<human>:  If a co-worker said nasty things about you behind your back to other co-workers what would you do or say?
<bot>: I would probably bring it up with them in a one-on-one conversation and say something like, “I heard that you made some comments about me to the other people in the group, and that was hurtful. I hope you would have just talked to me about it in private and that wouldn’t have been necessary.”