<human>: My wife and I are expecting our first son very soon. We are super excited and scared at the same time. We are having a hard time coming up with good names for a boy. We both love watching the adult cartoon series ARCHER. Way before getting pregnant, we said that if we would have kids, we would name our son Archer and our daughter Lana. But my mom really hates that name. She can't stand it. She is begging me not to use it. It bothers her so much that she wrote the following email to me yesterday:
"Max is a nice name, but I am sure you will come up with another even nicer, But not ARCHER please!!!!! You are giving me nightmares. As a first time grandmother, I am thinking of my grandchild's future.  Remember this child will go to school one day and I don't want him to be called by some snotty school boys Archie Bunker or Archie Jughead.  Remember chose a nice name that he will be proud to carry, not one that he will want to change once he is 18 ( I will probably help him at that point).  Remember think of his future not yours."

I really think my mom is exaggerating. I can't believe she is acting this way. I told her that in the end it's my wife's and I's decision and as parents we can decide what is right. But to keep the peace with her, I'm thinking of caving in and coming up with another name. I'm just afraid that she will have something negative to say in any name we purpose. And maybe down the road she will want to start having a say in other aspects of the kid's life. What would redditors do in this situation?

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<bot>: Mom doesn't want me to name son Archer. I'm afraid that she will want to have a say in every aspect of my kid's life in the future. Should I cave or fight?