<human>: My girlfriend is away at college and I won't be seeing her for the next couple weeks. I've been happy and doing things alone and with my dad and mom while I'm waiting to go back to school.  She gets upset when I answer her texts in a cheery mood. I feel that I should be able to be happy without her.  She said I should be her happiness and vice versa and that "If she wanted to be happy with herself she would not need me."  I think this is not the right way to be in a relationship.

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<bot>: Gf finds happiness in me, I find happiness in her and myself, but her more.  We both feel that our way is how a relationship is how it should be.