<human>: Hello there. I'm looking for a bit of advice. My bf [M21] and I [? ,21]have a monogamous long distance relationship. We meet during the summer months but don't go to the same college. 

He's very silly fun and nerdy which is just my type, but it seems like whenever I need to talk to him about more personal things about me or possible complaints about the relationship he tends to avoid the subject. When I do eventually get him to talk about it he's a little short with me and tends to just look for a  "solution" as fast as he can. Sometimes I'm not interested in a solution I honestly just want him to hear me.

We haven't been dating for that long, but I already want to share more of myself personally. There are a lot of things about me that aren't totally self evident that could affect the relationship (being an occasional crossdresser with some gender confusion, being very kinky, etc) to just talking about normal stuff I enjoy like being an activist for people's rights to figuring out when and where we'll meet. (My god he literally seemed annoyed with me when I started asking him about visiting him. And the logistics of it all. He finally gave up and told me to decide and he'd be ok with whatever I chose. I'd rather not make decisions like that completely whiteout his input. It's ok in this situation, but is he going to act like this every time?) 

The latter is easier to talk about. But the former is really important when we're deciding how far we can take this relationship. Everything else is totally fine. But goodness he seems kinda scared to talk a bit more seriously about things even though I know he needs to hear them.

why would someone act like this? Is there anyway to make this easier or more comfortable?

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<bot>: My bf and I get along great but he avoids talking to me about more serious subjects. I know there are things I have to talk to him about, but he seems to freak when I try. Help?