<human>: Sometimes he will go for the wide open mouth tongue kiss when I am just not in the mood for it, like after we made love and are just lying around. I keep trying to hint with my kisses that I just want lips, but next thing you know he is literally prying my jaws open with his jaws and going for that tongue. It is such a turn off, and makes me so uncomfortable, it makes me cringe to think about. I can definitely get into tongue kissing if things are ramping up and it feels right, but he just takes it too far, does it all the time, and doesn't take ANY hints that I don't like it. 

Any ideas on how I could explain this to him? I know it opens up a Pandora's box of nit-picking, and I only bring it up because it seriously threatens my desire to kiss him.

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<bot>: boyfriend is a shitty kisser sometimes and totally turns me off, and I feel like I need to to tell him somehow.