<human>: So, sorry about the Q thing first off, but we identify as genderqueer. Yeah I know that part is weird, but that's not what I'm asking about, haha.

I've been dating this awesome person for about two and a half years, and we moved in together maybe a year and a half ago (so, about a year into the relationship). Because of this, my partner has settled into a more chill, semi-married stage where our lives are more centered around mundane things like doing chores, making dinner, etc. rather then making out and getting butterflies and going on dates.

I have no problem with that; in fact I love how comfortable we are with one another. However, I'm still super infatuated with my partner and we're not sure if that's normal. I still get shivers looking at them, and I feel my partner becomes more beautiful every day. I still want to impress them, and dress up nice, and buy them gifts, and do favors for them, whereas they feel no compulsion to do the same for me.

My partner has in fact expressed a little bit of guilt that they feel as though they're not doing enough, and that they take me for granted, but I don't feel that way at all. They are also afraid that maybe I like them more than they like me, and that I'm spoiling them. I'm pretty content with how things are, but the way my partner talks about it, I'm beginning to wonder if something's wrong with me or if I have an unhealthy attitude towards the relationship.

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<bot>: Is it abnormal/unhealthy that I still have a huge freaking crush on my partner, even though my partner's already transitioned into the chill, farting, dirty dishes, sweat pants stage of the relationship?