<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

I have been dating my girlfriend for about two years now and it has been rocky at best.  
We have been living together for almost a year now in Nevada near her family while mine lives in California.  
Last year I really wanted to spend the holidays with my family but she guilt tripped me into spending it with hers saying she didn't want to be alone and I would ruin her holidays by not being there with her. etc. etc.  
Now the holidays are back and my mom is having a Thanksgiving party mainly for me coming to visit this year.  
Now my girlfriend refuses to go because she doesn't want to spend it with my family saying she feels uncomfortable there because they are all asian and do not speak english to her. (She is white english speaking only and I am asian.)  
My cousins ALL speak english and try to talk to her whenever we visit.  
I find it very upsetting that she is trying to take me away from my family and refuses to spend it with them because she doesn't feel comfortable there.  
Instead she wants it to spend it with our mutual friend's family where she knows NO ONE there except for our friend.  
Am I in the wrong here or is she just crazy and controlling?
<bot>: GF doesn't want to spend holidays with my family because she feels uncomfortable and doesn't want me to be with them either.