<human>: So, backstory: I met this girl from my dorm first year of university, and we dated for a year and a bit, but didn't work out.  She was my first love.  She broke up with me, and I took it pretty hard.  She understood, gave me some space, and I avoided places I knew she would be for a couple months.  Luckily, we never had any classes together because we are in different faculties.

  Problem is, we have a lot of the same friends so after a couple months we ended up running into each other at parties and such.  I told my self it wasn't a big deal - I had largely gotten over her at that point, so I figured it would just take a little more time.  That didn't happen.  Its been almost 3 years now, and I still can't stand to see her, and dread going to places if I know she is going to be there.  I don't know what to do - I dont have many other friends here (I moved for school), and the ones I did make outside oof this circle have largely graduated and moved away by now.  Most of my social life is ingrained in that same group, which she is a part of.  How should I approach this?

  I hate making drama, and on top of that would feel ridiculous getting into an argument or yelling at her by bringing up things that everyone moved on from years ago, but at the same time I don't think I can stand much more of having to see her every time I want to spend time with my friends.  Advice?

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<bot>: Have issues with ex from years ago.  End up seeing lots of her, not sure how to deal.  What should I do?