<human>: I love my girlfriend.  She makes me extremely happy and is not emotionally abusive or manipulative.  

She is easily overwhelmed emotionally, and I regularly (avg every other day) spend 20-90 minute periods of time comforting her and helping her talk through her problems, which are generally related to responsibilities like work/finances or to social struggles (crippling anxiety about her friend being sick of her based on an ambiguous text or something).

As I stated, I am totally in love with her.  As such, my strategy has always been to listen to her and help her explore her feelings before suggesting ways to cope, identifying deeper issues, and if I'm lucky talking about practical ways to solve the issue at hand.  I can't abandon her while she's having an episode because I need her to be happy, but there's no straightforward path to getting over it or addressing it.

Lately, I've been feeling more trapped by these occurrences because I'm sick of putting tons of time and energy into comforting her and coming up with practical, actionable solutions only to have her become overwhelmed by many of the same problems repeatedly, not taking advice seriously, and causing me to waste time with her again and again.  Sometimes I'm trying to get work done, sometimes it's in the middle of an activity, sometimes it's in the middle of a party or in my parked car immediately before social functions.

I don't know what to do.  When she's upset, she isn't in emotional state address her problems.  When she's not upset, she doesn't want to address her problems because it will make her upset. She doesn't appear to be making progress.

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: girlfriend is easily overwhelmed but doesn't take action to relieve her problems, causing me to regularly and inconveniently waste time trying to comfort/help her