<human>: Long story short, I'm a bit of a different type of guy. I'm a little shy, but love conversations and interesting people. I'm really into romance and want to be able to talk, share feelings, and actually grow with a person but all I ever seem to get requests for are one night stands...I never accept...not because I want to make a point or see myself as beyond that point of thing but because I personally need to feel safe and loved by someone before I'm willing to get sexual with them.   

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That said, for the past year I have been on every dating site under the sun and I feel like trying to find someone is just making me more and more sad. I can't stand that I'm always the one who has to send the first message, I can't stand that people have to play games online to show that they're "interested" but "not really" and worst of all the "fading" (not answering messages) just makes me feel like garbage, especially as most of it happens in the middle of a good conversation right after someone views my profile images and figures they can do better...I just want to find someone who doesn't try to judge me, or force me to act in a way that I'm not comfortable with. I know this may be too hopeful but I really just want to believe that romance isn't dead. 

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Disclaimer: Before anything I want to point out that I'm not overweight/strange/desperate/awkward looking nor boring...I'm pretty average in looks and have loads of interests/clubs/groups I participate in.

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<bot>: I'm actually beginning to fear that I won't find someone because my romantic personality and my hope of having something other than just a physical relationship.