<human>: My girlfriend had a several years relationship, the last of these years was like this: in the summer 2013 she had a semester away from him and from january until the summer 2014 she broke up with the idea of talking it over eventually. 

Around May 2014 I started approaching her (we were studying together), and eventually in summer, I won her resistance. Even through basically she has not been with her ex for a year it was still a quick transition, with no moment in which she was really single. It was also a bit of an internal struggle because she was supposed to try again with her ex, but the plan was artificial and impractical given the feelings she had for me.

At the end of summer she was expecting a child from me, we resolved for a termination because we did not mean to have one and it was very early for us, but still we did it thinking positively about the future, like making a family one day. Even through we thought it through she, especially, was marked by the experience.

In September we started working more than 400km (250miles) apart (I hope to join her in the same city soon). in the past week she revealed that even through we made efforts to see each other during the weekends she felt like disengaged during the weekdays and with too much pressure on the weekend for it to be good. She told me that she tried hard to make it work but that even through on paper I'm perfect for her, she loves me so much and I did no wrong she can't help feeling like this. She says it is because fears connected with her previous relationship and that she is not actually ready for another one and needs time, that the problem is within her and that there is nothing I can do.

I love this girl, and I believe there is always something I can do to make it work, but I don't know what. The solution in my mind is not to spend less time together, but more time, like winter holidays to have "normal" time together.

THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR YOUR TIME AND HELP!

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<bot>: Girl is coming out of long relationship, enters immediately a very intense new one with me, she loves me but now she doesn't feel ready for it, what can I do to save it?