<human>: I recently became aware of the symptoms and I'm almost positive that I have ADHD.

The signs started showing during my junior year of college when I found myself getting progressively worse at academics to the point where I failed or withdrew nearly all my classes in my senior year. I lost almost all motivation, am constantly and easily distracted, and am very messy and forgetful to the point where I lose my phone for days at a time. Everything I do is spontaneous and I rarely finish what I start. 

Needless to say, it was quite embarrassing for me to go from a very methodical straight A student to what I am now. I am 5 months unemployed and living at home with my parents.

I realize that I need help, but I'm having trouble convincing my parents. I can't schedule an appointment with a psychiatrist unless they agree to pay because I am unemployed and in debt. 

My dad yells at me at least once a week telling me that I'm lazy and unmotivated and that he's ashamed of what I've become even though I told him I think I have ADHD. My mom talked to someone else's dad who is a psychologist and he told her I don't have ADHD (he said I wouldn't have been able to complete college if I did), and that I need a psychologist, not a psychiatrist. At first she was on board with getting me help, but after that, she kinda just blew it off. 

I just want to get help but anytime I talk about it, I feel like my issues are being minimized or dismissed. I keep getting told that it's normal to be messy and lose things and get distracted. I think in my parents' minds, people with ADHD bounce off the walls and throw chairs around the room. I tried to tell them that ADHD affects women differently, but I don't think they believe me. 

How do I convince my parents otherwise? Are there any websites I can show them?

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<bot>: I think I have ADHD that's been untreated for years. My parents don't believe I have a problem and I need them to in order to get help.