<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

So I'm a 26 yo male, and I'm genuinely looking to find future wife material. I'm in school now, pursuing my doctorate, and generally have my life pretty "together," though I still have about 3-4 more years before I'm all done with school, and won't actually be looking to date until 2-3 years from now.

I've dated 5 women before, have had real closeness with most of them, have done all the physical stuff, and have had relatively good success in all this, but still my past relationships have all failed in some way or another (obviously). As I'm finishing schooling, **I want to be preparing myself over the next few years so that when I do meet my future wife, I am the "right" man for her and have what it takes to really attract her and keep her.**

I'm legitimately, 100% not looking for hookups or fwb situations. Done that before, had STD scares, and overall was not worth it. As I said before though, I'm not generally incompetent or inexperienced with women, but have had failures  of my own in past relationships, and I really want to become the man to keep my future wife for the long-term. I am self-teaching myself a lot in school right now, and doing the same in the gym...seems like self-teaching myself how to attract and keep the right woman is not entirely different in that respect?

So all THAT being said... do any of you put any stock in ANY books or materials out there for attracting ladies? So many of them seem geared toward getting laid, and to be honest, since that's not a goal of mine, I don't see myself even wanting to approach a woman for another couple years until I'm really ready for a LTR. Still I want to be in the right mindset and all and to grow as a man until then. Any thoughts?? Am I over-thinking this? This kind of feels like a ramble so feel free to ask clarifying questions. THANKS!
<bot>: In a non-dating period for 2+ years, but want to work on becoming the "right guy" to attract & keep my future wife. Recommend any PUA or other materials, or have other tips?