<human>: The background for our relationship:
He's 29 years old, I'm 22 years old. We've been together for a year and 8 months. We moved in together very quickly, after only 4 months. (So we've lived together for a year and 4 months now.) I deal with depression, which I am seeking counseling for. But I don't know how much that has actually affected our relationship. He's ex-military and is currently finishing up school, and working part time so he has a very busy schedule. I graduated a couple months ago, so I just work full time now.

In the past couple of months, we seem to have lost our passion. Somehow we've gotten stuck in this spiral and we don't know how to get out of it. We both love each other, but it almost seems if we aren't in love anymore. My boyfriend is really busy, so it seems like we've just let ourselves get into this routine of not doing a lot together. We still go out to dinners and random dates, but it's just not the same. Our sex life is basically non-existent (which is on my end). I feel like I'm not getting the affection I need, so I'm not into sex, and he feels like he's not getting the sex he needs so he isn't into the affectionate stuff. It basically feels like we're roommates living together. We'll watch a tv show on the couch and not even cuddle anymore. We've talked about it, but we have no idea how to fix it.

What do we do to get out of this cycle?

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<bot>: MY boyfriend feels like my roommate because I'm not getting the affection I need and he's not getting the sexual relationship he needs.