<human>: Boyfriend of 2 years is talking about settling down, buying house, getting married, having kids, etc. sometime in the next 5-10 years and I am not willing to do any of this. It has nothing to do with him personally, as he is an incredible person and I love him very, very much. I am just afraid of settling down for various reasons beyond our relationship. 

I wouldn't mind spending an indefinite amount of time with him, but I am terrified of making any legal binding agreements and/or bringing an extra person into the equation (I don't like kids anyways). 

That said, I'd much rather focus my time and energy into my education/career. 

This has been a point of contention for us and I often leave such disagreements feeling selfish and letting him know he is free to do whatever he wants to be happy, even if it includes leaving me out of the equation--although it would probably destroy me (and him as well) if we were to break up. 

I know I'm stubborn and probably very selfish, but this relationship is very important to me and I want it to work out, if possible. I just want him to be happy although I don't want to ignore his or my expectations for the future.

What should I do?

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Boyfriend has different plans for the future, and we're not seeing eye-to-eye, but I really want to make it work.