<human>: I've been dating this girl for 2 years long distance. We met on holiday and so we have always been long distance. I have no idea why but I really want to get out of this relationship. She is wonderful for me and in many ways my perfect girl but I just really don't feel it anymore. It feels like a hassle to have to go and visit her and I am often quite happy when its over that I have my time and space back.

There's nothing she does to annoy me and she's smart, funny, gorgeous, but I just feel claustrophobic having to go and spend a week with her every now and then when I have so many other things I'd love to be doing with my time (have a few DIY projects, I'm coding a video game etc) and I don't have much free time...it just feels like time I spend with her I'd rather spend doing all these other things that really give me a creative buzz.

I'm feeling really horrible and guilty about it because there's nothing actually wrong with the relationship and she is madly head over heels in love with me. She also moved city six months ago and is still settling in, hasn't got a really solid group of friends yet.

What do I do? I feel terrible dumping her completely out of the blue for no reason...would be a real shock to her. But I don't want to hint at her I'm not happy and drag it down to a point where she can see it coming. Plus its long distance and...it feels scummy to do it over Skype but it also feels scummy to arrange a meeting in person where she's expecting us to spend a week together and drop the bomb. But it feels even worse to hint that I'm only meeting to break up and then she has to deal with the dread until we actually do meet.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Want to break up with my LDR out of the blue, how do you break up when everything is seemingly going fine and not wanting to hurt the girl?