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My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year now and things generally have gone amazing. A few months in however when I was at her parents cabin we were all having dinner and her dad offered me a beer (I'm sixteen) I declined and nothing happened after that and I thought nothing of it. When I got home it somehow casually slipped into conversation and my mother flipped. I calmed her down about it and told her I didn't take it I'm a good kid etc etc. a few months later we were fooling around in her bedroom when her father walked in on us and we both were in major trouble to the point where we weren't allowed to speak to each other for a month. This obviously put a big strain on her parents and my mom (my father's deceased) in the trust department. Eventually things became a little more normal after.  About a month ago however while in her living room her father was showing off his new .38 revolver and for some reason began twirling it around his finger while it was loaded. He then later pointed it at me and my phone while I was on it asking if I wanted a hole through it. This kind of disturbed me considering he is big on Guns and should know gun safety but I moved on. Once again this casually slipped into conversation with my mother and she had the biggest fit you can imagine and claimed that he was a crazy idiot and I wasn't allowed to see my girlfriend anymore. My girlfriend and I are both feeling extremely stuck since we have to lie every time we go meet and see each other but we have a good relationship and it hasn't put a strain on it per se.  Last night however she called me crying saying that this is extremely upsetting to her and we need to fix it. I need some help reddit
<bot>: girlfriends dad offered me booze and twirled a loaded gun and this made my mom flip and I'm not allowed to see her and I need help