<human>: By all reasonable measures, our relationship is healthy and great. We moved in together a while ago, have steady jobs and incomes, and get along well and enjoy spending our time together. No relationship is perfect and there are some things we stress about, but my overall satisfaction is pretty good.

Except one thing; she has a short fuse. I mean, she doesn't have a violent temper or public outbursts or anything like that, and we don't have a problem talking out big issues. My thing is that she gets *easily* irritated and angry over **little shit**. Things that would usually roll off my back, she gets angry about. Accidentally pull her hair? "OW, FUCK!" Ask her to speak up twice because I couldn't hear her? I get the sentence yelled at me. Forgot to do something on the way home? Pissed off.

But before you think that this must mean I'm a passive guy, I mean, I'm not. I'm loud, social, and I speak up *quickly* about things that bother me. But little things don't bother me, if they did, I'd get burned out, especially when it comes to the idiosyncrasies of life and liviging with someone else. Inconviencies happen, and I deal with it and move on. I rarely get *angry* about them, which is another reason why its irritating when my SO does.

At least these things are transient, I call her out on it, she fumes, and she apologizes and that's it. To her credit it never really lasts more than a few minutes, and life goes on, but it's still fucking nuts. Most everything else about the relationship is stable, honest, and cool, but is this something that I can expect to wear me down as time goes on? I know the go-to answer is 'talk to her about it', which I agree, but then I know it would be 'You're right, I do get mad over little things', and then what? We're pretty honest about our flaws, so how do I go about handling afterwards?

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<bot>: Girlfriend gets irritated and angry (at me, usually) over minor shit in life, all the time, I don't, ironically that in itself is irritating.