<human>: Here's the details: I'm 20, she'll be 23 next month. We shared the same class a couple of years ago and have stayed in touch ever since. She's an easygoing individual who would be down for anything while hanging out. You know those kinds of friends who you're totally comfortable being around? She's that kind of person, and I can't help thinking *"You know, this friendship is pretty swell."*

>Deathcon, that's fantastic! What are you waiting for, go talk to her!

The problem is I did, and she's not interested in a relationship with me right now, not because of me. Of course, the little fact that she's into girls at the moment plays an important role in that decision. Even if she were up for a relationship, right now wouldn't be the best time anyway. I'm still taking college classes; she's graduated and is looking to move to Austin.

I get and accept that. She's my friend, and I want the best for her. But that doesn't stop the feelings from arising. With other girls, trying not to become attached is simple after realizing those feelings are the result of chemical reactions occurring in the body. With her, it's like that mental power doesn't work as well. Were I a younger fellow, I might have gone as far as to say I was *in love* with her.

However, love is more than just fuzzy feelings in your stomach. It's the willingness to sacrifice for the benefit of the other person, even if that means not being in a relationship with them.

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<bot>: I'm Ted, she's Robin. Also, what is the difference between simple attraction and being bona fide in love?stronger attractions