<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

My girlfriend keeps making comments like "I don't think of you as a man" and similar comments like that. It's making me feel sad and a bit hurt that she's calling my masculinity into question. I asked her about it and she gave me a few reasons that I don't feel are very good

* I generally don't cook my food and buy it pre-prepared or go to a restaurant

I make around 3x the average salary where I live so it isn't like it's a cost issue or anything. I don't see how this makes me any less of a man.

* My apartment is cluttered

It is pretty cluttered but I'm in the process of cleaning it up. I still don't get why it makes me unmanly.

* I get startled by loud unexpected noises (ex: firecracker going off 10-15 feet from me that I didn't notice) and I shake afterwards from the adrenaline

She also called me cowardly for this. I don't see it I mean it's a natural reaction.

I don't get why she's questioning me as a man. I work out (pretty muscley), I treat her right, open doors for her, carry her bags/stuff, able to solve conflicts, walk her home every time we go out, treat her, take her out on nice dates, etc. I think I'm more sensitive than the average guy (tend to cry easier, express my emotions more), could that be part of it?

I'm a bit conflicted between trying to appear more manly to her and calling her out on being unreasonable. I'm not sure if she IS being unreasonable. Is she being reasonable here? What should I do?
<bot>: Girlfriend says I'm not a real man because I eat from restaurants/buy prepared food as opposed to cooking, my apartment is cluttered, and I get startled by loud noises.