<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

So [M/30] dating [F/33] started dating out great, we started out genuinely as friends, and we built up the relationship to love... but not its not been that great. 

Being friends and taking things slow we really got to get to know each other, when we first met she was not on my radar, and we were very open with each other and did not hold anything back.

She would ask me who I found attractive, she would talk a bit crude sometimes and I would respond the same way. Little did I know (and I will never forget) is that I was being interviewed and everything I said can and has been held against me. 

Even though were dating were fighting about a girl who I found ONCE attractive, a girl I may have liked for a day or two, or someone who I found attractive before we started dating. 

To me its a total wash, who I found attractive or statements I made, we were not dating at the time and now were dating, nothing else needs to be addressed. 

I dont really appreciate the games, nor do I feel comfortable being open with her anymore. 

Is it fair for her to this? or is this just a pointless game?
<bot>: started out as friends, girlfriend was really interviewing me rather than just asking casual questions. Now all my statements are being used against me, is this fair?