<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

I was just told last night, and I feel sick. A week ago my girlfriend went to her old state to go visit a friend and I thought nothing of it, but apparently near the end of the week the two of them acknowledged they had feelings for each other and had sex. I found out all the details. 

She's been distant ever since she's got back and I knew something was wrong. I was not prepared for this.

I'll cut to the chase. I want to hate her. With every fiber of my being I want to. But I can't. I look at her and I just want to hold her. She regrets hurting me, but I don't think she regrets exploring with her friend.

We talked for a couple hours about us and her now confused sexuality and I'm getting huge mixed signals. She says she loves me and part of me believes that. But she is being honest and saying that she still has questionable intense feelings about her friend. We're sleeping on it before we decide what to do, and a big part of me wants to stay when she figures herself out. I'm just worried though that she will go through the motions with me out of pity but keep up the emotional bond with the friend.

Oh god reddit what should I do?
<bot>: Girl I love more than anything cheats on me with her female best friend. Questioning her sexuality and her feelings for the friend. Can this work if we both try?