<human>: I've been seeing her for 4 months now and everything is going well, we enjoy going out for food, drinks, events, etc. During our tour de faires she will unabashedly let me pay for 90% of all the things we do together without batting an eye. She very rarely offers or even gestures to split or pay.

 We both have fulltime jobs and I don't make much more than her. We live in NC and I'm not from here but she is and I think that may partly explain it. Up until now I have written all of these expenses off as the costs of courting her and kind of postponed having the money conversation for as long as I can. She does generally thank me later on in the night for dinner or whatever. 

Recently I've been feeling more taken advantage of by her silently having me pay for everything and I'm resenting it. I have the tendency to become withdrawn when upset and then make things uncomfortable until the person asks whats wrong and I tell them brashly. I would like to avoid it coming to a head like that if I can. I think this conversation needs to happen soon and I'm wondering what the best approach for it is. I don't want to be accusatory or make her feel attacked and I definitely don't want to develop a stigma surrounding money every time we do anything. Thanks!

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<bot>: I pay for the vast majority of the things me and my girflriend do together and I'd like that to change.