<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

After I moved back from school my mom has been encouraging me to take it easy and not rush to find a job. Occasionally she tells me I can stay at home for as long as I want and that she hopes I'm here for a long time. I think she wants me to be dependent on her so I won't leave. A few months ago my friend and I decided we wanted to move into an apartment together. I've been up front with my mom about everything but she's emotional and needy and she doesn't want me to go.

My friend and I have been talking about all the details, so naturally I think about moving out a lot. Today I got the idea to go on the ikea website, pick out the types of items I might need and add them to my shopping cart. Not to buy, just to see how much furniture will cost me. I decided to share this idea with my mom because I thought it would calm her down to know that I'm being responsible. She immediately started getting upset and even told me a few times that she didn't want to hear it. Then she started focusing on how much moving is going to cost me. She won't come right out and say her true feelings but from the way she talks I can tell she's just using money as an excuse to discourage me from moving because she doesn't want to be alone. I've got my finances covered and she knows this but she won't admit it. 

I told her we can't just never talk about it because she needs to deal with me moving out. She just ignored what I meant and said she's not going to help me move my stuff out. I stopped asking her for advice on personal things or telling her about my life a long time ago because of the way she reacts. But it's not like I can keep moving out a secret. I don't want to spend the next few months arguing with her though.
<bot>: I want to move out, my mom is desperate to keep me at home. Any talk about my moving results in fights and I'm tired of it.