<human>: I do not get along with my mother. I try not to speak to her. But she goes crazy if she doesn't hear from me, and starts shouting abuse like "what did I expect?". I am an extremely poor individually, whilst she benefits off of the money my father gives her every week and then the money she receives from work. I am twenty years old and working towards getting my degree.

I do not know what to do anymore. She is out for blood with me. I am weaning myself off of Lexapro (needed it for something that happened a while ago) and you have to do it pretty carefully otherwise you could potentially suffer from withdrawal. Well when I needed a refill, she refused to give me money for it. My father went behind her back and gave it to me. My mother gives me nothing. I don't expect much from her, but she does have the money and resources to take care of me. She just chooses not to. I pay for my food, gas and clothing. I tried taking out a loan to pay for school which she then refused to be the cosigner. My father refuses to be the cosigner as well, except he refuses because he insists he pays for all my education. I haven't had a haircut in years, never get my nails done etc. Pretty much I take care of myself.

I actually just moved out because I couldn't take it anymore. All her abusive comments. I just try to avoid her and say nothing, and yet she tries to push me to get into a conflict with her. Even now, she is still harassing me from 3,000 miles away - still tries to ruin my week. So I ask you reddit, do any of you have mothers that just make you miserable? And what are your coping mechanisms?

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<bot>: I am poor, I pay for everything myself, my mother tries to ruin my life and actively pursues making me miserable.