<human>: My girlfriend and I have been going out for a year and a half and I feel like she is taking her time to advance her own aspirations.

This worries me because it's starting to take a toll on our relationship - mainly for the fact she hasn't got a job despite all the support she has from myself, my parents, her parents, her therapist and her doctor.

Additionally, she speaks of moving in together - which I would absolutely **love** to do - but cannot afford until she is financially stable and able to help with payments. 

I become very discouraged when my parents tell me they see that she is sometimes lazy ( she rarely offers to help with chores or use her initiative ) and are dissapointed she hasn't been able to get a job for a year. 

(They think she is manipulating me subtly)

I'm constantly trying to keep positive and I do believe she has the potential to do anything - she just lacks self motivation or is too scared to "take the plunge" and get stuck in.

Whenever I try to broach the subject of "make some phonecalls to potential employeers" or "take a walk in the neighbourhood to drop in her CV" or even simply suggest updating her CV to a high standard so it'll get noticed more. -

I get fobbed off and she tells me "I'll do it in my own time" or "Don't push me".

So I try to resist being forcefull/blunt and sugercoat everything I say to her otherwise she doesn't respond or gets upset.

She is quite sensitive to constructive critisisim and always fears the worst situation. This is probably due to extreme bullying in her past and rough times when her parents seperated.

She also requires constant reminders from me that I love her and won't leave her. - Most of these she spoke to her therapist about but I don't know how much of a difference it made.

So I'm at a loss, I want her to be the best she can and start towards a career of some kind so we can live together and really begin to explore the world as a couple.

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<bot>: My girlfriend has insecurity issues and stays at home with no job still after a year, although she has support. It's keeping us from moving in together and being independant - How do I deal/talk to her about this?