<human>: My exfiance and I had a bad breakup. Worst breakup I ever had. She decided on the phone 4 weeks ago that it was goodbye for good over the phone. Been in No Contact since. I've come very close to texting or calling her. But I've stayed strong. If I thought the relationship was salvageable I would. But she's not an emotionally stable person. 

Now every time she's in town she's driving by my house. I live 45 minutes away from her, and out of the way. She drives by slowly too and I've been outside while shes done this so I've noticed. 

I want to call, and I want to text. But it was her choice to say goodbye not mine. I'm sure this is a no brainer for the emotionally disconnected. But I don't know if I should or should not break contact. Is she sending me a sign to break that? Why would she drive by. I've had about 5 girls over and I think she might have seen at least 1 here while she drove by. 

Is she just doing it to drive by see me? Or see if I'm with anybody or wtf?

Having a hard time staying strong on this one.

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<bot>: exfiance of 2.5 breaks up with me and says goodbye for good. Now drives by my house frequently which is way out of the way for her. What gives?