<human>: We're in college, and we've been together for 5 months. Three of those were long distance, which was tough; long distance wasn't something I wanted to do, I just cared about him enough to try it. I visited him a couple of times, and it was, for the most part, great when I was with him. School just started again, I was so excited to see him. The FIRST night I'm back he tells me he still has a thing for this other girl (he was seeing her before she went abroad). He says he's still into me, cares more about me, etc. it's just something he's 'dealing with' and he wanted to be honest. I'm kind of glad I know, but it has really affected the way I think about him and the relationship. I'm not really the relationship type. A large part of the reason I fell for him was because of how much he cared about me, and this just trivializes that. Really, he doesn't care enough about me to not be interested in someone he hasn't seen in a year, after we've been dating for 5 months? Not over that yet? I just feel awful and as though I'm losing interest in the whole thing. We haven't talked about it since that night (been a few days), and we were both drinking beforehand. I'm also basically starting my life over right now, and that may be putting some strain on things.

Basically, am I making too big a deal of this and how can I make it stop affecting the way I feel about him? Should I talk to him about it, and if I do, what should I say?

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<bot>: BF is 'into' someone else, and it's affecting how I think about the relationship. Is this a big deal, advice?