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As most people do, I was having a nice long think in the shower, my mum had been to visit me recently so my thoughts were mostly of my childhood. I love my mum obviously but we differ in views a lot, she tends to think I'm too 'liberal' whereas I think she's just stuck in her ways. My thoughts drifted to the song 'Why Don't You Love Me' by Beyonce, more specifically the line 'I make me so damn easy to love'. 
Why do I do certain things? Is it to make people love me? Or so I love myself? 
At this point I'd remembered that whenever I wore big t-shirts my mum would say 'boys won't like you if you wear big t-shirts, they make you look frumpy'. (This isn't to say that when I wear other things she doesn't compliment me, she does, but I wear baggy t-shirt's a lot).
I was now thinking out loud and discussing it with my boyfriend and realised it wasn't always just with what I wore.
Boys won't like you if you slouch.
Boys won't like you if you don't stand up properly.
Boys won't like you if you don't smell nice.
Boys won't like you if you don't at least wear a little bit of make-up.
Boys won't like you if you wear joggers.
Boys won't like you if you cry.
Boys won't like you if you eat too much.
Boys won't like you if you wear charity shop clothes.
Boys won't like you if you don't try harder.
Boys won't like you if you pick your nose.
Boys won't like you if you forget to clean your teeth.

I understand that most of these things are what normal parents teach there kids, but in what world should a child be taught to do things for the attention of a boy(or anyone for that matter) and not for their own self love?
<bot>: My mum has basically ruined my perception on why I do anything by saying 'Boys won't like you if you do that' throughout my childhood.