<human>: For some reason, she has not wanted to have sex yet. She's had one night stands and everything in the past with idiots that she didn't even like. Here we are in a serious relationship and she keeps saying she wants to wait. It's making me feel ridiculously undesirable and negatively impacting my self-esteem. We have oral sex all the time. She can't get enough of oral sex, so its not like she is asexual or something.

She keeps saying "It'll happen soon" but it never happens. It's getting to the point where I'm starting to seriously consider cheating as a way to spite her. I really like her, and don't want it to come down to that.

Anyone been in a situation related to this before?

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<bot>: Me and my gf of almost a year haven't had sex yet and its making me feel undesirable. She loves oral but for some reason has held out on piv. Don't know what to do.