<human>: So to start off, I initiated sex on our 3rd date while at my place since it seemed heavily that things were leading there. Upon grabbing a condom, he changed his mind and no longer was interested. I later tried having a conversation with him in regards to this, with him telling me he's nervous about it and that he is genuinely interested in me, but is having a hard time doing this because he's not ready to "jump in with both feet" as his last relationship, which he believed would be a lifelong one has not worked out. He tells me all the time about how "different" I am than anyone he's ever dated and he has some reservations about that.

Now being the person that I am, sex is EXTREMELY important to be and I haven't waited this long for someone since high school. I really like him, but this is an issue for me. I feel that him asking me to not be intimate with someone else is unfair if he is unwilling to meet my sexual needs.

How do I make this an easier transition for him? I don't want to pressure him, as I would not like it done to me, but I really would like to explore this.

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<bot>: !: Seeing this guy for 2 months, isn't ready for sex due to a previous relationship ending which he anticipated would be lifelong. Sex is very important to me. How do I help make this transition easier for him?