<human>: I started courting this girl at the end of January of this year. Since then, we've been on about 5-6 dates (either dinner date or movie at my place). We got sexual on the first date (with of course subsequent happenings) but still are not officially dating.

Even though we aren't "officially" dating (with the title of boyfriend and girlfriend), we have both agreed that we are starting to like each other (mentioned after about the 3rd date) and are pretty much exclusive (asked her about this like 2 weeks ago). She IS divorced (married at 17, divorced at 18) and has one kid, if that matters.

I tend to overthink things a lot, but this is something that has been bothering me lately. I feel like our "relationship" is a bit one-sided. I always text her first (though she snapchats first sometimes... not always sure if it's a group one or not haha), always schedule the next date, always initiate physical intimacy (cuddling, holding hands, sex, etc.), and always have to start and maintain the conversations (whether in person or text--though she has improved a *tiny* bit since the beginning).

I just feel like I am doing most of the work in this, whatever it is. I feel like if she didn't like me then she wouldn't want to keep going on dates with me, have physical intimacy, talk to me everyday, etc., so that's why I am confused. Could it be that she's just that type of person? Less dominant? Or am I spending too much effort on her and not getting enough response?

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<bot>: I feel like I do 90% of the work in this relationship; it feels pretty one sided when relationships should be a two way street. Am I spending too much effort on her or could this just be the way she is?