<human>: hi there, so now I'm in a relationship with this girl. although she is 17 turning 18, this is her 1st time being in a relationship. our intimacy progress was fluent till today it choked a bit so i step back to reflect, maybe im pushing it abit too far too fast. can you all help me assess and what should i do now? and well, im too shy to ask my close friends about this -.-

so, we had been together for 4 weeks +, when we just started, we hugged, then we hold hands tightly whenever we are together like all other honeymoon couples do, then i gently kissed her goodbye on the lips after our 1st night date. then the next one, a bit tongue involved. and then we started making out ( officially 1st base ) after about 2-3 weeks. she give amazing kisses <3 . <3 so im kinda addicted to it lol for that week we made out more often than i normally would with my ex. then last week (3-4 week) i tried to startrek her aka moving on to 2nd base. i tried touching her boobs when we were making out the 1st time she just said she need to go already(it was a kiss goodbye) so it lasted like 1-2 sec. then today i tried again, for about 2-3 sec she told me to control myself. she is afraid that i cant control myself and go overboard. but i dno how far is overboard.

what should i do now? now im thinking of just staying at current stage for another 2-3 weeks and see what happen next.

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<bot>: any female redditors here can explain their mentality when they 1st dating a guy and started intimacy activities? how long did it took you to go and were you comfy about it?