<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

This will obviously sound dumb but I have been scared out of my mind for over a year. Its getting pretty bad. Its not that I'm afraid of rejection. Its more that I hate being a "good guy." Through all my past relationships I've been a caring and compassionate guy, but I've had several girlfriends who for some reason didn't like that. I'm in college now and talk to girls but I can not bring myself to make a move on a random girl at the gym or at a party or ask them on a date. My last serious relationship ended because my ex thought I was too sweet and caring, or something along those lines. Which sent me into minor depression cause i couldn't see how thats even possible. Please give me some advice on this, I feel like a lot of people on Reddit could relate. I just wanna accept this and see maybe some people are looking for someone along my lines?
<bot>: Scared to make a move on a girl while sober. Been told i'm to nice of a guy. I guess it scares some girls.