<human>: Could you distill the essence of the text into 1-3 sentences?

So, i have recently got a girlfriend, been going at it for a little over a month now and dating for bout 3 months before. I feel like I am losing my game and charm. I feel like I am thinking bout her too much, not chilling with the boys as much and just feel like I am becoming a pussy... 

Even when i go out with the boys i just find myself thinking bout her instead and then just not really being engaged in conversation or what I am doing. We are trying to do a long distance thing now since school started. I used to be so happy before, but as dumb as it sounds now I just long for her all the time. 

I think it is cause it is my first actual girlfriend and my emotions are just taking over.I don't want that to happen. My first day of class is in 2 days and going through school with this mind set will not work, i won't be able to focus. Any advice is wanted please.
<bot>: I like my girlfriend too much and think about her all the time and its affecting my focus on other things. How do I get my focus back?