<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

So I'm a 30 year old male who has yet to be on an actual date. As a note to put it out there, I am heteroromantic but asexual, and plan on staying celibate throughout my life.

I didn't really even start to look at dating until I was about 27, when I became interested in a lady we'll refer to as S. I thought I loved S, as she was one of the few females who didn't scoff when word of my beliefs made it to their ears. We tried to date, but this led to a predictable pattern where about an hour before I was to leave to pick her up saying something had come up.

It all came to a head when I was supposed to take her out for her birthday, last August. For once, I didn't get the cancellation text; I figured that night was sure to be the night! I rang her doorbell and waited for about 15 minutes. When no answer came, I sent her a text to find out she had completely forgotten about the plans and was still at work. Moreover, her boyfriend had driven her in. And so, crestfallen, I made my way back home.

In the recent months, I have tried OKCupid. As it is only fair to alert prospective dates as to what they're in for, I address my condition in my profile. This has only served to lead to rejection after rejection, with many asking why I'm even trying to date if I don't want to sleep with someone.

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<bot>: version, what exactly am I doing wrong here? Is sex really of such importance that the lack of it would be a dealbreaker?