<human>: I am a 25F grad student who would wants to start dating but hasn't found any success (yet!). My main strategy has been to get involved in events that I enjoy and talking to people while there. I'm concerned about the safety of online dating so I am avoiding that avenue. 

It's been six months now, and I'm starting to wonder if a bigger issue is at play. I'm not unattractive, but I am fairly shy and my conservative lifestyle and hobbies may seem boring to some. I enjoy reading and going to libraries, playing conventional card/board games (think Scrabble, Bridge, and Hearts), going on walks, writing letters, and cooking. I do not drink alcohol and avoid loud events. I have a small circle of friends and my cohort of classmates that I spend time with. I'm not witty or funny, but I do think I'm kindhearted and thoughtful.

I previously dated a boy in high school, but we never did anything beyond a few dates and hold hands. If it helps, I'm not religious.

Should I revise my strategy? Pick up new interests? Focus on improving my appearance? Part of me feels that any changes would be disingenuous. I'm not opposed to asking a guy out if I like him, but I haven't clicked with anyone yet. I also fear I might 'miss the train' if I don't figure out how to date and have adult relationships soon. 

Examples of events I attend include: fitness classes, book readings, game meetups, and outdoor markets. I'm trying to stick with free events in light of my small student stipend.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: I'm an average girl with a conservative lifestyle in a major city and can't figure out how to find a date without resorting to online dating. Is it me, or is my approach wrong?