<human>: I've been dating my boyfriend for about a 7 months or so. We don't live together but he comes over to my house several times a week. 

  Back story:I had a really bad experience with a psycho ex blackmailing me with racy pics after I dumped him and now I'm really uncomfortable with sending nudes to anyone or them having pics/video of me on their phone without my approval. I will send sexy pics, but only I need to be the one to decide what sexy pics are on your phone and I usually crop my head out of them. I'm just not comfortable enough yet to be more open to that. 

   With my current BF, It started when we first started dating. I'd be in my room dancing around or even getting dressed (half naked) and my BF will be secretly record me. At first, after realizing he was recording me, he would laugh and show me. I kinda laughed it off, but told him to stop. Then he did it again another time when I was wearing little shorts and I was packing for a trip and dancing around my room. He secretly recorded me mad didn't tell me. When I asked him, he said he did. I told him it makes me feel uncomfortable and anxious when he does that, then doesn't tell me after. I told him why and he said he understood.      

Last night I was standing in my room in my underwear and he secretly recorded me again and didn't tell me. I had a feeling later on in the night and asked him. He got really nervous but told me yes he filmed me for a second. He says he just likes having candid vids and pics of me on his phone. This is starting to be a serious red flag for me now. I've told him I don't mind sending him racy pics as long as I'M the one that took them. And I've said if he takes a video of me secretly, then at least show me after. He isn't really getting it, or maybe he doesn't have the best intentions and that's why he's not listening. What should I do?

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<bot>: My boyfriend sneaks candid videos of me doing things in my room (like dancing in small clothing or standing around with no clothes on and then doesn't tell me.) I've asked him to stop, but he keeps doing it.