<human>: I was born with freedom given by responsibility. My girlfriend was born into a religious and conservative environment. We're been dating for almost 2 years, but we've been friends for a while. Through a long, calm talk, we've identified a list of "red flags". I just simply find her to be a little too reliant on her super conservative parents, who seem to dictate her every move. I also find that she tends to jump into things too much, which has definitely hurt our us more than once. She also raises a flag since I'm not religious, and she has grown up with it. 

I have been willing to compromise to try at least ease her flags - going to church events, helping her parents out, but it hasn't made much of an impact to her, even though I'm trying. She's very adamant on her stances towards mine -- I don't blame her, it's just the way she was raised. I want to change her mind, I want her to be more independent from her parents and focus on our relationship more. I'm tired of being shot down because "my parents said so". I know change can happen in time, but I'm scared it won't -- and she has said she is comfortable the way it is now, and that she doesn't want to change. Many times, I'm not even sure she thinks we're together, because she treats me as an embarrassed friend in public. 

This relationship seems to be going no where, but I don't want to lose my best friend. However, she has made her present stance very clear, and I know I can't stay in this relationship if they remain that way in 5+ years. She's grown up with these views, and even though our discussion has led to her admitting that she may have preferred a much more free lifestyle, she is unwilling to try and change. Should I hold on to the hope she may change in the future? What should I do?

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<bot>: My girlfriend and I don't see eye-to-eye to future problems. Although they may arise later, the chances are slim and I don't know whether I can wait that long.