<human>: Quick background: Started off as friends. Then after showing compassion for her, she started to realize what I had to offer. "She", a recently broken up girl, pushed me towards an actual relationship with her. Which at the time I resented knowing it would be a mess. But as a month or two went by, I said fuck it and took her out on a date. 

Connected well. Found out how enjoyable a relationship with her could be. Brought her home to hangout with my parents and noticed how pleasant she could be and actually looked forward to what could come.

Unfortunately, I soon found myself being ignored and left out of conversations when it came to being back in college around her friends. 
Any small comment by myself that upset her was always used to make feel like I was the asshole. 

I recently left the city to hangout with friends and blow off steam. And I get a phone call about how "I lack communication skills." To which I talk about how much of a bitch she can be and demoralize my confidence. And she says something along the lines as "you need to step up and be a man about your problems." 

I guess my question is,
Should i start being more of a dick and give her what she wants. Or should I find someone else who appreciates what I have to offer?

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<bot>: girl friend thinks I'm not aggressive enough about our problems and I think she's over reacting about all the small things. Trying to find a balance.