<human>: We had the discussion, even before we got married, and it was this.

If there is every someone we wanted to sleep with it was ok. So we have an open relationship. Funny part is that's not really the problem with us.

The thing is we know women have an easier time telling this to a guy and they are completely accepting, but if I "as a man" put this claim out there, I'm not believed. I know girls have the advantage when in an open marriage/relationship.

Now I don't go out of my way in picking up girls, but on rare occasions I do get hit on and picked up, but the minute they think I'm not really available they bounce. (I don't make a claim or try to pass myself off as single). And I get it, not all girls are looking just to hook up, but I've seen, and know some that have, and because I'm "married" they turn away.

So what I'm asking is what is the correct protocol for me to get across to a girl, that I'm in such a relationship and that it's ok. I don't want to come off as a jerk, or some playboy, but like I said, women don't often believe a guy if he says he's in such a relationship.

[If I'm missing a detail I didn't provide to better help answer this, let me know.]

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<bot>: So what I'm asking is women of reddit, how do I best approach this subject and let you know that I'm in an open relationship, and that it's ok if we hookup.