<human>: Hi, r/relationships. I think my problem is fairly small, but it's really frustrating to me.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We've both had our facebooks turned off for the last three or so years, and just recently turned them back on. Since we have, I was considering posting some updated pictures. I went to the beach with a friend and we took some cute that I thought were cute, so I told my boyfriend that I was possibly going to post them.

Well, he thinks people who post pictures in bathing suits are seeking attention, that the pictures are sexual, and that the posters are "insecure and shallow." I think that's too harsh. I don't see how it's wrong and I feel like that means he thinks I'm shallow/insecure. I just don't see it the same way he does.  It's not sexual to me, it's just about sharing fun things I did and being proud of that. I don't think I'm shallow for wanting to post them, but he really disagrees. I almost feel like he sees it as cheating or wanting male attention.  These types of beach photos are very popular with my friends, I just thought it would be fun to join in and share my own.

I mentioned that I thought he was being a little insecure, because we've had issues with that in the past, but he says that I don't get to say what's healthy and what's not. For instance, he doesn't like for me to wear short-shorts or go places where there may be males my age. There's a lot more to it than that, of course.

But anyway, based on what you read here, am I wrong? Is it inherently scummy to post beach pictures or pictures in a bathing suit? Do you feel weird or uncomfortable about your SO posting photos in bathing suits?

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Boyfriends thinks it's inappropriate to post beach/swim suit photos on social media, I disagree and think he is being controlling/insecure.