<human>: I (34M) have gone on 3 dates with a girl (31F) that have gone exceedingly well. First date we had dinner and went mini-golfing. (Which turned into Truth or Dare mini-golf, which I highly recommend if the other person is into it as it allows for going more in-depth than the surface "what do you do" questions.) Second date she came over and I cooked for her and we watched a movie then progressed to the bedroom. Third date we went bowling and ended up at my place again. 

Everything seems to be going well, but I am a super open person that has a problem keeping my feelings to myself. I told her that I really like her and tried to set up seeing her again. She said that I need to be more "aloof" and "ambivalent" towards her. So I have tried my hardest not to contact her for the last few days and let her come to me at her own pace. 

Like I said, I really enjoy our time together and don't want to screw anything up. (Which I might have just done because my impulsivity got the best of me and I texted her. GAH!) 

Anyway, my question is, how does one play "aloof" when one doesn't really know how? She seems to enjoy herself when we text, talk and are together, but that comment has thrown me for a loop. 

Any advice would be grand!

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<bot>: Went on a bunch of dates with a girl, she says I need to be more aloof. Don't know what that means or how to do it.