<human>: I'm going to keep this as short as possible. I've always been a very neurotic person (diagnosed with OCD at 16), I have little energy and get very stressed very easily. My boyfriend is the opposite - the least neurotic person ever, energetic and laid back at the same time.

At the start of our relationship I was doing the best I ever have in my life and it wasn't really an issue. Then life happened, and long story short our relationship dynamic changed from me dealing with little stuff on my own and rationally discussing big stuff with him to me looking to him for an answer to everything and then getting angry at him when he didn't have one.

We've been having recurrent fights about this for over a year. I think I've improved slightly in the last few months, but he says it's not enough. A few days ago we had a huge fight and he said he wanted a break because I'm making him stressed and unhappy and turning him into a person he doesn't want to be. We resolved things, but then we argued again yesterday morning and he said it again. This time it wasn't so much out of anger as it was out of exhaustion and hopelessness. 

He said that if I couldn't do three straight days without getting stressed or starting a fight I would have to move out for a while. I promised I would do it.

Today I've already gotten stressed twice. I didn't mean to, it was like the promise vanished from my mind as soon as the things I reacted to happened because they seemed so important at the time.
 
He told me that I let him down and to pack my bags. I talked him out of it again. But I'm living on borrowed time here, and I need help. How the fuck do I control my emotions and reactions and save my relationship? It seems so easy but whenever I get caught up in the moment it's like I can't just stop and think.

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<bot>: My boyfriend wants a break because I'm too consumed by anxiety and stress. I want to save us. How do I become better?