<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

This is a repost as my first one was not approved just FYI. 

So ill give a little background. We have been monogamously fooling around for about 9 months now. We have similar backgrounds both coming out of a divorce, him about 2 years ago me about a year ago. Everything started like your normal friend with benefits situation, just booty calls. Then we started spending more and more time together. We hang out at his place almost everyday. 

When it started to go down this route I tried to stop it as I knew I would get attached spending that much time with him. I even asked to go back to booty calls. He said no and wanted to continue to hang out or not doing anything at all. He did NOT want to end it.  

Seeing as we have an amazing sexual connection and I might have already been a little attached I agreed to continue. Now I am madly in love with this man and don't know what to do. He doesn't want to end and says he cares about me but does not want to do date due to "he needs to figure stuff out before he decides to date anybody" his exact words. I did tell him that I love him and he told me it "puts pressure on him". Part of me feels he is afraid to connect with someone again as his ex wife seriously hurt him. I want to end it just as badly as I want to continue. Sometimes I think its just wishful thinking and maybe down the road we will make it official, other times I just see this ending up as a bad heart break. I don't know what to do.
<bot>: FWB relationship issues. Not moving forward with relationship but not ending it either. Dont know if I should stay for the long haul and see what happens or run for the hills now.