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My small knit group of friends never wants to do anything interesting and are content with staying at home everyday playing video games with each other. While i do enjoy playing games as much as the next 21yo male, its getting pathetic.  At this point i'd be happier with their douchebag stage where all we did was go to clubs/bars and try to hook up with girls. I've tried going to a local bar in my city, but everyone looks at the random guy who went to a bar by himself as a freak. Tried going to the library, but most people who are there are busy and not looking to make new friends. i've been considering going to the local college and striking up conversation with the smokers, but im concerned with what  they will say when they find out i am not enrolled. also with working a full time job its hard to even go there during the day.
<bot>: I want to get out there live life and i feel my friends are caging me in and making me miss my youth. any suggestions?