<human>: Hello Reddit.

I'm now entering my first relationship in over a year. I have spent the last two semesters talking to a lot of different girls, and on two occasions I had fwb situations with some of them. Sunday I went on a date with an awkward (but very smart and sweet) girl who spends a lot of time in solitude. She is much less experienced than I am. When we kissed on Sunday she got really into it and I could tell that she was way more excited and into me than I to her. I don't know if she can separate her physical desires from the reasons she likes me. I on the other hand, am worried that too much physicality is going to devalue her to me. I want a relationship based on our admiration for one another, but I'm afraid that having sex (as I'm sure many men can relate) will have an impact on the way I look at her. To me she is very innocent because she's inexperienced. I'm afraid that sex will put me into too much of a mentality of power over her, instead of me seeing her as an equal. First off is this unreasonable? Second, what can I do to fix it, or is there no hope in trying?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: Afraid of sex in a relationship bcuz emoshunzzz even though I don't have a problem hooking up. I guess.