<human>: Background: Long-term relationship (almost 4 years). We're comfortable experimenting sexually, and my BF (28m) recently posed the idea of a threesome to me (28f). I'm not against it. But my ground-rule is that I want to be the center of attention. I'm not signing up to watch my BF pile drive another girl while I rub their backs. What turns me on is the idea of both my BF and another girl doing stuff to me. I think for this first time (if it happens) I'd like to minimize the amount of time another girl spends touching my boyfriend, and maximize the amount of time she spends on me. After that we'll see. But I'm not yet 100% sure I'm into this, and am still totally unclear as to how the technicalities of a m+f+f threesome will play out.

Idea: Since my BF and I sometimes watch porn together, I thought we should watch some threesome vids to get inspired before we take the leap.

Problem: all the threesome videos we can find seem to involve two girls slobbering all over one guy, who is invariably the center of attention. Do videos even exist in which a girl and a guy are focusing their attention on one lucky girl? Or at least something close enough to pique my imagination? Or maybe not and I'm going about this all wrong?

Reddit, help! Your ideas and suggestions for this slightly nerve-wracking endeavor would be much appreciated.

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<bot>: Considering m+f+f threesome with f at the center of attention, but don't know where to look for inspiration.