<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

i'm an incredibly stubborn person but this makes 0 out of 5 relationships/dating/whatever that have died for me within the first 3 months. 

this last break up came out of nowhere and same with the other ones was caused by (almost verbatum) the following reasons:

'i have other things in my life right now and i just don't have time for you' / i don't want to make time for you' / 'you are not worth that much i'm sorry it's not you it's me.'

is it really possible, 5 times in a row, that there's no inherent flaw with me that causes these things? if that's the case, how do you cope with that? there's nothing i can 'change' to make it better. how do you not give up?
<bot>: dumped again, for exact same reasons as the first 4 times i've been in relationships. all five guys said it wasn't me in any way shape or form. is that even possible?