<human>: We live together and spend most of our free time together, which I am fine with. However, occasionally, she will be upset at the thought of me spending certain times without her. Two examples being a week long holiday I am planning with my friends in the summer, and this coming NYE, which I had planned to spend partying with friends. I would love for her to join me but she does not want to go and does not want me to go either. 

I really love her but I am worried that we are fundamentally incompatible with regards to our idea of how independent a healthy relationship is. Any advice would be appreciated

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<bot>: worried about incompatible ideas of independence and that it might be damaging to our relationship. Is there anything I can do or any advice I should know?