<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

It is a very popular coffee place, but not one I knew about before him. We've been broken up for almost a month, but a couple of weeks after the breakup we matched on a dating website - and he messaged me saying he missed me... Only to turn around and say that we couldn't do anything because it would just end in the same way. He's not ready for a relationship, probably not for a long while, and he said if he ever contacted me again it would be because he was ready.

So I'm not over him yet, but I'm getting back in the game. I was asked out to go to the coffee shop that my ex goes to all the time. The person who asked me out isn't serious, and I'm thinking it'll turn into a one night stand kind of deal. But, I'm not sure if I should avoid the coffee shop because of my ex. I don't want to rub it in or anything, but maybe him setting what he's missing isn't bad for me.

Either way, I really should move on from considering him in my dating decisions. Heating your experiences here is helpful too!
<bot>: I have a date at ex's coffee shop with a soon to be one night stand. Do I ask to change venues? Is this generally okay? Socially acceptable? Or is it a bad idea?