<human>: We were together for a year and a half and I was deeply in love with him (he was in love with me, too, but then fell out of love.) He's the only person I've ever met who had everything I look for in a partner and I'm scared I'll never meet anyone like him again. I never contact him anymore, I never creep on his Facebook and I avoid him when I see him in the street, so it feels like I'm doing everything I can and still I don't make any progress in getting over him. I'm even planning to move to Asia next Spring, which I think will help, but in the meantime its still so hard. 

For the first four or five months I was patient with myself and accepting of the fact that I didn't feel over it. But now I'm worried that it's taking me too long and that there's something wrong with me, and maybe I need professional help. I never talk about it with my friends or family because it is literally too painful. I just change the subject if he ever comes up.

I would really like to hear whether other people have had similar experiences in taking a long time to get over someone. How long was the longest it ever took you to get over someone? And do you think I need therapy?

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<bot>: still not over ex seven months later. Has it ever taken you that long to get over someone? At what point should you get professional help?