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Just got the news last week.

Outside of my boss at work (because it will affect my work), I haven't told anyone and just wanted to vent. I'm sorry but I'm not expecting a lot of responses nor will respond on this throwaway account.

We've been together for 10 years since college, living in several countries and went through a lot together. 

No, she did not cheat, hit me or is crazy/manipulative. She did not hand me papers, but has told me that is what she wants. 

She's just very idealistic, and has an independent streak a mile wide. We've always had a good relationship and still do, but we have been drifting apart.

The topic of moving around, going back overseas always came up, even at the very beginning she told me that's what she always wanted. We did for a little bit, came back home (US) and I now have a good career with a great company that I can pretty much retire from. But that does tie us down into one location and we've been here several years. She's tried, but just not into that.

I look forward to coming home to her, even if we don't utter a single word to each other. She does too, but ultimately wants her own space. I understand her decision, and want to support her. 

While she's agreeable to try to work it out, I don't know if that will happen (She's been retreating to her room, because it's too painful for her to talk about it, which just drives us apart even more. And if she ultimately wants to leave, I don't want to be holding her against her will).

Sucks.
<bot>: Wife of 10yrs is talking about wanting a divorce. Will try to work it out but don't see it happening. Sucks.