<human>: This gray area of dating is very new territory for me, so maybe I just sound naive? Idk. This started on Tinder - we started sleeping together after a few dates. She seems way more into it than I am. I also know that loneliness during the summer made me settle for someone I really don't connect with very much - physically or emotionally. So, I'm ready to tell her I don't think we should keep seeing each other. I've only ever been in long-term relationships without the gray area of not really being bf/gf or explicitly committed. She's fun I guess, but that's really about it. I have a lot on my plate every day now with my family opening a business soon and this being my last semester or two of college and I really need to gracefully back out of this quasi-relationship thing. I had told her earlier this week that I would go to her place Friday night (tonight, depending on when you're reading this). Should I tell her this before I go there? Is text acceptable for that? Should I show up in person as planned only to break out the bad news instead?

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<bot>: I'm looking for a polite way to tell someone there's a mismatch in commitment level and interest is fading on my end, so I'm not very interested in continuing, when I'm probably a good two weeks late doing so.