<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

We have a daughter together. He has dumped me twice. Every time we fight I'm afraid he will do it again, but he is never afraid that I will, but I have SERIOUSLY considered it lately

I've struggled with depression for years. He knows this, and says he wants to know when I'm depressed and claims he wants me to feel better, but any time he gets bored and is too damn lazy to come over and see me and his child, he just texts me and says things to piss me off like "bend over" and "can I touch your butt" (not being kinky, he knows I hate it) and it seems like it gets worse when I'm depressed (probably because my sense of humor dwindles) anyways, I want to know, what should I do? I'd really rather not break up if I can avoid it, I do love him. And the reasons he's dumped me in the past are no longer an issue. I'm just tired of being blamed for things that he is doing. He makes me so angry and then gets all butthurt when I call him on it and blames me. I'm so frustrated and don't know what to do. Any help is appreciated. Thanks :)
<bot>: my boyfriend likes to piss me off when he's bored because im "cute when I'm angry" and takes it too far.