<human>: Hello, everyone! 

I've been talking to this girl for awhile, and we've hung out several times before with other people, but we just recently got to hang out alone. We went out for dinner, but I didn't exactly ask her on a date. I more or less casually asked her if she wanted to go to this great pizza place she's never been to. But I picked her up, paid for dinner, walked her up to her house when I dropped her off, and we hugged, and everything felt really date-like. 

Now, we have plans to make plans for two "dates" in the future. We've pretty much agreed to watch a movie or movies on at least one of those days though. Not in a theatre. Most likely her house because she has the movies on DVD (or blu-ray. I hope they're blu-ray. I love blu-ray.). So I'm not sure what to do when I get there. Do I sit with her? or just next to her? How close is too close? Obviously, we're not touchy-feely close. We've just been on one date that might not have even been a date! But maybe this would be the opportunity to get closer? I don't want to weird her out by trying to initiate some kind of contact, but I also don't want to give the impression that I'm not that interested by sitting away from her. I can't really just ask whether or not she likes me or thinks we've starting dating, so what can I do?

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: I don't know where this relationship/friendship is or where it's going, but I need to find out before we end up on another "date"