<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

**30 year old guy looking for a reality check here:** When the girl I'm seeing (also 30) calls me, I answer without hesitation (unless I'm in the gym, in the shower, or at a movie). When she leaves me a voicemail, I always call her back. When she texts, I respond as soon as it's convenient, even if just to say I'm busy or I don't feel like talking.

We've been on-and-off for a year but things have gotten serious in the last three months (saying we love each other, discussing living together, etc.). When we were "off" I didn't contact her often, but always answered when she called or sent a text since we've been friends for years.

Last week she stopped answering my calls and texts. At first I assumed she was busy with work, but she was still posting and commenting on Facebook regularly. I was worried enough by Sunday that I asked one of her friends if she knew what was going on. Her friend said she didn't think anything was wrong, but told my SO I'd asked which caused her to finally talk to me again.

Her explanation was that she always has to think about whether or not to answer when I call or reply when I text, and that (for no specific reason) she had just been deciding not to answer recently. I was flabbergasted because (unless I'm incredibly busy or upset) it would never occur to me to not answer her calls or texts.
<bot>: I answer every call or text from my SO without hesitation. She says she has to decide to answer, even when she's not busy or upset. What do you do? Could you be with someone who does the opposite?