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So, i'd been dating this girl for a while, with it getting more serious towards the end of the summer. Due to unfortunate timing, just as we start to feel really strongly about each other, I had to leave for university this september(final year), which meant we were both unsure as to what we really were as a couple, if we were in a relationship or what

At the start I didn't see it as much of an issue since lots of people at uni have girlfriend's back home (we live 2 hours away), and I was in my final year so I'd move back home once I'd graduated, and I'd still get to see her at least once a month and more over the christmas and easter etc. 

But then she started with this niggling doubts about how she *'misses me too much, it doesn't feel like a real relationship, I'm not there when she needs me,'* etc. and I tried to reassure her to stay positive and always made plans with her for next time so we had something to look forward to. 

But then it got to the point last night where she was saying *'what's the point of making this work, you're not really even my boyfriend, we haven't been in a stable relationship for long enough to go long distance, i like you but i don't know what i want'*

So i told her i want to come back and see her this weekend, but she refused and said even though she wants to see me, we'll be back to square one when i leave again, and feeling like shit. and said we should reassess it over the christmas period instead after she's had time to think how she feels, and just keep it 'casual' and forget about defining ourselves as being in a relationship

We said we'll keep in contact like normal, but I just don't know what to make of this. It sounds like she's trying to fade me out and forget about me. Do I go no contact or just keep chatting as normal?
<bot>: entered a relationship just before it went long distance and girlfriend wants a break after only 2 months because she can't handle the distance and it doesn't feel like a real relationship to her, what's the right thing I should do?