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Dear Reddit, I (32f) and this guy (33m) have worked together as co-leads on a very successful software project.  Over time I inadvertently fell in love with him and I always thought he had the same feelings about me.  I'm recently divorced, and as luck would have it he started dating a woman just before my ex moved out. 

His girlfriend lives in another part of the country, it's an ldr and neither of them are willing to move to the others area. Also, she's still married (separated as her state has 1year waiting period) and apparently her parents really dislike him. Sounds like a recipe for disaster to me so I told him in January that I had feelings. He told me that he also really likes me but his girlfriend is divorcing her husband to be with him, so he can't dump her. 
Over the next couple months he started dressing a lot better, going out of his way to hang out and generally flirting with me. He also told me he wishes she would break up with him. He also said that whenever hes with her he wishes it was me. So i got my hopes up. But now almost end of April and I'm heartbroken and miserable. 

So what do you think I should do? Try harder to get him to break up with her? (like maybe ask him to?) or should I just move on?
<bot>: I'm in love with my coworker and he really likes me back. Should I try harder to break him and his ldr girlfriend or just let things happen?