<human>: We talked yesterday about hanging out and we never have quality time together. We haven't had time to hang out because she's been so busy with other things. We talked about her coming over today and maybe watching a movie. 

Then she asked me earlier today if its okay if she goes out with her girls instead. I was a little hurt but she said that today is her good friend's bday and she barely got the invitation. I was a little hurt and told her that I didn't like that she did that.

I changed my tune a little later, and told she can still go. It was supposed to be girls night out but she said I can come. I don't really want to go to a bar, because I hate that scene. I was willing to drop her off at her friend's house so she can go. She doesn't have a car.

She just texted me now that she doesn't want to go because she is tired and that we should just hang out. She said she originally didn't flake on me but just brought it up to see if I would be okay with it.

I feel like I'm her backup plan. Should I be hurt or just get over it?

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<bot>: gf asked if she cancel our plans to go out with her friend's instead but said she rather just hang out with me.