<human>: I'm graduating from my local highschool this Sunday, with an average grade and  classes at a local private college already registered. However, I got into a car vs. deer vs. tree accident and may have totalled his car last night, and now he has more reason than ever to put me on complete lockdown. 

(A little backstory on him) I'm the oldest of his living children, (I have an older brother who passed away when I was 2). I've been purposly taking the full force of his abuse in order to protect my younger sisters, and I've been doing this ever since I can remember life. This includes everything from taking blame for not putting away the dishes right and getting a vocal lashing, shoving my siblings in rooms in order for just me to get yelled at, having all my dreams and skills degraded in his eyes, to taking the full blow of being a girl from a very masculine-mindset man and having the threat of physical abuse hanging over my head. There's many more examples, but that's the general summary.

But to the point. How am I supposed to leave this place without tearing apart the family? My mother knows what goes on but does nothing to stop it, my father always seems to have something up his sleeve from tormenting my siblings to *now* playing the card that I owe them a new car.

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<bot>: My father is emotionally abusive to my siblings and me (Mostly myself) and I need to leave for my own mental health, but I cannot without tearing apart the family. What do I do?