<human>: So the story goes is my girlfriend at the time and one of my best friends started hanging out a lot and alone. Like going out to lunch together while i was asleep, Texting each other all day everyday, and i started to feel uncomfortable. Theyve always been friends and its not that i didnt trust them, it was just the amount of time spent together was getting a little much for me. So i talked to her about it and she said she understood my concerns, but that i dont have anything to worry about. This conversation leads to her explaining to me that shes unhappy with how my life is going, i apologise and promise her ill get back on track.

So that seems to be going well but the next day she tells me she wants a break because she was so unhappy before that she feels cynical about our relationship and wants to take a step back. I reluctantly agree. I worry the whole time that its about my friend and i get paranoid so i went over to his house after being away from her all day and shes there alone with him at 3 am. I talk to him and her about boundaries i think should exist and we agree on it. I go home still on the break.

The next few days im still paranoid about it and i see that shes texting him when next to me sometimes. That night she comes home late (we live together) and tells me she went out with him again but this time she claimed it was to tell him she was sorry that they couldnt hang out. I got a little upset and asked her to try and tell me when things like this were going to happen. 

Long story shorter i eventually started snooping to see if she was lying to me which i felt bad for but i did it and found she was deleting her texts. Asked her she said it was so i wouldnt get upset. Snooping got worse she was still talking to him the same amount and here i am with no girlfriend and feel like its my fault.

So my question is was it wrong to snoop did i push her away too hard because i feel like i did and want to apologize for it.

Can you give me a shortened version of the text?
<bot>: Girlfriend getting too close for comfort with one of my friends i start snooping she starts hiding it, things get worse, she says she needs space and breaks up with me for real.