<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

Alright, I'll try to keep this short. I'm in love with this girl, nobody knows except my friend and my dad. I invited her to play paintball with some friends sometime this month (no date set), and she said she wanted to go because she's never been. She then invited me to a hayride/corn-maze thing this Friday, and I immediately said it sounded fun and I'd go.

She also invited my friend and his wife afterwards, so I'm assuming it's kind of a group-thing, and her boyfriend will probably be there.

For the record, I am ***NOT*** trying to break them up, or anything shady. In all honesty, I just like being around her, even though I've not met her boyfriend yet.

Anyways, neither my friend nor my dad think it's a good idea. Each has his reasoning.

My friend is afraid I'll mentally set myself back if I see them together. He also just doesn't want to go. His concern is that, as I'm doing pretty well with getting in shape, and training for this job, he's worried that I'll lose motivation (as she has definitely been a major source of inspiration for me).

My dad thinks I need to wait to see her until I've lost more weight, for "shocking her" the next time I see her (I'm already down 26 lbs since I last saw her, and continuing to diet and exercise).

I don't know what I should do. Just call her and say I'm working Friday? Which is true; I was *going* to call off work, but every one seems to think it's a bad idea.

At the same time, I do worry if it would come across as "blowing her off", or send the message the I'm *not* interested in her? It's tricky, because if I keep too much distance, I become kind of "an acquaintance", but if we spend much time together, I risk either "the friendzone", or a least communicating the wrong kind of interest in her.

I dunno, what do you guys think?
<bot>: I really like this girl who is dating someone, she invited me to an event and I agreed, should I back out?