<human>: Ok this isn't really serious but it's been getting on my nerves for over a year. 

My boyfriend is so forgetful and it's getting absolutely ridiculous now. Just last week we drove an hour to my parent's house and it wasn't till we got home that he realised he'd left his wallet there. So we had to do another 2 hour trip to go and get it again. A couple of days later he "lost" his wallet (it was actually at his dad's house) and he'd cancelled all his cards before we found out where it was. 

He leaves stuff at my house all the time and often has to come back to get it. He loses things when we're out all the time. I can't trust him to remember anything, so I try to remind him, but then he gets pissed off at me. I can't afford not to ask him if he's remembered his wallet because past precedent dictated that he hasn't.

If I get angry at him he acts really hurt because he "can't help it" but it's got to a point where I have no sympathy anymore. He is not ill, he has no disability, he can remember random facts and phone numbers really easily. He is just totally absent minded. It costs him a lot of money to replace the things he loses and he always acts super sorry for himself when it happens. I end up turning the room upside down while he sits there and doesn't help me look for his own stuff. It's so annoying!

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<bot>: My boyfriend is always losing his stuff and always acts like it's not his fault, despite never doing anything to help himself, and getting angry when I try to help him.