<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

Throwaway time! 

My SO [26/m] and I [20/f] have been together for almost a year now but started our 200 mile (5 hour drive, or 8 hours+ by train) LDR a couple of months ago. He's just left from spending a long weekend with me and it was quite possibly one of the hardest goodbyes I've ever made in my life. That feeling of watching him drive away down the road and out of sight absolutely tore at me and I've been choking up and crying since. He's got a 5 hour drive ahead of him before I hear he's home safe, but all I've been able to think for the past day is that I want to know where this relationship is going. 

We're both completely committed to the other, and with me having another whole year and a half before I graduate from university (and even then, I'd only be moving 100 miles closer to him) and no end to this LDR in sight, I was wondering if it's wrong of me to want some clarity on what our mutual goals and aspirations re: living together/closer eventually are, especially as he shares a house with his parents, has no intention of leaving his homeland, and yet if I moved to him I'd *potentially* struggle for work due to the language barrier (although I have expressed an interest in learning). Not quite sure how to approach this really, and some advice on the best way to bring these concerns up would be much appreciated.
<bot>: In an LDR with no end in sight. Want to know what our ultimate goals are without seeming clingy. Advice?