<human>: Well quick backstory, I was dating this guy for about a year and a half until he dumped me and broke my heart. A week later this new guy just asked me out and I agreed to go (he definitely tricked me and said it would be a platonic cheer up night). It was a blast and I knew I wanted to do it again.

We went out again and he made it very clear that he liked me and wanted to start a physical/emotional relationship. I am pretty overwhelmed at this point and not ready to get intimate with him. I was so determined to be alone after getting dumped and this great guy just came along and screwed up my life plan.

He has had many sexual relationships with other women, and is used to girls giving up their yahas to him pretty quick. But the real question is, is it wrong of me to keep seeing him if he wants to get closer and I want to move slower? I feel like I am making him wait for something that I can't even promise him he can have. I am by no means a "prude." 

I feel like I am so sort of sad romantic that holds onto the idea of wanting to get to know someone, to fall in like with who they are before I just go and get physical with them.

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Did I just miss this norm in dating where men and women choose to have sex or hook up after the first date?