<human>: My girlfriend and I have been dating for three years. Our relationship has recently become complicated and we are in a spot now where we are together and exclusive, but not necessarily "official." To make a long story short, it got to this point because I have trouble with intimacy and showing affection and she has problems with communication. It dragged her down and we have been taking a break of sorts recently. For the past couple weeks I have been more open with expressing affection (she has also improved communication) and we are taking it slow to be sure that this is what we really want. We are also doing this so I can show her that I'm not just putting on an act.

To bring you up to speed about my current problem, our anniversary is coming up soon. In my mind, the relationship we had is over and we are now moving into a better relationship. Although we technically aren't "official", a part of my feels like I should still find a way to celebrate the anniversary as a way to show her that I am capable of being caring and affectionate. I have no idea how to even approach asking her about this. Should I even ask? Any advice is greatly appreciated!

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<bot>: My girlfriend and I are in a complicated relationship where we aren't necessarily "official" any longer and I don't know whether or not to try a celebrate our upcoming anniversary.