<human>: My boyfriend (like most guys) isn't very vocal about his emotions towards me. He says he doesn't feel the need to say his love for me, rather he does it through action. I feel as though I'm always the one initiating romantic talks, or planning the anniversaries and holidays. Recently he went away on a trip, and I tried to give him space because I knew he'd be busy (it was for business). I didn't get any "I miss you" or anything. I'm not really sure what to do. I'm feeling as though I'm more emotionally invested in this relationship and I'm worried I'm going to get hurt. I try bringing up the future but it always ends up in an argument. I might be leaving out some details, so feel free to ask any questions that might help shed light on the situation.

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<bot>: boyfriend doesn't put in effort into relationship, feels like I'm bothering him, not sure if it will ever change, how should I bring this up and what are my options?