<human>: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost three years. I just graduated college and he will be graduating in May. We're still together, but I am trying to find a job abroad, most likely in Europe or Asia. We have a strong relationship, but like many people, we find long distance difficult. 

Now that we will be out of college, neither of us are the type to follow the other, but we did agree that if we had met later in life, after being settled down and had our lives less chaotic, we probably would've ended up together and getting married etc etc. However, because right now we are just finishing college and we're going to be starting our real adult lives, it's just too chaotic to really expect anything seriously long term from this point on. 

I don't want to give up this relationship but I also know that long distance is very difficult and I am not confident that we will somehow "beat the odds". But I don't want to let it end abruptly when there's so much unfinished, neither do I want to let it wither away to nothing and have only negative feelings or forget all the good feelings I have towards him by letting the relationship just end slowly. 

At present, there is no end date to our long distance relationship, but that's not to say that in the future, we don't want to potentially end up together. I'm just really unsure what my options are here, and what the best course of action would be. Is there such thing as..a pause or something on a relationship? Or should we just end things here and now?

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<bot>: Just finished college, possibly moving abroad (but don't live in same state anyways), unsure where the relationship should go.