<human>: I really fucked up. I fell in love with a 30 year old woman with two kids and didn't really think through what kind of responsibility this entails all the way.  
   
We've been together for 2 years. She wants to get married, buy a house and have another kid with me. All of this stuff has the utmost urgency because her biological clock is ticking. I have to think about being a step father, a husband, having a baby, and buying a house to fit every one in, all in a year after spending my entire adulthood being totally independent and responsible for only myself. It's a huge adjustment for me. I feel rushed. It makes me nervous. I'm not sure if I'm financially or mentally ready to take on all of this, but I really love this woman. I've addressed my concerns, but she feels exactly the opposite. Instead of feeling rushed, she feels like she must put her life on hold for me to wait until I'm ready for everything. The resentment is building for both of us. I'm not really sure what to do. Is there anything I can do besides either leaving her or going along with her plans? There just doesn't seem to be much middle ground.

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<bot>: In love with a woman with 2 kids who wants to get married, have another baby, and buy a house ASAP. I'm Feeling rushed, she's feeling delayed. Resentment building. Not sure what to do.