<human>: Hi reddit. I've been a lurker for a while, but this is my first post, so apologies if it's in an innappropriate format.
I would appreciate some advice (or even company), I'll try to 'dot-point' it for easy reference
-F25 M26 (I'm the F), we began about a year ago while I was leaving another woman
-We moved in together for practicality sake after about 6 months.
-As you would expect, many fights ensued after the honeymoon period wore off.
-I am self-confessed 'needy', working on it, but still needy.
-I fell pregnant 2 months ago, aborted, and have been in a slump since.
-My depressive-ness made me more needy, BF shut down completely.
-2 days ago we had a fight, beginning with me bitching about not getting enough affection, and him sleeping on the couch. the next morning I tried to talk about it. He would not engage, so I took and hid his phone, firstly because I was being a b*tch - but the aim was to get a conversation out of him. 
-He started throwing me around, yelling etc for me to give it back. 
-we have had a pretty active sexual life, which has never involved our emotional life, and had bdsm elements in which he was Dom and I Sub.
-also, we have just come off some drugs (trees ftw) and were edgy to begin with.

I'm fairly sure that this is a waste of effort on both our parts, but I wonder if we have just had a rough year. 

My question: Where the hell do I go from here? I have little money, so moving out is more than a challenge, and I don't want to fail (at another r-ship) again.

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: F25, M26 - Didn't have a clean start (F just from another r-ship), moved in after 6 months, had abortion, now M is semi-violent. Looking for fresh perspective