<human>: So I met this girl through her mutual friends, and we have never really talked since we don't have much in common other than the same friends. So she is working on her doctorate in Goleta and comes down every couple of weeks to visit her family and friends. I travel up to Santa Barbara and the general area about once a month just to get away. I go to the beach and park the car and relax.

I have gone up once with a good friend of hers. He had a delivery and on the way down we stopped for lunch and we called her. I know her but I don't really consider her a friend since I only hear from her when I run into her. I have her on Facebook and Instagram but that is the only time we really interact, and even that is limited since she travels all over the world. So she is an acquaintance.

Her group of friends have been giving me shit for not visiting her when i'm up there. It isn't like I don't like her but if feels awkward going to lunch or whatever one on one or since we don't ever really communicate. When she is down here she never looks me up. I understand that is maybe how you make friends but I don't feel like she is interested in being friends.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: I don't feel obliged to visit someone I barely know, even though we have mutual friends./Am I overthinking this?