<human>: Since about the past three years, I've been working on getting out of depression which had lasted for around a decade and a half. During the recovery, to minimise detours and delays, I'd decided to not be in a relationship till I felt ready.

Anyway, I'm in a better place now, so I've recently started contemplating dating again. But I just can't seem to like the guys who show interest in me. Not romantically anyway, which is a major bummer, because the things I want the most from a partner are to be able to trust them, find a safe space and be happy with them, and let them care for me. Contrary to my wants, I seem to be attracted to the ones who can't or won't be with me for some reason or another.

This unavailability feature has been a common theme in all my relationships so far, even before the recovery, serious and flings. And it has always been easier to fall for the 'bad' guy, to give rather than take, which inevitably has ended badly.

I'd like to change all that, and be with someone who genuinely wants to be with me. I just don't know how, and it's frustrating. As odd as it sounds, I find comfort in knowing that I will get my heart broken, and that just can't be healthy for my overall wellbeing, I suppose.

I know its all over the place, but has anyone else been here? How did you get over this thing, whatever it is? How do I break this habit?

Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?
<bot>: girl with issues, recovering, decides to date again but doesn't get attracted to guys who are good for her wellbeing, has a pattern of falling for the 'bad' or unavailable guys, which needs to be broken...