<human>: Hello wolfs!

I hope that I ask in a correct subreddit. What I found out from observing highly motivated people around me, those who motivates themself just because they want more from their lifes, or those whose life is pretty (sorry, I couldn't find a better word to describe it) fucked up, that they are tough.

I mean, they are capable to handle more, they are physically? or mentally prepared to fight against odds, not to worry and get something from life.

I have to confess that I have a pretty fucked up life too. I'm doing my best to motivate myself, I blocked almost every single website that I used to procrastinate with. If I am on reddit, in 95% of time is this subreddit. I started working out, took additional courses, but at the end of the day I'm just shit scared of life and not capable to take serious action to fix those things that really need to be fixed. And I'm afraid that I'm not capable to be tough, because all my life from my childhood I was just 'mentally weak'.

I am curious what are your experience with being tough my dear wolfs? Especially those of you, who had some serious problems with your life? Did you learn to be tough, or you were just born with that?

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<bot>: So how to be tough? Or is that something that you can't learn, and you either born with it or not and should prepare yourself for failure in life?