<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

I got up late after my 2 year old turned off the alarm.  I could not get my eldest son off to school and he didn't feel well so it worked out alright.  I went back to sleep which is unusual for me.  I normally stay up to make sure my wife gets off to work.  So my wife finally got me up about an hour and half before she has to leave for work.  My eldest needed to replace his eyeglasses and I decided since he was home already, we should do it today.  The initial plan was to get my father in law to take us (my sons and me).  That fell through.  I then tried to get my brother in law to help us.  Again, it was a no go.  That should have ended my planning but once I get an idea in my head, I become compulsive.  I need to do it.  My wife should have just told me to go to hell and I would have grumbled for awhile.  But apparently, she loves me and knows how miserable I get when can't do something I think I need to.   So here's where I fucked up her day.  I made the appointment, knowing someone else would come get us later but I don't get things ready quick enough and find shoes for my youngest.  I put him footy pajamas and put clothes over that.  She kept looking for shoes for another five minutes after I got the kids in the car. We finally headed to the eye exam 10 minutes out of the way.  To make matters worse, I couldn't find it.  I called and got directions.  She finally dropped us off.  All the delays caused her to be 15 minutes late and miss her meeting with her supervisor.   That lead to a writeup and will most likely delay her advancement in a company she has been promoted 3 times in her first 6 months.  So effectively, I have destroyed all the hard work she has put in and her chance to get to the next position in next 6 months which she was on track to do.  I feel like shit.
<bot>: Got it in my head my son needed to get an eye exam TODAY, cause my wife to be late for work, get a write up and probably delayed her promotion track.