<human>: I will try to make this as short and concise as possible. I have been dating my GF for 9 months and we are currently on summer break from school. The first 5-6 months were pretty good with minimal fighting or issues.

I ended up loaning a large sum of money to help pay for her school about 3-4 months ago. I didnt really expect to receive this money back, but she's said shell pay me back about two times since then. I don't know how I feel about this, I mean I love her so much but I have found financial issues to be a problem for her. I don't want to see someone struggle but at the same time that was money that I worked for and I don't want to have to support someone else right now. I am being supported by my parents but I just don't know where to go with this issue.

Second, she seems to have family issues stemming from one of her siblings that has a drug problem. Apparently he ends up stealing some of her things like her computer and doesn't give it back and she asks me what she should do.

I just am not sure what to think of all this. I love her to death, and she means a lot to me, but at the same time I don't want to be delusional about this, and having to deal with some of these issues. Am i being unreasonable? 

I would just like some advice on my situation and what others would do. Feel free to ask me about more details and questions if needed. 

This thread(is that the right term?) has been helpful for me in such situations.

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<bot>: GF has some financial issues and family issues. Not sure how I feel about this or what others would do in my position. I love her to death, but not sure about what to think of these reoccurring themes.