<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Personal and sexual I suppose. Let me start off by saying that I (F22y/o) am in an amazing relationship with an amazing man (M25y/o) and I am not about to change anything about that!

I've been with my partner for just over 3.5 years and in the beginning we were having sex at least once a day - and it is fucking perfect! Now, I've noticed that within the last 10 months or so our passion in the bedroom has burned down to its last embers. We've both had our fair share of low times and we've both managed to pick each other up and move through it. But his libido has never really return to the full ferocity it once was. Lately I've given up even asking because to be quite honest, my self esteem has taken quite a blow from his constant rejection. I hint though, oh boy do I leave hints. But he would rather unwind after work by playing Destiny until the early hours. If that's how he wants to unwind, that's fine by me. But every day? I mean, how much of that game does he still have to discover??

We've talked about this subject before and he always gets quiet and withdrawn and says that it's not me it's him. And then seems upset that I'd even ask him about it, so I don't ask him anymore. I don't want to upset him, but how can I talk to him about this? I'm partial to tricking him into an evening of steamy, passionate, semi-rough sex, no matter how unethical it may seem.

Thanks for taking the time to read this far in! This is my first post to reddit (literally signed up about 15mins ago).

Also I really should add that I'm not going to be tricking him into unethical "surprise sex" or anything else!!

Thank you!! X
<bot>: F22y/o looking for advice for more sex from M25y/o boyfriend (3.5 year relationship)