<human>: My boyfriend (22) and I (20) are having issues with physical contact. If it were up to him, we'd be kissing and touching and holding each other all the time. However, I have little to no desire to engage in physical contact with him. We've talked about my reluctance and how it might be evidence of my intimacy issues, and he's agreed to back off and stop kissing me and whatnot. Clearly, he's bummed, but I don't know what to do. When we first started dating, I was excited, and I still get butterflies, but he's definitely more affectionate than I am. We connect on several deeper levels, and I feel like I can talk to him about anything. Reddit, is there anything I can do to build sexual tension or to get to a point where all I want to do is kiss him?

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<bot>: Boyfriend likes kissing me, but I don't want to kiss him. I want to want to kiss him. Help.