<human>: So I have been dating this girl since College for about a year, we have been doing alright minus the fact that she lives 3 hours away from me.  We were looking to move to Nashville and she has an interview down there. I live 3 hours southeast of her and she and her mom are driving down.  When i told her it wasn't logical for me to drive 3 hours out of my way she responded with yelling and saying she wasn't worth the 3 hour drive.  I explained that I would have to work the next day and that it doesn't make sense for me to drive 3 hours north to go 8 hours south!

She an i have been having issues with this long distance relationship.  She always says I don't come and see her, however I have driven up their on my own money for 5 weeks since June, she has not been here since June.  She tells me im selfish and dont care about anybody but myself.  However, when my family gives their opinion, they say im very selfless and always bend over backwards making her dinner, getting her stuff and she's never satisfied. I finally had enough to day and this 3 hour driving situation has pushed me over the edge and i said i cant do it anymore.  The reality is that i spend 140 dollars every other week to drive 3 hours to see her, and she who gets money from her mom comes to see me only 4 times this entire summer.  What should I do?

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: My SO says I'm selfish for not driving 3 hours northwest to her house, to then drive 8 hours south.