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Well, first I should tell you a little bit about her. I know her since we're very young (10 yo), but she was just a friend I didn't have much relation with. After years of not being in touch with her, we met at college in 2014. We started talking more and more, and I discovered that she was extremely smart and we shared a lot of interests. 

Long story short, after a lot of comings and goings we started dating like 3 months ago. 

She is very weird in many aspects: she doesn't like hugs or holding hands, she doesn't like me to tell her cute things. And of course she never does this things unless I ask her to. 

She has already told me more than once that she doesn't believe in love, that she only "loved" once (an ex bf she had). She says that she is never gonna love again. 

Sometimes she tells me really mean things. For example, the other day we were chatting and she asked me if I could ever be unfaithful to her (I told her that of course no). Then I asked her the same question and she told me that she couldn't answer because she never knows what can happen. She then told me not to listen to what she'd said. This is just one example from many.

On the other hand, I have to admit that she is really honest, she is really confused with herself and if I have to describe her I'd say she doesn't even like herself. And I forgot to tell, last year we were in a kind of relationship that wasn't serious, I wanted to date her but she didn't cause she still hadn't really overcome her ex (and she told me that).

I think she has some psychiatric issues like bipolarity and alexithymia. 

What should I do? Any advices? Am I exaggerating a little bit? Is she isn't that weird or unloving? Thank you very much

P.S: her mother died when she was very young (6 yo), that certainly had a major impact on her personality
<bot>: i'm dating someone who doesn't believe in love. I've been having an informal relationship with her for almost 2 years but now we are officially because she has overcome her ex.