<human>: How do I find out if my partner is having an affair?
<bot>: The first step in finding out if your partner is having an affair is to ask them directly. If they deny it, then you should consider other signs such as changes in behavior, unexplained absences, or increased secrecy about their whereabouts. You can also look for clues in their social media accounts, emails and phone records, as well as any financial transactions that might indicate a relationship with someone else. Additionally, talking to family and friends may help you get more insight into the situation.