<human>: This is my first post on Reddit, so bear with me.

I have been dating my boyfriend seriously for almost three years.  Up until recently, it's been an amazing relationship with nothing to worry about.  Our parents are on board and we're in it for the long run.  Unfortunately, what I thought would last a lifetime is starting to fall apart around me, and I don't know what to do about it.

About a week ago, we fought. Of course, couples fight, no big deal.  This fight was different.  It almost ended the relationship I thought I would be in until I died, and I'm not sure how to bounce back from it.  

Communication is a huge problem for us.  Ever since our relationship started 3 years ago, we've been texting constantly.  The texting is the thing that makes what would have been nothing, something.

This time, I, being a typical girl, overreacted about something stupid, and the fight kept getting deeper and deeper until it was about something completely different, but still important to me.  

After talking things through, we decided to stop texting completely.  We call each other at least once a day, and we attempt to Skype whenever possible (although the Skype thing hasn't happened yet).  Both of our schedules are semi-busy, so that doesn't help.

I'm someone that, when someone upsets me, it's extremely hard to get over it and act like everything is fine.  He is somebody that tries to forgive and forget right away.  They say opposites attract, but I think we may have reached our breaking point, no matter how hard we try to prevent it.

My boyfriend is also very unmotivated. I worry about his future (which is also my future) to the point where I become a "mother" to him.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: I have issues with communication and my boyfriend has issues getting motivated.  What advice can I give him to become motivated? What can I do to get over arguments quickly?