<human>: The short version: We've been dating for about a year but were friends and dated in our teenage years. I'm divorced and have small children. We are now living together. He has never been married and likes to go out to the bar with his friends. He used to go out every Friday and stay out till 2/3A but he is now only going out every other Friday and staying out till a reasonable time. Now, I don't get to go out often because I have the kids but here's where I need some advice. 

When I tell him I'd like to go out with him and his friends, he says the evening starts out with him playing video games at a friends house till around 10, 11, or even 12. Then they venture out to the bars to hang out with their other male and female friends. So basically, he insinuates there's no reason for me to go out earlier in the night. He makes it clear that I have no reason to hang out with him and his friend but he doesn't say I can't come out later. But remember how I have kids? Well, I told him point blank that I would appreciate it if he could sometimes tell his friend that his gf wants to also hang out so could they skip the video games and head out? He didn't agree to do that and it really hurt my feelings.

What really got to me is we both took Friday off and he said he wanted to go out Thursday. When I said I'd like to come and I'd get a babysitter, he alluded to the fact the sitter probably wouldn't be able to do a week night. Now this is probably true so I suggested we go out Friday or Saturday instead and he wasn't budging. I told him I feel like he's purposely setting up obstacles so that I can't go out with him and his friends.

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<bot>: Tried to explain to my bf I feel like he purposely doesn't want me to go out with him and his friends. My feelings are hurt. He's not getting it.