<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

Not sure even where to begin...

A friend of mine and I have been hooking up for a few months now. Kind of dating, but kind of not. We both like each other a lot and he pursued me for a long time. When I finally did reciprocate his feelings, he kind of pushed me away and said he thinks about us really being together all the time, but he's afraid he'd hurt me. I never knew what he meant by that.

We've still been kind of "together" even after that conversation. He's not seeing anyone else, and neither am I. Now he has quite a past. He's older and has kids with two different woman. I always knew this would probably cause problems for us, because the mother of his younger daughter seems kind of crazy. She's kind of harassed other woman he has dating since they broke up. (More on that in a minute...).

I've been thinking a lot about how we would ever really work in the long run. I just got a new job much further from him. We'll probably be about an hour and a half away from each other now and I know he'd never move because of his children. So I have been confused about what the future holds.

Today I found out that one of those woman he dated right before me (the one his daughter's mother harassed) is five months pregnant. I confronted him (I found out on Facebook) and he said he thinks it's hiss, but he isn't 100% sure and he's so confused and doesn't know what to do. For the record, we weren't together 5 months ago and I knew he was dating here.

However, I feel like this has just ruined any future we ever could have had. And it explains why he told me a few months ago he was afraid of hurting me. I'm not sure how to feel, how to process this, or what to do. Advice?
<bot>: Just found out the guy I'm seeing's ex gf is 5 months pregnant and I feel it's ruined any future we could have possibly had.