<human>: We've been together for 9 months. If I cuddle with him on the couch randomly, he'll stay, but he never actually wants to cuddle me unless we've just had sex. After sex he'll always pull me close and tell me he loves me, but he outside of the bedroom he doesn't do it unless I ask. I've talked to him about it and he just said that's the way he is. It's a little frustrating because I'm left feeling like if I want him to want to cuddle me then I have to have sex with him. It's not just cuddling, he only talks about his emotions post-sex too. Is that normal?

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<bot>: The only time my [F18] boyfriend [M19] Wants to cuddle is after sex. Is that normal.