<human>: Broke up 9 months ago, she is in a long distance relationship currently. right at the beginning of the break up I told her that friends would not be an option. 

She checks in about once a month, usually initiated in the form of a question or advice, and I keep it short. she wants to hang out, but I've expressed that I am not interested in a friendship or hanging out when she has a bf. and recently asked would it be by default putting her current bf in an awkward position by us grabbing drinks? she agreed.

But I do want her back.

She recently said to me that maybe we didn't get the right chance to see what we could be.

do I waiver from my stance. and meet up. or do I stick to my original decision?

Thanks!

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<bot>: do I hang out with my exgf after I've told her that I'm not interested in a friendship, and not interested in hanging out while she has a boyfriend. Lately shes has been persisten