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I apologize if the title doesn't make a lot of sense.

So me and my girlfriend both live in the same dorm room at uni (I am first year she is second), and after a dull first semester having no friends I decided to start being more outgoing. I have started to make friends except the problem is that whenever I make a friend that is female my girlfriend gets really angry with me, and we end up in a fight. I've asked her why she is getting upset, and she responded by saying she trusts me but is insecure and feels that I will get bored of her and cheat on her.

 
Hearing her say that definitely has bothered me, and I do understand that she is insecure, but I find it is unfair to me that I would have to stop talking to friends that are female just because my girlfriend isn't okay with it (I am totally fine with her hanging out with her male friends). It's already hard to make friends. It has gotten to the point where if a female friend asks to hang out I feel like I have to lie to my girlfriend to avoid a fight (I know that is a bad idea).

I have also tried to get her to hang out with us except she declines and pouts for a while, I don't understand what to do.
I feel like I am in a lose lose situation where either I continue to hang out with female friends and fight with my girlfriend, or stop hanging out with the opposite gender all together to make my girlfriend happy
<bot>: Having a tough time making friends. Girlfriend isn't making it easier by getting mad at me when a female wants to be friends. I feel that it is unfair to me. I don't really know what to do now.