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So recently my girlfriend found out her family was moving to California due to military. We currently live in Virginia, and while I offered for her to stay here she wanted to move with her family, which I can understand. Currently we have a great way to keep in contact until she finishes her degree, then she plans to move back here. This is where things got rough.

So she is upset because I want to stay here, because I am about to graduate from my community college and start a university. She thinks I don't care about her because she got her mom to say that it was fine if I lived with them in Cali, as long as I had a job and went to school. As it currently stands, I still can't see her if no one is home. I also can't stay the night with her, even on new years or any time which the roads would be flooded with drunk drivers. I don't want to move to California because it means giving up the only two things I do here, which are shooting and homebrewing, and it also means I inevitably get treated like a child. So the times I would see her or even get to go out with her would be very little, and all in all I would be sleeping on their couch or some area like that. I am greatly upset that she assumes that I don't care enough about her or whatever, when really I don't want to be treated like that. I just don't know what to do anymore to make this work.
<bot>: Girlfriends leaving across the states, I don't want to go because that means losing personal hobbies and treated like a child, and shes upset.