<human>: I am a male in his mid 20's who recently started using online dating. I live in a pretty big city and met this girl who I've hung out with several times who seems pretty cool but I'm concerned she's lying about her age. She says she's 21 years old, yet she still lives at home. I've been there and it seems normal enough because she says she is in college. She asked me to accompany her to a high school sporting event tonight, yet claims she doesn't know anyone playing.. I'm confused as to why she would want to do this? It seems weird, especially when I think about the other factor, like she still lives at home and it doesn't seem all that far fetched for a high school girl to try to meet an older guy online and show him off to her friends. The last thing I want to do is hang out with someone who is still in high school when I'm in my mid 20's. She looks her age but as you know, it's pretty hard to tell sometimes as people mature at very different ages. Any advice on how to verify she is 21 without sounding like I'm on to her or sabotaging the relationship?

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<bot>: I'm a mid 20's guy who met a girl via online dating site, she wants to go to a hs sporting event, not sure if she's actually 21.