<human>: I met this girl sophomore year of college two years ago. She is a very shy Asian exchange student who I think is still adjusting to America. I've seen her in my group of friends before once or twice, so I decided to sit down and talk to her and see how she is doing every once in a while. Just as a friend.

I think she interpreted this friendliness as interest on my end. I didn't recognize it at first, but I had suspicions that she was beginning to have feelings for me. I knew she was into me when she invited herself to dinner with me seconds after telling her other friends she wasn't hungry (to their faces, no exaggeration). That was about eight months ago. When she found my SnapChat, she immediately added me as a Best Friend around April of this year. I didn't do the same. She tried to put her hands around me from time to time before we left for this summer break. And during the summer break I got a SnapChat from her with a message saying "I --- you" with an anatomically correct heart drawn in between I and you.

I care for her and love her, but only platonically. I don't have nor will have any interest in her romantically. I'm not attracted to her, and starting a relationship without that mutual attraction will only hurt both of us. But I do want her to find someone to make her happy, I just know it isn't me. And I think she is too shy to address me directly about how she feels, which only make it worse because I fear she may be missing out on so many romantic opportunities in the holdout for me. I really wouldn't want her to leave college like that. I can't control whether she will find someone, but I can at least influence her take on me.

So my question to you all is whether it would be a good idea to sit her down and tell her that I don't feel that way about her, or should I wait for her to try to make a move and let her down honestly?

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<bot>: My very shy friend is into me and I don't feel the same about her. I don't know whether I should tell her first before she ask or whether to wait for her to ask.