<human>: My BF's best friend died 5 years ago and his Aunt passed away on Thanksgiving a couple years ago. So he decided to spend thanksgiving at a bar. I got really upset at this as I don't think this is a good way to cope with his grief. I just don't know what to do anymore because every time I try to bring up his drinking problem (which he openly admits he has) and his other coping issues he gets super upset and breaks stuff around the house. I called the bar he was at begging him to come home, he left the phone on the table after a climax of yelling between us and I could hear yelling and smashing in the background. He has never laid a hand on me save a bruise on my arm from him holding it tightly in a heated argument (I bruise very easily to be honest). We have lived together now for just over a year. Most everything in our relationship is perfect besides his anger and drinking, am I stupid to stay with someone who has these tendencies? I'm at my wits end with this crap, he always has an excuse to his drinking and I really want to give him an ultimatum but I don't want him to end up resenting me for it. His drinking used to be a lot worse but has recently slowed down. We both also smoke weed and I just feel like he has dependency issues with these drugs (alch&weed) and I don't. Also, he has a bankruptcy he's "going through" by going through it's more like ignoring and only works 2 days a week while I on the other hand have 2 jobs and am a full time student. Should I just leave him? Everything in our apartment is mine and he would be left with less than nothing if we broke up. What's a better way to go about this, is there something I should be doing? He told me today that I don't care about his feeling though I did tell him that I know his friend died and it's the anniversary of his death but he's just making things worse for himself by drinking.

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<bot>: My BF has a drinking problem and has trouble coping with loss and anger. Am I stupid to stay with him? Our relationship is perfect save for the alcohol.