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So I got yelled at by my normally patient and loving wife today. I had a day off work (we have two kids at home 6 and 4) and I did nothing to woo/romance her. During this, the kids were destroying the house and being little @$!%! (we're working on the discipline but still, the critters will wear you down).

Now, I make it a point to do stuff that she wants to do when I have free time.  Yesterday, it was watching sex in the city, gilmore girls, AND First wives club.  I wasn't exactly engaged but I was there.

And that's probably my problem. I'm just "there". I'm too comfortable. I love my wife, I love my kids, and I can't for the life of me think of things creative and small to do to tell the wife "I love you, I think about ways to express my love to you, blah blah blah"

I'm also being treated for depression, and slowly seeing results. So yes, the lack of doing anything other than "meh" is difficult. 

Thoughts/ideas to SHOW her I still care and give a damn? She is a beautiful and perfect woman and I don't want to even have her think that I am just evolving into a roommate role.
<bot>: Married with kids, falling into cliche roommate roles, how to get out of the funk and show the wife I still love her very much.