<human>: Last night, I went to a movie with a female friend. This was planned, and my bf had ample heads up that I was going out. He apparently felt "depressed" and "lonely" that I was out without him, and went to a bar to drink by himself. I texted him within an hour of leaving to ask him to feed my cats (he has a key to my place) and he replied he was too drunk to drive. 

Following that, I got dinner, watched a movie with my friend, and went home. During that time, he apparently decided driving was in fact a good idea, drove to his friends' place 20 minutes away, got frustrated that his phone wasn't working, and punched his windshield (it's got a spiderweb crack about 6 inches in diameter now). 

This isn't the first time he's gotten reckless while drinking. He can usually have a few beers and be fine, but I've noticed an inability to handle his alcohol well on a consistent basis. Sometimes he just seems to get bombed out of nowhere. He certainly can't handle hard liquor, and following the first hugely unpleasant dramatic drunken shitshow, I told him I couldn't date him if he was going to continue to drink whiskey. 

This is the second time I've known him to drive while drunk and angry. This is also the second time he's been borderline violent while under the influence. He has gotten drunk and irrational/argumentative/super-depressed multiple times. 90% of the time, he's totally normal, but I now get anxious when we go out, worried he'll have a single whiskey and suddenly be wasted and impossible.

Complicating the situation is the fact that I come from a family that enjoys drinking. I drink with my friends. I got very drunk on election night. But neither me nor my family gets angry, abusive, or drives drunk. However, all of this makes me feel like a hypocrite for even bringing up that I feel he has issues with alcohol.

I am heartbroken over this situation, and I would really appreciate any feedback you guys can give.

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<bot>: my bf got drunk and acted recklessly, it isn't the first time. Is it time to end this?