<human>: I'm a 22 year old guy and haven't had much luck with the dudes. I've had a boyfriend (singular) before, but we never actually went on dates before becoming a thing, as we both knew each other for a while and we just sort of...went for it one night and considered ourselves together afterward. That lasted for about half a year before I found out he was cheating on me.

So I'm a naturally quiet guy. I don't get talkative or lively until I really get to know a person, so making friends and getting dates is already a bit of a challenge as it is. I somehow managed to set up a date with a guy on grindr who is pretty much my exact opposite: outgoing, talkative, "experienced," and, being self-deprecating here, pretty damn handsome.

We're just going out for dinner. How am I supposed to talk to this guy in person without being able to think about and proofread everything I say before I say it? And what the hell do I even talk about? I'm afraid I'm going to come across as really boring and dry.

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<bot>: Shy, inexperienced gay guy gets date with outgoing dude with the type of looks that would normally render me speechless. How and what do I talk to him about?