<human>: I've been seeing this guy for three months. Our relationship is weird in that this is the second time we're seeing each other (we broke up once and got back together) and he's been unemployed for half a year now. When we hang out things are ok but I don't feel appreciated overall, particularly because he is comfortable going days without talking to me at all, without even sending a check-in text.

I obviously want to talk to him about it but I'm nervous that if I demand more from him that he'll decide I'm not worth it. We've been having sex and I feel like that's my only leverage because I'm pretty physically attractive. However I am a bit reserved, which I've been working on, but I feel like he doesn't like me because it's hard for me to look/be friendly, outgoing, etc. I feel like because of this I don't offer him anything because I haven't been talking a lot and it makes me hate myself even more. If I did, then he wouldn't be neglecting me, right? 

I enjoy our time together but I feel like I'm not good enough for him because he doesn't seem to even care if I'm around or not. I really like him and know he's a good person, and our life goals match up and I feel that we are meant for each other, so I don't want to lose him.

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<bot>: Him and I have been seeing each other but my needs aren't being met. I'm worried that if I put up boundaries he's going to leave.