<human>: [op](

so hi I'm back and i took some of everyone's advice and talked to my wife. it was a bit awkward trying to talk to her about my feelings, because i have never talked about my feelings.

i told her every time we go to visit friends or family, i feel like everyone always thinks she's better than me. i told her I'm proud of her because she worked hard to get where she is.

i just feel like nobody really cares what i do, i feel everyone just looks down on me. i told her I'm not asking her to go around advertising I'm an artist, but a little recognition would be nice.

she said first of all she is happy i came to her and told her what was bothering me. she said she knows sometimes, everyone goes overboard with the whole doctor thing. 

she said that she is proud of me, and that my artwork is very beautiful to her. she told me that she doesn't care what people think, because the only opinion she cares about is mine.

we cuddled and fell asleep, in the middle of the night when i woke up she was looking at my phone. she asked me who was Nora i tried to tell her she was just a friend but my wife said the conversations didn't seem friendly.

i tried to explain to her that nothing was going on between me and Nora at all. she believed me until she read the texts where i was telling Nora about our marital problems.

she started crying and said i was cheating, but i told her i wasn't and that i never touched Nora. she yelled at me and said i didn't have to touch her to cheat.

she didn't let me explain she just got up and slept in the guest room she was gone in the morning. when she got home she said she wanted me to stoo talking to Nora.

i have now stopped talking to Nora, my wife is still very hurt by my actions obviously. she said she's forgiven me but i know she still goes through my phone when I'm not in the room.

but thats the update i kinda brought all of this on myself.

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<bot>: i talked to my wife about everything it went great but she later found out about Nora. she read our texts and came to the conclusion that i was emotionally cheating on her.