<human>: Long time lurker, first time post.  The header says it all.  I will keep it short.

After about 9 months together, my GF tells me that she made a sex tape together with her past BF.  It was a couple of years back.  I got upset.  She said she had asked him to delete it, but the guy is apparently a douche and I doubt that this occurred.

I like the girl a lot, but I don't like this.  It raises questions (for me) as to her judgement.  More importantly, I don't like the fact there is potentially a permanent record of her at it intimately with her former BF.

I am liberal minded in most matters, but this touches something I feel personally.  I am not happy about it, or that it might exist.  I am just not sure whether she is long term material in light of this. 

Conversely, I wonder if this is just the norm for people these days, particularly given our 9 year difference (although this does not justify it to me).

I am more than self aware of my reactions, and that they too could be judged, but I seek genuine thoughts here.

Reddit, what do you suggest in your wisdom?

Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: GF made a sex tape with former BF.  I am not happy and don't think she is long term material due to its existence.