<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

We've been in couples counseling and I told her a few months ago I was also attracted to men. I've never cheated on her and have been faithful our entire marriage. I've always had a lot of transgender feelings too and I told her everything yesterday(I've been to therapy sessions, have these constant feelings that have become stronger recently, how I feel like I feel like a woman inside sometimes, but that I love her with all my heart but am trying to be honest, etc.). She said she understood, and we went to sleep peacefully, spooning even. This is her email response she sent me shortly after she left the house this morning, in a nutshell.

1.  She will hire a lawyer to take as much money of ours in a divorce now that she knows what the $ would be for, for a disgusting transgender surgery(which of course wouldnt take place for years and is not a sure thing). That my honest feelings have 'disrespected' her and our marriage so greatly that she'd rather i give all my money to charity than transition

2.  That she couldnt bear to talk to me, see me, tell ppl about me. That MAYBE she could text or email me, but couldnt do more than that.

3. That I'd be mutilating my body and insides and what kind of person could want me then. That I will never be a real woman, I'll never have kids, never have ovaries or menstruate, and I'll be some some half freak that nobody would accept.

I know not everybody accepts this kind of thing, but I am so devastated by the one closest to me telling me these kinds of things, and I just don't know how I can go on anymore...
<bot>: Told my wife I may be transgender, she reacted poorly, wants to take all my $ and says I'll be a freak who will never have anybody want me.  Devastated..