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Him [26] and I [24] have been together for 2 years now. we had a break up about a year ago when he told me he didn't love me. I moved on and moved into a new apartment. Two months later he was on my doorstop, guitar in hand, tears streaming begging me to give him another chance. - He told me it was the only way he knew to make me find some independence.

We quickly found ourselves submerged in a full passionate relationship again, which slowly seems to be diminishing. I am completely in love with him, I see nothing but him, want no-one else. I see a future. We even traveled to another country and spent two weeks with his family this summer. One reason being he wanted me to meet his father before he lost his eye sight so he could "See how beautiful I am"

Then he will tell me he is no longer attracted to me, or that he loves my potential. That I need a real job, or I need to do more cleaning. He ignores me for hours and has little tantrums if I want to spend an hour going for a walk when I have not seen him for days, and if we have an argument he asks me to move out. He later retracts his statements, assuring me that I am the best thing that ever happened to him.

I feel like he is pulling me from one extreme to the other, I feel confused and un loved. I pay rent but despite that feel like he will take my home from me any moment. We have been sexless now for a couple of months due to my inability to trust anything he tells me. Which only seems to push us apart further.

I honestly have no understanding of what is happening, or the best way forward. My friends think he treats me like crap, and I can see that, but I can also see all the wonderful things and gestures he makes toward me. I really love him.

Reddit, can you give me any insight as to what is happening here?
<bot>: My boyfriend [26] of 2 years makes gestures of love, then statements of not loving me [24], then retracts them and I have no idea what's going on.