<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

I met a guy [36M] at work I'm super attracted to. We were very flirty and got drinks twice after work (first time at my suggestion with co-workers, second time on his suggestion just us). A few days later I invited him out to a club night. He, his friends, and a guest he has staying with him meet me and my friends. When I see him he picks me up and spins me. Over the course of the night  he buys me more drinks and tbh I am sloshed. I can't really remember who initiates (but I suspect it was him as I rarely ever initiate physical affection outside of a relationship) but we begin intensely making out. The club closes and we go outside and continue making out. He seems to oscillate between wanting to move things to the bedroom (which is what I want), and calling it a night. I blatantly express the desire to want to hook up and he says he wants to take things slow given that we work together, and he is worried about the job situation (he is still in training while I am already employed at the job), and he has a guest staying over. We go back and forth like this for a little bit and then finally begin making out again. I then (in what I think is a power move but may have just been a drunken idiot move) abruptly stop making out and say goodnight and begin walking home.

Neither of us have texted eachother and it's been 4 days. Not sure if I totally turned him off and he's not down, or if he thinks I was pissed at him for not escalating things (which would be really sadly hilarious but mostly sad), or if he was never that into me in the first place. I don't wanna text for fear of badgering a guy who's no longer into me, but I also want to make sure he doesn't think I'm mad or something. Is it too late to text about this (4 days)? I'm trying not to overthink things but I like him more than I'd like to.
<bot>: Guy seemed interested, joined me at a fun outing where we hooked up--but he didn't want to sleep together which I reacted somewhat weirdly to and then left abruptly. Not sure what to do next.