<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

Pretty simple story.

We met in vegas. Got married a week later. Now 4 years later, she's changed some(I probably have too) and I'm realize I don't love her anymore like I used to and I don't know what to do. When we met we felt like we had such a connection, like we understood each other so completely and easily. Now I don't feel that way anymore. We have arguments about stupid things...like "the definition of trust". 

I'm in school and working part time so we don't have a lot of time or money to go out and have fun together. 

Anyway, things have gotten pretty bad. It's been 3 months since we had sex and last week we got in an argument and we haven't kissed or even hugged since. We don't hate each other, there's just a feeling of scared, hopeless frustration. We're all each other has. Both our families are over a 1000 miles away and we don't really have any friends.

I feel foolish going to a marriage counselor because the first thing they'll ask is why we got married in the first place...and we have nothing concrete to point to. Just the fact that that we felt an intense emotional connection unlike we had ever felt with anyone else. And to our credit, there must be something there if we've made it work this long after just knowing each other for one week. And millions of people have happy arranged marriages, so knowing your spouses inside and out for x years before getting married is not a strict requirement for a successful marriage.

So anyway, everyone says that its natural for "the spark" to eventually die out in a marriage. Wtf do you do when this happens?
<bot>: spark has gone out of marriage and I'm not really sure if there is any fundamental thing tying us together. How do we re-kindle the love?