<human>: There is a stigma about being a virgin and it bothers me often. The girl I am in (mutual) love with (not dating yet) might be too young for me. I hang out with her and go to dinner occasionally but I'm not sure if I should make a move. Recently, we planned a road trip to visit her brother and party at his college together, 2hrs. each way(excited). There are other girls I like in my life who flirt with me, but the juxtaposition is nothing compared to the girl I love. Please understand that I'm not trying to use theses girls for sex I have genuine relationships with all of them.

Do you think I should lose my virginity to a girl I like or wait for the girl I love? How long should I wait, 3 months when she's 17, next year (when she's a senior), when she graduates idk, please help.
Also, forgot to mention that I'm going to community college for one more year then transferring to a school in the city(45mins away)
Note: I live in NY (17 is the age of consent but since I'm less than 4yrs. older she could still give consent).

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: In love with a girl; should I wait for her, date her, make a move or become more involved with the girls flirting with me my own age.