<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

Hi everyone.

I've (29M) always been a "relationship guy", I've had 2 different serious relationships that occupied me for the last decade. Although, in times when I am single or on a break, I have had a very active dating life but I do not participate in the "hook up" culture. 

I've never been the type to just pick up women strictly for sex or seduce women with no intention on exploring a potential relationship, although I have done it from time to time. I date a lot and I only choose people that I could see myself being with for the long term and because of this I tend to not only have fun sexy times, but I allow my feelings to get involved on a certain level too. Mostly because I'm constantly evaluating the person for long term potential. Because of this and the amount of women that I date, I go through like 1.5 breakups a month and its taking a serious emotional toll on me.

Am I doing it wrong? Should I just focus on the sex and disconnect from everything else? I'm tired of dating people and feeling a strong emotional attraction after months and then as soon as I feel that there is long term potential it ends abruptly, either with me being made aware of an undesirable trait in the other person or by the woman ghosting and using the classic line of "I'm just not feeling the connection anymore."
<bot>: I desire a life partner, but dating and involving my emotions is wearing me down. Am I doing it wrong? Should I just focus on the sex part and live in the moment?