<human>: So, I am a female 21 years old, my boyfriend is 23. He is AMAZING and we have been together for what's about to be 1 year in January. We're both in universities with pretty difficult majors but my bf is definitely much more focused than I am - mostly due to the fact that I am still not 100% sure about what I want to do and he is super passionate. Well, literally ALL he does is school work. I also do very well in  school and my own hobbies and  I understand, we both want to be successful but things have become pretty dull. Yesterday was awkward on the phone as we both hung up admitting there was not much else to say. Is this a normal stage of our lives considering the circumstances or are things really just getting dull? Am I being too needy or not understanding by wanting to see him more?

Also, this has been affecting our sex life. I'm starting to feel dissatisfied by how little of it we have. Now I feel so awkward not understanding signals since I don't want to be rejected. I'm afraid to initiate anything. I'm super self conscious about even seeing him now since I feel guilty about taking time away from his studies. I'm considering leaving him alone.

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<bot>: Things have become pretty dull between bf and I. Not sure if it's because something's wrong with us or if it's inevitable due to circumstances.