<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

I am a 21 year old female, in a family of four.  I am the eldest, my younger brother is 14.  

I have as of late, been charged with paying my car registration and licensing, and paying for a new phone and plan for myself so that I could have texting and be able to keep in contact with numerous friends that simply aren't on facebook.

A lot of shit has happened recently, control issues, etc with my parents.  

My father has told me he doesn't want me to get texting, that I can't ride on my boyfriend's motorcycle, and that THEY will help me move in to my college apartment, on a day they've decided and required that my bf doesn't show up because they don't need his help... whereas, I had made previous plans that my bf would help me move in at the earliest time possible.

I've been letting my folks walk all over me, make decisions without me, especially ones that involve me and my friends.
Tomorrow, I plan to talk to them, or my dad alone, and tell him that since I will be paying for my own shit, I can get whatever I want.  And they can deal with it.  I'm 21, I'm old enough to make my own decisions and they're going to have to accept that I'm growing up and they need to let me make my own decisions.  
And you know, if they get upset and angry with me, oh well.  They're my family, they can't hate me forever, so deal.

Wish me luck, and/or any other advice or words of wisdom, or helpful things also welcome.
<bot>: I'm finally going to confront my parents on several control issues.  I'm 21F, eldest of two kids, bro is 14.