<human>: My boyfriend (24, been together about a year) likes to browse on [/r/gonewild](/r/gonewild) a lot. I'm not exceptionally insecure, but he also likes to comment on how hot the girls are, how he's bookmarking their pics for "later" and how much he loves [x] feature, oftentimes being one I do not have. Needless to say, seeing him telling girls their pics are "the sexiest thing he's ever seen" is a definite shot to my confidence.

I (26) posted a mildly revealing pic of myself as a comment, (which was big for me on account of how self-conscious I am) and he got upset with me, saying I was trying to pick up guys on the internet, and that only loser perverts try to talk to the girls that post those kind of pics online, and that he didn't want people having pics of me that might be provocative. Then demanded I give him the username of every guy that pmed me because of the picture (which ended up only being two anyway). 

I'm also bi, and I guess he interprets that as a free pass to constantly talk about other girls, "because I like girls too, so it shouldn't be an issue." He's not a bad person by any means otherwise. He's incredibly sweet to me, and I know he loves me, this is just one little thing that picks at my insecurities the most. Is there a way I could explain to him why this upsets me without sounding terribly pathetic?

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<bot>: Looking for a way to explain to my possessive boyfriend (24) why I (26/bi) get upset when he blatantly hits on other girls.