<human>: I am on medication for chronic depression, let's just get that right out there. I was seeing a therapist but she moved out of state and my wife and I wil be moving from the area soon so beginning a new therapy relationship isn't possible right now. 

But, to the issue: I snap, am curt, and generally short with my wife at times. I don't fly off the handle and scream and throw things, I don't **ever** impose physically on her but I will respond to a question or a request with a shitty tone. This happens when I'm engaged in something else that requires focus, makes me stressed, or similar situations. 

My snapping is the most common reason we have spats or fights - she asks me to do something, or says something to me while I'm frustrated, and I respond with the patience and grace of a caveman. 

I don't like it. She doesn't deserve the anger directed at her and I don't want to be a snippy child at 29, much less later in life.

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<bot>: I often respond in a shitty tone to my wife when she talks to me while I'm busy or frustrated and I don't want to anymore.