<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

Over the summer I kind of had a complete mental breakdown that made me realize I have a lot of baggage I need to deal with, so I am looking for a psychiatrist and re-entering therapy. I'm doing this for my friends, including the girl in question, that actively brought me out of that headspace.

The girl in question is a friend of a year and a half, and a mutual pursuit of a year, but because we have a lot in common (including baggage) we've only maintained a childish back and forth without creating anything serious. So at the moment, no matter how happy she seems to see me and how happy I am to see here, I don't have anything to offer her right now. Dealing with my shit leaves little room for self-esteem, and even if she understands this, a relationship isn't likely between us because I am unable to manage my end of it. At least not until I'm healthy and can handle my life.

Now I know I need to talk to her about all of this, but I want to make sure she knows that I care about her and that I want to be with her, but at the moment I can't make it happen, no matter how much I want to. How do I explain this to her without making it seem like I'm politely telling her I'm not interested? Because I want to explain all of this in a way that makes it her decision; leaving her with an option to stick around or to let go and find someone that is healthy.
<bot>: How do I tell a girl that I can't be with her right now without making it seem like I'm pushing her away?