<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

So, I'm getting a little depressed with my dating life right now. I come from a background of avoiding relationships for most of my life, never really wanting anything from a relationship until recently.

Background: I moved out of my parent's house earlier this month, have had a career job for a year, graduated with a CS degree, cleared out all my debts and been on OKC for the past 4 months. (Same username if you want to find me and critic.)

I've had a few first dates, met with 7 different people, had a great time recently with a girl last weekend (she even said to me after the date she wanted to see me again 2 hrs of constant conversation, bowling + dinner), but I'm still not feeling like I'm getting the most out of it. The date I had last weekend hasn't picked up because she has been busy with her midterms and she hasn't really responded to my texts, so I'm being patient with her.

What I am finding is that I'm don't feel like I'm getting anywhere, and I'm afraid I might mix the feelings of truly finding someone I want to be with, with my desire to just have a girlfriend.

I've completely changed my life over the past year, lost a bunch of weight, completely changed my bad habits of playing video games into productive time for myself (working out, playing volleyball)
<bot>: I want to progress in my dating life, but I have no experience beyond a 2nd date. I've had one, "One Night Stand" but I blacked out and don't even remember the experience :(