<human>: I'm 18, female, and in a rut. I have this guy friend who had a pretty nasty break up about a month ago with who he calls "the girl of my dreams". It was his first relationship and it lasted for 3 years during which he made all the classic "1st serious relationship" mistakes. He's still getting over her, and I can tell he still has serious feelings for her.

Now my issue is that he's attached himself to me. At first, I was in a sort of "shoulder to cry on" sort of position, but then he asked me to hang out with me during spring break and kissed me. Even before he did that I knew he was starving for female attention and I was on my guard to avoid being a "rebound".

Thing is, he claims he wants to avoid "boyfriend/girlfriend relationships" altogether now. This is understandable, he just wants to avoid more heart break. WELL, things escalated quickly, and now we've been dirty talking to each other. I'm sort of in an awkward place. I don't have romantic feelings for this guy, but sometimes I DO want to screw him. 

I just turned 18, and I am very much lacking in the sex department, meaning that I have next to nil experience. Needless to say, I'm a virgin. My dilemma is that I WANT sex and I feel, but I'm not sure if I should do it with this guy because of his position. I'm starting to get impatient, and I'm about to start college, so I worry that not sorting out how to do certain things in the bedroom will cause issues in the future. 

So I ask, oh magnificent, wise Relationship_Advice, should I do this guy and get it over with, or should I wait for love? The answer should be obvious to me, but hormones keep clouding my judgement.

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<bot>: Long-time guy friend broke up with his girlfriend of 3 years, he's fixated himself on me, wants my ass, I want sex, should I have sex with a guy I'm not in love with?