<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

I met a girl through a friend who i was seeing and leading to a relationship for 5 months; Initially she was supposedly very into me and we would hang out every week. * her and i would always communicate through texts b/c i didnt want to be pushy, considering she had come out of an abusive past two relationships so i didnt want to rush her also considering i was older. * Over time she would take longer and longer to respond back to texts or calls and when i would bring it up she would just say she didnt mean anything by it and she just was busy; given i was told she was like that with her friends also.

The last time we went out with a group i wouldnt say much, she asked me what was wrong, and i wouldnt tell her b/c i wanted time alone to talk. Lets just say, i never got the chance. After that, I invited her over, she flaked on me, i would call her she would say she would meet, and then she would flake on me. So i just gave up.

A month later, she texted me saying she cared about me and still wanted to remain friends. i said sure but i would of liked to talk to her about the situation, but not to change her mind; she didnt even bother replying.

Recently after two months, i asked if she wanted to grab a coffee just to catch up and she made make some excuse about work, but she said she would really like to, and next time she would come out for sure. I asked her out to a movie two weeks later, at first she said yeah, and then she said her friend just invited her to birthday so she wasnt coming; obviously i would assume it was made up.
<bot>: Anyone have any thoughts about my time with her? What is wrong with what i did or me - please note, i did treat her very will? Im finding it very hard having her treated me like that.