<human>: Hey everyone. Thanks for taking the time to read this. I'm using a throwaway but will be back to check responses/give anymore information.

I have been dating my boyfriend for two years. We met in college and it took a long time for our relationship to get off the ground, but we've officially been together since October 2012. We're both still in school (older students woohoo) and working full-time jobs.

When I say that our relationship took a long time to get started, I mean it took a LONG time. We've been good friends since we met, but we haven't had much of a physical relationship. I was the one who initiated the first kiss and first couple of makeout sessions.

When we tried to have sex for the first time (about a year ago) he couldn't do it. We stopped for a condom and he just couldn't. So we tried again a few months later and same thing, but I was on birth control so the condom situation wasn't used as an excuse. We didn't have much of a physical relationship after that, but we recently tried again (with condoms since I went off bc) and same thing.

We haven't talked about this. I know that the first thing that you guys suggest will be to talk about this. How do I talk about this? I never expected to have this problem, especially not in my 20s. It is really difficult and scary and I don't want to hurt his feelings or pride.

The other thing is that I have started to not feel attracted to him. It has been so long since I've had sex. I feel attracted to other people, but don't really like it when he touches me or tries to initiate anything. It doesn't feel right. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to get past that?

The last thing is that I think ending the relationship might be a good idea - no sex, lack of attraction, lack of communication - but he is a great boyfriend in every other aspect. I have never been so happy in a relationship and I have not had any relationships that have lasted this long. I am completely confused.

I need help!

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<bot>: Boyfriend has ED. I don't know how to talk about it. I'm not sure if I want to continue the relationship. I don't know how to end the relationship if that is the case.