<human>: First off, I just started seeing someone, so it is not like I have accomplished anything on my issues. 

But I have had serious issues in my relationship with her and my previous SOs. I have known for a while I needed professional help to get over some or most of them, and haven't really done anything. 

She stopped talking to me a few weeks ago after I wrote some very nasty, unwarranted, and abusive text messages to her. This isn't the first time she has stopped talking to me. I know not talking to me anymore was the right thing, and I have done a good job respecting her wishes.

But I want her to know I am getting help and making changes is important to me, even if it far too little, far too late. I miss her a lot, so that is a motivation as well.

Should I write her a quick e-mail letting her know I am getting help? or something else? Or continue to respect her wish not to talk to me.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: Was abusive to my SO, she didn't want to talk to me anymore, just started getting help, should I tell her?