<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

So, my boyfriend (20/M) and I have been dating for nine months, and it's been pretty great overall. We're on the same page academically, and have similar goals/wishes for the future. However, there are a few problems in our relationship that have begun to worry me. I'm black and he's white, and his dad (and paternal extended family) doesn't know because the last time he brought it up his dad threatened to stop paying for his schooling. In the beginning I didn't mind avoiding this issue, but now it really worries me that he won't address it because I don't want us to get even more serious while knowing there's still any chance that that could break us up. Secondly, I feel as if sexually we aren't on the same page. We've talked about sex many times before (what we might like, willing to try, everything) but initiation of anything vaguely sexual leads to me being shut down. When I asked if he wanted to have sex (in general anything sexual) he gave me some excuse about needing to do some man prep work. I do plan to talk to him about my feelings, but right now it's as if we've reached a stalemate in solving these problems and I just wanted some input.
<bot>: Racial issues with some of his family/possible sexual incompatibility with my SO (20/M) have me considering our future together.