<human>: We are both in highschool, my boyfriend is a virgin, and I am not.  We have been dating for a while, and this is the most serious relationship I've been in, we really like each other.  We both agreed to take this relationship slowly.  I want to move forward sexually, but every time we take a step forward, my boyfriend seems really surprised that I want to go that far, and *quite* hesitant.  He also comes from a very religious family, so it's possible that sex before marriage is taboo in his household.  He is very, very, *very* naive about sexual things, to the point where he was embarrassed the first time he (accidentally) saw me without a shirt.  He got hard and was desperately trying to hide it from me.  Lol.

Anyway.  I'm wondering whether you think, at this point, it is a good idea for me to move forward and ask him about developing our sex life?  I'm worried about making him uncomfortable.  I don't want to chase him away.  I'm experienced with sex, but I wouldn't say that I've had a normal virginity-losing experience, as I have been with some very pushy boys.  This relationship is a really healthy and good thing, and I don't want to mess it up.

Here's the other side of the issue - I really want his experience losing his virginity to be a good one.  I don't feel like I had a good experience losing mine, and I don't want to push him, I want him to be healthily happy and ready.  But I also want to have sex!  How do I strike a balance?  How do I manage thisd?

Thanks for your help!

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<bot>: Boyfriend is a virgin, I really want to have sex, worried about bringing it up because it might be bad for our relationship.