<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

We met on Coffee Meets Bagel and hit it off right away. He's very kind and caring and an overall good man. I enjoy spending time with him, but I couldn't see a successful future together, so i decided to break things off. We had talked about some of my doubts and nagging thoughts several times, so when i finally told him that the relationship was over, i dont think it was a surprise. Nonetheless, he was **devastated**. He cried... *a lot*. He said things like "my life is over" "i wish i died before this conversation" "i wont be ok" etc. We talked for about 2 hours that day and i tried to comfort him - i care about him and want him to be okay, i want him to be happy. In the past when we've gotten into arguments, he hasn't dealt with them very well - he gets physically ill, loses his appetite, doesn't sleep, withdraws from the things he enjoys, etc. With this break up, i'm worried he might hurt himself or even just neglect himself too much.

It's been a couple days now, and i want to check on him (I'm still pretty confident that i made the right move in ending our relationship) - is it fair to ask him how he's doing? to text or call him? would that cause him more pain? It's killing me that i hurt him so badly, but i dont want to make the pain worse. Thoughts? Advice?
<bot>: I broke up with my man and I'm worried about his well-being. Is it fair to text or call him to ask about him?