<human>: We both care about each other a lot, but I'm not sure if I'm as in love with him anymore. We've been together for a year. I have tried to break up with him twice, but ended up taking him back right away because I still loved him. I have never felt so comfortable being myself around anyone else and we share the same sense of humor.

However, we have some problems that just can't be fixed. I've stayed with him for this long hoping things will get better, but they won't. This is just not the type of relationship I'm looking for. It's nothing bad, but it's just not a fulfilling kind of relationship. Sometimes I feel like I'm settling. It sucks because it's not really his fault. It's a combination of his living situation and his personality. I have already told him what I'm unhappy about and he's kinda tried to fix it with smaller things, which I appreciate, but I think the bigger picture is not fixable.

Please give me some encouragement or even statements of harsh reality to help me break up with him this time so I don't take him back again. It's going to be really hard for me. He's the only person I talk to daily that I can be completely honest about my feelings with. He definitely doesn't want to be friends if we break up, and let's be honest... It would only hurt us more if we did stay "friends". I'm about to lose and hurt my best friend. :( Any advice or personal experiences you can share with me? Thank you.

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<bot>: My boyfriend is my best friend, but I don't think we work in a relationship. It's not really his fault. How can I get myself to break it off with him?