<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

My daughter was EBF until 6 months and has been eating solids 3 times a day for about 2-3 months. She seems to enjoy eating, when she feels like it but seems to enjoy the breast more. She will only eat a good sized (2-3tbsp) meal every 3 or so days, usually we struggle to get 1 tbsp down per meal. In her high chair she is uninterested in food and would rather chat at me or the cat, play with the clips on her seat, look at the fridge, etc. She is very easily distracted. I follow her cues and stop feeding when I think she has had enough, usually a meal lasts 30-45 minutes. Then I offer the breast, since she hasn't figured out any kind of cup for drinking water and she drinks a normal meal amount of breast milk which leads me to believe she could have eaten way more solids than she did. 
I intend to BF her until she is a toddler (2-3 years old) and want to have her down to just bedtime and through the night feeds by the time she is 12-14 months. I just have no idea what I am doing. She doesn't seem to have increased the amount she eats at a meal since we started solids. I have seen kids her age pack away the food. How can I help her to get more interested in eating and less into nursing so that we can start to wean? Any help or ideas would be appreciated. 
Side note: I was concerned about this but not worried until I spent the weekend with my in-laws and all we did was clash about how little she eats, how she doesn't open her mouth and about what I feed her, specifically don't feed her, but that's another post all together.
<bot>: Baby prefers breast milk to solids, in-laws have me worried. How do I get her to eat more real food?