<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

I'm sure a lot of people have this same problem, but I don't know how to tell my boyfriend what is bothering me without him assuming that I'm blaming him for all our relationship problems. It seems like whenever we get into a fight I am apologizing for what happened, no mater how much of a reason I feel that I have to be upset. I know I often bring other issues up at bad times - like when we are already arguing about something else. But I feel as if I bring up issues when everything is good, then that will just cause problems on there own. To make it worse, he wants all the space in the world when he's mad, and when he's done ignoring me, we don't talk about the problem. It's just suddenly done. I understand him needing his space when he is upset - but I wish he would just let me talk to him some before the space that way things are left on a better note. This is instead of him just driving away in the middle of the fight and then ignoring calls/texts ect. Plus, it's really hard for me to give him space when he's mad - it's when I want to be around him the most to make sure he's okay. Just him being near and not even talking makes me feel better....but that is my own selfish problem I guess. 

I don't want to piss him off, but then again, I don't want to have to apologize for being annoyed. Everyone gets annoyed about something, right?? Or am I just ridiculous....
<bot>: How do I express what I think is a problem with out causing a problem? Also, how to go about issues in a way that I'm not always giving in and apologizing.