<human>: My SO [30F] (married 4 years, dating 13) has always been a bit kooky.  Charming and endearing normally.  With stress, it started to get worse.  Cycling, racing thoughts, depression started becoming more prevalent.  A bipolar diagnosis is the most recent development.

It's been a tough go.  I [30M] want to be in a relationship where my SO loves me and wants me as much as I want them.  I feel, though, that there's always something in the way; errant thoughts, inattention, unhappiness to name a few.  Intimacy, interaction, enjoyment all suffer.  

I try to be supportive.  I know I'm not perfect, and it doesn't always work.  But I honestly and truly do care and love this person.  I want them to get better, to feel happy and loved and not stressed.  And I can love them even with the disease, despite the indifference and lack of intimacy (which I realize isn't necessarily their fault).

But now they moved out.  Needing time, needing space, needing time to get better.  Staying with someone who, in a presumably-manic-episode, they have kissed.  I'm told it meant nothing; they were confused and grasping.  Now the isolation and indifference isn't just mental - it's physical.  They're not here for me to go to bed with, to stroke their hair while they fall asleep.

It's just me, alone.  And it's making me indifferent. 

They won't come home; I've tried. I barely get any responses.  My (I don't think entirely-too-burdensome) request of "Please let me know before you go to bed that you're OK" has gone unheeded about 90% of the time.

Am I wrong?  At what point do you just say it's time to go?  I realize that I may never have the relationship I want due to the bipolar.  I (think I...) am ok with that.  However, this "break" feels more like a break-up, and is pushing me away every day it goes on.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Bipolar SO left on a break.  Little to no contact.  I feel like my heart is turning to stone.  Am I wrong?