<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

This is my first appeal to Reddit for advice. I've got a girl situation. How original, right? OK, so here's the thing:

This girl and I are in the same courses for graduate study. We often meet over coffee; we used to talk about our failed attempts at romance in this town. Anyway, things turned complicated quickly when I sensed that she wanted to to talk about being more than study buddies. We had a long, convoluted (through not fault of her or I particularly) conversation over the Internet, during which she asked me if I thought we were compatible. We had some intense conversations after that. She finally admitted to flirting with me to "test the waters and, possibly, feel better about a recent rejection," but says ultimately she's not attracted to me. I thought her honesty about it was refreshing. I'm not that kind of dude who takes a "fuck that $#@*" stance whenever I get hurt or rejected; it seems silly.

Anyway, I couldn't leave well enough alone and I told her to talk to me about it should things change for her. We'll continue to stay friends in the meantime. We've gotten to this weird place where we are just honest about, I think, the natural human / physiological shit that gets in the way of opposite sex friendships. I would like to think it's a good place to be. So, Reddit, some questions:

1) Will this end in tears? Can we actually maintain a platonic friendship after this conversation?
2) Is there actually a chance she'll come around? I admire a lot about her and wouldn't mind that, but I'm certainly not expecting it.
3) Did I respond appropriately? I need some affirmation here, perhaps. I'm worried that I'm being passive-agressive by not getting particularly upset about her admission to what some people might see as toying with my emotions.
<bot>: Girl seems to be flirting, admits that she is, but ultimately says she's not interested. Some questions about that just above.