<human>: Brand new dad to a little girl born on Father's Day. MIL is in town to help with the birth and "take care" of my wife's sister who recovered from a psychotic episode in April. 

Birth was pretty standard, as was the hospital stay. The baby became a bit more fussy when we got her home, but mangeable.  

However, now, by day three, I feel like I have little to nothing to do to contribute to my little girl's lifw. When she cries, and mom and I try to handle it, she's constantly hovering around to take over for us. She does things her way constantly without asking me if I'm okay with it. For example, we bathed my daughter  before taking her home from the hospital yesterday. I had planned to go get screws for the baby's bath and give it to her today, but MIL swooped in and bathed her even though I had said I prefer to bathe her this evening so she'd sleep more soundly during the night.  

My wife is trying very hard to bf, and our girl won't latch to her left boob for some reason. Guess who's there after 3 minutes of her screeching with some formula? We've made it clear that we will only bottle feed after she's tried to bf, but more and more I'm feeling totally useless, like all I'm good for is to go get things from the store. I don't feel like a dad. 

I've tried to talk to my wife about this and she just makes me feel ridiculous and like I should just shut up and accept the help. I don't want to confront my MIL with this upfront, as I don't want to cause a scene,  so I feel a bit stuck.

Can you provide a brief overview of the text?
<bot>: MIL staying with us to help out after new baby. Feel undermined as a dad, like all I'm good for is errands and busiwork.