<human>: I (29F) have been married to my husband (33M) for 2 years. We have a 1 year old and both work full-time.

I have been unhappy with our child's daycare for a long time. They seem to focus on just keeping the kids alive, instead of any kind of learning or enrichment. She also gets a lot more bumps and bruises at daycare than she gets at home. They transitioned her to 1 nap when I strongly believe she still needs 2. I have a feeling they sometimes let her cry it out to fall asleep, although I don't know for sure. The providers don't stay long, and it's always someone new. I have also heard the main provider raise her voice to the kids angrily.

My husband and I had a series of discussions and fights before we placed her in that daycare. I wanted to put her in a more expensive place (twice as expensive) that has more enrichment activities, less providers turnover, and daily logs of what they eat, how much they sleep, what they do, etc.

Hearing the provider yell at the kids was the last straw. I told my husband that I am not comfortable with her daycare and that I want to move her to the more expensive place. He complained about the price, and we got into a huge fight. I told him that I am putting my foot down, and this is no longer a negotiation, because our child comes first. I said that I am willing to make any other financial changes he wants, like decreased spending money or even asking my boss for a raise, but as far as I am concerned it is no longer a negotiation and we are moving our child.

He is really angry with me, and I don't know what to do. I can't back down on this issue but I know I handled it badly. Please give me some advice to help smooth things over with my husband. Thank you.

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<bot>: I am switching our child to a daycare that is twice as expensive, and my husband does not want to pay for it and is very upset with me.