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A little background, I met this girl about 6 weeks ago.  She's a friend of mines g/f's little sister.  This girl is fucking gorgeous, like one of the prettiest girls I've ever seen in real life, and to top it off, she's super cool.  So, I get her number and we start hanging out but she obviously wants this to move super slow, something I'm not a fan of but hey this one might be worth it I figure.  To give you an idea, the first time we hungout after meeting was a group dynamic, next was us and her roommate and b/f, then we hungout alone for the first time about 3 weeks ago.  Now, I work about 60 hrs a week and her hours are weird due to her line of work (3 am to 11 am type stuff) so our availability has precluded hanging out more often in many cases.  

Anyway, when I met this girl it turns out we have a fair amount of mutual friends and when they heard about "us" just about everyone took the time to tell me to watch out, she leads guys on, doesnt date much blah blah blah.  But, I'm quite good with women and date a lot so in my head it was "Just cuz these other idiots can't close, got nothing to do with me."  However, its been 6 weeks at this point and although phone and hangout time have increased substantially, I'm starting to think I'm in the same boat as these other suckers.

Being led on is something I just can't abide.  I refuse to be the guy who worships some girl forever in the hopes that she eventually has the epiphany that what she's wanted has been in front of her the whole time.  That said, we are supposed to have dinner Wed. at which point I plan on just asking her point blank whats going on and assuming she gives me some "friend" shit or that she doesn't want to rush things, I plan on putting some money on the table and wishing her the best and making my exit.  That's reasonable right?
<bot>: Possibly being led on by a girl.  Known her about 6 weeks, plan on asking point blank whats going on between us.  If not the answer I'm looking for I plan on severing all connection.