<human>: So I've been friends with benefits with this girl for a while. We hang out a lot, and do it more than I would care to mention. Our interaction isn't exclusively limited to sex; we talk a lot our feelings and what's going on in our lives and such. Every weekend we go out on a date, and the dates are a blast. My parents like her, and we have become really close as friends. However, she has maintained that she wants this to be emotion free, since she is a second semester high school senior and I am a junior, and it will be messy when she has to go to college. She doesn't know yet where she's going but the most likely school is very close (less than 20 minute drive) to where I live. She has said that if she goes there she'll keep this going, but I don't want to come to expect that and have it not happen.
Anyway, like all the movies have suggested will occur, I have fallen for her. I think about her all the time (we also text message all the time) and by comparison doing anything else has become not that much fun. I'm probably in love with her, but she has said specifically "Don't fall in love with me," so I'm worried about what will happen if I tell her. I think the feeling is mutual, but I have no way to be sure. How do I find out without screwing up what I have going?

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<bot>: I'm friends with benefits with this girl, but I want us to get into a serious relationship. How should I do this? Long responses/feedback/advice will be much appreciated