<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

OK I am just a bit in need of a vent to see how others would perceive this situation... Met a girl a work. I liked her right from the beginning, but had a girlfriend myself for much of my time there. I broke up with my gf, and things were going nicely with girl in work. She seemed to make a point of coming to see me and we were getting on really well. I was also picking up on subtleties that made it seem she was interested. With a couple of days left of work before I leave I ask her if she wants to go for a drink. She's game. All looks good. After this on another occasion a co-worker dropped a couple of subtle comments - 1 that she likes me, but also (to her) that she should break up with her bf. First I heard of bf. She agreed, but I couldn't tell whether she was just saying it and not meaning it and it wasn't the right place or time to talk about it.
So... been txting, during txts she mentions seeing her bf over the weekend but still meeting up with her for a drink. I'm now in a bit of a moral quandary. I really like this girl, but 1) I don't really wan't to be a bit on the side, 2) I don't really want to break any bro-code, 3) If a relationship begins unfaithfully I think it is likely it will end that way
So I am planning on still meeting her and am hoping that she will tell me she has broken up with bf, but if not I am confused as to whether these are platonic drinks (a possibility), or how to proceed if they are not. I've been in a state of nervous excitement all weekend. I know to not get my hopes up as it seems unlikely that suddenly the situation is perfect..... aaaahhhhh just confused.
I plan to ask her if her bf knows she is out for a drink with me and hoping that she says what I want to hear - that hes not her boyfriend anymore. Otherwise I will enjoy some drinks with my friend and call it a night early.
If you made it this far I commend you. Any comments / suggestions
<bot>: asked girl out, accepted, found out she has boyfriend. Not sure what she's doing about it, if anything. Confused.