<human>: I recently got out of a relationship with my girlfriend, and although we were only together for six months we saw each other nearly every day.  We have a special connection and a passion for one another, but she is afraid to commit and is emotionally immature.  There's a lot I need to work on as well, but she was the bigger part of the problem, primarily for that reason.

We hooked up twice about a week after we broke up, and essentially stopped talking after that.  On Wednesday, she messaged me staying she wanted to stay over just to be next to me.  I obliged, so we slept in the same bed and cuddled (no sex).  Yesterday, we did the same thing.  I really want to sleep with her and I know she wants me, but if I respect myself I know I can't do this.  However, I don't want her looking around for other dudes because I still love her (and I really don't want to have sex with anyone else right now)...and she'd only do it because she values sex more than a committed relationship.

Should I just play along with it, letting the sex happen knowing that it would ruin how I think about her?  Or should I just block this out completely?  I think we're both having a hard time letting go.

Oh, and I bought her a vibrator kit to try to buy some time...I don't know.

[Context on this girl (I posted about us in /r/sex a few months ago).](

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<bot>: Broken up; I want to fulfill my needs and want her to fulfill hers, but I don't want her sleeping with other guys and I don't want to sleep with other women.  What the hell do I do?