<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

I told her when we started seeing each other I do drugs (she didn't do any before meeting me) and that I won't be quitting for anyone.  She's since warmed up a bit, trying some with me from time to time.  I used to smoke with friends once in a while.  But she has an almost zero tolerance policy of me doing anything without her being present.  If I go out with friends its upsetting for me to smoke because she says that I shouldn't have to rely on it for having fun.  I of course explain if I'm only doing it a couple times a month I don't need it, but I still enjoy it.

I'm not sure how to go about working this out.  I know I'm being selfish by saying I won't quit for her, but I feel like I was upfront about that at the beginning which was the most fair way I could handle things.  

Have any of you been in similar situations?  Or have advice for how I can help ease her worries about it?
<bot>: How have you and your partner reconciled differences in drug usage?  Is there hope of me being able to smoke pot without her getting upset?