<human>: So I met this girl and went out with her a few times. I like the connection and her taste in music. Shes really cute and nice, and super in to me. Ive stood her up twice and she is still wanting to hang out. 

But she seems to want to hang out all the time, wants me to come by her work and buy shoes I don't need or want. Here I am just wanting to still be myself and do what I want without the pressure of going to go see her cause she wants, etc. Am I messed up?

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: been single for 2.5 years, found a suitable girl, but cant bring myself to commit and move the relationship...why?