<human>: Me (F22) and my bf (M21) have been in a long distance relationship for the past five months (will stop being long distance in about a month). He feels like it's OK to dance with other people (that's how his last relationship was) and says its just for fun and he wont do anything and also he doesn't want to feel like he's holding me back if I decide to go out to a club as well. 

I feel like it's disrespectful to the relationship, especially since most clubs are grinding, and I know he'll get a bit turned on if he's grinding with a girl. He admits that grinding is usually what happens, but that it's just for fun and he doesn't pursue her in any way afterwards. Also, I'd personally feel weird if I were single dancing with a guy in a relationship, and it's just not something I want to do, which makes me confused why he's pushing for it. I know it's more about me trusting him and he doesn't like feeling like I'm telling him what he can't do, but I feel like this is just common relationship courtesy. Thoughts?

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<bot>: In a LDR, Boyfriend wants to be able to dance with girls when he goes out with his friends to clubs, I think it's disrespectful and he shouldn't want to.