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My girlfriend suffers from depression and anxiety. We've been dating for 10 months and she has been suffering this way since college started (we are both juniors). She hasn't been diagnosed recently but in elementary and middle school she went to counseling for anger issues and depression and self harm issues related to bullying. She currently holds a high leadership position in her sorority, is an honor student, holds a leadership position in our schools newspaper, holds a leadership position in an international students event board (she is not an international student) and she is an honor student taking honors level classes, all while holding a part time job at restaurant where she works from 4 to close three times a week. 

She has been feeling overwhelmed regularly and says that she can't quit her job because it would look bad on her resume (she's been working there since the start of the summer around June) and that she doesn't have time to talk to our schools counselor and won't reach out to her despite talking to the counselor over the summer and last semester. She's had panic attacks and will break down crying maybe once or twice a week. One time in particular after we had come back from a party she had a really severe panic attack and told me she wanted to kill herself or just die. I've been telling her that I think she needs to quit her job, but she says it would look bad on her resume. In addition I've been telling her she needs to talk to the counselor at school (in the past the counselor noted that I was right to keep encouraging my girlfriend to talk to the counselor). 

I'm at a loss and I feel like I've made myself clear on these issues, it's starting to make it difficult for me, trying to deal with her emotions while still dealing with my own responsibilities, and I feel like it's difficult for me to spend time away from her when it's her free time because she takes it negatively. I haven't expressed any of that to her cause I don't know if it's a good idea to tell someone suffering from depression and anxiety like she does that they could be burdening you in any way.
<bot>: My girlfriend doesn't seem to listen to advice and it's starting to be a problem, what can I do to be more helpful?