<human>: I have been dating this guy for four months and I'm in love with him. He has told me he is super in love with me too, that I'm his favorite person... sometimes he will tell me he misses me even if I saw him that day. Everything went really really fast as we are both very passionate and open people. We have met each others families and have talked about having kids. Now I think I'm ruining the relationship because I have remained in obsessed mode and he is not.
I think about him 247. He has asked me to stop bringing up relationship stuff all the time. I'm not like that in person, only when I am away from him, it's like on the phone stuff and texting stuff.
So yeah I have been needy and questioning his feelings for me. I'm just having a bad week with work stress and stuff. We just hung out all weekend this past weekend and we have plans to hang out tomorrow. I really want to see him because I love hanging out with him. But I feel like I need to regain control, to regain power, and cancel our plans and say that I think I just need some alone time, even though that's the opposite of what I want.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Is it bad to cancel my plans with him to regain power of the relationship, even when I really want to hang out with him? Is that a good idea?