<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

Gary and I have been dating for five years. We live together, make a fair amount of money and have even discussed buying a house in the near future. Naturally when people ask how long we have been together, it's usually followed by a "Oh, are you guys going to get married?"

So, I broached the question last night and he blew up on me. He said he never thinks about it and that no one knows what they want in their twenties ( but they apparently have all the answers in their thirties) and that anything can happen. He is afraid of divorce and how marriage legally binds you. I have made my opinions clear that I want to get married at some point and he said he wants too as well but refuses to give me a time frame. I am not pressuring him by any means, I just want to know his intentions.

I don't want to buy a house and have kids and build a life with someone who isn't willing to go all in with me. This is where I need advice. Am I going to far asking for a time frame or is he valid in wanting to wait another ten or so years as a precaution? Obviously I don't want to wait ten years but from your experiences, what advice would you offer me?
<bot>: long-term boyfriend wants to wait until we are in our thirties to go married while I'd like to have a family etc, before I shrivel. Can't decide if I'm rushing or he's procrastinating?