<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

I've been with my SO 2 years and we've been talking about the future for a while and recently I brought up having kids in the next few years. I know it seems like "hey, what's the rush??", but I'm in the middle of medical school and it's a long educational track so it's kind of hard not to think ahead. The SO is fresh out of college having trouble finding a full time job he likes. I'm completely happy and in love with him but am worried that this won't work when we have kids. It's really important to me that I not take on the traditional housewife role (to the point that I almost wish he was female so this would be less difficult). I really want to have children, but I want to take care of patients, not slobbery babies (as bad as that sounds). I also don't want to waste hundreds of thousands of dollars in education sitting at home with a rocker. I talked to him about it and he's half and half on the idea of being a stay at home dad. He cooks for me already, and he's a really good cook! Baby steps, right? ;) 

I just feel like there are so many obstacles though. Prejudice on the playground, etc. I just looked at /r/stayathomedad and there are only 30 users. This feels hopeless.
<bot>: I want to be the sole female doctor breadwinner in an otherwise traditional family unit and am wondering if I'm kidding myself about the feasibility of gender role reversal.