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This is somewhat of an update to [this post] It took me a few more weeks of broken promises and realizing she is not really ever going to do anything to help herself, but I am finally leaving her and would love to hear some advice on what you think the ideal way is to handle the situation. It's my first long-term relationship, we live together and were engaged, but I can see now that her issues are not something she wants to work on, and I suffer for it. 

Some issues I will struggle with:

1) We live together, and I have to find my own place now. I can't really stay with anyone while I look because I moved away from family, and my life revolved (unhealthily) around her. So I'm now staying in our spare bedroom while I look for roomshares. I plan to be out within a couple of weeks hopefully. Sound reasonable?

2) She doesn't want me to leave her, and will likely do her best to manipulate me into staying by promising to do xyz that she has promised a hundred times and never does. Best way to fight this mental torture?

3) I feel a sense of freedom and hope in being able to pursue my interests again, and maybe find someone special that I can trust and start a family with without any doubts, but I also feel a sense of loss and loneliness. I worry that this feeling will cause me to think irrationally and go back to her. It probably ties in with #2 as well. Any tips?

4) How should I treat her while this is going on? Since we're still living together for now, I may have to interact with her occasionally. I don't hate her, I just can't deal with the drama and lack of trust anymore. I don't want to be fighting and spewing out all of my frustration and anger towards her because it just isn't worth it anymore, but if she starts trying to talk to me about fixing things and staying there, I don't know what I will do.

5) Any general tips or things you wish you had done?

Thanks!
<bot>: Getting out of an unhealthy relationship and want to stay strong and make things go as smoothly as possible, how do I do this?