<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

This girl had recently (4 months earlier) ended it with her bf of 3 years so she was still not ready for anything serious when we started dating. Sure this sounds simple - shes not ready move on - and I guess it is but I feel like both of us hit it off really well and she was a bit caught off guard - she didn't really expect to find someone like me.

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When she finally ended it we talked for a long time and I came away being more mad than sad/upset. I think as things progressed she became more and more aware she just wasn't ready. What pisses me off the most is that I'm not mad *at her* at all. I feel like she is throwing away something great but at the same time I realize she's not ready and is doing the right thing. 

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Saying goodbye to her was one of the more difficult things I've had to do and I know it was just as hard for her. I feel like I should be telling her she's an idiot and fighting for her but I know there is nothing I can do to change what she is going through.

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I don't have any delusions of things magically working out but I was just curious if anyone has been through anything similar and how you got through it. Is there any chance of it working if she is finally ready someday soon? I think right now my biggest fear is that as I start dating again it is going to be really difficult not to compare my date to her. I've never had an ex that I still thought really highly of after. 

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Small sidenote: After re-reading this I realize it might sound like she could just be telling me all this to make me feel better/not hate her. Without a really really long explination or you being there it is hard to explain but I'm fairly certain she was being honest with me.
<bot>: Girl and I really hit it off but she wasn't ready for anything serious due to recent breakup. We talked it out and it was really hard to say goodbye. I need a hug.