<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

The general advice to women looking for a relationship is that they should make men wait for sex while finding out if he's relationship material. I struggle with this approach, because while I'm making him wait, I'm also making myself wait. 

To be blunt, I'm horny all the time, and there's only so much dating I can do (and not finding a guy I like, who wants a relationship) before I give into my sexual desires. That's about a month max of dating guys, and then it feels like what I want changes. All I'm thinking at that point is that I want to have sex with the next guy first thing and not worry about what happens later. 

The last time I acted on my desires I ended up with feelings that came out of nowhere, way too soon. I had to end that, because when I asked when I was going to see him again, he told me that he "in general wasn't looking for more". 

So I realize the risk, but I also don't really like the idea of zero sex while I'm looking for a man that I want to be in a relationship with. My friends however are perfectly capable of abstaining, so I can't help but feel a little alone in my struggle. Is there any advice you can give me?
<bot>: I want a relationship, but I also want sex all the time and I feel like it's not really helping. How can go about this?