<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

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Well after getting help from all you redditors, thank you all by the way, I still can't choose an option.

Really all I can think of is either ending it, making him choose between her or I, or me just being unhappy and worrisome. 

If I end it, there will be a lot of crying, from him. He won't ever date me again either if we break up because he believes that it won't work out if you ever break up. There will also be so many questions from friends on what happened. And I don't want them to get judgmental on my boyfriend.. or myself I guess.

If I make him choose, I'll know it's wrong, but if he chooses me he's going to have to tell her goodbye. If he chooses her (which I'm afraid of) then I'm going to end it. I just don't want him going behind my back if I control him at all. I know this will make him close up most likely, hide more things, but how could he hide much more from me?

And if I have to live with being unhappy and worrisome, it will end anyways unless he can fix it. 

So r/relationships , won't you help me?
<bot>: Break up, make him choose, or live with being unhappy after he has lied to me and broken promises about being with his past sexual relationship (where he helped her cheat on her boyfriend at the time)