<human>: We have been together for 3 years now and have gone through so much including 2 mental disorder diagnosis and moving 3000 miles away from home, i know we are young and i dont want to get married in the next year, but i want to talk about it with him. 

I don't know how to approach the subject and get a straight answer from him. 

He doesn't like planning too far ahead of time, but I just want to see what he actually thinks about our future together, and what we want to do together after college. 

How do I approach the subject with him? I have been trying for weeks but i can never get an answer and at this point I'm too afraid to ask bluntly. 
Any advice?

Also please don't tell me it isn't ready because I'm asking reddit. I've got too many of those already and I disagree.

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<bot>: my boyfriend and i have been together for ages and i want to know what he thinks about our future, but he doesn't give me a straight answer.