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My MOH and I have been best friend for almost 20 years.  She is a single mom and supports her household as a freelance musician.  She expressed a lot of excitement and interest in joining us for our destination wedding in Maui, depending on her finances.  I am able and more than willing to pay for her flight and hotel stay myself but there are a few things that are causing me to hesitate:

1.  Her daughter is three years old and either needs an adult airfare or babysitting at home.  Either way it's money vs. time and effort.  I'm happy to have her join us or not, whichever my bestie chooses.

2.  Her boyfriend is new on the scene, 2 months officially.  He is also a single parent so they're taking things slowly and asking about going on a vacation early in their romance may be too much pressure. I would be happy to have him join us or not, but if he does that's two flights and three if her daughter comes too.  (His child is not a factor for reasons not relevant to this post).  For what it's worth, he is invited to our Toronto reception as her date, so it's not as simple as saying she can double up with a friend, but I leave this choice to her.

3.  My MOH and I are Canadian, my FH is American and we're getting married in the US.  The exchange rate right now makes it very expensive for food, entertainment, traveling on the island, etc.

4.  She is my MOH and already doing lots of other work for me including organizing the bridal shower,  bachelorette party and after-party for our Toronto reception.  For the record, I haven't asked for any of these things, but I am happy my friends want to celebrate with us.
<bot>: I'd like to offer to pay for my bestie/MOH to come to our destination wedding but it still is an expensive gift for her considering her daughter, boyfriend, the exchange rate and other expenses.