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I've always wondered this. I'm not excusing cheating, just trying to look at it from a different angle. Seems like sometimes people get caught cheating, then end up even deeper in a relationship, but with more rules and fear, like walking on eggshells and such. Seems like if they were worth the arduous process of rebuilding, i.e. "The One", you wouldn't have cheated to begin with. 

I'm guessing we're going to have some debate as to the definition of cheating. Since every relationship is different, lets just call cheating in this case a breach of trust of the agreed upon level on monogamy/exclusivity you've agreed upon in your particular relationship. I.E. for some relationships, dancing might be considered cheating, in another, kissing is ok, but nothing further, some relationships are open, but with rules, etc. etc.)
<bot>: you wouldn't have cheated if they were truly The One, and cheating is defined by each relationship based on agreedupon rules.