<human>: I'm not sure how big of a problem this is to other people in relationships, but for us it seems to be the root to all that is evil.

I can't handle it when my girlfriend is out. She can't handle it when I'm out either. We get really paranoid and insecure, start thinking all sorts of things.

We're both still very young, we're not in our 30s with a settled carreer and ready to plant our seeds and what not, we are in the age of curiousity and exploring. This thought makes me really cynical and sometimes doubt the whole concept of being in a relationship at my age.

I feel the concept of going out, and alcohol being included, is the main destroyer of all relationships, because people fuck up when they're drunk. They do.

Considering that not going out for the rest of our lives isn't going to be the simple fix, I feel that I need to change my perspective on things. I really want to. So badly.

The idea of this thread is not to discuss my own problem, but to receive inspiration from other people who feel the same way. I'm looking forward to hearing all kinds of input!

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<bot>: Girlfriend and I don't like it when the other person is out, feels like it's ruining the stability and trust of our relationship - wishing to hear other peoples experiences of dealing with this sort of thing.