<human>: So I'm a 27 year old man but I'm kinda new to dating, only really been playing the field the last few months or so. I've found a girl that I do rather like but there are a number of things that concern me.

*I usually need to make contact with her first before she'll text back and sometimes she seems to leave me hanging for quite a long time

*She didn't wanna add me on Facebook, when I asked she replied "I don;t really use facebook much" but I've actually seen her using FB

*She kinda of freaked out when I dropped her off in front of her landlord, as if she didnt want her to know she was dating someone? (mind you this was a while ago on out first date.)

*We've been on 3 dates and I've gone in for the kiss all 3 times and been shot down. 

Now on the flip side to that after our 2nd date I ceased contact for a while, I was gonna let it be and she ended up messaging me so that made me think she must be a little bit keen on me atleast right?

I also pretty much just straight up asked her if we're just friends or are we dating or what? She pretty much said that things are different in her culture and she just wanted to get to know each other first (She's from korea, been here about 6 years speaks good english etc etc.)

Other then all that I think our dates go pretty well, when we're with each other in person I do get the vibe that she likes me.

Is it a bad sign if she's taking so long to Message back? is it fairly normal for korean girls to be like this? how long do we get to know each other before I make a move?

I just dunno how to rationalize it all lol, I like her but I almost sometimes feel she stays in contact with me out of pity in a way? I dunno, no idea how to read her.

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<bot>: Korean Girl Keeps agreeing to dates but wont kiss or text me first. not sure if she's intrested.