<human>: Can you provide a brief rundown of the text in within 3 sentences?

We met on tinder and have a slight D/s thing going on which is fine, however even after I told him about what I'm uncomfortable with he still makes me do it (analingus being the main thing). I'm comfortable with being very submissive as long as I don't have to do anything I just really can't stomach. The worst part is he doesn't even really reciprocate. I've been having sex for only 4 months and my first partner didn't hurt after the first time because he was more patient and giving. With this current guy, sex hurts but he doesn't even try to make it enjoyable for me. I already settled for a fuck buddy since I can't find a boyfriend but I don't think I should have to settle for a terrible sex life. 

Am I missing something? Would it be better to just dump him? It's hard because he gives me so much praise for being the nicest girl he's been with and he's much more tender after he's done.
<bot>: I [20F] am not happy with fuck buddy [24M], but he apparently doesn't want me to go. Is he just being a Dom or a bad lover?