<human>: I simply don't feel sexually attracted to him anymore. I absolutely love his company and he is my best friend. There's nothing wrong with him. He's treated me like a lady and I'm so grateful to have met him. He just started a really stressful job and had to move out of state. We talk a lot, but I can't say I miss living with him. His birthday is in December, then the holidays and our anniversary was supposed to be in January.

If I break up with him after all these events, I'm afraid he'll think it was all a lie. But if I do it before, I don't know if it'll allow him to move on sooner rather than later, or completely crush him. I know it will hurt him, but I want to cause as little damage as possible. I really care about him and I'd hate to scar him forever. What should I do?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Do I break up with bf before or after his birthday, holidays and our anniversary? I want to do what's best for him.