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Hi there! So I know that the answer to this has to come from within me, but I'd love some relatively unbiased opinions.

I've been dating Andrew (name changed) for 2 months. I see him 4 or 5 times a week, we've spent the holidays together, and I love being with him. We have so much fun, we're like great friends who are also crazy attracted to each other! Last year I broke up with my boyfriend/fiance who I'd been with for 10 years. Never thought I'd be back out there in the dating world, but I do want someone to share my life with. Maybe have kids? But marry and/or the equivalent. I do not think Andrew is that person. We have fun together, but we have some fundamental differences. I don't like how he acts when he's drunk (not terribly often but still), he's bad with money, he thinks volunteering/charity is a scam and will never (not saying those beliefs are wrong just different from mine), etc. I assumed someone would ask why I don't see a future so I threw in a few examples. Again, none of these make him evil but they are things I want in my future life partner.

Is it idiotic of me to be so "committed" to him seeing no future? We talk openly about it, he also sees no future and isn't even really sold on the one parter for life idea. I think sure, maybe there's a chance we both change on our own and end up married, it could happen. But I don't think it will and I'm totally fine with that. My friends think I'm an idiot since I'm firmly mid 30s and WANT to get married and think I'm wasting my time. I kind of agreed, but I think I could also end up single and alone during the entire time I'm with Andrew, so how would being lonely and sexless better?! 

What do you guys think? Is a casual relationship for someone looking for permanent a bad idea at 35?
<bot>: Dating someone and I know there is no future. Since I do want to get married and have kids one day, is being 35 and spending time with someone with whom there's no future a waste of my time?