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It's been a long-ish time since my last relationship, which was one that was the first-love type firey-sparky romance that ended in an unhealthy realization that the two of us were way too serious and only 22, and that we were way too young to get married.

Since that breakup, I have to admit that I've been a little scared that I'll never really fall in love again in that perfect "this feels right" way.  In particular, I have something that frequently happens.  Recently I've been seeing a girl that expressed a lot of interest in me.  She's kind and funny and pretty fun to hang out with, it's not super serious yet but I enjoy dating her (and the shitty thing to admit, it had been a year since I had had sex and really wanted to break that dry spell).

But for some reason I don't feel an intense burning "I'm in love fire" with her.  Maybe it's that she's not really totally my physical type, which is obviously shallow and really shitty to admit.  Maybe it's that there's something about her personality, she's a great and mature and fun person, which makes me fear that maybe I'm only attracted to unhealthy obsessive women who are prone to being overly mellowdramatic and "you're my world" into me.

Anyway, I'm at kind of a crossroads here, I've been seeing her for a little over a month now twice a week or so, and I'm not sure if I should break it off, or give it more time.  On one hand I like being with her and I really enjoy dating her, but I also don't feel like I could genuinely tell her "I love you" right now, and I'm not sure if that will change.  I'm also worried that I might be wasting her time.

A major fault of mine is that I haven't been in a lot of relationships that weren't super serious super quick.  All of my relationships have been very serious and emotionally intimate almost instantaneously.
<bot>: I've been dating someone for the first time since a major relationship and I don't feel like I'm falling in love with them, should I continue seeing them or should I break it off?