<human>: Hi r/relationships,

Quite honestly I'm at a loss about whether or not I should continue my relationship or not. My GF and I have been in this relationship for over 3 years now, we never fight, sex is great, I like being around this girl and yet something seems to be missing. 

People say the intense infatuation you feel when a relationship's fresh changes over time to a more permanent state of love. I do love this girl, I love holding her, I love being with her but I miss the feeling I had for her when we just met. Is this how we're destined to feel in our relationships or does it mean it's not "true" love after all?

She always seems to be so intensely in love with me that I start to question my own feelings. Is she feeling something I'm not? I find it difficult to talk to her about this because I'm afraid to hurt her feelings. We went through a pretty rough period last year, we live apart and only see eachother on the weekends. Back then even less which put a lot of stress on our relationship which almost caused us to break up.

I don't want her to feel insecure for nothing and I'm afraid that discussing this subject with her will throw our relationship 8 months back.
(Now I'm reading what I wrote I think I should talk to her anyway...)

My question to you is simply: is the way I love this girl, and the lack of infatuation, normal for people in longer relationships or is it a sign it's not meant to be after all.

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<bot>: I'm in a 3y relationship, is love without infatuation normal in a "longer" relationships or a sign it isn't gonna last?