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We went out of town for a few days after my last post so I didn't get around to responding to a lot of comments.   Thank you for the responses to those who posted, I think I knew what needed to be done but it was helpful to have it reinforced from more than just someone in my family.  

Since I posted, we've talked.  She's agreed to see a psychiatrist to start then we'll take it from there, if appointments are not scheduled by next week, then the divorce ultimatum comes out.  I didn't have to lay out an ultimatum, but if that's what it comes to then that's what it comes to.    I don't think she understands what's wrong with her actions, but she's really trying to hold it back since the incident with our son.   She says things like "how am I supposed to teach my kids right from wrong?", or "how can I make them respect them me?"  Which makes me think she really doesn't understand and may just be paying me lip service.  But I'll give her a chance to follow through, she's so afraid of being left alone and my divorcing her that the ultimatum will be equal to me asking for divorce in her mind.  Sadly, since we talked she thinks I'm blaming her now, but she thinks even our kids are blaming her and somehow out to get her one day this past week.  She doesn't seem to care how guilty I feel or care at all that I was complicit in this.   

My son's in therapy now, and I talk to both kids every day to find out if there were any incidents I missed while I was at work.  So far we've just had one incident with our daughter that I was home for and was able to end without incident.
<bot>: wife has agreed to seek therapy, we'll see if she actually does it, son is in therapy, ultimatum for divorce will be applied if therapy does not happen.