<human>: Give me a shortened version of the text

I read through this sub daily, and when issues crop up for a relationship of this length the default answer tends to be 'break up'. I'm open to that suggestion but quite frankly - since I can't get an answer from him - I'm just looking for some perspective. 

This is the third time so far that he's gone completely silent. The longest duration was about a week; he was dealing with some family stuff a couple weeks ago and outright ignoring calls. Ok, cool. The first time this happened was about a month in - he said something pretty rude, so I let him know exactly what was wrong and why I was upset and he hung up on me mid sentence. I tried to call him back and he told me not to call him. Couple days later, I told him I'd be picking my stuff up from his apt. And started responding, appologized for what he said and things were okay. 

This past weekend, he started acting moody the day after a regular date night. He had been texting all night but he keeps in close contact with his friends so it's not a big deal, I'm used to it. I woke up with him pretty much not talking to me, and after a few *hours* of silence, tells me he wants to be alone, so I go home. He has not responded to texts and now, two phone calls since. 

I don't get what the problem is. When I ask him if he'd like to slow down or if he's even interested in the rel., he acts like he's offended. He seems likr he cares, but *only* if he's in a good mood. Am I being impatient?

Also, as a side note he tends to walk quickly ahead of me and will sometimes forget entirely that I'm there and walk straight into a store/restaurant without me while I'm still smoking for example. I've told him this is a problem but he continues to do it/forgets. He smokes too so it's not like he's trying to get away from the smell or whatever.
<bot>: bf's head is up in the clouds. Ignores the ever loving crap out of me when he's in a bad mood.