<human>: My girlfriend of half a year has a lot of guy friends - some of which she's very close to - which shouldn't really upset me at all because I trust her.

But no matter how much I rationalise it and really try to not feel upset by it - it always really gets to me when she spends heaps of time with other guys.

It's not that I'm being super clingy and want all of her attention all of the time, I think it's just the nature of what she does with other guys that gets to me - even though, once again, it shouldn't.

I mean, today she took one of her best guy friends with her to see some of her family. I was in class and so she knew I couldn't come, but... that still feels weird. She always goes out to get coffee/brunch with other guys she knows, or even just drives to a quiet beach with them.

Now I've been resisting write about this here for a while because I know I'm being unreasonable, but the whole taking guy friend to see family thing has me feeling really down and I just want to source from other people's experience:

1/ Should I tell her how uncomfortable it makes me feel?

2/ Should I just continue to suck it up.

What do you think would be healthiest for our relationship? Because I really, really like her and I think she feels the same and I don't want to stuff anything up.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Girlfriend spends a lot of time with other guy friends, and even though I know its stupid to feel upset about it, I can't help feeling upset.