<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

I don't really have trouble meeting women, engaging with them and have been in plenty of serious relationships.  Unfortunately when I fall for someone, I fall *hard*. Possibly borderline obsessive. I come across as too needy/moving too fast.

I'm pretty happy with myself - professionally, socially, physically.  Not perfect but I believe I know my flaws/weaknesses elsewhere and I've been able to address them as I've grown - just not here.

I assume some part of me was broken/never grown as I've been in steady relationships all my adult life.

What's up with me? Anyone else ever been here?  How can I figure this out?   

thanks internet !
<bot>: Romantically speaking I've got the maturity of a 13yo.  I don't know where to begin fixing it or even how to begin looking for help.