<human>: My SO and I have a fundamental difference of opinion on how to deal with differences of opinion.

I believe that open communication on virtually any topic is essential to the health of a relationship. I stated this expectation from the beginning, and he claimed to agreed with it. I have since come to suspect that his philosophy practically required agreeing, to not do so would be to start an argument. 

He says that broaching any topic that even smells of disagreement is creating problems out of nothing. Any and all disagreements will definitely lead to an argument. No disagreement can ever be resolved, and no problem can ever be solved; our only option is to not discuss anything unpleasant EVER.

For the most part, we get along well. I can only imagine that is how we ever lasted this long.

However, whenever there is stress or tension from other parts of our lives or if minor misunderstandings occur there is no way to become on his good side again without completely dropping the issue and never bringing it up again. Which is what I have actually adjusted to doing, to my own disbelief. 

But lately, resentments have been bubbling to the surface on his side, and past disagreements get reignited. If I ask if he is upset at me about something I get accused of stirring up trouble. I try to explain that I want to try to fix the bads, not make them worse. He says that talking will only make things worse.

Every argument ends with him stating he is miserable and wants out. And to be honest, I feel the same way at this point. Can you guess what happens when I try to bring up actually breaking up (sorting out our shared finances, lease, etc, etc)?

I get attacked for starting another argument. 

I'm trapped in relationship hell.

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<bot>: Is there any possible resolution when one partner feels communication is worthless, but the relationship is in need of serious attention? Can a relationship be mended by means other than communication?