<human>: Recently divorced my(f36) husband(m44) after about 7 years of marriage.  Things have been crappy for the last several years as he was unemployed, with more motivation to play WoW than to look for work or do much of anything around the house.  I kept my mouth shut and tried not to be naggy, perhaps to a fault. Plenty of other issues with him – like when he asked me if we should get new carpet, and I said I didn't want to spend money on that right now, and then came home from a business trip to new, ugly carpet.

So we were scheduled to start marriage counseling when the police raided our home.  I was away on business that week, and when I called home, he didn't even tell me about it.  When I got home, he had to tell me—how else would he explain the computers being gone?  He was convicted of having and sharing child pornography, and is now a felony sex offender.

So far it's been months and he hasn't told his family what he did.  He just told them I was a bitch and was tired of him not having a job and left him.  Obviously, his conviction would devastate his mother – but she'd probably find a way to blame me and exonerate him of any guilt anyways.

Can I tell his family? Should I? Am I just being spiteful?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Deadbeat lazy husband gave me an easy route to divorce with a felony porn conviction. Tell in-laws or ignore and run?