<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

My parents have been married over 25 years now and almost since I can remember their marriage I can see now is unhappy. They married out of love but growing up I feel resentment on both sides.

It is affecting me because they argue about the same things almost every day and although I try to help the roots of the problem is clearly their bad relationship. There is a bad atmosphere and some tip toeing, and I don't enjoy being on edge like that at home. When I was younger I guess I didn't really see it but now I hate it. Coming home from university I try to help from a fresh perspective but my dad is adamant that my mum is to blame and my mum is upset because he blames her all the time.

I feel like they both need individual counselling, my dad for anger/emotional issues and my mum for her obsessive overbuying/hoarding. Then they need marriage counselling to sort out the resentment between them. My dad is happy to send her off for therapy but will refuse to see a third party.

What can I do to help myself? And I hate knowing my parents are unhappy themselves, how can I help them save their marriage or even come to divorce if needs be?
<bot>: my parents are unhappy in their marriage and it creates tension in the house making me unhappy and stressed. What can I do for myself and my parents?