<human>: Was having phone sex with boyfriend. I am an insecure person, even more during sexual stuff. He ordered me to spank myself. (D/s relationship) Spanking is a loud activity. In middle of it, I start whispering his name, no answer. I whisper some more, and he finally answers. I find this shady. His phone wasn't on mute because I could hear background noises. Then I stop spanking after calling his name and no answer. I go on mute and after some minutes he calls my name. I answer, and I ask him if he liked the show. He said he loved it so much. I ask him specifically, by the number he ordered me to do, if he heard it all. He says yes, and he loved it and I was very loud. I said "I will call you wait" and went on text, to see if he understands me clear, that if he heard all 40, and if he liked it. He said it was so amazing, that he was so turned on. I again asked, and he again said yes. Then I told him how that would be impossible because I never did 40, not even 20. Then he doesn't write for a while. Then he goes what the fuck. Me being the stupid shit, I ask him if he is texting someone during that time, because there is no other explanation in my mind. I know it is stupid but at that point I was highly humiliated, not in a good way, and was already crying. He was lying, that was for sure. He started calling me crazy and then left.

I know I shouldn't have said texting but... I am a very religious girl coming from a very religious background, and this is the first time doing something like this. I am not open fully about sex yet and I feel extreme shame even while doing so. Him not paying any attention to me, lying and doing something else was a huge thing.

What steps should I take next? I am a jealous and insecure person, so anything wrong, I can see cheating in that. In this situation also. Please help me, I am at lost.

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<bot>: Caught boyfriend lying during phone sex. He wasn't listening to me, doing something else. I suspect he was texting someone, but could be something else. What do?