<human>: I've had social anxiety for as long as I can remember. Of course, over the years, it has been getting better, but it still has the power to incapacitate me socially, or leave me feeling like I have some cripple. Luckily I had found someone who was able to love me despite this for four years. Now, he says my anxiety really bothers him; he hates that I can't be comfortable around his family even when they've opened their home and hearts to me.He hates that I can't be around his friends without giving out this awkward vibe, and he hates that he feels the need to take care of me whenever were out just to make sure I'm having fun...So he broke up with me, and I tried my best to move on. That's when I met Steve one drunken night, hooked up and slept with him. We texted back and forth for a few days, but after a couple of group dates I think I scared him off too.... Now I don't get any texts anymore and he speaks to me very formally when I do. The problem is that my anxiety led me to ignore him when out with friends. I wouldn't talk to him and I wouldn't even sit close. I guess I did that because I was afraid that if I say anything I may say something stupid or lame and he'd then realize that I'm not really THAT GREAT or awesome. Now we aren't talking anymore, obviously and its killing me... I'm writing to ask whether this can be  salvaged and how because I've no idea what to do anymore. I should probably mention that he has a problem cumming in sex and I think my anxiety made him think I'm was being a cold asshole towards him because of it.

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<bot>: My social anxiety caused me to ignore the person I was both intimate with and  interested in. Now he has no interest in me. How can I bring the spark we shared once back? I really like  this person...