<human>: Hey! I have this friend and we have pretty much been dating without the title, and I was wondering how I could introduce her to my mom. Whenever her and I hang we always go to her house  just because it works with our schedule better. My mom knows that I hang out with her frequently. 

But there is one dilemma, I leave for Air Force basic training in two months, and my mom told me she doesn't want me to get in a relationship before I leave, so I feel as if my mother will have a negative attitude towards my friend. I confronted her negative attitude towards her, and she said that she was kind of offended when I asked her. But when I mentioned I planned on asking her to be my girlfriend, she gave me this look of disappointment. 

I also plan on asking my mother if my friend could come with us on our vacation comming up soon, my friend would pay for her own tickets and everything. 

I really care about my friend and want to take it to the next level, and my mom won't tell me I can't date her, but I feel as if she will not approve. I told my mom that my friend will be comming to meet her Thursday, and I would just like to know what we can all do, or something we can talk about to ease up the tension I feel going on in this situation.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: I feel like my mom won't approve of my soon-to-be girlfriend, need ideas to help relieve the tension going on in this situation.