<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

My gf and I have been together for about a year now. Lately I have come to the realization that she does not have the same sexual desire that I have. For example, if I don't initiate sex it won't happen. 

She is about to be going across the country for 9 months and is 100% a monogamist, which I am not. I think that as long as two people love each other and want to be together it doesn't matter who they have sex with. I think it would be healthy for her to have sex with other people while she is away to maybe get more relaxed with sex and for me to have sex with people because I want to do it and it would help me get my sexual desires out while I'm young I think. 

I think she would be against going on a break because she has said before that you might as well break up at that point, and she is against the idea of non-monogamy. I don't want to just break up with her because she is really good for me and I can see us being happy together forever. Any advice would help. Ty.
<bot>: I want to have an open relationship with my gf while she's long distance but I know she won't like the idea. I also don't want to break up with her.