<human>: Obvious throw away

I'm a 24 year old male studying to be a clinical psychologist, and she is a 24 year old primary school teacher who lives two hours away from me.

We met about a year ago when she joined as a dancer for a musical theater company I play drums for. There was the normal flirtatious eye contact and so forth, and at the cast party 3 months later we hooked up for the first time. Since then we have been sleeping together semi regularly, but it dies off when a production finishes, and picks up when we start a new production. 

Recently it's picked up more than previous and we spoke briefly about our feelings and we both said that we have feelings for each other, and not really had feelings this strong before. The thing that really gets to me is I have no idea why I feel this way. Other than having sex I rarely, if ever, see her one on one, she uses her career (teacher) and sporting commitments to be too busy, and if we do talk one on one we talk about the current of past production we are doing. We have almost nothing in common as well (other than musical theater), she doesn't like that I play computer games, that I spend time on reddit, she doesn't like any of my movies, she doesn't even like star wars. 

As of two nights ago she said that she is moving to the city (closer to me) as she is changing schools, and asked what that would do to our relationship. We've always had an agreement that we weren't exclusive, but I get horribly jealous if she is talking about other boys, let alone having been with one, and I haven't been with a girl other than her since we met. 

In all honesty I don't know why I'm writing this, maybe I just needed a vent to someone with no relevance to the situation. 

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<bot>: is; How do I deal with such mutually strong feelings for someone that I hardly know, when she is distant both geographically and emotionally?