<human>: Can you condense the text into a few key points?

I go to a different college than one of my high school friends. When visiting her college for abut the 4th or 5th time, I hooked up with one of her boyfriend's friends (the guy initiated it). Right before, I had literally just ended a seven month relationship with my now-ex.

I usually don't care about hookups, but this guy is so cute/good-looking, but most importantly, intelligent, well-spoken, has impeccable music and literature tastes, and is so incredibly thoughtful/nice. We hooked up for two days in a row, made me breakfast, let me shower at his house, and then I went back to college. He had asked for my number but we rarely text.

Flash forward a few weeks... I was so excited to go to my friend's college because I wanted to see this boy again. However, we didn't really talk at the party and he disappeared very early in the night (about an hour into the party) without even saying goodbye or trying to make a move. I was pretty trashed at this point so I became upset and deleted his contact from my phone. I usually would think "fuck him, his loss," but I can't get him out of my head. He is pretty much my ideal guy. (And I hate liking people because I don't want them to have effects on my emotions.)

(I also think that the fact that I broke up with someone really important to me and have been having mood problems and friend issues make me want something in my life to go the way I want. Nevertheless, I don't think that he is a rebound. I would have been into him no matter what.)

I've had an incredibly shitty two weeks, so I feel even more shitty about being ignored by him. What do I do? Is there really no way to get him? (And please ignore how pathetic I sound...)
<bot>: I'm trying to seduce my ideal guy who I have already slept with, even though I am unsure if he is still interested. Help?