<human>: I do not have a lot of LTR experience. Never been married.  Don't have any kids. Do have nieces and nephews who I adore. I like family. Anyway, I am now in a relationship with a woman who has 2 kids (7 and 13yrs). I haven't met the kids. It's too early for that. So far things are going well and actually kind of fast. I feel like we fell into this naturally.

Anyway, what are your experiences with "ready made" families, or dating someone with kids? 

I fully expect her kids to come first. No two ways about that. In fact, the other night she was staying over but left because her daughter was ill and needed to be picked up at a friend's home. She told me she was sorry she had to go, but I felt that if she had snubbed her kid / mom-duty, that she's not the kind of person I'd want to date in the first place.

One dad is out of the picture. The other is around and active with his kid. She was married to the second father.

She's smart and well employed at a good company.

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<bot>: First ever relationship with a woman who has kids. Looking for your experiences, warnings, suggestions. I like kids, don't have any.