<human>: So a girl (we have been friends for about 6 years now though) I have been seeing on and off for about 2 years now (just dates and movies, etc) I have asked her if she wanted to make this an actual relationship a few times and she told me she wasn't ready after her being raped by some asshole around 3 years ago.  I hadn't talked or seen her too much in about a month, we went out on a date and I got busy with work and didn't see each other for a week or so. but before the date she was texting me saying she missed me so much and how much she loved me and occasional joking that shes my wife (sort of an inside joke) I go over to her place and shes in the bath when I get over and asks for me to massage her while shes in the bath and we just chit chat and watch Netflix. the next day we go out to dinner and she hands me a key to her apartment because she leaves for the weekend out of state, but she told me the key is mine to keep. I know there are obvious signs here. But what is exactly going on? I need help bad.

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<bot>: girl i have been seeing wasn't ready to date due to rape now is giving me a key to her apartment, i am so lost.