<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

My husband had a female friend he worked with (Alicia) him and, her were very close.

She was very beautiful and I was a little insecure but I let it go because I thought she was just a good friend.

Her and my husband were very close I would be lying if I said I wasn't jealous but I was. Sometimes I could have swore she was flirting with him but thought I was imagining things.

I went to get something from the glove compartment in the car and found something unusual. A pair of black lace underwear I don't own any like that and, they looked small for me so they couldn't have been mine.

I asked him about them but he said he didn't know where they came from so I dropped it but didn't let it go. Something in my gut told me that something wasn't right so I did something bad and snooped.

I found the most disgusting things on his phone pictures of her naked her spreading her legs. Pictures of her and him together doing things and even a video of them, it was so gross I threw up.

I confronted him and, was really ready for a divorce but he begged to stay so I gave him another chance.

This happened 7 months ago he's been a better husband has given up all his privacy. He ended things with her from what I can tell and we are scheduled to go to counseling in 2 weeks.

We had an argument and somehow it turned into an argument about his cheating. I was very angry and said "if you don't like it that much maybe that tramp can be your new wife" (I know it was wrong but I didn't mean it).

And he said point blank while looking me in the eye "don't talk about her like that" and, walked away. For some reason I'm hurt why would he defended her after everything does he really value her that much.

Am I right to be hurt?.
<bot>: my husband had an affair he cut contact with her and is trying to fix our marriage I said something about his affair partner and, he told me not to "talk about her like that".