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My boyfriend feels terrible. 

My boyfriend and I love each other very much. We have plans for our future and intend to marry in the next couple of years. I wanted to be as close with his family as I am with my other set of in laws. However, his family cannot accept the fact that I'm black. 

His father ignored me our first time meeting and has blatantly told him to stop bringing me around because he won't accept it. 

His mother (divorced from his father) keeps me at arms length and refuses to accept how serious we are. When we are spending time with her she is either condescending or only makes small talk. She only does this to be able to claim she is not a racist and save her self image.

On top of the constant stress from his parents, his mother and sister gossip about every move I make. They don't care to genuinely get to know me or care for me. 

We are at the end of the rope and refuse to break up. We have both been extremely patient but I am sick of trying to please people who aren't accepting of who I am and cannot change. I need advice.
<bot>: boyfriends parents are racist, don't want me to be apart of their lives. We refuse to break up, but don't know what to do about his parents. Help.