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I'm f/22 and we've been together for 1 1/2 years. Lately, he hasn't been wanting to go out on the weekends and stuff. We've kind of talked about it and basically what it comes down to is that he doesn't feel like putting the energy into being social or spending money on drinks. That's fine and I get it, but I still want to go out. 

I'm in school currently and 6 days a week I'm buried in books or attending study groups. So when the weekend rolls around I like to go out and do something. It doesn't have to be the bars (although it usually ends up being that), I just want to go *do something*. He's never in the mood to do anything except stay at home/lay in bed/watch tv/play video games. 

So tonight, we had plans to go out with some friends. But he just called and said he doesn't want to anymore because he's tired (makes sense, he spent all day working hard). He kind of expects me to say, "OK babe that's fine I'll come over and we'll just lay low tonight and hang out". But we did that last night. And last weekend too. I'm perfectly fine going out with my girlfriends without him, but is this bad? I kind of feel like I'm ditching hhim to go out. On one hand, I think it's totally fair of me to go out, but on another hand I feel like he takes offense to it. 

Also, although compromise is normally great in relationships, I don't want to ask him to compromise and go out with my tonight. He'll just come and kind of pout/act like he wished he wasn't there and that's no fun for anyone. 

What do you guys think? Is this bad? Normal? Am I over thinking all of this?
<bot>: when bf changes his mind on going out on the weekends, is it bad if I just go out without him?