<human>: So back story, I was with this girl for a year and we had a great time together, after about 6 months things started 'losing the spark' we have a few things in common but no tv/movies in common which made relaxing at night always a compromise. Sex was good at the start but got very vanilla quick, which I'm probably to blame as I've never been the most open intimately. I'm sure things can change in the bedroom if I put the effort in, but some things that bugged me were that she would always leave the room to get changed, and after sex clothes went on right away. My best guess is that she's dealing with body image issues (average body type). 

My other issue is that she's a yes women, would do anything I wanted to make me happy, which seems crazy that I don't want that. But I want someone who actively speaks thier mind. We never fought due to this or even had the slightest disagreement. I tried communicating that I need some push back, or her opinions on things, but didn't last for more then a night. 

Eventually I ended it with her as I was noticing myself looking at other girls and that I wwasn't satisfied in our relationship. I think we're both a little at fault, communication could have been better. 

I've been contemplating getting back with her as I feel like it's the smart thing to do, she will always be loyal, very successful, a great partner other then a little boring. (doesn't like to drink/party/stay up. Past 10), which I quite enjoy. Are these things easily overcome? Is it alright to have these things not in common. I find myself attracted more and more to confident independent women lately. I guess I just don't know weather to choose what's smart or what I really desire.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: ex gf and I have a lot of differences, do I get with her cause she would be a genuine good life partner.