<human>: Yeah yeah, I know, take it to relationship advice, but I think it's an interesting question.

I went on a first date on Saturday night and when the check came, I paid. I mean I asked her out, it was the first date, I have no problem with paying for things (I also bought drinks later). But what's been gnawing at me is that she didn't even give me the reach. The "oh let's split it" so I could gallantly insist on paying. Now I know it's a little premature, but I can't help but wonder, what if it's 2nd or 3rd date and she's not even reaching? She seems cool, and aside from that little quibble it was a great date, but I could never go out with someone who thinks the man should pay for everything (not like I could afford to even if I did).

So if it were the 2nd or 3rd date, and she's still shown no sign of even trying to pay for anything, how would you handle it? Like I said, I couldn't date someone who expects me to pay (NYC is an expensive city), but I don't even know how I'd go about cutting it off over that.
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<bot>: If you'd gone out with a woman two or three times, and she hasn't even offered to pay for anything, what would you do?