<human>: We've been dating almost 4 1/2 years and it's getting to be roller coaster ride of emotion. We have always been in this up and down relationship because of our similar personalities 

He just got back from a long trip and has been feeling the effects of jet lag but I've helping him the best I can all week. He gets home yesterday and immediately starts complaining about the boys weekend trip that my dad and brother planned out for June. He's already committed to going and he claims that no one did their research for the weekend. 

Before it gets too heated I just said you can either go or not go, they planned the trip. Well this set him off. He became stubborn and wouldn't calm down. He started name calling and telling me crazy lies in the heat of this argument. 

Meanwhile I'm calm and can clearly recognize that I just need to not say too much. Well, without any prompting he said that I should stay at home and it go to his parents house. 

We separated for the night into different rooms, he said Fuck You and that was it. He went outside smoked a cigarette and immediately came back in and apologized. I told hint he leave me alone and now I'm writing this post the next morning. 

What the hell am I going to do this weekend. I backed out of my family events to be with his. I don't want to publicly announce that we had a big fight by showing up last minute.

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<bot>: boyfriend and I had a fight and now my Memorial Day plans have changed. Do I show up to last minute events only to be greeted with obvious bf/gf issues?