<human>: I recently was diagnosed with ADHD, prescribed medication, and got a job at the same time.  I've done web development work for a couple months for $20/hr at this two man company.

My dad has Parkinson's and I have been doing a lot of the driving and house work the past year.

I've had a break from work since around Christmas time (boss-man went to visit his parents), and he called today.  During the conversation I said I would work the next three days.  I expressed interest in working on my own projects instead of working for him before the break, but feeling trapped in my caretaker duties I jumped at the opportunity to get into another "duty trap" for my boss.

I went to a coffee shop today (while I was driving my dad to a Parkinson's exercise class and waiting) and I got about an hour of work done for myself.  It felt really good.

After reading this [comment] and this other [(even better?) comment] I've been considering going out as if I were going to work for another man and then go get some work done for myself.  Of course I would call my boss and let him know, but I don't think I would tell my dad immediately, I think I would feel guilty (he has a way of saying things, but not saying them... it's annoying)

My boss has really been saying that he really enjoys working with me, and was really happy to hear I was willing to come back and work.  But now that I'm having this sort of realization that I was using his initiation of contact as an escape from being bound at home... I don't know I feel sorta sad inside.

... I could keep going, and I've already deleted a huge amount of writing detailing my recent history.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Should I go to a coffee shop and hack on my own silly* web applications instead of going to my boss' house and hacking on some code I am very bored with for $20/hr?