<human>: I grew up in a family who had a severe drinking problem...and still does.  My father, 59, is a binge drinker and my mother, 51, starts drinking when she wakes up.  My parents drink everyday, and my dad would start once he got home from work.  
My boyfriend, 24, and I enjoy grabbing drinks.  However, he drinks more regularly than I do.  I'll admit that I have been getting more and more opinionated on his drinking, and he's getting cross about it.  His mother was an alcoholic, and he admitted to me that he never wants things to get that bad.  So, I don't understand his defense when I say something about him drinking.

I've tried to pretend that I don't care but I do...and he knows me well enough to know something is up.  We are recently engaged, and will be living together soon.  I don't want alcohol to be a reason for fights...its not worth it.

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Both my boyfriend and I come from alcoholics, am I being to negative with the fact he wants to drink more than I am comfortable with?