<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

Ever since we started going out, it was clear that he's not ambitious and I am. We love each other very much and things are very serious.

Problem is, I am a hard-worker, and sort of nerdy, and recently, I started to upgrade my skills. But little things that he does really annoy me very much to the point I sometimes cry after his calls and try hard to be back to the happy productive mood!

Like it will be super ridiculous to him if I tell him not to call me in the middle of studying. Or if he calls and I'm not 100% present because I'm thinking of some problem I was working on, he starts teasing, etc. (At that moment, teasing is the last thing I can tolerate when my head is still on that problem, and when I mention it, I only get teased even more, then it leads to a fight, and then it leads to realizing I don't have a sense of humor).

So I first want to know, am I really that terrible? And if I am, how to change it? Some things are important to me and I can't just "take it easy"! I really wish I could, and I was a care-free person!

And second, if I'm really not that terrible, how to make him understand that I don't like him constantly teasing me (and not ending up being blamed for not having a sense of humor)
<bot>: I'm nerdy and ambitious, my boyfriend doesn't stop teasing me for that. Am I to blame for not having a sense of humor, or is he not taking my work seriously?