<human>: I've been dating a guy for about 2 months now and he is great. We always have fun together, he is incredibly nice, he has paid for everything (not that I haven't tried), and on my pathetic list of "prince charming qualities" he fits all of them perfectly (except for one). I mean, he's showered me with flowers at home and at work, gotten us a carriage ride through the city, and pulls these incredibly romantic gestures. And he really is a great guy.

But, I don't have any feelings towards him. I have fun when we are out, but it's more about what we do, than who I am doing it with. I don't daydream about him, I feel no butterflies, and I don't want to kiss him (we haven't yet). I feel pathetic because he is wonderful, and yet I feel dead inside when I'm with him and trying to like him.

My relatives keep telling me to wait and give him more chances, that I "will learn to love him." They say that he would make a wonderful husband and that I should be looking for someone to spend my life with, not someone who makes my heart flutter.

But, I want that. I want to be nervous and flustered. I want to long to pounce on a guy. I want to care that he hadn't texted me for a week. I want to get intimate and not feel kind of repulsed doing it. Although they are perfectly right about him being a perfect mate...I just don't feel anything towards him.

Also, I really do want to get married and have a family. The idea of being alone for many more years frightens me....and I've never really had a relationship before. What if this is it? What if this is what being in a relationship is like? I keep asking myself those questions. 

I mean, should I stay with this wonderful guy, even though I do not care for him....what if I will never meet a man as kind and perfect (in regards to my desired partner qualities) as him? 

Any help, advice, or personal experience would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.

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<bot>: Dating perfect guy for 2 months, feel nothing for him. Leave perfect guy or stay? What if I never find someone as good as him?