<human>: A little background on me. I'm a 21 year old woman, currently single, who has dated both men and women. I know I'm attracted to women, and would be happy to be in a relationship with one.

I'm not sure about guys though. In the relationships I have had, I have felt attraction for them, but have had no desire to have penetrative sex with them (I enjoy oral and making out though). It isn't because of any shame about sex either; I wasn't raised in a way that would make me feel ashamed of my sexuality, unlike some religious girls I know. 

Mainly, the dynamics of a relationship with a man kind of weird me out. It is pretty socially acceptable (Many people I know even think its cute) to have a guy who is protective and even what I would consider controlling over them. 

I am a very independent person and being with a person who tries to cast themselves as my "protector" or something like that really makes me uncomfortable. Especially when that involves telling me they don't want me doing something. And while I know this is not an issue that happens only with men, it seems the social roles people tend to fall into causes this to occur frequently when I date men, and almost never with women. 

I'm thinking I might be a lesbian, but I'm not quite sure... It may also be possible that the only issue I have with relationships with men is feeling controlled by the social roles that relationship would put on me.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: I'm not sure if I'm bisexual or if I'm a lesbian. I feel uncomfortable with the relative social inequality i have experienced when dating men in the past.