<human>: So just a little back story. I am a 22 yo male and she is 22 as well. I have been friends with this girl for quite some time (a few years). Didn't really start talking in depth until a few months ago. Now I have started to develop some feelings for her, because we have been talking almost everyday, on the phone/webcam/IM'ing. She is super awesome and really funny, just an all around great girl. There was even some flirting going on, telling each other that we think each other is attractive, obvious blushing thanks to webcam, but never anything too serious, and nothing ever outright sexual.

We started getting into deeper conversations when she confessed to me that she was unhappy in her long term relationship of almost three years, and that her bf was treating her very badly. She was getting to the point where she wasn't eating because he had called her fat, and just royally treating her like crap. Finally, after her telling me all this, and being there and listening and offering honest advice, she decides to break up with him.
Now, he is making promises to her of "how he is going to change" and "that things are going to be different." What is killing me is that she is giving this jerk a second chance!

So how do I tell her that this is the wrong way to go. I know that this guy is just going to wind up hurting her again, and I can't stand to see that happen.

Help?!

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: I like a girl who is trying to get back together with her abusive ex. How do I tell her that is a bad idea?