<human>: I know this is an unusual /r/realtionship post but I've been having trouble with a group of friends and I thought you guys could give me soem advice.
I am part of a lolita (the fashion style) group on livejournal and a few of my friends joined with me at the same time. We went to a small meet for tea in August and have been trying to post actively since. I decided to run my own event (where I'm from in a city about an hour from where most of the group memberas live) and I gained a lot of intrest for it. When I called for more details and made another post inquiring for which day worked best, I got no response. I contacted a mod to make sure I formatted my post correctly, asked if there was -anything- I was doing wrong and I go no response from her. I contatced her on facebook to post it on there, and she responded there but after I told her which event I was trying to do, she never responded or posted the event. My friend has been having the same trouble. I liek a lot of the people in the group and I want to continue to go to meets (but I usually can't go becuase they always vote to do things the day I work) and try to make my own to accomodate my work, but we get nothing.
Due to the fact that I post events and they clearly get overlooked (later posts are well commented on) and the fact that even if girls can't go to an event, they still usually ask for rides, say they can't go comment on the idea of the event etc I feel as though I am getting shunned, especially due to the mods behaviour. Any ideas o nwhat I should do to make this stop, or find out what's going on?

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<bot>: Part of a local community that discusses meets online, my ideas, events get shunned by members and mods, why?