<human>: I have been dating my girlfriend for 10 months now and I am having doubts about where I want to take our relationship. 

Things, to be honest, are going well for us. We are both happy and have talked about moving in together while she finishes up college. We have yet to say "I love you" to each other, but i feel if I was to say it, she would reply in-kind.

I do have my hesitations though. There are times when I am head-over-heals about her and want to tell her "I love you", and there are other times when I wish she was a different person altogether. Not necessarily in the sense that I wish I was dating someone else, but in the sense that there are things about her core personality that I would like to be different. Part of me wants to break up with her in hopes of finding my "perfect match", while another part of me says theres no such thing and to accept her with her flaws.

I guess my main reason for posting is to see what others think of my situation, Is it wrong of me to think that my "perfect woman" is out there and that my current girlfriend is not the right one for me, or am I chasing a myth, that there is no such thing as "the perfect mate" for anyone and that I should look more realistically at my situation and accept her for her strengths and flaws?

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<bot>: Is the idea of a "perfect mate" realistic, or is my head up in the clouds and I should look more realistically at my current state of affairs.