<human>: Hi folks

I am getting married shortly. Its an arranged marriage (we are Indians) and so far we both like each other. There is one potential issue that we are facing. We fight frequently.

We never had the chance to ease into a relationship and get comfortable with each other. And soon we will be spending our lives together . 

She has trouble communicating without hurting me. She can be very tactless and blunt. On the other hand, I can be oversensitive and have anger issues. I am working on my own personality flaws.

But we also need to work on our communication. Good bit is that we both recognize it and are trying are best to fit in with each other.

Often, I see advice in these subreddits like
* dont talk accusatorily. Instead say things like "I feel". I "believe".
* dont bring up any dead topic when arguing
etc.

I was wondering if there are books which can teach both us to communicate better with each other. or any books in general that newlyweds must read. 

Thanks for your time.

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Please recommend books for newlyweds/young couples which teaches how to communicate well with each other. I want to spend a happy life with her and dont feel equipped with enough wisdom to do so.