<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

To start, this is honestly nothing against larger girls. I don't give a flying fadoodle what size you are honestly, as long as you're a wonderful person then honestly who cares.. but just kinda joking about someone's weight just isn't cool regardless of what it is.

* Just a bit of context of when this happens: *I work at a home improvement store, so it requires a LOT of heavy lifting from time to time (mainly large paint buckets that weigh over half of what I actually weigh myself)*

Just imagine the situation if I was actually "overweight" and you come up to me and say "Oh well you're big and lumpy aren't you!"

That would be pretty rude, right? But it's totally cool to say "Well aren't you a skin and bones little girl, I can barely see you!"

For some reason people feel like those kind of jokes are compliments of some sort.. but honestly it really bothers me. 

It's become completely okay to say "I don't like girls who are all bones" but it's really rude and wrong to say "I don't like bigger girls" That is an argument that has been made tons of times.. but I just don't want to hear about my weight ever again! 

I just never want to hear any of this:

* "If you would just eat more,  you could probably lift that"
* "Oh honey, you're so small! Maybe you should get some help with that"
* "Is there a man that can help you, there is no way you can do this"
* "You're just so skinny! Can you see your own bones?"

And this is seriously my favorite (was said to me by a crush at work)

* " Sorry, I just don't like cuddling with skeletons, it just feels wrong"
<bot>: I just hate hearing about how me being skinny is bad, and even the "compliments" suck and you should totally stop it.