<human>: This might sound really stupid but, I've found that guys tend to fall into 2 categories when it comes to girls: friends, or dating.

A little about me. I am a 23 year old Comp sci student at uni. 10-15 pounds overweight. I have a billion hobbies(see username) and am about as outgoing/big personality as it gets. 

I have been the guy girls want to be friends with since middle school. I have all the girlfriends, I've been dealing out relationship advice since I was 11. 

Whenever I meet a girl, within 30 seconds, the idea of dating is off the table but we are set to hang out somewhere or do something faster than I can think and quickly become the person they reach out to to spend time with.

I love having girls as friends, get passed all the bullshit drama stuff (keep the right company and there gets to be much less of it) and there are a lot of really cool interesting girls out in the world.

But I am tired of even the thought of being date-able shut out so quickly.

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<bot>: How do I move from "All the girls LOVE me as a friend" to just "All the girls love me."?