<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

I'm thoroughly over my [18 F] ex, and she's over me. The breakup was early June. Since then, however, there's been this other girl [19 F] I've begun to notice. If I'm honest, I took notice of her about a year ago, but never considered dating her until recently. We seemed to "click" very well as friends, and I'm very attracted to her. However, before I try to start another relationship, I want to make sure I'm doing it for the right reasons: I've heard a lot of warnings about not "dating the person, dating the idea of a person." How do I know I'm doing this right?
<bot>: Long term relationship ended a while ago, I want to make sure I'm starting a new one, not just "replacing" the old one.