<human>: So a female co worker of mine introduced me to her roommate the day before my birthday by saying this is (insert name) and she wants to fuck you... Fast forward 24 hours and it's now my birthday and we are having the sexy time... 

Now I'm not the kind of guy to sleep with girls I just meet or really be very involved with the ladies, so this birthday surprise was completely out of character and apparently it was for her as well (at least that's what she told me)...Fast Forward.. 

It's now two months later and believe it or not we are in a relationship and things are going good, she is only the second girlfriend I've ever had and I'm super happy and it seems like she is as well.. 

Tonight out of the blue she says we need to talk, then commences her breakup speech. She said things like "I'm incapable of being in a relationship/letting people close". " I don't think I want this right now" "it's not fair to you"  "I struggle to picture a future with anyone" and "I'm such a fuck-up".

I spend most of the time listening and eventually tell her that things that start as quickly as we did usually end up coming to a screeching halt but that I didn't think it would be quite so soon and that in life you have to go get what you want and not worry about other people. 

I'd rather find a way to keep her my girlfriend but have nooo clue as how to go about this... 

If I decide I don't want her, how do I make sure I come out on top. 

"It's not worth winning if you can't win big"

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<bot>: girlfriend broke up with me very abruptly for seemingly no real reason. I want her, how do I keep her>? or make her wish she hadn't broken things off with me.