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**Before I post this, this in no way reflects my opinions on birth-control/abortion/women's rights, be objective please.**

As stated, my question is should men be able to opt-out of a child, particularly within the months within abortion is safe?  I understand women have the right to choose to have an abortion or not (laws pending), but should men have the equal opportunity for children they do not want to have?  In the spirit of equality, women can choose whether or not they want to have a child, so should men not have the choice too?  I understand when you have sex, you're basically acknowledging the fact that a child can be conceived, but why is their more burden of responsibility on the man to not have sex if he doesn't want a child/be responsible for a child if the women decides to keep him?  
Basically, I think the guy should have some option out if there's acknowledgement that precautions were taken (used a condom, etc.), if the woman claimed to use contraception but didn't or if she just cray and got herself impregnated (not saying all women are cray).    
  
I know this system could not be *perfect* or even functional in practice, but it's an idea.  Seems a bit unfair that one person's decision determines how another's finances/income and responsibilities will be adjusted for 18 years without them having a say in it.
<bot>: Do you think men should be able to opt-out responsibility pre-birth of a child?  Why or why not?  How would it work?