<human>: My dad died unexpectedly. My mother is only 50 and is afraid of living alone. She wants to move in with me and my girlfriend. My gf and her are polar opposites and my mom drives her nuts. I feel sad for my mom but what can I do in this situation? She's afraid of dogs btw. I can temporarily have her with us but her moving in long term...I'm afraid will impact my future family negatively as she's very stubborn and old fashioned. 

What are some ways to help relieve her anxiety of living by herself later on? I love my mother but I don't want to get stuck in a situation where there's a painful break up

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<bot>: dad died suddenly. Don't want mom living alone but also don't want her living with me all the time as her personality doesn't sync with mine or my gf's