<human>: Background info, been dating this girl for almost a year and a half, we've been through a deployment and have been long distance with constant weekend visits.

Recently, I turned 21 and have been in the process of getting my conceal carry permit. Its not a matter of being paranoid to the point that I need a gun, or that I'm hoping someone is going to shoot at me. For me, its an insurance policy. Better to have it and not need it than to not have it and need it, right? I have the training to properly use a pistol since its my job, I actively seek out outside training constantly, and I'm typically one to back away from a fight.

My girlfriend however views it as me being entirely paranoid and wants me to compromise on carrying it 24/7. She says she'd allow me carrying it during road trips and nightly walks. Anything else will make her uncomfortable and cause her to leave the relationship.

I've begged and pleaded with her to at least wait until I get the permit and start carrying regularly, but unfortunately she's been stubborn and refuses to at least give it a trial run. I don't know what to do, and this has been a point of contention for the past couple of days.

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<bot>: Gf [21F] doesn't want me to conceal carry a pistol 24/7 and is willing to leave me over it. Looking for advice.