<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a little over a year. When the relationship started Everything was fantastic, and nothing could be better. However the first roadblock we encountered was actually faith. Her parents would not allow their child to date a non christian, That was fine enough because i originally said i was christian from the get-go and (switched) to their church...

After a brutal month of that, and me being quite the opposite of christian, i simply told her i couldn't do it anymore. A (literal) Hell broke loose, and she quickly found herself kicked out of her house, living with her friend currently...

So long story short, she is committed to our relationship, Much more than i am, or probably ever will be. And that's the problem Me and my girlfriend are on separate pages. If she could have it her way, she would have a ring on her finger from me by tomorrow...

I hate this, shes over-committed and I'm looking for something completely different. And when i tell her to take our relationship more casual, such as stop texting me all the time, (the clingy stuff) She completely respects my boundaries, but then cries about it behind the scenes.

Its killing me Reddit, Its killing me. I don't know what to do. If i break up with her, she will suffer, but as long as she is with me, she's still suffering. I really would prefer not to end the relationship, just take it more casually...

What does Reddit think? I really would like any opinion, be critical of anything, Am i selfish? let me know.

Thanks.

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<bot>: An over-commited girlfriend who has put everything into a relationship, and a guy who just wants a more casual relationship.