<human>: Previous post here:

I had seen her update, but it was taken down before I could reply.

Her seeing my post did a lot of damage and she's spoken to me once, preferring to communicate through her lawyer who seems only to be interested in enforcing the prenup she had me sign before we got married.

I've been extremely depressed, and I now wish I hadn't said anything at all because I'd prefer to have my wife over having children. I told her this during our one phone call, and she said pretty much told me that it sucked, but she had no sympathy for me; that I had been pressuring her for months and bingoing her, she said since I had been spending more time with my sister's kids. I don't remember doing any of this, but I might have been subconsciously.

She told me that I can't unring a bell and said good-bye.

I was told through mutual friends that she moved the date of her tubal up and she has had it done.

I'm going to send her a letter, but is there anything I can say?

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Headed for divorce. Realized I want my wife more than children. What can I say to get her to listen to me?