<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

Okay, so after a bad break up of a two year relationship, I turned to Tinder to try to see if I can get back on my feet. Surprisingly, I had little to no problem finding other people interested! I have been using it as a hook up app instead of a dating app, and I have hooked up with a couple of guys. However, recently, I have been talking to this guy, let's name him Roy. Roy and I exchanged numbers and talked about possibly meeting up. 

A week ago, we finally did, and it didn't feel much like a hook up. I mean, we did "do the deed," but it actually felt very romantic and MUCH different than other hook ups. Normally it was a get in, get out type of deal for me but he stayed around for a while and we talked a lot about ourselves. I may just be kidding myself with this, but I don't know. Yesterday, we got together again and it felt even stronger. It could have been because my feelings for him strengthened, but we were definitely more flirty and comfortable with each other than last time. 

I really like Roy now and I have no clue how to step out of the "hook-up" phase to a "dating" phase. He works late night shifts and it's hard to talk to him at all. Also, ever since hooking up, it feels like he is distancing himself a little from me, which is making me confused. Should I throw in the towel and give up? Could it be that after being in a relationship for so long, I'm just trying to find another one too quickly? Should I tell Roy how I feel and try to pursue something more? AHH!
<bot>: Currently hooking up with a guy, but it feels more romantic than just a hook-up. How do I ask him if he wants to date?