<human>: So about 3 months ago, my girlfriend of 5 years turned around and said she can't do a relationship anymore. Reasons being:
1) doesn't know who she is by herself
2) doesn't know how to be happy/handle stress by herself
3) doesn't want to factor someone else into making important decisions right now
and I suspect
4) feels like I'm already looking 10 steps down the road and am already committed to marrying her

We have had a good amount of contact since, and it's clear that we both still love each other. She has told me repeatedly that when she feels ready to be with someone, she wants it to be me. I didn't want to break up, and on a personal and emotional level I'm pretty sure we are two people meant to be together. Is there a way that I can let her know that:
a) there is no pressure whatsoever to rush our relationship
b) I have absolutely no problem with us being together and spending less time together and more time pursuing our own individual lives, friendships etc 
c) when it comes to making big decisions, plan for the individual and if we are meant to work, we'll find a way to work with the decision thats made. aka cross that bridge when we come to it, no pressure.

any advice would be appreciated. I really hope we can find a way to make it work. I love her very much.

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<bot>: how can I show my ex-gf that all the pressure she feels comes from our relationship only comes from her head, and she doesn't need to feel it?!