<human>: Hey guys, so this isn't an extremely huge deal-- most of the time (90%?) I get off just fine during sex. We have a super bomb sex life other than this. I'm just wondering, is it rude to tell my BF when I haven't orgasmed after he already has so that he can help finish me off? If so, how do I tactfully ask?

This is my first sexual relationship, so I'm just unsure. I guess I moan a lot during sex so maybe it's hard for him to tell when I haven't orgasmed? The only thing is, the few times he's ever gone soft (super few, once because he was tired, another time because it just wasnt working that day) he gets super embarrassed, which makes it even harder for him to get hard later since he's anxious. I don't want him to get anoxious over this at all, so that's the biggest reason why I'm hesitant to say anything. 

Advice on how to tactfully bring this up, if I should bring it up at all?

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Is it ok to tell my boyfriend when I haven't orgasmed after he already did and if so, how do I tell him without making him too anxious or embarrassed?