<human>: Throwaway. My BF of 4 years has anger issues. He will get mad at little things like us getting lost to go somewhere, unhelpful employees, government decisions, bad drivers...He gets so intense about thing but I think he doesn't even realize he is being too loud and too intense. My mom admitted that last time we came over for dinner she stopped talking at one point because she didn't want to fuel his anger (it was directed at a political decision or something).

I like a good debate, but with him it's not a debate, it's just him almost screaming all of his argument and saying how stupid everyone is for thinking something else. I often have the same opinion but for the sake of the debate sometimes I just try to say : well you know people on the other side could argue that... and most of the time I can't even finish my sentence before he literally throw his argument in my face! I'm a passive and positive person, and his negative view of the world, and his aggressiveness is really off putting for me sometimes. He never ever laid a finger on me, but he did punched a wall (it made a fucking hole) and threw things like pillows in the past. 

So when his last outburst happened, I told him how tired I was of this and that it was making me very unhappy. He cried, told me he loved me, doesn't understand why he is so angry all the time over little things and that he will seek professional help. All is well, we go to sleep happy and in love. It's been a couple of days already however and he is not taking any steps toward counselling or help... the past few days have been without an incident of course, but I know (this time) it won't last. Should I try to push him to do it? I often have to push him to do things like get back to school or find a job, but I feel like this time HE should do it without me telling him to do it. I also sincerely don't know how I would bring this up in a conversation without looking like a jerk.

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<bot>: Bf has anger issues, is supposed to reach for help but doesn't, should I push him to do so or wait till he do it by himself?