<human>: My gf and I have been having troubles recently. We've been dating 14 months and started in college. I graduated last year and am planning to go back next year, but for now live 3 hrs away and work a job.

I wanted to visit her 1 weekend a month and stay in her room, but her roommate and family get mad whenever I stay over and my gf wants to avoid having issues with the person she's rooming with for the next 7 months. 

If I want to go see her, I need to stay in another persons room to see her because she doesn't want to piss off her roommate. She has not talked to the roommate about this but is doing it because she is afraid of what kind of shit she'd pull if she made her mad, even just by asking about the issue. 

I'm getting upset because it seems that she doesn't even want to try to fight for me staying once a month and it seems insane that she can pay for a room and not be allowed to have her bf visit. 

When I mention being upset, she gets mad at me and tells me that this is how it is and that I am just another person piling shit on her plate instead of being a supportive bf. 

I don't know if I'm in the right or wrong but I know we've been fighting about once every other week when we try to make plans to see each other. 

She can't come to visit me because her parents wont let her take public transportation and so I have to visit her all the time.

Am I wrong to be upset about this?

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<bot>: Roommate wont let me (bf) stay in SO's room and gf wont talk to roommate about it.