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I [29M] have a history of being a "Nice Guy." I am slowly overcoming this problem by being a more confident person, but I find that when I am starting to date someone new or trying to date someone I tend to revert back to my old "nice guy" persona. Because I am interested in them, I try to be extra nice and accommodating to fit their schedule.

For example, right now I am interested in someone [27F], who I have met for coffee once. I thought everything went well, and I gave her a kiss at the end. Since I went for coffee with her, I have had a hard time setting up another time to hang out. She is often too busy to go out, or won't respond to my texts or phone calls until its too late.

Last week at our dance class, I was going away for the weekend so I wasn't available, but we decided to play it by ear this weekend. I'll see her tonight, but how should I proceed? She gave me a maybe to going out tonight after our dance class, but if she isn't available should I try and setup another time? Or should I let her make the move tonight, and if she doesn't should I not take initiative and set something else up?

I have a feeling that I'm over thinking this situation and I should just see what she's up to, but I keep reading about this "Nice Guy" persona and I see myself fitting that role when I'm chasing women.

Any comments?
<bot>: I like this girl, but sometimes I feel like I'm chasing her too much and my confident care-free attitude goes away and I'm seen as a typical "Nice Guy" while in pursuit.