<human>: I'd been with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 - 3 years and have been broken up for a year since. 

We broke up because her health began to deteriorate and her inability to conceive provided a stumbling block for her and her vision of our future together.. I'd be lying if this didn't hurt but I really do love her and am willing to overlook these things as I've always supported her when her health got to the worst.

However, recently we decided to meet up and it was very difficult. Long story short, our feelings were in the open and we kissed numerous times.

She's still (understandably) hesitant about getting back with me because of her issues but she lives a very busy lifestyle now with university and work.

I love this girl more than anything and still love her to the extent as i did the first time i told her. She feels the same way. But here's the dilemma - I don't feel like she has the time in her life for a relationship and i have enough self respect to not put myself in that sort of position as i know it'll be self destructing.

But I'm not sure. Im so confused. It's killing me every minute. I saw her again today and we held hands and told each other we love one another. We also don't know how much to text one another. (if at all). 

Everything is so confusing. It's driving me insane. I need your help.

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<bot>: We both love each other very much, she has no time in her life for a relationship, how often do we talk, if at all?