<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

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I wanted to thank you all for your advice. I got some very good, honest and blunt advice from you guys. 

After reading the majority of the replies on here and talking to a friend in real life who knows the story I decided not to meet up, chat or talk with the wife. I sent her a short email telling her that I had moved on and that I was happy to hear everything was good with them. I ended up with good luck to both of you.

She replied just a couple hours later basically saying (paraphrasing here) that she understood and that she was glad that I moved on, that she spent the year of 2014 disliking me, stalking my online profiles and wondering why me. In 2015 she decided to blame redirect the hate towards the real cause of her problems, that I wasn't the one who decided to cheat on her, that I just went along and that I wasn't the one who married her, he was. She was hoping that by getting to know me she would have a more positive image of me and stop seeing me as (her words) the young dumb bitch who slept with her husband. 

I'm not going to reply, I messed up, I'm not done forgiving myself and I hope she can find it in herself to fully forgive me. I just wanted to update you guys since you've been giving me pretty good advice. Thank you.
<bot>: Messaged wife politely declining her offer, she told me she just wanted to get to know me so she could stop disliking me so much. That's all.