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We've been together for about 3.5 years.  There have been some heavy ups and downs and a 5 month break up but we are still very close.

We are very intimate and have an unnatural connection with each other, never experienced this before in my life.  The problem is that there is no passion in our relationship.  We both find each other attractive but sex just does not work and it hasn't for something to the tune of 2-2.5 years.  

I have a very high libido and am a very sexual person.  I love exploring sex and my sexuality because I believe you become more in tune with yourself when you find your kinks.  My girlfriend has never been interested in sex.  I was her first partner when she was 18 and she's only been with one other person which was during our break (they fought about sex too even though it only lasted a few months).  I've had probably about 2 dozen partners and while to her that's kind of disgusting I don't really find it bad.  Some of them I probably shouldn't have slept with but through all those partners I've became very in tune with myself sexually.

I don't think we are going to meet on a sexual level, ever.  We've talked about it numerous times, tried new things but within a couple weeks it falls back to having sex maybe once every other week, sometimes once a month.  It kills my sexual attraction towards her, there have been times where I've said I'm not in the mood and waited until she went to sleep to masturbate because I have more fun doing that.  The same 10 minute routine and she's done is not working for me.

We are very committed to each other but I am having doubts about the long term because of the lack of passion in our relationship.  I don't want to be with someone for the rest of my life that I don't enjoy having sex with.
<bot>: Intimacy and compassion is present in relationship.  Sex is very mundane, tried working on it multiple times, goes back to same thing.  Making me doubt the long term.