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For a while I have had my upstairs neighbor pound the floor every time she thinks I'm loud. I get that talking loudly in the bedroom in the middle of the night is my own fault but lately she has been knocking if I've been in the kitchen for water or something in the cupboard. And not just knocking once or twice - I'm talking ten times in a way that is much noisier than me. I have finally had enough and I wrote her a letter, explaining that I don't see the issue of me being in my own kitchen even though it's night and that I think she's being rude with the stomping. I did my best not to be rude or anything.

Now we have set up a meeting which I guess I should be happy about so that we can maybe have a conversation and solve the problem but I'm a bit nervous about the whole thing. Does any of you have or have had any similar troubles with neighbors? How should I deal with this?
<bot>: Upstairs neighbor thinks I'm loud during the night if I'm in my kitchen so she stomps the floor. I wrote her a letter explaining that I don't see the problem and now we've set up a meeting.