<human>: My mother has always treated me differently from my two brothers. I think never wanted to have a daughter because she's quite a jealous person. Whenever she talks about her children she mentions my brothers first and gushes about them and most of the time even forgets to mention me. I still love her and try to be friends with her but she doesn't seem interested.

So, when I'm at home my mother doesn't really speak to me for whatever reason. It usually consists of me working all day and coming home and seeing her on her laptop with her headphones on, she takes them off and says hi the puts them straight back on when i start to tell her about my day or ask how she is. Then, when one of my brothers comes into the room she takes them off and starts to talk to them and asks them how they are, etc. It's annoying but I've accepted the fact that my mother won't treat me the same as my brothers. 

That brings us to today. Recently, my mother has asked to come to visit me at work (I told her no, because it would be awkward and would make me look unprofessional) She had a fit saying that she had a right to visit me to see what I really did at "work". I brushed it off and went on my way. This morning I tell her I'm meeting up with one of my best friends to hang out. She then asks if she can come and hang out too. I told her it was just going to be us, I don't see my best friend often so I wanted some one on one time with her. She then flips out and says that i'm a bitch for not letting her come see me at work and then hang out with my friend. I asked her why she was so interested in seeing me there when she doesn't even look at me or speak to me when I'm at home. She the laughs and says "because I have no interest in seeing or speaking to you when you're home.". I don't even know why she's like this, but that really hurts my feelings. I don't even know what to do with her anymore. Any advice would be appreciated.

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<bot>: My mother barely acknowledges my existence when I'm at home and gets crazy upset when i don't let her come visit me at work or with my friend. Says she's not interested in seeing or speaking to me when i'm home.