<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

I'm 21 and have only had two serious relationships before. They were both abusive, the first one physically and the second emotionally and verbally. I know the first cheated on me and suspect the second one did also. 

Anyway, in both those relationships I would get really jealous. I would get jealous when they would do things without me, hang out with other girls, and even when they take a long time to text me back. I know I respond to texts fast but it seems like most guys are a lot slower. And then if I see that they are on Facebook and haven't replied to my text yet I assume that they're ignoring me or talking to someone else. I was usually pretty good about keeping it to myself and ignoring it but I don't want to have those jealous thoughts at all. 

I recently started talking with this guy I really, really like. He lives a bit away so we just text a lot. He's moving back here after the summer. I don't want to start with these jealous tendencies again but I already am. I keep it to myself but my mind races when he hasn't texted me back in hours but I see him on Facebook. I know it sounds super silly. He also goes out a lot and drinks and has tons of super pretty model looking friends. I know he likes me a lot too though and we text everyday. 

So how do I stop being so jealous? I don't even know why I do this to myself. And before anyone might suggest counseling for the past abuse, I am already seeing a counselor.
<bot>: I have always gotten jealous in relationships. I now like someone a lot and I don't want to ruin it by being jealous. I need to stop doing this to myself, but how?