<human>: A few years ago after moving I (30, female) came across an unmarked box of items that were questionable in nature. Shoes, dresses, skirts, panties, bras, stockings. 

At first I considered confronting my husband (35, male) about cheating, but after sitting on it for a few days I realized there was no way those items were from another woman. And he probably wouldn't store another woman's items in our home. No woman would pair such outfits with shoes like that. (I guess maybe that's not fair...some women might.) And they were definitely large sized shoes. So I figured they were leftover from my husbands college frat years. 

The box disappeared and I hadn't thought much more about it until recently discovering more items like this. So I can only conclude that he's buying the items and wearing them himself. It doesn't bother me that he does it; it bothers me that he didn't tell me. It actually makes me sad that he feels like he can't share something like that with me after 10 years of marriage. 

How would you deal with this? Is there a way to bring up the subject of cross dressing in more general, broader terms?

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<bot>: I found out my husband cross dresses, it doesn't bother me, and I don't know how to approach him about it.