<human>: I've watched every single one of my friends and family members in and out of relationships since it started mattering to me, at about 15. I've never been in one. I didn't really try that hard until I had graduated college and realized high school and college both kind of breezed by and left me in the dust. So I started trying, or at least looking. I joined a church for a while (ended up just realizing the hypocrisy of organized religion and decided it wasn't for me). I was friendly at the gym. I went out with friends to lots of group events. I even went to bars, even though they're not my favorite place (I'm more of a hang-out-at-the-library — or at least a bookstore or coffee shop — kind of girl). I joined community sports teams. I've tried every dating site that seemed reasonable (eharmony, match, plenty of fish, okcupid, tinder, etc.). I have asked friends to set me up with their single friends. And while everyone in my life swears I'm "such a wonderful person," I'm still single. I've never even been close. Everything that even remotely feels like it could be something just fails to launch every time. 

I've switched up the experiment enough to realize that the only common factor is me. I must be the problem. But that's as far as I've gotten. I don't know why it doesn't work. I don't know why nobody is interested in me. 

Does anyone have any advice? I'm getting to the point in my life where everyone is settled down and partnered up and I would really love to have someone to share my life with. Or even just my days. It gets lonely out here alone. 

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Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: I've never been in a relationship and I'd like to be, but I don't know how to make it happen._