<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

A friend of ours recently explained that her and her fiancé had a prenuptial agreement drafted before they were engaged to make sure that they would uphold the contingencies of marriage. At first I thought the whole idea was manipulative, taking money from a man who isn't married to you because he broke a sexual agreement sounded wrong. 

The only condition of agreement that my boyfriend and I are considering, is to ensure that both he and I are in a place financially and emotionally to get married. I don't want to marry him unless he agrees to get a better job and support us financially, and he doesn't want to marry me unless I commit to moving to his home state. At the end the 3 year period, if either one of us fails to fulfill our end of the deal, we are financially obligated to a large sum of money. 

I appreciate the idea that we are both working to ensure our future is solidified and to show how committed we are to each other, I can't help wonder if as a woman I'm evolving a financial trap...
<bot>: My boyfriend and I are drafting a prenup to ensure he can support us, financially, in the next three years.