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My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and I cheated on him last week in a one-night stand. He's taking it very hard, as one would expect, but in the last week has has confessed to doing a number of things that I find hurtful. I feel like he is utilising the fact that I am in the wrong right now to get things off his chest because I can't get angry at him over it.

He told me he was in a position to cheat once (3 months ago) with my best friend when they were "play wrestling" after being out drinking and he was straddling her and had her pinned down. He said that (these are his words) "if you saw us you would have broken up with me". But he doesn't think it's a big deal because he didn't **actually** cheat, he just got close to it. This is a girl he had once had sex with before we dated. I never had a problem with them going out together at night as they would generally be with a group of mutual friends, and I knew that they were going out that night, so that isn't a problem at all with me but the 'play wrestling' seems a bit off.

He also confessed to one other thing as well but because it's quite specific I don't want to write it here as he would recognise me (it's not as bad as this but it was a secret from me for 8 months and I was a bit offended). 

Am I right to feel hurt by this? How do I respond to these sudden confessions? I feel so confused because I have done something much more hurtful than that so I feel like I don't have the right to be angry.
<bot>: I cheated on my boyfriend of 1 year and so he confessed to doing hurtful things during our relationship, how should I perceive this and respond?