<human>: Hello reddit,

I've been dating this girl since high school. I love her. She loves me - she loves me /so/ much. 

But I feel like we're headed in different directions. She's been working the same dead-end job since she's graduated high school. I went on and earned my Masters in computer science by the time I was 20. I run a mobile/web development company, and take home a sizable income (roughly the total income of my parents, who are both physicians).

I'm concerned about the future of this relationship in the sense that she has future career plans but is doing nothing to pursue them. I fear this is partially due to my earning power; I feel as though she is stagnating and choosing to support my endeavors instead of pursuing her own. I think it is not my business to carry her thru; i need someone who is independent. Supporting someone is too much of a mental burden on me; I don't believe I am emotionally mature enough for this arrangement.

It is difficult for me to come to terms with this, as we are also each other's first love: high school sweethearts. 

reddit,
Are my feelings misplaced? Am I just fearing the unknown, or seeking that which I don't have? 

(I am an immigrant, so I apologize for issues with my English. I'm nearly there but still make small mistakes! Please correct me where appropriate!)

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: I'm wealthy and successful. We're high school sweethearts. She does not want to invest in her future because of my success.