<human>: Me and my wife have been together for 12 unbelievable years now and I really do love her. We recently had our first child together 4 months ago and, i won't lie it's a ton of work.

I'll admit I've felt a little lonely but I've shut those thoughts down because it's not all about me it's about our daughter. I work in a small office and by small I mean Small the building is maybe about the size of two sheds put together.

There's a co-worker (Jessy) who I occasionally talk to and, have gotten to know over the years. She is very friendly and, always hugs me when she sees me in the morning.

She'll get me and her lunch sometimes and we'll eat and talk and just be friendly with one another. She knows I'm married because I've told her about my wife and daughter before.

We text during the day and sometimes at night I haven't really told my wife about her and me being friends. I don't really think it's important since I'm not doing anything wrong.

Yesterday at the last minute our boss said we were going to have to stay overnight. It was only about 7:00pm and, I was getting hungry so I asked Jessy if she wanted to grab some dinner.

We ate and, actually had a good time and got back to work when I got home my wife was already asleep. 

But I thought about it when I was going home I'm starting to like her more then a friend. It's nice to talk to her and, it feels good to be around her and see her smile.

I find that I wake up and, I look forward to seeing her but a part of me knows this is wrong. I feel like I'm betraying my wife and daughter and I don't want that.

Does anybody have any advice for me?

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<bot>: me and my wife have been together for 12 years we recently just had a baby and, I'm starting to develop feelings for a friend and co-worker of mine.