<human>: Let's start with saying that I a male 21 in college.
So my problem is that I've never really just took the plunge and asked anyone that I liked out in MY LIFE because I always assume they are interested in someone else or I am just late to noticing the signs that sed person is into me. If I hang out with my friends and ladies that I know and aren't trying to "get with" I'm hilarious and out going and generally always have an awesome time...

But...

When I'm in situations where say I find out at a party I'm at that someone think I'm cute or something like that I completely just have nothing to say or can't even go up to this person like I could easily do and flirt with them. The only time I can flirt is when I'm not trying.... When I go to bars I just stand and have a "good" time with my friends and their girlfriends which honestly sucks.... I don't think that I'm scared of being rejected it's more that I have nothing to say to people who I don't know other than the standard "How I'm John, what's going on, where you from, whats your major, etc. And then I freeze up and have nothing to talk about and that awkward moment were I have nothing to keep the conversation scares the shit out of me.... I also suck at knowing what to say in texts to keep a conversation showing that I'm interested and want to keep talking heh...

::::Please don't bother saying that I got nothing to lose to go up to girls, and that you'd never know, and you have to try and you might fail sometimes, etc... I know this but still can't do it.

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: After talking with girls I'm just meeting and am interested in, and asking the generic questions about themselves I have nothing else to say and that is stopping me from getting out there and trying!