<human>: Hi all,

I have been going out with Rachel for a few months. Generally I have been happy about the relationship but earlier this week we started fighting about an issue and it has affected us greatly.

While talking the other day I mentioned that a story about a past girlfriend (during college). She listened to the story and afterwards asked about my history of romantic relationships, etc. I just gave a brief overview, stating truthfully that I had dated abortively once in high school and three times in college. She asked a little about the nature of the relationships (why did we break up, etc.) so I tried to tell about the nature of our disagreements without dwelling on it too long or giving a super-lopsided account.

This is when things went off the rails. After we talked about that I asked her if she had dated anybody before. She dodged the question and said that she had no obligation to answer it. I told her that while that may be true I was still asking her and I would appreciate it if she could at least entertain the premise. 

Eventually the argument got a little more abstract. She said that I had a right to ask but not a right to know. I am of the opinion (and I told her at the time) that it was unfair of her to ask me to open up while never considering reciprocating. In fact, I was sharing under the impression that it would be a good chance for us to know each other, a two-way street if you will. She said that I didn't have any obligation to answer her questions and the fact that I chose to answer hers doesn't mean that her right to decline the question is revoked.

Basically I feel like we are at an impasse. I feel a little resentful that she "played" me and is now withholding stuff. Even if that stuff isn't all that valuable, it makes it all the more weird that she would choose this issue on which to take a stand. At the same time I feel that she resents me for asking my question.

Who is in the right here? Neither of us? Both? Can this be overcome, and if so, how?

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<bot>: GF asked for my romantic history. I shared with her and then asked about hers. She refuses to share and thinks I shouldn't have asked. Am I justified in frustration? How to resolve?