<human>: To begin, I recently got together with a girl who got out of a bad relationship not too long ago. The guy was rude, and pressured her to have sex when she wasn't comfortable. I've known her for many years, and we've finally decided to try us. I've wanted this for many years in the back of my mind, and so has she, buy we've never really persued it. 

Fast forward a week, and were at the movies. I'm trying to balance a mess of ideas in my head - how fast should I go, how should I do it, Im having a good time is she, etc. I end up going for a hand hold, but admittedly it was late into the movie. We've talked about it since then, she said she enjoyed herself and the gesture, but teased it took me until the last 10 minutes if the movie. 
 
My question lies in this - with her last boyfriend, they were very physical. I think she wants me to go faster because of this (not sex, obviously). I am mostly asking am I reading the signs right, and if so, how should I approach our second date? Where is a good place to go that would end in kissing?  What kind of physical moves or gestures can I make that will mean more?

Bonus: if its worth anything, we talked about our 'kinks/fetishes'. We both 100% respect and she even teases me with mine.

Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?
<bot>: I like a girl, she likes me, I think she wants me to make more moves. What can I do to keep the relationship flirty?