<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

I am female and in my 20's and he's a male in his 20's as well.  We've been seeing each other for roughly 10 months. At the beginning we used condoms every time but a few months in we stopped. He was cautious to go off them but I assured him that I was clean and on the pill (both true). The only sexual experience I had before this relationship was with a boyfriend that I always used condoms with and rarely had with sex anyway. I've slept with other guys these past few months as well and always made sure to properly use a condom. All STD tests that I've had done this year (including HIV) have all come back negative. 

Fast forward to this past weekend when I got very ill. I had a fever, body aches, chills, swollen lymph nodes, canker sore, head aches, dizziness, and couldn't sleep and couldn't eat. I've also developed a rash on my stomach, chest, and back. The last time I had unprotected sex with the FWB would have been roughly two weeks before this. So yeah, I'm a little freaked out.  I haven't been tested yet as it's probably too early but I'm definitely going to. 

I don't need anyone to tell me that I'm stupid for having unprotected sex or anything. I know already. And I'm already beating myself up right now. The only thing really giving me hope right now is that my parents have been going through something very similar to me with the exact same symptoms at almost the exact same time. I last saw them about 2 weeks ago as well. 

I guess I just need some help with talking about it with him. I'm worried that he's going to think I'm accusing him or that I already had it and gave it to him. I know I need to talk to him, I just don't know what to say. Should I wait until I get tested?
<bot>: Had unprotected sex with FWB, might have HIV+ and could only have got it from him, what do I say to him?