<human>: Backstory:

I lived in her country for a while and we got engaged about 2 years ago. I moved back to my country about a year ago, she came over about 5 months ago and we soon got married.

The 2 existing problems:

#1 - Her dad was diagnosed with cancer a few months before she came here.

#2 - I have a testicular problem that can be very painful if touched and I think it has stopped me from being sexually aroused. 

Her father is now in what I believe is considered stage 4 cancer and doesn't have long to live. I feel so bad for her because she just came to a new country and is at home all day by herself while I work 10-12 hours a day on most M-F. At night she just drinks a lot and cries.

She told me yesterday that since we have no kids and I'm not even able to have sex, she wants to leave to be with her family. Of course I told her she should fly home to be with her father for however long she needs to be, but she alluded to the fact that she'd need to stay with her mother after he passes away to take care of her. Also, since we don't have children and I can't even have sex right now she has no responsibility here compared to what she has at home so there's no reason for her to even be here.

I truly love her and don't want to lose her after only 4 months of marriage. I hope to get over my super fucking embarrassing un-manly problem soon so that's definitely the minor issue in this case, but I've had numerous family members die of cancer and I still don't know how to be positive or support her in her situation.

I want her to go be with her father and spend some healing time with her family, but I want her to come back to me so we can be a family and hopefully grow.

Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?
<bot>: Wife's dad is dying soon. I'm unable to bone. She wants to leave me after 4 months of marriage.