<human>: The short: I am a male, 24, she is same age. I rarely engaged "initiation" to hang or anything, it will usually be her calling to hang or grab a drink.

Always have a great time, lots in common, laugh etc. I haven't seen her in almost a year, but the other night we hung out, got drinks and both enjoyed each other's company.

Anyway, while in the bar, she sat on my lap, took pictures and seemed warm with me. She always is warm and such but never physical like that.

I am not bad with women, but every time I see her it never goes anywhere. It also appears as if she has many guy friends on the side(not a lot of girlfriends) who I can't help but think are either hook-ups or "security blankets" that she just uses. She takes lots of self-pictures in "fun/interesting/sexy poses" as well.

After hanging out, she said, "I had fun, lets do it again tomorrow, text me." While I have no problem initiating the call/hang out, I feel as if I consistently will go nowhere with her, no matter how much we both enjoy the company. I have been at this point for a while and feel as if I will be "wasting my time". Not that I don't want a friend that is a girl, but this one is either a hookup, relationship or nothing. Just how I feel.

My question is, how do I continue, what should I do or should I just drop it overall. I have deleted her # many times over the past 4 years, but she will always hit me up months later after no communication.

Can you give me the gist of the text in a nutshell?
<bot>: Girl and I always have fun time, getting mixed signals, pretty sure she has insecurities that stop advancement, would love to move forward with her in all regards, but seems like constant roadblock.