<human>: Hello fellow redditors first post sorry if it sucks I will try to make this as clear as possible. So here I am a 20 year old male who is currently and a complicated situation with my ex girlfriend of 4 years (19). So here's the background, we broke up a couple months ago because she didn't feel the spark or whatever and I think it was mainly me not giving her the attention she really wanted because I'm a gamer.
Its hard to be a gamer and lead a relationship with a girl who was popular in highschool when I was the quiet kid, so basically what I am at now is she will text me once in a while and ask to come over to hang out. First text was about 2 weeks ago so I go over and we have a goodnight I then leave because I have csgo matches to play. Here is where it gets complicated she then keeps texting me to come over and we start talking more but now I come over and she barely pays attention to me don't get me wrong I love her otherwise I wouldn't go back to talking to her but I can't understand what she wants. So a couple days ago I'm over and I ask for sex she tells me she doesn't want to have sex unless I'm in a relationship with her I then proceed to explain that its hard with me being on a competitive gaming team. So in the end I kinda give it the benefit of the doubt and engage in a relationship again, she then proceeds to blow off plans and make excuses I get mad at her and have currently stopped texting her to see if she will contact me again.

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<bot>: start talking to ex, she wants to date, we argue once about her canceling a date, I stop texting her now waiting to see if she texts me.