<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

So I met this girl a little while ago, we got into a relationship pretty quick because the few dates we had we really clicked and said fuck it why not. Recently, she mentioned to me that she has Border-line Personality Disorder (BPD). At the time I was very glad she was able to share that with me as she hadn't told many people, and obviously it's good to know something like this about your S/O, but things started making sense after she mentioned that thinking back to the times she had lacked in emotional intelligence, went through a pretty long hook-up period, likes to spend money a lot, neglected me pretty often, etc. Don't wanna get too specific but she started listing all of these symptoms that, after reading up a little about it, where sure as shit symptoms of BPD. 

Anyway, I really like this girl, and even though we're a new couple, I don't want to see her as her mental disorder, I want to be able to be with her and work through any difficulties. The problem is, I don't know how to handle myself around someone with BPD. It's such a new thing to me, and when she neglects me and stuff I always feel like it's my fault, like I did something wrong, or I'm annoying her, and I'm sure I have not even experienced the worst of it yet - she mentioned how she goes into pretty bad rage some days, but I want to know how to handle myself around her, and how to act around her so that we can grow together and maintain a healthy relationship. Anyone have any experience with people who have BPD?
<bot>: My new girlfriend has Border-line Personality Disorder and I want to know the do's and don't's of being in a relationship with someone who has BPD.