<human>: Okay so I am away on a work trip right now but this has been building for a long time. My gf is driving me up the wall with her neediness, and then blowing up on me cause she doesn't trust me.

While I've been away she has been unable to sleep in our apt and is constantly depressed/down on herself. Constantly sending me messages about how she's being a bad girlfriend cause she is worried about me. I keep reassuring her but she keeps digging her hole.

So then a few days into the trip she basically accuses me of cheating when she got a new phone because it messed up and she didn't get a message ("thank you baby") until an hour after I sent it, so it was completely out of context. When she gets it she tells me I must have meant to send that to someone else and denies it when I send her a picture of the message screen.

All in all she is wearing me out with this stuff, as its been going on for a while. I love her and care about her, and I know she has her issues but I feel like I have to force myself to be a boyfriend to her. We live together and she is in school so I can't just break up with her and throw her out, it would literally destroy her.

I'm stuck and I don't know what to do. Halp?

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<bot>: My girlfriend beats herself up for obsessing over me so much that it pushes me away and even though I love her I feel forced to be her bf.