<human>: 5 months ago I started dating a girl whom I knew was my complete opposite. I'm an outgoing, talkative, social, exploring, emotional, romantic kinda guy, and she's more of a passive personality - laid back, semi introverted, quiet, shy, and anti drama. We have had a great relationship so far, we complement each other and love hanging out and doing couple stuff. But sometimes, I just get really annoyed at her passive personality. For example, if i've been out drinking with the guys past 2am, I'd expect her to at least call or text and ask where I'm at (as a healthy indicator that she cares about me)...but she won't! She won't even text me at all, throughout the night. I have brought it up before and she says "i'm just not that jealous, needy kinda girl". Also, I feel like i'm the crazy romantic 90% of the time in this relationship, doing all the surprise dates, gifts, initiating hangouts etc. and it seems like she does nothing. She's too laid back to be a romantic and her line is "i've never been a romantic one in relationships". To me it's slowly starting to seem like she probably doesn't care, and never did to begin with. And lastly, whenever I'm hanging out with her friends, it always seems to me like she's enjoying herself much more than she would with one-on-one time with me. Which is why she invites her friends wherever we go. 

So i'm starting to doubt if this can continue to work. What are your thoughts reddit? I don't want to give up this relationship, but the cracks are starting to show.....and they're all from my POV because she hasn't complained about anything!

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<bot>: Girlfriend has a passive personality. Seems like she doesn't care about anything in the relationship. Wondering if it's just me...or if these are the cracks in our relationship.