<human>: My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship and live around two hours away from each other. We have not seen each other in almost a year, and it feels as though I am the only one making effort or asking him to come and see me. I cannot go and see him for personal reasons right now but have visited him before. He is currently busy working/studying for the majority of the time.

When asked when he can come and see me, I usually get 'I don't know', and I'm losing patience. I'm not asking him to plan every aspect of his life out, it would just be nice for him to commit to a day to go and see him. In addition, I also don't think it is too much to ask for one day of his time and for him to make an effort to get a day off somehow...we have been together for over two years and I've not seen him for half of this time.

Redditors, what would you do in this situation?

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Boyfriend isn't coming to see me, am I being selfish in pestering him because he's busy or am I stupid for putting up with this kind of distance?