<human>: Me and SO have been dating for almost a year now and we are very happy. We treat eachother well and do not hesitate to spend money on one another, or do something nice for the other person. He has a four year degree in media and film, however now he has a decent job at a microchip company which he probably plans to stay at for a while. We have discussed possible marriage situations and future plans and I would love to tie the knot after I finish nursing school and have a stable career. However, he is around 30k in debt for student loans and I am worried that it could cause problems for us getting a home or any other sort of loans.  

Whenever I ask him about it he kind of shrugs it off and says everyone is in debt and he doesn't seem to care too much about it. It makes me nervous though because im very good about paying things off. Also he gets kind of mad when I suggest he makes small payments each month because he could easily afford at least a 100$ payment towards it. I even offered to help him make payments but he refuses. Am I being unreasonable in this situation? Do people really let their student loans just sit? Has anyone married someone with debt and how did you deal with it?

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<bot>: Boyfriend is in debt and acts nonchalant about it. Wondering if that could cause problems for us in the future.