<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

I'll make this as short as I can. 

We have an ok marriage, with two kids. Almost since day one, I've half-wanted out buy could never pin down why. On a pro-con list he has a ton of pros.

But now something has happened. A very bad decision on his part that could've ended up in prison time for him. He can make it better before anyone knows. But this decision was ongoing for two years. It entailed lying to me the whole time. It exposed our family to possibly losing everything. 

He wants to work through it and grow old together. I want a divorce, I think. Thing is, I feel like I could get past it. It would be foolish to do so, and I would only end up back where I was before. But divorce is huge and I'm terrified to do that to our family. Please help me think this through.
<bot>: Was already unhappy for minor reasons, now that a bigger reason has come along I feel awful using it as a reason to divorce - even though I should