<human>: Hi everyone,

Everyone in the family has iPhones, and I use Find My Friends with my close friends, and with my 17-year old brother . We're pretty close, and he works with me occasionally so it's good to keep track if he's on his way, etc. My parents saw this, and asked him to share his location with them. He reluctantly agreed.

Fast forward a few months later, this is now a big source of contention. Being a growing man, my brother wants his privacy and to be trusted. On the other hand, my parents like the feeling of knowing he's safe. Unfortunately, if my brother turns off his location, he is threatened with losing driving and phone privileges. My parents have said they won't abuse the privilege, but they will call him and ask him why he's at a certain location. Obviously these tools didn't exist when I was his age (i'm 28 now), and when I asked what my parents did when I was his age without these tools, they said "we worried a lot more."

How do I convince my parents that this is doing more harm than good? They promise to stop tracking when he turns 18 (so they say), but in the mean time, there's no trust being built between my parents and my brother: He doesn't trust them to respect his privacy, and they don't seem to trust him staying out of trouble (ha.)

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Parents track my brother via iPhone software, threaten punishment if he turns it off, but he wants his privacy. Wat do?