<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

So I started to date as I approach the end of my divorce which has been going on for some time. I met a girl who is really great, and we have a deep connection physically and mentally. I didn't expect to start falling for someone, and it's got me thinking all sorts of crazy thoughts.
  
Everyone tells me after ending a marriage of almost 6 years that I should see more people, and I have gone out on some dates, but the two of us clicked hard. And we've been pretty close ever since. 
  
I know I should see other women, I know I may be clinging out of attachment issues being so emotionally raw (5 months separated, divorce almost final). But I really am afraid of losing this girl. That in itself seems like there's room for problems.  
  
We've had some vague talk of seeing/not seeing other people, and I truly believe she is ready to be exclusive. But I don't think I am. At the same time, dating other women feels unfaithful. And also, I feel like anyone I'm about to see may not compare. I wouldn't go into any dates ready to compare, but I would have to compare the connection after the fact.  
  
I'm clear in my intentions with her, though I fawn quite a bit. Is it my responsibility to detach/create distance to spare her feelings? In several self-help/recovery arenas I've found myself in I've learned that we have to take care of ourselves and worrying too much about taking care of another can be a slippery slope.

Any advice for someone like me? I know this seems vaguely defined categorically so I will likely x-post to /r/divorce, thanks for looking. 
  
Why couldn't she have come along in 6 months?!?! ugh.
<bot>: I'm falling for a girl, and I'm not even divorced yet. Detach and give it time? Break it off altogether? Help!