<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

I'm never very good with typing out my thoughts, so I'll try to make it as simple as possible.

For the majority of time we've spent together, I've basically provided for her. And during the course of our relationship, she has discontinued her education and work. She has also gained weight. The weight gain has also decreased her libido and self esteem, which furthered her policy of isolation with the outside world.

This is a problem that I've enabled by providing for her in every single way. I feel like I've ruined her life by spoiling her. For example, I'd always phone home to ask her if she wants me to bring any take out on my way back from work. We've come up with a solution that we should separate ourselves to make her more independent. She's staying at her parent's house for the time being and we've been separated for about 3.5 months. The progress she's made is pretty amazing. She's lost a noticeable amount of weight, she's studying for her driver's license and she's looking into getting a part time job.

Everything seems to be looking up in terms of her own self growth, but as we remain separated I'm starting to feel like our relationship has sunk. I go on a date with her maybe once per 2 weeks on average. I haven't physically seen her since May 11th. I barely talk to her much on IM because every time I ask about her life (when's your exam? whatcha doin? etc), she gives me a non answer and gets mad at me. We're within 26km (16miles) of each other, she can't be bothered to take a subway to come see me. I feel pretty heart broken and neglected.
<bot>: Wife turning into potato. Wife improving herself. Wife turning back into non potato. Relationship is spiraling down the drain. What should I do?