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I'm almost always the first person to message, text, and/or call. I always want sex and he is sometimes not in the mood for it. He once told me he was like Ryan Gosling and I was like Tina Fey. Doesn't listen or care about my day, never has anything to say about his. Talks to me 90% less than about 3 months ago. I feel like I'm falling out of love with him because I feel unloved and under appreciated. It's a huge effort for him to even maintain hygiene for me. 

He's given up on trying to impress me. We've briefly broken up about 3 times and I've always been the one to initiate the "let's talk about it and sort this out" conversation afterwards. I often feel pathetic around him and he doesn't support me when I'm down because he says he won't enable "helplessness". I don't know what to do.
<bot>: Boyfriend[22 M] is insanely insensitive and I[18 F] feel like I'm the only one putting in actual emotional effort into the relationship.