<human>: Can you summarize the given text in a few sentences?

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months now. At the beginning, we used to talk a lot and have fun together, but recently, he's started ignoring me - we don't talk as much, barely saw each other once every two weeks.

To be honest, I am the one who tends to call him and ask him to go out and do stuff (mind you, I am not one of those clingy girlfriends, but I think at least one phone call/text per day is a bit of a must if you claim to be in a relationship - as he says we are), but I have not done that in the last few weeks just to see if he will be the one who suggests any activities. And to my surprise, he hasn't. 

So yesterday, while talking on the phone, he told me he went out with his friends to karaoke and/or coffee. I know it wasn't the best reaction on Earth, but I had to confront him as to why he doesn't seem to make any time for me anymore. 

He basically told me that going out with his friends is not as important, and therefore he can do it easily - but when it comes to things he actually cares about - like his career, parents or "the girl he is dating" (yes, he actually mentioned that, not including me in the sentence), he goes numb and does nothing. Who says that?

I don't know how to react to that. I feel as if I want to give him a lot of affection and I would like to do a lot of stuff with him, but his behavior just pins me down and have absolutely no idea what to do.
<bot>: My boyfriend just told me that he can't go out with me because he cares about me. How does that actually work?