<human>: Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?

So I am having issues with my marriage.  I have been married for a year and a half now and after a really rough start, my wife and I had been doing a lot better.  Over the past week, things have gotten worse for me.  My wife can tell I seem off, but doesn't know why.

So a little back story, my wife has really low self esteem and a horrible self image.  This comes from a childhood of insults and mental mistreatment.  So because of this she puts herself down all the time and I always hate it and say something about it.

We also have a lot of trouble in the bedroom.  What I should say is there is no action in the bedroom, or anywhere else for that matter.  We have sex maybe once every month or two and it is always "Ok just go quickly".  We have tried to fix this, but she just seems to be unwilling.  She was also raped a year before we were married, but sex got worse for her as time went on.

Physical contact at all is very limited to occasional hand holding, a bi-weekly hug and a daily closed mouth kiss (or 2 if I am lucky).

I also lately I have realized that I no longer find my wife attractive, even when she dresses up sexily.  

The worst part, is that over the past week I have started having dreams about meeting other women and being with them.  And it scares me because in these moments, I am really happy.  It has also started to spill over into real life and I have started to look at women, in a way that I haven't since I started to date my wife (when I date my mind shuts off from other women).
<bot>: 1. I am no longer attracted to my wife (who I still think is beautiful, but I just don't feel that attraction)