<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

**-->** We have been dating for 1 year at Christmas and were friends/co-workers for about 6 months prior to that.

**-->** While we were just friends, he was very flirty.  He definitely let me know he found me attractive and would ask me out, flirt with me. etc.  He made me feel very attractive and gave off a very strong sexual energy.

**-->** Pretty much as soon as we started actually dating, he stopped flirting. But the sex wasn't really happening much (because of opposite work schedules, living arrangements, life, etc).   However, the times when we did have the opportunity to have sex, he never seemed all that interested.  It would happen sometimes, and sometimes it wouldn't. I should note he is much much much more experienced than I am and until we actually got together I believed he had a very high sex-drive due to things he said, and I worried that I wasn't very good or something since once he got me he didn't much seem to want me anymore.  

**-->** I am just worried and I feel like we have no passion already.  It's only been a year!!!  I understand that he has a demanding job and life/work gets in the way, but if he shows very little interest in sex (with me), I'm thinking that means he really isn't all that attracted to me.  He likes porn, he notices other women on the street, he has had dozens of past partners....I think he's bored with relationship sex (even though it barely even happens).  I think he's much more excited by new conquests, but how is this giong to be sustainable if he's already bored with me?  We never even had a time when we had lots of sex in the beginning.

**-->** As an example, we have only had sex once this month.  And we have been staying together all weekend, and he has just worked non-stop.  If we were together for 7 years, that would make sense but right now I'm beginning to wonder what is going on.
<bot>: BF only acted really interested in me sexually until we got together and now has a "take it or leave it" attitutde towards sex.