<human>: Me (25M) and my girlfriend (21F) have been together for about four years now, and just recently have started living together at her parent's house while we wait for a condo we purchased to be built.

For the past few months in a row, sex has been very sparce, happening only a couple of times a month. Despite my frequent attempts initiate, she is always either too tired or just not interested in it happening. She's a very kinky girl, but even when I play to how she usually wants things to go, no success there either.

I'm very invested in planning outings and activities for us to do, always taking her out for dinner and such, but don't see much of that initiative returned on her end, most of her focus is towards making plans with her friends and the like. I usually have to schedule myself in after her plans with them are already decided.

Recently she just came back from a family trip, and was very sexually charged the first night she came back. But this was only after talking about her meeting some new friends (including a guy who was interested in her) on said trip. After that one night, she was back to giving me the cold shoulder.

I've talked to her about how I feel almost unimportant to her, and that I would like her to be a bit more emotionally and physically involved in our relationship. And she says she wouldn't be with me if she wanted things any other way. I asked her about the cruise and she explained that it was nice to be seen as attractive by other people, and that she is craving new experiences.

I almost feel like I'm chasing her for her attention, and all the while she's looking elsewhere for her fun/etc. I have no problem being by her side while she figures things out, but it's very discouraging basically being neglected in the mean time. Am I wrong in feeling this way? Or is there some other way I should go about this?

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<bot>: GF is craving new experiences and is very distant recently. I'm trying to be supportive and stick things through while she figures things out. Am I wrong for feeling essentially like a doormat in the meantime?