<human>: I've been publicly dating my boyfriend for 8 months, but we've been together for a year now. I still like him very much, but I have been looking at another person. 

I don't talk to this person, either in person or via any intermediary, however I do look at him and I don't want to fall for him.

Both my boyfriend and the second man are very smart (top ranking at school) and have lots of similar traits. My boyfriend is Asian, and the second person is white. I'm a halfie, half Asian, half white. I don't think I like the second person because of his personality, but I also wouldn't oppose him coming on to me.

If I were given an immediate decision, I would choose my boyfriend, but is this normal? What can I do to prevent me from looking at another man?

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: I'm in a committed relationship with one person, but my eyes drift to another and I don't want it to grow. What do I do?