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I've been with my man for 10 years.  Love him to pieces.  He's a wonderful person and a great partner, but he tends to be very apathetic about life.  I'm a very adventurous and a glass-half-full person, and he's just kind of...the opposite.  Not to say he's not fun or he doesn't like to have fun.  But I'm always the one planning things, suggesting new things to try, wanting to go explore somewhere or check out a museum or something interesting.  He will go, to make me happy, but he's definitely not into it.  Not a lot of things excite him.  If I don't take initiative and plan stuff to do, we'd probably stay in bed all day and watch tv.  Some days he has bursts of energy and it'll surprise me.  Like, he saw an event happening and wants to go, or wants to check out a new restaurant or bar.  But mostly, he's just operating at neutral.

He knows he's apathetic, he admits it readily.  But I feel like maybe it's deeper than that.  Maybe he's depressed.  I don't know about what.  He's been like this since we met.  He does have kind of a pessimistic outlook on life.  He doesn't find most experiences worth it, and he's picky about things.  I try to get him to see silver linings to things, but he's just not into it.  Honestly, sometimes it drags me down.  A person can only take so much apathy before it gets to them, you know?  I don't want to push him into talking about his feelings, because he's not that kind of person, but I want to help him somehow...for him to feel better, and also to help our relationship be better.  Or maybe this is just who he is, and I am with the wrong person for my personality type?  I don't know anymore.
<bot>: BF is apathetic and pessimistic.  I think he may be depressed and he doesn't realize.  Want to help him, but he's closed off and refuses even couples counseling.  Don't know what to do.