<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

She calls about once a year, visits about every five years (about two hours away), and always has an excuse not to visit me when I'm at our parents' place, which is about half an hour from her. I call her every few weeks. If she's not there, I leave a message. She doesn't call back. I like her. I love her. I would like to see her more than twice a year or so. I would like to have a closer relationship with her, not just random Facebook comments and dinner with our parents at Christmas. 

For years, she said she was just too busy and tired. I get it; I'm busy and tired too, but seriously wtf. She says she loves me and hates that I act like I'm disappointed in her. I'm not disappointed with her; I don't think her behaviour shows that she values our relationship. She says she has anxiety, and my disappointment with her behaviour is disappointment in her. Ok. I don't want to be a jerk. But she has a job, friends, etc. She isn't an agoraphobic shut-in.
<bot>: Should I just give up on trying to see my sister so I don't make her feel guilty about not wanting to do things with me?