<human>: I was recently told about a trust that has been set up in my name by some distant relatives with money, worth in the seven figures. The trust will be liquidated and given to me in three parts, at 30, at 35, and 40. 

While this is amazing news, I'm scared how it will affect my personal relationships. My closest friends won't care of course, but I'm really worried that unless I keep this a huge secret, I will always run the risk of being taken advantage of for my wealth by any guy I might have a future with, even if they find out before I inherit...

I have always had a strong work ethic and this will not be affected in any way by the money. I have been reading up on the money side of this, and I plan to keep most of it in a new trust, and use it for large items like a house and my future children's education. 
I don't know if this belongs in /r/personalfinance, but I just want some advice on how to deal with this. Of course I'm so happy that I will never have to worry about my future, my children's future...but I have watched so many friends with money get taken advantage of, and I never want to find myself in that position. What I mean is, I'm scared I'll meet a guy, and if he finds out about the money that will sway his decision to have a future with me.

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<bot>: Inheriting a huge sum in the future, unsure how to proceed with potential romantic relationships, scared I'll be used for my money.