<human>: Give me the gist of the text in a nutshell

So girl well call Alexis is dating some guy for the last 3 years as I had moved and was not talking to her until recently. Alexis is very special to me we "dated" in school but never actually had what I would consider a real relationship. But now that we are talking again we've caught up and come to find out she is conflicted on whether the guy she's with wants what she wants... she wants to just live a simple life and start having kids around 21ish she is level minded for the most part and isn't a risk taker she doesn't want to deal with college and just wants the simple life....

About me : I'm 19 and live about 1000 miles from Alexis. I have a stable career in its infancy due to my young age but can support a simple life in the near future. As well as knowing my family will support any changes I make in my life for as long as need be... 

My question comes down to this if she matters a lot to me and she tells me she has feelings for me, we bo
th want the same life goals and but she also has the boyfriend of 3 years who she has reservations should I attempt to make a push for her right now we haven't been in contact for 3 years until recently so it wouldn't be overly hard to forget it happened.... 
Thanks in advance
<bot>: girl I known for a while wants to make something out of us do I attempt to make it happen or let it go?