<human>: I'm a virgin because of this issue. We're in a long distance relationship so we do not see each other often but she is VERY understanding of this issue. The issue is I can't get erect for sex. I've gotten erect several times but come time for intercourse, performance anxiety kicks in. It also doesn't help that I was masturbating very frequently [2-4 times a day] which might have made me desensitized. Assuming this is a problem, I have not masturbated in about 3 weeks now and I see her again in another 3 weeks. I've noticed some pretty significant changes in how sensitive I am to touch now. 

I have not told my girlfriend that I am doing this. This is mainly because I feel she might expect me to get erect fast which will end up putting pressure on me. But maybe it'll do the opposite if I tell her? Will telling her help me get past this performance anxiety? Has anyone had a similar issue?

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<bot>: Can't get it up due to performance anxiety and too much wanking. Haven't wanked in weeks. Should I tell my gf this to help with the anxiety?