<human>: I'm 23 and just got out of a 6 month relationship. My previous relationship lasted 2 years, my one before that lasted 3 years with a couple other shorter relationships mixed in, all pretty much back to back.

I think I exhibit the classic signs of being a serial monogamist. I'm really quick to want to be in another relationship after exiting the previous, and when I am single, I don't feel at ease. I would almost always prefer doing something else with a partner than by myself (eating a meal, cooking, watching a movie, going out, etc).

What I would like someone to help me with are the reasons why this behavior might be damaging and overall negative?

From my perspective, I FEEL like I know what I want in a woman so what's bad about going out to try to be with one like that?

Also, is it necessarily bad to not feel at ease when one is single? I feel like when I am in a relationship, I can be pretty mentally stable and not really co-dependent on a partner. Perhaps it's just the validation of knowing I have a partner? I'm not too sure.

To me, it feels like being a serial monogamist is more of a preference, rather than a poor perspective, and somehow, intuitive, I feel like my own thinking is probably bad, but can't figure out why.

Anyways, please go easy on me :( I know there are probably a lot of illogical, stupid things I might have said in the post and would really appreciate someone's help in pointing out how my thoughts can be flawed so I can make positive steps towards becoming a better person.

Thank you.

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<bot>: I'm a serial monogamist but perhaps due to misconstrued logic, I can't seem to figure out on my own why this is bad. Can someone help me?