<human>: I've been with him since September, and I made him a patchwork quilt for his apartment, on the condition that he would get around to buying a couch for it to go on.

He still hasn't bought said couch and I'm now at the point where I can't be in the relationship any longer because it's draining the happiness from me. We never see each other because he's always working or working on projects with his buddies or a variety of other things he does. I can't sit around and wait for him to be able to slot time with me into his schedule any more. Our last 2 dates were 10 minutes and 50 minutes long respectively.

I don't want anything else back from him, he can keep all the other gifts I bought him, and he can have the gig tickets we have for April that I paid for. I just want the quilt back because it was the first one I'd ever made and I spent months working on it.

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<bot>: Is it douchey of me to ask for a homemade patchwork quilt back? I spent more time and effort working on that that he did working on 'us.'