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So as the title says, I don't really know if I should tell my boyfriend about my abuse (sexual and mental). The topic was broached a tiny bit, but I didn't go into full detail because I wasn't ready and I don't know if he should really know.

It has caused issues in my sex life, such as I am uncomfortable with passionate sex. I want to be able to have passionate, loving sex instead of having just rough sex all the time. I'm not saying that rough sex can't be loving, it's just that in my mind, rough sex doesn't constitute "love". 

I also would like for him to about this because I'm afraid if I don't, the relationship won't last long. I trust this guy and I do love him. I want to give him the respect of knowing what happened to me....since I haven't gotten into full detail with any of my past boyfriends.
<bot>: I was sexually abused when younger and it still effects me to this day. I do not know if I should tell my boyfriend or even how to tell him.