<human>: So my boyfriend and I have known each other for years, just started dating about three years ago. We are still very young, but this is the first serious relationship I have been in. My boyfriend [claims to have] has social anxiety, and I [do] have it as well. 

The reason I am doubtful of his anxiety, is because over the span of our relationship I've found instances where he will not tolerate me talking online to anyone, but he will in fact find it reasonable for him to do so. He has had deep, personal conversations with a girl we both knew online on this one chat website, and a few months after he stopped talking to her I told how much it upset me he was being intimate with her, and he apologized immediately saying... you guessed it... "I didn't know that would upset you. It won't happen again"...

But look where we are, today, yet again. He has found a guild online [WoW] that consists of females and i think two males. I've found him up at obscure hours of the night talking to these guild members [Guildees as he oh so lovingly calls them] and I'm really trying to avoid confrontation for this because he should know by now that it's really not okay... 

Should I bite the bullet and tell him to stop talking to them? It wouldn't bother me as much but in the past I've wanted to talk to people online and he's completely went ape shit on me saying "You should know how bad my anxiety is and I don't want you talking to any people"...

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: My boyfriend talks to a lot of people online but flips out if I say a few words to someone online. What do I do?