<human>: So, I met this girl about a month ago.    She's been through a lot both physically and mentally in her short life(major brain surgery among other things) and is going through a lot right now dealing with that and work problems.   We've gone out and things seemed great, which is very unusual for me.   See, my whole life has pretty much been trying to fit square pieces in a round hole.    I've never met anyone who legitimately seemed so right for me.

Anyway, things were great one day, then the next some things happened while I was away and she stopped talking to me, so I asked her what was up.   Basically her life away from me has gotten super hectic and she's having lots of problems, so she doesn't want to add to that by dating.  I completely understand this sentiment and totally respect her wishes, but I don't want to lose that chance with her.  I don't know how I should respond to this to basically get that point across.  I want to help her through all of these problems she is having, and be that rock.  But at the same time, I don't want to be a hindrance to her getting through them the way she wants to.   How can I explain that to her in a manner that doesn't cause any problems?  I care about her, and she's expressed the same.

Can you succinctly summarize the text in 1-3 sentences?
<bot>: girl having a lot of problems in regular life, doesn't want to date right now to add to the pressures.   I need to know how to respond.