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I just celebrated my first wedding anniversary with my husband who I have been with for nearly 10 years this March. We had a nice weekend together and we had a few nice dinners, pretty much spent the whole weekend together without anyone else around. We had previously decided not to do gifts, which I was in total agreement with; however, I did get a card for him and wrote what I thought was a heartfelt expression of how I was so glad we were celebrating this great day! He said he loved the card, indicated that I had one coming, but I never got one. The thing is, I know it's silly to no end, but this is my "love language" I would say. I LOVE cards, and notes! I've sweetly said this to him before, and told him I never want him to be incredibly uncomfortable and try to write me a book of love sonnets. I just want a sweet gesture of words on paper so I can have something to fondly look  back on, and remember the day. I feel like such a jerk for feeling this way! 

I wrote him a nice email this morning while he was sleeping and I was getting ready for work. I just sweetly asked that if in the future he could find it in his heart to give me a card, even on "non-gift" anniversaries and other occasions. I also threw in that if he truly didn't like this I would make peace with that and move on without any more inquiries on my part. I want to be fair. 

Am I a jerk? I fully believe in getting outside perspectives and I appreciate everyone reading. Thanks!
<bot>: My husband and I celebrated our first wedding anniversary and although we chose to not exchange gifts I'm still sad inside about the fact that he didn't get me a card. Am I wrong in feeling this way?