<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

I am still in love with my boyfriend who I am about to break up with. I'm in college and we've been on break since I've gotten back, so about a week and a half (literally the night I got back to college.)

The reason we (or he) decided on a break was because I was suspicious and thought he was cheating, I snooped through his phone and found the proof, and I was right about everything. The next day he got pissed and said, "I don't know if I can trust you anymore" and that's the reason why. 

My friends have told me repeatedly that this relationship is unhealthy and toxic. He has emotionally abused me, and has been emotionally cheating (the girl doesn't like him, therefore he can't physically cheat), and has lied to me for months. He says he knows what he is doing is wrong and yet he continues to do it and still continues to tell people he loves me while chasing another girl.

Now, I have finally realized that even though I love him very much (more than he deserves right now) it is best for me to leave him. No matter how much I want to stay with him and work it out. However, the purpose of this break is him deciding whether or not he wants to break up with me. And now that I know I want to break up with him I want to do it first. I already have a pretty good plan. I just hope I can execute it first and maybe shock him into realizing what an *** he's been.

My biggest question. How can I get over him even when I'm the one breaking up with him and I still love him? How do I let him go even after I've let him go. Even though I've already decided I want to leave him that doesn't make it any easier. Please, any help would be lovely and appreciated.
<bot>: I had a gut feeling that our relationship was failing, I was right, now we're on break, and I want to know how I can get over him. Any help is greatly appreciated.