<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

My girlfriend has a tough family life, was bullied very badly in highschool and has suffered depression as a result. 

Since moving to university (where I met her) she was able to forget her past, blossom and genuinely have fun. I believe she is comfortable in her own skin for the first time in her life. And after 2 years, we start to date. 

We have an small age gap but I think we are in very different stages of our personal development. Because of me, she now isn't able to further her personal development. A few examples I can think of include being a little wild or breaking the rules, flirting with many people and act independently (all without considering me).             

Though these may seem trivial, these are things me and you have done through our own personal development. I love her and don't want to leave her but is our relationship halting her development to becoming the best person she can be on a personal level.     

I am posting here because I am just looking for advice from people who have been similar situations. I m scared to mention it to her out of fear that I ll give her the impression I want to leave. Am I over thinking the situation or should I break my heart to better hers?
<bot>: I need advice on how to deal with the feeling our relationship is holding her back discovering who she is a as person.