<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

We met a 2 months ago at a Halloween party I hosted, and we hit it off, talking, laughing and eventually getting hot and heavy. I made an effort to not ruin this new relationship by sleeping with her on the first meeting, and for the next couple of weeks we could not stop talking to eachother. This woman happens to be one of my roommates best friends, and I know that she put in a really good word for me.

We met up again a couple of weekends later and hit it off again. Since then she seems to have gotten a bit cold, not really responding to me, specifically when I have asserted my keenness to meet up again (more than once).

Whilst I have tried to stop talking to her as much, it certainly feels like I am often just talking 'at' her, and she has never really asked me anything about myself.
My fear is that I have been too over zealous, and have come across as clingy, or potentially said something that ruined what feelings she had before. The other plausible explanation is that she is too scared and damaged from her previous relationships (which i know to at least be a factor).

I need advice how to play this out, I really don't want to lose her, as I haven't felt like this in a long time; Please help me from over thinking and ruining the chance to salvage whatever this relationship is.
I can provide more details, as it is slightly more complicated than I have let on, but I did not wan't want to inundate reddit with walls of text. Thanks in advance!
<bot>: A woman I am interested in, and I know who WAS interested in me, has recently stopped responding to me. I need advice how to make my next moves