<human>: My girlfriend I have been living together for a few months.  I lost my job in the state we had been living in and the state we both grew up in. I got a job offer that was really great but it was out of state. This is the farthest she will ever have lived from home. She was on board with it though and was happy about the thought of a fresh start. 

She went home this past week to visit everyone while I am away. I have been gone now for 2 months and found a place for us to live. I was supposed to head back this week and move us up here. But she is having second thoughts now about everything. She had hinted about wanting to get married, I even bought a ring. But now she just doesn't know what she wants. Is it because of stress? Is she just stressed out about the whole move and leaving behind everything she knows? I know some of her family is supportive of me and her moving. But others are telling her it is to far away. 

The move date also falls right next the first time she has had to give up her kid to the dad for visitation. Could this also be something? I am still headed back this week but I don't think I am going to move everything. Will time change her mind? Will a visit from me be helpful

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<bot>: I am out of state and my girlfriend is having second thoughts about moving with me. Is it stress? And what can I do?