<human>: To keep things short, I am a competitive athlete and as such I'm usually in pretty good shape. That being said, I haven't had success dating women related to sports or fitness, so my gf is a polar opposite. But all of my long-term relationships dating back 5 years or so have always led to body image issues, some of which had contributed to ending the relationship. My current relationship is great in many ways, but my GF has pretty poor body image and self-esteem; Understandably, I don't expect anyone to be perfectly happy with their body...I'm definitely not.

Basically I feel like I am in a situation where I can't win. My girlfriend (and those past) vocalizes her envy of me and what I look like even though I am adamant about my support of her body; I compliment her and tell her how attractive i think she is as often as possible. I think of myself as being supportive of her weight-loss goals, but I am also very careful to not be overbearing, guilt her, or do anything to upset her when it comes to diet or exercise. When she asks for help, I help; when she doesn't, I don't or help very passively.

Several situations have occurred where I ask completely innocent questions about her day or what she's doing and she thinks I'm backhandedly insulting her. I hate being in this situation where I can't win.

Can someone provide me with some insight or advice into how I can deal with situation and avoid repeating my past?

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<bot>: GF is insecure about body image/weight. Accuses me of submissively insulting her or finding her unattractive.