<human>: Background first: We first started dating about 4 months ago, and made it official within the last 2 weeks. The sex has been fantastic, but thanks to **[1] an incident involving a condom getting stuck in her (it took her a while to figure out how to get it out. She was pretty traumatized about it afterwards)** and **[2] my inability to ejaculate 99% of the time while wearing a condom** (not her fault. This was pretty typical with past girls too), she wants to get started on a hormonal birth control by next week.

I don't like the idea largely because it feels like I'm losing my ability actually have a say when it comes to being safe sexually (particularly the risk of pregnancy. We both got test tested last month and are clean). I've only ever been with women on a casual basis before her, so my rule has always been: no condom, no sex. She usually dates guys on a long term basis (last relationship was for over 2 years) and said that this is how things usually work.

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<bot>: Long term relationships are very new to me, I have always used condoms despite hardly ever cumming with them on, and I'm kinda freaking out about her wanting to rely on hormonal birth control. I don't know what to do.