<human>: My online crush, who I've already confessed I like long ago, agreed to come stay at my place for a week. I have to fly her across the country, but she wants to meet me in person and enjoys the idea of seeing a big city since she's from a rural area. She laughs at pretty much everything I say, is pretty open with me, receptive to my flirts (as an example, I could make an innuendo about her sleeping in my bed and she may reply with "works for me! :3" without sarcasm but with playfulness) is generally open to me, talks to me daily, has almost identical tastes and humor as I do, etc. I feel we connect really well, but she never told me if she actually likes me in return or not. She had a positive reaction to me confessing, by putting up a blush emoticon, saying she had no idea, and apologizing for her lack of experience with dating; but then we went off tangent to talk about how it's so easy to not notice someone likes you even if they make it obvious.

So, I'm seeing her in two weeks but I'm really anxious to know if she really is seeing this as a kind of sate thing of friendly thing. I don't want to potentially ruin her experience over here for my selfishness by making my intentions know and pitting pressure on her, but I really want her to know that I plan on taking her to actual date dates while with me. I plan to just say it briefly and to the point, like " you know that I'm going to take you out on actual dates when you come here, right? Just so we're clear."

She's used to me being a little assertive so it isn't weird that I worded it more like a command than a question. I usually do that with these kinds of things; I'm confident she DOES like me but just want certainty. I do know that she has never dated before but has rejected a lot of guys, so I guess that's messing with my confidence a little.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Don't know if I should be blunt and tell my crush who's flying to see me that I plan on asking her on dates when she sees me, don't even know if she actually likes me that way.