<human>: I have been chasing after this girl for a couple months, which turned into many months. It started to feel like an ordeal, and I felt like I was being lead on. I always felt like there was still a chance with her, and it hurt along the way. 

A week ago, I realized that I would confront her, and ask what the hell is going on. She said that she doesn't want to date me, or anyone right now.

Today, she ended up posting about how she's now in a relationship with someone. When I saw these posts, I was not livid, I was not upset, but I wanted to do pull-ups, go to the gym, run a marathon. I'm extremely pumped and excited, I feel like my floodgates have been opened and I'm free.

My question is if this is normal? Does anyone normally experience this, or is this only my way of avoiding grief?

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<bot>: Chains that have been keeping me tied to a girl were officially broken, and I'm excited, but don't know if I should be.