<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

So, here's the skinny:
Currently: Live in messy, run-down home that I'm paying too much for with my boyfriend and 2 (soon to be 3) other men, oldest is 30. I can't handle sharing my space with that many people. It's starting to really get to me. I'm working two jobs right now (why, I don't know. I like money, I guess?) and every time I come home it's dishes and mess and spoiled food and I loathe it. 

What I found: Gorgeous home, affordable, great landlord, 2br, w/d in unit, plenty of stuff to do nearby, perfection, IMO. 

Problem: Boyfriend doesn't want to live there because he "doesn't want to be alienated from friends". I think that's a crock of stupid shit, because it's not too far from where we live now, and, being near transportation hub (he doesn't have a car), it'll be very easy for him to get anywhere. The landlord wanted us in there so badly (the other applicants were...odd and I applied almost immediately after it was posted) that he was going to waive the security deposit. Anyway, I know this is an awesome deal. Everything else we've seen is a disappointment. The constant bickering over where/when/if we're moving is making me ready to dump him. 

Problem 2: Assuming the apartment is still available (this has been going on for few days now) one of my coworkers (m/27?) is offering to move there with me. The landlord was very specific that he only wanted two people (maybe he could be swayed down the line, I swayed him about the cats), and essentially this gives me the opportunity to just take what I want. 

Question: Do I stay or do I go? Staying is driving me insane. Planning to go is tanking my relationship. Straight up going may end it, although in my opinion it doesn't need to. We just want different things right now, and I actually think a little space may help.
<bot>: Found a place I love near my job and major transportation hub. Bf wants to live near his friends. Do I just go ahead and get the place anyway, doing what's best for me?