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Ok so I submitted here a week or so ago about myself  (25 M) and my friend (23 F) asking if I should change something about myself because she found it a turn-off. Well I didn't change anything and things are going swimmingly with us right now. We have been on several dates and spent the night over at each other's apartment a couple times. So thank you for the advice r/relationships.

Now I am coming to you again, my lady friend has told me that she isn't 100% sure if she is over her ex from 4-5 months ago. He lives about 3 states away and she has said that she has strong feelings for me but I can't get what she told me out of my head. 

In terms of compatibility and attraction this woman is the best I've ever been with. I am just wondering if I can say or do anything that will make her forget about her ex or am I being too headstrong right now? I feel like if I just carry on with being myself she will realize what a great guy I am. I just really don't want to mess up a good friendship/relationship with this woman over my jealousy. Or is it jealousy even? I mean everyone thinks about their ex's from time to time right?
<bot>: Lady friend told me she might not be over her ex. We have been seeing each other a lot for the past month exclusively. Am I jealous or paranoid?