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My husband has been excessively mean lately. If something goes wrong he somehow twists it to be my fault. Just this morning we went out to put gas in the car before he dropped me off at work. I asked him on the drive if he had his debit card and he said yes. When we got there he realized he actually didn't have his card. Instead of saying something like, "oh I thought I had it, do you have yours? No, well crap let's figure this out." He immediately started saying it was completely fault for not bringing my card. I asked him how it was my fault and he started going off about how I never have it and always rely on him. This is grossly untrue, I almost always have it on me. I generally have mine with me more than he does. (Btw, our account is joined, both cards go to the same account) Then he started going off about how I always steal his phone charger (also untrue) and just being nasty.

If I ask him to do something, like take out the trash or help me put something together, he either ignores me or tells me he'll do it later. Later never comes apparently. But if he asks me to do something and it doesn't get done immediately or not to his specifications, he gets mad and tells me off. 

He's been like this for several weeks now and I've talked to him about it many times. Telling him it's hurting my feelings and what not, asking if there is an underlying issue. Half the time he tries to joke his way out of the conversation or tell me I'm being too sensitive and the other half he gives me an apology and tells me he'll get better. That lasts about an hour and then something gets him riled again and he starts throwing blame and going on about something I have (in his opinion) done wrong.
<bot>: Husband is twisting everything to blame me and generally being a jerk. Says he'll get better but keeps getting worse.