<human>: Hey,

So for the last 6 months I have found myself just not able to give all to my marriage anymore. I have been married for about three years to a girl I have known for seven. At the start things were great, we were very close completely committed to each other. But something changed along the way and I just don't know what.

We no longer have a sexual relationship of any kind which is one of my main frustrations as it used to be incredibly active. Apparently she no longer finds me physically attractive and it just doesn't do anything for her.

She constantly puts me down, referring to my weight and often makes my already low self esteem seem completely vanish. She also does very little for herself. I literally feel like my role within this relationship is to serve her.

We argue a lot, which isn't that big of a deal, but it's over stupid stuff. If I go out with friends after work I know I will be in for a lot of trouble when I return. To the point now where I am banned from doing it. I don't drink often, if at all and usually back home no later than 10:30pm but that is still apparently unreasonable on the rare (less than once a month) occasions I do it.

I am painting a one sided picture here, she is a very loving and caring person and I don't think she sees any of this as being hurtful or controlling. She suffers with depression so it's often a roller coaster ride to top it off. She also doesn't want kids and I think that is causing me more and more concern as we go in.

So yeah, I don't know how to deal with this. I have tried talking to her about it all but she is amazing at playing the victim. I am terrible at walking away or giving up on anything. Just don't know what to do.

Anyway,

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<bot>: I married the love of my life, I am not in a good place with it now and I don't know how to deal with it.