<human>: I've known him for about a year. I met him through work. I always found him attractive but I was in a relationship up until recently and he got out of a 7 year relationship in January.

I'm not worried about the age difference looking bad, I'm more concerned about us being at totally different points in our lives.

He's incredibly smart, very funny, well established in his career, has plans to retire in 5 years and travel. He's very adventurous and has accomplished more at this point in his life than I think most people ever do, but very kind and humble.

I just turned 20, I'm about to graduate with my BA. I'm managing a business while starting my own but currently still live with my parents. I love to get out and try new things.

I'm a little intimidated by him because he really knows what he wants out of life where as I'm more uncertain. He also goes at 100mph all the time and tends to live more on the dangerous side of life (activity wise).

I'm drawn to him because he's so smart and he's always willing to teach me new things and help me. He's mature but he's has an aloof, happy-go-lucky personality that makes him seem younger than he is.

I'm not sure what things would look like for us going forward because I'm just starting out on my own and he has been independent for 10+ years.

Has anyone else been in a relationship with this kind of age gap? How did things work out for you? All opinions are helpful!

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<bot>: Interested in older man, intimidated by his life experience and concerned that we're at two very different points in life.