<human>: I have very limited experience with men, and I can't seem to connect with guys around my age.

I've tried dating websites: I've been interested in a few guys I've been out with, but things always seem to fizzle out around the third date. 

Dudes I've met at clubs : have been generally too persistent.  By persistent I mean like several voicemail messages the day after I give my number. I think because I'm sort of reserved and passive, I tend to attract the opposite sort. 

Miscellaneous people I've met through friends or work: are either too old for me (10 years is a reasonable limit I think, but I have old people hobbies) or would make my life super messy.  

In general, the dudes I have gone out with who are in my age group are either playing weird games or don't like me as much as I would hope (taking days to respond to texts, contacting me to hang out at the last minute, etc) . 

I've spoken to a therapist, and he didn't think it was a big deal when we spoke, and due to insurance issues I won't be able to follow up with him.

Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?
<bot>: can't connect with guys, curious as to whether I am an accidental weirdo, or if this is how hard it's supposed to be.