<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

My gf (22f) and I (24m) have been dating a little over 2 years and she has always felt the need to ask me things like "do you love me?" Or "do you miss me?" And "why don't you lust me?". Frankly it gets kind of annoying that she always asks because it makes me feel like, am I not showing my affection enough?Which I feel can't be the case because I am a very affectionate type of partner. I go pretty out of the way to do sweet things for her and as does she for me but I am definitely the one who gives her guidance and stability in her life.  We have sex 3-4 times a week on average which is always great and I am insanely attracted to her. She has this idea that if she's the one that initiates sex that I must not lust her, love her, want her and everything in between. I do initiate at times but I didn't think it mattered who started what because in the end we are the same team looking for the same goal. To me it comes off as insecurity but when I try and talk to her about it she shuts off and literately stays quite and performs the classic silent treatment. I could do anything for her in the world that she desired and she would still ask me if I loved her. I don't understand this state of mind of hers. After all that I do for her she can still logically question my love/lust for her? She gets so upset and brings up all the time that she initiates. Is that actually a big deal? And when I initiate she will try and find some problem with it like "oh this so planned" which in reality what on earth am I planning? Absolutely nothing but it's a illusion she some how creates and believes. Any help here? Should we see a counselor?
<bot>: my gf questions my love for her and feels that if I don't initiate sex and she does that it means I don't lust her. I'm so confused.