<human>: Long story short, I fell in love with an absolutely incredibly girl. We formed a soulful union almost immediately and found a completely wholesome and spiritual love with each other. At the time we started seeing each other we established the usual "This can't really be a serious thing" because she was getting ready to graduate college and I had already graduated and the future was uncertain. Obviously you can't always hold true to those kinds of rules when you fall in love with someone. It's not something that can be helped. I loved and still love her more than I've loved anyone else. The months wound down to her imminent departure as she got into grad school in San Francisco. We had talked about our future a lot and were always just living day to day, trying not to worry about what would happen between us. We discussed options; me trying to move with her to San Francisco, trying an open relationship, trying a long distance relationship etc. 

Finally the day came for her to leave and now she's in San Francisco. We still talk every day, but it's so incredibly difficult as nothing is really established. We can't really do a long distance relationship because they're too hard and I don't know if I have it in me. I love her beyond explanation, but find myself at odds with what I should do. How do I keep her in my life without her actually really being in my life? Do I tell her we can't talk until I can move on and process all of this? I've never encountered this situation. Most of my previous heartbreaks were rough, but they ended on a sour note so my mental state was much different. Any help or advice would be appreciated kindly. Thank you.

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<bot>: Girlfriend of 10 months moved away. Relationship ended on  a good note, but struggling with how to move on/what to do.