<human>: Provide a brief overview of the text.

So background info: 

Beginning of May, my friends set me up with one of their guy friends. We talked for awhile over text before planning a date. The date went well and we continued to see each other up to now.

The problem:

Since this all started, it just seems like he won't put any effort forward with building a relationship with me. We both agreed that's what we wanted to do, but he doesn't really do anything. I always have to ask to seem him, he has never asked and on top of that he has a busy schedule and is constantly working so I'm always having to ask unless I miss a chance to see him. Sometimes he'll get back around a normal time, but even still he has never asked me over. 

Over text, he doesn't flirt with me and always gives me very short answers. I always try to put in an effort and call him handsome or sexy or try to flirt with him to get a reaction which never works. He says he likes me and when we're together we goof around and have great sex (he's only initiated twice though this whole time). 

This whole thing has been giving me insane amounts of anxiety because I can't tell if he genuinely likes me or not. Last night I sent him a text asking what he thinks about me and he said he's not sure yet and still working on it. He said he's been in a lot of bad relationships and told me that he thinks I'll end up hating him. I think his pessimism is getting in the way of us forming any kind of relationship at all but I haven't told him that Guys I like him and I really want this to work out but he's giving me nothing here. Do I try to talk to him or is this a lost cause?
<bot>: New boyfriend never asks to see me, never texts me anything sweet, and doesn't flirt with me. Says he likes me but I feel like I'm all alone in this relationship.