<human>: Hi everyone! So...I've been pretty okay with the wedding stress so far, until now. My fiance and I have incredibly busy work schedules and it's been so hard to get everything done. We sent out save the dates a few months ago to all of our guests, and now we are getting the invitations done. My friend has been nice enough to create a custom design for us, but it will still be at least another week to print and ship them, and then for my mother and I to assemble them over the next weekend.

Judging by this timeline, and the final guest count date my venue needs (I was horrible about this and literally gasped when I just checked the date)...some of my guests will have just over 2 weeks (as in, two weeks and one or two days) to RSVP. No one will have more than 3 weeks. On top of that, we're really only giving ourselves another week after that due date to follow up on people who don't send in their RSVPs.

I have no idea how this slipped through the cracks and the invitations took so long. I had my first absolute freak out tonight over this. Anyone have any thoughts or calming advice? I feel like there's nothing I can do at this point but worry about people thinking we're incredibly rude for only giving them two weeks to respond.

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<bot>: I'm only giving my guests 2-2.5 weeks to respond to RSVPs. Did send out STDs a few months back. Am I a horrible bride-to-be? Any advice?