<human>:  I'm getting a divorce and don't want my friends and family to know. What can I do?
<bot>: I’m so sorry to hear that. It can be really difficult to handle these kinds of situations. It’s important to maintain strong personal relationships, and it’s often helpful to share the situation with friends and family, as they can provide emotional and practical support. However, there is also a strong cultural expectation for people to maintain personal privacy, especially regarding sensitive or traumatic issues, and it’s appropriate to share details on a need-to-know basis. It’s important to consider your relationships and circumstances when deciding how much to share. You can inform specific people of your situation as you feel appropriate, and it’s important to set clear boundaries around what you are comfortable sharing. Getting professional support can also be a good option, such as from healthcare providers or counselors, and this can help with handling the emotional impact of the situation. It can also be helpful to have a support network of friends and family that you can rely on for emotional support. If you would like support with managing your divorce, you can reach out to a crisis hotline or other support services for help and advice.