<human>: I'll try to keep this short.  I've been seeing this girl a little over a month, and it's been going awesome, really awesome, but she just informed me that she'd be going out of country towards the end of November, and be gone until January, and possibly longer depending how things pan out.

This kind of came out of left field.  I guess she's been planning to go see her family for the holidays for some time, but I'm really not sure about the long distance thing.  She also didn't even mention me going at all, or ask me to go.  Should I maybe ask her if she'd like me to go?  It seems kind of early in the relationship to do something like that.

I'm just not sure what to do if she decides to stay for a prolonged time if things "pan out" a certain way.  It's obviously way too early in the relationship for me to consider moving outside the country to be with her, not to mention I have things keeping me here.  But I also know the long distance thing doesn't usually work out very well.

Anyone have any advice, or ever been in a similar situation?

Thanks for any help!

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<bot>: Girlfriend of one month is going out of country for 1 month, possibly for much longer, and I'm not crazy about the long distance thing, any advice?