<human>: This is not really a question so I apologize for that but I felt like I needed to pay it forward a little bit to the community for helping me out when I needed some perspective.

 A while back I posted here seeking help in my relationship. Things were never really at risk of falling apart but I was definitely feeling like I was slowly losing this one because of silly actions on both our parts. I was definitely too jealous of a person, too clingy, and too insecure. On the flipside, I felt like there was nothing I could ever do to make her care for me and love me and just generally be as crazy about me as I was for her. 

Essentially, you all gave me some tough love and told me to get a damn hobby, grow a pair of cojones, and stop putting so much pressure on her by putting all my eggs in her basket. 

I tried to take that advice and it changed everything. I can't say I've necessarily completely changed. I definitely have those jealous tendencies still. But I have learned to take a step back for some perspective and to give her some space she needed. I love her so much and it was so worth it. She really started giving me the love and respect and care I always wanted to feel from her and I realized that I just needed to give her some room to breathe so that the love could grow naturally. 

I think if you guys didn't tell me off a little I would have just let something so nice stagnate to the point of no return. You guys helped me out and I am really grateful to the community for giving this relationship some renewed spice and vigour.

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<bot>: I came to you all for help a while back and things have gotten better and I forced myself to do some soul searching. Thank you all!