<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

Weird question but I haven't been in this kind of relationship for so long, I just feel a bit lost.

I'm dating a girl (unfortunately long-distance) but we're not _together_. She upset me last night by wasting my time totally disrespectfully and I brought it up with her, ending with her getting upset with me. 

How do you apologize for this kind of thing when you're not _with_ somebody? A normal "I'm sorry, we weren't understanding each other. Let's forget about it okay?" won't work because the problem still exists on her end. I'm not the one who's supposed to be apologizing.

I hate when people are mad at me :|
<bot>: Got upset with my crush which led to her getting upset with me. I feel like I want to apologize when I really shouldn't. How do I sort this?