<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

So basically my boyfriend is incredibly smart, very high energy two qualities that made me fall in love with him. But at the same time I find him wanting to discuss things that I already know or understand. He seems to pose all these discussions as sort of "teaching moments" which I find very patronizing. 

He doesnt mean to be, he just gets really excited about topics and then wants to flesh them out in every possible way. But it's frustrating because he is smarter then me. So a lot of times he will bring up topics that I will be able to follow about half way through before they become beyond my scope. Especially since I don't know the proper way of argumentation (Straw mans logic, confirmation bias, etc). 

It's causing problems and I feel resentful. I want to be able to have intellectually challenging conversations but I either feel like a complete moron or patronized because I already understand it. For example this morning I have just finished the 1st season of GOT which he has already watched. He then says "I'd like to discuss winter is coming." to which he explains that in the show the seasons are not like earth seasons, which they pretty clearly define in the show on more then one occasion, so the fact that he thought I wouldn't understand that is kind of insulting. However last week we got into a huge debate over whether or not plastic surgery is for the benefit of others or the benefit of the client. It became pretty murky and meta and I got totally lost and felt like an idiot. 

I don't want to not be able to talk about interesting subjects but I fear my inability to continue with rigorous debate is both making my boyfriend think I need to be spoon fed simple ideas, and making me feel resentful and dumb.

I love him and I love his intensity, I know he doesn't mean to hurt my feelings he just loves debate and wants to make everything as clear as possible, but i fear it will cause the relationship to fail.
<bot>: Boyfriend is super smart, had many challenging debates with him where I couldn't compete intellectually, but now I feel like he thinks I'm not that bright and its hurting the rapport we have.