<human>: I've been going out with this girl for 5 months now and overall it has been an enjoyable experience.  However I feel that I'm just done with it mainly due to me always being the one to initiate literally everything from talking to contact to meeting up.

My last girlfriend dumped me without warning and for reasons that I didn't even consider.  I felt that if she had just talked to me about these issues we could have worked them out.  Consequently when I started going out with my current girlfriend I made a promise to myself that if I ever wanted to dump her I would talk to her first.

I would just go and talk to her about it but I would feel pretty terrible.  She is a naturally shy person and I feel like I would be asking her to change how she is, which I don't really see as acceptable.  I still like her but I'm just done. 

Please help me reddit I have no idea what to do.

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<bot>: want to dump girlfriend, not sure whether I should honour a promise I made to talk to her about the issues first and give her a chance or just get it over and done with