<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

Right now, I am in a bit of a situation of where a long time friends of mines has tended to fade away from my life in every imaginable facet. We've been good friends for roughly 5 years now, but something isn't clicking anymore and it seems like the signs of a drifting relationship are more apparent now than ever.

It seems to me, that whenever I would push them to strive for more and become more active out his daily routine, they would push me further away and go back to whatever they were doing.

My friend is an adult, who works for the sole purpose of supporting their escape to video games. Aside from my presence, I don't know of anyone else that comes to visit them while they have the chance. their friends are all but near him, as it seems that they has formed a social clique much stronger than ours with those online. They live their life self-degrading themselves as a way to cope and being the youngest of 3, it seems that they feels like they cannot live up to their siblings. Any attempt to get us to do something more than grab a bite together has been futile and its a struggle trying to get them to reply to messages when I would just wanna talk.

While I have many great friends that I have come to know and grow on, i wish to keep those that have stood the test of time. i wish that were so true for my problem, but it seems to me that the only person who wants to keep this relationship alive is me.

So my question to /r/relationships : Is it better that I cut my losses and move on? Or should i confront him and try to offer the alternatives?

Sorry for the rant, but I felt like i needed help in such a binding situation
<bot>: I have a drifting relationship and its tiring for me to continue being the only keeping it alive. Should i take my losses and leave?