<human>: so i met this girl about 2 months ago at a party. she is really cool. we have SOO many things in common. the most i have had with another girl. the problem is that when i met her, she wasnt living close by so when we were talking a lot it was over text. i later threw some parties and she came to them which was cool but nothing happened. for the past two months now i have been crushing on her pretty hard and i feel like its obvious.  but now that she is close now, i try and say like oh we should watch a movie or oh i need to come back over and finish that movie. but nothing has happened and we have NEVER hung out just the two of us. 

now this past weekend my friend has been having a shitty past couple months and when we hung out he got drunk and pretty much told me he liked her a lot too only they had just met. i feel like since so much time has passed with nothing happening between me and her that she has lost/ has no interest and that i should step aside and let my friend have a win

how should i approach the next conversation/ encounter with her?

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<bot>: met girl at party that have same interests. past two months crushing on her hard but have never hung out. what do i do?