<human>: Like title says, my boyfriend doesn't make plans for us anymore. For the past month or so almost everything we've done has been because I reached out to him and asked him if he wanted to do something. I'm getting really frustrated because it feels like he is waiting for me to do it and its starting to really bother me. 

I will say he has planned some dates, but 99.76% of the time its me reaching out to him and planning everything. I have talked to him about it (TWICE) and he said he didn't really notice it was happening and things like that don't bother him. I told him it bothers me and he needs to pick it up! 

He told me he had a lot on his plate right now, and he knows he can do better (His words). I told him I don't expect him to stop his work to make an extravgent date for us, but I just want him to ask me! Like little things, like him asking me to come over for a movie, or going for a walk. I just want him to reach out to me instead of waiting for me to do it. 

Since then he still really hasn't done anything. 

How do I get it across to him even more that this really bothers me and he needs to put more effort in?

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<bot>: boyfriend won't make plans anymore even after two talks about how I feel about it. How do I get him to understand this a big deal for me?