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We dated for 9 months total and for the last month she was living with her parents as she was getting ready to go to grad school far away. So we talked about the situation and agreed that we would try long distance for a semester and evaluate things at that point together and truly we had talked and agreed that I was going to go there to be with her after the semester. And then or of the blue last weekend she exclaims to me that she feels that our relationship is just done. And that "I make her feel more bad than good" which is huge news to me. I admit I can be very self conscious sometimes and it would come out in our relationship sometimes but it was something that I am working on and making progress on. Now her mom is very manipulative and knows how to subvert herself into my ex girlfriends thoughts and actions. And that is the person she has been living with and I could see changes from it before the breakup. Everything my ex has told me during the breakup had been so counter to the person I have grown to love and truly has become my best friend. So my question is how can I trust what she is saying about our break up when I don't recognize the person standing there saying the words?
<bot>: my girlfriend broke up with me and I can't trust what she is saying because I feel her thoughts are coming from her mom's manipulation.