<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

My GF and I were together 4.5 years. I moved away after about 2.5 years to go to school and live in my dream city. after a year of long distance she moved to the city to live with me as was planned. after a year of living together we drifted apart. I'm fairly certain that was mainly due to the fact that she hated her job, and hated living downtown in a major city. We realized later on that she was probably depressed. So we drifted apart. Didn't spend time together, and fought a lot. 

In the end she was manipulating me a lot to get her way. The biggest one was she would threaten or break up with me so I would do what she wanted, after I caved we would just carry on. After a while I got sick of it. So when she did it next, I just didn't say anything, and found a place to rent, and just peaced the fuck out. She lost her shit for a while. And was in a bit of a mess, but I was fine. I guess I was riding the high of finally breaking loose. Fast forward about 3 months. I decide that I think I want to get back together. Get back in contact, and things go pretty well despite her having moved back to our hometown. So we talk for a while. Only bump was when I found out she slept some random guy one time, which pissed me off, but hey, she was single. And to be fair I slept with a handful of women as well. We spent most of Christmas together, which was actually pretty great. Very little conflict. We figured we would keep going slow and maybe get back together, and maybe I would even move back to my hometown. However, now she wants to be officially together. I reluctantly agreed, then in the same conversation she tells me she won't do long distance again. She says we can pretty much be together as long as I move back home. I don't know what to do. There's nothing keeping me where I am. But I'm afraid of moving back and it not working. What do I do.
<bot>: We broke up after 4.5 years together. Now, 4 months later,  I'm considering getting back together, but she won't do it unless I move 4.5 hours to be with her.