<human>: Hey Reddit,
I'm starting to like this one girl, but before I go any further I want to try and get to know her better. So the problem is that (that I've always had)  I get really paranoid in everything I say, I try to relate with everything she says, but every once in a while we get different views on a topic and we both tend to get a little bit upset (or at least I think) and then I come home getting all paranoid and such thinking I ruined it (Although I think this is because I dont have much experience) anyway when I get home I'll text her on whatsapp or something and I get really paranoid again when I see that shes seen my text and hasn't responded, anyway IDK if you guys answer these types of question, but I wanted to know what you guys thought of my dilemna.

Some background info, we've been friends for about two years, but nothing serious, and now I want to get to know her better. But my paranoia issue isn't just with this girl, its with literally every girl I "like"

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<bot>: I get paranoid about every little negative thing that happens, and I end up dwelling on these things unable to concentrate on anything, and just generally feeling bad.