<human>: So I have been sleeping with my FWB for about 4 months now. We met through work and developed a relationship outside work. Things have been very up and down for us. He is basically sexting buddies with another female coworker, and has gone on a few dates since we've been hooking up - which honestly upsets me because I have started to develop feelings for him. In the past, he had made it extremely clear that he didn't want to date me and we were just fuck buddies and nothing more. However tonight, he drunkenly texts me and says things like he wants to be with me but he's "not sure if love is what he's looking for right now" and "he doesn't know what's holding him back" and tells me how amazing and beautiful I am. I feel very hurt by this because he knows I want a real relationship with him, but he keeps stalling and making excuses and it's really bothering me. The way I see it, he wouldn't tell me these things drunk if he hadn't thought about them while he was sober. But what suddenly changed his mind? He had made it SO clear in the past that we were never going to be in a relationship and would get upset whenever I brought the topic up. I'm extremely confused.

Part of me wants to give him an ultimatum: he has until the end of the month to decide whether or not he wants to be with me. After that, I'm gone. I'm done wasting my time on someone who needs to be convinced to love me or doesn't know if they'll fully be able to love me like I want them to. Another part of me thinks it might just be best to cut contact with him and give no explanation. But then I might be missing out on a good relationship, because he really is an awesome guy.

What do I do? I'm stuck and don't know where to go from here!

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<bot>: fuck buddy drunkenkly texts me and says he wants to be with me but is hesitating, don't know what to do.