<human>: Hi Reddit. I am not sure if this is the sort of subreddit in which allows teens, and if there is a better subreddit, I will direct my problem there.

I am a sophmore in highschool. I was asked to a Sadie Hawkins dance (girl ask guys). This girl is from my church and I find her very annoying (Side note: I'm not very religious, and she is crazy religious.) I have tried befriending her, but I never had a good time with her. My family sees them every Sunday at church and we will generally converse. She asked me via facebook and I told her I had some plans with my bros but they were still in the air.
On top of that, I do want to ask out my friend (Friend but not friendzoned.)

Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell
<bot>: Friend of the family asks me to a dance, and I really don't want to go. I need advice on how to get out of it but not make things awkward. I, however, want to ask out my friend.