<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

I met Matt at a company workshop(We both work for a large company, separate buildings) and quickly got close to him. He is a very funny and charming guy. He initially showed interest in a fling, but I don't really want that(nor have I ever really, I prefer being in relationships), so he backed off and we have since become friends. We often eat lunch together, unwind at a local pub, etc. Over time I have come to realise that I am attracted to him more than just on the surface. I love who he is, and even find myself imagining what life would be like with him, but I want something real. Meanwhile, he is only interested in hookups, and it quite open about his escapades. I just smile and tolerate it as a friend. It is getting to the point where I don't want to be around him anymore because I want to be with him and hate listening to him talk about others. Part of me wonders that if I initiate sex that maybe I can get him to start a real relationship with me, but another part of me says that is a bad idea.

Does anyone have any advice on what I can do here? Will he ever want more or should I move on?
<bot>: Guy I like is only into hookups, wondering if I wait for him or initiate with him he will want a relationship.