<human>: Hi, I've been a frequent lurker here but I could really use some advice right about now. Thank you if you take the time to read through my post. I'm sorry if this is all over the place.

I've been with my SO for about 4 months now and things have been great up until the past 2 weeks. She's brought to my attention numerous times where I would do things without thinking of her, or what she does for me. With her going away to college next month, I feel as though this is going to break us. 

I completely agree with everything she says though which is the scary part. Without going much into detail, she holds our relationship together. Shes is possibly the busiest person I've ever met and yet still makes time for us to have together. I've really taken her for granted and now I don't know what to do.

She told me how shes just emotionally exhausted she is at this point. That shes given so much and I haven't been pulling my weight. She also asked my why she should even bother trying so hard if I cant even do little things for her. Ill admit there has been a lot of miscommunication in our relationship but I really am doing my best to help us. She hates me beating myself up over all this but it's the only way I can realize just how badly I've been fucking up.

I already know there are going to be comments about this just being "young love" or to "jump on the breakup train" but I really want to try my best to at least work towards this. I just dont know how to stop hurting her. Seeing her depressed over us is the worst feeling I've ever felt before.

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: I don't put in enough effort and don't think before I act. SO is scared what this means for us and I want to make it up to her.