<human>: He tours every few months, taking one long 5 week trip once a year and 4-5 day long ones every other month. 

He is a one man band and tours alone, but has friends in the cities he visits. 

Whenever I ask him for details about where he is staying, for example at a hotel or at some random person's place (like the promoter, who could be female or male, for example) he gets really annoyed. He hardly gives me details, and usually says he doesn't care and that the people putting on the show have it covered. 

However, obviously I care. It matters to me if he stays with another woman for obvious reasons. There are groupies and also lots of drinking and maybe even drugs involved for all I know? If tables were turned he would definitely not be okay with me staying with a man as he is very over protective and jealous. 

Whenever I ask him just for a simple answer where (hotel or John's couch is enough to make me happy) he literally tells me that he is sick of me not trusting him and to fuck off. Recently when I said it's important to me because I don't want you to board with a random woman, he said "why? Because I'd fuck her?" suggesting to me that he is already defending the possibility. (Would you be okay with your partner sleeping at the place of a random person of the opposite sex after a very late night of drinking?)

Am I overreacting? I trust him but I don't trust the situation, when groupies are involved and late nights of drinking and whatever else. 

Someone help please.

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<bot>: Me [27 F] with my touring musician BF [27 M], together 4 years, gets upset when I ask him for details on where he is sleeping on his touring nights