<human>: My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months, but have been friends for a bit longer. We have both had prior relationships in which we have had sex. Both of us feel like that was too far, though. We both grew up in Christian backgrounds, but it wasn't really until after our prior relationships that we've really taken it as our own things.

As of now we've stuck to just kissing and such, nothing really more than spooning. We both really want to take things further, but also know that we don't want to go all the way. We just aren't really sure where to draw the line. 

Part of the problem is that we feel as if the Bible is rather vague on the topic. We can see that it clearly says to abstain from pre-marital sex. And it also talks about avoiding sexual immorality. But it's just hard to know what exactly that means. Some things we've read point to it being any sort of sexual relations, others seem to suggest that it's only about keeping sexual relations to committed relationships. 

So, basically, we know a few things that we don't want to do. We've said no actual sex for sure. And we also know we can't be naked together, because that would be too much of a temptation. We have a few other things we know we don't want to do, but other than that are pretty lost on where to draw the line. 

Any and all advice will be appreciated. We will try to answer any questions you may have.

Also, before anyone asks, this question comes from both of us, not just me. She's sitting next to me, reading it as I post it.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Both of us have had sexy times in past relationships. Both want to have sexy times, but also don't want to take things to far.