<human>: Some quick background. I have liked this girl for a while. About a year and i never really had the courage to talk to her. Recently i hit puberty,started working out, and gained a truck load of confidence. I told her how i felt and she expressed the same feelings. She went on a trip for about 2 days where we couldnt talk and when i talked to her again she told me she didnt think it would work out. She said she wasnt ready at the moment for a relation ship and she had to better herself first. 

I was mad because i really liked this girl but was fine with waiting a while and staying as friends. Now it has been about a month and we are on Christmas break and i dont know what i should talk to her about. I dont want to seem as if i dont like her and ignore her the whole break but it is hard to talk to someone who i have really strong feelings for without flirting a little. 

What are some good topics we could talk about and should i try and ask her out again anytime soon?

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<bot>: Like this girl, she likes me but not ready for anything serious. Just friends, dont know what to say to her, and if i should ask her out again.