<human>: I have been big my whole life and start gaining about 20 kilos a year from the age of 15 onwards as a result of lack of exercise and stress eating. I'm now 168 Kilos (370 pounds). 

I don't drive so I still walk everywhere and I do try to watch what I eat, but with my work I miss breakfast, have a chicken salad roll or sushi or something for lunch and then a big dinner like steak and chips, or chicken and veggies. I'm not a big dessert eater, my weakness is salty foods like chips and jerky etc. 

I'm trying to be as honest as I can and I will admit I identify as a bigger person and that stops me from doing a lot of things. I immediately assume that no-one could ever be attracted to me so I haven't really had relationships, I used to love theme parks and now the bars don't fit over my chest or stomach so I don't go anymore. I hate the boardroom chairs at work because the armrests cut off my circulation. 

I have massive amounts of fluid retention in my legs which can ache later in the day depending on how much standing I've been doing. Doctors told me it was either my heart, kidneys, or liver. All three have been tested and there's nothing wrong with them. So far I've been lucky and my cholesterol is within normal range, blood sugar is perfect and doctors can't find anything technically wrong with me besides my weight and water retention.

Instead of loathing myself for being bigger I kind of just accepted that it's who I am. But If I keep going at this rate something will go wrong and I'll die. The human frame can only handle so much weight right? I have to do something about it. Just looking for some support, advice or info. Thanks.

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<bot>: I am technically healthy aside from water retention but I'm 24 yrs old and weigh 168 Kilos (370 pounds).