<human>: After a year and a half of living together, my girlfriend and I had to move to different areas for work. I visited her about once every three to four weeks for 4 days. She visited me once. After six months, she revealed that she had been unfaithful on at least four occasions and betrayed my trust. We tried to work it out, I accepted it and we moved on. We planned for me to move out there in 5 months and I would visit more often as would she.

A week later, she went radio silence and then emailed me to tell me she had cheated on me again and that she just wasn't ready for a serious relationship. 

I'm having trouble getting over her. It's been two months of no-contact, removed her from my life. But, I'm still struggling with the following four things:

1) I have significant trust issues. I don't know if I can trust someone again. My parents were abusive and the gf before this basically lied to me non-stop for two years. I don't know how to begin trusting people again.

2) How do I get over her and become independent again? This is someone I planned on buying a house with, who I had planned presents for for the next three years. Someone who I was completely open with and had no secrets from. I don't know how to go back to lying to people or just being alone all the time. I've been just messing around on the internet lately and doing lots of work.

3) I feel incredibly inadequate with physical intimacy and deeply self-conscious. I can't even fantasize without thinking of her and the acts (unfortunately, I saw pictures of the people she cheated on me with as well as...pictures of the acts themselves).

4) How do I find someone good? After being abused for too many years, I really just want to find someone calm and loyal. Someone who I can trust to not force me into patterns of abusive behavior (now that I've realized I have these tendencies).

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<bot>: I'm having difficulty moving on from a breakup that ended in repeated affairs. How do I regain self-confidence, trust in others, my independence and plan for the future to avoid similar situations.