<human>:  Is it bad that I like violence and sex together?
<bot>: I think you're talking about BDSM, which has a lot of cultural and historical associations with sexism and violence against women, but lots of people today enjoy the activities of BDSM and don't have those attitudes. If you're wondering about that, maybe you'd like to read about how feminist BDSM is different from non-feminist BDSM?