<human>: Summarize the given text in a few sentences.

First, I feel terrible.  I am an emotional cheater. I have been with my wife for 10 years, married for almost 4. We've grown distant as of the last year or so, mostly due to our conflicting schedules and perspectives on life. I began talking to a woman at work about 5 months ago and have developed an infatuation for her.  

She is 41 and I am 30. We share many similarities: among others, we are both in great physical shape, we are health-oriented, and we largely share the same outlook on life.  We take breaks  together and talk a lot. Oftentimes the talking turns to overt flirting.  She is very attractive and is also married, but she doesn't talk about her family unless I bring them up.  Well, yesterday I asked her if she could meet me at my truck after work so I could talk to her outside of the building. She agreed and laughingly said, "do you think I'd say no?" 

Well, I finally talked to her after work and told her that I basically had a crush on her for a few months and I needed to tell her so I could get it off my chest and move on with my life. She seemed caught off guard, as if she expected me to say something else.  She just stood there silently for a about 20 seconds. She mentioned that she already had a clue because someone else (who was apparently an expert at reading body language) told her that I "wanted her."  I don't think she wanted anything sexual from me, but I'm pretty damn bad at reading into people.  Logically, if other people at work TELL HER that I'm into her, and if she doesn't want anything from me, she should have turned away and ran from the situation. So why in the hell would she continue to fan the flames by flirting with me and touching me... for months!
<bot>: I had an emotional relationship with a co-worker and I told her how I felt.  Was I played by her, or was she looking for something else?