<human>: So here's the thing. Long story short: My insecurity, pessimism and taking certain things for granted has pushed my wife away. Three weeks ago she went from seeming happy and in total love with me to pulling a 180 and asking for time apart, then two weeks ago said she didn't want to be married anymore. In that time I made the mistake of pursuing her and trying to get her to change her mind.

What I need advice on: I've changed my tactics accordingly. I know that if I ever want even a slight chance of her taking me back, I need to work on me and become attractive to her again, show her that I can truly change (I know, I need to do it for myself more than anything. I want to.)

Anyway, I've been doing just that, working on me and going to therapy while not contacting her at all. The only time I talk to her is when she calls or texts me, I just respond, and I make sure to be friendly and happy. 

Problem is here: Last week my therapist asked me if wife would come into a session. I told therapist that it wasn't likely, but therapist told me to tell her that it's something just for me, that her being present at just one session would really help me work through some stuff with said therapist. I asked wife and she said she would think about it.

This was a week ago. I need to know my wife's answer because I only get 3 free therapy sessions (doing this through work) and I really need to schedule my next appointment. This may sound dumb but I'm torn between continuing to wait on her (I'm on kind of a schedule here) and asking her if she had time to think it through. If I try to contact her to ask, I'm afraid it will ruin what I've already started and also do more damage by putting pressure on her.

Am I overthinking this? Should I just ball up and get in touch to see if she has an answer for me?

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<bot>: doing a good job at not pursuing wife, but need to contact her to get a question answered. Dont want to ruin work put in or pressure her.