<human>: Anyway... I was born and raised in Southern California suburbs.  I moved to San Francisco for college.  Since graduating and getting a job I moved to the East Bay (which has a lot more crime than I've ever been used to), and it's not been horrible out here but it's not been great either.  My fiance and I are moving back down to our home town in 3 months because the bay area is not suiting us.

That being said, yesterday I was moving her brother out of Oakland (in a particularly unnerving neighborhood where he was mugged at gunpoint) and into our place.  While I was sitting outside (trying to settle down from an asthma attack since the brother's room mate has a cat) I heard about 8 gunshots from about 50 feet away, maybe less.  This is really not something I'm used to and it really freaked me out.  I don't really know what to do about it, but it just left his suburb boy feeling kinda down and shaken up...

Also to top it off my car was broken into last night so it makes me feel like my own neighborhood is also not safe.

I don't know if this is the right sub for this, it's probably not as I'm not asking for help on what to do about my fiance or her brother.  I'm just looking for some input on ways to feel better.  I've already been super anxious to move back to my home town and this happening yesterday makes it even harder for me to focus at work and stuff... which I've already been struggling with.

I kinda feel like a little bitch for being so shaken up by this... nothing really happened to me besides my car (which didn't have anything notable taken from it).

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<bot>: Suburb boy feeling kinda down and shaken up from being close to some gun conflict yesterday and because I can't wait to move. Feeling like a baby and looking for some advice to not feel so down.