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*Was told to cross post this over here for better advice probably*

Hey everyone! [19F] here. My ex [23M] and I broke it off about a month ago. I'm pretty sure it was mutual but I was just so furious I forgot a lot of details. It was a long distance relationship that was only going on for about 3 months but it moved very quickly. This was the first relationship I had been in since my high school sweetheart.

I'm wondering when I could possibly try talking to him again. I've asked my friends but they all seem to say, "Let him come to you", and I really just don't agree with that. I'm a very blunt, forward person and don't like beating around the bush. Then the question of if I should even talk to him again comes into play. We broke up because he was working longer hours and it got to be where we would only have brief conversations at night before he would go to bed and when he was driving home. I honestly didn't have a problem with it but it was stressing him out (still can't figure out why). He said it would be better if we broke up now than be arguing about it all the time later on. I'm starting to wonder if it's a "convenience" thing and I don't want to just be there when you need it.

He mentioned that we could try again some other time but at the beginning of the relationship he said he doesn't take breaks. So I'm really conflicted whether I should try to talk to him or not at all. What do you all think?
<bot>: How long should I wait before I[19F] try to contact my ex[23M] in a friendly manner or should I just let it go and never talk to him again?