<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

I suppose I should begin with why I'm banned from attending parties in the first place.  About two years ago I went to a party with some friends from work where I, regretfully, accepted drinks from a friend of mine.  She knew I didn't drink alcohol so she offered me some cranberry soda.  When she insisted she get it for me I figured she was just being hospitable.  It turned out she was putting alcohol in my drink as a prank.  I  only found out as I was leaving when she yelled to me that she had spiked my drink.

 

Oddly, I never felt anything (maybe a little tired) but I still believed her and when I got home I was sure to tell my SO.  He was furious with me and told me I could never go to another party alone as punishment for breaking his rule that I get all my drinks and food myself.  For a few days he had even banned me from talking to the friend who had drugged me but he soon loosened up.

 

My husband and I are in a long distance relationship and only see each other during the summer and winter break when we're not in school.  Asking my husband to come with me isn't really an option.  Normally I'm not very outgoing but I've been getting really lonely and I want to get closer to my coworkers.  So far I haven't even been invited out so it really isn't an issue yet.  However, if it came down to it, I would really want to go.  I've brought it up to my husband on a couple occasions.  Recently I've even been telling him I'll probably go anyway and he thinks it's laughable I would disobey him.

 

Should I just respect his wishes because it's only a small sacrifice?  Or should I do what I want because it isn't his place to control me?  Obviously I wouldn't make the same mistake twice.  I wouldn't be so careless again and my friend's betrayal really had an impact on my trust.  If I was given the chance I'm sure he would see that banning me was meaningless.
<bot>: I was stupid at a party years ago where a female friend spiked my drink.   Consequently, my husband has banned me from attending parties alone but I'm fed up and willing to test his restriction.