<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

My boyfriend overall is not addicted to games everyday of the year but every once in a while will find a game and it becomes a 24/7 marathon of barely eating, barely leave the house, stay up all night before work, think about it all the time, barely see friends or me, etc. I know people enjoy a game here or there sometimes too much, but this is different. He gets extremely more touchy and irate and will basically sometimes temporarily break up with me so he doesn't have to deal with anything in life but his game. This happens for multiple weeks, sometimes even months, until he finally beats the game, gets sick of it, or gets banned for cheating.

When I am used to us hanging out on the weekends and going places and seeing new things and people, then one weekend suddenly he is confined to his apartment and causing fights, I am left feeling lonely, confused, and tossed to the side.

We recently came up with the idea of switching off planning weekends because WE wanted to get out more and travel and meet people. This was more his idea than mine even. This was his weekend to plan but then he found this game last week and that idea went out the window. He didn't plan anything obviously and the only place we've gone is down the block for lunch.

So I am sitting here on a beautiful sunny holiday alone because I didn't make any plans with other friends, typing this while he is in his dark apartment staring into a monitor. What am I supposed to do in this situation?
<bot>: While I want him to have freedom to do his own things, I don't think it is fair to basically check out of your responsibilities when it suits you.