<human>: So we've been together for a few months, and I was in bed the other day when her phone went off. She asked me to get it for her, and it was her friend saying "Hey gorgeous". Now, I asked her about it, and she told me thats just how he talks to her and that they're good friends. At this point my BS meter is going off the chain. I know he doesn't see her as a friend because of how he talked to her ( i may have done some slight snooping, I know shame on me) and it really bothers me. She didn't flirt back, but she wasn't exactly shutting it down either. I see this stuff as a sort of respect thing, and I don't let anyone flirt with me (I'm nice about it, I'm not a total jerk). I like keeping this stuff between me and my SO, it makes it more special in a way. We talked about it and she seemed to agree with me, but i don't know if it was okay for me to ask that of her. I'm just wondering what that looks like from both a woman's perspective and anyone else really.

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<bot>: My GF lets "friends" flirt with her and doesn't shut it down while I do out of respect for her. Is it wrong for me to ask her to not let that happen?