<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

He's actually **[25M]**, not [25F].

Three months ago, I met a guy online. We clicked immediately and I thought everything was going great - until I tried to label it about 1.5 months in and he said he wasn't ready. He broke up with me but said he was open to hooking up - but has since stopped seeing me at all. He responds when I text him, but has never texted first or invited me to hang out.

At this point I no longer want a boyfriend, just a friend with benefits or a hook up because I'm trying to move away from my current city. I've gone on several other first dates but they've all been disappointments. And now that the school year's over I'm totally free weekday evenings - fixing our only other issue.

Is there a way to text him this while preserving my dignity if he ignores/rejects me? I don't care as much about him as word getting out to our shared social group.
<bot>: Fling broke up with me because I wanted a boyfriend and was never free on weekdays. Those aren't issues anymore. How do I ask him to hook up without coming off desperate?