<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Long story short, I have dated this guy before. Nine years ago, he was my first but he broke up with me a few days after that experience. We got back together several months later, but that only lasted a few days until he broke up with me again. This happened a few more times (he had serious commitment issues about me and only me for some reason) until we had a significant falling out and hadn't talked in five years. We reconnected a few months back and three weeks ago we decided to give it another try.

Things were going great until five days ago we went out with one of his friends, he got black out drunk, said a few fairly discouraging things about our relationship and then made a stupid move that landed him in the ICU for 48 hours. He doesn't remember any of this.

He had planned on staying with me after he got released, but last minute he decided to stay with his mom who lives three hours away from me. The first time I ever met her was at the hospital and given the circumstances I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't trust me (plus she has been sending my calls to voicemail...so there's that...) He's sleeping a lot I guess, so I only get a couple texts a day.

My problem is I'm extremely insecure, which is something that is completely new to me. I haven't felt this way in five years and I don't know how to handle it. I'm worried his mom will talk him out of dating me. I'm worried he'll realize I'm not good for him, seeing as dating me for three weeks literally almost killed him. He said a bunch of things about our relationship that he doesn't remember. A big part of the problem is that his behavior that night was totally unlike him. I am worried that something about our relationship is eating at him and that he'll leave. I don't want to bother him while he's recouping with my worries. I don't know how to cope with this until I see him again. Any suggestions?
<bot>: guy I'm dating had serious commitment issues several years ago. Trying to date again but I have insecurities based on the past and the black out drunk conversation he had with me and his friend