<human>: I have been seeing this guy for about 4 months. By seeing each other I mean, we hang out, go on dates, we are affectionate, i've met his friends, and we have sex. We do all the normal thing that people in a relationship do; But, for some unknown reason he won't make it official (boyfriend/girlfriend). I have brought this up twice to him thinking he would pick up on me wanting to be able to actually call him my boyfriend, as childish as that may sound, but both times he just kinda tells me it's not going to change anything so what's the big deal. I mean it's not just about being able to call him my boyfriend it's also about feeling like its finally okay to have deeper feelings for him without being "clingy". (if that makes sense) so basically my question is, how do I get this fella to get what I'm saying and make it official. Or do you think I am holding my breath for nothing. Because honestly this is the longest I've seen a guy without us being in a relationship..

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<bot>: I've been seeing this guy for 4 months and he won't make it official. How do I get him to, or should I just give up?