<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

Hi,

3rd date: nothing happens. We have a good time, we like each other, we laugh, but it doesn't go further, because it doesn't feel right. We both want it to, but nothing happens. This is more on her part. I've made a move, which went wrong. However, when we see each other at parties and drink some, it all comes naturally. 

We've talked about this and she says she doesn't know what she wants and she doesn't know why it's not happening for her. She's way too in her head and overthinking kissing constantly. However, she wants it (us) to work (so also getting intimate), but doesn't know how to get out of her head. Because, when she's not in there (read: a bit drunk) it all feels right and natural. 

Now, this is kind of hard to swallow for me. I really like her and I can imagine being with her, but not like this...
I don't know what this is for her. She's a bit shy and insecure and I know that she didn't have a boyfriend so far, but still.. It's weird.
She now wants to meet up tomorrow, have a few drinks and see how it goes from there, but what kind of foundation is this? I'm not sure if I want this. Then again, this might spark it up and I could take away her insecurities and inhibitions, so she feels comfortable.  

Also, it shows that it's important to her as well, otherwise she could've just said "sorry not working for me, bye". I guess we both want it to work, but there's some hindrance. Everytime we're out in public, I'm trying to work my way up to a good night kiss, but I notice when she feels it coming up, she backs away (she also said: she doesn't like kissing in public in general).  

Help please.
<bot>: Girl doesn't feel comfortable kissing, thinking way too much, but still wants it too work. When not thinking too much (--> being relaxed/drunk) it comes all naturally.