<human>: Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?

any advice would be greatly appeciated. so here goes without going into much detail...
my girlfriend has some social anxiety issues that she takes some pills for and is waiting to see a therapist. however ive had some issues of my own with my health and in the last couple of months i have had to go into hospital for a couple procedures and surgery. she wasnt there for me.

my family didnt like the fact that i am gay, so early on in our relationship (about 1.5 years ago) they threatened her to stay away a few times however they have since apologised a lot and want to have a relationship with her. i know it affected her badly and she says that her anxiety (especially realting to anxiety about being near my family) was her reason for not supporting me throughout my hospital visits and such.

while i am ill i stay with my family and it means i miss my gf a huge amount, which is why it makes me sad that even when i try to compromise to try to come to arrangements to meet me (such as just for the day with no one else around) but she still wont do it.

it makes me sad because i feel like ive lost a bit of faith in our relationship that she wont be there for me and it makes me feel sometimes that she cant love me anywhere near as i love her cos i would do anything for her. however i know her anxiety is a real problem and want to understand it more but she doesnt explain it.

so... am i expecting too much from my gf? can someone please give some advice as to how to deal with this situation and perhaps shed some more light on how it must feel for her?
thanks
<bot>: my gf is socially anxious which makes me feel like she isnt there for me when im ill, what can we do?