<human>: My girlfriend and I have been dating for about five years now. We talked about marriage recently, and I wanted to hear what her new name would sound like with my last name. When she heard me say it, she said that she didn't plan on changing her name, because it's a sexist tradition. I didn't know what to say to that because I assumed that she planned on taking my last name. My Mom took my Dad's last name, and her mom took her dad's last name. It's part of the tradition.

So last night, before we went to bed, I thought about it some more. I told her that if she didn't want to change her last name because it's sexist, then I wasn't going to propose without a ring because it's sexist and symbolizes ownership. She got upset, saying that she planned on looking at rings the following day. We argued for a a few minutes more, then we both fell asleep.

So who's wrong here? Marriage is about compromise, am I correct? Isn't it hypocritical of her to not follow a time-honored tradition, and then expect me to perform one? I'm alright with her changing her last name, as long as I don't have to propose with a ring. It's fair, right?

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<bot>: my girlfriend of 5 years doesn't want to change her last name when we get married. im fine with that as long as i dont have to propose with a ring. am i in the wrong here?