<human>: A bit of background: FH and I picked out our flower girls early on. His niece and his friends daughter. My little brother is the ring bearer. We originally didn't want a bridal party but we ended up with one and four people on each side. So that was our bridal party, officially. 

Dilemma: Well fast forward a bit, I find out from my mom that my grandma told two of my little cousins (8 and 9 years old) that they would be in the wedding. I didn't intend for them to be at all and I didn't want to add more flower girls. Fast forward AGAIN, when we finally scheduled dress shopping MOH brought her daughter with her (9 years old) and didn't tell me. When picking out dresses for the bridesmaid she tells her daughter to go pick out flower girl dresses. Again, I did not have the intention for her to be in the wedding. Obviously all three kids were so excited and I won't break their hearts. What kind of things can I have them do? Currently I've just been saying they're 'helpers' (MOH insisted they have dresses too....) but I don't actually know what to have them do since I didn't originally plan for them to be in the wedding.

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<bot>: Family told kids that weren't in the wedding that they are and now I'm trying to find something for them to do