<human>: First post here:  
Thanks to all the people that commented and gave me some good advice.

So it's been awhile since my first post and a lot has happened. I found out that she was already talking to some guy she met through a coworker. Knowing this I decided that there was no point in holding on to a relationship with her just for the sake of kids. I came to realize that I wasn't happy at all and needed to take of myself in order to be a good father for my kids.

Since then I've reconnected with the friends I stopped talking because her. I've started working out and lost a bunch weight as well as packed on a bunch of muscle. This has lead to more women noticing and flirting with me when I am out. My kids seem to be pretty happy now. They get spend more time with my parents and my little bro and sis. She had the baby on Valentines day (of all days) and I did get a paternity test just to be sure since she was cheating on me. It came back that the be is mine so I now have 3 daughters.

I don't talk to her unless its about the kids but she has tried a couple times to get me to come back which I have shot down each time. She is still with the guy she left me for so yea I'm glad I shot down her attempts because there is nothing left for me in that relationship.

Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell
<bot>: I decided to completely end the relationship because was cheating on me. I am happy now and being the best father I can be for my kids