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As title suggested. We have been dating for 3 years and married for 3 years. It was a forced married from her parents side due to the fact that dating is not accepted in our culture. We thought that we will be "the one" for each other. It turns out that she fell out of love from me. However, we remain really close to each other. She's my best friend and I'm hers.

We (especially her) have been trying to reignite the love for each other in the past year. It doesn't seem to work at all. I still love her because I'm pretty much settle by now. She's still young and she wants her independent. I do not object. 

She recently found a nice guy. They have been dating for 3 weeks already. She really likes the guy. Even though it sucks to hear that, I'm glad she's happy and I don't want to force her to fix our marriage anymore. It is only going to turn ugly in the long run. You can't force anyone to love you.

The problem with this relationship is that she can't get out of this marriage. It's cultural thing in my country that judges women who are widow; they will not get good reputation after divorce. Her parents are from well respected family and they might disown her. She's a celebrity in my country as well. Divorcing will mostly likely put her into a really bad situation. I understand that is why I still care and show support for her. However, I just can't stand seeing her going out with the guy like that since I still have feeling for her and she knows it too. I rather have her leave completely and I will try to recover myself but it seems like it's not going to happen any sooner. 

I'm a bit stuck in this situation now as much as I want to help her, I have to think about my own feeling too. I  don't really have any solution that will not harm both of us.
<bot>: we're still in marriage but live secretly as a separated couples. We can't divorce; it might jeopardize my wife life. She's dating a guy and I can't stand it but I want to help her.