<human>: We've been dating for two years, but for the last 8 months our relationship has been long distance. So our relationship has already been incredibly strained. I'll be moving back to the area at the end of the month, so breaking it off now feels like a wasted effort.

His paid internship ends in a few weeks. He just found out that a job he wanted to apply to went to someone else (he never submitted his application and resume, although he was working on them.) This just sent him into a spiral of depression. Now he feels like he's completely failed and he doesn't deserve success, and so on, etc. Actually at this point, he sounds like a broken record. He reacts this way every time something doesn't go right. Every little thing is an excuse for him to unload on me about how terrible his life is.

I've tried getting him to go to therapy. He countered with "he can't afford it," so I did some research and compiled a list of free and reduced cost services in the area where he can go to get help with his issues. Now he says he doesn't have the time. I don't know what else to do for him. I can't be his therapist, I'm not at all qualified and anyway I have my own issues to deal with. No matter what I say to him, I can't get him to act rationally about the events in his life. He completely ignores the fact that I'm also going through a difficult job hunt and I'm facing the same consequences as he is if I can't find work. (Worse -- he has family he can turn to, but I'm on my own entirely.) But that's not important to him, it's always about him and his problems and how the world hates him. It's all he ever wants to talk about.

I don't want to give up on this relationship because when it's good, it's really good. I just can't handle his problems and he continually makes excuses for why he hasn't gone to get help. What can I do? Is there any hope for us? What can I say that will get him to seek help?

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<bot>: My boyfriend has serious anxiety and depression issues for which he refuses to get help, and I'm running out of patience.