<human>: Hi reddit. 28M Posting here for the first time because I really like this girl, and I don't want to miss my chance with her, but I also won't wait around like a chump.

 So, this girl and I started working together over the summer, long story short, there was mutual attraction and i couldn't ask her out because I was not single. 

Fast forward to right now. I'm single. I asked her out, she said yes. She reschedules the first date with me for what I assume is a real situation (or a monstrous conspiracy). She invites me for drinks instead and we have a pretty good time. We have great chemistry. I heard she was seeing someone so I used my power of man-ness and asked her. Then she mentions that she "is kinda seeing someone" but she would not describe him as her boyfriend. She's 21 so I don't know what that means. She doesn't say she's in love.  I basically texted her that if she was single we should go out, if not see ya around. I stated it in a more charming way than this. she told me she had to say no for now and figure things out.

The next day she asks me to hang out. I told her not while she's still dating someone. Does she actually think I want to hang out with her while i know she has a boyfriend and I can't have her? I'm not THAT pathetic.
What's going on here? What is she doing?

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<bot>: Girl goes on date with me then flakes and refuses further dates and the next day asks me to hang out. why?