<human>: My girlfriend has a few psychological problems which affect our relationship in many many ways. From mood swings to strong anxiety and jealousy, she has many problems which im trying to help her with.

This process is very hard on me though. Outbursts of rage over (for me) minor things are very common and take quite a toll on my energy. I turned to friends for support, advice on what i can do, and for hugs and in general for the feeling that im not such a bad person. 

Now: she feels I violate her privacy with this. I try to explain her situation to my friends so they can empathise with mine and her situation. She feels threatened by that. She claims that most people are a threat to her and i should not be handing them the weapons for destroying her.

While i can understand her need for privacy, i would also like to be able to talk to my friends about it. We tried to talk about it, but she says its a hard limit for her and there will be no negotiation on this. I tried to make her see my position in this, and she gave me permission to talk to two of my friends (one which i see rarely and one which i generally do not tend to for comfort). She also said since she is working hard on herself, i should be too: i should be strong enough to cope with her without any support from friends. I disagree. Nobody should be isolated like this from his friends and this behaviour bares characteristics of an abusive relationship.

   So i tend to the internet, since im not allowed to talk to most of my friends anymore: maybe someone here has some insight for me on what i can reasonably do in this situation.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: gf has psychological problems, forbids me to talk about it to my friends even when it affects me massively. is her privacy or my right for support more important?