<human>: Can you give me a shortened version of the text?

My mother in the recent months has somehow started calling me by my name in it's female form. So it is the same name let's say Johnes for male and for females there is Johnny, a letter is changing. From 'es' to 'y'. I am not from an English speaking country.

I have a sister with the same name as me but in the female form, the reason they say is that my grandfather and grandmother had those same names.

It is irritating and I find it disrespectful.

Before those months she was doing it much less often now she is calling me like that almost everyday it seems. She says that she the names are confusing to her and that is because she is from a foreign country. She has been living here for more than or about 20 years. She is speaking with everyone fine and doesn't seem to have a problem communicating as far as I can tell. You can still understand that she is not a native speaker though.

I do remember the same thing happened to me when I was smaller like 10 years old. But when I was going to middle school and high school I don't remember it happening.

I told her sometime ago to learn to call me by my name but it seems it hasn't made a difference.

  What do you redditors think I should do?
<bot>: My foreign mother calls me by my female name counterpart and I find it disrespectful. What do you redditors think I should do?