<human>: For those of you who have experienced a breakup after a long-term relationship, how did it happen? How did it go? How did you feel after it happened? How are you now?  

I have been dating my boyfriend for a very long time since we were both very young; next month will/would be our 7 year anniversary. We have been having major issues due to his behavior for over a year now. Also, as we get older, I am noticing that our plans in life just aren't compatible. I would be initiating the breakup and I'm extremely apprehensive and scared. I know breaking up is the best thing for me, but he will/would be very much against the decision. Part of me doesn't want to break up, but I know it's because I've grown so used to having him in my life and it's about comfort instead of happiness at this point.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: I'm strongly considering breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years and am anxious and looking to hear from someone who has dealt with a similar experience.