<human>: I'll try to be succinct. My wife has been a serious alcoholic for years. She's been in treatment, and she's been hospitalized. She can't keep a job, she had a DUI, and she hasn't worked in over a year. She's a complete mess, and with the most recent incident, I just can't keep subjecting my children and myself to her.

Last night I received a phone call from the police (I was at a Board meeting at my social club). My wife had arrived at my kid's summer program to pick them up, and was completely drunk. The staff encouraged her to take an Uber, she refused. They called the police. When the police arrived, they tried to convince her to not drive, and she became belligerent with them. Needless to say, she's now in county jail waiting for arraignment and bail, I assume on some OWI and endangering minors charges. Of course, I left the meeting to pick up my children and brought them home.

I've taken the day off work today and I'm shopping lawyers on the state Bar Association site. I find that I'm completely out my depth, and this forum has been so helpful in the past:

* How do I select the right divorce attorney? My plan was to meet with the three best candidates and choose one, but I don't know what criteria on which to judge them. I also sent an email to our DUI attorney asking for a recommendation, but now I'm afraid that I might have exposed him to a conflict of interest.
* What can I do now (or what should I not do) to ensure that I have the best chance of getting full custody of my children, and protecting my assets?
* How will my wife go about securing an attorney when she really doesn't have any income independent of me?
* How can I make this process the easiest for my children?
* Is there anything else I should know or be prepared for?

Can you provide a brief overview of the text?
<bot>: Because of my wife's destructive alcoholism, I'm ready to divorce and take full custody of our children. What steps can I take to ensure the strongest case possible?