<human>: Bit of back story, I've (23m) moved states to go back to uni, and I met her (21f) here, through tinder, been out a couple of times, and have a great time together, we've also spent a few nights together, no sex yet though.

Basically my issue is that I've moved states for university, and she knows this and is quite supportive of university coming first, but one thing I always told myself was no relationships whilst here, limit the distractions and make moving back home all the more easier. She knows all of this, and constantly mentions following me back to my home state, this I find scary, that and talks of meeting parents and all the other stuff that means its moving to a relatively serious thing, particularly being just a month in. Not to sound like an arsehole but she is, from my observations, head over heels for me, and my worry is that I don't feel the same way, and I don't know if I ever will, as I'm trying to mainly focus on my studies. I'm finding it difficult to put in the effort, as this isn't really anything I've wanted, or sought after. Ive been putting off sleeping with her as I feel this will only dig the hole deeper making it harder to get out of, am I right in this?

I guess my main question is to those that have felt that there is a difference in the emotional involvement of each other in the relationship. Will I be able to match it, or should I not lead this girl to believe that this may be something more? Is she just really keen about what this might end up as? Or is this just how some girls operate?

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<bot>: Girl loves me, not sure I feel the same way just yet, or if I will, do I string it along or pull the plug?