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It's been a month since we've broken up and for the most part we've not had any contact. However my mind will always wonder to her daily and ask itself if I made the right decision. I believe I did the right thing, I just have to go through the mental checklist I made for myself when I do think of her. It's getting easier and not having any contact helps much like everyone here says it does. 

The kicker is that I've started flirting with this new girl that works at the local Papa Johns. I don't even know her name but we've flirted every time I've gotten a pizza there, which is becoming more frequent. 

Right now, I'm just trying to work on me. I need to do that and I don't have the emotional capacity right now for any sort of relationship. When I think about Papa Johns girl though, and how much fun it is to flirt with her, I invariably stray to thinking of my ex. 

My guess is that I'm latching on to her emotionally to re-imagine what it was like with my ex in the beginning before it all went down the crapper. 

Is there any way to change this or is it just a keep it to flirting and let time heal the wounds I have thing? I want to ask her out for a cup of coffee so badly but I'm afraid of what will happen and I don't want to string her out if she does want anything further.
<bot>: Broke up with ex a month ago and have had no contact. Stray to thinking of her and what it was like before the crapper after I think of the new girl I'm flirting with. What to do?