<human>: So i've been seeing a girl for about 3 weeks now, we've gone out a total of four times and we have great chemistry and always have a fun time. We've managed to keep it at a slow pace and fairly casual which I have quite enjoyed. Last night was our 4th date and the first time we kissed. 

So far I think we have had good open communication and have both shared things that neither of us were entirely proud of or secrets that we may not share with anyone. We talked briefly last night about the expectations that each of us have, I wanted to ensure we were on a similar page to avoid any confusion. She will be leaving to do a term abroad this January and may not be back until the end of the summer so we established we would continue to keep it casual until after she returned.

She knows my relationship experience (and experience with girls in general) is extremely limited and she finds my lack of knowledge 'cute'. I know the relationship will continue to get more physical over as we progress but the one thing constantly on my mind is that i'm a virgin.

Being a male virgin in north american culture is certainly... odd. I always valued my virginity and didn't want to lose it in high school or just a one night stand. In university I never got a strong enough of a connection to a girl to pursue anything so the option never came up. I want to let her know but i'm also afraid of how she'll perceive it or what may come of it. I'll be seeing her on wednesday, should I make it a point of conversation and put everything on the table so she knows? Or should I continue to hide it?

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<bot>: Being dating a girl for 3 weeks now and we get along great and this could have potential. Slight hiccup, i'm a virgin and don't know how to go about telling her as the relationship gets more physical?