<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

Hi, /r/relationships!

I met my gf while I was travelling (long term travelling, didn't planned too much) and stayed in her country for a few months, we were away for a month and then came back and stayed +8 months in her city, living in the same house. 

I had to move to my home-country (or at least where my family lives) because I'm a silly person and I didn't finish a few exams, they went wrong and now I would have to ''stay'' one year (it's actually 'at distance' studies, so I wouldn't HAVE to stay, but it would certainly help to study, as here I'm living with family with more space and support; and there I'm living with my gf, less friends would have to work to support myself, so I would have less time to study, etc...)

Now, we have been over a month and half away, and we are both losing our minds, fighting, getting back together, etc..., I feel that my ''attachment'' to the relationship is less strong, I have A LOT more things here going on that she does over there, so I'm less time talking and when we talk I'm not as focused and caring as I was when we lived together, etc... and so on and forth. Things are not easy right now. 

I know that ''the decision'' must come from inside, but I would certainly love to hear opinions.
<bot>: Travelling>living w/ gf for a little less than a year> coming back to 'home' =/= uncapable of staying in the relationship?