<human>: I don't even know what has happened. How do you go from adoring someone because you are different to breaking up because you are different. 
After 4 days of break he texted me asking to meet up. We met at the place we had our first date, and he said we are too different and he does not see us long term,and he is not happy anymore. The thing is that we were facing long distance and uncertainty, so I guess he just freaked out and focused on negatives. He forgot what we had. 

My question is is this common in north-american relationships?I am having such a difficult time trying to integrate into this society. In my culture you are happy in a relationship, and if you are not happy with something in a relationship but happy with a person,you talk about it,because if it is not something major (like cash of values,which wasn't a case in our relationship). You don't freak out and end it.

Sorry I am drunk and I am just venting. Maybe I should stop dating locals. Talk to me please, tell me successful stories after hard breakup. Did you find someone else after the breakup?Did you got back?

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<bot>: Boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me because we are different. Our relationship was almost perfect, we were so happy. I am confused. I am just trying to understand dating culture here. Talk to me reddit.