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She's Asian.  I'm white.  So there are significant differences in our cultural values.  For example, they value working hard, and I value not.

The latest problem seems to be on the subject of marriage.  While they seem to dislike me for many reasons, one of those reasons is that I don't want to marry their daughter.  This is untrue, as I do want to marry her, but I just can't imagine marrying someone whose family dislikes me.  It's a weird situation for raising children in. 

So I've tried to explain that I do want to marry her, but that first I want to get to know the family better.  And they're like, "We have no interest in knowing you until this is serious long term."  And apparently it's not enough to tell them it's serious long term.  They want marriage.

So what do I do?  I don't want to rush into marriage with her just to appease her family, and I worry that once I do marry her they'll find other reasons not to accept me.  And I don't feel comfortable with my child being around people who openly dislike me, but I also hate the idea of depriving a child their grandparents.

I want to get them to come around, but it seems like they refuse to try until I've bought the cow.
<bot>: Her parents don't like me, but want marriage before they'll even consider liking me (but probably still won't).