<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

Hi Reddit,

We all know that relationships can be hard, but how hard is too hard?
When is it time to stop trying?

Here's the scoop - I'm a normal guy, she's a doctor. To me, I want to enjoy my job, of course, but I rather go travel, sightsee, explore. She loves work and never wants to retire. She's clean, I'm less so. I'm a little older, she's a little younger. She plans things out, I go with the flow, she likes to be right, I like to be diplomatic. We've been together for a few years. She got a job offer in a different city, and I recently put my apartment up for rent, gave up my job (~$65k/yr) to move a couple thousand miles to be with her, and I turned down a job offer to go back to school to get a Masters degree. We have very different communication styles and different ways we percieve things.

 

We weren't living together before, and now that we are, it has been really, really tough. We were able to work through our incompatibilities before, but now that we're in each other's faces all the time, we just both try so hard, yet we both feel unappreciated and unsupported, even though we both try so hard - but what I have to give, she doesn't want, and vice versa. It's only been a couple months of living together, but we're both about to throw in the towel after years of being together.

Is is supposed to be this hard? All I want to know is if I'm spoiled and expect too much, or if this isn't normal and people don't clash this bad normally? We know no one is 100% compatible, but we both compromise so much and it still isn't enough.
<bot>: dating for 3 years, and after 2 months of living together are driving each other crazy due to being opposites, not sure if its supposed to be this hard