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My long distance boyfriend has been obsessively into porn since he was a kid. He has his favorites, watches everything they do to the point of memorizing music and scenes in great detail, and follows their personal pages on social media. He obsesses over meeting them, buys their photos/autographs, watches multiple times a day, etc. I think you get the point.

He hasn't been to many strip clubs, because the ones in his area "aren't good". But he's insistent on going to them when out of town, even when visiting me. I don't know how to feel about this. 

From my perspective he has a sexually active and open partner right in front of him, one willing to send sexy photos and videos all the time, and yet needs to constantly get his fill of other naked women. This makes me feel as if I'm not good enough. We have been together for less than a year, and at least to me, our sex life hasn't gone stale. But he is a man that wants to pay a lot of money to see other women naked, and I can't help but feel hurt by this. 

I'm hoping for some advice on how to handle/approach talking about this situation. I'd love some male insight from a man that feels the same as he does, and want to know how you can constantly masturbate to other women and fantasize about other women, while loving someone else. I've tried asking him in the past, and it usually turns into "you can't control my life" arguments even though I'm not trying to control it, I'm trying to understand it. 

I just feel uncomfortable that this is so important to him, to the point that he defends it with no regards to my feelings.
<bot>: Boyfriend watches lots of porn every day, and wants to go to strip clubs when he's visiting me. This makes me feel like shit. Can anyone offer up some help/insight?