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We went with the casually dating option; she's free to see this ex of hers, and I'm free to see anyone else as well.

She's treating us equally, which I appreciate. Same amount of dates and what not, but since this step back from us seriously dating, I've stopped physically pleasing her. I thought that's what the good guy would do, but she recently confided in me that she feels neglected, and wants us to do what we used to do when we were dating seriously (heavy petting, fingering, making out, oral was on the table, but no PiV or anal).

I'm not too sure about doing it, but we're both very physical people; touch means a lot to us, and that's what I love about her. We both do love each other still, or at least I do and I don't want her to fall out of love because of neglect, but I feel afraid of the possibility that she's doing all the same things with him, or will after this. I feel like it takes away from how special it is, or at least *was* when were dating seriously, just us two.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: I don't want to neglect my "casual gf" but I'm not sure about acting around her as we did when we were serious.