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I met my boyfriend and his friend at the same time. All 3 of us work the same part time job. I consider my boyfriend's friend (we'll call him Tom) to be a friend of mine. We talk a lot at work and my boyfriend and I hang out with Tom a lot. 

Tom broke up with his long term girlfriend a couple months ago, and has been texting me a lot since Thursday night. He's on vacation staying with a friend who has a girlfriend and a toddler with her. He's never texted me much before and our conversations are mostly small talk about how his trip is going. He hasn't said anything explicitly flirty, just little things like "the time zone difference makes it hard to talk to people at night...im glad youre still texting" "my friend's baby is so funny, i definitely want one eventually" and the big one was "i feel weird about being single when i see my friend and his family. It makes me feel like I'm missing something in my life"

I feel like the conversation is getting a bit personal but I can't decide if he's crossing any lines. I don't know if I should ask my boyfriend if he feels comfortable with Tom texting me and me being friends with Tom in general. I know he can't tell me who to be friends with but I love him and want to respect his feelings. But I don't want any tension in their friendship over something that I may just be overanalyzing. On the other hand I also don't want to keep it from my boyfriend because I would feel weird if the roles were reversed and a female friend of ours texted him frequently.
<bot>: Boyfriend and I have a mutual friend who is suddenly texting me and getting a little personal, but he isn't outright hitting on me. Do I tell my boyfriend or not?