<human>: We have been together almost three years and about a year ago we moved to a new place for work. Things have always been pretty amazing; but after the move slowly we both became depressed in our own ways because of lack of social life, sun, and time together in this new environment. We actually talked about it and tried to address it months ago, but I had just started a new job that took more attention and his job was not going well so nothing really came of it. I don't feel we really drifted apart in our relationship in a way either of us could see but in a more personal way. We definitely were both unhappy with lack of attention we were receiving from the other but both made excuses as to why things had changed. I know my weight gain contributed to his lack of attention. Combine that with the fact that his job left him with little time or energy to show he appreciated all I do for him we both just continued to go through the motions of our 'perfect' relationship.

About two months ago he slept with another girl while he was back home. And then again while there again a month ago. I found out about it the night he got back home the second time. I am still very hurt but genuinely wanted to mend things and feel he does too. I know not much time has past but I don't want to waste time with this that I don't have to. I want to look at this as a wake up call for the both of us. I know that's not a good way to put it but when I break it down it's the easiest way to. 

My main issue right now is how I can rebuild all the trust I had in and with him. I haven't forgiven him but sincerely plan to in the future. We just signed a one year lease again. I wouldn't normally want to do that right after all this but it's how the timing worked out. 

I can provide more details but really don't know if the circumstances of the cheating would change any advise I can receive.

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<bot>: Just looking for people that have gone through a similar experience that can either give me confidence that it does work out sometimes and what little/big things can be done to help rebuild for a better relationship in our future.