<human>: So this girl I have known for maybe a month asked me out and I said Ok. I am quite into her and she is really into me. We went out for a few dates and have slept together a few times. The sex is amazing and I am really starting to like her quite a bit. She buys me things, always offers to pay, ect (we alternate paying). However one night after sex she told me that she was a commitment-phobe. 

We have maybe been seeing each other for almost 1 month. I am not looking to rush into a relationship at all or anything like that, but I am a bit concerned if this is a normal thing or not. I am kind of getting mixed signals because she asked me out, and we always refer to our outings as dates, but not sure if she considers us "dating" or "seeing each other".  

I am really happy where we are right now, but I have questions that I want to ask her but I am scared it will scare her away. Since we are sleeping together I kind of want to know if she's sleeping/seeing with anyone else (I'm pretty sure she isn't but just want to be on the same page). Is it too much to ask to be exclusive? This is probably my first real relationship so I just don't really know how these things go.

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<bot>: girl asks me out, buys me things, takes me on dates, says she is a commitment phobe, not sure where to go from here