<human>: What should I do about my upcoming divorce?
<bot>: The first step is to talk to a lawyer and decide on the best course of action. Depending on your state, you may need to file for divorce or wait for your spouse to initiate it. You will also need to consider any financial arrangements such as alimony or child support that might be necessary. Once you have decided what steps to take, consult with an attorney who can help guide you through the process.