<human>: Me (22F) and him (24M) have been together for a year – we broke up a few months ago, probably for about 2 months. During that time we did the unspeakable 'sex with the ex' and continued talking and spending time together as he said he just needed to 'get his head together' before he could be with me again, we mainly broke up that time because of my friends meddling and rumour stirring (they never ever liked him) but we stayed very close (I was pregnant at the time, he was very good about it, but we lost it during the break up – only a few months a long).

But I've recently found out he was soliciting other girls for sex when we were split up, when he promised he wasn't. I'm annoyed – obviously.

But it's made me horrifically depressed. When we were broken up he would go out and text me and tell me he was staying at a hot girls house (With friends though), he'd tweet about how much he wanted to do things sexually to other girls, girls would upload pictures of him in a sexually suggestive way, etc. and it's just sent me in a downward spiral that isn't stopping even though we're together now. 

Even now he'll make jokes about texting girls (when he's not), or he'll make a comment about how he could have whoever he wants, and it just all makes me feel worthless. And I know he loves me and everything but I really don't like feeling this way. 

Obviously we were broken up, I can't be mad at him – but when I have spoken about it with him he gets angry with me and just tells me to leave – it doesn't make it easier not being able to talk to him to clear the air and get the reassurance I really need.

How do I stop myself from being the paranoid needy mess I know I'm turning in to? Without talking to him about it?

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Boyfriend was typical single man when he was a single man... but it's left me paranoid and needy. How do I stop?