<human>: I was with my boyfriend for 9 months at the time when I discovered he was cheating on me with a girl that he used to be involved with before me. I gave him a second chance immediately after I found out because I truly believed he was sorry and I am In love with him without a doubt. However I offered no consequence to the fact that he had made a mistake and let things persist without actually dealing with the underlying issues. We recently broke up because the fights were getting unbearable and we could hardly stand each other anymore. However I do have the hope that we can some day be together after we both get our space and figure out how to deal with our issues. I want to get past him cheating but when I get angry that is all I think about and I want to trust him I honestly do but I dont know how to let go of all this negativity. 

I need help. Since weve broken up Ive been a mess and although I know it is necessary I dont know how to deal with all these emotions. Am I dumb for having hope that maybe we will be together again? Should I move on? He hasnt told me he wants to get back together, in fact he told me he needed the spaced to figure out how to be more patient and figure out where his anger was stemming from. I dont want to assume that he doesnt care because I know he loves me, I just dont know how long it will take for him to realize if this is what he wants.
Im just really confused about everything and dont know how to deal with any of it. Help.

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<bot>: Boyfriend cheated I forgave him. We broke up and now I dont know how to move past cheating, or if i should move on in general.