<human>: I met her last fall and we have been dating since around October. We see each other about once or twice a week. We have made out but have not slept together.

She made it clear from the beginning that if we were to date, I would have to be patient for things to get physical. She says this is just how she is and I listened. We traveled together for a weekend getaway and had separate beds.

Last week, we had a "we need to talk" talk in which she told me that the since she has a job lined up for her abroad and will be moving away near the end of this year, she is hesitant about taking any next steps in our relationship. She also says that she values independence and wants to cap our dates at one per week. We are both busy people, so I agreed.

For Valentine's Day, I had planned for us to go stay at a nice hotel. I told her about this during the talk and her response was that she needed to think about it. She got back to me after a few days via text and declined the offer.

Of course, I was disasppointed. I had put in a bit of work to plan and pay for this trip. Initially, I thought of it as a rejection of a physical advance (come on, it's two people staying in a room together). But I thought I had shown her that I was willing to be patient with her. It's this that I'm more upset about. It feels like she's rejecting me physically *and* emotionally.

I haven't told her about how upset I am with her decision but plan to do so soon. 

Now, I'm starting to wonder if she even likes me *in that way* at all. I'm also startiing to feel like she's just dragging me along. It seems liike when she has to "think about it", it means "no." 

Thoughts?

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<bot>: Woman I've been dating has been needing more time to think about commiting for four months. I'm running out of patience.