<human>: Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?

Okay, I need some help. I've never been good with flowers & have never cared much for them. But, they are rather traditional so i'm trying to figure out what would work best.  
I'm currently considering real touch silk flowers, paper flowers, book flowers, and map flowers. The resort is offering a small selection of live flowers such as white calla lilies and white roses. There are some that have colors but not really any that would go well with my colors, though.  
My other issue is colored/white flowers. My sister is saying that the bright orange bridesmaids dresses would be better complimented by other bright colors (hot pink, yellow, blues, etc.) while one of my bridesmaids is saying that white would look just as good, if not better. I'm torn. I would prefer a color bouquet for myself though.  

* [This] is what i've thrown together as an "inspiration board" of sorts. 
*We have booked a beach wedding at Dreams Palm Beach in DR. 
* The colors I've picked are tangerine and turquoise. 
* The bridesmaids dresses have been purchased (David's bridal tangerine orange)  
* My dress is the one shown but altered to take some of the puff down & shorten the train

Any advice?
<bot>: I have bright orange bridesmaid's dresses white or colored flowers? Also, what type of flowers for a destination wedding?