<human>: I posted this in r/sex earlier but didn't get much response so thought I would try here. 

Like I said in the title, I was raped a year ago. I don't feel it is necessary to go into full detail here. I had been with my boyfriend a year at the time. I didn't tell him as I wanted to try to forget about it and carry on with my life. I didn't see him for about a week after it happened, and our sex life continued as normal when we did. I have thought about it this year but never really felt had deeply traumatized me and affected me as much as it does with some other people.
Recently we were having a heart to heart about our relationship and I broke down and told him about it. He was devastated, and upset I hadn't told him. He has been great about it though and really supportive.

However, the few times we've had sex since I told him, I've been running into some problems. I have difficulty getting wet and turned on during foreplay, which has never been even the slightest of an issue before. Also, he's tried going on top a couple of times, but the feeling of his weight on me, with his hands on my shoulders, makes me feel so trapped and helpless, and I have to stop sex so I can go on top. I used to love it when he was dominant in bed, but now I hate it when he guides my hips when I'm on top.

Can you provide a brief overview of the text?
<bot>: Was raped a year ago, told my boyfriend last week and don't enjoy sex as much now. What can I do to get past this and enjoy having sex with him again?