<human>: So i just started seeing this guy and things are getting pretty serious. I'm pretty damn happy about it all. 

Anyways, his standard of living is shit. He moved in with his friend [22M] who is a complete and utter slob. Before he moved in there was dog shit and piss in the LIVING ROOM and ugh god it was terrible. My partner tries to keep things as tidy as possible, but it's hard to keep up with his roommates messes. I feel like this is relevant to show that my partner is pretty responsible with being clean and hygienic.

In the end, we can't deny the fact that he lives basically below the poverty line. He puts other priorities above getting sheets for his bed, but i think he could have a more comfortable home if he just managed his money better... 

I live with my father so i'm usually over at his place. I could not stand sleeping in a bed with no sheets and a god damn CURTAIN as a blanket. I had an extra mattress pad at home and some sheets, so i brought them over. I also drag him to the supermarket and try to show him to not buy just junk. I'm basically his mother. 

I do this shit so i can be more comfortable at his place, but i know i'm enabling him. Sleeping well is CRUCIAL to me and i will not settle for a curtain as a blanket. My reasons to get him all this are pretty selfish yet i worry that i'm mothering him too much. I don't want him to get used to that. So what do? How do i go about this without being a codependent mother hen? He's a big boy who can figure his shit out, but i don't think i'm letting him.

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<bot>: Partner has a terrible standard of living that i refuse to accept, but i worry helping him out will cause me to turn into his mother.