<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

I've been on an online dating website (okcupid) for a few months. Before joining the site, I had a recent breakup from a four-year-long relationship. Due to that, I didn't really have any expectations or goals for dating. I've been enjoying the fun of dating non-exclusively, but have also been open to more serious relationships.

For a while, there were four guys who I was seeing regularly, and I'd occasionally go on dates with new guys. Recently, one of the four regular guys asked me how I felt about being exclusive. He told me that being "sexually monogamous" was important to him. I agreed that I'd like to be exclusive. A few dates later, he mentioned that it drove him a bit crazy that I still had an okc account and that he didn't like the idea of other guys messaging me. He also said that he wished that I would ask him to disable his account. I realize that we probably should have discussed disabling our accounts in our original discussion about being exclusive, but I was at the point where I wasn't really using mine anymore, so I hadn't really given it much thought.

A few days later, I texted him and asked what he thought about disabling okc accounts. He responded immediately and was in full support of it. I disabled mine later that afternoon. When we hung out the next day (this past Monday night), I told him that I'd disabled my account and he said that he was going to disable his the next day. However, I've looked sporadically to see if he disabled his account. He hasn't done so, even though his profile says that he has been online several times since our last discussion. I realize that if this continues, then I will need to talk to him about it. However, how soon is too soon to say something? I want to give him the benefit of the doubt and not seem overbearing.
<bot>: Guy I've been dating for a couple of months and I agreed to disable our okcupid accounts. He hasn't done so yet. When is appropriate to bring it up without seeming overbearing?