<human>: A few months ago I met a very special girl.  She's awesome and I could definitely see myself spending my life with her but was by no means intending on entering the be all end all fully committed rest of life relationship right now.

Everything started off great.  We had compatible schedules, similar views and get along great.  A few times we went to parties and got a bit drunk and she brought up various relationship talks (and since then only wants to have them when we're a bit boozed).

Within 2 weeks I had agreed to be exclusive with bf/gf titles which was not something I would have agreed to sober.  It's something I eventually did want but not right now as everything in my life changed 2 months before meeting her and I wanted some time to enjoy it while not making every decision involving her.  I understand I screwed up here.

She is incapable of living in the moment which is what I NEED right now as I changed my life so I could do that (new job/career & education path).  She wants to plan every single second which drives me crazy and even more so when we do plan things and she always ends up changing her mind at the last moment which makes her planning annoying and unnecessary!

She's talking marriage, babies/lack there of and now keeps pressuring me about moving in together and I am no were near close to ready to move in with her though I said I would consider it one night again when she asked when I was drunk.

As I get to know her friends this is not uncommon for her.

Can I realistically back track or are we incompatible due to differing relationship speeds?  I'm not ready to dive head first into this (and it kind of feels like we're already there and I'm panicking)

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Committed to gf after a few too many drinks.  She's moving way too fast for me. Can I realistically slow this down or are we incompatible?