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Hi everyone, so me and my girlfriend get along great. No issues in our mental, emotional, intelligence-related compatibility. However, lately there has been a huge lack of a physical relationship. By this I mean sex. Let me explain further.

I am not the type of shallow person to only care about sex. But, it is still important, for any relationship. The beginning of our relationship was fine, but now we haven't had sex for 3 months. We occasionally will do oral/hand stuff but even that is like twice a month. I have tried two solutions on my own:

First, i tried getting her excited by going out together and buying some toys. Vibrators, handcuffs, etc. She did get excited, and we tried them out for a day, (no sex, just oral and hand stuff) and now nothing.

So then I tried to talk to her about it. I understand she takes anti-depressants, which she has been coming off of for about a month now, and I know that can affect someone's sex drive. So when I talked to her I tried to avoid making her feel guilty in anyway. But essentially she said that she's just never in the mood and she said she felt bad about it then shrugged it off and moved on.

So what should I do? I love her a lot but the lack of a physical relationship is disappointing to say the least. Am I being shallow? Or is this a reasonable request. Thanks for any advice.
<bot>: Haven't had sex in months, but I want a physical relationship. Toys didn't excite her, and talking didn't help. She doesn't seem to care too much, but briefly says she felt bad about it. Advice?