<human>: I am mostly here for support from my fellow redditors. I have never really done well with break-ups and the first time we broke up in early October it did not go well and we ended up back together trying to fix our issues. But I knew he was unhappy and I was not happy and knew I deserved better. I took him back after he cheated and after he did nothing but put me down and tell me every day about the things he didn't like about me. I was his first relationship and first "love" but over the weekend I went to see him and go with him to a military ball and the next day I broke down and told him it was over and for the best. 

I feel upset and just really want support that I did the right thing. I can't break down and go all crazy and want to call and text him.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: Broke up with my LDR bf (2nd time breaking up) and need support to not back-pedal and not be the crazy ex.