<human>: Condense the text into a few key points

Basically I (21f) was dating my ex (22m) all throughout our last year of university. We got along so well hanging out a lot every week, but also giving each other space for our respected friend groups/alone time. We both graduated in May and decided to stay together because we would only be 2 hours apart.

I've been pretty busy studying for a board exam and he doesn't have much to do because his start date is at the end of summer. I visited him once since graduating and after I take my exam we had a bunch of plans to visit each other since we would be free for a while.

Unfortunately we didn't make it that far. I was hoping to call him on the phone each night on days we weren't busy, whereas he said he enjoyed a call maybe once a week with texting throughout the week. After getting upset with him we compromised one every other day, but it still sucked to me to have to put a schedule on it when both of us weren't doing much at night. 

Eventually after more fights than we ever had, I broke up with him because he did not seem to care that the calls were at all important and it was making me upset a lot. He told me he wanted space occasionally and I didn't understand that he needed alone time. I told him I have always respected that, but I figured us not seeing each other in person was the space he needed. Also these phone calls weren't hours long. Sometimes 10 minutes, 30 minutes, occasionally an hour. 

Basically I want to ask, is it unrealstic to want to talk on the phone everyday when in a long distance relationship and when both people are available? If not how can I work on this for the future
<bot>: ex bf never wanted to talk on the phone, I wanted to a lot. Broke up with him. Need advice for the future.