<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

Let me start off by saying that I am almost 8 months pregnant. Please be gentle. I'm in a fragile state. When my boyfriend and I first met we partied a lot. He still hadn't grown up yet. We had only been together 3 months before we found out I was pregnant. At first things were a little rocky. He would still go out all the time and I would get pissed. Since then things have slowed down a lot. He hardly goes out anymore and when he does he doesn't drink very much. I'm very proud of him for that. Lately though he's been going out more and more. He's very lazy when it comes to things he doesn't want to do. Who isn't? It's to the point now that I feel like I have to drag him to do anything at all. He watches movies and plays on his phone all day and I can't seem to get his attention. A task that should take 5 minutes takes him and hour to do. Important things aren't getting done. Like getting his fingerprints and drug test done for his new job. We need to go on a road trip to go get all of the things for the baby. We had a plan for a week and a half to leave yesterday and that didn't happen because he kept lazing around. Lately he's been going out a lot more. He's been out every night since Halloween. He doesn't come home drunk he's just been out. I don't know if he's just nervous about the baby coming or what, but it's really ticking me off. He knows that. I'm frantic trying to nest and he's being more lazy than I've ever seen him be. I don't know how to get his attention. I can't give him an ultimatum. I don't have one to give besides me leaving, but that's not what's best right now. We're both going through a hard time. I don't know how to talk to him. When I try to just talk he listens, but it isn't very effective. When I blow up and get mad he just gets mad and doesn't listen at all. This is really the only big thing in our relationship so far that has been troubling us besides him partying at the beginning.
<bot>: I'm pregnant. The baby is almost here. The boyfriend is freaking out a bit. I don't know how to talk to him effectively.