<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

Hey all.

First of all, this was my first break up, so I am a little shaken up and a lot emotional. I know I'll get over her. I know that it won't hurt anymore after a while. However, I have certain fears and concerns. I need you guys to tell me if they are even rational fears, or if I'm being afraid for no reason.

I can find girls, but I'm just afraid that I won't find one as awesome and amazing as my X. She is the first girl that really understands me (most people don't) and I'm afraid of not finding someone who does.
Is the sea really that big? 

Also, another fear I have is that I won't be able to love anyone as much or care for anyone as much as I did for her. Like, that I'll be paranoid and too hurt to be willing to invest in another relationship.

Next, is that I'm just afraid that I'll think I'm over her, get with another girl, and then have those feelings come back unexpectedly and not being fully able to have my emotions fully directed to my current girlfriend/lover. What do you guys think? Real fears? Or just a pussyman?
<bot>: im afraid that i wont find anyone as cool, and if i do, i wont really love or trust anyone as much