<human>: My fiancee and I had a fight tonight. She's upset I am not out to my coworkers and my boss. I work in tech in Silicon Valley and everybody at my workplace is 100% LGBT friendly. A few of my male coworkers are gay and everyone celebrates it.

I'm not out at work and I'm not going to come out. I'm a fairly private person. I'm out to my non-work friends (not coworkers even though some are friends). I know everyone would be cool with it, everyone would love it (#diversity) but I don't want to come out.
It's not that I'm ashamed or internally homophobic. It's just that I want to be treated as" normal", I don't want to draw or call attention to myself. My private life is my private life. I don't see why it has to be mixed with my private life. My fiancee made the point that I share other things about my private life (pics of our dogs, what I did over the weekend, etc.), but this is somehow different. I feel comfortable telling my coworkers and boss about those parts of my life, but I don't feel comfortable telling them about my sexual preferences or who my partner is.

She's hurt that none of my coworkers or my boss knows who she is, or that I'm seriously involved with her, or that I'm engaged (we recently got engaged). I don't see why it matters they know. She feels like I'm hiding her, that she's a secret I'm ashamed of, that I'm ashamed of myself for being a lesbian, which all of it is not true. I'm out to everybody else except my work place. How can I get her to see where I'm coming from?

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<bot>: fiancee is upset I'm not out at work but I don't want to mix private and personal life. How do we reach a compromise?