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Paul doesn't seem to get why I say he is a selfish asshole, and why I don't trust him. He sees it as honesty to tell me that he doesn't love me. According to him, I should trust him because he has never lied to me. He is not selfish because he has given me 'everything' he had to give through our 10 years together, and he is willing to give me everything in the divorce, the house, pretty much everything except the clothes on his back. 

I think that even if he was the most trust worthy person in the world, him ending the marriage means I can not trust him. Him ending the marriage makes him a liar; marriage is vow, he can't keep his word. His reasons for ending the marriage make him a selfish asshole. 

Now don't get me wrong, I am not saying he has been selfish through the entire marriage, or that I wouldn't trust him with money or to tell me the truth about some things. I am just saying that what he is doing completely changes my view of him. 

I even told him it is okay for him to be selfish and have all the feelings he has towards me (resentment, anger, disappointment, etc.), but that doesn't change the fact that he is being selfish and that he is choosing to walk away.

When he gets hurt that I say these things to him, I ask why it even matters what I think of him, and he will not give me an answer. I realize my perspective on our relationship is pretty fucked up right now, so am I wrong for thinking these things and voicing them to him?
<bot>: Husband asks for divorce, is offended when I say he is a selfish, lying, asshole, who I no longer trust. How do I explain this to him?