<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

Okay okay, I know what half of you are going to say.. 'Pedo' amirite? lol
Well let me tell the story.

We've been together for 2 and a bit years now. I am just starting to miss being single. All the people I have talked to have said "That is completely normal - you're young, you're allowed to be single and have fun!" and thats what I want. I want to have fun. I want to get the chance to flirt with other guys.. considering, I have always been quite flirtatious. (Not sexually - just mucking around and making fun of guys. All of my best friends are male!)

My current boyfriend, I love him a lot. I really do. But I just don't see him in my future anymore. I am starting to find him unattractive, by things that have always been unattractive to me. He smokes, he does pot, he is violent, he does nothing but play his video games and he always puts me down.. I never realized how much he put me down until I began to fall out of love with him. He doesn't like any career choices I make. (i.e. I had planned all my senior year studies so that I could get into psychology at UNI and study to be a psychologist, so I can become a student counsellor. But no, that wouldn't make enough money for him :/) When I confront him about it he always says "I didn't mean it, I was just angry"

I am finding it hard to figure out how to break up with him because we've made many friends together and I know they will all hate me if I end it. Also he is very violent and quite terrifying and I don't want to get hurt.. :/

Please help me reddit..
<bot>: I'm falling out of love with my boyfriend for numerous reasons and I just don't know how to end it. I've never ended it with someone before. He was my first boyfriend.. :/