<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

Me: 24, female, networth ~$70k, income ~$70k

SO: 26, male, networth ~**-**$10k, income ~$55k

We've been dating for nearly two years; both in it for the long term.  Currently long distance, and will be for about another year.  We see each other frequently, though.  The debt is apparently pretty high interest; he didn't go to college, so it's not student loan debt. 

His numbers are estimates, because I'm not entirely sure about his finances.  About a year ago he said he was $10k in debt, and recently said he's been "paying it off," but he made it sound like he hasn't come too far.

It just keeps bothering me.  He's been in the working world for over 7 years, making good enough money and saving money by living with friends, and despite that he's in debt.  I started my IRA when I was 18; he doesn't have any retirement savings.

On the other hand, he hasn't had the financial support that I've had (about half of that networth was gifts from family; my parents bought my car; I was raised to be frugal and money conscience), and so it's unfair for me to expect him to be in a similar financial place as me, or even share my financial outlook/philosophy.  But it bothers me when he spends $8 on a McDonald's breakfast while I'm happy with cold boiled potatoes and bbq sauce, or that my socializing often takes the form of going out to bars with friends and drinking a diet coke, while his is the frequent and expensive habit of weed.

Do any other redditors have experience with conflicting financial outlooks in a relationship?  And am I overly bothered by what is, in a world of $100k+ student loan debt, a semi-trivial amount of debt?
<bot>: I'm frequently bothered by my boyfriend's poor financial habits, and what it means for our future.  I don't know what to do about it.