<human>: I'm the only girl in a frat house. I knew what I was getting into when I moved in originally. The house was a mess and no one cared, but that was last year. Since then, new guys have come into the house. I can't seem to get any of my newest housemates (besides for on rare occasions) to help me clean the kitchen. Dishes stack up for days before my boyfriend and I get fed up and wash them all, and not wanting to stop there end up cleaning the entire kitchen for hours. My SO and I are getting fed up with these guys claiming the house is theirs, and not taking care of it in the slightest. It sucks and I'm too sick of their bogusness to play mom and clean up after them anymore.
How do I break this to them without everyone fighting and playing the blame game?

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<bot>: I live in a frat house and am a woman and my boyfriend (not part of said frat) and I are being treated like these guys' nanny and butler.