<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

We were together for about 1.5 years. Here are the circumstances. Ex-boyfriend (M25) and I (F25) went on a friendly coffee outing and he started putting his hand on my thigh. I didn't say anything, though he knew I was seeing someone else. When I was about to drop him off he asked if he could show me a new song he wrote on his guitar. I said sure, as long as no funny business happened. When we got to his apartment, he pulled my shirt down and started sucking on my breasts and I said "no" at least three times before giving in. Since then we slept together a couple more times before I told him we were done. Things have also escalated, and I ended up having to file an anti-harassment order against him, but he's contending it and trying to have it vacated due to us continuing to sleep with each other, despite the first time not completely consensual.
<bot>: I said no to sex but gave in eventually. Is it rape or abuse if you (F26) first say no, then give in?