<human>: To be honest, I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. Depressed, confused, lost.

I'm 24, male. She's 24, Jenny, We've been married 4 years. Known each other 6. It's been Hell the entire time. No kids. 

How do bring up that I NEED to leave her? I love her, or at least I'm used to saying it, and I just really care about her. 

She upsets me and agrivates me to the point of depression and confusion. She doesn't work, she gets migraines a lot. No insurance, cant get her pro help. But I need her to work, I need help. I have a good job but I can't carry her anymore, she sits at home, smokes weed (for the migraines..) recently her grandfather died, she's been depressed too.

He gave her a house, paid for and all. 5 minutes from my work. Some days, at night, she goes by herself or with friends to work on the house. I haven't really helped because I work so much, so tired all the time.

I need a new job, there's one available, but its an hour away, end up making a little less. But I think I would be happier there. Find someone else there after a while. She doesn't want me to have to put so many miles on the vehicles. But it's a government job good benefits versus none I have here.

I've been wanting to leave, she pisses me off regularly and is kinda fucking nuts. But if she moves in this house, how will she pay her bills and things?

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: wife crazy but loves me, getting free house, close to work, but I'd still rather move away to new job and get  out of the confusion.