<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

I've been single for about two years now. I really want a monogamous relationship now. It's not so much that I *need* one- I do really well on my own- but I feel like I'm ready to enjoy the stability of a relationship again and I'm finally sick of casual sex.

The first year after being single, I didn't date, and then I got Tinder and OKC and I've been using those for most of my dating needs. I've been on 20 dates, probably. 

I was fine dating people casually for a while, but over the past half year I've wanted something more serious. But here's the problem! It seems like I can't find anyone who wants something serious with me, or if they do, I don't. 

I've approached three guys I had great chemistry with about going steady, and none wanted more. But then several guys have approached me about going steady, but we always had terrible sexual chemistry or were incompatible for other reasons (see: one guy trying to "save me" while berating me for having past sexual experience). 

My male friends tell me it's just how guys are at this age or that someone like me is always going to attract guys more into polygamy (I'm artsy/punk). 

How do I remedy this situation? Is there anything I can do, like see about dating people elsewhere? (Problem is, my country is small so Tinder is about the only useful dating app, and I work/study from home so I don't get out beyond partying with friends on weekends, where the guys seem even LESS interested in starting a relationship, especially with some rando girl from the bar).
<bot>: I've been dating regularly through online dating apps and want a monogamous relationship, but there are no takers. Should I just wait until someone cool comes along or can I change something?