<human>: I don't know if this is the right place for this, but it seems like it should be. If not, I'd be grateful if someone would point me in the right direction.

Anyway, I seem incapable of being satisfied with a single relationship. I've been in two long-term relationships and had plenty of burgeoning relationships that didn't end up taking off, but in each case I find myself attracted to additional people.

I don't mean attracted in just the sense that I desire physical intimacy from them, I mean in the sense that I am genuinely attracted to them as a person and would like to pursue a relationship with them as well. I don't want to love and leave the additional person(s), I care about them as a person and would like an emotional intimacy as well. Being romantically involved with one person doesn't make my desires to be there for another, to comfort them in times of need, to make them smile and feel loved as only a significant other could disappear.

On the other hand, I don't know if I'd feel comfortable being in a relationship with a woman who was also in a relationship with another man simultaneously. 

Am I a hypocrite who would desire from others what I don't want asked of myself? Are these common feelings that most men manage to overcome without much issue? Am I polyamorous, or just deluding myself and sugarcoating mere physical attraction? How do I deal with the feelings of falling in love with multiple people? Is this something I try to accept myself for, or something I try to change?

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: I'm confused about my feelings towards multiple people, and just want to understand myself and how to deal with these feelings.