<human>: So, I broke up with my gf of 7 months via telephone (I know, I'm a pussy). Recently I have apologized for doing it over telephone, but will not apologize for actually taking the break, b/c at the time thats how I felt. As a precursor, I should mention that we live roughly 25 minutes away from each other, give or take a few minutes, and I do the vast majority of the driving.  Last week I texted her asking her if we could see each other this coming Saturday to try and work things out.  She ignored me, I made other plans, and now she is mad that I made plans when she "cleared her whole saturday for me", yet she never let me know she did this. I assumed her ignoring my offer meant that she was not willing to see me. I told her that I would cancel my plans if she was willing to take the drive to see me (me doing almost all the driving has been a constant complaint of mine in the relationship which she has constantly ignored), and she is completely unwilling, saying that I should be moving heaven and earth to try and fix things.  Am I wrong for being upset that she will not budge on the one issue that has constantly been bothering me, or is her "old fashioned view that men should do all the driving" well grounded?

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<bot>: recent ex gf won't drive ~25 minutes to try to work things out b.c. "men should do all the driving", when me doing all the driving has been one of my concerns throughout the relationship. advice please.