<human>: My gf and I have been fighting for about a week and I told her I couldn't do this anymore and I needed some time. She wouldn't give me it, told me she'd come see me if I didn't see her (she didn't come and I didn't go to her), told me she needs an answer, then that she'd wait for me then back and forth. Well last night we were on the phone and after about two hours we were talking normal again, joking around and such and then at one point she said, "Guess what I'm touching," and it escalated from there. I feel terrible because I'm still not ready to go see her because of how the relationship has been and now she's saying she feels used. I think it's both our faults because she initiated it but I also should have thought more and told her to stop or something. Now since I still can't bring myself to drive to her and see her, she feels used.

Was I wrong and all to blame for last night? Or is this part of a way for her to try to get me back (phone sex, guilt, etc)? What do I do?

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<bot>: Gf and I broke up, argued then had phone sex. Since I still can't bring myself to see her yet she feels used. Am I wrong and all to blame? Or is it part her too?