<human>: Some background:  my friend and I have been best friends for eight years now.  She moved to my state somewhere around seven years ago (when we were both around 19-20 years old) and we have been attached at the hip the whole time.  Right around the time she moved here I started dating my current boyfriend and she would make me feel extremely guilty to the point of tears for at times choosing to hang out with him instead of her.  Understandable because she was new to the city and was just starting to make new friends, but her approach seemed a little harsh.  
   
Up until about a year ago she had been single the entire time, however she did date and hook up with guys from time to time.  So she meets this guy and they hit it off.  I actually REALLY like him.  He's funny, very similar in personality and tastes to my friend, and seems to be a great match, but I could sense her starting to act differently while around him.  Fast forward to current day and our friendship has reduced to MAYBE a text exchange once or twice a week, and I honestly can't remember the last time we hung out sans boyfriend (who she now lives with).  
  
Now, we are both in college full time and I have a full time job, so we are both pretty busy, and I definitely understand the want to just sit at home and do nothing.  I'm fine with getting lunch once in awhile to catch up and go back to our lives, but my question here is do I say something?  I'm struggling with my intent of the conversation being that I really really miss her (I do), or because I want to say "see! ha! you aren't immune to the boyfriend spiral!!!".

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<bot>: do I sit down with my best friend and call her out on abandoning her friends, or am I just being a bitch?