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For about the last month or so my girlfriend and I have been talking about sex. We both didn't really want to take that step yet but we both knew we could get caught up in the heat of the moment. Anyway fast forward to 8 month anniversary (perhaps it's silly to refer to it as an anniversary but oh well) one thing leads to another and we end up losing our virginity to each other in the back of my truck. It lasted for maybe a minute and then we realized what had happened and she broke down crying and...well tears shed from me as well. Its 9 months now and she isnt over the incident. We dont like to talk about it because it makes her sad to think about it. She talks about how we "wasted our first time for nothing". Neither of us were ready and it was just one big mistake but Im having trouble trying to console her. It's really becoming an issue in our relationship and Im worried. Is there anything I could do or say to help her get over or at least come to terms with this?
<bot>: Girlfriend and I had sex before we were ready and she is still scarred from the event after a month. Any suggestions?