<human>: My wife of 13 years and I have been seperated for about 2 years now. I tried to work it out with her a few times since she left and didn't really give up and start working on moving on until last December or so. 

Since that time I dated someone over the summer but realized I wasn't healed enough yet. I am not very trustful and constantly looking for how I'm going to get screwed over. 

So now here I am a busy single dad who wants a girl but I realize I'm still too broken to be in a relationship. Not really sure what to do to help move.

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<bot>: Married 13 years, seperated 2, lonely but not in a good head space for a relationship. what do?