<human>: So I've been going out with this 95% match who lives in a neighboring country (but due to work he is in town a lot and will spend more time here until mid next year). If I recall correctly we've had 6 dates now. He's referred to me as 'my girl', has shown up at my office party, and has used all the terms of endearment that I know the English language has. He's even considering moving to my city - although he only mentioned this in passing.

I haven't gone on OkC since our second or third date, but a friend of mine told me she saw him online today and last weekend. Now I've 'ruined' a blurry relationship before by asking the guy if he was going off OkC after approximately the same number of dates (and after he took the liberty of taking my NSFW pics without my permission), so I don't want to make the same 'mistake' twice.

Give me a shortened version of the text
<bot>: Should I ask about my date about his OkC activity/ies now that we've gone on 6 dates - or should I just wait if he ever brings it up?