<human>: My Gran is in the final stage of dying of liver / bowel cancer in palliative care. The last time I saw her was a week ago when I went to say my goodbyes, while she was still semi-conscious. We were told then that she would be gone a day or two after that, so we made the time count and felt at peace when we left. However, somehow, she's still holding on, although now unconscious and not in any pain that we're aware of. 

I don't think I can face saying goodbye again. I have no regrets with her - in fact we had a great relationship - and I just would rather have my last memories of her as being a peaceful and comfortable goodbye, rather than seeing her as a broken shell of the person I knew. Unfortunately the rest of my family, especially my parents who *didn't* have the greatest relationship with her, think that there should be someone there at all times, "just so that she knows there's someone there". I find myself wondering if it's a guilt thing for them, i.e., they had a crappy relationship with her while she was alive, so now they're trying to make up for it.

It's a terrible situation because I catch myself hoping she goes soon, so that I will stop being "guilted" into going to see her, when I really just would rather not. We also have 2 young children (3 and 5) who are beginning to be affected by the stress of it all, so that's a factor too. Every time we go to visit Gran, we have to find someone to look after the kids and they don't understand where we're going etc. It's a very stressful time and I have no idea what to do anymore. I'd really appreciate some advice ...

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<bot>: Gran is dying of cancer and is holding on longer than we thought - I don't want to keep saying goodbye, but the rest of the family is guilting me into visiting.