She reached this conclusion when she asked the women in her refuge about their violence, only to discover most of the women were equally violent or more violent than their husbands.
她是在向避难所的妇女询问她们的暴力情况后得出了这个结论，她发现来避难所的大多数妇女与丈夫同样暴力，甚至比丈夫更暴力。