<human>: So I met this girl about 3.5 months ago from a dating app. We really hit it off. We spend a lot of time together and have built a good deal of intimacy. But I was recently burned - and at the beginning phase of meeting her - didn't want to get too attached and hop into another situation where I get hurt. 
   
I've been hesitant to be exclusive. It's a combination of a defense mechanism (I wouldn't be as hurt if things didn't work out) and being new to the city (moved here about 8 months ago and there are a lot more queer ladies so I wanted to keep my options open). 

She said she feels stuck - that she doesn't want to share and isn't okay with being in an open relationship. I really don't want to lose her, so I have to weigh the alternatives.

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<bot>: Should I give up my want to have an open relationship so I don't lose this girl I care a lot about?