<human>: Background: Together for almost 2 years. Broke up for 2 before getting back together. Things have been good until the past two months.

SO bought a house a few months ago. He had this plan for a while but did not seem to look outside the initial buying part (rates, bills, flatmates, maintenance), so has had financial stress with it, as well as learning to do chores, which he never had to do at his parents. I am unable to move in due to a period of unemployment, and moving in currently would screw me over financially.

Increasingly he has began acting like I am only wanting to spend time with him for the house. I have suggested we go out and do things but he says he does not have enough money for it. Currently it has been over 2 weeks since we saw each other, with me attempting conversation and him barely responding.

It feels like he is on the way out. He lost me once and was very emotional about getting me back and realising what he had. I am not going to throw this in his face cos bringing up the past is a dick move.

Obviously the answer here is to communicate with my SO and try get him to open up. I am unsure how. When I have asked what is going on, he says he is busy. I can understand that. But doing chores and paying bills is part of being an adult and if you are going to bother with a relationship you need to balance time for that too. I should note he does game, which I have no issues with, but I am sure one hour instead of three will not hurt. This is his first time doing chores for himself, where I have done them my whole l I have become unhappy but don't want to end things without making a good attempt.

I am looking at what I could say to make it not sound like I am putting all blame on him, as he is at risk of getting mad with me if I mention why I am unhappy. Any advice would be appreciated.

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<bot>: My [f, 23] boyfriend [23] has become too busy to make time to even talk to me since buying a house. I am unhappy and unsure how to approach the topic again with him.