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Alrighty so slighty torn with this one.

My wife and I had been talking about going to get our boys haircut for the last couple weeks for his first cut. Instead she went and spent a couple days with her mother (pretty regular thing) and on the spur of the moment because the MIL was paying they went and got his hair cut and all I got was a text saying she went and got it done.

So I know its petty but it pissed me off. I am the sole worker in this relationship and have been except for maybe a year or two out of the 13 we have been together (a whole other issue not for this post), and thus I have missed quite a few 'firsts'. This was something she knew I wanted to be there for and knew it was important to me.

When I asked her why she took him instead of us doing it she just said because her mother paid for it and they happened to be by the place, then she walked away. Still have not got an answer on why she didnt wait 24 hours for us to go as a family.

She seems oblivious to the fact this is important to me and Ive tried hard as hell to be there for everything so far with our little one. I know its a small thing but I didnt exactly have the whole loving family thing where as she has a huge family. She knew this would be a issue for me.

Kind of looking for some ideas here.
<bot>: Wife took our child for first haircut with out my while knowing explicitly I wanted to be there. MIL is probably an enabling factor here.