<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

Note: I posted this at one in the morning last night, didn't get any answers or up votes so I'm trying again. 

So I've been dating my best friend of 4 years for two months, though we were seeing each other for two months prior to that. Recently she's been acting really distant, so I asked her about it. She basically said that she was very confused about how she feels about me. She likes me and wants to be with me, but she doesn't want to lose me as a best friend if we ever break up. She also says that sometimes she still sees me as her friend and she is struck by the weirdness of it.

I really like this girl, hell I'm sure I even love her. I've been best friends with her for four years, we've had our fights but we always come back together. I know she will be a life-long friend no matter what, but I truly want her to be my life-long partner.

Her mother told her that she needs to go see counselling because she has problems opening up and hasn't been out of a relationship for more than three months in the past four years. After hearing what she had to say I really feel like she should as well.

I really feel like we need a more indepth discussion about this. What do you think I should do/say?
<bot>: Girlfriend is confused about whether or not she wants to be my best friend or my girlfriend. Need help on how I should handle the situation and help her over her confusion.