<human>: My friend and I are 29/30 respectively, and we seem to have diverged into different directions over the last few years. When we met, I worked at a pizza place, and she at a diner, and that was just normal for people our age (early 20s).

Over the last few years, my husband and I have shifted dramatically in the job field, all thanks to good networking and the help of a great temp agency he discovered. He's now a buyer, while I have been working in finance. Neither of us have degrees in those fields. It took us a while to pad the resume, but we're finally here. 

Now when I look at her posts on Facebook and she is cashiering at a craft store - I can't help but want to tell her there's more out there, and that she should get a head start on it as early as possible. Of course I know how incredibly condescending this could come off, as well as presumptuous - assuming she can't possibly *enjoy* her life as a cashier.

The thing is, she still dyes her hair vivid unnatural colors, and hangs with people fresh out of high school. I want to recommend her to the agency, but I'm a little afraid it could sour my reputation with them, leaving me SOL if I someday lose what I've got and need placement again.

So, is it worth it? Is there a way to try to help her earn more and start carving out a better future for herself? Or do I just mind my own damn business and let her do what she wants? I **know** I can help her find a better job, but should I risk it? Thanks for any insight.

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<bot>: My friend  is almost 30 and still works crappy jobs, I want to help her find a better one but I don't want to come off like a presumptuous asshole.