<human>: My relationship recently ended, been together 8months and I'm just confused on how everything played out.  Need some advice on if I went above and beyond like I felt I did or if I should be done more, tried more.

  He worked odd hours at night so one week he would 12hr days 7 days and one week off..I worked typical 9 to 5 but rearranged my schedule to have 2 days off duringthe week every other week to maximize the time we could spend together. He didn't talk on the phone much so we messaged the most we could when we were awake or not working. I really did care for him...tried to make it work.

Yet he thought it was me demanding everything on my schedule of when we got to see each other or talk. I'm just confused on what if anything I should have done instead.

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<bot>: Did I go above and beyond? Trying to determine if by my adjusting my schedule to match as best his schedule is me controlling the relationship or is it just the crappie part of off schedules.