<human>: got a throw away. So basically my evidence is her use of very emphatic language to express her adoration in me. Saying she only feels comfortable in my arms, and many other things that get very personal and I am want not to share them.

We've been going steady for about 9 months. long time in our eyes. longest relationship I've ever had. Same goes for her. So I am a pretty caring dude. I try to lend a hand to everyone. Show everybody as much kindness as I can. I did the same with her, except that I was also having sex with her. Now obviously there is more to it than that. If all I wanted was sex then I would have made that incredibly clear from the start. As I did with a previous relationship.

I wanted a fun and caring relationship. Like that of a more intimate friend. I suppose that might not have been clear from the start of our relationship, but now I feel she has gotten too deep and I would be a dick for limiting our relationship when she has clearly crossed that line. She really takes a lot of comfort from me and I help her feel happy with her anxiety about college.

so to leave her would be me dropping my emotional support for her, and giving her the stress of a close relationship ending. And she is very delicate and I would feel terrible doing that to her. And I don't even know that I would want to end things! I really liked how our relationship was going before and I still enjoy it, but her escalating feelings are making me uncomfortable. I feel I need to do something before things get out of hand. But I don't know what.

So I suppose I want to know a few things. What did I do wrong? What should I take from this experience? What should I do now?

Side note. A lot of this makes me pretty uncomfortable to say because I fear I may have been an asshole, something I thought I was wholeheartedly committed to not being.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: My girlfriend of 9 months fell in love with me and I don't think I can or want to match her emotions. what do?