<human>: Well... I've never had too much luck with the ladies, either they become the exact opposite they admitted at first or they were plain crazy, that was high school. Now I'm in college and the people I'm surrounded with have they same level of intellect; however, I still dawdle into my delusions of grandeur. My mind makes a scenario: "Go ahead to talk her, get to know her you know you are the dude that is more than he appears" and to me it is not any other person. It's the only one you see in that room every time they pop their heads in. Friends also say just talk, this has worked... ;however, I cannot find a sort of common ground with women. As if I do not know them enough, I talk about myself often, or questions are answered with "yes, no, or mhm". I have plenty of friends. Both men and women. But with the women, I do not have the friendly relationship as with them as I do with the bros.

My advice I ask is. How do I become more personable with the girls. Im not trying to hook up. Im trying to be a friend. Not a person who you say hi to and then express a synopsis of the time being and problems. I want to have a relationship with them like having drunk talk with the bros or when your high and talk about random stuff and not have things be awkward or I have to try so hard to talk to them as if it were one of the dudes.

If you would like to know more about my previous relationships with girls just ask. You can ask about "God Girl", "The Hopeless Romantic", and the "I love my 'X' still" if you need a more in depth description of what I have done wrong.

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<bot>: I have been in the friends zone with girls; however, It gets awkward and we don't talk very much afterward and I can't hold conversations with them like the bros. What can I do to actually be a friend?