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Hey everyone in r/relationships...

So i wanted to get advice from you because quite frankly i am so anxious i can't function.

I am 26 (f) he is 29(m) we have been together for a little over 1.5 years. 
He is working on his career and just got offered a very promising career opportunity with a huge salary jump that would move him halfway across the states from where we are now. He is very gung ho about this idea.

I am torn. The part of me that is his best friend wants him to jump on it. It's a huge opportunity and would definitely define him in his career as well as his personal life because he is still living at home and is very reluctant to move out. This would force him out of the house and out of his comfort zone. 

Another part of me can't fathom the idea of being without him. I know that i will eventually have to move out there but i am finishing up my college education here and also run a business here. My mother brings up a point where she says that it would be really dumb to leave everything like friends and family behind to move for a boyfriend and that he would have to give me some sort of commitment.

I love him dearly and would say yes if he asked me to marry him. However i know for a fact he is not in that state of mind just yet. He loves me and treats me very well but has mentioned on numerous occasions that although he sees his future with me, he is not ready to propose. 

Lately his family has been talking to me about the fact that i have to ask him about what his time frame is. They say that I am not the youngest person and that I should be having kids soon (within the next 2-3 years). This makes me very anxious because I know that they are right, but I don't feel that I need to have this conversation with him. I feel like he needs to realize he wants to marry me on his own and it shouldn't come from me. 

Have any of you ever been in similar circumstances? What would you do in my shoes? I am so anxious and lost and feel completely defeated.
<bot>: boyriend maybe moving across the us and his family is pressuring me to talk to him about marriage. need advice/help/support.