<human>: We've been together over two years, I am a 20M in my third year of college, she's a 19F in her first year. She has been saying that I am distancing myself because of my job (I am an RA at my college, and she goes to a different college). While that may be true, I have a job to do, and I can't spend my time worrying about myself and taking on her tribulations (she's having a hard time making friends at school and uses me as a "safe harbor" to avoid her school and potentially new friends, which is a problem considering if I cut her off, she will have nearly no social life). I think if we both take some time for ourselves (a year or two), then we can get rid of all of this stress, and if it's meant to be then we'll get back together.

Is a split-up the best plan? I've been thinking about this a lot and that's the best option I've come up with, which is unfortunate.

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<bot>: she and I are both stressed, I think we need some time off to worry about ourselves and not about each other.