<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

As title says. Basically I have been stewing about this for a couple of weeks and cant decide if it was a joke in bad taste or her just being spiteful.

I am currently pregnant and I am finding out the sex next week. Mother in law has been asking repeatedly if I would circumcise my son if it was a boy. She has 4 boys of her own, all circumcised and I assume Father in law is as well. They are not religious or anything either so I find it a bit odd at why she is almost insisting that I get it done (even though it would add up to about 1k and have to be done privately) She says its better because its cleaner. 

I did extensive research on the subject and asked my mother (who is a surgical nurse) and while it may be considered cleaner in the hotter climates of the world, there isnt really a valid reason for my potential son to have it done. The next time I saw my Mother in law was last weekend for a family bbq to celebrate grandmas 80th birthday. Loudly in front of everyone, she once again asked if I was considering circumcision. I replied with a definite NO this time because I had made up my mind. She responded with a look of disgust and loudly said "Well dont expect me to change his nappies or touch or wash anything down there with that then" 

Honestly, embarrassment aside, Im pretty hurt about this. Even if it was a joke, those kinds of jokes are tasteless and it made me uncomfortable. I didnt know what to say because I was at a family event, but I can tell you one thing, if she was serious, she wont be seeing my child, regardless of gender unless supervised. 

Am I just being over sensitive or did she cross a line?
<bot>: Mother in law declared not to bathe, change, or have anything to do with the potential sons nether regions unless he was circumcised and I dont know if it was serious or a joke.