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We have been dating 4 months. Everything seemes fine. He noted that sometimes when things go south for him, he used to "check out" and go incognito for a few days. I did the same thing last year (diagnosed with depression) but sought help as it would affect my personal relationships.

We were supposed to hang out Monday. He never showed. Tuesday  at 3 pm I sent a text saying "I missed seeing you last night". He responded (at 11 pm) "I got an injury (he's a football player), and on top of that I found out a friend of mine died this weekend, just taking a few days to deal with this." 

Question is, we had plans this weekend with another coulple (that costs $$$), & I havent spoken to him in 4 days (except to say I'm here for him if he wants to talk). At what point do I call off our plans and go do my own thing? I want to see/talk/spend time with him and be there to support him, but I feel totally shut out. 

My depression says to shut off my phone, cancel the plans, and wallow in my sorrow off in the mountains this weekend, since our plans are ruined.
<bot>: Me & BF had plans, he got bad news & shut down & won't talk to me- do I move on with weekend plans?