<human>: Ok so right now i'm a little bit confused and i'm looking for advice.
It's a throwaway account because she knows my real username.

I met this girl in October, we've gone to a couple of dates and realized we had a real chemistry together. She had just left her abusive boyfriend. She initially told me to not expect a relationship as she wasn't going to commit to anything.

Since then things have changed a little, we have stated that we are exclusive, we just don't call it a couple because she fears the etiquette. She explained me that she was scared to jump into a relationship only for it to fail so she want to make sure it will work. I agreed that it made sense and told her I would keep on waiting for her to be ready. 

The thing is, even tho we get closer to each other she keeps saying comments sometime like 'You know our relationship is going to die eventually right ?' or she'll refuse ( not always) to kiss me when saying goodbye because it feels too 'official'.

I love her, i really do and i think she loves me too. She's perfect in every way. I want to tell her this but i'm scared that it will scare her because she might not be ready for this step.

Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?
<bot>: The girl I love has fear of commitment. I love her and want her to be comfortable with me but i don't know how to proceed from here.