<human>: I've been seeing this girl for about 6 months now. We were getting close to a relationship, but there was something important I needed to tell her before.

My mother is not accepting of me dating a black girl. It was a surprising thing to hear, and after hearing some of the things she said to me it was very hurtful and difficult to take. I couldn't believe what I was hearing. I felt multiple emotions including anger, sadness, confusion, and fear. She basically made it sound like I was doing something awful to her and my family, which I am not in the least bit.

I had a very difficult time telling this girl I have been seeing because I was afraid of making her upsetting or more importantly preventing us from being together.

I told her recently, and she was very upset. She said it wasn't fair to her, and she felt very angry and upset about it. But she feels like because of this she doesn't know if we could ever be together. She doesn't know if she could handle the fact that my mother is so no accepting of our relationship. Family is important to her and myself included, and she fears in the long term that it will only create problems.

It's really not fair to either of us. Why should we have to let one person prevent us from being together? Although it involves one of the most important person in my life, we should be able to live happily together.

I still love my mother dearly and appreciate everything she has done for me, because she has pretty much given up her life for myself and my siblings. But I just don't understand why she can't be supportive.

Me and the girl I have fallen in love with don't want it to end, but she doesn't know what to say. I have no idea how to handle this situation. I feel like our love would help us get through this adversity, but I'm afraid that this could truly make things difficult especially for her.

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<bot>: Girl I have been dating doesn't know how she will handle being in a relationship with me when my mother doesn't want me to be with a black girl. I need help on what to do