<human>: My ex and I got divorced because he wanted kids and I didn't. He has since changed his mind. We both haven't really dated other people (both went on a few dates that amounted to nothing). We went NC after or very amicable divorce, but met each other at a party 5 months ago. 

My ex has done some 'soul searching' and he regrets throwing away what we have. I was reluctant to start dating him again and we were friends for a while, but after some reflecting and lots of talking I am willing to learn to trust him again.

We decided to get back together on last week. We are going to go to counseling and we want to take it slow! So no moving in together yet or anything.

However, we aree not sure of what we 'are' now. Are we 'boyfriend girlfriend' or 'husband and wife'? Calling him by bf would feel very strange, but he is technically not my husband anymore.

It is different than dating because we love each other and have a history, but also different from marriage. 

Does anyone have experience with getting back together after divorce? Did yu remarry? Did it go well?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: = got back together with ex husband. We don't know the logistics of this. Please help, any tips are welcome.