<human>: I've been dating this guy for about 4mo. He's awesome! Sweet kind, patient, thoughtful, protective and he is REALLY cute. But my female co-workers are telling me things like "watch out, he could just be a chocolate chaser" or "He probably just has Jungle fever" as if he's dating me for sport. All the girls at work had crushes on him BEFORE we started dating but now that we're together people are implying that I'm being naive or that I'm being fetishized. But I also like his scruffy beard.... and I dont think I have a beard fetish. I when I bring it up to my boyfriend, he says things like "Those skinny white chicks are just jealous"... He seems to be joking but that kinda sound a little... racists or something. 

ALSO, he DOES compliment me on my complexion quite often.... like every other day he says things about how he loves the color even-ness of my skin... BUT everyone says that about my skin. I aslo found some porn on his MacBook... it was lots of "ebony" stuff, among others. Some pornstar named Britteny White in particular..... which has led me here. Am I just a fetish/phase?

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<bot>: Whats line between a fetish and just something you find attractive? Just because you date a black person do you have "Jungle Fever"?