<human>: We have been dating one year and she is 100% convinced that I am the love of her life and love her very much as well (not 100% convinced that we are soul mates though). I am moving about 3 hours away to start my big boy job while she still has 2 years left. I honestly don't see this move as a huge deal. It is only 3 hours and we have access to stuff like face time and Skype but she is incredibly insecure.

Her issues seem to stem from the fact that she thinks I will move off and out grow her. She is afraid that I'll find another girl or start partying. This fear she is showing does the opposite of show me she cares. I feel like she is showing that she doesn't trust me and that she is insecure in our relationship. While it isn't something that I openly tell her, her worrying and long talks about the matter are actually driving me away. In a sense, the more she worries about me leaving, the more likely I am to actually out grow her. I am completely fine with having an awesome girlfriend who is still in college but I am not fine with having a jealous mess who is 3 hours away. My question is... can anyone who has dealt with this type of situation give me advice? Are we dead in the water?

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<bot>: I'm graduating and moving 3 hours away. Girlfriend still has 2 years of college and is insecure. Need any advice about how to handle this.