<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

I met my boyfriend because he used to go to my school, we've been in a relationship for around 3 months. From the start I've had a few misgivings about whether this was a good idea, but I've gone with it - because we genuinely understand each other. And that distilled acceptance, and the intense DMCs, the knowledge that our histories are so similar (we've compared childhood stories and more often than not we'll hit upon the same "this is weird but.." situations) has kept me going.

Now, I'm absolutely sure that he's committed to this relationship, and is really truly in love with me. But in terms of long term planning I can barely manage to juggle family, school, extra curricular commitments AND a relationship right now, I cannot imagine introducing him to my parents (I live in a semi-traditional Chinese family, my parents are relatively liberal but still are NOT fond of the idea of me being in a relationship. We talked about him a month or two back and now it's an issue I have avoided bringing up for a while, not terribly stable) or having him integrate into my friendship circle, or planning for college / beyond, and really anything that comes with long term relationship. He on the other hand is perfectly happy with planning long long term, has talked about jobs and finances, pets and houses, children etc.

I don't know whether these misgivings are because this is my first relationship (not his first) and so everything is new, or because.. the sparks genuinely aren't there. He's.. comfortable to be around. He makes me feel safe. Our conversations get really interesting. I'm not sure if that's enough.

I also don't want to hurt him, he's told me that no one has ever accepted him as fully as I have, and I really really care about him (I can't decide if I love him, but now that seems the least of my troubles) and I don't want to see him get hurt. What do I do? :/
<bot>: Boyfriend really loves me and possibly wants to spend life together. I can't see this relationship going past many more significant milestones. What do I do?