<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

My gf and I are both 20 years old (both in college) and our relationship spans half way across the country. We both love each other very much.

We have been fighting a lot recently and came very close to breaking up once or twice in the past two weeks. Both of us are now working very hard on making the relationship work and are doing our best to save it.

The other week while at work, my friends and I were joking about this pregnant girl and I said "I would bang her."

This happened a week ago and recently I felt very guilty about it and told my gf about it. Clearly it was a joke (I emphasized this to my gf), but she is VERY upset about it and wants to break up over this.

Is she over-reacting? Do my actions really warrant a break up?

Any comments/advice greatly appreciated.
<bot>: Gf and I have been fighting a lot, now trying to save relationship, I jokingly said I would bang a pregnant girl and now she wants to break up.