<human>: My wife is a nurse who had just come off working three 12-hour night shifts +45 minute commute each way. I work a pretty cushy IT desk job, 9-5 with a 10 minute commute. 

I spent 2-3 hours cooking her dinner, cleaning up after dinner and taking care of the dog while she pretty much laid in bed reading a book. I was feeling a bit unappreciated because she had not thanked me for anything. 

So I came to her and said "tell me what I did for you tonight". She realized she had not recognized what I did then we both felt happier after the conversation. Me, for being thanked and her for realizing how much her husband cares about her and loves her.

Can you condense the text into three sentences or less?
<bot>: saying "I did this for you and you didn't thank me" probably isn't the best way to approach things.