<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Together for 16 years, married for 13 years.

Last night we were talking. Husband wants me to agree to his "ultimate" wish. In the event that our relationship ends or he dies, he wants me to never be in a serious relationship with anyone else. If we break up, he wants to screen who I date.

I told him if anything happens to me, I would want him to meet someone that loved him and took care of him. 

Seems he doesn't feel the same way. The thought of me being with another guy upsets him. Yet, he brings up having an open relationship as well. Bit contradictory to me.

He got upset because I refused to promise this. He wants me to be honest with him. I am. Any relationship I have after our relationship ends is none of his business. He doesn't like my response. He told me he thought I was special but now he sees that I am just like every other girl.

I am feeling a bit hurt after hearing that statement, which I feel was his aim. Apparently this is his ultimate wish and he can't understand why I won't agree to it. 

I thought our relationship was going well and we are both in good health. Why is he borrowing trouble that may never happen? 

Am I in the wrong?
<bot>: Husband is upset that I won't agree to never dating another guy or letting him screen who I date if we ever break up.