<human>: I was in shock when he did it over the phone because just 2 days prior we made plans to see each other on Christmas Eve. I assumed this would be when we would exchange presents.

I felt that he was pulling away a month before but thought maybe we were just becoming more comfortable with each other and he wasn't trying as hard. In the beginning he said I didn't have to worry about getting hurt again, and I believed him (i am so naive), so I didn't think that he was not into me.

We didn't have sex. He was a virgin. It started going downhill after I asked him if he wanted to have sex and he said yes, but never made plans for it. I am confused because I've always thought that guys always wanted sex more.

Before he broke up with me he had a night out with his best guy friends from high school who were in town, and one of them I had met on OKCupid for 2 dates over a year ago. I can't help but wonder what was said about me that night that pushed him over from being undecided to definitely sure that he should dump me.

He said that his level of attraction for me is not as great as mine for him and he felt it was unfair. Part of me feels like he was being dishonest about his feelings during our entire relationship. I should have addressed it when I felt he was pulling away.

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<bot>: I felt him not putting as much effort into the relationship before it happened. Should I have addressed this before he broke up with me? What should I do differently next time when I feel a guy pulling away?