<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

We've just hit our two year mark and we had a major blow out recently where I essentially related to him how his emotional absence makes me feel lonely, frustrated and sad.  Not feeling comfortable enough to talk with my boyfriend about regular, day-to-day events and hear a response that is caring and engaging (and perhaps even a story of his own in reply) is extremely depressing.  

He understands what I need from him, and he's generally been very good with working on his shortcomings in order to make me happy, but I'm unsure about whether it will stick or not.  When talking with a girlfriend of mine, she related to me that she would have similar problems with her boyfriend but he would just revert back to his old behaviour after a while of mild improvement.  She ended up breaking up with him and she told me that my boyfriend is like all men - they won't change - and that I might have to break up with him.

I love my boyfriend so much - I really want this to work out, but I'm not sure how common my girlfriend's case is.  I know he loves me just as much (if not, more) than I love him, but I want to hear stories from other guys and girls about men working on themselves for the women in their lives.  Does it work?  Does it not work?  Why?
<bot>: I'm asking my boyfriend to be more emotionally reciprocating, but I'm not sure how common it is for men to "change" for their partners.  Agree/Disagree?