<human>: I met her in 2011 on a depression website.  We each attribute each other as one of the foundations of our support system and why each one of us are still here today.

She's from London and I'm from NYC.  She is currently going on a tour of the US and two weeks ago I spontaneously decided to meet her at her scheduled trip in Orlando for three days - our first face to face meeting.  We were both ecstatic about it.

During her time in New Orleans last month, she met a guy who she had been talking to online for a couple months and they hit it off.  They spent two weeks together and she even ditched New Orleans to drive back to Florida with him to his parents' house for a couple days.

She just told me tonight that he reached out to her and wanted to join her in Orlando the first day I was going to be there.  Am I being unreasonable for not wanting him to come?

* I feel like since it's a new relationship, her attention is going to be at the very least divided between us, and more likely she is going to be more focused on him than myself
* I was looking at this as a special time of bonding between us.  I feel like with him there, my 'specialness' will be overshadowed.
* She might be genuinely excited to see me, but I view it as if I were attending a friend's birthday party when I don't know anyone - the hostess might appreciate me coming, but for me, I don't get to experience her undivided attention and am left twiddling my thumbs
* I feel like it would be different if a) they were a couple for a while and it wasn't 'new love,' and b) if he were to join the last day I was there when I already established my special relationship with her. 

As an aside, there is no romantic interest between us.  This is purely about me wanting to spend time with her.

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<bot>: Close friend and I are meeting for the first time and now she wants to bring along a new boyfriend - Should I be upset that her attention will no longer be solely on me