<human>: So we both are our eachothers' first partners and first kiss/sex experiences too. We started dating when we were in a same school and it was for 10 months. Then she had to move to another city 3hours away, with her family. It went fine first and we visited every 2 weeks. But now it seems we will be in a LDR for a long time to come, for 4 years unless i or she decides to change our studying plans. I want to go to med school and there is no med school where she lives, and she can't move away from her family because, well, she is so close to them. I just can't live with the idea of living in another cities for years. And i can't think of life without her... Also we come from very different families, it seems like we do everything differently, from the foods we eat to the way we spend our free time, and it tends to lead to arguments... I sometimes wonder if she is not the one even though i love her... I dont even know what im thinking anymore, i just cant stand being apart from her or losing her.

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<bot>: Cant stand the idea of being many years in a LDR with my gf, but cant also think of life without her... Reddit, what do ?