<human>: I'm 32 and male, she's 35, we've been married for a year and together for 5.

I've been reading, on this sub and elsewhere, about jilted lovers discovering their SOs sleeping with other people. All of them fly into this possessive rage, and honestly, that's not something I can identify with.

I'm 100% certain my wife loves me, and we're building a marriage with each other that will last the rest of our lives. Finding out that she's been intimate with another person won't change that at all.

There's good reason to think that she might like to sleep with other people: She's bisexual, and hasn't been with a woman since college. She and I have learned a lot about what turns her on, and it's only natural that she'd want to experiment some more--to take those kinks for a walk, so to speak.

To be clear: It's not that her being with someone else is a fetish of mine, or that I want license to sleep with other people myself. I'm all right with her sleeping with other men or women, and I know the default assumption is that I'm not. I just want her to be happy. We only get one life, you know what I mean?

Plus, if she starts sleeping with girls, maybe I get threesomes someday.

But I have no idea how to tell her this without her thinking that a) I want to sleep other people, b) I'm asking her to sleep with other people, or c) I think I'm not satisfying her. Plus, I'm pretty sure she's not thinking about sex with others at the moment. I just want her to know it's an option.

How would you approach this? Should I tell her at all? How do I make it clear that it's an option, not a command or request?

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<bot>: I want my wife to know she's allowed to sleep with other people, even if I'm not. It's an awkward conversation, and I need some direction.