<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

Okay so we are a lesbian couple, so the gender roles are a little confusing on this one. 

Background:
I am currently living on my own and can comfortably support myself with my career. I've always been very independent and have never imagined a future where I am being supported by someone else. My relationship with my family is neither close or negative. We keep our personal lives to ourselves and that is just what is normal for us.

My GF: She is currently living with parents, rent free, utility free, food available and ready when she comes home from her full-time work. I don't think she makes enough to completely support herself and is taking classes. She has a VERY LOVING and HEALTHY relationship with her parents. The complete opposite of mine and she is very lucky to have that.

She is not a dead-beat who leaches off her parents. She works very hard and has legitimate reasons (wage not enough and goes to school) to still live at home.

BUT, even with all that, I still feel bothered. She doesn't need to pay rent/insurance/bills, everything goes to her and her social life. I've suggested to her to switch PT work and focus on school so she can finish faster but she says doesn't want to. By the time she finishes her degree and is able to START her actual career, she will be into her 30's.

When I asked about her living situation, she says she doesn't need to move out and doesn't plan to anytime soon. I feel that she is too comfortable with her situation right now and takes for granted that time is a resource that you can't get back. I come over often since I live far away for my job and she still lives in my hometown. That means I stay over quite often at her parents house which makes me feel like I am overstaying my welcome (traditional asian parents)

I feel like an ass because she has legitimate reasons to stay, but I just can't get over that feeling.

Am I just over-reacting?
<bot>: GF says she doesn't plan to move out anytime soon and it bothers me because she's okay with the comfortable life.