<human>: Me (24m), her (22f) Basically when me and my ex broke up she made it adamant that we didn't talk to each other then after about 2 weeks of 0 contact she kept every week or so, trying to arrange to meet up with me, then we seemed to have ended on okay terms after we talked about it but every few days she would pop up and talk to me, so I assumed that we'd be okay to meet up again eventually, as friends, and put it behind us but when confronted about the subject she made it pretty clear to her I was just someone she knew, an nobody really, so obviously I got annoyed with the mixed signals and told her to leave me alone until she knows what she wants

Fast forward to Christmas day, she messages me just before midnight of Christmas day asking how my Christmas went etc, obviously I was confused why she bothered because I made it clear I didn't want to talk to her if she is just going to treat me like a nobody when I've been pretty consistent with trying to still have her naively In my life, I confront her again and she made the same comment that I was never going to be someone significant in her life, again I lost my shit with her because this girl broke up with me on a weekly basis when we were together, has no respect for me and has completely disregarded my feelings the entire of our relationship and beyond. 

My question is, why does she keep popping up ignorant to me making it clear I don't want anything to do with her if shes going to treat me like a nobody when I clearly still want to be friends with her since we shared a big relationship together? Am I being stupid?

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<bot>: ex doesn't want to know me but thinks it's okay to keep popping up in my life and then pretending like she doesn't give a shit about me and it's bothering me.