<human>: I work as a bartender in a restaurant.  Two restaurants, actually.  I make a fairly good amount of money, so we're never really hurting for cash when we really need it.  For a while, though, I was providing most of the income, and it felt a little burdensome.  So she got a second job at one of the restaurants I work for.

The idea was that she was supposed to move through the ranks and become a server in order to lighten my financial burden and she could feel a little more independent.  Six months later, I had to finally let out that I don't really like her working at the same place I do.

I feel like I don't really get an opportunity to miss her, and I feel like it's damaging the relationship.  Sure, we don't work in the same part of the restaurant or spend quality time together while working, but I think that my brain can't differentiate seeing her romantically as opposed to seeing her in the same place.

It used to feel different.  When I would come home after a long day, I would be more than happy to have her be the center of my life.  But now I feel like I'm neglecting her because she is already integrated into the work I'm doing even in an indirect way.

I confronted her about this and she was defensive at first.  But overall, she came to the conclusion that our relationship is more important than some job.  That was really cool of her, but I can't help but feel selfish for feeling this way.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Got my girlfriend a job at my restaurant, and I don't really like working around her because I feel like I don't get a chance to miss her.