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So let me set the scene: my boyfriend [23] of five years and I [22F] are out on a date and he gets a call. He doesn't have any friends, so this is rare, and I tell him to pick up in case of an emergency. After a few moments, he thanks the person on the line, hangs up, and I ask him what it was. In a completely matter-of-fact manner, he tells me his parents were t-boned and both died before they got to the hospital.

Now I was close to his parents, so I want to cry, but I want to stay strong for him like a good girlfriend. We have a silent drive home, but he is not sad at all. Like, no crying, no sadness in his face. Assumed it was shock or something, but he kept it up until I finally just flipped out (I know, pretty bad behavior when someone lost their parents, but I was so confused) and demanded to know what the hell was wrong with him. And his answer?

"No need to waste energy crying, especially when that won't change anything. Death is an inevitable of life - sooner you accept that, the less time you will waste scared of it."

Asked him if he would cry if I died, and he gave me a similar answer. He has given me similar answers when I was crying over the Boston tragedy and the school shootings, but I assumed he was just trying (badly) to cheer me up. He's not religious at all either. I'm just so confused: are guys not as emotional as women about death? I cried for days when my friend's mom died, and we weren't even that close. 

Sorry for the scrambled nature, it's been a rough day.
<bot>: BF's parents die, he is not sad at all. Tells me death is part of life and that there is no point crying over it.