<human>: My girlfriend is fairly reserved and very classy; she is Sort of bookworm kind of girl, but I love that about her. Because of her shyness and her classy demeanor she portrays whenever we're in public, she feels that she needs to be like that in the bedroom as well. It's almost like a self-fulfilling prophecy: because she has been like that 12 hours a day she needs to be like that ALL the time. 

However, I told her that she can just "let go" when we're having sex because I know that she has a wild side that I've just not seen yet (she can get quite crazy and almost rebellious when she's with her female friends). But she says she prefers to be submissive and innocent type of woman in front of men. How can I convince her to just be herself especially when she's with me?

Another problem is that she is VERY self-conscious. She is unhappy with her breasts because they are not exactly the same size (although not very obvious) and that they are small (A cup, although I don't mind them at all). So when we have sex, it needs to be lights off or she doenst take her bra off. Also, Whenever I initiate sex, she says she needs to shower beforehand so that her lady parts don't smell unfresh. I've told her many times that I don't care - humans have a natural smell to them. However, she is quite adamant on her showering becore sex. There's only been once where we did have sex without her taking a shower, but that time she didn't allow me to go down on her in fear of potential embarrassment. 

I think the general question is, how can make her more comfortable around me and less self conscious with her body? She tries to be the perfect woman in all aspects, but it is tiring me out to an extent.

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<bot>: GF self conscious and submissive around me. What can I do to make her act more like herself and feel more comfortable?