<human>: Hi reddit

My LTR (lived together 4 years) just fell apart - bf says he is no longer in love with me.

I'm having trouble understanding, because at the same time he says he still loves me, feels close to me, enjoys spending time with me and finds me sexually attractive.

I'd always thought "I love you, but I'm not in love you" as a break up cliche meant the sexual spark had gone away. 

Any one out there been on either end of a situation like this? My ex hasn't really explained it to me, and I'd really appreciate stories from other people, to help me understand.

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<bot>: ex no longer in love with me, but still likes me as a friend and also would like to bone me. What's up with that?