<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

Story short: my mom is a narcissist that is incredibly talented in taking emotionally advantage of me since I was a child. As the result, I like hanging around my dad.

Now, her relationship with me has become pretty strained. I used to do whatever she told me to, listened to all her hurtful rants w/e, but now I'm just done with her. But for the sake of the rest of the family, I don't try to stir things up. 

Her, on the other hand, always try to stir things up. Because I don't talk to her, she tries to get my attention with snide comments, and bashing in my dad. Because I don't agree with her opinions, she blame it on my dad. Whenever I do or don't do anything, she just pours everything on my dad. "Your dad taught you to do this," "Your dad has brainwashed you."

 She's a grownass adult and I can't even make any argument she disagrees with without her bashing my dad for being related to it somehow. It pisses me off. What can I do about this situation?
<bot>: mom throws constant tantrums and bashes on dad for everything I say even when he's not even related to said stuff.