<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

Throwaway because we both reddit. My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years. We have apartments in the same complex, because I wanted to move closer to him after I finished school. He is still in school.

At first I thought this would be ideal, since we could have separate spaces but still be close. Reddit, he is here all the damn time. His stuff is here, he leaves a mess in my sink, he takes up space in my bed. I still want to have a relationship with him, but I got an apartment by myself because I WANT TO LIVE BY MYSELF. I have two jobs, and it seems like I just work all day and clean up after him all night.

How can I tell him he needs to live at his own place without making it seem like I want to break up? He's very, very sensitive, and can get defensive really easily. I'm not even sure how to bring it up without starting a fight. Please help.
<bot>: My boyfriend has basically started living at my apartment, I want him to live at his apartment. How to tell him to please pack his stuff and leave in the nicest, most loving way possible?