<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

SO and myself have known each other since we were around 15.

My SO and myself always talk about what we don't like the other person doing, and we don't do it.

I haven't done what he's asked me not to do, but i've found out that for over a year, he's been doing what i asked him not to do.  When i found out, he just acted like he didn't care, wasn't sorry and tried to turn it around on me.  It seriously hurt to the point where i cannot trust him.

It took me a couple of days to get out of him why he did it. "I don't know."  "I was too lazy to think about you."  and his final answer is "Because asking me not to do something, makes me want to do it."

He's always been like this, tell him / ask him to do / not to do something, and he will be annoyed, and want to/not want to do it.

What the hell do i do?
<bot>: Boyfriend has a habit of wanting to do what he's asked not to. This time it has seriously hurt me.