<human>: My great aunt died on February 21st. No one called me, any of my cousins, my aunts, my mother, or my uncle to let us know. I just found out by Googling her name. (She was in ww2 and I was watching a movie about hitler, just wanted to see if there was any cool shit she'd done and never told us about, so I could ask her about it when I went for a surprise visit Wednesday.) On one hand, at least I didn't make it to her apt and find someone else there. On the other, my heart is broken. This woman has played a huge role in my deciding what kind of person I want to be. She was a smartass, she said what she thought, not what she thought you should hear, and she was an all around amazing person. The fact that her children and grandchildren didn't think we needed to know makes me so mad I can't see straight. Sure, maybe we haven't been around as much as we should have been, but this woman meant something to all of us.

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<bot>: My (extended) family can eat a bag of dicks because my great aunt has been dead for four months and nobody told my aunts, uncle, mother, cousins, or me.