<human>: Im a bit confused about my own sexuality, maybe one of you guys would be able to shed some light/give me some advice please

I have slept with both guys and girls. My typical choice in girls are cute brunettes. However with guys Im into older, big, hairy guys. My interactions with girls tend to be a lot more romantic and meaningful, but when looking at porn I almost exclusively watch bear porn and have done for years. The problem is, I don't really enjoy hanging out with/talking with the guys that much. Everything except the actual naked time doesn't do much for me at all.
Im not sure if by watching all the gay porn Ive made myself associate those kinda guys just with sex, but I haven't really been romantically attracted to any of the guys I have been with.

The sex with the girls tends to be a lot more sensual/passionate, though maybe less 'sexy', and I like the before/after bits quite a lot, eg cuddling, kissing, actually sleeping in a bed together.

Sooo what do we think reddit?? Gay guy pretending to be bi? Straight guy with homo tendencies? Actually bi? Cos I sure as fuck dont know! Its stopped me getting a girfriend as I am worried I will get bored of the sex and want to mix it up a bit

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Not sure if Im gay/bi/straight, getting me down a bit and just thought it might hear what others might think about my situation..