<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

Hi, I hope this is the right place. I also hope you don't mind me being vague, I know some of the other members of this group use Reddit. I can clarify some things if you ask (or maybe through DM)

I have terrible social anxiety. When I was younger I used to go to a party with people I knew, get sick, and leave after an hour. I've gotten much better, but I am still paranoid that people dislike me, and my awkward way of expressing myself open re enforces that because people can TELL I am anxious.

I have worked very, very hard on this behavior over the years and I can find myself getting better, but it's still a struggle.

So recently I joined this group (would rather not say what) The group membership is a bit like rushing a frat or something; you need to prove your value to them. Your technical skill, your business skills, your social skills; they all come into play. 

All of the other people trying to get in are either highly social, have connections within the group, or know each other and have a support system. They all know what they are doing or are already visible within the community. I am the odd person out. I have less experience, though I do have other skills that would make me valuable. 

I started to realize that while I could be a valuable asset, it will be extremely difficult for me to prove myself, especially being as shy as I am. The group members aren't exactly looking for a heart to heart, so I can't come out and say "hey i'm shy, please baby me".
<bot>: How can I prove my value and make social connections with the handicap of being heavily socially anxious? I am so stressed out about this and I just want these people to like me.