<human>: So my gf and I have been dating for around 3 years now and we just moved into a house about a month and a half ago. We've been busy with the house obviously and most of the time we're physically/mentally tired. I do event setup and she does social work. However she's brought up recently (a few times in the past 6 months or so and last night) that I don't woo her anymore and that our sex life lacks romance. 

I still try and do little things to make her happy and smile. She was hungover the other day so I went and got coke from circle k and mcdonalds as is her usual remedy. I bought this planner she wanted and some incense she likes off amazon. I'll call her beautiful, ask her how her day is, the ushe. 

However, our sex life is fairly absent. Maybe once of twice a month. About a year ago now she had an abortion against her own personal morals because she thought I was pushing her. We've went through a good amount of therapy and things have gotten better emotionally. So for a while after the operation she obviously and for good reason didnt feel sexy, wasn't in the mood, which is more than understandable. 

But now it seems like shes always tired or her back hurts, or her stomach is upset, or she has a headache, so I dont really try and put the moves on her because it doesn't seem like she wants it. 

Last night she mentioned Sue Johanson and unfortunately I can't find jack shit for any epsidoes, so I figured I'd turn to the next best tool, reddit. 

So I suppose my question is, how do I make my girlfriend feel special and be more romantic towards her so that it gets our sex life going again?

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: We've lost. That looooovin' feelin'. Woah that loooooovin' feelin' and I don't want it gone. Gone. Gone. woahohohohoh.