<human>: So,First of all first time posting, English is not my native tongue. 

We met on tinder over a month ago and we hit it off right from the start, we had a hilarious 2 day joke going on and decided to meet up. Ever since we've been going on multiple dates trough the week/end we go out have some food or just something to drink and chat we've met some of each others friends and family i think we're at a total of 20 dates now. We both come out of a relationship where the other was not valued and misunderstood but we're basically the same person just an other gender. 

So this is where it gets hard we always have so much fun we can talk about anything and have been talking about a lot of different things. But even tho we have been dating for so long and exclusively each other we still have not kissed. We talked about it and she says she needs to be a little more sure of us. This scared me a little because i'm a pretty shy guy and have a hard time reading into girls body language when it comes to making the first move. She always speaks in the future tense about us, we've made plans to go on trips together in the future and have the same perspectives on life. She told me she feels like the spark is there between us and that she has feelings for me as i do for her i'm head over heals about her. But I'm also afraid to lose what we have now if i try to kiss her. What should I do? She's basically everything I've ever been looking for we hit it off so good and have the best times we chat each day we text trough out the day let each other know how their day is going and if something funny or sad happens. For me this already feels like a relationship but we just have not kissed yet. I've been going on about a million different scenario's in my head and i can't seem to find the right answer.

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<bot>: Met a great girl, went on 20 dates, still no kiss, mutual feelings to eachother, what to do?