<human>: My friends, Elizabeth (16f) and Stephanie (17f), at the moment both hate me a little bit. I made them hate me by being a flakey ass because I didn't want to go to this dance that I said I was going too and I told them the day of the dance that I wasn't going. To be fair though I had told them many times that I didn't want to go but every time I ended up just saying fine I will go but they both knew I did not want to go. I know it was wrong of me not to just tell them straight forward, Im not going and I should not have waited to tell them. 

Fast forward to where I am now and Stephanie is sort of just giving me the evil eye and ignoring me and Elizabeth will talk to me but says what I did was an ass thing to do and I should go talk to her. Well to be honest though I kind of like not talking to Stephanie and now she wants to make up but I kind of don't want to. I like not having to deal with her anymore and now Elizabeth is saying how much of a jerk I am because I have known her for two years and just because I don't want to deal with it I won't be friends with her anymore. From my point of view, my friends are supposed to make me happy and not feel like shit for not doing something they wanted me to do. I just don't really want to deal with either of them anymore and does that make me a dick? I have never dealt with drama in my entire life and I just am done with this bullshit and I know that if I just avoid Stephanie I won't have to anymore but does that make me an asshole because I am starting to doubt myself. I know this sounds like stupid teenage drama and thank you so much for reading this. Also sorry about the horrible grammar.

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<bot>: I made my friends hate me by not going to a dance I told them I was going to and now they want to talk about it but now I don't want to deal with their shit anymore