<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

I (22f) have been dating my bf (24m) for almost two years now. His father HATES me. Like, he gets into screaming matches with my bf over me. He tries to break us up and says I am a terrible fit for their family. He says nasty things about me. The rest of the family mostly just ignores me. 

 My bf is on my side and says he loves me too much and that his dad is in the wrong. After this last screaming match, I feel like I have had enough. I dont want to be around his dad. Period. I think he is a nasty, mean hearted person and I dont deserve to be treated like he treats me. However, my bf is very close to his family and wants to fix things.... before we move and leave the state in 5 months. 

I cant hold a grudge-it is too much energy- but I am also nowhere near ready to even attempt a new relationship with his family, mainly his dad. I dont trust him and I think I deserve an apology. His dad, on the other hand, says he can try to start fresh with me again but it has to start with me spending time with them and eventually an apology will just happen "organically".

 On one hand, I get it- how can you start fresh if you never see one another? On the other hand, I feel like his dad is manipulating the situation again. He is trying to make me dance for him before he will change, so to speak.  My bf really wants the relationship to be repaired and keeps pushing for us to spend time together. But I cant do it. Even the thought of his dad fills my mouth with bile right now.  What am I supposed to do?  I think my bf is way too optimistic about his dad's intentions and ability to change, but he is an optimistic person and cant handle thinking there is no hope.
<bot>: my bf's so has treated me terribly and bf wants me to forgive him and move forward with a relationship.