<human>: 4yrs married.

I was invited to a party with some new work friends and I invited my wife. After the party my friend says that he doesn't like the way she talked about me and doesn't want her over anymore. My wife and I can trash talk each other a little, but it's mostly lighthearted but my friend thought she crossed a line. My wife is mad because in her view I should have her back, and that means if someone doesn't like her I should cut them off. I only have a small handful of friends, and I hate to lose a new one because they don't like my wife. I understand that my wife doesn't have a great social filter, so I can understand if my friends feels she crossed a line. I want to keep my friendship but my wife feels that I'm betraying her. Do my friends also have to befriend my wife?

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<bot>: My friend doesn't want to be friends with my wife, so my wife doesn't want me to be friends with him. Do my friends also have to befriend my wife?