<human>: For starters, I'm a 29/m and she is a 24/f, we've been together for a little over two months.  

Back story, we've both not had very meaningful relationships in the past and sometimes joke it's like we are in high school.  We're taking it at a slow organic pace and not rushing, we haven't had sex yet but before turning cold we were almost ready to.

Up until New Years things were pretty good, we were communicating our feelings well.  Toasting each other at Midnight and cuddling until 3.  Great.

Then a few days later she got distant.  Very.

It started on my end with my anxiety I think.  Posting things that made me seem like I was questioning the relationship and then getting way to clingy (normally not like me but a result from when my anxiety spikes).

A few days later, she tells me she is figuring out if she'd rather be alone or with me.  I realize a lot of what I did, demanding her time, and always trying to be around her after so much, started this push.

I give her the weekend, though we do talk about space and it being okay for the few hours we spent together on Saturday.  But the next two days still not much.

My point - I'm trying not be clingy.  My anxiety makes me fearful of losing people, so I crowd, and then that is what pushes them away.  I want to show her I'm fine with space (I am, if it wasn't for knowing she is deciding to stay or not the space wouldn't bug me as bad).

So now I need to know, is texting her once a day bad.  Little things like Hi, hope your day goes well.  Or should I just fully back off, skip a day.  Things like that.  She needs to know I mean it when I say she can have space, but I don't want her to think I'm the one distancing myself.

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<bot>: I'm in love with a girl and we might have been together to much in the starting months of the relationship.  She wants space now and I need advice so I can do that and hopefully not lose her.