<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

First off, yes I realize that our relationship hasn't been going on that long, that's part of the problem

See my girlfriend and I are going to difference colleges, they're only about two hours apart but it's still fairly difficult.  Now for the first week or two of college my girlfriend has had an awful time adjusting to her new life.  She doesn't feel like she's making any friends and has started to have intense spurts of depression.

I've told her that she might just need to give it some time or be a little bit more outgoing, she likes to stay in her room because of how depressed the school makes her.  Still she seems to think that the best option right now would be to join a sorority, and for her I honestly have to say that she's probably right.  I already feel bad because part of the reason she chose not to rush for sororities was because she wanted to stay back with me for another month.  I do not want to get in the way of this decision at all, I have always tried not to be controlling.

I have conceners though, is there anyone here who can provide me with an insight into what sorority life is like?  I have this crippling fear that her new lifestyle might lead her to cheat on me.  She has assured me multiple times that this won't happen, and I try not to discuss it with her anymore.

It's not even so much that I don't trust her, I love her and trust her in all things, but I definetely don't trust most frat guys.  Now this might be part of a misunderstanding or a prejudice on my part, but I figure that many frat guys won't really care whether a girl has a boyfriend or not.

If this just sounds like a rant or something, well it kind of is.  I'm so worried because our relationship is really just getting started, it scares me to think that it could actually go somewhere (if that makes sense) while at the same time really exciting me.  But this sorority thing might throw a lot of obstacles into our relationship, on top of the distance between us.
<bot>: My girlfriend wants to join a sorority and Im worried that this decision could impede our relationship, provide her with a lot of peer pressure to cheat, or cause the end of our relationship entirely.