<human>: I've posted a couple other times on here with concerns about this but I'm feeling even shitter now than before. I like one of my coworkers. We started hanging out about once a week about a month ago. Last friday was the 4th time we hung out. I got super drunk and stayed the night at his house and we had sex. Then sober in the morning we hooked up again.

I want to say also that I a) don't drink a lot or party and b) I just got out of an LTR about 6 weeks ago. Some background info.

This guy doesn't text a lot in the first place, but he hasn't texted or called me ONCE since we parted ways Saturday morning and I have had appointments the past 2 days so haven't seen him at work yet. I did text him once over the weekend and he responded with basically a two-word non-response. 

I feel utterly torn on how to act now. Should I act like nothing happened, just as friendly and cheerful as always? I think this is the best chance of him hanging out with me again, which I really want because I do like him. On the other hand, I am NOT okay with what's going on. He is only the 3rd person I've ever had sex with and the other two were serious boyfriends. I'm feeling really bad about myself right now.

I feel like I fucked this up seriously. What I want to know is should I keep acting like I am the type of girl who is fun and doesn't care about what happened and wants to hang out more, or should I just admit that I'm hurt (and most likely have him be weirded out and not want to hang out with me again)?

I would especially appreciate input from guys.

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<bot>: slept with a guy I like after only 4 dates and now he is ignoring me and I'm crushed--want to know how to proceed