<human>: Let me give a little backstory. my bf and I have this "friend" who is always calling us trying to hang out and hit the bars but never, NEVER wants to hang out if we instigate it.

On top of that, he is generally disrespectful  and self-centered, and while I have considered him a great friend for a while, I'm honestly fed up because he just brings me down and makes me feel like I'm worthless.

Anyway, last night my bf and I got in a huge drunken fight and he left and ended up hanging out with this guy while I was stuck at home. It was a devastating feeling because I already was wishing I had some actual friends who were faithful and fun to be around.

We made up and I admitted that this friend of ours was just bringing me down and I was done and didn't want to see him again for a very long time. He agreed that this friend was an asshole and didn't want to deal with it either (he admitted that he came over that night to the friend's house to sleep over and they ended up at the bars while his friend just talked about himself and ditched as soon as I called)

Well tonight, he decides to go for a walk and later texts me saying he's getting a pint with this asshole. I'm feeling really lonely and rejected all of a sudden. 

As a girlfriend, I've always been totally ok with my man going off and doing his thing, but this time I feel betrayed and ditched. I want to call him and tell him he's making me feel like this but I don't ever want to be "that girl".

What should I do?

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<bot>: my boyfriend is hanging out with a guy we both agreed we don't want to associate with and for the first time in our relationship I feel betrayed and hurt.