<human>: Basically, I don't know how to tell my long-distance boyfriend that I want him to say sweet things to me every now and again.  It sounds incredibly selfish that I want him to tell me how he feels about me every now and again, and I don't mean "I love you."  

I feel that the only time he gets excited about texting me is when he's horny.  Every other time feels like he's busy and I'm interrupting something or I'm not someone he cares to talk to.

I could just be insecure though, because he has been very busy with work recently.  However, he hasn't initiated phone calls or facetime in over two weeks, even after I told him it's important to me that I hear his voice.  I had initiated all calls and facetime for 2 months prior to going over 2 weeks without a phone call.  I let it slide because he is busy with his new position at work, but surely he can call me for 2 minutes once a week and say "hello, I love you" or something.

He used to text me all the time and tell me how much he cares about me and why he likes me.  He would call me at least once every other day.  That all ended 3 months ago and his reasons range from "I forgot to text you back" after 12+ hours all the way to "I'm just too tired to call you."

Sometimes I feel like I'm asking too much of him, sometimes I feel that I'm doing all the work.  I'm not sure which is true, so I could use a non-biased opinion from a third party.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: I don't know if I'm being selfish by wanting more attention and romance from my long-distance boyfriend or if I'm doing most of the work in the relationship and he needs to step his game up.