<human>: Been dating this girl on and off for three years. I am 21 now and she is 20. Both at the same school. I went abroad last semester, Spring 2011, and she stayed at school. We talked all summer long via Skype/messaging. But about a week before school started I decided that because she was a year below me that I didn't want to date with only one of us in school while the other, me, is out looking for a job.

My main issue was that if I were in a relationship that it would hinder me from getting a job. So that was three weeks ago. We hadn't talked until last night when I expressed that I had loved her and it took me these three weeks of not seeing and not talking to her to make me realize it.

This is a big step for me but she thinks this is just me being flaky and not following through with my actions. So my issue with this is I need to prove to her that I am committed. I have a few ideas but need to bounce them off of someone/people. I'll put them in the comments so just comment about whether you think they are good or not.

I do love her, we are not arguing about that. Just about my commitment to her which I completely understand and I recognize that I need to show her that now it is different.

Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?
<bot>: I need to prove to a girl that I am committed to her. My ideas are in the comments. Give advice?