<human>: I currently go to a university here in Wisconsin. I am a 22 year old male, and in less than a year I will be graduating with a degree in advertising. I am also currently in a relationship and have been for the last 2 years.

Lately things have been pretty good, but for some reason we always get into pointless arguments, almost like she's trying to find reasons to be mad. She is also always looking for reassurance and it's driving me crazy in a way so I recently confronted her. We've broken up two times before which makes me worried and both times have been because she wanted to. I feel like she tends to just run away from problems we are faced in our relationship. 

Sometimes I find myself wondering what it would be like if we weren't together. When we broke up for the second time I was heart broken again, but instead of it lasting a while, I turned out to be happier than ever and really started enjoying life again. Then she came back into my life about 5 months ago and things have been going pretty well since then because she's proved to me a lot of things and I agreed to work on things with her.

My girlfriend has always had a dream to move to NYC and start a life there, of course her and I will be finishing school at the same time. Basically she expects me to go with her even though i've never been there (we plan on visiting this summer) and she has plenty of family that live there, and she's been there countless times.

My concerns: This is MY life and I would be leaving a lot here in the midwest. Sure, the weather isn't the nicest, but my family lives here and a lot of my friends. My parents also live only 30 minutes away from Milwaukee and around 2 hours away from Chicago. I want to live in a city, working at an ad agency or another corporate business somewhere close to home that way I can still be in touch with my family and friends.

So what do I do? Obviously I'll be taking all advice lightly because ultimately it's my choice. My girlfriend seems pretty set on NYC and shows no signs of truly wanting to compromise at all.

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<bot>: Graduating soon, girlfriend wants to move toNYC - I'd rather stay in a city near the midwest for family and friends (not to mention price). I am torn on what to do and how to analyze this.