<human>: Long story short, I've got a really high sex drive. I'm confident, know what I want, and I'm not afraid to tell a guy. I'm athletic and love the outdoors, and look for guys that are the same.

My bf of 3 years and I decided to end our relationship after HS graduation when he moved across the country for college. In the year since then I've had a difficult time finding guys that I'd like to be in a relationship with. I've gone out a lot and even dated another guy for a few months but we just weren't compatible.

My friends tell me I should "tone it down," so guys will give me a chance and not automatically think I'm a slut. To be honest, I'm not really sure how to tone it down exactly. I've just got a really flirty, sassy personality and apparently it makes me look slutty. I dress modestly, usually jeans or leggings and a hoodie/tshirt for fucks sake. :( 

I've kind of gotten off topic, but I'm really not sure what I should do. All the guys I've gone out with recently just kind of fizzled out. My friends say that if I quit acting so "sexual" more guys will be interested in me. Does anyone have advice or has been in a similar situation?

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<bot>: friends say I need to tone it down if I want guys to be interested. I'm not sure how to do that or even if its necessary. Advice appreciated.