<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

Gonna keep this short. I feel like I'm going through a tough phase that has happened for the past year. My last relationship tanked six months ago. When I gchat my friends they seem interested in talking to me, but when it comes to meeting with me at a place at a certain time (like friends do), they suddenly have something to do and can't meet up in person. I feel like there is a pressure for deep conversation which I'm not always interested in doing. Sometimes I like to riff with people and I get the sense that people don't like chatting if there isn't a script/if it isn't deep (and it's worse because if i want to talk about something that isn't deep but is critical, like a friend dying, it's treated like a joke. Plus it's draining to limit topics to deep things). I feel like people avoid me at work for some reason, preferring to talk around me. It's gone like this for some time and I don't know how to change it so that there is room for my style in interacting with people I like. It feels very isolating.
<bot>: I feel distanced from people and that is preventing me from dating and having friends who will meet me in real life. I don't know how to change this situation.