<human>: So, at the apex of our five year relationship, my SO and I are in a bind. We live in a small town (~20,000) in Northwestern BC. 

She wants to leave, and I don't. She wants to move to a larger city; I don't. 

It is becoming a bigger and bigger issue, but I feel I have so much here that I don't want to abandon. My friends, family, work, and life is here. I like it here. I like the solitude that is available and the low cost of living. 
She wants excitement and people. I can't blame her for that, but I don't miss the city. It's not what I want. 
I also feel like abandoning my career is a bad move. I make very good money, and with the low cost of living, have very few concerns about the future. This, coupled with the fortune in real estate my parents have amassed, makes me feel financially secure here. 

Moving to a larger city with more competition for jobs and a higher cost of living makes me feel like we would spend most of our income on rent. That isn't the life I want. 
I feel like this is coming to a crossroads in our relationship, and I don't really know what to do. I don't want to sacrifice the life I want for her. 
That's probably a big deal.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: she wants to move to the city; I want to stay in the small town. May destroy relationship unless compromise can be reached.