<human>: OK so I've been with my now fiance for 3 years, engaged for 1. I told her I wont get married until two things are sorted out: she becomes more healthy (she gained 20-30lbs since we met) and she becomes independent (she was in school and not making enough to support herself). Now, she graduated from college with a bachelors in December 2015. I assumed she would be working night and day to find a new job that would ensure she could make payments on her student loan debt (totaling 70K USD) and contribute to our living expenses. Instead, she has only gone on two interviews that I have set up for her. She messed up on the first one, and the second one may not work out either. 

When I confront her on these issues she gives me false hope that she will start doing more soon, but never does. The debt is leaving deferment soon and it looks like she wont have enough money to pay me anything for food, rent, etc. So I'll be completely supporting her so she doesn't default on student loan debt. 

Other than this, I love her because she's kind and outgoing and loving. She is very trustworthy and loyal. She would be a great wife. I know that I am an impatient person and I am an overachiever in many ways. I just can't seem to kick the constant frustration and disappointment with this. I feel betrayed that she doesn't want to go all-out on becoming independent and her own person financially. 

When is enough enough? I told her I won't get married until these things are sorted out. But do I take the hit and end up paying the 70K and more to get her debt free? Do I leave before the financial hits start rolling in?

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<bot>: I'm extremely hard-working and successful - fiance isn't, which I dont like, and is becoming large financial burden. Do I stay?