<human>: First post on my first account but have been a lurker for about six months or so. I finally couldn't keep it in anymore and noticed so many people getting excellent advise so I figured why not give it a try. 

Used friend in quotes because he is really more of my ex-boyfriend from our 8 year relationship that ended a little less than a month ago. The last three weeks have been really crazy. We broke up because it seemed that our love had faded away for each other and to try and get over him I slept with someone else. In doing so it only pushed me closer to him and realized that I still am madly in love with him and still want to work things out with him, and he still wants to work things out with me.

Here is where the problem lies. 

I am his one and only and but have had before and after him and now he and I both feel that he should at least try and have sex with another girl to see what it is like. How is he to know if he really wants to work on us if I'm the only ones he's ever been with and he has never experienced anything else? 

Is there any way I myself can help him accomplish this sooner so that we know where we stand. We both hate that after 8 years things have to come down to this in order for us to figure shit out. Is it something that has to been done?

Probably left a lot of stuff out so ask any questions and I'll fill you in

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<bot>: How do I help my ex-boyfriend have sex with another girl so he can finally experience what it is like before we can continue our own relationship? I am his one and only but I have had before and after.