<human>: Hi reddit
I am facing a troubling paradigm in my relationship.
I am, in many regards hyper sexual. When my girlfriend and I first started dating, my sexuality was a real problem for her, but over the last two years she has completely adjusted and now wants sex more than me; generally speaking she wants it 7 times a week and I want it about 4.
The problem is I still am as sexual as ever, I just now suffer from extreme urges for other women. I think about other women daily, look at and masturbate to porn, and fantasize regularly about other women. I have tried to stop, I can't, the urge isn't going away and when I have tried to talk to my gf about it she just breaks down, and then gets drunk to forget about it.
I love her to death, and I am extremely attracted to her, she seriously like the perfect girl, but I can't control my urges and they are getting the best of me.
I'm not the cheater type so I'm basically just going insane with lust that seems like it can't all be Aimed at one female.
Please help reddit, I need advice!!

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<bot>: I am polygamous and my gf is monogomous and it's making me insane, I NEED sex with other women; but I don't want to lose my best friend, help me :(