<human>: Can you provide a brief overview of the text?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 1.5 years. It's definitely been rocky but we are a lot more mature now an I thought things would be perfect. Well perfect enough. 

I have my own apartment so I would say he stays over about 6 days week. although we have opposite work and school schedules we do have a lot of time together, the problem is we don't do anything but watch tv and sleep. 

I really don't feel connected anymore. He doesn't talk about his feelings or emotions in any way. The is no passion at all. Our sex life is withering away and I find him flirting (friendly flirting) with alot of our mutual female friends when we all get together. Like just giving them all his attention and going out for cigarettes alone with them even though  we both quit smoking together last November and he knows it really bothers me. its like he gives them credit for being the most drunk or high etc and it was so funny but if that was me he would be so mad. when i ask him about it he acts like he didnt say any thin of the sort and how immatur "she" is ect. don't think he's cheating or wants to cheat on me I guess I just feel like he's not that into me anymore. I recently gained some weight (10-15lbs) but I was under weight before so I really thought I looked better now. 

i really don't want answers like "try and talk to him about how you feel" because trust me I have. It ends up in a fight because he feels attacked. I really just want to spice up this relationship. I want to be the hot girlfriend for once. Really feeling down on myself and finding the time to get all dressed up and sexy between school and work seems impossible. And if I do and there is no credit for it I think I'll just feel worse.
<bot>: feel like there is no passion or spice in my relationship. My boyfriend flirts with our female friends and gives the praise for things he would be angry at me for doing.