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I've [30M] am dating a [27F] and it's been going really great. I enjoy my time with her, she's really outgoing and fun and intelligent. Tonight is date 7 in 35 days (she was away for two weeks during early July, so haven't seen her as much as I'd like.)    

So, sex. Uh, I find her really attractive and would like to have sex with her. Seven dates and a month of dating is not like it's way overdue and I'm not looking to force her to up the ante before she is ready to. However, instead of heading in that direction, the last few dates seem to be heading the other way. Instead of letting me pick her up, she has been wanting to meet me at the place we are going to. It seems like she's only "available" the nights before she needs to be up "super early" for something and wants to get home. Last time, we left the venue to get a drink and as soon as we got outside she changed her mind, made out with me for five minutes on the sidewalk next to her car, and said she had to go home. She often comes up with ideas on what to do, and declines ideas that might bring us close to her/my house.  

I have absolutely no problem waiting if that's what she needs. However, I'm a sexual being and am not willing to be in a relationship where sex doesn't start at some point. I'm not getting the "clues" that she is interested in doing anything past putting her tongue down my throat.  

Ladies, how do you signal that you are/aren't ready to become sexual with your partner? Are my partner's actions something to worry about if I'm looking for a sexual relationship?  

Guys, any thoughts on things to do/say to get her to say where she's at? I'm struggling to come up with a better idea than asking her if she wants to "go back to her place and do it" as we finish dinner tonight.
<bot>: Want to sex girl I'm dating. Girl I'm dating isn't giving traditional clues that she wants to sex. Help me understand if this relationship will become intimate.