<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

My girlfriend and I have been going out for 3 years now. We have a good relationship and both our families like each other. Recently she just moved back home so we are now doing long distance. I've talked about moving out to where she lives and working out there. I have already applied for a few jobs and received a few phone interviews. We were discussing us getting an apartment together but she already promised her brother that they would get an apartment together when he got out of the army, which is in 3 months, and I offered to get an apartment with them but she doesn't see the point of us sharing 3 bedrooms since her brother would not want her and I to sleep in the same room. She suggested that I get an apartment with one of her friends or an apartment by myself instead. I don't see the point of me moving out there and leaving my family, friends, and current job to not even live with her. I'm not sure how to bring it up without starting an argument or seeming selfish. Please help me figure out what to do
<bot>: GF and I are doing long distance. Doesn't want me to room with her and her brother but get an apartment with her friend or by myself. Don't know what to do