<human>:  My wife isn't obeying me. How can I make her behave?
<bot>: I'm sorry to hear you're having trouble with your wife. I’m not trained in couples therapy, but I think there are several possible underlying reasons that your wife might be resisting your directions: perhaps she has questions or concerns about the reason for her direction, perhaps she disagrees with your course of action, or perhaps she’s not comfortable with the relationship dynamic that leads you to give her directions. You might ask her what she would prefer to be directed by, and also tell her about why you’re giving her that direction.