<human>: This is my first long term relationship so I'm kinda inexperienced. Basically I'll just cut to the chase. My girlfriend was in a past relationship where she was sexually taken advantage of. The memories still hurt her and is a burden, but not to the point where you can tell all the time. We have a healthy sex life, and I do my best to be a good boyfriend and don't pressure her sexually or in any other facet of our relationship.

I learned about this after I fucked up when we were having sex and went too far. We stopped and I apologized and held her and we kinda just cried together for a while. The next day I went to see her and she had cut herself. I got really scared and kinda broke down, but after we talked about her depression and her relationship somewhat.

However I know there are things she isn't telling me, and I'm fine with that. The only problem I have is that she tells me that the memories still hurt her and I don't know how to help her with it. I'm always there for her and I try my best to give her advice where applicable, but I'm kinda out of my knowledge with this. 

I feel like having a day where she just told me everything that happened and her feelings about it would help her, but again I really don't know what to do, and she doesn't either (according to her). I just want to be there for her and help her where I can, but I know nothing about having depression or being sexually abused. Her family is generally supportive but they're hard to get through to, and her friends are definitely there for her but she doesn't quite realize it.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Girlfriend has been abused in the past, and I don't know how to help her with her memories of it.