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I am a 21 year old girl dating a 20 year old guy for 2 and a half years now. We get along really great and agree on most subjects. Subjects we don't agree on don't usually become issues except for this one thing: he's into alternative medicine --> meaning homeopathy, not herbal remedies (I could live with that).

He lied to me about this when we were only just dating because he knew I liked science and would probably not approve. When I found out how serious he is about this we were already dating for over a year and walking away from it was just not an option anymore.

Here is what happened: he had a bacterial infection in his hand. it started out as small bumps, but it spread across his whole hand. I convinced him to see a real doctor about this. The doctor said it was serious and he would have to start taking antibiotics immediately. He went to his alternative doctor. The infection kept spreading, his hand started to smell bad. I finally got him to take the antibiotics when we were at my parents house (who also disapproved). He later regretted this and said he felt pressured. Which is a valid point, I was pressing him, because I felt hysterical with worry. I know that if an infection like that gets too deep, you could really be in trouble.

All this is some time ago, but we never really talked it out. He still thinks I was pushing him too hard, I still think he was acting irresponsibly. If this ever happens again he will not listen to me. He will die trying to prove to me that alternative medicine really does work. So basically, our relationship will only last until the next time he gets seriously ill. I don't really feel like waiting that out, but I also don't feel I can break up over an incident that was over a year ago. What should I do?
<bot>: My boyfriend once endangered himself by not going to a doctor and I feel like our relationship will only last until the next time that happens.