<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

They say it 'flies in the face of their beliefs and experiences' and that we should just let go of the past and move forward. We on the other hand need to hear that our issues are understood. We are more than willing to hear their issues too, of course. We just want to talk. 

For us we cannot even have a relationship with them at this point unless they are willing to talk it out. Them not willing to do so hurts because it seems they don't care to be part of our lives and our two children's (2F and 6 mos F).
<bot>: parents won't talk to me and my wife about some issues we have with our relationship even though it may mean the death of our relationship.