<human>: Okay, we met online on OkCupid in the beginning of September. We would send each other one long message (about 3-5 paragraphs) back and forth every day until about a month later, when I got her phone number. We really got to know each other pretty well on there and through texting and would message quite a bit. I guess I'd rather meet her earlier, but I don't know if she was quite comfortable yet so I went with her flow.

To put this in perspective, I've never been in a relationship before, so this is my first time going through this type of process. We get along really great, usually have a phone conversation almost every night, sometimes they last over an hour. She has talked about if I was seeing anyone, but it was way back in the third date! I said no and she said she wasn't either, but we never agreed on anything with going that route or not. She was just wondering.

Sometimes I wonder if I'm too overbearing at times because I always initiate the phone calls, text first, etc... If I'm busy though, she will always message me in the day first if I haven't already. But maybe that's just how our schedule works. She always talks on how we should do this or that in the future and like I said, we get along great. 

She's going away next week back home from school, so I'm thinking about having a discussion about our relationship. Nothing too heavy, but just things to see where we stand and what-not.

Do any of you guys have suggestions for a noob like me? Where do you think we stand at the moment right now?

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: Been dating for 1.5 months. Known from online for three months. We get along great. Need help understanding where we stand.