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I love my girlfriend immensely, and we have a deeper connection than I have ever experienced. However, her lack of confidence and self-esteem is crippling. We both work in retail and while I go to nursing school when not working, she does nothing. I mean, literally nothing. She has no hobbies, friends, or projects. She doesn't make goals for herself, or follow through on much. When we first met, it seemed like she loved cooking, baking, and gardening, but now she does none of these things. She seems lost and bored to me and I really want to help her hit her stride, otherwise I don't see this relationship going anywhere. I want to start thinking about marriage since we enjoy so much of our time together but I can't imagine marrying someone who sits in her pajamas all day watching Netflix. I have seen small inklings of her grabbing life by the horns so I know it's there and I don't want to give up on her. I love her so much! I just want to help her foster a sense of living.
<bot>: girlfriend is amazing, smart, funny, but has zero confidence and makes no attempt at doing anything with her life. how can i help her?