<human>: We've been dating since January, officially bf/gf since May. He says he's just not a very touchy-feely/affectionate person but I'm starting to feel like I'm in a one-sided relationship. He has a lot of emotional baggage and I get that but I'm starting to feel like he's just... there.

If I don't make the plans or ask him to hang out, I won't see him. He works from home a lot or has a sport league the other nights. We may see each other once or twice during the week but it's mostly on the weekends.

When we are together he doesn't really touch me. I'm usually the one to initiate sex and he's flat out turned me down because he's tired. Or if he's been drinking. He also says I want it too often but I only see him a few times a week... that's too often?

I've asked if he wants to date other people, if he's not feeling it. He says no but I don't really feel wanted.

How do I get him to be more affectionate? Or rather, show more interest?

Side note: he got out of a 7 year on-again/off-again relationship over a year ago. We tried dating then but he clearly was not ready so we stopped talking for a while until he approached me again in January.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: he makes no effort but says he wants to be with me. How do I get him to make me feel wanted?