<human>: About a year into our relationship I found out my wife had been talking to a guy from high school online and on the phone, sending naked pictures and such. I found out because she left the laptop on, not because of honesty. She said she regretted it and would stop and that we would work on our relationship, and we did.

Now were coming up on 5 years, have a kid, and we're moving soon for my new job and she just told me she never actually stopped. We just started seeing a marriage counselor for what I thought was communication strategies, but now I feel like I'm an idiot for missing signs or something.

Im not really sure what to do from here, we'll see the counselor again in two weeks but I'm not sure Ill be able to discuss this in a reasonable manner with her because Im pretty upset at the breach of trust. I'm not jumping to divorce, but while this is the biggest issue we've had its far from the only one so I dont really know what Im going to do. 

Ive been trying to work on clear communication since she had told me I dont do it well, any advice for how to approach this when I see her again?

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<bot>: Wife said she stopped talking/sending pictures to another guy years ago but didn't. I just want advice feom an outside perspective.