<human>: I have been talking to this girl for about two weeks now and I have been hitting it off really well with her. She's living kinda far away until college starts and is moving in on my birthday.
But here's catch #1, her last relationship ended badly and her ex was abusive. He cheated on her and stole stuff behind her back. So she obviously has trust issues. I told her recently that I had anger management problems that I worked on, but she still seemed to get scared cause I'm a big guy. I tried comforting her but she still was nervous. I want to know what is the best route to make sure she feels comfortable with me. 
Catch #2, I don't want to fall too fast for her and be hurt. We have talked about dating in college and stuff cause we both prefer relationships to hookups and etc. I just don't want to mess it up because I do like her a lot. Now we have gone on a date b/c she was in town for a little and hit it off amazingly. But I wanted to use this next month to get to know her and get closer but I wanted to know how to do it properly... 
Sorry if I sound like an idiot, my parents weren't really there for me when I was younger when it came to teaching me about relationships and I have had a bad one already...

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<bot>: I want to not mess up a potential relationship and want advice on how to comfort someone with a past bad relationship and how to manage the pace of it.