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My boyfriend and I have been dating about two and a half years and live together. We had a rocky start to our relationship, which damaged my trust in him, but we worked through it and are on steady footing now. He is generally a fantastic boyfriend — he is caring, supportive and has helped me become a better person. He can also, however, be selfish and self absorbed. He asks a lot of me and it's hard for me to say no. Because I never say no and am always there for him, I feel that he takes me for granted. 

Something that has been bothering me lately -- he is so willing and excited to make plans with others, but I feel like I have to make all the effort for our plans. For instance, I have been itching to go on a vacation with him. I feel like I'm pulling teeth, though. I have looked up fun locations and how much each would cost and his response is that we should [maybe] go somewhere close and then take a big trip later (money isn't an issue, so that's not the problem here). Then one night when we were out, his friend told me that my BF has been going on and on about how he wants to take a trip with them. Another example recently happened. I have been looking for concerts for us to go to this summer and he sounds excited but then gives a flimsy placeholder response. Today he tells me that he and his friend just bought tickets to a local music festival this summer. 

I am personally working becoming more independent. I have codependent tendencies and tend to allow myself to get absorbed in relationships. I have been trying to focus on myself and engaging in self care before worrying about him. I'm not sure if I am projecting my desire to be more independent/have plans outside our relationship and my jealousy is making me resent him -- or if he just doesn't care enough to make plans with me. 

I know these issues probably sound silly and trite, but we have talked about spending our lives together, and I want to figure out effective strategies for dealing with this before it escalates. I need a reality check!
<bot>: Boyfriend is more excited about making plans with friends than with me. This is making me feel like I'm being taken for granted.