<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

About 6 months ago me and my girlfriend broke up of 7.5 years about.  Wouldve been 8 in april.  Met a new girl [23F] (I am the kind to fall for girls quick.  Me and my girl broke up before for a bit and again I found another girl prior.  This was about 3 years ago but that is besides the point.)  

Okay so I met a new girl who had also broken up with her boyfriend.  But she is getting back with him.

I just feel helpless because every girl I am talking too in that stage of a relationship (Hate this stage)  has either an ex who is in the wings of winning a girl back, or she was interested in someone else before I came into the picture.  

I am batting a solid 0-2 right now, and my confidence just feels shot.  And yes, I am improving myself hitting the gym, working on my career with job interviews and such.  I just feel so helpless with woman at this point in my life and I am the relationship/Long term kind of guy.  I don't need to hear to I'm beta bullshit (sorry some people say this and its annoying) cause I am not.  I know what I want, I make my intentions known, these girls make me hang around then tell me after talking to them for 5-6 months that they either are going back to their ex or to another guy who they were talking too.  

Just a helpless individual.  I just want to meet this girl of my dreams and both of them have let me down.  I do not wanna sound desperate but I feel its the only thing I can feel right now:/ 
I just idk anymore....

Need an uplift or a hard dose of reality.  Either or would be appreciated thanks guys
<bot>: Every girl i've talked/dated/seen for 5-6 months after my ex girlfriend either goes to ex boyfriend or to another guy who she was talking/dating/seeing too prior to me getting in the picture with her.