<human>: Recently got engaged. We have a very nice relationship but I am lacking physical attention. We just moved into a new apartment together but I still wait at least a week before I get some pity sex just to shut me up.

I realize I could change my approach but when you've been with someone for 5 years, you would think that sex would just come naturally. It makes me wonder if i'm unattractive or something. I lose confidence because of it.

I've spoken with her about it several times, and she says she loves having sex with me and promises always to try to do it more. We can spend ours with each other and not even kiss.

How long does this have to go on before i'm justified a break up?

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Great emotional/communication side of relationship - no physical side. Spoke to her about it already - how long w/out change in behaviour to justify a break up?