<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

This isn't the first time she's messed up but it sounds really bad this time. I'm at work at the moment and she's at home. I got a phone call about it. She's very upset. This is on top of many other stressful things going on right now including a death in the family, financial issues, and many other things I won't get into. On one hand, I feel for her as she probably feels ugly or something similar. On the other hand, I'm fucking pissed because I tell her every time to not do it herself. Her main rebuttal to that is money. Her hairdresser costs $60-$100 every time she goes. Even when I insist that we'll make the money work, she'll still do it herself. She messed up big today by the sounds of it and not only did she blow off my suggestion to go somewhere cheap if necessary, but she continued to do it while on the phone and messed it up more. I'm so frustrated about this but I can't vent this because it's not my hair and head and it may start a fight. I'm sure we could get a full psych work up to expose and plan to work through many issues but I just need some advice for this situation.
<bot>: My wife cuts her own hair against my (multiple) protests and has messed up. How do I remain sensitive to her feelings and deal with it with her while frustrated on the whole matter?