<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

I don't know much about there relationship but they had an on and off one of 8 years where if he cheated on her or did anything to hurt her she would return the favor. The ex impregnated her and did not want to be a father just yet as he is still experiencing youth. She went through the abortion for him. This occurred a little before her eldest brother died in which the ex was not there to support her in her time of need. 

We were each other 3rd grade crush and she found and contacted me last April on Facebook. We stopped talking as I had found out she had a boyfriend at the time. I reenter her life in January to check up on her. I find out she had lost her brother and her ex isn't there to support her. I never told her to breakup with her ex but to keep strong and seriously think about her life. She ended the relationship a little after valentines day.

In the last few weeks that she had been single, we developed very deep affectionate feelings for each other as we have begun facebook messaging to texting to talking on the phone and now skyping. (we have done it over text and phone) Because of these feelings and the ex trying to start back up the dead relationship, she is having difficulty getting serious with me. Her reasoning is that she sees me as a safe-haven/rebound and feels guilty of this and wants more time to be single and wonders if we are even going to meet in real life. Due to this fact, she is urging me to meet other women and experience more relationships before ending up with her. I have discussed my reasons for a serious relationship but as of this moment nothing is getting through to her, what do I do?
<bot>: Long distance girl refuses to go steady due to guilty feelings for me as rebound/safe-haven as well as just recently getting out of an 8 year relationship and urges me to experience more relationships. Advice??