<human>: Hello people,

so I have this problem. I haven't had a relationship since I finished school (3 years ago). Until now that is. I've been seeing this girl since early November. We're both in uni. We met through common friends. All of us used to hang out together. We still do. 

So this girl just came to town this academic year and had a relationship back at home. We've spent some time together, had fun, it seemed like the relationship was going smoothly.

But everything changed, when we went home for Christmas break. She became distant and when we came back I could see that something was bothering her. When asked what's wrong, she would say 'nothing'?

So I've finally worked up the nerve to confront the problem. I was afraid of losing her. She said that she still has feelings for someone else. I had a worry that something like this would happen, when I started seeing her not that long after her breakup.

The problem that I have is what should I do? Do I give her space and time, be nice, comforting and hope that she develops feelings for me. Or do I just move on and forget about it? 

I feel unsure, because I really like her as a person, so ideally I would like to stay friends with her, but if I'm always going to think "what would've happened if I stuck around?" i think that's gonna be hard. 

I also feel that if I manage to get her over her ex and with me, it would be a huge boost to my confidence. I got sick of losing and doing nothing about it.

Am just being selfish?

Thank You

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<bot>: GF of few months still has feelings for her ex. Wait for her to get over or move on and learn to be single again?