<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

My girlfriend told me that it is awkward that I talk bad about my significant other, sometimes even when SO is around. 

That statement started to get to me, so I did some surfing on these interwebs and I fell into...of all things... a mommy blog about ["5 ways to refresh the love in your relationship"] 

**Step #1:** Don't ever speak bad about your SO to anyone! Crap.

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I **feel bad** that I'm making my girlfriend uncomfortable, horrible that I've fallen into a pattern of killing the love in the relationship with my SO, 

**Feel Good** that I have something to work on that can fix it, 

**Feel Guilty** that this is not the only thing on mommy blogger's list of things that hit me square in the feels that I know I need to be doing better.

I feel a little on edge now, like a bag of cats. I want to be mad, and I want to be mad at SO, but SO is fine like always. I want to be mad...at myself. How crazy is that?
<bot>: I found truth in the least likely place, and It hit me in the feels. I need to do way better at managing my side of my relationship.