<human>: I will start off by saying I love my girlfriend. I would do absolutley anything for her just so she is happy. We have had this plan to move in together to a really nice city in a few months and I have been really excited. Unfortunately my girlfriend has been thinking other things. She has been thinking about moving in with her cousin really for away and she says she is torn.
On one hand she says she thinks she would be very happy living with me. She says she loves me and wants to be with me. But on the other hand she wants to go to this other place and try to make it there. She wants to go there to "grow up". She is constantly talking about going there to grow up and I don't get that.
I really love this girl and I have always told her I want her to be happy. But I don't want to keep acting like everytime we hangout is me fighting to make her stay with me. I believe that she will really be happy with me and this other place is some stupid hype her cousin is setting her up for. How do I tell her to stay with me? I can't keep acting like this is a healthy happy relationship when I'm constantly worried my girlfriend will leave me at the drop of a hat. I truly want her to do what she thinks will make her happy but I dont want to keep feeling like I dont matter. Please help!

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<bot>: Girlfriend can't decide if she wants to live with me in one city, or leave me and live somewhere else.