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My girlfriend [19F] and I [21M] have been dating for over 7 months and we have not really gone past 2nd base due to her getting nervous. She was taken advantage of by a prior boyfriend and fingered without her consent. This made her very uncomfortable to the point where she is nervous about letting me touch her down there, and of sexual contact in general. She has never even had an orgasm because of this fear. We really want to move past this, but I don't want her to feel uncomfortable or rushed. We need some help but I don't know what to do. I want to go slow to make her feel safe. We live with our respective parents and commute to college, so we need to be discrete if possible.
<bot>: Girlfriend [19F] and I [21M] are stuck on 2nd base because of a consent violation in her past.