<human>: Okay I took advice earlier from a redditor to have her lead. Considering we are at two different points in our life I thought this would be best for her to make own mind up. She has 3 kids, I have none and am about to graduate college soon and will be overseas for 3 months. We have been seeing each other for about 4 weeks

I have never been the commitment type. The thought of it intrigues me until it almost becomes a reality and I began freaking out -- like now. In addition to my commitment problem, I am pretty certain I have intimacy issues also. What a catch, right?

She [37F] is the most persistent of any woman I have ever been with. Usually I let these things flame out if the woman does not go over and beyond in communicating with me. I would just move on.

She constantly wants to do couple things which I always agree to. We have NOT talked about exclusivity. I am extremely scared of this subject. I do not want to hurt her because she is just recently divorced.

At times, I can see myself with her, but I still want to live the bachelor's life. I do not want to be selfish, I do not want to hurt her, but I know in the long run I will ultimately fail her and I do not want her to waste her time with me.

She invited me to dinner tonight.

I do know what I want -- I think I want to tell her how I feel but I do not have the slightest clue as to how to even bring it up without her getting hurt.

I just need advice on anything part of this you see fit.

Added twist ~ We're coworkers (I am quitting in a couple months, though).

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<bot>: Do not know where to take this relationship at this point. What is the best course of action and how do I do it?