<human>: I've been dating this girl for a month now (7 dates), and things have been going really well. She's fun to be around, easy to talk to, and we just seem to have a lot of chemistry. From the start, I had a few qualms about her lifestyle. For example, she smokes weed and I do not. She's not in school at the moment, and isn't sure what she wants to do with her life. These things were turn offs, but not dealbreakers. Her good qualities seemed to outweigh the bad.

However, today some mutual acquaintances mentioned how she had cheated on several past boyfriends because she didn't know how to break up with them. Another person gave an eyewitness account of how she engaged in some unsavory bedroom activity with one of his friends.

This took me aback, as we had discussed these things before and she shared my loathing of infidelity and one night stands. I had told her that because my past sexual flings ended badly I do not have sex unless I'm in a committed relationship, and she agreed. Like I said, we have a lot of chemistry, so we have engaged in everything outside of sex (making out, groping, dry humping) but I am resolute in delaying the real thing until we are ready to make things official.

I realize these comments are coming from potentially unreliable sources. People gossip, and even though I disagree with some aspects of her lifestyle, she seems to be a good person. Though she did say to me once that she doesn't last long in relationships because she gets bored.

Anyway, if true, they are are major red flags for me and I am leaning towards cutting things off before I get too invested. What do you think I should do? Is it worth the risk, getting involved with someone who has a history of cheating? I am meeting up with her tomorrow night, and will ask her about this. What is the best way to go about it without seeming like I'm prying or interrogating her?

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<bot>: Dating girl for 1 month. Mutual acquaintances paint her in a bad light (cheating, being "easy"). Should I abort mission? How do I go about asking her about her past without prying or being an interrogator?