<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

As brief as I can do this...

Wife had a job she worked very hard to get in a different state when I met her.

I quit and moved to that state to be with her and get married.

I had a couple jobs that weren't great; got fired; went back to school full-time for an MBA. Her job allowed me to do so.

MBA in hand, we decided to move to my home state. She quit her job, which was not easy for her. I had a job lined up.

I worked for a couple years and landed an amazing job. She's bounced around without finding anything great, which is been very hard for her. I make six figures, so she doesn't have to work, but we both expect her to, since we have no kids. At the same time, I've put no pressure on her to find a stable job.

So....she is having a very hard time lately with the job woes. I'm having a very hard time not telling her to get over it, and just go find something...anything. Her standards are too high, in my opinion. There's more to it than that, but that's the main issue. I want to tell her to set aside her high hopes, and just do what 90% of people do...work, whether you like it or not.

Part of me feels like an ass, but part of me feels like I have the right to throw down some tough love. Thoughts?
<bot>: My wife doesn't need to work, but I think she should. I also think her standards are too high. I want to tell her to get a job - any job. Can I? Should I?