<human>: Hi, RA, 

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little less than 8 years now, living together for 6 of the last 7 1/2 months, but we're at a critical moment in our relationship; we both have identified problems with ourselves that are impacting our relationship and are afraid to stay together without a guarantee that things will get better.  To top that off, he's told me he might have feelings for another girl.  Neither of us wants to leave our relationship, but we are unsure whether our reasons are due to love or fear of losing the comfort we've attained while being together.  We've considered an open relationship in which we'd stay together and try to work on our problems, while allowing each other to explore more potentially rewarding relationships.  Although we spoke of this very maturely, we're both rather jealous and can't stand the idea of each other being with different people.  

He will soon be graduating from my alma mater and we're having to consider what to do next with our lives.  We're afraid that our interests are diverging and leaving us incompatible; when we're together we constantly struggle with what we should do together, but our decisions usually leave one of us unhappy - there's very little BOTH of us like to do.  He will likely be moving to the west coast after graduation and has said he'd like me to go with him with the hope of exploring the new surroundings together.  Both of us are a bit wary of this, though, as we were feeling a little stifled and trapped when we were living together.

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<bot>: LTR bf and I are diverging in interests, dealing with baggage, and are trying to decide if we should stay together, do an open relationship, or break it off entirely.  What should we do, reddit?