<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

I'm sure that women are just as guilty of this, too...but from a male perspective i'm rather curious.

I've been on a few great first-dates over the past couple of months, and I've noticed a weird pattern.  Date will be going amazing, great conversation, a lot in common; HE initiates getting my number, tells me he wants to go out again, even goes as far as to see when my schedule is free within the next week so we can go out again.

Then, nothing.  Never hear from them again.  I'll drop a quick text within 2-3 days of the date, as i'm under the presumption that we're still hanging out (just something like: "hope your work week is going well"), and still no response.

I certainly don't mind if someone doesn't want to see me again.  And on that same note, if I don't feel chemistry with a guy, I won't *pretend* to be into it & get his number, try to set up a second date, etc.  I just leave it at that.

I'm confused as to why these men i've been going on dates with are all about it, and then disappear a minute later.  Are they just really impulsive?
<bot>: need some perspective on why these men i've been going out on dates with are all game, and then vanish just as quickly as they asked me out.