<human>: My girl and I have been together for a few years, and she's frequently fighting with me about silly things. A few times a week. 99% of the time, she's not thinking logically about what she's fighting with me about, and she's allowing her emotions to go with it, and the moment I explain everything to her logically, it all makes sense to her, and she understands. By the time we get to the ends of these arguments, she realises that she's at fault ,and ends up apologising. Her constant "being wrong" in fights is unpleasant for her, of course. 

During these fights, she treats me awfully, and speaks to me badly, saying nasty things sometimes. She doesn't treat anyone else she knows the way she treats me, and after the arguments, she's always so sorry for how she treated me. 

Sometimes she'll even look for things for me to be wrong about, and bring those into an existing fight as well. 

Example: The other day, I told her that I had a meeting that afternoon. She was upset with me for arranging that meeting because I had apparently promised I would spend the day with her. I don't recall telling her that, but my memory is awful. Later on, I realised that she had arranged to spend the whole morning of that very day with her brother, BEFORE we had had this argument. So despite me apparently having said that we would spend the day together, she had planned to see her brother, and in her mind, that was acceptable, but I was an asshole for arranging a meeting that afternoon. In my mind, she had done the very thing she was upset with me for doing. Right?

This is just one of many examples. My point is really that she fights with me frequently about silly, silly things, and it's starting to drive me insane. 

I will say this - she's a lovely girl, and I want to marry her, but I don't want THIS to be my marriage.

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<bot>: My girl fights with me all the time about silly things. She treats me badly when she does, and she always ends up apologising afterwards anyway. How do I deal with this.