<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

Hello, I'm new to Reddit and I really only joined to get some opinions on my relationship haha.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years. We have lived together for abouuuut 3 or 4.

On the surface, our relationship seems pretty good! We are A LOT alike. We agree on just about everything socially and politically. We have the same interests in shows, movies, and music. He's funny, and we usually get along pretty great and have fun. But I have a few problems.

I am no longer attracted to him, and he has admitted he's not really sexually attracted to me anymore either. He thinks if we were more sexually active, our attraction could be re-ignited, but I'm doubtful.

We also have been getting into really weird arguments lately. Things that start off really small and somehow explode into large fights about how, "you can never admit you're wrong!" "You have too much pride!" "You're just too selfish!" Etc. When he's mad, he tends to turn into a jerk too, be insulting, things like that...

There's also the little problem of ...if we were to break up, I would have to quit college, move back in with my parents 270 miles away, and probably lose contact with all my friends (I have a veryyy low-paying job, and wouldn't be able to afford an apartment on my own, and I don't have close enough friends I could stay with near me/near my school.)

So, what do you think Reddit? Am I expecting too much from him, being too critical, hoping for someone 'perfect' which doesn't exist? Or does it sound like something is wrong here? Should we even be in a relationship if we're not sexually attracted anymore? Can that be fixed, or should we just split up?
<bot>: my boyfriend and I are having some issues, and I don't know if it's a normal part of a relationship, and if breaking up would be a huge mistake.