<human>: We have been fighting for a while now, I expect some things out of the relationship he doesn't, and vice versa. 
I do love him and feel empty without him, but still don't know if wanting him back is the right thing. He broke up Sunday and have had no contact since. 
We had plans for Valentine's day that were really important to me, and he knew I got him something, so I was thinking if he comes back by then I should let him do so and tell him I want to work things out, willing to really change my behavior if he agrees to change his. 
We said that before and tried, but 3 days of no contact (for our relationship) does really impact my willingness and makes me realize how much easier everything could be. 
On the other hand, if he continues the NC for Valentine's day I'll just let him go and tell him we should both move on. 
Sorry this might be really random, plus this is my first post ever on Reddit (yay...?), but I haven't even told most of my friends yet so I'd need advice. Thanks!

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<bot>: Ex bf broke up few days ago, should I let him go? If he doesnt come back for Valentine's day, would that mean he's positive of his decision?