<human>: So I [F22] graduated high school 4 years ago. I had a little crush on my friend [now M22] and I finally confessed that I found him attractive in our senior year of HS. He didn't reciprocate so I put the whole thing out of my mind and we just continued our friendship. Fast forward to now, I've had a couple boyfriends, while he's had no relationships with any girls. We're still really good friends (I think we're even better friends now than we were in high school) and, though I don't think of him romantically anymore, he's still kind of "the one that got away." Anyway, lately (like the past month or so) I feel like he's been more intimate with me than usual. He's been more talkative and possibly even flirty, or at least that's how I perceive it... and, where we both used to have very rigid touch barriers, that doesn't seem to be a problem anymore as we often hug. It also doesn't help that we both have mild-moderate social anxiety. I'm getting the feeling that maybe he wants to be more than friends now, but I don't know if I want that anymore. I really value our friendship.... but also, I feel kind of annoyed. Like "oh, now you want something out of this." Im a really stubborn person and I don't like doing things on other people's terms.

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<bot>: should I turn down the boy who turned me down in high school out of spite, or should I let him lead the way into a possible fruitful relationship?