<human>: So we broke up a little over a month ago.  It was her call, she just said basically that she stopped having feelings for me but that she still needs/wants me as a friend. We dated in the same area for a while before her job took her to the opposite side of the country. 

Anyway, I had planned this trip before we ended things and still wanted to take a mini vacation (and see her... still have feelings). She really wanted me to come and see her too. So yesterday I hopped on a plane and went across 3 time zones to visit her where she is at. I hung out with her for about 4 hours yesterday (got lunch,  walked around, talked) and then it just got bad. She felt bad and I felt awful. She asked me to take her back early so I did. 

So now, I have 2.5 more days with her. I'm not sure what to do, how to handle this. My ideal situation would have been for her to realize that I'm a real person even when I'm across the country from her and maybe some of her feelings would have returned. 

I am planning on taking her to a tourist trap (very pretty) that she hasn't been to yet and out to dinner, sort of like a date. Debating telling her that even as friends we can go on a date. I'm really not sure yet. 

So I'll be seeing her in about 3 hours from posting this, I can provide updates if requested. But I'm looking for opinions on this situation, any ideas?

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<bot>: I am visiting my ex across the country from my home and not sure how to be happy and/or get what I want out of this trip