<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

I've been single for a few weeks and meet this girl thru mutuals friends. 

we went out a few times to dinner and stuff but I guess she didn't consider them dates because when I asked her today on a date she wrote "I don't do well on dates, idk if that's a good idea." when asked why she said that it's a long story. 

When I finally told her I was interested in her, she changed the subject and that she needed to go to sleep. I said she was really good at avoiding conversations but it's ok good night, last thing she wrote was winky face. 

I don't know if her avoiding talking about is good or bad, I would much rather get a solid yes or no, her saying no won't change that she's a good person overall, I can handle rejection, how do I go about the conversation?
<bot>: asked a girl out on a date, didn't get a straight yes or no, what's the best way to go about getting a straight answer?