<human>: So quick summary. I [21/f] have been with my boyfriend (23/m) for about 2.5 years. Sadly, I am hit this road block where I kind of bored and wanting to find out what else is out there. And I am sure I am going to get a ton of hateful comments, which is cool (punish me), but I asked to take a break from my boyfriend to meet other people. He agreed to go on this break, where we could date other people. And in a month and a half we would get back together. (I know, having my cake and eating it too). 

So anyways, I did meet someone else (29/m) who I have a better connection with(I have known him for a few months, but it was completely friends), but I have a deep connection with my "boyfriend". Sadly, I have started to have strong feelings for this new guy and I feel conflicted as to what to do. I still love my boyfriend, but its different (and it may just be the 2 year inch or just passion is gone, but I am dealing with it well). And of course this new relationship is new and its exciting. So I dont want to confuse new with actually wanting to be with this new guy. 

I guess I do love both of them but they are two very different people and can provide different things. Boyfriend has a degree but no job (going on 7 months of useless job searching) and we have been through a lot together. And we just click and are comfortable with our lives. (Btw, we lived together for two years, but due to no job he moved back with his parents). (I am not rich enough to support both of us, I am a college student). 

The new guy, has a job (very good job) and has a nice family (boyfriends family isnt too keen on liking me due to irrelevant reasons. But still not okay with me). I also feel comfortable with the new guy, but he is smoker, drinker, and likes to go out a lot (me, not so much. )

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<bot>: I just dont know what I am supposed to do. I am split in half as to who I want to be with. Boyfriend or new guy? There are pros and cons to both.