<human>: I'm going to admit something about my personal situation to you all, and would like to hear if anyone else has ever been in a similar situation. I'm not looking for help or advice about my personal situation; rather, I'm looking to see if anyone else has been in this situation. Thanks.

I have a husband who I've been with for 10 years and married to for 3. We're sublimely happy. We kiss and laugh and hug and support and say we love each other every day. We have complete trust. I would never cheat and know he wouldn't either. Things are so wonderful; I'm so happy.

I also have a friend. My husband's best friend actually. A recent best friend of my husband's... they met at work 4 years ago. In the past 4 years this guy has become my friend too, and the three of us hang out a ton. He is single, though he's had a few GFs during the past 4 years; they never seem to become serious. IDK why; he's a fantastic guy. I adore him and love him as a best friend. I also find him sexually attractive. 

So this is just where I'm at. I have a husband/love/perfect relationship. I have a friend who is great. I have a "spark" for this friend, but would never act on it. I wouldn't say this friend threatens my marriage; he doesn't. I just feel lust/love/attraction to him. I feel more for my husband. The friend will continue to be around. This is just where I'm at and I accept it all. I'm not looking for help. I don't think I need help. Nothing is going to change. 

Anybody been here before?

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<bot>: Happy marriage not being threatened. Simply feel love for a mutual friend. This is the status-quo and I don't expect it to change. Just want to know if anybody else has been in this situation before.