<human>: Hello, my grandfather married my stepgrandma when my mother was in college. My biograndma had died several years before. She has never been nice to my mom. She threw out a lot of items of my biograndma (there are maybe like 3 photos of her left). She convinced my grandpa to cut my mom off financially and eventually communication wise. My grandpa and my mom's relationship is fine now. But my stepgrandma can be horribly cruel to her stepkids. She makes comments about how she was married longer to my grandpa than my biograndma. Just a bunch of snide comments. The mother's day before the most recent, my aunt in law forgot to call my grandma. She had a friend miscarry that day and was distracted. She apologized for forgetting but my grandma kept sending her emails beratting her for her decision. Note: she didn't send these emails to her own kids who haven't called her in years. She sends these beratting emails frequently, like most recently for my uncle and aunt not calling during their vacation (my mom thought they'd want time to enjoy their vacation). So because of all her dramatic behavior, my aunt and uncle no longer wish to spend time with her. This means not big family events with my whole family on special occasions. Has anyone else dealt with a person like my grandma? Is there anyway we can all get along peacefully when member makes it very hard?

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<bot>: Stepgrandma berates her stepkids. Uncle and Aunt no longer wish to deal with her. Still want family gatherings. How do you deal with a drama stirrer like my grandma?