<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

Hello everyone.

I've been reading the AskWomen subreddit for some time. I'm looking at the posts and I'm starting to get concerned.

I'm single, straight, 25yo M, never kissed, dated, slept with someone. I have the feeling that I'm starting to slip into Nice Guy(TM)-dom out of self-righteousness and despair.

I have women friends that I do not want to hurt. In particular, the woman friend with whom I am in love (and who I know for a fact is not single), who the incipient "Nice Guy(TM)" feelings want me to hate - she's a good person. 

She still talks to me even after I'd made my feelings clear. I really, REALLY do not want to emotionally hurt her. I think I would do so were I to become a Nice Guy(TM).

How would you drag a guy (or get a guy to drag himself) out of the abyss?
<bot>: neurotic inexperienced male feels like joining TRP, but understands that doing so will hurt those he cares about, and thus needs help staying out of the cesspool