<human>: I'm xposting this to try and get more responses.

ANR = Adult Nursing Relationship (I'll try to avoid using this term because it sounds clinical and fetish-y, which is not my intent).

I'm looking for a nonthreatening way to show my wife the benefits of a breastfeeding relationship, gently and without coercion. For example, nursing releases oxytocin in the woman's brain, helping pair-bonding and making her happy and relaxed (and if she's happy, I'm happy). We've been married for about a year, but she's known about my interest in drinking her milk for most of the time she's known me. I haven't pressed the issue, and she has kept an open mind but has not said she definitely will or won't. To clear a few things up:

* This is not a fetish. A fetish is some unusual thing done for sexual gratification, and my interest in breastfeeding has nothing to do with sex. My interest is more about finding a new way to emotionally connect with her and to create a new form of intimacy between ourselves.
* This is not about objectifying my wife. I do not want or intend to make her into my personal milk machine.
* This is not about infantilism. I do not have mommy issues, and I have no desire to dress like a baby and have my wife become my mother.

I will love my wife no matter what she decides on this, but I am deeply hoping she at least gives it a chance. I just want her to see it the same way I do--that it's a way to bring us closer and strengthen our intimacy. And if she also gets a lessened risk of cancer and I get an immune system boost, then so much the better.

And I realize that I'm going to get comments telling me to grow up or find a different fetish. But to each their own; this happens to be what interests me.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: I want to drink my wife's milk, but I want it to be her decision to allow it. This is not a fetish (see bullet #1).