<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

Some back story, I have been seeing my Girlfriend for around 9 months, however we have been best friends for 7 years, in fact until two weeks ago all her friends and social group were my friends first. Which means 99% of her social life featured me. We have a fantastic relationship and share many interests and communicate perfectly, most probably due to our very strong friendship for so long. We had always been very close and I have always been very protective of her but not over the top.
Any way I have always been there to look after her, now I can't be and I could really do with some advice with how best to deal with horrific anxiety I get when she goes out to clubs with her friends. It just tears at me that she could be hurt while she is out, get too drunk (she is a lightweight and the drinking culture is rampant there) and have someone take advantage of her or get killed walking home. I will have to deal with this but my techniques (surrounding myself with friends/going out myself) have not helped at all. We have talked about this but I know it is my issue, she knows I worry but I fear if I try and daddy her too much she will resent me. Anyway I would really appreciate some advice, any ways I could actively help her stay safe would be great too.
<bot>: Need advice on how to cope with horrific anxiety (over her safety) I get when SO is on nights out at college.