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My cousin in India is getting married in Jan 2015, so my parents and I are visiting for his wedding. When we first talked about my trip to India, they mentioned that we will be meeting interested girls in India before my cousin's wedding. At the time they told me that they I can meet then and talk to them and when I'm ready and both of us willing, will get married. Recently, I overheard my mom speaking to her parents and her older brother, who are also visiting India around the same time. My mom was asking then if they can be present when I elope with a girl, so that she can come to America in 2 year, and then introduce her to my family here at that time. 

I'm not sure how I feel about this. I don't want to be married to anyone unless, I have known them for a while and feel like that they might be right for me. I would preferably like to be with someone who was raised in USA, or Canada, so that we can have more in common. I also don't want someone to marry me just as a reason to get a green card. 

However, from my terrible online dating experience, not sure if its not a bad idea listening to my parents and getting an arranged marriage. But I don't feel right about getting eloped to someone i would know for about a week; given that after i come back to USA, I will pretty much be in a long distance relationship before she can come here and we are officially married. 

Not sure how many redditors out there have had experience with similar situations. I know I should just man up and not do anything that I don't want to, but at this point, I'm not sure what is the better option. I haven't had any luck finding someone (have been looking for 2 years) and I do want to be married by the time I am 30.
<bot>: Overheard my parents secret plot to get me eloped in India when i visit in January and I don't know what i should do.