<human>: A few months ago, I had a... thing with a girl. Basically, we'd get together at night and fuck, cuddle, fall asleep and fuck some more she'd GTFO with all possible haste the following morning (her preference). Nothing serious, but I did like her a lot. We never knew each other well enough for me to fully justify this claim, but she's likely in the top 95% of people I've met in my life, all things considered.

Anyway, I awoke one beautiful Sunday morning to my phone.

She said that although she had said that she wasn't in a good place for a relationship, she had in fact recently met someone with whom she wanted to be in a relationship. I think the implication was no more fucking, but didn't ask.

WHOMP.

In my half-asleep state I said something inane like "good luck with your life" or something to that effect. She said that I was "nice."

WHOMP.

And hung up. The 'conversation' was no more than a minute long.

Anyway, from that moment:

Cut all contact-- Check.

Delete facebook-- Don't use that dumb shit. Check.

Hit the gym-- I'm a grad student. Hit the lab. And a lot more biking.

Get some random ass-- check*N for some  4<N<9

Unfortunately, while I was doing pretty well avoiding thinking about her for a few months, recently I have started thinking about her again.

More than anything, I'm really unsatisfied with our last interaction and would like a semblance of closure to the matter-- whatever that means. Honestly, it includes a desire to verbally shit on her a little bit (for reasons including ones not discussed above). I'm fully aware of fuckbuddy etiquette, but it still seemed a little harsh.

Anyway, what are peoples' opinions on the timeframe for getting in touch after things end? Any way to do it that's effective, doesn't sound desperate/clingy etc.?

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<bot>: somebody with whom I had a little bit of a connection cut things off very abruptly a few months ago; too late to get in contact with her?