<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

Long Story 
My SO works me, (we met at work) and started to date, and now we're in a somewhat serious relationship since november 27th. 
Around january, SO went to bar with her friend [21M] and both got drunk( lets call him bob).  Bob tried to kiss her and she says she didnt do it back, so i beleive her.  He did this knowing she was with me. Now i hate him and i let her know.   
I dont think its right if i tell her to stop talking to him and tell her that hes not a friend if he does that, since they've been together through so much, but they've never dated each other, and at one point she was confused about him during high school. 
Point is, my bosses are okay with us dating in the work place, but the owners of the store aren't, but they like the way i work so they decide to transfer me to another location.  Problem is that, at that location, Bob works there.  Although im 100% okay with that, because i beleive that i go there to work not to cause problems, my SO, is doing everything she can to "prevent" problems there.  If it means quitting the job, she would do it, only so that i dont get transfered over there.  
I want to go there because i see it as an opportuinity to grow and learn, but she sees it as a problem. 
She thinks that there will be problems and i will end up getting hurt.
<bot>: Am i being selfish about moving to a new work environment, for the money?  Or do i listen to her and allow her to get fired so i stay where i am to avoid problems?