<human>: DTR = define the relationship.
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Alright, I'm not a great writer, but I'll do my best here.  I've known (or at least know who she was) this girl for a couple years -- we never really talked, but would see each other from time to time through my friend (her brother).

Last August, her brother was bugging me to ask her out.  I was a senior in college at the time and knew that I wanted to graduate college first which would happen in May.  He continues to bug me about it, I continue with school, time goes on.

I graduate school and have a job and apartment lined up a little over an hour away from where she lives. There are 3 weeks between school ending and me starting the new job; I'm still busier than I thought I would be and still don't ask her out.

I end up coming back most weekends to make the most out of summer (hang out with a few friends, go boating on the family's boat, etc).  Finally I decide to ask her out and see if she'd like to go grab a bite to eat - she agrees.  Great.  We essentially just end up talking for a while and call it a night.

As the summer moves on, I've gotten together with her 1-1 probably 4 or 5 times over the weekends that I've been home.  I'm now at the point where I feel like a "DTR" has to happen but I'm not sure how to go about it.  Here is how I'm feeling right now:

- I'm interested in her.
- I don't know if I should pursue it due to the distance
- I don't have any new friends due to not getting involved (because I've been back on weekends)

I feel like that however I approach this DTR, I need to make sure I clarify that I can't come back every weekend because I need to get more involved at my new place.

I think more than anything right now I'm looking for wording as to how to go about this.  This got longer than I thought it would be...If anyone would like clarification on anything, just let me know.

Thanks.

Summarize the given text in a few sentences.
<bot>: I've gone out with this girl a few times, but I'm sttuggling with how to DTR with her.