<human>: Give me a shortened version of the text

Yes chores, the age-old problem and downfall to many relationships. I feel like I do more than my share and put up with it mentioning little things here and there hoping he will help out more. Then one day I ask him to take out the trash only to come home and the trash is still there and that's the last straw! I get fed up and tell him I feel like I'm doing everything and don't want to have to tell him every time a chore needs to be done. It makes me feel like a mother. I can tell he looks ashamed or that he feels I'm attacking him. I try to make it sound like I'm not attacking him but in the heat of the moment I know I say things to take a little dig at him. Anyway, things get better for a while then repeat. 

How can I change this cycle?
<bot>: I feel that bf of 9 years doesn't help out enough with chores and I want to bring it up to him in a polite way without anyone taking it personally.