<human>: My boyfriend and I live together. We have great sex, although only 1-3x per week. He has been easily stressed out lately and is less in the mood than normal. Also, he has been unemployed for a few months, and since then, spends many hours a day straight playing video games. Most week nights, he is playing video games when I come home and still when I go to bed. Unless we go hang out with other friends, he acts like he is stressed out and just wants to zone out to video games. 

I didn't think sex was an issue until last night, although I would prefer a bit more frequently. I had noticed that he has been less in the mood lately, and would occasionally turn down sex, implying he was too tired or stressed (I don't even know what he could be tired or stressed out about). Last night was one of these nights, he just wanted to play video games and said he wasn't in the mood. 

Then this morning there is a bunch of porn in the search history of my laptop. (I had been looking for a link I saw yesterday, not to check on what he was up to.) 

When I talked to him about it, and said I felt rejected, he said I was being ridiculous, he didn't do anything wrong, and it's much different to masturbate than be with someone else. He said it is just a personal thing, not that he would want to be with anyone else. I still feel rejected. To me, masturbating is still a sexual act, and he still didn't want to have sex with me. He also indicated that this has happened previously, when he turned me down for sex, me thinking because he was tired or not in the mood, only to masturbate later while I slept. He seemed totally unapologetic or understanding. 

I'm all for masturbation and porn, I don't think that itself is wrong. But am I wrong to feel hurt?

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<bot>: My boyfriend would rather play video games and masturbate to porn than hang out and have sex with me. How would you feel?