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So, my ex and I just broke up last night. We still love each other. And by love I mean, we are supportive of each other, have great lines of communication, discuss the underlying cause of arguments as opposed to fighting about superficial shit, and had an amazing sex life. 

We started dating our senior year of college. then my active duty orders came in and we kept it going. Her family likes me, my family likes her(rare). Even though long distance was hard, we've been doing well (Nov'12 til now). The breaking point is my job.

My assignment moves me to Nebraska for 3 years, with constant deployments. We were planning on moving in together, but it would be irresponsible for me to move her from the east coast to Nebraska because I would be gone over half of the time. It seems like this distance and career is something that we just can't overcome. 

We love each other a lot, and I'm terrified that I made the wrong decision. But she was talking about forcing some major life decisions. (Going to grad school early without having any idea what she wants to study) and I think that it would have been just to be with me. She would be leaving her friends, her family, and her burgeoning career. (she's recently been getting some amazing job offers) I want to build a life with her, not force one to work around my career.
<bot>: I feel like a coward for not trying to make it work. But I am also terrified of her forcing major life decisions and ruining her life.