<human>: Ive been texting this girl and hanging out with mutual friends for the past few months. We've known each other for about three years. Ive always thought she was a really great girl, although I was in a another relationship when we met. We never really talked much while I was attached, but we had a few interactions and many similar interests. 

My previous relationship was already rocky for a long time, and the ending was expected. I didn't want to rush things, and also I didn't want it to seem like a rebound, so I waited about a month before I started texting her and hanging out. I wanted to go slow, so it was nothing obvious, just getting to know her better and very mild flirting, kinda just as friends. Our chemistry has been great, and were becoming really good friends. I was slowly building up to officially asking her out and becoming more serious. 

So one day while hanging out with another friend A, I accidentally see a text on A's phone from my crush. The text is telling A that my crush has just developed a huge crush on another mutual friend, let's call him X. X is a really great guy, and he's new to our circle of friends, and is honestly much more eligible than me. I don't know how X feels about My crush, but they're both single and extremely eligible. I know I have a decent shot for sure, but definitely not as good as X.

I don't know what to do. I don't want to ruin friendships as this would make things in my circle of friends very awkward. but at the same time I'll feel horrible if I don't say anything, and watch my crush and X get together. Would it be selfish to tell her my feelings and hope for the best? I was already planning on taking things to the next level. But even if she says yes, I don't want to bogged down by the idea of her always harboring feelings for X.
 
I would appreciate any advice!!

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: crush crushes someone else and I find out. Not sure if I should confess my feelings and risk ruining friendships, or hold my peace and move on.