<human>: Hey Reddit,

I'm a 22 year old girl. Got married on papers in February this year. The guy lives in Canada. We haven't lived together for once as he had to go back for his job. My husband and I talk to each other via skype etc. He asked me if I had any previous relationships and I told him honestly that never in my life I had any interest towards the relationships before marriage (not allowed in our religion). I asked him too and he said he had 2 girl friends when he was in high school. I asked him if he had any in Canada as I don't have any concern with his past but just wanted to know but he replied no he had two when he was in his home town and that too not very vey serious one. 

He is very sincere to me now and I trust him 100 % but few days back we exchanged our facebook passwords. He said he was stalking me and I felt good that he is concerned but when out of curiosity i opened his facebook inbox and read his old messages I got to know that he was in sexual relationship with a girl in 2009 there in Canada and that whole relationship lasted for less than 2 months. I wonder why dint he delete that conversation in which he and that girl have written details of their sexual activities after doing that. I am shattered.

 Our religion doesn't allow such things and we have to be virgin before marriage. I can't share it with ANYONE as it will give his bad impression. I always had framed him a decent guy with moral values. We ourselves haven't talked about sex and such stuff till now as I don't want to loose the attraction of proper wedding which we will have after my studies and paperwork. I can't respect him from my heart and can't talk to him properly. He is asking me what's the matter but I don't want to embarrass him either. 

What should I do? I never wanted my husband to be used by someone else before me and I always prayed to have a pure man. I am literally suffocating. Should I mention that whole thing to him? Tell my parents? or move on?

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<bot>: Found about husband's sexual relationship of past which he never mentioned. Can't talk to him with all the love and respect anymore but he loves me and is worried by my behavior but I honestly can't help it. What to do?