<human>: We only got together after our kid was born so we've only been together for almost two months now, but it is going extremely well. Since we want to make things work we had the marriage/future kids talk very early and we are on the same page. Everything is going really well with us. 

The reason I've been thinking about getting her a ring is she feels very insecure about having a baby without being married. She isn't pressuring me for marriage, we both agreed we want to wait a while, but since she works in a field with new parents she is almost always asked if she has any children and if she is married. Or they see she isn't wearing a ring and assume she isn't. She says she knows she can say she prefers to not speak about her personal life, but she prefers to speak about it when asked because it makes for a more relaxed experience with her clients. 

Personally I think there is no need to worry about what other people think of our relationship, but I do understand her side. I was thinking about maybe buying her a ring for her birthday. It wouldn't look like an engagement ring and I would make it clear that it isn't an engagement ring, but maybe a placeholder for one so she doesn't need to feel so insecure. 

I can see this backfiring though so I'm not sure. I wouldn't want her to think it was an engagement ring when I give it to her. Even though we agreed to wait, I'm certain she would say yes if I were to propose to her on her birthday next month. Another thought I had was to suggest that she buy a ring herself, or we go buy one together, but that seems very impersonal. But I also like the thought of it being from me, and I know what her tastes are because I saw her Pinterest so I know I could get her something she really loves. 

So is this weird or a nice idea?

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<bot>: my girlfriend and I have a baby together, everyone new she meets asks if she's married which makes her feel bad, wondering if I should get her a non-engagement ring as a gift or if It is a terrible idea