<human>: We have been together for 4 years, half of those in a long distance relationship. She has become obsessed with us living together again, to the point of not wanting to meet with friends and only being alone when we meet. I understand her need and I have made changes to accomodate her needs, for example we have agreed to meet at least twice a month, one time with friends and one time only the two of us. This does not always work out.

I come from a very big family and I love being surrounded with people. She comes from a very very small family, and appreciates being alone. She does not have a very loving relationship with her family, and Im very close to mine, especially to my sister. Last time we had a fight, she told me she does not like the way Im always talking to my sister and do not give my SO any attention. I do not agree with this allegation and told her so, and that she was being jealous.

Im worried about our incapacity to solve issues without it coming down to discussions that can last 4-5 hours. I hate discussions, and I hate being screamed at, and these constant fights are making me doubt our future together. 

About the long distance relationship, she went to another city because of a great job she was offered, a job she loves. At the beginning it was promissed to her that she could come back to our city, but now after 2 years she noticed she has to stay there if she wants to continue doing what she does. I want a new job, because I dont like what im doing, but have not found anything in the region where she lives. I refuse to move to her city without a job. And I love my city.

I would appreciate any feedback.

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<bot>: SO and I have been fighting too much and too hard as of late due to not living together and differences in expectations of social life (many friends vrs spending time alone)