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Bf (26) and I broke up after 4 years. He was my first, and I was his. I loved him, and I think I still do. We broke-up because he lost his feelings for me. It wasn't the same for a long time and I know it was the only option left. We tried working it out but it just did not feel the same as it used to.
 The break-up broke my heart and I felt those feelings for the first time in my life. But I'm not that kind of person that would just sit at home and cry. I went out, hang out with my friends and started getting closer with a guy I met over my bf's friend. So one time we made out and than again and again. We started seeing each other not just in the bar. He is nice, patiente and I'm afraid likes me more than I like him. 

I think that he would like to be in a realtionship with me but I'm not ready for it. He said that he is patient and can wait, but I know that it's not fair to do that to him. It can be like that forever. Eventually it will be choise between ending our "friends with benefits" thing or get in a relationship. 
Yesterday we had sex. I'm not sorry for it and it was good. WOuldn't mind eather if it happens again. But after 2 months of haning out, making out and having sex now I should at least fall in love or have a bit strogner feelings for him and I can see that he is falling in love with me. 

I like things the way they are now, but I'm afraid that we are not on the same page.
<bot>: Friend with benefits is falling in love with me but I don't feel the same. anybody been in this kind of situation?