<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

I have been with my bf for about 3.5 years now, and we have a great relationship. He has a steady job and is also an aspiring actor, so he is always at auditions and looking for new gigs. He's a brilliant person.

That being said, his pot smoking/video game playing is affecting our relationship. He works weekends as a server, and before going to work he will light about 1-2 joints and go to work high. When he comes home around 130am he will immediately light up another and play video games until 4-5 am. On his days off, he will have a joint in the afternoon and play video games all day until it's time to sleep. He always gets up around noon and is usually irritable. I don't get to go to bed with him as often anymore because he would rather be playing video games.

I am a very active person, so I have days filled with activities. I will go to the gym early, have an awesome morning and do my errands before heading to work (I work FT). I am also a musician and am currently working on an album.

When he and I first met we did a ton of things together. I understand that with time people get comfortable and ease up on activities, but there is hardly any excitement. 

He used to also keep our house pretty clean, but now he hardly cleans and will wait weeks before doing his laundry. Sometimes I'll come home to a disgusting house after an 8 hour shift, and I will clean up, because I can't live in a sty. We have had numerous conversations about this, and things change for a little while then go back to normal.

He does not think he has an addiction to weed or games and tells me I should compromise with him. I don't know what to compromise, because I hardly drink/go out and live a pretty healthy lifestyle. 

He wants to marry me, but I told myself from an early age I wouldn't marry a stoner because I don't want it in my life. 

Am I being too harsh? Should I work this out or end it?
<bot>: Boyfriend plays too much video games and smokes too much pot and it's ruining our relationship. I don't smoke pot and don't want anything to do with it.