<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

Hi team.

Me: 21 year old, engineering student, fun, financially comfortable, independent.

Her: 22 years old, film grad, recently unemployed, fun, adventurous as hell, totally beautiful soul.

Hi [1] /r/relationships.

Just curious if you might have an insight I don't here. My girl and I were together for close to 18 months before she split with me in an attempt to figure her life out and be independent and do all that young people stuff. AKA not ready for anything really longterm or serious.

Understandable, I guess.

Meanwhile, I travelled throughout the US (We are both from New Zealand), tried new jobs, careers, had a small dead-end relationship.

On my return, I recieved all sorts of cutesy, kind messages of how much she missed me and such. She visited me, we got together, slept together, spent five days or so in constant company. It was amazing. Like everything I missed about 'Us'.

She convinced me to fly down to her new spot and visit for a weekend. 6 weeks later, I did so. On my arrival, she let me know she was 'seeing' someone. Yet she still kissed me, held my hand in public, snuggled up to me in my hotel room whilst watching Community and drinking wine. However she decided staying was a bad idea and since drove home to her parents place, out of town.

I know 80% of the comments here are gonna be "Communicate!", or "Talk to her". But I don't want to. I just want things to play out in my favour. I've missed her so much lately, I thought things would be the same. I guess I shouldn't have placed any expectations on this visit, but I'm left in a hella confused state. We are so good together, I would hate for something silly to get in between it.
<bot>: Visited ex after an excellent reconnection, since found she has a new guy, left confused via mixed messages. Sad.