<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

Hey hey! Me and my awesome fiance are getting married next month (yay! exciting!) but since we're international, it will be one of two (or possibly even 3) weddings.

This wedding is primarily for us—to keep us together legally in the same country. The timing is right now, we're jazzed about it, etc. Only my mom, dad and siblings are attending because we want it to be private. We don't have the time or money to arrange a big wedding with tons of friends and family at the moment, but this is something we'd like to do down the road.

So, we're going to dress up all weddingy for this wedding, take pictures, probably update the Facebook, yada yada. And we're sending out emails/messages to all friends and family saying, "hey, we're getting married on X date privately. Stay tuned for details on a larger celebration for our family and friends!"

I know this is not the traditional route to go and I'm a bit nervous  right now.

Is that enough? Will people understand what we're doing and be supportive? Does it seem like all the specialness of the occasion will be gone because we'll have already been legally married for a year when we do our bigger wedding?

Does it seem self-indulgent or extravagant to have another wedding after we've already gotten dressed up, gotten married and taken pictures once?  

I'd love some thoughts on this!
<bot>: Getting married on short notice for visa reasons (we've been engaged for 7 mo and are totally psyched to do this!) now wondering how people will take the idea of another wedding next year.