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Hi there. I (24 F) am having trouble distributing chores around the house with my SO (24 M). Been together for 3.5 years. He is unemployed and has been for the last 6 months living off his savings and small side jobs he gets from friends. I feel that I have to clean up around the house pretty often and since I work full time and he is home full time I feel it is fair for him to do more than half of the chores. He has not been trying to find a job for the duration of his unemployment. 

When we get in fights about how the sink is full of dishes he says he pays half of all our bills and should not have to do more than half the chores. I cook all our meals so I think it's fair for him to do the dishes. Also I feel like I end up doing the dishes more than he does because I like my kitchen clean and can't stand waiting 2-3 days for him to do them. 

What should I do? Am I asking too much for him to help out more around the house? I know it's petty to fight about this stuff but it is frustrating to come home from work to a dirty house when I know he is just playing video games all day :(
<bot>: I want my bf to do more around the house since he is unemployed (but paying bills with his savings) while I work full time.