<human>: In early June, my boyfriend broke up with me because of several issues (he said it was because he wasn't sure if he wanted to get married and that he cannot give himself to our relationship right now). I am pretty positive him bringing up the marriage thing is an excuse because he was scared of the direction our relationship was going in.

Since the breakup, I've done a lot of introspection and therapy to realize where I contributed to the breakup. Of course, hindsight is 20/20 and I realize that I was becoming pretty codependent on him and that was a huge detriment to our relationship.

He is the absolutely love of my life and I want so badly to work things out, but he pretty much refuses to talk to me. He doesn't want to meet up because he says it's too soon, however he's been hanging out with a girl from Tinder (which is incredibly painful) so apparently it's not that soon.... He's incredibly bad at confronting problems and I know he's avoiding me because he knows it will be a painful conversation and I will probably bring up things about him that he isn't ready to confront.

It's also important to note that we had a very normal relationship. Things only sort of went downhill in the last month or two of the relationship, and even then the bad days weren't often. We rarely fought and had, what I consider, to be a happy relationship.

What can I do to get him back?

Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?
<bot>: Ex broke up with me, has a lot of his own emotions to deal with, and won't get together to talk. I want to reconcile with him.