<human>: I know I'm going to get crap for this but I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend. Anyway, lately we've been fighting over something, and the issue itself isn't what I want to talk about, my communication skills are. I'm awful with confrontation, and when I get emotional it gets even harder for me to try to figure out what I want to say. So much so that I don't even know how to tell how I'm feeling sometimes. This is made even worse by the fact that he raises his voice and swears a lot when he gets really angry. 

When I'm upset, I want to talk it to death to deal with it. He more of the "fix it" type. He wants to figure out what he can do to fix it, and then be done with it. That's really difficult for me because if I bring up something with the intention of talking about it, I don't feel like it can ever be just a talk. I really appreciate that he's so willing to work on any problems we have, but he'll say things like "we're done talking about this" and I feel kind of shut down. It doesn't feel resolved to me, but I'm not going to directly go again something he said so clearly. It would feel really disrespectful to him. How can I communicate effectively and reach a solution that we both feel resolution from? I realize I'm asking a lot, but has anyone else had to work through differences like this?

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: My boyfriend and I resolve conflicts differently and I'm not sure how we can both feel a sense of resolution after our disagreements.