<human>: I've, for most of my life been overweight and am only recently becoming facially attractive. I'm recently single and finding it hard to enter back into the dating scene. I was very fortunate in being able to be with someone that was attractive and smart and not only didn't care about my weight, actually loved it and thought I was beautiful and out of his league. But now that we're done, dating has become near impossible. I've heard everything from  "sorry you're not my type" to, "You're HUGE!!" As much as I know that people should look on the inside, I'm the first to admit that I have a "type", but I feel that if I were to lose weight, I'll always have a wall up and feel that someone is only with me because of the visual and the personality is secondary. Any advice?

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<bot>: I realize I'll probably have to lose weight to get the kinds of guys I'm attracted to, but how do I deal with resenting the fact that I have to?