<human>: i'm going on a road trip tomorrow (3.5 hours) with two great friends. one just got married a few days ago. we're going to a mutual friends wedding. this is supposed to be a joyous time. all 3 of us are straight males. obviously, i'll be spending a bunch of time with them tomorrow and dont want to be a downer. all my life ive been a negative person. people know me as a pessimist. it's exhausting. most of the time i'm right about things, but it's unfulfiilling. i just cant seem to shake this and i'm beginning to think it's going to start haunting me for the rest of my life. please help me start being a more positive person. right now my life sucks...i'm jobless for a year, i'm deep in student debt and i've been drinking too much and overeating gaining 30lbs QUICK.

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<bot>: help this pessimist get some positive thoughts in my mind for an upcoming roadtrip. hoping to start a new positive life.