<human>: We've been married a little over 5 months, and my husband had a house before we met. In February, he started talking to me about wanting to refinance because rates were so low and he had an adjustable-rate HELOC that he wanted to get rid of. I didn't feel like talking about it because things were pretty shitty between us and I was too stressed, and after a few weeks of bringing it up, he finally stopped talking about it.

Fast-forward today and I see a letter from the new mortgage company, and he admitted he went ahead and refinanced anyway. When I asked him why he did it without telling me, he said "I tried, but you never wanted to talk about it." I told him I wanted to be on the mortgage since we were married, and he said he didn't need me to qualify (I have no income - I stay home with my daughter from a previous marriage since he makes enough to take care of all of us) and didn't want my name on the house since I've threatened to leave several times in the first few months of our marriage.

Our marriage has been really difficult so far and I have talked about leaving, but I feel like this only makes it worse. I feel like he betrayed me and left me out of an important decision, and keeping the house in his name is his way of not fully giving himself to me. I think this may be the last straw.

Am I wrong to be furious about this? How can I ever hope to trust him again?

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<bot>: Husband refinanced our house without telling me or adding my name to the mortgage, and I don't know how to respond.