<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

She's telling me that relationships are about genuinely caring about each other, which is different from a bit of sexual tension that is present when grinding happens in clubs. To her, grinding is something fun that takes place isolated and does not affect the relationship. And she says she has no intent to get the guy's attention or follow up on the grinding. So she sees no problem doing it personally, but since it hurts me and makes me uncomfortable, she said she won't do it if it bothers me. Is this something I should be concerned about? I don't grind on other girls when I'm in a relationship.
<bot>: Gf thinks grinding isn't an action that affects the relationship, I don't see it as harmlessly as she does.