<human>: I'm still confused about my relationship with my ex which has broken me down and hurt me emotionally. The constant arguments have always brought up my insecurities and my flaws that I didn't notice before. 

1. I never handle the situations properly and always end up mad and sometimes I yell at her. Which I know isn't right but at the time I let the anger out. 

2. She always tells me I am the man so I should lead. I feel I am just inexperienced and I don't know what to do. She expects me to find the resolution and answer no matter what since I am the guy. 

3. I act differently when I am with her alone and when I am with her with other people around. I feel like she brings out a side of me I only show her when we are alone. It bothers her how I am different so I just want to know if that is normal or should I fix myself to be the same with everyone? 

4. I feel like my confidence before the relationship is all gone. I don't feel myself and I can't seem to find out why. Before I would be able to socialize with people easily but now I find myself avoiding people.

Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?
<bot>: Done with my past relationship and I'm trying to find myself to be a better person. I have a lot of flaws but these are just some problems I want to fix.