<human>: Hello, throwaway account because that's how I roll.

So my long-distance girlfriend had this cat for 15 or so years and then one day it gets sick and dies. I knew it was going to die from her description of what it was doing (not eating, being slow, not responding) but of course I pretended it was going to be okay to placate her.

Girlfriend and I talk **every day** on Skype etc and text each other all the time. We're really close for an LDR couple. I'm the first guy she slept with, so yeah.

She gets busy with her work a lot and because I'm some loser dumbass I get bored and feel I'm a bit too clingy with her, but after the cat died she just totally fucking ignores me. She spoke to me, uh, twice yesterday, I think? I haven't heard anything from her today at all. Sent her a couple of texts with no replies, messaged her on Facebook a few times - no replies; she hasn't been on Skype as far as I know. This has been ongoing for probably about two or three weeks. It sucks.

I feel like a dick because I'm not really an animal person; the last pet I had was a Guinea pig and when it died I said, "shit happens" and buried it in the garden with no further fucks given.

So her cat dies and then she decides she can't be bothered to talk to me. I haven't done anything different or anything wrong; it's like she's just given up on me since it died. She has, however, been spending a lot more time with her *male* friends much to my chagrin. I get annoyed with this but as I understand they are just *friends* who aren't exactly her type (tall, clingy, emos are her type, apparently).

Do I just wait this out or try and talk to her about it?

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<bot>: girlfriend's cat died and now she doesn't seem to want to talk to me, but seems to spend a lot more time with her male friends instead.