<human>: Hi reddit, I am a college student living with my mom for a couple months to complete an internship in the area. Living with her was something I was very nervous about because my relationship with my mother is tumultuous at best, but with the extremely high cost of living in the area that my internship is in, I didn't really have a choice. 

Last weekend my car was stolen. It was a huge financial blow, my insurance didn't cover the theft and I am stuck without a way to get to my internship (public transportation isn't an option). My mother is a pretty reactive person-she is set off easily, lots of yelling and screaming and when I was younger occasionally it became physical. I had pretty low self esteem for a while because of it, but since living away from her our relationship has stabilized and my self-confidence has really improved. Since the car was stolen it has been non-stop fighting between us. However, she has offered to loan me the money to buy a used car to replace the stolen one at an interest rate of 3 %, which is lower than I could get by myself at a bank if I could even get approved, although she has reneged on that offer a couple times already. 

She has in the past used financial assistance to guilt and control me. Our relationship works much better when I am not financially dependent on her. I kind of feel like I am walking into a trap with this, part of me wants to quit my internships, fly home, and work until I can afford a car on my own. Am I being a brat? I am grateful for her offer and for giving me a place to stay this summer, but the yelling is too much for me. Also I can't help feeling like her offer doesn't come from a good place. I love my internship and it would hurt to give it up, but I am pretty unhappy here at the moment. Does anyone have any advice for a situation like this, or have a similar kind of relationship with their parents? I love my mom, and in small doses she and I get along, and she did raise me and help me through school, maybe I am being unfair?

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<bot>: My mother offered to loan me money for a car, I don't know if I should accept it based on our volatile relationship.