<human>: Hi all, I hope you're well.

Any advice welcome and appreciated.

I've just moved to a small rural town for long-term work, the work is very public and social. As a university educated person who is 6ft.1, doesn't smoke and is quite athletic i think I am a solid date-able person.

So I joined tinder and decided to look for people to meet, the only problem is I keep getting 'ghosted' HARD (i.e we match I text, they text, we meet for lunch or dinner, we sleep together and then a week later everything goes deathly quiet.

Case 1: 18 Female (3 weeks)
We match, I organise to have lunch, we meet, I add her on facebook and throughout the week we talk at night etc.
A week goes by of us talking every night, the following monday she suggests sleeping over and we sleep together at my apartment. We continue texting every night that week and thats when I lose all contact, that 3rd weekend Ghost.

Case 2: 24 female (2 weeks/ongoing)
We match on tinder and I organise to have coffee, which is declined because "people will see us" (Not even joking).
She organises to watch movies at my apartment the following weekend instead.
We meet for movies, have dinner and sleep together. I text a couple of days later and we talk, everything seems fine. But the very next day I get ghosted immediately... 
A week goes by of no contact so I text her to see when shes free and she agrees to watch movies again.

At this point I'm  just confused, I don't know what anyone wants. I'm sure the conversation, attraction and sex is good. I just want to talk and meet someone who doesn't turn their phone off every Monday.

Calling all reddit superheros, I'm in need of aid.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: question: Meeting people on tinder, why do I keep getting ghosted (no contact) after a week of good contact?