<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

I have a friend [21M], who I [21F] was FWBs last year, but it ended when I started dating someone. My SO and I broke up about a month ago, and recently, my old FWB started talking to me again. When he found out I was single again, he started talking about how he always thought we would start dating and he was a little upset to find out I ended things because I was dating someone else. Twice he's asked me out, but both times he's been drunk, and it's been late at  night. Last night, he texted me saying "I want to see you", which isn't his normal booty call text. I want to send a message that says straight out, if he wants to ask me out, do it at a normal time, when he's sober with some idea for a date that involves more than 'hanging out' in my apartment, and if he doesn't, then to stop saying things that make it sounds like he does want to date me. I don't really want to go back to be FWB with him, but I feel like if I say "date me or nothing" that he'll choose the first option over getting none from me. Is there a better way to phrase this? I'm not trying to play games here, I just suck at saying what I mean.
<bot>: Need a good way to say "either ask me out normally already damn it, or leave me alone" without being worried that he'll date me just to get some ass.