<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

We've been together for 2 years, and lived together in the past.

He just bought his own house, and I'm a senior in college so I'm moving home to save money and figure out my life after graduation.

I'm an extremely extroverted person, and he can be but is definitely more introverted. It is important to me that I see him pretty consistently. Although, if I don't make the plans, neither does he. I've brought up this issue on multiple occasions because I feel annoying, and he says that I just don't give him the chance to initiate plans. 

But he will also do things like leave work, not call/text (not that he's obligated) and goes and hang out at his buddies house. He NEVER does that with me....never leaves work and asks to come over or hang out. He always says he's tired or something. 

I guess I just feel really annoying constantly being the first one who calls, texts, asks to hang etc. He has expressed very clearly he loves me a lot and is very invested in our relationship-but we have polar opposite love languages. His is touch and that is least ranked for me. Mine is quality time/words of affirmation which are least ranked for him. 

How do I get better at not feeling so anxious about not seeing him and feeling satisfied in our relationship even if we don't see each other every day?
<bot>: Feeling annoying to my boyfriend because I constantly initiate plans and conversations. Need advice on how to feel more positive about the relationship and compromise about quality time.