<human>: Hello Reddit,

I am currently in a undergrad psych program and I am growing tired of the intellectual positioning and general time wasting I experience when encountering my peers. 

All of this is based in the belief that: something is wrong with me, and I need to prove myself (to myself and to you) to find verification in myself.

This cultivates in arguing on the bases of "who's wrong" and "who's right" or "look at me I'm smart" by putting up these false personalities that differ from each person to the next and it's *absolutely insane*.

This is a huge waste of time and *I fucking hate it*. I am reading a book right now about being more compassionate to those who don't love themselves and then waste my time trying to prove themselves by using excessive words etc., but I really have an issue with it and then I get "judgmental" about it which is playing *the same game* they are playing. I want to be loving to people, because I know this will draw them out of the bullshit and into reality which is here *now*.

Then things would be a lot more efficient etc., but at this current moment in time I need to get my degree so I can go out into the world and help more people. If you have any ideas on this, please post!

I really need help as I'm just totally lost as to what to do. 

Thanks!

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<bot>: how do I act more compassionate and loving to people who don't love their trueselves and it's blatantly obvious?