<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

ok guys, so I met this guy through OKC, and he's awesome. we have a ton in common and we have really good chemistry and get along really well. we've hung out three times at his place in the past week and a half, and had sex multiple times each time. the sex is amazing. the second time we hung out he told me that he has a promiscuous history, but that he's done with that part of his life. but he also told me that he had sex with his female roommate a few months ago, before they moved in together, but that he had made it clear that he did not want a relationship with her. He said that she's too eccentric and weird for his taste and that it's really awkward to live with her (due to extenuating  circumstances, he has to live with her at the moment, but is looking for a new place really hard). 
so anyway, ever since our second date, we haven't been texting/ chatting as much as we did when we first hung out. he's been kind of distant when we're not together in person.  but when we're in person, we have an amazing time. however, he's been really busy trying to find a new job (he just moved here) so he hasn't really had the time to hang out, so I feel like I have to ask to hang out. again, when we hang out, we have a blast, between sex and just lying in bed talking and playing around with each other.  I really screwed up the other day when I asked him if we were ok, and that I didn't want to just be there for sex. I think I hurt his feelings. I'm really afraid that it will turn into just sex for him (I have trust issues due to a previous relationship with a sociopath). but I really get good vibes from him, and I get that warm fuzzy feeling when we're together. I'm not sure of his goals yet, and I would really love to move forward and have an actual relationship.
so how do I tell that he's really into me or if it's just sex?
<bot>: met a guy on OKC, going well, but I don't know if it's just sex or if it's something more. how do I tell?