<human>: So, I've been dating this woman I met in college for nearly 8 months, in fact, it'd be 8 in one day. When we lived in college it was great, saw her nearly every day, that kind of thing. We both made the decision to stay together once she graduated, and she's currently lives an hour train ride from me where she now lives. Now, we have had multiple conversations about how much of her time will be devoted to her life and job, (she lives in jersey city and works in NYC so her commute is less-than-ideal), and I do understand that she has a lot on her mind. But for the past week, we have hardly spoken, and she just told me that she went out with friends, and doing so made her "stop feeling so upset". I'm very happy because I could tell something was wrong, but that just tells me that she never once tried to come to me and let me in on what's the matter, which is unlike her. We both work 9-to-5 jobs and try to see each other every few weeks, where we would be together for a weekend, and other than that, call every other night or so, just to keep communication up. I do everything I can to try and make her feel cared for and loved, even through simple text, and the past few times we've texted, she either was entirely disinterested in talking or cold, and curt with me, so I made up a story about becoming busy to give her space. I plan to confront her with how I feel if not tonight, then tomorrow night. She definitely makes herself heard if I do something she dislikes, and I do my best to change behavior, but when I do the same, she ends up becoming annoyed with me. I've started to worry about the status of our relationship, which despite our difference in age and place in life, I have never done before. I need advice on what to say and how to say it, because I tend to get a little clouded in my mind when upset, and I lose train of thought. Please help me out here, I can't imagine losing such an integral and important part of my life, and I still love her incredibly.

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<bot>: Starting to feel uncared for by my girlfriend of 8 months and need help finding out what to say to her to try and get back to a comfortable place.