<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

I'll try and make this short and sweet. We started seeing each other a couple months ago, things have been generally ok. He's really good on paper, good job and similar politics, wants in life and goals. He's super kind and generous! Really lovely to me and treats me well. Never unkind to me, doesn't raise his voice etc. Just an over all good guy.

But god does he get on my nerves! Sometimes warranted and sometimes unwarranted. I find him a bit negative, like he complains a loooot about things which makes me super un-attracted to him, and he can be a bit whiny. But the biggest problem is ever since I started dating him, I never felt that real spark of chemistry. Like, I liked him and thought he was funny and nice. But I don't miss him when he's not around, and I don't pine after him. I've never felt crazy about him. The sex is also admittedly not bad but not the best.

But he treats me so well, and I know that's hard to find. He's definitely very loyal and sweet. Would never cheat etc. Listens to my problems, is caring and values affection.

Tonight I told him how I have been feeling and that I need time to think. I have no idea what to do.
<bot>: Not sure if I can make up for the lack of chemistry and desire with bf. I really care for him but I know he loves me more than I love him. What to do?