<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

They're my friends (m is also my ex) and I'm trying to give them space and consideration and everything, but it seems like when a little thing pops up that I'm uncomfortable with, I'm the one who has to accommodate.

For example, I asked m that their door be completely closed when they're intimate. Granted it was late, but I'm a full-time college student and a full-time employee at my job (I know, not the brightest move on my part), so I am scrambling to do whatever I can whenever I can. For clarity, I do my homework in the living room on the other side of the apartment so that I'm not tempted to lay down and sleep (no desk in my room, which is RIGHT next to theirs).

I asked him to please just close the door and apparently ajar is closed to him. He said that it is common courtesy to clear a common area when a couple goes to bed. News to me. I know I'm not used to living with a couple or normal people for that matter, but I was not aware that this was common. Is this true? Is it just something I was not aware of?
<bot>: Asked couple to close door completely. Told it's common courtesy to clear a common area with a couple in the apartment. Is this correct?