<human>: Hey all,

I'm a 31 year-old guy who's been in a relationship with a super 25 year-old girl for almost two years. I went off to grad school last September; we've been planning on her moving here when her lease ended in April. We have an incredibly close, intimate connection, similar interests (food, cats, comix), and enviable chemistry.

Buuuuut, we're also both pretty insecure. The long-distance thing has been traumatic. While the times we're together are magic, they happen all too infrequently (once a monthish) and the in-between periods have some jealousy, some disconnect, and a lot of frustration (if you get my meaning). 

She was supposed to move here in 4 weeks. But she freaked the fuck out last night, telling me that she loves her neighborhood/city, her friends are there, she's afraid of what will happen if she has no job and no friends here. And she wanted to move later so we could find a new place in the fall when my lease ends. One we could "make our home." (My current pad is so nice! And my absentee roommate's leaving in a couple of months!).

I told her I didn't know if it would work for me and we could talk after we both had some time to think. She called today and said she extended the lease. 

Sooooo, the idea of doing 5 months (!) of more LDR makes me want to cry. And most of the reasons she cited for not moving will still be there in the fall. I'm feeling hurt that she made the decision last minute without really talking about it with me. She still plans on moving here and "doesn't want to risk our relationship over this."

I love her dearly, Reddit, but I feel like telling her it's over. What do you think?

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: LDR GF was supposed  to move here in a few weeks. She extended her lease another five months without talking to me about it. Hate LDR. Love her. Dump?