<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

Boyfriend and I have been together since high school and we're both graduating college this year. Naturally everyone thinks we're going to get married because we've been together for awhile, and people like the idea of "high school sweethearts."

Anyway because of this I've begun to look at our relationship. We've had talks about children. He knows I don't want kids, and due to a health complication years ago I was told I can't have kids. He has told me that he wants kid, but for whatever reason we haven't seen this as an issue yet.

We haven't discussed marriage but I don't even know if I want to get married. My parents are in an unhappy marriage and I'm dissuaded by that. I don't know his opinions on marriage.

Are we wasting our time with each other? Or is it too early to even talk about this?

Sorry if this is incoherent. I can add edits as people respond.
<bot>: I don't want kids and can't have kids. Boyfriend wants kids. I also don't know if I ever want to get married. Now what?