<human>: About a month or so ago, my boyfriend and I had gotten in a fight about some drunken misunderstanding, and I went off the deep end and opened my OkCupid account again. It was set up for "everybody" and only for "new friends." I know this site isn't exactly pure, but I just wanted some messages to make me feel better/give me a bit of an ego boost.

He found out, blew up, but we've talked it out and moved on. I agreed that he could open up his account and do the same thing because I'm still adamant that I wasn't looking to date a different dude.

Enter this chick he's been chatting with on there. He's been very open that he has a girlfriend, but in the span of less than a week, she has asked him to hang out nearly five times, and just made a move to make solid plans. In the interest of my comfort, he has let me read his conversations with her, and I can't help but feel weird about it.

His problem with my having an account open was that he felt I was building "an emotional connection" with other people. Now, I never met up with anyone, I can only tell you the real name of one of the people I was chatting with, my messages with anyone never exceeded more than about 6, and I never shared anything meaningful about myself or flirted.

This chick, however, keeps mentioning me in their conversation, asks him out in the same breath she mentions dates, and has written him damn near novels in every message they've shared. If anything has been forming, it's an emotional connection. There's a lot of fishing for compliments and she hasn't been above mentioning her boobs or other vaguely sexual content.

So what do I do? Do I suck it up and let him go get lunch/dinner with this girl in the interest of affirming that I wasn't doing anything shady during my time on there? Do I be honest and tell him I sense something fishy?

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<bot>: 25F/35M, one year relationship. I fucked up and had an OkCupid account open for two weeks. He's doing the same thing in retaliation and has (more or less) set up a date.