<human>: I need honest feedback here - I am seriously concerned. Okay, I arrived at my son's house this morning as previously arranged. He didn't greet me when I arrived, just complained that his gardener hadn't removed rubble from his gate and it wasn't working properly. 

I walked past him saying I wasn't interested in whatever caused his bad temper. His anger escalated rapidly. I chatted to his wife [29] for a while, who is a darling. My son came into the house and started complaining loudly about stuff that had been moved by somebody. I started joking about the amount of fucks I gave, when he cut me off saying shut up, and then when I tried to say something more he walked out and slammed the door. 

I felt terrible for his wife, who was apologising for his rudeness, but I am REALLY upset at his bad temper and short fuse.
 
Does anyone have any experience of going to a neuro-psychiatrist? I was wondering if a course of anti-convulsants or perhaps just an anti-depressant would be the answer? 

He loses his temper at other motorists, and has broken two cellphones this year by throwing them down hard when they don't do whatever he wants them to do. I love my son and am worried about him. Of course I know it doesn't help if his mom makes comments when he's in a bad mood, but he annoys me and I do feel protective towards my daughter-in-law.

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<bot>: My son loses his temper very quickly and I would like to suggest he see a neuro-psychiatrist to see if his volatility is actually abnormal and if so, if it is treatable.