<human>: I started seeing my gf ~ two years ago.  I was pretty head over heels from the get go but we weren't "exclusive" for a few months when we started dating.  A few months after "the talk" we discussed the period before that and I felt that she misrepresented what happened and obviously felt there was some trust lost.  I have dated before but never thought to ask someone "are we exclusive" - I didn't know it was a thing these days.  I was out of town for two months when we started and didn't see her for a month but spoke regularly.  Obviously not an excuse but I felt that she might mess around when I was gone and had a ONS, but felt pretty bad about it.  She never asked, and I never told her about it, but when I got back she asked if I was her BF, etc.

Neither of us was exclusive, but for some reason it still hurts me to think about (on both sides honestly).  We had a tiff a little while ago and she said she didn't have sex with anyone since we met, which I had assumed she had.  She also said not to press further on the 'sex' part, and was a bit hesitant on the 'since we met' part.  I know things happened but PIV is different (to me) from BJs/making out/etc. I would be happy if she didn't have sex with anyone, but also want to know if she lied about it currently - which seems like the bigger deal.

FWIW after that has been pretty damn good - much better than anything prior.

Should I ask for some clarification or just leave it be?  Other than the "truth" issue of being exclusive, I'm not all that bothered by whether she had sex with other people or didn't, though would clearly prefer if she had not.  While it's clearly a sensitive issue, I feel like potentially lying about it over a year after the fact is a bad sign.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Weren't "exclusive" initially, assumed now GF had slept with other people, she said she didn't, do I ask for clarification or just leave it alone?