<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

My boyfriend knows I don't like him smoking, and while I've never given him an ultimatum to quit or I'll break up with him, he's said he doesn't want to do anything that'd upset me. I appreciated this and said I'd help him if he needed any from me.

He used to smoke maybe 1-2 packs a week, but in the last 4 months (since I've started dating him) he smokes maybe a pack a month. I'm happy about this but now at the same time, it seems like he's stagnant? He says he social smokes now, as most of his friends smoke, so when he's out with them, he mostly smokes.

**What I want to ask is, those of you who are trying to quit or have successfully done so, was it very hard for you to reject the offer to "social smoke"/when your friends are smoking too? Or is my boyfriend perhaps just happy not quitting and just down to social smoking?
<bot>: Boyfriend said he'd quit smoking but doesn't seem like he is. Need input of smokers who're trying to quit or those who've done so successfully.