<human>: Note: I'm on mobile so I apologize in advance for any spelling/formatting issues.

I'm living with my father currently due to financial issues. My dad and I have similar personalities, so we tend to fight a lot. But one of the things that gets on my nerve the most is the statements he'll make, which to me come across as sexist.

For the record, my dad doesn't think he's sexist. I mean, he doesn't subscribe to the idea that women belong pregnant and barefoot in the kitchen, and always told me to make sure that I don't have to rely on a man to take care of me. 

However, he believes that women should look/act a certain way ("feminine," "sensitive on the outside and strong on the inside."). He is very bothered by the fact that I'm sexually active, and makes it known (as well as his belief that most men are only in it for sex; "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free" kind of thing).

I just think it's bullshit that he has such double standards for men and women. His "separate but equal" attitude towards gender dynamics (my words, not his) frustrate me because I do not fit his idea of a "woman." It's really great having a father who thinks you have gender identity issues because you don't come across as sensitive and aren't ladylike at all. I think (he hasn't said any of this) he has this very specific idea of what a woman should be like; he wanted a staunchly conservative, confident, sorority-type daughter, who dresses well etc. I'm none of the above.

I know I probably won't be able to change his views, but how can I address the little things he says (for instance, saying "good girl," which I find extreme patronizing) without getting into constant fights? How can I get him to respect my view (that gender roles are bullshit)?

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<bot>: I feel that my dad is sexist, he disagrees. How to deal with the little remarks he makes without constantly fighting?