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My boyfriend (Alan) and I have been dating for 9 months now. We both live abroad and are from different countries but we get along well. He's my best friend. We have problems but our communication is pretty great so we can usually talk out our problems. But what happened recently has hurt us both.

I suffer from depression and usually I can crawl my way out of the hole by myself but sometimes I need help. The other day was one of those instances where I needed help. In the beginning of the relationship I told Alan about these but it wasn't until he saw me in the middle of a breakdown that he actually knew what happened. So when I texted him and told him that I was having a bad day he talked me into getting dinner with him to help calm me down. He's really good at calming me down and getting me back to fairly normal place so I begrudgingly went to meet him at a local restaurant. We both work the same times so I left right after work. He was an hour late. Our jobs are right next to each other and the place is a 10 minute walk at best. He said he got caught up talking to some people. I was livid.

When he finally came I was a mess and just wanted to go home, which I did (we don't live together). He asked me what was wrong and I told him that besides his lack of haste to come see me in a time of need, a week before when his team played in the Euro cup, he dropped everything the minute work was done to make sure he got to see the kick off. I was hurt that he couldn't have the same priority for me. He said that was an unfair comparison but I think it's completely fair. We've been on ice with each other ever since. 

This is our first communication breakdown and I don't know if maybe I overreacted or how to make him see that I'm hurt that he'll place a football game as more important to get to after work than me. How can I make him see my side or, if I'm wrong, how can I knock this feeling of being second best to a fucking football team?
<bot>: My boyfriend took an hour to come see me when I needed him, but a week before he left work ASAP to see his footy team kick off in the Euro. I feel second best and he can't understand why.