<human>: She's 21 and I'm 19[M]. I've wanted to date her for as long as I can remember, but stopped myself from ever asking her out because she's had a boyfriend for most of the time I've known her.

She's always treated me differently than a casual "buddy" would.. She compliments my looks all the time, plays with my hair and touches me for no reason, snuggles close to me on the couch, calls me pet names, says "I love you" etc.. She says things like "never leave me" and tells me that I'm hers, as if we we're dating.. From every indication, it seemed like she wanted to date me.

A couple months ago, she got into a relationship with a new guy, after breaking up with her boyfriend of 4 years. I told her how I felt about her and she said that she'd been really into me for a while, but "put it in the back of her head", thinking I only liked her as a friend.

A couple weeks ago, she broke up with her newest boyfriend. Since she already knew how I felt about her and knowing how much I wanted to be with her, I finally asked her out. She told me that I didn't want to be with her because she ruins relationships.. She said that she only fucks things up and that the last person she wants to make miserable is me.

Now, she has a new boyfriend. I just don't understand why she would make it seem like she wanted to be with me when clearly, she had no intention of doing so. Please help me understand this situation.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: She makes it seem like she wants to be with me. I ask her out. She says I don't want her.