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-Throw away account, bf knows my reddit username- When my boyfriend I started talking/first dating, he would say and do the sweetest things for me. We were long distance for six months before we moved in together, and it's been almost a year and a half of living together since then. He used to embarrass me he was so sweet. Grand gestures, he couldn't keep his hands off me, and he always kept me blushing from all the wonderful things he'd say. In the beginning, it was obvious his feelings were stronger toward me than mine were towards him. This was okay with him, he was willing to fight for me, and it paid off. But because my feelings weren't that strong in the beginning, I discouraged some of his grand gestures because they made me uncomfortable. Anyway, he just doesn't do anything like this anymore. Since we have moved in together we don't have a lot of money, so I understand why I'm not getting flowers and chocolates as much.... But he doesn't SAY the things he used to, either... I'm very aware that I could be the one that's changed, but I don't even know how to bring it up. I don't want to make him feel guilty or force it. I mostly want to know why it stopped, and how I can bring it back if I can. Any advice?
<bot>: my boyfriend used to be really spontaneous and sweet, almost nauseatingly so, but over time it's gone away. Don't want him to force it or feel guilty. Advice?