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Dear people commenting on r/relationships. Need your advice on how to approach this letter from my husband whom I have been separated since October 2015.

The letter (please excuse grammar as English is not our first language).

Wife
- I have 10 days off end of January and I am thinking to come to visit you and (daughter 9 years old) but…
-This period of not being under the same roof with each other allow me to see things differently and understand myself (including my weaknesses and flaws)….
-I have to admit that I failed in this experience of marriage (I only have myself to blame).
-The MAIN issue is that yes we are both attractive and good looking (I always said you are a very beautiful woman and I always like intimacy), but the main issue and I think you also agree on this is that you and I have personalities/perspectives on life that are different or are they call it "emotionally incompatible with each other" and this level of incompatibility on the emotional level make us either fail to respond appropriately to each other (ignoring each other /not talking..etc) or in some cases respond badly (verbal or physical abuse).
- This DOESN'T mean you have something wrong or "its your fault" or " I Am blaming you". NONE of these things ! and I am very sorry for every thing I said or did that hurted you, (forgive me).You are a good person, caring mother and I said beautiful.
-I feel failure/unhappy/ exhausted/frustrated of continuing to have a relationship like this and I think you feel the same way.
- I don't believe a decent human being enjoy hurting another person unless they are monsters, but its just a fact that some people click and some don't.
 
-Solution ? : not to live under the same roof ( i.e. be friends not couple) as I AM NOT WILING TO live this way ANYMORE (to you or myself).
-God help both of us
-your thoughts ?
 Husband
<bot>: Abuse husband of 10 years asking for forgiveness. I was going to ask for divorce in July but now I am confused as my daughter doesn't want her parents to separate. Does his letter feel heartfelt?