<human>: Okay, so I'm new to the subreddit, so please correct me if I'm doing this wrong, I read the reddiquette but it's not very detailed. 

I'm friends with this girl, we've been friends for about 3 months and I already trust her more than anyone else, she's my best friend, and I'm hers. She is terrified of hurting anyones feelings on anything and I'm the only one she feels she can talk to. I like her, a lot. She's beautiful, smart, funny, nice, and just plain amazing. She likes me too, some of our conversations have probably crossed a line or two but that's how I know for sure that she does like me. Problem is, she has a boyfriend. He's obnoxious, doesn't care when she's upset, guilt trips her to get his way, rude, and ignores her when there is something else that he's interested in. She's unhappy, not that she would admit that to anyone but me and I really wish I could be with her. She says she's getting fed up with it so there's a chance it will end soon. No matter what happens I will still be friends with her, I'm not one of those friendzone assholes whose only their friend until they figure out they won't get laid. Question is, should I try to convince her to break up with him sooner? He's making her miserable and it drives me insane. She's convinced her life purpose is to sacrifice her happiness to make others happy and is terrified of hurting him. I just want her to be happy.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: She's too much of an Abnegation to dump an emotionally abusive asshole. Should I try to help her get the courage?