<human>: My wife and I have a very open-minded relationship and I've brought up that I don't see sex as a symbol of Love, which she somewhat agreed with me about. I've talked about having a foursome and she said she thinks it's weird that I would want to swing. And I'll even joke around with my friend in front of her about meeting up a getting some chicks downtown, which lately she just laughs off and says,"sure, go get 'em". Anyways, even though she was a little weirded out when I initially told her, she's started to care less about it and even jokes with me when I'm joking with a friend of mine about it. Now, I don't quite know how to bring it up again to see if I'll have any more success ;) , but my birthday is next week so I may jokingly say something then in a more serious tone. Not sure tho...

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<bot>: How can I tell my wife, whose slowly grown more okay with my desire to be a swinger, if I can actually swing?