<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

Maybe I am being totally psycho, but one of the biggest issues that I have with our relationship is that we don't behave as a couple. I'm going to a rehearsal dinner where I am in the wedding party, he won't come with me. Reverse the situation, and he doesn't want me there. I feel like such a fucking idiot. It's situations like this that make me confront the fact that we have completely disparate ideas about what we want this relationship to be, but I love this motherfucker. I am all about preserving our individual identity, and maintaining a life outside of what we have, but I want to be a *couple*, not the people who's identity is defined by one another, but the people who are enhanced by one another. Fuck. Not entirely sure why I am putting this out on reddit, other than the possibility of support.I think I know I'm done and I am just looking for some validation because I'm a dick.
<bot>: My boyfriend won't take me to family functions, and I am upset that he won't acknowledge it. I guess. Mostly just think he doesn't care whether or not I am a part of his life.