<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

My BF of 4 years, works a very busy job (lawyer), while I am a work from home graphic designer, I recognize that he probably works 70+ hours a week and for me it is more part time. 

Well, I do most of the house work. He always promises to do it but he is so busy that he never does. Cooking has been our main conflict. 

He always gets take out and junk food. Like every single day. Early on in the relationship, I told him I will never cook for him, and he sweetly told me that he is proud of me for not falling into gender stereotypes, that was when I knew I found the man of my dreams. Well... lately, I am getting bothered by his habits of take out every single night. 

I ended up telling him if he does not stop eating out we are going to have trouble. So he agreed to start cooking for himself. 

Last night we go to the grocery store, and he is choosing hot pockets, frozen pizzas and macaroni. I tell him this does NOT count as cooking, and that I want him to learn how to do it, because he is just buying the frozen food equivalent of takeout.

Then right there in the frozen aisle he breaks down practically crying, saying he just wants someone to cook for him, and "why do you have to be such a feminist that you can't cook for me at least sometimes." He said that he has no time to do it and doesn't even know what to buy or how to cook.

We then ended up getting take out and going home. The reason I don't cook for him is because I already do most the house work and I do not want to be a 1950s girlfriend. I am also vegan and don't like to touch meat, and I'm not even a great cook myself. How do we get through this? 

I should add that early on in our relationship when he brought up having a cook come and cook for him every week, I told him that would be a deal breaker for me because I do not want strangers coming into my house. So we are at a stand still.
<bot>: My lawyer boyfriend refuses to do any house work and cooking has come between us. I told him, no more takeout, and he cried, saying he needs someone to cook for him.