<human>: I am a 22 year old guy and she just turned 21 last week. We met at a gig a mutual friend was playing at and hit it off talking etc and she ended up inviting me to her birthday and we added each other on facebook. In the first week we talked daily by facebook messaging and texts. (Quick background that I need to get a minor operation in a few weeks) She even offered in facebook chat to come look after me after my surgery. Make me pancakes and entertain me with scary movies (which she could protect me through since I would be unable to protect her) and a playstation playing partner. 

We organised to meet up and watch scary movies at her place not long after that conversation happened. At the end of the movies we ended up kissing  and I stayed the night. I tried that night to find out what we were and she said that she didn't know. She also said that she didn't want our mutual friend to find out as he would take it badly.

That would have been about 3 weeks ago now and I have only seen her once since then which was her birthday dinner. We talked but no kiss or signals. We did sit next to each other amongst all of her close friends.

We are both pretty busy with exams and assignments at the moment so thinking that could also be an issue. I don't know. I am a bit of a relationship awkward penguin since I don't date that often and tend to read into things too much at times. I really quite like this girl as she is attractive funny and just generally seems to be a kind and genuine person. Any advice or thoughts on my situation? Further questions will be answered if I am still awake if I get them.

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<bot>: Like a girl. Unsure if she still likes me or where to go from here. Am a relationship awkward penguin.