<human>: My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over a year and he is less sure of what he wants now than he was when we first started dating. It started out great and he made it clear that he wanted marriage. He is a good guy and has a great job and is good with my 7 year old son. At 3 months into our relationship HE was looking at engagement rings. At about 9 months in it all turned around. He gives me the whole "I'm just not ready" spill any time it is mentioned. This weekend he mentioned that his idea of the next step was us shacking up, I told him that wasn't going to happen. He has lived at home with his mom basically his whole life. I've been understanding and have made my home open to him. He helps out and spends most of his time while not at work there. I don't know what to think. Is he leading me on? Should I just be more patient?

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<bot>: After over a year into our relationship I feel like it's going no where. Should I cut my losses now or hope for the best?