<human>: I'm an openly bisexual woman and have been with my boyfriend for a little less than a couple months. Neither he nor I has ever been with another girl before, so I told him I would be okay with threesomes on a few conditions: 1.) Only with bisexual girls - he is straight and it would not be fair for me or him to essentially have sex with someone while the other watched; 2.) We both have to be attracted to and approve of the third - again, so neither of us ends up having sex while the other awkwardly watches/doesn't want to be involved; and 3.) No further sexual contact/messaging/sexting, etc. with the person after the threesome is done, except for the case of doing another threesome in person. He agreed to these rules.

However, as for "real" (anything where we could easily contact the people, e.g. Gonewild or Tumblr)/interactive porn, sexting, etc., I am completely against either of us doing these with someone outside the relationship, and feel it is a form of cheating or at least too personal. Is it hypocritical of me to be okay with threesomes but not with one-on-one sexual messaging, etc. outside the relationship? He hasn't expressed any issue with it but I wonder if the people of Reddit think it's hypocritical or wrong.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: I am okay with threesomes with my boyfriend and another bi girl but not with one-on-one sexting, camgirl stuff, etc. outside the relationship. Wondering if this is hypocritical or weird.