<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

I started to date a girl about two years ago. She's great and everything was awesome.  We had sex like rabbits and we're great together.  

Not very far into the relationship she realized she was pregnant when I was on vacation with my buddies. Didn't tell Me on my vacation till I got back home. She told me she had a miscarriage and I consoled her and we talked about it alot. 

Our sex life has been horrible if not non existent since that happened.  About a year ago.

About 3 months ago I'm cleaning up some shit in the house and find a doctors appointment from way back for an abortion. That was quite the shock for me.  Wondering why she lied about it? Anyways we talked and I got the feeling that it's a hard decision and didn't wanna put that pressure on me which is understandable. I consoled her again and we got through it. 

Now it's been a full year since that has happened and she has absolutely no interest in sex or any kind of intimacy.  I bring it up and ask her what's going on and talk to me about it but she said she's fine. Which I get the feeling she actually is fine.  I try to spice things up by texting her dirty stuff and saying sexy comments but no replies that intruige her.

I feel bad about bringing the sex situation up with her cause she ends up getting upset so I leave it alone for a while.  One Month, two month,  three months now and I have not said anything to intice her into sex......what the fuck am i to do here. It's so frustrating,  I tell her she's beautiful everyday, slap her ass,  help out when I can.  I feel like I'm not asking for much and it's tearing us apart.
<bot>: girlfriend got pregnant.  Told me miscarriage. She. Got an Abortion and it's ruined our sex life and I need advice