<human>: I am 26yo, M, decently good looking, a bit nerdy and a bit shy. Still hold my V card (gosh). Obviously not very good at relationships - over time I began to kind of get scared and distance myself when things get interesting with a girl. I don't particularly enjoy being alone, but I can enjoy myself anyway, so I am not the desperate type. 

I met this girl by chance a month ago. Same age. She's great. She's funny, unpredictable and blunt - which is great because I don't feel like having to be 'nice', but I can just be myself. Also, I find her to be pretty hot..

One night she asks me to stop by at her place. When I get there she's alone and she takes a bottle of rhum out the closet. To make it short, we had a great time. Well, sure as hell I did, and I think her too. 

But *no sex,* while she almost literally spelled out 'sleep with me'.

She must think I'm gay or a hopelessly shy for not trying to get in her pants - and, despite my fear of admitting it being my first time, another issue I need to tackle and dread - I *really* wanted to.

At the same time, since I honestly like her and she likes me too, also given my skills (or lack of there of) and my streak of clumsy fuck-ups with the opposite sex, maybe it was not such a bad idea to take it slowly and get to know each other better first? On the other hand I'm pretty sure I won't be able to do the same thing again without her punching me in the nuts or something.

How can I approach this? What should I do?

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<bot>: Girl fancies me but I am a shy virgin. I would like somebody to give me some advice about how to approach the whole situation.