<human>: Hi guys,

I met that girl in college about 2 months ago and I fell in love with her, for the first time of my life. So 2 weeks later, after we talked a bit and we know we shares some interests , I told her I'm very interested in her and asked her out. She didnt say no, she said she just had a relationship behind her so she doesnt want to date right now. So we still stay as friends 

About 1 week later on a house party, she started flirting with that guy on the party directly in front of my eyes. Then she started enjoying more male companionship (because she gets along with guys much better, she really has barely female friends). Then she (half jokingly) tells me about that guy as her crush and about my roommate how hot he is when she saw him the first time. I asked her once when we was drunk jokingly, why she tells me that stuff and she told me "because I want you to notice..".
 

After that, I acted like nothing happened and we still hang out like watching movies (alone and with another people), party and stuff while she still hangs out with another guys as "friends". She said she was a loner before so it is a nice change to have friends to hang out. Then sometimes she mentioned I'm cute, funny and she enjoys doing stuff with me, then she starts talking "jokingly" about her crush again. 

Because that girl actually is a very innocent and friendly person and she also has as much social skills as I do: almost zero, I dont know why she is doing this and what she is actually thinking. 

Is she trying to make me jealous? Should I try to hang out with her more even if she kinda hurts me or stay at distance? Should I directly ask her why she is doing that kind of stuff? Or is she just being friendly? Should I ask her out in some next weeks again?

Because I dont have much social skills and this is my first time being really in love, I'm very confused and I dont know what to do. 

Thanks you guy very much for helping and sorry, english isnt my first language.

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<bot>: Crush is driving me crazy by her actions even (or especially) she knows about my feeling and I dont know what to do.