<human>: So I'm at a loss with what to do because I'm somewhat seeing this MUCH older guy and it's super casual and he wants to keep it that way....but I'm worried my feelings are getting out of hand.

Normally this wouldn't bother me.  HOWEVER....he's semi-famous.  As in, he works in the entertainment industry and has a following but isn't a household name.

I feel like so many things in this situation make it unpredictable and make it not fit the normal dating rules.

Also, I totally wasn't seeking this out.  He pursued me when we met through a friend of his (to my great surprise).  If I had known where this was going/played an active hand in pursuing him, I would have been acknowledging the complexities of this all beforehand.  But when he asked me out, I didn't expect anything to come of this, so I just let it happen.

And that's where I am.  Stuck in this weird private relationship thing with a guy who doesn't "want a relationship" but totally contradicts himself by what he says and does when we're together and hanging out with his also famous friends (which is really nerve-wracking, btw.  I would have expected him to want to be more private about this if he didn't want us to be a thing).

My question/where you guys come in is, what the hell do I do?  I'm definitely developing feelings for him.  But, I feel like between the facts he's a) so much older, b) not "wanting" a relationship, and c) semi-famous, this is going to be a really weird/tough thing to bring up.  

GAHHH.

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: developing feelings for a man 20 yrs older than me who's semi-famous and "doesn't want" a relationship despite obvious signs.  how to talk about this?.