<human>: for about 2 weeks now i have been avoiding my friends i have missed at least 3-4 social get together, i doubt they even care that i haven't shown up to any of the events.

background: my friends are those sort of people who don't care about anything unless it directly effects them. for instance this happened not 3 weeks ago, my friend  said "i know i shouldn't fuck with peoples life like this, but i don't care its fun." this made me endlessly hate him. and he is the person they follow basically without question.

i just don't even want to see them, they haven't invited me to what they have done and my friend openly admitted they have done stuff, like see the hobbit, go out when they know i wasn't doing anything(this was before i started actively avoiding him). also this friend fails to understand other peoples emotions. he understands, he doesn't get when other people are angry and sad even if you say "dude im fucking pissed off at you" and only i and his ex gf know this, 

when people tell him that were angry at him he is always like "well fuck you too i didn't fucking do anything to you, your always angry at me for no fucking reason" then he proceeds to make it worst by making fun of that person on purpose making that person even more upset and this makes him happy, makes him feel better about himself for doing this.

i hate him i don't ever what to see him again, i can't confront him about this because... i don't know why... and if i do im afraid that i will loose my friends because of him, or never hang out with them because he is the one who invites people to every event. and decides who comes and who doesn't.

any why sorry for the awful spelling/grammar or abillity to make sense. i just needed to get this off my chest i feel better now that i have.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: my friend is a fucking asshole because he doesn't care about anyone but him self and i never want to see him again, yet hes my "best friend".