<human>: So recently I started dating this guy I've had a crush on since I was 13. He is my brothers friend and we've always had sexual tension and such. I have had boyfriends before but I am positive I love this guy. I have never felt like I have been in love before but this guy is really important to me and I have never felt like this about someone before. I want to tell him I love him.

However, I don't want to say it and he freak out about it. He got out of a pretty long relationship 12 months ago now but their is still things from that happening such as her sending him abusive text messages about him moving on and how she still loves him. I don't know if He is in the right frame of mind to hear it and I'm scared he won't say it back. He has said he is falling for me really hard however.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Dating guy I have had a crush on since 13, fallen in love but don't know if I should I tell him cause of his situation.