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I've been with my bf for almost 3 years now. For the past year things have gone downhill. Anytime I try to discuss something with him, be it minor or not,  he sighs and says 'here we go!' I already know that at that point he's shut down and not listening.  Then when I talk he flat out says 'I don't care' and sometimes I get upset about that because I just want him to listen.  If I show any emotion he calls me a drama queen and says he's had enough of me getting angry and 'berating him'..  But I don't feel that asking him a freaking question is berating him.   I've read some online articles about 'crazy making'  and that seems to me like that is what he's doing.  One minute he's cuddling up to me,  then I can unknowingly/unintentionally say something that rubs him the wrong way,  and he leaves the house to go party with his friends. 

I've tried to explain to him that I've made accommodations for him when he was uncomfortable,  so I'd appreciate him giving me some of the same because relationships are give and take.  He yelled at me to shut up,  put a pillow over his ears then stormed out the door. One minute he wants me to leave and the next he's asking me to stay.  What the heck do I do?
<bot>: bf physically and emotionally shuts me out whenever I try to say something he doesn't want to hear, need advice.