<human>: So, my best friend and I hang out a lot. **I've known her three years, but we've become super close since about April of this year**. But, most (like 90% of the time) it's always me who initiates it, or thinks of something to do, whatever. Fine, someone has to do it.

But yesterday we were hanging out and the topic came up, and I casually joked up "I'm getting tired from initiating. From now on the responsibility is all yours :)". She shrugged it off.

Then later we met up with a friend and she basically told him that "I was complaining earlier that I'm always asking her to hang out" blah blah blah, and she did say it with a condescending tone.

Wtf? Is this normal behaviour? Am I best friends with a manipulative psycho?

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<bot>: I'm always initiating hangouts with my best friend. When I brought it up, she complained about it to a mutual friend and put me down publicly.