<human>: I'm a 21 year old female who has been in a stable relationship with my boyfriend for roughly 2 years. Aside from a few minor arguments here and there, no real major issues have arisen until now. The problem is, since the start of our relationship, the amount of times we have sex has slowly declined to nothing. At the start it was almost every day, now it has slowly declined to less than 5 times a month. It is my fault, The way my mind works is that it is not a lack of wanting to have sex, I do, I am still attracted to him and want to have sex yet turning the thought into actions is what is stopping me. It is like part of my brain is saying 'yes, let's do it' and the rest of my brain and body is just ignoring it. :( 

My boyfriend doesn't understand this, he thinks that if you want to do something, i.e. have sex, then just do it, I try to make him understand that it is more complicated for me but he just seems to get more and more frustrated lately, this turns into an argument almost everyday. I want to make this work with him, I do love him very much, yet this is putting more and more strain on us, I am lost as to what to do, there is a barrier there and I don't know how to break it. In regards to my personality, I have noticed that I do keep people at arms length. I don't have many friends, at least no close friends that I can talk to. I prefer to be by myself usually, however I don't want to push my boyfriend away. What can I do to help this situation? Have any other girls been in a similar situation? What did you do?

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<bot>: MY boyfriend and I used to have heaps of sex and are now having none, putting strain on relationship, need help.