybe go get a job or put forth more effort in school (she hasn't been doing well lately) but all she wants to do is lay around and watch TV.

She has started cutting since November and now she is blaming it on me. She shows me the cuts and says "You make me do this." I don't want her to walk all over me but at the same time, I don't want her to hurt herself. Please help? I have no idea what to do for her. I'm currently giving in and accepting all of her responsibility since I don't want her to hurt herself.
<bot>: I've been asking my girlfriend to clean up after herself or get a job. She's started cutting and blaming it on. Don't want her to hurt herself but I don't want her to take advantage of me. What do?