<human>: Our child (Steven,M,1yr) & I (Destiny,F,23) left his dad (Ricky,M,23) due to several reasons that I don't presently want to type out.

Among the things that I packed to take were the condoms that i had got for us (there was about 31 left) & our tube of lube that i had also bought.when he had come home from work that day & we had eaten dinner & put our child to sleep, he immediately got into a conversation about our intimate supplies.it went like this:

Him-"Where are the contents of that drawer?" 
Me-"which drawer?" 
Him-"the one next to our bed.where is everything that was in there?" 
Me-"I packed them with my things because I had gotten it all.why?" 
Him: "well I want you to throw it all away." 
Me- "umm...why? I got it all & it's not like you & me are gonna use them anymore.im not gonna waste all that."
 Him- "well because I don't want you having sex with anyone else but me."

Long story short on why we left him,he dosent want to take his responsibilities seriously & won't accept the consequences of his actions.he was physically abusive to me & emotionally abusive to both myself & our child.he cheated & kept insisting that he would be better with us gone.(in addition to telling me that he didn't want me to be with anyone else, he also told me that our child was not allowed to have another father figure.)

So my question is,why is it that even though he kept fighting to make myself & our child leave, that he dosent want me or our child to be with anyone but him?

Can you provide a brief overview of the text?
<bot>: abusive ex dosent want myself or our son anymore, but also dosent want us to be with anyone else but him.