<human>: I have to break up with my boyfriend. It's not his fault at all and I love him to pieces but it's better to hurt him a little now (I know he's expecting it) than drag out this bullshit for any longer. I'm not here to ask whether I should or shouldn't, but I do have some problems.

First, I actually consider him a good enough friend to not just leave him a note or do the awful thing of texting him like I would have with previous people. I have *no* idea how to go about telling someone that it's over face to face. I'd like to avoid all the crying and the bullshit and make this as painless as possible for all parties. He'll understand my reasons, but I know he's going to be angry at first so how do I handle that?

Second, we live together. I have no money and nowhere else to go, so I'd rather like to continue living together rather than being homeless. I wouldn't have to continue sharing a bed/room with him but we'd still be in very close proximity... is this a good idea? Bad idea? Your experiences would be infinitely helpful. In the immediate fallout of the breakup I can sofa surf for a week or so but eventually I'd have to come back.

Last but not least - what are your experiences with staying friends? I've heard that it's impossible, and I've heard that it's fine. I know you can't really comment on my situation in this case but I'd like to hear your opinions anyway.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: Breaking up with the boyfriend. Not sure what to say or do as we'll still have to live together. Help?