<human>: We have been dating since I was 14 and he was 16. We have been living together for a little over a year. I love him, and always will, but am no longer "in love" with him. 

I have graduated from college and want to move across country. I live in a state with very poor economic or job prospects in my field and also his field. However, he is some what lazy when it comes to school and still has two more years left. He had the option to transfer schools out west to a better college that would open up a lot of opportunities but turned it down because he wasn't ready. 

He tells me he might want to get married somewhere down the road...when he's about 30. (We would have been dating for 16 years by then.)

His family hates me. It's a racial thing, (I'm white) and having a close family in law would be very important to me. 

I found out he still has not told his mother we live together.  They just never talk about things and she has never came over. He told her I lived with my parents still. 

I just don't know how to proceed. I know I've stayed this long because he's all I've ever known, but being with him is making me lazier and unhappy. I also want to be single and on my own. I want to have the option to do whatever I want.

I love him and don't want to break his heart but need to do what's best for me. 

Any advice out there?

Also, how much money would I have to make a week to be able to afford $700 rent a month on my own. (We currently split all the bills) I figured $500 a week and I can do it. Currently I'm a waitress. 

Also, we are in a month to month lease. 

I don't have any family that can help me financially or any place for me to stay.

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<bot>: Been dating 7 years, live together for a little over one. Need to be free and need to break it off without crushing him. Also, figure out how to afford to completely live on my own.