<human>: I've been with my partner / wife for 6 years (married legally for 3). Shortly before we got married, We decided to move out of state to my home city in CT from Montana which was a choice made based on my career path BUT one that she was excited to make as well. 

Things didn't go as planned for her. She did not get on well with my family which started because of something she did but they didn't respond well either. We ended up buying a house and settling anyway. In that time, she did make some friends and got a job in her field. My career eventually took me in a direction that's been really great for me. Lots of travel and a supportive work environment. I'm finally feel like I'm in the right place. She however feels understandably stuck. She doesn't love her job or make enough money. She also really wants to have kids which we can't afford. 

We are at a crossroads. She wants to move back to her hometown in Montana.  Her parents and siblings all live there and she believes she'll have better opportunities for work. She is actively applying for jobs there as I type. She did so without really asking me. I've always said I'd be willing to go back but I'm not willing to give up my job which is looks like I'll have to do. And even if they will let me work remotely from MT, I'll still be traveling so much that it would be hard to have kids. She says she doesn't want me to quit but I believe that's she conclusion she wants me to come to on my own. 

What should I do? She's decided she'll go with or without me but when I tell her that I don't know if I want to go anymore she accusing me of picking some job over her when it's really me just picking my life. I just can't see leaving a job I love to be unemployed and living at her parents house. I love her and I want this to work but I'm afraid we've reached a point of no return. If we can't both be happy, what's the point in staying together?

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<bot>: wife wants to move back to her hometown but it would mean me quitting a job I love and potentially being miserable there.