<human>: I got engaged to my gf of 3 years this past february.  A month later she had an emotional breakdown because she felt like she was living the life of a 30 year old and she needed some time to herself.  I waited a month or so and she still felt the same way.  I decided that I would try to transfer my job from Vermont to Hawaii while she mulled everything over.  This past weekend she told me she was ready to get back together, and about 4 hours later I got a call saying that my transfer went through.  She is visiting tonight for the first time in 2 months and I have no idea how to tell her.

I love this girl more than life but at the same time, I feel I can't trust her to work through problems.  She is an extremely emotional person so I really need a gameplan how to tell her that I'm moving. I mentioned that it was a possibility when she asked for a break and she told me if I did that I would never see her again.  Please help!

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<bot>: Fiancee' broke up with me, said she needed space.  I transfered my job to Hawaii, she has no idea, and now she wants to get back together.