<human>: BACKGROUND: We have been together since our junior year in highschool and have been incredibly close (emotionally) from the start. My freshman and sophomore years I went to school out of the state, while she went to a community college near our houses, so we were apart for long periods of time. It is always been clear that I have a higher sex drive, but also like to show my affection more through physical touch (nonsexual) than she does. 

This summer we both have been working a lot and she has made a lot of friends at her work, so we haven't been seeing each other as often as usual, but we both got a week off to go on a fun road trip. 

The trip was starting off great and we were able to spend lots of time together, eating, sleeping, and even showering together, and since we had gone 3 weeks without any sexual/intimate moments I think I was understandably pretty needy, but after 3 days nothing had happened, and she kept telling me she was not in the mood I got moody. We had a fight and I ended up walking around outside for a bit to cool off.

ISSUE: I come back and try to explain my frustration and my feelings towards sex/intimacy, which I called the pinicle between emotional and physical connection. She told me then that she had never felt any emotional connection or any emotional connection to sex and that she thought the only reason to do it was to satisfy physical urges, which is why she isn't all that fond of sex when she isn't in the mood beforehand. 

This was sort of a crushing blow to me, because it sort of makes me feel like a good friend she fucks (note: not makes love to) every now and again, and this is the girl I am planning on marrying. It's been about a week since then and I still feel unsure about the whole situation. Am I just too overzealous about this? Is it normal to not feel any sort of emotional connection to someone during sex if you consider them more than just a f-buddy?

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<bot>: The girl I've been with for 3 years does not feel any emotional connection during sex and it makes me feel less confident in our relationship. Is this a problem?