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I've had a crush on this waitress at my favorite bar for close to a year now and I don't know how to ask her out without being "that guy" that hits on girls while they're working. I've never seen her walking around town or anywhere else besides work so I don't know where to ask her in a more casual setting. 

Let me preface this with saying that this is no minor crush without even talking to her she's made me a better person. When I first saw her I told myself that if I ever got the opportunity to go out with this girl I better have something to show for, so I really pushed myself and got myself an awesome job in my field making pretty good money for my age (I'm 22 almost 23) then I said that if I ever take her on a date I don't want to drive her around in my piece of shit car so I bought a really nice car as well. Finally I said hey i better start working out so I look better and I'm now in the best shape of my life. All of this because if I just got the opportunity to date her I'd want to be able to offer her the best of everything. 

I've also never asked anyone out in my entire life. Every girl I've ever dated or I've slept with has asked me out so I'm completely out of my element here and I have no idea what I'm doing. Any advice would help.
<bot>: I'm in love with a waitress at my favorite bar but I only see her at work. How do I ask her out?