<human>: Provide a brief overview of the text.

**I'm a male, 19, she is 20.**

I'm asking that, if you're into a guy, would you possibly ignore him, not looking at him, not talking to him, and so on. Unless he directly comes to you? 

So you're kinda 'forcing' him to come, but of course, only if he's also interested in you. 

I feel like I'm in this exact situation myself. So I want to know if that might be an possibility. If that is in fact. Something girls do, and not just me over-analyzing the situation...

In my case, I have known this girl since we were born. We grew up in the same apartment building, we were great friends as kids on the playground, our families see each other as family although we're not related via blood. 

But we kinda grew a part since I went to a private school, in which you sleep in as well (boarding school, I think it's called).

She has no reason to ignore me, the way she does. As far as I know at least, I haven't done anything that might offend her. 

And as an extra info for you, she has shown some interest in me a few times before. At weddings for example, she would sometimes come and ask me for a dance. Which is unusual in our culture for a girl to do so..

But when an conversation has started, then we talk like nothings wrong. And she tries to keep the conversation going although I'm socially awkward. I think I have a bit of an anxiety when I'm alone with a woman.

Sorry for the long post, sorry for my bad English. But if you made it this far, thank you very much. I hope everything is written well enough to be understood by you. I hope it makes sense..
<bot>: Childhood friends that kinda grew apart, girl ignores me for no reason, unless I start the conversation or speak to her first. Does she do it, because she's interested in me and want more of my attention?