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My boyfriend suddenly broke up with me claiming that I dont teach him enough things, and I dont inspire him to be work harder for things. 

He is a nice person and we get along well, but he has a personality quirk. He always needs to be "good" at whatever he does. Its a trait he has that he both likes and dislikes. On one hand it makes him improve very quickly, on the other hand he is constantly beating himself up over not being good enough. 

He has recently told me that he feels he is always helping me with things and I dont teach him anything. I'm confused by this because I dont recall him teaching me many things besides some ultimate frisbee related things. He also claims that I dont work hard enough towards one thing I'm passionate about that it inspires him to work hard towards other things as well. I was confused by this because I spend much of my time working on throws and just getting better at ultimate in general. 

One example he used to explain how he feels like "he has to help me with eveyrthing", was when we were throwing he was teaching me how to use the right form (I'm relatively new to the sport, and he's a very experience player), and felt that because of this, he couldn't work on his long throws. I didn't understand the way he felt because during that time I never once said "please don't practice your throws, just help me instead". But he feels that because we're dating he "has to help me" otherwise he would be a "bad boyfriend" and that goes back to his personality that makes him have a need to be good at everything. 

He said that he likes me for everything else but because of "helping me" he feels that our relationship has moved to more a friend dynamic. 

I'm completely lost as to what to say and I'm not sure if what he wants is reasonable for a partner.
<bot>: My boyfriend suddenly broke up with me claiming that I dont teach him enough things, and I dont inspire him to be work harder for things. Is this normal?