<human>: Alright, a little backstory. 19f, he's 20. We were really good friends for at least the last five months, and I knew he always liked me but I was involved without someone else at the time so didn't do anything about it. We hung out a lot though. Slowly, things with the guy I was with went down south; hard. What happened was just cruel. Regardless, when I was a mess, this guy is the one who picked me up and helped me repair my heart. He'd get me out of bed and take me on walks... we did a lot together and became very close.

 About a month later (2 months ago now) he randomly kissed me one night and told me I deserve better than that other asshole. Since then, I've spent multiple nights with him, he always kisses me before he leaves me, we never ever go a day without talking or saying goodnight. I don't see him as often as I would like because we are busy college students with ample amounts of studying to do.

 We've slept together a few times. He kisses my forehead before anything else. He holds me all night and just talks if I want him too, and is taking me out to dinner this weekend. Only problem is I have no idea what we are? I'm too afraid to ask him because it seems as though it doesn't bother him at all. Is it silly that I just want that security of being in a relationship and knowing that he feels the same way?

Of course my panicked mind told me maybe he's just using me for sex, but that idea was shot down when I asked him if we could go back to his place for some alone time (my roommate came in) and he told me no because his room was wayy to messy and he was illegitimately too embarrassed for me to see it that way. He's somewhat girly like that, but it's kind of cute. I just don't know how to approach asking him... I don't want to sound needy or anything..  but it's been over two months this has been going on.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Close friend kissed me two months ago, we act like we're in a relationship, but I'm not sure if we are or how to ask?