<human>: So we (Girlfriend[21] Me[24])have been dating for about 10 months more or less. I honestly can say I love her, but at times she would tear up and cry at things I say or my actions. Either it's harsh or not, she'll tear up. This is a part of the relationship I really don't like. I'm not sure if it's because of her parents bickering at her and to what I see it as, bring her self-esteem down, but I want to know if there is anyway I can change this for her. 

Every time she has her tearing episodes, I tell her to stop and she would say something along the lines of "I can't control it, if I could, I would." I try my best to watch what I say, but sometimes I would blurt out something that would make her upset like this. I don't understand where this is all coming from and this is the first girlfriend I've had that's this sensitive.

Also, when I do get upset, I bring it up to try and have it resolved and it somehow turns into an argument. Which then gets squashed with her telling me to stop talking about it and talk about another subject.

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Gf has tearing/crying episodes when I say something anything that's remotely harsh. Gf also doesn't like resolving issues, rather wants to stop the conversation and talk about something else.