<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

I feel selfish, and I feel unhappy.

My wife is my best friend, we have been together 3 years and there is nobody else in the world I would rather be with, we complement each other very well and I would say we are as good at communicating with each other through even the hardest of things without a problem. 

Our daughter was born just over 3 months ago and we love her to death. Oh man, we love her so much. 

Here is the problem, 1.5 months ago I went from working 2 days a week and spending all my time with them to working 50+ hours a week with a 1 hour commute both ways (I drive the whole thing). As you can imagine this leaves me beyond exhausted by the time I get home. I have maybe 3 hours with them during the day before I have to go to bed. (We found a new apartment that is literally less than a mile from work and are moving next month so that will help tremendously)

My wife is a stay at home mom (this was decided together as we both agreed it would be best for our daughter).

So, now I get home and I am tired. And all I can imagine is she is exhausted from taking car of the baby all day which makes sense. But, that leaves so little energy to put into each other. I use to give her massages all the time that would lead to more intimate things but, I just don't have the energy in me after work. And to make matters worse, the few times I do try our daughter ends up crying and it all falls apart. Leaving my wife feeling un-relaxed and me feeling alone while my wife is focused on our daughter again.

What do we do?

I miss when I got home and she could get up and hug me and we kissed and it would lead to more. Now I open the door and she is on the couch breastfeeding.

She is doing nothing wrong, when we spoke last night she said she is doing alright so I know this is mostly on my end and I need to get my head straight. I just miss smiling without even trying.
<bot>: Happily married, have a baby, I feel like a selfish jerk for feeling neglected because my wife is always focused on the baby.