<human>: We met few months ago, we clicked, felt in love etc... It's been so good, we have a great relationship, we respect each other differences and opinion, we communicate a lot, great sexual chemistry and also our hobbies match most of the time, the rest we deal with it. The last few months have been amazing, I never really felt that connected before... I have been in very long relationships before (up to 7 years) and I know this one is good... here's my problem, sometimes I am worried that I am lying to myself, that my happy hormones are hiding the truth?

but I am also worried that he doesn't really know what is good for him as it's his first serious relationship. So I just feel bad he is not going to explore more, figure out by failing what is good or not but also I am also worried that he is going to find a younger, fitter [insert better phenotype here] and leave me...

So reddit how do I lower those voices into my head, and also what do you think about a 8 years gap?

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<bot>: 8 years gap,everything is good and I am the old one so worried about him missing the fun part of life (aka figuring out what he likes)!