<human>: I've been dating this girl for a couple months, and her and I are working on getting her into therapy for being raped by her oldest brother repeatedly between the ages of seven and thirteen. 

The issue is that her mother experienced abuse, along with her mother. Unfortunately, none of them were given the opportunity to seek psychological help until they were all too old for it to do any good, so her mother expresses her jealousy by not letting her drive herself to a therapist. 

Her mother doesn't know about the abuse (we both thought it best not to try to get into that until the right time,) and so the only issue is providing a viable reason to go to therapy without letting everything out. 

The only thing I'd like to know is whether anybody had found themselves in a similar situation, in regards to not getting psychological help they needed. And what I could do to help/support her during that time. Anything could help, if you've gotten through a similar situation, or if you know somebody that did. Thank you.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Girlfriend was raped, and she can't get therapy for it because of a family history of severe abuse that was never absolved