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We are both 22 and we have been dating for 6 years. 
When we were in high school everything was good, we both just had to concentrate on getting good grades.
When we graduated things started to change, he became extremely lazy and apathetic. I decided to attend community college with him (my parents pay for my college which im extremely thankful for), I helped him fill out scholarship and FASFSA stuff and he got a grand which he ended up wasting because he decided he didn't want to attend school and ended up failing every single class. Fast forward and I leave he begs me to not leave him and I tell him his life plan can't be to just work at pizza hut all his life (which was seriously his life plan) he joined the army but ended up not passing his PT tests. Im about to graduate, thinking about moving to another country and he is still there, all he does is wake up, play video games, hang out with friends and sleep, he has no job, he has no plans of going to college, he is just THERE.
He gets mad every time I try to talk to him about it he says he just wants to have fun now and worry about everything else when the time comes, he says he wants to live life without responsibilities while he waits for his passion to get to him. In his mind, life is crap anyways and there is no way you can be happy as long as you are working because you will never find a job you like.
I want to help him because his apathy also gets to me, whenever I tell him what I think are exciting news or plans he answers with an apathetic "that's cool" .
Is there a way of helping him even if it seems he doesn't want to be helped?
is there anything I can do?
<bot>: Boyfriend seems to not care about anything and that is getting in the way of our relationship and both of our happiness.