<human>: This is my first post and fairly new to reddit so I apologize if my writing is all over the place. I'll try to keep this brief as possible.

So little background: I met my girlfriend online while I was in my junior year in college. I was living with a college buddy of mine and she would come over couple times a week to spend the night. Things went real well for the first year so I thought it would be a good idea to move in together.

Like any relationship, we had some arguments but for the most part, we communicated anything that may bother us, but after living together for a year, I had a change of heart.

One thing that never got resolved was her need for attention and some would call her an "attention seeking woman." I would become frustrated because I would get so tired of it.

Now, her previous BF cheated on her, which I'm sure left a scar. She also takes medication for depression/anxiety and she's had panic attacks before. I don't think I have enough energy left to make it work between me and her. Also, for those who have psychology background: I feel that she puts me on a pedestal, but at the same time tries to make me feel I am at fault when she wants it her way in the relationship.

I decided to move back to my moms while I go to grad school, and also to have my own space away from her. When I broke the news about taking a break, she only agreed when I told her it is time to end the relationship then, because it wasn't fair for her to keep me in a relationship I am reconsidering. 

I feel like there's more bits and pieces but I want to know if I'm being selfish/inconsiderate(like she says) or that I should just be single and focus on myself since I don't have/or want to give my energy that is required of her, especially since I will be going to grad school while working part time.

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: I am in relationship with gf for 1 year, moved in together for 2ND year, moved back out to have own space. Contemplating ending relationship but she is against it.