<human>: Late November I went to visit my long distance SO. It was the second time we've meet face to face (just being completely honest) although we talk every night and though out the day, we've spoke about having a family one day but when we were about 30 and I was in the country long enough to stay permanently. 

Obviously both being adults we had sex, which got me pregnant (doctor confirmed and booked a scan). 

Now I know he wants a family with me and I would love one with him. But there is just so many problems, like getting visas sorted because he's certain if he ever had a child he'd want it born in the us and not the uk.

Another problem would be his family.

 I'm not saying they are bad people I just find them a bit strange, they don't believe in sex before marriage so that would shock them that we'd do that (I don't know why it would shock them we're both adults, I don't know why they thought I'd pay over £1000 just to sleep on a couch for 2 weeks anyway) the only other person I've told about this is my close friend and she just laughed and said they might force me to marry him shot-gun style so obviously this is why I'm looking here for advice but over all they seem to like kids which can't be too bad in the long run.

But yeah, scan is in less than a week and I just don't even know if I should tell him, I know he'd be happy if I was and instantly make plans for me to move but I'm so scared I can't even put into words just how scared I am. 

I do want kids, but I'm not sure if I want them now or not and I'm not sure if I want to move around just yet I still feel so young. We're both fairly well educated and could provide for a child money-wise.

I just don't know if I even want to keep it to be honest, I know someone who had an abortion and she told me she regrets it but I've just got to a good point in my job and finished paying off student loans type situation.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Got pregnant from long distance boyfriend, not even sure I want a baby in my life yet. Don't know if I should get the scan then decide or ask for his opinion at all.