<human>: I (23/f) have been dating my boyfriend (29) for five years. 6 months ago, my company relocated me to another city about 4 hours away. It was a "move it or lose it" situation, so if I didn't move I wouldn't get my relocation bonus, pay increase, and I would have had to find a new job, so I moved. He was upset, but he said that he understood why I had to go.

Fast forward to now: It's getting more difficult as he is very busy with some art projects he is working on. He is busy with shows or tours almost every weekend, so when I do see him, it is usually me coming to him. I totally support his art, but I'm having a hard time feeling like he is working as hard as I am to make this long distance thing work. He has only visited me twice since I moved: once when he helped me move in and once when he was here for work. He has made it very clear that he has no desire to move here. His life (job, family, art) is there and he is not willing to give that up.

After ruminating on all this for some time, I have come to realize that if we are ever going to be in the same city again, it is going to have to be me who gives up my job (that I love) and potential career opportunities. I could give everything up and move back and there's a chance he could still be very busy and gone on tours all the time and never even be there. It's not that I don't want to move back, because I do miss my life there. But I don't want to feel like I'm the only one willing to invest in our relationship.

I know that I'm the one who moved in the first place, but I didn't seek it out. I think I was naively hoping that the right solution would just "drop into our laps" but it hasn't. And now I feel like my goals and career and success are secondary in the relationship. We love each other and have a really strong relationship, but I'm afraid that giving everything up for him when he isn't willing to give anything up for me will only cause resentment in the end.

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<bot>: Had to move for my job, BF won't move, no end in sight and I feel like I have to sacrifice my success if we are going to be together again.