<human>: Hello Reddit.

I'm struggling a bit with a girl who I really like (J). I met her two years ago at a film course and we started talking/Skyping/gaming after that. More recently (the past 4 months or so), we've been talking more and we realised that we have feelings for each other. 

However J has just got out of her first long term (6 months) relationship which didn't end well. She says that she needs time before she does anything with anybody else. I totally understand but that doesn't make it easier for me to just be friends with her. This all happened tonight. About three weeks ago she came to stay at mine for the weekend and we ended up sleeping together, not as a mistake though. After that we met up every so often (she lives quite far away from me) to go and see films and play games together and stuff. These events often ended in a kiss and hug. I'm just really confused and conflicted, it hurts knowing that I can't have anything with her right now, but I want to respect her feelings and do right by her. Does anybody have any advice?

Thanks

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<bot>: I like a 2 year friend who also likes me back. She just got out of a relationship and doesn't want anything yet. What should I do?