<human>: When I was in middle school, I was kicked out of a very prestigious privet school for smoking weed.  I was on track to be accepted to another prestigious high school, which probably would have lead to an amazing college and better future.  I am now a 26 year old enlisted military guy trying to get his life back on the civilian track.  My sister was just talking about how some students at her kids school (privet, prestigious) were immediately expelled for weed use and she is stoked.  I don't want the same thing to happen to them that happened to me.  So my question to you... is it better to kick out the "bad apples" or...what I would of done... Drug testing, monitoring, etc, to make sure these kids succeed in life. When I got kicked out I went back hard into (harder) drugs and it almost killed me.  When somebody you care about fucks up, to you cast them into the cold? Or try to help them?  If they keep fucking up I understand.  But a child making his first mistake?  Isn't it our responsibility as the older generation to see them succeed? Isn't it called parenting for a reason?

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Don't cast first time fuck up's to the wolfs, help them make a better future for themselves and society.