<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

So, pretty much as the title explains, my boyfriend is introverted and chill but has extroverted, party-going, and somewhat wild friends that are coming to visit him for his birthday. His sister (19f) and I want to throw him a party for his 21st birthday down where she lives because it's near all the fun bars we will go to at midnight. I really want it to be an enjoyable night for my boyfriend who is rather low key.

Here's the conflict: I know he wouldn't want to have a crazy party with a bunch of people he doesn't know very well or spend the energy to entertain strangers. His wild friends (3 of them) are a different story. I don't know them super well so I want to impress them with a really fun night, and also live up to my boyfriend's sister's expectations because she's a party girl herself. On top of this, I am also more introverted, and while I go out with my few friends sometimes, I don't ever plan parties so I want to get this one right.
<bot>: I don't know how to throw a party that both my introverted boyfriend will enjoy and will impress his more wild friends and sister will approve of!