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I've been seriously working on planning our June 2014 wedding since this past June.  We have the pastor, caterer, florist, DJ, and venue booked and the dress is bought.  All the bridesmaids are asked.  

Aaaaaand it feels like the list is never-ending: still need to book cake, ceremony music, rentals, day-of-transport, buy save-the-dates & bridemaids dresses, make all the crafts... As we near on 6 months to go, I'm terrified I'm going to screw up this wedding with my complete apathy.

I've tried doing the break thing ("Don't think about the wedding for a couple weeks!") and all it feels like is I've set the planning even farther back by doing nothing.  For frame of reference, I'm marrying the man I've dated for 7+ years (SO EXCITED FOR THE MARRIAGE BIT).  I'm really bogged down with my job-- trying to work extra-hard to land a full-time, permanent position that may never come.  Family is very eager to help, I'm just unsure how to have them help without changing the vision of the wedding (I'm having a rustic vintage-type affair with a barn reception and Mom seems to envision the whole thing as country cute-- think lots of burlap and lace, signs everywhere-- and is hurt if I don't like her ideas).
<bot>: Wedditors, how can I get out of this funk?  What did you do to avoid burnout and stay out of it?