<human>: Using a throwaway. I've been with my husband for 7 years total, lived together for 3 years, married 4 months ago, found out we were expecting our first child 1 month after the wedding. We have a good relationship overall.

Some context - my husband's sleep hygiene is awful and always has been. He sees no problem with staying up watching TV until 2 in the morning when he has to get up at 6 for work. As a result he usually falls asleep on the couch while watching TV at night, then when he gets home from work he'll fall asleep there again.

This has caused some tension between us. I cannot understand why he can't just move his ass up off the couch when he starts to feel tired and go to bed. I don't feel like we're a normal couple in this respect as I go to bed by myself most nights and miss out on the pillow talk and spooning. Our sex life has also never been totally satisfactory for me as he has a low libido (probably because he's always tired). I don't need any help with this as I've resigned myself to the fact that I have a higher sex drive than him.

I tried to stress the importance of being a good role model for our child when it's born. I've pointed out that kids learn most of what they know about love and relationships from their parents, and I don't want our kid(s) to think it's normal for their parents not to sleep in the same bed. He just shrugged and wouldn't engage in conversation further with me. He grew up with his parents constantly fighting and never showing any affection toward each other - I grew up with parents who showed me what a loving healthy relationship is like.

How do I help him understand that this isn't normal behaviour for a husband and wife and that it makes me feel less than loved? Is it normal? Am I being unreasonable?

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<bot>: My husband has slept in our bed 4 nights in the last 2 months and spent the rest of the time on the couch. How do I help him understand that this isn't OK?