<human>: Hi Guys. We dated for a year and 3 months, were engaged for a little while, we're in our early 20s. Went through a back and forth situation for a long time, finally in early november called it quits. We cut all contact from eachother and began talking to old friends and trying the dating scene. He had some success with a girl, but he won't tell me any details and frankly I don't want to know because it doesn't pertain to right now.

I should be clear that it was mutual in the end, but he was always the one who wanted out for a few reasons: commitment issues, he was afraid of losing his emotional stability, etc

I went on a few dates with a guy who was a real gentlemen, we got along great but I couldn't stop thinking about the ex.  I realize that it takes a while to get over someone.  I guess I was hoping for the classic rebound to jumpstart my healing process, though it never actually works like you want it to.

I contacted my ex just last week in regards to something of ours that got mailed to my house.  It was something we had both invested a bit of money into so when we broke we agreed it would be okay to talk about that when it came in the mail.

Long story short, we're back together.

We're not talking constantly, we're not sleeping together every night.  Things are different.  But in the same way...nothing is different.  And I have yet to tell people we're together.  I feel something will change before the news reaches anyone. 

Do you think it was too soon? Do you think a month of no contact is enough to heal wounds?  Is getting back together a bad idea altogether?
 I would like any comments anyone has on getting back together after a breakup like this, the more blunt the better.

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<bot>: Getting back together after a breakup with absolutely no contact (a month long), any insight into this kind of situation or just your feedback after reading my story would be great, I am scared..