<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

For years in our relationship, I've always been the far cleanlier one.  I did most of the dishes/laundry/cleaning, etc.  Slowly, over the course of the last few, it's hit downright extremes.  My wife will literally not throw away any garbage, will fling clothes out of her dresser on to the floor when looking for things, will spill food and not clean it up.  Literally, if I didn't clean, the house would be roach infested and you wouldn't be able to walk through it. 

To make matters worse, she gets extremely defensive any time the issue is remotely brought up, no matter how gentle the fashion.  Any time I suggest we clean together, she gets very upset and claims that she's too busy (or she will clean the bedroom...which merely entails her trying on clothes for hours and actually creating more of a mess).  I've brought it up in couples therapy too.  Her tactic is to either change the topic, say she's trying to do better but I don't give her a chance (I honestly rarely bring it up...maybe once a month).  In addition, she very often chides me for putting things away because she "left them out for a reason" and even bitches to people in mutual conversation about this fact (thing include putting scraps of paper strewn about various tables and the floor in a pile, putting her jewelry back in it's case from where it was laying on the floor, etc.  I'm not exaggerating). 

Recently, it's become a far greater issue.  I have a medical condition that requires that I be put on some pretty intense immunosuppressants.  So seeing things like moldy plates under the couch or dog shit tracked onto the carpets goes from being a huge annoyance to an actual important medical issue. 

I'm at my wit's end.  She is a complete and utter slob and so defensive about it that the issue can't even be addressed.  I'm out of ideas!
<bot>: Wife is enormous slob who gets uber defensive any time the subject is broached.  The issue has gotten far worse even since being discussed in therapy.  Due to my medical condition, there are now health consequences behind it.