<human>: I guess I'll start off by saying that I wouldn't consider myself someone who has a hard time finding a relationship, but finding genuinely great people and keeping them is very difficult for me. This being said...

I'm being "courted" (lack of a better word?) by this all around great guy. He's smart, he's hilarious, he knows how to have a good time and he is very attractive (I might even think he could be too attractive for me) . His most daunting aspect is that he is an all around gentleman. He takes his time getting into relationships, and he doesn't just sleep around or show interest in someone unless he actually has an interest in them. And he's interested in me. 

I'm not boasting or proud, but I've dated a decent sum of guys in the past. My longest relationship was a year, my shortest one week (as of recently. I'm 22.). The only way I know how to act when starting a relationship is coming off strong, and that just isn't to this guys taste. He took me out for dinner on our birthday this past Sunday (we share the same birthday), we sat and talked for five hours, and had a great time. He kissed me goodnight after walking me home, and then left. We plan on going out to a comedy show tomorrow night, and to thank him I said I would bring him a slice of cheesecake we could share at my place afterwards. He responded ".....Let's just see how the night goes, first."

I would like to ease into this relationship in a mature and "lady-like" way, but I have no idea how. At what point is it acceptable to invite him into my home? Make advances (or don't)? See one another/how many dates is normal before you start dating?

It sounds so foolish, but I really need some advice on this one.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: All-around gentleman is interested in me, I have no idea how to properly ease into a relationship with someone who isn't just after sex.