<human>: We got together sometime last Fall 2013 and I had a great time being with her. However, during april 2014 I felt I didn't want to be in a serious relationship because I'm so young and got my whole life ahead of me.

In short I wanted time for myself and not to be attached to someone or so I thought. I broke up with her and we ended on good terms with me saying I didn't want to be with anyone at the moment. She was really sad and to be honest so was I but I felt relief and moved on. I travelled abroad and have kept myself occupied since then.

Last month I joined the military (as almost all men in Finland in my age do because it's the law) and I notice that when I'm cut off from my social life - drinking with friends, being online on my phone or computer 24/7 etc - I have a lot more time to think for myself.

And I can't stop thinking about her. Since we broke up 3-4 months ago I'm wondering; is it OK for me to get back together with her? I'm concerned I'm playing too much with her feelings as she was pretty devastated when we broke up. 

Other relevant info: I have kept contact with her, texting etc. And I'm quite sure she misses me too.

Looking for your views on this matter, thanks in advance for any help!

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<bot>: Broke up with my gf of 6 months but now 3-4 months later since lots of things have happened in my life (travelling, military) I miss her. How to proceed?