<human>: Hi Reddit. I am a 23yr old Male, who has been in a very successful relationship with my SO for 3.5 years. Last night she told me that she doesn't think that I Am "The One" and that she doesn't think that she wants to have a family with me.

In the past her and I have talked about this ind of thing and have agreed and both wanted these things. And she told me about a week ago she had a moment where she realized this is the case.

I am going on vacation with her for the holidays, then after that we are calling it off because she thinks she needs to be alone. She says she is unhappy and that I make her happy, but she needs a change of something and doesn't know what.

I believe that she is unhappy from her work. Regardless we are still calling it quits, temporarily or permanent.

I believe her to be the love of my life, and I still think she is the one, she is also afraid she is making a huge mistake, but think she has to make it regardless.

So, after all that, Reddit, do I wait for her to take some time? Or do I let her go for good and never look back?

I haven't been single since before I was dating her (I was in a relationship with her a week after I ended my previous one.) So I am fine with taking a break and being single, but I want to end up with her. What do we all think?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: SO says she doesn't want me in the end but still loves me a lot, and wants to try to be apart temporarily/indefinitely