<human>: My brother is in his second year of college. He has Aspergers which causes him to get pretty stressed out while making decisions. He can't deal with people being upset with him, especially our parents. And I feel like my parents have been using this to their advantage.

This past weekend he had a ridiculous amount of school work and was panicking about what to do. I told him to take off work and so he did. My parents were furious that he did this without talking to him. Had I not been there sticking up for him, they probably would have convinced him to call back his work and say he was wrong.  They yelled at him for about an hour over missing work, something that's not really even their business. They do this every time he makes a decision they disagree with and they continue to yell at him until he does what they want; and he always eventually does what they want. I also mentioned that he should probably quit his job since he didn't have time to do school full time while also taking 15 hours of classes. My parents were angry I suggested this and let me know that the reason they weren't letting him quit his job was because he has Aspergers and has to stick to a schedule. Personally I think that if a schedule is making you nearly fail your classes, then it's not a very good schedule but that's beside the point. For one, he shouldn't need permission at age 21 to quit his job. And also, I feel that the decisions they're making for him are letting his Aspergers define his life (they only want him in a job because schedules help him) rather than helping him work through his Aspergers to be successful and indipendent.

I want to help my brother gain more control of his life. I'm not sure he even realizes that the amount of control they have over him isn't normal for people his age. How can I convince my parents to back off or convince my brother to stand up for himself?

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<bot>: My brother gives our parents too much control over his life. My parents are emotionally manipulating him to continue doing this rather than encouraging him to make his own decisions like an adult.