<human>: I fell like enough red flags have been raised for me to opt out of this, but I can't get over my feelings for her. She's had more serious and casual relationships than I and unfortunately for her the serious ones ended badly making me think she's damaged goods or just more apprehensive than usual. She's a white, Christian, conservative Republican and I'm a Hispanic, atheist, liberal Democrat. On paper we're not compatible at all. She has a far better career than me, bigger circle of friends much more social, etc. Despite our differences I think we get along great. However, I can't help but get this sinking feeling that it just isn't meant to be. 

Some of the red flags are:

-She's admitted that her parents expect her to marry rich. (which she insists doesn't matter to her) 

-I kinda dropped the L-bomb (mostly to see how she would react, plus I was a bit tipsy). She stated that I'm already at a place that she doesn't think she'll ever get to (isn't that pretty much saying she'll never love me?) 

-She's constantly going on about how confused she is and that she might be meant to be alone and never marry (none of this makes me feel comfortable). 

-She's goes on about how crazy and manipulative she can be (I've seen none of it, honestly). And she said that she doesn't think I would be able to handle her(crazy side) and wouldn't want to hurt me. I think she's confusing my kindness for weakness. I've purposely tried to diffuse oncoming arguments and fights to avoid them not to give in. 

-She's also kept her relationship with me close to her chest, only telling select friends while I've gloated about her to anyone who will listen. 

She tells me she really likes me and cares for me, but I don't know if I'm content with that. It's only been a few months, but I don't want to feel like I'm wasting our time. Is this worth pursuing?

Can you condense the text into a few key points?
<bot>: The girl I'm seeing (she's afraid to make it official) has raised some red flags that I think I'm to hopeful to admit to. Should I continue it and see where it goes or nip it in the bud?