<human>: Provide a brief overview of the text.

So I have been broken up with my girlfriend of 3.5 years since about early june now. 

It was mutual at first because I thought I needed to expierence other people since she was my first and only gf and I was not her first boyfriend. I grew distant to her towards the end but the only reason I did is because I was having doubts and was afraid of hurting her. 

I ended up regretting the decision about a week after. And we met up and went on a date and had a really nice time. 

The next day she wants nothing to do with me and tells me she needs space.

Fast forward to now, she has texted me a few small conversations, but seems very distant, and she awkwardly attempts to joke around in the texts (she admits the jokes to be awkward). But then she will go back to being distant. I dont try to push any conversations because of this. 

I saw her last night and she was going in waves, she would want to talk and was great one minute, then she would look away and kinda avoid me the next minute, and it kept repeating. One moment she was watching me on stage sing, and the next moment she would back away and go away. Overall though I kept it cool and was very friendly and looked happy and fun to be around and did not pester her much, besides a few small chats. 

My question is what is my next move? How do I ask her what she's feeling?

shes still hesitant to hang out 1 on 1 so I think shes afraid of getting hurt again but shes conflicted?

I just want her back, I made a list of all the things I can work on and all the reasons why I love her more than anyone else.
<bot>: Ex gf is being very hot and cold, one minute shes joking around awkwardly and the next shes avoiding/ignoring me what can I do to show her I changed and want to work things out?