<human>: The title must seem confusing, but bear with me. 

I've know my wife for 3 years; we were friends prior to getting married. 

Two years into our friendship, she confided to me the pressure she feels to settle down due to her cultural background. We were drinking with friends and I drunkly said I'd marry her. 

A week after, she approached me about it and wanted to know if I was serious. Now, this may seem ridiculous, but I was. I've never really seen myself as one to get married, but Aisha ( my wife) was a really good friend, attractive and I figured this wouldn't be the worst way to do so. 

We " courted" for about 6 months, I met her family and we got married 6 months ago.

Here is where my problems start. Aisha had confided with me that she doesn't really think she's the kind of person to fall in love or have deep feelings for partners. This was fine, I knew about this before we got married. She kept letting me know about this and making sure I was ok with the whole marriage thing.
 
Now I'm in this predicament, I'm incredibly in love with her. I want to spend the rest of my life with her

I don't know how to tell her this because I know this isn't what she would like. She's been approaching this as two good friends who happen to be married and I want more.

Summarize the given text in a few sentences.
<bot>: I'm in love with my wife. We didn't marry for love and I don't know how to tell her I love her as it's not her " thing"