<human>: Been a lurker here forever and have found tons of useful advice but I'm in a bit of a specific crossroads right now and would really appreciate some outside input.

My girlfriend and I both live in San Francisco but for the past 3 months she's been living in Bogota teaching English at the local schools while I stayed with my parents at home raising money for college next semester. I just came to visit her two weeks ago and after some incredible experiences traveling the coast the opportunity came up to join her program until its end in Christmas. If I take it it means I'll move in with her! Sound peachy right?

Well I don't know how to weigh all the pros and cons of it, on the one hand this seems like a wonderful opportunity to expand my horizons (I've lived in many places abroad before but never South America) but it also means I'll be forfeiting making good money back home in an attempt to avoid student debt (3 months of good work, not THAT insignificant).

That being said during my "vacation time" here some issues in our relationship have begun surfaced! Which I think is always a good thing as I don't like it when people pretend that all things are sunny and wonderful when they might not be. At the moment we have significantly different sex drives, hers being a lot lower. Its something that she herself is frustrated with, as she tells me she WANTS to have sex and WANTS to move past her low libido issues (something which stems from the stress of expectation of having me here for a couple days, as well as from the chronic stomach pain she often experiences). She and I are also keenly aware of the importance of establishing space as its very easy to spend too much time together and fray an otherwise wonderful relationship with a sense of cabin fever.

I'm not sure what to do, both options make sense in their own ways. And friggin adore and love this girl, shes beautiful in so many ways and so supportive. I just don't know exactly what to do.

Can you help me Reddit?

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<bot>: Opportunity to move in with gf in Colombia for two months to teach. Don't know what it'll do to our relationship, whether its a good life move, or financially responsible! Help!