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I strongly dislike my family and spend as little time as possible with them.  I'm not adverse to having a family as I think I would actually make a great dad because I know exactly what NOT to do.

Anyway, this isn't a rant.  I was seeing this girl who was very family-oriented and disliked the fact that I had a limited relationship with mine.  This doesn't make sense to me.  Let's just say this girl and I ended up married.  That means ALL holidays would be spent with HER family.  Isn't that what she wants?  I don't understand why she would want a guy who is family-oriented because that would make holidays less stressful and she would ultimately be spending less time with her family.  What do you guys think?
<bot>: If someone is family-oriented why is it important for the other person to be too when that could potentially cut into your family time?