<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

So, reddit, I have a long distance boyfriend. I'm from the Netherlands, he's from Jersey.

A couple of years ago (3~4) I found out I was homosexual. After trying a lot of things out with long-distance, a little over a year ago I found my current boyfriend. We were both eager to tell each other about our relationship, until I spilled the beans and he felt the same. It was a great feeling, and it felt like it was something that finally felt good (at least for me, he was a bit more inexperienced)

This summer, he came over (I'll call him Dylan for now) and we had a blast of a time. To be fair, we had a relationship for over a year, so we showed a lot of affection, both publicly and not publicly. At times it was a bit too much, but not when nobody was over or when we were in a city, we kept it to a minimum.

However, a couple of times we got called out. One time a guy who kept insisting it's "not normal" to get called "trash of human beings" (best translation I could think of right now). Today, my mother told me too that she was worried about me.

I'll be visiting him the next summer. My question is: how can we keep other people's judgements to a minimum while still feeling like a normal couple PDA-wise?
<bot>: My mother told me she was worried about us getting beaten up because of PDA, how do I deal with this?