<human>: My SO(30/m) and I(24/f) have been together for almost a year and a half. At first things were wonderful like they always are in a new relationship, but as time has gone by he has become more and more controlling. He doesn't like when I want to go do things with friends or family regardless of their sex and doesn't even like me having a friendly relationship with my son's father. As a direct result of Hus controlling suspicions I have alienated two of my good friends.

We both happen to be employed at the same bar where I cook and bartend and he does all the VIP and band management. When I have to work and he doesn't he insists on coming with me forcing me to find last minute arrangements for my child. If there is an issue within our relationship he refuses to wait until we get home and picks fights at work.

Whenever I try to talk to him about any of this it starts a fight. I love him and would love to have a life with him but our life goals don't match up and I honestly don't know if I can deal with how controlling he is. I'm at a loss for what to do and would love any and all feedback. I know the truth hurts sometimes but it's time for me to hear it.

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<bot>: My SO is controlling and confrontational to the point of being a live in stalker. I love him but need to do what's best for my son and I. Please help.