<human>: Sorry for the throwaway but I have many friends who are apparently aware of my regular account. 

I'm generally an upbeat person but the past few days have been really tough for me. 

I've been using online dating sites to meet people. I'm attractive and in shape for the most part. I'm active and have a decent job (though I do live in a big expensive city, so I have to live with my parents). I have hobbies and a handful of new friends. In my office I'm known for being nice and an easy person to work with. 

Lately I've just felt very... unmotivated with online dating. I'd really like more insight or advice. I've been single since late 2012 and spent the past 3ish years keeping people out, but lately I've been way more open, transparent, and just more vulnerable I guess you could say because I'm actually putting myself out there. 

I've had dozens of first dates but only a handful of second date. I'd like to meet someone cool to travel and build a relationship with, and I'll be honest - sometimes I'm scared that will never happen for me. Or it will happen too late.

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<bot>: What can I do to stay motivated with dating? What are your best dating tips in general? How can I be a more approachable woman?