<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

We have a 2.5 year old daughter, normal, healthy child, goes to day care.  Over Christmas break we transitioned from the crib to a toddler bed which is right next to the crib.  Nothing else changed with the bedtime routine.  That was two weeks ago.  Since then, bed time has been drifting later and later, last night it was 9pm, tonight I think she may be asleep now (8:30).  It's been very difficult as she is up at 6am, so she lost 2 hours of sleep.  She has yet to nap in the toddler bed either, and we have resorted to driving her around late in the afternoon (or at sign of fatigue).  

Her bedtime routine starts around 6:30, and it's very very constant,sippy cup of milk, youtube videos, up to bed, play for another 10 minutes, lullabye, and that's it, usually she is asleep 5-10 minutes after (around 7:15 or maybe 7:30).  

Any suggestions?  I think I am just going to insist on 7:30 bedtime, quick lullabye, and she can scream her head off.  (We've been rescuing her on things like poop, pee etc (yes she is holding it specifically for this....sigh), and we'd have to intervene for this since I don't want her poop to go everywhere.  Basically cry it out again.
<bot>: Basically the loss of my sanity time is driving me nuts, chores are not getting done, I'm getting no down time, kid is losing 1-2 hours of sleep a night.