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First off, I wanted to thank you all for your patience and guidance in this confusing time in my life. Your advice was extraordinarily helpful.

Since the night I posted, I am four days post-procedure and riding out the symptoms as they come. So far, no complications of any kind and the worst of it has been manageable.

My boyfriend and I openly grieved to one another the other night in private. We both had apparently been sharing mutual feelings of guilt, remorse, relief, and confusion. It had been really weighing on him.

He didn't want to make it all about himself, especially because it's my body and he tries to be empathetic. He did tell me that honestly, for a few moments one night he had desperately wanted to keep it and began to feel like he and I were creating our own family, something that is a major goal to him.

Naturally, we have both come to terms with the fact that we are a little heartbroken. We will probably be dealing with this in small ways for the rest of our lives.

We decided we're going to create our own special way of grieving after I've had some time to recover. In the mean time, we've started to spend more active and engaged time together.

We've tried to find other, healthy things to work on as individuals too. He is exercising and eating healthier. I'm gonna try to learn American Sign Language and start volunteering at a hospital soon.

All in all, there is still some major healing left to do both as individuals and to our relationship but I think we're on the right track.

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<bot>: My boyfriend and I sat down and had a long conversation. We are both working on ourselves and our relationship and will grieve our loss after my physical condition improves. Thank you all for your support.