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I'd like to think I have things that women desire. I'm tall, in good shape, confident, decent looking, I'm balding but I wear hats most of the time anyway. I am genuinely interested in what women have to say, at least the women that I take out, I enjoy being a vent or debating or getting in deep conversations. 

I can really hold my own on the first initial dates, but for some reason like a light switch they just lose all interest. I don't get clingy or mad at this, this is just dating, but this has been going on for a few years now, I kind of want something serious. 

I feel like there is something that just makes me completely undesirable, and that I haven't noticed it. I don't chase or anything, I'm not desperate or clingy, I've been alone for a while and I'm used to it at this point. 

Whatever relationship I've had has always been very one sided. I don't want to say crazy, but women that I had to basically take care of. Then eventually it ends up like the women that I date, they just lose interest completely. Of course this hurts, but I'm wondering what I'm doing wrong more than anything.
<bot>: Dated lots of women, first few dates go well, but then interest is lost on their end. Tired of dating and want someone consistent.