<human>: I care for her a lot, and don't want anything bad to happen to her. I just moved across the country for work and bought a house, and she's supposed to be flying out and moving in with me next week, and I'm not sure I'm doing the right thing. I feel I don't know if I love her because I have no other relationships to compare it to, or maybe my desire to want to separate is just due to selfish reasons.

I don't know how to handle this situation, I really care for her,  she has nowhere else to go, she has no money or relatives who can take her in, but I feel like I'm lying to her.

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<bot>: moved across country with gf whos great I'm not attracted to, don't know where to go from here.