<human>: Title is pretty self-explanatory.

I don't know if it's me that is making me unhappy or certain things in the relationship that are lacking. I don't feel like I have all my baggage sorted out so being in a relationship is very tough at times and lately I've been feeling more distant because dealing with these emotions is exhausting on top of other things. There isn't really any red flags other than certain unintentional triggers that affect my mood and maybe disillusions to how I believe things should be.

How do I figure out if i I don't want to throw away something good and is there a way for me to mature into being able to handle a relationship?

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<bot>: unhappy, have depression sometimes feel the grass is greener but don't know if it would just be the same and if its really all just me and my dillusions