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So we've been dating for almost a year now. I feel like there isn't much that we do. How do couples get quality time together? Not just a stay-in movie night, not hanging with friends at a house party. This is my first boyfriend and I feel like when ever I go over to his place, there isn;t much to do. My idea of dating is all from country songs and romcoms, so I imagined we'd be talking all through the night every night, joking around, or we'd put on the radio and start dancing and singing. Or we'd talk and get an idea to learn something new together. Or we could just walk around outside and be silly. 

I also don't know how to feel about when we go to parties, because I feel super single when we go to parties. He doesn't dance unless it's meringe or bachata, and in general there isn't much hugging and goofing around together. Like the other night, we went to a house party, but he went upstairs to talk to friends while I was with some friends downstairs karaokeing. It was fun, but I don't get how this was any different than if I just came to the party by myself. 

And one more thing is I don't know why, but he doesn't seem to be a fan of ANY PDA. Not even holding hands, wrapping his arm around my waist or holding hands at a movie.
<bot>: What do couples do to get quality time? How can I initiate little things like holding hands or him wrapping his arm around me?