<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

Some background: Prior to dating this woman, I was out of the dating game for a couple years on a self-imposed hiatus and am overall pretty inexperienced with dating/relationships. 

I met a woman via a dating site just under a month ago and hit it off right away.  We've seen each other about 8-9 times since and things seem very relaxed and natural; I've cooked her dinner, she's cooked me dinner; I've met some of her friends, she's met some of mine; we've spent the night together a few times, and have had sex. 

I think we have very good chemistry; while I don't have any idea where the relationship is going, I'm enjoying things the way they're progressing and am happy to find out in time.  

The only concern I have is that ultimately I am looking for a long term relationship, and this is one thing we haven't discussed.  Am I OK to bring this subject up with her, without having 'the talk'?  I really don't want to scare her off, but at the same time I don't want to find out a month or two from now that I've been wasting my time because she's just looking for something casual.
<bot>: Can I get away with asking about her relationship goals without discussing where our relationship is going? Or should I just do both?