<human>: I thought my friend had the perfect, or near perfect, relationship with a boy at our uni. We've all become friends with him, and my boyfriend is good friends with him. 

Some of the things he's been saying in private to one of my best friends recently just make me want to tear my hair out. He constantly makes fun of her (Christian) religion, laughs about God and how he's "definitely going to hell", "God's a dickhead anyway". I'm a total atheist, and I wouldn't especially be affected by people saying things like this in my company. I was brought up CofE though, so I can remember the painful sting when someone insults something that is so important in your life.

He's recently said things like "I wouldn't cry if you left me, but I know you'd be in pieces if I left you", and last night they were with a group of friends making holocaust jokes. My friend reminded him that her father's family are jewish, and he said "I don't care" and carried on. 

I can't impose anything on her, and I know she really loves this guy and the idea of their planned future life together. I'm worried she's swayed by the fact that he's particularly wealthy and always likely to be, she's the sort of person that thinks a bit like that, ugggh but she deserves a million times better than this. It's difficult to see someone's faults when you love them, but I just want to do anything I can to help her get out of there, or help her see that she needs to.

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<bot>: My friend's boyfriend is borderline, if not fully, emotionally abusive. How do I help her see it & end it?