<human>: 23/f 26/m 10 months

He cannot acknowledge my feelings in the matter at hand. He tried calling and texting last night after our argument, but friends told me not to take the calls so I didn't. His texts were about how unhappy he was, no apology or concern for me.

I desperately want to talk to him to fix this, but I feel like he is not going to own anything and it's going to be all about him. Doing this *silent* treatment goes against every fibre of my being, but what do I do? Wait for him to contact me?

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: do I make contact or keep being silent as advised after fight if I'm pretty sure he still isn't able to focus on anything but his own feelings?