<human>: We started dating towards the end of high school and now we're attending the same college. I have very high career aspirations and am willing to make big sacrifices (moving away from family, etc) to get a good job after college. This may include moving away from my girlfriend. I feel that I am being realistic in thinking it will be very difficult for both of us to find good jobs in the same area of the country after we graduate. 

She, however, has made it clear that her first priority after school is getting married, and that she will do whatever it takes to stay together. Now I would love to marry this girl one day, but I told her my career will be my number one priority after college. Am I wrong for putting my career ahead of my relationship? In my view, I have my entire life to get married, but I will only be young and ambitious once. 

Basically I guess the issue is that our "life plans" are pretty different, and its starting to cause problems. How can we go about working this out? If we put it off, will it just cause bigger problems down the road?

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<bot>: Girlfriend and I have very different plans after college, and I'm worried it will cause serious problems in a few years when we graduate.