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I'm in a fairly new relationship with someone I've been dating for about 3-4 months. Things are/were going pretty well. Most importantly, we work well as a pair and have healthy communication when it comes to conflicts, problems, or misunderstandings. Since we're new in the relationship, we do not Love each other, but we certainly care for each other.

Recently, he's undergone some life changes that have left him feeling overwhelmed, depressed, and anxious. Because he doesn't Love me yet, and because he's the kind of person who can only focus on one big thing at once, things have been difficult. I want to emphasize that he does not handle stress badly (e.g he's not lashing out at me or dragging me down with him), but he has been pulling away. Our relationship feels like it has been put on pause, both in terms of feelings developing and in terms of hanging out. He's also starting to doubt our relationship more.

When we do hang out, he's too tired or withdrawn to do fun things, so we watch TV and go to bed; this is fine, but it amplifies the feeling that our relationship is stagnant. He's also told me other parts of his life are also feeling less fun and happy. I understand that this is the depression/anxiety/stress acting, not him, but I can't help but feel hurt that he was once so enthusiastic about me and now he's not.

We talked about this, and we don't want to break up because despite all the shit that's happened, our relationship isn't bad; just less good. Does anyone have any tips on how to balance needs and get through this?
<bot>: I'm in a new relationship that is going well, but bf is depressed due to recent events. Does anyone have any tips on how to balance needs and get through this?