<human>: Here is the [original link] (

But for those who don't want to read that, here's a quick summary:

About a year into our marriage we decide to have an open marriage. Everything goes fine until he falls in love with another woman. I am uncomfortable with that and ask him to not be friends with her after she ends the romantic part of the relationship. He says he should be able to choose who his friends are. He repeatedly chooses her over me, with the excuse that I told him "to do whatever he wanted." I take responsibility for being passive/aggressive in some situations. This causes lots of problems in our marriage and I moved out.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Husband said I didn't provide enough context to the situation. Trying to do that now. Is it ever okay to continue being friends with someone you fell in love with if it is negatively impacting a marriage?