<human>: I live and work in a place where meeting new people is tough, but I ended up meeting a great girl about a month ago. Now we never made anything official, but we got along great and I thought we were moving towards that point.
  
Now about a week ago, she started getting really distant and I could tell something was up. We went most of the week not talking, but we ended up getting lunch earlier today where essentially she said "I like you, but I'm not looking for a relationship right now because I'm not a relationship person." I said that I wasn't sure what I wanted out of this and my plan was just to have fun and see where it went, to which she replied that she really couldn't see it going any further.

I really don't mean to make anything more out of this than was there, but it sucks because I really *do* like this girl, and I'm not sure that I want to give up on trying to get her. But that said, I don't know that I can just be friends with her as that wouldn't be fair to her (because I would have an ulterior motive)

So my questions are this. 1) Should I do anything more to try to make something happen here, or should I just let it go and move on? 2) And this one is weird, but assuming I don't pursue this any further do I ask her specifically why things didn't work out? That's really blunt and awkward, but it might be interesting to know for the future with someone else.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Hung out with girl for a while, she said she didn't want it to go any farther, not sure what to do now