<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

Me and this girl have been extremely in to each other since we met a year ago. Absolutely adore each other, love talking about the future together, it makes us excited, etc etc. 

Last week she dropped a bomb on me that she thinks she needs a break because she is too dependent on me. To an extent, I understand. We are together an awful lot and maybe need to spend more time with our (separate) friend groups.

The thing that I don't get is she thinks I am changing who I am for her. She says this because last fall when we first started talking, I was against relationships and was very in to joining a fraternity at the college we both go to. 

While I am still interested in being a part of a fraternity, my views on relationships obviously has absolutely changed. She has made me want to make her mine, and be exclusive with her. Last fall I did join one, however I didn't complete the pledge process because they got kicked off campus. This means I can join a new one in the fall and I plan on it. I tried explaining to her that this would be good for us because it will force us to not spend so much time together. 

I also said it would be good because it will allow her to spend more time with her friends at bars and whatnot, which I can't even go to since I am only 20. The 2 year age difference (sophomore and senior) also seems to make her uneasy at times. But we have been so attached to one another it hardly is ever discussed.

While I am fine with taking a break so we can expand socially, I do not want to lose this girl. She tells me she misses me, but still wants the break. I am hoping that a month or two from now she will see that we can be together yet still have our own independent lives.

Any thoughts or advice is appreciated.
<bot>: I absolutely want to date this girl. She thinks she is changing me as a person just because 10 months ago I wasn't in to relationships but now the idea of being with her makes me extremely happy.