<human>: My [18M] boyfriend of 2+ years has always been sweet, caring, and an overall good guy. But when it comes to making any kind of plans, big or small, last minute or months in advance, he sucks. We are both extremely introverted people, and both love to be independent and alone. We work really well together in this way: we both definitely value alone time as a standard in our life, and this has caused us not to be a typical couple that hangs out daily. We see each other daily (classes) but our date nights vary from 1 to 2 times a month. And we're both okay with this, it's a good balance for each of our introverted selves, and has been working smoothly for 2+ years.

At first I dismissed his bad planning it as "Oh, his work is in the way" or "Oh he must not be feeling well," but now it's come to the point where every time I suggest any kind of date night or quick hang out, he's too lazy to make the plans official. I've never been stood up by him, but plans I'll bring up maybe a month in advance will be shot down within a week of the date, and It makes me kind of upset, not to mention, kind of romantically deprived.

The thing I fear the most with this is coming off as clingy. I keep insisting for us to hang out, and it seems to bother him immensely, in an annoying way. I know he loves me, I know we both have some kind of sexual passion for one another, but why does he keep pushing plans aside? Have I, in the course of this relationship, become somewhat less desirable, and his alone time comes before our romantic health?

I genuinely don't know if there is an issue with me or an issue with him at this point. I love him with all my heart and he constantly reminds me the same thing. But why is it we can't hang out together physically? Is there something I'm being completely ignorant to? I miss cuddles, I miss being the little spoon. Any help is greatly appreciated. Thanks.

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<bot>: Boyfriend of 2+ years doesn't make plans with me anymore. I'm feeling deprived of love. Am I overlooking something that's going on with him, or am I just being clingy?