<human>: Edit: Just to be more clear, the vocalist is a girl.

What is a good way to get it going again that doesn't seem desperate or creepy? I sent a message that never got a response, then they left to play shows for weeks like the next day (I know because I was following the band on social media long before the Tinder thing) and when they came back still got no response, but we are still matched. It's been like over a month.

I already expressed that I loved the band but don't want to come off fangirl-esque or stalkerish. What is a good way to go about this?

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<bot>: These chicks don't even know the name of the band, but they're all on them like they wanna hold hands. But I know the band and I wanna hold hands.