<human>: [xpost from seduction](

So this girl and I (both 21) met in class 2 months ago and instantly hit it off. We went on a lunch date the same day, and at the end of the week we went clubbing with her friends. 

We both mentioned how we instantly clicked and felt comfortable which each other. I am picky and not normally attracted quickly but I feel this girl is an exception. 2 weeks later where we had amazing sex and I felt we were getting very close (texting, skyping and calling every day). We've had the "talk" and she says how she can see us being together and tells me all the reasons she's into me. She then says she's not ready to date, which I brush off as I'm in no rush either. That is, until I find out this week that I may be a rebound (she broke off a 3 year relationship this Sept).

As of late, she has been increasingly distant, and our communication has been limited to a a text/call every day or two. I call her out on this (was this needy?) and her response is she's going through alot but agreed to make an effort. Our communication has not improved and she is in general much colder (doesn't help that we're Long Distance, about 1hr drive and xmas break), though we do have a date next week after her exam.

It should be noted that she: recently attended 2 funerals (1 of which was her ex-bf's buddy), studying for exams, and going through a month long period (results coming back soon). 

I just really needed to get that off my chest but I'm losing sleep over this girl. As of late I've been limiting my contact to less than once a day to hopefully get her interested again. 

My questions are:

* Am I the rebound?
* Is this oneitis (obsession with one girl)?
* Could her change of behavior be a result of the end of the honeymoon phase?
* Should I continue to give her a lack of attention?
* What could I have done better?

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<bot>: Girl and I kick it off real fast, sex 2 weeks after meeting. Constant txting/calling may have scared her off.